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Based on your journey, you would have no issue with replacing your wife with all the women you meet out and about.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 01:50 AM
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I’ve been dating a woman for over a year now. It's clear to me that you have no idea what the fuck you are doing. If you have been dating this woman for a year, that means she is (in theory) a "plate", which means you aren't in an LTR (relationship). It takes a year or two to see whether or not a woman is relationship-worthy, let alone if a woman is marriage material. You need a few years of boundary setting with a woman before even considering marriage. It's clear to me you haven't read any of …
/r/askMRP21/07/21 06:26 AM
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I think I am better off doing day approaches or meeting women in person. If you want to date and even promote a woman to LTR status down the road, going out and day gaming is the best selection. My current SO was a woman that I approached and opened up. She was in my pipeline for around a year in a half before promoting her to a relationship. In my opinion, some of the best women I have dated were women that I met out and about. If you become attractive and social, you should have no problem wit…
/r/askMRP19/07/21 12:58 AM
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Was there a certain point at which the conclusion of no value add crystallized in your mind or was it a gradual realization that you recognized in hindsight? It came around 8 or so months into my MAP/following MRP that I noticed I would be fine with or without her since I was doing MY LIFE. The only real "RP" guy I follow on YouTube is Rian Stone and he summed up my experience in a nutshell. I remember one day I had a really productive workday, followed by a really good lifting session. Afterwar…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 04:11 AM
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33M/32F no kids. Married 10 years. Game. Goal is to do the number of approaches equal to my OYS. Completed 27. No sex. I got angry. Apparently I think I deserve sex for existing. I had to remind myself that a beta provider is not a turn on. Look man, your situation (the stage in life/late 20s for me) was very similar to when I first came to MRP 3+ ~ years ago. I didn't have an issue with the sex (per se), but it was my fucked up mental models that needed to be changed and consistently worked on.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/21 02:55 AM
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STFU, sidebar, and lift heavy, you deluded fuck.
/r/askMRP05/07/21 02:31 AM
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yawn You may as well flair your post as a 'Victim Puke' as this is what it is... It doesn't surprise me to read about another guy that is 2 to 3 months in on his MAP wondering why the wife hasn't joined your new bearing. The work is the weights, the work is in the sidebar, and the work starts with you.
/r/askMRP14/06/21 11:23 PM
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Lots of fucking bull shit in your post... Sex after the 3rd date. Kind of a red flag IMO. You cannot negotiate desire, which it seems like that's the basis with your 'plate'. Generally speaking, if you are a man that is leading and escalating, you should be having sex the first or second time when hanging out with a new woman. It sounds like you are in her frame the entire time... She's perfect in every way, but the sex... Sounds like every guy that finds this place... Based on her past stories,…
/r/askMRP08/06/21 05:56 AM
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Women are less nagging when they’re not cohabiting with a faggot. So much truth to this statement... How many days a week are you lifting heavy, OP?
/r/askMRP03/06/21 11:31 PM
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If your wife is as hot as you keep telling us, why haven't you set up links in your post of her?
/r/askMRP03/06/21 12:48 AM
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You fucked up... The problem with a lot of you guys here is that you don't understand the difference between dating and relationships. First of all, you calling a woman an FWB will make her not want to be in that category for long. If you just approached this as a woman in your dating phase pipeline, you wouldn't be having these "What are we?" questions a month in. Secondly, when you are dating women, they only get to see you once a week. That's it. Why are you hanging out with her multiple time…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 05:44 AM
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What are some good strategies when it comes to vetting women that are wife-stock (so to speak)? First off, figure out what you want out of your life, a partner/wife, and a list of goals within your personal & professional life. Once you have an idea of what you are working towards, this will help you align your values when it comes to getting what you want out of your life. When you are dating women, you will only promote the women to the LTR/relationship phase once they have earned it. It goes …
/r/askMRP05/05/21 12:29 AM
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Appreciate all the advice y’all! How can we give advice on a weak post?
/r/askMRP28/04/21 08:43 PM
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Uhh, she is one of the girls you are dating. Why on earth would you be paying for her? If she was a girl you dated for a year or so, promoted her to relationship status because she adds value and has earned it, why not? A plate? No.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:51 AM
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Yeah man, you need to actually build a conversation with them to establish any feelz they might have. Never just ask them for a number a sentence or two in. Build the conversation, see where it goes, look out for IOI's, and go forward from there.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:07 AM
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makes not want to date them. You can date them, just don't get into a relationship with them.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:03 AM
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You are 16 so I will be easy on you... Talk to people everywhere that you go! Way too many of the guys around here are "looking for places", instead of learning to be social and escalate the conversation. Meet new people, practice opening up people, go for some number closes, fail and learn - get out there.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:02 AM
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Me and my ltr have our anniversary tonight What the fuck does this mean? Anniversary? LTR?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:01 AM
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Wtf happened here You are a validation whore. Get over it and move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:00 AM
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Your posts lacks effort, which is why you are getting little answers with no detail from us.
/r/askMRP04/04/21 01:36 AM
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Though we’d been dating for five or six months, I decided then she was not worth LTR-ing and that was that. My current SO was a plate for a year in a half before I promoted her. It wasn't until the 10 to 13-month mark of me dating her where she started to show LTR/relationship potential. If you think 6 months is a long time, then you have a lot of work to do - sidebar >. It takes time to vet and set boundaries, which you do at a steady pace to test her. In addition, the woman has to be invested …
/r/askMRP29/03/21 09:51 PM
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You haven't even started lifting... You don't deserve any help here.
/r/askMRP27/03/21 03:10 AM
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Learn and move forward.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:26 PM
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You already have a connection established. Chat her up like before and get her number. It shouldn't be a big deal if you two went back and forth last time and things were going well.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:09 PM
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Why are you doing drinks? Go and pick her and go for a drive, a walk - something simple. Drink dates are boring as fuck since all women get these "invites". If you want to see her, plan something quick and simple like picking her up or even inviting her over for a drink.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:06 PM
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Why did you need to write this much for a bloody kiss and ghost...? Who cares. Go and lift heavy; followed by hitting the sidebar material over at MRP.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:03 PM
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Not sure what you are expecting here... If you were spinning more plates, this wouldn't even be an issue.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:01 PM
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Dude, a "plate" is a girl you are dating... All LTRs start out as "plates" since they need to earn the promotion. By the way, don't promote her unless you have been dating her for a year (min) and she has earned a promotion to relationship/LTR status.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:16 AM
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ONEitis for your unicorn plate of 8 months!
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:56 AM
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Rent. Don't have yourself tied down to a mortgage; at least, not at this point in your life.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:53 AM
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Sounds like you have done zero work on yourself, while still have ONEitis for your unicorn plate of 8 months. You are no different... The work is over there on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:46 AM
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So, you have been dating this girl for around a year and a half, and you are asking us if you should promote her to the relationship/LTR phase? Do it, don't do it. The better question here is has she earned a promotion in your eyes? We can't answer that for you. By the way... a year plate and 4-5 month into vetting If you only started vetting her now, you are retarded... Also, you should have been slowly enforcing boundaries over this time rather than vetting. When it comes to relationships, bou…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:19 AM
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Didn't read the post as I need clarification on the first sentence. So girl I’ve been seeing for a long while How long have you been dating/plating her?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:13 AM
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I'm confused... Are you dating this woman, or are you in a relationship with her? Why do I know so much about her and nothing about you? Why haven't you done any work on the sidebar, lifting heavy (regularly), develop OI & frame, owning your shit - nothing!? God... Get to work...
/r/askMRP20/03/21 07:33 PM
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I love the trolls that come out of the woodwork from /r/asktrp.
/r/askMRP20/03/21 07:29 PM
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Are you randomly going up to girls just asking for their number, or are you building a bit of a report with them?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 05:53 AM
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Jesus... There is a lot to unpack here. First off, you are coming to a sub where the majority of men here are older than you and have more life experience. There is a reason why common advice such as "Don't get married under 30" and "Don't get into a relationship with a woman unless you have dated her for a year" is thrown around here. You need to take your time. Slow the fuck down. As far as I'm concerned, you aren't anywhere close to getting married. You have come to MRP, which means you have …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/21 05:52 AM
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God... You remind me of when I first came here four years back. we have been dating for almost 2 years and I proposed in January. Looking to have the wedding in summer 2022, so I have some time to get things back on track before committing for real. How long did you date this girl before promoting her to a relationship? You saying "dating for almost 2 years" is extremely broad... We need details around this stuff. Why? Well, you mention that sex has already been drying up since getting into a re…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 11:15 PM
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If you lifted heavyweights, around 90% of your problems would go away... Also, you have zero frame. Get to work.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:16 AM
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I second all of /u/jacktenofhearts comments & posts.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 12:12 AM
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This situation doesn't warrant a post... Should I stay in a relationship with her? You don't want strangers on the internet answering this question for you... Break up with her, don't break up with her - we don't care. Do what YOU want. I would say though, three weeks is nothing in the grand scheme of things. If she cheats, you just demote or break up with her. Go out and make some new friends while she is gone.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:11 AM
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I think the fact that you guys care this much about N-count proves you haven’t fully internalized TRP. Bingo. Lots of autistic fucks on this sub, which is why I have always preferred the married red pill subs since those guys actually internalize the material.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:31 PM
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You should focus on whether or not she adds value to your life or not... Stop being autistic.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:45 PM
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Why would you promote a girl to a relationship who does things that you don't like? Smells of oneitis and scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 09:52 PM
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You sound extremely autistic. Hang out with her, don't hang out with her. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:17 AM
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Girl ive been dating for a few months Why would you promote a woman after a few months? Jesus Christ, some of you guys are thirsty as hell for a relationship...
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:47 AM
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You don't fight with anyone, let alone a woman. You fucked up. How much work have you done on the TRP/MRP sidebars? Go and lift too.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:08 PM
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She isn't interested in you - next. Also... I told her if she wasn't happy with my offers she could pay for me or go by herself to her location of choice. Why are you meeting up for drinks; especially, during a pandemic? Go for a walk, a drive, or do something on a smaller scale when getting together for the first time. Logistics are key. A lot of guys think by going out for drinks or coffee that you can head right over to her/your place. Most guys don't have the game for that, which includes yo…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 01:08 AM
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Been in an LTR for 3 months now. No such thing as a "3 month LTR", dummy.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:20 PM
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Me : 18M, LTR: 19F. Together 2 years So... Is this girl a plate?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 04:08 AM
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Are you a troll? If not, all these kinds of posts either go in the weekly OYS post or on /r/askmrp.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 04:07 AM
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This! I dated my current SO for around a year in a half before promoting her to the relationship phase. I would never recommend a guy getting into a relationship with a woman unless they have been dating for a year. Anything under a year isn't serious at all. In my experience, women that are into and fall into your frame have no issue with these kinds of things if they ask what your thoughts are on their situation.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:35 AM
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She is a girl that you are dating to see whether or not you two will get into a relationship - full stop. My response has always been that we are dating and seeing where things go. If they press it, I state that I don't get into a relationship unless I have been dating a girl for a year. I don't care whether or not if they like it or not since I'm doing what I want. They either enter your frame or they don't. Also, promotions are earned, never given. Why promote a girl to relationship/LTR status…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:33 AM
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I agree with you. This guy fucking sucks and his responses to everyone here prove that he won't do the work, which means he will continue to fail.
/r/askMRP15/02/21 11:03 PM
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Familiar with TRP and PUA from the last few years. That means you are a LARPing faggot, faggot. Dated a girl for a couple months. Yeah, you dated a girl, but you weren't in a relationship... Your whole post is full of fucking bullshit that everyone here is calling you out on. Your problem here is that you weren't dating multiple women. You had no other women in your pipeline. You were "dating" a girl for a couple of months (cool fucking story), which isn't a relationship by the way... You aren't…
/r/askMRP15/02/21 11:01 PM
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Your post is missing some important info - your stats.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/21 02:06 AM
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You won't be having any threesomes, your girl is a flat out lesbian.
/r/askMRP04/02/21 09:24 AM
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so what defines a relationship? When you promote a girl that you have been dating for [X] amount of time. Nowhere in your post did you mentioned that you dated this girl for [insert time] before promoting her to LTR/relationship. Therefore, based on the rubbish you have presented to all of us, you two are dating, but she is also dating other guys. You talk about your "LTR" as you have been in an exclusive relationship for 5 + years, get the fuck outta here. You have no idea what you are doing, f…
/r/askMRP03/02/21 06:24 AM
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You sound like an autistic douchebag. 7 months dating so far. Dating is not the same as a relationship. You are not in a relationship with this girl, both of you are in the dating phase, which means you are not the only guy in her pipeline. Your "girlfriend" has multiple boyfriends, including yourself. Also on our 5 month anniversary Oh my god... How retarded are you? There is no such thing as a "5 month anniversary", faggot. His snap score was 0, meaning he hasn’t snap chatted anyone yet, which…
/r/askMRP03/02/21 05:57 AM
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I have travelled a lot over the years and have had the opportunity to date women from other backgrounds. Here's the deal, when in doubt, it's always AWALT. It doesn't matter where the woman is from, her cultural background, what she likes/doesn't like, it's always going to be AWALT. Become an attractive man that has options. By the way, you haven't done any sidebar work, or else you wouldn't have made this post. Go ahead and start reading the sidebar, as well as lifting heavy.
/r/askMRP01/02/21 11:18 PM
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temporary not lifting because of pandemy That's a fucking excuse! Fuck you. She count: 4 Her count: 6 Wife count: 1 You count: 1
/r/askMRP01/02/21 11:15 PM
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Lots of bullshit in your post... You are fat. You are trying to sprinkle a little bit of alpha on this situation, faggot. You don't take responsibility for promoting this girl to relationship phase/LTR status. You haven't gone through any of the info on the sidebar. You are trying to flex to us and this girl with your beta traits, faggot. You are asking random guys what you should do or not do. You have no idea what you are doing... Conclusion: Get to fucking work on the sidebar, get your diet i…
/r/askMRP25/01/21 10:48 PM
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The relationship, or whatever way you decide to see this situation, has been over for a while now. Accept that. When I originally came to MRP over four years back, I had to go through something similar with my live-in ex (SO/LTR, not married) when I broke up with her. Granted, she left my place within a couple of days, even though I gave her a week or two to figure out her situation. Even though we weren't married, we lived in a common-law area, which was something I had to go over with my lawye…
/r/askMRP22/01/21 06:46 AM
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I'm in a way better position post MRP journey compared to pre-MRP. That can be said for all of the guys that have gone through their MRP journey. The thing is, you actually have to go through and do the work for yourself. That's the hard part.
/r/askMRP13/01/21 04:40 AM
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What is with these TRP crossposts to MRP lately? OP, why do you care about this guy? Why share his post here?
/r/askMRP12/01/21 11:48 PM
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Go ahead, cry some more. Why the fuck are we like this as men? Don't speak for me, or any of the other guys here. Speak for yourself. As well as become annoyed at what ‘I am’. No mention of the work you have done, which includes the information on the sidebar, lifting heavy (i.e. 3 X week), or any background information on your situation. I'm not sure what you are expecting to get with little to no information, along with piss poor effort within your own life.
/r/askMRP12/01/21 12:29 AM
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Your wife doesn't respect you because you aren't a man worth respecting... Ponder that...
/r/askMRP11/01/21 08:40 PM
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You're welcome. You might want to do a follow-up post here (/r/askmrp) to get some advice from those guys who have been through a divorce. My ex and I weren't married, but we did live together (common law province & my place), which is why I went the route of getting a lawyer. Even though we weren't married, my lawyer recommended approaching this situation as if I was serving her divorce papers. Getting yourself into that mental space with your lawyer will help you out when making the move. Alwa…
/r/askMRP10/01/21 04:21 AM
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Man all of these “free” consultations do not exist around here. All lawyers charge at least a few hundred dollars for initial consultation. Before I broke up with my ex (3/4 years back when I originally came to MRP), I spent around $300 to $500 on fees with my lawyer and it was probably some of the best money spent. I was walked through my situation (slowly & carefully), run through the different outcomes, and given details on how family law worked in my area. My point being, you will have to pa…
/r/askMRP10/01/21 02:15 AM
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Don't consider marriage anytime soon. You need to unfuck yourself first before you even considering getting the state involved in your relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/21 09:58 PM
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Fiancée: 24 Together 4 years Where did you meet her? Bar? Stripclub? College? A mall/supermarket? I serve in the military Don't get married while being in the military. You are also way too young to be thinking about marriage. Once you marry your wife and she has access to all of the benefits you will be given, you will be sent a 'Dear John' letter by the time you leave on your next deployment after marriage. Seriously, this has happened to two guys I know who went into the military in their ear…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 10:35 PM
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over at asktrp it usually seems like teenagers that comment. It's clear to me that you spend a lot of time over at TRP; therefore, your head isn't in the right space. What do I mean? I mean that you aren't taking action. Stop spending time over at the TRP subs and consuming all of that content. It's a continual broken record, but your best bet is to hit the sidebar over at /r/marriedredpill (or here) and start lifting. I agree with the other comments that talk about your frame and self-esteem is…
/r/askMRP02/01/21 06:44 AM
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I am a thinker. You think too much... STFU, sidebar, and lift heavy.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 05:02 AM
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Based on your post history, you had a harpy bitch of a girlfriend 9 months ago. Did you just marry this girl or what? You have given us zero information and for that, fuck you. Go ahead and re-write this post starting with information about you, not your wife. Spend a good amount of time writing us a backstory to go off, compared to your two weak-ass sentences, faggot.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 04:12 AM
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I have been married for 2.5 years and am unhappy. Your fault. I am 35, and I avoided long-term relationships from the ages of 22-32 until I got her pregnant and decided to marry her to give the kid a shot at a 2 parent household. Not living in your frame. I know that this marriage is preventing me from being my best self Delusion. You are preventing yourself from becoming better, faggot. Our constant fighting is bad for the kids, and it will only get worse. You never, ever argue or fight with a …
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:00 PM
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Just reading is not enough. A reminder for everyone that internalizing is key.
/r/askMRP29/12/20 09:04 AM
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You are going to get a lot of advice from guys based on their own personal perspectives; therefore, take everything with a grain of salt... That being said, something does seem off and a little fishy here. If your friend back home was going to text you about this incident, he should have some sort of evidence (i.e. photo[s], etc.) of some sort. If I was put in that situation and one of my close friends SO was acting up in an inappropriate way, you are damn right I would be taking a photo or vide…
/r/askMRP29/12/20 09:01 AM
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Dabble in side bar to be honest. Could be more diligent. This is a major red flag here. You haven't actually done any of the work. Why didn't you go through the sidebar properly? Your problems start and end here. That sidebar is for you to become your own personal shrink to deal with all of your problems. Is this salvageable? MRP is not about saving a unicorn, a relationship, a plate/girl you are dating, or even, the marriage. MRP is about saving the man. Sidebar, lifting, and developing your mi…
/r/askMRP27/12/20 03:34 AM
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I'd only LTR after a year of knowing her. The problem with a lot of these fuckers is that they have no idea the difference between the dating phase and the relationship phase. I bet this guy is one of her plates. Promoting a woman to a relationship/LTR under a year of dating is absolutely insane.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:50 AM
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Been dating this girl for 8 months. Not an LTR... Anything under a year of dating is not an LTR. I would bet money that you are one of her plates. No mention of info around when or if you promoted this girl to the relationship phase.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:49 AM
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My GF (28) of 10 months How long did you date her before promoting her to a relationship? Either way, anything under a year is not an 'LTR"... Your post smells of a woman you are dating/plating, not a woman you are in a relationship with. In addition, LDR's never, ever work. Too much blabber here about this girl... Focus on yourself and do what you want. Not happy? Drop her.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:47 AM
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There is a lot of fucking bullshit in your post... When in doubt - AWALT. Your own insecurities are the issues here, not the choices she made prior to you getting into a relationship with her. You don't lift. You don't sidebar. You are weak mentally and physically. You did a poor job of vetting and setting boundaries. You don't argue with women or debate them on issues like this - ever. You care too much, that's why you fail. STFU, sidebar, lift heavy, and own your shit.
/r/askMRP22/12/20 07:54 PM
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If there is an issue, just go and speak with gym management.
/r/askMRP17/12/20 08:42 PM
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You are entirely in your SOs frame. Period. Why did you even feel the need to confront your woman about this... Issue? Unless you found out that she blatantly cheated on you, which would end in a hard next. What good does it come out to confronting your woman? Seriously, I'm asking you? How much of the sidebar have you gone through? Once again, no mention of stats... You probably most definitely pushed your woman right into the arms of this guy when you freaked out at her. Regardless, if she was…
/r/askMRP05/12/20 02:42 AM
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25 years old I've been in a good LTR for 3 years now a 26-year-old woman Lots of contradictions here... First off, you are 25 years old. You are too young to be in a relationship, let alone, think about marriage. Secondly, you have been in a relationship for three years and you are asking random guys on MRP what you should do... We can't answer that for you. Marry her, break up with her, demote her to plate - I don't care. Lastly, why are you in a relationship with a woman who is older than you?…
/r/askMRP01/12/20 09:19 PM
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This girl I been messin around with for like few months. A girl who I saw once and became 'the one'. Told me she can’t give herself to anybody because she wants it to be with the right person and that she’s still a virgin. A girl who doesn't want you. I have the upper hand because she annoys me and blows my phone up everyday complaining I don’t give her enough attention. A girl who has an orbiter. We stopped by a gas station and there was this weird ass homeless dude. Who passed us a blunt. I di…
/r/askMRP01/12/20 01:17 AM
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Decided to be official about 2 weeks in. 6 months length total. You are way too needy and weak-minded to get into a relationship with a woman you only have known for two weeks, and probably only hung out with two or three times. You need to get to a point where you have an abundance mindset where you are not even looking for a relationship. You are dating women for a long period of time as a trial and will only consider a relationship with a woman who earns the right to get into a relationship. …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 11:58 PM
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You are overthinking this... You are not married. No kids together. You don't live together. No financials together. No joint documents together. Just break up with her and move on... Oh, the sidebar is over there > too... STFU, lift heavy, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP29/11/20 11:52 PM
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Women do the choosing....... I can't believe so many fuckheads around this place don't understand the basics...
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:30 AM
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You are purposely leaving out information on your post... I can smell it. First off, you mention something in your post that stands out to me. events like this are not uncommon. This is not a one-time situation. It has nothing to do with the garlic, the grilling, the groceries - any of that shit. Women don't just freak out at their SO for no reason on random occasions since they have a reason. Unless they have a mental illness of some kind... If so, that's another conversation for another thread…
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:51 AM
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Go lift, eat some healthy food, and get some sleep. You will feel better after that.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:43 AM
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... You don't need advice... Keep doing you.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:14 AM
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You have been given a gift... Seriously, you have been gifted the start to your new life at 30 years old. A gift that does not include kids in the picture. A gift that your wife told you exactly what you didn't want to hear. A gift that includes you not being anywhere close to your prime as a man. A gift that includes cash and prizes down the road if you do the work. A gift that you have been slapped in the face with the reality of what happens when you aren't a high-value man. A gift that inclu…
/r/askMRP25/11/20 08:51 PM
7

Talk to a fucking doctor.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:06 AM
1

I'm not sure how old you are, but I feel that I am older than you and have some better advice compared to some of the autistic fucks over here. You would have been better off posting this in askmrp, but do what you want. Guys with long term girlfriends who you normally see 4+ times a week, how much do you text them on the days off? My SO was one of a handful of plates that I was dating before even promoting her to the relationship phase. I dated her for over a year (1y7m) before promoting her to…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:56 AM
2

Not sure why this is being downvoted... Texting is for logistics... I don't text my SO unless it has to do around the next time we are getting together. Too much autism has crept into this space, which is why some guys here feel you need to "monitor" and "text her" all day and every day.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:49 AM
2

LTR 3month ago with my coworker she is a solid 9/10 a lot There is no such thing as a "3 month LTR", unless you have been dating the woman a year prior... This woman is a plate. She is plating you. Period. Paragraph.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:24 AM
1

when I got there she was less attractive than I anticipated. This is why learning game is so important and learning not to rely just on dating apps.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:18 AM
1

Very true.
/r/askMRP20/11/20 12:38 AM
6

If you ain't gaming, you ain't fucking. Plain & simple. It doesn't matter if you are dating, in a relationship, or married. It's all the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 02:45 AM
1

Agreed. Especially, if he's just spinning plates and dating right now. I mean, you can date single women between the ages of 27 and 35, but you will be getting the "where are we speech..." every 6 or so months. By that point, you will be breaking more plates than spinning.
/r/askMRP19/11/20 01:23 AM
2

we have done this for the past 3-4 months, with non of us pushing for anything serious, it’s getting boring, and I’m sure she feels the same.. Boo-fucking-hoo... Here's the deal, you are probably young (late teens/early twenties) and you need experience with women and dealing in the sexual marketplace. You do not consider promoting a woman you are dating (plating) to a relationship unless you have been dating her for at least a year (12 months, min) where she has earned a promotion, you have set…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:15 AM
3

That 29 year olds clock is ticking hard right now. I wanted to add this for OP as well... Both women are going to ask for some sort of commitment or a relationship at some point. That's the territory you are dealing with when it comes to dating women in their late 20s/30s. You must be an engineer or something by the way you describe shit. I think /u/UEMcGill might be able to help out OP on this one.
/r/askMRP19/11/20 01:08 AM
3

I laid out a detailed list for you to follow based on your post on /r/askmrp and you have barely done anything that I told you to do... Your marriage is over. What the fuck are you doing? What's this bullshit around your SO? We don't care. Your wife had an is having an affair and you are looking the other way. Stop pussyfooting around the whole "I'm not talking to lawyers yet because of X, Y, and Z" - fuck off. Everyone who commented on your post told you to get your shit in order and prepare to…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 09:45 PM
3

You didn't keep your mouth shut. Now you know why STFU is thrown around here to all of the new, dumb fucks. Luckily for you, the fact you are 20 with no kids with this woman is a lifesaving situation. Seriously, get to work and find a lawyer to get out of this marriage. All of the work is over at the sidebar, by the way...
/r/askMRP16/11/20 12:21 AM
7

I've been "red pill aware" for ~10 months, and obviously I've just dicked around for that time and failed to apply anything in any meaningful way. Sad. Just sad. I was kinda trad con but not Christian or anything. Full of shit. I was a pothead at first (for 20 years), but although I managed to come off that within 2 months of getting with this girl, I've not managed to shake myself out of that lazy lifestyle. Doing it for the woman, not you, always works out well. But despite all my own shortcom…
/r/askMRP16/11/20 12:18 AM
5

l stumbled on TRP last December when I was trying to figure out why my wife wouldn’t have sex with me no matter what I tried. Lots of talk about TRP in your post, but no mention of any MRP sidebar books, posts, links, or even, the 60 Days of Dread. Stop hanging out at TRP and focus on going through the MRP sidebar. There is a lot of fucked up information that is thrown around at TRP, all of which is pedestalizing pussy, whining about women, and no mention of taking responsibility for your life. …
/r/askMRP14/11/20 07:33 PM
1

I'll fuck your girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 05:10 AM
1

Stronglifts is for beginners who have never lifted before in their life. It's pretty common for guys to abandon Stronglifts after a month or so of lifting and then figure out a routine that works better for them. After 11 months of lifting, you going to Stronglifts would be going backward. Keep doing what you are doing, or research some new workouts and plans that you would like to try.
/r/askMRP10/11/20 10:58 PM
3

Depending on who your lawyer is, he might be able to move along with your divorce at a steady pace if you get all of your documents and ducks in a row. Use up the monthly retainer that you agree on with your lawyer.
/r/askMRP10/11/20 01:21 AM
1

You have no experience with women, you shouldn't be pursuing a relationship. Get some one night stands, casual hook ups, get your heart broken a few times. OP doesn't seem to understand this point at all...
/r/askMRP10/11/20 01:14 AM
1

The sidebar is the sidebar on the page... Based on your other comments to the others here, you sound like an autistic tradcon. Get to fucking work or fuck off.
/r/askMRP10/11/20 01:14 AM
7

You should be spending all of your extra time sorting out your shit with your lawyer and lifting.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 10:58 PM
3

You sound weak... STFU, hit the sidebar, lift heavy regularly, and stop the woman worship.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 10:57 PM
2

I read through your post history over at TRP. Sad. Just sad. I was in love once and it was awesome because she was my best friend. What the fuck is this shit? Look, none of us know how old you are or have any kind of information on you whatsoever. We can't give you proper advice without knowing a bit about you. Therefore, I'm going to assume that you are a fat teenager who complains about women not worshiping his cock. Everything you need to know is over there at the sidebar. I bet you don't lif…
/r/askMRP09/11/20 08:21 AM
3

BUT, it is heavy on home equity and retirement. You don't have the extra cash flow to own a boat unless you FIL is paying all of the extra fees on a yearly basis (re: my original comment). I agree with the comments around renting or leasing a boat for a season to see whether or not it's something that you want to step and take responsibility for. That being said, I get the sense that the "boat issue" is covering up a lot more issues on your end...
/r/askMRP09/11/20 01:43 AM
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Finances: Net worth is $1.1mil. Base income $150. Okay... High cost of living area unfortunately so it doesn’t go real far. It looks like everything is evening out here then... Wife SAHM, but gets some assistance from her folks So, your finances aren't that great, right? Now I want to get one again. Going to split with my dad so the total cost is less than $10k. The expenses will outweigh the initial cost of the boat over the next five years at least. Have you taken into account the other variab…
/r/askMRP08/11/20 09:42 PM
8

What the fuck is this?
/r/askMRP06/11/20 09:36 PM
6

How does one do this without it being detected? This isn't hard at all... Keep a folder in a small filing bin in your office space at home. Make sure it has a keypad or security lock of some kind. Go to fucking Staples or Office Depot to purchase one. Use it for all of your documents, whether it's notes on your end or documents from your lawyer. If you want to have success in the divorce process, you must have all of your ducks in a row. You will lose things during this divorce (i.e. money, alim…
/r/askMRP06/11/20 08:56 PM
10

I'm late to this thread by a day, but I'm hoping that you, /u/sucka_chump, will read through my comment. First off, your entire post and situation is an absolute dumpster fire that was all caused by you. Own it. Fucking own it. If you haven't realized it yet, it's your fault. Own it. Okay, now that's out of the way, I can focus on a list for you to actually work through if you are hoping to unfuck your current situation. The way I see it, your marriage has been over for a long time. Sucka Chump'…
/r/askMRP06/11/20 06:06 AM
1

This girls 21 and in college? LMFAO. We were laughing at OP over at MRP about this. Any guy that gets into a relationship with a woman during her college years is absolutely nuts. Date her? Absolutely. Relationship? Hell no. Not to mention that he entered into the relationship with her on her terms, not his.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:39 AM
5

This post makes me think of the recent trend of tradcons who have come over to MRP ever since Jordan Peterson was away on holiday. I have noticed a lot more autistic TRP guys posting over at /r/askmrp lately, which has been making my eyes bleed as of late. Who fucking cares, it worked. I love this line so much. You are bang on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 05:28 AM
10

You are 25 years old... Why are you in a relationship? First off, this situation is caused because of the fact you didn't set the relationship up properly (your terms) when promoting her. Learn from this for the future. The sidebar is over there >, well, at least it used to be. Secondly, you should be spinning plates the second a woman you are in a relationship with has crossed a boundary in any shape, way, or form. Who cares what she thinks? I would never entertain this situation and keep on go…
/r/askMRP04/11/20 09:01 PM
2

The problem with the majority of guys that are over at the main TRP subs is that most are fucking idiots. We seem to get a lot of those guys coming over here to get more praise for their situation, but instead, they are shit on for not lifting, OYSing, STFUing, and sidebaring.
/r/askMRP21/10/20 01:44 AM
1

I’ve been on two dates with this girl Dates? So, you haven't had sex with her then, right? Also, this woman is busting your balls.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:41 AM
2

Never waste any time with a woman who is flakey, whether it's for a first-time hangout, or it's a woman you have been dating/plating for a few months to see where things go. Shut that down - ASAP. I always pick up the women I go out with; especially, for the first time to hang out and get together. Why? Well, she enters my frame, not the other way around. This lets you lead, control logistics, and you can either bounce her back to your place or drop her off if you aren't having a good time. Stop…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:39 AM
1

Walk away? You don't need anyone here...
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:35 AM
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Is the kid even yours? Have you gotten a paternity test yet? If not, get one done.
/r/askMRP17/10/20 09:25 PM
6

Just broke up with my LTR Break down your situation with this woman for us... How long did you date/plate her for? Why did she earn a promotion from a woman you are dating to a woman you are in a relationship with? How long were you in the relationship for? Why did you stop focusing on your mission and purpose when you decided to get into a relationship with your unicorn? Lots of questions here...
/r/askMRP16/10/20 01:24 AM
1

Wow... Another poster that hasn't hit the sidebar or have done any work. Seriously, you are no where close to your prime/peak SMV...
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:48 AM
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What the fuck is this shit? Be a man, set up a time to get together with her, and pick her up. Stop being an autist.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:47 AM
2

There is a lot of bullshit to unpack here... You don't STFU. You don't lift. You have barely scratched the surface of the sidebar. Your wife has already been considering a divorce for a while now. You keep fucking around without doing any of the actual work on yourself. As many others have mentioned, the sidebar and lifting heavy are the building blocks to your long term success. You haven't even started the first steps in the process, but you are out here asking random BS "emergency" type quest…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 08:32 PM
2

Dude, plate/date women they are going to be with other guys. Get over it. If you decide to promote a woman to a relationship, that will be your call. Plates are plates.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:56 AM
1

... How much of the sidebar have you went through? Set something up and pick her up.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:54 AM
2

girls don't talk this way, insecure dudes do. This was my first thought too... OP, you should be focusing on losing weight and going through more of the sidebar material.
/r/askMRP05/10/20 09:41 PM
1

This is a weak ass post. Take it down and post it on /r/askmrp like half the commenters are saying. In addition, there is not a lot of information on you and your marriage for any of us to give you valuable feedback, let alone an ass kicking. Put in some effort in your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:32 PM
3

Your post on the /r/deadbedrooms sub was written as a woman... I call BS on this post like everyone else.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 04:50 AM
5

Need advice! Ask your girlfriend. She probably has higher maxes than you at the gym.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 04:06 AM
3

I am 4 classes away from getting my masters in Psychology/Counseling BTW. So, I’m not an expert, but the classes I took on couple’s counseling suggest the systems they use for couples counseling are outdated and very rogue.... basically garbage IMO. There is a woman in my city who I have met a few times through business networking events and gala's who "specializes" in relationship and marriage coaching. From what she has told me around her business model with couples going through hardships (i.…
/r/askMRP01/10/20 01:41 AM
1

Agreed. It really boils down to living alone by the time you are in your 30s.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:42 AM
3

Ditch the roommates, you're not in college anymore. I 1000% agree with you on this; especially, for guys that are entering their 30s.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:41 AM
7

Kinda surprised at some of the comments I'm not. There are a lot of guys in here that don't want to do the work and just complain all day about the waman. It's amazing what happens to your life when you develop frame, OI, and have your mental point of origin down to a tee. These things of "issues" are minor in the grand scheme of things. He only dated her for like 6 months, you barely even know that woman. I don't even promote a woman to relationship status unless I have been plating her for at …
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:25 AM
1

I'm late to this post, but if you haven't already been vetting and interviewing lawyers, you have done fuck all. There is a lot of good advice in this thread; therefore, there isn't a lot to add. That being said, you should be smashing the weights and reading through the books on the sidebar as you get prepared to serve your wife the divorce papers. By the way, don't bring up the topic around getting a divorce until you have the papers in your hand ready to serve.
/r/askMRP21/09/20 04:44 AM
3

Your post carves out and proves many reasons on why women don't fuck unattractive men. Seriously, stop the self-pity BS and get to work. Hit the sidebar and internlize everything you read. You need to develop a MAP and figure out what your mission is. Once again, women don't fuck unattractive men.
/r/askMRP21/09/20 04:41 AM
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I dated a girl for approximately 6-7 months. What does this mean? Seriously, do you know the difference between plating/dating and being in a relationship with a woman? I bet that you were HER plate - nothing more. Time to get to work and stop the sob story. Seriously, hit the sidebar, lift heavy, develop a mission & a MAP, and start getting your shit in order. As we would say on the mrp subs, this is your victim puke... Now? It's time to STFU and get to work.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:39 AM
2

46yo, 1.5yrs into LTR. How long did you date her beforehand? I am OK financially, could easily last 6mos without a job, prob stretch that to a year, and I don’t expect to be out that long. I have highly marketable skills. You shouldn't be worried at all. You should treat this as a "break" for the next chapter in your life. Start lifting more, improving your resumé, go out and network, improve the wardrobe, take care of the thing in your agenda you have been putting off - keep moving forward. May…
/r/askMRP01/09/20 12:50 AM
2

You should just learn to be social with everyone you run into whenever you are out.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:23 PM
2

You need to lift heavy and put on some muscle.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:51 PM
1

question been dating this chick for 5 months. What does this mean...? Have you been plating/dating her for 5 months? Have you promoted this woman and she is now an LTR of 5 months? Dating isn't the same as a relationship (sidebar, please). A little more clarification would help a lot here...
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:49 PM
1

Too much text here and overthinking... Keep doing you.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:09 PM
1

Well, my comment got removed for being too honest... This is why I spend more time on the MRP subs compared to here. Too many guys whine and complain here without doing the actual work.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:28 PM
1

Stop treating this girl like a unicorn...
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:27 PM
3

I can tell you aren't spinning other plates...
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:51 PM
1

I like this break down a lot... If OP read MMSLP and interlized everything, he would be able to grasp everything you just mentioned above. His wife didn't sign up for the shit show, she signed up for the stability of an oak tree.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 08:05 PM
7

She lives with me Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:30 AM
5

Demote to plate status.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:28 AM
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I hate to say this, but I think your newly wedded wife is fucking someone else... Call three divorce lawyers starting tomorrow (until you find one) and get the paper work going. Seriously, do the work. Get the paperwork in order. If you don't do this you are either stupid or naive. Your situation smells of an affair.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:39 AM
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Weirdly enough, I've had more success with generating interest and being social with women during this time. I never had an issue with day game before, but I have found that more people are eager to have conversations now compared to lockdowns in my area. Focus on being social with everyone and look for IOI's.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:09 AM
1

I introduced handcuffs to one of my main plates that I've been seeing (over a year now) a couple of months back. I wanted to spice things up and I read up on different items to use in the bedroom (i.e. ropes, chains, handcuffs, etc.) and I wanted to experiment with handcuffs. It's surprisingly been a lot of fun whenever I have brought them out. I do recommend doing your own research first and figuring out what you want to try. I agree with what /u/HornsOfApathy mentions about knowing what you ar…
/r/askMRP24/08/20 11:56 PM
2

This woman was always going to be dating material, not relationship material.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 09:04 PM
2

that after dating for x amount of months This isn't a good reason to "promote" a woman... Promotions are always earned, not given. Get this through your head. I have been in situations where I have dated women for around a year and they never earned the promotion. Stop thinking "I've been seeing her for 6 months; therefore, it's time for a relationship" - fuck off with this. That's how guys get fucked and get balls deep into BP territory. In my view, your girl was/is no more than plate status; e…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:59 PM
1

What made you want to promote her to a relationship? Based on your post and replies to some of the guys here, I'm having a hard time figuring out why you'd promote a woman like this...
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:52 PM
1

How long did you date this woman before promoting her? Serious question... This will determine my answer for you.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:50 PM
0

Not from my experiences... If you are a high enough SMV guy you can easily plate women for a year or two. One of my plates I have been seeing is going on 15 months (she's 24). Generally speaking, I can plate women for an average of 6 to 18 or so months before considering promotions. If you haven't hit the sidebar, you would know that promotions are earned, not given...
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:04 AM
3

You live in different countries. I can't get my head around this...
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:02 AM
1

Your "unicorn" has been fucked and sprayed down by multiple men. Time to get your head out of your ass, hit the sidebar, and start lifting like your life depends on it. Guess what? Because it does.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:02 AM
2

You should be escalating the next time you see her. If I were you, I would throw her in the dating phase and plate her for the next few months. No need to even consider jumping into a relationship. How much of the sidebar have you read?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:30 PM
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Most women (especially, 25 and younger) don't know what they want.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:29 PM
3

I'm not sure how old you are, but I feel like I'm older than you and have a bit more experience compared to you on this. Let me put it to you this way, "big friend groups" are absolute BS; especially, if you see it out in public. It's always women who have "friendzoned" a bunch of beta bucks guys (yup, I've seen this from groups late 20s/30s) getting free validation and attention. You should be social no matter what you are doing and get the feelers out there. Personally speaking, I have always …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:33 AM
1

But any woman who yells or publicly tries to “shame me” would be written off for good. This is a really valid point here. I have seen a lot of guys post situations where their LTR/wife has "shamed" them out in front of a group of people; especially, if it's a public setting with no friends, family members, or aquantices around. For me? It's a blatant red flag and a no go zone for me. My ex (LTR who led me to MRP four years back) did it a couple of times, one of which was infront of strangers whi…
/r/askMRP23/08/20 05:24 AM
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After she got cleaned up and dressed up, she clearly stated to me that this would never happen again. Fucking bullshit. This woman will be back; you know it, I know, we all know it. This woman's actions have spoken louder than her words. Let's do the rundown, shall we? You broke up with her 4 months ago. You went no contact with her and removed her number, social media accounts - all of it. You have been focusing all of your energy on yourself post break up - not her. She goes out of her way to …
/r/askMRP23/08/20 01:45 AM
1

She brought up the LTR talk ater dating and vetting her for months Wrong. You need around a year or two of vetting & setting boundaries before even promoting a woman. If you have spent anytime on this sub and the sidebar material, you would have known that already. In addition, you could have told her that you need more time before committing yourself to a relationship. But? You have oneitis for this girl and it's clear as day.
/r/askMRP22/08/20 06:24 PM
1

Demote to plate. Exactly! OP needs to add women to the pipeline.
/r/askMRP22/08/20 06:18 AM
3

Why would you promote her if there were ANY red ones? This guy kills me, honestly... This guy is the typical; 'My unicorn smells so good, but she has a few minor issues that I will ignore for now...' - fuck off, OP. Seriously, you have done this all to yourself and you are coming here asking us how to "put the reins" on your 19 year old girlfriend who wants to spin plates and fuck multiple men. What are you expecting? Come on...
/r/askMRP22/08/20 12:55 AM
1

You wouldn't have to make this post if you developed frame and OI.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:41 PM
3

Okay, there are a few things that come to mind for me... Walkthrough: Cut out all alcohol from your diet & daily consumption ASAP! If you actually want to take this seriously, you must cut that shit out of your system, which will help you lose weight and gain muscle. Hit the sidebar. This is a common comment around this space, but we say it over and over again for a reason. Those books and resources on the sidebar will actually pay dividends in your life moving forward if you actually do the wor…
/r/askMRP21/08/20 07:00 PM
2

Private lab, a private lab, a private lab, and, oh? Did I say a private lab? That response you got from a normal primary care doctor (i.e. GPs) will give you that response. I'm not sure where you live, but you will need to go to a private lab and ask to get your blood labs tested; including, TRT. You might need to be prepared to pay for it as a side/addition, but it will definitely be worth it for you to see your exact numbers.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 06:48 PM
12

She is 19... Take the t-shirt and move on.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 06:39 PM
1

I like this comment.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 09:35 PM
2

Questions.. How much do you weigh? What is your BF %? Are you lifting? How much of the sidebar have you gone through? How far is your head up your ass?
/r/askMRP20/08/20 06:19 PM
6

Hi everybody, 6 years married hubby here. What are you? A low SMV chick?
/r/askMRP20/08/20 06:09 PM
2

Don't get locked down if you have doubts about it. I want to echo this point... OP, you are only 29 years old here.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 04:06 AM
1

I just finished watching the first one and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 03:45 AM
2

That guy is a fucking idiot and deserves whatever shit he is will be going through from his actions. What a fucking mick...
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 03:44 AM
2

Understandably this line of thought is completely blue pill and I need to focus on OI. Yet I struggle to do this because finding a woman with the above traits is so incredibly rare. Everything you are working on will fail if you keep treating this woman like a unicorn. You shouldn't be surprised if she branch swings to another cock if you keep up this pedastilizing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 09:28 PM
4

OP, I highly reccomened that you save this comment and reference back to it as you see fit.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 06:22 PM
1

Way... Way too much texting on your end. You should have left the conversation after you said "we’ll talk when I get home" -- leave it.
/r/askMRP17/08/20 06:51 PM
2

Just how fat and balls deep in BP territory are you? Some of these posts lately...
/r/askMRP16/08/20 01:23 AM
1

OP is on meth.
/r/askMRP16/08/20 01:23 AM
1

Couldn't have said it better myself!
/r/askMRP13/08/20 07:38 PM
2

Last time I had a pregnant lady in my household, I was a blue pill, fatty McLoserFace. Solution: Keep lifting and developing your framework.
/r/askMRP13/08/20 07:36 PM
1

This comment is all OP needs to read...
/r/askMRP12/08/20 11:32 PM
2

The real question is... what do YOU want to do? Exactly. This sums up the majority of guys that come here looking for answers.
/r/askMRP10/08/20 01:46 AM
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Here's the deal, OP... If you don't want to get married - don't. Whatever reason or reasons you have on not wanting to get married comes down to what you want to get out of your life. This might be an unpopular opinion here, but I would be prepared to break up with your fiancé, even if you are not interested in getting married right now. Even if you tell your fiancé that you want to delay getting married for a couple of years or three, there is a good possibility that she will soon have eyes els…
/r/askMRP09/08/20 02:39 AM
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Apparently yesterday was National GF day(?) and I didn’t even notice, now she’s telling me she is jealous of other girls getting spoiled and getting surprises. This is what happens when you promote women to LTR status way too early on and when women don't enter your frame... All of these problems are happening because of you. Not sure what I should do, I just would like some guidance as I’ve thought I’ve been beta/ alpha, and somehow it doesn’t work. What the fuck? Dude, the sidebar is located o…
/r/askMRP02/08/20 06:44 PM
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There is so much bullshit and fagatry in this post I don't even know where to begin... Save the comments left by /u/HornsOfApathy since he basically covered everything from this horseshit you have posted here. Please stop whining, complaining, and bitching... It's a really unattractive quality; especially, since women don't fuck unattractive men. Unhappy with your results in your life? Then you need to fix your belief system and choices you make.
/r/askMRP01/08/20 12:13 AM
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she posted a video on social media, one saying that men today are trash with relationships, aren’t ready for commitment etc... Wow... So, you got pulled out of your frame from a social media video? Time to get to work. STFU, hit the sidebar, and start lifting for fuck sakes.
/r/askMRP26/07/20 01:02 AM
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