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boiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:04 PM
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REMINDER 👑boiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:06 AM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:31 AM
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RANTboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:46 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:22 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:11 PM
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SEX ADVICE SCAMMERSboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:01 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:25 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:28 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:05 PM
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#JustLVMThingsboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:57 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:04 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:31 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!boiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:20 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:05 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:30 PM
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FDS HUMORboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:24 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:46 PM
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FDS HUMORboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:21 PM
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#JustLVMThingsboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:29 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:19 PM
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DISCUSSIONboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:41 AM
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LVM LOGICboiledgatorade_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:57 PM
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It’s so hard because I love The office but men can’t help themselves from making it their entire personality ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:54 PM
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The worst part of it is they’re not ashamed their depravity is all out in the open & they don’t even care !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:23 PM
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Prayed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 01:03 AM
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Make sure to shut your inbox off. They literally will go through every post and click on each user to see who they can harass. They certainly have the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:33 PM
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Yep this !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:23 PM
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Where does God say we have to be smiling and happy when we clean up massive mud pies from the toilet??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:04 PM
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Honestly no. Many times they actually resent it & want to tear women down who they see as “above” them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:15 PM
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Oh they’re getting angrier I see. Another woman wrote about this happening to her the other day. I can see them clicking everyone’s name who comments to see if their inbox is open. They certainly have the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:20 PM
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This guy sucks and you deserve better. The negging & gaslighting reminds me of my ex, he used this same line . I doubt they watched porn & didn’t jerk off but it they actually did..that’s even weirder 😆 they’re so desensitized to it, they watch it like a tv show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:34 PM
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Try out sittercity.com ! Professional well run company!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:14 PM
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This is why I had to unfollow the FDS Instagram page a while ago. Someone sent me a DM with my home address,my (old) home phone number & a list of the family members living In my home. As someone with a public page and semi large following (not HUGE, less than 25K), it’s something I’ve dealt with before but this really, really made me nervous. These men are seriously demented and want to hurt us, simply for being members of this lifesaving sub. I mean they can try all they want to get into my ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:34 PM
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I was a smoke show of the day YEARS ago & his creepy ass would always message me. I think he was engaged or married at the time 🤢this isn’t the first or second time I’ve heard a similar story about him either,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:41 PM
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This is literally the most perfect response to this ever! Exactly how I feel about these loser creeps. And that’s what they are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:32 PM
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Please don’t lose hope I responded to the original commenter about what Bernie’s essay was actually about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:16 AM
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Now is my time to shine! All girls Catholic high school survivor 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ I’ll answer in order! 1. Yes 2. Both. There were no guys around but that meant there were extra girls who could be bratty AF. 3. 4 years 4. Didn’t transfer, absolutely struggled with boys & subsequently men in the future. 5. It was easier in the sense Everyone went through things together 6. Some socialization, most with the all boys school which was filed with toxicity bursting at the seams. 7. I lacked experience which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:11 PM
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I’ve been a vintage reseller for about 14 years now. I went on one date with a man who just started getting into vintage clothing. I wore a super rare, very expensive (if I resold it) cartoon t-shirt. He, very loudly, pointed out my shirt was fake (lol) and if I wanted to learn a thing or two about vintage he’d LET ME TAG ALONG SHOPPING with him— but if I found anything cool I’d have to let him have it 😂😂 well, I nearly peed my pants. Paid my own half of the bill and left. This was about 3 years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:08 PM
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Kevin Samuels. Joe Rogan. Donald Trump. Tucker Carlson. Madison Cawthorn. The list goes on. Any man who has an interest in any of these men is an automatic Hell No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:09 PM
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Perfect response 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:58 PM
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They literally have no retort so they resort to insults it’s laughable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:18 PM
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But they still fuck them and continue to chase younger women I’m sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:16 AM
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Now only if she would condemn sexual predator Andrew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:15 AM
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They’re worried about gold diggers but they literally Groom children & leech off them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:29 PM
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Soooo true! Perfectly stated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:37 PM
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Men are stealing our babies food now☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:38 PM
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A close family friend of mine owns a high end jewelry store. The stories she tells me about how some (keyword, SOME) men put so much effort into the details & talk about how excited they are to make their girlfriend their fiancé is really one of the main reasons I won’t settle. The internet manosphere wants to break us down and normalize quarter machine rings and to be grateful for the bare minimum. Ladies, NEVER SETTLE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:35 PM
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This is what I used to do when I was a nanny in college lmao and this father wants accolades
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:28 PM
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ALWAYS check the group chats first when looking through their phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:26 PM
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It’s actually really important IMO to talk about covid and dating since it’s the world we’re living in now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:24 AM
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I noticed he said “flu like illness” and not COVID then I read he’s taking ivermectin, and so I HAD to Google this doosh I mean roosh and yeah…. First thoughts confirmed. Is this the alt right manosphere’s mascot☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:00 PM
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He’s posting them somewhere 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:52 PM
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Is he a stick figure. That’s a pretty strange height to weight ratio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:37 PM
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I pay her for sex but she is not an escort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:07 PM
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He’s married but he RUBS MY BACK! The bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:25 PM
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Those dudes just LOOOOOK like harassing racist trolls. Wow. Good for your friend. I’m so sorry she’s having to go through this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:43 AM
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Bet it was zero girls honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:43 PM
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The edits ☠️☠️ he’s mad the Reddit manosphere didn’t kiss his ass over this stupid post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:24 PM
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Proud kink shamer here 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:45 AM
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Probably a 14 year old too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:47 PM
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I emptied out my 401K that my company matched for years 🙃 still not recovered from that one, but I just look at it as an insanely hard, expensive lesson learned and I’d never do anything remotely similar again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:15 PM
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I shut my Messages off and let them scream into the abyss .. best decision ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:45 PM
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Well at least his side chick position is now open
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:33 PM
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I say 100% character. Guys with no options (I find) are usually bitter & don’t treat women right. Or the opposite, they’re to darn needy & clingy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:18 AM
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Best thing I ever did was shut my mailbox off. I also unfollowed the FDS Instagram page because trolls scroll through the followers and harassed me lol. It was HILARIOUS! Like, you’re mad because you sit at home all day with a receding hairline, erectile disfunction & a porn addiction all before 25 & I’m over 30 looking great (if I do say so myself😉). Sorry scrotes, we’ll continue to warn others about you & there is nothing you can do to stop us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:52 PM
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Thank you! So I definitely misunderstood something while reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:17 PM
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Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:16 PM
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Politics aside (hard to do, I know) could you be any more of a desperate pick me? From what I understand (lawyers please correct me if I’m wrong!) spousal privilege doesn’t cover pre-marriage communication? It’s staggering the lengths some women will go for the lowest of men. Btw, she is 26 he is 39.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:11 PM
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Yes this is why this space is so special! It’s actually women only & the mods really do an amazing job at keeping it that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:43 PM
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Pays for porn but I’m sure makes his girlfriend go Dutch on dates lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:37 PM
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It’s run by men🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:36 PM
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I stopped reading that sub when a) I found out the mods are MEN and b) there is an insane about of dudes larping as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:35 PM
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What an ungrateful lady! He took her out to dinner and now she won’t clean his crusted SHIT off the toilet bowl! Men are so oppressed 😢 what a gold digger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:19 PM
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They act like only fans&fucking for money are the only job options available in the Universe lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:18 PM
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“A celebration restaurant” .. also if your life savings is $350 you should not be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:15 PM
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Sounds like maybe OP is not a native English speaker (sorry if you are& I’m offending you!), at least that’s how it reads to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:33 PM
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Pedo? It’s just his BiOLoGy !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:19 PM
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Prostate cancer has entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:04 PM
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But M’Lady, you should HURRY and marry him ASAP because the older he gets, the more young women will want him! And once you hit 20, you’ll be washed up! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:02 PM
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Why does this seem like a troll…? Seems very legit to me, sadly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:00 PM
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“If he wanted to, he would”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:42 PM
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So creepy!! I wear a name plate necklace & I was giving my email for some coupons @ a store in the mall. Later that day the guy who helped me try on shoes added me on IG!! Said he saw my name plate & “found me”. Blocked AND I called corporate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:39 PM
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“I’m not attracted to women with short hair but you’re gorgeous”- every scrote for the past year to me. My response ? “I’m not attracted to you, whatsoever.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:35 PM
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What they seem to misunderstand is that a lot of us are here because we actually get BOMBARDED with male attention & need help to navigate how to determine who is a good person or a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:09 PM
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“I’ve banged a couple of girls with only fans” they can’t even distinguish their fantasy for real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:05 AM
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We expect it from men, but it’s so darn gross to see women (side eye if it actually is a woman!) say anything to pander to these right wing nut jobs. Like sis you’re not cool for being “edgy”, you’re mentally unstable & need help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:03 AM
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Probably got it from Trump University
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:43 PM
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Ah yes, let’s blame literal girl children for the fact these boys have been indoctrinated by the internet manosphere & pornography to HATE women & grow up with no social skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:43 PM
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And you shall live happily ever after in your nest❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:33 AM
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And that’s when I would flush my pad down his toilet, Leave & hope his shit clogs✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:23 PM
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If you’re talking about the feminist sub, it’s because men run it 🙃 imagine? It’s really the epitome of Reddit - men running a feminist sub! Pathetic tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:54 PM
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I found a box of naked pics of women from the 90’s In my exes garage. Like, type of photos you have to get developed. Yeah they never get rid of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:45 PM
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What’s up with cracking knuckles without consent! An ex of mine used to do it to my toes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:12 AM
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My exes girl bestie made a 5 slide video on IG about how her “best friend is a guy but his girlfriend is super jealous of our friendship. He says he can’t take it anymore, but now he’s ghosting me. Does anyone else drop their women friends when getting in a relationship?” I was STUNNED! And? He DENIED it was about him! LOL! So she has multiple male friends whose girlfriends don’t like what she comments? Right. Stayed for 2 more years - yes clown me has grown now but at the time I couldn’t believ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:08 PM
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Sounds like incel fan fiction. She uses her IG handle to write on FDS? Doubt it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:11 PM
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Doc: What seems to be the issue? Scrote: Just your typical p*ssy gummy bear mouth yeast infection I’m sure you see all the time! 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:41 PM
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Today’s pancake ass was yesterday’s spank material I’m sure 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:35 PM
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He’s too fiyah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:44 AM
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Ding ding ding! Buzzed my hair for a “break” from it all .. did not work. Just attracted a weirder bunch. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:57 PM
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There was a black mirror episode of this 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:42 PM
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I’ve been called sexy by a dog Instagram page before! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:47 AM
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The italics ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:45 PM
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That was a roller coaster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:44 AM
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I read on here someone said “I’m not eating alone. I’m eating by myself” and that really stuck with me to do more things solo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:32 PM
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Yep that’s true, but the way this is written just really gives me man vibes 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:54 PM
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Another grown man LARPing as a teen girl... ground breaking 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:15 PM
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I’d rather eat my dogs shit tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:11 PM
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My German is spotty but: ich hasse männer😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:09 PM
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Anonymous misogynistic echo chambers tend to be like this
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:21 PM
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My parents aren’t rich and they’d never let me or my Siblings pay, let alone our SO! His Cheapness is learned from his family🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:34 AM
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Same! And it’s hilarious when they disagree with you then magically 2 minutes later a fake page calls you a whale 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:35 PM
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Whew this is my pending requests on IG😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:34 PM
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Imagine having the time😳 if I was that big of a loser I’d hate us too🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:22 PM
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Their obsession really makes me think they lowkey are jealous of women and want to be us🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:56 PM
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I mean the “Feminist” sub and other women centric subs ARE run by men on here 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:04 PM
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Oh, I took out my 401K which my company matched for 3 years to support him (he’s 18 years older). Yeah I’m 31. Do the math & never make my mistakes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:45 PM
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I’m 31 and When people hear it they act like I said 85. Like sorry we don’t shrivel up and curdle like milk once we turn 30. I’m actually the most confident & “good looking” I’ve ever been when I hit 30. So suck it scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:59 PM
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The fact that you’re torn about this shows even after all of the horrible behavior from him, you still have a huge, caring& compassionate heart. It’s easy for us to say fuck him & let him die, which is what I want to say, but I know it’s just not that easy. Hoping you come to the right conclusion for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:05 PM
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In the thick of my pick me days I asked my ex this and he said “...no”.😆 I was like well TO YOU am I? Because you’re the most handsome to me! He said “..no” and I stayed 2 years more 😌👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:05 PM
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Phat ass white girl, I’ll save you from the inevitable doggy style porn that will pop up with your search 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:05 PM
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Imagine hating women so much yet spending so much time during the day larping as us ☠️ it’s a sickness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:16 AM
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Yes I found out what PAWG meant the hard way after someone called me it at the damn M A L L.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:37 PM
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I, too, have a fetish for protecting myself I guess because I carry spray AND a pocket knife even if I’m going to the grocery store 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:29 PM
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Our mods are superheroes literally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:15 PM
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Thanks for making me relive my entire last relationship on this Sunday AM😫😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:08 PM
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Ever since I found out what the Dread Game is from This sub, most of my past dating life make sense now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:02 PM
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This has happened to me and my father because we don’t look that much a like and the disgust on both our faces were visible each time! I’d be worried to go out with a family member who reveled in the thought of this 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:34 PM
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Yes I’m sure it wasn’t your partner, probably the lady who works at CVS trying to get you pregnant😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:19 PM
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Ohhh giving me hot Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:19 PM
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Looool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:19 PM
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Bring your own soda from 7/11 to go with those fries otherwise it’s tap water from the sink in a moldy cup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:56 PM
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How does it not feel weird and disgusting to even TYPE ON A PUBLIC FORUM “I never thought kids were sexy outside this assignment” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:55 PM
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Sometimes I bark or hiss 😫 it works and they get weirded out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:28 AM
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I’ve been known to punch / slap / kick guys if they inappropriately touched me in bars / clubs back when I was in my 20’s until I realized how fking dangerous it is. Now I just go up to the bouncer or a female bartender and tell them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:05 PM
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It was more rhetorical because I know these men have no bounds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:30 AM
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And have they no shame? Why even bring it up? If that was true wouldn’t they want it hidden & not bring attention? It’s so bizarre! This is why I immediately ended things with a guy who told me his aunt accused him of touching his cousin when they were younger.. but don’t worry, she apologized for making it up🤔 Edit: I meant if it’s true he was falsely accused, not if OP is making it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:17 PM
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Like Reddit’s feminist sub run by men🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:28 PM
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My obsession 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:59 PM
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Love this album!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:13 PM
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Back when I would give cops a chance (I’d NEVER date anyone remotely connected to police now), I was seeing a guy and I left my boots and a change of clothes at his house. I asked him to bring them to my work. He shows up with 2 OTHER COPS. Gives me my bag of clothes but “forgot” one of my shoes and my pants. Came back the next day with just the shoe. The next day with just the pants. Then would wait outside my building for the next week. Was so scary!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:20 PM
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I am super anti Q but the one thing I KNOW is these Rich Elites DO have disgusting & perverse habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:56 PM
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It is🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:12 AM
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I’m sorry but I do believe all these billionaires are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:40 PM
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Yeah and he literally sent snail mail too. Thank goodness that stopped 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:15 PM
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Not worth it IMO! I’ve used everything and anything from drugstore to $300 bottles of serum & now I stick with La Roche Posay, Trader Joe’s and & Cetaphil. All super wallet friendly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:13 PM
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My ex messaged me once on LinkedIn bc I had him blocked everywhere else & really wasn’t thinking about LI. Well he writes me a long paragraph saying his new lady friend got mad at him when she saw him using MY LA MER LOTION. Gotcha bitch, I knew he hid that lotion when I was removing my stuff from his house because I kept everything together and neat!Anyways, I guess they were washing their faces together..cute....and she pulled out a lotion and he said I have my own☠️ I’m sure the girl KNEW his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:27 PM
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Yeah when his mom says “Why are you dating him? You’re way too good for him!” Listen to her before he steals $100 from your purse 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:37 PM
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Honestly I’m not sure! I do enjoy his shows from an entertainment perspective but I do remember a thread about him once on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:33 PM
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The Cardboard Casanova!😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:47 PM
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I know Dr Phil is a touchy subject on here but PLEASE watch the Homeless Joe episode on YouTube. This man is The King of Hobosexuals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:32 PM
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I soooo could tell you did this with the emojis for that exact reason 😂 Love it 😊✨🙏🏼👀🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:19 AM
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Who wouldn’t want to be submissive for Michael Cera’s uglier older brother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:12 AM
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To be a fly on the wall to see all the responses here that mods didn’t let go through 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:49 PM
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My life would be very different if I didn’t have a computer & internet in my room when I was 11
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:26 PM
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Your 2nd to last paragraph is 😙🤌🏼 and the exact reason I turned my messages off 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:06 PM
2

How rude of you. Compliments are a part of American discourse! end sarcasm don’t be so hypocritical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:31 AM
14

Who said he was an immigrant? Seems like he’s an American. I’ve read the hand book back to front MULTIPLE times. HES being rude. Report me idgaf for not agreeing with you? What are you an NRA obsessed person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:54 PM
19

I’d rather be rude than give a potential stalker info. Your posts on this thread are giving me MAN or severe PICK ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:44 PM
14

It’s not rude. Xenophobic Americans favorite lines are that non-Americans take their jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:43 PM
7

I had a high up position in a company which is how I met these men. My career + the way people harass women who come forward with things is what really made me not do it. I still worry pics will be release but it’s something I just deal with and live in slight fear with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:47 PM
10

Yes. Not the suing part, but in my pick me days I hooked up with the entire current top rap artist playlist on Apple, basically 🥴I was THIS CLOSE to anonymously releasing something that would have completely ruined one persons life (after he treated me really Really awful) but I decided against it. I’ve actually started writing a book 😂 99% chance it will never see the light of day, but yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:38 PM
3

Ahhh yes! I wrote about this a bit ago on here and tried to get a convo going, but I literally watched it the day it came out and finished in 1.5 days so I don’t think many people knew about it yet, it only got 1 comment 😂 So glad someone else is talking about it! As much as I liked the series, my stomach was in knots every time about the women😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:44 PM
4

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:27 AM
4

Tik tok is apparently a cesspool too where young kids talk crazy I heard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:12 PM
12

No sis, SPRINT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:01 PM
2

Yep like pictures he had to send away to be processed! That old! I wonder how many naked pics those old school film people seen😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:46 PM
49

Ew I found (in a box in his garage) naked pictures my ex took of a woman FROM THE 90s!! They never get rid of them!🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:18 PM
87

Oh wow, is there a template exes find to write letters with? Because I’ve definitely gotten something similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:36 PM
34

Without giving too much away, The Serpent is a short series telling the true story of a con man who robbed, stole identities of, and killed westerners in Asia in the 70’s. Monique, a beautiful young Quebecois, falls for this scam artist & is used by him time and time again. The series is really good, & shows how dangerous being a pick me & letting your guard down is (both for Monique & some of the victims).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:37 PM
22

Yes! * SPOILERS * It’s a true story about a conman in the 70s who robs & kills western tourists in Asia. Pick me Monique is is side kick through it all. It’s VERY good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:34 PM
26

Has anyone watched the series yet? It’s new on Netflix USA. Just shows how dangerous men are and being a pick me will get you nowhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:30 PM
56

And I just read he showed nudes of women (might even be children under 18 who knows) who he slept with to other reps while ON THE HOUSE FLOOR. Don’t send nudes, ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:09 PM
4

It’s like a fan of the sub wrote this not knowing what the sub is about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:25 PM
83

It’s a way of future faking. Waiting around for him to do the things he says he’ll do. I’ve been a victim!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:29 PM
16

Story of my life. But now I have to worry about angry men who are confused because they still think I’m sexy even with a buzz cut. Like will I get stabbed because I look “manly” and their attracted ? Insecure men know no bounds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:44 AM
32

Facts lol. Same here !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:42 AM
11

Awwww I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:26 PM
18

Doesn’t have enough hand muscle to jerk off but has enough hand muscle to type out an 8 paragraph Craigslist ad & can type to discuss even further via email.. sure jan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:20 PM
5

https://www.instagram.com/p/CMukavtnyh9/?igshid=1w52d62kz6u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:43 PM
8

It’s an obsession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:18 PM
40

Like a field date but you can buy bags of chips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:13 PM
188

It’s no surprise a lot of mass shooters have been radicalized on here, it’s a cesspool & I only view the subs I follow, I don’t even dare browse other ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:11 PM
7

Omg. My ex recorded our fight then we got in his car, it stArted playing on the Bluetooth in the car! I said “this sounds like it’s gonna be a sad song” thinking it was an intro to like a rap song! Then I realized it was ME🤡 but of course he had no clue how it got recorded!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:01 PM
68

He stole $100 from my purse, gave it to his other girlfriend, and she bought him shoes with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:11 AM
7

It’s a sex doll!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:16 AM
4

Thought that was a dog for a few seconds 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:24 AM
28

My ex went into therapy and low key came out worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:19 AM
61

I turned off messages and it gives me that little extra bit of pleasure knowing some manchild is seething trying to send me a message after a comment I wrote and they CANT 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:17 AM
21

Like one swipe around this sub you’ll see one of our main problems is the fact men won’t leave us alone..where as incels repel women? I’m so confused!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:10 PM
7

Made thousands selling an ex’s 90’s rap tees he’s had forever that I “borrowed”, all this high end clothes etc. used it for some dope workout gear & equipment 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:40 PM
32

$100 says this is a stepdaughter fetish fanfic🥱 StEPdaDdY I need a new THONG! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:35 PM
142

He has sex with that pillow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:22 PM
142

I just came here to post this 😂LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:48 PM
8

If “Roid Rage” was an About Me Bio🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:50 PM
11

Catholic school from pre-k through college here. Raised catholic, and my education is what made me not religious anymore. I’ve read the Bible front to back many times, funny enough not until I was in my 20’s and really started to see people say some crazy stuff cuz “it’s in the Bible!”.. which they totally misconstrued. Now my faith is totally disconnected from the man made church, and although I do consider myself Christian I do so in less of a strict way but more of a spiritual way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:20 PM
21

Looks easy to outrun 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:22 AM
60

“Some of you may think I’m trolling” no sis, just a quick scroll thru this sub and you’ll know WE BELIEVE YOU. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:16 AM
21

The patch!!!🤣☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:23 AM
19

They say he’s the father of Jamie Lynn Spears baby! And has some weird fetishes. Search it. It’s crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:05 PM
8

My ex came back from a 20 year college reunion weekend with a blond hair wrapped around his dick. He’s not white, but guess what? The school is one of the the WASPy-est schools ever. He tried to tel me it was probably from hotel towel. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:36 PM
39

After I shaved my head, guys ask me if I’m a lesbian. Whether I like women or men doesn’t matter, I’d never like YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:52 AM
3

Still not enough time IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:24 PM
5

I read like barely ANY of the men on this show get in trouble :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:15 PM
17

This is my ex to a T!! Literally at first I thought he was gay. I still kinda do. But every piece of this list is spot on. 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:16 PM
485

This pic just stormed the capitol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:13 PM
8

How does he think she got that lovely skin🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:32 PM
12

And they can’t even do that right. They wanted a revolution, got INTO the capitol and ... took selfies sitting in a chair lol. Nice revolution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:00 AM
64

I can see the cheeto dust on these traitors fingers. They all look like basement dwellers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:47 AM
54

I used to have to beg my ex to take pics of me, and they’d come out shitty, so I’d always wind up with outfit selfies. Apparently, he wanted people to know we were out together & he was with me so he started taking great pics as long as I tagged him as the photographer ... pickme was ecstatic because I thought he wanted to make me look nice but in reality he just wanted to posses me... so freakin weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:30 AM
19

I’m her😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:11 PM
39

They got so salty about the other woman buying a car for herself, they’re gonna cry when they see a strong woman buying her own home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:40 PM
39

Omg. I am 31 and the thought of being anywhere near a college party makes me break out in hives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:53 PM
39

Pick me literally hopped from rapper to rapper, trying to prove something to who ever. Like cool, I got passed around by your entire playlist - thinking one of them would wife me and I could be “that girl”.. so pathetic. I was suffering from SEVERE mental illness. I guess I went off track here. But moral of the story - they have a “you” in every city! I also work in the industry and it totally ruined my rep. Still trying to fix it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:49 PM
13

Roy > Jim really tells us all we need to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:30 PM
342

Omg. All the “big” words. Sounds like my ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:28 PM
24

Can’t even find their birth certificate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:45 PM
8

Whew this happened to me.. the night before I was flying to HIM to celebrate a holiday / our anniversary. Pick me still continued to talk to him daily for nearly a year after even tho he didn’t want to date me. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:02 AM
20

I’ve heard thru the grapevine I think he probably is fucking Uzi!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:48 PM
61

Wish I knew this when I wasted my late 20’s on a guy late 40’s! Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:22 PM
147

Wish I wasn’t such a pickme loser back in the day before I found FDS! Not only did I give up my career but I also used up my whole 401K to support US while I had no job! (He told me he’d take care of me!) I was so pathetic ! You’re a queen girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:18 AM
5

Serial killer vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:28 AM
4

This is literally every Catholic Church. (Coming from me who was in catholic school from pre k-college). It’s disgusting. They just transfer them around. It’s sickening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:21 PM
5

Literally the most impressive moderators of any sub ever 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:52 PM
9

Omg! My HS science teacher was an absolute perv too after I graduated !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:49 PM
27

I’m tall & have a buzz cut. I get asked if I’m a lesbian a lot.. as if a hairstyle can determine that 😒 and when I deny dudes they call me a “man”, 5 minutes after they called me hot, mind you!🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:11 PM
16

Chuck Palahniuk and Charles Bukowski come to mind when I think of LVM. Every LVM I’ve encountered thought they were so smart & edgy because they liked either of those two🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:54 PM
6

Lol! Definitely a man. Cervix pounding lead to hospitalization for me. Not fun !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:27 PM
1

Yep!! It’s hard to explain without sounding “full of myself” but I’ll just keep it honest! I’m Still getting just as much attention, the guys who liked my long hair still are interested, but now I’m getting an influx of “weirdo” types who think I am a certain way because of my haircut. Not sure if it makes sense lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:20 PM
21

Funny because I literally buzzed my hair to get LESS attention. News flash: it didn’t work. I’m now attracting even more weirdos 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:13 PM
20

A conservative hip hop artist? I’m sure the irony goes right over his head. I can picture what this dude looks like right now😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:39 PM
89

🎶they always come back🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:33 PM
22

It’s a joke .. about an octopus...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:32 PM
4

Boat Date: like a Field Date, only they will NEVER find your body!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:35 PM
1

Yes I consider myself Sherlock Holmes of Internet research hahah and these sites ARE helpful, but they aren’t 100% accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:27 PM
55

Future school shooter vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:57 PM
302

I saw the funniest quote once that this reminds me of. “If you’re crying everyday in a relationship, ask yourself - are you dating a man or an onion?” Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:53 PM
252

They literally all look like they live in their grandma’s basement and rate Jennifer Aniston a 5.5/10 on Reddit subs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:19 PM
41

Had me at 11 years old singing this song had no clue the real lyrics until recently 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:02 PM
10

We must be thinking about 2 different Tomi Lahren’s then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:52 PM
105

Now they won’t wear masks or let a washcloth touch their ass because it’s gay 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:25 PM
13

Suggest to add a man and not a woman...I’m sure his attitude will change! But maybe not, these porn sick weirdos like everything these days 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:15 AM
66

I personally love when guys touch me in my sensitive private parts after handling hot wings /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:19 PM
21

I’ve seen a few dateline type shows about this case, but it wasn’t until this documentary came out I just knew they would somehow blame the mistress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:55 PM
21

“I’m a straight man but these DUDES are so HOT!!” Sure, Jim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:11 PM
25

Now they want us to bring our own lawn chairs to the field 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:20 PM
12

It’s run by men🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:02 PM
15

Wiping their ass with a washcloth is gay, but they’ll be commenting under this post “Bros!!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:26 AM
11

I thought the same thing! I think he planned it all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:25 AM
10

Not sure if you’ve seen his short film on YouTube.. The Strange Thing About the Johnsons.. Ari Aster is one... strange.. director lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:24 AM
2

Key words: “Seem to”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:17 PM
27

This movie literally changed my life.. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:10 PM
31

Let’s talk about how conservative women with “unpopular beliefs” can put the lives of millions of people on the line, literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:06 PM
3

A true QUEEN! I hope you look at yourself wearing that crown in the mirror every day and smile 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:36 PM
4

Whoah only missing the word “simp” and he would hit hit Loser Reddit Troll Lingo Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:00 PM
4

I second this! I got mine done @29 and it was life changing for me tbh, but even 29 is young because I’ll have to do it the rest of my life! Just think about the expense of it all. Had I thought about that aspect I would have waited a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:59 PM
13

Omg girl no need to apologize! My phone didn’t post the comment💖💖I 100%%% agree with your statement too btw! And totally see where you’re coming from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:36 PM
45

Was just trying to say 30 is no wall. I see my comment didn’t go through. My comment said along the lines: these ladies are beautiful tho yes they have $ and plastic surgery we shouldn’t all have to look like them to be respected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:15 PM
7

Thank you!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:31 PM
66

I hate disagreeing with women on here, but I have to disagree with you. They DO this. Often. & it’s sick. I have first hand experience with my sick NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:08 PM
5

Sad he’s probably 16
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:00 PM
15

Confident women don’t make those types of posts, but what do I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:22 PM
20

This was how I was, little did I know at the time it’s not called “slutting around” but rather “undiagnosed mental health issues”....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:48 AM
19

I posted this on my IG story but cropped the last one out 😅 sorry not sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:30 PM
18

I put my notifications on specifically for her 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:01 PM
11

Since the first post about the roided out grape ball scrotes, every time I’ve been at the gym I wonder if any are scrolling through this sub😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:58 PM
33

I’d rather have my left shoe stolen than my life (which is what a large # of men do during breakups!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:13 PM
39

I honestly feel way healthier & better looking now at almost 31 then I did at 21! The losers who say women hit a wall @ 30 a) would cum in their unwashed holey boxers if I held a 3 second glance at them and b) only say it to make women think their time is running out and to settle! Don’t fall for it ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:44 PM
10

One of our main problems is too many underwhelming LOSERS are trying to have sex with us! How exactly does that make US incels????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:16 PM
7

I always get so confused, because they say they’re going their own way.. but when? Lol! No need to stop and bother us on the way out. Just go 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:38 PM
18

Like they can even nut!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:20 PM
10

Better at being more boring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:38 PM
4

Love this💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:25 PM
16

My dog was sick and had to stay at the vet overnight. I couldn’t eat, sleep, or think about anything besides my little doggy. I can’t imagine if my husband and child were in the hospital how I’d feel! Let alone jerk off to porn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:36 AM
6

Yes yes yes it’s so true. For many reasons! Stress ages you, it’s a fact. Staying up late worried about him? Yup. Laying on his teabag looking pillow he’s had since 2001? Probably hasn’t been washed this decade? Breeeding ground for bacteria
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:40 PM
2

Creeps will be creeps regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:38 PM
31

Why even ask her originally for dinner then? Stupid games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:26 PM
28

Go their own way, but stop and inspect 200 profiles of women first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:47 PM
31

Yes men think it’s “gay” to have a washcloth touch their ass! I wish I was making this up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:06 PM
125

I lost 2,500 followers on IG when I posted my (not white) boyfriend on my page and I got HUNDREDS of nasty messages 🤡 Did they think one day I will scroll through my message requests and choose to answer their “Wow🥵” from 2 months ago? Confusing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:01 PM
6

The guys in those comments really told on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:39 PM
22

The pillow that looks like a teabag. Classic LVM bedroom staple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:59 AM
148

Thanks for proving the point there are FEW men of value out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:15 PM
16

I literally dress like a “boy from the 90’s”, as I’ve been told, and dudes STILL stare. Regardless of what we wear, they stare. So I don’t understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:03 AM
4

Might sound hypocritical since we’re on Reddit too, but any guy who uses Reddit terminology such as “simp” and the like, automatically get ignored and / or dumped by me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:35 PM
20

Holy shit. Same here! But not just acid. I’m SO scared of some scrote getting mad and slashing me with a knife too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:19 AM
18

He IS OBSESSED with this sub. He sends so many women from this page weird messages. My guess? He’s 5’ 3”, micro penis, prematurely balding with greasy stringy hair, overweight, lives in his parents basement and has permanent cheeto dust on his fingers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:04 AM
56

If I can take away ONE. Just ONE single thing from this sub is: trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:35 PM
66

O m g! I deleted my Facebook but I do miss how people treat it like a private diary. So entertaining / sad / scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:09 AM
2

Mine were boobs, butter & travel... I don’t mind that LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:56 PM
46

Hi love 💖 Not totally the same, but my nudes with my face were leaked and put on a website around 2007/2008, and are still up today, so I know how you feel. Please, don’t let this stop you from becoming the woman you want to be! You can’t live scared, even thought it IS very scary! I live constantly with the thoughts of them reappearing, but thank God they haven’t. For what it’s worth, I have a semi large social media following where I can display my passions AND I have my very own business that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:54 PM
101

Ran by men, like the feminist IG page too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:08 PM
6

Reminds me of a NVM ex singer I dated.. was SO pumped to have me listen to his new song, said he just wrote it and everything so I was so excited thinking it was gonna be about me, or at least reference me. since he writes mostly lovey-dovey stuff. Well.. after listening, the song was actually about a “tiny blonde” with “the most beautiful blue eyes”......I’m 5’ 7”, curvy & brown hair brown eyes 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:11 PM
3

I mean..a lot if not most of the mass shooters have histories of being radicalized on the internet so yeah I definitely believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:27 PM
153

First of all, the GF wrote this LoL. I’ve had so many women ask me “How do you know My Boyfriend?” Sis, I don’t follow him and he’s been chatting with himself in my DMs since 2016. Leave me alone. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:17 AM
19

The most f’ed up thing is like.. I wish I could, not sure of the laws in my state, but at this point I don’t even want to bring attention to it :( Remember the site Juicy Campus? (I’m aging myself here lol).. I tried to sue them because I was on there as well and my lawyer said I basically have no case (there were no pics, only slander). I wish younger girls know the internet is not a safe place, at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:43 PM
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This is really great advice. During my pick-me days I definitely sent a few nude pics, nothing below the belt nude but yeah, definitely ones I didn’t want ANYONE besides the intended recipient to see. Anyone remember the website “the dirty”?. They were posted, along with my full name (they spelled it horribly wrong, which was my only saving grace from internet searches). Thank God the site has now been down for years, but that was one of the worst times of my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:02 PM
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It’s so funny how us ladies are on the same page, I signed onto here to post this today! But yeah, how pathetic ?! All I wonder is if they used their energy for good instead of for manipulation strategies.. life would be so much easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:13 PM
32

Did this but to his mom. Her response “isn’t it as bad that you told his mother and showed me” MA’AM no wonder he is the way he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:10 PM
14

London on da track is doing the same thing with the mother(s) of his children so I don’t know why she’s coming for anyone! How embarassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:37 PM
10

Wow same here. And I didn’t even know until a while after we dated. I thought I was “lucky” he stopped when we dated, but yeah, it’s SO cringe looking at other women’s pics and seeing they are “that guy” in the comments 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:49 PM
11

Yep I’ve gotten videos of guys jerking off in my DMs. Always the same excuse “I’ve been hacked!” .. so hackers decided to come to your page, Brian, and send me a jerk off video? I’m sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:18 AM
16

Me: asks the universe for a sign .. This post: slaps me across the face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:57 PM
2

Literally looks like my front LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:36 PM
11

I look at it as a sign that this happened and you’re starting a new job! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:33 PM
14

I just choked!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:48 PM
18

Scouts committee 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:29 PM
3

Hahaha this is so true. Guys post shit like this or DM me rude things JUST so I’ll answer them! Little do they know they automatically blocked.. their sick games don’t work 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:13 PM
150

I’m 5’ 8” and I was literally eye to eye with this guy.. he MAYBE was like an inch taller than me, if that.. he said he was 6’, and then told me i was the one lying about my height! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:01 PM
43

So gross. It’s on their mind 24/7!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:11 PM
28

This is a copy paste bio, I’ve seen it before unfortunately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:20 PM
32

As I was reading this on IG I thought, I have to post this to FDS!! Haha you beat me to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:12 PM
20

They don’t work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:26 AM
22

This guy wouldn’t stop harassing me at the bar, following me around every single inch of the place trying to chat me up. Until I said “do you know where the bathroom is? I have crazy diarrhea.” Didn’t see him once more after that!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:23 PM
30

I stare back. Hardcore stare, like, don’t stop eye contact, and then mouth “fucking weirdo”. It usually works 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:08 PM
52

Some think it’s “gay” to wash their ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:23 AM
9

It still sucks tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:12 PM
23

Oh, they’ll let you know just how racist they are REAL quick. My own father calls me a “pig n-word lover”. Needless to say, we don’t speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:42 PM
69

Unfortunately, in my experience, many many white guys are racist, even if they aren’t out right. I have to disagree with your sentiment. Other guys who haven’t had a problem with race, have had a problem / insecurity about dick size. Most men (white / any race) aren’t normal anyways 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:29 PM
40

I mean he was my bf for 2 years and was on my social media. So they just saw, I didn’t tell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:25 PM
7

If you want to really scream, I just found out the IG page @feminist is run by two men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:21 PM
113

White guys won’t date me because I dated a black guy. It’s fucking hilarious. And they weirdly love to talk about “big black dick” like bro.. that’s kinda gay lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:16 PM
3

Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:07 PM
41

This is why we don’t drink on early dates ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:00 PM
5

My dog HATED my ex “friend” (who was fucking every dude on my scrotation behind my back!) And I had no clue why! My dogs are sweethearts , and one nearly bit her hand. She even worked with animals! Right then I should have known. These animals KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:56 PM
12

Mods with the SWIFT removal 😻💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:00 PM
16

😭😂😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:48 PM
19

As someone who allowed a guy to fuck me so rough, he literally punctured a very small cyst and broke blood vessel that in turn caused me internal bleeding and I had to go to the hospital for emergency surgery.... let me tell you the the term “rearrange the guts” literally makes me feel fucking sick. Being a porn sick pickme IS dangerous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:41 PM
97

They hate to think the girls they beat off to are on this sub lol. It bothers them SO much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:22 PM
58

Yep! And I had no clue it was a thing until I put 2+2 together! Addicted to porn, follows every IG baddie, could NOT ONCE cum with me even tho, not to toot my own horn but? Those girls edit themselves to look how I look naturally 😝 and he says “sorry, I’m not used to getting hot women so I am obsessed with them online” sorry what?? Miss Pickmeisha Boiledgatorade was spread eagle in your bed bro! I cringe thinking about it. But yeah. The last straw was definitely us having sex, him not coming, me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:20 PM
242

That sub is filled with guys who have scabs on their dicks from jerking too hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:28 PM
15

“you’d look just like a porn star if you got your tits done” ok thanks👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:14 PM
5

And then they become obsessed. It’s happened to me before. First they’re obsessed with him. Then then wonder what you have / why he chose you / etc and then they become fixated on you. My most recent ex and I broke up nearly a year ago and his ex from before we dated (4 years ago at this point) still looks at my IG stories and shit. It’s sad :( but if they only knew my ex truly (nor anyone) is worth that obsession!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:23 PM
19

People still watch her videos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:16 PM
5

“Vibes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:08 PM
19

Ok even my LV ex used to love my armpit BO LOOOOL. He literally used to sniff my pits and say how sexy it was 🥴 now I wonder if he just wanted me to stink while I was out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:37 PM
34

GGAAAAAAH jfksmcnaljabfjdl I just gagged , knowing how they don’t wash their ass Im sure they don’t even know they need to clean their feet 😩🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:52 PM
45

Reminds me of the time an old roommate of mine asked me to wear pants when her bf was over in OUR shared living room. I was wearing a (literally) 5XL tshirt that goes down to my knees. They wound up breaking up and a month later he’s in my DMs. I showed her and she said “I always knew you two had a thing for each other” my God I was taken aback! We stopped being friends after :(.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:21 PM
20

So happy for you for sticking up for yourself! Same thing happened to me recently. A guy I was seeing posted a bare ass of an IG/ only fans model. I said Whoah, that’s innappropriate and I don’t find guys who do that attractive. He was sooo apologetic! Literally 16 HOURS LATER, not even a whole day, he retweeted the EXACT same pic on Twitter, where he thinks I’m not on. Little does he know I obviously have a fake Twitter. Blocked, never told him why either! Feels great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:51 PM
5

They think we “hate” men because we can’t get them. Meanwhile, it’s usually the exact opposite. We’ve seen enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:13 PM
9

I know that looks aren’t everything * but I bet if you showed them pics of what we actually look like they would hate-beat off for hours 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:04 AM
16

Insane!! You go girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:02 PM
6

Yessss!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:59 PM
15

Babes, please don’t compare yourself to anyone online! 99.9999% are photoshopped. I’m in the same “crowd” as a lot of “famous” IG models, and SO many times I had NO clue it was them because they look so different in real life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:12 PM
7

This book is in the FDs handbook as a must read :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:46 PM
43

Another MRA killer? Shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:18 PM
89

I’d take him to the store and watch him try on the exact same size / style of pants then laugh at him when they still don’t fit, then dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:04 PM
37

And she didn’t once cringe writing this? 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:49 PM
10

You came to the right place! I know the attention is nice but okay - say you start dating him.. do you really want a guy who leaves his GF at a party to talk to another woman?! You’re too good for that sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:48 PM
21

Wow even my narc ex was supportive when I shaved my head & one of the things he loved most was my hair that was past my mid back. Just goes to show this guy is shallow AF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:42 PM
31

Anyone else get creepy messages after joining the FDS IG page? It’s hilarious tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:46 PM
45

Woweee🙃 I met an ex at the airport - him flying back from his college reunion - and gave him head on the trip home (I know 😒) and there was a long blonde hair on his balls 😊 his college is all blonde women ☺️☺️☺️ it was “from the towels at the hotel prob”, tho🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:50 PM
24

I never date police ever🤷🏻‍♀️ guys on the apps get sooo offended when I don’t want to continue chatting once I find out they are a cop. No thanks ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:45 PM
6

Facts sis 💪🏼 same here. It’s hilarious when they inevitably try and diss us but look at our pics and can’t 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:01 PM
3

Are you ok girl??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:08 PM
5

Girl this is so scary!! I have someone who monitored my iPhone, iPad and laptop for FOUR YEARS. Is there anything you can do about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:07 PM
26

I was “the current girlfriend” in this situation once😫! Wondering if she’s talking about my old pickmeisha self LOL. Then I realize. There are probably so many stories like this😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:26 PM
10

Yep! I was in a bikini at the beach, but just like a totally normal pic! The comments are what made me furious! Totally disgusting and borderline harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:24 AM
7

Yes it was years ago. I believe people DM your page to them and they decide to post you. Not sure of their rules now a days but a few years ago they didn’t ask, just posted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:23 AM
50

It’s so sad. A few years ago I was posted on barstool smokeshows while I was sleeping. Woke up to crazy notifications. I DMd and begged them to take me down. Took 24 hours, but they did. Who wants that kind of attention?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:40 PM
36

“I would never do this to her but she deserved to be raped!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:31 PM
33

Woke up to this news! Amazing! Just proof pickme’s are fucking dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:07 PM
81

Yep. Not the first time I heard men think touching their own ass hole is gay. They’d rather smell and get their shit (literally) everywhere instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:32 AM
5

Thou shalt not ask for non-wool sheets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:39 PM
22

Some women, myself included in the past, are low value. It’s sad but true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:48 AM
46

So he’ll change for a younger , hotter , celebrity 🤒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:04 AM
110

One time I was giving a FWB a back massage, straddling his back (I know this whole statement is cringe lol it was pre my FDS days) and...I FARTED. ON. HIS. BACK. Like, my bare ass ripped one on his bare back. He must have felt it. It was loud too. He pretended he didn’t hear or feel. Thank god lol. But I was too mortified to ever see him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:50 PM
12

I’d call security
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:25 PM
2

“You’re a great girl” - such a pet peeve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:34 AM
12

Between harassers, stalkers and catfishes I actually decided to shave my head due to the attention I got from how I looked (paired w untreated mental illness at the time). I was actually very scared going out just looking the way I was born.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:49 PM
14

I was watching a stand up show with a guy and the comedian mentioned porn.. perfect time to bring it up! I asked “what porn do you like?” I didn’t want a yes or no answer if I asked “do you like porn”..I got a damn acronym! PAWG I had to look it up! And guess what? I fit the category! Ended with him that night. It means “Phat Ass White Girls”, BTW!🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:28 AM
40

That sounds like a weird sexual hang up .. I thought those noises were supposed to be hot IMO😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:22 AM
52

L M A O!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:50 PM
42

To be honest, before the sub, I was a paragraph texter😖 so cringey! Now I either don’t respond or reply “okay”...and now, these dudes become the paragraph senders! It’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:57 AM
73

hates Black people yet anthem is by Juicy J MAKE it make sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:32 AM
11

I stopped at the word “vibe”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:38 PM
30

Yes you’re 100% right. I don’t know why I EVER gave the benefit of the doubt. I try and be professional but not everyone deserves to be treated professionally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:33 PM
57

I find myself super on edge these days, so I decided to give this person the benefit of the doubt instead of reading him to oblivion then blocking.. but no. Even during a global pandemic, while there is an uprising in the streets..scrotes scroting on Poshmark 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:06 PM
14

Omg yes this happened with my iPad! I blocked someone a week ago, and yesterday I go on My iPad and see a bunch of really nasty texts LOL. Blocked there too, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:26 PM
20

It’s truly so, so sick. I have a medium size following on a few platforms, and (surprisingly) my most recent ex let me know one of the girls who would ALWAYS comment on mine and his pics saying “goals 😍” and solo pics of me saying she loves my outfit , etc... send him a topless pic on IG! He probably only told me because he thought it was a set up or something LOL.. but no...People can become so obsessed and “want” your life! I told myself I wil never, ever again post my man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:52 AM
72

I lost 28 followers for posting #blacklivesmatter (I’m white)... it’s like the trash is taking itself out, and I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:43 PM
32

He’s mad he didn’t find the pot of gold 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:52 AM
3

Meanwhile if any single one of these ladies even made eye contact with the guy who made this, I bet he’d jizz his pants 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:06 PM
3

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:45 PM
11

Wow.. having a stalker was and still is one of the shittiest / scariest things to ever happen to me, and that’s saying a lot. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:13 PM
76

Sometimes I feel like if we can only give ONE piece of advice out to ladies it would be this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:05 PM
6

I actually shrieked out loud reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:50 PM
38

44, the year he was born
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:54 PM
2

Whoops looks like my comment didn’t post with the main pic. It said: Moral of the story: DONT SEND !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:49 PM
17

Wow. They always come back ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 07:59 PM
42

He is and Kelly is the ultimate pickmeisha. On a strictly comical level, their relationship is one of my favorite train wrecks in television history lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:15 AM
3

Yep. Being cyber stalked put me into therapy 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:04 PM
3

Who the hell is Skylar?! Chad’s cousin?? Where do they come up with this 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:47 PM
33

I mean she’s looking for someone to bust in her, not fist her elbow deep so why wouldn’t her long term boyfriend do it? Why does she need it done now and If she doesn’t get it her future relationships will be ruined !? 😩 Sounds like a tall tale typed by a dude with Cheeto dust & Mountain Dew stickiness on his micro penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:56 PM
85

Ugh this is so true ! When I was younger my ex fucking TRIPPED me.. tripped me! In front of a crowded bar. Guess who laughed? All the guys. Until a bouncer came up to me and asked if I was okay, kicked my ex out and got me a bandaid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:33 PM
1

Not even reading anything other than your title: yes 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:59 PM
3

Yeah I guess it’s good. But in this case I highly doubt he’s anywhere near knowing he’s a POS. This guy faked cancer when I stopped talking to him! Said he had a few months to live.. lo and behold.. 6 years later, still alive and kickin, AND engaged to the woman he was with the whole time he was with me (I had no clue he was in a relationship). So yeah.. I tend to not give him the benefit of the doubt..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:32 PM
3

Why do we all have the same story!!😩😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:04 PM
27

Yep. The first older guy I was with (23/43 - yes it took me 7 years to learn my lesson 🙄) told me I’d look exactly like a porn star, If I got my “tits done”... totally ruined my self esteem at the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:07 AM
115

Some guys think it’s gay to wipe their ass. I wish I was joking, but it’s a real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:46 AM
17

I say “my friend Efdy (short for FDs) said...”LMAOOO😆😇😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:35 PM
7

I agree with this one tweet but he’s like, super duper red pill yeah?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:51 PM
1

He really is! Funny tho I wrote earlier he was my least fav on my scrotation before the pandemic (just based on looks alone) and now? He rose to the top 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:38 PM
30

Daily texts, dropping off groceries, not trying to hang out / be physically close, dropped off some weed & rolling papers for me (I smoke one joint a night pre sleep & he doesn’t even smoke at all). Very small things but have made a big impact on my thoughts of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:12 PM
77

Sooo true!! I literally felt like I was dying from a broken heart. Never in my life have I felt actual chest pains over a man before! But then a week past and I was like ?? Wow? No more worrying about what he’s doing? No more crying? No more stress?? I’m about 2 months out now and happier than I’ve ever been for the last 2+ years with him! Stay strong ladies! It’s worth it ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:07 PM
14

Low key thought you were describing my ex hahah. In my instance, this exact story happened to me. Only I was the chick he got in an actual relationship with, all over social etc. Its true. Sometimes it’s not even about sex with them.. they love the freakin attention!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:43 PM
82

If the word “vibe” is anywhere On their profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:32 AM
39

Every guy I was talking to stopped talking to me when I told them I wouldn’t be hanging with them during a global pandemic. But one guy, who honestly was my least fav out of all of them (he’s sweet tho), has consistently checked up on me, ran errands for me, has ordered me Uber eats when I wasnt feeling up to cooking one night. Nothing crazy, but made me look at him in a different light. Nothing he did cost more than $25 and 15 minutes max, but it’s a nice thought & he’s proving to be gentlemanl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:31 PM
9

Therapy has helped a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:57 AM
9

He’s a super fan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:48 PM
39

Totally happened to me. Used to love all the pics I posted, loved everything about me but once I became “his” gf? Totally never complimented me. Told me not to dress and post certain things. Then ultimately told me “I’m not the same woman he fell for” yeah well no shit; I’m not her anymore!!😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:56 PM
16

Mood all Spring 2020!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:02 PM
7

I don’t feel bad for them at all, but I’d never in a billion years wanna be a neck beard basement dweller
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:12 AM
31

They have different mothers which I’m sure has something to do with it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:12 PM
55

I would cross the street if I saw any of them in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:36 PM
17

Factual. Unless you’re into being stressed 24/7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:58 PM
14

Growing up with the dawn of the internet and a computer in my BEDROOM (parents were clueless) paired up with me going to Catholic school really fucked me. Being told two totally opposite things so heavily. Therapy helped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:52 PM
13

Not even usually , sadly. So many broke older men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:43 PM
201

I wish your mom gave me that lecture when I was 20 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:43 PM
9

They fake everything 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:10 PM
30

The only locked bracelet I want from a man is the Cartier Love bracelet and I’ll hold the key thank you 😊💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:57 PM
5

Oh okay. I would never laugh at someone going thru this :( but the dudes who are so delusional like the commenter.. they keep me laughing all day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:03 AM
11

It’s funny because the advice is pathetic. Is there a problem with laughing at this train wreck, sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:06 PM
3

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:08 PM
67

I used to shave bald because once a dude asked me to. Then when I came back with ingrowns and nicks he said ew😒 at that moment I decided fuck what anyone ever will think. I personally like to keep it trimmed, if I’m on vacation I’ll get a bikini wax. I’m a grown ass woman, not a child 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:29 PM
6

Congrats girlie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:03 PM
28

Starting Monday morning off with the TRUTH!! My ex was nearly 50 and tho he paid for my travel to him we basically split everything else. As I said in an earlier post I cashed out my 401K to support us pretty much. His electric went out? Okay babe here’s some money. Oh ur car fucked up? Here ya go. NEVER. AGAIN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:02 PM
9

Me too 😂 “that is a lie!” Ok bro, whatever you gotta tell yourself 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:14 PM
89

What they fail to understand through all that porn sickness rot in their brains is we don’t ask for anything we ourselves can’t provide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:24 AM
64

I think I’m banned from that sub. I don’t know how reddit works tbh. I only come here for FDS, the rest of reddit makes my eyes bleed. But I commented on a post and the mod (didn’t know he was one) commented & defended the wool sheets guy (if you read that story lol)... then came back on his mod green mode high horse and was all, “this thread is closed because of man hate” or some shit. Just because I said I don’t think the woman needs to buy new sheets for a guy she never met before who only wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:48 PM
101

If you have to question how he feels, he isn’t worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:05 PM
34

Looks like someone was jerking off with their moms Jergins when writing this 🙄 (though financial abuse is very real and men are this depraved and actually do this to women - this just sounds like fanfic to me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:02 PM
1

All I see is 21 and 35 and that’s a real big red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:05 PM
30

And this is exactly why I have a small knife keychain that looks like a lipstick and I carry it with me whenever I leave my home. Pepper spray is legal in my state, and When I go into the metropolitan area near me, That shit is in my bag. It’s small and fits perfect even in a mini bag. Thank god I never had to use the spray but I have waved my knife at a drunk man who was following me for 3 blocks once. He took the next turn and I made it home safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:12 PM
33

Whew a guy I dated once stole a crisp $100 bill out of my purse right before xmas...then he shows up with new shoes I KNOW he couldn’t afford.. he says “was a gift from my baby mom, she paid half...” I knew he stole it so I dropped him right then, and wound up speaking to the BM. He gave her the $100 to pay for half his Xmas gift from her! Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:22 PM
190

Oh my GOD I had a guy spit in my mouth once it was freaking DISTUSTING. It was mid moan and he was on top of me and just took it upon his self. I spit it back in his face, cursed him out and left. I could have lived my life without knowing what his looogie tasted like!🤮 he had the audacity to call me from a blocked 20x on my way home after I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:01 AM
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I sat myself down in the public library and read the book in 2 short days. Extremely insightful, and made me realize I was actually a victim of various types of abuses and I wasn’t crazy. An absolute must read, so glad is a must read for this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:05 AM
13

Yaaaas queen I needed this reminder!!! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:45 PM
3

I second this. I am currently going through a break up and I sat myself down to read this book and I feel SO much better, knowing I am actually not crazy. I read it in 2 days. It can be emotional but it’s amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:59 PM
117

You just summed up my 30th bday experience 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:43 PM
4

This slapped me into next Tuesday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:28 PM
13

It’s so true! There was no self love. I also thought I won a prize since all his other exes (my age or younger 🙃) didn’t get what I did from him, and he’s semi famous but super ~homebody~ so I really thought I was the shit locking him In 🥴 Simply pathetic and low self esteem. Therapy has helped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:57 PM
50

I’d love to know for the future. My most recent ex, for the first few months was crazy with effort. Flying me to him + the places he was working. Flowers, edible arrangements, everything. Then he cracked and the facade wore off. By then, I was still in pickme mode and when I found out he was actually broke as hell (I was 28 he was 47), I STILL stayed with him for gasp two years. Constant fighting because I wanted the man I met. I’m sure he wanted the cool girl he met too; but of course by now I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:36 PM
33

I really felt this “love bombing part”..ouch I definitely needed to hear this, thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:45 PM
11

The only time this happened to me was when I was in an age gap AND interracial relationship (30/49 I know the gap is🚩🚨)..guys his race would congrats him.. guys my race would be racist 🙄 and those times when he would walk away they’d come be creepy flirting with me, so I’d say I think it’s partially flirting for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:37 PM
75

All I can see is his arm and T-shirt and already know his demands are above him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:40 PM
33

Well the great thing is you realized what you were doing and now your behavior is changed. So brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:01 PM
18

The word obsession is an understatement. Day in and day out these neckbeards are thinking of us, seething. Hope they don’t write about us in their next mass shooting manifesto 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:39 PM
32

They hate us so much yet can’t stop watching us🙄It’s sick and also scary because they like to shoot places up when strong women won’t give them the time of day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:36 PM
148

Yep the ones who call you detective are usually the cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:56 PM
27

I get it, some are handsome but honestly they’re on a website specially looking for younger women. Such a red flag right there. And now what am I living with? Being stalked (to this day) by creepy men, I’m worried (8 years later) if one day This will come out to my friends and family etc. it isn’t worth it at alll! And this is coming from someone who made tens of thousands in cash and luxury items. I was such a LVW and didn’t know it, and I’m still reeling from the horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:01 PM
20

^ such an amazing and well said response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:47 PM
23

Prostitutes who charge WAY less and do WAY more... just so people won’t call them prostitutes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:45 PM
92

In the name of all things holy, I’m begging you PLEASE do not do that. In my early 20’s, I was on those sites as a sad, lost, desperate woman and pick-me Queen. I thought I knew everything, thought I was a ~sexually liberated young woman~ but in reality? Years later I’m still paying $150/hour every week in therapy getting over all the things I did for some quick $. It’s truly not worth it. Guys on those sites are lowest of low value men, most are negative value. My inbox is open if you’d like to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:44 PM
7

Are you trini?😉💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:08 PM
5

Hell yeah! I even got it lightly worn from posh & got a great deal on a real one AND had some more money to spend 🤑 he asked for his clothes back from one of his fake numbers 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:57 PM
7

Whoops replied to a different comment what I wanted to say ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:27 PM
42

Thanks Sis! It’s okay tho, because he left an entire suitcase of clothes in my car & I sold them all on poshmark and made over $1K. He was the type to buy a $200 tee shirt for a gig and never wear it again, but was buying chicks fake jewelry lol. So I won that one 😏🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:27 PM
12

I feel this totally ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:34 AM
5

So many people are defending this cotton sheet lover. So if she has anything besides cotton sheets, she should go out and purchase new ones for a guy she never met? I’m so confused 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:21 PM
6

I don’t believe this to be true. From personal experience I grew up kinda ugly & didn’t get “hot” until I was late 20’s. The hotter I got the more pickme I got, sadly enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:34 AM
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