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QUEEN SH*Tbluepisces1980/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:35 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEbluepisces1980/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:55 PM
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Yay! Don’t be me! Being 41 and finally being free. Seriously... enjoy.your. Youth!!! Get to learn who you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:55 PM
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Omg yes! My ex husband literally destroyed me over 18 years to the point that by the end I was a shell of who I am. Like I was a grey splotch on a wall. Petrified to have an opinion other than his. Otherwise I was a POS, stupid, ugly... you name it. I was literal treated worse than trash. Yet he would get angry when I wouldn’t give an opinion and just agree with him or he’d get so angry as to why I was sooo insecure which in turn “forced” him to visit prostitutes because they weren’t as “insecur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:05 AM
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Well daymn that was my 18yr shitty marriage in a nutshell... my interests and my personality were ALL stupid. Basically my whole life was pointless unless I agreed with him. I chalk it up to bring a naive young woman. Ugh. Happily divorced now and I can be as “weird” as I want to be. Lol 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:00 AM
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OP can you update us with what she does. I’m hoping she leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:46 PM
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Again I seriously hope they don’t have kids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:44 PM
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My ex husbands mom... my MIL died from severe hypoglycemia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:44 PM
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And it’s time to file for divorce... I hope they don’t have kids together. I’m an RN and a diabetic (type 2)and usually if your sugars drop you generally don’t even have the physical capacity to get aggressive to that degree. I’m wondering if there isn’t more to this... I hope she is able to get into contact with a DV shelter and is able to safely leave, file for divorce and restart her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:39 PM
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Indeed 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:36 AM
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I guarantee it wasn’t a gift. It was an in-person escort service. Geeze, the girlfriend is blind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:24 AM
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Omg that makes a lot of sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:17 AM
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Yea she reminds me of me before I woke up and realized my now ex-husband was throwing lie after lie out to keep me. It’s much easier to lie and continue to do what you know is harmful than to acknowledge and actually put the work in to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:16 AM
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Yup you can lead a horse to water. You can’t make them drink. I’m a a community Heath Nurse. I spend a lot of time on education but dangnabbit if most people ignore 98% of it because lifestyle changes and regulating behavior is “difficult”. 🤷🏻‍♀️ sigh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:15 AM
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Wow! Just wow! I hope she wakes up, sees the reality and moves on. But I guarantee he’ll sucker her back in, marry her and she’ll be screwed when she finds out he’s a serial adulter... by then she’ll have multiple kids, no job and nothing other than being a mom and a wife. This is sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:14 PM
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I’d let his wife know. He’s trying to cheat. She deserves to know her husband is a sleazeball. Just FYI...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:38 AM
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Really. That’s good! I hope their wives see this shit... and Ofcourse their bosses..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:44 AM
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So joking about rape is ok?!?!? Wtf! I bet these jags have wives/kids/moms... they’d be upset if a bro buddy joked about those things in regards to their kid/mom/wife. Wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:42 AM
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In Teen Vogue?!?!?! What the fuq... like 13yr olds read that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:32 AM
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1 million percent.... never again will I cry myself to sleep wondering what I did wrong for my (ex) husband to completely and utterly ignore me/treat me like garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:30 AM
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If he’s doing 3 12s then buck up buttercup otherwise perhaps he needs to look into daycare. I bet the baby/toddler is bored during the day. Also it’s not safe or healthy to be that sleep deprived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:22 AM
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Wow they need to divorce. Such anger and hatred. It’s frightening. If you hate your situation that bad then you need to change it’s. Not worth a lifetime of misery. Either that or dude needs to grow up. I’m an RN and did night shift for years so my now teenaged son didn’t have to go to daycare. Yes I was exhausted but I found ways to sleep and manage. Help is out there, family, daycare... the list goes on . I knew other Nurses that did similarity. Once he got older and nights fried me I moved to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:21 AM
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Yup I’m Planning to just be single for the rest of my life... I don’t need a man to be happy. Did that, almost ended up destroyed and dead, I have the healed fractures to prove that . I ain’t doing that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:10 AM
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Right!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:09 AM
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Omg this is sooo true! I’m thankful everyday for my divorce. If I want to veg out and blast music while I clean my kitchen while dancing around... damn it I can!!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:07 PM
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Not just Arabs... Persians 🙋🏽‍♀️are like this as well. My ex husband treated me like his servant, his maid, his therapist and was incredibly controlling yet on the outside to public they put on the liberal front. Even now if I show up to exchange the kids in jeans with rips in them he makes nasty comments. Ooh we live in Saudi for a year to work like a decade ago and many of my friends have been Arab over the years yup... it’s all the same mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:32 PM
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Yea my ex-husband blamed his cheating and visiting prostitutes on me. I left 2 yrs ago with the kids. I try to be cordial for the sake of the kids but he’s still begging me to come back. I just roll my eyes... he never thought in a million years I would have left and actually file for divorce. Yea it’s no fun heating when your no longer married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:24 PM
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File for divorce and have your lawyer get you set up with spousal and child support. I do not think you should continue living with him. Just FYI. I hope you’ve consulted with a couple lawyers and are getting the process in motion. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:22 PM
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Unfortunately no she never did. She eventually had 5 kids with him. They are still married. When I knew them they had 2 kids. He wanted a son so badly do kept getting her pregnant one after another and she was an older mom as well. Unfortunately a lot of other things happened with them as well. I doubt she’ll ever divorce or leave him d/t cultural and religious reasons...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:51 PM
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Thank you! ❤️ yes no mater how much of a struggle life can be as a new single mom after 16yrs of marriage I’d rather have that stress and struggle anyway over the stress and hell I lived in for 16 years. You know it ends to end when you hate your life, cry yourself to sleep daily and are afraid of your husband. 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:35 PM
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Just to throw this out there. Certain cultures do actually think highly of being cheap. I was in a multicultural marriage for 16years + lived in a few countries and although my ex wasn’t cheap per-se... well as cheap... I and him were friends with quite a few married couples were the husband was embarrassingly cheap af, one of whom was a highly paid engineer who was so cheap he refused to buy his wife a new winter coat when her winter coat literally was in tatters... his excuse was it still fit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:43 AM
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Lol omg right! Yea my ex told me basically the same thing right down to him defending me to his friends. Like who gives a fuq. 👍🏻🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:23 PM
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Gahahaaaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:26 PM
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Lol indeed! Everything was and still is ALWYS my fault! He literally told me his meeting up with prostitutes was MY fault. His catfishing and having an affair with my former best friend was both MY fault and HER fault. Her fault cuz her boobs were so perky he just couldn’t stop obsessing over her married self. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ meanwhile he couldn’t be bothered with me. Oh poor poor him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:18 PM
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Ok 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:15 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:14 PM
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Thank you! It took me a long long loooonnng time to recognize what he was really doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:14 PM
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He’s always the victim. Yea... he hung out with prostitutes... he’s the victim because I found out when money was missing 😭🤦🏼‍♀️😂🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:13 PM
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Lmao yup! I’m busier than he is with my job and that annoys him too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:12 PM
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Nope 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:10 PM
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Oh that’s fantastic!!! 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:59 PM
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Married 17 years and just he completely destroyed me... tons of things going on and the gaslighting was next level professional. Incredibly in denial. Actually thought if he denied, denied, denied then he was making it NOT true! The evidence said otherwise. Also denied the validity of evidence found on HIS phone and bank accounts! I realized a month ago I have zero interest in being in another relationship EVER. I’m enjoying my peace and freedom. It’s so nice not wondering what someone else is d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:48 AM
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I have an opposite problem. I’m an RN and the trend for scrubs is form fitting which is fine but around patients I prefer the unisex baggy scrubs. I don’t want male patients thinking I’m “cute” or hitting on me. I’m just not flattered. Unfortunately at my most recent scrub update shopping trip I was told that scrub manufacturers are moving away from baggy unisex styles and even the men’s scrubs are cut more slender. Sigh... 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:50 AM
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I hate it when men call women “sweet”... it’s manipulative. Gag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:13 PM
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I guarantee he’s cheating on her... no respect period. He’s the type of get prostitutes while his wife is pregnant or in labor. Disgusting slug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:59 PM
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Time for a divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:53 PM
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Yea my ex husband had a thing going with my former best friend and she’s married with kids. Sleazeballs will be sleazeballs. But yup it’s incredibly common! She needs new friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:02 PM
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This is incredibly common and I guarantee her husband has tried something with those “friends” the amount of husbands that try to hook up with their wives friends is shocking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:31 PM
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Ok what woman is chasing a man whose being rude to them? Like wtf?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:57 AM
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Yes! My ex husband and his buddies... oh nah God! Serious massive gossips!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:56 AM
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Wow that’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:46 AM
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Yea that just shows how little they truly cared about us! It’s one thing if you say no XYZ but if you do nice gestures for them and even overtly tell them you’d like xyz then I mean c’mon...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:43 PM
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Could? The wife WILL and usually DOES find out...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:01 PM
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She’s probably on antidepressants because she knows her husband is a sleazeball adulterous dingbat. Him bring at happy hour after work with a wife at home.... case in point! Speaking from experience here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:00 PM
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Yea my ex husband thought my wanting a birthday gift, flowers for Valentine’s Day or just doing something nice for me was “stupid” because he “loved” me. Yea I buy my own damn flowers and birthday gift! It’s amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:31 AM
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Nope. Married men that flirt or cheat are absolutely disgusting ditto with women who are married and do similarly. Don’t feel too special... I guarantee he does the same thing with other women, probably also sees hookers. In certain fields men cheating is the norm. I know my ex-husbands field; finance was rife with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:23 AM
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Yea I saw that. That episode pissed me too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:17 AM
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Frankly when my ex husband and I were still together... once I discovered the adultery and using of prostitutes I was shocked to learn he often got the numbers of said prostitutes from co-workers.... apparently many wives married to Bankers know their husbands commit adultery and expose them to multiple STDs on a regular basis, but they stay for the $$$ and the “security”.... I was like... nah... but yea it’s very common and a “dirty little secret” they all know about. But hey that new purse mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:14 AM
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Wow that’s pretty disgusting. I hope there is no Pre-nup and she gets tested for STDs and no way is he “only” cheating once a year... also how little does she value herself? Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:09 AM
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I agree... I mean as little girls thr “pick-me” attitude is kinda ingrained and expected by parents and even encouraged as its “ladylike” behavior yet women that don’t engage in that behavior are called “bossy” or “bitchy” or even worse... while moms shudder that they won’t ever have grandkids if their daughters don’t engage in that behavior. So my question is... how do we stop passing it on to the next gen? I have a 2yr old daughter and a 13yr old son. How can I stop that in my family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:44 PM
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If I should ever use OLD I’d do much the same. Your just asking for pedos to be involved in your life otherwise...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:20 PM
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I doubt it’s this dude’s first time using his kid as a prop for a booth all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:19 PM
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Gee I wonder why his wife and him divorced... I can’t fathom... 🤷🏻‍♀️😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:18 PM
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Indeed! The number of bored married women that will text, chat and meet up with married men is ridiculous! Hell you may even be friends with one! I know I was... my now ex-husband loved the “thrill”... gag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:14 PM
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I work community health as an RN... you can’t imagine how many elderly widowers try to talk us into moving in with them to take care of them or provide companionship because they are lonely.... sometimes we even get exasperated adult children of said widowers calling us and begging us because “dad refuses to leave his home” yet he/they refuse to pay for a part time or fulltime caregiver!! 🤷🏻‍♀️ we just give them numbers of organizations that provide paid caregivers or a social work consult via t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:10 PM
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Cuz Alfredo is considered bougie...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:07 PM
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It’s the green eyes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:37 PM
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Ditto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:35 PM
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Here’s to hoping his wife finds this and files for divorce... yea it’s no fun cheating when your wife filed for divorce. I told my ex husband that when he moans that I should come back...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:35 PM
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Trust me.. he’ll find another young woman whose probably desperate and would eagerly trade happiness for “security” and be with him. Sad... but you definitely did the right thing. Just stop all contact. He’s gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:25 PM
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My 72 yr old widowed aunt has a dates alll theee time and gets attention from men of all ages. She also runs a successful business. Your never past your prime. It’s all an illusion... sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:37 AM
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Lol I’m 40 and am finally living my life.. only took 17years if marriage and a divorce... lol. I look back and remember how adventurous I was... like I went cross country at 19 via greyhound, stopping and exploring everywhere I could, went into Anericorps, worked all over the west coast with Americorps yet all that ended when I “found the one”... 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:35 AM
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I do hope she filed for divorce...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:07 AM
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Really... wow. Geeze. I think I’m lucky to be in Nursing because I feel like Atleast with Nursing itself given it’s such a heavily female dominated profession that this kind of stuff within Nurses isn’t as common. Yes there are sleazy doctors or patients but amongst Nurses your more likely to be bullied by an older bitter Nurse than sexually harassed by a Nurse. Atleast that’s what I’ve found to be the norm. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:05 AM
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Lol see after being married for 17yrs this is a new thing for me... 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:06 PM
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It’s possible I’m just finally noticing it... 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:06 PM
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Thanks all! The stare downs/check out by staring thing was starting to get to me. so it made me question like WTF. Maybe I’ve been living under a rock for awhile. I dunno. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:55 PM
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Thank you.,.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:53 PM
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I guess!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:53 PM
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No just stare down/check out. It’s really weird. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:53 PM
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No idea... maybe I didn’t notice it when I was married... may be the lack of a ring. I literally can’t fathom the stare downs... I usually wear pretty average clothing, 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:52 PM
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I mean... men in the banking industry all engage in adultery. It’s well known and often their wives know but stay because it’s ok if they can keep up appearances and keep shopping #beentheredonethat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:04 PM
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Banking/investments is an easy way to a quick buck... for all of those deciding on majors at University! ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:53 AM
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Yup!!!! Yea what we contend with doesn’t = the pay. My ex husband did next to nothing and made 5x my salary then he’d wonder why I was always exhausted after working “only” 3 days and expect me to cook/ clean on my 4 off days when I’d spend the first 2 days curled up comatose... 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:43 AM
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I’m an RN and daymn... we work out asses off for that $$$... it’s no joke! I think if I ever decide to start dating or getting into a relationship the guy has to be in the medical field... I feel like only medical people really understand how hard those of us in medicine work our butts off... hmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:03 AM
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Wow this is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:38 PM
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I came here from that post although that’s not me that wrote that post. I’m newly divorced from a Narc and yea... it’s rough. Glad I found this sub though!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:15 AM
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