I've been dating this girl who's a really close friend of mine and while I think things are good (our first time having sex was kind of awkward pretty nervous about that) she's so incredibly busy that trying to set up a date is really hard. I have no issues with her being busy but I can't really be like "dinner on wednesday?" because she more than likely works. How do I feel out her schedule in a not awkward way? When I try it come off as super needy just because it's hard to work it haha