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| 99 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others? | bordstol | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 05:15 PM |
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| 0 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?Literally RP 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?Well yeah I agree most of RP theory is applicable to men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?Red pillers don't believe in a dream girl. There will always be another woman as good or better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultwith every test you failed and every boundary you refused to push you showed her she was the one who could set the sexual pace, so she did and you got what you bought from her FRAME, you had no frame, you were in her frame. she was the boss Possibly the dumbest shit I've read on here. Women who are actually attracted to you will do a lot. When I was a young inexperienced guy and read about "last minute resistance (LMR)" and keeping frame like you describe here I thought it sounded like a real th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?What a weird grouping you have made.. Actual MRAs doesn't belong here. Redpillers want to get laid, there is nothing more to it. I have no idea about MGTOW it seems like a group of angry virgins or men who have just been dumped/divorced. They still seem to all be actively dating so the endgame is either finding someone or dying alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Latest stats on sexlessnessIt's gonna be interesting to see everybody trying to fit this into their narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Can’t older women just date older men?Being young (or young looking) is probably the most attractive quality in women. It elevates their SMV quite a bit and makes it possible to date higher valued men. When they "hit the wall" their youth is gone and they are at their true SMV, lets say 6. But they are used to dating 8-9 men, so the 6's they have to date know seems far below their worth. They still have far more dating option than most men, that continues throughout their life, they just have a distorted view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 01:54 PM |
| 5 | How many times have you asked women what their N-count is?You clearly have no real life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Meta question - For unattractive men, would it be better to never have had a sexual awakening at all?Why even discuss if it's better to have a sexual awakening, it's not an option. Let's discuss if it's better to never have had sex. It's probably better to have it once or twice than never. It's always a huge deal to a virgin but most have the same reaction after the first time: "is that it?". I think it's more dangerous to have experienced great sexual chemistry or sex with a girl you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?There is also /r/averagedickproblems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 4 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?They still want a guy with higher status than themselves, but women are getting educated at a much higher rate now so it becomes more difficult for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:38 AM |
| 12 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?The dad bods in their minds are guys who have worked out most of their life but have put on a few pounds. Basically bulking guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:32 AM |
| 2 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?Past behaviour predicts future behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand?Instead of trying to score a cheap point by interpreting my comment in the least charitable way try to think just a little bit. If you read it in the context of the question asked then that's clearly not what I meant. A guy with some muscles who work out but with a highish bodyfat% (no abs/barely visible) would be "in shape/takes care of himself" and the same guy cut way down with barely any fat would be a "gym bro". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand?Wow nice straw man my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?I'm clearly talking from an evolutionary perspective... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 2 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?We have a sex drive to reproduce. Men are always going to be uncertain if they are the father. Your past says a lot about how you will act in the future. Having had many partners makes it less certain that the man is putting resources in his own kids (genes) upbringing. No matter how much we try to push the narrative that it doesn't matter, men will always respond with a disgust like feeling to a woman having had many sexual partners in order to protect his genes survival. (Unless it's for casua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand?I think it's about the fat percentage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?Huge butts or breasts. I like small and firm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 04:24 PM |
| 3 | "Attractive men have more advantage than attractive women" how much do you agree with this statement?Not to the same extend. They are not going to be taken as serious because of their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of makeup?Maybe lies about his status? It seems like most job titles are faking status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:27 AM |
| 3 | "Attractive men have more advantage than attractive women" how much do you agree with this statement?I do think it's better to be an attractive man due to the effect it has on your professional life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | For the men: do you find introverted women or extroverted women more attractive?As long as they can show me who they are and can function in a social setting I don't care. I'm introverted, but I'm not retarded socially. I can talk to new people and have fun, I expect her to at least be able to do that. Women tend to be more social than men though, and I think that's a fine dynamic. But you shouldn't be too far from each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Guys shouldn't reply to rejection textsYou might need to rethink your moral compass. You are not polite to get something in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Are most young women worth the time of day if there is no chance of “hitting the jackpot “ so to speak?My experience has been that people don't really change they just become more bitter and pessimistic with age (both men and women). So I like to date younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?We're all individual people. We're not clones. How true is this actually for anybody (including men)? People are mostly similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:13 AM |
| 3 | If MGOTW was rebranded as 'Permanent Bachelors' would people still have the negative view of it?It's not the name it's how they act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Are thin girls automatically a 7/10 now because of obesity epidemic?Holy straw man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 32 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...I have no idea how you got that from my comment. But you perfectly illustrate the problem with your mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 01:48 PM |
| 50 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...Maybe the problem is the one thing that didn't change: your personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardYeah lets eat junk food and rot away in front of our screens while mocking this guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?I think most mature people should be close to the middle. I'm a bit to the right of that and the woman I date is usually a bit to the left. Which I think is due to the differences between masculinity and femininity. I think that's a good balance and has never been an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Is not being fat the best dating strategy for men?Improving your looks is the most effective dating strategy for both men and women. That's not to say personality isn't also important. Also please don't be 'quickly' working on it. The only thing that works is slow and steady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Are ugly/fat couples really attracted to each other?We adapt very well to situations. People who suddenly end up in a wheelchair gets back to the same happiness as before relatively quickly. I'm quite satisfied with my apartment, but of course it could be improved in a lot of ways. I think people that are only able to get with ugly people quickly adapts to it and are able to find happiness and attraction in it. I think another point is that it's a difficult thing to admit that you are not satisfied in a situation that you cannot change, even to y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 05:33 PM |
| 3 | What kind of compromises have you made for your partner? What compromises are you (not) okay with?Yeah I understand the irrationality of it but I think you should try to understand their views in a more charitable way. I'm an atheist myself and would almost go as far as call myself gnostic atheist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 06:18 PM |
| 6 | What kind of compromises have you made for your partner? What compromises are you (not) okay with?I can understand getting frustrated if they appeal to god in arguments, but you should be a bit more tolerant of people kinda believing in an afterlife as a comforting belief. It really stems from a fear of death and it can be really difficult to accept that you will never see your loved ones again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 01:08 PM |
| 0 | "You don't need a relationship to be happy" is BS because happily married people of PPD aren't willing to rely on it with their own livesI think the reason for the "be happy single" rhetoric is that most people know they will find another relationship. That's what happens to most people. It can be difficult to relate to people who have never been in a relationship and who are unsure if they are ever going to find love. It's easy to tolerate hunger when you know you will have a meal soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?When more women get a higher education than men then some of them have to "settle" for a lower educated man. I wonder how satisfied they are in their marriage compared to marriages where the man has higher/similar education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Almost All Love Is Conditional, Those Who Display Unconditional Love Are Rarely RespectedUnconditional love doesn't make any sense. If it was true you could just pick a random person on the street. Love is obviously conditioned on who they are as a person and what they look like. When things change the love change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Question about “the wall”The wall for most women is just finally dating guys similar to her own SMV. When they are young they can get away with having sex with high SMV guys. I think the biggest problem for a lot of women is how happy she will be in these relationships. Will she always resent her husband because he isn't as high tier as some of the guys she was with in her youth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Civilisation and societies doesn't just appear from nowhere though. They are constructed by people, so they will to some extent reflect the natural way of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanYou are spending everyday on here talking about women. That's not going your own way my dude. You are obsessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 11:50 AM |
| 2 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanDude nobody is buying your mgtow bullshit. We all know you just can't get the women you want or have just gone through a breakup. That's literally 99% of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | If you can't love me now, don't love me later when my later is greater..Women do value potential for success very much though. It's only when you fail to realise it that they leave you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Average penis size amongst sexually active men?I think you are right, but I don't think it affects the average that much. Probably only +0.5". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?I wouldn't say that. Shyness just hides the personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Dating subs on reddit are extremely gynocentric and create unhealthy and unrealistic viewpoints on datingAnd how many 30 years old dudes can even "manipulate" a 20 year old girl? Women tend to be much more socially savvy. And people don't really change that much past a certain age, they are just at petty and immature in their 30s as they were in their 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 11:43 AM |
| 2 | FDS women want a sexually submissive man with "alpha" traitsThere are some men who are so obsessed with the idea of being alpha that they are afraid of anything resembling submission. Caring about another pleasure is too close to submission apparently. They are idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.Yes obviously. OP is talking about the increase of sexless men. There has always and will always be a number of men who don't have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.I can't talk about being fat, since I've never been. But I can definitely feel a difference in my energy levels and sex drive when I eat like shit compared to a healthy diet in a healthy amount. You don't really feel it when you are eating junk it's only when you live healthy that you realise how shitty you were feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?I agree that it's not very common, and it's mostly talk like you describe it. But there is a lot of posturing and acting tougher than you are. It happens mostly among the top ranking men in social groups have been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?Yes you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do we push for legalizing prostitution yet denigrate the men who patronize prostitutes?Men are judged on what kind of women they can get. So if a man can't get any woman without paying her he is obviously unattractive. Which probably elicit a response of disgust to keep women away from those men of low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 02:23 PM |
| -1 | Opening windows to infidelityThere is a reason makeup exaggerates or highlights features men find attractive. Creating the illusion of bigger eyes, pink cheeks, red lips, hiding imperfection of the skin, contouring to make you face skinnier and more symmetrical. I understand a lot of women aren't aware of what they are doing. But it's a very overt display of sexuality and femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 01:41 PM |
| -4 | Opening windows to infidelityThe behaviour of people in committed relationships are a bit odd a times. Like a girl getting all dolled up when going out with the girls. It's obviously for other guys to notice her, even if she won't believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Red pill will never become mainstream because its target audience always ages out.I would be very interested in stats on the age of the men in these groups now vs 5 years ago vs 10 years ago. I also tend to agree with you that most grow out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looksI'm not super high value guy, but I'm above average and I value intelligence very highly in women. In my experience there is a very high correlation between intelligence and being formally educated. So if a girl isn't in university or graduated from it I almost immediately disqualify her. Being dumb is such a huge turn off for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?Well yeah that was my question. I know that a lot people claim they care about personality, but I just find it funny how couples always tend to be close to the same attraction level. I could never be attracted to a fat girl, no matter what her personality was. I might love her as a friend, but it would never become sexual. I'm not saying physical attraction is sufficient for a relationship, but it just seems necessary to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Why do some people, even men, still believe that a male can't be sexually assulted if they get an erection?No I don't think it's as bad as male teachers raping girls. Both are wrong, and should be illegal. But one is significantly worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people, even men, still believe that a male can't be sexually assulted if they get an erection?I made it pretty clear what kind of unwanted sex I was talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:14 PM |
| -1 | Why do some people, even men, still believe that a male can't be sexually assulted if they get an erection?I do think there is a difference between unwanted sexual advances from a man to a woman and woman to man. Being made to penetrate is not gonna be as damaging as being penetrated. Both should of course be illegal, but it's not the same and a much bigger deal for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Should women prioritise looksmaxxing to boost their dating success?Women know that their looks is the most important thing and are already "looksmaxxing". Just look at the actions of every single woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get OlderGreat point about the difficult women being the ones who are still single. I do think it's possible for divorced women with kids to have higher standards though. Since they have already had the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Are redpillers who debate women behaving irrationally?Obviously no one is gonna change their mind during a debate, but don't you think it could plant a seed of doubt that could later make them change their mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Are redpillers who debate women behaving irrationally?But wouldn't this mindset make them even sadder that no woman will sleep with them? If they are so smart and women so dumb, then it should be easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?Some people have a really delusional view of what their core is though. Some think that being shy, playing video games, not exercising, are part of their personality, of who they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?Men have always acted "red pill" when they are with the guys. Locker room talk is a thing. But they act totally different when with women. The guys you see on these forums are not talking like that in real life or when they are with women. They are cuddling up and acting stupid like every other dude with feelings. Relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?I always wonder if ugly couples are actually attracted to each other. It seems impossible to me, but I guess the meme of "being attracted to their personality" can be real for some people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:02 PM |
| 2 | A 50% Divorce Rate does not mean you have a 50% chance of divorceIt's such a dumb argument too. Redpillers will tell you that you should lift, but most people who go to a gym fail. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't do it? Most people are fucking retarded, especially in relationships. They celebrate getting lazy, not shaving, farting into the faces of each other, not putting any effort in their clothes around the others etc etc. And then they are surprised when they get divorced some years later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 3 | LTR is submissive and feminine but has quite a few bodies for her age.The idiots in here will tell you to next everyone. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Attractive and educated, living a healthy lifestyle. There are tons of these women in big cities who do just fine. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Sad loser men have a lot of wet fantasies about how life is gonna suck for the hot women that didn't want them. The harsh truth is that high value women tend to stay high value. Of course they can't compete with younger versions of themselves, but they do just fine. All these women that people in here describe as settling are just finally dating men of their value. A 6/10 woman can fuck 8-9/10 guys in her youth, and then "settle" for a 6-7/10 man in her thirties. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Why is TRP so black and white?The world is a lot easier to understand when it's black and white. I think people in here tend to forget that men and women are much more similar than they are different. Every feature bell curve will be mostly overlapping. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | any good porn 'resources'Read Sex God Method. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Can I get some critique on my hinge/text game?Your conversation is decent but not great (but also not bad). It's a bit too much like a job interview. Why would she want to spent 30-60 minutes with a guy who just ask these kind of questions? She wants to have fun. You should aim to say something funny/flirty in about 90% of your messages. Something like when you said DC is a much better city. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 01:46 PM |
| 5 | What is the long-term goal of FDS? (Speculate)It probably started out as a dating strategy subreddit, but now it's just for venting on how awful men are. Like mgtow is just venting on how awful women are. Both groups are still actively dating as much as they can and will leave as soon as the find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Failure/success in finding a partner is dependent on understanding three unique thingsYour last point is the most important for people to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | When you speak to previous generations about the current state of dating, what are their reactions ?They also had a hard time. People just look at other peoples successes and completely ignore all the rejections and hard times they had to go through to achieve it. It's like the saying "We judge others on their actions, and us on our intentions". We only see the results in others, while in ourselves we also see the struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating women forces men to be superficialI believe most of what we do are somewhat driven by sex. The reason men have such a drive to achieve success is exactly because that's what women want. Our entire existence is literally to reproduce (outside of surviving of course), it's shapes everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.What does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 08:22 AM |
| 14 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.Waiting for a man to approach is a great way to find confident men. But they are also more likely to just want sex I would think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareThis is such a pathetic wet fantasy loser men have. Women will do just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Im saying that there won't be repercussions because of the reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results.It seems like every group is like that. /r/politics is just about trump/republicans bad. /r/conservative is about liberals bad. /r/mgtow are about women bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Checking out a woman now means you are a sexist pervert.No it doesn't. Only if you are ugly. Stop reading stuff on the internet. Most women want the hot guy to look at them. There is a reason they wear next to nothing on the beach. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.It's not 10% solo mothers though, they are only 1% of births. Artificial insemination are also used by couples who have a hard time conceiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Consumerism and the declining levels of testosterone will numb the sexual frustration in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | NPR - women matching (and young women outpacing) men in drinkingIt seems like the life of many women in their 20's and 30's is just going to work, and then drinking wine with their girlfriends in the evening. Since they are single for a lot longer now, they drink more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age?Here is a great video from the 'most hated man' on earth. The pick up guy who everybody hated at some point. His reasons for getting married are quite good I think, and is a great argument for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | What's the general reason for leads who can't have the time to either "voice" or videocall, is this a big next?I've never planned a date and then gotten ghosted, and I've met with probably 30 girls from tinder. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Where can I learn amused mastery?You learn it out in the real world my dude. You already know what it is, there is no need to read more about it. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | What's the general reason for leads who can't have the time to either "voice" or videocall, is this a big next?Getting the number is a relic from real life dating, people think that's how it's supposed to work. There really is no difference between texting on tinder or iMessage/SMS. No it does not separate you from the other tinder dudes. I always just use tinder to setup dates, and if they turn into plates I will get their social media/number. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 6 | Is it possible to be redpilled and not be conservative?https://xkcd.com/610/ | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Women on tinder are completely disinterested after meeting irlTry to get some less flattering pictures of yourself. It's better to get fewer matches but successful dates than what you are experiencing. Girls tend to only remember the end of the date, so end it on a high after 45min to 1hour. In my experience it has been better to have a short high energy first date, and then invite them over for a movie for the next date, than to try and fuck on first date. Think of it as solid long term investing rather than day trading. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Accepteble Body CountThese will always wake up someday and feel the need to get more experience because their loser girlfriends talk about all the guys they are fucking. It's much better to be with a girl who has had some sexual experience, preferably in LTR's. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 03:14 PM |
| -2 | Based.... right now https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmDBbnmKpqQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNi_6U5Pm_o | /r/MGTOW | 06/06/21 04:25 PM |
| -9 | BasedLiterally listen to the most popular break up songs by women right now and you are proven wrong. | /r/MGTOW | 06/06/21 11:59 AM |
| 8 | Do you normally ask a girl out for a drink the first time wanting to meet her ?A lot of the guys in here just parrot TRP concepts without any thought behind it. Buying a couple of drinks on a date isn't gonna get you labelled as 'beta provider'. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Do you think its too late to go to med school for me?A computer science degree is extremely flexible. Take it in a medical direction. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Should men be obligated to give oral sex?Some guys just don't enjoy sex. Men who only want one night stands don't enjoy sex, they just want the confidence boost. Learn to enjoy sex my dude. It's hot as fuck eat pussy and ass. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Declining drinks at my placeYou have been labelled, by her, as a player. A "simp" (as you call it) wouldn't have their hand on her ass or try to kiss her twice. Most girls are attracted towards this behaviour but they don't want to be slutty. You need to make it easier for them to fuck you without getting that label. So do something more "romantic", like a bottle of wine and some fruit to a park near you, and then move the date back to your after. She will feel like she was on a proper date and won't feel bad about fucking… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 0 | girl lied about her ageIn the real world it's quite normal to date 17 year olds. The legal age is 16/17 in most states. She won't ruin your life, that shit doesn't really happen. Some people here spent way too much time online reading nothing but negative stories, so they get a wrong view of the world. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 12 | When on Tinder you suggest a second date on a certain day, but she says she’s busy and doesn’t offer an alternativeAnything other than going on a second date with you (or being proactive and suggesting another day) is a rejection. Why does it matter what you do? Focus on other girls instead of trying to create some small chance that maybe in the future something could happen. It won't. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | She said: "I have only done this with two people"His comment was immature, but not wanting to fuck a bloody pussy isn't. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 3 | How bad is being a garbage man as job in the eyes of woman?It's an extreme low status job, it doesn't matter that it pays well. When did we abandon reason? 99/100 women would choose a doctor earning less than him purely because of the status. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | How bad is being a garbage man as job in the eyes of woman?Lol why are everybody in here lying to this man. Obviously it's gonna look bad to most women. No woman want to tell their friends they are banging a garbage man. Come on guys. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Online dating appsJust be fun and flirty and set up a date within the first 10-20 messages. Delete the girls who don't put in effort. If I message 10 girls I usually get: 2 who are engaging playfully in the conversation (these are always gonna say yes to a date), 3 who are boring as fuck (delete those, some of them will meet up with you if you ask, but I don't do that anymore fuck em), and 5 who don't even reply. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:30 PM |
| 5 | None of this matters, not any of it, not one bit, not at all in the slightest, it just doesn't matter, at all.We are not here to discuss philosophy. We are in a context of sexual strategy. The concepts we discuss have to be in that context. You can't just say "who cares about putting sugar in brownies, we might as well use salt, we are all gonna die anyway". I want a tasty brownie while I'm here, in that context sugar is important. Let's say I want a healthy relationship, in that context her past is important. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 8 | None of this matters, not any of it, not one bit, not at all in the slightest, it just doesn't matter, at all.My experience has been that most people actually don't change. Fat people stay fat, shy stay shy, betas stay betas etc. There is a reason we celebrate people overcoming difficulties and for example going from fat to fit. Because it doesn't happen very often. Once a cheater always a cheater, once a slut always a slut. It does matter. Sure it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things (but then we are talking existentialism). But it matters in the context of relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that in real life I see blue pill methods working for guys? Do some women just respond to blue pilled methods?It's not that difficult to get laid. It's what most men and women spent the majority of their time trying to achieve. The red pill is about the best sexual strategy. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Ltr asked if she could hang with a guy friendMate guarding can be seen as attractive. It's not always a bad thing. If a dude talks to your girl in a bar and you come up and dominate him with your physique and frame, she will be more attracted to you after. Also don't listen to most of these idiots on here. Everyone in here saying how she is already fucking him or that you should immediately next her are just revealing how little real life experience they actually have. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Do women have distorted SMV perception or just entitled?Because some of these men are sometimes horny and on tinder. So they fuck a chubby chick because it's so incredibly easy. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:15 PM |
| 11 | How to make friends?Making friends is just about being around the same people consistently. That's why we make friends in school. So find a hobby where you will meet the same guys over and over again. Like a team sport. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 7 | How do guys get laid at clubs?One strategy you can use is this. Find the club where students and young girls who have just moved out go. They want to experience adult life as a "strong and independent woman". At like 2-3 am their standards are low enough to go home with any average guy who dares to ask. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:11 PM |
| 17 | Have I over-estimated the power of 'game'?My experience has been that it's 80% looks. When I had no game at all (and was extremely shy) I would literally sit 4-5 hours watching movies with a girl, making no move at all. She would wait until it was too late to go home so she had to stay the night. This happened several times. I think people are in general very bad a correctly determining why they are successful. You see this a lot with billionaires/millionaires who got lucky with an idea and timing, but think it's because the are geniuse… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Be honest with me about my heightOf course height matters, it would be stupid to deny that. But people on the internet saying you have to be 6' or taller to even have a chance are delusional. They probably never leave their house. The most important thing is that you are taller/bigger than the girl, and you are taller than most women. You are gonna struggle the most with 18-19 year olds. They are at their peak of the SMV and they know it. So they will go after the top of the top. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 10 | Are most women who go to college likely to be brainwashed by feminism?Both women and men tend to be more extreme in the views and ideologies at an early age, and then become more and more conservative as they age. My experience has been that women get a lot more traditional very fast when they get into a relationship with a man (who isn't a soyboy or whatever they are called today) | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?Are you a brick wall? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?I'm talking about the argument structure, not the conclusion. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?(1) Most people can't stick to a fitness routine, so don't go to the gym (2) Most people get divorced, so don't get married. I'm questioning why we care about most people in our arguments in some cases, but not in others. I'm not talking about whether getting married is good or bad (I'm mostly on the don't get married side), I'm interested in why this type of argument is accepted in (2) but not (1). | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?I understand arguing about the merits of marriage, and if it brings anything positive to your life. But in every post on redpill forums there is at least one highly upvoted comment about how most marriages fail , so don't bother. I'm just trying to shed some light on this popular argument that doesn't seem to work in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Losing the excitement for my girlfriends fast, again. Is it a matter of nature or failure to appreciate?Is this a never ending cycle or does the sufficiently hot girl break this? You may be a bit too focused on the looks. Try and reflect on what kind of personality traits you want in a partner and then go and find that (you should still be attracted to them obviously). | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Plate wanted to meet my motherAre you just calling her a plate, but treating her like a girlfriend? I can't imagine any plate of mine who just shows up to watch some Netflix and fuck would ever ask that. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 21 | Plate wants me to nut inside of her."for some reason" Literally millions of years of evolution. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to nut inside of her.It's trash advice, good for you for not listening. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Part of becoming confident is faking confidence. You can't fix it with a therapist or reading books. You get confidence from positive feedback from the outside world. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 08:55 AM |
| 1 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Also /r/nosurf | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is about equality for both sexes.Feminism is a prime example of the motte-and-bailey fallacy. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | How to stop thinking about ass?Well if you think about why men strive to become successful it's probably because of the sexual selection of females. I think most of what we do that is not strictly surviving has something to do with improving your sexual status to the other sex. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:14 PM |
| 0 | How do you actually become a "Masculine Man" late in the game?The cold hard truth is that you probably won't change, it's just not something that really happens at that age. Try to get your testosterone levels tested and begin to lift. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked twiceI think you have responded quite well. But this is why you have multiple plates, it makes it so much easier to drop girls like this. After the second flake you should have straight up told her that you are not interested anymore. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Is "no fat women" a bad standard to have?Wtf is this posting history. You are obsessed with hating fat women. As a 42 year old incel you are probably retarded enough to complain about fat women in your tinder bio, don't do that. Just don't swipe on fat women it's not that difficult. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 3+ years, DM'ing some dude. Told her to stop. Immediately kept doing it ..on a week long trip right now.I do think there is a more measured response than breaking up. It's easy for single dudes on here to just advice you to 'next' her, but you don't need to kill your dog the first time it bites at you. If your gut is telling you to break it off then that's probably the right thing to do though. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Is TheRedPill rationalistic philosophy? What are the alternatives?Seems like you are asking a deep philosophical question about knowledge. Check out epistemology. TRP obviously thinks that their take on 'reality' is the most correct one, as any belief system does. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to find meaning in life?You should look into existentialism. They realise the absurdity of reality and its apparent meaninglessness and try to answer what we should do in the face of it. I quite like Camus, here is a great video about him and his philosophy | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 09:39 AM |
| 14 | I can't make her orgasm“She doesn’t like foreplay at all” sounds like you picked a winner. Do you actually enjoy sex? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't my LTR (19F) respect my career?This is definitely a troll. The guy has 183 subscribers, 25 videos, and averages under 100 views per video. It's impossible to be this retarded and also have worked for Apple. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Do any of your LTR’s best friends hate you?I think her male friends will always resent you in some way for "stealing" her. Not giving in to her every demand is something she will find attractive, but her male friends watching will call you a douchebag for. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 09:05 AM |
| 3 | The Rapidly Inflating Sexual Market Bubble Is Going To BurstThis is just mental masturbation as you see in MGTOW forums, where men find pleasure in some imaginative future where the evil women have it bad and the men are on top. Men having higher SMV than women in their 30s only applies to the top percent of men who actually put in work (this is very few men). Women hitting the wall and finding it impossible to find a quality man only applies to average and below women. Have you ever been to a big city like New York? High quality women stay high quality … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/21 07:23 AM |
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