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Right. And this trust that you are talking about is built throughout the relationship.
/r/seduction20/07/13 11:21 PM
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All that means with that I better be the best partner that I can be for her. Or else she will find someone better.
/r/seduction20/07/13 11:00 PM
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Make your intentions very clear from the beginning. It is going to feel awkward at first, but just go at it. It can be big or little. When approaching, there is a big difference in: That dress looks good on you. and You look really sexy in that dress. I couldn't take my eyes off you. The first compliment, while flattering, is something that she could hear from anyone. Her mom, her girlfriends, her gay best friend. You don't want to be any of those things. The second compliment is more sexualized…
/r/seduction01/07/13 06:27 PM
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Its a delicate balance. Have too much, and you look like like a scumbag. Too little and you are pretty much worthless. Basically just some essentials for the night: Toothpaste, toothbrush, things like that. I advice against having tampons or other female hygiene products there. You look MAD shady if you do.
/r/seduction26/06/13 12:31 AM
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a note: Don't be discouraged if you approached that hot girl at the bar and she just isn't interested. You can't force anything that won't happen. Just walk away. Don't worry about trying to make her like you, because then you miss out on the other dozen or so women that are actually going to be receptive to your approach. A good PUA knows how to approach. A great PUA knows when to walk away.
/r/seduction26/06/13 12:24 AM
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Some women are just like that. Naturally cold. Don't let her get you down. She obviously wasn't worth talking to in the first place.
/r/seduction14/06/13 03:25 AM
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Introduce yourself with a big smile, and give her a hug. Something light though, not a kind of hug you give a relative at the airport. Then have a conversation with her. Be animated, and interesting to talk to. If she has to go somewhere, offer to walk her there. When all is said and done, give her another hug, say that you should hang out in person again, and then you are done.
/r/seduction18/12/12 05:11 AM
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One advantage of you being in high school is the fact that you are going to see her a lot. So there are going to be plenty of chances for you to strike up a conversation with her. Just talk to her. The thing with shy girls is that sometimes, once you get them talking, they just roll with the conversation and it becomes easier. Just try to put up with the fact that she is not going to be receptive for a little while and things will get better. The way that I have fixed this problem in the past, e…
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:03 AM
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Anything James Bond. Really, anything. A lot of the dialogue is held up with some wit, and many of his interactions with women are good material.
/r/seduction03/12/12 08:28 AM
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Well you have two choices. You can either let the conversation go and try to text her another day, say that was my stupid friend, I was drunk, etc. Or, you could continue running with the joke. But the trick with this option is that you NEED to make sure that she knows that it is a joke. Like make it ridiculous. Say you are pregnant with 6 of her babies at the same time or something. It may be a long shot, but if she knows that you are joking, maybe she will warm up to it.
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:18 AM
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I think possibly it would be better to use this line, if at all, in person. Jokes are sometimes lost in the translation during text game just because you don't have a face to look at to figure out if someone is joking or not.
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:13 AM
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Well that is certainly an... interesting way to start a conversation.. Assuming that you are not pregnant, then you can continue messing with her saying that you are pregnant with her baby, what are we going to do about this, what should we name it, what is it going to do when it grows up, etc. Make it fun. But understand, as I stated, it is a very odd way to start a conversation with her, so you may have freaked her out if she is too uptight. But be confident in your answers and if she gets REA…
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:08 AM
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pinged the girl the pregnant line What in the world does that mean?
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:02 AM
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This may sound simple, but you need to be able to separate the people that you test the material on from your potential audience. There was a study done on comedians and comedy shows in general. Material that you are going to practice on someone that you meet will NOT have the same effect that it would if you were to say it to an audience. The reason behind this is because people going to a comedy show are EXPECTED to laugh. So even with the most ridiculous material, such as that done by Daniel …
/r/seduction19/11/12 03:59 AM
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If you didn't want to take a girl home, then why would you be posting here in the first place? While your mindset of not having the fun of your night rely on whether you hook up with someone is great, but if you are actually looking to take someone home that night, then your questions are founded in some logic. Remember, confidence is key. I remember my semi-formal for my fraternity last year. Me and my brothers decided to just start dancing, regardless of whether were with us or not. After a fe…
/r/seduction18/11/12 03:17 AM
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the only thing I learned from this is the number of times Prosecco can be crammed into a block of text.
/r/seduction05/11/12 02:10 PM
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Don't worry about the other guy. At the end of the day, she is going to pick the person that she wants the most. Now, if they have had history of dates/hooking up beforehand and then you all went out to smoke weed, I would feel the need to give the right-of-way to the other man just because they already have history. But because you are starting out on a level playing field, then its game on.
/r/seduction05/11/12 02:07 PM
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yeah. I'm not quite sure that this belongs here... The reason that he has these women flocking after him is based upon some principals that are discussed here, such has DHV, but his is done in a very unhealthy way when directed towards drugs, alcohol, and money. Seduction for the layman is to DHV with actual personality traits, not by acting like in irresponsible nimrod and cover it all up with money. Even saying that, some principals that he demonstrates while talking are useful, such as not ca…
/r/seduction03/11/12 08:14 PM
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Going out with a group is definitely a good idea. Even getting dinner before you go out and then heading to the party really helps you loosen up and be much more approachable. I can guarantee you that you are over-thinking starting a conversation with a woman. Do not view it as someone that you are trying to get with that night or something superficial. Just go up to her and say something. Anything. BUT if you are trying to give her a compliment, you have to qualify it. For example, saying: "I l…
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:20 PM
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I mean, you are a good looking guy. That is a very odd picture to post of yourself but, fuck it. You are saying that you are finding a lot of the girls shallow. Well, you are going to fraternity parties. This means that there are going to be one of two kinds of women there in majority: Cock-hungry freshman girls who can't put together a coherent sentence, or slutty sorority women who sound a little better, but still want you to give them the dick. It is going to take a little bit of practice, bu…
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:58 PM
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That's the fun.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:20 PM
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There was a game I saw on a video somewhere about the 30 Second Close. You and your wing approach, and your wing keeps count. If you don't close with the woman in some way in 30 seconds, then he slaps you in the face. Juvenille? Yes. Kind of awesome? Indeed.
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:44 AM
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No pissing contest intended. I am the same way with feast or famine. The best way that I can suggest handling your timing is to get there even earlier. The way that I usually work it is that i head out with my friends to get dinner at 6ish, ready to get to the bars 9 - 9:30ish. I really don't believe in being "fashionably late". When you get there early, people haven't formed up their clicks yet. As the night goes on, people find their groups and it becomes a lot harder to approach and actually …
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:43 AM
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I am about the same build as you. I am 6'4", about 210, been a swimmer all my life. Women, on average, love tall guys who are in shape. Coupled with no glasses, tan skin, clear skin, etc. is always a good combo. But two notes: This is not a fool-proof statement. Some women just love men with glasses. Some women like a man who is a little leaner, and some love a man with a little fat on him. There is no way that you can adapt your physcial appearance to make every woman happy. Most important thin…
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:54 AM
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If I find out a girl I'm hitting on has a boyfriend, I leave her the fuck alone. Why? Simple. 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't want her to cheat on me or even seriously consider cheating on me. Sure. Of course, and you have a right to think this. But, I had a set this last weekend, where I just approached a woman, said something witty, and the imediate response was, "I have a boyfriend". My response to that was, "I said 'hey", not, 'let's fuc…
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:45 AM
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Well you seem to not be having a lot of problems with any kind of AA. That is the good news. Now, have you been having success in the past? When you say "spinning your wheels," is this lack of interest from women an ongoing experience that you have been having for the last 2 years of pickup? Or is this is a recent lull in success? If it is the ladder, then don't let it bother you. continue what you are doing, maybe listen to your own notes that you are giving on yourself. Even the best PUA is go…
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:40 AM
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wrong place.
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:16 AM
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But all of these techniques are pretty basic. I understand your point in saying that it is useful, but only to a certain degree.
/r/seduction28/07/12 07:46 PM
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It's kind of hit and miss. I have known women that appear completely normal in a bar, but turn crazy in private
/r/seduction28/07/12 07:42 PM
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side bar.
/r/seduction28/07/12 06:33 AM
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One good exercise my grandfather taught me really helped with my posture. I grew up really quickly and had a tendency to slouch. Stand against a wall. Make sure your heels, butt, and shoulder blades are touching the wall. Stretch your shoulders out by puffing your chest basically. Put your hands on your chest and stay there for 5-10 minutes. You will be amazed how great it works the particular muscles associated with posture.
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:02 PM
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I consider myself well spoken. Women have often said that i know the perfect thing to say and how to say it. Most of the time i get called a dork its when i crack a joke. Like I said, it didn't bother me. I normally just smile and laugh about it. By the end of the interaction, it shifts to more apps male compliments if you will (you're so hot, sexy, etc.)
/r/seduction27/07/12 07:24 PM
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Uhh. This is really kind of confusing. But I can give it a shot.. I mean, on a subprimal level, you could be showing dominance, but even some rage when you do this. In the world of animals, more specifically lions in a pack, if the Alpha male was being tested for control of the pride, he and the challenger would fight for it. You can see their nostrils flare to allow the maximum amount of oxygen into their system, allowing them to become hyper alert to their sorrundings. Same thing with humans t…
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:25 AM
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This is a bit of a loaded question. There is no age that you can get to where you become "fully proficent". This is like asking "When did you become fully proficent at painting?" Like any other hobby, you can pick it up at any time. You read online forums, such as this one, to learn the basics of the game. Slowly, you begin to accelerate your learning to the point that you do not need forums anymore. You are able to make your own game, and have confidence enough in yourself to make it on your ow…
/r/seduction25/07/12 03:31 AM
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well done, sir. well done indeed.
/r/seduction23/07/12 03:03 AM
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I shall answer your question with another question. Would she be talking to you if she was truly bothered? If she is really getting pissed off at you, she will let you know. Until that happens, give 0 fucks and talk her up.
/r/seduction23/07/12 02:49 AM
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Seems like you did pretty well. And even during the day. that's really good. Just don't fail at entering her number next time. haha
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:57 PM
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Never do it. Ever. If you lie, there is going to a time that you are going to have to pay up. Whether you lie bout what you do and then you drop details about your work that are incorrect, or lying about something you can do for them (like getting into a club) and when they ask you to do it, you won't be able to. Only increase social value within your own means.
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:50 PM
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Jeez. I consider myself in shape (ish) and i dont even think i could do that
/r/seduction22/07/12 06:48 PM
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Very true that is a good point. When i started i studied body language and art history and technique. Both are really cool conversation starters.
/r/seduction22/07/12 06:47 PM
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Understand that social lives, no matter how popular, have peaks and valleys. I consider myself a very popular person when I am at college, but when I get back home, there is literally nothing to do. Do I get down on myself, desperately trying to get with people? Not at all. Consider this time for self-improvement. But, before you can even do that, you need to start with the basics. Get yourself on a regular sleeping schedule, starting eating right, and get outside for at least an hour a day. Whe…
/r/seduction22/07/12 08:58 AM
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What guys
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:24 PM
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Well how would you suggest he would do the video? He is merely making some great suggestions on how to start a conversation with a woman and keep it fresh.
/r/seduction20/07/12 08:36 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uyJ-t7JrVUQ and: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqC64pFcUAE&feature=relmfu
/r/seduction20/07/12 02:24 AM
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you are asking me to use rational logic on irrational creatures.
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:17 AM
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I mean... you were isolating her but not really isolating her at the same time. Maybe recommend meeting up at your place. If you go in for the kill again, then cut her off compeltely. Just lie on the bed and start talking to her again. Basically act like nothing happened. When I have done that with a girl who is giving me a little bit of last minute resistance, they normally go soo crazy because you have turned them onto the point of no return, and they are much more willing at that point. And, …
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:49 AM
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I know right? The man is my hero.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:07 AM
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walk outside. see that? everywhere. world is your oyster kind of thing.
/r/seduction17/07/12 04:19 AM
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just be happy with them. My friend is blind, and I am often his wingman. He follows me around and I introduce him to the women I talk to. His first question: "Is she hot? I can't see." They will come off. Don't worry.
/r/seduction17/07/12 04:17 AM
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Yeah this is completely normal in my opinion. This is basically the woman's equivalent of, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." I'm not sure that you can even know this girl to be a friend becuase of your past. If you are getting so resentful when she is seeing other guys, then I don't think it would be in your best interest to keep her in your life.
/r/seduction16/07/12 02:47 AM
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...kay?
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:11 AM
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Well let us remove the pool, and have you put on a few more clothes. By this i mean move the situation into a party setting. From my view, there was no isolation. Woman A may have been having trouble deciphering if you were interested in her at all, especially when you gave all of your attention to B. I think that, ideally, you would have waited till you were out of the pool or something to ensure that you had A's attention. Then proceed with more conversation and get a number from therE. P.S. Y…
/r/seduction11/07/12 08:48 AM
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Meh. Low. I had a friend who was a bouncer at a gentleman's club and he said most strippers, depending on the class of the joint, are required to get STD tests often. She brought up the hookup. Great. Take her out, converse, then rest is up to you.
/r/seduction11/07/12 08:41 AM
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Yes your girlfriend asked for it. Just like a woman to ask for something and get mad when she receives it. I had an ex that had a dream about me hooking up with her roommate and didn't speak to me for a week. On day 7, i told her to get lost.
/r/seduction11/07/12 08:35 AM
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at times, yes. But in that case, still having control of the conversation, you can direct it in a direction that will make you interested. The best way you can do that is to move the conversation to a topic that you enjoy talking about more than the one you are talking about at that moment. But remember that the topic has to be one that the other person can weigh in on as well. And, at the end of the day, if you really think that the person is being fake towards you, you can end the conversation…
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:31 PM
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the nickname is the most important part.
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:25 PM
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Yeah? How do you figure?
/r/seduction10/07/12 08:14 PM
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Solution to shit test: **HB7: Wait it's your 21st birthday and you're in a bookstore? Sure am. Nothing gets me going more than overpriced coffee and Hunger Games.
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:06 AM
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Okay Tarzan, your "jungle prey" is not worth destroying a friendship for. She is getting a divorce. The last thing she needs is a long time friend trying to get in her pants.
/r/seduction10/07/12 08:59 AM
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Buy Rosetta Stone? Seriously, this is a tough one. I don't want to say impossible, but you are going to have a tough time at it. Everything is going to have to be physical. Dancing would probably be your best bet. Dirty dancing with her is going to be the best way to let her know that you are interested in her. A statement here though: If she isn't, you are probably going to get smacked, and possibly arrested. Worth it?
/r/seduction10/07/12 08:21 AM
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I never enjoyed alphabet soup. Anyways, to your question. You have a lot of variables to deal with here. There is the sexual tension of A, the baggage of B, and then you have your IOI with A. So B went nuts. You have a few possibilities as to why this happens: She is coo coo for coco puffs, got possessive, and wasn't okay with your IOI with A. In this case, do you really want her in your entourage anyways? Disregard this possibility. 2.She thought that you and her were getting into something ser…
/r/seduction10/07/12 08:18 AM
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It is a shame that you had to deal with a relationship that has damaged your own personal image in such a way that you feel like even having any kind of relationship with a woman is not a good thing. I am not a therapist, and I am not going to attempt to shrink your problem and tell you to "get over it". that's not fair to ask of you. But I do think that you have a misconception about giving a woman a compliment. The only way that you can give up leverage to someone is if you allow them to take …
/r/seduction10/07/12 08:00 AM
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I have changed so much from this subreddit. Back in high school, people liked me. I wasn't your quintessential dorky kid, but I wasn't your super popular jock either. Think something in the middle. People would talk to me, but I wasn't the first person that people would want to invite to a party. I'm not sure why this was either. I considered myself a really cool guy to get to know and to hang out with. I also considered myself okay with women. I had a few girlfriends throughout high school, but…
/r/seduction10/07/12 07:43 AM
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Asking a girl out on facebook is always kind of a hit or miss operation. Sure, sometimes you can ask a girl out online and she is so desperate for the attention that she will say yes without any physical contact beforehand. Work on your day game. Whenever you go, there are quite a few opportunities to talk so someone that you mkight find attractive and establish something. Get her number, and then text her asking her if she wants to get lunch, dinner, whatever you want.. Just don't be complacent…
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:47 PM
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Just slowing down really. Making sure that a woman feels attractive before making any other move. Also, act with confidence, but scale back just a little bit. In the south, they hate arrogance.
/r/seduction06/07/12 06:11 PM
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Yeah i know what you mean. But thus is the first misplacement I have seen in a while.
/r/seduction06/07/12 09:11 AM
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Another Jersey boy here: I consider myself a good looking Caucasian man. No problem with women in Jersey and even into NYC. But when i went to school out in Indiana, i definitely needed to change my game up. I don't think race has anything to do with it. You can attest to the idea that east coasters have a certain attitude about them. Cocky, know what they want, all that good stuff. For some reason, that only works on the east coast for a majority of the time. You may not realize it, but you may…
/r/seduction06/07/12 09:09 AM
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It really is a cutting remark that people don't usually understand the velocity of until it is spoken at them. For a long time i suffered with the same problem as you. But being called weird doesn't immediately have to be associated negatively. If you think about it, weird is just something out of the ordinary. Something no one has seen before. Hell, the light bulb and the electric blender probably looked pretty weird at some point. I say let that boss lady kick rocks. You are an awesome dude. D…
/r/seduction06/07/12 09:03 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. Saying "I love you." to a girl you just met at the bar is probably not the best thing to do
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:54 AM
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Good news or bad news first? Well, lets start with the good. She STARTED the conversation with "about to shower. brb" Well THAT is promising. You didn't do anything and she is already mentioning showering? Kudos to you stud muffin. More good: She started the conversation the next day with you. Obviously you were on her mind, and she felt the need to text you back. Also, she is checking in with you constantly with the whole "going into a tunnel" thing. Honestly, and I could be in the minority her…
/r/seduction06/07/12 06:03 AM
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Well, right now, considering that she feels that you are a "friend for now", you are at a tactical advantage over than all these randoms that she is blowing off. She already does not perceive you as a PUA trying to get with her. You are the stealth fighter plane, flying under the radar that is her own issues. (Beautiful analogy, I know). So just do something with her. Anything. Something from dinner, to a bar outting with a bunch of other friends, even to watching movies in your room (since you …
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:47 AM
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Whenever you want. She answers to you, not the other way around. Don't think about it too much. Some girls I have called the same day, some in a few days, some the next week. Call whenever you feel like it.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:43 AM
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I squash my dick against everything.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:41 AM
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no problem. it is a small change that yields big results.
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:14 PM
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Always has been, always will be. Dress up nice, brush your teeth, and put on some Cologne. Never forget to smile.
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:05 AM
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Well, depending on the bar, it is going to be crowded, loud, etc. This gives you a great opportunity to play non-threatening kino as in introduction to a woman you are attracted to. Example could be you are walking through the crowd to the bar, and casually bump into a woman. Then play that how you want, either going nice guy by apologizing and making casual conversation after, or go the more alpha route and begin to poke fun at her in casual way to get her laughing. Don't over think it. Use the…
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:04 AM
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Women are emotional. Us men need to connect to them on an emotional level. However, inherently, we are not meant to be emotional. We are meant to be problem solving machines. That is why it is always better to, when a woman comes and begins crying about something that happened to her, you empathize with her, rather than offer solutions. (unless she asks for one) You were on the right track with being vulnerable. But not vulnerable in the sense of crying and breaking down to her all the time. Rat…
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:56 AM
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I'll make this simple, and put it in terms I think everyone will understand. Remember Peter Parker? He's beta. Mousy, doesn't stand up for himself, all that good stuff. That is the low end of the alpha chain. Now take Peter Parker from Spiderman 3 when Venom takes over his suit. Instant asshole. Supreme confidence, but everyone thinks he is a douche. This is where you sit. You obviously have confidence, however misplaced it may be. I'm not one to go up to anyone and say this kind of stuff. But y…
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:41 AM
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I actually saw a special on BBC about body language in the dating community. It was pretty interesting and very useful.
/r/seduction30/06/12 12:09 AM
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20
/r/seduction29/06/12 04:08 AM
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ah yes good catch. I fixed it.
/r/seduction28/06/12 11:51 PM
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very true. every night it was virgin Neapolitans and re-runs of Gilmore Girls and Sex in the City.
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:36 PM
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I'm also sexy and i know it. But that is neither here nor there.
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:14 PM
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and why would you say that?
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:11 PM
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It's exactly about that: baby steps. A lot of the articles can make you feel like you can be a PUA, but it really does take a lot of practice. The way I did it was that I went to parties and social events more often and just talking to new people. Don't aim for a hookup on the first few times to try. Being an AFC, you need to raise your confidence again. Just talk to people. Get to know them. Starting with that will definitely get rid of any AA that you may have. After that, start going after th…
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:08 PM
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you already have them. you just have to let others know that you do.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:48 PM
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haha yeah you are def. going to have a strange time. I would hate to actually live here regularly. My fraternity house was actually a block behind TIS, but we just moved out of it. I think we moved down closer to 2nd and Fess. Nice houses?
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:46 PM
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I really don't know. I would really like to continue talking to her and get to know her better. Who knows what the future holds. I'm not going to count any chickens before they hatch though. But it's a good start.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:34 PM
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He is a goofy guy. One of my best friends. When I am having an introverted night, he always fleshes me out in the best way.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:33 PM
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haha oh no. villas are way too sketchy for me. the Catalina Wine Mixer that was thrown this year had at least 2500+ people there. It was insane.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:33 PM
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holy moly second and fess is a far way to talk without a car. I tend to hang out a little more often at 18th and washington and in the area around the stadium.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:14 PM
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you can always do the same. one-up me. I dare you.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:02 PM
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If only I was as rich. but I appreciate the compliment.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:43 PM
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How drunk was I... I had a few beers earlier and during the party, along with a few shots and Jungle Juice. When I made my first approach, I was probably just between drunk and tipsy. So a good amount. But by the time I closed, I really didn't feel anything.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:29 PM
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When I saw her, I knew I wanted her. I considered the entire night a set, merely because most of my actions revolved around showing her I was interested or provoking an IOI out of her.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:20 PM
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I'll get my lawyers right on it.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:18 PM
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Well I have never been that straight forward with grabbing attention. It was a good lesson to learn that it actually will work.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:17 PM
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That's what I thought when I got the scholarships to go there. But it is actually a good junction for a lot of good areas. Many women come from Kentucky or Tennessee, so you get some Southern Belles. A lot of Chicago natives like to come down because it's not too far away from home. Then throw in some NYC natives and California folks escaping from helicopter parents and you have a nice cocktail of potential HBs.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:14 PM
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It is definitely a subtle art to attempt to master. It's nothing like going out and saying, "Hello, I have a monstrous cock that would enjoy ruining your vagina." The main block that men run in to is that they worry too much that they are going to offend the person that they are having sexual jokes with. If you do, you apologize and start again, or you move on. If the girl can't take a joke, then there is no point in continuing to talk to a stick in the mud. On making the conversation sexual, it…
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:10 PM
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Thank you. Now I just need the billions of dollars, the nice house, and the suit. Baby steps.
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:09 PM
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Good guess on the Big 11 campus. Not Mizzou though. IU
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:07 PM
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Thank you very much ma'am. I was originally thinking of just saying the line without the hand, but I felt that would be awkward, borderline needy. The hand I felt told her what I wanted, but still kept my dominance. I also think that the tone I delivered in was important as well. Someone who wasn't as confident in the situation would probably squeak out the line, but have a nervous laugh afterward or something that would make it awkward. As always, confidence is key.
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:02 PM
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well there was a lot more dialogue between us throughout the night. I didn't want to bore anyone with mindless flirty conversation. the entire set probably took untill 1:30-2am
/r/seduction28/06/12 04:39 PM
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I hate to say that you are in the minority on this one. i was as shocked as you were when some of these techniques actually started to work. but what can I say? they did.
/r/seduction28/06/12 04:37 PM
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thanks man. she really is one in a million. Trust me, I have screwed up many an HB to get my dialogue as tight as it needs to be. All about practice.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:47 AM
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i do try.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:43 AM
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thank you thank you. part of me was about to get back into an argument with her, but i knew i could win her back.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:43 AM
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Thank you my friend. I had always viewed myself as a confident person with women, but never was able to take it to the next level. Pretty much stereotypical "nice-guy" syndrome. AskSeddit enlightened the "bad boy" myth for me. you can be respectful, more or less, of a woman's feelings and still be a bad boy. Kino and carrying a conversation in a more sexual direction is what AskSeddit really taught me. If you have any more specific questions that you would like to ask me directly, I would be mor…
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:58 AM
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I can't remember where I saw it, and I really wish I did. But there was a guide that was posted that breaks Kino into two categories: Passive and Aggressive. Passive would be something that you would feel on any day walking down the street. Shaking hands, brushing arms, whatever. Aggressive is just what it sounds like. Hands on the small of her back, touching her face, hair, etc. The guide suggested three rounds of passive then aggressive. Without any resistance, you can definitely step it up to…
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:39 AM
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Something that you will quickly learn with women is that 95% of what they say has double meaning to it. Something that stuck out in the FR was the fact that she said she is, "incredibly hungry and is tired and wants to go home." Oh hey there green light, how do you do? On the surface, she is saying something that is innocent. On a deeper level, she is telling you what she wants. Make sure you are always looking at these subtle comments. On the idea of the touching, doing this with a professional…
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:10 AM
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Learn to give zero fucks. Brotip #1: "there is a 99 percent chance that you are awesome. Start acting like it." Chat up people wherever you go. With my fathers job, I moved around a lot as a child and I needed to make new friends constantly, so the habit comes in handy. Now, of course, there will be people who say that's creepy or whatever. In that case, refer to the first tip above. If they find it creepy, that's their problem, not yours. Move on and find a group that appreciates your welcoming…
/r/seduction31/05/12 10:49 AM
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Any tips on short sleeve button downs? I found a nice pair of grey dress pants to go with a black belt and shoe that I found. Wouldn't mind wearing the combination on a date I have coming up, but this particular combination can tend to become hot. I want to make sure that the shirt fits well in the body and has an almost tailored look in the arms. I work out and feel like o have respectable arms but the shirts that I have tried are so loose in the arms that I feel as though they get lost. Any id…
/r/seduction31/05/12 10:39 AM
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good for you man. its a good lesson for people with approach anxiety that going up to someone in the club can really pay off in the end.
/r/seduction09/05/12 08:56 AM
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