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bob4job/r/askTRP31/12/13 05:45 AM
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Unfortunately, it doesnt work that well for me. Normal face=somber Ryan Gosling. Smile face=rapist Draco Malfoy. I have to smile with my eyes rather than my mouth
/r/seduction04/04/14 05:51 PM
2

good progress. keep getting better! Next time initiate conversastion at the first encounter.
/r/seduction04/04/14 05:49 PM
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lol what a try hard
/r/askTRP04/04/14 05:33 PM
1

your username is a lie. Call her a beggar.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 05:28 AM
1

at that point, its not about fucking her. unless you are desperate
/r/askTRP04/04/14 05:28 AM
1

Awesome! the one thing I dont get is the family question. Im thinking maybe it is missing context
/r/seduction27/03/14 11:18 PM
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lol shes not ur plate. If you want her to b then ignore other dude cuz he doesnt matter
/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:37 PM
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Do this! It will help you relax and not seem creepy. makes the experience better for both people
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:56 AM
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dont say theyre gorgeous
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:55 AM
1

a grammatical disadvantage
/r/askTRP27/03/14 04:44 AM
-3

one woman does not have enough qualities no
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:24 AM
2

whats a sigma?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:00 AM
3

You're title sounds clingy. Be cool. Ask her to get food or something after work some time.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 01:53 AM
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The easiest way is calories in, calories out. Dont waste time reading diet books or looking for secrets. Just eat less calories and expend more energy.
/r/becomeaman24/03/14 09:51 PM
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Lol you had to defend yourself!
/r/seduction21/03/14 04:26 PM
2

TL;DR don't be a bucket of cold water
/r/seduction19/03/14 05:55 PM
1

"nice guy" is a term we use to refer to pushovers. The kind of person that you refer to in the title would be a "good guy". Being a "good guy" is a great way to become friends with girls (without killing attraction) and expand your social circle. These friend girls can act as wingwomen or tell their friends how cool you are. I'm actually implementing this strategy right now
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:16 PM
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It happened to your fellow countryman
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:36 AM
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Dang player what did you say?
/r/seduction18/03/14 02:02 PM
2

"but" is another one that does pretty much the opposite of because
/r/seduction18/03/14 04:25 AM
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The detail used for developing those traits is part of what makes it technical. "Tricks", which can be considered outer game are part of the "build attraction" thing you mentioned in your original comment.
/r/seduction17/03/14 11:56 PM
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It's implied because it is a subreddit, rather than a single thread. If all we did was say "display confidence, dominance, calmness, etc." then we wouldn't need an entire subreddit.
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:39 PM
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the irony!
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:17 PM
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this is a technical subreddit
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:16 PM
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there are exceptions to every rule
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:12 PM
1

This is a great strategy because it hits on people's need for belonging (those are harsh terms for it, but I think the community here can handle stuff like that)
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:10 PM
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Alcoholics Anonymous?
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:50 PM
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I believe this is just a trick to throw into conversation because it can enhance results. It should not be the only strategy used because it is just an additive, like salt and pepper. However, adding this simple trick will especially boost a positive response to openers because it sounds logical rather than emotionally aggressive.
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:46 PM
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Learn some self control
/r/seduction15/03/14 12:19 AM
1

"Everyday..." [transforms into Rick Ross] "I'm hustlin"
/r/seduction09/03/14 10:06 AM
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Nope. thats just creepy. imagine a girl approaching you while with ur mom. super awkward.
/r/seduction09/03/14 10:03 AM
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dont use texting for conversation. just planning. example: she says "heyy :)". u say "[insert date details]"
/r/askTRP09/03/14 09:41 AM
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It's called sexual selection. It happens with a lot of species.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:06 AM
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Either she is unsure about contraceptive use or she is trying to start drama. Dont respond. you will either be respecting her decision (it's her body, so u should respect it) or ignoring her shittest. win either way, andshe will probably be back. Buy condoms just in case.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 11:31 PM
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yep. some people will say no with some theory bullshit, but they are delusional.
/r/seduction03/03/14 11:22 PM
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the thing is, I dont enjoy most of those things (except laser tag). I would rather play basketball or workout or call of duty, and I know most girls dont wanna do that stuff. No commonground, other than parties
/r/seduction02/03/14 10:03 PM
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Saying everyone else's opinion doesnt matter is taking it too far. For example, a manager's (if she has a job) opinion of her is meaningful because it can affect her future.
/r/askTRP02/03/14 08:36 PM
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the toilet store
/r/seduction02/03/14 07:59 PM
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Good article, but I feel like that last part needs expansion. "the time she spends with you must be fucking great for them and without doubt the best that they could have with anyone else. You must be able to be a great, unforgettable experience." I am good at all of the other things most of the time, but that last part is difficult. I like to be active and do guy things in my free time, so I don't have many overlapping activities with women. For this reason, I hate dates because I have to compr…
/r/seduction02/03/14 07:52 PM
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You provided no support for lesson 1
/r/seduction02/03/14 06:58 PM
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no. girls want plausible deniability. its also kind of weird and outcome dependent-ish to plan on sex. its more natural toask for someones company (invite them over) and stay in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:28 AM
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tldr
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:19 AM
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If she sounds like she is trying to start drama then tell her she dosn't sound lke she is bothered by it. If she sounds bothered then look at the guy, shake your head silently and nonthreateningly, as if he didnt know she was off limits and you are letting him know in an understanding and non-confrontational manner. then turn her and yourself so you are between her and the guy with your vack to him. Every man knows that it is cowardly to strike a man from behind, so he will get the message that …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:19 AM
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'thank you'
/r/askTRP24/02/14 09:39 AM
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Zyzzus Christ, Son of Brodin. Crucified on the iron cross, he rose on the third day and ascended into Snap City.
/r/seduction23/02/14 10:41 AM
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No. dont sniff girls. thats weird. say thanks and continue conversation. best way to deal with most compliments.
/r/seduction02/02/14 07:21 PM
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It might be that you don't present yourself well, so you don't attract attention. Consider your dress, grooming habits, posture, facial expression, the way you walk, etc.
/r/seduction27/01/14 05:51 AM
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Was listening to "Bitch Niggaz" as i read c)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:50 AM
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No. Fucking. Shit.
/r/askTRP22/01/14 02:49 AM
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Medicine, engineering, law, real estate... Until you get off the ground, get good at ripping people off (hustling) and steal from the grocery store every time you go. Shit adds up FAST.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 05:15 AM
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A great summary of seduction from the girls' perspective! I wouldn't do a few things in here, but for the most part, great information.
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:03 AM
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so. much. cringe. eeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Bad date was bad.
/r/seduction16/01/14 06:02 PM
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Ive done a bit of light kino in class, but it's not appropriate to escalate. The farthest ive gone is legs. Invite girls to lunch or ask for their # at the end. If you want to go even slower form a study group.
/r/seduction10/01/14 01:22 AM
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Why not? A text can't hurt. I wouldn't take the advice from thewordofmouse because it is a blatant lie.
/r/seduction08/01/14 09:01 PM
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Why would you ever considered fucking a girl that you're not attracted to. Does not make sense. Everyone will know you are desperate if you do.
/r/askTRP07/01/14 09:10 PM
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Don't plan on losing weight soon. Lose weight now. Example: Go for a bike ride or walk for an hour after work today. Eat a chicken breast and a salad with two glasses of water for dinner.
/r/askTRP07/01/14 08:56 PM
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There is no "should". I can only offer how I would handle it. That's a form of advice.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:07 PM
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Then she was joking. I would have laughed and said something playful
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:46 PM
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I naturally would have responded something like"[insert title] marathon tonight" or "I've already seen the next 3 seasons" without identifying it as a shit test. That's just because I like to keep things fun. Since the statement and situation were pretty much understood by both of you, I don't think she was expecting a serious response
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:11 PM
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Emotionally connect
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:03 PM
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It sounds like op fakes high value, without really believing that he does
/r/askTRP31/12/13 04:21 AM
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Lifting weights and growing facial hair will make you look older. Lifting weights will help you a lot with confidence.
/r/seduction30/12/13 11:18 PM
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Good advice, but to build mass, I recommend modifying Starting Strength. Lower the weight a bit and add at least 3 reps to every set. Also, keep rest intervals below 60 sec.
/r/becomeaman30/12/13 07:42 PM
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This is the right mentality, but it is probably (you didn't provide much info on the context) too direct and out of place. Just introduce yourself and have a conversation. "Getting drinks sometime" is a time commitment. I don't recommend making time commitments to people you have never conversed with before. I recommend talking for a few minutes, getting to know the person, screen the person to see if you actually enjoy their company. If you do, ask to see the person again at some point.
/r/becomeaman30/12/13 07:37 PM
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You will probably face some resistance at first, but that is normal with all change. Don't allow the resistance to stop your journey. The relationship may improve, or it may die.
/r/becomeaman30/12/13 07:31 PM
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Good job. You've got the right ideas, like the one about meeting her friends. Keep progressing and try opening immediately, like mention the book or ask about why she is going right before new years
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:18 PM
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No. You're doing it all wrong. You're date sounds creepy and boring. I'll give you some advice on how to fix it. 1) to make sure it's still on you can text her something like"are you excited for tonight?" 2) don't go to a show for 8 FUCKING HOURS. That's boring as shit. I don't care how awesome the show is, she will be bored well before midnight. 3) the picture thing seems creepy and awkward. It seems like you are TRYING to impress. That's not a good strategy. You shouldn't have to qualify yours…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 06:53 PM
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" the top of yo booty jigglin' out yo jeans baby pull yo pants up"
/r/askTRP29/12/13 06:38 PM
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Probably lack of depth/uninteresting, ambition, confidence. Do you have any hobbies? Long term goals/pursuits? Ask the girls from your past relationships
/r/seduction28/12/13 06:04 PM
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Think what you would do if you were just going to hang out with a friend. You want to do something fun and talk a lot.
/r/seduction28/12/13 05:37 PM
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Sounds like someone lives around the club scene and only talks to club bitches. There are women with valid opinions, and this does not conflict with TRP logic. Maybe you got over excited on the "women do bad things sometimes" part and took it too far.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 05:03 PM
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A regular person's (someone not in a position to do anything about it) opinion on a "controversial topic" won't hurt you, so don't get upset about it. Don't make it a big deal. If an argument gets tense, just say "I guess we will agree to disagree. Let's talk about something more pleasant." *smiling, and change the subject.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 04:58 PM
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Putting yourself first.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 04:51 PM
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That's not justifying yourself. Its answering a question. Your response is out of place and sounds try hard
/r/askTRP27/12/13 09:38 PM
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Like you said in the post. "because she was closer to the fridge". The point of passing a shit test is to build attraction. Don't try to build attraction with your girlfriends bitch friend. Don't try to pass the shit test. Just answer the damn question honestly. It will shut a bitch down.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 09:34 PM
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Somolian Pirate.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 08:38 PM
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Playing pinball... What an exciting time! Best date ever!
/r/askTRP27/12/13 06:58 PM
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That second paragraph is what's holding you back, not your looks. Women like confidence. Become alpha. Check out r/Becomeaman
/r/askTRP27/12/13 06:37 PM
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The statement about your looks seems like a confidence issue. I think the problem may be your attitude or personality.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 06:34 PM
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Parkour. It's individual, athletic, creative, builds confidence, forces you to do stuff in public, and people think it's badass.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 06:09 PM
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"Damn... It feels good..." "what feels good?" "to be a gangster"
/r/askTRP27/12/13 06:03 PM
1

Damn. If I was in a similar situation, I would tell the sister she lost the right to be a part of my life. Cease contact.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 05:49 PM
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I try not to think of possibility of sex. Wayyy too soon. It's kind of a creeper thought to consider fucking someone you just met.
/r/becomeaman26/12/13 05:55 PM
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What's NLP?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:51 PM
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The last time I tried I was wasted and it took forever, even with two hands
/r/becomeaman26/12/13 05:03 AM
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Newb here. How do RPs approach? I think examples might help clarify, so I'll give some example scenarios. At a college party, in the grocery store, sit next to a girl in a class (at university), on the sidewalk, at a club/bar. I learn well from seeing patterns in examples, so if yall give examples of how you would open/approach, I will better understand the RP mentality as it relates to game.
/r/becomeaman26/12/13 05:02 AM
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No cuz blaming others for problems is beta
/r/askTRP26/12/13 03:58 AM
9

Bullshit.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 02:37 AM
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Number 3 is overboard.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 06:07 AM
1

Yes you do. Just do it.
/r/seduction25/12/13 05:36 AM
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Emerging *wiping skills
/r/seduction25/12/13 04:23 AM
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This guy got it
/r/seduction25/12/13 12:27 AM
-8

I never said anything about all night.
/r/seduction24/12/13 09:35 PM
-2

How can I be wrong about clarifying my own question?
/r/seduction24/12/13 09:34 PM
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I didn't say she sees nothing wrong with disrespecting me. She doesn't see that texting mid-conversation is disrespectful. The culture at my university doesn't look down on texting very much.
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:53 PM
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That's way too harsh
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:24 PM
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If you can't be nice than you shouldn't be trying to seduce people because you will hurt them. To love others you must first love yourself. There is more to life than seduction.
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:46 PM
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People can't give you a specific answer without more specific information on your situation
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:42 PM
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"personality is nothing but the thoughts you have and the habits you have formed" Awesome. Will remember this. Will not only help me, but will help a friend currently dealing with some mental problems.
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:41 PM
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Instantly responding with profanity. You're really defensive and hostile. Other people aren't out to get you.
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:39 PM
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Dude no. Respect her decision. Don't be an asshole. You clearly did your job since she wanted it. She made her decision for a reason probably unrelated to you. Respect it. Your attitude is one reason seddit has a bad reputation
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:37 PM
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Dude no. That's not a shit test. She wanted to talk and you just came off as an asshole.
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:58 PM
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The best thing to do is respect her decision. Anything else makes you a rapey asshole in society's eyes. Seduction isn't everything. Read my other comment.
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:54 PM
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There are a million reasons why a girl would refuse sex, even when she wants it. She may have been embarrassed about something (maybe the flow), she might have recently left a relationship and isn't ready, maybe she has a hard rule, like wait til the third date, etc.
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:52 PM
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Try meeting girls in different settings. You can join clubs/organizations at your university. Get to know some of them, not ad targets (I hate that word), but as friends
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:49 PM
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Don't try to impress her. U don't know who she is. Make the interaction about her impressing you. That's how you show confidence. Before she shows up, think about why you are a badass. Make a list of all the things that make you awesome. That will pump you up and get you in the right state.
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:41 PM
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Here is your problem, asshole.
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:21 PM
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Try being nice. Don't get competitive with strangers.
/r/seduction22/12/13 06:52 PM
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It might not be the age thing. It might be the awkward lips thing
/r/seduction22/12/13 06:46 PM
1

Harsh terms, but yeah.
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:41 PM
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Stop thinking of it as game. Girls are real people. They can be fun to hang out with. Just have fun, and if you like a girl, move things forward with her. Seduction is a tool, not a goal.
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:40 PM
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Why not just hang out as old friends and be equal? Maybe he just wants to catch up. Maybe he just texted you out of courtesy. Maybe he doesn't want to have sex with you. Lose the ego, talk to him, and refuse to have sex if you don't want to. It's that simple.
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:35 PM
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Yo, it's XX. You might want to replace the yo with hey. All the X's made me think of DMX (X gon give it to ya), hence the yo
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:45 PM
2

The getting closer and closer to your house and *accidentally ending up near your house seems creepy as fuck and girls will definitely see through this deception.
/r/seduction11/12/13 11:55 PM
2

Come on dude. You know the answer to this question.
/r/seduction11/12/13 01:17 AM
0

Appear healthy and vibrant. Have an energetic lifestyle/hobbies. Be cool and collected, but talk about energetic/interesting things. If you don't talk a whole lot, talk a little bit more, and make sure everything you say seems important as fuck. People will hold on to every word you say like it came from the heavens.
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:12 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being friends with a girl that has a boyfriend. The worst outcome of this is that you make a new friend. This can be a good thing because if she likes you she will probably introduce you to other girls.
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:02 PM
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This. too many people get lost in all the intentions bullshit and disregard manners and human decency.
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:59 PM
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I think asking if she has a boyfriend from the start can show lack of confidence. It's like you're trying to get shot down. Also, it's not a good first impression.
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:56 PM
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Don't. Just act like she doesn't. If she doesn't have one, then you're in the clear. If she does have one and she is attracted to you, she probably will give you one of two responses: 1) If she is loyal to her boyfriend, she will politely tell you in some way. 2) If she isn't very loyal, well, I think you can figure this out...
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:51 PM
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No. Don't use disclaimers like that. They are annoying because they show so much lack of confidence
/r/seduction09/12/13 04:14 PM
2

I usually don't say anything. When she is talking I give her a certain smile and when she stops talking I kiss. Note: I have been told I am a quiet, mysterious type and people always wonder what I'm thinking
/r/seduction08/12/13 05:15 AM
1

Getting a lot of fake numbers probably means you're doing something wrong. Evaluate your past interactions
/r/seduction08/12/13 05:13 AM
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Good job. I like your mentality. You seem genuine. To get over the anxiety, stop caring about the texting. It's not a big deal because it is such a limited form of communication (no inflection or body language). Also, I would suggest working out the day of the date. Not to look good, but for the chemicals that are released from working out. (more specifically, lifting heavy weights. I suggest deadlifts.) when I do this, I have very little anxiety and more confidence for the rest of the day. I am…
/r/seduction08/12/13 04:51 AM
5

Now boy I tell ya hwat
/r/seduction08/12/13 04:25 AM
1

Older women in your area. Chat now!
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:42 PM
1

So can you give an example?
/r/seduction22/11/13 05:15 AM
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Be a man. Do what you want. Last weekend I went out with a group and one girl seemed to be talking to one of my friends when we were pre-gaming, which didn't last long. I just behaved normally, no game bullshit. No expectations. I didnt even plan on going out that night. When we got to the bar She was standing in front of me and I touched her butt. A few hours later we were fucking. All cuz I just did what I wanted (keep in mind that what I wanted accounted for normal etiquette. I didn't just pu…
/r/seduction21/11/13 03:30 AM
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Can I ask ou something? kiss I forgot what I was going to ask
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:51 PM
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