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Looks Theory

bobmarley9
June 8, 2015
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Title Looks Theory
Author

bobmarley9
Upvotes 0
Comments 21
Date June 8, 2015 10:36 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3935lt/looks_theory/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/looks-theory.33422
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Comments

[–]abdada 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Looks theory is proven false over and over again. I'm an ugly short guy (and my dad is from India, just like yours OP) and I've never had any problems getting women to send me IOIs and find themselves in my bed if I so desire.

Looks help, but being ugly doesn't matter if you maximize all the other 9,999 areas that SMV is judged by.

Just checked your post history and you absolutely have no place on a TRP subreddit until you work on your confidence issues. You have asked this question so many times it's insane.

[–]bobmarley9-8 points 11 years ago [recovered] (16 children) | Copy Link

Confidence is a result of good looks (genes) and positive experiences with girls.

[–]abdada 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Not true. My dad is a 73 year old ugly, bald and blind Indian man who STILL attracts women 1/3 his age because of his charisma. He has young women call him at home (his wife answers and yells at them).

I was always ugly, but I always had confidence and charisma because I followed through with my goals and focused on myself, never putting anyone on the pedestal.

You are confused. Your confusion clutters this subreddit with your repeat posts.

Stop posting about this issue, you've gotten all the answers you need. Go see a therapist about your issues -- you need professional help, not reddit.

[–]bobmarley9 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How much money does your father make?

And I'm sure that you are not us ugly as you claim to be. Do you have hair? How tall are you? What is your face like?

[–]abdada 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

My dad is retired. He was forced into retirement at 55 because he went blind. He is not wealthy by any means, lives in a 2 bedroom apartment in Florida. Women love his charisma and confidence.

I know I'm ugly -- on hotornot I think I used to get rated at 4.5. I don't care about my looks, if I see a pretty girl and she smiles at me, I go in and say hi. Most hot guys don't do that because they're not confident nor charismatic.

I'm 5'8" on my best days. My face is a mess -- I am missing 4 teeth (grew up very poor, no money for dentists), my jaw is at a harsh asymmetry angle from hurting myself doing sports as a kid, and I have some rough scars. Big crooked nose. My top teeth don't touch my bottom teeth so I don't really smile.

Chicks love me. They laugh within a minute of meeting me for the first time.

Again, I will say it one more time: you have no place in the TRP community looking at your post history. You need professional help and should stop using reddit until you've gotten some real help.

Also, your repeated posts are boring and clutter this subreddit and all the other ones you post on.

You are acting like a beta pussy looking for attention and validation from others.

Stop.

[–]bobmarley9 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Do you believe that looks don't matter?

I am 18 and have my head buzzed to a 1/8" because of alopecia. Do you think a girl will be attracted to me physically if I don't wear my beanie?

[–]abdada 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Holy fuck.

You need to get lost, troll. Seriously. You don't read what anyone says, you just troll and troll and troll.

Insane that you haven't been banned by the mods here.

[–]bobmarley9 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I am reading.

I've read the side bar and thousands of threads here. I'm reading and listening.

Yet, I still firmly believe that the Looks Theory trumps all.

I'm trying to prove myself otherwise for the sake of my sanity and well being but I can't. I can't for the life of me find solid proof that the looks theory is false. It is backed up by so many of my personal interactions, observations, studies and various internet forums.

[–]abdada 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

There is no looks theory.

You can't prove a negative.

Go work out. 4X a week. Get ripped. Stop worried about pussy.

Your focus on pussy is beyond demented and it keeps you locked in blue pill thinking.

[–]bobmarley90 points 11 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

Yes!!

But, how? How can I stop thinking about pussy and looks?? Seriously it's become an obsession.

All I care about is my facial aesthetics. My nose. My chin. My eyes. My bald head. It's the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing before bed. I just wish I could fix it all. If only I had the money. Girls tie into this because I feel to ugly and worthless. I see my facially attractive peers getting girls with ease. My attractive friend burns through new girls bi-weekly and I just recently had my first kiss (and she did all the work, made all the moves and initiated the kiss). I am risk averse because I feel like I am too ugly. That no girl could seriously be interested in me because of all my physical flaws. Especially my baldness at 18 years old.

[–]abdada2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You may have some kind of obessive compulsive disorder. This is why I am telling you to seek out professional help.

[–]pahispua2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Flogging a dead horse talking to this guy

[–]abdada2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I believe he's an Indian Race Troll -- I've called him out on it before.

But I like trolls. They help me practice patience.

[–]bobmarley90 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm not of the Indian race. I've never talked to you before.

I'm white. 5'11'' with a swimmers build.

My problems with looks are all on my head. Hairless, big nose and small chin.

I am happy with my race and height.

Attraction is not racist. Good genes are good genes, you can be black, indian or asian. The color of your skin does not matter if you are attractive.

[–]abdada1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Regardless of your race, your post history shows that you have no knowledge of anything red pill related whatsoever.

Your focus on one quality of your genetics assures you of being ignored by everyone, not just pussy. There are 10,000 ways to improve your SMV and you're focused on one that is the most difficult to change.

Think of some Hollywood heroes -- quite a few of them are actually ugly if not for their massive SMV for taking the risk to become actors. Do you honest think that Matt Damon would be considered an attractive man if he was some guy working in a cubicle? Please. He's average, at best -- and I know guys who look like him that women consider ugly because they're schlubs.

Work on the other 9,999 things you can control.

[–]bobmarley91 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Celebrates are an exception of the rule because every single one of them has status and money.

[–]bobmarley90 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

What can I control? Sure I can lift and get big. So what? My face will look the same. Most girls don't even care about muscles. I wear nice clothes and have my own car. It's just a toyota but not many kids my age have bought their own cars.

The most import things are LOOKS, STATUS and MONEY.

How do I get girls if I am genetically flawed, loser and uneducated (=poor)

[–]abdada2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm blocking you because you are an ignorant blue piller who has not even shown any attempts at swallowing the pill.

Your type are a cancer to this and other TRP communities because you make it appear that begging and demanding help is a red pill option. It isn't.

Posting field reports, posting positive changes and posting questions based on these is red pill mentorship. Posting boohoo poor little me bullshit is blue pill and is 100% unwelcome in my sphere of influence.

Good luck.

[–]edwardhwhite 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Confidence first. Shave the head. Lift.

[–]Kid_Crimson 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do most guys here believe that as long as you are confident and have good frame, women will be begging to sleep with you - begging - no matter how average looking or below average looking you are?

The fuck dude? If you're not a troll you're stupid! The real world doesn't work in absolutes. Looks vs Signs of Masculinity isn't an either/or choice it's a sliding scale continuum. If you're ugly you better have your body, wardrobe, and game dialed in tight - if you're an Abercrombie model not so much.

Quit wasting time arguing one or the other and improve what you can and DGAF about the rest. You may not be able to score VS Angles but you'll get laid!

edit: spelling

[–]bobmarley90 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I am not even physically attracted to VS models. They - and other girls with physical beauty like that are so far from what I will ever be able to attract that I don't see them as attractive because I know I will never sleep with someone who looks like that.

I go for 6s. Sometimes I'll go for a 7 or a 5 but 90% of the time I go for (on my scale) a solid 6.

It doesn't matter though. See - LOOKS HYPERGAMY and JUGGERNAUT LAW

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