Being called "rude"

cagethepepper · 2014-02-20T00:27:56+00:00

InscrutablePUA · 2014-02-20T00:28:19+00:00

er... keep agreeing and amplifying?

Spiderman48 · 2014-02-20T03:02:25+00:00

Amused Mastery My first reaction would be to start singing "Rude Boy" by Rihanna. Bitches love Rihanna... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A

Agree and Amplify "Damn, you're right. I'm such an asshole. How are you my friend when I'm constantly giving you shit? I think you should just punch me in the face right now."

Basically whatever she says, don't take it seriously. She is a little kid you are joking with to get some laughs.

KaptainCavy · 2014-02-21T03:05:48+00:00

I know how you feel, had a girl I've been seeing for a little while call me rude last night, apparently I don't know how to talk to people and am just a big arrogant and sarcastic disappointment.

She must have hit a sore spot because I instantly lost interest and was like "hell, this girl is nuts. I have to get out of this." So I by no means choose my words wisely.

But this is in fact just a shit test. If you agree and amplify and she still wants to argue about it, ignore/drop her. Frankly, if she wants to be that difficult she isn't worth your time. 'My' girl sure wasn't.

gerwig · 2014-02-21T22:02:18+00:00

I'm guessing you used to be polite to everyone but were unsatisfied with results so you wanted to change. You have to be rude and piss people off to know how far you can go. It's a process. Don't be rude for the sake of being rude, do it because you think it's funny or you are being honest.

[deleted] · 2014-02-20T00:23:55+00:00

"aight"

radicaIcentrist · 2014-02-21T06:27:57+00:00

I'd say "it's rude to call people rude. If you thought what I said was rude then say that, but don't call me rude."

bob4job · 2014-02-24T09:39:27+00:00

'thank you'

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-02-20T05:55:28+00:00

Agree Amplify Redirect. Take it as a complement.

If it's rude to be right I am.

HolePunch66 · 2014-02-20T20:15:34+00:00

If someone calls me an asshole, I say yes, and I choose to be this way.

boydeer · 2014-02-20T13:16:40+00:00

there are good advices in here, but i also sometimes go with something like "hahaha, what the fuck do you mean i'm rude? you're rude! i'm not allowed to have opinions? ha! go fuck yourself. you're not my real mom. my real mom is dead."

which is sort of a theatrical sarcastic agree and amplify, in a way.

Title	Being called "rude"
Author	finalfantasybrownies
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	February 20, 2014 12:03 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/1ye45w/being_called_rude/
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