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Blue Pill Examplebminuscplus/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:31 AM
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bminuscplus/r/askTRP27/06/17 12:00 AM
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bminuscplus/r/askTRP26/05/17 03:08 PM
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Field Reportbminuscplus/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 05:30 AM
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bminuscplus/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:57 PM
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bminuscplus/r/askTRP09/06/17 11:43 AM
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Dude, are you me? I think I could have written everything you put here, down to her asking if there were any other women after I didn't want to reconcile. Saw your post after I've started searching for "love bombing from stbx" and it's uncanny how, at least on the surface, our experiences match. ​ An abridged version of my personal experience: I left my marriage when she told me to leave after she got mad I took our daughter to see her grandparents without her approval. A note about this - every…
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 02:44 PM
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Your kind words warm my heart.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:58 PM
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She was shit testing him and he was failing miserably. First I told him to forget it and have fun. But as he wouldn't stop pursuing her I told him we should leave. Then the asshole came to our table and that was more than I could tolerate.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:23 PM
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I wanted to leave. That girl is no prize, told my friend to get rid of her number. I couldn't care less for the girl, but I won't let a random guy push me or a friend over.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:22 PM
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Never was about the girl. And fuck consensus. I love my friend and I would do it again, a million times.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:58 PM
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It was never about the girl. My boundaries are clear: Girl flirts with another guy while she is with me, I leave. Girl leaves my side to flirt with another guy, I leave. Guy comes to my space to flirt with the girl I'm with, I shove him away, fight if he tries to punch me, then I leave.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:56 PM
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I find ironic that you can defend not being impulsive and avoiding fights while being perfectly fine with throwing a bunch of insults my way. Oh yeah it's because you're safe behind your screen. Pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:51 PM
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Exactly, it wasn't about the girl. I wanted to leave and I couldn't give two fucks about the women we were with. But where I come from if you invade another man's space and laugh at him, you're asking for trouble. Assholes need to be put in their place and it doesn't happen often enough nowadays. Still I like to avoid fights like the plague because most of the time you will get in trouble, righteous reasons or not. But when rare situations arise I don't hesitate. I love my friend, had his back, …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:48 PM
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Picking fights is wrong. Fighting when provoked isn't. The guy was openly provoking my friend, laughing at him and grinding the girl ass in front of him while they were dancing. If this is wrong then fuck it I'll choose wrong.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 05:54 AM
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Very good, but how to ignore her beauty? You've explained very well how women use their beauty to manipulate men and why men shouldn't think a good looking woman is relationship material just because of her looks. But you haven't explained how to achieve this and I hope you or someone else do because I know I'm guilty of judging women on looks and the knowledge on how to stop this would help tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:39 PM
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Don't talk ill of other men. Makes you look insecure and weak. Don't apologize. If your friends had agreed with your statements you wouldn't apologize, so don't apologize when they disagree.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:29 AM
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No my friend you have worse problems than your looks. Your text reeks of victimization and validation seeking and it's disgusting. Stop viewing yourself as a victim. You're not a victim because you're the only one responsible for your happiness.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:11 AM
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The only hateful idiot here is the one calling complete strangers hateful idiots.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 07:51 PM
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Dated religious girls. Religious girls are horny. Religious girls cheat. Religious girls are women.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 06:18 PM
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You don't need to plan shit together with him. Pretend you don't know him? Have you read what I wrote? Have some fucking integrity. Who asked you to plan shit with him? Or the cheater asked you to and you like the good Mr Nice Guy you are agreed to avoid conflict?
/r/askTRP08/07/17 06:14 PM
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The guy cheated with your ex. Go on, be nice, be his friend. Show him how you're not a man, how you have zero boundaries and integrity. Fuck this no hard feelings bullshit and fuck being nice with people who don't deserve it.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 05:09 PM
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"What is the solution to this?" Moderation. "If I have an LTR, do I need to get used to feeling less sexual attraction?" It's unrealistic to expect to keep the exact same feelings for a person forever.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 08:41 PM
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There is no set date for limerence to end, it just ends and it's out of our control. You can't force limerence. It's a temporary feeling, It comes and goes on it's own. If you want a relationship to overcome limerence then the relationship will have to change and grow. Treating plates like sex toy is fine, not LTRs. You shouldn't put your LTR in a pedestal, but the opposite of crazy is crazy.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:55 PM
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Google limerence. You don't have to stay with someone you don't feel attracted to anymore, but remember this will happen with all women you date. It's a chemical and psychological process and it's your decision to try to overcome it or not. Remember she is also going to pass trough the same process (end of limerence) at some point and it will be her choice to overcome it or not.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:15 PM
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Jesus Christ... Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It doesn't matter what any of us tell you because you already decided to not improve. Your life sucks I get it, but are you going to do something about it or are you just going to complain?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:58 PM
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With the dog?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:44 PM
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It's simple - the more you say something the less meaning it has each time say it. My last ex and I said I love you to each other every night. It didn't make us love each other more, it just made the word meaningless.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:16 AM
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It's okay brother, I've been there. "I'm thinking of keeping her pictures as trophies, maybe I'll delete her cute texts though." Don't keep her photos. She was never a trophy. Let your feelings flow when you're alone, don't hold them. If you're sad be sad, If you're angry be angry, If you want to cry then cry. Let your feelings come and go so you can move on. "It also doesn't help that I despise my family, and that her family liked me a lot, but I'll have to make an effort now to like my family,…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:50 AM
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BURN THE EVIL WOMAN SACRIFICE HER TO THE OLD GODS No, but seriously we need more context. You want to date older women, fine whatever floats your boat. You said you found out her slutty secrets. How exactly? Were you together when It happened? And yes I am mocking the other men here. Giving judgment so easily without even getting a bit of context won't help our brother. He must be sure if he is to decide anything without second thoughts and we're failing to provide him with the knowledge he came…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:32 PM
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When I read stories like yours I start to understand how lucky I was for finding TRP and ending my LTR when I did. Son it's going to get worse. The night I decided to end my LTR was the night I found out she was texting one guy behind my back. But you have a whole legion talking with her. Do what is right, don't let her disrespect you anymore.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:20 PM
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I'll guess her shit doesn't smell or tastes like lavanda.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:41 AM
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This. If you have to tell someone tell it to your most trusted friend after you had some beers. Otherwise keep it to yourself, no one cares and no one is on your side lad.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:33 AM
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Lawyer here. Contact a lawyer firm near you asap If you haven't done it already. Never speak without the presence of your lawyer. Speaking can only hurt your case. Save every message you exchanged with her from the breakup to now and every message you exchanged around the time of the suposed physical abuse. Gather witnesses - trusted friends who hang out with you two. Deny ever calling her, if she can't prove you called her then she's gonna try to get the proof out of you. Why save messages, gat…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:25 AM
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You can enjoy a good LTR - a woman or a man who you will share love with. Keep meeting people and you will eventually find one. Redpill equips us with the truth - the knowledge that it won't last forever. So be smart and make the most of the time you spend with the person. Love like it's the last time you love, fuck like it's the last time you fuck and, of course, have fun - don't waste a single moment, because life can end for you tomorrow for no reason at all.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:59 AM
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I lived in Brazil for many years and I never saw this family unit he talks about. I know a lot more divorce raped brazilian guys, cheating husbands and wives, single mothers and girls without a father figure than I know brazilians in stable marriages and relationships. If you want to marry a young brazilian follow these steps: 1. Be rich. 2. Move with her to an Island. 3. No employees. 4. No dogs. 5. Hide the boat keys.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 07:32 PM
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Things do get better after you get busy and improve my friend, believe me.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:39 AM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:43 PM
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Oneitis? Oneitis. Sidebar? Sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:33 PM
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This is sad, he still holds to the hope of her contacting him. Imagine your goddess taking a big stinky shit. Or getting fucked in a public bathroom by a guy she just met. She wouldn't take a smelly dump or do a ons you say? She would. She isn't special.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:57 PM
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Say - Hi I'm a serial killer and would like to take you to my killroom. Don't use that line. Truth is when a girl is into you it's very hard to screw things up when scheduling dates. If they want to go out with you they will. There are no magic steps, just say what you want. It didn't work out? She isn't very interested right now. After my last LTR I tried to set dates with a couple of girls. I was nervous. I read text game theory. Read FRs about texting. Got a lot of spam mail because I signed …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:24 PM
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This assumes NAWALT. Correct me If I'm wrong, but If you believe AWALT then her past shouldn't be the decisive factor, because all women are capable of cheating. Yours may be more likely to cheat, but all are likely to. I'm not defending the woman here as she really seems to want to get this alpha to commit to her and is probably still fucking him, but remember AWALT.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:54 PM
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Tinder girl replied with look for her on my facebook. I wasn't going to post here again until the situation developed more, but tinder girl friend just became tinder girl #2 as we matched today (she liked me first). I'm happy about it. Too soon to count any victories yet.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:43 PM
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Skorch here I am laying on my couch watching some Facebook videos thinking if I'm going to even reply to her and you come with a spot on response. No matter the outcome I want to try it and I'll let you know when/if something comes out from this. Btw I managed to get both of them as friends on Facebook. Now I don't have to awkwardly reask her name if we ever meet again.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:27 AM
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I didn't expect her to bring a friend. I prefer her friend, but I wouldn't mind getting tinder girl.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:04 AM
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Mistakes were made. It might be a rejection, but the fact she initiated convo after we met is evidence to the contrary. No kino, I'm not a PUA, if I had done it with her friend there it would be awkward to her.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 01:51 AM
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I would, but there wasn't an offer. I would search for her friend on Facebook, but I don't even remember her name.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 01:07 AM
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I cringe whenever I see someone using the word incel (same for lol, lmao, etc...) Redpill isn't PUA. It's about realizing the truths beyond the blue fairytales and taking the most out of It. Not about crying because the world is so unfair like those "blackpill" seem to be doing.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:24 PM
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Yes. It will boost your confidence and help you get the girls you want. I did it at 18 and would do it again. There is no right girl to fuck, no The One. Just have fun.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:36 PM
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You fucked up by acting butthurt from the first perceived rejection (not really a rejection). You should have stayed and tried to escalate again instead of going for your phone. Don't mention last night to her unless she mentions it first. Act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:33 PM
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It's like having sex with someone who doesn't know how to have sex (obviously). Nothing special.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:01 AM
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Plausible deniability. You have nothing. Mention those texts to her only if you want to show her how insecure you were. Good luck acting aloof if/when she mentions them to you.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:58 AM
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Get out of your fucking head. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's up to you to find a purpose and happiness. Go out, be social, be funny. Ignore the beta shaming and become the wild card.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:48 PM
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Keep things professional between you and her. You can't have a friendship with your old oneitis. You're still attracted to her at some level and sooner or later you'll become her orbiter again.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 09:06 PM
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You have oneitis. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:55 PM
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Initiating emotional talk about exes = red flag. Talking shit about exes = not exactly a red flag, but not LTR material for me. If she talks shit about them, she will talk shit about you. You're not special. Best you can do is ignore and keep your secrets to yourself.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:12 PM
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By writing here it's obvious that her text is bothering you a lot and I get it, this is a hard situation to deal with. Always remember this - she is an ex for a reason. Don't contact her.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:59 PM
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Swimming against the tide here, but it looks like she is just joking. Stop taking things so seriously. If she really wanted to give blowjobs for 800 bucks do you honestly believe a silly thing like a relationship would stop her?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:28 PM
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She rejected your kino, not you. She gave you a social cue: "back off, you're going too fast". What you should have done is go back to the conversation as if nothing happened and try kino again minutes later. She will be like "oh my god he can read social cues" and both of you will have a good time.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:24 PM
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Rinse and repeat. Every next time you will be a little less afraid until you realise you're not afraid anymore.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:26 PM
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Comfort test. If this was by text ignore it. If she brings it up again when you two meet just smile as if she was a kid saying something silly and hug her like a man. Context is everything. If her tone is bitchy instead of sad then apply dread.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:06 PM
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It's up to you. Personally I would either not answer and change the subject later or be playful. Her sexual interest on you shouldn't depend on a silly text message.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:20 AM
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Sex on the first night just means she is attracted to you. Ultimately it's up to you to make a decision, but in your shoes I would let it grow naturally and I wouldn't call it settling.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:15 AM
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she said that she 'has someone whose texts she eagerly awaits.' Pay attention to her actions not her words. If she had someone else she eagerly awaited to talk to why was she wasting her time talking to you? This is a shit test. Act butthurt and you'll fail. To pass it act unfazed, you don't care about this bitch's supposed lover because she means nothing to you. Don't explain TRP logic to her, unless you want to loose any chance with her. Rule #1 of TRP: You don't talk about TRP.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:27 AM
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she mostly has been the type of girl to never settle Don't be captain-save-a-ho. You're young and inexperienced don't fuck yourself over a girl who even you define as the type to never settle. If you can manage make her a plate, if you can't next her. You are the gatekeeper of the relationship, but your gates have no locks.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:15 AM
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Well he can't have my burguer Cheers.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:34 PM
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Wait so you don't sound needy, but text her over the weekend. You aren't her top priority and she might forget. She also could be doing this on purpose to gauge your interest and this is another good reason to not text her right away.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:31 PM
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You couldn't finish because you were nervous/anxious, it happened to me on my first time. Relax you'll be more calm next time. Try another condom brand. Hope you enjoyed, be careful to not become a slave to her pussy now.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:22 PM
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You're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 07:27 PM
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Don't go looking for fights, but don't be afraid of getting into one. Avoiding conflict just makes you look weak to yourself and others. If a guy punched me out of the blue I wouldn't even ask why. I would jump at the motherfucker.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 07:24 PM
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How do you know you're loosing your virginity tonight? Curious.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:34 PM
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Stop being a pussy. The world is a hard and unfair place. You want to live in your basement? Do it, but stop being a pussy about it, own your basement living.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:28 PM
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She's a rare 10/10 beauty. Face it. You have oneitis. Forget her or chase the unicorn. Your choice.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:02 PM
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You don't need closure and you don't owe her closure. If you say nothing you loose nothing, if you offer closure you offer her the oportunity to make you look insecure and/or jealous a.k.a. you enter her frame. You gain nothing, there's only risk.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 09:18 PM
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Why do you think there are a lot more betas than alphas around? Self-improvement is hard. Netflix and chill is easy. It's easy to believe that everything is okay and you just have to be yourself and a wonderful princess will fall on your lap and your boss will give you that huge promotion because he loves you. Anything without immediate results is worthless and you shouldn't pursue. It's hard to accept that everything is not fine and that if you don't work hard your life won't improve, you won't…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 06:05 PM
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It doesn't matter. You can't control other people. Focus on yourself, forget the bitch.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:57 PM
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She isn't a cunt for not liking you, she just doesn't get you. Look, no matter how much material you read or how much you lift and practice talking with people (which are great and you should totally be doing btw) you can't make everyone like you. There is no secret to making everyone like you. Some people will hate your guts. Some people will find you weird and unfunny. Some people will be totally indifferent to you. Some people will like you. Don't chase people who don't like you. Go after the…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:38 PM
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Cut contact. Read the sidebar. Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:26 PM
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Solid. Also, don't choose a girl just because she is beautiful. You want a nice girl who could fill the role of mother of your children (doesn't have to, but she has the qualities).
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:23 PM
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Your friend could be right. Or she is really busy with work. Or she lied and actually hated the last date. Or she is nervous. Or she found another man. Or aliens abducted her. It could be any number of things. It doesn't matter. Go live your life, there are plenty of available women out there. It looks like you're coming from scarcity and falling into oneitis. Take care bro.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:19 PM
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Sorry pal, but breaking up trough text was shitty on your part. You shouldn't give her closure, let the hamster spin. But be a fucking man and tell her in person. A simple "we're done" and that's it. If she keeps asking repeat it like a broken record. You owe her nothing and if you don't want to tell her in person it's better to ghost her and never say a single word than to break up trough text like a teenager. As for her intentions she is either seeking - A) Closure B) Keep the relationship goi…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:08 PM
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4 months? Why go trough the trouble? If 4 months is enough for her to start withholding sex for whatever reason then picture your life together a year from now.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:32 PM
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If by friend you mean someone who you trust and expect to uphold that trust then a "next" should happen if your friend breaks that trust.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:11 PM
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It doesn't matter. Just avoid being a try hard, acting like you have an agenda (you have). You can send her whatever you want and if she is attracted to you she will be receptive. If she doesn't respond to you don't over analyze it, you probably did nothing wrong, she is just not very attracted to you and you aren't number one on her list of priorities. If you want to be fun be fun. If not don't try to force it she will notice you're trying too hard. The vibe you must give is - she is just a fun…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:04 PM
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I think this is the most likely cause.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:48 PM
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Helpful insight.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:44 PM
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I'm probably overthinking it. I understand that people are more likely to have wet dreams after not having sex or masturbation for a while, hence the title.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:33 PM
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I dated a 18 virgin before. Old me waited until she was ready. Old me eventually got it. At start with was so so, but eventually we had some years of great sex. Today me would never wait. The best girl is the one that will have sex with me on the first night. Virgins are overrated. I don't care if she had dicks before, I only care if she is having sex with me now.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 11:57 AM
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Never say she has to get an abortion. If she ever decides to have the child she will use this against you in the future. I'm sure there are plenty of covert ways to get the truth out of her, but I would just ask.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 11:25 AM
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Look, you're not special for figuring out that life is meaningless. Those happy people you see around? They know life is meaningless as well, but they chose to give their own meaning to it and have fun. It's up to you to find what you want to do with your time here. If you want to end it fine it's your life. Just don't do it because you think you have uncovered some great secret because you have not.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 11:12 AM
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She is travelling to another country for a couple of weeks without you? I think you have bigger problems.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:38 AM
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You did what you had to do. She brought this on herself. This is her cross to bear not yours.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:35 AM
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Don't ever ever go back. Here's something that worked for me - write all the things she did that made you resent her while your memories are still fresh. Should you ever feel like calling her read the text you wrote. Make a good effort to not hamster away what you wrote, it's there for a reason. For everything else follow vandaalen's link.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 08:13 PM
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Why even care?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:58 PM
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You should consider yourself lucky. You're not married to her, you don't live together and you don't have kids with her. You think 8 months is a lot? My last LTR ended weeks ago after 3 fucking years. I haven't sent a word to her since and I won't. I'm meeting new women, going out with friends and having the best time of my life. My case isn't hard either. Some guys around here were a beta cuck for decades, married, had kids, got divorce raped, their kids are introduced weekly to new men by thei…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:49 PM
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Jesus Christ man have some dignity. "Break happened cus I went to beta, she is away for 3 months (fucking chad lol lol) and says she will think about the relationship" This is just fucking sad. Don't "plan" on lifting just go lift today and stop meeting that woman, her vagina isn't made of gold. She has all the power here, you will always be her little beta.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:48 PM
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You're overanalyzing. Like others said make him say please in a playful tone.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 12:40 PM
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It's simple - never meet women again. Oneitis can happen to anybody, no matter how long in the game they are. It just happens less the more experience you have. The only way to get attached less is to go meet women, get oneitis, loose the woman because you were needy and then do it again. It's a long process and there are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 12:23 PM
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Sorry Bro, I may get downvoted for this but I don't care. Go fuck yourself. Really, go suck a big dick. I saw your post history to see if I could understand you, but from all your posts you just sound like an entitled bitch who can't get laid probably for being so immature. Suicide is a topic that hits me hard. I tried to kill myself when I was a teenager and I recently had close family members do it. But you just sound like a spoiled brat who's ego couldn't​ stand being called a looser in anoth…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:16 AM
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You can't control her. All you know is what she tells you, but there must be a reason why this bothers you so much. Listen to your gut.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:02 AM
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She is either manipulating you to make a new orbiter or she is a unicorn. Which is more likely?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:51 AM
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Diagnostic: this looks like a clear case of BPD. Treatment: run to the fucking hills.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 02:47 PM
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Always use a condom. The only time I went raw was in a LTR of 3 years and she was on the pill. But even this was foolish. If you want raw and don't want children do vasectomy. There is still the risk you may catch some nasty stds though. The little princess you have a crush on could be loaded with stds.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 02:42 PM
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I don't like ultimatums, I prefer to be more indirect, but you did good. Remember to keep your word if/when the time comes, women are too good with tricking us into giving 1, 2, 3 more chances and destroying our self-respect. Who you are is more important than any woman's affection.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 10:18 PM
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I just shed a manly tear of joy. You won't become an orbiter for this slut.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:01 PM
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When your LTR seeks validation from so many men that you have to number them you know it's time to go.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 05:54 PM
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You only know her for 7 months and you want to live together? Why? Have you lived together with a woman that wasn't your mom or your sister before?
/r/askTRP06/06/17 05:47 PM
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Don't pay attention to her words, only to her actions. What she says - baby I love you, I only talk about yoouuu, my loyalty is unquestionable. What she does - ask a guy she used to flirt with to come to her house while she is alone and you're unavailable. But you've already made your decision to forgive and forget didn't you? You came here to cherry pick advice that won't tell you something you don't want to hear. Best of luck. See you soon.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 05:43 PM
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This is good. Be firm and unapologetic. Stop doing favors for her. You're a great guy and make she understand (don't tell her directly) that having your presence is something she must put work to keep, not just expect to have it simply because she has a ring and a vagina. If she doesn't see it your way don't be afraid to walk away. It's better to divorce now than to drag this for years, have kids and live in a shitty relationship with a dead bedroom. Be strong.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 12:05 PM
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OP you said in another comment that you follow most of what TRP says so you're probably familiar with boundaries, are you setting any? OP it seems like she doesn't respect you anymore. It may be only a matter of time before things get uglier. I hope you can work things out with her. Read married redpill, I don't think it's too late. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:08 PM
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Just ask yourself OP. Is it right to go out at night to drink with an ex coworker who you "used" to flirt with while in a LTR? If your answer is no then leave. If she doesn't respect your boundaries then she doesn't deserve you. I don't think this is an acceptable behavior for a woman/man in a LTR. You can't change people OP, only yourself. My advice is to hard next.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 08:53 PM
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If you have to ask...
/r/askTRP05/06/17 08:44 PM
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Depends on what you want. I know you said you don't want friendship, but girl friends can be useful if she introduces you to her friends and keep things light and fun (you're a friend not an emotional tampon). But if you don't want friendship or you fear you may become her orbiter, then be straight about your intentions (flirt, escalate). Watch out for oneitis though. Forget her if she rejects you. Have you set a specific time and place to meet? You're not obligated to go and you don't own her s…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 08:22 PM
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I go to a lot of dangerous places with my bike. High speed on the highway going trough several cities. Follow narrow paths in valleys. Get to the top of distant hills. Etc. I didn't start riding my bike at those places. I did it at the front of my house. Hell, even the thought of falling made me panic. I gave up and tried again many times. I fell a lot, got run over by a motorcycle and even by another bike. Was sent to the hospital 2 times. I have so many scars that I can't count. Ran out of wat…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 05:14 AM
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I meant e-mail/Skype. I didn't know I could send private messages.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 10:25 PM
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Like what?
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:43 PM
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I'll do literally anything to win this battle. Is there a way for me to contact you directly? I have so many questions.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:38 PM
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I want out of my old self.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:34 PM
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I won't fail. I cringe when I remember how I believed things were before. There is no going back. I know this. I'm no natural and there is the saying if you practice alone you only reinforce your mistakes.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:32 PM
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Thanks man. I think this goes well with the you are enough idea. I understand I'm the only one who can give me purpose. But a friend to help me with the hows and whys is very important. Is there a way for us to keep contact?
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:03 PM
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I enjoy hitting the gym and doing karate. I also enjoy cycling. But I'm in the process of rewiring. There is a lot of stuff I was told is wrong and that I should not enjoy by family members and close friends (clubing, drinking, sex outside of a relationship) - religious background and friends. Not really blaming them, they just operate on what others told them and I wanted to belong so I bought that shit. About the video - poor dude, he never saw that coming haha
/r/askTRP26/05/17 03:33 PM
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All it takes to ruin your many efforts is to one day get tired and drop your guard. Or it will simply happen bc she is always seeking her own interests. She isn't yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:28 PM
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I won't take any decisions right now, I'll take this week to grieve.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 02:50 AM
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I had to do this for my sanity and to recover what little respect I still had. She became unrecognizable, but I understand this is because her interests changes, this I don't blame on her - she is just like most girls, she follows her tingles. LTRs should be based on a conscious decision and a lot of effort from both to maintain, not dictated by tingles alone.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 02:04 AM
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To be honest with you I feel light right now, can't describe it better.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 01:54 AM
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I personally think it is wrong to go out gaming with engaged women, but to each their own I guess... In the words of user TheeRyanGrey: In my younger twenties doing high end club work I used to target married women specifically; it was killing two birds with one stone: I was stroking my ego, finally leaving my blue pill mindset behind and seeing my power, feeling superior to other men; and satisfying my older woman fetish young men foolishly have. Then something clicks, you realize you're contri…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:41 PM
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If you can live without the need to be understood then more power to you. I can't and I'm not hiding It.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:17 PM
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I'm still deciding on what to do with all this new information. Aside from that I'm looking for what anyone wants, including you - understanding.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:23 PM
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I found out the best way to keep my feelings for myself is to just don't think about them. What happened here in this post is an exception, the first I made in many years and I'm glad I did it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:57 PM
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It is weird that she pulled out a 'you never' at the begining of the relationship, but good for you for managing that problem in time.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:52 PM
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Well If she is then the fact that I'm here and not there begging for her validation makes her a bad manipulator.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:14 PM
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Yes, I wouldn't call her manipulative, but during her episodes I ignore her or laugh at whatever issue she is making a big deal of.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:58 PM
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How? I said I felt humiliated, but I didn't behave upset or hurt. I can't control what goes inside my mind, only what I allow others to see. I admit my fears and insecurities, If you have none then good for you, but I have and I try to avoid acting based on them as this is the best I believe I can do. Also Gengis Kahn would probably react to the same situation by cutting her head or some shit, but we aren't ancient mongolians and I'm not a fucking psycopath.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:43 PM
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"One minute everything was great and the next minute she'd be pissed about some childish horseshit, and so now I'm the bumbling sitcom idiot trying to figure out "what I did wrong" instead of telling her to shape up or gtfo." This resonates with me a lot. This is by far what frustrates me the most in the relationship. I don't mind her being jealous and telling me to show what I replied whenever a girl texts me, I don't mind the lack of gifts and good gestures so much, but the wild mood swings - …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:11 AM
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Thanks. I realize now how doing everything she asked and then abruptly stopping brought me to this point. She clearly sees me as weak or she wouldn't act so disrespectfully. But I don't know if I could handle a non exclusive relationship, if it comes to it then I think I'll just prefer to end it with her.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:00 AM
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Thanks, I'll look for his research today after I get back home.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:48 AM
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I'm intrigued about this stance, but would It work explaining to her what I want, I thought I was past the point of fixing things. Could you elaborate a little more?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:44 AM
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Thanks, for some asshole in another state behind a screen you nailed it perfectly. I needed to read this. This is all very new to me, due to a religious background I never had plates and my relationships with women were always ltrs, but I'm eager to try these new things. As for the chocolate egg thingy, there were simmilar events, but this is by far one of the most ridiculous I can remember happening.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:59 AM
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Thanks, I won't give her one. As for the feels I wrote this right after the last events so I was a bit sentimental. I'll try to be more objective the next time.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:27 AM
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This is what I fear. Even if she didn't I can't stand the disrespect, it feels like a rock weighting me down sometimes. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:04 AM
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Yes, she lives in a nearby town 1h hour away so we do it whenever she is in my place. I enjoy it and she told me multiple times after sex that this was the best one yet. How can this be the answer?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:58 AM
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