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| 65 | The most important thing I've learned. | blueberryWafflex | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 04:18 PM | |
| 0 | Asked girl out out of hornyness-impulses. Should I just tell her I just want sex? | blueberryWafflex | /r/seduction | 28/10/14 09:54 AM |
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| 1 | The most important thing I've learned.here you go. :) I think there are better guides out there already written by different people, so I think it's better to direct you to them. If you have any questions though just feel free to PM me! And by the way. Boredom is the biggest distraction when you want to discipline yourself no matter what you do, however you should know that boredom won't become as big of a problem when you are starting to get experienced in meditation. Because then you will learn to distance yourself from it, and ju… | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 05:56 PM |
| 3 | The most important thing I've learned.I sometimes mix it up, but mostly, it's what's called nondirective meditation, where you don't focus on one object(for example the breath) but let your mind go wherever it goes, while at the same time you have awareness about every moment - the now. For instance: You start by focusing on something like the breath or sounds, and then you let your mind go whevever it wants; You are in a mode of accepting everything that is happening in every moment without judgement. You are the room in which ever… | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 06:45 PM |
| 5 | The most important thing I've learned.That's interesting. Do you think it has something to do with the mindset of "I can't sink much deeper anyway, so why not..."? I've definitely experienced this myself, but I can't recall that it was very pleasant, I was still scared of taking the risk but felt forced to do something, and that made me appear less smooth and more nervous. I guess pushing yourself isn't really a bad thing though. But yeah I could see how this would work! I think really the key sentence for me is "don't identify". If… | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Cant stop putting people pedestal, fucks up life.I think meditation could be the best way to solve your problem. I've become very outspoken after starting. Before I was very quiet like you, keeping shit to myself. You'd be surprised how much that changes when you stop 'putting things on the pedestal' as you formulated it. Through meditation you'll learn to accept every moment, and this means that you don't depend on anything to be happy, because you have a foundation of happiness that aren't dependtent on outcomes, which makes you stop putting… | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What Makes People Boring?I think it can be summed up with ' people who don't have anything to give'? | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 08:50 AM |
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