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| 5 | It's Not About The WomenRight so you seduce them into bed and before you stick it in you say "actually I don't need sex in my life I'm completely fulfilled by enlightenment and my boyfriend who puts me in my place" | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 10 | It's Not About The WomenRight so the real goal of seduction is not actually to seduce any women, but to realize you don't need women or sex. So Buddhist and Zen. But don't forget that this community wouldn't exist if there weren't active members. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | If you’re thinking in terms of stupid shit like calling real life “the field” or setting a dedicated number of “cold approaches” like a robot than you’re currently too socially awkward to be having healthy sex.The positive interaction is the end result of getting laid. When you're in a community that values itself on the most number of lays there's a certain set of terminology to describe every step. I'm sure it's similar in acquiring wealth. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How would you like to be propositioned by a woman?One time after playing volleyball a girl that I played with was parked next to me. She asked if I'd like to join her at her place. She told me she was horny and we immediately began having sex when we got there, and she even wanted anal. She gave me her number after but unfortunately it was just a one time affair. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | An Ancient Ritual is Becoming ExtinctYea right. You'd be my bitch in jail. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 01:42 AM |
| -1 | An Ancient Ritual is Becoming ExtinctNational Geographic parodies are weak? Enjoy your free comedy a-hole | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Good books, series or movies about seduction?I've read a couple books, but you can get most of the same material for free on youtube. They get preachy after awhile. I mean they start to talk like their methods are going to work 100% of the time. You can also find free guides online to understand most of the acronyms used. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 11:14 PM |
| 6 | What are the best ways to get a relationship or meet girls about 5 or 6 years younger than you if you're socially behind?Just kidnap a girl, bring her to an empty warehouse, and hope that Stockholm syndrome works | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Riding Solo at Bars. Tips.Is any chick really going to call you back from hitting on her for 5 minutes at a bar? May as well just try and f-close her there, then never call her again and tell her she sucked on the way out. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What do men like in the bedroomJeez covid-19 has been such a cockblocker any attention at all in the bedroom would be appreciated. I'd settle for missionary style with the lights off for now. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | The Complete Guide To Pulling Girls HomeOr you could just hire a hooker and skip all these stupid steps. Although, with covid even hookers are refusing to see clients. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Revenge vs Calm mindsetZen. Ohm | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Harmless escalation?Or you could just forget about her and hang out at the clubs hitting on hot single women, since they are always full of them. Except most dance clubs won't be open til 2021 because of covid. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Ever hear the saying "if it ain't broke don't fix it"? I don't know why you're dating if sex is not enough, but you didn't mention anything about marriage either. Maybe try joining meetup.com for more interactions. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 08:24 AM |
| 0 | Learning how to date later in life? [30/M]30 isn't too different from 20. A lot of women stay single until they are about 40. Only difference is women in their 30's are just more demanding of serious relationships and less likely to care about partying all the time. You can always date women in their 20's to avoid this though. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I need to work on closingIf the conversation is going well getting their number should be no problem. Maybe since you are meeting them in the gym suggest becoming a workout buddy, then after 2 or 3 sessions suggest seeing a movie together or getting a drink. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 08:03 AM |
| 6 | Women love assholes not nice guysActually funny story I was talking to some girl and she kept ignoring me, and responded like a week later if at all, finally I got fed up said something mean and kind of messed up and instead of blocking me she gave me her number lol. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is successSex is not necessary and some people will argue you don't need it, but come on it's like eating food without dipping sauce or sushi without wasabi. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 01:28 AM |
| 15 | Rejection is successRejection just makes me want to pick up other hobbies. I don't want to sit around all day wondering whether a date the other day went ok, or if any number of women want to sleep with me and I put in so much time and effort and right at the last minute she wants nothing to do with me. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Remember that missed opportunity?It depends. If she's single she may appreciate attention from attractive, single men. I was at one gym in a different area so I asked a girl where certain equipment was and she started blushing and smiling. I think she might have thought I was handsome. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Is the point of pickup just to bang 100s of girls? What's the end of it?"Just to bang hundreds of girls" like that's some small thing. I don't really think a guy's end all goal in life should be to sleep with everything he can until death, but even if you can only sleep with 10 beautiful women throughout your life those could be sweet memories. I think it's kind of childish to look up to Hugh Hefner or Mick Jagger for sleeping with hundreds or thousands of girls, but when you scroll through photos of sexy women it doesn't seem like a bad accomplishment. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveShe's a spy! | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Approached a girl - worst experience everWait_No_What is overreacting. I didn't pull up in a van, slide open the side door, and jump out with rope and a ski mask. | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 06:25 AM |
| -1 | Approached a girl - worst experience everIsn't that almost the same as if you were walking in the park, and saw a woman you were interested in, then walked up to her and approached her? | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Approached a girl - worst experience everI don't think girls have an obligation to make strangers happy. I mean I was driving and saw a hot girl so I pulled over like a block in front of her and got out to try and hit on her. Plus I saw she had a backpack on and when I got closer she looked younger than I thought she was. So I really shouldn't be hitting on girls walking home from highschool. Obviously there's no way I can tell how old someone is. It's hard to differentiate between 16-25. But I felt kind of bad that she might have been… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you become calloused to rejection on dating apps after a while?Yea actually. You get 3 matches and one of your old matches drops you for whatever reason. Just dirt off your shoulder. If you only have like 1 new match a week it can get kind of rough if she kicks you to the curb, but it's not really that difficult to get the right pics to where you can meet a few women and hopefully one that will end up being a long-term girlfriend and maybe your wife if that's what you want. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 05:54 AM |
| 9 | Being Single During COViDAt least it's not the black plague | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 11 | Approached a girl - worst experience everOne time a girl just pretended like I didn't say anything to her and kept on walking. That's funny though. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think it takes that long to get good at game/seductionBeing good at seduction just means you have to understand the basics of what women want. You have to dress nice. You have to be funny. You have to have friends and have a desire to make a lot of money. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach - Some SuccessThanks. I only talked to her for about 10 minutes though and it didn't seem like she would agree. I mean I don't know she might have been on the fence about it she seemed comfortable telling me where she worked. I just didn't want to deal with rejection after she was pretty nice talking to me. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approach - Some SuccessYeah I was just trying to build up my confidence, so I wouldn't feel as worried about approaching more girls in the future since I haven't had any success in awhile. | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 2 | So being not too invested is key. But how do you go about being not too invested when you're really lonely?If you just want friends get off the dating apps and join meetup.com | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Tinder time wastersSo basically every type of girl on tinder sucks. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you date without the apps?Apps are pretty new like 5 years old. I'm 34 so most of the time I've gotten numbers has been just regular approaching like at a bar or club. A lot of the younger women might think this is weird because of the current environment. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Maybe try buying some sexy lingerie or watching porn together. | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 01:31 AM |
| -1 | What sets that 1 guy apart from the rest from a females perspective?The one woman that cares about looks more than money | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Do incels actually exist?I'm surprised you haven't noticed "incel" personalities online. I've been accused of being incel, but that's not true. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel the concept of modern dating is working/fair?Technology isn't going to change thousands of years of evolutionary desires. It's just going to make it easier for one party to get what they want. You could say those video recordings of single men and women in the 80's was cheating if you compared it to stone-aged dating. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | “Nice guys” VS Nice peopleI think you're mistaking nice guys with what's known in the seduction community as AFC, average frustrated chump. It can be the same thing since "nice guys finish last". But really nice is just an adjective. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Maybe imagine them on the toilet and that should humanize them real quick. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 11:48 PM |
| -7 | If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chanceA flipside to this criticism. The only thing they have that you want is vagina so they have no chance | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached and asked a girl out on coffee and got rejected.I think you should have tried talking her up a bit more, like asking her about her favorite laundry soap or any bs conversation device then going for the kill. | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | how do you not get attached to a girl you likeIf you have a lot of options you won't mind as much when one girl steps out of your life. If on the other hand you have only 1 girl into you with no other prospects, and that one woman, 100% of the women into you leaves, it leaves a bigger scar. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | 23M - Started my journey in January, lost my virginity this week, I wasn't good at allSounds like these women just won't give you the time of day. You need to start valuing yourself so women see you for who you are instead of just walking all over you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanIf she's really this slutty you'll be able to tell early on. Otherwise, if she's just a normal woman you probably won't have to worry to much about getting diseases or her breaking your heart. But they do love breaking hearts. They'll break your heart without thinking but never put the right effort into loving you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | doing daygame while wearing a mask?USA it sucks. Prostitution is illegal so the girls can charge like 10x what girls in other countries charge. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | doing daygame while wearing a mask?A few just reopened within the last week or so around here. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How to handle various rejections like a gentleman?The more and more I talk to women I just get the feeling that they only care about themselves. This idea of a "sweet, gentle girl" just isn't a reality. It's just wall to wall with bitches trying to use men for everything they can. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 05:52 AM |
| 2 | doing daygame while wearing a mask?I haven't tried hitting on girls wearing a mask, and none of the chicks I've gotten numbers with were willing to meet during lock-down. It's been a shitty few months. Spent a bunch of money at the strip club the other day. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How can I start seeing girls for more than sex?Keep reading these threads and you'll be a super beta male soon enough | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | When talking to women, I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope with eggshells glued to the rope.Women can be terrible, but there's no reason why you need to talk to them like you're a jew in a concentration camp. If it's not fun, then just move on and find someone interesting. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 03:57 AM |
| 6 | Besides bars and clubs, where are some solid places to meet women?Make sure to stay six feet apart lol | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | How to date - Do you feel unprepared? Just remember this simple structureBest option? Come on women are probably dating 3-5 guys at once to find the best one, and being a woman she can usually expect free dinner. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointIt's weird because even men that are rich, powerful, and successful have trouble with women to the point that they are breaking the law (child molestation, rape, etc.). If only they mastered handling women as well as the other aspects of their life. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How do I find FwB as a guy?They have as much responsibility as you to keep the conversation interesting. Don't feel bad if some girl unmatches with you pretty soon cuz she has weird standards that only apply to 0.01% of the male population. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 08:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I find FwB as a guy?This method is a numbers game. If he messages 10 or 20 women telling them he just wants sex, he's going to get a low approval rate. Maybe 1 or 2 girls out of 20 will say yes. If it takes him 3 months to get that many matches it could take 3 months to get laid. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itSeems like every woman nowadays withholds sex to get what they want in the relationship. This makes me so angry. Why can't it just be unrestrained love and passion? It's got to be about politics. So then you have to do everything to please her and you aren't getting anything you want. Don't get trapped in these scenarios. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 08:07 AM |
| 7 | Once you're together how are you supposed to escalate sex every time?Pretty much the only time I invite a girl over is for sex so they catch on quick. But I would never say "I'm horny come over" it was more along the lines of hey let's watch netflix or hangout etc. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 07:25 AM |
| 2 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?I mean if she's hot it's not the end of the world and he can drool over them later. That's probably women's problem with dudes they give their number to dudes they're not really into and the guys try to turn it sexual real quick with dick pics. I've gotten some nudes from ugly girls and there's no time I'd think they were appropriate. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 09:24 AM |
| 2 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?That doesn't really make sense though. He can just ignore his phone while eating, whether knowing she was sending nudes or not. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Seduce a Milf, those of u with experience seducing a milf, what's my best optionIf you're willing to put up with all the bs of dealing with some other guy's wife. Women cheat all the time, but most likely she'll just go back to him. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 09:15 AM |
| 5 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?That makes no sense. What does food have to do with nudity? | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Seduce a Milf, those of u with experience seducing a milf, what's my best optionIf she's into younger men then capitalize on it. Otherwise they aren't really different than other women, except she probably needs money lol | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 04:54 AM |
| 0 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?Unless the guy is a pimp with a harem of girls, that compete with each other for his love chances are you'll have to do some chasing | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 04:53 AM |
| -2 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?Pretty sure every guy is open to nudes. No hate about excess of tit/pussy pics like women complain about with dick pics | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 04:52 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I don't think most of the advice in seduction forums, or books is that helpful. Most of it is common sense and a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a bunch of tik tok vids or memes?I think if she just wants to share vids and memes there really isn't too much opportunity. I mean she's just not going to get turned on sharing cat vids. And if you think she's into personality you're going to get friend-zoned at light-speed | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | A Guide of my nightgame method - forged in years in the fieldI've gotten a bunch of numbers in night clubs and most times it lead to sex, but I was surprised how good those guys on Jersey Shore are at hooking up with chicks. Usually ONS then the boot, while I'm spending all this time and money on dates like a sucker | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always text you asking if "you're dead"They'd rather the guy they are into be dead than ghost them | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | She’s clearly interested in me, but takes along time to text me back ?Not a good sign when you respond immediately and she takes her sweet time | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a bunch of tik tok vids or memes?Pretty straight forward. Use memes or tik tok vids in response. If she's spamming you with all this crap though she's probably just looking for friends to pass the time. Might not be into you | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:01 AM |
| 5 | A Fix for conversations “drying up”Online dating puts the ball in her court, where she has every advantage and you are mince meat. | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'll only get a girl with luckI mean what do I have to do? Swallow a sword or pull a rabbit out of a hat to get a date? It's just not worth it to break my back trying to impress some stranger online. | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'll only get a girl with luckDoesn't really take that long to reply. Sometimes girls even message first then they still lose interest. Come on are they human beings or a cat chasing a laser? | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 04:34 AM |
| 8 | I feel like I'll only get a girl with luckI think you mean "jacked" not jacked off. Don't worry about it a lot of women just have huge egos and have been told from a young age they deserve the world and everything in it while everyone else has to struggle. Some guy in a chatroom claimed he slept with 8 women in 3 months. But in retrospect he was probably exaggerating, or just slept with ugly/fat girls cuz they were easy. I've been selective but haven't had sex in over 6 months. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I get a girls number.I think the first time you hit on a girl you should try to continue the mojo by getting her number after she establishing she likes you (by seeing her laugh at your jokes and letting her open up to you). Unfortunately, maybe you're young you don't realize girls give their number pretty easy to a lot of guys. Many times they will just lose interest and ignore your texts and calls. So don't put too much weight into getting numbers cuz a lot of women just plain suck. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls / guys really out of your league?The only reason I could assume this would be if she had A LOT more money than me, like her family had 2 ferraris, a private jet, and a huge mansion and was afraid of being taken advantage of. But most women don't make as much money as men, and I did know one girl who lived in a really nice apartment with security guards and underground parking who would call me all the time just to offer blowjobs, and I was living with my parents. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For GrantedLol I didn't think women read these threads. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For GrantedAnd seduction is about increasing your pool of women. Perhaps switching many more women into wanting to fuck you than just "maybe" wanting to fuck you, and then fizzling out into the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The Power Of Rejection - Getting Beautiful Women To NOT Take You For GrantedThis is good advice, but there's a lot of women that are opportunists. They want things from men, like sugar daddies, and they'll just move on to the next guy who will give them what they want. It's definitely good advice to not let women walk all over you, but there's lots of men that will shell out a lot of money to keep beautiful women around. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 07:19 AM |
| 3 | If feel so much more confident when i have optionsGood luck! | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Male archetypesThere's really only two groups- alpha and beta. The rest is not important. Everyone knows the Conan the barbarian alpha and his sidekick beta. Like attractive women they don't need to put in as much energy into pursuing girls like using pick-up lines. Their physical fitness and large resources do all the talking. | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 08:36 AM |
| 5 | If feel so much more confident when i have optionsI've had a lot of success in the past. I just need to control my desires, and try to be realistic about what I want. | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 08:25 AM |
| -8 | If feel so much more confident when i have optionsSo many desperate, angry men. The term incel comes to mind. I guess that's life. Some winners and many losers. | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Stop putting women on the pedestal.Lol so you insist that not all guys can live up to being monsters? | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to ask for nudes?Sometimes, but rarely, pretty girls will send them without even asking | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Stop putting women on the pedestal.You see a lot of posts like this on here cuz so many guys have this problem. This is like beginner/amateur work. Even serial killers can attract good-looking women surely regular guys can if they put their minds to it. No need to worship beautiful women as goddesses and tip those cam girls thousands of dollars. | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How it is really doneWhat's a shame is that we don't get feedback by Hugh Hefner, or Mick Jagger, who have reportedly slept with thousands of beautiful women. | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you?If she responds to your texts in a timely manner and is willing to meet in a romantic setting (ie dinner, movie theater, maybe even coffee) then she is into you. If she is only willing to meet you at a party or with her group of friends she probably just sees you as a friend. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | She Hates Men and Took it out on MeYea tell me about it. Any girl that looks good has a huge ego and entitlement issues. Like why can't we just treat them normal? So tired of having to pretend they are goddesses or something just because they have a nice ass | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | She Hates Men and Took it out on MeListen I did nothing to deserve her attitude. I'm not a receptacle she can just dump all her negativity into. She clearly wasn't worth it I'm glad she is out of the picture. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | You guys need to stop putting women and sex above your values, self respect and goals.I matched with a girl on some dating site awhile ago who kept insulting me, pretty soon it was clear she had a lot of issues with men and was taking them out on me, but I didn't put up with it and towards the end she claimed she was worth it because she had great pussy. Well I seemed to think otherwise seeing as I had done nothing to deserve her shit, so I blew her off still feel good to know I don't have to play in the gutter because I'm so chained to the idea of getting sex. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | She Hates Men and Took it out on MeYea that's true she was shit-testing me. I didn't put up with her crap though and insulted her back when she insulted me. She was probably looking for some guy to walk all over, then walked back when she claimed her pussy was great and worth it. By that time though I was tired of her insults and didn't feel it was worth it. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Are you guys gaming during Corona season?I read that sex workers are losing business, many are losing their apartments and becoming homeless because no one wants to hire them and catch covid-19 | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Best way to cold approach after a long time?If they are wearing clothing where you're wondering if their junk will fall out they are usually pretty easy. Go for it | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Best way to cold approach after a long time?Only dive bars here is it the same. You get the divorced crowd that's like 40+ and they all are alcoholics spending their whole paycheck there. There's a lot of bars that appeal to younger people. Many have dance floors attached. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | My girlfrend doesn't wanna have sex with me, should I break up?You let her dictate your life in this one aspect and soon she will have a list of rules for everything | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Best way to cold approach after a long time?Maybe if you want someone to talk to on the train, but I wouldn't pursue anything more than that, and try and do better where girls hang out that are looking for dates like bars and clubs. | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | FR - 3 Cold approaches - Number and dateLol I cold approached 2 girls last week. First was only 17 so too young. The other just ignored me and kept walking. Maybe I should have approached 3 but there's so many fat chicks in this city there's not too many pretty girls. | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Are dating apps a good idea for someone who just sarted getting into the dating game?Dating apps gives you more options, but many times it never leads anywhere. Most girls aren't looking for anything serious off tinder. | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Strip clubs are a an amazing trainer but should never be used as a substitute.Strip clubs are better than going out to dance clubs and bars. No rejection but yea you have to spend a little money. Just skip the VIP dances and you're treated like a king | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | 20M, my first "date" ever.I matched with 5-10 women one week on tinder but most unmatched after I sent the first message without even a response. I'll never understand women | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Why would she invite you somewhere then no-show? How rude. Hopefully you got some other matches to weed out the bad ones. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 12 | Keeping girls engaged and interested after openingIs it really even worth pursuing if you have to stretch every conversation? Every person should have at least 30 minutes of small talk to engage with some stranger. If she just keeps responding with one-word responses that's an indicator she's not interested and just move on. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Half of the game is just showing upCan't say the same for myself. Last couple of dates have been a waste of time. Fortunately, it wasn't some expensive dinner at least. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 09:33 PM |
| -1 | A Word of MotivationDamn woodchucks! Quit chucking that wood. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!I don't know what to tell you. Get everything in your life right and the women will come next. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 04:54 AM |
| 9 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Numbers are easy to get. Getting them to respond back to texts or calls a few days later is what's hard. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | First Ever Bar Pickup On First TryThis is true. I've been to bars hundreds of times and only hooked up with a girl on a handful of occasions. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | So I think i missed an opportunity.Why not ask her to study together and see if it leads anywhere? | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Social Status is KingI've been to Montreal too. I went there for a couple weeks after taking a French class. I was surprised to see a scientology center there. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you respond when they flake?Sometimes they just ignore your texts and calls instead of formally breaking up, many times when you think things are going well. Tired of these immature chicks but they make up the majority | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked a girl for her number at the marketLol finally cold approached and denied. If you're really desperate some girls are looking for the best option so will consider other men even if they are involved, so you might be able to push forward "oh don't worry I won't tell" or "that sucks. but did you know it's time to dump old garbage?" | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Why am I too fucking scared?!I f-closed at least 2 or 3 hot red heads in my 20s, and only 2% of people have red hair (at least outside of Ireland). So I did pretty well I think. Keep up the work. Results will follow. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Sex & Dating shouldn't be your solution to emptinessI agree. Keep it just a side thing and you'll be happier. Obsessing over this stuff can generate some bad habits. | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How to keep an attractive girl with you after successful dating...Pretty hard to build a solid relationship just from cold approach, but there's multiple platforms available now such as instagram and facebook | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend?Hit on chicks at the gym, or college, or a dance club. Usually those are full of pretty hot chicks. Otherwise, you'll get stuck with all the fatties in online dating. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Went out alone, best decision I've madenext time have them 3-way kiss your cock | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Question about how fast to move with women with dates and escalation.Women always try and shame you for thinking about sex. Like if you look at a painting you are only supposed to see the corners and ignore the center. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Late bloomer?You're going to want to bang every hot babe you see until you go into the grave. There is no age where you get over it. Obviously, if you are failing in that department you may feel more comfortable being monogamous, but if you truly feel you must prove your manhood by sleeping with a bunch of chicks just keep reading this subreddit and you'll get a lot of good advice. Most of the time it really seems like a lot of work you have to put in for maybe one night only with some really hot chick. That… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Approaching older women?Probably have better odds with older women (around 30ish) because you don't have to compete with older guys for girls your own age. Men 20-50 will be hitting on girls 18+ and they already have a house, sometimes nice car, and other things to spoil the girls with. Plus a chick around age 30 will at least have an apartment or something you can go to for alone time. I had a fake id at 18, but if you don't drink most people will probably understand that. Also, a woman aged 30 usually will feel insec… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Finally had the balls to approach a girl after the gymGym is a good place to meet opposite sex. You already know they look fit and bad-ass, and there's no alcohol there so you don't have to buy them drinks. Only downside is everyone is sweating and probably smells like balls | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How to lower her down to your level?Thanks for the tip. Do you think excusing myself and returning 30 minutes to an hour later will raise her interest, or will it just annoy her and make her not want to give me her number? I might even talk to other girls during that time I'm away. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How to lower her down to your level?Listen Einstein, you weren't giving advice. You were insulting me. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 01:36 AM |
| -1 | How to lower her down to your level?Only consume 1 glass of haterade per day | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearThat's true. A couple guys mentioned that you can play that card now that you've been locked up. I even have one tattoo that will help with that direction. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearI've spent most of the year in jail around a bunch of dudes so I feel really rusty talking to girls. When I got out in October I was just so happy to be out I didn't think of even getting laid, then I got busted for a probation violation and I've been out for about another month. I still haven't approached any chicks yet. I mean I have new problems I've never had to deal with before like now I have a felony on my record so if she searches my name and finds that out it could be an instant relatio… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Approaching randomlyI haven't had too much luck with day-game. Most of the leads fizzle out after a few texts/calls, but one time I was flirting with a chick at a dog park and within an hour of meeting her we were having sex. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearI almost hit on a cute latina girl today, but my clothes were shabby and she was in a brand-new Honda so my confidence wasn't very high. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeI don't really agree that if she doesn't want to sleep with you now, she is going to always feel that way. This may change in the future if her options change or something. That's weird you mention that women want to see a guy who is able to fuck a few girls in his circle. You would think this might scare them for infidelity if you get in a relationship. You call this "high value". Maybe it's good if right away you aren't hounding her for sex. This might be the only positive for that criteria. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayI was at the gym at 6am this morning. Most beautiful women I've ever seen all in one location, but they are intimidating and all have headphones in. I've pulled girls from every possible location, but haven't had a lot of success in picking up here. Just seems like a place for serious work-outs exclusively- not dating. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 06:11 PM |
| 17 | How To Get A Girl To Come To Your HouseI wonder what compels people to write these articles. Srsly this person took 2 hours out of his or her day to help random strangers over the Internet try and get laid. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Women and Sexuality?I don't know whatever golden vagina you've been worshipping, but as a single guy porn is very convenient to masturbate to. Even average-looking chicks think they should be charging for sex, so all that "booty-call" lingo that exists in pop-culture movies, and music that I could do for one year, but fail the next is a pain in the ass to deal with. So when she knocks porn, my sacred shine as a single guy I find that very offensive. You've heard well many religions don't mix and you have to convert… | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women and Sexuality?Yea, sounds like a good idea | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Women and Sexuality?Well I don't think we'd match anyways. Sounds like they are looking for friends then, not partners, or maybe they would be better off becoming a nun. | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Women and Sexuality?I don't understand why you think I wouldn't be practicing safe sex, just because ideally I'd like a relationship that includes sex. So many contraception methods nowadays, and there is even male birth control around the corner. Of course I don't want diseases either. I think it's weird you can have tobacco and alcohol in supermarkets where you shop with babies, yet still people think sex is dangerous. I don't get your comparison to "anti-American ethics" but to each their own | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Women and Sexuality?There is no woman I'm singling out. By "her" or "she" I just meant women I've interacted with in the recent, or distant past. | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Are high-maintenance girls worth it?? Looking for tips and advice. Plus, a deeper issue...In short: generally no | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 12:06 AM |
| -2 | Dealing with ZetasListen, if you are confused by original content [OC], then look in the archives. Fraternities are based on Greek letters: typically alpha, phi, beta, etc. Z is the last letter in the Roman alphabet; modern day English alphabet, Old English had more characters, Middle English was similar to what we read today. So naturally Z, is towards the end like the word "zeta". | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with ZetasYou want to join the Omega society, or play Megaman ? | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Something to remember: It may seem obvious, but when it comes to girls, nobody is ever “too busy.” You’re either a priority, or you’re not. It’s that simple.Maybe she is a lesbian. I'm obsessed with lesbians at the moment, but I guess it's not as bad as I originally thought. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Rejected!Oh I see you are butt-hurt over a comment I said about someone's son being incel, so you are invading my reddit page. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 08:48 PM |
| -1 | Rejected!Jump to conclusions much dickhead? | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with approach anxiety? I did too but here's what helped!Well if you skip bars and clubs there's no approach anxiety obviously. That's like trying to find a job but not going to any career fairs. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:00 PM |
| -2 | Rejected!I don't understand women. Here they post freely on "gonewild" topless or completely nude begging for sex, yet when you go out they are all in a bad mood, never bubbly or laughing. I must live in a bad area toxic to getting laid | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | ***7 Things Men Do That Turns Women Off***Pretty good advice | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | The Real Reason Most Guys Don't Succeed With Women (and what you can do about it)Don't put them on a pedestal. They'll do the obvious thing and treat you like you are less valuable than them, and it's hard to get out of the cycle if you've been in it long enough. Try to treat them as equal as you, or less desirable than you, even if they appear to be out of your league. Pedestals just open up doors for them to walk all over you, and you'd be surprised at how good some of them are at it | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I went out solo last night. It sucked. But I thought of you guys.Too bad no sluts wanted to take you home. There's always at least a few | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 08:49 AM |
| 2 | If your goal is to hook up with hot girls and have a great sex life, your hobbies must take that into account.I moved to a low-income community, and there's really not many attractive women for miles. I really have to hunt to find hotties. Even most of your typical activities where you'd meet beautiful women, have women 20 years older than the ideal age gap. There's no sport leagues, and many meet-up groups are the same way. | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 04:52 AM |
| -1 | I got a girls number today!I've been meaning to get out and try and get numbers and stop the dating app for a bit. But the odds are pretty much the same. And I have to get the number, put the work into escalation, hope she isn't a prude, try and secure 2 or 3 dates within a month... Always harder than it seems. So easy for them to just ghost, so she's gotta be hot before I approach! | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | how to not overthink everything while dating? how not to be clingy?It's kind of a natural response. If you only have 1 or 2 chicks into you you're going to be worried that number is going to reach zero, whereas if you had 40 or 50 chicks dying to chat with you, you'd be a lot more rude and disrespectful, and not care as much about what each individual chick thought. You just need to be in an environment where there's more opportunities to be around beautiful women. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Ever since graduating high school I notice a lack of girls in my day to dayThe girls you meet aren't going to be the sex-starved centerfolds you see daily on youtube, or on the TV. Most of them nowadays are a handful, and switch friends like they switch pairs of shoes, so they are difficult to keep up with. Don't hit on them at work it is a bad habit. I feel like cashiers that work at delis, and diners, and coffee shops would be open to flirting if they had more time. Unfortunately, just because they are hot doesn't mean they will be the slight bit interesting and they… | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl on my commute?Just don't come on too strong if you see her daily. Otherwise daily commutes will be awkward | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 03:53 PM |
| 0 | How can I approach in a classroom setting?Just become the teacher. Every girl is automatically going to be most attracted to the teacher, head of the school, etc. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 07:04 AM |
| 0 | Nobody Owes You AnythingGet a grip | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Double dated with a girl who has a boyfriend, How do i K/F close?I guess at 18 girls consider boyfriends guys who just hang out with them a few times that they like. It's not like you'll be eating out some chick who just had her man blast a load inside her last night. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Nobody Owes You AnythingShe doesn't owe you sex, but she knows why you're spending all that money on her, so she shouldn't be surprised when you get angry | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 10:43 AM |
| 0 | How did you guys have hookups in college? How does it happen exactly?Some days women just don't want to be alone, like certain holidays (new years, valentines, halloween, spring break, etc.) so if you have a decent group of friends and she has that look like she hasn't been f*cked in awhile, it's pretty ez | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 09:07 PM |
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