Obligatory, I am reading the side bar only on plate theory II. I do not want to get oneitis for this chick. I want to quit being a neck beard.

Long story short, we were set up by friends. We go out I pass a few shit tests then go full stupid and try to impress her. At the end I said it was awkward, because it was, and left.

She goes rock climbing with me and my friends every week and occasionally comes with us to the gym. How do I hard or soft next this chick? Do I just need to practice how to deal with shit tests, and keep her as an option?

I learned what I did wrong on the date, by introspection. I am not sure how to proceed.

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Thanks.

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p.s. No, I do not text her I went radio silent after the date.