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If women think all men are bad, should men have no motivation to keep a low crime rate?? Surely it'd ultimately only help you sleep better knowing you didn't sell/gamble your body for cheap thrills. Men finding value in it is just a byproduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:57 AM
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She has 0 control. She's riding on her bf's past successes, and her successes of pulling guys like that. Some cute women like her get to live that life.. for a while. It's very easy to be this annoyingly confident if you've been nothing but lucky in life. But most people have hit enough bumps to know the chaotic nature of the world, so can probably empathize better.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 04:36 AM
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I cant wait to see the post about how romance novels and movies portraying women as attractive just disproving that.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:29 AM
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I haven't read these myself, but pretty sure female protagonists in these novels aren't described for their physical attractiveness, at least not in the superficial sense. Is there a paragraph in them that describes them as such? Granted in the movies they do typically pick conventionally attractive actresses but that's just a side effect of Hollywood.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:28 AM
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Masculinity has nothing to do with height. You must've dated enough tall guys to know that by now? If not, that probably explains your flawed bias. It also has apparently nothing to do with gender either, as proven by many women, including yourself. What's probably happening is you have a high masculine energy and you're finding ways to somehow dampen it through the height difference in your partner, as many women do (and men too). The male equivalent to that is when guys assume petite women are…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:27 AM
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A real feminine woman shouldn't need taller man to feel girly with. It seems like a masculinity-issue on your part. And partly society's fault that you feel unprotected without a bodyguard though.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:43 PM
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Top selling romance novels/books made for women: 50 shades of gray - a billionaire makes the secretary cum. Twilight - a 108 year old mature vampire (someone not only better than the nerds, but far out of league of even the athletes) makes a quirky loner girl cum. Neither portrays women as "attractive" (or at least that's not the selling point).
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:29 PM
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Height is not something you have to analyze. It's a picosecond observation. Even in head shots you can almost always tell, tall people have larger face/nose.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:05 PM
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What about your kids? What if they end up not liking your past either?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 07:51 AM
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Suggesting women just sleep with men they're unattracted to Who suggested that? Women do that on their own when they have no other option left. Not for the sex of course but for other benefits (money/dependability). They are able to physically overpower women and can fuck them any time! Firstly, as can women. All men don't lie outside of women in terms of strength. You can always find a guy physically weaker than you. Secondly, again, flawed assumptions. There's law that prevents it. Not to ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:07 PM
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Either I'm being given advice, one that makes me make fundamental changes to my sexuality. Or they're making a false comparison based on the same flawed assumption (that you can change your sexuality). By the same logic any woman who ever bitches about men not comitting to them or being catcalled can just change themselves to become lesbians or ugly men to solve their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:52 PM
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Didn't ask for advice but thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:59 AM
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It's for awareness. Lotta cancer cures don't exist either, doesn't people should stop talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:57 AM
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Not every problem has a solution. Ever heard people bitch about aging? And if immortals existed, would you take any of their problems seriously then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:50 AM
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Sex isn't. Having it easily is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:40 AM
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"Privilege is invisible to those who have it"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:38 AM
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I mean, no shit we don't do heinous shit only because it's illegal. Lemme ask you - are you vegan? Or do happily enjoy the fruits of massacring an entire species of your favorite meat just because it's legal? And not just animals, everything you enjoy - iPhone, leather, makeup are all built by some humans or animal species suffering far worse than just a bad dating experience. The entire country was formed by invading the natives. You only realize this nature of humans now when YOU are the subje…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:31 PM
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1. your failure to separate men who do it and men who fear it is showing. It's like saying women do slutty things and then fear being objectified and being used for sex. 2. even speaking for the men who do both (do it and fear it) what's wrong with that? It's not hypocritical if that's what you're assuming. Again, it's like saying women doing slutty things and then fearing being used for sex. You can be both. In fact smart people often are. They take advantage where they can, and not get taken a…
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 07:15 PM
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Alpha is, by definition, whoever manages fucks you first. Never mind whether you find them appealing or not. If women knew themselves as much as they think, these pill debates wouldn't exist. But if partners perfectly good for you don't arouse you... I mean. You basically have the female equivalent of erectile disfunction. That's above reddit, and I bet even most therapist's paygrade to solve because society (or even feminism) hasn't even recognized it yet; it instead gaslights us into thinking …
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/22 09:05 AM
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The hint is in the name of the sub. What is "purple pill"? Its between red and blue. Those are the subs that give you real advice. This sub let's you make an informed dicision as to which one to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:48 PM
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Didn't he goto jail for statutory rape? Great idol! Learn to separate at from artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:29 PM
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League works differently for women than for men. But simply put, if they're not giving you LTR they're above your league. And you don't get to determine your league, others do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:19 PM
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It's about genitalia. I think that's anti-chritians not understanding and hyperbolizing the concept of virginity. Let's put it this way - the more you get used to brighter and shinier lights, you won't be able to see with clarity in normal lighting. but at the same time if she is married and have sex everyday with the same man, she doesn’t get used up? No. Quite the opposite. This strengthens pair-bond. Although then divorce can potentially create a problem, but it's WAY less harmful than sleepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:16 PM
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I don't plan to. But it does limit my options, by a lot. At least in my "looksmatch" category. Not even considering other standards based on reasons rather than wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:37 PM
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Not exactly. Jelousy makes it sound more trivial than it is. People having more than you wouldn't bother you unless it affected you. Consider this - you live in a world where right after marriage men who've had fun immediately become bums and there's no way to unmarry them without losing an arm and a leg. Would you now consider men who've had fun as a potential marriageable partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:13 PM
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I hope you're at most 14, or without any normal looking close male friends who open to you to not have realized this but excellent point! It didn't even occur to me that you'll throw that in my face! You know why? Because I, and most men are not that man who can "have fun" by, for example going on Tinder and getting a "dick appointment" this afternoon! "Men", as you so conveniently bunched up thinking it'll be comparable to my usage of "women", are limited by women's own (hypocritical, dual stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:52 PM
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Can you point it out in the handbook? TRP's suggestion for engaging with "submissive" women (it doesn't even link less promiscuity with submissiveness, most it'll say it'll be correlated) is to keep them as LTRs (for as long as they're submissive). Hence the existence of r\RedPillWomen & r\RedPillWives (who've actually obviously understood the literature and welcome it).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:39 PM
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Well to answer faithfully, no, men and women are supposed to have sex with each other obviously. But most women only usually sleep with very few guys (who're way above thier league). Don't tell me you (or most women) will have sex with just ANY guy. Women are the sought after sex because they're so selective. But the selection process has become unnatural as of late, what with invent of birth control and abortions. Women are selecting different people for sex (having fun) than for marriage. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:23 PM
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Riddle me this; you have a man that keeps making prototypes that all fail, and you have a man who’s perfectly content to use candles ad infinitum. Who’s more likely to invent a lightbulb? Riddle me this, who will be happier? 99 failed scientists or 100 candle farmers? Science is a selfless act. Its practitioners often suffer the worst for the rest to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:57 PM
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That is not the outcome! The outcome is that you have 2 men of very different outlook on life with you who'd do things differently in other circumstances than just cheating. How you do one thing is how you do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:20 PM
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Women you would die just to make eye contact with and men with more class and success than you could hope to achieve in several lifetimes. Whoa, that's a lot of ego for basically what you got in lottery of genetic draw, and did nothing towards. Explains all your problems. "If you start at the top rung of a ladder, there's nowhere to go but down" Women you would die just to make eye contact with 😬 < that would the only eye contact if anyone knew what was going on behind those eyes. he allowed him…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:47 AM
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Because the solution would be admitting that xyz is an abuser and they should go to therapy. Most abusers don't give a shit about other's opinions as they are already getting what they want (and it ain't the other men giving it to them..) so why would they go to therapy in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:02 AM
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Cop out Well you don't like it when we get involved to fix the problem either so... Freedom comes at the cost of living with the consequences of your choices. Complete freedom = complete blame. Like the car dealership analogy you used below (ignoring the objectification), cars don't have freedom and they're made to go through rigorous tests. And even if they fail you can sue the company and get a settlement. The law equivalent of a car dealership is basically a marriage. If the guy turns out shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:04 AM
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I mean, they can kick my ass right now, let alone when I'm old. Good thing there's law and modern medicine though. Also guys looking to "kick ass" are generally dim witted and easy to avoid. I've been battling bullying since an early age. So I know a thing or two how to maneuver around them or keep them as friends (keep your friends close...). You'd be surprised how many of these tough guys have deep insecurities that you can exploit. Who do you think convinces these young dumb soldiers to go di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:48 AM
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Agreed. And I doubt most men thoughtful enough to be on these subs are the ones doing chasing. It's usually the "numbers game" guys. I mean, TRP teaches that (hit on as many women as possible) so if they had to teach it, guys here were already not doing it. So you're pretty much preaching to the choir.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:52 AM
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Who are we comparing with? Their past self or other younger men? Better than their past self - depends. They definitely can. Single old men in particular have more spare time (and gained knowledge & experience) to put into their appearance. Better than other younger men? Again, depends on whether they're competing for the same women? Since physical appearance is only one of the factors for women, older men can again be at an advantage to be more developed other areas (money, maturity). Also slig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:38 AM
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healthy You mean bluepilled? Nope, just lucky. Or they're just not a complainer (even when they're in unhealthy in relationships). Either that or they're just naturally some pilled. These aren't actual pills as in something you willfully take externally. These pills are more personality types that everyone already has one. People here are just questioning theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:17 PM
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Just a few posts from these subs: BreakUps You dumped me over text. 2.5 years. I hope if you find a girl that will go as far as I have to make you happy that you won’t let her go like you did with me. [wecwb0] i will love you in every universe. Dear Glenn. [wec46z] Everyday I feel like I’m waiting for something that isn’t gonna happen… I miss him so much [wete89] [w78uua] UnsentLetters I know I will have to do life alone [weof00] Ladies, I am trying to accept that I might not ever find love even…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:12 AM
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His argument was "LOT LOT LOT more shallow". And not for simply "company". For company your nature (cool, easy going) would far outweigh your prettiness. And I know for a fact the same to be true for women as well (for platonic company). But a simple "company" is not the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:16 AM
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I think you're replying to the wrong person. They're not the one that said anything bad about dating SA victims. Their parent commenter did. Tell them! (who for some reason didn't take into account male SA victims)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:32 AM
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What in your opinion would dissolve an SA victim's fragility and issues? IMO it'd probably be heck of a lot harder to deal with than the latter. When I had no experience all I wanted was to be accepted, and my issues dissolved pretty much instantaneously, before even the official first date. I imagine an SA victim would be much harder and time consuming to deal with (again, IMO, and not judging) . Also who said "guys" (all of them?) would avoid dating SA victims. Heck, some guys exclusively date…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:26 AM
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Well, some women are like: + tall + attractive + confident + charmer - asshole - no money - only interested in sex "🤩 Well, cum right in! 🤩" They don't even SEE, or refuse to see past first few points if those points are met. (why did you leave those out OP?) And BTW similar standards exists among men too: + pretty face + emotionally stable - obese - baggage - old So it's not that men don't understand it. And they too, would welcome women right in for meeting first few points too... at least for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:39 PM
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Explaining the joke would take away the humor. Nah, and that's exactly the point. Inserting race into everything only makes it more.. confusing if not irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:00 PM
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I guess I didn't see the humor. Should've thrown in "LMBAO" (an acronym TIL existed, LMWAMRAO!)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:41 PM
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The latter probably? Just wanted to point your derailment of the topic, which seemed to be disguised as the former. But, it just left me wondering.. why even do that? Are you just agreeing that for a large swath men acquiring wealth is easy? But for whatever reason you're labeling these people "manos/incels"? ...just why? I mean, I get they're not your cup of tea exactly, but why go out of your way to express your disgust that too without actually adding anything of value to the discussion. I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:25 PM
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Define confidence Ability to predict the future with certainty. I mean, that's what it means in all scientific and computer/AI lingo (which is what my background is and I've found no other way to actually understand that word). So IRL it just means no matter whatever happens you KNOW you'll be able to "handle it". You can either fake it. Which is what most people do, and fall flat eventually, and their partner gets the "ick" and bolts. Or you can develop it by living through as many different an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:10 PM
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SETTLE Gamble is the word I'd use, at least at first. If I lose (find out she lied) then yeah, I have no choice but to settle. Cuz divorce laws don't take women's lies into consideration, so it's either settling or paying a hefty price for being misled. At which point you might as well make the best out of a bad situation. One more lie to live with I guess (along with lies like "I like living in concrete jungles and pushing buttons!"). Some men find out beforehand (god bless the honest whores!) …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:54 PM
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Ah, my bad. I completely missed your initial comment. It’s not already normal? I think so too, it is indeed very normal. My only addition would be that it's becoming more affordable for the common man. Especially with globalization, migration, sex tourism, and all that. skinny women That too is largely just a US problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:48 PM
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Are you adding to the discussion by disagreeing upon the statistics - that "large swath" is lower than what he claimed, or are you just re-labeling things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:16 PM
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Are you sure you're focusing on the right part of what he said? I guess we see value the most. You focused on "wealth" whereas I think his focus was more on "easily accomplished" and "non-obese". You don't need a whole lot of wealth to find hookers at any rate. Everyone has a different price. And vast majority of sex workers are within anyone's price range. I mean, that's just capitalism 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:09 PM
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You don't understand men AT ALL. if a man was able to get a girlfriend as desirable as that OnlyFans girl, he would not need to subscribe to OnlyFans. smh. That is simply not true. If he COULD get both he would get both. Biologically men benefit from spreading their seeds far and wide at as little cost to themselves as possible. Cheating is rampant in circles of high desirability, and mostly from men's side. I mean, wasn't that the problem before feminism that married men would cheat a lot? Only…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:25 AM
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Um, hypergamy noun the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Do I need to say further? Sexier/big-boobs/pretty/can-use-makeup =/= hypergamy. If men were simping for RICHER or girls with PhDs or daughters of powerful men - that would be male hypergamy. Prettier/hotter or not - apart from sexual gratification men have nothing do gain from a hot chick. You can call them SIMPS. And men LOSE money and reputation chasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:30 AM
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To me (and i thought it was) sub (and pill subs in general) was about finding the truth. The most productive thing you could do here is get women's (accurate) opinion about small penises. And maybe try to separate the lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:49 PM
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"Fresh" probably offended you more than salivate would offend me or most men, we're pretty much used to being called pReDaToRs even if we eye a woman 5-10 years younger. The fact that you had to do a 14 year diff to make your point is proof of that - any less wouldn't be enough of an exaggeration. I mean, you could've just admitted the hypocrisy but you chose passive aggressive. sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:17 PM
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first part implies the second It does not! Look -> "Men tend to date younger." This does NOT imply that "men tend not to date women who are older". Men would date anyone who's hot. Younger is better but no man would ever give up an opportunity to date an older woman who's into them, and it helps if she's hot. Another one -> "Apples tend to be sweeter" =/= "Apples tend not to be citrusy" as (I find) apples to be a mix of both, just a bit more sweeter usually but always a hint of citrusey dependin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:50 PM
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To me the point of the post is to point out the hypocrisy. So much for equality when women are 6 TIMES more likely to prefer someone to whom they're themselves unequal to (as in inferior to). It's a basic hypergamy proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:37 PM
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unlike for some men who salivate over that prospect WHY would you compare apples to oranges? It's biologically deeply ingrained in men to "sAlIvAtE" over young women. You know.. like height, athleticism is with women? SAME biological processes make women like older guys - who have had more life experience, earning potential, are bigger and taller, etc that all work in favor of women in securing a better future for her and the kids. Similarly guys would wanna secure the "freshest" (not pregnant/h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:32 PM
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It seems to me you're the one doing what you're accusing him of. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships#Statistics If you remove all context (men/women/marriage) from this data and show it to someone I'm willing to bet they would all say that the top half (husband older) is the quantity that's massively larger than the lower half (wife older).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:22 PM
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s****de Sorry, what's that? when the apocalypse happens, I like many other women will choose the latter Unless "s****de" means something I don't know.. the point is you won't have a choice (during apocalypse)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:44 PM
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lol you think Bezos and Zuck's wives are the only women they're fucking? They've got harems! Their wives are just "beards" they put on to fool gullible people like you. Look at Bill Gates, before the divorce Melinda was supposedly his only "wife". (his affairs were an "open secret" that apparently only came out after the divorce). Also you could've mentioned Leonardo Dicap or other such millionares who care very little about what the world thinks, and whose income don't depend on their slutty im…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:34 PM
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You: who cares? Them: some women care You: I don't ✌🏻 I swear people in this thread are either mind numbingly narcissists or just have autistic levels in following a conversation they themselves started!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:26 PM
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Vast majority of men are named "Chang". Are you lying when you tell people your name?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:23 PM
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This man is a fool for staying. Victim blaming much? Would you also call women who were pressured into doing unwanted things fools as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:13 PM
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Could you clarify what you don't believe? That she had "fun" 20s and tame 30s, or the whole thing? Because women here in this thread itself are admitting to the first part. So it's not a stretch that some women would become reserved, while some would continue being freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:05 PM
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TRP doesn't recruit. Just like FDS. People tired of the other side's hypocrisy, and having formed almost the same realizations just naturally turn up. I'm not trying to sway your opinion. Just postulating what the future might be like to your "If you think it’s so great, you do it." Oh we'll do it alright! But it won't be "stay at home dads" (nevermind the hypocrisy most women don't accept SAHDs in the first place... I mean are jobless guys that hard to find??). Also given that we're not the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:47 PM
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The whole idea of "classifiying" single mothers is that they can no longer have/share/give the same experience of raising kids together with a potential partner. It doesn't matter if the kid is little or grown. That train (happy family raising) is gone, which has more to do with yourself - it also comes with a reputation boost in your circles/society. The difference is probably gonna depend on you as a person at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:50 AM
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If you think it’s so great, you do it. Plenty of men are stay at home dads. Love to. But then I'd rather marry a heterosexual guy and visit brothels and do Eiffel towers together! Let's open up and separate the contents of the whole marriage + sex pandora box and pick and choose what's best for us. The 'ol ball-and-chain: N🚫PE. Unlimited sex on MY schedule: YEAAAP! About the "cage" ... I love how women's solution to the marriage "cage" was... employment cage. lol. Instead of being dependent on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:27 AM
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lol. Gaslighting 101. You chose an asshole, got burned, and now it's all because of men. The "autonomy" goes out the window the minute they realize their mistakes. I just hope you're treating the new guy with every ounce of love and lust you gave to the last one in your prime years, and more to make up for your lost youth. Not that he'll probably demand it but you know what you owe. And PLEASE don't tell him about your past ever or he'll be the one to get the "ick on a molecular level".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:58 AM
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Are you sure you understand the exchange you're replying to? My comment was sarcastic, and implying that according to modern women's preferences THEY are the ones who'd actually prefer a Neanderthal. (The woman above used the words "nature" and "history" as if they're positive, not me)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:41 AM
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Research suggests the only guarantee is son be taller than mom. Dad's height make no difference, even on daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:19 AM
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Generalization aside, YES - if they stay friends with wrong people they WILL be judged by it. Even the best of them! Look at Bill Gates.. I'm 99% sure he wasn't involved in the Epstein case but.. who knows!?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:50 PM
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Women complaint all the time when guys get horny too early or during initial stages..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:05 PM
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my friends dont define me They do. It's literally a proverb: A man is judged by the company he keeps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:32 PM
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Ah, I can help you there. Men and women are different. Case closed. Stop comparing apples to oranges. If we're still going by archaic standards of "height" and "wealth" (neither required to raise a family in modern society as demonstrated by single unemployed mothers). Then we have to take into account that women cheating is a LOT worse than men cheating, because subconsciously we (men) still link women's promiscuity with unknown father (risk of raising a bastard) and sexual diseases. Men cheati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:17 PM
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do you deserve not to be assaulted I deserve lots of things. Do I get them? Are you doing ALL the work necessary to preserve modern society? This isn't about you or me individually. It's about the combined effort of ALL men vs those of all women. If you measure this faithfully and accept the results you won't have to resort to deflecting. Men and women both do all sorts of jobs. What bubble do you live in!? How many garbage women have you seen in your entire life? Not to mention drafting! Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:16 PM
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I'm not sure any of this was about getting women to do something. RP started with guys talking among themselves. Then pill debates started all basically a response to RP and proving or disproving it. We're not giving instructions to imaginary people outside. We're basically just discussing whether RP, and its implications in broader sense (from incels to RP weddings) are true or not, how should one adapt to it, reevaluate, and ultimately make decisions in their own life. There’s a major theme on…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:10 AM
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it’s what all decent humans should want Want =/= get/deserve. Someone has to do the work. Do women do all the work necessary to ensure all the privilege modern society enjoys? Do women do the grunt work? Last I checked most women only do or want the cushy office or easy jobs. In making modern society what it is, women aren't pulling their weight. Talk about asking men to pull weight in housekeeping. and make sure children are cared for in the event of a divorce Women are always favored in custod…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:24 AM
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naturally Historically Pack it up boys, we're going ancient and uncivilized!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:33 AM
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A toxic guy would have to have some other positive attribute, be it looks, wealth, status, and an overlooked one on this forum- social skills (witty, funny, confident/cocky, etc) What about a guy who has all that but isn't toxic? Would he win? What if the toxic guy lies about his wealth? A woman making decision would falsely believe it and boom! He wins. You're underestimating the power of toxicity. And overestimating the reliability of women's selection process.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:17 AM
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They don't ignore them, they just don't (or aren't able to) give them what they want. Becoming someone's desired preferences doesn't give you what YOU want. But.. don't you have the law on your side in terms of getting you what you want? Cheating, domestic violence, rape, are all criminal offenses. Even if you leave the guy the law guarantees you alimony/support. Society gives women everything on a platter to get what they want from guys. Can you name a single thing society has done for men to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:04 AM
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Are you meaning to talk about denial? Probably, but also ignorance. Either you know there are 10 or you don't That would be ignorance. Ignoring such a basic fact would be denial, like flat-earthers are in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:42 AM
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It's irrelevant what women DON'T want. What's relevant here is what women do want. If women want a guy (specially physically), then there's a whole lot he can get away with even WITHOUT lying. Lying just makes it effortless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:28 PM
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What's funnier is how women think they can hold down a man chased by 100s or even 10s of women. The very thing that makes a man desirable makes him.. undesirable? He'll just simply go through 99 or 9 women (who'll be free again for the next alpha). So yeah, enjoy the lucky draw or freedom... I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:09 PM
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"Knowing", in this scenario, is the knowing that 10 apples will HAVE to be shared if even 20 people want to eat it. "Acknowledgement" would be that you KNOW this fact. If you pretend otherwise, or say something like "oh I didn't know there were only 10 apples.." then that would be not acknowledging the basic obvious fact that's sitting right in front of you. Acknowledging here is with yourself. Or you genuinely could be naiive and not know (which is what I meant by unknowingly) and still be enga…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:02 PM
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Bc that’s not actually what women want. Irrelevant Or lying wouldn’t get you more women. Of course it would! Or you're probably thinking of LTRs.. yeah, I mean you wouldn't get more women unless they're poly. We're talking about getting laid, and quickly. Lying gets you that quickly and with more distinct women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:48 PM
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Let's look at it another way. There are 10 apples and 1000 people who want to eat them. So one takes a bite, leaves it, and goes away for a while. The apple rearranges itself not to show its bitten side. Another person comes up and does the same thing. This is the only way all 1000 of them can have 10 apples. They HAVE to be sharing it, and they have to KNOW they're sharing it. Whether they ACKNOWLEDGE it is a different thing. If they don't know they're either really stupid or being made one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:46 PM
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monopolize Why bother? And they're not the ones sharing. To them women are single use, mostly first use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:32 AM
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Anything you can get with honesty, you can get more of or more easily with dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:27 AM
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"share" doesn't necessarily mean knowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:24 AM
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winning Interesting word choice. If you expect to be "won", expect staying on the shelf like a trophy or used like a toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:14 PM
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What's your idea of a woman putting in an effort? Also who decides whether the effort was worthwhile, you or them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:01 PM
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Can you elaborate "care for you"? Also how many guys have you"wooed" with your skills (other than sex) or taken on a date with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:49 PM
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There are no female forums where women fantasize about raping and killing men. There are though where they talk about looting, dragging, cheating, divorce-raping rich, even married men. I mean, if in terms of sexual fetish, "50 shades of gray" is the women equivalent of "teen porn", so obviously in terms of "hurting" fetish things would be way different for women too. Men's rape and death would in no way whatsoever benefit women. THAT is the only reason. Not because they're "Mother Teresa"s. Bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:59 AM
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..the hard way. You learn all the wrong things first and then deduce the right things. Which, if you cared to learn easily were most probably left there as lessons by your elders/ancestors/civilizations all along. Mating isn't a new thing. How many old women would advise young women to "make mistakes" (I'm assuming meaning sleep around as much as possible?). Going by dating subs for older people (datingover30/40) they all pretty much want to have had already found a relationship early on, and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:23 AM
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You only have one life Make mistakes Yep 🤦‍♂️. "You only have one shot at this! Do it wrong!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:28 PM
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How can you possibly believe that. Men and women have DIFFERENT organs to have sex with. How can it possibly be the same experience. Would you believe anal sex (as a hetero man) to be same? Not to mention basic biology. Men produce million sperms a day. Women release 1 egg a month. If sex was created by evolution, men would be wired to have as much sex with as many different women as possible. Whereas women would be wired to have it with only the top guy, or someone in his company.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:21 PM
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Men, as women, and as any animal, are selfish. Society is supposed to be a place where we don't act as selfish animals and live together considering each other's interest in mind. Men take women's interest in mind. Well, most of them do, as much as they can anyway. The fact that they're not behaving like animals shouldn't just be the "bare minimum". The existence of the phrase "bare minimum" is proof that we don't seem to be getting enough credit, at least not as of late. On top of that, men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:10 PM
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I think that pressure we have on us is a big reason why men have achieved all of the great things that we have. Men have not achieved anything great until the last 200-500 years, which was all thanks to Science. We are communicating via something that wasn't available for majority of nAtUrAl sElEcTiOn. Look around you. Every inch of our landscape is shaped by scientific revolution which has only came into existence a short while ago. If anything natural selection is a hindrance. How is 6'2" a "g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:56 PM
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So you just want to use women for sex? Do you in all honesty believe that men don't? Do you think if given full freedom, no judgement, to have sex with any woman men won't? You're just stating the obvious here. Yes, if we CAN just use women for sex that is ALL we will do. Relationship is a compromise for us. Anything a woman's COMPANY can offer - a man's company can offer too (I might even go far as saying it'll be a better company). I'm not sure if it's the same for women (I honestly don't thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:13 PM
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The takeaway is that it works. It works SO well they can't afford not to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:11 PM
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No, not with girlfriends and wives. And that is precisely the point. Those guys get away with commitment-free sex (fwb, ons) and possibly more. Women's sTaNdArDs are a lie and only help the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:41 PM
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This one case matters more because she was one of you actually found out the truth and you tried to suppress it. It's like the church suppressing Galileo. You started this with "redpillers and incels" - a group no sane person even takes seriously, let alone agrees with. That's like giving importance to flat-earthers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:01 PM
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mass murder Yup, let's take the worst offense someone from a community has done and use it to dismiss any and all of their complaints. Period. How is this not like saying "All Muslims should STFU because well.. ISIS."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:55 PM
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Feminists don’t hate men Feminists hate other (real) feminists. The woman who starred the movement of domestic violence shelters for women tried to start them for men, too. She received death threats from feminists for publicizing her findings that men and women are abusive and abused at roughly equal rates. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:53 PM
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I'm not sure i'm seeing much toxicity... exactly, because women do not value men, they just value what those men represent This person has a cynical view. How is that toxic towards women exactly? Toxicity (as I understand) has to have an element of causing "harm" or "hurt". I respect a woman who has achieved a lot through something other than her looks. Too many women are in the positions they are in because of their looks or gender. Sad but true. As far as attraction goes, I view them as anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:42 PM
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Have you checked out wgtow or other "womanosphere" subs? If they were just as toxic towards men, would that surprize you? Apart from redpill, most male separtist subs mostly only make fun of women. They consider them less than human, sure, but with a sense of pity. Whereas female separatists downright hate men with a vengance. Some go out their way to share tips and tricks to trick men - like baiting, financially destroying. Apart from redpill and incel subs there are very few "manosphere" subs …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:47 PM
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It's that simple: if people get the impression you can't get women any other way than paying its shameful I mean, of all the moral and practical reasons it should be considered shameful, like it treats women as objects—you're basically buying women for an hour, or in the past when safe sex wasn't prevalent and they'd get al sorts of STDs.... but your main criteria for shaming men is that they're getting it by paying (someone who isn't you).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:22 AM
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Like you’re so down bad you can’t get sex for free. You want guys to get sex for free, but if they pay they're losers? Could it be that this tells how you value you yourself? Like maybe you believe that your sex has no value (which may be true).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:18 AM
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Also we have only 1 copy of the X chromosome. We have exchanged a spare shield for a sword.
/r/MGTOW223/07/21 05:12 PM
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Alimony is determined by how much you COULD get paid (in a job, based on your qualifications, past salaries etc). You could commit a felony and be imprisoned and would still have to pay missed payments as well as continue paying whatever was decided when you were in the job market without a criminal record.
/r/MensRights18/04/21 12:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/user/me/submit Also see your posts from an incognito browser to see if it's still up or removed
/r/seduction05/03/21 12:47 PM
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Your post is removed. Can you post again, possibly somewhere else? Protip: always post a copy on your profile.
/r/seduction05/03/21 11:44 AM
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Some studies about attractiveness privilege: https://www.google.com/search?q=attractive+people+privilege It's a privilege in the same way as being rich. You get all the comfort and attention from the poor, most of it will be good and harmless but some of it, inevitably, will be to steal from you. The fact that the only bad thing bothers you and makes you question your entire privilege only shows how sheltered you are from living in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:57 PM
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Would you agree that "society" basically means "most" people? Would most wifes/GFs allow their partners engaging in that entertainment? I don't think most husbands would mind their spouses furthering their education. Heck, they might (and often do) do it together. No such parallel even exists in engaging in prostitution. It's disgusting to even think about - to most, if not all - and to wifes and GFs more than men.. So much so it's a legal ground for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:41 PM
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I mean, you could say that. But I hope you realize the worst it could mean is that men are better, just by pure accident. I also hope you realize you're bringing the standard down by that logic for everyone. You seem like you WANT everyone to be a prostitute? According to you the minute that option is available (price is "right") everyone should start prostituting themselves. When OP said "If the price is right, all women are hookers." it's supposed to be a bad thing. If it were men they'd be re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:25 PM
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Not all women are sexualized. Those that are should consider it a privilege. Shaming those who sell it is a way of taking away that privilege. You can't both be pious and corrupt at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:25 PM
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Not really. Supply and demand. Not really much of a demand for male prostitution. Not from women in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:07 PM
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Should wives/GFs get pissed when their partners go to these sex workers? Or should only bachelors be allowed to entertain themselves? Men aren't the only one finding it wrong. You might even argue, if it were to be made socially acceptable for ALL women to freely enter this entertainment besiness men will probably be least affected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:03 PM
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Men learning to become passive and feminine has only led them to nothing but misery and disrespect. A truly "passive" and "feminine" person wouldn't feel misery or disrespect. They'd simply accept their position in society and embrace it. Gay guys are a prime example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:03 AM
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I heard Rollo on one of his streams say that men shouldn't cry when their dog dies if their girlfriend is standing next to him because she'll never look at him the same way. I'm not sure how this is RP ideology, or "holding frame" specifically. "holding frame" applies to conversation and particularly when conflicts arise. How is your dog dying and your GF being present there has anything to do with it? The closest thing to "holding frame" in that situation I can think of doing would be to cry or…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 05:56 PM
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It'd be a lenthy topic to start by myself, I'm not sure I'd be the best person to hold up any one or few "teachings" of RP. Someone looking to discredit it has to do it by themselves. I simply wanna see you (not you per-se, but rather these subs) do it. And then perhaps if I have a doubt I'll want to clarify - which is mainly what I try to do, and so far whenever I've tried to point out I've gotten responses that stem from "emotional" or "moral" side rather than logical. E.g. (don't debate me on…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 07:31 PM
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Would love to leave it but not exactly convinced so far. This, and related subs (purplepill) are more "opinionated" than TRP (keyword: more). OTOH the impression many who "leave" it give is that they hadn't really much read/understood it. They just seem to leave it simply because it seems "evil" or immoral. I'd love to come across logical reasons. While I don't follow it, I subscribe to all these things purely for interest, and I genuinely crave logical arguments from both sides. But I can't hel…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 04:01 PM
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Lot has been said along these lines but thought I make the point that children's height is determined by mother's height and nutrition/raising more than simply father's height [1]. Maternal height influences offspring linear growth over the growing period. And facial features are a wild shot in the dark. Also this kind of amateur eugenics doesn't seem "hold" down the evolutionary line either, even down one generation! It's just pointless. Checkout how many "betas" or average guys have good looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 05:49 PM
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I was 25 and banging 25-35 year old guys at one point You're stating your own experience from your own point of view. Let me ask you, did you ask a 35 y/o guy if he had better sex with you at that time, or with a 35 y/o woman? I think the answer is obvious. I never said a 35 y/o will be better than 25. (you claimed the opposite, believing it to be due to testosterone) What I'm saying is a 35 or older guy will be better in bed WITH a younger woman THAN with an older one. Young woman + young man =…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 10:19 PM
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I won't go in expecting them to rock my world the way a late 20's, early 30's man with nothing but testosterone flowing through his veins can Testosterone levels reach their peak around age 18 or 19 before declining throughout the remainder of adulthood. I'm not sure relating sexual prowess with testosterone holds much water. Then there are testosterone supplements. So if sex is all that dissuades you from older men the fix should be simple. But as I said, I don't think it's the testosterone tha…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 09:11 PM
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just a projection of their own sexual fantasies That linked survey doesn't back that statement: "projection of their own sexual fantasies". (which is not that odd since it's just a survey) All the reasons I could find paint a different picture https://www.thebeat925.ca/news/healthy-living/272199/the-truth-about-why-older-men-date-younger-women https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/jan/09/men-prefer-younger-women-not-for-their-firmer-bodies-but-their-greater-admiration Although personall…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:44 PM
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We may have different understanding of submission. You do understand that death is better than submission almost always, right? I'm not sure I do. What's BDSM all about then? Submission =/= slavery. I honestly view a low-wage high-stress job to be more submissive than a submissive relationship. Also submission =/= abusive relationship.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:23 PM
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No one (on TRP) said that. They simply say some do, never have they claimed all do. They don't care if those women truly love them, as long as they please them (for they money, power, w/e) submit to them, they're happy. They don't even want love, in fact their whole shtick is that it doesn't exist - that's the whole red pill - it's all about submission to them. You shouldn't be upset if you're older, TRP doesn't want you to "be euthanized" (your words, not their, not in the least) all they want …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 08:03 PM
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Checking if I can comment (bite me karma bot!)
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 07:36 PM
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