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This is precisely why these people can’t get into a decent relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:36 AM
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“Watch my kids all day” you mean parenting my guy? What sort of piece of shit are you? Men these days have no idea how to be real fathers and men. No wonder you just continue raising more and more pathetic sons to disappoint women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:58 AM
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It’s okay! My auntie died about 10 years ago. My cousins are whole teenagers now and doing amazingly! Our family still pays memory to my auntie at all funerals and weddings and we just had a 10 year memorial for her in March. Cancer is a horrible thing but thankfully my uncle isn’t a piece of shit and kept it together for the kids. He is still an amazing single dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:40 AM
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What does the earnings of each party have to do with anything? Especially considering women have to take time off working to recover from birth. If both parties work 40 hours a week, they should both contribute equally to the home. Earning $20k more doesn’t mean the man should be coming home to watch tv, ignore his kids and treat his wife as a bang maid. Also why so emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:32 AM
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The oncologist literally told my auntie to prepare for divorce after her diagnosis of pancreatic cancer. It was like in the whole spiel like “here’s our recommended treatment plan, these are the side effects that you can expect oh, and, also, probably get a good divorce lawyer”. Thankfully, my uncle is a great husband and he’s now a great single dad since my auntie passed leaving him with a 2 and 4 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:28 AM
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I’m not sure at which point I attempted to debate anyone? Struggle with reading comprehension, do we?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:02 AM
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Medium value alright
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:06 AM
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Yeah there’s not even really any red pill takes? It’s just “I hate women” and “why aren’t you rich”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:45 AM
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Most of the men there don’t believe love comes into play at all in relationships. My tag is “Hopeless Romantic” and OH BOY does it get some boys riled up lol
/r/RedPillWives28/07/22 09:41 PM
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I, as a “progressive” (i dont know if that’s the right word??) atheist with some f*minist values, always wonder if conservative, Christian RedPill women would seek out a RedPill man? Considering mens RedPill focuses on spinning plates and other forms of non monogamy as well as often using very derogatory terms towards women. I also wonder how many of the conservative women in RPW view RP influencers like Andrew Tate since he claims to be conservative? These are my shower thoughts lol
/r/RedPillWives28/07/22 09:41 PM
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I love growing up with my husband to be ☺️☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:51 PM
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Checking out other people is not the same as fucking other people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:06 AM
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yawn So miserable and for what? You got a missus you should be providing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:42 PM
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Fortunately, we’re actually not miserable and both give 110% effort to make the other happy. I know y’all are looking for a woman who will do the man’s job AND a woman’s job but mines not lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:40 PM
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Literally all the women I’m talking about also work at least 40 hours a week which is much more common now because of the cost of living. Y’all want women to do a man’s role AND a woman’s role while you sit around on your lazy asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:39 PM
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His passion and drive is generally a massive turn on for me. We both give 110% in the relationship, though. Every day we wake up and try to be the best version of ourselves for each other. All we want is to make the others life easier. We are a great team. Can’t speak for other women, though. Everyone’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:32 AM
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I don’t live in America and this is not the case here. Most people around me pair up with their looksmatch. Sometimes men punch up if they make a bit of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:30 AM
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Hilarious. Glad mine isn’t useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:30 AM
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I mean she is morbidly obese and has been since, maybe, 10/11 years old? I’m sure it’s rougher out there for her than the average man but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:29 AM
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I think it’s simply lack of house training for men. It’s just a tradition that’s carried on as women often took care of the house and men didn’t. My fiancé had no idea how to cook and clean when we first moved in together. His mum never taught him. His sister learned how to, though. The difference between him and a lot of other men was that he was willing and eager to learn so he could help contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:54 AM
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All the husbands I’m referring to are either relatively equal or absolutely punching.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:50 AM
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Literally every one of my friends with kids are also working full time. You know what they say about assumptions…. So, yeah, he is a lazy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:49 AM
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I think the standards for a boyfriend are high but I’ve got friends with husbands that don’t do ANYTHING except go to work, come home and sit on the lounge. No doing things with the kids, no cooking, no cleaning. Nothing. That’s what people mean when they say “the bar is in hell”. I’ve seen so many men get away with that shit it’s not funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:30 AM
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But there’s only one reason they wouldn’t have them fixed - they don’t have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:01 AM
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If they’re weeding out the weakest then how is that any sort of decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:59 AM
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Conservative does not equal redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:57 AM
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Yes oh my god when my friends baby had covid her breast milk turned GREEN. She thought that she had an infection but dr said no it’s because the baby’s saliva has sent signals to the mum when feeding. The milk that baby needed had a green tinge. Apparently, lots of mothers’ milk turns green during covid time! It’s pretty fucking rad, hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:39 AM
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We both get pretty ruffled when we see ScarJo so we’re right 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:16 AM
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What if your girlfriend was obsessed with a man who had a better body, face, income than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:15 AM
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He edited the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:15 AM
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I know what you’re saying but how about I don’t want to know about the things you do with your girlfriends ? This isn’t a sub to talk about sex stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:14 PM
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Dude stop that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:54 AM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:08 AM
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Yep! It was like 9pm on a night out with my girlfriends. Ruined the vibe and I went home early. Also, was during COVID just after everything opened back up. Not very COVID safe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:12 AM
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Never. I’ve been with my fiancé 7 years, though. We’re getting married next month. My whole adult life I’ve been with him so whenever I’m approached I would never consider giving out my number, obviously. One guy did spit on me when I said “no, sorry, I’m engaged” which was nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:42 AM
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She literally did not say “I care more about looks than the way I treat people” oh my god you guys jump through some crazy ass hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:02 AM
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Personality. I can’t change that. If we’re not compatible based on beliefs/morals then we’re just not compatible and it’s no one’s fault. Looks, well… yeah I’m probably just very vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:02 AM
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Yes it’s almost like these men haven’t been in public and looked at the actually average women out there lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:35 PM
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Yes omg I remember when online dating was for divorcees and older women with cats 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:35 AM
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Which bullshit arguments are you referring to re: pregnancy? Again, a man showing he has no desire to please a woman in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:16 AM
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It might have something to do with religion, also. Those who don’t cohabitate are often religious which also impacts decisions such as divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:56 PM
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“I don’t want to be screwed over by another person, it really sucks” This sub: shocked pikachu face
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:09 AM
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No haha definitely not asexual lmao I just didn’t think most men were worth my time and waited to be pursued by someone with goals that fit my life plan (and I fit his, too, obviously). Sex is good but it’s not worth being fucked around by bulk men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:25 AM
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I’m sorry but you’ve put romantic relationships on a high pedestal. It’s not easy once you’re in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:16 PM
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Yeah just about every woman I know is an exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:14 PM
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What’s 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:43 PM
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One person caring about you has to be a SO? Can’t it be a friend or family member?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:43 PM
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But both of those things are not necessarily guaranteed in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:42 PM
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Never hooked up with anyone else. I never felt the need to. I knew what I wanted and got it asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:40 PM
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So, why do you want a partner? Like, really, why? It just seems to be causing you immense distress and disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:47 AM
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People talk about how manipulative men and women are all the time on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:45 AM
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Women can’t do math.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:43 AM
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What? I literally just came from a dinner with multiple male and female friends? I’m not dating or fucking any of them and my fiancé was at home. How bizarre for you to think men and women don’t hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:38 AM
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Look, attempting to find someone has clearly not been the best for most people on this sub. Obtaining a relationship does not suddenly make all problems and insecurities go away. In fact, it usually heightens them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:28 AM
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Started looking for a husband straight out of high school. Never slept with anyone else. It’s morons who don’t have their priorities straight that struggle later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:09 AM
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My partner is hot and has a great personality as well. It’s not that hard to find a partner that you’re attracted to and get along well with but these men are really torn up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:25 AM
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I would be much more likely to do kinky stuff with my fiancé because I know him and I trust him. I know he loves me and won’t hurt me (outside of the realm of what I want lol). Hookups and ONS are not worth it for most women anymore. At best, you’ll likely just get mediocre sex and, at worst, you’ll be Ted Bundy-ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:31 PM
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Yeah thought I was the only one ??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:27 PM
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Yeah the amount of fuggos that my friends have been with that hit/cheat/lie to them is astounding. Hot guys are less willing to commit. Just like very hot women, they know they’re good looking and are a sought after commodity. They have to be cautious and can afford to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:38 AM
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I also don’t live in America but go off I guess? That’s great for you but you also might wanna accept that people have different lifestyles instead of making generalised statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:00 PM
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I agree. It’s strange that this dude thinks it’s weird to care for livestock. It’s pretty common and it’s usually the woman’s job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:12 AM
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And like actual plumbing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:06 AM
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My mum was the same. Cooked from scratch every night. We had no screens due to developmental beliefs that my mum had. She played with us all day every day. We had lots of sports, clubs, etc. She was also on P&C and preschool committee. We had a small farm too so she had to maintain that whilst dad worked. If you’re a very involved mother, it’s definitely harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:39 AM
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Toddlers make this hard, though. School kids and babies are a piece of cake but toddlers? Nightmare fuel. Little mess making demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:36 AM
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I dont know, I have farm animals? Lots of families are moving towards self sufficiency so it’s becoming more and more common. Also, in the country most people at least have chickens and a few dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:35 AM
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Are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:33 AM
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This isn’t the reality for a lot of people. Some people don’t do any screen time for good reasons and there’s also behavioural issues, etc that may prevent people from maintaining a clean home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:32 AM
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No. I work 40 hours currently a week and still do 85-90% of the housework (including outside stuff). My fiancé works 50-80 hours a week hard manual labour. Sometimes in different states/countries. He gets up at 4am and sometimes (like this week) has been getting home at 9/10pm. But, if he’s home for dinner, he will always do the after dinner dishes so I don’t have to do them because he knows how much I hate doing dishes. My love language is also acts of service so this makes me feel very happy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:28 AM
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Higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:07 AM
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yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:54 PM
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And there’s even less “good” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:44 PM
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I’m so confused you’re literally not making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:03 AM
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You are incorrect. Television does not have the same reward function as video games. That’s why they are uniquely addictive. Y’all just reach constantly and ignore facts to keep up with your “all women do is watch TV eat hot chip and lie” point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:13 AM
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No, it’s quite literally not as addictive video games. There’s been plenty of studies done on video game addiction and the impact video games have on the brain. Video games trigger a release in dopamine which is what makes it addictive. Video games like WoW (and even animal crossing) and other games with no “end” are the most addictive because of the way their reward/level system is set up. Each time you hit a goal, dopamine is released, you keep going and you feel great/relaxed. If you haven’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:26 PM
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Unlike many of the other hobbies you mentioned, video games have the capacity to become extremely addictive. I’ve never met a man who puts his art or music over his family but I have met two who put video games over their relationships. You see posts about it all the time on relationship advice subs where men with families play for hours upon hours a day. Your implication that women have blown it out of proportion is directly contradicted by the fact that there’s tons of evidence that video game…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:56 PM
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My best friend is 5’9 and has had a few blokes tell her she’s too tall but she’s also quite broad (like a swimmer) so that makes her seem quite imposing. She’s never had struggles dating, though. For every 1 guy that think she’s too tall, there’s 10 more who don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:10 AM
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As a woman: work, school, garden, cook, clean, work out, walk dogs, care for animals, stress about money, sleep, play switch games, occasionally go out with friends to events on weekends. I dont know what you think we do, we are humans (shock).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:03 AM
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What’s the point of existing if not to be ogled at?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:02 AM
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Women aren’t put off by video games, women are put off by men prioritising games over their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:01 AM
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So is the husband choosing his boss and corporation over his wife and family??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:06 AM
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Oh no another bisexual-hating lesbian. Ewwwwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:04 AM
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Hopeless romantic with touch of pink pill but only for myself. I don’t believe everyone is the same, acts the same or loves the same. Men and women are all different. Sure, there are some common themes, though. I want to be a traditional wife. I want to stay home and create a home and raise my babies and cook nutritious meals and go on adventures with my family. I’m here because I find the discourse interesting. I am in a very satisfying relationship with my fiancé who I’ve been with since high …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:56 AM
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Touch of sarcasm because it’ll never happen but yes I agree it should happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:09 AM
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You can but it is dangerous to the fetus and is generally only done in serious situations. I’d say it won’t be far off being banned altogether due to it possibly causing spontaneous abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:47 AM
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Yeah and since a fetus is a child, when do we start going all in and having the male partner pay child support at 1 weeks gestation? Can we put a 1 week old fetus on our insurance and make a claim on insurance in the event that it dies before birth? If we’re going all in with the “a fetus is a child” thing, let’s do it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:53 AM
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No, you didn’t say that. You said it’s only true if you have the potential to be Chad. He said it would be easier if he was Chad. You said nothing about it being easier to be a Stacy and a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:22 AM
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Just come out guns a blazin’ with no reading comprehension whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:09 AM
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You literally just agreed with him. He said “it’s easier to be a Chad” and you were like “NO it’s easier to be a Chad”. Like what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:35 AM
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Agree with this also. Almost everyone looks good healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:33 AM
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I like being a girl and I’d never want to be a man, ever. I enjoy the preening that involves being a feminine woman. I love getting my nails done, wearing sundresses, having glossy lips, wearing heels, curling my hair with rollers, doing Pilates, etc etc. But I’m in a long term, very comfortable relationship in which I feel very secure so I actually don’t have to worry about how others see me. This probably why the effort of being a pretty girl is more fun instead of stressful. Maybe I’d have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:32 AM
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Not really sure where she said anything about IKEA?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:14 AM
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Building shit is truly where it’s at 🤤 When my fiancé built me raised garden beds and a chicken coop. Dear lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:13 AM
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I just like general intelligence. Critical thinking. Able to have conversations about a wide variety of things and discuss different points of view. It doesn’t have to be anything groundbreaking but just a discourse. Some people (men and women) really struggle to have any independent thoughts or even a real back and forward conversation. I think it has a lot to do with our limited attention spans due to social media. Additionally, emotional intelligence is very important. I couldn’t be with a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:04 AM
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But driven and ambitious doesn’t always have to apply to career goals. At 24, I absolutely agree that some women have failed to develop a personality beyond “wine, Kardashians, cheese” but you don’t have to go to university or have a high paying job to be intelligent. I don’t really care for a career but I have other goals in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:02 AM
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No. From experience. My fiancé works a blue collar trade job and worked his way up to earning $120k (this year, expected about $150k next year) a year. I was with him when he was only earning $14/hr as an apprentice (that’s here in Australia so that is less than what you would pay a 14yo kid working at a checkout in a supermarket). You can pay apprentices very low here for some reason. Our minimum wage is like $22 or something. I’ve had people tell me I’m only with him for his money but 17yo me …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:56 AM
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What does that even mean my guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:05 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:27 AM
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Probably the same sort of way but I’d likely say less fetishisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:13 AM
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I dont know I’ve been happily with my fiancé for 7 years and we’re getting married in August. Can’t see either of our satisfaction dropping provided we both continue to put effort into our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:10 AM
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One of my good friends is in a wheelchair and oh my god if men aren’t treating her like she’s literally an infant they are fetishising her. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:13 AM
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Why is it so hard for you to accept that some people might actually be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:27 AM
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Ooof gettem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:26 AM
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Same reason men who shame and hate on women with a high body count are misogynistic? Sure, it might not be YOUR thing but it’s certainly not a BAD thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:01 AM
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My friend is an escort and she sees a LOT of virgin men. I’d say it’s 100% a better experience for the man than finding a rando just to stick it in for the sake of it. That being said, she is a very kind and empathetic person by nature so you’d probably need to look for an escort like that. Seeing an escort means they can get tips and tricks for when the real deal comes along. It’s almost always a positive experience. You’re also able to discern whether or not the escort’s services are what you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:00 AM
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You’re having sex, not getting married. It depends on the context. If you’re just keeping it casual, don’t disclose unless you want to. If you’re aiming for a serious relationship, obviously you’ll likely talk about sex before actually having it and this topic will come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:56 AM
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Yes absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:38 AM
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This is the sort of thing they’re talking about. It’s abnormal my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:15 AM
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If you think exclusively about sex maybe get a hobby or a therapist or something dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:26 PM
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Isn’t it the case where child support is reassessed every 3 years in most American states or in the event of you moving/changing jobs at the request of the payer? Where I’m from, it’s based on your income for the last financial year. If you have a massive life change (sickness, move, death in the family, disability/illness in the family, new job, etc) then you can have it reassessed at your request.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:55 AM
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That’s still not very much to be spending raising a whole ass kid in Cali.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:44 PM
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$430 x 12 = $5,160 $5,160 x 18 = $92,880 So, no, it doesn’t add up to $250k. $5000 a year is not very much money to be providing to your child. That’s actually very little. I spend more than that on my niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:16 PM
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Men being untrustworthy is the reason a lot of women take birth control. Stealthing is very common. Mistakes in consensual relationships are also common. I know I fooled around with my (now) fiancé when we were drunk without a condom (we usually used to double up on the birth control just in case bc I was still in high school). Without birth control, I probably would’ve had my life ruined by a kid. It’s not something he had to worry about. The burden of pregnancy, birth and child rearing will al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:12 AM
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We plan to do the same! We’re getting married in august, gonna (hopefully) pump out the kids and then he’s going in for the snip snip lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:08 AM
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It would at least stop men complaining about their crazy baby mommas. If you didn’t want to be stuck with her, shouldn’t have knocked her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:21 AM
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Yep. I know how brutal hormonal birth control is. It made me proper suicidal. I’d never expect my fiancé to take it. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:19 AM
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Plenty of men expect women to take birth control that does the same thing to them? Why can’t it be equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:18 AM
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Regardless, I don’t think men would consider the uncomfortable side effects of hormonal birth control “worth it”. It’s pretty brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:17 AM
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It’s based off your income ya goose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:17 AM
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I think it will be less widely taken than female birth control because, at the end of the day, the burden of birth is on the woman. This adds an extra layer of reasoning for women to avoid pregnancy that men don’t have to worry about. Also, as someone who takes hormonal birth control herself, if this male BC will be hormonal I’m not sure that men would be able to handle the side effects or at least consider them worth not impregnating a woman. Anyway, it won’t really impact me as I’ll be having …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:16 AM
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Same for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:28 AM
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I’ve always been at least an 7-8 when making myself presentable but I found a husband early (18) and settled down. I’m not religious or conservative (actually very liberal and bisexual lmao). No desire to sleep around or find anything better. I think maybe I never had a need to boost my ego finding a “more attractive” man because I know I’ve got the best I want. I have definitely noticed that my less attractive friends try to boost their egos by getting “better” boyfriends. You do see a lot of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:01 AM
1

My fiancé is 5’8 and I’ve never even considered him “short” until I came to this sub. I’m 5’4. I think the general consensus for women is that the man just has to be taller than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:20 PM
2

I wouldn’t say university is exactly where woman (or men) look for their life partner lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:46 PM
20

“I may be the common denominator in all of these situations but I can’t possibly be the problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:58 PM
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As a woman, I’d also go my own way if (god forbid) something happened to cause my fiancé and I to seperate. I can’t imagine myself with any other man. I’d be quite content alone. I’ve got lots of hobbies that fulfil me. I also have good friends and family. As you said, so long as you’re not just trying to be bitter, there’s nothing wrong with going your own way. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:57 PM
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As a kid, I got told boys who hit, tease and make fun of you actually have a crush on you. Thankfully, I didn’t take this one into adulthood lmao As a teen, I got told not to sleep around or act too promiscuous or they won’t take you seriously. My mum was very much about standing your own as a woman and person. I didn’t have a boyfriend or date at all in high school and rejected all advances until my last year when I was 18. I thought being “boy crazy” was a personal defect. My dad was just plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:50 AM
3

It’s a victim complex. They’ll never be happy. They always need something to whinge about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:32 PM
3

These men are completely deluded 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:18 PM
3

Scalpel in one hand, phone in the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:10 PM
1

Actually, no, we’ve lived together for 6 years. He does often work in regional and remote areas of Australia which means I sometimes can’t contact him for 7-14 days. This is fine. I don’t expect him to go climb a tree to talk to me… because he’s working…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:40 PM
1

If she takes 3 days to respond and that bothers you so much then obviously you’re not compatible move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:38 PM
3

They always pick out the tiniest bit of your response lmao Imaginations do be on point tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:37 PM
1

Stoppppp 🤣🤣 too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:36 PM
1

Calling women “females” is so fucking weird dude. Get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:51 AM
3

“Female behaviour”… but I thought it wasn’t about me? I am female?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:10 AM
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Bruh I have a thing wrong with my brain. I’ve been with my fiancé for 7 years so I definitely care about him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:59 AM
15

Well I’ve been with my fiancé for 7 years and I care about him quite a bit lol. I literally have a brain that makes me act differently but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:58 AM
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Yeah it is rude but I can’t help it. I have a mental illness that impacts the way I operate. All of my close friends and family understand and don’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:57 AM
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Yeah like have any of these people agreeing ever had a real job?? I certainly couldn’t sit on my phone at my last job whilst typing court transcripts or at my current job whilst doing open houses. Absolutely the real telling sign is whether or not they initiate conversation or try to keep it going when there’s a slight lull. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:47 AM
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I definitely think about replying and then realise 3 days later that I’ve opened the message and not replied and that I must look like the biggest asshole 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:45 AM
1

I think most NORMAL people can agree that bigotry covers any dislike/hatred of a certain group of people for no good reason (transphobia, homophobia, sexism, etc). If you spout shit like that, don’t expect women to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:32 PM
1

It’s absolutely the primary reason men get rejected. Why is that so hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:00 PM
1

You said men detest being seen as relationship material? You also said in your original post that men think long term and want to lock a girl down if they like her? That men are future oriented? Do they want to be someone’s boyfriend or not??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:59 PM
2

So do you not agree that you could’ve done something to turn her off??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:54 PM
1

Yeah you actually did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:49 PM
0

Men can be offended by anything. In fact, you’re exhibit A. You’re clearly offended by people not wanting to date bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:47 PM
2

So why do they detest being seen as someone who a woman would enter into a relationship with if they’re “thinking long term” and “trying to lock her down”? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:44 PM
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Yeah I think the importance of parents actually liking each other (bare minimum) is overlooked. It definitely sets the precedent for relationships for their kids. My parents weren’t always on the same page but they at least like each other as companions and do things together. They do shit like hold hands and kiss in front of us and be in love and all that gross shit lmao. I hope to model the same thing to my kids one day. You accept what’s comfortable. So, if shitty relationships are comfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:51 PM
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I’m what you would call a ~good~ girl. I didn’t have a boyfriend throughout high school and instead focused on studies and helping my friends through their boy problems. I got my first boyfriend at age 18. I’m engaged to him now after nearly 7 years. Never had any sort of inkling to go for a “bad boy”. Gross. I did have lots of people ask me out and I believe I was a sought after girl at the time (I did volleyball and cross country and I have a pretty face). I had a stable family life growing up…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:08 PM
2

This will be removed because old mate is a schizo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:08 AM
2

Yeah you wouldn’t even breathe a whisper of that, is this person joking???? Imagine announcing that, in a proudly Catholic community, you have terminated a viable pregnancy. Good way to be ostracised forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:08 AM
3

I mean loving his wife and kids isn’t exactly a necessity in a book about the Holocaust… I’m sure it tugs at enough heart strings without the lovey dovey stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:55 AM
4

That’s why I built a house on 40 acres with no neighbours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:49 AM
2

Just about every conversation I’ve had with a man on this sub has ended with them saying I’m gaslighting them 🥲🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:49 AM
0

Give me a source that’s under 5 years old. Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:01 AM
1

Guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:01 AM
2

I don’t walk alone at night because I’m a woman, I look both ways when crossing the road, I don’t swim in waters with sharks, etc. It’s risk management. You do it every day. Nothing is guaranteed. Some man could break into my house tonight and kill me but I’ve done everything within MY POWER to prevent death via man. Sometimes there’s nothing you can do but I’ll be damn sure to do as much as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:01 AM
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Yeah not all dogs bite people but I sure as hell ain’t out here petting random dogs either lol There’s consequences for dumb shit which includes trusting men you don’t know. It’s only a matter of time before one of the dogs bite you and one of the blokes turn out to be Ivan Milat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:29 AM
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Most women I know have faced violence from men so I’ll assume most men are capable of committing said violence until proven otherwise. No point trusting someone if I’m going to end up Ted Bundy’d for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:52 AM
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My experience the worst experience? No, sir. My experience is very limited. My female friends have been subject to much male violence. It’s very, very common. Like I said, my fiancés family and my family have both experienced assaults in their life. That’s just 3 women in my immediate family experiencing violent assaults just going about their lives. I’ve never even dated. I’m engaged to be married in August. I’ve been with one man my whole adult life. If I found myself single again, I would not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:20 AM
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You really shouldn’t use sources over 5 years old let alone 10 years old. It’s not good research practice. Do you have any other studies backing this up? Under 5 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:10 AM
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Women are literally subject to violence by intimate partners ALL THE TIME. You’re absolutely deluded if you think men beating up other men on behalf of women is more common than women facing intimate partner violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:53 AM
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It’s very common. All of my friends have been subject to some sort of sexual deviancy at the hands of a man. Fortunately, I’ve only been subject to verbal abuse and one case of being spat on by a man for politely rejecting him. My MIL was raped by her father. My mother was physically assaulted by her first boyfriend. My younger sister in law was forced upon by a boy her age during study class. That’s not even getting into my friends’ experiences. It’s very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:51 AM
3

It’s statistically proven that single, childless women are the happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:49 AM
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Do you wanna fuck me or was that you attempting to correct me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:49 AM
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And poor women worked well before then. Only the rich were exempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:46 AM
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Women have always worked more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:46 AM
2

I don’t think I would respect a man or woman who cried very easily. Crying out of extreme frustration, anger or sadness is fine by me. Better than some other, more destructive, coping mechanisms out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:06 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:55 AM
2

No idea what his wife was. By your logic he took advantage of her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:10 AM
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2 that I know of. They got married at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:41 AM
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I’m annoying af here but not in real life. In real life I’m in a happy, loving and generous relationship. We’ve been together for 7 years. We express each of our desires outwardly and honestly and support each other through everything. For example, I’ve seen my fiancé cry many times but I still find him as hot as ever. On here I might say that crying makes you a beta just to stir shit. It’s a hobby, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:44 AM
2

Was my friend from hs just using his wife to secure material needs? I mean they’ve got several kids so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:41 AM
2

I don’t think being celibate has anything to do with “liking” it. Although, she should find someone who is intelligent enough to understand. I can only think of one reason why she would decide that celibacy is her best way of honouring God and it doesn’t have anything to do with her potential partners. Also, I have a male friend who Ive known since high school. I know he was sexually active with at least 2 women despite being very Christian and attending church and church functions, etc. After h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:26 AM
6

You know people can be celibate for many reasons, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:46 AM
6

This is the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:44 AM
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This. I’ve been with one man. I knew as soon as I met him. We are together 7 years too and getting married in August.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:31 AM
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I think more women will do things like threesomes outside of relationships because they can be very murky for those in a relationship. I am up to try anything with my SO (except a threesome I couldn’t deal w that). He’s the only one I’ve been with, though. We’ve been together 7 years so pretty comfortable. We’ve tried a lot of things and some we liked, some we didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:06 AM
1

Perhaps everyone’s just a little bit stupid to varying degrees lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:50 PM
3

Yes why are all these men millionaires with stay at home wives??? They’ll likely never have to pay alimony even if they marry and divorce several times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:53 AM
3

Don’t lots of RP men want housewives ????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:51 AM
1

I wanna be a housewife I hate working lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:50 AM
1

Only ~10% of divorces end in the award of spousal support and much of that is only conditional/temporary. It’s generally not about who earns more it’s literally about whether or not a person would be able to have some sense of financial stability if their spouse withdrew all support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:50 AM
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I believe fathers should have the option to sign the birth certificate or rescind rights altogether. That would be fair. I know this is the case in some places. Although, if abortion is restricted in the country I believe every child should have a DNA test and every biological father held financially accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:00 AM
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Literally is this sub filled with millionaires who are married to women that are stay at home wives? They’re so worried for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:51 AM
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If you assist in creating the child, sign the birth certificate and spend less than 50% of the child’s life raising it, then you should definitely be paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:48 AM
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Its not low for “male” behaviour but it’s lower than hell for normal human behaviours like house chores and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:53 PM
0

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:11 AM
0

Why are nerds/smart people letting themselves have weak bodies? You’d think they’d be smarter than to let their bodies deteriorate?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:43 PM
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They’re “working through it”. She put up with 2.5 years of it before getting pregnant again and snapping. They’re in couples therapy but he makes passive aggressive Facebook statuses about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:30 AM
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I have no issues with my fiancé playing video games at all! I actually enjoy watching him (we only have one tv and it’s in the living room) play the ones with a story like Red Dead but he also plays silly ones like Skate and Lego Star Wars to unwind. Thing is, he usually only plays on the weekends or if he is rained off work. Even when he is rained off work and playing video games, I still come home to a few loads of washing done and dinner in the oven. The issue arises when there’s an issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:56 PM
0

That’s me 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:27 AM
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It’s okay, be miserable and chronically online if you want. I don’t give a shit. I’m just saying my life got a lot better when I stopped being a miserable piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:16 AM
2

Yes. It’s high time RP men stop worrying about everyone except themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:45 AM
2

I don’t care what all men think about all women. That’s none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:26 PM
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It’s absolutely not an unfounded fear. I’ll take any precautions necessary not to end up on a true crime podcast, thanks. So many people say “why wasn’t she more cautious?”, “why did she even offer to help him?”, etcetera. I’m gonna be a cranky bitch and I’m gonna assume all men I don’t know will Ted Bundy me if given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:08 PM
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Yeah I saw a guy commenting about how to have kids and never love the child’s mother - like what? These people are, like, bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:02 PM
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I’m slim but still “soft”. I work 40 hours a week and own a hobby farm. I don’t have time to work out. I’m vegetarian and eat well, walk my dog every day and attend a Pilates class once a week. My weight depends on the season (I hate winter) but I’m always “straight size” usually somewhere between a size Australian 6 (US2) and Australian 12 (US8). My fluctuating weight used to bother me a lot but now I’m older I’ve come to accept it. I’d say I’m pretty hot. I have an hourglass figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:58 AM
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I agree to an extent but I believe neither gender should be controlled by their emotions. If your emotions rule you, you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:37 PM
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My fiancé makes about 5x what I make and he also works about 5x the hours. We pool all our money together. It’s all our money. As I’m usually the one at home, I am the one doing the majority of the housework. I do 95% of the inside jobs and about 30-50% of the outside jobs (we have a small farm so some of the work is too much for me). There are chores each of us also have a preference for so we leave those for one another. For example, he likes to wash the dishes (because he can watch the footy …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:41 AM
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I’m against surrogacy ethically BUT otherwise don’t see an issue so long as they’re raising emotionally mature adults. If they had a girl, they’d probably need a female role model too but that can come in the form of a grandmother, aunt or friend. I can’t imagine many men want to go it alone, though, which is why there’s so many more single mothers than single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:33 AM
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Well, you tick all the boxes on the surface. Sorry that you couldn’t find what you wanted. That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:00 AM
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Were you a suitable husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:53 AM
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I mean, I’ve been spat on in a club for saying “sorry I’m engaged”. I’ve also had a drink tipped on me because a stranger thought I was laughing at him. Don’t think that male aggression had anything to do with me being uglier than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:58 PM
6

I am of the opinion that most people probably shouldn’t have abs? It’s not sustainable for most people - especially those working 40 hour weeks and with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:02 PM
4

Yeah 10-15 is wildin for the average dude and 18 is also pretty damn low for the average woman too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:37 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:59 AM
1

No wonder you’re alone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:32 AM
1

I actually pursued him. He’s my one and only. We’re well off now but we weren’t rich when we got together 7 years ago at 17 & 18. We have always done equal amounts of work and been honest with what we expect from each other. He’s masculine and does traditionally masculine things, I’m feminine and do traditionally feminine things. We put equal effort in to our tasks and always help each other when we can - it’s not a competition, it’s teamwork. You know some people of the opposite sex can actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:20 AM
2

Dude you basically implied only women can meet men in public… but… like… there’s also male component to that equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:15 AM
1

Ah fantasy romance. I actually believe there are lots of shitty men and lots of shitty women but also that sometimes good men and good women can fall in love and have a healthy romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:48 AM
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I might remind you that he also met me at the same time I met him. He is a man, we met in public. Dumb moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:47 AM
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I dont know it’s how I found my fiancé
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:27 AM
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I dont know same place you meet men I guess, in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:00 AM
1

Ever consider that there are actually women who want a real relationship based off trust and consistency? Not lies, smoke and mirrors?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:19 AM
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Second this. Run, run, run as fast as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:17 AM
1

Basically, a lot of them need hobbies for more fulfilment in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:21 AM
0

“I suspect you are broke” I literally cackled. Straight for the throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:40 AM
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It’s statistically correct, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:07 AM
-1

You’re right. We smell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:50 AM
2

That’s insane. I was on the west coast too so not in the south at all or anything but it was still so bad. And Australia is a pretty fat country too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:02 AM
5

This is true. I’m Australian and have travelled to the US and DAMN I thought we were all fat. Americans supersize everything including themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:51 AM
9

It’s never free. It has terms and conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:12 AM
11

Yes but the problem is most western people are not in reasonable shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:14 AM
2

There’s a whole overseas baby business in Slovenia, Chile, Phillipines, etc. there’s like an actual business of either a) physically taking children or b) manipulating mothers who want to keep their babies into giving them up. Especially in Eastern Europe, there’s often cash incentives to give their babies up. Waving money in the face of poor people has always been a good way to get them to do what you want. Babies who age out of adopt-ability go to girl and boy homes where they create more poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:59 AM
1

Yeah displacing children from their families is bad, cry about it I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:42 AM
1

Once again, good argument from a man. If you don’t think the business of creating orphans for “Christian” parents is bad then you might want to reassess your morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:47 PM
1

I’ve been to a few states along the west coast (which I think are blue states) and I didn’t experience any violent crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:18 PM
0

Are you a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:42 AM
3

Plenty of men are punching above their weight too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:41 AM
1

First of all, yes, I’ve helped my friends clean their houses when they need it. I wouldn’t perform oral on them, though, because I don’t believe they’re the same thing. I also don’t complain about needing help around the house because my fiancé does his fair share. Secondly, why don’t you do your own chores? Can’t blame any woman who doesn’t want to give head to a man who doesn’t contribute to the household physically. The fact that you think there’s nothing sexual about oral is super weird. I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:27 AM
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I don’t mean “take, take, take” in a physical term more like an emotional term. I mean they took from ME. They took my time, my friendship and my compassion and then discarded me once it was more advantageous for them to throw me under the bus for something they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:22 AM
3

This is the problem with Red Pill theory. So many of y’all say “men can be abused too and we’re not allowed to talk about it” and then in the same breath say something like “you shouldn’t be a wimp”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:42 AM
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As a woman, Amber gives me the heeby-jeebies. I’ve been friends with plenty of women like her and they just take, take, take. Then, once you’ve given them everything, they throw you in front of the bus for no reason other than because they can. The testimonies from her assistant and the comments from her own sister paint a picture of a horrible, narcissistic and sociopathic woman. Obviously, Johnny is a man with very serious substance abuse issues and is probably really shit to be in a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:34 AM
1

But it’s just like doing chores? You’d do the dishes for your friends to help them out, wouldn’t you? Why won’t you get them off? The dishes aren’t sexual either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:02 AM
0

It’s just old fucks who feel entitled to be unkind and disrupt hard working, normal people’s lives. It’s not specific to the gender. Plenty of old dudes act the same. It’s a generational thing, they had everything handed to them and expect the same treatment. Boomers were born with a silver spoon in their mouths. Anyone who has worked in customer service will tell you that they don’t get cussed out by gen z or millennials. It’s the older generations that have no manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:35 AM
9

Yeah they act like women in their 30s should be in a nursing home…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:45 AM
2

No, I’m Bi so it obviously wouldn’t worry me! :) I’m not single, though, but you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:41 PM
1

Real dumb take bozo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:44 PM
0

I didn’t realise a fetus was a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:41 PM
1

Nah why aren’t you sucking your homies dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:41 PM
1

I am
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:40 PM
1

Yeah because all single men over a certain age are jaded and angry or straight up abusive. They usually lurk on subs like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:03 PM
1

Is being with someone for 7 years committed enough 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:00 PM
1

This is correct, I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:59 AM
1

Yeah I can’t remember where I asked what the difference was? Thanks for that though, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:55 AM
1

The point is why ARENT you doing it if it’s so easy and convenient?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:52 AM
4

Oh I know haha I just come here to aggravate people in my free time because it upsets them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:49 AM
6

Ohhh okay. Sorry, not American :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:48 AM
4

Why is it problematic to create orphans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:48 AM
6

You obviously don’t know how the morning after pill works? Strong words for a dumbass. For your information, the morning after pill prevents pregnancy (like condoms). First of all, it prevents the release of an egg from the ovary so it cannot be fertilised by remaining sperm. If an egg has already been released/plan b doesn’t work then it prevents implantation of the fertilised egg by changing the lining of the uterus. Implantation happens 6-10 days after fertilisation. Conception only occurs af…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:26 AM
5

In the case of abuse? Rape? Incest? Mental disability? Mental instability? Ectopic pregnancy? Hm? If it was your wife or girlfriend or sister who was raped or had an ectopic pregnancy, I’d wonder if you’d still want her to carry to term?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:15 AM
2

The business of creating orphans overseas for white Christians to adopt is massive. It’s very problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:11 AM
8

I don’t want babies and kids to be harmed by the system or by abusive parents. I’m not sure why conservatives want something that would cause this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:10 AM
16

The business overseas of creating orphans for white Christians to adopt is huge. It’s very problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:09 AM
22

But they’re not always adopting children from their local foster system. They often go overseas to get babies which is a whole ass problematic thing on its own. The business of creating orphans for white Christians people to purchase is huge. It’s a big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:08 AM
13

I’d say liberals love kids more for not wanting them to suffer like conservatives do haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:07 AM
6

What is a “protected state”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:05 AM
12

Why y’all so aggressive and emotional about everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:36 AM
8

Since it’s like doing the dishes, there’s no sexual element to it then, is there? Do you give all your mates bjs when you hang out? Since it’s not sexual. Just another dumb chore you do for someone because you care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:03 AM
1

So if men and women earn equal amounts then sex is not a requirement of the relationship? Man should be happy with that, yes? It’s an equal exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:57 AM
9

Aren’t men the ones that want virgins? Low body count? YOU are the ones pushing monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:56 AM
7

I’m 23 and I’ve already been called a post wall hag on here so you don’t have to wait that long to join the club xx
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:12 AM
1

Okay, if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:44 PM
2

Uh, just so you know, electricians make an actual fuck load of money. I dont know where you’re from but it’s a very well paying job. It’s a running joke between tradesmen that it’s easy and well paying. My tradesman fiancé is also making $150k a year in a relatively low income area. That being said, I wouldn’t work in either job because it’s a “boys club” and I’d struggle to find work due to me simply being a woman. I’ve expressed my whole adult life that I would love to work outside and do manu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:51 AM
4

Yeah it’s a running joke that lesbians move fast. It’s a scarcity mindset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:25 AM
1

Who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:46 AM
13

No, a lot of women (particularly older women) will jump at any opportunity for romance. This is also usually coupled with their lack of knowledge about the dangers of the internet. Most women truly want romance, kindness and love. I’d say most men also want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:45 AM
2

I worked at a law firm that represented a woman who was targeted by a romance scam. She was tricked into scamming other women so that her “boyfriend” could join her here in Australia. It was very, very sad. She had to sell her house (only thing really left by her dead husband) to pay the legal fees and her mum and dad covered the rest. She was always a sad lady and completely devoted to her kids. To be honest, she was very dumb. I guess she was around 40ish - maybe a bit older. It completely dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:43 AM
6

I have… none????? Wtf??? Who has backup men lmao I have some very solidly friendzoned male friends and then my fiancé. Nothing in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:51 AM
1

Both of my younger brothers are in long term relationships with lovely girls. They’re dating at about their own level looks wise and one I think is dating down smarts/personality wise and the other dating up (if I’m being brutally honest). They are both in their early 20s, fit and in school. If they leave their girlfriends for whatever reason I doubt either will have issues finding another girlfriend. Both seem very happy in their current circumstances. My male best friend makes poor dating choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:32 AM
0

I mean being careful by not having sex with men who won’t marry them, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:51 AM
1

Weird thing for a doctor to say he’s clearly got some personal issues going on. I came from a family of 3 and my mum desperately wanted 2 more! Dad was happy with 3 due to financial reasons but also always said he’d have had 2 more if they could afford it. I also plan to have at least 3 kids. Mum always said 1 is easy, 2 is fine and 3 is a handful but she still wanted more so it couldn’t have been that bad!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 01:50 AM
0

Elaborate? You’re not making sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:40 PM
13

What do you mean “so”? Dude, like a third of the posts on PPD are about how high N count women shouldn’t expect decent men?? Of course women are going to be careful lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:09 AM
3

He might be trying to encourage intelligent discussion with you as, even though he is the leader of the family, he acknowledges you have valuable input. Say, for example, he wants a claw bathtub and you want a modern freestanding one, you could say: claw is harder to clean and are often narrower whereas the larger, more modern one could allow you to have baths together (this is the actual discussion I had with my finance when we had to renovate the bathroom lol). He probably just wants to involv…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 09:17 AM
1

It’s in the best interest of the children if their routine is as disrupted as little as possible. That usually means mum keeps doing what she does and dad keeps doing what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:34 PM
2

Ohhh kay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:01 PM
1

Uh why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:56 AM
0

Yes but you know who her ped is don’t you? How to get there? You should also listen when your daughter talks about her friends. I’m sure you’re a great dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:45 AM
0

We didn’t do too much court ordered mediation at my old place of work because lawyers do most of the mediating between themselves in my country. We did more mutually agreed upon mediation prior to Court. If it was successful, both parties would come out less bitter and better off. If it was unsuccessful, expensive route it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:24 AM
4

As a woman, I agree with most of these except the family court one tbh. I worked at a law firm doing family and criminal law for 5 years and when we’d go to mediation, some fathers couldn’t even name their kids’ best friends, the names of their teachers, their paediatricians and how to get there. Hell, some couldn’t even remember their kids’ birthdays! This was great when you were representing the mother but less great when you were representing the father lmao. Not to mention that often fathers…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:16 PM
4

Most women also don’t want to be approached at the gym so many men are wary of doing so.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 08:36 AM
4

My fiancé is my only and therefore the best. If he were to like die or something and I found myself back in the dating scene, I don’t think I’d care who my “best” was. I think it only matters that you have a fulfilling sex life (whatever that may mean for the couple).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:33 AM
11

God you’re a bunch of bitter cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:52 PM
1

God you’re a bunch of bitter cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:52 PM
6

Girl that’s not even an inkling lmao you’re about to be proposed to.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/22 01:29 AM
9

Yeah I’m definitely bad for doom scrolling too. It is not good for my anxiety and depression. I was in the same boat as you and I realised I just spent all of my free time on my phone and it was so unproductive and bad for me. I found a hobby that I could do in the evenings whilst unwinding and watching Netflix (I know you don’t watch but something similar) was a great way to help break that habit. I crotchet but knitting, needlepoint, embroidery, etc would all be good as well. It’s also easy to…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 10:07 PM
9

Question: do you spend a lot of time on your phone?
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 08:55 PM
2

The mummy thing comes from having to clean up after their nasty ass partner. Not from anything emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:08 AM
1

The timing? Being in an apparently happy, committed relationship? Do we know when he asked her? Did he ask after a few months and she didn’t feel comfortable disclosing the truth and letting him down so she lied? How do you know she enjoyed it before? Anal isn’t fun for some people. Also it can be a sacrifice because it can cause a lot more potential issues that PiV sex doesn’t. It takes prep and risk management and effort. If you absolutely hate anal but felt pressured to do it with previous pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:41 AM
0

Y’all truly are wild out here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:26 PM
2

Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:14 AM
2

Because 10 was the term specified. Hopefully we are together and happy all of our natural lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:03 AM
3

Love living in imagination land.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:13 AM
-1

Nah just justify her not wanting to have anal sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:00 AM
0

Completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:36 AM
1

But anal isn’t a “standard”???? It’s not mistreatment to not receive anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:18 AM
1

Sure am. Don’t need to “live my life” because I’ve got everything I need in life with my fiancé. We’ve been together 7 years and lived together 5 and were happier than ever. I think I can go another 10 years living like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:17 AM
2

It’s literally not him being treated worse? What if she hates it and finds it painful but her ex made her do it? She shouldn’t have to do it just because she’s done it in the past. My little brother let his last girlfriend use his credit card. It ended badly. He does not let his current girlfriend use his credit card. He is not treating her worse because he doesn’t let her use his card, he’s being fair to himself. I also don’t have an ex so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:48 AM
1

It didn’t say strangers it said it was her ex relationship? That’s not a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:40 AM
3

I still wouldn’t do anal no matter how much I love someone. I like the idea of not shitting myself when I’m 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:35 AM
1

I’m actually an excellent fiancé in a 7 year relationship :) I just enjoy shit stirring on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:30 AM
-1

Wait so she can’t decide she hates doing anal? I agree it’s shitty of her to lie but maybe she thought he would try to pressure her into doing something she doesn’t want to when he found out… oh wait..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:29 AM
-1

I didn’t say it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:29 AM
-1

That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:28 AM
-7

Classic man. Can’t understand the difference in importance between financial stability for a family and anal sex. Also, can you define “gaslighting” for me and explain exactly how I’m gaslighting anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:45 AM
3

What does that matter - where’d he say she’s done 50 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:40 AM
3

What point did he prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:40 AM
1

I didn’t read anywhere in the post that she’s done it with 50 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:48 AM
3

Ah, classic male manipulation. “If you really loved me you’d do anything I wanted”. Who is women? Whose ex is inexperienced? Who are these imaginary people? Who is entitled? Men? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:48 AM
6

So she’s trash for not wanting to do anal with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:25 AM
0

Doesn’t say he’s overly wealthy in the post? What if the guy is poor and she just loves him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:18 AM
-1

Yeah like why did this dimwit put a ring on it in a first place if he wanted someone who provides anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:17 AM
-5

Used for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:12 AM
10

He shouldn’t have married her to begin with if they aren’t sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:08 AM
17

Good girl. He’s not worth the effort. If he’s not willing to commit to setting boundaries for TWO DAYS then he’s not going to commit to you properly ever.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 10:10 PM
13

Yes thank god OP got out of this relationship before it got too serious.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 10:09 PM
1

For me to work and have a SINGLE kid in day care at the moment I would take home about $71 a week at my current wage ($23/hr). There is one daycare in my town so there’s no shopping around. Multiple kids in care? We’d run at a loss. It’s not about me having no money, all of our money is joint and has been for years. It just doesn’t make financial sense at all. There is literally no reason for me to work when I’d rather be at home with the kids. I had my mum waiting at home when I finished school…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:27 AM
1

I have never. I’ve only ever dated my current fiancé but, as a young woman who goes out dancing with her friends, I’ve been approached many times. I always feel empathetic and sorry for the men who approach me because I know at least most of them had to really get the guts up to ask me to dance/have a drink/go on a date/etc. If I was single I would feel even worse for rejecting a man and hurting his feelings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:11 AM
3

If they’re medicated, seeing their dr regularly and following their treatment plan then then it’s unlikely that her mental illness will impact the relationship too much. Plenty of people who aren’t legally bonkers act way crazier than those with a diagnosis that seek treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:11 AM
3

Per MONTH??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:24 AM
3

How is it not feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:24 AM
1

0 to 100 real quick my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:16 AM
5

I have male friends that I’ve had since high school. I had a socially diverse friend group growing up and many of us are very close. I spend one on one time in public with them - dinner, lunch, coffee, etc. That being said, I don’t go around to their house alone - not because I believe I would do anything or that he would do anything but because I live in a smaller town and it’s not worth the gossip. It also feels disrespectful to my fiancé because people will talk shit. My friend quota atm (bot…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 03:06 AM
10

Yes wondering why she’s even thinking about babies when she doesn’t have a ring yet?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 01:51 AM
2

I’m absolutely of the belief that the more beautiful the women, the less sexual partners. I first noticed this as a teenager and it’s continued into adulthood. It also seems that prettier women are more often in LTRs or entirely single. I’m not sure why, though. My less pretty friends have less stable relationships whilst my naturally prettier friends are all in LTRs except for one who has been single and celibate for 5 years (religious reasons). Perhaps, it is that they never view many men as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:24 PM
2

Isn’t this post literally about young boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:53 AM
1

I was a bit tipsy writing out that reply but there’s really no need to be rude.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 02:25 AM
5

I really love Bethany Ciotola. She’s all vintage nightgowns and so stunning. Her hair is also fucking amazing. Oh, and her gorgeous little boys, too! I’m Australian so the American Southern Belle thing doesn’t really resonate with me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 10:54 PM
2

What about feminists that embrace femininity?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 10:53 PM
2

I think women should teach their sons how to be gentle, kind and gentlemanly towards all women. Men should teach their sons which women deserve their effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:56 PM
1

Oop sorry! I’m clearly not very cultured lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 09:42 PM
3

To preface this, I am an atheist and have had nothing to do with religion my entire life. I’ve been in a church twice in my life. The last time I went in one I was worried I may disintegrate lol Anyway, I have a friend who is Hindi and her husband “Christian” (not really Christian but he is Christian to appease his parents) and they had two wedding ceremonies. They are happily married. My Hindi friend is very culturally and religiously involved and her husband is less so. They attend Easter and …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 12:51 PM
1

Whilst I do agree that it’s up to everyone’s choice, I perhaps am a bit biased because I know two women who didn’t live with their partners before marriage and both turned out badly. One man was physically, emotionally and financially abusive. The other stopped being hygienic and started peeing in soft drink bottles instead of getting up to the toilet whilst playing video games. I met both of these men many times over the course of dating, I’d even been to pee-bottle man’s house and it was relat…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 09:13 PM
8

I am so beyond confident that it is important. It’s got absolutely nothing to do with making your relationship stronger but it allows you to properly vet at man. You truly don’t know someone until you live with them. You cannot realistically vet someone you’ve never lived with, in my opinion. Men (and obviously people in general) can put on a facade for a few hours on a date. Even for a weekend away. It’s how women fall into traps of abuse and mistreatment or even simply marriages that they didn…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 01:10 PM
1

I’m not offended, are you? I don’t take offence to things I see on the internet - particularly reddit. Maybe if I saw a beheading or something… Anyway, I’m super into traditional gender roles. I’m about to marry my fiancé whom I’ve been with for near 7 years. I’m like fully into homesteading. Like full #tradwife but atheist. Love it. It works super well for me. Gimme all them gender roles. I’m about to pop out babies and stay home and take care of the property and my pet goats and bake heaps of …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 11:46 AM
6

I’ve been with one guy and we started as friends in school. It was the always had crushes on each other but never lined up sort of thing. We didn’t get together until adulthood, though, which I’m super glad about. About 5 years of friendship and now being romantically together for nearly 7. We have our ups and downs, of course. We are young adults growing together. In the end, we’re always each other’s biggest fan and always will be. Also, I’ve literally never thought about the fact that we’ve k…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 10:57 AM
23

Get at least 3 new hobbies, make time for them and stick to them. Exercise for enjoyment. Start therapy. Take care of your hair, skin and nails. Get comfortable in quality female relationships and embrace femininity. Do NOT sleep around. Finally, visualise what you want your life to look like in 5, 10 and 15 years. Next step, figure out how you can reach this life. What reasonable steps might you take to get there? What sort of person do you want to be? Who do you want to be in your life? Husban…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 10:24 AM
1

So what are the roles? Women to be pumped, dumped and care for children and men to “spread their seed”?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 10:17 AM
12

Yes I am suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:15 AM
3

You do when you’re trying to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:36 PM
2

But at the same time ashkenazi people are actually a different ethnicity all together despite appearing “white” which is actually pretty cool.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 07:33 PM
2

Ooohhh I am outraged that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:16 AM
1

Ooohhh they would’ve been good conversations - when did you meet Hitler?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:53 AM
6

Okay but you’re wrong, just so you know that. Just because you don’t “care” about reality doesn’t make you correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:15 AM
4

I can tell lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:29 AM
6

Hey, dude, I think you’re a bit confused. I’m saying that if you have DRASTICALLY different views of the world then raising kids would be difficult and you said “is it hate to tell kids that some people regret transitioning”. You’re either replying to the wrong thread or you’ve gotten yourself a bit too emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:15 AM
4

The bill might not be “about” stopping kids hearing too much too soon (which I agree with) but that’s not what it says is going to happen. It says can be no mention or discussion of LGBTQ matters between students themselves or between teachers and students. If little Johnny comes home and says to his homophone of a mother “did you know that Jessie has two dads? How cool!” then the teacher and district can be sued. Poorer schools districts (who can’t afford to be sued to the shit house) have star…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:12 AM
-4

We usually have a big row and then get over it and talk about how to make sure that doesn’t happen again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 01:00 AM
6

Ah, and you’re, what? About to turn 15? Very mature. Ethics and beliefs obviously plays a huge role in raising children. You can’t have one parent raising them “hate the gays” and another “respect all people”. It doesn’t work. It’s not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:56 AM
8

Liberals of Tik Tok doesn’t sound like a troll to rile up conservatives at all s/ Don’t say gay bill is obviously not just about not saying gay. It’s fucking dumb. You can’t expect teachers to control students aged 6-9 talking about same sex couples. What if a student has two mums or two dads? How do you even control other students asking questions about that? It also opens teachers up for legal repercussions should a parent discover that a conversation about the gays was had between students. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:52 AM
4

Nazis weren’t actually leftists, though. You do know that, right? Just because socialist is in the name, doesn’t make any of their practices or policies communist at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:40 AM
15

Source for kindy teachers talking about their sex lives with little kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:33 AM
24

Agreed. Zero points to that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:32 AM
11

Who would want to be in a relationship where you’re constantly defending your ethics? Sounds stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:32 AM
2

She wasn’t offered his side of the story so yeah under the bus he will be thrown. I’m not saying he’s an abuser, I never said that. I’m saying this situation is weird and not to be downplayed. Especially when he’s not offering her an explanation beyond “you wouldn’t understand”. It literally might even be that his family doesn’t like her and he’s trying to spare her feelings but she’s a big girl and deserves to know that sort of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 12:30 AM
8

His reason stated are “things you wouldn’t understand”? Is there something specifically her woman brain wouldn’t understand? Selfless does not mean doormat when something clearly weird is happening. It’s obviously not a mens only event (which would be fine) and if he can’t afford to go on holiday, he probably shouldn’t be going?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 09:43 PM
2

She’s made it clear she values her relationship with him over her relationship with you. She’s picked her “side” in all this and it’s with him. She knows what he did to you and she doesn’t mind at all. Staying in this friendship is just keeping you tied to the wanker that abused you and isn’t allowing you to move on and better yourself. Break it off. Edit to add: you should just say something like “hey, I’ve been thinking about this for a while and in order to grow as a person, I need to cut all…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 09:22 PM
4

If she doesn’t understand, he should tell her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 09:19 PM
6

THANK YOU for this. So much actually crazy stuff is being said here. Submissive does not mean doormat with no feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 09:14 PM
7

Respectfully disagree. Husband and wife should consider each other’s feelings and not deliberately put each other in situations which may hurt or upset them. If husbands brother and wife are allowed to go, why isn’t OP?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 09:13 PM
1

True but then you’ve likely invested money in the wedding making it harder to rationalise breaking up over “smaller” things.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:38 PM
2

There’s plenty of ways to raise a kid without a man. The kids are way better off having strong male role models in the form of grandparents and uncles than having a weak role model in their father.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:36 PM
3

Ah, yes, finally my kind of person on this sub. I love it when people make sense.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:17 AM
14

I don’t think it’s very respectful to talk about past hookups in front of a man’s long term partner/wife, do you?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 08:10 AM
5

Time for hubby to say “if you’d like more grand babies we need some alone time because we certainly can’t do it while you’re there”.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 01:32 AM
8

I’m the opposite I don’t think you should be engaged to someone you’ve never lived with. People show their true colours in their homes. I believe it is how young women get tricked into marrying LVM pretending to be HV. It’s easy to fake it for a few hours a few times a week, less easy to fake it 24/7.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 12:53 AM
2

How I learned as a kid! Always start with spaghetti bol!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 10:57 PM
4

Just pack your shit and get out of that apartment. Either find a new apartment in this country to keep your job or go home to your family. If you want kids, you gotta get your shit together and stop dating absolute fuck wits. The man you’re with now is probably only a few months off peeing in bottles so he doesn’t have to get up from his video game. Do you want that for your kids? You’re better off doing ivf on your own than have this man “raise” your kids with you. What if you need to be on 1 o…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 09:34 PM
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TRP for men is different than that for women. TRP for men is for men to make relationships what they may want. That might be casual hookups/fwbs (spinning plates), regaining control in LTRs/marriages, sometimes it’s even about straight up shitty behaviour like pickup artists or the fuckwits (“she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”) that endorse abuse, etc. TRP for women is also about making relationships what they may want. Mostly it is about obtaining security and using male and female dynamics …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 10:53 AM
0

Wait, why don’t men need us? What if you want a family?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 09:45 AM
4

You can forgive and move on. There’s no point using energy to hold onto that resentment forever. But end the relationship regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:57 AM
1

Hey, hit me up - I think we could be friends! I’m agnostic but very into spirituality and connecting with human body. It was how I finally lost weight (mine was being gluttonous with drinking, not food). I think we could be friends!
/r/RedPillWives02/04/22 07:54 AM
1

What about a man with mid-late teens who basically just require food and shelter and maybe the odd holiday for a couple years?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:22 PM
9

Single dads also get them responsibility and emotional maturity brownie points too. We hear so much about dead beat dads that “single dad” sounds like marriage material lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:18 PM
2

What period of history are we talking about??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:44 AM
1

Interesting how you said it’s not something to make a big deal about and also said you would break up over it??
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 01:21 AM
1

I made passion fruit slice
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 09:45 AM
6

Ensure all property titles are in joint names, share only joint bank accounts, have six months basic living expenses saved away in an personal account PRIOR TO MARRIAGE in case the worst happens (if your husband dies it’ll take some time for estate things to be sorted and you’ll have money OR if he leaves you then you’ve got a cushion whilst you wait for alimony), etc. Basically, if everything is joint, it is jointly yours. If your husband doesn’t want to share finances with you, his wife, big o…
/r/RedPillWives30/03/22 12:49 AM
8

Do you find that your partners find it “too much” to be the sole reason for you to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:45 AM
21

Welcome to the bisexual club my friend.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 08:16 AM
1

I think the only thing I truly would pay money to change is my very soft jaw. As I get older I would like much more definition there. I may even pay for liposuction. There’s really no need, fiancé loves me the way I am but it would make me a lot more confident. There are things I’m not 100% happy with but it’s really whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:14 AM
12

Have sex 1-2x a day?! Jesus my vag would be sore 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 03:46 AM
14

Men don’t have a victim complex? Have you been on an incel forum?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 02:39 AM
9

I was also wondering if the “HVM” she was talking about was actually her boyfriend or one of those random blackpill podcasters (one that comes to mind is Good Bro Bad Bro that said men have it harder in the gym because they have to fight against gravity and women don’t lmao like, yes I forgot we float lol). 95% of those guys are absolutely whacked, just hate women and wanna whinge about it instead of working on themselves to actually become HV. Most men are great but those guys are not. Maybe th…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 10:45 AM
8

I think I may have worded my question a bit vaguely considering I’m not actually traditional myself (I’m an atheist, etc) and am not looking for a traditional community, per se. I actually enjoy RPW as it is a good medium. I have friends who are open/poly and love RPW. I was more just confused as to how not allowing your husband/boyfriend to cheat to be a “feminist” thing. Like you said, which I couldn’t exactly find the words for, OP seemed to be coming from a purely male perspective (which is …
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 10:09 AM
15

They are both outright feminists, sorry for the miscommunication.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 08:41 AM
3

Yes my parents are liberal and progressive. They’re also Yin and Yang personality wise. They work very well together and thrive in each other’s presence. They each take care of the parts of the relationship that they are good at and there is harmony in my parents’ home. They are what RP say would never work but they do so i dont know. I’m just glad they’re happy and in love - it made for a good upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:56 AM
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People can happily live different lives. Both my parents are progressive hippies from the 70s and are thriving together and have been for years. Each to their own. There’s no need to put anyone else down. I know my parents are happy but I’ve chosen a different path. So long as everyone is happy, that’s good.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 07:53 AM
2

Don’t y’all think that every woman has been run through by 18years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:19 PM
3

Oddly specific ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:08 PM
1

The ambitious/good money guy. Looks always fade in the end. We all get chonky and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:18 AM
1

But isn’t LinkedIn specifically for professionals in work environments? I didn’t realise Instagram was only for professionals in work environments?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:49 AM
3

Yeah but it’s not in real life bothering. If someone bothers you online you block and delete. If someone actually bothers you at the gym your whole day is ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:42 AM
2

I have men message me all the time on Instagram. I always reply out of politeness that I’m taken (my Instagram does not entirely show that I’m definitely taken). I think it’s a great way to shoot your shot. I’ve made friends by shooting my shot in a friendly way over Instagram. One of those friends is a bridesmaid in my wedding. I’m sure a romantic relationship could work the same !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:41 AM
1

Mmmm that doesn’t sit right with me either. Cooking, etc. is great but if a man can’t even keep a room clean how is he going to keep a whole house clean if, for instance, you need to be on bed rest through pregnancy and can’t clean?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/22 07:51 PM
3

I am bisexual and have friends of both genders that I wouldn’t in a million years touch with a 10ft pole so yeah I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:58 AM
2

Yes I am the VERY feminine, left leaning/f*feminist friend and I never get any weird looks or comments (and before you ask why I’m here, I like the lifestyle). I own ONE pair of jeans and ONE pair of denim shorts. You’d literally have to be dressing like a full blown stepford wife to get weird looks but even then it depends on the situation. Lots of people enjoy dressing like that - it’s not like she’s got a wolf tail on lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 09:59 PM
3

I’d never date someone with mummy issues. Those boys are batshit and their mums are worse. It’s also a requirement to me that I get along with in laws (we don’t have to be besties for life but I wouldn’t tolerate any hostility from mothers or sisters). Daughters also will often take their mothers sides in matters concerning in laws (which is fine) but this means that if mum decides that daughter in law has wronged her in some way, then it’ll make daughter in laws life impossible. When babies com…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:56 AM
9

I’m not on the same page as you re: Christianity, abstinence, etc but I just want to let you know that repeatedly fasting for any period of time can alter/upset your hormones. I know it’s a religious thing but whilst you’re prepping that uterus for babies you might want to give it up. I am sure there are other ways you can focus on spirituality! I also noticed that you said high intensity exercise causes you irregular periods - are you underweight at all? If you’d like some book recs on foods an…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 05:04 AM
3

When my fiancé works away from home (which is normal for us) we occasionally text in the evening. We also text each other things like “have a good day” or little bits of gossip we pick up (lol). If he is working nearby (rare) the only texts I usually send are questions I need answered like “will you be home for dinner?”
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 08:25 PM
1

The dynamic was definitely different. Women needed men. Who cares if he was a bit ugly and didn’t give you the tingles if he gave you money and didn’t hit you (big bonus)? Men didn’t have to be present fathers, attractive humans or good partners and they could still lock down quality wives if they had decent money and charisma. Nowadays, women can fulfil the emotional side of relationships with their peers, get themselves off with 1000 different toys and make their own money. I dont know if this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:33 AM
28

Mmmmhmm the labour is not equal. This is not sustainable.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/22 10:42 AM
5

Together 7 years, living together 5, engaged 3 months (hehe). My situation is a little different. My fiancé works away a LOT. He’s rarely home. Therefore, my day looks like: Wake up alone, go on a run, put dishes away from day before, eat, shower, put a load of washing on, makeup/get dressed/get ready for work, attend work Lunch break: make food, hang out washing, play with dogs, do a few odd things around the house like pick up. After work: relax and have a drink, make dinner, walk the dogs, ch…
/r/RedPillWives21/03/22 08:05 AM
1

He’s not correct. I decided not to engage with him because he was entirely INCORRECT. When I got with him he was only earning $14/hr, he was 19, renting, was not physically fit (although I’ve always found him very attractive) and living paycheque to paycheque. So is that being picky? I saw potential and ran with it. He was willing to put in the work for a relationship and so was I and, in my opinion, we have a very successful one. Also, you’ll see that we actually ended up agreeing and having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:13 AM
1

According to RP all teenage girls are losing it super early and sleeping around? I’ve seen this repeated over and over. I’ve even had some guy tell me I had to be ugly to lose it so late.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:10 AM
5

You think the hobby of cooking is male dominated? None of those things are overly masculine except maybe the shooting of clay pigeons lol. Even video games are becoming more equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:44 AM
4

No women share hobbies with you? What do you do for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:35 AM
16

Bruh the post is literally asking how we would get a date with a girl and the reply is answering the question. It doesn’t matter if coed isn’t your preferred way to play sports, it’s obviously easier to meet girls playing coed than mens-only groups. You can’t just like like “I don’t like it therefore you are wrong”. You’re missing the point. Cold approaching women in bars is also not a fun time but many men still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:31 AM
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And, in turn, your partner should also be striving to please you. It’s normal to want to make your partner happy and secure. It doesn’t mean you are conforming to the “male gaze”.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/22 07:28 AM
1

I’m demisexual (pls nobody go “demisexuals aren’t real you just aren’t attracted to your partner reeeeeeee” because I don’t have the time). I feel sexual attraction to my fiancé but I see any other man and I just feel nothing. I could know he’s hot (I have eyes) but my vag is just a closed up shop to anyone I don’t have a strong emotional connection with. I’m bisexual and have had crushes on close female friends but I also don’t feel attracted to random women I don’t know. Because of this, I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:24 AM
0

They are married/coupled and have sexual/romantic relations outside of their main relationship. So, it’s not cheating because every couple defines cheating differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:13 AM
2

But an open relationship isn’t about keeping tabs on who is getting more ass. That would also destroy the relationship. It’s not even about sex. It’s about having the freedom to pursue further sexual relationships outside of the main relationship. If you’d be thinking about how much “more” one party is getting out of the agreement then it definitely wouldn’t work for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:11 AM
10

Yep. One way of living is not inherently better than another (so long as everyone is content) and I truly believe that women shouldn’t go full RP/tradwife anyway because they lose their identity and leave themselves open to manipulation/abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/22 04:06 AM
5

If I go out, I get approached a LOT. I’m no VS model but I think i am pretty enough. I’ve been with my now fiancé for nearly 7 years and used to wear a ring on my ring finger just to make letting them down easier. Now I have a real one to use lol. I usually say some variation of “no, sorry, I’m taken”. Most guys take it pretty good and are polite - especially when I started wearing the ring. I’ve been spat at by one guy and some have called me a bitch, etc. Men definitely take it easier once the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:48 AM
7

She didn’t say she was massively shocked??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:06 AM
1

Goats are so funny. Like little bouncy dogs. Very easy to get attached too. My fiancé suggested we start a goat meat farm (I already have 2 pet goats) but i was like “really? We’d just end up with 400 pet goats!”
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 09:02 PM
4

Easy to say you wouldn’t be upset without orgasms when sex itself revolves around you orgasming but okay. Like as if sex doesn’t end when a man finishes 90% of the time???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:47 PM
8

I’m the same. I found a guy that I love and care for and will (hopefully) make me a mother but before then I didn’t care for men. I felt the ones that I met would add nothing positive to my life and therefore I shouldn’t waste either of our time. If my fiancé (god forbid) died or broke up with me, I would unlikely ever pursue another man again. I value my relationship very highly with my fiancé but most men just don’t add that much. I’m not asexual. I get turned on and masturbate often but I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:08 AM
3

I’d get pregnant this August after my wedding if I could afford it. I’m trad wife as hell and we are quite “well off” for our age (24&25) - we own two houses (one outright) and have $50k in savings and yet we are a million miles away from kids. It’s too expensive. It’d be too hard for me to stop working for approx 10 years (which is something I want to do whilst we have younger than school age kids at home). Thankfully, I have bodily autonomy and access to abortion and birth control so I don’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:52 AM
3

Maybe men should give women more consistent orgasms and there wouldn’t be a problem? Imagine if most men didn’t orgasm from sex??? There’d be an uproar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:49 AM
2

Yeah, like, maybe old mate should do less masturbating alone in his room and more getting outside lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:48 AM
12

People who aren’t long term relationship minded should not have kids. It’s just damaging. Fuck around if you want but don’t bring kids into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:41 AM
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No nuclear families (married mum and dad and kids) is actually proven to produce more well adjusted and emotionally healthy adults. Having extended families present in child’s life is even more beneficial also.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:08 AM
1

I dont know haven’t had any personal experience myself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:25 AM
0

Yes it definitely takes some getting used to! I work full time also but I think if I didn’t it would be a lot harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:47 PM
4

Ohhhh I thought you mean they were your red flags - don’t mind me it’s too early to read 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:46 PM
3

My fiancé spends 6-7 days a week working away - 7 years going strong!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:49 PM
8

Yes male cops are always controlling and abusive too. It must be in the training. My fiancé and I had a good friend who joined the force. After training he came home for a night out w his new girlfriend. During this weekend his mum kicked him out bc he flogged his gf so bad that she had to be hospitalised. I was so shocked he used to be such a kind man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:47 PM
12

Wait… like normal waitresses or like waitresses ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:44 PM
1

You’re just saying words now. That doesn’t even prove your point. I’m guessing you’re from a white western culture and you believe hurting peoples feelings to be immoral? I’m from a white western culture and I believe that hurting peoples feelings is just an unfortunate side effect of making adult choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:43 PM
1

Who is to say what is good and bad though? It’s entirely subjective. Some people say sex before marriage is immoral and others don’t. Some people say polygamy is immoral and others don’t. Some people say homosexuality is immoral and others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:33 AM
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Yep. Not what he said but how and when he said it. If he’d said over breakfast “hey I really love when you wear X dress - could you wear it for me tonight?” Not basically “you look like a homeless person ew”
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 10:11 AM
1

I didn’t say immoral only means killing, did I? Come on now, read the response again, slowly. Did you get it this time, hon? It’s not immoral to me to hurt someone’s feelings. Immorality is subjective. You cannot tell me what I believe is unethical and what is not. I don’t think there is anything immoral about sleeping with a single, consenting adult. I also don’t think there’s anything immoral about hurting someone’s feelings. If I care about someone, I will aim to avoid hurting their feelings …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:06 AM
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It is frowned upon because it hurts peoples feelings. Obviously, theres nothing immoral about it but if you respect your friends then respect their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:02 AM
2

I technically met mine in high school but we didn’t get together until after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:33 AM
1

That’s crazy! I only speak 1.5 (I say .5 because I speak a little North Island Māori dialect) and even then I struggle! It is VERY impressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:53 PM
2

Mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:52 PM
5

Wow you speak four languages??? That’s fuckin cool as
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:27 AM
4

Hmmm my younger brothers and I were raised lower middle class. They’re both over 6ft. My youngest brother is very built (a gym bro if you will) and is 20. His long term girlfriend is 19 and very Sarah’s Day-esque. My middle brother 21 has always been very thin but has started to lift recently. His aesthetic and personality is definitely what draws girls to him. He’s very “groovy” (think like 70s but cool). He presents well and is very casual and charismatic. His long term girlfriend is basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:03 AM
2

This is not healthy for the kids though. One serve of McDonald’s each or an ice cream is a treat. This is too much.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 11:57 PM
1

Then how come everyone allegedly else has? If it was so easy why don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:50 PM
6

Yeah my baby fever is currently at an all time high but I know I’ve got to wait until we can comfortably afford one. I just tell myself I’ll be able to make a cuter nursery if I wait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:37 PM
5

Mhm I’d say it’s probably the opposite. Pretty girls don’t need to seek validation as teens by having sex. They know they’re pretty and that their prettiness is a commodity. Uglier girls on the other hand may feel like they can impress boys and feel validated by having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:32 PM
2

I still work full time (until I have them babies) so I tidy every day. On a weekday morning, I make my bed and then go for a run. When I get home, I start the kettle and put away the dishes my partner did the night before after dinner (that’s his favourite and only job lmao). I then make breakfast and go and sit down at the table. I pick up anything that has been left on the table from the day before and at least put the things into the rooms they’re supposed to be in (there’s a full length mirr…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 08:34 AM
18

I have slept with one Chad and then married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:58 AM
7

Didn’t have sex until 18. Didn’t even have my first kiss until then. I don’t feel that this is unusual for an average teenage girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:57 AM
2

So you’ve had sex with 40+ women/men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:27 AM
2

I’ve honestly never spoken to a woman with a body count higher than 15 unless she was an actual escort. That’s so bizarre to me? On what planet do young girls have 30, 50, 100+ sexual partners? That’s just insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:16 AM
9

The whole world has been telling y’all that your political system is whack for so many years and you’re only just waking up to it now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:13 AM
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So top 20% of men don’t want a relationship at all? Makes no sense. Also, it’s obvious why women don’t want to date as much anymore. Most men just don’t add anything valuable to our lives. We no longer need them for money, housing, clothing, etc. I’ve only dated one man and I’m marrying him. I consider him to be very high value. Prior to dating him, I had no interest in any other men because they were not going to add anything positive to my life. If I couldn’t lock down a high value man, I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:04 AM
1

I would consider it but only if my potential partner has a GREAT relationship with his baby’s mother. Like, absolutely no drama. Family holidays and all. In turn, I’d also have to get along with the baby’s mother. I also wouldn’t date someone with a whole family/multiple kids to one person especially if they were married beforehand. One night stand/accidental baby is definitely my preference. That way you’re not the evil step parent that ruined their happy family. I’m engaged anyway so this is v…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:08 PM
0

All my girl friends are similar to me but I guess like attracts like!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:28 PM
1

Most of my friends are similar (with less animals because they’re less crazy and less gardens because they live in town) but unfortunately they’re all already locked down lol I’ll let you know if another one pops up!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:28 PM
2

Well, I’m emotionally mature and grounded, I’m rational and relatively easy to get along with, I like activity and keep myself in relatively good shape, have a good and welcoming family with no big drama, I don’t have any kids, no crazy exes, I can hold a conversation with just about anyone, I’m well presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:26 PM
12

I’d say nothing because I’m a great catch as a human. I’m a good romantic companion. BUT if I was getting technical, I think what made my fiancé put a 2ct ring on my finger was the following: I’m very traditional and hard working. I want lots of babies and to assume a traditional homemaker role asap. I enjoy cleaning and keep a very clean house. I’d say my space is never “unclean” but instead sometimes needs picking up. I bake and cook and love to do so regularly. I can can and preserve foods. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:27 AM
3

When people say men and women can’t be friends I just assume these people literally want to fuck every member of the opposite sex. Which is weird, dude. Even weirder than me liking puss and dick. Not everything is about sex. Even if you’re attracted to a friend, the friendship is often worth more than a root.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:07 AM
1

Depends on the friend. Like, seriously, if she was shady, she wouldn’t want me around but if this girl and I can spend one on one time together ourselves (even just vibe for a few minutes when he ducks out of the room) then yep go for it. My fiancé has had girl friends his entire life. His Facebook from a young teen is filled with two particular female friends. Both of those friends are now bridesmaids in my wedding because they’re my best friends lmao. I’m bi and hang out with one/both of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:58 AM
3

I think a lot of men struggle with the concept that, to some people, maintaining a high quality friendship is way more important than risking it for a quicky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:24 AM
4

Not what she said. Don’t be immature. It does not make for a very conducive conversation:)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:08 AM
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Yes. I’m also 24 and sometimes I look at 16-19 year olds with dismay because I know they’re making poor life choices. Just as I have more life experience than a 16 year old, a 34 year old has more experience than me. Only difference is now I’m old enough to take advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:07 AM
1

I mentioned domestic violence (instead of abusive) specifically because I didn’t want to use the umbrella term of “abuse”. Women are way more likely to emotionally and mentally abuse men, I do agree. It’s disgusting and something needs to be done by the government to provide help for men who are subject to such abuse. But Violence can be seen. Like, “actions speak louder than words”. If women killed men at the rate that men currently kill women then there’d be plenty of shelters for men. Most fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:04 AM
4

Women face more social struggles (single mothers, victims of domestic violence, etc) so therefore more social programs. Almost all women-only domestic violence shelters are run by women for women. Men need to band together to create shelters. I’d definitely donate to a mens shelter but I don’t know the first thing about what a mens shelter needs to provide (like womens shelters provide physical sanctuary that their attackers cannot get into as well as space for children) and I imagine most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:14 AM
2

I have family all over the world but I’m a dual citizen in NZ so probably there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:37 AM
1

My fiancé wants the same amount! Edit to add: We’re getting married in August. I’ll likely start natural birth control after that and aim to get pregnant at about 25/26 and have a kid at 26/27. Pending how the carrying and birth thing goes I’ll try to have them 2-3 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:36 AM
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I want all the kids. I want snot and snuggles and tantrums and all of it. Realistically, probably between 4-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:17 PM
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Ehhhh I wouldn’t call myself redpilled and I am also left wing and pro-all-the-fruity-things-you-can-think-of. BUT I am very traditional in the way I live my life. I will also be traditional in the way I raise my kids. Whilst my values and this subs don’t always align I still find great value in it. I believe in the importance of a nuclear family and the role of mother and father. I have a great relationship with my mum and dad and can’t wait to see them become grandparents. I just want to give …
/r/RedPillWives08/03/22 10:56 AM
2

Yup. That sort of thing is a one way trip to the handmaids tale and I’m not hanging around for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:34 AM
7

The 70s wasn’t really a time where most women were “forced” into marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:15 AM
1

Mind replying to me if you actually get an answer from this dude? I’m finding this discussion interesting :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:40 AM
2

I probably wouldn’t change anything. I think maybe I would’ve tried to be a bit more ambitious when I was a bit younger. I’d also be a bit less pig-headed in school. I’d also get my ADHD diagnosis earlier so I could get help and struggle less. My diagnosis has had a profound impact on my life but not knowing about it impacted me worse. I’m about to get married and then probably start trying for a kid so what I do work-wise is just about irrelevant but I do wish I’d worked better-paying jobs so w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:39 AM
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I just have the agreement with my partner that if I give up my ability to work, my current physical form and possibly my ability to hold my bladder then I expect to have my current lifestyle maintained. In return, I’ll provide kids, a clean house and good food (at a minimum). It’s got to be a win/win situation. Obviously there’s some leeway for slow weeks or illness. I also have insurance on my fiancés income so if he stops being able to work due to illness or injury then we will still be provid…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/22 11:21 PM
2

Is it not true that if a man opts against signing the birth certificate and terminates his parental rights he doesn’t have to pay child support?? This is the case where I live unless, say, the parents have 3 kids together and she’s pregnant with their 4th and they split up. He still has to pay for the 4th even if he refuses to be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:42 PM
4

I mean, aliens are very likely real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:40 PM
1

Not sure I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:39 PM
4

this is true lmao like are you guys okay over there? maybe it’s the lack of liveable wage or healthcare? id probably be stressed too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:42 PM
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Totally unsure. I’ve never been to America but I’ve been to SE Asia, NZ, Japan and South Africa. Obviously, all cultures have a variances in how men and women interact. Perhaps it is that, overall, we are more casual in our lifestyle which seeps over into our romantic values? It’s a pretty casual country - even in the cities. We also have universal healthcare, cheap public transport, liveable wage, etc which is another layer of things we don’t really need to stress about. There are also a LOT of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:41 PM
4

Thanks for the video! I really enjoyed it! I do agree. I agree especially how he said “small subset of women”. I think, if you have any men that you care for AT ALL in your life then you will be empathetic and compassionate towards them and, in turn, be more understanding. I have two (not so little) brothers who I am constantly concerned about. Thankfully, they have very nice long term girlfriends (so the concern of them encountering manipulative women is minimised) but they live in cities far a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:29 PM
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Yes I’m from Australia and I am surrounded by many happy couples and many of the RP advice doesn’t apply here. Yes, hot people pair up with hot people and average people pair up with average people. It’s more common here for a man to be “punching” up (Americans seem to insinuate that the woman is a always punching up because of hypergamy). Sometimes posts on here feel so extreme like I’m reading about a different planet. Every one of my girlfriends (barring two who are doing masters degrees) are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:30 AM
1

As a woman, I agree that financial stability is one thing women look for especially in terms of long term relationships. As much as it would be very romantic and fanciful to pretend that money doesn’t matter it’s just not reality. If I am going to take time off to have babies then I’m going to need someone who can maintain my current lifestyle. I don’t want to be stressing about bills getting paid, food being on the table, etc while I’m trying to raise kids. It’s just not conducive to a happy li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:47 PM
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Yes, excellent way to get some quick trauma for character development.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 11:48 PM
7

Yes, I do want my fiancé to open up. If he needs to cry then he can cry (and he has done so before). Women who are turned off but softness are ducking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:57 AM
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Vast majority of men have had women leave them bc they cry???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:55 AM
0

Most men do shit like this? A man is more likely to leave a woman after an illness than a woman is a man. Men are just less resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:48 AM
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Dodged a bullet. Absolutely. She’s a pathetic piece of shit if that’s the reason things “fizzled”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:46 AM
1

But especially (if you’re not religious) everyone has different definitions of marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 07:33 PM
1

I didn’t say constant contact. My fiancé also often works well out of mobile service but will make contact when he’s back in service. In every relationship I know there is a back and forward over text, not necessarily conversation, but “what are you up to?” Or “how is work going today” or “how did xyz go?”
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 07:31 PM
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especially at the start of a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 10:47 AM
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Yeah weird that he’s a boyfriend and there’s not a regular back and forward every day. Like, my fiancé might take 6 hours to respond due to work but we have a constant back and forward even if it’s sparse. We live together and there’s less need for a conversation because we catch up over dinner every night. If you’re not living together, you would think there’d be a lot more texting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 10:21 AM
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Ladies Handbook? I found that in my fiancés grandparents house and it’s great
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 06:29 AM
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Yeah and even our “baggy” clothes are usually loose dresses instead of baggy shorts and T-shirt’s!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 11:50 PM
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I’m glad I could help! I was 100% a tomboy in my teenage years and my mum was also very tomboyish! I actually have taught HER how to curl her hair 😅😅 Over the years, I’ve gradually started dressing more feminine (it started in late teenagehood by me wearing short skirts and crop tops lol but I’m older now and I’d look fucking ridiculous if I tried that) Start with darker/neutral colours and nothing too outrageous. Greys, blacks, whites, cream, etc always match each other so that’s one less thing…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 08:02 PM
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Omg it’s so hard to find cute sweaters that don’t make me look like a cube. I just want wear an oversized sweater without looking like I’ll blow away in the wind 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 07:54 PM
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Maybe a good in between would be wearing a tighter top that is a bit more covered over (but less cleavage) and a more loose skirt? That’s generally how I dress because, even though I’m slim, I have large breasts. I find that I look funny if I wear tight clothing (like I’m trying to look like cat woman lol) but if I wear looser dresses my boobs create a tent and make me look like a square. Basically, if the fit comes in at the waist, you’ll probably still find it mostly flattering! If in doubt, w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 11:09 AM
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Add “nagging” to that list
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:22 AM
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I live in Australia which is notoriously expensive. Average wage where I live is about $35k and a decent home here is $500k (I’m in the actual sticks in the middle of nowhere). Median income for all full time, adult workers in Australia is $60ishk and the average house price is $1.1 million. I am fully aware that it is nearly impossible for a young person to buy a house unless they’re a) rich or b) have literally no fun and eat canned beans for about 5 years. My two younger brothers went to uni …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:21 AM
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Unfortunately, I don’t have kids and work full time. My fiancé does make bank though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:48 AM
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First of all, I don’t live in America. I hate having to remind you lot that you’re not the centre of the universe. I dont even know what a “mid west” is. I’m just going to copy and paste my other reply: “I grew up poor with older parents. They’re almost at retirement age so I didn’t get any help from them. My partner didn’t grow up poor but his sister is very sick and has medical expenses out the wazoo so we also didn’t receive any help from his parents. I will admit that we made a lot of sacrif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:47 AM
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I grew up poor with older parents. They’re almost at retirement age so I didn’t get any help from them. My partner didn’t grow up poor but his sister is very sick and has medical expenses out the wazoo so we also didn’t receive any help from his parents. I will admit that we made a lot of sacrifices and missed out on a lot of fun young adult things because we were both terrified of facing instability. My partner worked 87.5 hours this week. We are not having a fun time trying to hoard money like…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:45 AM
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I own 2. One mortgage free. I’m 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:27 AM
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As a woman, an adult 21+ years old man living with his parents (if he’s not building a house or something similar) is an absolute turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:15 AM
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In my opinion, there are a lot of abusive people out there. Not just in intimate relationships but also in friendships, etc. Lots of people need therapy and don’t get it. Inherently abusive people seek out those who are easily abused. There are just as many abusive women as abusive men. First of all, women are, typically, “allowed” to speak out about their abusive partners. Whereas men fear the repercussions of calling a woman abusive as well as laying themselves bare and exposing their mental/e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:25 AM
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It’s so easy bc I’ve just sent them the link and said “pick a style that you like in X colour”. So much easier than fucking around with a boutique and trying to make it happen on time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 08:20 AM
2

My bridesmaids are wearing Shona Joy dresses for my wedding!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 05:32 AM
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I think general Australian women’s style is pretty feminine as well as being casual and wearable. Have a look on Cotton On, Glassons and Princess Polly - especially if you’re under 30. Other, more expensive but refined, brands include (not sure if Australian but popular here) Auguste the Label, Faithful the Brand and Aere (for good black and white basics). If you are a bit more alternative then definitely check out Dangerfield and Princess Highway (a lot of princess highway stuff is very modest …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 02:57 AM
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I meant it more in a way that he is supportive of my personal life goals and understands that I need my own fulfilment in life. Lots of men appear to forget their wives’ wants and needs in their pursuit of success. My HVM would be supportive of me if I wanted to work full time, part time or become a big fancy CEO. I’m not sure these things would be conducive to our current life goals (wholesome family goals) but you get what I mean.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 10:07 PM
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When did she say it did?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 09:15 AM
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Well, I think he’s high value in a broader sense because: he earns lots of money; he is attractive and charming; he wants a family; he is financially responsible, has a high work ethic and is very ambitious; he supports and encourages my desire to be a SAHM; and he is good at sex and will eat me out. Additionally, he is high value to me specifically because: he is emotionally mature and responsible with his feelings and emotions; he is unafraid to cry/express “weakness” or discuss emotionally de…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 09:15 AM
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If health and the future for both of you are at risk maybe ‘nagging’ is the only way to proceed? I have insurance on my partner’s workability because one time he got hit in the head with an excavator bucket. No serious injuries except a short hospital stay and a few days off work. Hospital/medical care is free here and he had leave so no issues with money BUT it scared the living daylights out of me. Every scenario involving us having no money played out in my mind (in addition to the ultimate f…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 11:32 AM
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Good quality silk flowers can look lovely. If you want to have them out 24/7 they are worth the investment. I have some on my dining table along with dried Australian natives. That being said, nothing beats real flowers. If you actually enjoy arranging them (something I’m not that keen on, I have dermatitis lol) maybe the investment would be worth it if you could get them from a wholesaler? Farmers markets and the like have them uncut and sell singularly for a lot cheaper.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 10:53 AM
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Never had casual sex in my life. Cute assumption though saved myself for my husband. In my opinion, if you’re pursuing a relationship with someone - whether it be a FWB relationship (aka sex whilst enjoying each other’s company) or any other sort of relationship it isn’t casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:39 AM
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You’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:20 AM
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Thank you! Some of these blokes will do some insane gymnastics to make a definition work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:41 AM
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Casual sex is casually having sex with little to no strings attached. Feigning interest in a relationship so someone will have sex with you is not casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:40 AM
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It doesn’t fit the definition of casual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:56 AM
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This! If you look like you could support a healthy pregnancy then you’re likely decently attractive. Throw in boobs and a but and you’re a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:06 AM
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If you have to aggressively tell people “I’m a nice guy” you’re probably not a nice guy - that’s just a fact haha People like NICE guys but they don’t like “nice guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:45 AM
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Yeah I just wanna say that I tell everyone to bury me with my antidepressants. They honestly changed my life. I know medication isn’t for everyone but they allow me to be a real, functioning woman again. The only downside is it’s totally murdered my libido. Like executioner style murdered lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 11:37 PM
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It also helps that if you wear a dress you don’t have to decide on an outfit because it is both pants and shirt! Amazing. Life changing. 🤣🤣
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 08:56 PM
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Thank you! I’m happy you said that since I’m a few beers deep after a rough Monday at work! Maybe it’s because I’ve shrunk my social circles since the pandemic and most of my male friends are either married or having at least moderate success with dating but I’ve not heard anything in real life about red/black pill for years. I also just want to add that most of the women I associate with, partnered up and single, are very high quality. I wonder if they are actually the minority (and like attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:09 AM
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I do tend to agree. Women are very much socially driven and care a great deal what their peers think of them (especially other women their own age). In fact, I think a lot of hypergamous actions can be put down to women wanting to be “better” than their female peers. It’s not even about men at that point. You always want to be the one whose boyfriend/husband is the better one because, somehow, that makes you a better girlfriend/wife. You want to have “aw I wish mine would do that” directed to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:35 AM
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I do understand where TRP is coming from. I get it. I know women, I do get it. I just hate the sweeping generalisations about women. You have to understand that we’re not all bad, hypergamous and sleeping around. Some of us want to nurture a relationship with a good man. My whole main friend group is engaged/married/in a defacto LTR. Although, I will admit, high-quality and relationship-minded women are snapped up quickly. They’re also more likely to turn bitter after being scorned and turn into…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:48 AM
2

Okie dokie cranky man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:57 AM
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I suppose he’s not average, no. He’s a hard worker. I knew he would make lots of money even while we were living in a shitty rental. I’m 24 and he’s 25. Dating since teens. He didn’t propose until recently because we were actual kids until recently and we worked to buy two investment properties as well as the house we live in. He wanted to buy me an amazing ring (and, who am I kidding, I also wanted a flash ring) so we waited until we had a good, steady, stream of income to jump into a wedding. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:47 AM
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I’m actually in a very successful (6 year long) relationship with a man that make lots of money, is happy for me to be a stay at home mother/wife, is physically fit and attractive and who is my best friend. He actually proposed on Christmas morning! So you can stop insinuating I’m too picky. If I was too picky I probably wouldn’t have had any luck. I’m just lurking here because it’s interesting to see how many people INSIST that successful relationships only work one way. It’s all give and take.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:29 AM
4

But spinning plates is all part of the philosophy isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:17 AM
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I’m demisexual so no one is hot to me unless they’ve got a good personality so yknow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:00 AM
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I’m very sorry to place this image in your mind but I walked in on my late 80s neighbours fully butt naked having sex in their kitchen. Old people still have sex, even if it is gross. (Also, I walked into their kitchen because they were on holiday and I was supposed to be feeding their animals. They forgot to tell me they were coming home a few days early. I don’t just go storming into peoples houses without permission lmao).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:59 AM
1

Because they can get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:41 AM
1

I think it’s great that men are taking more interest and responsibility in their reproductive health. More power to them. The less unwanted babies in the world, the better!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:46 PM
7

I thought this comment was talking about Russia though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:25 AM
3

Looking less fat is looking better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:32 AM
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I do agree but they look more put together than their equally fat male counterparts. That’s what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:12 AM
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Spanx, flattering clothing, makeup, etc. Obese women dressed up for clubbing look much better than obese men dressed up for clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:07 AM
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But often obese and fat women make an effort to look less obese and fat when they go out. Obese and fat guys always just don’t seem to give an actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:44 AM
1

currently singing along to a very sexist Eminem song No, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:59 AM
0

Definitely men “punching up” by a large gap
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:48 AM
4

Are you only saying that because there are people here that don’t agree with you? What, might I ask, is completely redpill?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 12:46 AM
1

All men are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:52 AM
9

Entertainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:49 PM
1

I never said it was the average nor did I say it was achievable for everyone? I’m stating that, even though he had a bummy rental, a 20 year old car, and nothing to his name, I knew he’d make a lot of money eventually. You can absolutely tell the difference between a guy who lives at his parents house by necessity and the guy who likes at his parents house by choice. Also, in Australia, your student loans don’t matter until you make over $66k a year and they don’t impact your borrowing ability a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:48 PM
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You sound very bitter replying to all these women who want marriage. I think you’ve got some unaddressed issues, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:24 AM
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Yep. My fiancé and I have been together 6.5 years now. We are 24 and 25. We worked for everything together. We own one investment property outright and we have just purchased a small 60 acre hobby farm. When we first got together he was in a shitty rental and I was at home. I could still tell from the get go that he was going to go far. We pooled our savings to buy our first home. He makes lots of money now. We work well as a team and have lots of deep love for each other. All I want is to do is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:27 AM
1

I’m engaged but if I was single and a guy I was dating told me he was a virgin I wouldn’t really say anything. Probably be surprised but it wouldn’t worry me. I’d probably be a bit more attentive during our first few encounters but overall not make a big deal out of it unless he wanted me too. I’d hope it was a positive e experience for him regardless of whether we carried on the relationship after intimacy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:13 AM
5

Yeah like men literally didn’t invent the society we live in?????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:07 AM
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This. Most of my lovely, kind, amazing female friends have been abused by men - physically or emotionally (one even being restrained in her house for two months and repeatedly raped with the intention of getting her pregnant). They’re all still kind, warm and loving individuals. Women can go through such torture and come out the other side with compassion. So many men just have women be mean to them and decided to hate them forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:28 PM
5

I don’t wish for you to die, I don’t even know you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:59 PM
1

I think the most accurate studies show that about a third of women AND men are virgins throughout and after college. So, plenty of men aren’t virgins after college. What’s the difference? This is the part of RP I hate so much. Like, the hypocrisy and misogyny. Is there a part of reddit that loves traditionalism but doesn’t degrade women?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 09:13 PM
2

That’s completely incorrect in a multitude of ways. You’re saying most 28yo RPW are “ran through”? I wouldn’t even say most 28yo liberal women have had that much sex.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 07:58 PM
5

I agree with this. Nothing wrong with young mothers but definitely wait until you’re not an actual teenager anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:35 AM
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If they’re engaged and she’s in high school right now I imagine they’ve been at least dating for a year or two… he’s 10 years older than her… there’s a lot more to address here than telling a teen to “follow her heart”.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:33 AM
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I’m 24 and I look at any 18 year old boy as an actual child. Even my friend’s (17F) boyfriend who is 18 and very mature, has started his own business and earns good money is, to me, very immature and childish. He doesn’t mean to be but he hasn’t been out in the adult world for long. He is very charismatic and lovely but, at the end of the day, he’s a kid. Why would any man who is nearly 30 years old want to be with a kid with no life experience? I can only think of one reason - no woman his age …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 11:31 AM
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Yeah like how long has the one with the high n count been…. Not doing that? Like, if she stopped after 25 and it’s been 10-15 years with just a few ltrs then it’s different to her stopping 2 months beforehand. Also, is the girl who is a virgin only because she wants to wait until marriage or is she completely intolerable to the point no one will put their dick anywhere near her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:47 AM
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Sounds like a LVM
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 11:37 PM
15

That is, I suppose, the most appealing thing of anyone older. They act more mature. Young people act like young people and they’re annoying and exhausting. I’m nearly 24 and I’ve recently befriended an 18yo girl from work. Her life is consistently blown out of proportion. She is ridiculous. Her friends are ridiculous. Her love interests are ridiculous. It’s exhaust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:47 AM
4

Yeah why would you want women to treat you the same way they would’ve treated you when they were a non committal 18yo with plenty of options? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:16 AM
5

I’m on 200mg of Sertraline at the moment :) I went on that one because its what my mum and dad both take so it was most likely to agree with me (and it did work). If you can find a close blood relative that takes antidepressants (not for BPD, etc) successfully then you’ll be more likely to agree with that variety. My anxiety wasn’t as severe to start with but it definitely got worse as I got older (I’m about to turn 24 and have been on antidepressants for I think 2-3 years). Mental illness rarel…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 09:19 AM
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This sounds like anxiety. As someone medicated for depression and anxiety I can tell you right now my entire life changed for the better when I started taking medication. I’m not recommending meds but definitely recommending seeing a doctor about this. I remember my mum saying to me when I was younger and finally asked about her “happy pills” that she couldn’t believe that how she felt was just a sliver of how “normal” people felt. I thought I didn’t get it until I started on my own medication. …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 08:49 AM
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At this age? No, because I don’t want kids right now. Later in life, yes. I’d have to meet the kids and like them before I decided 100% to stick with the guy, though. Kids don’t deserve to have someone in their life who hates them and I don’t want to put up with kids I hate. Sounds harsh but it’s a reality. It would be my preference to have kids with one man and be married first, etc etc but I’m very traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:42 AM
2

Exactly right and both claim they’re “traditional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:50 PM
2

They claim to be traditionalist but they’re really only traditionalist for women. Part of the philosophy is to bully their partner and cheat (“spinning plates”) to diminish their self esteem. I think they’re mostly very right wing, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:16 PM
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I hope you’re not serious 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:42 AM
1

Who’s gonna make them then if we no longer pay taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:17 PM
2

I don’t think you understand what alimony is for….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:08 PM
1

Do you like having roads and public schools???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:04 PM
1

I’m a “smart woman” and all I want is to be a SAHM so try again, darl. What “smart women” are lacking is men who will provide a comfortable lifestyle for the wives and children without “spinning plates” on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:04 PM
1

I’m quite happy to pay for my own feminine hygiene products but I think for lower income people it goes to the bottom of the list of priorities. Say, if I use cheaper pads, I get a huge rash downstairs and I can’t have sex or even pee without severe pain. I need medical assistance. I have the opportunity to purchase more expensive products now so this doesn’t happen anymore. I can’t imagine dealing with that sort of reaction in hot summer weather as a homeless person. I just think the homeless/l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:00 PM
2

Yet men still get their knickers in a twist when the overwhelming response to the “would you date a RP man” is NO. So many emotional men in those threads just jumping up and down each time a woman says they definitely would not date a “red pilled” man. Like, no, I don’t want a man who will habitually cheat on me. I want a traditional relationship with a man as the provider and myself as the homemaker and caretaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:30 AM
2

That is literally public humiliation? Humiliation in public = public humiliation. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:27 AM
1

I don’t care. Everyone has different priorities in life. Some women want to make bulk cash while they’re still hot, some women (like myself) want to find a husband build a traditional life while they’re still hot, some want somewhere in between and some want none of that. We’re not a hive mind. I already have an attractive man who loves me, makes a heap of money and is great in bed so the activities of OF woman, “instahoes” and sugar babies are barely a blip on my radar. Everyone has different p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:16 AM
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Pair bonding isn’t real you egg
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 11:22 PM
2

Dude, you mentioned feet A LOT. Do you just want women to let you drool over their feet? What’s the end goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:39 AM
1

Okay, I’m glad that’s your opinion, darl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:32 PM
1

Patience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:32 AM
1

You’ve actually got no idea what you’re talking about
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 07:31 AM
1

Yes, the further below the poverty line that you are (man, woman or child) the more susceptible to abuse you are. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:24 AM
3

Okay, I’ll rephrase: you really don’t think many of the men who claim to be red pilled embody that, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:23 AM
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You don’t really think many of the men on TRP sub embody that, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:51 PM
2

The whole premise of RP is polyamory? Spinning plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:49 PM
5

Yeah not the poverty and abuse or anything oml these guys are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:47 PM
2

Masculinity 97 and Femininity 122 That surprised me, actually. I definitely thought I’d be more “feminine”. But, like, ya girl can change a tire yknow. The questions are a bit shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:37 PM
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This this this. I’m not Christian by any means but my fiancé at 17 and we got engaged at Christmas at 23 and 24. There are also SO many horrible, shady men out there who will prey on naive young girls and trap them into marriages. You need life experience to know how to vet the psychos.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 02:02 AM
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The reasons men kill other men are not the same as the reasons men kill women. You’re absolutely delusional to think that it’s all the same sort of violence between men and men vs men and women. You guys will spin anything to make yourselves an argument. Ill give you points for creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:23 PM
1

And women are regularly mistreated by men but you all whinge and whine about being treated the same. You men and your hypocrisy. Get a grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:46 AM
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He said he trolls them and makes them the butt of jokes? Is that not bullying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:33 AM
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I know these guys are like “women hate me, i dont know why, big sad” and then actively bully women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:08 AM
2

All my spare room wardrobes have winter coats or my formal gowns. The two spare room beds don’t have any under bed space. That leaves under my bed and I think it would creep me out lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:45 AM
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We have a small house i dont know where we’d keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:07 AM
2

Yeah I agree. One of my best friends husbands is a stay at home dad and he does a fantastic job!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:14 AM
1

I know which is a shame. I think there always needs to be a parent at home with the kids when they’re young. Childcare where I live is $170 per day per kid also so really unreasonable when I was only making $25/hr. So, not worth the $30 I’d make a day to work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:17 AM
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Well lucky for me I don’t have to worry about working after I have babies :) my fiancé makes more than enough for us to continue our lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:10 AM
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Love is real but, yes, relationships are transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:37 PM
3

It’s my little brothers birthday so it always has been “his” day. Unfortunately, he’s just gone off to university 5 hours away. I am very proud of him but sad because it’ll probably be my first Valentine’s Day without my baby brother! If my fiancé is not working away, then I think maybe we’ll go out for dinner. I’d like to go to the river and have a picnic because I’m currently locked in my house with covid and chomping at the bit to get out. If my fiancé is working away then I’ll cook something…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 07:49 PM
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I think everyone needs to remember that, whilst it’s fun to argue away on the internet, this is not even remotely close to how real life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:43 PM
1

My needs are: make enough money for me to comfortably quit my job and raise bulk babies dick me down good That is all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:21 AM
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My only strict preferences are: taller than me (I’m 5’5 so) good personal hygiene Definitely have a preference for bigger dudes like Adam Driver, Jason Mamoa, etc aesthetically wise. My current partner of 6 years is 5’9-5’10(?). I dont know for sure bc I don’t really care. He is built bigger and is very muscly but not super ripped also which I find very attractive. He also has a beard and is hairy which I find attractive. Looks aren’t everything. I definitely look at whatever else someone brings…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:59 AM
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I don’t 100% subscribe to RPW but we usually stay in or go and see family/friends. It’s probably 50/50 staying in or going out. I sometimes head out to the pub alone while he stays in or vice versa. I don’t like hosting because I cannot scurry away from social situations if they’re at my house lol
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:05 AM
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No, apparently you can’t read. Im making the argument that women don’t enjoy being catcalled?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:42 PM
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You are impossible to rationalise with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:54 AM
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You cannot be saying that shit to kids dude. She’s clearly deranged and aggressive. They’re obviously on some sort of drugs. You simply cannot say inappropriate sexual things to kids. Also, the girl is in a tank top and daisy dukes at the supermarket. It’s not an insanely “slutty” outfit. It’s not like she’s in clubbing clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:27 AM
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She called a kid a slut??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:12 AM
1

No thanks. For the love of god, keep that to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:12 AM
1

I dont know what a picture of your shrimp would prove about catcalling?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:52 AM
1

Aggressive adult woman yells at teenage girl = more badass?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:52 AM
1

Yes that’s clearly what happened because the poor girl was crying??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:00 AM
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No man who is walking with his wife/de facto partner that says something “complimentary” to a teenager is saying it in a nice, polite way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:47 AM
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First time I was cat called I was 10. I was from a rural, conservative area and was visiting the city to perform in our countries opera house. I wearing 3/4 length jeans and a tshirt with a bedazzled cat on it. I did not enjoy that at all and have never enjoyed it since. I’ve never met a woman who does enjoy it. I’d love you to prove that most women enjoy it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:08 AM
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It’s absolutely the general consensus that cat calling is not a fun time. There are MANY more women who hate it than who love it. Like 95% of women hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:35 AM
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My fiancé is very sensible and I’m much more of a idealistic dreamer. I tend to accept and follow his lead because I know he definitely knows best for our future. He is very self restrained. Despite this, very regularly tolerates and indulges my wants, though. For example, I call him saying there’s 25 elderly ex-layer chickens that need a foster home and he says sigh okay hahaha. I think I help to bring out his less sensible side and he definitely pulls me into line when I want to buy a pony. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:57 AM
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Yeah some men even claim that men who treat women very well in relationships are simps. Others are only simps if they compliment women they don’t know. It’s so vague, who are we bullying???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:45 AM
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This is literally ridiculous. They’re both deranged. You can’t be disgusting in public and then have your feral tradwife scream at kids because you’re a pervert. It’s so disgusting. It was not the kids’ fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:33 AM
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Having men yell “compliments” at you is, like, literally the least flattering thing ever to occur to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:32 AM
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I’m his, he’s mine and everything else in the house (including kids and animals) is “ours”. Our finances are 1000% combined and therefore also “ours”. Obviously, there’s a few exceptions such as if he uses MY expensive shampoo that takes 2 weeks to ship to our house because rural area then I will end his life - simples. That is MINE lmao
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 02:42 AM
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This isn’t healthy. It’s abusive. He’s destroyed your mental health and is blaming you for it. I’m going to want to bet that his previous wife is not as bad as he says she is. If we’re being honest, your fertility window is closing. No one likes to hear it but you’re wasting your time with this man. He’s going to keep using and abusing you and then eventually leave you high and dry when something shinier comes along. You need to get out and refocus your lenses. Get yourself back together and the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 02:37 AM
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I’m in Australia part way through my 7 day covid isolation with my fiancé and feeling like a human garbage fire. Yesterday, I made a massive pasta bake/casserole thing and also about 4 serves of “bangas and mash” to get us through the suffering without having to think too much! Tonight is whatever I feel like - if I can stomach it!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/22 12:08 PM
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Yeah I’d say she wears a lot of baggy pants but definitely tighter/smaller tops because she’s very flat chested and they suit her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:22 AM
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She is 5’8 so she’s a taller girl but she was only 125lbs to begin with and very skinny. She has never worked out nor ever set foot in a gym. She cared for her grandmother throughout the pandemic and her grandma basically only cooked cookies and cakes (dementia and a touch of “I’m old I’ll do what I want”) so they both gained weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:19 AM
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To be fair, one of my best friends has gained 50lbs over lockdown and she only went up ONE dress size. It’s barely noticeable on her body. Whereas I’ve gone up 2-3 with less than half the weight gain. We all carry weight very differently - men and women. It’s just genetics. Like how super skinny women can have heaps of cellulite and some women like Ashley Graham who are plus sized can have next to none. It’s all luck of the draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:34 AM
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Ehhh 25-40 pounds is whatever like with age that’s bound to happen. You also have to consider injuries, pregnancy and illness too, I suppose. If the weight gain is not due to a voluntary lifestyle change then it’s completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:28 AM
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Yeah like have you seen any Adam Sandler movie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:26 AM
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Contrary to what y’all believe, average dudes with good game get plenty of girls.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 12:18 PM
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Yeah, I’m the same, I’m 5’5 and 15-20 pounds on me makes a HUGE difference. Not something I realised until I gained 15 in quarantine…. now to lose it again…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:18 AM
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I’d say normie? I did very well in school but decided not to go to university. I suppose I was the introverted arty kid, if anything? I met my current fiancé in high school and we decided to work to set ourselves up together in life. I’m a very soft and feminine person - I love animals, running, vegetarian, drinking tea, reading, beer, etc. I dress and act super feminine. I am also hopeless romantic. I’m very left leaning and a feminist but aspire to live a traditional life at home with kids. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:21 PM
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Because you need to be able to maintain the lifestyle of a woman when she stops working to produce and raise your offspring?? Why is that so hard to understand for you lot?? If I’m giving up my body and mind to have your kids then I want to continue to maintain the lifestyle I had whilst I was still working aka same restaurants, clothing brands, holidays, etc. It makes obvious sense. I just don’t know why you lot think that is SO outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:48 AM
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My fiancé doesn’t look like Henry Cavill or Jason Mamoa but I’d still pick him over them any day of the week. I’m certainly no Margot Robbie or ScarJo but I know he would pick me over them. Relationships are about far more than looks.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 08:38 PM
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Gives me a good laugh and that is all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:03 AM
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Devastating 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:56 AM
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I still disagree. Abuse is not a disagreement. I’ve never experienced someone claiming a disagreement as abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:36 AM
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Disagree. Life shouldn’t be abusive. Your partner especially should not belittle, physically hurt, embarrass, etc you. That’s just my opinion. I believe those things are abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:22 AM
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Yeah I’ve definitely worked very, very hard to move from the shitty friend group that was constantly drama, fighting, bringing each other down, etc. I did a 180 and now have several friend groups who are so positive and kind and supportive. That’s probably why everyone i know has a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:58 AM
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Yes I’m aware I’m the overall preferred body type but I just don’t think I’m his favourite female body type! He still loves all of me but I know he loves some little tiddies! He’s not just with me for my body at least 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:56 AM
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Yeah lmao he does
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:15 AM
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Yeah I look very little like my fiancé’s favourite porn star (we’re both slim but she’s got small boobs/butt and blonde hair/blue eyes and I’m brunette with big boobs/butt). He still treats me like I’m the hottest girl he’s ever seen so who actually gives a fuck. So long as no one is comparing and hurting their partners feelings then it really doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:46 AM
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I’m not framing anyone as “broken”. It’s not that rare. There’s entire subreddits dedicated to supporting the partners of porn addicts. Additionally, many of the women on the dead bedroom subs mention a high level of born use as well. I don’t necessarily think either porn or gaming addiction a bad thing. It’s an addiction. I think young people need to understand the impact that porn has on their brains. There’s countless studies on the negative impacts that it has. That being said, like any addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:07 AM
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Yeah you can post links.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:56 PM
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Oh I make $50k in a rural area working part time which is above average for the area ($30k is the average full-time salary).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:55 PM
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I don’t think so. I think most of my friends (except two are useless at dating and have whacko ideas of what type of man they want) are in the same sort of relationships. My partners friend group is all very similar too (with the exception of one couple that got pregnant after 30 days dating via tinder but are giving it their best shot lmao). Maybe it’s a “like attracts like” type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:27 PM
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crosses Mitchell off baby name list
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:17 PM
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Yes omg I don’t use OLD but my friend was telling a story about how she was seeing this guy and they on date 4. They were chatting about how much she loves skiing (we live in AUS, very small window for skiing). He was saying how he had been overseas to ski a few years prior and was showing her some photos. He just dropped in “oh and there’s my son and I going up the lift, my mum took this photo.” She was like “son?!?!?” He was like “yeah he just turned 13!” So this guy was 27 and had a kid at 14…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:14 PM
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Yeah, my fiancé and I like different things and we also like some of the same things. We do things like camping, hiking, etc together because we like that. He does things he likes (fishing, ew) either by himself or with mates. I do things I like (dancing, shopping) by myself or with friends. Sometimes, we even make a sacrifice and do things together that the other person doesn’t really enjoy. For example, the other day I helped him repair a fence. He finds physical labour rewarding - I am of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:07 PM
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They’re literally not even saying that. They said you can’t focus on your porn and gaming addiction and then expect women to want to produce children with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:02 PM
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Lmao stand up paddle board selfies must be the female equivalent of the dead fish pic for men 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:01 PM
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This was my biggest deal breaker. My partner has to make at least double my income in order for me to stay at home (he actually makes like 4x what I do). If he can’t do that, we will not work out. I’m already going to be sacrificing my nice body, sleep and sanity for our babies so I’d like to be able to maintain the niceties (brands I like to eat, getting my nails done, pretty clothes) that I’m accustomed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:53 PM
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There’s also that many older people (especially women because, ya know, tick tock) are willing to look past or ignore abusive behaviours in their partners for fear of dying alone with a million cats. That’s probably the biggest downfall of older couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:48 PM
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Yeah I watched an interview on what it took Henry Cavill to get shredded for the pool scene in the Witcher and damn I’d die if I even had to do all that for a day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:03 PM
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I think it’s quite clear to any woman with at least half a brain cell that Ryan Gosling works very hard on his physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:48 AM
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You think ~40% of men will never marry or be in a relationship? Are you daft? Y’all are just getting more and more outrageous!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:41 AM
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No, no I don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 07:27 PM
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You don’t have to wear heavy makeup - I rarely do. I find a rose tint (like Benetint) on the cheeks, lips and a TINY bit on the eyelids pulls the face together very nicely and you can’t even feel it. It’s like a watery texture. Imagine using food colouring on your face, it feels like that. Also a few dots of concealer on any blemishes patted out with your fingers. Additionally, a good eyebrow gel that will texturise and thicken your eyebrows does wonders. If you’re blessed with thick eyebrows, f…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 06:41 AM
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95% of the guys on here are far from reasonable lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:59 AM
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Okay, he made a big financial decision without consulting her so it obviously works that way in their relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:49 PM
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Yes it is a RP delusion that most high value women are married by 23. If you don’t find your husband in college or high school then that’s very, very difficult. Not to mention the financial state of the world right now - it’s nearly impossible to have a full-blown wedding without both partners being mostly financially stable (which will take a few years after their first “real” job). If you’re wanting a traditional lifestyle, you’ll need to also own or rent a place to yourselves and not have hou…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:36 PM
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Using the wrong there mate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:36 AM
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👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:15 AM
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Humans need companionship. It’s scientifically proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:20 AM
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That’s not what all men have to settle for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:19 AM
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Exactly! Romantic relationships are completely different to familial and friend relationships and require a different set of skills to navigate. Some people are naturally good at it (like those weirdos that stay together from age 15 and are eternally happy) but most people need a few goes to realise what aspects of a relationship they need to work on themselves and what they want from their partner. If you want kids, and you’re a woman approaching 30 (because that’s what a man who is in his 30s …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:18 AM
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Love this good on you for not letting him fall into the RP hamster wheel!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:15 AM
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Yeah I have a large shower + seperate bath so I’m able to squat right down. Can’t imagine having to lay on my back!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:47 PM
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I’ve been thinking about getting one actually
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:43 PM
1

Every two weeks? Must be nice lmao Also when did I say anything about your privates? You shaving a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:43 PM
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These guys going at it w a machete Also, my labia minora is pretty important and I’d say that’s easier to cut off than a whole ass ballsack lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:10 PM
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You betcha shaving my pussy is the hardest part of my life 😌😌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:09 PM
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If you’ve never had to squat down in the shower to shave your vagina then you don’t get to say it’s easy. Thank
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:10 PM
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They don’t all have horns I’m literally looking out my kitchen window right now at a big ass ram with no horns. Meat sheep, like dorpers, etc don’t have horns. If we have a predator problem, we use alpacas, maremmas, etc. to defend the flock. Sheep are prey animals, they don’t do any defending. They run and hope they’re not the weakest link. Like antelope, even though they have horns, they just leg it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:48 PM
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As an actual owner of about 200 head of sheep I’m gonna tell you right now that male sheep do fuck all different from female sheep besides “want fuck”. There’s no “defending from predators” happening. I have to obtain other animals to do the defending. Edit to add: male sheep also don’t have horns much of the time. It depends on the breed. None of our sheep have horns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah you don’t want to settle down and have kids with someone 20+ years older than you. Imagine you’re 60, an empty nester, ready to get some travelling in with your partner and the father of your children is literally 80 years old and not far away from needing full time care. I know some people can be very spritely at 80+ but it’s a risk most are not willing to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:23 AM
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Yes but most of the time a baby does not light a fire under their asses (especially young men’s) and their baby mother and their own mother end up caring for the child whilst they remain useless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:13 AM
1

Also far, far more likely to have a disabled child or birth a dead child from an otherwise healthy pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:11 AM
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I (23F) am No Pill. My fiancé and au have been together for nearly 7 years. I was a virgin when we met, he had a count of about 5-10 (idk I’ve never asked). My fiancé (24M) and I have a very traditional relationship in which he brings home the bacon and I make his life comfortable. I work part time and I do 90% of the cleaning, washing, tidying, animal care, booking appointments, etc. I also manage our finances. In return, he makes lots of money for me to buy pretty clothes lol. Fiancé has disco…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:13 PM
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Okay, okay, okay I’m literally a woman who is friends with many women. Yes, there is a certain standard of attractiveness that women will adhere to when looking for a partner BUT most (LTR-oriented) women would pick a 5-7/10 with a car, plenty of money, job, own home, kind nature, funny, similar interests etc over a 10/10 asshole who lives with his mum, has no stable income, no car, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:33 AM
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In day to day, yeah, but not when considering long term relationships. There’s a million other things that trump looks for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:47 AM
3

Yeah because they’re actually nice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:46 AM
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It’s not anti-feminist to do those things, it’s actually pro feminist to make the choice that YOU want. Anyway, I make my partner’s lunches because I love him. I am a nurturing person by nature (towards kids, animals, friends, family and others I care about). I make his dinner because it warms my heart to feed him nutritious food. I clean and fold his clothes because I know he likes it when his favourite work shorts are sitting in the wardrobe for him. I’m a feminist. That’s not a very popular w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 11:08 PM
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I’m not the weirdo making unsubstantiated claims 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:28 AM
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Is that a poverty/racism thing or a single mum thing? Like, single mothers are more likely to be in poverty? I dont know. I don’t personally know many single mothers (only one I can think of with two well-adjusted sons), so I have no personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:17 AM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:37 AM
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Yep my mum always looked after us kids all day, dad had an hour to himself after work and then we got his full attention and mum went to shower, cook dinner, have a wine on her own. Can’t imagine having to do both roles with no break. Good single mothers must be fucking EXHAUSTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:36 AM
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I love this sub :’)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:36 AM
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Yes, this sub is full of hypocrites. Along the lines of “my partner must be a virgin but she also needs to put out on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date or I will not continue this relationship” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:27 AM
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Yeah there’s no “better” or “worse” none of this works in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:23 AM
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The name for it is actually demisexual and welcome to the club, friend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:54 AM
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What constitutes a high body count? Men like you are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:48 PM
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I WISH it was like that here - that would be so good! Unfortunately, many of our private schools are known for sweeping things under the rug to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:11 PM
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Just my experience, in Australia, all boys high schools are horrible for the boys here. Literally every girl I know will cross the bar when a pack of them walks in. If I’m in my hometown, every girl completely avoids the boys-only private school boys. I remember one time I was at the pub with my friends and at some point I had rejected advances from a boy that went to a private school (me being in a relationship with my partner for 6 years now, probably 4ish at that point and it’s a small town s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:38 AM
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Women suck REEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:52 AM
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Ha ha funny joke
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:48 AM
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I have a feeling I am demisexual and I don’t really notice men that much so my comment might not be completely 100% valid lol but I will say the physical things about my fiancé that I particularly like being: muscular, fit, beard (drool), taller than me (I’m 5’5 and he’s 5’9-10), curly hair. I mean, I love everything but those are the things I love the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:38 PM
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She sounds literally like she might be demisexual you fucking walnut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:32 PM
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Yes, i immediately thought she must be demisexual. Lots more people than you think are demi!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:31 PM
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Yeah if you don’t like the answer, change the question - such a red pill way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:24 PM
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Yeah my fiancé is definitely keener on kids than me. He would also like me to be a SAHM. I’m quite happy to so long as my lifestyle is maintained. I like kids and like the idea of having some eventually but I’m not as excited about it as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:55 AM
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Anyway, my whole point is that some people like fancy things and it’s okay to expect your partner provided those things if you’re also making sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:56 PM
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Well, we “own” one of our houses. The other two are mortgaged but we didn’t mortgage the whole price. Average house price where we live is about $500k. We own our two vehicles outright, also. Would never buy something that depreciates in value with a loan because that doesn’t make any sense. That’s great for you. We mortgaged our first house at 19 and 20 years old (paid the down payment and more ourselves) and have now paid it off. You’re not any better than us because you reached financial free…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:06 PM
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I do agree that health and quality relationships are so essential for a good life. Unfortunately, it is hard to maintain either of those things in poverty. I’m only 23 and my fiancé is 24. We own one house outright which makes an income and we are on our way to owning two more (one being the house we live in). It’s very hard to be totally debt free at our ages but we are financially stable. Additionally, I only have a very small circle of friends. Same as my partner. I do things that make me fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:09 PM
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Something people on this sub often don’t get, hey? Nothing better than a solid relationship built from mutual trust, respect and love. It’s not supposed to be one-sided. It’s meant to be a partnership. Makes me sad that so many people have yet to experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:14 AM
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Are you joking? Financial stability means nothing in the real world? That’s all that really matters in the real world. They may be material things, yes. You can totally live off next to nothing, yes. BUT they are creature comforts that come along with a certain income. Asking someone to give up all of that is a recipe for resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:12 AM
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You summed it up perfectly - a good partnership is beautiful and mutually beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:23 AM
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Being able to do the same sort of things (holidays, dinners at favourite restaurants, etc) and maintain the same living space (a woman earning 6 figures would have a better place than a man earning 5) and also be able to shop from the same brands she normally does clothes-wise (considering the body changes much during pregnancy and new clothes are likely necessary). Additionally (if that way inclined), one would like to keep the same hair dresser, nail salon, beautician, etc as usual and obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:19 AM
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Yeah because lots of women want men who can earn at least as much as they can - especially if they want children. If a woman wants to maintain her lifestyle after having kids (often unpaid leave for childbirth, recovery and childcare) then someone’s gotta pick up the slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:33 AM
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I’m very lucky to be a very average shape. Small torso, long legs, etc so everything fits me pretty consistently except for my chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:42 AM
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I’m always the same size? I’m an AUS size 8 (US size 6). I’ll usually size up in tight/small tops because I have larger boobs. So far this has not failed me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:35 AM
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Ah I have no idea of my measurements 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:19 AM
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But would you not be fully satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:09 AM
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Yeah but, say, if you have a kink for scat or piss and that revolts the other person then you’re definitely not going to be fully satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:04 AM
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Please explain then because you’re just saying “it’s true”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:48 PM
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Hygiene. Lack of care for my pleasure (like, if he just goes at it like a rabbit and then rolls over, won’t perform oral, etc). If he doesn’t listen to my suggestions or gets overly defensive when I move to correct him for my own pleasure. Has kinks that I can’t get on board with (piss, scat, etc etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:32 PM
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Yes it does, don’t be daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:31 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:35 AM
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I agree with some of this but mainly why should we discourage girls from Chad chasing if it’s in their best interest to get the best that they can?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:44 AM
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“getting any” could literally mean whatever the persons goal is for that time. So, a man could be looking for a LTR and a woman a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:42 AM
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My relationship is amazing and so, so, so loving but I can’t lie that this sub brings me lots of entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:48 PM
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Yeah, like, that’s just what France does
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:58 PM
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Had it and still have it (apologies, I should’ve been more clear).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:46 PM
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Had it for six years so I’m pretty sure that’s what I want but thanks for letting me know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:12 PM
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If that’s beta bucks then, yep, that’s what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:33 AM
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I understand where you’re coming from. My whole side of the family is circumcised. I don’t want to take your child away from you. Basically, my train of thought is that the procedure is entirely cosmetic and mostly medically unnecessary. If I wouldn’t go near a baby girls genitals with a knife, then I probably wouldn’t do the same for my son’s. No harsh judgment here, though. I can’t see from your perspective any more than you can see from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:05 AM
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I dont know I’m just stating my own experience. Do you think I need to have my male baby’s penis cut?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:45 AM
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Yes I totally don’t get it either! It’s actually probably easier to clean uncut - just wipe and go! When I was changing the nappy of a baby I look after and he had recently been circumcised, I was very cautious about the injured area and it took me 3x as long to clean him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:22 AM
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I’d say she means during diaper change - you just wipe the end of the penis with a wipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:21 AM
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Yes that’s exactly what I want because if I’m offering my body, mind and career up for children then he’d better be willing to support me and commit 1000000%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:14 AM
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No. Not a chance. If I’m going to eventually quit my job and 100% rely on him for financial support then I NEED security and commitment. Luckily he’s all over that and has proposed this year. We are 23 and 24. We had a long relationship before getting engaged, though. Six years. Lived together for four years. We have two dogs, two cats, a variety of other animals, own two properties (one outright) and have several personal loans (for boats and cars and things) together. The commitment was there,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:10 AM
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I’m Australian. Both my brothers are cut. My husband to be is not. If I have sons, they will not be. From what I can tell, though, there’s a lot less stigma than the USA (same as most things tbh) and I’ve seen equal amounts of cut and uncut penises both on little boys I babysit and full grown adults. I’ve also never heard or seen an Australian woman express a preference. The main thing here is the “it’s easier to clean when they’re kids” myth. It’s rarely a sexual thing when they’re that young (…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:41 AM
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All women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:32 AM
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You don’t think women want to marry someone that they’d also bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:06 AM
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I met my soon to be husband irl and I’ve never used OLD so I have no idea about how any of it works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:50 PM
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Obviously because he presented himself well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:51 AM
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Finally someone sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:16 AM
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That is not in women’s best interest though. It’s completely against what is good for their life long term. Men want someone with a low n count to be in a relationship with but expect sex on the first date? Fucking whackos the math doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 AM
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Waaaaaaaaaaaaah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 AM
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Yup just some pointless screeching and woe is me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:22 PM
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Gee you’re a delight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:20 PM
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And this post wasn’t to start a debate, it is just some shit head screeching that women are xyz - as usual on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:20 PM
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Gee you’re a delight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:18 PM
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I actually love that you acknowledge that, yeah, women can basically get attention from someone if they really want it but that comes with it’s own set of issues too like safety. It’s rare to see a man acknowledging that here. I actually do agree that women don’t know what they find attractive. I cannot say myself what body type I find most attractive. I know I find my partner very attractive but I also couldn’t say what my “type” is. I don’t even really look at men all that much when in public.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:16 PM
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Who’s lying? This whole thread is mostly women saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:20 AM
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It’s almost as though men and women like having sex with hot people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:00 AM
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What else happens in your fictional land?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:36 AM
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Where do you live? I’m moving in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:33 AM
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They’re all from men’s accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:38 AM
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This. This. This. My friends are constantly asking me how I have obtained and maintained an excellent relationship where I am provided for and loved. What they don’t realise is you’re allowed to demand prospective partners bring their fair share to the table. What’s the point in letting these fuck boys treat you like dirt, putting in all the effort, holding up your end of the bargain only to be ghosted or broken up with anyway? So many of my friends’ prospective partners won’t pay for dates, tak…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 11:55 PM
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I can’t understand that because they often look very similar
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:36 AM
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I’d also like to bin the narrative that a women 28-39 are old. Like your 30s aren’t OLD?! My mother didn’t even have me until she was 32 and I’m the ELDEST. There are also studies that suggest that having a baby between 30 and 35 is where you’re at lowest risk of your baby having a disability. Ugh so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:45 AM
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I live in a town of 3500 and nearly all of my friends from in town are in long term relationships/married (I’m 23 and engaged). It also seems that even men and women who move away from town for job opportunities, school, etc have much more success dating. I went to a party at my older brother in laws place the other day (all of his school friends were home for Christmas) which hosted about 15-20 young men under 30. Almost all had long term partners that they brought along with them - mostly from…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:50 PM
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Unlike VS there’s a much more broad range on onlyfans. There’s a lot of cosplay creators, buff girls, big girls, girl next door types, mums, dads, couples doing it together, etc basically whatever tickles your fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:58 AM
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As a woman, I know two women who gave only fans a go. Both eventually stopped because they didn’t make any money. They were the talk of the town for a bit but otherwise no one treats them differently. Both were mothers, though, so perhaps they’re more comfy with people seeing their bits and pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:53 AM
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Unfortunately they overlap a lot. Can’t deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:39 AM
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I don’t disagree with you at all. They are prejudiced and awful. Horrible bunch of people. BUT their shitty beliefs have not yet lead to mass murder or public violence in their name.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:22 AM
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That is so wrong omg what planet are you on??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:34 AM
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Eh well I’m engaged so I supposed i don’t have to worry about that sort of thing anymore lmao When I say “you’re husband material” to my fiancée I quite clearly mean it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:07 PM
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Yes like when I’m scrolling through tik tok (yes, shame, I know) and see an absolute 10/10 stunner having a dance in a bikini but I go to the comments and see “ew is that hair” comments. It makes me lose faith in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:09 AM
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He’s runs a trade company! Mostly concreting or “grey gold” as he calls it haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:05 PM
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Y’all are so pressed and bitter you don’t even believe in actual love anymore, hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:57 PM
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I dont know how many women you know but I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:26 AM
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They’re all intertwined and have a lot of the same philosophies and mantras as TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:26 AM
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What about a girl saying to a man that she does want to marry “you’re husband material”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:34 AM
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What else would you call shit testing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:20 AM
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RP is not against the concept of marriage but they actively promote spinning plates and bullying your partner? That doesn’t make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:39 PM
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I pay all our bills and control our budget because my partner works 50-80 hours each week in an exhausting job to provide the $$$. It’s too stressful for him to have that extra responsibility forced on him (not to mention impractical when he’s never home anyway). I know what needs to be bought and when (presents for our families, groceries, pet food, fuel, etc). That way he can just enjoy his time at home and do things that I can’t do (mow, clean out gutters, etc) whilst knowing all our bills ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:29 PM
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What feminine stuff? You can vacuum and care for children and still be masculine you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:09 AM
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Because there’s crossover between incels and TRP. Red pill is a gateway drug to black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:30 AM
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I found on that fits all mine? Nothing wrong with standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:28 AM
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Yeah I do haha Have had a bloke for 6 years now that fits all of the above so definitely not hard to find. I basically want a hardworking, nice guy who earns a decent salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:27 AM
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I’ve only seen one woman (this one) with all the above requirements. Most women say “healthy BMI” or “relatively fit” which is not unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:30 PM
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Because they don’t encourage murder nor do they write manifestos encouraging murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:28 PM
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Did you read the thread or do you just enjoy making up bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:27 PM
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You clearly have reading comprehension issues then bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:31 PM
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He’s got to: earn over $120k have good morals be decent looking (doesn’t have to be a model but definitely tidy and fit) be taller than me (I’m 5’4 so easy as) be financially responsible (not so worried about debt if it’s good debt like mortgages on properties and not dumb things like cars, boats, etc) want a family and marriage be willing to support me being a SAHM/SAHW have positive outlook on life be kind, friendly and compassionate towards myself and others. like animals have a good family (…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:24 PM
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I think 70% is totally reasonable with little babies bc there’s only so much dad can do with babies especially if mum breastfeeds. With older kids they can be left longer periods while you do chores and dad can feed, take places alone, hang out with them outside whilst doing a bit of yard work, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/21 01:31 AM
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My fiancé has meaningful conversations with all of his male friends. They talk about their goals and aspirations and feelings and have helped each other pick out engagement rings, discussed weddings, etc. Maybe it’s just because he and his friends are in their 20s
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/21 09:21 AM
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I’d say I was “naturally pretty” during high school and after. I’ve definitely dropped a few pegs since putting on a bit of relationship weight. I actually started working with a girl 5 years younger than me that went to high school while I was there and we became friends. She said she and her friend group were obsessed with copying everything I did, wanting to be just like me because I was pretty and interesting (and then she followed up with “now I actually know you I think you’re probably mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:53 AM
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Yeah but haven’t you found that many women who say “over 6ft” have literally no idea what 6ft actually looks like (unless she’s near that height herself ofc). Like, they’ll happily date a 5’8 or 5’9 fellow being completely oblivious just because they’re “tall” does not mean they’re over 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:50 PM
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He’s 5’9, very built (loves hard work and suffering lol), dark curly hair, beard and hazel eyes. He’s rugged looking, I guess you would say? He has a relatively symmetrical face and not bad to look at. Very good skin. He gets a moderate amount of female attention when we go out. I’d say approached/flirted with at least once every time we’re in a social setting. Like not the hottest guy in the world. Just, like, an averagely handsome dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:20 PM
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24 and yes, been together 6 years now. Engaged. Just bought a beautiful 60 acre property together (our second house purchase). His family is amazing and love me like their own. He has good friends and is family-oriented. He volunteers for a local football club to coach teenage boys. He wants marriage and kids more than I do. He’s a hard worker. He supports me financially and emotionally. Great sex. Etc etc etc I knew what I wanted when I was 18 so I went out and got it - no fucking around on my …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:23 AM
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Yep. I think most women are the same. Looks aren’t the most important thing. My later requirements are: earns over $120kish a year, hardworking, good family that I get along with, good community status, wants marriage, wants kids, hardworking, sexually compatible, financially responsible, wants the same overall goals as me in life, is agreeable and kind to people, gets along with my friends and family, has good friends himself, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:42 AM
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What if a woman has low standards? Does that make it okay? Edit to add: you still haven’t actually explained why. You’re basically saying “because it is” which isn’t a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:43 AM
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So what exactly is this difference between men and women seeking out casual sex? You haven’t actually explained it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:52 AM
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Firstly has to be my type which is pretty vague. I like facial hair, darker hair colour, broader body shape (particularly in the shoulders) and for him to be taller than me (I’m 5’4 so that’s relatively easy). Then open body language, eye contact, calm energy, kind in his way of speaking. I don’t like someone who is loud, rude, boisterous or aggressive in nature. I’ll notice if he speaks over myself or other women or is dismissive and unkind. That’s very unattractive and will immediately turn me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:55 AM
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Yeah mine would say “oh wow [friends name] looks great in that photo, her dress really suits her!” and then immediately move on. “Sexy” and “beautiful” are words for ME and ME only thank you very much.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 08:30 PM
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But that’s like a definitive part of RP, isn’t it? Also I’m no pill - hopeless romantic over here (and it’s worked out for me so far)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:08 AM
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This is it - different strokes for different folks x
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 10:55 AM
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It’s interesting how your partner needs to be of good character but isn’t part of the Red Pill philosophy to neg and bully your partner and also to “spin plates”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:27 AM
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Hehe I’m one of those too! Nice to meet someone else who thinks that (god forbid) people might actually just like each other sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:10 PM
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Matching top and bottoms, linens, light & feminine colours and silk nighties and gowns.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 08:41 AM
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No, i dont like rude people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:59 AM
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“Call women out” Lmao okay bud
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:37 AM
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She’s not wanting to charge him, he’s wanting her to work for him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 11:09 AM
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Maybe there actually doesn’t need to be a discussion. Like, I know that’s the whole point of this sub but what if every single person (man and woman) are chasing the best they can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:01 AM
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Can you a bit more specific as to what he’s asking you for? So maybe I can think of a “meet in the middle” type thing?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 12:08 PM
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It is a beautiful country! Also I’m not even religious nor do I want to homeschool (the public schools in our area are fantastic) so I can’t imagine having to add all that on top of just running a normal household!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:51 AM
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I was raised by a very not-feminine woman. I wouldn’t say she was masculine but did a lot of masculine jobs (roustabouting, shearing, etc) and she always had short-cropped hair. She wore makeup and things but usually eyeliner and lipstick and she is naturally very pretty. She only wanted to have boys and was very disappointed when I popped out wanting only pink and frills lmao. I had to learn how to be a “girl” all on my own. I have never felt pressured to be less feminine (except by myself in m…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 11:44 PM
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Oh yeah, sorry - poor choice of words! I sort of meant if I was looking to for a man date/marry/etc. Like, creating a hypothetical in my own mind - I should’ve been a bit more clear! Thank you for your well wishes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:09 PM
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I live in Australia and, although our average income is about $60,000, my partner and I make about $130k together. So, to maintain the lifestyle we have I would want him to earn $100k+. We also live in a smaller town with a low cost of living, if we lived in an expensive city, we’d obviously need more money. (Yes it’s expensive as fuck to live in this country)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:55 PM
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I have the man already, thank you :) Been together 6 years and just got engaged. We just bought our second house together. He’s got the same ideals as me understands exactly what I expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:52 PM
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Just inexperienced and lacking confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:46 AM
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I think I’ve got a very traditional view on life and how I want mine to play out and I would say no. This is because I don’t want my kids raised in a household with a toxic parent who is always “spinning plates” and negging their partner. Spouses who cheat on their partners and treat them poorly create unstable environments for their children and I just won’t have that. I also want a traditional marriage and to be a SAHM and homemaker. I would need someone who earns $100k+ to maintain my lifesty…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:56 AM
6

I found a book called Richards Ladies Handbook in my partners grandparents house after they passed away. I think you can get a version of that on the internet pretty cheap but I’ve used it so much even though it’s from the 1940s 🤣 it has a LOT of great tips for cooking, cleaning (especially natural and cheap since this was pre-chemical craziness like we have now), how to make yourself up each day, childcare, husband, etc etc etc Obviously not all rules apply anymore but I have honestly found it …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 01:50 AM
3

Actually, he’s hot so 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:47 PM
6

Who’s “y’all”? Because my partner of 6 years is very much closer to #2 although he earns way, way more than that and will never let me pay for anything lol. Relationship with #1 sounds horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:49 PM
10

This is definitely how 99% of my friends use tinder too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:29 PM
0

Do you think a guy with a bad hairline, average looks, average height, good build, good posture can get a LTR with a girl his level or higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:52 AM
0

So how do you explain all of the very obviously not “hot” men in LTRs with women at their level or slightly above?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:16 AM
0

Yeah they get fucked all the time how many LTRs do they get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:27 PM
0

Lots of people need support and help through their growth period?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 11:14 AM
2

You’ve heard the term “forever girlfriend” before, right? When men literally have a girl help them through their growth period but will never commit to her forever - despite her sacrifices to help him.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 10:15 AM
1

I agree! I think the main draw of OF for a lot of people isn’t exactly the content but how personal it is? Also, I think in a “feminist” day and age more people are worried about consent. Sometimes you watch porn and you’re “like this is definitely not consensual” lmao. Whereas I think the idea of a girl doing OF is a l more palatable for a lot of people than porn because she has agency over what she is producing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:56 PM
4

My parents have a photo album of things I DID NOT want to see as a kid. Serves me right for being nosy. It was cringey and I just about burned my eyeballs out of my head but whatever - humans are humans are we’re all a bit gross yknow? The way we consume and discard media i dont even know if OF will be a thing by the time our youngins are using that sort of thing. Sure, there’ll be similar platforms but with a new variety of content (probably a lot more extreme). Although, the internet is foreve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:44 AM
4

As a woman, there are always going to be horrible, jealous women who make you feel crappy for being yourself. If you’re a good person it can be so hard to comprehend why they would say these things about you, can’t it? Like, you wouldn’t say that sort of thing about people so why would she if it wasn’t true? It’s simply down to jealousy. Best thing to do is hold your head high and understand it’s out of jealously and there’s nothing wrong with you. Those women need to work on themselves and thei…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 03:46 AM
2

For an LTR? Looks matter less than qualities that make my life better. Lots of guys forget you’ve actually got to live with your LTR at some point and if they’re fucking disgusting, annoying, have completely different views on life/finances/etc then looks will go out the window. For a fuck (not speaking from personal experience because I have none, just from being around other women) looks matter most and then personality has to be barely tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:15 PM
3

It probably is because it’s a very old school way of calling someone too emotional. In a sentence “don’t be a fucking sook”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:27 PM
2

You know like a sook? Like i dont know if it’s Australian but it means overly emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:13 PM
31

I’m glad I waited because I am a sooky person and very emotional. I’ve only had sex with husband and I’m glad it’s that way. He doesn’t feel the same way about sex and had several partners before me. It’s not a one size fits all (as many claim).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:43 AM
1

Well you already have a “style” so you’re not who is being referred to. I think those girls were just trying to change your style to suit their own aesthetic (consciously or unconsciously). For example, my partner wears jeans and a tshirt or football shorts (rugby) and a tshirt. These will be paired with work boots. They are the only options. That’s it. He looks good and it’s not like his clothes clash or anything but if we go out, he definitely needs assistance with what to wear. I think a litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:47 AM
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My partner has always been good with women. They gravitate towards him. It’s bizarre. I wouldn’t say he’s like Chris Hemsworth but he’s definitely muscley, well built and a bit rugged. It’s his personality that really draws them in, I think. Every time we go out he’s fending them off as soon as he opens his mouth in a group setting. It’s wild. I do not have such a problem 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:39 AM
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Women get off on being choked but so do men. Women who do it when they don’t want to need to go to therapy, grow a backbone or find some resources to leave their abusive relationship. Asphyxia is closely linked to better orgasms. There’s science and shit I’m not about to look up. It’s a good time for men and women (if done with correct intent, obviously and with someone you trust). I suppose it’s just easier for men to choke women bc hand size? I know I would not be able to choke my partner if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:35 AM
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Stoppp how sweet! I’ve got two little boer bottle babies right now that I got to keep my nanny goat company! They’re so fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:26 PM
1

Oh I’m in Australia and we only have to pay back out student loans after we make more than $60k it’s pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:42 AM
2

Absolutely! Add hospo to the list of jobs that suck but don’t literally make you want to jump off a tall building. I’m convinced office jobs are inhumane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:07 AM
5

Yours is buying you goats?!? Mine told me to stop buying goats! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:06 AM
2

For me, personally, no. Only because I’m the creative slacker in the relationship and that position is already taken lmao In all seriousness, I intend to have children and be a SAHM at least until all kids are in school - probably a bit longer until they can walk/bus home on their own. If I’m going to be able to do that, I need someone to provide. I also need to have a moderate standard of living and enjoy holidays, the odd nice thing, etc. My current partner earns $120k. He’s up for more soon, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:05 AM
2

Banks have agreements for hardship, don’t they? My friend had her mortgage delayed when she got cancer - it was great for her since it meant her husband could work less without worrying :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:54 AM
3

If you both work equal hours you should both spend equal time doing chores so that you can both spend equal time enjoying each other’s company and doing things you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:14 AM
1

That’s a quick road to divorce my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:20 PM
8

Any career can be feminine in my opinion. It’s all about how you present. Nurses dress in scrubs which are typically practical and unflattering but many of them look sooooo feminine and pretty at work. My cousin is very typically feminine and traditional and she was an army nurse for years - did two tours of Afghanistan. She’s a SAHM now her husband is deployed a bajillion miles away. I’ll also add that she managed to get a traditionalist man through working in this career. Like i said, it’s all…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 11:19 AM
1

Tell a man he shouldn’t date children and he’ll throw a fit :’(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:50 AM
1

It’s okay, man, I’m not gonna try to stop you dating someone much younger than you. I’m sure women your age find you repugnant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:50 AM
1

You must be a woman because you seem pretty emotional to me xo Look, I get it, you’re old, short and poor but age gaps are creepy when the younger party still acts like a child and the elder is old enough to be their parent. Male or female. 18 year old boys and girls are completely immature and it’s very weird for a 40 year old to have interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:48 AM
1

Sorry, don’t get too emotional. I just wasn’t sure what point you were trying to make or were you just trolling and trying to derail with anti-women rhetoric?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:38 AM
1

What are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:33 AM
2

Sorry I should’ve said traditional relationships. I was thinking more like planning on living together, getting married and then having kids, etc. since you don’t want that my comment doesn’t really apply to you :) Say, if your girlfriend is in direct competition with a man at work and both are up for the same promotion and she gets pregnant then the man is more likely to get the promotion instead of her - even if his partner got pregnant at the same time. Women do make financial and physical sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:36 AM
1

Yeah that’s great for you but I’m talking more about long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:23 AM
3

Only put to bed for redpillers who like to claim that childbearing doesn’t negatively impact on a woman’s career in comparison to male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:22 AM
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I disagree, sorry. Women lose more physically and financially out of relationships so if they’re looking for a relationship you gotta prove you can provide and you’re actually interested (via money).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:57 AM
3

Probably what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:33 AM
11

It’s weird for a 40yo to date a kid 20yo. It just is. I’m not saying that all 20yo women are the same but I look at my younger brother and his girlfriend who are both 19yo and there’s absolutely nothing they would have in common with a 40yo. They don’t even have anything in common with ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:05 AM
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Yes well in all the jurisdictions where it was quoted, those were the reasons. I’d wager it was similar everywhere else too. The stats don’t even pertain to gender but since “mothers most often file for divorce” you can presume fathers are the offenders. The below article is very thorough and not very open ended. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/ I believe the answers in this article are relatively reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:26 AM
1

Permission to copy and paste this into every RP debate? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:11 AM
1

Yes I actually think naturally hot women don’t “punch up” and often “punch down” looks-wise. They don’t have anything at all to worry about in regards status because they’re already at the top. What they do have to worry about is financial security and sexual compatibility so it seems that these are the top of genuinely hot womens’ lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:07 AM
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Lack of commitment/infidelity is almost the most often cited reason for divorce so even though women file for divorce more - whose fault is the end of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:46 PM
8

This doesn’t work if dad decides to upgrade and kicks mum and kids to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:07 PM
6

Yes this is something that I often think about! Good fathers are seen as a rarity and something to be praised but a good mother is the absolute bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:06 PM
6

If you do it in a romantic way, at the right time a “can I kiss you?” is so fucking hot - what are you even talking about? If you just walk up to a woman and say “can I kiss ya?” then, yeah, you’ll probably cop a shoe to the balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:12 PM
1

It’s you lot who don’t know the difference between harassment and pursuit that make things difficult for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:11 PM
7

I think every woman I’ve ever known (excluding one) has ended up falling for her FWB/fuck buddy…. Women seem to have a habit of romanticising things that are not romantic (such as FWB) whereas a guys whole thought process is like “penis in vagina”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:02 PM
1

Some weeks it’s 0 times a week and some weeks it’s 2 times most days. It’s very variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:07 AM
2

My partner could have sex 3+ times a day and I would be happy with 2-3 times a week. I wouldn’t say I have a low libido but there’s definitely a compromise 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:55 PM
1

I did say financial support and emotional support aka stability. I’m not afraid to say that he brings way more money to the table than I bring. I also bring lots of quality things to the table that aren’t monetary. He gets a woman who cares for him, understands him, is always in his corner and knows him inside and out. He can’t get that being single, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:25 AM
3

Are we the same person? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:33 AM
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Absolutely the fuck not. Means they’re too deep on the internet to have ANY rational thoughts or real world experience. This doesn’t just go for Red Pillers. It goes for the “health at every size” movement, Blue Pill, marxists, conservatives, any online patriot, etc… basically any online community that someone can base their entire existence around is a moron and it’s time for them to get an actual personality. It just breeds narrow minded points of view and antagonistic, unpleasant personalitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:49 AM
2

I get: life partner, back rubs, financial support, time-freedom, someone to work towards goals with, emotional support and hopefully soon a quality father to my children. He gets: a life partner, back scratches, a clean house, quality meals, emotional support, someone who is always cheering for him and hopefully soon a mother to his children. That’s a very broad perspective though. We fulfil each other and care for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:29 AM
1

Invalidating is invalidating. Gaslighting is very specific and is thrown around too often. It’s an attempt to make your victim believe in a different reality - despite the fact that you know what reality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:27 AM
1

That’s okay, you should talk to the mods about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:18 PM
1

Okay, talk to the mods about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:18 PM
2

Twenty men isn’t many at all and I would be VERY unlikely to find a life partner in one of those twenty men. I imagine lots of women are the same. It’s hard to properly vet people if you don’t see how they treat waitstaff, kids, animals, etc which you can’t do online. Actions > words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:58 AM
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But how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:56 AM
1

So if you don’t meet them online, don’t get food/do something entertaining together… what should you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:55 AM
1

I don’t expect men to be. I was just ill and bedbound recently and doing a hardcore stalk of many subs, seeing the same profiles make conflicting statements! Obviously it’s not all (or even many) men but it just seems to be a common theme :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:54 AM
1

It’s all good. I’m not a blue piller? I’m a purple piller, if anything at all. This was meant to be a lighthearted discussion about something relatively common that I think a lot of people witness. I don’t have links, I was just thinking about it and thought I would make a post to engage people - that is all. I like men, I don’t hate men. I know the internet isn’t the real world. It is just a common theme I see often, others agree with me. If you don’t agree with me, that’s fine, your comments a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:53 AM
0

But my question is why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:50 AM
0

Why? Edit: for example, your body count at 24 is 7. You want a nuclear family. You go on date with a guy. You’re not sure about him at all. It gets to three dates and you’re not sure if you like him, should you still fuck him instead of dump him? Your body count will go up to 8 and you’ll lose value but it’s not “fair” not to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:16 AM
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I guess the people agreeing with me aren’t enough but that’s cool, no need to get defensive. Like I said, this ain’t personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:15 AM
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How do you even know someone well enough to know if they’re “husband material” within 3 dates well enough to fuck them??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:14 AM
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Yes but lots of men on various subs will say that they won’t even consider pursuing a relationship with a woman if she doesn’t put out whilst dating. The risk vs reward for women is much higher than for men. He could pump and dump and her N count has gone up a whole point. After 3 dates you don’t even know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:13 AM
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No, I do agree. I like men (in general). It’s just I was recently ill and bedbound so spent a lot of time being an internet creeper and found the same profiles on redpill, dating subs, purple pill, making conflicting statements often. Obviously, the internet is not the real world so I take everything with a grain of salt but, yeah, I’ve seen many with these opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:10 AM
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Say you were a “fuck on the first date” kind of gal in your very early 20s but then at 24 you decide you want the “nuclear” family asap. Is it fair that you now make men wait til 5, 6, 7 dates before having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:07 AM
4

Hahah! Yes, the only way to truly be in the real world! Alas, our lives are so intertwined with the internet so, more often than not, it cannot be helped!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:04 AM
2

No that’s okay! I get a LOT of shocked responses when I say I do all* of the housework despite also working!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:22 AM
3

My partner works 60-80 hour weeks, works away from home 75% of the time and when he is home, works most weekends, leaves for work at 5-6am and doesn’t get home until 6-8pm. I work a 30 hour week doing a 9-5 lmao. He does the lawns, cleaning out the gutters, fixing stuff, fencing around our property, etc. he’ll also do the odd load of washing and vacuums when it needs to be done. He also washes the dishes every night after I make dinner (when he’s home). Our contributions definitely even out!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:58 PM
10

Yes of course - kindness towards each other should be #1 in any relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:35 AM
20

Yes I expect my partner to maintain full time employment if I’m maintaining the home in addition to my part time employment. I entered into this relationship with the expectation (which has been discussed and agreed upon) that he would be the breadwinner and I would be a homemaker/childcarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:08 AM
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Yeah I can totally understand that which makes it even less okay! It’s clear you’re not actually comfortable with him watching it and you’re more sacrificing your own feelings about the situation by “allowing” him to do that. I’m curious whose idea it was? Also as to why he needs to have sex 3 times a day if he can’t even finish?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 11:52 PM
17

Watching porn together = yay fine Watching porn by yourself whilst using your partner as a fleshlight = nay not fine
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 10:12 PM
15

Maybe it wasn’t the crying that was the turn off…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:53 PM
2

This is my partner and goddamn he is attractive. He’s more attractive the older he gets. He’s hot, caring, hard working and earns lots of money. 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:10 AM
2

This is me as soon as you say you’re religious I’m automatically like “oh, so you’re stupid then?” It’s so bad lmao And spirituality is a no. You can like your pretty rocks and taro cards but the minute you try and tell me that your rock choice changes your life I’m oooouuutt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:28 PM
2

I really couldn’t give less of a shit. Preferably taller than me (5’5ish) but not a total deal breaker either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:58 AM
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Exactly! in a lot of rural areas a 45k income household is the upper end of average!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 05:56 AM
1

Go to a doctor, tell them you’ve been trying for 18mos without a positive pregnancy test (I know this is a lie but often they won’t/can’t do tests without 12mos of trying first). They’ll order an internal ultrasound, blood work, etcetera. My heart truly goes out to you. I hope there’s a positive outcome at the end of all of this for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 02:27 AM
1

I don’t think either of these people are unattractive and would date either of them pending personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:55 AM
10

Incel forums and subs are full of “I can’t get it up for fatties”, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:35 AM
17

I wouldn’t say “most” women. I would say women who are knowingly hitting above their level would stick out him being with other women in the hopes that he will “pick” them. Women are, by socialisation, often very competitive with other women. If they were to break it off, that would be admitting defeat and that they don’t believe they have what it takes to be the final girl. Basically, it’s immature and/or deluded women. All other women will obviously date men around their own level (like you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:37 PM
-11

I agree with what you said about people who regret it but there’s an actual video of a girl being assaulted who is very clearly unconscious with many men around her. Completely different scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 03:59 AM
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There’s actual videos of unconscious women being assaulted I don’t think they were walking anywhere but okay.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 11:49 PM
-1

So delusional but anyway - have a good night honey x
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:17 AM
0

I said we don’t have a culty sport environment like American schools, not that we don’t participate in sports. Is reading comprehension not your strong point? Of course athletes get more sex - male or female. They’ve got good bodies, their hormones a probably relatively in check and they’re probably more confident and outgoing than the average human. Thats just common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:57 AM
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I live in Australia so, no, I wouldn’t know how high school American football or basketball players have it lmao We don’t have culty school sport teams (unless it’s a private school and then they’re all about rowing or some other niche to get into the olympics).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:47 AM
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Yeah this reads like a self deprecating Chad fanfic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:15 AM
3

It is not “very niche” it’s one of the more popular subreddits on this shit hole. It’s not making money off knowledge. It’s making money off fucking morons who like other men who speak with assertion because their daddy never did it in their family. I’m not BP or RP or PP I’m in a very traditional relationship with a man as the dominant and myself as the submissive. I simply respect my own autonomy and that of other women. If you’re going to wave a bright red flag in your potential mates face, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:05 PM
7

Still, a lot of the men that spout RP rhetoric simply do it for the cheque. You fanboys don’t even realise they’re just saying what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:20 AM
1

I was attracted to my partners sense of humour and charisma. Every day he gave me butterflies and made me laugh. He was so good at talking to people and so popular even though he was no looker in high school when we met (the butt of all the fat jokes and very hairy). I loved him so much. His energy captivates whatever room he is in. He can make anyone laugh. I, on the other hand, was called Tits McGee because I had such giant boobs on a tiny frame (I have evened out now lmao) with plenty of guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:55 AM
3

See, as my LTR partner of 6 years and I have been buying property jointly with mortgages, discussing purchases together, entering into a personal loans together, it’s almost imperative that we know how much the other earns. Our incomes are combined. In my personal opinion, it’s how we build a life together. Each to their own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:27 AM
1

Australia! So probably not that different but I’m not in a super metro area.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:02 PM
0

Yes happiness of the individual should be first and foremost!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:30 AM
3

That’s true but I mean if they do. Some people are happy alone and that’s a-okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:41 AM
5

Since when do women look for something serious at 27-28? It’s more like a lot of them start looking for something serious whilst being college age with the desire to pop out at least the first kid prior to age 30. I’ve never known a woman to wait to find something serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:18 AM
2

So many names for a vag but I like hooha:D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:55 AM
1

Unfortunately, I’ve tried literally everything. The UTIs aren’t caused by sex. I’ve been getting them since I was a kid. It’s a bladder thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:15 PM
2

Hahahah no but thanks for the thought! I’ve been getting them now every 3-6 months since I was in primary school. It’s a bladder thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:14 PM
30

My libido is lower than my partner’s. I also get UTIs a lot (it is the bane of my existence). He also works away a lot. We both use porn (I read smut and he watches whatever he watches) so that we can have a happy, intimate relationship and not feel deprived of anything. If it doesn’t interfere with your relationship and no one chooses porn over sex then it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:34 AM
1

In my opinion (having a man that also works away a lot) a vibrator is nice, gets the job done but nothing compares to the real thing. Like, is a hand as satisfying as a real hooha? Nothing to be insecure about, it’s a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:28 AM
5

That’s false but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:51 AM
3

Why do they care? What is it that they’re upset about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:51 AM
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Yeah, half FDS and half red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:50 AM
2

He started ranting about pedos and rape so I was out 😅 like dude there’s a lot of gross men out there accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:23 AM
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I’ve just stopped replying now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:11 AM
3

Are you actually joking? It takes a month for me to get rid of thrush properly after I get it. That’s not unusual. Just shower dude!! It’s not that rough!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:35 PM
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Literally they could’ve actually just said “rap” or even “ghetto” music and it would’ve conveyed the sort of music they meant…. Why did they have to say “black music” smh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:26 AM
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I think it’s sad because a lot of women think they can’t/shouldn’t be feminine. It’s definitely frowned upon by more “assertive” women. I definitely was embarrassed for being very feminine as a teen. As an adult, I love being feminine. So what if I love being pretty? Leave me alone 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:40 AM
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You’ve literally gotta think about your vaginal health - fucking one gross dude can be one month + of sorting out your pH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:16 PM
4

It’s not childish to say that you don’t want to put a dick with dickcheese into your hooha! That’s literally how you get a UTI!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:42 AM
4

If you’re not already washed, you shouldn’t be pursuing sex with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:11 PM
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I do agree with you but I wouldn’t say it’s shallow to not want an unwashed dick in your mouth haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:49 AM
2

I love this! So true!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:40 AM
3

Never thought of it this way, this is a good take!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:27 AM
2

I disagree. There’s nothing wrong with porn use but pornsickness is a synonym for porn addiction. Like any addiction, it can be shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:13 AM
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Are you completely blind or just stupid? I didn’t contradict myself? I currently do feel a deep and unwavering love for my partner (it’s not unconditional). If things were to stay the same, my love would still be deep and unwavering. If my partner were to do something to harm me, say, cheat - for example, then I would no longer love him and I would leave him. I don’t believe he ever would, though, otherwise I wouldn’t be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:11 PM
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Mmmm this is the exact experience I have with someone I know with a “mail order bride”. She’s very jolly and they live on a farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:45 AM
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Yes! What’s always confused me most about TRP is that I actually feel deep and unwavering love for my partner of 6 years. Obviously the only unconditional love is between a mother and child but i dont know how so many on TRP can say women don’t feel love towards men and only choose them based on “alpha” traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:27 PM
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This is a good comment. People always say “boys learn how to treat girls in sex from porn” as a societal excuse for the poor behaviour of some men. Why don’t we learn how to fight from WWE? Even in a real life fight you’re not doing WWE moves? Why is that? Because you are capable of rational thought? Yeah thought so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:37 AM
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I live in AUS so maybe it’s different but it’s definitely the blokes with commitment issues here that run for the hills when the misso starts talking about a ring. I do agree that a lot of women want an engagement too quickly (especially after they hit approx 23-24 here) but it’s enough to send any variety of man running. They often will not propose until one of their mates does (obviously usually the more self assured of the friend group or the most bitch-whipped). Edit to add: I think, from wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:58 AM
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Wait isn’t it usually men doing the dumping over women being overly keen for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:40 AM
2

Just remember that we didn’t get the full extent of the violence of his actions. One of the cyclists that caught brock in the act actually cried when he saw the scene. This was quite clearly NOT just a “whoopsie my hand is down your pants” scenario. It was violence. Edit to add: I think you posted this in the wrong sub. TRP is the red one, not the purple one. Xo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:48 PM
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This 100% as a teenage girl I saw all my friends with shitty family lives put themselves in horrible relationships. They have a skewed idea of what is okay for someone to do/say to them. I would say I had a great relationship with my mum, dad and brothers and didn’t get in situations like that. Similarly with other girls who also had good relationships within their family (single parent or otherwise).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:55 AM
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My partner likes a clean house so he cleans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:35 PM
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You don’t think a man would find any benefit to being with a woman besides uncontrollable horniness? Touch grass, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:42 AM
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Alright, you wanna live in a plain, dirty house then find a woman who wants the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:34 AM
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Especially with WFH now, it’s definitely not current. Our social and economic lives have changed so much recently. Anyway, it’s not worth it. It’s just another red piller trolling purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:54 AM
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If you want a happy marriage, clean to the standard your partner likes it. Laziness isn’t cute for either gender. Be respectful. Men enjoy clean, aesthetic spaces as women do, you can’t deny that. If a 30 yo woman lived a basic, unclean lifestyle with her partner and their children with only the barest of necessities, do you not think the husband would say “gee this is pretty primitive”? This would especially be true when viewing their peers’ households with nice things, aesthetics and cleanline…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:53 AM
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What things do women collectively do as a whole that get on your “fucking nerves”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:46 AM
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And yet they expect their partners to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:28 AM
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Okie dokie ❄️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:21 AM
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If that’s all you got out of my reply then it’s quite obvious you’re content to be set in your ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:37 AM
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Your resource is quite old now! 2013 was a while back but I suppose it hasn’t changed too much. However, This is an article but has some good sources linked in it: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/589237/ This is a very interesting study and a good read especially when considering work/family conflict it has a good mention of how husband’s work stress affects the wife but in similar circumstances wife’s work stress does not affect husband: https://www.frontiersin.org/…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:24 AM
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It’s actually shown (when you take household work and employed work into consideration) that women work more hours and men are lazier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:36 PM
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Thanks haha I know you didn’t mean your post as a personal attack I just get emotional about it (as you can tell). Thanks for your kind comments xx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:26 AM
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Australia :( it’s very expensive here!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:06 AM
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Well I am quite obviously waiting? I’m obviously quite determined to be able to afford a kid? What part of this did not give you that impression? I’m literally doing everything in my power to do the right thing… My parents didn’t have me until 32 & 38 and I’m the eldest. I don’t care about being an older parent but I’ve been with my partner for 6 years. I feel ready for it and I want it so bad. I can want a baby and simultaneously know it’s not time to have a baby. Get a grip. People are allowed…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:40 PM
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I am someone who settled down early and did EVERYTHING RIGHT AND THIS POST IS DUMB. Even at 23, owning an investment property outright (that we make a $150/week profit on) and having a mortgaged home, my partner working 40-60 hours a week, me working 30 hours a week, being frugal, etc, we still can’t afford even one kid. We have a financial planner and he near cried when he told us that we are nowhere near being comfortable to afford a kid yet knowing how badly I wanted it. (This is for me to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:14 AM
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They go to worse places with less moderation and then get radicalised…. it’s a bad move on Reddit’s part, really.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 09:19 AM
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I’m already in a relationship with a guy that fits the below but I put in: 23-33 Any race 5’9+ (not obese) 100k a year Not married And got 1.1% lmao I got 4/5 cat enthusiast 🤣🤣 I’m in Australia so obviously a bit different but I’m definitely a lucky gal to have my amazing partner of 6 years. I better up my game a bit to lock that shit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:25 AM
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I’m quite traditional in a lot of senses but do believe in a lot of modern feminist principles. My partner is a very traditional man. He paid for just about every date we went on until we joined finances. It made him feel weird for me to pay and I know he enjoyed shouting me a night out. For his birthday, etc I planned and paid for dates but other than that I left it to him because it made him feel like he was showing me he could “provide”. I think if you’re looking for a traditional relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:19 PM
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Been together with my (23F) partner (24M) for six years - intending to get married in the nearish future but we just bought our second house and the money situation is tiggghhhtt. I would say I’m in the top 10-20% but it’s hard to be sure. I’m petite, very feminine and traditional but also think that many modern-feminist ideas are great (like division of labour in the household, differences in male and female sexuality, etc) which all contribute to a harmonious relationship. Basically, if I were…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:14 AM
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Love bombing usually occurs when a relationship is already established. It is a manipulation tactic to “gloss over” and distract the receiver of the abuse from the lover bomber’s previous transgressions. It is a common tactic physical abusers often use to keep their partner in the relationship. For example, husband beats wife but then sends flowers to her work, takes her out for dinner, buys her a piece of jewellery and tells her how much he loves her and how wonderful she is and he doesn’t dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:11 AM
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Maybe but my friend who does use tinder has a lot of positive, feminine energy. I know many other women who do use tinder who I wouldn’t say fit into that category of being feminine, warm, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:40 AM
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Why would it be creepy? He’s being honest and vulnerable. Don’t be so soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:20 AM
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Out of all my friends who I’d say have positive feminine energy, only one uses tinder (bc she likes to have sex). The rest avoid dating apps altogether. Maybe something to be said about the type of people on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:19 AM
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90% of hot women in Hollywood have fillers and you can’t tell. I’m not saying men find bee sting lips attractive. I’m saying men find full lips attractive because they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:47 AM
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What do you think looks better? thin lips or plump lips? I can’t say that unnatural looking lip injections look better but you can’t tell me Megan Fox’s lip filler looks unappealing to men. Like I said, men say “that is good” and many women take it too far by trying to one up each other constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:34 AM
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Yeah but I wouldn’t say the first person to ever say “I love big boobies, they are the best boobies” was a woman? It was definitely a man and then a woman with big breasts was like “see? I am better than you” to small chested women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:19 AM
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I like to say that beauty standards are set by men and then upheld by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:41 AM
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Is that what you said? Sorry, I can’t read that in your last comment. Must be something wrong with my phone! Ive never met any women who treat men as Madonnas/Whores. Every woman who I know well enough to be aware of intimate details re: their sex life does not have such a simplified view of men. I, myself (low n count), do not view men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:05 AM
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I’ve never met any women like this. It’s usually men that do the proposing so you’re telling me those men don’t want a marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:12 AM
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That’s a whole lot of generalisation, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:46 AM
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I never said that all media is made by men? I even mentioned women-directed film? Most media is definitely made by men. You’re saying you never see women treat men as sexual beings and I’m saying that’s because the media we are presented with 90% of the time doesn’t make us wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:41 AM
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Actually you do really make a good point about women not sexualising men. Although I might add that mainstream media (movies, television, etc) is made by men so the men are attractive through the male gaze. Therefore you can’t expect women to get all hot and heavy over these men, they don’t cater towards them even if they’re meant to. There’s plenty of smutty literature, etc about men which are written by women and are very popular with women (I’m not talking about 50 shades or twilight which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:03 AM
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Are you daft? You think men don’t view women as Madonna/Whore? Where do you think the phenomenon where, after a woman bares his child, a man finds her less sexually appealing comes from? Or “you can’t make a housewife out of a hoe”? You’re so blinded by your overwhelming emotions and entitlement that you can’t even form a logical opinion. Calm down and get a grip, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:56 PM
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In the same way you can’t turn a female hoe into a housewife, you can’t turn a male hoe into a decent husband…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 02:59 AM
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This - when i read the “why are you in a marriage if there is no sex” bit I cringed. There will be sexless periods in almost every marriage - whether due to pregnancy, trauma, hormone fluctuations, illness, etc. It’s for more than just sex. It’s about having a steadfast romantic partner, a friend. Someone who will always back you and supports you. This is why so many men fail at marriage these days (women have their downfalls too but that’s not what I’m talking about). Their idea of a partner is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:49 AM
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I actually agree for the most part. I don’t agree it’s about specifically MALE validation - women have eyeballs too. Being pretty isn’t about attracting a man, it’s about being pretty and about EVERYONE knowing that you’re pretty. Being sexy, hot, etc is a lot easier to be than pretty. You can cake your face with makeup and wear alluring clothing and be sexy. Being pretty requires the pre-requisite of natural beauty and knowing what to do and investing in it in order to capitalise on these natur…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:33 AM
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Okay, so its two different contexts. Men think the bar is set too high in dating (looks, expectations, etc) women think the bar is set super low in relationships/living arrangements. The labour division in relationships is skewed in men’s benefit (even when both parties work equal, full time hours, women spend enough time managing household/childcare/etc to equate to almost another full time job on top and that is, on average, 60% more than their male counterparts). Sometimes you hear “aw my hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:50 PM
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I don’t mind the questions haha! If marriage and kids weren’t on the cards for him at the very beginning of the relationship, there wouldn’t have been a relationship to begin with. I’ve always known what I wanted and I needed a partner that knew the same. We’re both very into the white picket fence with 2.5 kids idea (cheesy, I know).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:16 AM
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Yes we’ve discussed this. It’s on the cards for both of us. We just bought a new home so the money situation is looking a bit grim! So, once we’re a bit more financially prepared, those things will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:20 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily say he was looking elsewhere but he was getting his needs met elsewhere. He wasn’t dating these women nor was he looking for any semblance of a relationship with them. Courting isn’t exclusive and as soon as we were exclusive he was no longer seeing other women. So long as he wasn’t hiding anything from me, it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:31 AM
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It didn’t affect my interest because he made his intentions with me clear. I value honesty, stability and integrity over anything else. I was never made to second guess or question my position in our relationship at any stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:09 AM
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It’s a little bit creepy if you ask me but it does make for solid entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:35 AM
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It’s always the double standards with this lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:27 AM
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I just personally wasn’t into sleeping around - it wasn’t something that interested me nor something that I felt would benefit my life. I didn’t necessarily choose to remain celibate for my boyfriend, I just didn’t get any offers that I found enticing or that I felt would benefit me. My boyfriend is definitely a catch but I didn’t remain celibate for him nor would it worry him if I wasn’t a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:27 AM
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My boyfriend was fucking other women whilst “courting” me? I don’t see anything wrong with that. I don’t see anything wrong with a woman fucking men who do not want a relationship with her whilst pursuing a relationship with another man. I didn’t fuck my boyfriend until we were exclusive. I was a virgin when we got together and have been with him for near 7 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:13 PM
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You know what happens when we assume
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 09:37 PM
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Fuck you’re weird… men are so manipulative
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 02:20 AM
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He asked a question, I answered it. Simples.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:18 AM
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I dont know my dude I’m just out here trying not to get stalked for saying no again lmao In all seriousness, me saying flat out no resulted in a day at Court. I was with my current boyfriend at the time (of 6 years now, 3 years then) and that was still not enough of a deterrent to stop him stalking me, breaking into my house, kicking over pot plants on my veranda, ripping out plants from the garden, etc. I often think if I had been a bit more meek, just let him down easy, maybe he wouldn’t have …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 10:22 AM
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I didn’t say it was, I was drawing comparisons to what this post views as problematic for women to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:46 AM
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Yes but men, as they get older, will often select women who are less attractive if they have a host of other redeeming qualities that will align with his life plan at that time. Yes, men will have sex with basically anything BUT for relationships (you know the 3-12 month ones common in younger people) they will select women of better looks and then, as they get older, return to the women that they may have previously rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:51 AM
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So do men xo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:50 AM
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I personally know two women with that in their Instagram bio! I’ve never been on tinder but, yeah, lots of gals just love that saying for some reason. I’m not agreeing with this post btw, just butting in and answering your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:32 AM
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Whilst I don’t agree with the entirety of your post, the whole “if you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best” thing is a huge red flag. They’re literally saying “I will not work through any of my issues but I will make you deal with them”. It’s definitely a big ol’ warning sign. Also I just want to add that men are just as guilty of this as women. Many “wholesome” and less attractive women get rejected in their late teens - early 20s for more attractive and/or promiscuous …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:26 AM
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Do you think it might be because women aren’t as two dimensional as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:48 AM
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I think you have to take into consideration a few things: If the person in question is a virgin. I don’t believe virginity is important BUT for some people it is. Additionally, sex is a pretty foreign and scary thing for some. I think some might be hesitant to jump into it after only a few dates. Previous sexual experience of the person in question. Have they been scorned before after putting out on first, second or third date? Or, perhaps, have encountered a violent sexual situation? The idea o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:17 AM
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They should do both - if that’s what they want. Or they should do neither - if that’s what they want. At the end of the day, looks aren’t forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:31 AM
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Besides the obvious personal hygiene questions I prefer him to be taller than me (I’m 5’4 so not hard haha). For me, there’s not much in looks that are completely dealbreakers. I’m definitely a “fall for the personality” type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:29 PM
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Seems legit to me, great source xx
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:25 PM
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You are incorrect. I’m not going to bother fighting you because people like you don’t listen to logic and are blinded by your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:24 PM
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Yes, I think it is a very small minority of family law cases. At least, in my state. I have recollection of one wife paying the husband and two husbands paying the wife. That’s in 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:37 PM
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Second. I do love a good drunk moral argument but second is more important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:32 PM
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It depends on the judge. In civil court if it’s a case of “its definitely X persons fault, why did they drag us here, this is stupid” they will pay fees. Often, in family court if one party is found to be actually crazy/violent/incompetent/etc and the other gets full custody but is dragged through a full court battle by crazy then the party that got custody will get legals paid. It’s sort of like a punishment for ridiculousness (80% of the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:26 PM
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As someone who works in a law firm I sort of agree with you but mostly don’t. I have seen, from experience, any man who is passionate about raising his kids and knows his shit is seen as 100x the parent as a mother with the same passion. On the other hand, fathers often feel as though the only thing they can do in a separation is keep working to provide for the kids. This means mum has them (especially if she was a sahm beforehand) most of the time. SAHM often means she also knows kids’ doctors,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:21 PM
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Although I disagree with this post in general (from personal experience) I will say that this is a common occurrence. If you lose the battle, you pay the other parties’ fees. This is especially common in supreme, family court and civil court. This is usually ordered by a judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:11 PM
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I actually do sort of agree with you but will respectfully disagree with some points. As someone who’s been in a healthy relationship for a long time, this goes both ways. If you want a long term relationship to work you genuinely have to think the other is special - even if, logically, they’re not. It is what it is. But yes, I think couples should have time for their friends and their partner seperate and together. If your partner can’t get along with your friends, it won’t work. If your partne…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 12:34 PM
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Facts over feelings, my guy. I have empathy for all men who lose time with their children because they have an obligation to keep putting food in their mouths after separation but I’m going to tell you right now that, when men fight for their kids, they get them at least 50/50. When a man is passionate about his children he is seen 100x a parent as a woman of equal passion. I don’t disagree that men have it harder in many aspects of life. As do women. We need to close the gap - especially when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:51 AM
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I work at a law firm and currently work under a family law/criminal lawyer… that’s… not standard practice at all?? Like we take instructions from the client, do you not realise that? Like they tell us what they want and we find ways to get there, if possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:45 AM
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Tbh I only know women who do 99% of the household maintenance. Not sure if this is because I live in a country town and not the city so many have a lot of old-school values.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:58 AM
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I dont know, I wouldn’t say it’s radfem to have expectations that things are 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:22 AM
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Ehh this conversation is going nowhere - have a nice day my dude x
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:58 PM
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You didn’t answer my question? And I didn’t say that, did I? Maybe I’m misreading my reply? Silly me! By the way, almost everyone has to work but a lot of people have goals/desires as to what they would like to do with the time they spend working. I know, shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:21 PM
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Absolutely. I see so many posts about who can bring what to the table and who does more work and who is “worth” more but, for the most part, if both are putting in the same amount of effort then the relationship will be harmonious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:45 AM
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Ah, yes, of course. I believe women are only good for pursuing their passions and desires. What a woman hater I am. Out of curiosity, what do YOU think would be more worthwhile for a woman to be doing than her dream career?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:40 AM
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Ah yes, quit the job you studied for and are passionate about so you can do something more worthwhile like cleaning the house and cooking dinner so your man doesn’t have to do it. Good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:54 AM
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It’s about equal effort, not keeping score.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:52 AM
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