Omfg this bullcrap

SweetRazzleDazzle · 2020-07-15T20:03:46+00:00

The fact that he felt no shame asking her to pay for his portion of the meal too 🤡

Glad she only paid for her own and won’t be seeing him again, BLOCKED.

jupiter_sunstone · 2020-07-15T20:01:50+00:00

Not my post just saw this in the dating advice sub. What the actual fuck is wrong with everyone.

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-15T20:07:48+00:00

If woman said that, she'd be a gOlDdIgGeR. Instead, he's probably lauded as fiscally responsible.

jupiter_sunstone · 2020-07-15T22:27:02+00:00

ANDDDD this is why you never date down

VegitarianPineapple · 2020-07-15T20:10:22+00:00

One thing I really like about my boyfriend is he never lets me pay for stuff. The only time I ever managed to pay for a date was because he had never been to the place before and I was prepared at the register. No matter how much I tell him I can pay he’ll never let me. Makes me feel special.

CeriseNoire · 2020-07-15T23:25:55+00:00

Ah yes. Nurses. Rolling in that dough, shooting bills through money guns to random strangers cause they're all so rich. Of course he would expect her to pay🤣 Get in your clown car dude and go back to the tent.

Capable_Okra · 2020-07-15T20:12:36+00:00

I'm not gonna check the post but will just assume this woman is getting slammed in the comments. Why would you ever post an opinion like this on the regular subs? I feel bad for her, she needs to find us.

madamejesaistout · 2020-07-15T23:09:19+00:00

I don't understand this at all. If I ever go out to eat with someone, date, friend, family, work aquaintance, etc. I am prepared to pay for everyone's meal. If I invited these people out to eat, I'm prepared to pay because I invited them so I'm the "host." Stuff happens. People forget their wallets. Whatever. If I'm sharing a meal with someone, I'm willing to pay for them.

I've never paid on a date. Maybe it's just where I live. I always offer to split, but I've been on a lot a first dates and never paid.

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-07-15T21:13:03+00:00

“AM I WRONG?”

Is she crazy?!

She posted this on Dating Advice?

She needs advice???

Some people are beyond help.

gutsandgorey · 2020-07-16T00:15:32+00:00

Lmao that name censor (we survived the ban wave but does not censoring names or linking to posts count as brigading? Could other subs use that against us?)

A man that expects you to pay is going to treat you like shit. Why don't people understand that paying on dates is a vetting process? They call women shallow but every man that I've paid for or split with has treated me terribly. I tried the whole "equality in dating" thing and sorry it just doesn't work out.

VikingPug · 2020-07-15T20:37:35+00:00

Shoot men that won’t pay on a date into space!

Also we should start saying it’s new fashioned for the man to pay, not old fashioned. This should be THE standard.

girludontbringhome · 2020-07-16T03:34:06+00:00

I read the comments on the original post.

WHY are so many men AND women saying that you should expect to go Dutch on dates?! It is odd how sometimes there is a huge disconnect between online and "real-life" and this is definitely one of those instances. One of my exes would not even let me come close to paying, and the other definitely paid all throughout the talking stage without question and then avoided going on dates later on (even though I would pay for him sometimes during the relationship- this was pre-FDS). I was talking to a guy about my first ex and talked about how I felt bad that I never paid for dates and my friend was very adamant that guys SHOULD be paying and he would never make a woman pay.

What the people in r/dating_advice say is complete opposite of what people mostly say IRL. Reddit is a pretty bad place to seek out dating advice ESPECIALLY if you are woman. Most of the people on r/dating_advice are probably men, most men are LV and look out for their own interests and want to help a fellow bro out. FDS is the exception, because it is a female-dominated sub.

I will give you all an example. I was very in love with my first boyfriend, and we were almost 4 months in (but we were good friends for almost a year) and I still was not 100% sure about having sex with him yet, even though we would spend the night together and came close a few times. There were a few reasons why I did not feel comfortable with him but the main one being he kept hiding me from his parents. Anyway, I posted on a Reddit sub asking for advice and almost everyone told me to have sex with him and that him not telling his parents about me was not a big deal. I followed my gut instead of Reddit and decided to wait to have sex. He dumped me a little while after. Since we had fooled around I don't think sex would have made the break-up any worse than it already was, but I wish someone in the Reddit comments told me that him not telling his parents about me after all that time was a bad sign, and telling me to go ahead and have sex with him was the wrong advice after all.

-positivity- · 2020-07-16T01:04:56+00:00

God, this is why I only date men who are richer than me. Also, if he picked the place, why would he expect her to pay half? Basic courtesy please.

munissa · 2020-07-16T01:04:59+00:00

Wow. Is there something lower than LVM or NVM?! Like trash male or something?! He expected her to pay for him as well?! I feel like you should always have the expectation to pay for yourself because you never know how the date plays out but to say you expect the other person to pay because they make more is outright rude.

advicethrowawayyys · 2020-07-16T04:13:03+00:00

Imagine being around educated professionals in a stable career all day and opting to date a retail worker.

megiroma · 2020-07-15T20:03:24+00:00

Lol no kidding. This person shouldn’t be second guessing herself!! Of course block him

barbiexo221 · 2020-07-15T22:00:40+00:00

Lmao she posted this in the regular “Dating Advice” where all the broke guys and pickmeisha’s are 🤦🏾‍♀️

olereddgirl · 2020-07-16T01:12:05+00:00

Don’t date down lol

gone-aria · 2020-07-16T02:52:04+00:00

I made the mistake of reading some of the replies... I think I lost a year off my life lol.

At least there were some rational comments near the bottom, albeit heavily downvoted!

Title	Omfg this bullcrap
Author	jupiter_sunstone
Upvotes	234
Comments	59
Date	July 15, 2020 8:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hruupp/omfg_this_bullcrap/
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