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5

Go. I just started dance classes last month. They're a lot of fun
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:41 PM
1

You got this buddy. Seems achievable
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:40 PM
2

I have absolutely no idea what Gentleman's Garage or the silencer are but thanks anyways, happy cake day :P
/r/seduction23/07/24 03:58 PM
3

It's no surprise you get all the ladies with all of that charm
/r/seduction23/07/24 01:09 PM
4

So any advice or are you just gonna talk down to the guy?
/r/seduction23/07/24 01:01 PM
1

Mind going into detail about the first couple things you said? I don't think I've ever approached a woman from behind and tapped them on the shoulder like that without getting blown the fuck out with extreme prejudice lol
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:40 AM
0

Yes
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:39 PM
0

Zero
/r/seduction24/03/24 03:41 PM
5

Because I literally get laughed at more often than a woman will take 5 minutes to have a polite conversation with me
/r/seduction21/02/24 11:16 AM
2

You must be hanging around in some crappy places because I went to the lower east side a few weeks ago and being out for 4 hours I saw more 8+ girls than I had in 6 months at my home town
/r/seduction09/05/23 09:22 PM
4

I've never done cold approach so I don't really have any suggestions But I do want you to know that you can do it and I believe in you
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:05 PM
36

What the fuck
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:08 PM
0

Idk like 15-20 maybe if girls at the bar count
/r/seduction07/10/22 11:54 AM
1

It's because, to quote Dave Chappelle, "Your friends are Bitches!"
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:51 PM
2

Took me years but I'm one. There is really some decent advice on here but I think the problem is people read too much and then don't go outside. That's exactly what I was doing. Once I actually started putting myself out there I started learning and feeling more comfortable exponentially more quickly than alby reading on this sub though
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:42 PM
82

Anecdotally, ever since I stopped trying so hard to have conversations with the girls whose info I got and just stopped fuckin around and srarted asking for a date in a couple messages it has been working out way better for me So I think it's good advice. I am wasting less time talking to girls who aren't that interested and more quickly getting on dates with the ones I am.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:56 PM
1

Sounds like a waste of time to be bub
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:01 PM
6

Had something extremely similar happen to me that I posted on here about as well. I don't know how someone could be so into it and then ghost 6 hours later it makes no sense to me. Sometimes people just suck man
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:50 AM
1

Fuck no
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:32 PM
0

How can you possibly maintain relationships with hundreds of friends? I have like a half dozen and I barely have time for them lol
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:18 PM
9

Have a couple drinks and try and kiss her when she starts eyeing you. In my (admittedly limited) experience and from what I hear basically everywhere older women aren't shy about what they want Just don't tell her you love her for the love of God lol
/r/seduction26/08/22 10:10 PM
11

Yeah exactly. I have come such a long way in the last year and gotten a lot of confidence in the last few months. I always thought I was ugly or something but really I just wasn't getting any dates since I am a nerd who never went outside and played poker 4 nights a week. I went on a solo trip to Vegas to try to come out of my shell more this summer and basically the first time I really went outside and partied and put myself out there I had hotter girls than I would have ever imagined would be …
/r/seduction25/08/22 03:30 PM
41

This is nice to hear! I am planning on doing cold approaching for the first time in a couple weeks. I recently moved into my own place out of my mom's basement to a spot that happens to be like 15 minutes from some college towns. My mom needs me to dogsit for a week next month and the semester is starting back up so the plan is to take her to some parks near the universities that week and use her to help me try and pick up college chicks. I'm 24 so I wanna try this while I feel like I'm still yo…
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:50 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:21 AM
15

In high school I didn't know the difference and it got me in trouble LOL
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:46 PM
44

I'll let you know when I experience it. 24 and still haven't felt like I've loved any woman but my mother. I've been infatuated with a woman and felt like my heart was on fire in a heated moment, but I've never felt love
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:36 PM
19

You should try to go outside a bit now and get rejected a few times. Take it from me. I spent years reading this sub and then a month reading that book and a book about small talk. But I didn't actually go out and put myself out there the way that I should have. Reading too much was such a waste of time. Finally in the last few months I started going out and went on a solo trip. Trust me, you will learn infinitely more and grow much faster by actually going out and talking to some women and seei…
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:11 PM
13

I have to disagree. I mean if she says she's got a husband then 5 minutes later she's throwing it back on me and trying to kiss me then why should I be the one to stop her? I rationalize it the same way I do taking a bum's money at poker; if it's not me it'll be somebody else. I wouldn't do this to guys I know but I need some attention and if a girl who's spoken for is throwing herself at me clearly her man isn't a big priority for her. Also I wouldn't ever seriously date a woman like this, I ju…
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:50 PM
6

I mean I've been hit on by like a half a dozen women with boyfriends/husbands in the last 3 weeks. If she's out without her man just looking to "meet new people" then she's probably down to fool around a bit
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:49 PM
6

Uh idk I saw a couple of his posts here a while back and he seemed interesting. Then I went to his YouTube and saw him promoting some bullshit multi thousand dollar like meditation/mindset/hypnosis course or some bullshit and my perception shifted him to the scumbag territory
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:55 PM
10

I saw that AG Hayden weirdo everywhere I went in Vegas last week. Never saw him with any bitches though...
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:15 PM
1

Yeah... We didn't have sex though because I fucked up at the end but live and learn I guess...
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:30 AM
1

Not saying it's a regular thing for me lol But it happened on like the second month of me actually going outside and making an effort to talk to girls that I like so I'd recommend trying that out for a while
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:41 PM
2

I was a virgin at 20. Now I'm 24. I just had a literal bottle service pool girl model throwing herself at me the other day. If I had actually started going out years ago I'm sure it wouldn't have taken this long
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:38 PM
1

Huh?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:04 PM
1

Yeah I do actually think I totally had it in the bag and fucked it up. But to encourage someone to do that and say I could crash the following day and ghost is ridiculously toxic like if you think it's desperate and weird why not just ghost me before I change my flight lol I'm over it in really not upset anymore. I thought she was cool but anyone passing it around to out of towners behind her bfs back like that clearly isn't really that special are they. Do wish I got to hit though
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:41 AM
4

I guess that might make sense. I think I might have fucked it up by being to eager too I thought it might have seemed a little desperate but idk Oh well it was still a big confidence boost. I always thought I was ugly but like I said this girl was just absolutely stunning and she was acting like I was making her fucking hot so clearly I have something going on. Maybe she thought my innocence was cute or something and wanted a break from all the players in Vegas but hey for now I guess I'll take …
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:55 AM
1

I wouldn't listen to this guy. I am a poker player so I have been walking around with a wallet that won't fold and haven't been touched by anyone. The girls at the club don't seem like thieves to me. Just make good decisions lol
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:24 AM
3

She sat next to me at the pool party and we hit it off. She was probably 20 years older than me lol
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:25 AM
3

All I had to do was talk to like two or three girls and one of them was down like everywhere I went to be honest I have no idea what is going on maybe I'm just getting ridiculously lucky
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:39 AM
2

You mean get with girls? I told you they're nuts out here man hahahaha
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:37 AM
8

Sounds to me like you could have been in there homie
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:01 AM
2

Solo.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:54 AM
10

As far as the parties go I enjoyed the pool parties much more than the nightclubs. I had an awesome time at EBC and Wet Republic so I guess those are the ones I'd recommend. They are at the Encore and MGM Grand respectively. But if nightclubs are more your scene then there's tons of options
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:55 PM
18

I can believe it from what I'm seeing out here....
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:20 PM
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Yeah I pretty much went to the pool parties I heard about. I had to pay to get in but it was worth it haha
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:20 PM
6

LOL
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:37 PM
3

Yeah I have heard a lot of things about Vegas on this forum and now I see why haha
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:05 PM
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I think that has got to be a big part of it. Most of the girls that liked me were tourists as well probably coming to town for the exact same reason as me lol
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:33 PM
2

Yeah. It sucks we missed out. It's ok to be upset about it. It's not okay to only be upset about it. It is not too late to make better years for ourselves. That's where you're wrong.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:42 PM
8

Dude listen to u/blanchecorbeau My college experience was so bad that it made me contemplate suicide because I didn't have the balls to try and go after the experiences I wanted. Life is what you make it. It's not too late to change things for yourself for the better
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:19 PM
1

No luckily I have a couple friends that are down to go out to this place now that the summer is here. I would have gone alone if I had to this weekend though
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:03 PM
6

Go for it man. Not sure why all the guys saying otherwise. She works across the country
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:19 PM
1

What about white girls
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:01 PM
1

Somewhat tangential question like the guy before me. I'm going to be in Vegas for a week next month for the WSOP. Can you recommend some clubs to go to on my down days?
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:35 PM
5

Chiseled face? Can you recommend some face exercises? Lol
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:57 AM
1

I'm going to be in Vegas for a week during the fourth of July if you'd like to link sometime during then. I'm sure there'll be no shortage of stuff to do that week I am a noob tho lol
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:33 AM
1

So my coworkers back in the day banged these older losers with this going through their brains? Jesus
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:52 AM
5

Wow I'm cured thanks
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:26 PM
1

I have no problem getting rejected on these dumb apps. I would kill to get half the girls I have tried to talk to to respond to me. If I got a 50% response rate ever in my whole life I would probably never have subscribed to this subreddit. Anyway congrats and fuck you
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:32 PM
1

You open with "hi how are you, oh btw I am only looking for FWB" and they're like yeah let's fuck?? What the fuck why can't I ever match with a woman like that? Whenever I see shit like this it completely blows my mind. 99% of the matches I have gotten in the last like 8 years would not respond no matter what I said to them
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:31 PM
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I don't believe in condoms
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:34 PM
3

I am not a player and have only had any kind of success with 2 women so take what I say with a grain of salt because I am by no means an expert. But if she invited you over I don't see a problem with shooting a text or calling to see if you guys are still on. It doesn't seem like women usually text first. But don't double/triple text or blow up her phone or whatever. If it doesn't work out it sounds like you have some time to set up some dog walking plans or whatever and you can try to make some…
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:57 PM
5

Sounds awesome so far man. You got this
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:42 PM
1

Only one way to find out. FWIW I wouldn't wait for worry of being manipulative. You're just risking another guy who doesn't care swooping in in the meantime and you're back to being the validation simp that it doesn't sound like you're really happy with. You said she had no problem if her friends like her and she can set boundaries, so what have you got to lose?
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:34 PM
3

Yeah if you're like that you don't even have to have game the women just come to you I've seen it and it's extremely disheartening. I went out with my coworker a few times and it's not even that this guy has game it's more like cheat codes how the women will just walk all the way across the club just to dance with him. Never gonna be like that for me no matter how good of shape I get in
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:43 PM
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Weeks at a time? How horrifying
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:41 PM
1

I can't remember the last time I've gotten a response from someone on tinder. It's always match and then completely ignore me
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:55 PM
-6

Just lie to her nbd
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:36 AM
1

I'm happy to hear that buddy. Like I said, if she judges you like you say or tries to make you feel bad about these things then you absolutely need to find a new therapist! Like another commenter said, the whole point of therapy is to open up about these issues and if you're not talking about what's bothering you then you are just wasting your time and money Sorry I couldn't really give you much advice on the picking up women though. Like I said I am a chump in that area as well haha
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:10 PM
1

It is your therapists job to talk you through your issues and help you out. I think that you might be surprised about her reaction and I don't think you will be judged about it. If you really do feel judged by your therapist you should probably find a new one man. You're supposed to feel like you can talk to them about these things. There is nothing perverted about wanting to have sexual relationships and being frustrated about never having one is natural I think and it's something that I think …
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:52 PM
1

Since you already have a therapist definitely try to open up to them about this. It's a problem many have and it's nothing to be ashamed of. If you can talk to us about it why are you afraid to tell your therapist? On top of this don't give up. I believe in you.
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:50 PM
1

How do you get someone to talk to you on a dating app? I get like 2 matches a month on a good month and then they literally never reply to any message I throw out. Feels like a big waste of time to me. Are you in a big city or something?
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:46 PM
1

I want to be able to go after women I'm really attracted to and not be scared, and be reciprocated by at least a percentage of them. That's all I really want
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:01 PM
1

Move on to the next one. If she was interested she'd agree to a date and she didn't
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:12 PM
2

I think you did a good job
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:04 PM
1

Because I hadn't been on hardly any first dates and couldn't get an attractive woman to go out on a date with me lol
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:26 PM
-1

Yes. It's not a great feeling but I need attention. Sorry Anna
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:22 PM
5

Good luck man. I'd focus on laying the foundation and getting some social skills for college. Don't waste your years at college like I did. There will never be a better opportunity for girls than there and I have so many regrets all the time because I missed out on all of it Don't be like me
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:14 PM
107

Are you serious? I thought I was autistic
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:14 PM
1

I didn't
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:38 PM
1

"advice"
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:34 PM
1

Leave me alone weirdo idk why you started attacking me but it makes you seem like a big time clown
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:30 PM
-4

You are so funny no wonder you crush so much
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:27 PM
0

Ha. Literally the most useless advice I have ever seen. I don't think it even qualifies as advice everyone's grandma has already told them to be themselves to attract women and it's just useless advice
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:15 PM
1

Yeah I hate the stupid "be yourself" advice. I tried to do that and I missed out on so much in college because my "self" was not cutting it at all
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:16 PM
36

Great! Now I just need to get a girl to talk to me on an app
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:28 PM
10

This did not work for me
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:08 PM
3

Not really. Myself wants to get laid. I could care less about being social with more people otherwise. Forcing myself to be more social is a byproduct of this desire. I can satisfy my nonsexual social needs more than enough walking around at work and smoking a bong and watching Netflix with one of my half dozen friends on the weekend every couple weeks.
/r/seduction19/08/21 07:30 PM
6

Because it is pretty useless advice. Because being myself is literally what caused me to be a virgin until I was 22. If all I did was be myself I would just sit at home all weekend getting high as fuck and playing video games. Myself is not interested in meeting new people. I would literally never meet a woman or put myself out there if I just be myself
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:29 PM
-2

Oh you're a woman that makes way more sense
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:38 PM
2

No he's talking about this happening while planning a date though lol Its not something I'd get "salty" or let bother me but to me it's be a big turn off for anything more than just getting casual sex. So during the date planning process, someone more interesting came along and you suddenly weren't worth it. Clearly you're not a priority so I wouldn't consider a serious relationship with that person anymore. If you're just after sex with this person then whatever but as an actual serious dating …
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:31 PM
1

You wouldn't mind getting put on the back burner while this girl you're interested in bangs guys she finds more interesting than you then comes back when things go sour? Personally my self respect does not abide
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:38 PM
15

This happened to me last year. Was working at McDonald's. I was obviously interested in this girl I worked with that I thought was cute. I moved on to a different work place but stayed in touch and tried to schedule dates/hangouts but she was always just "too busy" even though I heard from multiple people she thought I was cute and we would be pretty flirty at work. Then one day I asked her out to dinner and she said she had a new boyfriend. What's more she started dating the brother or cousin o…
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:48 PM
1

:)
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:35 PM
1

Yeah they're also gay I'm pretty sure
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:57 PM
2

Yeah sure next time I go dancing I'll just point at random women across the club and I'll let you know how many come over to grind on me Spoiler alert: it's not going to work
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:33 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:31 PM
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Lol same bro I have gone to the club with this dude a couple times. He's over 6', jacked, good looking face by my judgement. Homie just points at a bitch from across the dance floor and she comes and throws it back on him. I have seen him do this multiple times I couldn't even dream of it. Meanwhile I'm trying to engage a girl that I already know and she's dancing away from me like I've got leprosy to be closer to him, or really anyone but me. It sucks buddy seeing shit like that really demorali…
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:06 PM
16

I hate those sites I get one match a month that either doesn't respond or is a manatee and I've tried to do different pictures. Maybe I'm just ugly as fuck
/r/seduction27/07/21 07:24 PM
2

Sexier interests? like what other than the bar lol
/r/seduction27/07/21 07:08 PM
4

From what you described OP, it'll probably be this easy. You make her sound pretty interested and that's the only hard part. Either she says yeah and you end up hanging out outside work and can have some fun and see if she'll go back to one of your places, or you were misreading things and she'll say no. Either way you win because if it's option 1 you get to see where things go, and option 2 you know not to get too worked up over this girl and you can stay good work friends
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:34 PM
3

You're not the first person to suggest this. I guess it wouldn't hurt to go a little but I guess my biggest issue is the actual beginning of the approach. I have a really hard time starting a convo with someone I don't know but once I get going I'm not completely autistic and can usually keep things going if I have something to talk about. The biggest hurdle for me is working up the balls to walk up to a random girl and talk, which I am not sure if a strip club would be a great option to get ove…
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:57 PM
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I mean I'm not writing off bars or clubs. I still want to go occasionally but they honestly take a lot of energy for an introvert like me and I just don't have anyone to go with most of the time and I am not at all interested in going out by myself to get curved on repeat without a buddy to regroup with occasionally at least. itd be nice to try to meet girls at a setting where I don't have a miserable time if I fail
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:17 PM
1

Ok I see this a lot and it's a problem I have too. I hate going to the bar/club. I don't like the atmosphere and I don't understand the appeal and literally the only reason I am going to these places is to try and meet hot women. Dating apps suck I agree. Where else other than the bar can I meet young women as a 23 year old kid? People always say hobbies and stuff but my hobbies are poker and video games and they're both completely male dominated, and meeting a girl while playing video games is …
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:56 PM
2

I feel empty not chasing sex so I'd rather get laid and be empty still
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:16 PM
2

I'm with you. I absolutely hate the bar or club. I have always been introverted and had basically no interest in hanging out with a big group of people that I don't know. I don't see the appeal. But I feel like I have no choice. I can't get any matches on tinder or any online dating and my friends can't or won't set me up so I feel like the only chance I have to not completely waste my early 20s is to start going out to these things I hate now so I can try and make up for some lost time. It suck…
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:09 PM
10

How tho? I can barely meet them at all
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:58 AM
12

Are you going out by yourself?
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:29 AM
83

That sounds fuckin exhausting bro. Maybe I'm not cut out for this shit. I hate bars how am I going to do this with consistency
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:28 AM
1

Yeah I texted before lunch and haven't heard anything. Better luck next time I guess. Edit: Thanks
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:39 PM
1

Thanks for the help She didn't respond so that's slightly disappointing. Better luck next time I guess😅
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:49 PM
3

You're clearly getting worked up over this but I'm sorry to tell you that you're living in a fantasy world
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:12 PM
1

I don't know what that even means but I can't imagine attracting lesbians as a woman is remotely similar to dating as a man
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:08 PM
1

And you have no idea about dating as a man. 😂
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:05 PM
1

Nope not normally. As a girl your experience with attracting a partner is simply existing
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:58 PM
2

I'm sorry I'm just bitter that I had a shitty weekend out last week. I thought going out with this good looking tall guy with a GF who I THOUGHT was a good friend of mine would help be my wingman and hype me up and help me but instead the girl that I invited out was all over him at the club while completely avoiding me on the dance floor like I was some kind of disgusting piece of trash even though he was absolutely fucking hammered and had a girlfriend It's just frustrating seeing how easy it i…
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:15 PM
5

"You want a girlfriend? Here’s what you do, be a decent, civilised human with good confidence, banter and self esteem - have goals and passion and treat women with equal respect as you would any man." Or just be 6'2 and hot. You can be a complete douche to your girlfriend and then go cheat on her at the club with your friends date I have seen this
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:52 PM
5

I don't want to wonder what the hell is going on with a "mystery woman"
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:55 PM
3

No they don't
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:47 PM
0

Wait for a guy to talk to you and be receptive to them? Or maybe talk to a guy? It literally never happens to us randomly so there's a good chance that might get somebody's attention
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:31 PM
2

Y'all can get multiple people girls a day to talk to on Tinder? I'm lucky if I can. Get a match every 2 months
/r/seduction14/06/21 05:28 PM
3

Thank you for wasting 5 minutes of my life by giving no actual advice
/r/seduction13/06/21 02:42 PM
2

I still believe we can do it man
/r/seduction05/06/21 01:45 AM
1

Thanks for the reply
/r/seduction05/06/21 01:44 AM
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