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Yea.. Knowing your broad has statistically better personality than the norm makes it not really justifiable to go dumpster diving again. Wouldn't be that hard to raise a daughter red pilled in this era to get a quality guy given the poor competition.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:11 AM
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Nah I guess I was unclear in my words. I meant 8s are not that far off from my gf to be exciting. I actually think 8s and 9s give less shit than 6s and 7s with all the insecurities and attainability issues that lead them to be a lot more flakey.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:59 AM
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I succumbed to saying we can have a relationship but honestly I am a cheater. I think you're right, probably a plate or two then focusing on getting my career together along with hobbies thanks. Guess I'm scared not opening other chicks makes me stagnant in game.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:29 PM
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There are only a few angles to pot a pool ball. Might be a hard shot but sometimes it's the one you have to take to pot the ball. Sure you can wait to the third date later on, but your chances are diminishing and it might be too late.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:39 PM
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Can't you do it in public? I'm serious.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:33 PM
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To narrow the context, no I'm not.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:29 AM
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I'm from Singapore, tired of people screaming AWALT every alternate post
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:04 AM
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What do you define to be a hard edge?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:04 PM
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The irony is I used to hog the convo especially when I used to need more validation. But now my conversation style is like a talk show host? Like I get guys to share about their cool stuff and then no one knows my passions and hobbies cause no one returns the question
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:48 PM
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She's just overwhelmed that he couldn't keep it together, not that he was raped. Anyway, I think probably she's not a good catch, a product of present buy not fix culture.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 02:39 PM
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Be careful, someone by the corners is about to scream "BUT AWALT"
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 02:37 PM
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By sigma male, what do you mean? Introverted?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 01:49 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. This case wasn't so much of AWALT but the girl already being in the high - risk category from the get-go.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:29 PM
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Ok thank you
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:16 AM
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It's not a class, it's an external competition. No one really takes sides on whose idea is better, in any case my ideas did get implemented
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:32 AM
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Does it really? I do the behind back variant a lot but I feel like it is my go too because I want to look open to feedback but ultimately I do that when I am trying to be a custodian of sorts when I'm listening to people ask me about things. Poorly phrased but I hope you get what I'm describing.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:14 PM
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Hmm I get your point, but I think many a possible LTR potential are just lost on women 'without game' because they haven't even had the past relationship experience (as well as baggage) to know what to do.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 04:49 AM
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I think the distinction is more where the First Officer doesn't know what the Captain wants of her as opposed to being lazy/not trying hard enough. She wouldn't know I prefer that she be more chatty (relatively subdued culture compared to the US) and I can't "lead by example" by over-texting.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:26 PM
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Imagine being so bottom of the barrel to have to circlejerk on asktrp
/r/askTRP04/02/19 02:54 PM
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She ghosts as a power play to get him to chase. --> YOU ARE HERE <-- I’d say her. So why would it be her, he hasn't made a choice. I'm sure many guys get flaked on but don't care about getting the girl back. But I wonder if OP would take the woman walking away as her being less invested.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 12:28 PM
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Hmm. What about if a girl ghosts because she realizes you won't give her commitment? Who is the more invested party then?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 10:38 AM
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Good point. Easy and quick to achieve.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:50 PM
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Hmm. On the other hand, what if you as the man wanted to move there because you prefer the lifestyle there? I think there is more context left out by OP. If anything, being the foreign exotic guy in her country would be better than being an average Joe when she is in yours. I think it is more that OP accommodated to her preference of residence that showed him to be tamed.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 01:35 PM
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I'm scared I just treat things as me not knowing much so I ask first. Unlike much of the sub, I don't believe in being assertive without getting my facts checked.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:43 PM
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I just thought there would be something I dont know. Usually trp is all about warning about how to cover your ass at the workplace with women
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:37 PM
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Great read, would love for an introduction piece to your ideas on a blog or article
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:33 AM
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Just read the article. Really interesting. Yes indeed a lot of traditionally bluepilled traits like agreeableness and conscientiousness which lead to more sex. I suppose where TRP traditionally has this mental model of the ideal male being a beastial psychopath that pumps and dumps at his whimp and fancies - trying to compare against my actual observations it does measure up that the best guys at game are always judicious rather than dismissive of even the girls points (even if he knows she is j…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:48 PM
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Basically science shows some trp ideas are truly correct, but some are actually blue or even blackpilled. Very interesting, would like to hear an article of it on TRP by you especially for the latter points. There is however resistance to research on group differences in relationship dynamics despite substantial initial proof that there are differences between genetic and epigenetic groups (races and lowlander vs highlander people for example). I'm Asian and always wondered if the reason why for…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:35 PM
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Would you say then that a jack-of-all-trades with a decent ability to handle a bunch of stuff rather than a guy who can only show her he is a master in one would handle the girl better?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:31 PM
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Great point. Women are social chameleons and if they're always changing their interests based on surrounding conditions, with that line of reasoning, they probably wouldn't care if you didn't care much of them
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:29 PM
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Listen, you're still under the Blue Pill delusion Implying I'm just asking what to talk about. You imagined that yourself
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:28 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:58 PM
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I second this lmao
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:56 PM
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What is the capacity you would say of using oxytocin to bind women? Is using sex to keep her bonded a total Male fantasy?
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:27 AM
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I like this analogy of beauty and the beast - care to explain in detail what that entails?
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:23 AM
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Cool theory but isn't PMS pre-menstrual - I.e. mood swings is before not during menstrual
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:23 AM
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It's from TRPWomen. Also, read again - Not about romantic/sexual relationship but friendships with males and females
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:04 PM
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Thanks for helping answer my queries! Or conversely: most men are a lot more alpha than they realise. Most are suppressed and repressed. There's no trickery here: go to the gym, learn to be loud and dominant and strong, enjoy the resulting attraction. This is a very good pointer
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:21 PM
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A lot of the classical dialogue of TRP centers around the female strategy to get alpha genes but beta provisioning (AFBB). That supposes then that alpha-ness is originally a product of (variable) genetic inheritance. However past history has shown the offspring of runaway dads (especially the pump-and-dump variety) to largely result in sons with weak frame. Wouldn't that hint that alpha traits are more nurture than nature? And if alpha traits are mostly the product of genetics, does that mean th…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:12 AM
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Alpha dating (primarily sex, no commitment, high quality male genes and lifestyle) For those of us guys who aren't naturals, and learnt game through TRP, don't we not have high quality genes? To what extent is the alphaness inheritable, given that many guys who are lost with women without direction are the product of alpha baby daddies?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:41 PM
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Where I disagree in "it's just your turn" is the assumption that breakup is guaranteed or most likely. Whether this theory is from a source of pessimism or an individual experience I'm not sure. Ah.. yea I think it comes from a pessimist POV in TRP
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:42 PM
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No, because I did not enjoy the after sex. I reached a point of wanting company and someone to chat with. She's a mere FWB
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:17 PM
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Hmm I forgot a part, I intend to work from home. I'm looking to move to a less developed country, so her earnings/career importance might not be much - girls there don't really think of work as part of their value. I do like introverted girls, so open-minded but stay-at-home is okay for me. As long as she's decent looking and supportive I suppose
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:08 PM
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I'm glad then. I guess some background context is I dont come from a healthy familial background - mother never provided any support for father or any of us children. So I never had the reference experience of women who actually genuinely want to help others out - I mean if my mother didn't give a shit, I can't imagine a wife caring
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:58 PM
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Yea I mean I dont disagree with your account of me. I do see an ideal relationship as being something out of 50s Americana. Doesnt mean I dont take care of myself, but I do want a woman who's primary goal in life is to make her man the best (and her being just a housewife)
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:56 PM
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No I'm not blaming nor expecting all women to care. I'm just asking are there women who have a frame of wanting to improve their men sincerely
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:42 PM
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I mean ya some women want you for fun and/or security, but don't you wan't women for fun and/or security too? I dont have anything wrong with it. My language was phrased awkwardly - I meant do women just want to bang and get bucks, without caring about the emotional state of the guy, as opposed to us guys who do naturally feel sympathy when girls feel sad. About the other comments, I'm sorry I phrased it awkwardly, I didnt mean about her caring in terms of date or not. Rather, are there such wom…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:25 PM
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Yea I'm having your thoughts now. Do you think it's a biological women thing that they don't add value in an LTR (and that guys in LTR are beta bux to them subconsciously), or them not adding value is just a reflection of the sexual marketplace in modern, post-feminist societies?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:18 PM
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I didn't say I believe in unconditional love though, and an absence of it isn't the same as there being no such thing as support. As long as you didnt invest in the ltrs emotionally, you shouldnt have a Problem when they dont work out. Yea but to me the point of an LTR over an FWB is emotional investment. I don't mind the risk of breaking up or it being just my turn, but do women ever actually want their man to have a better life?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:16 PM
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Yea, I don't expect unconditional love, especially after TRP. But, my mentality now is that either the women want me for fun and/or security, and I feel like any supposed concern they voice can't possibly be sincere and that they don't really care how I feel. Of course, I'm glad to hear rebuttals to my point of view - I don't like that this is how I feel women are
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:06 PM
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Should a man talk his girlfriend for affection and support given the TRP idea of being like an unmovable rock that doesn't need support? Specifically, I don't know if I should talk about myself, and think much of when a girl voices concern and support anymore (I feel I have to discount whatever they say as being for their own good). I feel like I have to just be stoic, yet the only point I see in taking on an LTR over FWBs (which no longer excite me) is that very emotional support.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:02 PM
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Yea I'm getting fixated I suppose because while I'm ready as fuck to next plates from day game, when it comes to social circle game I feel like Im the one not good at maintaining female orbiters and their attention whenever they grow cold. If you really want this one particular girl, wait a few months with zero contact, and then reestablish the contact. You will be "new" in her mind that way, especially if you changed dramatically. Hmm pretty funny. Theres this girl who I've not talked to in mon…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:31 PM
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In a platonic sense, does this carry over? For example, I know that men can get pass other former rival men and collaborate with no hard feelings. Can women do so to men? Because afaik, all women if even a hint of doubt has crossed their minds of another male/female, that person is permanently condemned
/r/askTRP02/11/18 04:23 PM
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A certain sport, and I play the guitar. But those become very niche thanks to genre and type of sport I've got other stuff, but I would say my interests are all pretty niche, if I wasnt well-groomed, I'd almost be certainly be called eccentric
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:18 PM
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Are you an introvert? I'm naturally chatty and I would say I have non-needy/AMOG kind of banter as part of my usual interactions (not even as game). So I'd like to know if that's the usual end game even for chatty guys E.g. RSDMax and RSDTyler come to mind as top level guys who definitely talk at least a significant amount in social settings
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:53 PM
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17 and pretty normal to lose virginity later here
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:38 PM
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Have you experience with virgins who have boyfriends? Because they aren't near as open as most women to immediately bang, isn't it an immense task to get her to bang
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:20 PM
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They have a window in my life and it closes as I have other plans day to day. This is perfect frame for this
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:34 PM
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Thanks this is a good guide
/r/askTRP15/10/18 03:54 PM
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Nice I'm saving this too
/r/askTRP15/10/18 03:26 PM
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How well are women able to do the mental gymnastics that they are cheating even if they actually do like their bf? I mean.. won't they shit test about having a boyfriend in those cases?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 03:12 PM
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Actually pretty cool
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:51 AM
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Shoots?
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:31 AM
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I didn't read. Least I check if I get things right instead of being a stuckup know-it-all
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:14 AM
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I already cleared the sidebar. This month and years ago. Your pattern is to Amog and feel good about shitting on people wanting to learn, copy posting "read the sidebar" and "onenitis" every alternate post. Perhaps you need to think deeper
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:53 PM
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Aw I pity the unoriginal
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:50 PM
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Says 1 submission guy afraid of examining your own shortcomings
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:48 PM
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implying
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:47 PM
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Thanks man. I havent isolated her (college group mate) so it's largely in class or group meetings. In that context I only touched arms and hands
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:44 PM
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I think it's okay. Number isn't that useful nowadays. IG let's her see the cool shit going on in your life + mild dread game even
/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:18 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:27 PM
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Nope. I didn't post in the past, was using my main account to lurk for years. Finally decided to ask some questions cause I know I dont know a lot
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:58 PM
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Ha. So much effort. Unlike you I see many ways I can improve. You're a dead end who's struggling in the most competitive region. "My pickup lines don't work wehh" Couldn't even rebutt my points - you know why EE has low birth rates? Cause the women wouldn't fuck you
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:54 AM
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Aww what a comeback for a robot
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:45 AM
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Sorry I made you question your worldview. Hopefully you'll get laid where you are soon
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:37 AM
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Well I know it for fact. You're just an imbecile that couldn't come up with a single original submission
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:35 AM
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That's saying about what can one learn from fiction. This is talking about why society views that fiction as that. Learn context
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:28 AM
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I've read it you robot. I'll have you know I've been here years longer than you. Still learning, and ain't a smartarse
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:23 AM
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I think you better state which country as I asked. The gender roles where you are sounds so different from Russia which I know well. Fertility rates tell you everything about East. That's from shit livability not gender roles. Gender roles are intact in East Asia too, we have the LOWEST fertility rates in the world. I'll discount all arguments from that. Also women here are closeminded af. You cannot use pickup line on Slavic women they will think you are crazy. Because 'pickup lines' are for ch…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:20 AM
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Where in EE? I'm looking to move there one day. Also your English is native standard
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:59 AM
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I didn't want to double text her so I didn't reschedule the date - is there a fair exception to be made here?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:58 AM
6

Great you've passed the turing test
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:30 AM
2

Huh. I dont get the language
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:21 AM
2

Devilish
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:58 AM
0

Uh. Nice projection. Forget about her, game other women. Then maybe one day she'll pop into your head and you send a simple message. That's the point here. Exactly what I did
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:56 AM
1

Yea as in she already texted me
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:55 AM
1

Point of the article is she contacted me
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:54 AM
1

Not true. We joked about how the condoms smell funny in my country, and she said she hasn't tried. I said I'd show her and she said "okay I'm curious "
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:53 AM
2

Which parts stand out as outdated in your mind?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:42 PM
2

Meanwhile I have no plates fuck
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:23 PM
2

What do you 'accuse' them off. I just reinitiated a ghosted girl, and she responds fast and double messages for each of mine
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:52 PM
3

Couldn't you just bring them somewhere in public, you know fundamentally, the escalation ramp has to be completed once you start it
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:40 PM
2

Where are your plates from?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:05 PM
9

I feel really bad for hiding the truth What, the truth that you're a stud and she won the big teddy bear at the carnival?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:24 PM
3

Then speak with body language more. Use accusatory tone and stare her down when you tease.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:10 PM
3

Then fuck you, get better at English
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:06 PM
3

Nope. It's a healthy and safe amount.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:04 PM
0

Yea, if you understand the concerns then okay, up to you
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:58 PM
0

Okay then. Anyway, yea keep the hair. No issue w it
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:55 PM
10

Do y'all fucking read the other posts. STOP DOXXING YOURSELVES. I'm beginning to think it's a jealous guy trying to play out guy he hates
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:45 PM
3

I agree. Recently I realized that a lot of lines I want to say can't be brought across with the bravado required as I'm not built. It's actually the bottleneck now.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:10 PM
1

With her fucking outside she can just hamster it as it happened in somewhere I'll never need to be reminded of again. If she fucks in her house however, she can't run from reality that easily.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:07 PM
4

Could you tell OP how a stronger frame would have looked like in his scenario?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:53 PM
1

LRT? What the fuck
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:51 PM
1

Would she ignore Chad? This line is just 'I'm not good enough' mentality. You yourself do realize that sometimes it's just a lack of mood. It's a statement remember. Sometimes she has no comment.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:48 PM
1

Yea but the I thought we were pretty cute and we should meet some time. In light of the recent TRP post which was talking about how he just wrote down his number and said text me, I feel this one was making you qualify to her
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:47 PM
2

Could just be she just doesn't want to feel guilty being reminded of you while being in her own home
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:42 PM
1

I think its pretty cool it worked in your experience.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:41 PM
1

I'd try but dont think % conversion to dates would be great.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:34 PM
9

Jackie is the toxic friend - she's jealous. She wants your value but might not put out
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:24 PM
1

Shit I should be clearer. This is for day game. For just getting the contact then fucking off
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:22 PM
2

Which EE country are you from? For me I've been in Russia and I think gender roles are healthy there.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:11 PM
1

Oh damn that's good. What if it's a clear parasitic relationship though - like uggo with hottie who she wants to cockblock.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:10 PM
3

Outcome independent
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:05 PM
1

Women only fix shit if they actually want it fixed. Otherwise don't bother
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:00 PM
2

How does a man become attractive to family and friends - the person everyone wants to be around? No difference from being attractive to women, except in the case of friends, not making them feel insecure. Is it different for women? How do they become high value to family/friends? Ask redpill women. This is beyond the scope. But okay I'll give my opinion. Women's true biological purpose means, if they offer support emotionally and physically (can mean helping to cook and offer hugs) they are valu…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:56 AM
1

So those guys are her supervisees? Under her?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:53 AM
1

What industry? I can't imagine this happening except with the chavest of chavs
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:52 AM
1

spontaneously slapping her ass at work Where are you from? I just want to figure this out legally
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:48 AM
5

Vitaly Just no. Scripted trash Depends on your cultural context, aka niche. If you're into the latte slurping crowd I can see why you'd like a Barney Stinson. For me, I just watch Putin talk. I want to learn from serious men who can talk intellectually while not seeming like nerds, and appear strong despite being small.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:30 AM
1

What to say to those shit tests?
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:19 AM
4

Regardless. Fiction POORLY captures reality.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:36 AM
3

Wasnt explaining anything. You're stuck with the pride of something kids feel edgy for
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:30 AM
14

Most likely you're cute. Anyway. It's most likely that they all do have interest but you overinvest upon knowing they are interested - when there's no chase, there's no challenge.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:21 AM
5

Are you 16? This is teen atheist material
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:19 AM
1

They're not useless because they're old Never said that For specifics, back in the day, they were teaching insane routines like Number game, Clouds in the sky visualization.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:01 AM
3

Not even monkey branching, irrationality is a factor in females
/r/askTRP11/10/18 08:13 AM
2

I dont even think it's a shit test - if anything she's openly showing investment. You can tease her a little - just an "Aw" then set up the time.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:33 AM
6

Watch a movie together
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:52 AM
3

Their sirens start wailing as soon as you start flirting before you even get to know anything about them. This is the key. You can have 10 party girls or an LTR with a quiet girl, you can’t have both. This is something the community often forgets. AWALT holds but women have variation. Girls are descendants of both women that fucked whichever alpha of the tribe as well as those who played it safe and waited out for their 'dream guy' and settled. Given that we all know how women are very risk-adve…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 05:59 AM
2

It works on Joeyforreddit
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:54 AM
2

Nope. It works. I'm using it on mobile. You just have to login once on your mobile browser and go to the subreddit
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:51 AM
1

He only dares to speak when his wife asks Tyrone to stop
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:50 AM
5

It's not that snowflakes were offended. It's that Reddit as a business overestimated the importance of SJWs Anyway it's not actually down. Find the thread somewhere - you can enable it still
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:48 AM
1

Don't bother asking OP. The moment you ask, she'll start spinning tales to ALL your mutual contacts. Just hit her with the restraining order, no negotiation
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:36 AM
20

It's funny cause I accidentally employed some of those tricks yesterday while on a college project conference call. Bitch was still pissy cause I nexted her a few weeks back. She was challenging my points for the first hour of the call, then after I flipped the script that she might never have a man to marry, she started qualifying and was cooperative the rest of the call. Change her mood not her mind. Works wonders!
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 03:14 AM
14

What's a good tactic for this?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 02:53 AM
5

They can't win the free market of ideas so they ban
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:51 AM
2

You are doing well with "yes" girls, not "maybe" girls. Recalibrate by lessening the negs, qualify them more - and let them win some of the qualifications
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:42 AM
16

STOP DOXXING URSELVES
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:26 AM
1

You're not a boring guy, nor are you a weak guy. Just you might have showed too much availability - I.e she was the tourist and you were the tour guide. Up to her to leave kind of impression Boredom can be cause of lack of sexual tension. Your date ideas are fun, but if she knows she doesn't have to do anything to make it work, she's gonna be bored.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:40 AM
4

Context is lacking. Could be nice but sicker, could be not. Many factors for her being that way, in any case it's just your turn. You sound like your issue is not great game rather than bad frame/boundaries though
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:23 PM
7

I would like to know the subculture. What is it that you're famous for
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:13 PM
8

He's talking loosely not technically. It's as much as saying fitness is based on physics. Frame is just mentality and your sense of certainty in imposing your view of the world.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:09 PM
1

This really. When you have a hobby that you're passionate about, daygame becomes easy - girls see you as a driven man
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:02 PM
1

Did you discuss a date when you were out together
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:49 PM
1

Get her out after class. Isolate.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:45 PM
1

Check how you wrote it. You never said it was the first time and your writing implied otherwise. share all 5 classes in one of our classes, that happens once a week If you wrote which will happen once a week it means something else
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:19 PM
3

NOWHERE does he use the word trick.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:15 PM
1

Likely friendzoned. Sorry man
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:13 PM
1

Yea I know. But cultural context. Girls by themselves would give you a pass because they know it's bullshit social conventions to not talk to strangers, but groups will look at you like you're weird for wanting to join their table
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:41 PM
0

I see..
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:46 AM
3

Especially the less successful ones will despise you. Man this hits close to home. I've been looking forward to meeting chads that shit test me in class because at they are relatively legit compared to the majority of crabs in bucket guys who are friendly but want me to fuck up. Nah. I'm in college, but we don't live on campus. I eat in the suburban malls - fast food joints like McD. It's uncalibrated to crash into groups eating together here. Single girls though I have done
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:45 AM
1

Ditto. Same concept with girls who won't kiss but let you do anal.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:31 AM
1

Eh. I'm not sure. Since it's a Tinder girl usually they are just gonna swipe in someone else but someone versed in Tinder game would give more concrete advise
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:19 AM
1

Familiarity breeds contempt Is this from classical TRP?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:58 AM
1

Whats TFL
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:53 AM
4

You fucking disappointed the chick man.. why
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:13 AM
0

Not slagging on the pay itself (which is not even middle-low tier tbh). I'm saying your job is not going to affect any portfolio, it's just a guy for hire job
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:51 AM
2

Wow. Okay then. Yes it is pricey for you. It's far cheaper where I am - can't remember the price though, don't use Tinder myself anymore
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:26 AM
0

Oh that fucking figures.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:02 AM
0

Female-to-male tranny?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:59 AM
5

It is in post-apocalyptic America
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:57 AM
0

I'm curious why only one's fat
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:45 AM
3

Er. That's at least a third of the guys here so
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:16 AM
1

Are you living with her?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:14 AM
7

Tinder (the company itself) WILL make sure you get at least more matches. It's really not that expensive so.. yea get it
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:12 AM
1

Wtf that was 3 sentences dragged out over a dozen line paragraph
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:08 AM
1

Yea some guys here will say it's cause you're a bum. I say, 80% of people are just salty you're not paying into their system, not justifying their world view of beta bux
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:06 AM
0

Dude. Sounds like OP is working a minimum wage no progression job. It's not anything substantial
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:46 AM
1

(yeah I know I fucked up by texting her the same day) Eh not really. Pretty normal to text on same day. I think the don't text on same day is more for dates when there is sexual tension - where you don't want to appear like she's the one great sex option to you. You shouldn't have jumped straight to date on the first text though. Warm her up, once you touch a high point, straight ask for her logistics. Anyway, you can ping her with a single funny message (that's not personalized to her) since if…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:44 AM
2

Yes. Did good son
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:33 AM
4

You are correct that this is a job you can afford to shit in. I'd recommend this: Ask her on Monday what's her schedule like for the week (workdays, not weekend). You want to know which days after work she's free to just hang for 30min. Do so casually, preferably it should seem off the cuff. On the said day, ask her again if she's got anything on after work. (If yes) hang out with her - build sexual tension. Ideally this means kiss with you withdrawing from it. Arrange for another meetup ("this …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:29 AM
7

As the other commentor says you might not have fucked up. That said - it is recommended that you ramp up to see AT the location itself. You could have escalated and tried to fuck her in the car itself. You asking her for a venue change made her snap back into logical processing mode. Since it wasn't you pussying out and given you escalated confidently, I don't think she'll next you. Just next time be certain about your logistics - where you ramp up to see IS where you should have sex.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:07 AM
1

Wreaks of race consciousness
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:23 PM
7

I've been told to try to take it slower so she'll be less hesitant By who
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:22 PM
1

Cause they're level of value depends upon competition not providing direct value to other guys. A bit dated now, but when I was starting out, these were called 8s on the Tao of Badass
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:14 PM
4

Elab for OP
/r/askTRP09/10/18 03:26 PM
3

Been through same situation. Be stoic. Have the frame that displeasing you goes a long way - you will remember their transgressions. Try to get along with the greatest superior.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:00 PM
2

Lol OP, if you're not the top 10%. Day game is actually much easier (and effective).
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:45 PM
1

He's probably the kind that exclusively goes for Asians
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:25 PM
2

Well I've been reading for years now. My SMV though can be improved
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:12 AM
1

How long have you been using TRP techniques for game? I'm curious if we'll always have doubts
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:04 AM
1

Agree with advice on focusing on cold approach
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:42 AM
3

This is true but most AMOGs here will just say "hur dur AWALT"
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:21 AM
1

Thank you, greatly appreciated
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:42 AM
1

Hmm. I wonder how context dependent this is. I can see certain types getting 80%+ number closes. The number close seems far easier for the girls I'm targeting - but could also be the way I'm framing my approach. After all the final stage is what matters
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:22 AM
-1

Where works better for you, and where worse?
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:00 AM
0

What you have an excel sheet or something
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:50 AM
1

Smart. Never saw it that way
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:12 PM
1

Implying
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:08 PM
1

Done
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:58 AM
0

Some links? I do find some of his Iron Laws now contradict mainstream TRP ideas
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:29 AM
3

Yea OP lmao. You're golden to her
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:25 AM
2

I'll add that OP can try day game too. Bonus points if someone from your school knows you day game - you'll be extra valuable to the guys, and intriguing to the girls from other schools. They'll be like "what's this engineer who isn't a beta bux"
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:55 AM
3

You prob need to have the abundance mentality first BEFORE thinking of status. Have the 'I'm a man, so at a fundamental level I am biologically attractive to women' frame.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:53 AM
2

Find the article about 37 warlord rules. The key takeaway for you is - we're humans with poor discipline even if we say we have standards. Girls can have a cheat meals of easy bangs (which is why even Male feminists get some payoff from time to time).
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:52 AM
2

Looks money status
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:51 AM
1

Ah. Edited
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:04 AM
34

Girls on social media = Guys on porn
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:51 AM
6

Then duh lol. That's the archetypal male role in the 50s and 60s
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:35 AM
5

Do you mean brooding like Marlon Brando and Craig's Bond?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:30 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:23 AM
1

Hey it's you again
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:21 AM
14

Pumped and dumped + Alpha widow OP please find new plates if not you're gonna lose
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:14 AM
1

You're in the young guy mode. Girls will say it's bout looks - but they can be not interested for any random reason. Anyway my rule of thumb is, if you find a bitch hot, she usually will find you amenable. There's some phenotype fuckery there but yea.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:13 AM
5

Damn son. Yea that's a real purple place Well how I see it is, you have enough conservatives to find alpha friends, enough BP bitches for easy pussy
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:10 AM
1

Which city are you in - I think it varies
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:01 AM
1

That's millennials
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:52 AM
2

And here I thought Gen Z were supposed to be more conservative?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:44 AM
1

If it's the econs side I think you'll be okay. Just no sexual economics
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:43 AM
4

Heh. I love Mitch
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:39 AM
4

The only way for an LTR is being beta. Be the covert Chad. Be nice guy that goes animal mode when you're together in bed - be a God in sex, and word will spread (and legs too)
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:36 AM
2

Hey Uncle. Any risk of them playing victim for me taking their virginity? Or am I lumping them with club hos
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:32 AM
2

That said, I don't think I'd have the success I just stated if I didn't do the other girls as well. They were/are part of my process. I'm sold. Anything that is passable passes now
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:31 AM
1

These are the false accusers, and the oopsers. It should be your biggest red flag. Thanks. This is the warning I didn't know but needed. I'll be using your line "There's a couple people I'm seeing" - it has mystery yet shows abundance
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:23 AM
4

Because your mom was in your dad's (or whichever subculture) frame It's like when women vote conservative when their men are alpha chads
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:08 AM
1

Because your mom was in your dad's (or whichever subculture) frame
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:08 AM
6

Holy shit. Great answer
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:50 AM
3

This. Use humor. Another one would be "That's fine tell him I'm gay"
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:02 PM
2

In the laws of power it says think as you will but behave like others. Nah, even before that. Just the concept of not wasting energy on lost causes is a strong enough reason Any tips for learning to be calm and quiet while tolerating idiots? Read up on Cynical Implementation. That would allow you to directly confront the issue while making a joke out of it, yet maintain frame
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:00 PM
3

Could you give your example of a pressure flip in this case?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:56 PM
1

Thanks! Got me hyped
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:42 PM
4

That was such a great fight. I don't watch full championships usually but today was really great - the Lewis fight too was good. Is it usually that good throughout all matchups, or did we get a good day?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:33 PM
2

I watched that. I get your point, but Ferguson is himself pretty confusing even to a guy. His press conference comes off as pretty incongruent
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:23 PM
7

No wtf. A girl is unlikely to just DM you for quite a while at least. Go out with your mates as usual, if you see girls around, you can open them. Just don't allocate 'pickup time' - that's usually not time-efficient if you're on monk mode
/r/askTRP07/10/18 05:29 PM
1

By biology, ALL women's SMV drop after their 20s. SMV = reproductive value
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:43 PM
0

They get fucking FAT
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:35 PM
11

Because safety over risk. Mum only can have so few children. She rather son be STABLE and a loser beta to a FATFUCK hairy wife than he risk chasing some HB9 and potentially get his skull scalped by the village chief. This is all from evolution. This is why fathers (the normal ones - not the modern variant) usually tell their sons to party and have fun while mothers tell them to be nerds and other lame stuff like "dont swear"
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:32 PM
1

Because almost all guys have inner beta genes and advanced to the next stage of the gene race by bringing others down. Most people are mediocre betas not pussy-slaying chads
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:22 PM
2

It wasn't even really a neg - I just said I guess I'm young when she was kinda shook that I turned up 5 years younger
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:19 PM
3

Exactly. Many guys not talking about the hideous monster line. I can lower my standards sure, but I think practising with some of the uglier girls doesnt really work because mentally it's like talking to another dude - no fear/excitment at all, just lame routine running
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:48 PM
1

Nah not for bragging rights but I mean.. girls who you actually have to think of another to get your dick up. Those you don't even feel excited to go out with
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:46 PM
3

Normally, when a woman expresses an insecurity, I recalibrate with a minor compliment unrelated to it. Well this was new to me
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:37 PM
1

Aite man. Target practice time it is
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:28 PM
1

If you saw my other comment, I KNEW it was wrong - I just didn't snap out of autopilot in time
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:23 PM
1

Yea I dont mean sorry like that. It's joking
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:03 PM
11

Thanks. I was too caught up in the usual negging frame. How's this as an example: "Ah sorry I'm too young, care to babysit?" (Context is girl is the softer kind, not ball-busting hottie)
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:44 PM
28

Feminine imperative - women stand by women first (they can't empathize with the male perspective too)
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:24 PM
6

Hey it's that guy
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:20 PM
2

This is VERY helpful. Thanks, for not just sharing the link but giving us a background
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:07 PM
3

Any recommendations for daygame?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 12:23 PM
8

Eh. Maybe she is the one who overvalues her SMV
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:59 AM
22

Scarcity mindset
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:57 AM
4

I know it's about guys. I've been in that position before
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:35 AM
1

Well maybe it's a demographics issue. Just saying, it might not be your fault. Harsh fact, but Westerners (especially Anglo) when travelling usually are just there for the gram or 'wanderlust'. Maybe they don't care for the authentic experience
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:32 AM
10

That's not how it works in practice. 8 out of 10 guys will resent your improvement. They are in fact more likely to throw shit at you (saying you're a tryhard among each other) than reach out. Even if your friends are alpha enough not to be like that, think about the subcommunication of intentionally taking the effort to demonstrate you are better - who's frame are you in?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:29 AM
2

Can they see that SMV. SMV still has to be displayed. So you are from Istanbul or working in Istanbul
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:25 AM
9

Bro, fuck IOIs. Some girls never give up any hints until the close. Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/94iw8s/indicators_of_interest_suck_this_is_the_real_way/
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:24 AM
1

Where are you from - we need to know the context
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:22 AM
2

Think you have no choice but to say to take all out. Here's how I see it: If you ask only her out and reject the other 2, she might feel like you lack the social intelligence to make her not look like a bitch for ditching her friends EVEN if her friends wouldn't know. If you ask all out, if she's keen, she will probably make an excuse for her friends to 'not be available' anyway. So ask through HER all of them Girls are not dumb - she'll make it work since y'all hit it off prior
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:18 AM
1

That's sick social cred bro
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:53 AM
7

There is indeed an assumption in the article. What the writer means is that (in his view) men seek love for both their strengths and faults. Women only care about the bottom line score - she will not sympathize or empathize with any lacking he has, even if it is not his fault.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:29 AM
-1

Daft cunt
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:12 AM
1

I wasn't chiding you. Don't think you're stubborn but be aware that being hard on yourself is a step away from victim mentality. You need to realize that most people actually don't have their shit together outside of the redpill community so think of it as a homeless guy spending time learning from a sushi chef (constant improvement, better future) compared to a college guy with a cert but only a future paying off college debts and working in a job he hates. Your start point is worst but having …
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:47 AM
1

Aite
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:44 AM
13

Without game, I managed to get a virgin girl pass that kind of scenario. You know a lot more than what I did then, so I'd say it's highly workable. Tldr: Yes stay the course
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:11 AM
1

Shes not choosing, I'm just looking for a smooth way to get her to come while not putting pressure by having something I would do myself anyway
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:03 AM
1

Implying women are happy to have 100 betas compared to 1 alpha
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:01 AM
3

Ouch man. I actually kinda feel bad for her (the part about being alone at 48). Women really are like plants which have to maintain their attractiveness to the gardener and they lose their flowers and their ability to bear fruit some day. As a man, we can always have affection of a satisfactory level so long as we work hard to improve our SMV. For women, they fight time - nothing can help them
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:30 PM
1

Hear, hear. It's tiring that even the men think they have equal sincerity in putting the work first. For another project it's great though, thankfully. The only girl in a 6 member group just asks what I think and just does a check on the reasoning but accepts my leadership. In that scenario women are pleasing.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:55 PM
0

most of them get to regret it later in life Actually no. Most spend their lives hamstering that they just haven't worked hard enough, not that they were on the wrong path. That being said, the mentality to go with the herd probably does provide some evolutionary benefit - likely a trade-off between risk-taking (and greater successes) with mediocrity/stability. So, perhaps some are really better off following the system.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:11 PM
1

Aite man
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:08 PM
6

Have you ever wondered why so many successful entrepreneurs and CEOs give out good advice for free and sometimes even offer great opportunities to people that are seemingly below themselves? Once they have adopted this sickening work ethic they found less and less people alike. So if they see someone with the same potential, they just want him to succeed. Because it gets lonely at the top. This is the first time I actually understood this. Great work Cant empathize with crabs in bucket mentality…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:07 PM
3

You're probably ahead of the curve. And it scares them - the fantastical ideas you're actually able to push to reality. Remember, it is always the unproductive who say that innovation is fantasy.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:53 PM
0

Nice projection, too bad your vision is myopic
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:47 PM
0

Muh scarcity mindset. Go on with your trigger phrases. You can't read context
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:29 PM
0

I explained in another comment - they are throwing wrenches at my social game because they can't take that I reject them while opening to their better looking (and more pleasant) friends. Because hive mind + fear of social ostracism it is increasing the costs I have to overcome in social game
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:19 PM
0

Over-reading. She got real keen last we met, just need to push further instead of waste time Also, trad advice is always err on action instead of being too passive.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:17 PM
0

My bad. Meant to say, given theres no classes for 2 weeks, I cant insta-date
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:09 PM
0

If a girl is still unsure if she's interested, would she turn down if it has to get her to travel
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:57 PM
1

You must know that men can suddenly become a success exponentially. There isn't such a thing as you're 26 and you can't be a much better guy than most 30 year olds even within a year
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:43 PM
1

Was talking about your pol sci If you're really about what you want, you can learn MUCH more with online resources and books then in a fluff course in college - you wouldn't need a paper to feel it's legit
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:40 PM
1

I'm not outspoken. I just do things socially like a MGTOW when it comes to women I'm not interested in - zero investment.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:24 PM
3

25 years later? How old
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:19 PM
1

Think of the uglier and shorter guys. Those who you cant shake their frame and dont seemed unnerved when around you. Realize that frame then is internally chosen
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:18 PM
1

Why are you majoring in stupid shit
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:47 PM
2

We need more update posts like this. I understand the reasoning is to not let field reports run rampant on the subreddit. I found that Discord is a good tool for follow-up for those who want to know more about background. Our Discord is at https://discord.gg/jEJw6T
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:42 PM
3

in their minds This is key
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:40 PM
1

I just restarted so I'm not sure yet if my new learnings haven't gotten closes. Anyway open invite to the discord: https://discord.gg/jEJw6T
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:08 PM
4

If you can get them to follow you and watch your stories - you can build emotional investment without talking to them. Just like singers and MVs
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:05 PM
3

There are better alternatives to spend your time
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:04 PM
2

It worked for me on Day 0
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:02 PM
0

On mobile now but look up DiCarlo's pyramid.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:02 PM
2

Most are foreign workers, local born is few, lifetime births per woman is less than 1. Also there's only 3 main universities, and so knowing just 1 more person in each faculty means you quickly have a mutual friend with most people To put some context to the scenario, it means for most girls you daygame around your age, you're likely to see mutual friends when you exchange IG
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:53 PM
1

By social contagion I mean, if you fuck up (actually not really fuck up - but just incur any girl's wrath through breaking up with her or ASD), it spreads easily. Individualism is a creeping concept here - the bounds for normalcy are really narrow. About the numbers, it means in 80% of people out there have at least a mutual contact with you, 95% have a mutual contact's mutual contact. http://www.vodkaster.com/breve/kevin-bacon-n-est-plus-le-centre-d-hollywood/6381
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:44 PM
1

I live in a city of 5mil. But there aren't many young people though. Social contagion is real if you're doing social game - I dare say 80% of people are within 2 degrees of separation, 95% within 3
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:39 PM
1

I didn't downvote you but 1. Makes sense ostensibly, but if they're close enough to be of use in this sense, their close enough to be in the dont shit where you eat sense Yea I don't mind helping out - used to, too much. But if you help they usually take it that you're a provider - cant win with such people. My first point is these aren't even worthy girls - I dont mean in the sense that game wont worth on them. I mean, engaging them would just be risking being seen as having low standards or ne…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:34 PM
1

I'd rather just skip the game. The Asian game has far more conventions than worthwhile
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:30 PM
1

Sounds good, sadly it's mostly them asking on text
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:29 PM
4

Collectivist society - social game doesn't work as well when you're not at least looking like you follow the conventions
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:29 PM
0

Over-reading. I barely talk in that class
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:24 PM
2

FYI providing us with your own personal scenario Most common: Being in college, there are girls I have no interest in (as friends or plates). They're usually pissed (because entitlement) that I disregard their calls to get me to help them with their projects/assignments. Because 90% of guys suck it up and help them AND I do not provide them with alpha resource (they are nexted for their tantrums like trying to go cold shoulder for me not helping), their hamster says that I'm selfish and arrogant…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:00 AM
3

I'll wait for a more experienced poster - but my opinion is it depends on your persona. Yes, you can get the social proof, but if it's girls from your social circles instead of daygame, it takes away the mystery or might look tryhard if overdone
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:52 PM
5

Amen. Was into MGTOW because on principles they are the true way to avoid 'losing', but I realised it wouldn't work for me as I do like having femininity - willing to lose some
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:44 PM
3

To tag onto this, OP it's like how in some subjects you're happy you pick things up easy, in others you don't. Just be happy that you can learn to score in this part of life. Many never get the chance to even hear of TRP Anyway, open invitation to our discord channel: https://discord.gg/jEJw6T
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:39 PM
5

Not even that - this nigga skipped the sidebar itself
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:48 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:07 PM
1

Alright man but do I change topic and escalate or build on this?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:48 PM
1

Nah. That's not the scenario. I'll provide further details. I negged if she actually takes good camera shots (she's in the school's photography club) or she's just LARPing with Instagram. Then she started saying about how she had to return her uncle's expensive camera because of extended family arguments - she starts saying about how her mum and dad act at home too. So, I just want to know given she opened up (she's an introvert - the kind that talks very little even with female friends), how do…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:26 PM
4

Her: "I have a boyfriend" You: "I have a goldfish" Her: "???" You: "Oh, I thought we were talking about things that didn't matter." Gold
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:34 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:31 AM
1

That being said, in class there's not enough time to talk to build the comfort/rapport to ask her out for coffee - some element of ASD too given I don't talk to them deeply enough
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:13 AM
1

You don't communicate your intent through words; you communicate it through actions and experiences (i.e. kino & escalation). This is ace. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:03 AM
2

Stellar
/r/askTRP03/10/18 11:53 PM
1

I'm stating the present not what I plan to do
/r/askTRP03/10/18 11:38 PM
2

If you're East Asian, pump stock of Kpop fanatics.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:29 PM
3

Anti-slut defense. Glossary of sidebar
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:26 PM
1

I'm giving a brief touch in more socially taboo spots (thighs mainly) then small touches on wrists when I feel like it's a high point. I'm trying to get kino to spark curiosity since it's rare here except between lovers, since class setting doesn't give space for talking much - I only get a 15min break between 3hr marathon sessions
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:15 PM
1

People don't have sex there? Where did all those people around you come from then? Lots of people are having sex lots of times all around you all the time. Our birth rate is the lowest in the world. 1 child per woman, that's when our Muslims have 4 usually to bump up the numbers. Genuinely most girls in college are still virgins. I know it's unfathomable for Westerners but yeah, we're like an even sexless part of the world than Japan. I've been doing the one close brush thing - tap the side of h…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:56 PM
1

I'm in Asia - MeToo isnt really known (thankfully). The usual context is sexless people (really people don't fuck a lot here) who don't get much touch especially in social settings.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:39 PM
1

Hit the nail on the head for me
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:30 PM
2

Thanks I'll keep this in mind. Anything in particular for college context?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:55 PM
1

Howd you know OP was from Greece
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:09 PM
3

Damn. Glad to see reference to the DEER. DARE, OP DARE
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:39 PM
-4

You joking me. Trump was handsome even into his 50s
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:26 PM
2

OP better know it's not genetics - he's just the exotic foreign bang
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:49 PM
1

If you'd need a community to chat actively, we've opened a discord at https://discord.gg/CKXzbg
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:16 PM
1

I am literally from SEA LOL Most thai girls are meek as shit compared to ANY European
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:13 PM
2

It's genes, tropical environments breed people high in openness and extraversion. Thanks for the sci-fi
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:37 PM
1

By 18 This is cultural
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:02 AM
1

Yea.. for me my parents never really cared either.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:19 AM
1

Anyway thought abt it again. Day game HB7+ to get the reference experiences (all girls have the same patterns) as well as ego boost from sex. But strictly social game HB8+s
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:10 AM
2

Aight
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:59 PM
2

Thanks man, this helps me understand well
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:57 PM
1

How competitive is the top 20%? The fabled 20/80 rule Are they largely made up of dudes into self improvement, or a number just have the traits (looks, money, status) with not quite the alpha mentality
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:56 PM
2

I made one. Am PM-ing invites because I don't want bots to flood/other shenanigans
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:07 PM
1

From past experience (most of my exes pre-TRP mode), all of them who are like these have easily gave a large part of their heart for you. I.e. they really loved you a lot. But anyway, yea, you'll have to wait OP. If you show you're still on your mission and not really bothered, high chance they'll come back to you. It was her first relationship wasn't it?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:58 PM
2

"and as of the moment I have zero female friends" Are in working or in college? I'm really curious to how social game works with no female social proof
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:38 PM
4

Don't fucking sell yourself short. It will fuck with your game mentally. Yes sure with shit game you'll probably fuck up most of your initial opens with HB7+s even if their initial attraction is high. BUT you will quickly improve as long as you come back here, check on every mistake you're not sure about and go back into the field and do it better again
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:09 PM
6

Lol dude. Same scenario happened to me. I was a pageant finalist in my college, and when I settled for 5s guys fucking hated me, girls probably were just thinking meh, what an unconfident guy. Go for the 8-9s. I'm not sure how that would go socially, but yea never be seen as settling.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:05 PM
2

OP please go approach. Just one. Even just do it without the intent of getting her number. If you dont approach you might not have the momentum. You actually can waste years by not approaching.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:57 PM
2

Depends on where you are dude. Landlines could be house phone and she might just not want you to see the thotery on her IG or snapchat (if those are linked to phone number).
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:50 PM
3

your own mom Don't assume she did much more than just be one half of the genetic equation. Quite a number of men here suffered with weak fathers and selfish mothers.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:44 PM
3

Aite. Thanks for the detailed breakdown. I'm opening up invites for a Discord group as soon as I get it up Edit: PM me for invite link
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:25 PM
1

What's the pros/cons of each? For field report/advice sharing uses?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:17 PM
17

Be angry. That's good. Channel all of that into exercise first. We'll talk about other parts of self-improvement once you feel better brother
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:07 PM
5

Scariest part of pickup are the seconds before you pickup. Everything after that is surprisingly mild - and I'm always surprised by being immediately put at ease that the girls don't chop off my dick with their pocket knife
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:58 PM
3

Same
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:56 PM
1

That's true about the relativity of standards. I left the rarity info there to try to give people a sense of what standards I mean, e.g. HB8 is about top 10% here. I can frankly say, given 80/20 rule, a guy needs to be minimum top 10% to be the best option for the girl so yea. I was overseas in an EE country recently and it was actually fucking easy to get HB8 or HB9 out on dates (no need to pay for them). But I was dicking around really and didn't dream big enough to pull them - probably disapp…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:55 PM
1

I mean. I didn't get laid, it was just blowjobs. So I wouldn't say I have the confidence of recent lays. It's like, playing with a BB gun versus shooting a rifle
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:47 PM
0

Nah man. I was in a toxic relationship - with a 6 that I'd only take bjs because I wanted to monk mode as a college freshman. I only started hitting out daygame this month - thus start of this throwaway account
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:45 PM
3

I actually fucking need to lift man. I realized how much more success I get when I'm wearing my jacket (cant tell my arms are skinny)
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:41 PM
1

I flirt with all the women in my life. No one gets offended because I'm not actually trying to bang the girls I'm close to. Flirting is only as weird as you make it. Alright man, this clarifies things
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:38 PM
16

Badasses don't get approach anxiety. Even RSD coaches say they get it
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:28 PM
15

Sidebar really ought to have this perspective. Some incels are just guys who don't try - I myself am terribly guilty, it was easy when I was in high school, why not now?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:25 PM
1

I mean it's more an availability issue as I see it
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:59 AM
-1

Oh. That's pretty litigious.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:45 AM
2

I was posted in a guards unit for 2 years away from civilization, so it's not incel. Also it's Asia, I can say 3 out of 5 guys my age are unironically still virgins
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:39 AM
-2

Idk the laws in OP's country, but speaking in my own shoes, for something to be considered an assault a bruise is minimally required, and if the other party hits back it becomes a minor felony only so long as there is no grevious hurt. A shoulder bump or shove isn't severe here
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:36 AM
-12

Look if you are stronger, I really think next time he does that you should at least shove him
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:54 AM
1

Yea but these are butterface girls I dont plan to bang. Chat buddies that I can afford to not maintain 'game' or escalate with
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:00 AM
2

However, the trap is te frame you're establishing is that of a comedian, an entertainer, and not the king laughing at the jester How about humor that's at her expense. Would that work? Take blowjobs from bitter faces and never give them the prize of full sex with you without tons of non-sexual service from them to you. Nice. I can see that as maintaining standards.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:57 AM
1

Makes sense
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:37 AM
2

Nice over-reading
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:36 AM
1

She is now
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:36 AM
3

6'2" Normal Where the fuck are you from tall guy
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:42 PM
2

Хорошо сказано председатель
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:36 PM
1

I like how you can read contextually that she was indeed an introvert. Without me stating explicitly you read it In fact, she actually switched from doing homework to taking out her phone to play some MOBA probably just so she could take herself off the stress of being approached - she's 18 and daygame is very rare here (probably first experience for her being approached like this).
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:54 PM
1

Ah, he felt they should reward him for being nice + for confident jerks, not insecure betafag 'nice guys' like me It's not complicated: You can be the Nice Guy who complains that girls fuck assholes, or you can be the asshole that women fuck. I get the purpose of having it in the sidebar now, thank you
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:50 PM
1

Thanks Uncle Vasya. I'll take it from the guy used to savaging fair maidens
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:36 PM
1

My point was never about whether they are provided for. My point was always about mentally, do women raised in feminist cultures truly have a high sense of entitlement and thus unrealistic standards, or is it a shit test (in the case of non-feminists). I.e. they pretend to demand the best but actually know they can't command that much
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:35 PM
1

No no. I dont mean the virtue signallers. I mean the unaware plain janes who don't know much about feminism. Who cares brah, just do your thing. This is an intellectual exercise for me, not an emotional thing. I want to know because it would tell us more about whether they are shit-testing that they think men should provide to certain standards, or that they are totally corrupted and indulgent (and thus should be nexted).
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:31 PM
-2

She replied to all my other messages from the same time. God you're dense
/r/askTRP01/10/18 12:33 PM
-1

If you hear from her again You didnt read well then. She replied to 3 out of 4 messages.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:55 AM
1

No not feminism. I mean women raised in feminist societies who themselves might not agree with feminism. Specific example would be bitchy basic valley girl - is she genuinely entitled or she just pretends to think she has high standards?
/r/askTRP01/10/18 07:17 AM
0

Aite
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:19 AM
2

I shouldn't judge based of personality but this is Robert Greene's wife: https://vgy.me/09Foqf.jpg
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:57 PM
7

Not really. Because a high value top 20% male will produce tens of times more than a bottom-rung runt. Yea you might get lots of kids but if most are without dads you'll have society-wide cases of knife/gun crime like seen in ghettos in US/UK.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:23 PM
0

You know what. Unpopular opinion perhaps but fuck Robert Greene's Art of Seduction. Me and my friend read it together. Greene is good for 48LOP but even here his issues with consistency of theories and definitions clearly hurt any sense of a system.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:20 PM
5

They run away?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:18 PM
2

I found one I like more than the others I won't say what you know is on all our minds Anyway. I know I know emotionally it hurts. But THAT'S the shit test. It's meant to feel like shit. You like fucking her, then better be the man with a strong frame that deserves to have her as a toy
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:18 PM
2

Yea you're right - I'll deal with the target. Although her friend keeps investing and asking me about myself - I feel like I want to give her an outing to let her prove if she's fun worse quesadilla. Haha I'm also tempted to steal that
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:13 PM
1

How bout.. gaming both? In the usual sense of keeping options open until girl invests
/r/askTRP30/09/18 05:02 PM
1

Thanks man. Avoided torpedoing myself.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:20 PM
1

Clarify for me here, so dread requires extreme vested interest by the girl on the guy?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:08 PM
-1

Fastest shift is actually other forms of online media. Use Youtube, heck even Wikipedia. Trust me the instant stimulation would be even more powerful than social media. Fight fire with fire
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:49 PM
6

True. And even that doesnt work outside of western culture
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:39 PM
4

TL;DR - Is social proof the most important factor to work on for long term RP success with females? Large part depends on your society/subculture. Collectivist ones yes, I would say social proof is easily 5 times as important as even something as crucial as frame because girls are afraid of getting outcast/blacklisted even if you're a panty-soaker. Individualistic ones no. Is it possible to be RP and have alpha qualities while being a lone wolf? Yes. Look man, most psychopaths are peak lone wolf…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:27 PM
2

Find a different healthier indulgence for now. Exercise if you aren't doing, go out with friends.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:24 PM
10

To cut it short. MBTI is NOT based on true Jungian definitions - the definitions are redefined by Briggs to sell books and for intellectual easiness. It is also NOT legitimate, only popular, just as people in China used to use astrology to gauge suitability for jobs in the imperial court. If you want more info PM.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:23 PM
1

I see. She's on exchange from overseas so theres some cultural/language differences to work around - so I really should have made things clear-cut. I'm kinda banking on the 'guy you can get away with banging overseas' thing. Won't be surprised if she has a boyfriend back home
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:48 PM
1

Thanks man. Really appreciate you going through my longass message to reply to each thought
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:47 PM
3

They didn't 'wait' until 300k. Probably had that on their mind for a while - probably someone in corporate decided to push the agenda cause of the Supreme Court Justice circus and this time they succeeded
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:42 PM
3

Thanks brother. Good reading of context, you are right. Very thankfully I only have a single paper (most have 3-4 papers). But. I really should have a stronger purpose beyond girls
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:39 PM
1

Reflecting on it, I had just mentioned the midterms trying to bait her into asking me about the study meeting we talked about. But, that's actually expecting too much forwardness of a girl right?
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:30 PM
1

You're right about me not asking questions. I intentionally didn't cause some guy advised not to - but your reasoning makes better sense to me. The last messages are mine now, so unless she says something by tomorrow when should I message her to revive the convo? I really feel like moving the conversation to Whatsapp/Telegram too - IG has always looked non-conducive to instant messaging
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:59 PM
1

Thanks for the detailed response, highly appreciate it. If she's still not interested, don't waste your time. Find someone who appreciates your attention. I especially like this line, always a healthy mentality I should have
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:35 PM
1

I should pretext that I did already ask her out tonight - she sent a pic of her rushing her project (w google docs and all) with groupmates, I.e. legit busy. I'm concerned about how to get her to the emotional high point to ask for a meetup. Given that she's not demonstrating more than mild interest About the other person - I dk lol. She just said she had someone she was studying with. Could even be schrodinger's friend for all we know
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:20 PM
2

Yea but that was in passing (in person not text), and she said there's someone she's studying with for that too anyway We haven't made concrete arrangements, and I don't know how to bring her mood to that high point when we were together and ask again
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:10 PM
-2

Whatever. You just changed the meaning not just the time
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:47 AM
-1

in fifteen minutes Not even. He thought it was nearby. Im 3 hours away so that line falls flat
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:39 AM
-1

Ffs Im in the opposite side of town. Why would yall comprehend it as being reachable within 15min given its different libraries
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:32 AM
1

Different library.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:00 AM
2

Different library, I should clarify
/r/askTRP30/09/18 09:46 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:18 AM
1

Hmm should I use an in-joke (and try to bring her back to that high of when we were tgt)? Or a cool response is safer. At the event We had already discussed plans to meet up
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:12 AM
2

No. I mean you need to change up the places you're going to meet higher value women
/r/askTRP30/09/18 12:59 AM
1

Aite boss. She sent a reply to my IG story of the event - just a 😍 I don't know what to send that doesnt seem higher investment than a single emoji lol
/r/askTRP29/09/18 08:38 PM
1

Wheres the couple days? It's literally same day
/r/askTRP29/09/18 08:31 PM
1

Ah. You use Tor. I didn't think you'll be under this use case - was giving mainstream advice prior. Yea, I think you're pretty much forced to create a throwaway
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:42 PM
3

Yo dude. You know what, actually if the girl likes you she cant even tell what's funny or not LOL. She just laughs with any attempt
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:30 PM
1

It's not even hard to create a throwaway. But anyway, the IP alone can be traced, having different account is only for anonymity between users, the servers can easily see you're at the same address
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:26 PM
1

I use a 3rd party too. Just go to incognito on chrome, sign in, go to sub, click okay to the quarantine message, and your 3rd party would work
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:15 PM
3

Idk man. I don't even feel keen towards a woman that has someone else's kids out of her vag before. But you do you
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:08 PM
4

Firstly, seeing her bullshit for what it is isn't being cold. It's like, if the charity organization turned out to be a sham would refusing to donate to it be cold? Clearly not. But I know you meant at a broader level. I think it's more like you have a better sense of natural love versus the artificial BP love.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:52 PM
6

If your SMV (and Game) is maxed out, then your limit is logistics Edit: Not sure why being downvoted. Not even a critiquing reply
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:49 PM
3

Yes. OP look at Putin, he's short but has presence. Unless you make it a thing, people don't really hold it against you - of course girls will still shit test it
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:34 PM
1

You're backpedaling. Only now you're talking about these other countries. Before that you read it as US vs third world
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:01 PM
1

And.. they don't even intend to fuck the guy they marry. They are conscious and unabashed about their AFBB
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:12 AM
1

Your argument for not leaving is about the spread of feminism (not my focus) - I am talking about the destruction of Western values like freedom of expression
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:11 AM
1

It wasn't just bad wording on your part. You directly said it
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:10 AM
1

I'm not arguing against AWALT - you keep misreading
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:31 AM
1

If you would kindly read the question again, there was nothing about the US versus third world shitholes - that was a scope you yourself came up with You are severely underestimating how life sucks in 3rd world shitholes Just because you're from Brazil doesn't mean everywhere outside of the West is a third world shithole. Quite frankly, aside from Venezuela, it's the country adjacent to African tier states.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:18 AM
1

Tagging /u/BloodSurgery so he sees Look man. Everyone knows about AWALT. In fact, people here understand that even better than Frame. I don't need every alternate post saying "Buttt AWALT". Find a new trigger phrase Yes I was talking about raising a family in one of my comments. BUT that wasn't even about the women. Haven't you heard of the phrase "it takes a village to raise a child". I was talking about the society to live in
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:12 AM
1

I'm not critiquing your POV. More the logical fallacy of your sentence which said that just cause it took X amount of time to break civilization that it also thus takes the same amount to revert it Also, about genetic pollution. I can get if Europeans feel that way, but Americans were the bottom of the pool of society in Europe when they migrated for the large part
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:32 AM
1

Example of which? ALL comfort tests are failed when you show that you want to replace her
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:19 PM
1

but on the bright side, that also means that it's possible for a society to evolve for the better just as fast Just because it takes a second to mangle a car in a wreck doesnt mean it takes the same time to restore it
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:18 PM
1

You really have a trigger phrase dont you Read again, this has nothing to do with women
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:17 PM
2

No. But instincts compel that they have their standards pegged to the alpha they fucked in their 20s. Men and women have the same baseline happiness - men being evolved to be used to a shittier life. Sure as a man, getting easy sex would be the goal, but for a 40 year old career woman who can't get Chad to commit, that feels like hell even if she can bang 40 chodes off her Whatsapp contact list
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 06:32 PM
1

I didn't say the case studies were wrong
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 06:19 PM
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I would like to hear more from others critiquing OP's POV. Seems like wishful thinking (albeit backed by fair case studies). It seems to take as little as an arbitrary capricious wish for drama for women to set you alight these days, given lack of societal policing over women lying.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 05:32 PM
1

This is a new throwaway account- I was a lurker since 2013, just fixing some fundamentals post breakup
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:17 PM
1

I wonder how many people give up the redpill and continue being BP. I was actually made aware of TRP because a male feminist whined to me about how misogynistic it was
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:14 PM
1

I'm asking in general so there isnt a particular girl, but I'll use the main person in mind to answer your points. if you genuinely don't like a certain girl be sure you know why. What is it about her that's so repulsive? Yeap I know why. And in any case, she is purely transactional, there is no 'attraction' but rare utility for her. Or is it because she reminds you of what you want to be but aren't? I'm only trying to help you Nah firmly not. She reminds me of what exactly I do not like. Opposi…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:12 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:52 PM
1

No I haven't. And it's strictly location-dependent. If you're in the States I saw a thread about it on asktrp from today or yesterday, you can get insurance to co-pay.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:49 PM
1

This is what I meant by moving.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:48 PM
1

That's a good clarifier. Damn, gonna be hard taking the repulsive ones to be adorable cute children though
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:45 PM
2

Okay. Check your T levels first then we'll figure from there
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:39 PM
1

Thanks for the detailed response. I come mainly not from anti-liberalism but anti-statism and authoritarianism, which is really what the liberal movement in the present day is - about having big government stomp out individual freedoms. I come from an authoritarian country so it's a concern of mine - to have my children the opportunity to say what they think in school at least. I'm staying positive then
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:30 PM
3

No facial hair. Are you East Asian? If it's genetic then not an issue
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:24 PM
1

That's cool. I've ever considered moving to the largest city in the South of the States (you'll know as an American which it is - I dont want to state explicitly for anti-doxx purposes). You think it's safe? I eventually want to raise a family and don't want them to live in the liberal environment
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:19 PM
1

Depends on where in the States you are doesnt it. My friends in San Fran, LA and NY are talking bout how much worse it is there. I can understand if you say Middle America is almost entirely untouched. But really that's your context. Unless you say you live in an overwhelmingly liberal city, then I'd like to hear some promise
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:03 PM
1

Is the dealbreaker the shitty economy/pay elsewhere or you prefer Western women too? I'm cool with whatever your preference, just want to know for which of the two reasons non-first-world countries are a no go for you
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:50 PM
1

No, I'm agreeing with you. I do also think that Western culture affords the greatest freedom of lifestyle. Sure, the average Joe has it worse outside of the West. I never said that it's better to be born out of the West. What I instead said was whether you would move. We aren't random people waiting to be born. We would be moving with our wealth abroad, skipping out on the childhood and early adulthood in less developed countries. That's my point. With what you have now, would you consider leavi…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:42 PM
1

All of his points are in line with my premise though. I say without personal insult that I already had those concepts before that
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:35 PM
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Implicit assumptions you're having. Never said I had no purpose. You've entirely missed the point. I'm merely arguing that a financially poorer society can be culturally superior, and more desirous to live in.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:33 PM
2

You would indeed earn more, but anyway it levels out at a certain point, beyond which you don't really need more money to better enjoy your life (unless your passion is wealth). I'm from Asia but was born pretty rich, so I always craved good personal relationships and never had my mind thinking I'll need to work harder to earn (sufficient) money. For me, the extra money doesnt justify living in the culture the West has become
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:31 PM
2

Read again. The girls I talk about aren't targets. Just people at work I have to deal with.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:27 PM
2

I do believe the West in its original tenets is the prime culture. That said, what it is actually today is what matters. In fact, the very reason the West can afford to be as liberal as it is stems from the fact that the West is extremely prosperous and its people live decadent lives. Yes, it is the most advanced and prosperous as an economy. But we are men. Would you sit on a golden potty as the heir to a multi-million dollar empire while stuffing your face with nachos and dick prostitutes or b…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:23 PM
1

Exactly what I needed and which I didn't know before. A year old post from GayLubeOil. It's very specific yet not a classical TRP concept that just by seeing that I know you've really been following TRP and have internalized this principle to be able to recall this as the exact solution I needed
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:13 PM
1

I'm in Asia. But I'll answer that if I were in the US, the culture itself has grown toxic enough that I would take a poorer life if it actually means a better place to grow a family (yeap, that's my ultimate end goal). I'm thinking of working a telecommuting job though, and there's a decreasing gap in economic possibilities between the West and the rest now
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:03 PM
1

That teaches how to deal with them. However, I'm also seeking answers on maintaining frame and dealing with people on my own terms. After all, an alpha would live on his terms - and while subterfuge is necessary to survive in the big leagues, 48LOP endorses a reactive worldview to play on others' frames against them, adjusting to others' personalities to fend off against them instead of being self-focused
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:56 PM
3

Ah. You meant laugh at them.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:34 PM
2

Dude that's just libertarianism with allowances for social democracy to correct for believed negative externalities - classical liberalism really
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:34 PM
1

And play along with their solipsistic views?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:32 PM
2

I'm saying you have libertarian values - whichever you vote is subject to the lesser of all evils at the voting booth. Your vote doesn't lock you in into ideological synchronicity with the candidate There are plenty who voted for Trump or Hilary while not believing in more than half of their policy positions
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:30 PM
3

I saw that but he said liberalism not libertarianism Yea, I think he is unaware of the actual ideologies and what they stand for. Nothing to feel embarrassed about though, many people think they were liberals until they realized their personal values were not the same as what whichever politician they support stood for
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:26 PM
1

Where's that In any case, the values he listed all are classic libertarianism. He might not identify as one, but they are libertarian beliefs
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:14 PM
1

He said he believes in freedom of markets and speech. I don't think his support for Bernie has anything to do with economic policy. Libertarian beliefs do not necessitate support for the Libertarian Party
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:57 PM
5

That's just libertarianism then. Which I believe is the vast majority of red pillers.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:52 PM
6

And If you're responding to a comfort test with dread game, you'd just signed your contract termination
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:44 PM
6

You'll have to specify what exactly you consider as liberalism. That banner has been co-opted to mean a lot of things.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:42 PM
1

I got enthusiastic then I realized there isn't one in this class
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:46 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:39 AM
1

Forgot to say, this is in classroom setting, table mates
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:30 AM
1

Based off on the other poster's comment that you should give a shit once you feel it's wrong: the threshold situation for me would be something like openly showing disinterest when you are talking (after you have given him your attention), like taking out his phone halfway or no eye contact. My current response is not to show I've noticed, but when the person needs something from me I'll act like a stranger
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:27 AM
1

But if a guy doesn't respect you, even if you don't feel anything bout it, you don't even punish him?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:22 AM
38

Damn. We have here a Sherlock
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 03:08 PM
1

Do you lead an interesting life; do you have interests and hobbies you enjoy? Do you share passions with your friend circles, or do you just know them from work? Not as interesting as I'd like. About shared passions, my interests are pretty niche, so I don't have common interests/hobbies with most people in real life (online is easy - but that's outside the scope here) Thanks for the advice. Any more about creating social circles? There's too many BPers here (in college) so it's hard to find eve…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:48 PM
10

Out of curiosity, what part of the world is this language from? Asia?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 02:18 PM
1

What does approachable mean to you? Maybe describe an example situation where you struggle so we get a picture. I should contextualize that this is an issue with my social proof (and circle?). Girls know I'm not here to be their chat buddy and listen to their stories. And quite frankly, it's not like these are girls that I want to bang nor do I find attractive (as people). However, this has left me to be at the fringes socially, not privy to their social circles and isolated. This also means, if…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:14 PM
1

Life doesn't seem lonely for BP orbiters in comparison.. I'll feel it's a fruitless struggle till I get plates I suppose?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:49 PM
1

Thus far I think grades will be okay. Worrisome part is the guy is a beta boy (has girlfriend but on LDR) who is the willing pawn for the girls. Guy is a BP tard and will believe whatever the girls say. Since they have him as the guy who will do the grunt work (while I maintain my firmness), I think they would play me out. Tldr: I tried to go black knight to firmly show I'm not a beta orbiter, but it just is causing their hamster to rationalize that I just suck (instead of me not wanting to put …
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:47 PM
1

Nah it's not 'people' in general, just few girls
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:27 AM
1

If you want some red pill friends join a martial arts gym or go drive a motorcycle. Well I need new friends indeed. If you can't be alone and be happy with yourself Yea I get where you're coming from, but I don't have an irl bro. Hope I can keep this up because as an extrovert it's pretty lonely to not have people to chat with irl
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:47 AM
1

Yea but I feel like I have no real friends in class - I'm the furthest into TRP principles in my life so far, and it's lonely, no guys who relate (most are jealous that I'm growing) and girls I've stopped investing in all the relationships where I'm not attracted, so by Briffault's Law they have no use for me
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:32 AM
1

Could you recommend a resource for escalation?
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:54 PM
3

That's it man. I'm going to lift.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:08 PM
1

Nice. That was a good story
/r/askTRP24/09/18 02:43 PM
2

Aite I'll just ignore then
/r/askTRP24/09/18 02:02 PM
1

Do I reply her messages? Theres 6 of them
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:57 PM
1

Some days as in.. a few days in a row? Or just a day of nothing is enough
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:47 PM
1

Thanks man, hadnt thought much of that before
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:30 PM
1

Aite
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:46 PM
2

Aite boss
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:38 PM
1

She originally takes an hour or two, but now she just replies 5min tops. Do you reciprocate
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:36 PM
1

Would it be better to tease her about her religiosity or just avoid any mention of it
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:57 AM
1

Well I'm Asian, so the culture here is to 'share in the grovelling of misery'. I know they instantly feel jealous when I actually talk about taking action
/r/askTRP20/09/18 04:37 PM
1

Thanks man, this is actionable and helpful
/r/askTRP20/09/18 04:18 PM
1

Thanks for the clarification
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:34 PM
1

When it comes to having that mission - is it good that it is emotional? Passions are emotional in source, but as a novice in red pill concepts I have this trigger that anything emotional should be doubted
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:18 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:06 PM
1

How do you kill the returning beta lull?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:55 PM
1

Nice
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:28 PM
2

What would your approach be
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:18 PM
1

Yea. I get you. I dont mean cut it out as in the people. I meant cut out the desire to show you are your old self
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:05 PM
1

I know it's wrong, emotionally though the pull is there. These are people I know since young. How did you cut it out initially?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 12:58 PM
1

I agree, me not showing interest IS having no game. But thanks for putting it nicely
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:17 AM
2

Yea man. It's a problem. Esp with the age difference with the girls, my natural power position is to be the more laconic level-headed guy while they prattle about their interests. Then I pick on their silliness and instead of it being taken as a real neg, they legitimately think I make good points, and I become like the elder brother setting their shit straight.. like no... I'm meaning to flirt not give advice
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:02 PM
1

Implying it's an active choice. It's more a crutch from personal nature
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:52 PM
1

Tards on strawman. I'm a mature student in college, post military.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:51 PM
1

A 9 can turn into something I can't fuck if she starts running her mouth about equality. this really I found that while traveling in EE. Felt so alive. Truly a feminine woman easily brings out the masculinity of any man.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:03 PM
3

Damn that's good thanks
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:43 PM
2

I'm in Asia so we dont have feminists in the pussy hat wearing variety. More like an entire generation culturally conditioned to think 1) females are disadvantaged in society, 2) work and career will gain them the respect and equal parity with men, 3) women are inherently interchangeable with men, but yea men are expected to clean up after them Yea. But good advice - I'll try to be more accepting.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:36 PM
1

I don't come with the pride of saying I'm doing well. Been trying to calibrate a good balance between letting loose and demonstrating I'm not a clown - so I either end up looking super cold/a hard audience to girls, or become too much of an open book. A common example would be: when teasing I run the spectrum of sounding like I think I'm too good for her, or sounding like I'm trying too hard to make the convo fun
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:31 PM
1

I'm not sure if it's really rage phase either - more like I become a mgtow when I'm around feminists (read: non attractive), but when the girls are feminine only then I wanna play the game
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:27 PM
2

The above is true until because internally they feel that women are above them and these things feel like admitting as much Nah. I grew up without a good mother. If anything, my experience has been thinking of women as useless burdens and mercenaries. (That's not a good frame- but I'm saying, I am in the opposite scenario) To explain further, that's why I have this aversion to making them feel good about themselves. I find it hard to find that they deserve it - it's hard to sincerely qualify whe…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:48 PM
1

Yea like.. the general trajectory of the last 2 girls is that, I hold frame and don't take any shit, but also neg. However, because I dont show any interest, I think when I start building comfort they think I'm just seeking to be friends. That's when they get bored
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:40 PM
1

Thanks. Yea I think it is indeed the lilt
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:10 AM
1

As said, I actually do have a deep voice - was a deep baritone (substitute bass) in choir. But I have bad resonance or something
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:26 PM
0

Yes. A virgin would be good for someone who has waited so long. Unless the girl is hot. Don't settle for average when you've made it so far - if not you'll feel a need to compensate for losing your virginity to someone mediocre by numbers
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:25 PM
1

Sounds like the right way forward
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:14 AM
1

For the record, I disagree with your assertion that direct won't work. I can guarantee that it's because you don't have much value I'm not saying it doesn't work universally and for all girls. I've done it overseas (in the West) and it works well. What I instead mean is that effectiveness (conversion ratio wise) of direct approach is lower than indirect in the culture I'm in - higher ASD and social conformity. You need to pique her interest enough that she ignores her first instinct. As implied …
/r/askTRP16/09/18 08:52 AM
2

Yea it's an odd thing. I used to always chat people up and being an Asian society where even that's uncommon in college, others would assume that these were people I already knew before. I think it helps that I'm considered moderately attractive, face-wise; am a skinny fag lol. But yea, I never saw the importance of looks until recently - it's something that being into RSD, they've actively tried to discount/hamster away
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:13 AM
2

I think I do. But the adage - "Power comes from your ability to walk away" - I think people had the impression that I would always keep the bridge alive, and would permit shit just to maintain friendships. Hence the 'clown game'. Recently I've been counter-acting this by actually actively putting on a serious look (LOL), and this is all quite new to me, cause I've always been the kind of guy who wanted to be friends with everyone and not pick.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:09 AM
1

Sounds like a pro move
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:05 AM
9

Wow
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:09 PM
13

And those who've backstabbed you?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 01:22 PM
13

How about people you've nexted who you see sitting around in the same setting?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 01:05 PM
17

Could you elaborate on how that leads to a 'halo effect'
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:27 PM
1

Thank you for the detailed reply. I'll read soon after work Edit: Haha you sick bastard. Gaming the poor girl for the rep. If you're in a group setting and everybody sees you kino'ing a girl below your league, you're going to hurt your reputation a bit. Guess it's pretty ironic for me. I had/have low self-esteem so I was still felt surprised whenever a girl was interested even though logically I knew I was pulling out the right stops. Like I would kino a 6/10 and the AFC guys who know me would t…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:43 AM
1

There's campus but it's small as hell - like just a collection of buildings connected by a common passageway. Most people just sitting at wooden benches studying lol
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:37 AM
1

Nah it's just about 50 people that think I'm an asshole fuckboy, not creep. But yea you're right about the rep thing, time to be selective
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:35 AM
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How about to mindfuck them and get them talking to their friends about the 'is he interested?' With stuff like small caresses of her arm and hand and intense eye contact. Plausible deniable stuff. I'm thinking like for publicity
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:47 PM
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Great advice, thanks
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:46 AM
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I cant tell which is it man. I dont even know what title would such an article have, link?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 08:32 AM
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Nope, the other commenter got the wrong topic. My point isn't about women liking alpha men. I am asking about how women see each other (other WOMEN not men) when it comes to pecking order.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:19 AM
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Hmm. Look at alpha.m on youtube - he has a vid on voice and masculinity. In any case you cant have a deeper voice per se, just speak in lower tones AT BEST. Side qn: what shit did she throw?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:33 PM
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He must not find me attractive enough To OP: * Do watch out for this one. Sometimes even if she thinks you're alpha af, you might lose her if she thinks you don't desire her
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:17 PM
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Age limit is 16 here
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:01 PM
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Yea, I became a beta then, and I said it because it made me feel good that I was still getting attention despite knowing I was really broken frame-wise. If I had genuinely had an abundance mindset, I would never have stooped to that. I did say those stuff, but she just ignored it. She's not really that vindictive - self-admitted perpetual low self-esteem kind of girl, but the white knighting is real. Like the nice guys I thought I could always count on for some pleasant small talk during class b…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:12 PM
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You're right. But it's weird really - 18 year olds are immature but actually are somewhat aware that they are, but 21 year olds in college genuinely think they 'get' how the world works and think they know more than you. I find the former less annoying
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:58 PM
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Nah it's not campuswide, and honestly I think at least half my faculty cohort (300 people) hasn't heard anything bad about me. If I stayed beta I could really get mauled by it though, because it's an open sorepoint. But I think me going back to TRP principles and holding frame again has created some curiosity by some girls I just met who wonder who exactly I am since I'm not the jolly old kid last semester. I'm increasingly being the guy who people talk about but don't actually know much of. But…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:54 PM
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I got beta-ized by this girl (to level of doubting AWALT) and over months and despite blowjobs (but no sex - didn't find her physically attractive), I opened up too much and vented a few times about this girl over text (an ugly who I was just keeping around for fun). When I failed her shit test and I got mad at her shit, she blocked me and sent the messages to that girl. I don't actually think more than a handful have seen the messages - because I know enough people that I would have been tipped…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:39 PM
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Yeap. You've got the context - I wanna lay low, dust is only starting to settle over a recent scandal (no sex, just stupid enough to let my messages not have enough plausible deniability) Enough of a deal that I finally created this throwaway account instead of lurking. I would say, really work hard on improving your rep at college. It's getting better with time. That being said I think I'm a polarizing figure now, then again those against me are the usual 'crabs in a bucket' guys and 3-5/10 gir…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:15 PM
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America is the world Legal age is 16 here
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:05 PM
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Check out my math? Pretty simple. We have a different education system. America is the world I'm not from America
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:03 PM
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College only has 5k students, trying best not to shit where I eat. Also younger = hotter, and ironically less entitlement here Actually for clarity, I'm just a 2nd year student, but am an older student due to the military. I have exemptions so I'm as good as a senior- but have only been in university for 2 years
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:19 PM
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Age gap is 5 years though
/r/askTRP13/09/18 12:53 PM
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High school starts from 17 here. Legal age is 16
/r/askTRP13/09/18 12:25 PM
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You know the blooming startup founder that sits alone in the cafeteria chomping on his sandwich and coffee while fully engrossed in whatever's on his com - some biz articles or financial news. He isn't a loser, he isn't a chum. Reframe yourself as someone who is ahead of the curve and has limited time for frivolous chatting so you go forth alone - and you aren't afraid. It's really not an uncommon niche.. and it sure as hell isn't weird. Heck, since the post-WW2 era the alpha in popular cinemato…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:25 AM
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I get that she's hot - but any guy that has shit going on in his life and is truly putting it as his mission in life will let her wait for your response. Come on man, all the AFCs are gonna be replying to her ASAP. Don't play the same hand If she truly wants to jump your d, making her wait is only gonna intrigue her more. And make the sex better
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:20 AM
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I would say the ideal is to unleash the hoe in the nice girl tho.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:42 AM
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Thanks brother, appreciate the help
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:01 PM
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Damn
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:57 PM
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That's how I started
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:34 PM
1

Nice
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:49 PM
1

Read about legendary men - and see how their struggles have similar themes despite the difference in background and even era. I'd recommend Plutarch's Lives. Also you're a Gen Z Zoomer, not a Millennial.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:24 PM
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Yea my bad, I agree I gave too little context for usefulness. I only had the 5min break within the lesson. If you care to help me further, here's the fuller context: I was just bantering with her on text She herself is socially awkward + not fluent in English and I can't be explaining every joke so she gets whooshed very often To not seem stupid for not getting it she just says I'm weird for making the joke; also I'm definitely sensing insecurity (I meant the neg), the kind where girl who's not …
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:46 AM
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You can't contextualize
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:55 AM
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What would you do then?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:52 AM
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It's texting culture here m8
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:50 AM
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How's movies at home sound? We've been talking about films so I realized that could be an easy plug (As a matter of fact, every day we text she drops the title of already released shows she wants to watch, so hmm, a hint?)
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:17 PM
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Sounds well-adjusted. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:40 PM
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Asking means not doing I am a lurker since 2013, now I've decided to ask questions because I realize I don't know what I don't know. Sure you might not have questions but I'm always thinking how to get better and I sure as hell appreciate the advice from others not know-it-alls
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:30 PM
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This is the champ answer
/r/askTRP10/09/18 11:50 AM
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Right, I thought you meant how as in how does that work. Nope. I didn't mean these are women I chase, nor do I mean they are a target to attack. I simply mean antagonistic girls, if a girl stirs fake news about you, ignoring wouldn't seem right. How would you punish that? I was asking about how would you do that, so it is amiss that you redirect that back to me
/r/askTRP10/09/18 11:42 AM
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Good point
/r/askTRP10/09/18 09:05 AM
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Asking abt degree of kino = advocating for 0 kino
/r/askTRP10/09/18 08:23 AM
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Joke whooshed on me Yea, trying on the amused mastery frame given she was junior to me back in high school (knew each other existed but never talked because different years - three years gap - she added me on Facebook before though because I was a predecessor in the same club)
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:48 AM
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It would be like Russia
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:08 AM
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E.g. Our TRP Sidebar advice from 48LOP: Law 15 - Crush your enemies totally If a girl has committed her reputation to be against you, when should you ignore and when to punish? I wouldn't believe that ignoring works more than 80% of the time
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:31 AM
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Reward good behavior. Ignore bad. Not referring to this case but when do you punish bad instead of just ignoring?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:50 AM
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You need to be less vague. I can't see why a guy wouldn't genuinely love his woman - it's classical TRP that men can love women unconditionally
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:16 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP09/09/18 02:49 PM
2

Hey man, I'm an Asian too, same position with naggy mom - but in my case she cares even less. I suppose you would want to hear from a guy who gets the culture we grow up in (how owing your parents a living as well as seeking their approval are the norms, not the exceptions) My advice is don't dig the hole deeper. Call every week still but don't expect her to ever care (women look for fast and safe results, they don't appreciate nor are able to empathize with chance-based stuff like musical endea…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 02:21 PM
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She's just not attractive enough (to you). Next or just think of her as a potential bang. NEVER get in a relationship with a girl that doesnt get your dick hard. That's the surest way to oneitis - because you're going to rationalize that you love her for her personality and when looks don't matter, the whole sexualization of the relationship goes out the window.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:29 AM
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Not odd - remember social context matters to women insofar as it let's them rationalize to others. They care solely bout intent whether they realize or not In your case, even if it was out of place to ask for her number, so long as she doesn't feel judged by others for it, she would see your intent of hitting on her, and consider if she wants it or not.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:27 AM
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I mean haters not in the cliche sense, just a noun for people who are antagonistic. Hmm, if anything I am being very transparent in my dealings - I would say that's where the NNMNG would help
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:23 AM
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if they initiate be slow to respond and be busy What if the girl asks "which day are we meeting?" Do you wait a day before replying?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 01:51 AM
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I want to keep it broad - I don't know what I don't know. I want to hear from a diverse set of first time experiences, so I kept the qns just those simple 2
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:35 PM
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I'm fishing for started from the bottom stories, or (what seemed at that time) lucky breaks. Stuff like, chased girl who you didn't think was interested but actually you did it in the end
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:29 PM
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It could be that she is one of those girls very conscious that she is shit-testing so she cuts it out now that you have 'proven' yourself. It is a mark of a high value girl actually, girls who usually date the best guys dont shit test as much on average because they know it's detrimental to what guys think of them
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:03 PM
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Thanks man. Have a mission/direction and show drive towards it, got it
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:06 PM
1

Yes sir
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:04 PM
1

Aite mate thanks
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:04 PM
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I was raised to be upfront and honest, it's a real kicker to find others were not brought up to such standards. Feels lonely when 90% of the society I find myself in is dishonest or has 'crabs in a bucket' mentality, sometimes you guys are all that I have
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:37 PM
1

Okay thanks! Will keep in mind when I head out next week
/r/askTRP08/09/18 01:16 PM
1

Shit man, I look good but have shit game then. Number closes are easy peasy but most approaches are fizzles out without a close t. Am pageant finalist in college
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:53 PM
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Cause I want to get my fundamentals right and see if I'm assessing the situation right. Come from beta background so sometimes cant tell if I'm being fucked with or not
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:55 AM
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No lol. That's overthinking. Literally just enter class, pass him the food then forgot about asking him since he wouldn't have cash anyway We've known each other for past a year in college so it's not the first thing on my mind to ask for payment
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:46 AM
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Aite. Yea I know but high school is weirdly from 17 to 18 here
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:53 AM
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Unironically, because everyone uses card here. Common custom is e-transfer after
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:53 AM
1

I'm sure being a sailor is one of time's oldest manly professions. Wish you all the best and longevity in your career
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:59 AM
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This is the answer I needed, thanks
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:51 AM
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It's nice to hear of your case - I grew up spoilt by a rich nice guy provider dad. Also working to make that same turnaround as you. How's life on a ship? The difference in your social life must be immense
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:51 AM
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Damn. Thanks for your sharing
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:42 AM
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For those of you from the low middle class, how did you stem that feeling of want from being a scarcity mindset? Because it's a common trap /u/BuckNekkid18 /u/humansallthesame
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:27 AM
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I passed him during class break, didn't remember to ask until after class
/r/askTRP08/09/18 09:24 AM
0

Entrepreneurship or Debate/Law moot club
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:36 AM
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Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:24 AM
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Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:13 AM
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Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:06 AM
1

Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:00 AM
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Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:59 AM
1

Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:58 AM
1

Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:57 AM
1

Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:57 AM
1

Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:57 AM
1

Okay unfortunately I think I've botched my social rep in college. Not that I did any particularly fucked up thing, but that I offended quite a lot of people (almost solely girls, because of the above ignoring - like I would just stop texting on anyone I nexted, and they would get pissed) How does one recover (aside from time)
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:55 AM
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Thank you brother
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:16 AM
1

Hmm I could be being beta but I should clarify - it was a list of numbers on a clipboard kind of survey. Shes not asking for work stuff, just playing along with my banter (which has run on long enough for me to just ask for the date). Of course the long wait is possible risk of BP though I did say then that I wasn't interested in buying her shit + that I would drop the call if she did call (not a neg but because I dont want to buy shit.) Yea but if it's the case that she would instantly follow u…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:09 AM
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I can take you saying I'm BP - but which parts? No she didn't suggest the time. It's just I told her I want to go to a cafe and she asked when I'm free next week Should clarify, I didn't get her number that time - didn't ask. I guess she got bored 3 weeks later and decided to pull my number out and text me. Edit: Oh wait you meant beta provider and not blue-pilled. Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:44 AM
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Thanks. Antagonistic girls and guys. Girls who throw bitchfits behind your back because you don't let them have their way over you (I don't play the 'nice guy' game, if I can't stand a girl's demanding nature I just don't talk to them except strictly for work). This pisses them off and their hamster works to convince others you're bad and not they are spoilt. I really need advice to deal with this - cause it fucks up a lot of my socializing. Guys would be your AFCs, who are beta orbiters that wo…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:42 AM
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I'm in an Asian society - so collectivism is pretty close to Japan levels, and freedom of association isn't really a mainstream belief (i.e. super blue-pilled where people genuinely think there is a right sort of behaviour). I need to know how not to fuck up my rep or keep haters down. I'm leaving the country after college - networking with business leaders would be more important than college people.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:24 AM
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Read better. My point was nothing to do with sexual ability
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:29 AM
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Aite. But if they chat on my whatsapp, just play along? Context is I'm at college
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:52 PM
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See my new edit
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:48 PM
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Was in the loo. Specific usecase: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9dgayy/i_have_a_female_roommate_and_i_know_she_likes_me/e5hgdyk?context=3 Girls who can fuck up your social rep by ignoring their interest and turning them away due to salt
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:45 PM
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E.g https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9bvma0/got_a_couple_of_female_orbiters_how_do_i_make_the/ Girls who chat with you and stick around because you've proved your reproductive fitness. You tease them and flirt with them but you don't actually want to bed them - like friendzoned females
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:35 PM
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Idk man. I'd love to find out. The context is I'm in Asia, and is common to have the quiet girl that doesnt socialize. I've seen her phone, she barely texts and only has her clique of middle school friends on chat, otherwise it's all sch msgs. Pickup is near non-existent here too, day game is actually unheard of for 80% of the population. So I really dont think she got snapped up - would like to be the one though
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:30 PM
1

shy ones always seem to have the most sex You mean presently or once you bag them?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:23 PM
1

Yea it's just an opinion
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:21 PM
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I think every guy should have 1 virgin just to know what it's like. Satiate that curiosity then see if it's truly what you want Some dudes actually need to feel needed first as part of the un-fucking from blue pill upbringing, so maybe have a clingy girl first then progress
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:42 PM
1

Learning to fight What style you do?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:27 PM
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Cause I don't expect the guy to be on-call so I ask some FAQs?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:27 PM
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Comprehension Bruh. I didn't say she said she was busy. It was a scenario
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:26 PM
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Always be pushing for the next visit through your texts What if she says she's busy as part of her cautiousness? If it's cause she's scared instead of not interested, withdrawing attention seems uncalibrated to the context? That depends on how easily you break through her frame. She's very cautious. So she's just hard to open up instead of disinterested? Because her body does give away IOIs but she is visibly conscious of her words
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:06 PM
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Thank you for the advice. How much longer to pull (presuming girl is a virgin at 21 too)? In weeks or months? more like a father figure Funny that you mentioned this. She really opened up and lightened her mood when I treated her like a child that's tagging along as opposed to my traditional negging Also!! Is text game okay then? Because I dont think she feels comfortable enough to go for a date yet, I might actually need to build comfort through text
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:08 PM
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Yes sir!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:48 AM
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It's not alpha v beta per se. And you've got the focus wrong. They are not hated as individuals but as the cultural movements they represent. There are 'alpha' leaders who are praised (Castro, even if he is a machiavellian authoritarian whose politics I disagree with) - it's simply due to political agenda. China has a based leader and is praised by the liberal media when in contrast to the anti-globalist Trump Tldr: it's that weak malleable cultures have an ethos which is prime for exploitation …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:03 AM
2

And your suggestion to escalate is??
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:58 AM
1

Thanks mate. the bottom 50% of men in my university are absolutely ridiculous Where are you located? Country wise?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:27 AM
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I don't think she's crazy just introvert that doesn't really have a clique to be around after school - she just goes home and plays mobile games lol
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:45 AM
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Hmm, because whenever her attraction wanes (I.e. this week I think she's on the PMS mode) I choose to spend that time advancing on others, I dont want her to think she's the only option. She doesnt really know my social circles so she has no visible indicator of my other (mere handful) options.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:44 AM
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She's a project mate in college, I value her at a 7/10 without makeup - low maintenance + could use a main gf (dicking by the side). Im not committing my time to texting her, just putting in a bit of verbal game each time we sit beside in class and go get drinks. I see it as minimal effort for a moderate chance of success. She's probably not been in a relationship (at least in years if not ever) and is probably a virgin. Some context, it's Asia so it's not that she's a prude, just that a large %…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:10 AM
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I'm starting to wonder if he ever was a man to begin with Don't attack your provider, you aren't a woman.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:01 AM
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Remember this, it's not how much you value her but how much the market does. I realized pretty ironically that going for girls who you don't find attractive is actually HARDER than the HB8 or 9s. On the contrary of being a betaboy and pedestalising her, she might have thought that you didn't really care enough - your text is too cold (less attractive girls need more stimulus of interest to feel secure). Another thing, consider if she is not really your taste. I haven't seen her ofc, but could be…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:41 AM
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My mantra is always "be firm". Theres more detailed advice out there but technically if you're firm, you dont even have to go into explaining why you do certain stuff to others. I'm a recovering lapser from beta-ization, so I can say what's helping me is knowing that the Golden Rule can still work - you can still be a nice guy without being a chum. Think of Gordon Ramsay - sure he's fucked his boss's missus before but that's the past. If what's told online is true - he sincerely tries to help ou…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:29 AM
2

Thanks!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:08 AM
1

Implying It's just a want to chit-chat
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:56 AM
4

Upvote for curiosity
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:50 PM
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Still reading but first of mate, you wanna block out your face first? You know in case of doxxing
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:20 PM
1

Exactly this. I found it helpful to just drop contact once her PMS was impending then start building tension from period till ovulation. That way she thinks I was taking it easy and being abundant when I flirt but don't ask her out for one-two weeks. Then when her own enthusiasm from her horniness really maxes out, I take her out and then her libido makes it an easier day out than at any moment. Ironically, the fertile ovulating woman is much easier to game (since she is programmed to want to fu…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:40 PM
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Like?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:35 PM
5

Ain't you Mr Know-it-all
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:51 PM
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It's not a resort - you have a reflex of stating optimisation comes from lacking. I'm sharing when it's more opportune to do certain things. It's simply smarter to deal with her more when you can get stuff. I'm juggling a double degree and I find it saves time and effort when throttling back on investment when the cycle fits
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:51 PM
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? Worrying, that's projecting I literally wrote this while sat on the toilet Also, the cycle-shift hypothesis is neither rocket science nor avant-garde. It is the natural consequence of biology. Any guy who has had a LTR in the past will have had the same patterns, more knowledge isn't bad
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:35 PM
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it's not hard to be the 20%, just don't be average and nice I know getting in the top 20% requires an overall approach, but what would you say are the fastest actions/changes a man can take towards getting there if he is a bottom 80% chum? For example, fashion sense is faster to fix than getting buff
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:32 PM
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Trust me, she’ll know what she did wrong. you’re technically rewarding bad behavior by giving her more attention in effort to fix it. That's a great clarification
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:59 PM
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This tells me that you have 0 plates I didn't say I had any though, you misread Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:50 PM
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That's an insightful sharing man. I think newbies are prone to root for a favourite plate, it's only natural. And if they cross any boundaries, next the ones you like just as you next the ones you’re luke warm on. What about maintaining frame and passing her shit-tests? Say she wanted to see if she could get away with something and it 'crosses your boundary', you hold frame she knows she fucked up. Couldn't you take her back in at this point, of course while decreasing your investment while sett…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:46 PM
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Would you say the girl discounts the broken frame as time goes on, or she starts to forget about it?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:40 PM
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Interesting.. because I would say all the uglies who chat with me would consider me relationship-worthy
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:54 PM
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Because a slut is a slut and a whore can’t be domesticated. Can any girl even be truly domesticated in the first place?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:06 PM
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Just to clarify, you mean if you're in a friendship with a girl it means she considers you relationship material or that you are providing for her as an orbiter? Because I recently noticed that girls only keep alphas they are open to being in a relationship with and betas who provide her with resources (can be help or even connections) - there's no 'friendship' for the nice guy that doesn't have something for her to dig
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:05 PM
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I don't mean accent, but lingo. I think the nuance here is that, where I am, there are two main languages - English and Chinese, and there's varying proficiencies here. I think closest comparison would be if I were a Hispanic that speaks English at home but has to chat up Hispanic girls who speak Spanish - what do
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:23 AM
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Thanks brother, this was actionable and helpful. getting a GF under certain conditions(Following TRP LTR tenets) just to have one This is how I feel now. I genuinely think my quality of life and drive dropped after I became single. I'll follow your advice about advancing the relationship with this girl while gaming on the side
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:07 PM
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