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| 1 | Why does rejection hurt so bad? How can you get over it?Contrary to seduction dogma, I honestly don't think the answer is to "not care." To a certain degree, I don't think you can ever really completely get over rejection. It will hurt if you lose anyone or anything you truly care about. Rejection itself always sucks, but it can be unbearable if you have attached a lot of negative meaning to the event. In particular, if you have a habit of making assumptions that if you are rejected, then that means that a) you are an undesirable person or b) that yo… | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence."Yeah, this is basically what happened to me recently. It was very painful, but it did help me move on and ultimately see the situation more objectively, which I couldn't do to save my life when I was in the thick of obsession. Again, I think the limerence is fueled by uncertainty and hope. If you eliminate the hope, you break the cycle. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 07:52 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]not. helpful. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 10:43 PM |
| 3 | TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence."I think it's mostly involuntary, and therefore difficult to control. It really depends on the situation, but focusing on your own projects and interests can help. The insidious and maddening part of limerence is that everything else in the world other than the "limerent object" becomes dead to you. The world seems boring and meaningless without this one person, and therefore anything in your life can seem pointless. I actually think this is an evolutionary adaptation to force procreation. Part o… | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 06:36 PM |
| 11 | TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence."I actually think that oneitus/limerence is falling in love, it's just not reciprocated. The initial glow of falling in love eventually falls away, and more stable "genuine" love can exist. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 06:26 PM |
| 10 | TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence."I don't know about you, but I think oneitus is pretty fucking intense. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 06:24 PM |
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