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| 3 | Liberal feminism has turned women into doormatsIt would be a super interesting thought experiment to make a post with the roles reversed then compare the comments on each.. this poor woman is so indoctrinated she is actually gaslighting herself.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | A few days ago someone posted a tiktok with the first verse and the full song was finally released yesterday!! I’ve been jamming all day! I’d Rather Die - TRAMP STAMPSUltimately there are only so many chord progressions & combinations that some songs are going to sound like other songs, especially when they have a specific genre they are going for.. I appreciate that you said that even though you don't like the music, that the message is important :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 12 | Please forgive me for breathing!A major red flag is a guy saying that all of his exes were crazy.. what is the common denominator there, my guy? After kicking my last ex out (who said that about his exes), I realized I'm actually a super rational, level-headed person who was made to feel crazy after months of abuse. Of course I yelled at him & behaved unlike myself, what sane person wouldn't freak out when they have their entire reality called into question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:29 PM |
| 7 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).I died when he said "I like these artists because they sound like me".. the FUCK? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 10 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).He is an extremely popular creator on tiktok, so he has massive influence, & he is telling his millions of followers to not listen to a song he doesn't like, because the message is to not fuck guys who treat you like garbage.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 15 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).I don't even fucking know, shit's fucking whack.. so exhausted with this nonsense showing up on my timeline.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:24 AM |
| 40 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).HAHAHA the funniest part about all of this is I'm the fucking BIGGEST music "douchbag," I can tell you the date & time almost any fucking band started in their parent's garage, but I don't fucking hold it over people's heads. You want to ask me about bands, beautiful, I'll talk for hours, but I will NEVER, EVER rip on a kid for getting into music, shit's fucking embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:19 AM |
| 27 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).THAAANK YOOOU. is it so fucking hard, is it really that hard to just accept that y'all are finally seeing the culmination of womens' frustrations in the form of music?!?! what THE FUCK ELSE is music even for aside from communicating in lyrics a human experience?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:14 AM |
| 27 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).preach preach preach 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 196 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).I followed* this creator on tiktok for basically as long as I've had the app, & they have always posted strictly music content, which i liked! They made good content in the past, I'll own up to that. But, they have been pretty silent over the last couple months until they posted this. I honestly don't even know where to start.. not only does he downplay these womens' experiences with SA to the point they wrote an entire song about it, he goes on to recommend "real" female artists (in his fucking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Straight up she has some of the best advice I've heard so far, I've been watching more of her videos & it's really apparent that she knows what's up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Yep, apparently all my exes magically wanted marriage & children after we broke up, super weird.. I was a "cool girl" though who also magically changed my mind about those things while I was dating them.. I was so deep into being "child free" with one ex that I actually called little kids "crotch goblins" (ugh.. so cringey).. I love all of my little cousins & my niece & nephew, kids are fucking rad! But I needed my exes to pick me, so marriage & kids weren't even close to being on the table for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Oh my goodness, I was skeptical based on the title, but she delivered. Everything she was saying is 1000% true. I was a wife in every aspect except name for four years to my last ex, I supported everything he did with fierce abandonment & still had dinner ready for him at the end of every day. I was his maid, cook, therapist, & sex toy, & he never even MENTIONED he wanted to marry me, in fact he said he didn't want to get married in general because his parents would "ruin it" (but surely I could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:10 PM |
| 47 | We can't just vet the men we date, we must vet the men we befriend.I saw a post recently from a gay man who was just so sad & shocked at how many times his girl friends put their guard down as soon as they realized that he was gay, & he lamented about how wonderful & caring these female friendships were & how straight men are truly missing out because all they want to do is stick their dick in women. Don't get me wrong girl, my only guy friend is my HV dad, & that is not changing, no exceptions, it just fucking sucks that this is where we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 88 | How does a woman go from cheerful and carefree to overworked and boring? So hard to understand. Such a mystery. /sI just saw this post on all & i was really hoping a screen cap showed up here.. luckily one of the top comments is telling the dude to fucking HELP HIS WIFE RAISE THEIR CHILDREN & DO HOUSEWORK, but i have little faith that the OP will take it to heart, these types of men will do incredible mental gymnastics to justify that they aren't the root of the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 9 | Defining GF and Wife BenefitsI went through a super messy break up, not just in the sense that he was a narc cheater, but that we had a shared lease/electric/phone/internet/insurance, you name it.. it was months before I was finally able to get him off of everything & cut ties. We were together for a year before moving in & I thought that it was plenty of time, but now I will absolutely not be moving in with anyone unless there is a ring on it. He can stay at mine & vice versa while we are dating & during the engagement, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄There is a reason gift giving is considered a love language. She literally told him her specific love language & he decided to choose an act of service, because that's his love language, then went on a 10 page essay on why his love language is superior & hers is materialistic. Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 13 | The men who “get it”. Saw this on a thread where a woman was love bombed by a guy for 2 months and was instantly ditched after they spent the whole day having sex for the first time. Scrotes are mad at him.This is borderline sociopathic. Imagine spending 8 weeks intertwining your life with another person with the goal of having sex for one day & then never talking to them again. That is totally depraved. I'm assuming because the term "love-bombing" is used that it wasn't casual chatting either, this dude was methodical. Good example of why we constantly need to vet, although if this dude waited 8 weeks, I bet he would've probably waited 12 which is a little disheartening.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:16 PM |
| 3 | PSA! This has always been accurate for me 😂The height obsession with guys has never made sense to me. I have used three different dating apps & on every single one a guy has something like "6' because apparently that matters" in their bio, however I have never once seen a woman put on her profile any height requirement outside of (probably faked) posts on r slash tinder. I'm pretty fucking certain that women in general do not care that much about height, I am extremely short & I have dated guys anywhere from 4" to 1'6" taller than me. Wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else watch American Gods (Starz)? Character Mad Sweeney sums up why men like anal sex:Whoa whoa whoa whoa, you've got it so twisted. First of all, she was inbetween contracts with Disney, so she was not fired, her contract was simply not renewed, & it had absolutely nothing to do with "not putting pronouns in her bio", it was because she posted a picture of jewish people being beaten in the streets by nazis on Instagram, then went on a long tirade comparing the criticism of conservatives in america to nazis committing genocide on jewish people. Edit: Also, "bowing to the ideology… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:01 AM |
| 33 | Why do some men feel entitled to aim way out of their league?If you look at my post history, this is exactly how I felt about the stalkery guy. He is at least 5 years younger than I am (which at my point in life is kind of a big gap, I probably wouldn't even date a guy more than 3 years older than me & I'm closer to 30 than 20), he is not only overweight, but straight up morbidly obese, he is not conventionally attractive, & doesn't really have a personality outside his job description. I know this because he was my former coworker. Meanwhile I am already… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else watch American Gods (Starz)? Character Mad Sweeney sums up why men like anal sex:Bill Burr is a small, balding man who clearly never got enough attention from anyone in his youth, especially women, & one day it clicked for him that if he yelled loud enough & told misogynistic jokes that other small men who don't get attention would laugh at him. That's his whole career. I love comedy, I watch TONS of standup, I have never made it more than 15 minutes into one of his sets before switching it off. Iwatched him on hot ones (because I like that series) & he was just fucking mean… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 12 | Stop wasting your time with crows.Yeah, came here to say this. Corvids are incredible creatures, some have the intelligence of a 5yo child, while eagles, especially bald eagles, are notorious carrion feeders & all-around kind of trash birds.. it should honestly be the other way around. I've spent a lot of time around both, & crows will actually band together & defend their families, eagles could care less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 10:23 AM |
| 15 | If men are "biologically" attracted to teens, they need to stop being teachersI'm really curious to know how many women here were taught by a man in middle/high school that ended up being involved in a sex scandal with a student. I definitely know one, taught at my middle school, didn't teach me but did teach my sister (one year younger). He ended up running away with a girl who he taught in middle school (in my sister's grade) as soon as she turned 18, god knows how long things were going on for them to peace as soon as she was of age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..oh my gosh it was so good, so luxurious, my skin is still so soft even a day later! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)There is literally no medical or physical way to tell how many partners a woman has had unless she has had children, & even then you would only be able to definitively say that she has had sex (x) amount of times depending on how many children she has. These dusty scrotes think that they have some super power where every women's number of partners is floating above her head like a goddamn sim character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..hehe my house still smells super floral this morning :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..oh my word, it was, my mind went away to a hot spring memory, it was so healing to do this for myself.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 08:15 AM |
| 64 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..Just got out! Have you ever taken a bath so hot that when you put your head back, & your ears go under water, you can hear your heart beat? Then if you get up too fast it makes your head swim a little? Like that. I feel absolutley phenomenal.. definitely helped to completely clear my mind of all the stressors I've been going through lately.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 47 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..I've always wanted someone to do this for me, but this past year I have realized it's worthless to wait on someone to come along & do all the things you've dreamt of, I have been dating myself, & I definitely know what I wanted this valentine's, so I got it for myself! No one treats me better than me! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 62 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..goat's milk, olive oil, & some natural dyes, that's it 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:30 AM |
| 111 | I bought my 7 yo daughter chocolates and flowers, so no dusty ass will impress her with cheap stuff on vd.My mom did this for my sister & I! Best valentine I ever had in my whole life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 4 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.If he leaves me alone after ignoring him, great, if he continues to text me I am going to say "I have communicated to you multiple times that I do not want this type of attention from you. You have repeatedly disrespected my boundaries & your behavior is not acceptable. Do not contact me again." He's manipulating me in more ways than one because we have a lot of mutual friends, & he knows if I tell him to leave me alone, even if he doesn't say anything at all about it to them, I will assume he h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 3 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I've already decided to just ignore him.. I could've said I'll come meet him (he lives 15-20 minutes away) & then just never show up & ignore him, but I don't know, that might've made it more likely for him to come "check on me" incase "something bad might've happened". He treats me like some wounded little dove who can't take care of herself, that's why I'm so paranoid that he will just show up, he definitely thinks he knows what's best for me. I let all my important people know what's up thoug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Men really have no fucking idea how threatening they seem to a vast majority of women. I know this guy well & I'm freaked out.. if some dude I went on like two dates with randomly showed up at my house my first thought would be "well, I'm getting Richard Ramirez'ed tonight for sure." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 10 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I live in a single-party recording state, so i'm just ignoring him for now instead of blocking incase he texts me asking if he can stop by so i know to book it/pretend like I'm not home if he decides to do it anyways. You story sounds horrific, & I have a bad gut feeling about this, so I let my sister & best friend know what is going on, so if he comes they will be able to corroborate my story or physically come over, it just sucks because this dude is ruining my night & could potentially ruin 2… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Haha I just have a cheapo android so it's not "smart" enough to have that feature.. I got them green speech bubbles homie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.yeah, you're right, I guess I'm just frustrated because this dude BARELY knows me, now he's exhibiting possessive, stalkerish behavior RIGHT when I'm really starting to heal from my previous relationship.. now my anxiety is through the roof because of this. I'm going to hide out in my house (I have a spare bedroom not viewable from the road) & if he comes I am absolutely going to call the cops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I sent him one text, I didn't phrase it quite right based on some other advice I recieved afterwards.. i was trying to find a place between "oh thanks for thinking of me but no" & "leave me the fuck alone", I guess my text leaned more toward the former, but I wanted to be clear I was not hanging out on sunday. He texted me back, I just checked it (I'm on android so no "read" receipts) & it's even more gross. I'm ignoring him from here on out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:42 AM |
| 20 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.yeah, my gut is giving me a flight response. I told him I think he was wrong & i am not going to hang out with anyone on sunday, but someone below said that's still too nice.. uuugh.. I know I should have said "I did not make plans with you, stop contacting me", but I still need some deprogramming.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.you're right, & every woman who is saying to just text "LEAVE ME ALONE" is right too.. at this point I'm ignoring him. all of this makes me super anxious & I revert to "doe" behavior because I grew up with a toxic father, so I'm always putting people's comfort above my own. I am not planning on texting back, if he keeps pestering me I might consider texting that, but another person above said to just ignore him for six weeks, which is the plan. I don't think he would be violent or crazy, but he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 4 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I replied a few times above but I did firmly text him that we did not have plans, I tried to pick the most grey-rockish phrase I could think of. I'm sure he was going to bring like roses & chocolates & teddy bears in a "grand romantic gesture" like you said (he bought me flowers on new years & dropped them off by saying "hey I'm in town right now & have something to give you" I wasn't really sure what to expect but this was before he started being really creepy so I was still naive to what he wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 7 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I actually have two different locks on my door & I have a spare room at the back of the house where I can chill for the night with the rest of the house lights off.. I'm also going to move my car down the street so it's not in the driveway.. unfortunately all my girlfriends have plans with their boyfriends/fiance, or don't live in town because of the pandemic.. I don't think he'll be that bold, but I'm taking precautions that night just incase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:47 PM |
| 8 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.My mom was always my valentine, but she is 3 hours away :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 13 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I am sure he's a predator, after I posted here & with the help of this thread I've been able to identify just how slimy this is because I keep piecing together more sketchy stuff. it sucks but i have a spare bedroom at the back of my house that I'm going to chill in for the night, & I'm going to just turn off all the front lights & move my car & pretend like I'm not home.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 11 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.The worst part is that he knows that I am on medication for anxiety because he was my friend (i thought) & i am open about normalizing mental illnesses like depression & anxiety to my friends, & he knew that my meds sometimes have the side effects of making your memory a little hazy, so my first reaction was immediate panic, my stomach sunk, I was like "oh no, what did I do, I wouldn't do that, would i??" & I started scouring all of the messages in the conversation then went & checked my call lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 6 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I replied very similar to this, but slightly less polite.. I said "I think you're mistaken, we do not have plans on sunday & I do not want to see anyone on sunday." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 15 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I did this, I texted him back saying "I think you made a mistake, I never made plans with you on sunday, & I do not want to see anyone on sunday." I can see that he texted back and from the preview it seems like he wants to reschedule, but I'm going to ignore him like another post said.. my plan is to just turn off the front light & snuggle up in my spare back room with a big comforter & do homework/watch movies.. it just sucks i have to hide in my own house for fear of this dude just showing up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:29 PM |
| 75 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.This is solid gold, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 08:12 PM |
| 25 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Oh that's a good point.. there's always the receipts.. we all used to work together & i was just excited for our job to open up again & see everyone but now there's this big rain cloud hanging over it because of this stupid thing HE DID. I have pretty bad social anxiety & that's why it's such a bummer, if it shakes out bad, if he shows up & i have to call the police, it'll just make my mind race about what people are thinking before I'm able to give my side.. he knows stuff like this makes me an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 89 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.As serious as this feels right now, this was genuinely funny, thanks for the laugh :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 60 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Yeah I let one of my girlfriend's & my sister know.. the volatility is what I think a lot of the commenters are missing (my fault, I always go to humor when I'm uncomfortable), but yeah, this is genuinely sketchy to me, & I have a long (I thought) friendship with this person, so it's a little hard to just "b/d/m-o" because he's not some random person I matched with, more like someone who knows me well, knows where I live, has issues with boundaries, & aggressively trying to date me.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 64 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.It just sucks, I have to be the person who has to resort to calling the police because I block him for being a creep & he does stalkery bullshit because he clearly has no boundaries & then he goes & tells this story to all the rest of our mutual friends, knocking out another circle of friends.. I didn't ask for any of this & he fucking won't stop even when I tell him "no, stop doing/saying that, no I do not want to hang out". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 11 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I explained in the comments, he was a mutual friend of my ex's and mine (met him when we were together) & he knows where I live, I am afraid he will just come over if I block him because he clearly has boundary issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:30 PM |
| 87 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Normally I would, but he knows where I live & I get a very bad feeling he is the type of guy who would just show up, now I have to be so mean that he leaves me alone & get painted as the bad guy in our mutual circle of friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 84 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I explained in the comments, he knows where I live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 173 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.This dude was a mutual friend of me & my ex's for like three years before we broke up, we all met through a mutual interest & have hung out quite a few times so he knows where I live. When he found out that we broke up, he started laying it on thick. This really hurts me & really sucks because I lost a lot of friends in the break up & I thought he was someone who would remain my friend. NOPE. He was just waiting for us to break up. I told him in no uncertain terms (almost verbatim) "I am not goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I am not a piece of candy, and no you cannot “try me”For arguments sake let's say that's 20 different women (there are far more ethnicities than that I know, but bear with me), AS IF any man could have sex 20 times in one day, but something is also telling me that with a fantasy like this, he probably can't even get it up for one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 18 | This is enough to make me never want to date again 😨Don't you understand, he has "dark humor", a lot of people just don't get it.. that's okay though, not everyone can be a rick, some people have to be mortys, it's just how it is.. /s Seriously though, it does look like a salvage (another user explained it well), so while this dude probably didn't put the sealant in the exhaust, even suggesting to do that as revenge is beyond vile & evil.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?I'm sorry he chooses not to see that you also have a lot on your plate, I know that people in general can be pretty self-centered but a lot of men disproportionately think their problems are more important, it sucks that he doesn't feel remorse or even empathize for wasting your time for a whole month. Time is so invaluable & he disrespected yours, just forget about him, there is someone who will prioritize you despite everything that they have going on in their lives, like you did with him. He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:32 AM |
| 65 | What is an early sign of LVM behavior that makes you drop someone REAL quick?Cancelling a date the day of or even the day before, for any reason. They are testing their boundaries with you to see how much you will put up with, just block, delete, move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 27 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?when people tell you who they are, BELIEVE THEM. he is flat out telling you, as many other women in this thread have said, that you are not an important thing to focus on right now. Block, delete, move on, & whatever you do, DO NOT respond at all, with anything. he knows exactly how he is hurting you right now, do not degrade yourself by sending him a pleading text to help him understand how you feel. he knows & he does not care. this is the exact type of behavior that men do to prompt a respons… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:35 AM |
| 35 | Being dickmatized doesn’t exist. A majority of women think sex with a toxic man is so great because what they’re experiencing is actually trauma bonding. Water tastes like heaven when you’ve been thirsty for days.Same. My ex would regularly withhold affection, would get legit angry if I showed him pda, regularly turn me down for sex, then when I finally got to the point of essentially begging him, we finally would have sex it was always incredible because of how physically starved I was. I remembered a while back that he told me that he always had problems surrounding sex & intimacy with his previous girlfriends, I thought it would be different for me, that I was special, I've figured out since then that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 25 | I struggled to hold my dinner..Scrotes out here with an extra set of lips on their forehead talking about pulling "10s".. get real homie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:11 PM |
| 49 | Men will do anything to make women feel insecure. (Context in the comments)She is really beautiful though, has super charming glasses.. it hurts my heart that she has to deal with this fuckery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.In all realness, you need to make arrangements for you & your children, call your parents, siblings, anyone who is willing to house you up until you save up for your own place. Next you absolutely need a divorce lawyer. This marriage is broken, he cannot redeem himself from this, there is no going back. You have to think of your children, how can they possibly learn self-respect as a girl, or how to respect women as a boy if they are exposed to this type of attitude on a daily basis? Many women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Today I have come to terms that I have chosen and dated losers for a solid 10 years.It sounds like we literally dated the same person, all the way down to the alcoholic mom. She would literally spin me lies about what he said, for example, she'd act all buddy-buddy with me, & thinking I FINALLY won her over, she'd drop stupid drama about what my ex had told her about me. For context, I'm not only pretty into goth/punk culture, I am also an artist, & a very sweaty lady.. black doesn't show paint or pit stains, so I wear pretty much exclusively black for at least 20 years. This s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:39 AM |
| 4 | If you ever find yourself suppressing your need to make gifts...no, you are so thoughtful & i appreciate you saying this.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 10:35 AM |
| 14 | If you ever find yourself suppressing your need to make gifts...Last Christmas my ex & I were really strapped for cash, so we agreed on a $40 limit for gifts. I am an artist, who is trained in crafting all sorts of things, so with my $40 I made an exact replica of an old hat that he loved but it was so thrashed he never wore it anymore, I also made him a leather journal where after filling the pages, you could remove the signatures & replace them with blank ones. It took me forever to figure out how to make the signatures removable without having to tear the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 9 | “There’s nothing wrong with being alone.” - Daniel Sloss - JigsawThis part especially hit me like a tonne of bricks because this perfectly summarizes my last relationship.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 20 | Happy Thursday date-night babes! I almost forgot, but if I can whip together an amazing meal & pick a cute movie last minute for myself, so can literally any man (not that they should). KNOW YOUR WORTH.It is! Tri-tip with a lil blue cheese, & sauteed broccoli with a hint of lemon & some fresh parm. I want to feel better in my body, so I've been cutting sugar, drinking more water, doing yoga, & eating more veggies & lean meat.. it almost feels like cheating because of how good it tastes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:36 AM |
| 39 | Oops....we out here sabatoging nvms, i am so here for it.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:08 AM |
| 89 | Oops....just the smirk & "oops".. ugh, i recieved so much energy from that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:05 AM |
| 250 | Oops....FUCKING ICONIC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | It's thursday, which means it's date night queens!!i forage mushrooms as frequently as i can get out, i'm actually doing a series on tiktok this fall on foraging that featured the mushrooms in this post, & i can assure you they were definitely chanterelles. i appreciate your concern, but it is one of my passions & i'm very knowledgeable about mushies, if i ever have doubts about any mushie i collect, i use a dichotomous key, & key them out three times just to make sure i have the genuine article. my favorites are very easily identifiable varieti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 75 | It's thursday, which means it's date night queens!!Brussels, a mushroom risotto with chanterelles i foraged myself, & a steak topped with the number one cheese in the world, rogue river blue, all to the tune of bill & ted face the music.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I am saving for the exact ring I've always wanted.The ring: https://imgur.com/fSEXcZl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!YES! i am going to do this every thursday. on tuesday i'm planning on foraging some mushrooms, then on thursday i'm going to either make a mushroom soup or a mushroom risotto with chicken thighs, then watch the new bill & ted.. with flowers of course.. i am the type of lady who deserves flowers every week, plus like i mentioned in another comment, i actually do know the florist, she makes absolutely beautiful arrangements.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 6 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!it seems like a lot of ladies decide thursday night is date night, I'm hoping it becomes a thing!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:38 AM |
| 8 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!Wooo! Get it girl! I did some yoga this morning & it felt so good. I'm working on getting the body I always wanted for me, not for any man, for my health, physically & mentally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 2 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!yes, they are, & yes it is shocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:19 AM |
| 8 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!it's kind of seeming like a thing! thursday night date night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 8 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!yeah, for true.. it is scientifically proven that men see less colors than women, to the point that the average mens' spectrum is closer to a DOGS spectrum than the average woman.. not only that, they aren't able to taste as many tastes as women, a man is much more likely to be in the bottom percentage of tasters, whereas most women are in the top percentile.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 10 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!they actually are color deficient though.. i'm a graphic design major & this is something i have to address frequently when trying to design inclusively.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 17 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!women have the best palettes, we are actually often considered "super tasters", as in we actually have a larger concentration of taste buds on our tongues.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 9 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!i actually settled on a lower quality cut of meat because i have rogue river blue waiting in the wings.. two weeks from now i will make another post highlighting my steak-cooking skillzzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 15 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!YES. i am so here for it.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 8 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!it deffo was 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 23 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!why wait for some woman's dusty ass son to buy you flowers you love?? treat yourself to an awesome bouquet asapulous!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 13 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!exactly, i love this specific brand for how gingery & spicy it is, but not gonna lie,i did make a moscow mule or two out of it ha ha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 11 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!steak with rogue smokey blue crumbled on top 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 10 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!awe man, this thread blew up! i just checked after i already ate the steak.. just know i cooked it a medium rare & topped it with rogue smokey blue, it was incredible.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 41 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!it helps to know the flower lady 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 35 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!haha oh my gosh, this is hilarious.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 41 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!Awe man, the steak topped with smokey blue cheese was divine, plus I have a beautiful bouquet to admire for the next two weeks while i grind at work & start up college for the fall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 10 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!My coworker arranged them!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 7 | One of my exes tested me & this was the song they did it by..yeah, this dude also physically assaulted me two years down the line.. i was an ultimate five star cool girl at this point, i see how fucked things were, but psycho killer has a special fucked up place in my mind now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 39 | One of my exes tested me & this was the song they did it by..The story; he was three years my senior, in the coast guard. I was visiting him one weekend & we went over to one of his coastie friends house, drank a bit, but this dude offered both me & my "yet-to-be" boyfriend some shrooms, we both indulged & the last thing i remembered was getting cornered in the breeze-way of his friend's house, with 'psycho killer' blaring in the background, with his "friend" trying to make out with me.. i freaked out, pushed the jerk off of me & ran outside to the alley.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.awe man, i go crazy for chocolate, i love the intense orange by lindt or the orange peel by ghirardelli to get me through the year when i can't have chocolate oranges.. i love Hershey's in the same way i love a McDonald's hamburger, that's all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 63 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.nah, don't get down on yourself for being skeptical, men prove time & time again that they are only ever willing to put in the bare minimum, this is a rare example of good behavior, which he may not exhibit all the time.. the post was meant to highlight a single gesture, something that women should expect all the time, not that this particular individual is a hvm himself for doing this one thing.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 16 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.it actually looks like a california king & she's just being a little cozy bean while she is going through it.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 62 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.I know it's a super low bar, but the fact that he nonchalantly bought the right sanitary napkins, (ie her "brand") & didn't even make a thing about it, plus he threw in some mydol for the cramps.. really cool imo.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 17 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.plain hershey's is one of my favorite candies.. 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 47 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.this haul probably cost less than $40 yet the thought made her whole world in that moment.. just reiterates the fact that "if he could, he would". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Normalize turning your phone off before 9pmsame same. the guy i did this with cheated on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 9 | The absolute energy.Cordial acquaintances sure, but friends who hang out every weekend, or even best friends like the video is saying, that's going to be a big no from me dawg. You are already starting out second to another woman who is not his mother who has already had a whole ass romantic relationship with him. That's a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | I'm making a list.I had been doing this while I was dating a bit ago, but I'm taking a hiatus until we get a vaccine at least.. it only took one or two red flags for me to block & ghost scrotes before, I'm going to work on myself & not even allow myself to get to the point ON A FIRST DATE that I'm picking up red flags. The men I will allow access to my mental real estate from this point moving forward will never display red flags to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | It's nothing crazy, but I've never been treated like this until I found FDS and ditched the LVM/NVM I had been dating.maybe i'm not understanding, beautiful ring & all, really nice gift, but was him sending you a ring through the mail his proposal? it's just that you are wearing it on your ring-finger.. even if i had a long distance relationship, even if it was the perfect ring, i would never accept a proposal like this, & if it's not a proposal i would not wear that ring on that finger like that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Well I mean tree fiddy sounds pretty reasonable, in today's economy I understand that a lot of people are strug- WAIT ONE GODDAMN MINUTE. THIS IS THE GODDAMN LOCH NESS MONSTA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 41 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.People in the comments were saying that a lot of his posts were like this & also about suicidal ideation.. it seems like he is not happy about women not wanting to date him, honestly it seems like he needs to go to therapy, not go on the internet & spew vitriolic, toxic views toward women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 134 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Apparently they believe around $50. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 104 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Oh it is very apparent that the people who upvoted this opinion think that women are purely sex objects, less than human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 134 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Half the comments are that it should be 50/50 or that a woman should pay if she asks the man out.. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 11 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??I shouldn't leave bread crumbs.. I know.. 😔😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 6 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??I already blocked him & deleted my account. I am beyond annoyed at the whole OLD scene, this was the only person I had an active conversation going with & he blew it big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??Yeah, I am still learning.. prior to this he was putting in a decent amount of effort into messaging me, so I almost got tricked, but he is blocked now & my dating apps are deleted. He served as a nail in the coffin, nothing more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:48 PM |
| 18 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??Yep. Block, delete, move on for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:22 PM |
| 20 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??Yeah, I'm starting to understand that now, he was kind of like the last ditch that I was talking to on OLD before making my other post, but now I'm for sure blocking him & for sure deleting my acounts, as he has clearly proven to be a piece of garbage, just like all the other boys on those apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:21 PM |
| 53 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??yeah, you are so right, the conversation was going really well until he offered to "get drinks sometime" which is the only reason i challenged him to offer a time, turns out I never needed to (like you suggested) because he is clearly trying to play games. Block, delete, move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 25 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??This boy & I matched before my last post & I was just continuing talking to him. Well if he can't be bothered to literally come home to his own house (he is staying out at a farm 30 MILES AWAY, but lives in the same area of town as I do) then fuck it, I can't be bothered to give him a reason why he's being blocked.. I told y'all my prerequisite, if he's not jumping at the chance to see me, especially with how convenient it is, he's not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:12 PM |
| 14 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?I feel this hard. Every one of his acquaintances I met had some altercation with him at some point, from small to large, he always had something negative to say about someone who I got on with perfectly fine. That & he constantly belittled my accomplishments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on getting involved with men who already have children?i really do want a family & i've talked with my parents & sister about the possibility of sperm donsorship if it comes down to it & they have all agreed to support me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:35 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on getting involved with men who already have children?i wasn't planning on it, but after this thread it only confirmed my suspicions & i will be sticking to my guns 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on getting involved with men who already have children?thank you lady 😤😤😤 i can deffo wait for the right high value, child-free man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:31 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on getting involved with men who already have children?thank you, i think i posted this more looking for a rational in my thinking. i have been involved in a triangle more times than i care to admit, so this response just helps to solidify my boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:30 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on getting involved with men who already have children?true true lady, extremely valid point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | NVM expects me to drive over 8 hours to "hang", proceeds to neg me.wait but it's just the first name, not trying to be disrespectful, but is just the first name still too much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:00 AM |
| 28 | I hope they pick her.Yeah, in the tattoo world it's called something like "the LA uniform", can't really remember, but the point is that it's used to negatively describe a person who only has tattoos so that people can see that they are tattooed. Any tattooist or heavily tattooed person would agree that yeah, neck, hands, & face are last, with the exception of tiny tattoos like a little star by your eye or a little heart on your finger or something.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 48 | Favorite ways to shut down unwanted male attention?When a man says "come on sweetheart, why don't you smile?" I will deadpan say "say something funny." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:03 PM |
| 14 | If you want a prostitute then just go out & say it..let's be honest, it would be like fifty cents.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:11 AM |
| 1 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟Right? How this guy "models" (lol) is beyond me.. like literally zero muscle tone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟It's the same as when guys put "you probably won't like me", like okay..? Thanks for the heads up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 20 | Has anyone ever dated a man who was so low or no value that he would watch movies or shows without you after you both had planned to watch it together?Yep. I started to watch the walking dead, I've seen about half of it already but it was years ago, he'd never seen it, so I tried to convince him to watch it with me & he showed zero interest in doing so, going as far as saying things like "it doesn't really look that good". So, I just started watching it in the mornings by myself because I like the show & wanted to see the episodes that had come out since I had stopped watching a few years ago. Because of his work schedule at the time he would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.At no point did I not let him know he fucked either, I called him out hard & made him explain himself at each point with a smile on my face. Like "no, go ahead, explain what you mean by that" yet he still kept fucking up! He got way more chances than he deserved, I'm going to do much better next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:57 AM |
| 7 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.I did not even consider blocking him on fb because we weren't even friends, but he stalked me & got notifications that I was online through fb because the service out where I was camping was super spotty, but comes through very intermittently, so while I couldn't get texts or recieve calls for the most part, I was reading pre-loaded fb feeds at night before I went to sleep. He had to have been monitoring me on fb & saw that at some point I appeared to be online.. he decided it would be totally a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 9 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.THIS. This is what I should have done (but I admit my standards are still coming up as a recovering pick-me/cool girl). Block/delete/move on from now on.. I am super proud of myself for not jumping into bed with him right away (my single biggest problem), I definitely feel myself leveling up! Edit: If you look at my last post, he was ABSOLUTELY trying to manipulate me into calling him & chasing him by ghosting me on the phone call date. I can smell manipulation a mile away thanks to this sub 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:33 AM |
| 10 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.I FUCKING KNOW UUUUUGH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:29 AM |
| 29 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.He lives thirty minutes away.. he though spending $10 on gas was "a lot".. LOL 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:28 AM |
| 64 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.LEt Me KnOw YoU aReN't DeAd Or i WiLl BlOcK yOoOuU!" pfft okay psycho. That makes complete sense 😒😒😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 52 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.We met on tinder, he got takeout & we had a social distance date at the park, we got to talking about our exes (I know NOT to do that under any circumstance now), I mentioned that my ex cheated on me with a threesome & he said something like "well I don't know if I could turn that down either", so I should have ended the date there, then a few days later we just met up in a parking lot & chatted while watching the river. Couple days later he scheduled a phone call, then chose not to call me & sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 158 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.Holy shit, y'all called it! I blocked/deleted his number on Friday after my last post then went on a family camping trip into the woods where I had no service. He knew this. I come back to town to find this fucking craziness.. I wish I would've ended the date at the threesome comment, because this is what his true colors are. I will be better next time 😤😤😤 Edit: the second "date" was hanging out in a parking lot watching the river. Didn't even bother to bring food or snacks or a soda or anything… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 14 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?Someone above mentioned not commenting about your trauma, but your point drove it home hard. I am going to be much more careful about revealing personal info like that in the future.. I'm trying really hard to recover & I appreciate that when I post in the sub that y'all are so objective, but also very encouraging.. I deffo feel like a queen in the making haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:59 AM |
| 26 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?Shit dude.. I did not even consider 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?Okay cool, I saw your flair & I was a little confused, so I wanted to ask.. thanks for explaining 😊✌ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 10 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?I'm trying to listen to my gut, & I'm not feeling great about this. I don't think I should be cringing at any of his behavior, let alone on a first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 12 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?You are so right.. I should have definitely kept that to myself.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 3 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?I might be reading this wrong, but do I "get" to have standards? Could you elaborate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 27 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?So we had one date, we talked about expectations, our exes, I told him about my ex who cheated on me with a threesome, then he said something along the lines of "I don't know if I could turn that down in the moment either" so I immediately called him out & he backtracked HARD. This should've probably been my first red flag, but being a recovering pick-me I just let it slide. Then he does this, which I feel like was a test of boundaries & a bit manipulative. I feel like he chose not to call me to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Zero to one hundred first thing in the morning. Also just looked back & realized in all his photos he is wearing a hat, he is probably balding.i almost did just that, but i also felt the need to give him a reality check, even if it wasn't going to stick.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:00 AM |
| 10 | Zero to one hundred first thing in the morning. Also just looked back & realized in all his photos he is wearing a hat, he is probably balding.i know!! i was literally just saying to my sister that i view sex as a practice, like yoga or drawing, & you need to practice with a single partner to get good with specifically them. there are literally no upsides for women to have one night stands, we are complex. i don't know about y'all, but i have NEVER came from a one night stand because they are clueless about my body & there is a lot of porn-ish things that men do that totally turn me off & make it impossible for me to get there. this ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:23 PM |
| 11 | Men really have no idea what they put women through when they are unfaithful.I totally feel you, my second favorite Ghibli film is My Neighbor Totoro, which is a super feel-good family flick, but my first favorite & all time favorite movie of all time (not joking, i have a whole half sleeve featuring san, yakul, & moro), is Princess Mononoke, which is a movie about literally defeating your rage in order to restore peace in yourself.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:03 AM |
| 13 | Men really have no idea what they put women through when they are unfaithful.my friend told me to watch "90 day fiance" to help me feel better.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:46 AM |
| 38 | Men really have no idea what they put women through when they are unfaithful.Thank you, I really appreciate you.. I got myself some icecream & am going to take a nice hot salt soak later for the cramps.. it was just like this whole big deal that never needed to happen if he hadn't been a total piece of garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:26 AM |
| 125 | It's always our fault, according to them"A woman can never be president! Too emotional! She will just start a war the first time she gets her period!" (Meanwhile LITERALLY every single war in recorded history was started by a man.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 4 | I CAN FINALLY GET A MOTORCYCLEI have the best teachers, my own moms & pops, they have instilled a very healthy respect for bikes, I will always be super careful, I kind of have to 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:27 AM |
| 5 | I CAN FINALLY GET A MOTORCYCLEAbsolutely 1000%, I have an incredible respect for bikes, plus like you said, I have a decent amout of experience with them, I fully understand the risk in riding one.. & as I said, my parents are bikers, they regularly ride, & belong to a bike club.. they will be my tutors/guides, what better teachers than my own parents? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...I put two things this time: take me on an interesting (not free) date (re:concert, comedy show, or nice dinner), & my "most controversial opinion" (which happens to be about Star Wars, something that is a traditionally male-consumed piece of media but that I have been passionate about since I saw the prequals as a child..) I KNOW that I know more than most men about the SWU, & it gives me a real good chuckle to see them get shit wrong trying to sound smart.. Just put an interest that you can swe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:46 AM |
| 0 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...It is not your job to sell yourself! You are already a prime candidate. It should be the men who talk, tell you about themselves & try to learn your hobbies, whatever they are.. if you have a cool quirky thing you do, list it, or don't list it, but don't stress about selling yourself to some guy who probably wears the same underwear two days in a row. Men should want to discover the mystical, mysterious goddess that you are.. I feel like you probably have plenty to offer but just don't realize i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 11:19 PM |
| 3 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...I do not mean to say you or incredible_alligator have basic hobbies, my point was more that liking exclusively things that are popular does not make a man special. I did not mean to put down anyone who has these hobbies, just that along with all the popular stuff, people should seek out things that make their heart sing, despite what is popular. Crochet is extremely difficult & is a totally legit & relaxing hobby, I'm sorry someone made you feel "basic" because you learned an incredibly difficul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...• Actively learning a new language • ANY type of art, practised daily • Culinary arts (re: breadmaking, brewing beer or kombucha, learning recipes from different cultures, etc, etc) • Foraging for native plants/mushrooms or knowing the local flora/fauna in your area • Any type of outdoor exploit that requires actual training & knowledge rather than just walking (re: climbing, mountaineering, canyoning, white water sports, skiing/snowboarding, etc, etc) • In-person RPGs (re: Magic, DnD, Warhammer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...hug we got this lady!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 8 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...OH MY GOD. What went through his head to put her through that?? Why not a sunRISE hike so you can come back down in the cool morning, fully lit.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves..."I just came out here to have a good time & I honestly feel so attacked rn".. but no seriously, I used to think that my most recent EX being enthutiastic about oral was a literal unicorn (of course he stopped doing it as the relationship matured). Now I know that a HVM will just do it because it makes me feel good, not keep score, not expect reciprocation if I don't want to, & definitely not leave me hanging after I do it for them (side note: hard pass unless there is a ring, BJs are wifey shit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:58 PM |
| 5 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...For all his other shitty behavior, my EX was actually a guy who was constantly reading & buying new books, like always had a book with him, gonna miss our little library honestly, so I am a much harder critic of dudes who "read." I'm not a big book reader, I like reading complete things all at once like articles, but he had a book for nearly everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 13 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...Unless you are a literal brewmaster, or are in training to become one, drinking fancy beers is also not a hobby. (For the sake of argument) I would not list "drinking wine" as a character trait of mine just because I know you don't pair red with seafood or a chardonnay with a steak, but I would not even give them the credit of knowing how to pair their special beers with foods, just which ones are "good." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:40 PM |
| 10 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...YEP, it's never "I trained/lived in Mexico/South America for X years & I've had the pleasure of learning how to make authentic tacos, maybe I can make them for you one day", like yes, I'm here for that, means you're cultured, well-to-do enough to sttudy outside of the US, & possibly bi/tri-lingual, those are all real hobbies/pursuits. But nope, it's "I know the best taco spot in town, FIGHT ME", like Jesus, okay Jeremy calm down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:32 PM |
| 11 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...It's probably because having a beard is also considered a hobby among men as one other user mentioned.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 18 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...IT'S JUST HARD WALKING, NOT A FUCKING DATE. Especially in the summer, sorry Dustin, not dragging my sweaty ass all over a hillside in the goddamn heat so that you can get out of buying me a nice meal.. if you enjoy hiking, great, I enjoy it during certain times of the year for sure, but it is certainly not a date idea, it is a workout you are doing with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 17 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...What do you mean? I love sportsball. I love it when the team makes the ball go. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 10 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...It was more a reminder to myself that there are more guys out there, that the one I just broke up with was not my soulmate, just a NVM time-waster.. & while yeah, I may never even message any of these dudes, it's hard to stay hopeful that there are other men out there for me during the quarantine when there are quite literally no other humans around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:18 PM |
| 23 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...No you are totally right, I should be more clear, they put shit like "I actually read BOOKS" captioned under a shirtless picture.. like yeah man, I bet you love picking up Fight Club for 15 minutes whenever it rains & they call that "reading books." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 5 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’awe maaan 😓😓😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:54 AM |
| 13 | Factsss"i'm in this picture & i don't like it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:15 AM |
| 6 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i have always purchased physical copies of games, but because of the pandemic & not being able to predict that my ex is a cheating dirtbag, i bought the digital copy.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 12 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:NEW PLAN, blasting nancy sinatra the entire time he packs. especially while i kick my calf-skin boots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:45 AM |
| 43 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:just so y'all know, basically all he has to pack is 95% heavy books & a few framed photos, literally everything else in the house is mine.. furniture, art, appliances, etc.. i refuse to pack his heavy books for him, too muck work, i will be lounging on MY couch (which includes a chaise lounge) wearing my grandmother's clothes, sipping some milky tea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:31 AM |
| 11 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:oh, no worries, i already have, & i will one more time when he gets the rest of his shit (mostly just books) from MY home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:24 AM |
| 5 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:16 AM |
| 5 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:thank you lady, i deffo plan to.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:05 AM |
| 27 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:no doubt.. i will mourn these scotes tonight as i am stabbing mini pickles with a mini fork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:59 AM |
| 15 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:the extent of my revenge will be this outfit. period. it is friday night right now, i will be taking photos of myself on sunday, wearing my bomb-ass outfit with my dslr, possibly catching the scrote packing.. i will post the photos soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:32 AM |
| 43 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:we are planning a rendezvous in the hours before he comes to get his shit, i'm dropping my rare items, cool clothing, & as many turnips as i can buy on that day so all my cool flower hybrids & items don't just have to disappear into the ether.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:35 AM |
| 86 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:GOOD! this situation is very laughable, i was just telling my bff how i was crying over the fact that i will lose my island on animal crossing (the switch is his, it's a digital copy) & all my pokemon (physical) until i get a new switch, yet i haven't spent a single tear on the scrote.. SPEAKS VOLUMNS, NO? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:31 AM |
| 22 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i will make sure to specifically keep you updated lady 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:39 AM |
| 34 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:OH MY GOSH, no way, i am so honored 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 3 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i should've never replied.. the dude was just trying to shame me.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 74 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i wanted to do this originally, but packing up his shit would require a lot of physical energy by me, why not just let him do it while i sit back & watch his sorry, unfaithful ass while i chill in a mink coat & drink milky chai? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:57 AM |
| 39 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:I love y'all & I love her.. if anything he has driven me into your arms, thank you for your undying support.. 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:47 AM |
| 36 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i understand the sentiment, but this would require me expending energy to get him out, when he should be doing his own work.. i don't really want to do any more work for him honestly.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:30 AM |
| 4 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i have angered a scrote with this post, please enjoy as much as i have: https://imgur.com/Dfy1hLH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:28 AM |
| 129 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:YES, thank you.. I had been bargaining with this moment, but I messaged my bff & she said "NO GIRL, NO, it's not worth it, he's not worth it, he already surrendered this moment by treating you like shit, & he will AGAIN, make no mistake." I love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 03:51 AM |
| 15 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:if you have a problem with the term "scrote", then maybe you should first address the reason why the term is used. this screams a "whataboutism" to me.. i think you should honestly re-evaluate your concerns about how women are referring to men with this term, as opposed to why the treatment by women by men has resulted in women referring to them as "scrotes". if men were not consistently treating women terribly, then we would have zero reason to call them "scrotes". if you refuse to see this, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 03:28 AM |
| 87 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:a little eyebleach for y'all, my little lemon witch https://imgur.com/gallery/Tf9VDY0 don't forget about moon boi https://imgur.com/gallery/ZB3yAYP i get to keep these two lil sweeties, joke's on the scrote 😈😈😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 46 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:omg, you are right, i just realized i have posted in mua & fancyfolicles.. i appreciate you so much, deleting my face now 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:41 AM |
| 31 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:I will ABSOLUTELY keep y'all updated, how could I not?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:34 AM |
| 28 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:my late grandma already left me emeralds & pearls, i appreciate the sentiment lady, but i don't need some inflated stones soaked in the blood of poor black babies with very little value to let me know i'm worth it.. but i see what you mean, i will be buying myself some very nice jewelry soon to treat myself (when it's in the budget, vvv broke right now..) the scrote never even understood my taste.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:33 AM |
| 44 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:the market is FLOODED, i will find an amazing man who knows that being a feminist means paying 100/0, not 50/50, because men have been treating us as bangmaids since the dawn of fucking time..why waste time on a man who expects me to pay 50/50 when my lil sis (who is actually working on advancing her career) can move in with me & fill the same financial hole he left behind? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:27 AM |
| 56 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:you get me 😢😢😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:22 AM |
| 72 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:thank you lady, i appreciate you, this is the only place i have posted this photo & i wore sunglasses with the express purpose of concealing my identity.. i trust in our vigilant mods to shut down male doxxing, but you are so right, my identity is so important.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 70 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:LET THE SCROTE BEG THEN. i did absolutely everything right, i was 1000% supportive of his hopes, dreams, & ambitions, i built am amazing home, wasted my incredible cooking skills on him, i waited FOUR YEARS for no ring, i'm done, & i am leveling up 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 6 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:Thank you! I am doing my best 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:14 AM |
| 36 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:i am from the west coast & it is actually very stormy right now, it seems like the stars have aligned 😎 (i would still wear it even in the blazing heat though haha) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 54 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:Oh I deffo plan to, a nice cup of milky chai 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:36 AM |
| 2 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:THIS IS SUCH A GOOD IDEA. my favorite artist is a transwoman & he fucking HATES her music, i will be playing it on repeat, thank you for the suggestion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:36 AM |
| 73 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:Thank you! I will be EXTREMELY vetting any future partner from now on, no sex for three months AT LEAST, letting them pay for everything, letting them court me, letting them speak first to win me. I am such a cool fucking person to know, & not in the "cool girl" way, in the "I have a great sense of fashion, music, I'm funny as shit, I am a successful graphic designer & climbing instructor" kind of way. I KNOW MY WORTH. Thank you for being apart of this sub & affording me the room to grow 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 82 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:Honestly, if it weren't for the absolute, unequivicable outpouring of support I have recieved on this sub & from my close lady friends, I would have never thought to do something like this, but I am so stoked to just sit back, in my fucking mink coat, & watch as this sorry excuse for a man is forced to pack his shit in front of me.. I almost packed his shit for him & was just going to put it out on the curb so I didn't have to see his face again, but then I was like naaaah, you are going to pack… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 60 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:You only get one chance to fucking rub it in their face, why not go out big, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 385 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:The inspo comes from this photo: https://imgur.com/a/vYQzcsR My late grandmother's mink coat & beret, the dress i played my first ever live show in, & my steel-toe calf boots. I will be sipping chai as I watch him pack his his shit.. feels good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm learning...i was so tired last night.. i forgot to crop it, thank you.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:41 PM |
| 5 | I was told to wait, but tonight I had to blow things up.HE'S SITTING THERE, HE'S STILL GOT BLOOD ON HIS SHOES, JJ BITTENBINDER, GO AHEAD & LAUGH. STREET SMARTS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 3 | I was told to wait, but tonight I had to blow things up.hugs thank you so much for your kind words lady 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 11 | I was told to wait, but tonight I had to blow things up.You're right, I will recover. My parents will help me for the time being, & I am trying to get my sister in here asapulous (she has been saving up for the express purpose of moving in while the scrote was on a job in cali for the summer so she could get a job in my town, she'll just have to pay $150 more than I initially quoted her per month, but the plus side is she won't have to house search) & I have a huge tax return that should be coming anytime, I'm assuming it's been held up because of co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 17 | I was told to wait, but tonight I had to blow things up.I recounted what happened in a comment above, but I'm glad I knew enough to trick the guy into thinking I would go to the second location & bought myself enough time to get help.. YOU NEVER GO TO THE SECOND LOCATION. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 29 | I was told to wait, but tonight I had to blow things up.It all was because he was stirring shit, so I took it upon myself (stupid, I know) to pull him aside & be like "hey, hey man, what's really going on? do you need to talk?" & he obviously took this as me coming onto him, because why would a woman ever talk to a man unless it resulted in sex, right? I was just trying to lead him away from the protest that he was delegitimizing. Then the dude tried leading me to a second location, & I was like "hold up, I need to grab my stuff, you go on ahead, I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..thank you, i'm not in cali, but i will look into CARES, i was employed through my university & now it is totally shut down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..rodger dodger, i hear you loud & clear. i will never, ever allow someone to disrespect me in my own home like this again. it's going to be a long road to get out of this, but i will never make this mistake again. it was born out of convenience, out of poverty, out of intense infatuation. i feel like my 20s were wasted, but i won't let my 30s be wasted like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 5 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..i already have a secret bank account, not that he checks my main one, but i do have a safe place to put any extra that i can scrape together.. it won't be for a while though, i am barely making enough to afford food right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..this sub has been incredible in helping me realize that i need to build more healthy relationships with women, not only have i built a new & strong friendship with a woman in my graphic design program, i've also be working to rebuild my relationships with my old besties from high school who i had lost contact with. my phone is broken right now until further notice, but i message them all throughout the day for now, previously i was calling them, i deffo miss my sisters & wish i could hang out & … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 6 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..that is some tough love, but i need it. you're right, 4 years is a long time, too long. i kept rationalizing because i am in college, thinking "well it's not the right time, he'll propose when he's ready, oh he doesn't want to get married right now because he doesn't think his mom & stepmom will get along at the wedding" but i'm a fucking forever girlfriend, that's pretty apparent now. edit: haha i just realized i was allowing the toxic women in his life dictate when I GOT TO GET MARRIED.. fuck.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 02:51 PM |
| 8 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..thank y'all so much, you're outpouring of support means so much, & it has given me not only a lot to think about, but a lot of excellent advice/resources. i will make sure to keep y'all updated <3 edit: this sub is amazing, i'm a newbie, but i am proud to be a member. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:19 AM |
| 5 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..i've been just withdrawing into music & art.. you are right, he is a stranger now.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:49 AM |
| 9 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..I will try my hardest to be strong & silent, I love the metaphor of the "egg". I'm going to just stay quiet until I save enough to leave.. thank you girl.. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:07 AM |
| 9 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..thank you, i did not know about this, i will definitely look into this to try and get some financial aid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:58 AM |
| 23 | I need help, support, advice? I really don't know at this point..sex is 1000% off the table.. the last two times it consisted of him fingering me, then having me do reverse cowgirl, totally devoid of intimacy. he tried to instigate this morning & i just ignored him. i'm not going to entertain his fantasies in his head, i'm not going to be his fuckdoll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Oddly specific but soooooo spot oni was making a general statement & this seems pretty anectdotal. i am sorry for your friend's bad experience, pedophiles are kind of a different animal & are not the norm in dating... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:43 AM |
| 26 | Oddly specific but soooooo spot onGo for drummers instead, they can hold a rhythm, & are always very enthusiastic & grateful . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 04:10 PM |
| 38 | How many other NVM phrases can you think of ?not the OP, but to me the statement implies that in order for a man to be successful in his life (read high paying job with respect from other men, white picket fence, 2.5 kids, etc..), he needs a woman at home taking care of all the minutia of running the actual household (read unpaid childcare, unpaid housework, unpaid errands), & we are suppose to take that statement as a compliment & that it makes us a good, obedient little wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Woman hates men who ask for consentThat's fair, & I'm not saying that things like that don't happen, what I'm saying is that making statements (like A LOT of these comments have) about women expecting you getting their consent looks like "oh is this okay? is this okay? am i hurting you? can i kiss you?" is just not true... There are definitely women like the one in this post, & women who make false rape claims, but the vast majority of us have been programmed since birth & for thousand of years to just be silent & take whatever i… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Woman hates men who ask for consentAlright, so if her body language & mannerisms are causing you to feel fear about being accused of rape, then maybe you two shouldn't be having sex? Because at that point neither of you are consenting, do you see what I'm saying? | /r/MensRights | 14/01/20 01:15 PM |
| -2 | Woman hates men who ask for consentThis will get buried, but I think there is a huge disconnect here with men & getting continuous constent. When a woman (or at least myself & the women I know) expects contunous consent, it doesn't have to been in some meek "is this okay?" way, & not with every moment because yeah, obviously we don't think it's sexy either. Jesus, the comments here decrying women for wanting consent are just as bad the screenshot the post is about. If there is a question of consent, you should know, it's pretty f… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/20 12:35 PM |
| -1 | I like my Popeyes Roasted like this girlDry DOES NOT feel good. Please don't rub it while dry. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/12/19 04:44 AM |
| 3 | High School Counselor sentenced to 11 years and 8 months in prison for sexually assaulting two 16-year-old boys.Everyone in this thread is saying "Only 11? A man would've gotten more." Maybe, maybe a man would've gotten more, but I don't think that people realize that rape sentences are all over the board, & frequently they don't get charged with more than she did. The average sentence is 9.8 years, so here she got more. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Double StandardsThey are 98% effective if you use them correctly. If not having kids is that important to you, you have options. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Double StandardsAs a woman, no we fucking don't. I would love if I didn't have to deal with the weight gain & acne that my IUD causes if my partner was able to instead get the Vasalgel injection. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Double StandardsUnpopular opinion: If you don't want a baby, wear a condom every time. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Double StandardsI don't know what's so hard about putting on a condom. Women should have the responsibility of taking birth control, & men should double up with a condom just incase. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/18 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Regret is not rapeThat's the thing.. man or woman, if your partner is either passed out or drunk enough to not be able to say no, it's absolutely fucking rape. If they are just drunk & say yes, even if they would not normally say yes sober, it's not rape. Just don't have sex with overly-intoxicated people period because A. it's not enjoyable, & B. apparently now people have massive rights to say you raped them. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/08/17 02:28 PM |
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