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Red Pill Theorybobmarley9/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:16 PM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW19/03/18 02:11 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP01/07/16 01:39 PM
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Ask Red Pillbobmarley9/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:23 PM
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Rant/Ventingbobmarley9/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:05 PM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW26/02/18 12:48 AM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW28/11/17 12:01 AM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW12/11/17 08:55 PM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW14/11/17 04:11 AM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW29/10/17 08:50 PM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW19/11/17 05:32 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:52 PM
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bobmarley9/r/seduction20/08/14 05:54 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:27 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:59 AM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:24 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:35 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:25 PM
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Discussionbobmarley9/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:32 AM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP24/11/14 02:02 AM
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bobmarley9/r/MGTOW09/10/17 04:03 PM
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bobmarley9/r/askTRP11/05/15 02:05 PM
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bobmarley9/r/seduction27/07/15 11:38 PM
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Red Pill Theorybobmarley9/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:36 PM
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How? I'm not in school anymore and 90% of my coworkers are in their 40s
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:22 AM
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I can't spin plates. Face game to weak. I'll just start dating again and look for another LTR
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:28 AM
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Hmm I look into Uber that's a good idea. Or even a cab company since I live in a small town
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:52 AM
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It's possible that it has become obsession. Do you approach girls ?
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:59 PM
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How? Like what am I supposed to say to a random girl
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:12 AM
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I understand the concept of approaching and why it works but I'm young and so are the girls I'd be approaching. Wouldn't it be weird? I've spent my whole life meeting girls online and many girls my age have done the same
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:13 PM
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No. I'm not.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:04 PM
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There's a reason I didn't show my face
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:47 PM
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Thank you. This is a good first step. It's easy. I'm in no mindset to sell myself and apply for jobs right now. I need to heal first. It's just figuring out how to do that
/r/askTRP02/07/16 08:30 PM
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My testosterone is low but my specialist won't do anything about it. I was using a cream for a while bit was taken off of it because when I said it was working the doctor told me it was just plecibo effect and took me off test cream
/r/askTRP02/07/16 05:40 PM
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Why do you think I have adhd
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:13 AM
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There's truth to that
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:12 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:58 PM
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Ok. What was the name of the book again?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:55 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:54 PM
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Lol shut the fuck up. I said right in my post I work for a moving company how the fuck would I be fat. Don't act like a know-it-all with a superiority complex. It's creepy.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:50 PM
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I just don't understand. People keep telling me to build myself up but I don't know how. I don't even know what I'm working for. I'd like just be having a good time with friends but they are all gone and it costs money to have a good time
/r/askTRP01/07/16 05:53 PM
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That's inspiring for sure I just have no idea where to start. What do I do with myself to get on the right track because I just feel hopless
/r/askTRP01/07/16 05:50 PM
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But how to deal with loneliness in my journey. I can't find another job or anything. I can't even get my journey started
/r/askTRP01/07/16 05:47 PM
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I think I might have to
/r/askTRP01/07/16 05:45 PM
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Lol I hardly think calling me a little bitch is going to resolve my suicidal thoughts but bless your heart for trying
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:53 PM
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I'd love to be able to think that way but I have bills to pay and responsibilities.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:47 PM
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So looking for a job is priority number one. Any advice on handing out resumes for a guy with anxiety? How do I stand out? Once I get a better job (hopefully a trade) what do I do next?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:47 PM
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I work for a moving company. I am in the sun all day and lift heavy things for money. I don't eat healthy but I don't really eat unhealthy either. I mean fuck I don't watch movies or even play videos games and I still feel like shit
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:18 PM
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Sounds like you found a dime, dude keep her around...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:04 PM
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She sounds smart. It honestly sounds like she sees right through you
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:39 PM
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I played one once. My buddy had one sitting around his house forever. I believe in the supernatural so I convinced him to bring it out. I tried it with 2 other people. They had played before. I had not. We all put our hands properly on the board and waited. Nothing happened. After about 20 minutes of waiting I took my hands of the board. Obviously nothing was about to happen. A minute after I took my hands off it started moving... Yeeaaa I think it's safe to say those things are a hoax and if it…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:07 AM
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Checking your oil and changing a tire is just common sense. It doesn't make you more manly lol. My mom does this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:59 PM
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To me, it sounds like you like her. It also sounds like you don't really have any other legitimate prospects. Personally I see no harm in you dating her for a bit and if another girl comes around you can break up.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:03 AM
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Those are all really helpful points. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 02:19 AM
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I just feel like it will make me uglier. Big nose and small chin.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 11:55 PM
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How was your success with women when you shaved
/r/askTRP09/08/15 11:54 PM
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Are you bald?
/r/askTRP09/08/15 11:10 PM
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Looks > Money > Status Pro snow boarder.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:57 PM
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That's delusional. Attraction is physical. Maintaining attraction however, is more about how you act. That's why you are told to lift, get a haircut and wear nice clothes. To maximize your attractiveness. A 5'5 "manlet" (wtf) will never "pound pussy everyday", not matter how he acts. The only thing getting a 5'5 guy laid everyday is money. Looks > Money > Status Learn it because you have no understanding of theredpill
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:03 PM
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Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 09:02 PM
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Honestly man. There isn't many places that give looks related advice. Reddit is to brainwashed into confidence and slut-hate goes overboard on the whole looks thing. It's really best to find individuals who will give you an unbiased opinion on your looks and then give you constructive critic. There are a few people like that on reddit. The trick is finding them.
/r/seduction16/06/15 09:03 PM
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This is known as the "looks theory", OP. Glad that someone else on this sub has their eyes open. Looks are the most important thing. You don't need "game" if your hot. You can do whatever you want and still bang top tier girls. This is why I focus 100% on maxing out my looks instead of learning pick up.
/r/seduction15/06/15 11:34 PM
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What can I control? Sure I can lift and get big. So what? My face will look the same. Most girls don't even care about muscles. I wear nice clothes and have my own car. It's just a toyota but not many kids my age have bought their own cars. The most import things are LOOKS, STATUS and MONEY. How do I get girls if I am genetically flawed, loser and uneducated (=poor)
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:39 AM
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Celebrates are an exception of the rule because every single one of them has status and money.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:37 AM
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I'm not of the Indian race. I've never talked to you before. I'm white. 5'11'' with a swimmers build. My problems with looks are all on my head. Hairless, big nose and small chin. I am happy with my race and height. Attraction is not racist. Good genes are good genes, you can be black, indian or asian. The color of your skin does not matter if you are attractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:20 AM
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Yes!! But, how? How can I stop thinking about pussy and looks?? Seriously it's become an obsession. All I care about is my facial aesthetics. My nose. My chin. My eyes. My bald head. It's the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing before bed. I just wish I could fix it all. If only I had the money. Girls tie into this because I feel to ugly and worthless. I see my facially attractive peers getting girls with ease. My attractive friend burns through new girls bi-weekly and I …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:56 PM
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I am reading. I've read the side bar and thousands of threads here. I'm reading and listening. Yet, I still firmly believe that the Looks Theory trumps all. I'm trying to prove myself otherwise for the sake of my sanity and well being but I can't. I can't for the life of me find solid proof that the looks theory is false. It is backed up by so many of my personal interactions, observations, studies and various internet forums.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:46 PM
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Do you believe that looks don't matter? I am 18 and have my head buzzed to a 1/8" because of alopecia. Do you think a girl will be attracted to me physically if I don't wear my beanie?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:27 PM
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I am not even physically attracted to VS models. They - and other girls with physical beauty like that are so far from what I will ever be able to attract that I don't see them as attractive because I know I will never sleep with someone who looks like that. I go for 6s. Sometimes I'll go for a 7 or a 5 but 90% of the time I go for (on my scale) a solid 6. It doesn't matter though. See - LOOKS HYPERGAMY and JUGGERNAUT LAW
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:24 PM
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How much money does your father make? And I'm sure that you are not us ugly as you claim to be. Do you have hair? How tall are you? What is your face like?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:19 PM
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Confidence is a result of good looks (genes) and positive experiences with girls.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:09 PM
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Not OP but in a similar situation. My head is not desirable at all. Why should i go without a hat?
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:54 AM
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It sucks that I have to wait until I'm out of school to date. Thats like 4 years still
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:11 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:36 AM
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It just sucks knowing that I could look so much more attractive. If I had my hair (or even a convincing expensive wig), a normal nose and a chin. 3 features make me a 4/10. If I didn't have these flaws I could easily be a 6-7/10 I am confident in that.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:28 AM
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Why do you think baldness had nothing to do with you not get laid? I've beeen rejected so much i dont want to keep tryig
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:26 AM
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Maybe. It's so expensive though and not to think about the social conciquences of having people find out you wear a wig.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:08 AM
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I am in shape but I could work on my tan. I can't grow facial hair. Just patchy stubble. People don't really understand how physcological going bald is. You went bald around my age. How did you do with girls at that time?
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:07 AM
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I'm nothing like this irl. I'm social abd outgoing. I try to meet girls at parties and at school but I always get shut down.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:05 AM
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How is getting pussy easy when girls aren't physically attracted to me? Looks matter most. Attraction is not a negotiation
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:04 AM
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I'm not sure how old you are but girls my age are pretty fucking shallow. It is the baldness and I've been told so, time after time.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:12 AM
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I've seen how easy it is for attractive guys. My friends get laid without effort. I have one friend who doesn't even pursue girls. He just waits for one to come into his life, and make all the first moves. No amount of game can build raw, physical attraction.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:09 AM
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All my physical problems come from the same area of my body though. Some guys are a little over weight or have small wrists or webbed feet. For me, they all come from my head, which is the part of the body that is most influential on physical attractiveness. Sure some girls may look past my nose, because I have good eyes. One may look past my chin, because I have nice lips. Hell, someone could look past my baldness for my huge muscles. But a combination of all 3? Bald, big nose, small chin? Oh-m…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:50 PM
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How am I wrong?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:43 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm MOST worried about. My age.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:30 PM
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I want to shave it I really do. College girls don't want to touch a bald guy though
/r/askTRP11/05/15 10:10 PM
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So you've done better, without hair?
/r/askTRP11/05/15 09:40 PM
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How old are you now and are you successful with women? I'm sure that you're depression during when you lost your hair didn't help.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 02:34 PM
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asymmetry in eye area, big nose, small chin, weak jaw. I also do have bad teeth but I'm getting braces soon. (Imagine that, bald and braces) I'm gunna be the biggest fucking loser
/r/askTRP11/05/15 02:33 PM
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You're right. His hair (and mine) isn't TO bad, but it is steadily receding. Eventually I will have to shave my head. I am trying to prepare for that. I'm trying to get facial hair now but it's an uphill battle in and of it's self.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 02:31 PM
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I wish I read this last week... I fucked things up with a girl before we had sex. She's not interested in me anymore because of my "short temper".
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 09:38 PM
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That's what I was thinking too. She was so invested and then probably realized that I wasn't going to take the lead. If we do get on good terms I'll probably have to chase her. Which I don't want to have to do because it will change her perception of me.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:00 AM
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What was she hoping to get out of it? Did she want me to reciprocate or something?
/r/askTRP02/05/15 12:48 AM
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How can I show her I'm with other girls without blatantly trying to make her jealous
/r/askTRP01/05/15 11:03 PM
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Yeah I figured it was oneities. Oneities is a real bitch. I developed it so fast with this girl. Like within two weeks of us fooling around. It will probably be awhile before I see her around my house again but if shes hanging out with my sister how can I apply dread?
/r/askTRP01/05/15 10:59 PM
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I do all these things but am still unattractive. You can't fix bad genes man. My face is jacked.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:40 PM
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I really needed to read that. Thank you
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:26 AM
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What is your definition of nice? What is it that makes you "bad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 01:26 AM
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My dad.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:29 AM
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I'm in highschool/college. It's not hard to find out if you talk to the right person.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:21 PM
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Your title makes you sound like a fucking nerd.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 10:00 PM
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Nope! Does my story resemble something that happened to you, too?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 09:25 PM
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Good way of putting it. I'm trying to learn to not be jealous. It's hard
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 09:00 PM
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Good advice here. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:53 PM
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How do I not catch feelings?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:24 PM
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you need to seriously plan and consider how you are going to organize things, so your life is not hijacked along the way. Could you elaborate a bit on that? Do you mean plan on organizing my career/life?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:14 PM
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Tell her that you are not interested in talking about that. Change the topic.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:20 AM
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Nobodys on tinder to make friends. Shes weeding out the weak.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 12:15 AM
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Yeah I think she and number four still talk. I would not be suprised if they end up married. Poor guy.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:55 PM
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Very informational. Thanks for the long response
/r/askTRP08/02/15 08:45 PM
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I'm lost? If girls have more fun with OP than an attractive guy why isn't op getting laid? Looks are more important than anything
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:15 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:31 PM
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Keep it light, keep it fun. Noted. Thanks! What are some examples of touch escalation can I use in a car (smoking, driving)? Or examples when walking
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:29 PM
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Thanks for the advice. This is actually really helpful. I probably wont get a kiss in before we get in the car (im picking her up from her house). Although we wont be in my car all night. Probably go for a walk or something. What do I do about nerves though? I mean I'm gunna be really nervous building up to it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:55 AM
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I'm kind of in your FA friends position right now. I'm obvious very new to the red pill. We've been friends a while and gone out twice more recently. I feel like I'm not showing interest that well. We are hanging out next week. Probably just gunna smoke weed in my car (highschoolers) how do i show interest. How do i make a move in this situation?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:58 AM
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Just commenting so i can find this comment later
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:24 AM
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If you feel that the relationship is equal then there isn't a problem. A lot of women take advantage of their male friends. As long as she isn't asking you a bunch of favors with no return or using you as an emotion drop I don't see a problem with having female friends. I have a few female friends myself. I am not as close to them as my guy friends but they are ok sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 07:36 PM
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My nose used to be just big. As a kid it took up most of my face. As i got older I broke it a number of times. Fist fight, lava lamp accident and a ski accident.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:40 AM
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Right now, your greatest enemy is how you feel about the way you look, fix this. You're right. I am so hard on myself about my looks all the time. I can't go five minutes without feeling self conscious of my face. Sort of how short guys worry about their height all the time. On a good day I think I look average at best. I am trying to change how I view myself but its so hard. Like I'm borderline depressed or some shit.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 03:02 AM
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I'm curious, what did you study in college? How did you meet girls? I'm going into mechanics so there will be a lot of dudes...
/r/askTRP23/10/14 03:17 AM
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Physical apperance is a factor too. I assume those ratings are based on looks alone.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:40 PM
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This is exactly the answer I was looking for. Thanks for the really indepth response. I figured she likes me I just was unsure about why she was spending money on me. I have NEVER had a girl do that for me before or even heard of girls doing it. And your spot on about her being a HB6-7.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:49 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:58 AM
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Point taken. I guess I better enjoy myself before they evolve into their "final form".
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:06 AM
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I'm in high-school so our experiences may vary. Girls that sleep around are strong socially because they are constantly "working out" their social skills so to speak. They are in constant conversation with guys, whether it be over text, facebook, school, work or parties. They have learned to flirt really well because of being regularly in that situation. That being said. Someone posted her saying that they are more talkative but the mainly focus on talking about things that only they are interes…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:36 AM
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Ok, yeah that's pretty true. The conversations often revolve around topics they are interested in.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:32 AM
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Yeah. It seems to me that sluts are very strong socially.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:20 AM
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You answered my question. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:19 AM
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You must listen to shit. The only songs with what you have listed are top 40s and pop.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:11 AM
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My depression was far worse before I made this post. I could not have made this post when I felt like that. you obviously have a lot of negative thoughts about yourself. Getting bigger at the gym won't be as effective if you still think of yourself as "ugly, no game, no friends loser" etc You're right. I will try to change my thinking. When a bad thought comes I'll try to think more positively
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:17 PM
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What type of small goals do you recommend? I lot of people here have said lifting weights and that is small to start but I takes longer to see the results which makes it seem like a bigger goal.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:11 PM
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Thank you for that comment. As I said though I am very new to weightlifting. I have some one handed weights at my house so I work out with those. I can definitely "feel" my muscles working but I can never seem to gain any. How often should I be working out and What should my diet look like (as a skinny guy)?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:09 PM
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What is your tip for depression?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:27 AM
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What do you recommend for lifting to a skinny dude? After you get your life into order, In the mean time how do I feel less down about my virginity and my invisibility to girls?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:45 AM
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What are some first steps to improving SMV?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:42 AM
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I recommend exercise to start with and applying to X amount of jobs per week. Pick up a constructive hobby or two. Good luck. Thank you. This is an easily achievable goal. It's simple, easy to follow and will improve my life. You're way behind in the game. I know. How do I "catch up". I feel like I'm about 6 year behind in terms of experience with dating and girls. How will I be able to attract a girl if I am inexperienced?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:41 AM
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That's what I figured. I mean I've just never heard of a girl doing this before. Often it's the other way around! I just wasn't sure if there was something else going on here.
/r/askTRP
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How can I prevent this? Repay her?
/r/askTRP
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Yeah im going to repay her. I don't know how girls can just take money from guys and not feel obligated to repay them. I feel bad when she buys my things
/r/askTRP
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I'm just confused because we JUST started actually talking. She insisted on paying for my coffee and sandwich
/r/askTRP
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If Situation is ugly, then i'm fucked.
/r/askTRP
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Step 2) How?
/r/askTRP
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Sounds like she's the only girl your seeing. Why are you against having a relationship, if you like spending time with her?
/r/askTRP
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I am having no sides from fin, including sexual. Yes balding is a big deal. It completely changes your face and overall look. It's unattractive to women. Bald guys don't get more pussy than guys with hair. Lol wtf. Yes I lift.
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I smoke occasionally. I'll try to stop. Not super worried about that though. Right now I alternate between Nizoral and Bioton shampoos. My current hair stylist is very good at covering my bald spots. As I said though. I won't be able to keep that up forever.
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I'm pretty neutral height wise. I'm 5'11" so I am not short, but I'm not attracting anyone one because of my height either.
/r/askTRP
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How do I figure out my problem
/r/askTRP
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Your right
/r/askTRP
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Thank you for the long post. I have a date set up with my ex to talk. Not planning to get back together but try and heal a little. Should I still try the letter thing even if she and I talk
/r/askTRP
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How am I supposed to meet new girls though? I met my first girlfriend on tinder and I have reinstalled it but I'm not having any luck.
/r/askTRP
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How am supposed to not take life seriously when I have no friends
/r/askTRP
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I will try but I'm not going to make this a priority right now. I need to figure out more shit first
/r/askTRP
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Last summer I worked at a cabinet factory doing wood work. I had to wake up earlier then this job but I was home by just after 5 every night. It pays less
/r/askTRP
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I try to be confident. It just seems like some employeers dont want to talk to me. Or sometimes I go in and the employer isn't there and I have to hand in my resume to a worker which sucks.
/r/askTRP
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I'm making more money with the movers then I would at any other entry level job. Believe me though I have been handing out resumes when I have a day off but I can't get a call back. Your advice seems good just really hard to apply to my life.
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Sandwiches, nutrition bars, water, cereal and mcdonalds is pretty much my diet. That's all I can really do with work taking up so much time. I'm not fat but I'm one of the skinnier guys working there even though I can lift double my weight. My hobby is cars but I'm to poor to afford a nice one so right now I just fix things that don't need to be fixed on my honda..
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I have been. I can't get a call back
/r/askTRP
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Because at this rate I have another 60 years of pain
/r/askTRP
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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