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 REDDIT HATES WOMENgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:04 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:06 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:05 AM
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gutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:36 PM
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FDS HUMORgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:03 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:39 AM
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SCROTES MADgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:25 PM
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DISCUSSIONgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:16 PM
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FDS HUMORgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:49 PM
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PICKME CULTUREgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:55 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:35 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:44 PM
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LibFem Logicgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:29 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:20 PM
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LEVEL UPgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:52 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨gutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:02 PM
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gutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:16 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:20 PM
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PICKME CULTUREgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:42 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:06 PM
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LIES MEN TELLgutsandgorey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:30 AM
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I WISH she could be a guest on the podcast. But she would get cancelled by the libfems and I don't want her to suffer anymore harrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 11:10 PM
37

Sigh... I guess we can add *lizards* to the list of things men would fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:31 PM
333

They think porn is real life. I don't know how many copypastas I've seen circulating the internet about how all women cheat on thier husbands/bfs, sleep with multiple men a week, have bodycounts in the 300's by the time they graduate college, fuck dogs, do anal, facials, creampies, rimjobs, ATM, -insert porny sex act- with chad but starfish sex with their beta buxx husband. They really work themselves up projecting thier jerk off material onto real life women lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:23 AM
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"in an idyllically a sex-positive world" Let me stop you right there. That world doesn't exist and will NEVER exist! Libfems must live in an alternate reality where: 1) Sex is equal. Women don't get pregnant, they don't face higher rates of STDs, are physically equal to men and can fight off unwanted sexual acts. 2) The basic needs of all women are met. Every woman is fed, sheltered and clothed. No woman has to resort to prostitution to survive, she does it cause it's fun! 3) Men don't hate wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:41 AM
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I will NEVER leave an unrelated male alone with my child. My mom dated after she and my dad divorced but I didn't meet a single boyfriend until after I turned 18. If I end up in a similar situation I will do the same. "Love" is not worth giving men access to your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:57 AM
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Measure your hand. When making out with a guy touch his package and line it up. Mine is 7" long, if a guy isn't as long as my hand I won't bother going further. If he feels a lot bigger (2+ inches) I also won't go further. I want the most pleasurable experience possible so I want to make sure I'm not bored or in pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:50 PM
505

I'd leave but first I'd leave a note in her drawer letting her know what's up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:54 PM
143

Literally. Fmovies is my go to. $80+ for streaming is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:26 AM
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CW I think it means Content Warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:50 AM
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The altercation lasted just over a minute and I didn't think to call the police, he left pretty quickly after I pulled out my phone. But you're right, next time I see something like this happen I'll yell that I'm calling the police. That should clear them out faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:17 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:01 AM
128

Sometimes I think about how good of a partner I would be if I was born a man. It's so easy to make women happy. Men do the bare minimum or maybe do inconsistent grand gestures on top of all their regular shitty behavior then wonder why women aren't swooning over them. Buying a woman flowers twice a year doesn't make up for being lazy, selfish, lying, or cheating Kevin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:39 AM
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That's horrible. It's becoming increasingly obvious that men won't defend women. I'll be looking into self defense weapons to protect myself and other women. I would never stand a chance against a man bare handed but a gun can level the playing field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:34 AM
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When I was in high school my dad got a job as a university professor. I was allowed to sit in on his lectures over the summer and of course as a teen I thought it was really cool. I was talking to my boyfriend about how his students liked me and sent me flowers and candy when I was recovering from surgery. This pissed him off for some reason and he said "You think you're some kind of princess because your dad's an adjunct professor. You're not smart just because you took your daddy's class". It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:20 PM
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For context there are multiple comments on this video saying it's wholesome. A lot of comments making jokes or calling her iconic. The typical "sex work is work!" and justification for prostitution "everyone sells their body in late stage capitalism". And of course "you b*tches give it up for for free at least she's getting paid". Why do teenagers have such a positive view of prostitution?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:37 PM
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Now hold on one second ma'am. FDS is about gold digging and finding the richest man possible so we don't have to work! We have a 5 step program on how to divorce rape a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:58 PM
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Translation: I don't want to pay for dates but I still want you to do my laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:41 PM
138

What do these men have against Lady GaGa? Also I have to ask, what is the female equivalent of going to a strip club? Something that women do that borders on cheating but guys are gaslit into accepting it. I can't think of anything...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:36 AM
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Yes break up with her. Duh. Scrotes love to whine about women "wasting their 20s" by not having kids but a lot of the time (when she wants them) it's because she's being lead on by a guy that isn't ready to commit but still wants a bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:21 PM
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We read this in my high school English class. Of course none of the males thought much about the essay but it resonated with the girls. Finding FDS was the final puzzle piece to ensure that I don't end up as "a wife" and instead find an equal partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:29 PM
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Radical in...wanting men to pay for dates? To be respected? To have mutually pleasurable, loving sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:16 PM
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and of course hookup culture being glamorized and all my friends see it as empowering when they are just putting effort into men who put zero effort into them. it ridiculous. Seriously. Women are shaving, exfoliating, perfuming, putting on lotions, makeup, uncomfortable lingerie and doing our hair just to suck dick and get jack hammered for 5 minutes straight. And to top it off most of the time she won't even orgasm. MOST OF THE TIME SHE WON'T EVEN ORGASM!!! How is the reward worth the effort??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:43 AM
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But we're supposed to love them and their unwashed hairy ass cracks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:08 PM
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It's the internet, so we can be blunt and honest without society policing us. Outsiders think we go around talking like this in public to anybody. NO! It's smarter to keep your mouth shut and come here for the real talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:01 AM
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And remember that a consistent cheap routine is better than an inconsistent expensive one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:52 PM
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Ew. Those males sound pathetic. My vagina dried up permanently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:53 AM
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Thank your lucky stars it wasn't 3 YEARS! Give yourself some time to grieve and keep moving forward. Do something nice for yourself tonight to celebrate a dodged bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:57 AM
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If they were just normal republicans it might work...but Trump supporters are insane. It's literally a cult and if his family donated heavily they're deep in it. Major red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:54 AM
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Slip a finger up his butt without asking, "Whaaat? How was I supposed to know that's the wrong hole? It's dark in here!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:02 PM
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If she truly enjoyed doing that she would have done it with him too. And there it is. Men are rapists, they don't care if you enjoy the act, they just want to use your body the way other men did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:58 PM
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Seriously! My first sexual experiences weren't great either. I was a sexually active teen 2015-2016 and definitely felt the influence of porn but not to this extent!! I feel so bad for my younger sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:25 AM
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Wow, only 17 and already desensitized to "vanilla" sex. Porn is ruining a whole generation of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:03 PM
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No Men Beyond This Point It's a movie, but similar to what you're asking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:58 PM
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Oh no, 75% upvoted? You really triggered the scrotes with this one! Good Job!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:24 AM
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Well you see, women have the stinky, dirty vaginas. VAGINAS get infections PENISES don't so... it's her problem. Duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:30 PM
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Men are never at fault! Their bitch ex wives expected too much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:29 PM
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Uhhh snatching up a vulnerable 14 year old girl is wrong. This man really thought he could adopt a child and get a lifelong bangmaid in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:10 PM
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I've seen redpill discussions where they are against vasectomies if the wife is pushing for it. The argument is that she's ruining his sexual market place value. What if he meets a younger woman and she wants kids?? What if he wants more kids with his new wife?? Can't permanently close those pipes, he's got a legacy to continue!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:06 PM
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I would think it's weird if someone did that for me every morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:00 PM
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I'm in the same place you are. Mental illness sucks but you're not alone <3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:56 AM
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Absolutely. I remember my pickme days when I would go through my boyfriend's phone because I knew he was doing shady shit. It's weird to say but I became addicted to the drama of it, it felt so good to have concrete proof that I was being treated like shit and yet...I didn't do anything about it. It's MUCH better to walk away with dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:59 PM
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I WILL NOT allow my morbid curiosity to get the best of me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:56 AM
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Watermelon Sugar is about eating pussy?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:27 PM
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B-b-but I've always dreamed of being impregnated by an older man! They're so sexy and in their prime! Starting a family with a 50 year old is the most ideal and logical plan for a young 20 something like myself, I'm already at the edge of my fertility! Science says infertility and birth defects are all old womens' fault. How else will redpill losers continue their LeGaCy if they can't bag a teenage bride to carry their spawn???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:21 PM
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That's the reason women give birth laying on a table (even thought that's the worst position for labor). It started because some nasty French king wanted to watch his mistresses give birth. Then male doctors decided it was easier for them to stand between a woman's legs rather than get on the floor while she squats or allow her to move around to get more comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:15 AM
510

Bonus if naturally hairless...a child, you're asking for a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:05 PM
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Yah...going on a walk with your BOYFRIEND sounds lovely. Going on a walk with a stranger that expects to bang you afterward...no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:09 AM
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We know it's bad science, we're just joking around. The beauty of FDS is that we can make fun of men using the same insults they throw at us. A taste of their own (nasty cadaverine) medicine lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:48 AM
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We don't support homophobia here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:23 AM
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Science confirms males are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:37 PM
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I don't think it causes any differences in life or changes a person. It's just a you have or haven't situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:55 PM
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All of it. PIV, PIA, oral sex, having sex with a woman/man. You've had sex with another person and are no longer a virgin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:51 PM
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I think that virginity is real- you've either had sex or you haven't. But it's value is socially constructed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:57 PM
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Another tactic is to get older women to force patriarchy on younger women. We all know those old ladies that slut shame, harass, and look down on young women who act outside of the expectations of men. Luckily I think the next generations of older women will be enlightened instead of repressed. They will be a much better resource and role model to young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:33 PM
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This is why I wear men's clothes to the gym. I'm not letting men perv on my body while I'm working out. If it was just women I'd be dressing cute af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:19 PM
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There are men who share nudes of their partners without consent. It's actually pretty popular, there are subreddits, websites, and plenty of porn forums of men sharing nude images of their wives (with and without consent). You can always do whatever you want, but there are risks that come with sharing an intimate image of yourself with someone. I know for a fact that my ex still has nudes of me and I trusted him completely at the time but what he does with those pictures is out of my control now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:27 PM
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Silly woman, don't you know that the courts actually favor women?? Just walk into court and demand full custody. The judge will give it to you because vagina!! (Or so the scrotes tell me in DMs me constantly)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:31 PM
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Or that we fetishize lesbians because a lot of our members wish they were attracted to women! Absolute projection coming from the crowd that jerks off to lesbian porn. We love and respect wlw here but we do not fetishize them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:13 PM
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FOR REAL. And they never even give back quality support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:26 PM
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THERAPISTS ARE QUALIFIED PROFESSIONALS!!! Your girlfriend (while she may be well meaning) is not qualified to handle your issues! If you have real emotional problems go see a damn therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:22 PM
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They call us monsters for saying "men are trash".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:53 AM
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My sex drive is completely gone. Not that sex was really that great to begin with. Men really are useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:49 AM
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I wish that this could be the reality. But it's just not...most men hate sex workers in a deep, nasty way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:31 PM
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It's sad but also men will see any form of touch from a female (women AND girls, including mothers and sisters) as sexual. And they don't want touch from men because that's "gay". They cause their own problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:32 PM
65

Boyfriend...our bank account...I'm dying inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:48 PM
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Men haven't even mastered vanilla sex and want to move onto BDSM and kink. The decline in sexual desire is due to cheap sex (porn, hookups, over-sexualization) and trash sex. Women don't feel desired, we feel objectified. We don't feel pleasure, our bodies are used for pleasure. In this age of "sex positivity" we are so constantly bombarded with sexual imagery that we don't realize that we are out of touch with sensuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:53 PM
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Same. I love cleaning videos and deep cleaning, but if sis is feeling so generous she should go clean for an old person, disabled person, single mom, or someone struggling with mental health. Don't waste your energy on tinder scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:38 PM
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I think it's really weird if a guy is grossed out by periods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:02 AM
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I agree. And raise the minimum age to 21, no more teen porn. In fact make teen porn category illegal so men stop sexualizing minors. Also step-anything, forced, desperate, or other predatory categories. (My ex said he liked desperate porn, where the girls didn't have any money for a taxi and needed to fuck a guy to make it home safely)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:52 PM
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If they ban the manosphere they'll come for us because "FDS is just as bad".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:45 PM
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Yesssss love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:42 PM
36

The real question is can we write off ONS on our tax returns 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:08 AM
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Read the bottom, it's more of a pass/fail test than bonus good boy points lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:38 PM
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Good one! I've even seen ear smegma outside the ear canal 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:06 AM
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My phone doesn't let me delete blocked numbers. I have to add them to contacts to block, blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:27 PM
297

Expecting a man to pay on a date isn't "feminist" but encouraging women to degrade themselves sexually for a man's pleasure (for free and for pay) is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:29 AM
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Negging is low value behavior from either gender. But what you're doing isn't negging- it's playing around. Negging is purposefully trying to knock down someone's self esteem for your own advantage, usually sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:36 PM
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Small example but one of the Patron Saints of FDS, Qveen Herby, is 35 this year. This woman is beautiful, vibrant, and her career is popping off! 25 is barely the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:11 PM
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I'm 23 years old. Men over 30 are gross lol. Their testosterone drops 1% every year thereafter. They've hit the wall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:32 PM
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Adoption will always be an option for me, I WILL have children WHEN I'm ready and not before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:16 PM
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Yessss I can't wait to hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:13 PM
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Women are objects to men. They always talk about in dehumanizing ways. "Used" like she's an appliance and he wants a "brand new" one. We never think of men as being "used up" by a certain age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:31 PM
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Oh boy and here we see the root of men's projection. They use US but try to turn it around like we use THEM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:53 PM
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Oh no...now men will know how expensive it is to actually have a baby! These clowns really think they're funding a woman's "lifestyle" with their measly $400 a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:29 PM
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Greenwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:27 PM
188

I remember when he was a kid everyone would shit on him for being "girly". Make fun of him, call him a bitch/girl, emasculate him. Now that's an abusive piece of shit no one says anything...because he's performing masculinity perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:23 PM
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Ashamed to say my father is like this. Love him, but he doesn't really clean :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:22 PM
228

Is this a 14 year old boy? Scrotes are always so emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:06 PM
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‘Her demeanour and service was just too shoddy… gave me a thoroughly uninterested blowjob. Every now and then she came up for air and moved her jaw from side to side, rubbing her face and scowling… I asked if she licked balls… whereby she reacted as if to feign being sick and said “No”. By this point her obvious desire to end the encounter had pissed me off totally… She… proceeded to tell me an extremely sad personal tale… She looked like she was going to cry, but soldiered on… I felt like crap,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:42 PM
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Hm... that last part makes me think this woman is made up for reddit points lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:27 PM
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Reminder that now it's your responsibility to teach yourself those things as an adult. You shouldn't feel shame but you should fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:23 PM
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Ok so I'm gonna say it. If a man can't keep going after he cums, he has a weak ass dick. My boyfriend doesn't have any problems staying up lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:21 PM
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Hi! Bisexual here , low sex drive, no threesomes, no anal, no cheating. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:35 PM
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Hm. 14 years of marriage but using Gen Z incel speak... I call bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:46 PM
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Women shouldn't drink *with men*. Men are our only predators, in a world without them we'd be so much safer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:47 PM
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My boyfriend (who is a physical therapist so he actually understands muscular anatomy unlike your average scrote) says he's never felt a "loose vagina". He says it doesn't make sense that having sex would make a woman loose. He also has an above average dick so you know, small dick scrotes can stay bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:18 AM
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Omg I didn't know it could taint the air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:11 AM
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Holy shit. We do care about sex workers. We want them to be safe, happy, and healthy AWAY from sex work which actively hurts them! We don't think a woman's value decreases through sex work but men do. That's why we advocate against libfem bullshit like "Sex work is work" and "Porn is empowering" because it's NOT. Men will just use these women and throw them away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:12 AM
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Hopefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:08 AM
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It's a puzzle where you date and try to fuck anime girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:04 AM
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Nooooo I loved Dan from GameGrumps! Why does every man have to be shitty ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:59 AM
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I might be a pedophile but at least I'm not RUDE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:52 AM
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I think I look my age (23) but I've been told that I "act younger". People usually place me around 19/20. I guess others perceive me as naïve or ditsy...don't really know how to fix that. Another weird thing is when I tell them my real age they will act surprised and say "Oh well you look great!" Am I supposed to be decrepit at 23??? Is this a neg or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:33 PM
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No inner labia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:19 PM
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Let me guess, he was obsessed with loli innies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:58 PM
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The podcast just started lol. It takes a while for platforms to get off the ground and even longer to make good amounts of money. And the endgame...is probably to make money doing WORK? The women doing the podcast are working to give us content so of course there should be an option to support them monetarily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:09 PM
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Hi wackdemarco's ex! You're a limp dick loser and we're glad you were stupid enough to lead her to us! Keep lurking scrote ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:44 PM
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It's the the drugs that's the issue, it's what the drug represents. It's not the abuse that's the issue, it's what the abuse represents. It's not the gambling that's the issue, it's what the gambling represents. WHAT DOES IT REPRESENT???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:40 PM
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Maybe these men should stop being sl*ts and learn to keep their legs closed. I don't want to pay for the baby they're gonna abandon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:39 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:10 AM
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I live in Florida where we are known for our hot weather and classy locals (/s). I hear men talking about "swamp ass" every damn day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:09 AM
9

I need to know what this is I wanna watch it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:06 AM
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This sounds like human trafficking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:02 AM
8

Tik Tok link didn't work for me so here's the full video on Youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:13 PM
8

Reminds me of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:30 PM
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I love it already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:07 PM
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It's so ridiculously misogynistic that's it's not even offensive anymore, it's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:03 PM
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I wonder how many of these men have tried treating their wives with love and kindness, doing chores around the house, telling her she's beautiful, and eating her out for more than 5 minutes. If you want your wife to have sex with you MAKE HER CUM! Common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:37 PM
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FDS has really opened my eyes. Every bad thing men say about women is projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:47 PM
158

Men really are fucking stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:27 AM
14

College campuses, bar bathrooms, high schools, planned parenthood, churches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:24 AM
82

I've been going through this recently. I want to dress more feminine and interesting but then I'm worried men will stare at my body and I want to hide it. I wish I could live in an all female country lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:46 PM
32

Men are pathetic lol. This is so cringe with his little tiger intro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:31 PM
139

DUMP HER! THat succu-bitch is taking advantage of this poor, defenseless man by coloring her hair. SHe KNOWS he has a fetish for red hair and she exploited his weakness by LYING to him!! How is he supposed to fantasize about fucking his daughters if they don't inherit red hair??? SHe was probably after his 40k salary, rented townhouse, and 2007 Toyota Camry. This man dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:39 PM
28

Won't someone think of the men!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:49 PM
40

Well women are going to read the article and come here to gawk at the novelty of a "female redpill" only to realize that's not what we are. Our sub will just keep growing. Also throwing around the word TERF because the FDS twitter account retweeted Julie Bindel talking about a RAPE CASE. Fuck you Dominique with your dishonest bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:03 PM
23

My plan is for my husband to support us and pay for my PhD while I'm raising the kids. After that I'm a working mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:17 AM
544

The core message behind it all? Men are “braindead” and “ass garbage” Why did this make me laugh so hard lmao. ETA: The automatic banning from FDS for participating in certain subs is to protect us. I was banned on one of my first FDS accounts for commenting in / mensrights. I was NOT agreeing with them but I still got banned. I was a little butthurt at first but then I realized it's the easiest way to keep this sub safe from troll accounts. It's not personal and I'm pretty sure the mods don't h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:36 AM
8

Never going back to wire bras. EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:03 PM
13

I'm sorry I thought God made marriage to be a "sacred bond" between a man and a woman, not broken till death. Divorce weight?? How Christian of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:54 PM
13

I'll date her, she sounds like my dream woman! She's fun, social, and smart. But of course he wants to keep fucking her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:39 PM
25

I don't understand the controversy of wanting to protect children that are still in HIGH SCHOOL. Having the age of consent any lower doesn't make any sense. Idk how anyone could justify allowing grown men to predate on someone who still rides the bus to school. Fucking weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:35 PM
113

"These degrading acts". There it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:28 PM
38

Damn that upvote percentage. The scrotes are pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:21 AM
5

Omg he's so basic. Lion pictures and super hero figurines are like the male Live Laugh Love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:16 PM
202

"You're responsible for your own orgasm." Ok. I don't want you hit, slap or choke me. I don't want to be jackhammered for 5 minutes. I want a half hour of foreplay (at least), lube, head, a vibrator/proper clitoral stimulation, and gentle grinding until I cum. "No Not like that!! Let me simulate porn using your body!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:00 PM
85

Oh but I thought men didn't benefit from marriage? It makes them miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:49 PM
44

I have seen the most Olympic level mental gymnastics from religious men when it comes to adultery " Nowhere in all the Bible is a married man called an adulterer simply because he is emotionally intimate or sexually intimate with a woman not his wife... In other words, based on the Biblical definition of an adulterer, a married man who has sex with an unmarried woman is NOT an adulterer, but rather he is a whoremonger. A married man can only be labeled as an adulterer if he has sex with another …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:55 PM
10

While I've been attracted to all of my boyfriends, only one would be considered a chad. And he was better to me than the average looking dodos before him. Most women date average looking men, men on average just tend to be shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:40 PM
40

Hmmm I thought women's beauty peaked in their teens...perhaps are they talking about girls that are a little younger...? They want girls that look as far away from adulthood as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:27 AM
82

BACKPAGE?! YOu mean the the site that trafficked thousands of underaged (and adult) girls?! I just had a fucking aneurism from this libfem bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:13 PM
16

Oh duh. I live under a rock lol, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:54 AM
53

Could you please explain who this woman is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:46 AM
130

Thank you for explaining. He looks like Appalachian white trash to me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:55 PM
5

I looked up a review and... However, it did give me a fulfilling orgasm in a manner that felt like oral sex but did not trigger any bad memories, and I didn't have to deal with anxious thoughts such as, "Are they bored down there yet?" or, "It's been like 20 minutes, I'm scared they're tired, should I fake it?" I also didn't find myself worrying whether my vagina looked pretty or not. God damn why do we need men again? That perfectly sums up my oral sex experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:53 PM
24

My father is a professor at a university and he's told me about the sexism he notices in the workplace. When covid started the program director asked him to do all kinds of paperwork, tracking students, and online extras and my dad just said no (he's old and already struggles with the online format, he didn't want to stress himself out). They accepted his answer and never bothered him again. His female colleagues asked him how the hell he keeps up with all the extra shit because they're drowning…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:41 PM
65

Of course they mean just for them. Because their penis is the center of the universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:24 PM
38

EXACTLY. Men want to spoil women. My boyfriend is about to start a job making good money and he's told me that he wouldn't know what to spend it on if he didn't have me lol. My mom always told me that men love taking care of women but I never believed it because of all the misogynists out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:18 PM
126

Seriously. Wow you're stronger than a woman, your only biological advantage. That's so impressive. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:03 PM
143

You're right sir, NOT ALL MEN are like that. But you definitely are. Congratulations you fit in with the 99%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:55 PM
1

Men's dating advice: manipulate women in anyway you can to get what you want. FDS dating advice: If he doesn't treat you right block and delete. And somehow we're the toxic ones???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:58 PM
34

He stopped touching his peepee for a month! If that doesn't work, nothin will. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:04 PM
48

And that's why I'll only hook up with women. Males ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:56 PM
31

Got into an argument with pickmes on Pinterest over this. It was a picture of a god awful, ugly pearl ring. The woman was upset over how "unlike her" it was. It was a hand-me-down from his grandmother that he pulled out of his pocket! Everyone in the comments shitting on her calling her ungrateful and spoiled. I stood up for her saying that if a man is going to propose to a woman he needs to get her a ring that she LIKES. Annnnd the pickme wrath turns towards me. Girls are falling all over thems…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:13 PM
305

Someone likes feet = weird but not hurting anyone. Someone likes sexual sadism= fucking gross and disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:59 PM
53

It satisfied me too. In the relationship I would reach out all the time and he would ignore me. Even when we lived together. He'd go out to the bar till 2am, letting all my calls go to voicemail and ignoring texts asking where he is. He always had the control. After the breakup I never blocked and just deleted him because my phone saves blocked numbers and I couldn't trust myself not to text him. 2 years later I'm getting texts from his number. "Hi" "Hey..." "You should have done it..." (I have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:58 PM
45

Wtf is Vag Day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:28 PM
165

It's not sexy at all. I hear guts and I think cheesy gorey slasher movies. Or like...poop lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:28 PM
198

Why don't men understand this? Women are leaving because you're all fucking insufferable!! But instead they whine and cry about how women aren't "loyal". Women bad, Men victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 05:46 PM
124

Men shouldn't be allowed to work with children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:53 PM
446

Opening with a neg. Classic scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:25 PM
16

Exactly, WHO wears thongs everyday?? Girl get on that 100% cotton granny panty life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:03 PM
12

AH-MAZING response. You're my inspiration for my next breakup lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:29 PM
24

The thing about him is he's able to argue his position without getting "emotional". His philosophy is bullshit and the parts that aren't he just repackaged age old advice to appeal to dudebros. But men are so stupid they think the person who remains emotionless in a debate is the LoGiCaL one. They eat up his monotone bullshit without actually listening to what he's saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:59 PM
74

TRUTH. By convincing girls that female-ness is bad and handing out brownie points for being "not like other girls" men are dividing us. They isolate the girls desperate for male attention so they can't get advice and wisdom from other women. They turn to their pack of pickmes to discredit the women who speak up. They thrive when women tear each other down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:49 PM
2

I noticed a couple scrotes in the new posts. Reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:32 PM
7

Here's a resource that shows the diversity of vulvas among women. I always thought I had ridiculously large labia but it turns out that I'm smack in the middle of normal! And here's the website with more information. NSFW obviously lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:47 PM
107

Father is playing a sports video game. Loses, gets mad, breaks ($300) controller, kid starts crying, father shoves the kid out of the chair then yells "Shut the fuck up!!" in kid's face. Edit: He got banned from Twitch and (allegedly) his wife kicked him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:08 AM
54

Oh my god if a mom said that people would tear her apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:59 PM
38

It's so hard to accept your body when it's not the standard or even seen as "gross". I'm still trying to talk myself out of a labiaplasty. I guess it's a good thing I don't have the money because I'd do it right now if I could :/ It's so annoying that men are judging the appearance of our vulvas now! (Thanks porn). Literally every square inch of the female body under scrutiny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:42 PM
626

Men squirt every time during sex, imagine asking a guy not to cum because you don't want to clean up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:35 AM
44

I think it's great that you posted that quote. A man who specializes in domestic abuse writing about abusive men's conspiracy (justification for hating women) published almost 20 years ago. It shows just how delusional they are. The "redpill" is nothing new and was debunked before it even took hold on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:01 PM
56

I hate porn and tv sex. I don't want to perform while I'm having sex goddammit! I don't want to be called broken if I don't act like the girls faking it on screen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:34 PM
20

I looked up Laci Greene and it seems she doesn't really have any. A BS in education and pursuing a PhD in public health. Her videos started out as a hobby and got so popular that people just started inviting her to speak at events. I guess if you act like you're an expert people will believe you. I will say that Laci's videos on body image helped me as a teenager. I learned about birth control, vagina health, vulva diversity and slut-shaming from her. This was around 2012 though and I didn't wat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:27 PM
54

They think they can make it all the way to mod status. Then FDS will really be in trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:48 PM
168

Women's "good enough": takes care of the entire family by meeting their physical and emotional needs without driving herself crazy. Men's "good enough": exists with penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:47 PM
138

This has GOT to be a normal boyfriend/girlfriend couple with fake text over it...right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:48 PM
60

I don't understand why men are so weak. Why are they so afraid a women having power?? I don't think we're scary at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:54 PM
27

Dealing with your childhood trauma by continuing to mentally abuse yourself, engaging in self destructive behavior, cutting yourself, eating disorders...oh wait. Society agrees you need therapy to STOP these behaviors and lead a normal, fulfilling life. How is it therapeutic fetishize your own sexual abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:22 PM
8

I don't like coffee and I don't drink so what the fuck we supposed to do on a low effort date? Take me for a walk? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:11 PM
5

Men who shit on single mothers are undateable. If I hear a man ever say anything about single moms he's DONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:09 PM
109

Lord help whatever boy decides to mess with my future daughters. I will turn into the most psycho mama bear out for blood. I will ruin his life by making sure his actions are punished harshly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:11 AM
33

Lol his fertility is already in decline. I think your "prime" starts in your 30's. You've matured, you know who you are, you're starting to make good money. You can still have a child. Or not. Or adopt. Who the fuck cares? A woman isn't defined by her reproductive capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:29 AM
60

I looked up that subreddit and only the F4M get any replies lmao. Dozens of M4F posts with zero comments. (Cheating is trash for any gender- don't do it just break up)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:52 PM
20

Men are lucky we want equality and not revenge. Seriously. Think about how much worse it could be if we wanted to truly reverse gender roles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:35 PM
10

I don't know if he could sue her for glitter here but in cases where women destroy cars, clothes, etc they definitely can. It will only make her look crazy to other people. This is coming from someone who did petty things after a guy cheated (so no judgement). Everyone will just focus on your actions instead of his. Edit for spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:56 PM
40

As satisfying as you may think revenge is in the moment, it's so much better to leave quietly and with dignity. Don't give them the chance to ruin your character (or sue you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:34 PM
19

I bet he expects her to swallow though, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:35 PM
37

The men that "peak" at 50 are all rich and have very prestigious social status/power. And you know that's what the young women are after. Sir you're just an inconvenience to be tolerated for your wallet. A random 50 year old is not attractive and never will be lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:23 PM
38

IDK if it's because I wasn't one of the cool kids and was out of the loop but when I was in high school (2012-2016) it was unheard of for a girl to date an older guy and brag about it. In fact we would be squicked out by senior guys going for freshmen girls, we thought it was predatory. I'm hoping that's the way teenage girl culture is heading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:03 PM
199

Men seem to always have a problem with drugs! My female friends that smoke are normal, highly functioning adults and DON'T GET HIGH ALL DAY EVERYDAY. But most men get lazy and unmotivated. They have such addictive personalities. I'm also weary of drinkers. I don't drink and I say it whenever people (men) offer it to me and 5 minutes later they're bringing me another drink! They think it's normal to get drunk every weekend and show up to work hungover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:08 PM
45

I took that movie to mean that men are biologically flawed and should not be trusted with science.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:48 PM
11

Oh yah. If I have to interact with a chronic pickme I just keep my mouth shut. It's not worth the drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:16 AM
45

And I bet he's on some men's forum complaining about how his bitch wife took the kids. THIS is why the mother's get custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:05 AM
4

Best advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:54 AM
24

In the same boat. I give advice, they ignore it, they come back and tell me I was right but then ignore my next batch of advice! I don't want to abandon friends but it's getting annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:35 AM
48

Or they'll use sex as actual abuse. Choking, spitting, slapping, hair pulling, rough sex. I've always felt uncomfortable with societies romanticisation of "hate sex" because it's only the girl getting hurt and being degraded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:13 AM
4

I understand that these men are black mailing women but I don't understand what they're using. Are the women asking them to delete their twitter history or...what's rps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:49 AM
8

She's only 2 months in...whyyyyy can't women just leave at the first red flag! Here's a preview of her future: My husband admitted to using prostitutes during our marriage. At first he said it was only one time but it later came out that he went to 12...How can I forgive him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:19 AM
9

Grab a bag...like a party favor? He had a table of these bags? Girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:52 PM
20

It's not for defending them either. Her husband was being lazy, none of those things are hard to do and he just stopped because he thinks it's below him to actually learn. Quit it with the pickme sassy responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:21 PM
19

Why are you here? You know what sub you're in and we're not going to give passes to lazy men. Go whiteknight on r/ mensrights or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:02 PM
23

The woman would be called immature and petty. Wow what a bad mom, you should leave her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:57 PM
152

Belle Delphine is a popular "internet thot" that caters to incels and pedos by dressing like a little girl and spamming memes. She went so far as to get fake braces to look like a preteen/teen. She recently started doing porn. Of course they roasted her for her body (labia) and bad performance. Catering to men never pays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:07 AM
11

Supreme pickme that got dumped on her 29th birthday after shitting on older women for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:43 PM
34

Annnnnd the scrotes are gonna screenshot this and think it represents all of FDS. This is literally like MGTOW viewing women as sub human, it's not cool. Ignoring them is the best option- take no shit but do no harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:47 PM
25

Somebody send this to r/ cottagecore I think they're gonna love it lol. I wish I grew up there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:21 PM
41

And perpetuating the toxic idea that men can use mentally damaged/unstable women for sex- and it's ok! Cause she's crazy and you wanted your peepee wet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:18 AM
376

Certain men will always think that sexy=barely legal porn teen. There isn't "a wall" it's just pornsick men not wanting to fuck you anymore which I personally see as a win. Let the scrotes screech and furiously fap their way to erectile dysfunction, they're out of the dating pool anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:47 AM
23

This is why you always have to be ready to walk. The best way to handle the situation (if you want to give him a chance) is to express yourself calmly and if he doesn't change his behavior then walk away with grace. It's so much better to leave with your dignity in tact than to stay and let your feelings fester, to cry/stress over him only to be labeled a "crazy, controlling girlfriend". And don't ever listen to pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:31 PM
56

"Don't worry honey, your future husband will buy you G cups" Is that a neg?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:50 PM
67

This is true, another reason to avoid slutty men and demand commitment. Also (if you can) get the HPV vaccine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:10 PM
158

You can and will catch STDs through oral sex- It's NOT safe sex! Don't touch anyone's genitals without commitment and a test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:03 PM
7

"It'S nOt NaTuRaL". No you fucking idiots, forced life long monogamy isn't natural. Murdering women and girls over their virginity isn't natural. Keeping women as slaves isn't natural. Y'all invented marriage so that you could pass on your shitty fucking genes, you're ugly incels because your ancestors were coomers that were never meant to reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:11 PM
21

Sounds like a couple of teenagers. I cannot imagine putting up with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:03 PM
7

We pay more attention to detail, we see more shades of colors and we have a lower threshold for disgust. Men need to step it the fuck up, I'm a visual creature and I am disgusted by modern males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:36 PM
4

Going through this with my friend too. She's meeting up with her first "love" after spending 2 years crying to me about how he cheated on her, disrespected her, gave her an eating disorder, and ghosted her. I tried to talk her out of it but she got snippy with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:34 PM
13

I hate that the definition of sexy is to look as close to an 18 year old porn star as possible. As women age our beauty ages with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:30 PM
34

I think it's an age thing too. Not saying that there aren't fuckboys of all ages (there for sure are) but my high school and undergrad boyfriends would guard their phones with their lives while my 25+ boyfriend acts just like this. I will never date a younger man again, gotta wait for that brain development.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:33 AM
8

I've been looking for something like this because in person therapy is just not working for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:32 PM
36

Ladies can we agree that it would be the utilitarian thing to string this guy up by his balls and leave him to die? Since it would bring us much more happiness than his existence brings to the world :) What as stupid fucking argument. I hate when men think they're smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:18 PM
3

"And if it's not you...then MOVE ON!" There. Fixed it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:26 AM
14

He just looks mean. My skin is crawling yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:20 AM
40

I think it's a combination of movies and porn that gives people a warped sense of what being a teenager/young adult is supposed to like. It's not wild parties and hot girls begging for your dick 24/7, it's just normal life. If he saw a therapist he could get past this and be happy but he's too obsessed with "18-22 year old" pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:17 AM
73

Oh boo fucking hoo. I never got to have those things either because I was undiagnosed ASD/ADHD until 22. But I'm not whining about all the young dick I missed out on or how I never went to parties or clubs. Males are so fucking entitled and immature. It's always the end of the world with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:26 PM
11

Lol this one made my boyfriend laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:55 PM
7

Go get a weighted vest you fucking weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:46 PM
26

She should just shit on his floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:50 AM
17

And who can forget the wonderful Lingerie Football League where women in skimpy outfits played football for male viewing pleasure without getting paid (In fact THEY paid to be in the league) and without medical coverage. And men still didn't give a fuck about them past being meat barbies. Fucking embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:13 PM
15

It's not hard to make a woman orgasm!!! Stop spreading this misogynistic myth!! Men are just fucking lazy and selfish. You're just giving them a pass. "Well I tried but who among us can unlock the mysteries of the female orgasm? Ok back to sucking my dick". If he can't make you cum with his dick then he needs to use his hands or tongue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:40 PM
-2

I find it odd that you've already had a vacation together and sleepovers but aren't willing to let him reschedule a date when it's about his kid. This doesn't sound like the early stage of dating and you have kids too so I don't get the problem? I think when you're dating with kids both sides deserve a little slack because your own child always comes first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:20 AM
92

Yes! I hope pickmes see this and realize that they aren't cool independent girls that men respect, they're naïve doormats that men use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:36 PM
11

This is what the next few generations of older women are going to look like. No granny haircuts or attitudes lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:37 PM
97

Yup! They always assume (a) You're insecure! (Nope I'm confident in my body and never cared when my exes watched porn) or (b) You're a religious prude! (Also nope, atheist since birth). I learned about the abuse of women in the porn industry, how the industry profits off of human trafficking/revenge porn, how porn has seeped into mainstream sex, the influence it has on men's views of women and last and least important: how it affects men's boners. That's why I don't support porn :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:29 AM
118

Thank you for spreading the good word lol. I used to think porn was ok. Now I know that it's poisoning generations of men (and women) and I won't tolerate it in a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:11 AM
30

Literally had a guy weave in and out of cars at 100 mph on the highway in MY CAR. When I begged him to stop he got mad at me and ignored me the rest of the drive. I now avoid any man that speeds more than 10 over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:04 AM
40

Mhmm. My mom's high school boyfriend of six months came back after 17 YEARS right after he got divorced. She was divorced too and just laughed in his face. It's men who are scared to die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:08 AM
76

DUIs are a deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:49 AM
410

I had an ex with delayed ejaculation from jerking it to porn too much. Didn't know what was wrong with him until I found this sub. They try to hide it or blame it on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:48 AM
23

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion but if you're not ready to get your SOs bodily fluids on you (when they're sick/need to be taken care of) you shouldn't get married to them. It's in sickness and health love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:14 PM
66

Yah a lot of nerve endings that are supposed to feel really painful when hit because "Hey idiot! These nuts contain your entire fucking purpose in life! Don't fuck it up!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:02 PM
49

They're acting like they're being preyed upon by 13 year old girls. It's apparently too much for them to verify the age of a girl they want to sexually abuse while knowing full well the consequences for not doing so. Perverts. Here's a tip scrotes: don't engage sexually with a girl you don't know! Stop being sluts and maybe this won't happen to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:18 PM
98

Literally once covid is over I'm going to date women to see if men are even worth it anymore (my hypothesis is no lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:43 AM
88

A strong man is never intimidated by a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:51 AM
18

She's saying more research would go into solving the problems if it was male centric. Which is true, female centric problems receive less funding and attention (female sexual dysfunction, endometriosis, PMDD, urinary incontinence, etc). But oh boy does Viagra and it's competitors receive a lot of attention and funding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:56 PM
47

Don't you know that men are allowed to have a preference for every minute part of a woman's body but women have to take whatever penis walks towards them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:54 PM
379

Lmao that's something I'd do for a CHILD. Girls are really out here treating their boyfriends like babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:23 PM
40

They would greenlight Vaselgel (already developed but not approved). It's like a temporary vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:52 PM
11

Exactly what I was thinking! Why should Amy trust her SIL's boyfriend?? She doesn't know him, he's not committed to the family and he's a man! I honestly wouldn't be comfortable leaving my baby alone with my BIL's girlfriend. She's not part of the family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:22 PM
47

Ugh the difference between LVM and HVM is how they share their wealth. LVM use it to trap and control women, HVM use it to spoil and pamper the woman they love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:16 PM
47

Lol ok bye then. Men really think they're the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:11 PM
104

That's why he's so passive aggressive. Chihuahua syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:46 AM
64

I hate hearing men laugh like that. It's always at some dumb, sexist or gross shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:43 AM
7

An abortion is not a casual thing. It costs money (average $500, money that 63% of Americans don't have ) and it can physically and emotionally painful. Or it's childbirth. Men wouldn't have to go through any of that, just sign the dotted line and all responsibility is absolved! And the child still exists. It needs to be taken care of and giving a fraction of what it costs to raise a child is the least they can do after a woman lets them pass on their subpar scrote genes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:20 PM
20

Casting couch. It's a popular porn category where girls "interview" for porn by fucking the producers on the couch. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:37 PM
5

Proof that survival skills are learned and anyone can do it. Men seem to think that they're born with built in Bear Grylls instincts and women are naturally incompetent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:44 PM
10

“Female Chauvinist Pigs" Perfect addition to my growing radical feminist book collection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:11 PM
43

Seriously breakingmom has been the biggest redpill for me. I need to take dating seriously for me and my kids happiness and health. Idc if that hurts LVM and pickme feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:40 PM
5

I'm glad I peaked. I would just tell them to shut the fuck up and dump the boyfriend. Easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:20 PM
230

Turned to my boyfriend and asked "Would you stay with a woman that never made you orgasm during sex for 7 years and marry her?" He said no. No man would ever ever ever put up with that! So why should we?! I'm so sick of the lie society tells women that not orgasming is normal or some women are just "anorgasmic". Fuck that, most men just suck at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:52 PM
2

Just fantasize in your fucking head! You don't need to look at videos of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:34 PM
61

That sounds wonderful but there would still be men trying to invade our spaces. They would do the thing and then sue if we didn't let them in. They're already doing it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:21 PM
14

Ohh like escorts and sugar babies? Damn I'm glad this app exists then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:42 PM
14

How can that app know if someone has paid for sex? I don't think most prostitutes ask for your phone number...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:33 PM
73

Are you talking about this article? Meanwhile, illegal brothels are on the increase in Nevada, as they are in other parts of the world where brothels are legalized. Nevada's illegal prostitution industry is already nine times greater than the state's legal brothels. "Legalizing this industry does not result in the closing down of illegal sex establishments," says Farley, "it merely gives them further permission to exist." LeGaL sEx WoRk sToPs HuMan TrAfFiCkInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:28 PM
7

Who wants a 45 year old new dad anyway? I want the father of my kids to be healthy and strong, an active participant in their lives. Not an old scrote that breaks his back trying to pick up a toddler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:04 PM
34

Elliot Rodger. He killed 7 students because he couldn't get a girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:49 PM
22

And they're already warning others to download their favorite rape videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:40 PM
4

Can confirm. If a girl and your boyfriend are "close" (I love yous, tight hugging, flirting) there is something going on. Ex's friend and him were just soooo close, they've been through a lot together! Found her nudes on his phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:00 PM
47

I'm guessing that man doesn't have any sisters. Or a mom. Or female friends. Or a brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:22 PM
3

Boy moms need to stop saying shit like that. It's creepy and weird. Do you think she'd say her daughter was flirting with the nurses? No because it's gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:58 PM
3

The babysitters should be payed double since apparently they're so invaluable in protecting men from their own stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:28 PM
6

Ummm.... kids, wife, parents is the right order. Reminds me of when my ex gave me a scenario "You're forced to shoot your kids or your husband, who do you shoot?" I said husband before he even finished his sentence. He said "Damn that's cold. I'd shoot the kids cause we can always make more". If a man shot my kids in front of me (so he could continue to fuck me) he wouldn't be my husband anymore, he'd be dead. Really advertising what great dads they'd be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:07 PM
23

Yuuuuuuuuuuuup. "I want a threesome and I want you to find the girls and do all the work setting it up. Go forth my sex booking agent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:38 PM
4

Like normal teenage boys mostly. Some below average in attractiveness but none of them pained me to look at. Some were attractive and obviously had other reasons they were incels, probably social awkwardness or porn sickness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:21 PM
16

Probably <20
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:59 PM
3

Agreed! At the very least the age of consent for pornography should be 20 or higher. No more teen porn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:02 PM
37

I lurked on r/ incelselfies to see what they looked like. In the comments I saw a woman begging for attention and giving them validation. She was married and a mother of 4 apparently, wasting her time catering to incels. It went as you'd expect, they harassed her calling her fat, ugly, wh*re, b*tch, c*nt, going to her DMs, trying to dox her. Like girl...why?? You have a family and a life why are you babying teenage incels at 35 years old??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:46 PM
24

But why are you turned on by the thought of having sex with a child in the first place? Even if it's just "roleplay". They can never come up with a good answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:39 PM
26

Yup. Ensuring even the most genetically undesirable males get to reproduce and keeping that choice from women. When men bitch about "the current state of dating" we're actually going back to how NATURE intended it to be lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:35 PM
3

That makes sense. I wasn't saying that other races aren't sexist (obviously they are) but when I see black dating gurus online it's SO openly sexist where other men try to camouflage it. But of course there are openly sexist dating gurus of other races too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:57 AM
1

Whyyyyyy are black men so openly misogynistic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:40 PM
10

Had to look him up (was not expecting a white surfer boy). Typical pretty fuck boy and I don't get the hype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:44 PM
9

First time was coerced. A lot of sexual encounters have been. But you bring it up to them they say "But you can say no!" then you do say no and they throw a fit or keep asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:07 PM
32

I'm pretty sure that guy messaged me too. Don't remember what he said since all the incel barking sounds the same but goes to show he's a big fan of FDS lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:16 PM
26

Why can't they leave Laci Green alone. She takes one tentative step outside of sex positive liberal feminism and she's attacked. Just goes to show that feminist men think they own you too..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:59 PM
24

If you weren't a single mom they'd find some other reason to hate you. Men like that are just misogynistic and not worth interacting with (nothing drives a man more crazy than ignoring his hatred lol so take some satisfaction in that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:33 PM
73

MEN DESERVE LOVE EVEN IF THEY DONT RECIPROCATE IT!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:31 AM
16

I'm crying over that girl's story. I wish so much that I could go back to high school and stand by the girls that go through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:20 AM
9

Comphet. She married so young whether she was 11 or 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:23 PM
15

I have noticed a difference in the mothers. Mothers of only boys treated me like shit. Never referring to me by name only "that girl" or "the girl". I wasn't allowed inside one mother's house so if I wanted to see her son I had to sit in the GARAGE with him (in the Florida summer heat). Made fun of my appearance or mannerisms (too twiggy too quiet). Mothers with daughters wanted to get to know me and be my friend. The sisters were also nice and friendly. So much nicer. The sons could go either w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:07 PM
12

And the scrotes lurking will misinterpret this as jealousy 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:48 PM
13

SIMP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:21 PM
7

Exactly! We even have a separate dedicated subreddit for self-improvement. But they don't like it cause we aren't morphing into Stepford sex dolls for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:16 PM
13

I agree with others that pickme is not a very diplomatic word. People have very emotional reactions to it and disregard everything else we say. There's an impression that FDS hates pickmes which is extrapolated into FDS hates women with different opinions. We don't hate pickmes, we were one once and we don't blame most of them. We discuss and criticize the actions but not the person. It does not come from a place of hatred or malice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:21 AM
11

I will never understand how a woman could place a man above her children. Brainwashed I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:09 AM
3

Ah yes brings me back to my days in a southern high school. Teenage boys spitting their dirty dip onto the concrete between classes then turning around and expecting us to swoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:04 AM
9

As usual, ALL the violence and abuse paid for online are done by men One mother talked about setting her infant on fire for a couple of hundred dollars That mother set her baby on fire for money. That's disgusting I don't care how poor you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:54 PM
60

That's why women need their own spaces. In a supposedly "neutral" or "centrist" space men will always take over and spread their misogyny. Suddenly TRP and MGTOWs are a just little mean but they aren't hurting anyone- and some of the things they say are just objectively true! Can't argue with ScIeNcE. Don't be so sensitive. But yah sometimes they go too far I agree-see I'm neutral! But pinkpillfeminism and FDS are misandrist breeding grounds strategizing how to most effectively ruin a man's life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:18 PM
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Would a man ever ask this? No. He'd leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:05 PM
12

Also no repairs and a rat problem. Dick Durbin has a net worth of $1.3 million (not to mention all the dirty money politicians get under the table). They can absolutely afford it, instead they choose to keep it a crack den. Probably to "relive" their glory days in college. Ew. It's honestly embarrassing to show our politicians like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:59 PM
15

Don't they just pocket the rest? They get $174,000 a year. These men are rich and choose to live like animals. And they're proud of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:35 PM
7

That's what a depressed woman's house looks like not a single woman's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:24 PM
48

Men are 230 times more likely to be raped than falsely accused of rape. Y'all should be scared with us not of us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:16 PM
8

I hated how she reconnected with that man (who raped her? It was left unclear) from the beginning. He was the one that triggered her spiral where she tries to numb herself with alcohol and sex. They made it seem like it was sweet, serendipitous even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:54 PM
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fumble the bag by sleeping with him or attempting a reconciliation and accidentally condoning the affair Does the court consider that evidence of condoning an affair? Could it affect a woman trying to get a divorce and fair settlement? Cause that's fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:42 PM
4

I asked her when I was younger- I was in a scarcity mindset and thought men like that were in short supply and I could never find one. She told me she meets them everywhere. When I'd go out with her to shops, bars, restaurants men would approach just to have a conversation with her. Honestly she got hit on more than me as a young 21 year old and that's why I'm not afraid to age. Here I am "In My Prime (ugh)" and my mother's getting more attention! She said it's about the energy you put out (she'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:18 PM
27

It's a funny show but every single character is an asshole, and it's supposed to be obvious. Men really have such daddy issues that they'll idolize any male character lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:58 AM
15

Yup. My mom is in her 40's, has been dating rich men since her 30s and has turned down many marriage proposals (some man offered to pay her daughters' tuitions just to get married to her lol). She will never get married again but she still enjoys dating. Biggest fucking cope- just because porn sick men only want to jerk off to 18 year olds doesn't mean other men don't find older women attractive and worthy of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:10 AM
8

Yah no. This is an 18 year old kid that hasn't even finished high school. Moderators need to remove this, it's just hating on a kid with no evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:02 AM
30

These reddit bros are so fucking ignorant of history. In hunter gatherer times women provided 80% of the food for the tribe, men supplemented with hunting and most of the time they were not successful. Women invented agriculture and worked in the fields along side men, men just called themselves the "breadwinners" when women contributed to survival JUST AS MUCH. When society became more and more "civilized" men pushed women out of positions of power and influence, again women worked too and not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:53 PM
102

BuT tHEy'Re lEgAl AdUlTs!!!! Dressed like a "teenager" in a childish pink bedroom with stuffed animals on her bed. Pigtails, little girl underwear, and a baby princess shirt, they're made to look like children with tits. And the titles are "Barely legal teen" "Daddy's little girl" "Virgin gets fucked for the first time" "Step sister sucks my dick". It's fetishizing CHILDREN using women's bodies because CP is illegal. It's the closest they can get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:32 PM
6

The older you get the larger the margin can be. It's not predatory for a 50 year old to date a 40 year old but it is for a 30 year old to date a 20 year old. I agree that 5 years is a good maximum for those under 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:58 AM
48

My new classy response to "You can't take a joke".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:58 PM
111

Bitch I'm an Aquarius and I love cuddling. And I'm NOT into watching/being watched. Fuck out of here this is so dumb and harmful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:37 PM
7

He teaches Anatomy and Physiology to students that want to go into the medical field. That's literally their career path and they couldn't guess the doctor's a woman. Shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:32 PM
27

My father told me this one, he uses it on his students to teach them not to make gendered assumptions: A man and his son are on a Sunday drive. They get into a horrible accident where the man dies on the spot but the son is rushed to the hospital. In the operating room the doctor comes through the doors and says "I cannot operate on this boy, he is my son". Who is the doctor? He's said that most people guess it's the dad (that somehow came back to life), his uncle, his "other dad", a liar, all k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:36 AM
51

But also if you fuck up a man's hair he only has like 2 months of grow out...you fuck up a woman's hair and that's 2 YEARS. I'm still crying over my hairstylist fucking up my layers. But I wouldn't cut my boyfriend's hair unless he wanted a buzz. I'm not gonna learn how to style a man's hair, I have enough work to do lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:58 AM
89

Probably jealous that her life is 10x more interesting than his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:52 AM
42

Sexist and racist jokes just aren't funny, they're tired. We've been shitting on POC for hundreds of years and women for what... thousands? It's about as cutting edge as a yo'momma joke. I remember I was at a rodeo with my high school boyfriend and the clown made a really boring joke about women. Something like "What do you do when a woman pulls a knife on you? Pull out some bread her woman instincts will kick in and she'll make you sandwich." The men lost their shit, howling like it was the fun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:08 AM
33

Grow yourself. If I had put even a fraction of work into myself of what I put into loser boyfriends... I'd be much better off rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:15 AM
36

I like etsy. You can find unique, well priced rings on there and it's supporting small businesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:18 PM
24

Oh girl do you think he'd choose you if you were 45? Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:00 PM
156

To me men were never really attractive. Their appeal came from emotional value. Now that FDS revealed to me that most men fake it (or society brainwashed into seeing value where there is none) I don't find them interesting anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:20 PM
7

Yah in another video she literally sounded like a baby. It was so annoying but men find that sexy 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:31 PM
11

I watched the music videos. One of them had heavy suicide imagery. She was pointing guns in her mouth and the ending scene showed her body hanging from a noose...not sure what Youtube's policy is on that stuff but it's definitely worse than WAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:25 PM
3

The link is gone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:06 PM
33

I read them to remind me what's at stake if I accept a LVM. My literally sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:53 PM
45

I think it's that looks for males don't factor into success as much as they do for women. Let's say it's 10% important for men and 80%-90% for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:37 PM
22

Ugh... I wasn't very good at blowjobs when I first started having sex. In fact my boyfriend had never cum from a blowjob before. Did I whine about how it's impossible for me to know what to do? No. I tried different things and read his body not his mind. And I got really good at it and regularly made him cum. Amazing! I can't read minds but I still put in the effort to improve sex for my partner! It's almost as if men could do that too if they really cared...but they don't. Seriously...men are j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:34 PM
6

Unrelated but is there some kind of sorcery related to makeup? I can never get mine to come out that good :( All these young tik tok girls look like goddesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:25 AM
9

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:17 AM
5

Did he ever consider giving her a break? Or is tagging along with his friends supposed to be the highlight of her life. I think both parents should have a life outside of their family but 5 days a week?? He should cut it down to once a week max and hire some help (or do it himself) so she can have some alone time too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:12 AM
8

Ghosting means ignoring you. They disappear without explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:45 AM
56

I already knew who you were going to link lol. The first woman struggles with mental health and I've watched some of her BPD meltdown videos in the past. You can tell that she's desperate to be the cool girl. The second one is an alt-light grifter. She's disingenuous and will say anything to satisfy her conservative male audience. They want a good stay-at-home-but-also-works bangmaid they can boss around without actually taking on the responsibility of being the "man of the house". Conservative …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:55 AM
4

Break the Good Girl Myth by Maja Molfino I'm currently listening to this on audiobook. Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:48 AM
85

A+ advice. Too many girls (including past pickme me) drive themselves crazy waiting for guys to text them back. And unrelated to guys, some of us spend too much time on our phones. It's a habit I'm currently trying to break...gen z problems lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:36 AM
9

Do men actually joke about wanting to get women pregnant? Do they think it's hot? I thought that was their biggest fear... responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:46 AM
18

I don't think they're underaged. I think they're thousands of years old or ageless? They're angels. But yah most anime gives off pedo vibes. It's the "c u l t u r e".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:02 PM
6

Acts of service everytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:13 AM
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As if he'd even have the opportunity to breathe the same air as her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:13 AM
29

"I day trade stocks" So you make like $20 a day. Day trading is a hobby not a sustainable job. "Co owner ish" Bitch. Just say you're unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:05 AM
9

Haha every single girl I was friends with in high school was sexually assaulted by boys including me. Cool story tho bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:56 PM
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I get mad that they don't tell us BEFORE we get pregnant. WTF you mean I'll POOP on the table!!?? I don't think men care to learn about what happens to their wife's body while pregnant. It's not "their problem". To them all that matters is she's fat and moody- can't fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:50 PM
16

Do people sign the legal papers before or after the wedding? Is it too late for her to leave? Cause I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:38 PM
38

Why is it called "validation" when it's really domination. "I want you to validate me by swallowing my nasty bleach flavored cum. It's my love language!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:08 AM
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Because I've fried my brain with porn from the age of 12 sex has become a loveless, cold act for me. I see the women I have sex with as worthless sluts undeserving of love. In my eyes sex is all about humiliation, degradation, and domination. The problem is I've started caring about this one particular fleshlight...it's really killing my boner. How am I supposed to get off if I feel bad about doing porn stuff to her?? She's my Madonna now not my Whore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:52 AM
16

Don't cheat and don't have casual sex with men. Interesting that this guy is absolving himself of any wrong doing. Yeah I knew this girl was cheating but my penis you see, it wasn't gonna suck itself. Anyways, girls are such sluts amiright my fellow scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:43 AM
4

Raise your hand if you were that girl ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:47 PM
5

By gold Christian girl he means 18-22.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:37 PM
46

One of my favorite FDS tenets. It feels so good to cut them off before they can spew their poison at you. Let them keep that anger and hatred to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:47 PM
44

Lovefool by The Cardigans. I still love the song because it's so catchy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:43 PM
34

The biggest thing FDS did for me was give me the drive to improve my life. I want to become the best woman I can be and design a life that can bring me happiness and meaning- and I don't need to wait for a man to do it! I do want to get married and have a family but I WILL NOT end up like breakingmom or settle "before my eggs dry up". I want motherhood and I will wait until the time is right for me, if it happens to be later in life I will be more than happy to adopt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:24 PM
45

I'm so happy that I'm aging out of young adult hood. I could never imagine putting up with this shit now but at16-22 I would and everyone around me would expect me to. I feel like "female friendships" are more tolerated when you're younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:14 PM
2

Oh no is the toilet licking Dr.Phil girl??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:23 PM
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I couldn't figure out what he was complaining about, he wrote so passively it's incomprehensive. Maybe English isn't his first language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:09 AM
36

Baby he's TRASH. Stop thinking that it was because you weren't good enough for him. You are too good for him! That other girl is a pickme that was willing to degrade herself to win her "prize". She didn't win anything, she got a loser and lost her dignity. Also it's not a good idea to date coworkers. I did it. Huge mistake. He was having affairs behind my back with the other girls and I looked like a big ole idiot to everyone. Just avoid it in the future. As far as acting cordial you need to sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:59 AM
20

It's not fake it's a real case. There's a change.org petition for "justice". It was set up by his brother. https://www.change.org/p/justice-for-manav-singh-2 And this is one of the dumbass article claiming to have proof. https://themalefactor.com/2020/05/17/metoo-manav-singh-fake-proof/ Scrotes protecting scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:09 AM
6

I think we are starting to see a cultural pushback to porn. It's not as popular as "SeX pOsItIvItY" but there will be an audience for it. I for one would read it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:40 AM
57

Not to mention this happened in India where sexual assault is an epidemic and women are shamed by the police for reporting*.* I'm not going to say it happened because I have no more "proof" then anyone else but personally I believe it's very likely true. But rest assured there are many articles by Indian men claiming they have proof that it didn't happen. Men are so delusional that they claim they are the truly oppressed sex in India!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:32 AM
74

-asks you to roleplay a stepsister fantasy (yes that's happened to me 🤮) or any other weird fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:28 PM
29

Say it with me PRO-JEC-TION.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:34 PM
12

The self control I need to have to not send this to my ex who pops up twice a year lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:23 PM
174

She should tell him that she really enjoys ball-stomping. It's not against heterosexuality to stomp on a man's balls and all her ex boyfriends liked it so why shouldn't he. In fact don't even ask just initiate it by kneeing him in the crotch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:11 PM
17

I've noticed that those kinds of Christian men are obsessed with bringing up the power that God grants them as man over women. In fact it's a common trait of a lot of super religious (usually male) Christians to use God to feed into their narcissism and validate their sense of superiority. In Genesis 9:6 we read that man, as in mankind, men and women, are made “in the image of God.” However, the Bible tells us that male human beings are not just made in the image of God, but it tells us in I Cor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:19 AM
7

Maintenance sex This might as well just be called maintenance rape. Let's face it. Anytime you're forcing yourself to have sex that you don't want and you don't like you are damaging your sexuality and thus damaging your relationship with that person. Eventually it will have a cumulative effect on your mental and sexual health and cause things like vaginismus or sex repulsion and your relationship will die. Women are not sex vending machines. If you don't want to have sex with your partner that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:45 AM
77

Lol the thought of an incel reading this and seething at the use of their own words. Yes boys we've been redpilled about your true nature and some of us have even been blackpilled. But we're not gonna neet out of society like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:52 PM
87

If a woman was saying this the comment section would be calling her an uptight femin*zi c*nt. "Haha just because you said that I'm gonna jerk off to r*pe porn." And the libfems would join in! "You're being so discriminatory and sex negative lol imagine thinking porn is bad".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:41 PM
18

A man would NEEEEEVVVVVVEEEEERRRRR tolerate the bullshit they put us through. They will break up with you and ruin your reputation the second you do something out of line...even if you're just copying his behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:13 PM
6

As someone who lives in the south I only have light coats that can be thrown in the wash. Do heavy coats require extra attention like dry-cleaning or something? I just can't understand why someone would be too lazy to wash clothes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:58 PM
31

I think you're right. I'm transitioning to veganism and when men ask me why I say because I don't want to eat tortured animals. Invariably they laugh or make fun of me. I tell them about the horrific practices a factory farming and ask them to imagine themselves going through that. They short circuit every time, they really aren't used to empathizing with another living being and some are completely unable to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:46 AM
7

You definitely need a reset. I would go after your dreams instead of giving up and starting a family you aren't ready for. If you want a family there are options. Women can still have healthy children after 30, you could freeze your eggs now, or if it comes down to it you can adopt. That's my plan if my career delays starting a family until later in life. And if your family gives you shit about it, remind them that it's the Christian thing to give charity and take care of the less fortunate. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:03 PM
1

The logical and rational gender always make claims about women that are the exact opposite of reality. You see it when they claim women lack empathy, cheat more, lie about rape, and whatever else they say about us. Men are much more likely to leave their sick wives than the other way around. Remember this when you see them try to disparage us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:38 AM
9

I think she's a sugar baby, she brags about going on dates with 80 year old men. https://www.tiktok.com/@fleeksie/video/6884760088725196037?lang=en&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6890600627233080837&is_from_webapp=1 Looks like a young girl that's been traumatized by abusive relationships with broke fuck boys so she swings too far the other way and dates sugar daddys. Hopefully she grows out of it and keeps the good half of her content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:25 PM
3

This is a biased site but apparently some children are exposed to it as early as 3 years old...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:35 PM
9

Yes I told my best friend and she embraced FDS. She's trying to break out of a fuck boy's mental prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:39 AM
100

I don't follow Taylor Swift but I did a quick google search and it looks like she's had 12 boyfriends in 12 years... I don't find that very interesting or salacious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:24 AM
49

Why do post break up texts from men all sound the same?? I feel like this could have been from all of our exes. Men really do send out the same messages en masse... Hi I hope you're doing well (Are you in an emotionally vulnerable state that I can exploit for sex?) I want you to know that I don't hate you (I still want to fuck you) I wanted to thank you for all you taught me in the relationship (can I trick you into thinking I've changed, y'know so we can have sex?) Anyway I hope you're doing we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:33 PM
162

These modern men are also the most coddled group of men in human history. They lack empathy, are narcissistic, are falling behind in education, watch way too much porn, and can't even make women cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:26 PM
17

This is why I don't wear leggings in public and if I wear them to the gym I wear an oversized tshirt that covers my butt. I like looking cute but always feel...exposed(?) when men are around. It makes me uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:33 PM
14

I have a HV boyfriend. He's not perfect (and by that I don't mean big flaws more like he's an annoyingly picky eater type flaws) but he is a genuine and kind man. He is the only man I have ever fully trusted to not cheat on me, he's ambitious and in a career he loves, he's family oriented and will be a great father, he is very very patient with me and supported me through a horrible depressive episode. We've talked about MeToo and how it has negatively affected women's career advancements and ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:35 PM
8

This would be very nice if she was helping people with severe mental illnesses or overworked single parents that struggle to keep up with housework to point where it spiraled out of control. A helping hand with a fresh start would be a blessing. But I have a feeling it's really just lazy, disgusting men. EDIT: I found a video of her helping an overwhelmed single mom. This is wholesome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:19 PM
160

A culture that tells us from birth that romantic love is the most important thing in our lives. That "real" love isn't about money, which it isn't, but it's led to society bashing women for having financial standards. That men are just idiots who don't (and won't) understand women's emotions so if they offend us it's us who is being "too sensitive". That men are "sexual beings" so watching porn, flirting with other women, and even cheating is acceptable. We are primed to accept male's shitty beh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:28 PM
42

But remember ladies if you don't douche or douse your vagina in rose scented perfumes you're disgusting and dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:37 PM
31

I'm in my bag but I'm in his too, And that's why every time you see me I got some new shoes -Megan Thee Stallion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:34 PM
14

If women can't "retroactively retract consent" then men can't retroactively get jealous about a woman's past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:03 PM
14

It's so annoying how we have to perform during sex. I don't naturally moan during sex, the only time I do is when I orgasm. I don't want to make these weird noises to make a man feel validated, I want to focus on my pleasure! I'm glad you got rid of that abusive loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:47 PM
96

I hate how they attribute mental illness, promiscuity, and "damage" to tattoos, colored or short hair, and piercings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:20 AM
69

Is this the same thing with anal? I've heard that some women enjoy it (exes claim that other girls they've slept with LOVED it *eyeroll*) but I don't see how they would. We don't have a prostate so there's no pleasure spot in our ass like gay men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:29 AM
29

Not really, I guess I just think men are naturally ugly. Even the handsome ones are a little ugly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:46 AM
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Looking at this picture makes me realize how beautiful women are compared to men. Those hairy fucking legs and nasty feet. Meanwhile she has a nice body, nice hair, cute panties. We put in too much effort to look cute for these unkempt scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:26 PM
17

You look beautiful today queen <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:45 PM
34

I fell into the consumerism side of "self care". I thought if I bought all these pampering products then I'd be happy. Nope! You don't need a bath pillow, bath caddy, bath bomb, candles, rose petals, and champagne to enjoy a nice relaxing bath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:41 PM
54

Exactly. I've learned my lesson about trying to explain this to men and pickmes tho. They can't wrap their heads around it and resort to calling you a b*tch, c*nt, prostitute, gold digger, entitled brat, and "I feel sorry for the man you end up with". Let them seethe about it online lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:43 PM
64

Duh sis! Don't you know that the men that put in the least amount of effort are the most romantic? And men that have no money make the best fathers. Seriously they blame us for getting pregnant by bum men but then get mad at us for rejecting bum men. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:52 PM
126

But let a woman read a feminist book or get interested in gender politics and she's suddenly a rabid man hating c*nt so he needs to dump her ASAP. Also I see a lot of posts about men claiming that a woman changing her hair, wearing more makeup, or working out means she's cheating or planning to leave. So uh...what's this? Just for funsies? It's weird and creepy regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:35 PM
220

Wow what a gold digging bitch. He was probably a really nice guy! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:27 PM
14

Same. I'm getting a Doberman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:11 PM
35

True. Electric chair *gavel smack*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:14 PM
9

Good for you! I love reading stories from women taking back their life from LVM <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:07 PM
46

I did lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:41 PM
23

I started working out last month and I'm starting to get them gains lol I feel like a little beefcake, I can't stop feeling my muscles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:26 PM
113

33 years?! It should be life or death penalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:10 PM
27

She says it's for her but he was the one that destroyed her mentally and made her hate her body...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:56 PM
40

Too scared of being called simps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:49 PM
86

Yup. Still trying to deprogram myself from thinking if I get stronger physically, financially, and mentally then I'll be too much for a man. Fuck weak men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:48 PM
17

I don't watch this show but whenever I see snippets it seems like everyone is criticizing the woman no matter what she does. Why would you want to put yourself of TV to be hated and trash talked on the internet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:37 PM
24

I love this! Thank you for recommending the site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:57 PM
9

Does the lawsuit apply when the other woman doesn't know he's married? That'd be one hell of a way to find out... your boyfriend's married and also pay thousands of dollars for it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:46 PM
37

Only teenage girls find this cute. When all you have in life is school and boys it's considered "romantic" to be up your SO's ass all the time. Adults with lives and responsibilities would run like hell from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:01 PM
57

He's not even ugly. He could be really handsome and do well with women if he just tried and fixed his personality. I'm sick of seeing normal looking men considering themselves to be "incels" and hating women for it. Dude it's not your face or height or whatever it's how. you. act (i.e referring to women as "scraps"). You're not automatically entitled to a woman because you have a penis you need to earn a woman's attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:51 AM
60

Yup. But it's always the guy gunning for marriage and kids (they get extra benefits + military housing). Hell my ex proposed to me (with a freezer icecream cone) because all his friends were doing it. But they're so paranoid about their benefits... he wanted me to move onto base with him and give up my state scholarship but he wouldn't give me his GI bill to pay for school...called me a gold digging dependa. Dude YOU asked me to marry you and YOU want me to give up my free education in my home s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:23 AM
145

I had an ex in the Navy. He constantly bitched about how the women had it "easier" and were "catered to". He would say that there's no sexual harassment or rape, the women just lie to get promoted and get men demoted. And then there's the whole "dependa" hating culture. And it being a-ok for men to cheat but if their wives cheat they're filthy whores. Never date or marry military man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:51 AM
3

You know what I've learned about "nice guys"? They're the same as every other garden variety douchebag except they don't get pussy. For some reason men think that because they can't get laid that makes them a nice(er) guy? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:23 PM
19

The war cry of pickmes and males alike. You have one (1) standard for a man you want to date and everyone rushes to tell you that "they feel sorry for whoever dates you" or calls you a single, bitter bitch. I've learned to keep my mouth shut, even around women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:19 PM
28

He was trying to call her a shallow bitch without having to say it. Typical manipulative language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:58 PM
6

I think that phenomenon comes from Japanese yaoi. It's fictional media aimed at girls about homoerotic relationships and I remember it being very popular in the west (among the nerdy anime girls) when I was in middle school about 10 years ago. It's jumped from manga/anime to real life and gone more mainstream. TONS of homoerotic fanfiction about real people and now fans are reading erotica to their faces at meet-and-greets...very strange and over the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:28 PM
2

Yes yes yes! Every time I talked to my ex it brought me down and led to bad events. Do. Not. Do. It.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:30 PM
75

Men always assume that WLW objectify women the same way they do. They just can't imagine a perspective outside of their own. I once said I was very attracted to Elizabeth Debicki in The Cloverfield Paradox and the men around me immediately called her ugly and manly, her nose is too big, her hair is too short, she's too tall, blah blah blah. They could never fuck her how could I want to?... like dude first off I never said anything about fucking her and secondly I'm a woman. I have my own ideals …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:44 PM
51

That's amazing! I hope good things continue to come your way. I hope to have my career path figured out, have a healthy body through working out and diet (I'm 22 and already feeling aches in my bones eek), set up a savings account and passive income streams for my future (because I've chosen a career that I'm passionate about but doesn't make much money), and beat my mental illnesses. I love that I found FDS, it's deprogramed me of all the sexist bullshit in our culture. I no longer feel the nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:57 PM
298

It was the same thing with boy band circa 1990s-2000s. Men made fun of them relentlessly because they were insecure that those boys were leagues cuter than them and had girls swooning lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:48 PM
61

I've always wondered how these "red pill" men feel towards their daughters. You hate women, think they're all whore, liars, gold diggers, etc...does that include YOUR daughter? Do you hate her and see her as a vapid slut too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:19 PM
29

And then men wonder why we don't want to have sex. Kevin, we're tired of not orgasming and having to get ourselves off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:03 PM
26

Some singers in my playlist: Janelle Monae - I like that (Loving herself) Victoria Monet - Dive (song about eating out, if you like that), Ass like that (workout song) Qveen Herby -Vitamins, Farewell, Who is she (She is the ultimate level up queen) Tinashe - Hopscotch, Throw a fit (Makes me feel like a bad bitch) Ava Max -Kings & Queens Kehlani - Good thing (Loving herself) Ashnikko -Special, Working Bitch, Stupid, Hi it's me (Fuck men songs) Rico Nasty - Countin up (Mega bad bitch) Edited to ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:45 PM
61

Is this some more bullshit coming from the black male community?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:46 PM
23

I remember when I was a teenager and it was called musical.ly. I saw ads for it on snapchat and was so uncomfortable. They featured what looked like 13 year old girls doing very sexual dances. My first thought was well...this is perfect for pedophiles...And now there's subreddits where men collect clips of teens in provocative clothing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:43 PM
26

"In the first pic HE looked like the dominant and SHE looked HAPPY to be there. In the second picture the roles look like they have been REVERSED." Why are men so obsessed with dominance? I don't see dominant body language in either picture, just a happy couple. Men are so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:03 PM
48

What they mean is "Young women have no boundaries and are still programmed to second guess their emotions. They are still trying to be the "cool girl" and will let me get away with a lot more because they have yet to find their self worth".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:01 PM
12

A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:11 PM
106

It's so weird. And they treat bachelorhood as a choice when it's the exact opposite lol. Women choose men, men do not choose women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:00 PM
38

Then they bring up that a girl broke their heart or cheated on them...it's not the same idiots. We've been cheated on AND sexually harassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:58 PM
78

"But I can say I hate women because they don't touch my peepee."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:57 PM
102

I love giving oral sex to my partners (male or female) because it's an intimate way to give pleasure. Porn has ruined blowjobs by turning it into a humiliating, painful act for women. It's disgusting and not the way oral sex should be. I don't deepthroat, I don't get face fucked, and I don't let them cum on my face or in my mouth. Yes, pornsick males and pickmes, I can make a man cum without gagging, choking, crying and degrading myself. I really really hate porn. It's taken the sensuality out o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:47 PM
17

Men saying their fav comedian is Bill Burr is a dog whistle for misogyny. He's not funny unless you think low brow jokes about hitting women is the peak of comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:24 PM
26

extremely misogynistic male "comic Bill Burr? Major red flag for me if a man says he likes his comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:12 PM
25

Yup! Ice pack on the balls for 15 minutes and you're good! Meanwhile the IUD can take 6 months to a year to settle comfortably in a woman's cervix. Hopefully the MRAs can achieve something and actually fight for men's right to contraception. But something tells me they're just gonna keep commenting on feminist videos about the wage gap...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:32 AM
26

I was thinking that. The pyramid is actually good for long term compatibility but if you already see that a girl isn't meeting your criteria...why string her along? The same scrotes that screech about "the wall" and empty egg cartons sure do love to waste women's time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:21 AM
48

I know, with how much they bitch about women "forcing" them to have kids. Waaaaah why do women get to have abortions but I can't! Condoms make my peepee feel bad! I don't want to pay child support it's modern slavery!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:55 AM
48

Probably a big reason. Way more profitable to sell women a monthly pill or $1300 IUD than give men a one time, cheap af (seriously it costs pennies to make), long term birth control option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:56 PM
30

Hate hate hate when people use the term "females". Especially when they use men in the same sentence. The misogyny couldn't be more blatant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:46 PM
31

Yah filters have gotten crazy. Smooth skin, change facial features, even change your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:37 PM
157

VaselGel (https://www.parsemus.org/vasalgel) is a temporary vasectomy where a polymer like substance is injected into the vas deferens. It lasts 13 years and is reversed by a simple shot of baking soda solution. Shown to be successful in animal trials but for some weird reason has yet to make it's way to human trials... I sure do wonder why... I think it should be mandatory that males get this procedure at 16 and if they want to be fathers they need to pass a course and prove financial stability…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:30 PM
492

We've gone from sexually serving one man to sexually serving multiple men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:32 PM
34

Also according to Fertility Answers "Fertility experts agree that, on average, 30% of the cases of infertility they see can be attributed solely to the female, 30% solely to the male, 30% a combination of both partners, and in 10% of cases the cause is unknown." So men are equally at fault for infertility...and yet they only talk about women and "the wall".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:54 PM
44

LMAO. I had one too. He cooked me box spaghetti with jarred alfredo sauce. And his house was a MESS! There was a dried spaghetti strand stuck to the ceiling of his kitchen (I'm guessing from his last "dinner date" lol). I was too polite to leave but now if a man tried that shit I'm GONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:05 PM
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In response to 4:25 "90% of eggs are gone by age 30" "True, unlike women, [men] can produce sperm and theoretically have kids throughout their lives. But the quality and quantity of sperm starts to take a hit in their early 30s. After age 30, men experience a one percent drop in testosterone level every year, and testosterone is the gas that keeps sperm production running properly," says Fisch. In fact, male fertility issues are either the sole cause or a contributing factor for about 40 percent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:41 PM
1

When men are single they don't want to put in any work to improve themselves. We see how MGTOWs live: bare, dirty apartments with a $1000 gaming setup to waste their life on videogames and porn. Some of them want to NEET and stop participating in society so they're taxes aren't going to benefit women. MGTOW motto "I'm not getting hot girls so I don't even want to try anymore!" FDS motto "Level up and make yourself happy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:12 PM
231

My (female) doctor prescribed me an NDRI instead because it doesn't affect libido. Too bad I'm so disillusioned with males that I don't even want it now lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:35 PM
18

Me too girl. Wishing every day I could be romantically attracted to women lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:02 PM
23

Yes. I think it's called hooking (I am not looking it up lol) where guys shove their fingers in girls mouths and pull back like a horse with a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:55 PM
49

Tradthot pickmes are so stupid. When they're young and pretty they regurgitate whatever misogynistic bullshit alt right males tell them. Then as they steadily approach "the wall" they start panicking and backpedaling. "Oh women don't hit the wall at 30!! We aren't empty egg cartons!!" I guess they never thought they would age. Lauren's been torn apart by the same scrotes she pandered to. They're saying she hit the wall at 25. Hope all that white supremist attention was worth it. For more referen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:26 PM
39

I'm so glad I don't have a brother. Gen Z males are deeply brainwashed by incel/mgtow ideology. My mother is a queen and cut off her side of the family completely for being sexist, racist, abusive trash. I only have my father and he is a great example of a gentle and respectful man. I'm also very glad that I saw through "male friendship" at a very young age. They offer NONE of the emotional depth and support of a female friendship and they're always trying to fuck you. Moving forward with FDS I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:41 PM
11

She's the type of feminist that wants to look balanced on all sides. The poor mens have to deal with women's standards how horrible, REAL feminists fight for men too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:00 PM
8

Genuinely confused by what that's even supposed to mean...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:22 AM
76

Very true. When I was a dumb 20 year old I took a vacation home to get some space from my piece-of-shit-live-in boyfriend after I found out he cheated on me. We had an argument over the phone and I told him that I slept with someone else (I didn't, I was immature and wanted to show him what it felt like). Woke up to my property manager calling me to tell me he was moving all the furniture out of our apartment. Apparently he called his mommy at 2am to drive 4 hours to help him move back into her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:27 PM
10

Idk. I don't watch porn, but I'd assume it's degrading to the bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:27 PM
67

Lesbian porn made by women for women? Idk, the male gaze has penetrated so deep into every facet of society it's hard to tell where sexual objectification ends and female empowerment begins...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:48 PM
167

Mood swings = women have been conditioned to grin and bear all forms of abuse/disrespect from everyone in their lives (most especially men) and when they finally snap they're a moody bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:44 PM
353

"Me me me me me me me and most importantly: ME."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:39 PM
15

Exactly what I'm trying to do right now. Leveling up is hard but you ladies inspire me to work for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:06 PM
353

But when women talk about the precautions we have to take to avoid being raped and murdered they say we're "exaggerating".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:50 PM
71

My dad is short (5'6) and he doesn't think about it AT ALL. He was surprised and confused when I told him that short men nowadays are all angry and bitter because "women won't date them". He said it likely has more to do with their personality than their height because he never had problems getting girls. Based af lol. They need to stop lying too. Says he's 5'9 but shows up 5'7. Like dude do I need to get the tape measure?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:03 PM
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I think if it was a mother the narrative would be very different. "Of course a woman chose a wedding over work. This is why we shouldn't hire women in STEM, they will always choose their emotions".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:57 PM
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And even when women are more "prone" to mental illness, men are waaaay more likely to have the dangerous mental illnesses like narcissistic personality disorder, anti social personality disorder, and substance abuse. Even with the same mental illness as a woman, men are more dangerous: "Women with anxiety disorders are more likely to internalize emotions, which typically results in withdrawal, loneliness and depression. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to externalize emotions, which leads…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:06 PM
64

She's the perfect victim for NVM. Exactly how they want you to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:51 PM
119

Ugggggggh can men (and pickmes) shut up about this??? It's so unflattering when short men walk around with a chip on their shoulder. Girls like tall men, taller girls especially want 6ft+ men. But not EVERY GIRL IN THE WORLD WANTS THAT! I'm 5'2 so height doesn't factor in for me much because most men are a good bit taller than me. There are tons of girls that don't care but god forbid some girls have preferences. "If not every single girl within a 500 mile radius will fuck me then it's oppressio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:44 PM
8

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j5ks85/important_points_on_selflove_selfrespect_read/ Post on self love/esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:29 PM
25

Did we go to the same high school? Lol we had a guy like that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:18 PM
8

Would love to check it out too! Congratulations queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:51 PM
15

Yah a male... her father. That's a noble reason to do what she did. And Mushu was 2 feet tall lol Mulan did all the heavy lifting and actual saving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:50 PM
49

Never. I've never had a man take complete control and give me an orgasm with no effort on my part. I still cum almost every time I have sex, but that's because I rub myself while he's inside me. Still hoping that one day I can find a man that can do it all lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:34 PM
46

From experience, if your boyfriend's friends hate you it's because he's talking shit about you to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:18 PM
16

I'm having horrific thoughts of curb stomping...I really hope that's not what it means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:06 PM
78

Well I had an ex ask to record us having sex for "his personal spank bank" (I said no obviously) but he later admitted that he wanted to sell the videos...so yah. Never trust a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:56 PM
10

Lol so because you know where the clit is that means you're good at sex? Just cause you can point to it on a diagram doesn't mean you know what to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:53 PM
17

Don't worry girl I'm the same. My snap has no males on it to protect myself from unsolicited dick pics and creeps lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:35 PM
9

Fellow aspie here. I don't usually tell people in real life because they don't believe me anyway and I don't feel like explaining autism in women to them lol. Finding a social coach/ therapist could help with socializing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:16 PM
20

SO glad I never had a brother and pray everyday that I don't have a son. I don't want cum brained monsters in my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:27 PM
9

As an Aquarius myself I love Aquarian women! But the men are annoying as all hell. They take the intelligence and progressiveness of Aquarians and turn it into pompous "wokeness" without any actual waking up. They all think they're the one true genius of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:23 PM
41

I love when lesbians call out straight male bullshit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:40 PM
18

"His case manager had also told him to avoid relationships but added that he could have encounters with women as long as it was strictly sexual. " Yah makes a lot of sense. Let a man who brutally murdered his wife out to have sex with prostitutes. Not like he has a problem with women. But that's how most of society sees sex workers: disposable whores to be sacrificed to the carnal lust of men. They don't care about them, it's just a convenient way to get men off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:25 AM
7

DH means Dear Husband right? Splitting bills and borrowing money from your HUSBAND??? It's his job to take care of the family and should be collaborating with her not counting pennies on what she owes him...geez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:58 PM
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Watched other clips of them and he is insufferable... girl if you're not getting money why are you with him?? It's the only thing he has to offer. Edit: This pickme literally accepts him saying "I WOLF you" when she says I love you because "He only says that word to his mom". RUNNNNN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:11 PM
13

I've seen an influx of males and transwomen infiltrating women's subreddits so it could be that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:09 AM
4

So he benefited from her work and now he's turning around and condemning her for it. Bitch if you had a problem then you should've manned up and PAID OFF YOUR OWN FUCKING DEBT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:39 PM
35

Well the account was 8 years old so... she would have been 8 when she made it. Unlikely it's a teenage girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:30 PM
70

I read the post history and... I think it's a man roleplaying as a *hot 16 year old virgin*. A lot of the posts are obsessed with mentioning her virginity and being 16. And this post: "Other women hate me for NO reason Look guys, I understand that chances are you’ll never be able to compare to me but that doesn’t mean you have to be a bitter bitch about it! Like YES I am beautiful and better than you in every way imaginable but women need to understand that I simply cannot help that. I know I’m …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:38 PM
14

Oh best believe he thinks it's gross if she queefs (hate that word) after sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:05 PM
54

Never understood dowry... you pay a man to become his slave?? Then of course it led to extreme misogyny and female infanticide...because who wants to raise a daughter just to pay another family to take her...girls are "burdens". But in cultures where the man has to pay for his bride, sons aren't seen as a burden and sons aren't killed at birth...hmmm....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:01 PM
3

LMAO I didn't get that far... why do men fantasize about fucking twins so much? That's incest! I have never met a woman that would have sex with her sister even if she was a lesbian!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:35 PM
13

I was groomed on DeviantArt in middle school. He pretended to be 14 and wanted to be my boyfriend. Growing up ugly and being bullied by my male peers I was walking on air! A boy liked me! He asked me for nudes but I was too shy to send them (thank god). Later found out he was pretending to be other girls boyfriend and we got together and confronted him. I wish I saved the chats so I could report him... Also I posted a picture of my new haircut (I looked like a middle schooler so no plausible den…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:38 PM
3

Chipotle, Vodka, Boobs... guess I'm gonna have a great year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:30 PM
52

"And later matched with her 23 year old daughter on a dating app" That didn't happen. That's a depraved male fantasy, fucking a mother and daughter is a common porn trope. Whyyy are they so weird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:33 PM
106

I could never unload all my problems on my significant other...that's so selfish. Men seem to think because we're the "EmOtIoNaL" sex that we can instinctively handle their issues/traumas (and that we're happy to do it). NO! Go see a professional like the rest of us. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:14 PM
6

It's way easier to use a detachable shower head, but girls can edge their butt under the tub faucet (this is a very common way that girls start masturbating when young). You aim the water stream at your clit and it feels like a vibrator but softer. It actually feels really good lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:31 PM
35

When will pickmes learn that the men that will propose to you with a chicken nugget/toy ring/cheap ring are NOT GOOD MEN. They will take you for granted because you just showed them that you're cheap as fuck and can be won with WORDS AND A PRETZEL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:38 AM
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Wow way to tell on yourself that you watch depraved porn. The only plausible things on that list is the cucumber (for our ~all natural~ girls) and the water faucet. Most girls when they masturbate only rub the clit (penetration is waaaaaaay overrated lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:29 AM
5

Hell yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:47 AM
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I was thinking that as I was reading this. I have NEVER seen people talking about dicks like this but how many times have I seen people talking about vaginas and what they resemble? A million. Feels good to have it go the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:15 PM
1

Then you need to make a plan to get out. Does he supply you with spending money? You said he buys you gifts right? See what you can sell, ask for some extra cash and SAVE it. Hide it. Open a secret bank account. When your baby is old enough that you can leave him at a daycare, get a job. SAVE THE MONEY. When you have enough to get out, then file for divorce. It's your decision if you want this man to have access to your son. Just keep in mind it will be more expensive to fight for full custody. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:22 PM
18

Did you date my ex? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:35 PM
2

If you're not a troll then I sincerely apologize and you need to get out of that relationship. All of the pros combined does not cancel out even one of the cons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:54 PM
2

And that is the root of sexism. Loser men wanting to think having a penis makes them superior to all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:23 PM
5

The post history has comments condemning pedophiles but her opening line is "I'm 20 years old, married with a man 30 years my senior and we have a 3 month old baby" Basically: He's abusive and raped me buuuut he buys me things!! Is that ok ladies? Is that how I FDS?? By securing a rich old man? That's all we care about right?? MONEY?! Girl no. Troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:11 PM
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NO. Being high values is NOT about making a lot of money and helping around the house. Helping around the house is bare minimum basics. And money is irrelevant (unless you want to live the luxurious lifestyle) . STANDARD PACKAGE: Can manage adult responsibilities and makes enough to provide for you and the family. ****All value negated by abusive behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:36 PM
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I've always felt weird about it too. The labia minora develops at puberty and if you think it's gross... uh what does that say about your "sexual tastes". They also associate it with "old, used up whores" and innies belong to "tight, pure, young virgins". Hmmmm Also the size of the labia doesn't affect sex at all but the size of your dick sir... yah it definitely affects the quality of sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:26 PM
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Men: I like innie vaginas, roast beef is gross! Women: Ok I like big dicks Men: REEEEEEEEEEE!!!! They can objectify and judge our bodies but god forbid it goes the other way. You want porn bodies? Fine, we want them too. Let's see how YOU measure up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:58 PM
17

Funny thing is men are always complaining about how the world/society is going to shit because modern women act like...men. What does that say about you boys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:18 PM
164

Scrotes are STILL harassing this subreddit? Go away boys, go jerk off to your barely legal incest porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:24 PM
12

I currently have a partner that doesn't offer to do anything around the house or help with expenses Why do you have this partner?? Break up with them if they won't contribute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:41 PM
11

Or getting a vasectomy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:53 PM
10

Yah...same thing happened to me. He was cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:15 PM
63

Yah sure. A man that posts on r/ TheRedPill totally has a girl fawning over him. Even when she has cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:37 AM
15

Ughhhh these pickmes inflating male egos by dating withered scrotes. These low self esteem girls are the ones having men thinking they can bag a 20 year old at age 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:44 AM
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THANK YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:25 AM
5

I read their stories. A LOT of them didn't think possessing or distributing CP was wrong. A lot of them thought their man/son "downloaded it by accident". They think it's a victimless crime that shouldn't be punished. And then there were women that had convicted pedophiles living with their children...and crying that other people judged them for not protecting their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:52 PM
3

That sounds manipulative. If he wanted to secure exclusivity he should have just asked you to be his girlfriend instead of trying to guilt you about dating other people. If you start a relationship with this man he WILL use this situation against you. He will throw a tantrum about how he shouldn't have trusted you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:39 PM
3

I also have painful sex. Seeing a gyno next week to try and figure it out. Unfortunately in all my relationships they expected me to endure for their pleasure too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:32 PM
17

Do they really think the average woman sleeps with HUNDREDS of guys? I've seen them say most women fuck dogs too (they say if a woman likes large breeds then she definitely fucks dogs). It's got to be projection. They would fuck hundreds of women and jerk off to bestiality porn, threesomes, gang bangs, etc and since everything in porn is real life (/s) it must be true. They are so delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:11 PM
20

Has a girlfriend...still on bumble... hmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:25 PM
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And here we see that men don't actually want to lead and take care of women. They want women underneath them to prop themselves up. It's always mediocre men trying to convince women of our "place".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:51 PM
14

I'm so confused... the cute profile pic and emojis tells me woman...but the logic screams scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:05 PM
16

I think by "get along" they mean "Why can't women just give me everything while expecting nothing in return?? Is my peepee not enough for them?!?! Bitches"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:03 PM
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After years of wrestling with "man hating" I've just accepted it's in their nature. Access to the internet at a young age helps to uncover the reality of males. You see how they act when granted anonymity and now even on their public social media. The amount a teen males bitching about girls in Instagram comments is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:27 PM
80

Has anyone else noticed the tendency of entitled people to call others entitled for bullshit reasons?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:21 PM
3

Yah that's the problem with BPD. It's a HIGHLY stigmatized disorder and women get misdiagnosed with it A LOT. The whole reason I watched her videos was because I was worried I had it (turns out I'm just autistic and was in a shitty relationship). So women that need help with other mental disorders end up getting the wrong care and the ones that actually are borderlines get told they're monsters that can never change. Women are treated like shit by psychiatrists (inb4 men sperg out about how bad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:23 PM
17

This girl looks familiar... yah I think watched her breakdown videos about BPD and her boyfriend before... Edit: Yes it's her. Found her other youtube channel where all of her videos are about what mess her life is... now I just feel bad for her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:36 AM
7

I mean she's wearing a spongebob meme shirt lol they're both not dressed right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:23 AM
26

Which is exactly why he looked shocked lol he wants to ruin a pretty girl's day and when he can't he's butthurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:52 AM
32

I mean...whatever gets you attention (I doubt she even got a crumb of dick for that one)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:19 AM
51

That was an attempt at negging lol. By saying you look tired he was insinuating that you look ugly, haggard, old, blah bloo blah. I've had men try the same thing on me to try and knock my self esteem. They expect us to feel immediate shame and rush to win back their approval lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:15 AM
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The kind of pain that kneads at your heart like an old man baking his whole life would. What the fuck is that line lmao. Why do men think they're poetic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:46 PM
12

I also want to say that as a woman my emotions are seen as manipulation. As a child I heard so many times "girls cry for attention, girls cry to get out of trouble, girls are too emotional". Now I have trouble crying in front of others and expressing my emotions. Society degrades us for having emotions too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:28 PM
7

I think she might of fucked up her face in real life...looks like plastic surgery to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:20 PM
1

Black men (american) Indian men Hispanic men Religious men (of any religion)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:10 PM
1

Unoriginal and vulgar copy pasta...my panties have dropped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:58 PM
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They're so close to solving it themselves! "Well, men don't get support for depression" Actually they do, there are therapists. "Well...society doesn't let men talk about their feelings" Who in society? Other men. It's other men making fun of you, women are ENCOURAGING you to get help. "B-but I don't want to be laughed at! That's embarrassing! I'll be seen as less of a man! SoCiEtYyyyyy!" Women fought for our rights in a society that actively tried to oppress them. They fought tooth and nail to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:54 PM
7

New Yorkers don't wash...their... jackets? Or jeans? WHat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:05 AM
26

He did break up with his girlfriend the second he found out she got pregnant, called her names and tried to distance himself, then eventually took her back and married her... ironic thing is he built his career off being pro-life and conservative, shamed women for getting abortions and being single moms but almost made his girlfriend one. So hypocritical LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:52 PM
104

Exactly why I'm working towards getting a concealed carry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:43 PM
64

Life is infinitely better without a NVM dragging me down lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:52 PM
19

Not yet but it's my dream. Congratulations queen! I hope you'll be making that $150K soon lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:37 PM
23

Yuuuuup. Wanting to date a tall, handsome man is hypergamous and shallow. It's led to societies collapse! Fucking roasties. But wanting to fuck 14 year old girls is just bIoLoGy. Feeeeeeemales are most fertile before they're fully developed. Oof course I want to spread my inferior genes and I have A GOD GIVEN RIGHT TO DO SO WITH A CHILD!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:33 PM
24

We stan Lilith.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:47 PM
5

It helps to remember that they view the situation as completely medical. There is no judgement or discomfort on their end- they see thousands of vaginas/cervixs a year and yours won't stand out at all. But I can relate to physical discomfort. I HATE speculums lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:45 PM
3

Which generation? Gen Z? The one's still mostly in high school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:04 PM
21

But at the same time men will say BiG dIcKs StReTcH hEr OuT. Apparently this woman has had 5 years of big dick and she STILL "can't handle it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:03 PM
8

Why do men keep blaming women for men's actions. You're right a "wet ass pussy" isn't gonna keep a man because that man is in control of HIS OWN BEHAVIOR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:55 PM
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Lmao men acting like they're the prize and having one is more impressive than a woman's accomplishments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:53 PM
8

Sooooo many white girls are jealous of black girls and latinas. So they try to cope with racism. It's ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:19 AM
29

"It would be ridiculous for me to say you're the most beautiful woman in the world. that's just not logical. Many other women are objectively more beautiful than you and I would be lying if I said otherwise." An yet when you ask If you're the biggest we've ever had we still say yes. Even though objectively you're not. Men are so fucking dumb with their "lOgIc" Just be be nice to your girlfriends damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:10 AM
129

Why are men allowed to have internet access?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:05 AM
17

When I worked at a bar the (old ass) regulars would say weird stuff to me that I didn't understand at the time...coming to FDS I realize they were negging me. 1."Don't worry sweetheart, your future husband will buy you G cups!" 2."Have you gained weight?" I said "yes, thank you :) " (even though I was the same weight I always was) and his little smirk fell off his face. He WANTED to make me feel bad. "You're so skinny I bet the other girls are jealous! Shame you have no tits though..." Nasty ass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:58 AM
7

Dante
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:48 AM
40

I'm on the spectrum too. It's a MALE autism thing. Every male with autism I've encountered has been spoiled rotten, fawned over by his parents, and told he's the smartest, specialest boy. They're never told to consider other people's feelings. Girls don't get any help and we're expected to function in society at the same level as everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:49 AM
126

I've had a guy message me saying "I'm on a quest for a creampie. Will you let me cum in you?" Who in their right minds would let a random cum inside them??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:44 AM
132

Yah because women care so much about one scrote's shitty opinion on our hair color. We'll dye our hair how we want thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:00 AM
8

As someone from Florida I'm shitting myself. I would freak the fuck out too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:59 AM
4

Men are so quick to hate on women they can't even critically think for themselves. There's no way this happened, it's a troll post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:46 AM
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That's so fucking true. I have Asperger's and it took me till the age of 22 to be diagnosed because I "didn't act like _____" (the person I was compared to was always a man) I wasn't emotionally stunted enough to be seen by professionals but I was just weird enough to be ostracized as a girl growing up. And I'm STILL treated worse. Males with autism: Oh he can't help it...let's celebrate every minor he does in his life to make him feel accomplished!! Females with autism: It's not that bad...she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:05 AM
7

Damn girls I'm jealous. I eat incels for breakfast and still have yet to receive an angry dm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:03 AM
81

I think they consider dating multiple people before commitment as cheating. I know a lot of blue pillers that think even talking to two guys at once is cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:24 PM
71

So she's willing to workout for his sexual pleasure...but not for herself to improve her own physical health... girl dump the man and keep the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:31 PM
6

Oh so she's gonna be wiping his ass in 10 years. Could've enjoyed your 20's and 30's but instead attached yourself to an old ass man for attention. Widow by 40 (if they don't divorce by then) Edit: Oh it's fake thank god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:29 PM
4

WARNING NSFW LINK https://dodsonandross.com/blogs/betty-dodson/2011/12/awakening-clitoris This entire website is for educating women on how to orgasm through masturbation and partner sex. I found it to be extremely helpful and I'm hoping it can help you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:21 PM
54

Avoid these signs at all costs: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:31 PM
13

A woman that wants you to wire her money?? That's my best guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:34 PM
22

Wahhhhh those evil girls want me to pay for dates! Misandry!! Emotionally manipulate, dominate, rape, abuse, degrade, and abandon women? That's the just natural order of things /s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:00 AM
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FDS should make an app that automatically translates LVM texts. Your translation is accurate as fuck lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:23 PM
3

Weird strategy. Usually pickmes try the whole "I looooOVOVOvovvvve sucking dick! And anal! Oh and threesomes!! Anything to please my man!!!!" but at same time try to maintain that they're not a hoe like those other girls. This one straight up lists her body count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:12 AM
1

Ah. He's trying to get the child bonus. Don't marry military men. As low value as they come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:34 PM
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I think he's referring to non-binary and trans pronouns (they/them, trans acceptance, etc). And Grimes sells herself as a "woke feminist" so her husband outright tweeting redpill nonsense is bad for her image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:20 AM
2

Most men are genuinely good people and only a small handful of men want to cheat, rape, murder, oppress, harm women (and little girls) Then I found the internet and my illusion was shattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:56 AM
31

Having sons is a mental illness. It makes women crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:00 PM
5

Gentle femdom = mommy that fucks you. It's all the sexual service of being a sub with all of the responsibility of being a dom! What a deal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:51 PM
13

Yah I'm thinking this is a troll account hoping to catch us saying "You go sis!! Fuck that guy!! Cheating is A-Ok if you're not happy!!" then post the caps to other subs to show how evil and selfish we are. Lurkers: WE ARE NOT OK WITH CHEATING OR TREATING MEN LIKE SHIT! WE JUST DON'T ACCEPT BEING TREATED LIKE SHIT. LEARN THE DIFFERENCE. If you're real, break up with your boyfriend and "friend". Stop acting like a LV pickme and gain some self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:33 PM
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It's the easiest thing to make from scratch. It's not THAT impressive lol but pick mes will act like they made you a four course meal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:31 AM
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Can someone tell me why (some) black men feel proud about cheating? Other men at least seem ashamed and will hide it as best they can but black men seem to want to show off that they have side chicks... and will turn it on their woman acting like something's wrong with HER for not accepting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:01 PM
43

Yuuuuup. Had an ex that put himself into $30,000 debt (on top of outrageous insurance every month) so he could get a motorcycle. Crashed it his first day. Rode way too fast, rode drunk, had pictures of other girls sitting on it on his phone. I wouldn't want a life partner of mine to own one because it's so dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:23 PM
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" The only solution is avoiding people like this bro " - a sane user " or, just hear me out, or we could round them up on an island, make half of them kill each other and the other half start a nation of cannibals. Now, you may be thinking that they’ll just keep growing, but heres the catch. Because they care about no one but themselves, they’ll eat the babies and soon the population will dwindle down until the last two people are alive. Finally, we take those two people, take them back to socie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:30 AM
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Here's the twitter of a guy that responds to almost all her tweets https://twitter.com/Aphron1/with_replies His Bio: Just an Average Frustrated Chump locked in a battle to the death with a narcissistic wife. Learn from my mistakes. It's quite clear who her audience is... also is it just me or do men over exaggerate the "abuse' they supposedly face. He's calling his wife a raging narcissist because she doesn't turn off the lights before going to bed (the horror). Then pick mes like this eat that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:32 AM
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Girl I found a whole ass CONDOM in our living room and let him say one of his friends used it... on our couch? My pick me ass was on a whole other level lol they are always cheating, never give them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:56 AM
8

I've noticed that these men are also really into rough, degrading sex. Like they're trying to gain their masculinity back because deep down they know they're supposed to be the providers and it embarrasses them. So they'll take it out on you. But yah reddit, splitting the bill then letting a man abuse you during sex is totally feminist and empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:06 AM
9

Lmao that name censor (we survived the ban wave but does not censoring names or linking to posts count as brigading? Could other subs use that against us?) A man that expects you to pay is going to treat you like shit. Why don't people understand that paying on dates is a vetting process? They call women shallow but every man that I've paid for or split with has treated me terribly. I tried the whole "equality in dating" thing and sorry it just doesn't work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:15 AM
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Just fucking say it then. Oh wait, if you're honest with a girl and let her know that you're just using her for sex because you don't respect her, she won't fuck you. Can't jeopardize getting your peepee wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:27 PM
94

Why advertise this? So new men can use you for sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:23 PM
53

Yikes... like what's their plan? They gonna marry a girl their family will hate?? They just expect their wife to deal with that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:01 AM
9

Do you have any tips to keep conversations from fizzling out? I've tried to find girl friends on there but it never goes anywhere past "hey, how are you, cool"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:47 PM
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They confuse a virgin's discomfort and pain with being tight and a sexually experienced woman's lubrication and pleasure with being loose. When I was having sex when I didn't want to (yah I know bad pick me lol) my boyfriends always asked if they were my first or comment on how "tight" I was. Nah bro I'm not sexually aroused. Edit: for mixing up words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:43 PM
19

He must have because it definitely said 13. Guess he's reading our sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:34 PM
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"Women receive their value in the sexual marketplace up front. At 13, she is blessed with shiny, flowing hair, soft skin, a curvy waistline, and voluptuous breasts while boys her age wrestle with acne, awkwardness, and a squeaky voice. " Is this guy on a list yet? Who describes a 13 year old that way??? And btw most women I know weren't "hot" as a preteen. We were also pimply, skinny and awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:00 AM
74

Did she reject him? Did he just randomly slide into her DMs to insult her? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:51 AM
6

Went to that man's page. Not a single video was funny. Showed them to my boyfriend. He didn't think they were funny. But he's out here like "wOmEn ArEn'T fUnNy hAhA tRiGgErED sNoWfLaKe Im CoMeDiC gEnIuS". Men really love themselves too much. (and his sorry pick me gf ugh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:04 AM
44

Don't you know that having your body violated in the most degrading ways, facing dehumanization at the hands of men, and increased risk of STDs, abuse, rape and murder is basically the same as working a shitty job at burger king. Sis it's 2020, normalize sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:55 PM
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My bro... stone cold shit? It just said Chad showered and used lotion. Spending money on a woman is to show investment in her. A HVM will not go bankrupt to show his lady that he appreciates her. He is generous with his money/time but does not put himself in a bad situation. Some women have higher standards of the amount of money they want spent on them. Those women will be out of you financial league, just move on. Just don't be cheap. BDE is being confident, mature, gentlemanly, kind, masculin…
/r/askFDS11/07/20 02:37 PM
16

She's advertising what a good victim she is... and by extent her daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:53 AM
47

Omg yes. My shitty high school boyfriend asked me to marry him (with an ICECREAM CONE FROM THE FREEZER) just so he could get the benefits from being married. And all his friends were doing it so....that was the only way our relationship could be "respected". Military culture is so toxic to the women marrying those dumb fucks (and women in the military).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:11 PM
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The hilarious thing is I know exactly where he got that nonsense from. It comes from a study on Alzheimer's where they found male DNA in some of the women's brains. In the study itself they said they don't know how it got into women's bodies but they theorize it came from male pregnancies (fetuses can share stem cells with the mother's body). But a single opinion piece on a shitty (nonscientific) website claimed it was because every time a woman has sex with a man, his DNA (semen) somehow seeps …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:00 PM
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They would cry about having to jerk it to "post wall roasties". There goes their barely legal, pedophilic fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:18 AM
8

I think it comes down to men and women having different interests. I find men boring because 95% of them share the same 3 hobbies (video games, sports, cars). Seriously what's up with calling women basic when most men share the same personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:17 PM
53

If a woman does something awful: wow women suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:07 AM
21

I nominate Legally Blonde!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:48 PM
7

Ugh. Women are born with 2 MILLION EGGS. 75% are gone by the time a girl hits puberty. With 90% of her eggs gone she still has 200,000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:45 PM
88

A 39 year old man calling women bitches. Classy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:56 AM
2

Don't date drug addicts. I dated a "recovering" addict and thought everything was fine because I lived with him and didn't see a problem. He was secretly doing coke everyday, blowing all his money, and fucking other girls. You might think everything is fine but if he's doing ketamine he's probably doing other shit (and they hide it really well). Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:20 PM
30

His anonymity is being protected while she was slandered by the media as a BDSM slut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:18 PM
14

You would not be on the same page. He would know he has all the power and would treat you worse. And even if it did lead somewhere it'd be an embarrassing way to start a relationship. Imagine having to explain how you met to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:44 AM
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One of the largest and most important tenets of FDS is to learn to be happy without a man. You need to build a fulfilling life for yourself that does not depend upon anyone else. Focus on building a career that will provide for you later in life, cultivate rewarding and fun friendships, pick up hobbies that enrich your life, improve your self esteem. Do not waste time waiting around for a man to see your worth. I promise that living your life in a high value way will attract the right men (but a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:32 AM
24

Well you kinda said it all in the first sentence: he's a fuckboy. Your worth does not come from outside validation ESPECIALLY not from walking dicks. Why would you even want him back? Would round two really be better than the first time around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:19 AM
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I read your post history and it's very concerning. You post a lot in suicidewatch and depression. The answer is you should not be thinking of dating right now. You should not be concerned about the opinions of men. You should not be worried about getting a boyfriend that will pretend to love you just so you can prove your worth to other people. You need to prove your worth to yourself. You need to love yourself. Please , if you are not already in therapy, get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:09 AM
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To be fair we do say some pretty meanie things: "scrote, LVM, dusty, pornsick, dump him". We give them 1/4th of what they give us and they can't handle it. They can't handle us laughing at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:52 PM
22

GEEZ! This is the 5th post about men being depressed they can't fuck multiple hot women I've seen today! What is wrong with men?? They call us empty-headed and shallow but their entire lives revolve around getting laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:11 AM
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One pickme in the comments told him to cheat and get it over with. So he can somehow magically go back to loving his wife and kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:49 AM
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I'm glad you found it helpful! I would love to hear an update once you've figured it out (I love makeovers lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:21 AM
4

Agreed. Stop being friends with men who only want to fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:14 PM
2

I think you should look into horse-related careers since you said it makes you so happy! What are you doing at the stable now? Training, horse care, general maintenance? Research how to get started and what qualifications you need to work full time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:51 PM
73

Why are men SO BAD at advertising themselves? You disqualify yourself before the first swipe with this weird passive aggressive shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:43 PM
54

I would suggest starting off with a capsule wardrobe of high quality basics. A capsule wardrobe is basically a small collection of clothes that all fit together so you can have many combinations of outfits from a few pieces. Here's a very basic formula: - 10 tops (3 t-shirts, 2 tank tops, 2 dressy tops, 2, sweaters, 1 button down) - 5 bottoms (2 jeans, 1 trousers, 1 shorts, 1 skirt) - 3 outerwear (1 blazer, 1 cardigan, 1 coat) - 2 dresses (day dress, night dress) - 3 shoes (flats, heels, sneaker…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:12 AM
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Even then it's not really comparable. Not rinsing dishes= something annoying but doesn't hurt anybody. Choking= potential damage and it's somebody's BODY. They always compare women's bodies to objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:02 PM
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A therapist would know. And they would be able to help you process and get over that trauma so you can have a happy, satisfying sex life with loving men instead of abusive ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:06 AM
8

Block him everywhere. He won't magically poof out of your mind overnight but the feelings will fade over time. You just have to be strong enough to not indulge in your loneliness and contact him. Make a list of all of his bad traits, this will help remind you that you left a loser. Think about all of your goals. Make a plan for each one, map out how you're going to accomplish them, and get busy. Pick up some interesting hobbies. Whatever interests you or you think will add value to your life. (I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:43 PM
4

By boxers do they mean men's underwear? They wear underwear outside or...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:24 AM
22

It's culturally misogynistic because porn and pop culture are pushing it to be the norm. It's normal and "hot" to slap, choke, and degrade women during sex. You're a "prude" if you don't like it. Girls are straight up being pressured into liking rough sex. It's gotten to the point where slapping/choking IS something you do on a first hookup. But it never goes the other way. Men are not shamed for not wanting women to hit them, step on their balls, call them names during sex. Violence against wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:43 AM
16

What am I reading?? Is this a joke? Did he actually slice her clit with a razor blade?? People are defending him? What the FUCK is going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:25 PM
39

Yup. This is how 99% of men end up but "mEn AgE lIkE wInE"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:08 PM
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