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You can actually just invite them over or ask to come to their place. I say this is based on insights from a female friend of mine. She says that men often try too hard when in reality you can just suggest hanging out. They know what you’re looking for; it’s that “easy”.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:19 AM
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Man, I gotta manage to find out where she lives and break in just to leave a note with my contact information and just… hope I don’t get caught? I don’t think it’s worth all that. It’s just a book
/r/seduction15/07/21 09:02 PM
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The autism in here is fucking astounding. This chick followed you, basically said “You got my attention, give me a reason to fuck you”, and then gives you a reason to take her off the pedestal (“I’m older than you think”) and you people think that’s being MEAN?!? Jesus Christ what the fuck. WHY WOULD SHE WASTE HER TIME FURTHERING THE CONVERSATION IF SHE WASN’T AT THE VERY LEAST INTRIGUED!?
/r/seduction21/02/21 04:45 PM
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That’s my point. It’s not like she’s pestering him. He’s annoyed at her absence. He misses her. Giving too many fucks. Only way to cure that is experience. Neither of you truly know that awalt.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:23 PM
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I very much doubt he will. He’s invested now. It’s too late for this man. Rip. If he was apathetic enough to demote her, he wouldn’t find her actions annoying.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:35 PM
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What?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:35 AM
2

Ugh the advice here is retarded. You’re only gonna do what you can. If you can manage to find someone else to go fuck, do it, and move on. Branch swing like everyone tells you only bitches do. If not, supplicate yourself and get your heart broken, or pretend you’re not going to and do it anyway, and get your heart broken. It’s gonna be okay. We all emerge from every shitstorm a more hardened, galvanized version of ourselves.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:47 AM
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Yeah, the projecting comment or whatever, but what you need to know is that it doesn’t mean she likes you. Talk shit like you should be used to doing and think no more about it. If she comes on strong respond in kind.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:42 AM
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This is what it is. OP, sounds like you’re in need of a good letdown Date this girl, let her fuck you up, and walk a way a new man. And I’m dead serious. Everyone needs this experience.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:39 AM
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Jesus Christ you’re not kidding. Do not listen to this dude.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:37 AM
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It’s IMPERATIVE to give into the things you haven’t experience and don’t already believe/understand. You can tell yourself a million times that people are trifling and until you live it for yourself you still won’t believe it.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:00 AM
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It’s totally fair to not sleep with girls that are below your threshold. Don’t force yourself to fuck nasties, and I don’t think it’s possible to force yourself anyway. Girl B is just barely above it for me. I feel the same way about money so I did the bare minimum for a year (lol) and landed a sales job making 3x more than I do now. The thing is, all of the change you will experience will happen when the right stimuli presents itself unless some extra human feat of motivation arises first. Don’…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:54 AM
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When I was 27 I started seeing a girl who was on a “break” from her boyfriend. I had been reading TRP and was on a 4 year dry spell (holy fuck). I’m not ugly or lame AT ALL I just thought I was. My self esteem was totally fucked. I fell in love with her (of course, scarcity) and they got back together, but we kept fucking. Long story short, I learned not to give a fuck by being hurt every single day for 1yr+, straight. I started fucking another girl while I was seeing her, girl A fell in love wi…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:32 AM
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I’m convinced that the only reason dark triad/sociopathy works in seduction is because of their seeming inability to “love” women. Not loving/falling for/caring about someone who is attracted to you is highly underrated as far as building and maintaining attraction goes. I’ve never had women willing to go to the lengths that they do than if I don’t reciprocate their feelings.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:22 PM
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Stop diagnosing yourself. You’re looking for a way to put your responsibility on some disorder instead of taking it on as your own burden.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:59 PM
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Trust, but verify.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:55 PM
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As if they all don’t
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:54 PM
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Yes it does, and that’s not at all what it’s about. Someone didn’t read the whole book. It’s basically a Buddhism themed prescription for finding meaningful values and only giving a fuck about those values. OP absolutely read. Only one of these cheesy try hard self help books that actually affected my worldview and sense of self.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:06 AM
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Word. Strange that I keep running into these serious types... these girls are early 20s and sound like post wall women
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:38 AM
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Texting automatically portrays more investment than saying the same things in person.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:48 AM
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No. Don’t say shit. If you care about her ex you’re a bitch. Past is past. Don’t react to things you don’t care about
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:35 PM
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Yeah man fuck this guy. Family members are just your default friends.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:51 PM
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Questions are boring. World events are boring. Not just to girls but to everyone, relatively speaking. Listen - get into the game of producing a particular reaction out of girls. I like to hang out with these less than attractive girls at work and practice adopting an off-the-wall ridiculous persona to try and produce a “lol wtf” kind of reaction out of them. Then when I’m feeling it I practice on the hotter girls. It’s FUN and they fucking love it. I say whatever ridiculous shit comes to mind a…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:10 AM
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I’m gonna piggyback here and say that part of the problem Op and a lot of dudes on here probably have is giving too many fucks. If you’re noticing every little IOD you care too much and you’re not comfortable/having fun. That’s what amused mastery is about. OP doesn’t really believe he’s top dog and he’s still worried he’s not good enough.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:01 AM
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Don’t ever bring up your status, with a woman, to her.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:20 PM
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The bottom line every time I see these questions (how do I not get friend zoned - how do I not be beta bucks - how do I act when girl does something I don’t like) is just fucking don’t. So simple. SO MANY of the problems you guys have come from from not being willing to leave a chick alone. Absorb this little tidbit: if a girl isn’t what you want, you can’t proactively do anything to change that except walking the fuck away. Own your power as a man by being selective with your attention.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:34 AM
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Everyone else nailed it But I’ll add this: watch out when girls say “I don’t deserve you” or “you deserve better”. In my experience that’s guilt speaking and you should absolutely believe them when they say it. They’ve got something guilt-worthy on their mind.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:21 PM
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Who fucking cares?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:27 PM
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This means fucking nothing
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:43 PM
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Don’t rat yourself out dude. Just deal with your trust issues and forget about it. Don’t cause conflict when it’s not necessary
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:34 PM
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Best you can do is be fine with losing her. Something I didn’t realize for a long time is that fighting with a girl is losing frame and always detrimental to your stance in a relationship. Wear a sorry face and tell her you wish things had been different.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:52 PM
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Just do what you’re afraid of
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:48 PM
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What do you mean by competition anxiety and why is it a lost cause?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:46 PM
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First of all, you may be right, but you don’t have to have oneitis to have something like this hurt your ego. Not that it’s any better, but some (a lot of) dudes are in it for the validation. Facing the fact that they’re just another dick can be hard for people who use sex for validation. Jumping to the “Oneitis” conclusion every time we see someone overinvesting in a woman could be missing the root of the problem and missing an opportunity to point out things that could actually help people.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:09 AM
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Stop trying to fix it and Move. The fuck. On. Sure fuck her while you can but don’t make her your problem. It’s a dangerous addiction that TRP doesn’t advise against enough, making one girl your game. You will lose if she’s your project - you should be your project. Furthermore, she’s lovebombing you, probably BPD, and doesn’t “love” you the way that you think.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:03 AM
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Know what gives you an SMV boost? Not giving a fuck about your SMV
/r/askTRP18/01/19 04:23 PM
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Probably an unpopular opinion, but what works for me is to just fucking dig into that feeling. I just go with it fully until I’m bored of it, and then I have a much easier time convincing myself to take control. As a matter of fact that’s what I do with all of my bad feels.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:50 PM
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Mrp?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:32 AM
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with her words She’d have been around fucking him if she wanted to.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:08 PM
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I don’t buy it. She’s looking for an orbiter. Sounds like a fuck load of beta bait that OP’s been eating up
/r/askTRP12/01/19 08:32 PM
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If you read “Reinventing Your Life” by Jeffrey Young, he talks about how your childhood influences your emotions and behaviors and overall life situation in your adult life. One of the “schemas”, or self fulfilling patterns of behavior, is chasing someone who is not available, usually imprinted in our behavior by a neglectful or absent parent. If I had to guess I’d say that those of us who suffer from oneitis the most are more emotionally caught up on the fact that she got away than the fact tha…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:43 PM
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Idk one of them is in love with me and the other I just started seeing and she likes me a lot/knows all of my friends. I guess I’d call them plates
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:39 AM
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Ah see that I could justify. I just don’t know if I’m heartless enough for it. Plus my roommates would know and I don’t necessarily want to be judged like that
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:34 AM
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Sure, how’d it go? Any stamina problems? Guilt? Been seeing both for a while and we’re not exclusive but I know one wants to be and the other prob does too
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:24 AM
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Honestly I thought she was overreacting entirely, but she was mostly complaining about shit I said earlier... that she didn’t react negatively to earlier. Hamstering or something. It doesn’t take energy for me to act that way though, it’s truly how I am naturally, especially when I feel comfortable.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:50 PM
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I don’t know if this is a broad statement or specific to this instance, but I agree either way. She was subtly hinting at kicking me out, but I called her bluff, said that’s fine, and she backed off. Which is why I assume this was a test/power play.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:06 PM
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No, commitment means you’re not fucking other people. By your definition marriage is the only form of commitment
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:29 AM
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He said LTR. That’s commitment
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:29 AM
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100%. sounds fun tho
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:55 AM
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100% Judging by the seconding guessing in the post, he knew it. You pussed out for a second OP, and she saw it
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:33 PM
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A romantic what? Do you have a fucking checklist or something? If you like her, fuck her.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:31 PM
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He’s not my friend, and she didn’t cheat on me - we didn’t have any sort of agreement. I don’t care that she fucked other dudes, and I found out after I broke it off. It just makes it worse for this dude, and leads me to believe that she’ll keep doing it to him even after cohabitating and marriage
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:27 PM
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Same dude. This fling started during, and probably because of, my newfound interest in TRP. It’s been quite shocking and has me questioning everything, my own morals included.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:24 PM
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Started fucking her when they were on a “break”... and then kept fucking her when they got back together. Broke it off and found out she was fucking other dudes too. He’s not a close acquaintance. You’re saying don’t tell because it would negatively affect me? Honestly I didn’t think they’d last so I wasn’t worried. Now they’ve moved in together and are talking about marriage, which is my cause for concern
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:03 PM
0

Word. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:27 PM
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It’s a little complicated but fair enough. Don’t feel bad for doing it, but I cringe for him at the thought of him marrying this girl
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:22 PM
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Possibly. She would probably know it was me (i was a side piece)
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:17 PM
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Gtfo. Who cares what’s normal. Stop pandering for approval from your internet idols
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:08 PM
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Borderline personality disorder, but that’s appropriate too ha
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:11 PM
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BPD manipulative narcissist. Just wanted the drama, sex, and attention. Role playing for fun. Seems this is becoming more common amongst young women these days. Btw, doesn’t like kissing - BPD red flag Think of it this way: she’s not a real person. Everything she says and does is fake to manipulate the situation. You never knew her, because the real her doesn’t exist. This applies to all BPD women. And you couldn’t have done anything. Relationships with these women start with a blaze of passion …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 10:45 PM
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I don’t know why everyone is saying to ghost. If she’s not your girlfriend then stop giving a fuck what she’s doing when you’re not fucking her. When she says she misses you and shit, invite her over, fuck her, and then ignore her until next time.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:58 AM
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That’s interesting considering the other post here a few days ago about beta ptsd cause by abandonment issues in childhood. Perfect cocktail of loving mother and abandonment to make BPD girls your kryptonite.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:17 AM
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Because elsewhere in this comment section someone mentioned that the study found that oxytocin elicited more emotion and bonding in men with good relationships with caring mothers. I have the same problem as you
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:35 AM
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How is your relationship with your mother? Serious question
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 11:25 PM
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Read Blink - the power of thinking without thinking, by Malcolm Gladwell
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:11 PM
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I do. There’s a fat girl at work who brings me coffee every day and covers all of the shifts I need covered
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:06 PM
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Sounds like your integrity/honor is useless at best
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:49 PM
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BPD. Lovebombing. Manipulation. Run.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 06:29 PM
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It’s. not. a. female. That’s all he needs to know
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:15 PM
1

Bullshit they don’t care if you like them. They love that shit. There is such a thing as expressing your feelings without it being about reassurance. Just don’t express your feelings to girls who don’t have feelings for you.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:23 AM
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Oh totally ha. BPD all the way
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:01 PM
0

?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:32 AM
0

This was true only until he came back. He actually works a 9-5 not in his field right now. She made time for me until recently, only coming by for a few hours when he was at work. Also I barely ever texted her. That does make sense though. I was just confused by the sex mostly. It was pretty tight, and not (I assumed) the type of sex beta boyfriends have.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:54 AM
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Playing her for what? He’s not fucking her, or even trying for that matter. He’s insecure
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:05 PM
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I realized the other day that I had only ever been in relationships with girls with BPD. It’s no wonder I’m fucked up when it comes to girls. I’m seriously addicted to that crazy validation
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:49 AM
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Why don’t you want to fuck her?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:14 AM
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Sounds like a power play on her part. She knows she has you by the balls with the emotional shit, and now withholding (good) sex, and she’s running with it.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:08 AM
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Sounds like he’s failing comfort tests
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:04 AM
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The argument could be made that trp is focused on teaching men to be degenerate manipulative sluts themselves.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:37 AM
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You’re exactly right. This sub is soft as fuck. This is the way of the world. Either you tap into the pool of girls with boyfriends or you don’t. You’re not changing the world by not doing it, you’re just limiting your resources. Everyone saying don’t do it is just wishing that it won’t happen to them, but it will, they just don’t want to believe it, and hope that by encouraging “good behavior” they’ll somehow save themselves from being cheated on.
/r/seduction10/03/18 11:38 PM
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All pussy is used you dweeb. The point of this sub is to fuck girls, he wants to, and you’re telling him exactly how to fuck it up.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:11 PM
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How good is a woman’s memory and how steadfastly to they categorize you in their mind, as either AF or BB? What I mean is, how many of you play the menstruation cycle; being alpha when she’s not on her period and/or ovulating, and then providing comfort when she is? It would seem that to elicit the strongest emotional attachment you would want to do both, but does that really work? Will a woman permanently, subconsciously or consciously, label you less “alpha” if you provide comfort when she’s m…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 06:38 PM
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Extroversion is a muscle. Flex it often with increasing weights
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:25 AM
1

Something to realize is that she’ll very likely forget about you before you forget about her. It doesn’t feel good to realize that but it helps mitigate the feeling of guilt (which is really just your mind’s way of tricking you into into your old habits of talking to her).
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:22 AM
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Bro.. had this exact problem... (its porn/performance anxiety).I know people don’t recommend viagra and shit but go to iron-dragon.com and order a bottle of liquid vardenafil and that shit will be at your door in 2 days. Bad long term solution but it’s better than a limp dick with a hottie in your bed
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:45 AM
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God damn I just went through that exact same shit. Doctor bf and all. Hell of a learning experience
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 08:44 AM
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By realizing that they have nothing to offer but allegiance and going with that instead of making something of themselves. And being told that being a man is wrong
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 10:29 PM
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Get used to it
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:10 PM
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She wants to fuck you. Just do it. She’s contradicting herself because she’s conflicted/feels guilty. It’s not necessarily branch swinging. She just wants your nuts
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 05:08 PM
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Holy fuck lmao. = Everything not to do Side note, any time a girl says something to the effect of “I want to tell you something but xxxx” she’s fixing to feed you some bullshit for some sort of effect.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:54 PM
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Stop growing fond of them
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:04 AM
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Not your emotions, her emotions. Nothing BP about making a girl feel emotions.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:35 PM
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Nah I just want to keep fucking her til it dries up
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:44 PM
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Idk she’ll probably marry him, start fucking someone else, or break up with him and either try to get with me or start fucking someone else ha
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:19 PM
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Maybe so. So what then... obviously fuck other girls, but do I stop fucking her?
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:36 PM
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I don’t want to be her boyfriend, she cheats on her boyfriend with me ha. That makes her ineligible. I have no prob with fucking a taken girl tho. I have been weak on several things though, and generally you’re right. New to this situation. Why would she keep fucking someone she sees as a bitch?
/r/askTRP14/01/18 05:20 PM
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Good points, I was too uncertain up until lately that this was a game. Learned real fast to stop asking for it. Thanks for the tips
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:30 PM
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Lesson learned and I’m tryna
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:27 PM
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Tight, works for me. My only other concern is that she keeps saying she wishes I was “loving” like I used to be (when I was more invested), because bf isn’t. Is it bad to be caring in text(calling her babe etc., caring about her problems), or is it a test? She responds well to that shit sometimes and is cold in response other times.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 03:11 PM
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Not true. Some of the most depressed people I know complain about it on Facebook constantly. People feel how they want to feel, and some people cling to depression.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:32 AM
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Yeah he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. You’re just gonna have to use some willpower and focus on the music
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:34 PM
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I mean, as far as you know.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 08:31 PM
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Maybe that’s what god wants you to think.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 09:40 PM
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Fucking right
/r/PussyPassDenied08/11/17 04:06 AM
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Except she’s right; most of them are creepy losers.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/11/17 04:05 AM
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Apparently - cheat also, or not devote himself to an LTR in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:11 PM
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Uh, so what if he was? Women do the same on the reg, she clearly enjoyed it, and what’s wrong with flexing a little for fun?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:40 AM
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Cause we're all politicians I guess?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:33 PM
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Yes that's ALL we talk about...
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:09 PM
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lol what? Bye bitch. Go play some shitty metal
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 05:39 PM
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They definitely do man-boy love. Especially the tribal barbarians living way out in the desert
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 10:16 PM
4

So I should get some roids
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:25 PM
3

What do you mean by "serious eyebrows"?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 05:56 AM
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Ah I see what you're saying. I've just heard that even adding salt is considered processing
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:39 PM
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What is "non-processed" lunch meat?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:05 PM
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Social status gets you nowhere without confidence to back it up
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 11:30 PM
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Ever give someone a gift and they say "I deserve this. I get gifts all the time."?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 01:28 PM
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How do you tell the difference between a woman that's hard to open sexually and a woman that's trying to make you an orbiter?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 05:28 PM
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How have you managed to ground yourself in the present? I have intermittent success but nothing very consistent.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 01:36 PM
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Here here. The key to depression is to fucking forget about it. Never let that shit into your head again. Fill your brain with other shit and don't ever take a moment to ruminate.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:26 PM
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What the fuck? Did he sign a contract?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:41 AM
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He had a lot to give. Like... unlimited amounts.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 06:54 PM
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This is actually what Will Ferrell did to get over his social anxiety - stuff like pushing a projector cart across campus with his pants falling down. I can't speak to whether or not it works, but he claims it did.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:43 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/17 11:41 AM
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Hmm. I think I'm being misunderstood. I'm talking to the obviously fat ugly cunts trying to dox people because they take the internet too seriously.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 03:51 PM
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Fuck you fat ugly cunts. No one loves you and this isn't going to change that. E: not the mods, the sjws...
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 03:11 PM
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