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How did you end up sorting out your mental health, and what do you mean by that exactly if you don't mean sharing? I think I'm at this stage in my life.
/r/seduction18/08/19 07:50 PM
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Event went super well and we had a great time, I tried to be more "alpha" and I think it went really well. I planned the whole event and took charge. Unfortunately no sex, she apparently had to get up 2 hours after we were going to go back to my place (we were out very late -- RIP her sleep) and she was worried she wouldn't wake up in time. She stressed that she wanted to though and we made out until she left so it's all good! My concern is not so much with having sex but more with showing her t…
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:58 PM
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Yeah I really try to be as humble as possible no one likes people who brag and I honestly have shit to work on, people like my friend have me beat hard in romance I just have him beat in career neither is better, just different. I just feel so frustrated because I feel like I have a lot to offer yet I have no idea how to get attention from women. The one person who I'm super into is flaking on me and acting weird and I get too much oneitis to just be like "fuck that ho" and move on.
/r/seduction31/03/19 06:26 AM
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I really didn't know how to mention my friend without it sounding like I was shitting on him I love him to death, I just don't understand how he does it. I had a girl I was incredibly into say "we're meant to be together" then not answer me or come over when I invited her. I'm obviously doing something wrong, I totally am not saying I'm owed a woman because I'm successful I just feel like overall I'm doing well and yet I can't show it I guess. I'm just so frustrated I guess, please don't take wh…
/r/seduction31/03/19 05:11 AM
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See I knew someone would take it that way... I love the guy to death of course I am, I just don't understand either.
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:43 PM
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I don't though, I just want a girlfriend, though I suppose that's kind of the same thing :/
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:42 PM
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I was over her house, we talked for hours, we didn't do anything but just talk. I held her hand for most of that, we were leaning into each other, laughing the whole time, and she acted really... embarrassed/awkward, like she was nervous around me all of a sudden, just lots of little things that friends don't do with each other. It was really obvious she wanted me to kiss her.
/r/seduction15/01/19 01:38 PM
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If only it were that easy D:
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:18 AM
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I have no doubts she does and I'm capable of recognizing a good time to do so... I just don't :(
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:12 AM
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Appreciate it, I think alcohol is a great idea... I'd be way too nervous otherwise. I'm probably overthinking it I just don't want her to give up because I'm being a pussy and won't make a move... I'm scared of her realizing my inexperience and nervousness in general. Though I suppose I've embarrassed myself plenty around her over the years.
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:12 AM
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What about where normal podcasts are posted? I'm unfamiliar with the rules but soundcloud, itunes, etc.
/r/seduction28/11/18 03:00 AM
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I would really enjoy listening to this but don't use Facebook, you should consider uploading to other platforms!
/r/seduction27/11/18 06:43 PM
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Kind of a dumb question, but did you just go alone? I kind of want to go to bars alone but I don't really know how that works, do I just sit at the bar somewhere a bit more chill and talk to people? Would love to know how you met these people!
/r/seduction26/11/18 02:08 AM
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I super appreciate the advice, what should I do to "show" her what I mean? Just kiss her? Like I said I've actually never done the typical date, make a move, etc. stuff so I'm not quite sure what to do. How do I show her my interest? I'm worried we'll go out have fun and she'll say there's no sexual attraction because I don't know what to do. Thank you so much for the help
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:54 PM
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Aw thank you <3 I'm the furthest thing from a player and if she says no I'll just brush it off as no big deal, I've had girls ask me out and vice versa and as long as the party who gets rejected acts mature it's never been a big deal
/r/seduction24/11/18 05:36 PM
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I was thinking exactly that! I don't want to be super forward this first time as I'm also wanting to see how it goes, I think she's pretty sure I mean it as a date, so we'll play it out and if it goes well then I'll be like "So... next time let's make it a date?"
/r/seduction24/11/18 05:17 PM
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Like I said though, the girls I've been with have made it obvious, speaking honestly I may not pick up the cues to kiss her, so if I don't the back up plan is to just ask her on a date next time, then I'll feel way more comfortable doing so since I know she'd like it.
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:06 AM
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Wow. You read me like a book. This was exactly my plan, maybe not AS romantic simply because this time is "hanging out" but I made it clear it's just us. My plan is very similar and then ask her on a date for the next time. I really appreciate the advice you saying that made me feel way more confident about my plan.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:50 AM
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Ugh I agree with you but that is mega awkward if she isn't into me, but then again looking back it's so obvious that she is so I probably should. Any tips for when I should go for the kiss? All the girls I've been with made it incredibly obvious or kissed me first, she doesn't seem that type I was thinking just tell her my feelings, if I get a good response go for a kiss what about that?
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:43 AM
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This is where I get stuck because I don't want to creep out my friend if that's what she wants, if I tell her I'm into her and she just wants to be friends, no big deal, but if I make some kind of innuendo or try to kiss her or something then it could get awkward
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:31 AM
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This is exactly what my plan was, get her alone at a bar, have some fun, then if things go well tell her my feeling and she if she reciprocates. I'm getting great vibes from her in the early stages of reframing (I keep trying to get her alone and even though they didn't work out she makes it clear multiple times that she wanted that too) as well as the fact that she used to be super into me but I softly rejected her because I just wasn't ready.
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:30 AM
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I don't know man, this started based on vibes she was giving me after breaking up with her ex, as well as the fact that she was super into me about a year ago but I brushed her off, I don't know why she'd be so eager to do stuff alone with me if she wasn't at least wanting to test the waters.
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:27 AM
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Any idea how to find a photographer for photos? I don't know any personal friends who are into photography, no problem paying a pro but I feel like it would be really awkward to have them take shirtless photos and whatnot, but I've never used a photographer so idk.
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:03 PM
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What do you mean about the deck of cards?
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:19 AM
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Haha the reason I don't have speakers is it's usually just me on it and I prefer a headset, I definitely could invest in some speakers for sure, this could be an option. I also have a laptop I could use I just didn't know if that's weird.
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:19 AM
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Yeah I just don't know how to get her in my room to chill since there really isn't anything to do.
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:03 AM
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Yeah if only lol. I need my computer that's where I work. This will be easier once I get my own place, the bluetooth speaker I could do though. I just have a shitty place as a former college student still on my old lease. Which is kind of why I have this issue. My room is just super small, it's pretty much just a bed.
/r/seduction26/12/17 04:58 AM
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Yeah I guess we could do something in the common room like watch a movie or make some food or w/e and then say something like that or tell her I have drinks in my room or something, I guess that's not weird is it? I know she'd know what I want but I feel like just being blunt is weird lol, maybe it's not idk.
/r/seduction26/12/17 04:06 AM
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