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Right now is a great time to focus on YOU and work on yourself. Explore hobbies and passions, find friends, work on cultivating your own sense of style/fashion (what supports YOUR level of modesty- not your mother's? what do YOU want to look like?). As you get more comfortable in yourself and who you are you will likely start finding men who are better suited to you and vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 03:35 PM
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I think this jumps the gun a little. You don’t need to be a SAHM/SAHW to have traditional relationship dynamics- you can still want a job outside the home. Not all women (even red pilled women) want to be full time caregivers/mothers. I feel like this post comes off a bit judgemental towards the working mothers assuming they are either jealous or looking down on OP when it kind of sounds like OP is possibly judging them and making assumptions about their life situations more. But tone is often h…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 06:38 PM
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Thin sweat wicking layer followed by an insulating layer (merino wool is your friend). Keeping your feet warm is key. Also your head and hands but I know that’s not necessarily doable inside. Honestly space heaters are very safe nowadays and have auto shut offs if tipped over, timers to turn off, etc. Just make sure you keep it away from walls/other objects and that it’s new and in good shape.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/21 03:00 AM
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Is it possible he’s depressed? Has he always been like this or is it new? If he’s always been like this it sounds like poor vetting, and honestly there’s nothing you can do to change who he is. He has to want it and you can support him but you can’t make him want it. If it’s new I suggest talking about it and seeking medical help (doctor and therapist). If it’s not new and you want to try and address it then talk to him about how you feel being the one to shoulder the whole burden and see how he…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 04:44 AM
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I'm not a parent and never plan to be, but I believe aside from unconditional love and support the role of both parents is to teach your child how to be a functional member of society. Teach them how to process and communicate their emotions and work through them- something that gets more complex as we age. Teach them how to cook and clean, how to set healthy boundaries, and how to overall manage life. Things as simple or boring as booking appointments and doing taxes, these are things many of u…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 06:06 PM
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Anyone else just sit up a little straighter? Hahaha. I’m so guilty of this!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 06:35 PM
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I just wanted to chime in that SPF in makeup doesn’t actually protect your skin at all- you will never put on the amount of makeup required to get the effects of the SPF, it’s more of a marketing thing. I highly recommend adding a daily SPF to your skin care routine! Proper sun protection is the #1 thing you can do to prevent signs of aging (wrinkles, sun spots, etc) and of course also skin cancer!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 03:45 PM
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First off, your health is top priority. With that being said, weight is 80% diet and 20% exercise. If you are unable to exercise I would focus on the part you can control, which is your diet. Weigh out your food (literally everything- cooking oil, salad dressing, etc. It’s amazing how quickly extra calories can sneak in and add up!) and focus on getting the nutrients you need to be as healthy as you can. You can also work on being ‘put together’ to look and feel your best. This can mean differen…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 01:30 PM
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I'm fairly introverted and personally I love to embroider, which is a bit of an odd hobby for a 28 year old but I've been doing it for years. I've recently started taking commissions on embroidering pet portraits and I donate $100 from each portrait to animal shelters. I also really enjoy movies/netflix etc and it's something I can do while watching tv while feeling like I'm accomplishing a bit more haha. I also learnt how to make candles during quarantine which was a little costly upfront to ge…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 09:50 PM
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Personally I just started exploring hobbies that I had any sort of interest in. Do things that you enjoy- and if you're not sure what you enjoy then start exposing yourself to different and new experiences and see what sticks!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 03:14 PM
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Flowy/looser a-line skirts and dresses will skim the area and should work! They are feminine, comfortable, and flattering without showing off too much :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 02:47 AM
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My guess is tretinoin (retin-A is a brand name of this). I started using it at 24 and I’m now 28 and I still get ID’d (drinking age is 18 here). Highly recommend. That + sunscreen!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 03:22 AM
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I love just-above-the-knee A-line skirts/dresses paired with a lighter fabric top (either short sleeve or sleeveless with a light cardigan). Can be paired with cute flats/sandals, wedges, or heels depending on level of dressiness. I've heard great things about Eshakti (but haven't ordered from there myself yet) because you can customize dresses and skirts to whatever length, style, modesty/coverage level you like! ​ I don't have any specific brands/stores I would recommend as I like to buy as ma…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 04:43 PM
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I'm not sure if this will be much help, but maybe seeing a little bit of these "maintenance" things are endearing to him since he knows that you are doing it in order to look great for him and that no one else ever sees you in that state? Of course you don't want to be a total mess- but a little oil on your face as part of a beauty routine isn't anything too terrible! Just make sure your sleep wear and everything else is sending the message you want it to send. As for the food- just praise how g…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 06:00 AM
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Sexual Market Value.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 10:32 PM
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Going to a store like Sephora and tell them you don't know much/anything about make-up and would like some help with a basic routine and I am sure they would love to help you and get you set up with some nice products! If that isn't something that interests you or isn't an option- this is my routine: concealer under eyes (small amount and dab lightly with middle finger to blend) CC cream (I use Peter Thomas Roth CC Cream- got at Sephora) brown eye liner, top lid only shimmery nude eyeshadow (ove…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 08:56 PM
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Thank you, I will definitely be honest with him. I know no real relationship can be built on a false foundation. I definitely have been struggling for a few years with what I wanted in a man/a relationship vs what I was told and raised and surrounded by with my family. It has been a learning process for sure! I am hopeful that this man will be my captain, but if he isn't then I have learned some more useful information to move forward with in my RPW lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 03:14 PM
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Thank you for your reply! I agree I will have to work very hard to show my worth to him. I fully intend to dedicate myself to his pleasure (in the bedroom and out) and look forward to having a relationship that is committed and exclusive where I can do so. First I just need to honestly tell him about my nature vs nurture (as you mentioned) which I think is a great way of explaining how I got where I am today.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 03:10 PM
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I appreciate your reply, but now that I am working on bettering myself I would not be comfortable giving him sex before exclusivity. I will not hide my past however, so then he is free to understand why I am waiting and wait also or he may choose to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 03:07 PM
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I really like the way you worded the talk, and I think using some variation of that will be the best way to move forward. This man came into my life immediately taking care of me and protecting me, which made me feel very...feminine and safe. On the way to our first date I got a flat tire (I was driving because we met online and even though we talked for a month I wanted to make sure he was safe), and he immediately drove to where I was and changed it for me and then continued on our date. He is…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 03:05 PM
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I'm very sorry that happened to you, no one deserves to be cheated on. I am still working out if this man will be marriage-potential, it is still quite new and I am just trying to navigate this tricky area and hope that we continue to see each other long enough to find out!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 03:00 PM
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Thank you, I agree he for sure will be told before we progress to sex. I also plan on being 100% honest and owning up to my past and my mistakes- I just hope we can overcome them!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 02:57 PM
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Thank you very much for your reply, I appreciate it! I sometimes feel like I am a "ruined" woman because I found RPW when it was already too late in certain regards and because of the mistakes I made. I do know that I have to work very hard to make up for them, but this gives me some hope that it can be done.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 03:58 AM
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Thank you! I am definitely going to try very hard to make up for this, both in and out of the bedroom (when it gets to that point). I also don't want to make him wait too long- I just want to establish that we both want an exclusive relationship and have a similar mindset about where things are going.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 02:01 AM
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Mine is a sunbeam and I've had it for a few years with no issues! It also has 10 hour auto shut-off so you don't need to worry about forgetting to shut it off or anything. I find it works best if you make the bed and turn it on and let it heat up under the covers a little. Feels amazing to climb into in the winter!
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/15 04:50 AM
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Not sleepwear, but a heated mattress topper could be something to look into! It's basically like a heating pad for your bed. If your bed is a queen or larger there are two separate settings for both sides so one side can be on while the other isn't- keeps me toasty warm!
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/15 02:02 AM
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I can get by fine on my own, and generally I like being very independent but I am starting to grow-up a bit (like I mentioned, just finishing University) so settling down is starting to be on my mind. And I think even the most independent of us have the desire to love and be loved.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 05:42 AM
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I am genuinely curious about this also! I think the RPW answer is that we should defer to him and trust his judgement, but I'm not sure that is something I agree with. On the smaller things I don't see it as such a big deal to defer and allow him to lead, but on the huge life changing things? Like- what if he wants a child/another child and I don't? Or what if he wants to move across the country and I don't? Or he wants me to quit my job or something? I guess I'm still confused on some parts!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 05:40 AM
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Thank you for this. I guess what I need to focus on is myself and meeting the right man and maybe then I can take some steps towards building that relationship. I suppose my follow up question would be- how do I go about attracting/finding the type of man I want? I have definitely noticed that when a man doesn't challenge me or is too clingy I get bored or disinterested and leave. I just have no idea how to find the type of man I'm looking for!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 05:37 AM
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