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They don't care if you're Jason Statham. Hit the gym.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/24 10:31 PM
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I think I am just too boring, playing it too safe. That is probably the problem, but not because of the things you listed. The only thing that really counts at the end of the day is how you interact with her. There were phases in my life were I played video games the whole day and drove a 20 year old car, but got several women ready to fuck me because I showed abundance and sexual dominance.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:12 PM
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Sometimes people even ask for help, but only accept easy surface level advice. If you dig down deep and actually try to change their life and help with their problem, they aren't that happy about the help they just asked for, so often I just answer with "hmm that sucks, don't know what to do there". Usually I only answer to questions like "How did you do it?", they can learn and adapt to their current situation and it doesn't give away the burden of fixing their problems to others.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 11:22 AM
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This whole post and almost all of its replies are an anger phase Incel fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 12:59 PM
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Is it even possible to be non-needy as a guy if you are only dating one (really hot) girl exclusively? Yes. If you choose to be loyal to a LTR, but know that you can easily get more pussy if you decide to go for it, why would that make you needy?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:45 PM
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If you're good at fucking her brains out, the first time will definitely be the hardest to get. But even if it's the hardest, it's still easy to obtain when she really wants you.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 11:57 AM
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Didn't seem to me like this is necessarily his opinion, but rather an answer to OP's question why low status dudes act asexual.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:56 PM
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But another man's dick aside, she's nothing short of a perfect girlfriend!!!!11
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:01 PM
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Exactly. A girl with great character that is really into you won't fuck other guys while dating you even before having the talk.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:59 PM
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Funny how they go mental when you do it to them. I'm friends with a girl that sometimes takes a whole weekend to reply, but when I didn't answer her for 24h she double texted me "ok, don't answer Mr 'too busy'" Imagine being offended by something you do on a regular basis to everyone around you.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:26 PM
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True and thanks for the advice, but I just was just contributing to OP's question. This dry spell was some time ago and I don't have that problem anymore.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:02 PM
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About a year. In that time I had 3 girls making out with me alone at home, but I pushed too much. I thought if I'd be aggressively sexual they'd get so horny that I would overcome their LMR, but all I did was getting their tits out, making them uncomfortable and them ending the contact. When girl number 4 denied me opening her bra for the first time I just kept making out trying it a bit later again. When she denied me again I left it at that, made out with her a bit more and went home when it g…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:37 PM
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Dude, you got big potential. You describe yourself as a 33 yo incel, but you seem to take trp very serious. You seem to be very analytical of your situation and while you may be right that you fucked up with this girl you need to embrace one core principle of TRP you seem to neglect. She's not special. She may be good looking, fun to hang out with etc. and most girls may not compare, but I promise you that there are still more than enough girls just as good as or even better than her. Right now …
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:25 PM
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"Hey guys, should I wait until she's done fucking her ex so our relationship can grow?"
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:34 PM
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You have blue pill goals. You want to play aloof and distanced for her to come back and have "your relationship grow". If you'd only be interested in fucking her brains out and maybe, maybe, maybe reward her with an LTR after multiple months of good behaviour and green flags (which she already fucked up with this whole ex situation) then you'd probably be closer to actually fucking her. Keep in mind that you're just a guy on her current rotation. Also sounds like you dated her already for a mont…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:31 PM
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Yes they do. A good friend of mine had insane oneitis for her ex. He was good looking with a high value job and when she was more trouble than fun for him he rejected her. Her first rejection in life. After that he was going on multiple vacations known for partying and fucking, which upset her, but she literally said "he can do whatever he wants and I still want him". Took her almost a year and a lot of beta orbiter dates to find someone she considers high enough value to actually fuck (or at le…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:00 AM
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I matched with a girl on tinder. She's a nice girl and usually has innocent day time coffee dates. When we started texting I would strongly sexualize the conversation, making her use tinder less and less. She told me about meeting the guys that she already was in contact with, but these dates were "quite nice". On our first date she was lying topless in her bed begginng me to fuck her. Of course it's still entirely possible that she's still in contact with some if not all of these other guys, bu…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:57 AM
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You're a psychic and should focus on improving so that you can read people's minds.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:22 AM
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Yeah, take her seriously, admit that you're fat and defend yourself by explaining your goals... Or just answer like you'd do if your bratty 12 year old sister tells you you're fat like TRP suggests.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:38 PM
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Stop thinking from the perspective of a man when you're trying to understand women. Make clear that you don't just want to be friends with her, but don't give her all your attention and commitment for free. She will be wondering if she can have you for anything besides her pussy.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:02 PM
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If you're not smelling like shit down there it's definitely just a problem on her part. Don't waste energy trying to understand.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:23 PM
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I found it depends on the girl. Some girls think head is more intimate than sex because taking it in your mouth feels more personal or something, others blow guys really fast and deny sex for the first dates because if the guy only wants to pump and dump her she doesn't have to count him for her n-count since it "wasn't real sex".
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:47 AM
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Honestly the best cure is just to be busy with something you enjoy and have an abundance mentality. Will keep you answering only every few hours automatically. When you know how to balance you can have a fast back and forth here and there, but you need to know when to withdraw to not be too available.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:32 AM
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Then you might have been in the same mindset that I'm currently struggling with. I know trying to enlighten people doesn't work and I don't try to, but I feel bad for knowing the "truth" and not sharing it to help people. A friend of mine is currently having hard depression about different things, one of them being that he is a kissless virgin at age 21, but in our group I'm just seen as insensitive and they all try to comfort him by saying that he'll find someone one day. So I see people suffer…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:00 PM
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I'm not trying to enlighten people, but I feel like I'm distanting myself from society. I'm not genuinely happy for them, I'm only faking it. Is it normal to actually not care at all what other people you interact with frequently do with their life?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:51 PM
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But what's your mindset behind all that? Are you genuinely happy for them? Isn't it kind of arrogant to not take their life goals seriously and think that your way of living is superior?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:47 PM
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Really? I never ask them to text me, but it always seemed to me that it's a bad sign if they don't take every chance to talk to you they get. Was a girl ever really into you, but didn't shoot you a "I'm home" or "good night" text later after a date?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:24 AM
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She replies fast, she keeps the conversation going or is the one to reinitiate contact when the convo dies, she's easy to talk to, uses a lot of emojis. The most important part: she agrees to meet up with you and fucks you once you do that. Stop being her pen pal.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:44 AM
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I don't think the sex had to be bad. Maybe you just came off super clingy and needy afterwards. She can get (good/okay) sex all the time, she doesn't want an easy to have guy that throws himself on her.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 02:26 PM
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You're planning on marrying a woman you don't even know the closest friends of? Did you vet her at all?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:44 AM
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Drunkely made out for the second time with a girl from my friends group. She bit my neck during it. I told her it was fun and all, but to not bite me in the future. Sober she's trying to come of as an absolute good girl, so she denied doing it and even said I already had the bruise at the start of the evening. When I insisted on her doing it she deflected with "believe what you want, but I didn't do it". Over the next few months she started joking about biting me again when she realized I don't …
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:19 AM
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I went out and experienced it myself over and over again. It just clicked recently after being dumped again when I tried to get sex after 3 nice dates because she's "feeling we don't fit together".
/r/askTRP26/02/20 12:58 AM
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I know of 2 natural guys. Both became that way by having a lot of experience with women. They don't take women seriously and know their own value. One of them is in a LTR of 6 years and he's happy with her, yet he said to me "if she thinks she could do better than me and leave me - fine, have fun"
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:04 AM
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But that's exactly what we do with girls. If they don't don't what we want they don't get our attention. We manipulate them in the same way without spelling it out.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:56 PM
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Isn't her giving him the choice of moving in together saying "I consider living together in a romantic relationship of 4 years a requirement for my own needs to be met"? If not why?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:21 PM
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How is removing yourself from a situation where you don't get what you want a powerful alpha move, but a girl that wants you to move in with her is being powerless with an ultimatum of her leaving?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:17 PM
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I don't get the difference. We advice guys to remove yourself from girls that don't give you what you want (i.e. Sex), so basically the same thing of "I get what I want or I'm out" ultimatums just without saying it out loud.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:08 PM
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Great summary, got your point now.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 01:46 PM
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Going to the kitchen to get some water only to come back and have a conversation with her isn't really withhelding attention imo.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 01:22 PM
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He didn't want to eat her out so she said no sex, so no sex. So when she says she's horny though you would fuck her? She's completely in control over when you're going to have sex or not then.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:39 AM
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To reward her for pushing you back and weaponizing sex?
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:15 AM
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What indicates this?
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:10 PM
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All answers advice to next her. Why couldn't it be that op is too alpha for his LTR and this was a comfort test that he failed?
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:49 PM
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You didn't force her to do anything she didn't want. Get that "being rapey" narrative out of your head. Might get you in trouble when saying it at the wrong time. You were needy, but others already told you what to do about it.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:59 AM
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Isn't being available inherently unattractive?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:04 AM
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"too much clothes"
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:12 PM
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What does OI stand for?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:45 PM
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It's always extremely trashy to almost finger her on the dance floor. I never had a problem with trying to make out with them if they're already dancing this close with me like op described.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 06:43 PM
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Age doesn't really matter as soon as you talk to them, but most people set their electronic options to even numbers or multiples of 5, so yes, just set it to 35.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:20 PM
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Let's say you enjoy playing classic violin, mathematics and chess. How the hell will you make that interesting to mainstream girls?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:30 PM
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Did that often enough, but the last girl came to my place on the 3rd date and stopped me from taking her shirt off saying "you're so wild today". I immediately went from making out to grabbing her tits, was just wondering if being too fast can be seen as unattractive in that scenario or if she just wasn't dtf either way.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:55 PM
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So you're making out and she stops you from sliding your hand under her shirt - what do you do?
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:53 PM
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Same thing for my model tier friend. He gets everything up to a 7 thrown at him, never hotter, but he doesn't bother improving his game.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 03:45 PM
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I don't care what girls think of you or if you fuck anyone at all. You didn't fuck up, you are fucked up. Stop hurting people especially if you consider killing people for disrespecting you. Hope you get the help you need in therapy and learn from it and better yourself. If you're able to live in this society you may worry about getting girls again.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:23 PM
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Considering asking her out Why are you hesitating? i asked her what exactly is she looking for Why? It doesn't matter what they say. Meet up and see what she does. What are telltale signs to see if she is into me? If she meets up and doesn't reject your escalation.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:18 AM
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Learn to love women for what they are. Don't try to make them something they're not. They're not your perfect partner for life ready to tackle every hurdle life gives you, but they are enthusiastically sucking your dick while happily being your submissive slut when you do things right. People romanticize this idea of women being bad and if you want love buy a dog. The truth is both love in the way nature designed them. Stop feeding your dog and see what happens.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 06:20 PM
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I'm not quite getting where you're coming from with that sentence However, let’s say you DO find such a Sloot, just be non-reactive or give them a “👍🏻” reply. Enough to be polite, but absolutely non-needy, You mean being non reactive when they reject my explicit sexual innuendos and just try to escalate as usual later on?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:16 PM
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The ones trying to guard their reputition and not being sexual so fast are often the ones that are of higher quality though.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:02 PM
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I've had the problem of some girls telling me "it's not enough" when rejecting me, so basically womanese for not enough tingles. So I'm kinda looking for what I'm doing wrong there. Thought it could be not flirty enough / too much comfort even though I always try to kiss them on the first date and I'm playful and teasing, just not explicitly sexual like a chad friend of mine suggests.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 02:35 PM
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I don't know if it's PED / death grip or performance anxiety that's why I'm asking
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:14 PM
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How can too much carbs cause this?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:47 AM
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Could be entirely possible. How do I get rid of this though?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:14 AM
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Exactly. Make a fat joke with a chubby girl and see where that gets you.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:30 PM
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Meet up, try to fuck. If she's not down next.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:25 PM
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I must admit after about 10 days without fapping I got half hard just by seeing the girl I was fucking at the time enter my apartment in yoga pants. So I just probably stop fapping for a while.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:11 PM
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What's wrong with watching porn let's say once a week?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:10 PM
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Depends, sometimes daily, sometimes twice a week, sometimes once
/r/askTRP25/12/19 11:56 AM
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Forever? There has to be a healthy middle ground.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 11:55 AM
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As soon as I am hard I never had a problem with the girl not being tight enough, but I did have problems with getting hard in the first place.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:24 AM
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They do when they stop improving.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:26 PM
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Treat AWALT the same as every gun being loaded. No matter the circumstances, when you pick up a gun you act like it's loaded. Same thing with women. Make sure what you're dealing with before getting careless and shooting your own foot. I would give credit for this analogy, but I sadly forgot who I read it from lately.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:35 AM
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Hard next and ignore. If she keeps reaching out and it's emotionally taxing to read (i.e. an ex) or just annoying you're free to block whoever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 12:41 PM
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You just make it fun. I had great fun just by walking around a lake and seeing sheep behind an electric fence. Like kids I was "brave" enough to touch it, I was joking by grabbing her hand and seeing if she feels a shock though me. I picked her up and threatened her to throw her over to the sheep if she's not nice etc. She was excited like a little girl. Just have fun and banter, it doesn't really matter what you do, but I agree that sitting and eating is boring.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:35 AM
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I kinda lost track of your conversation. Asking her out shouldn't be something that special to you - that's bluepill. If she doesn't answer she seems to be not that interested.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 12:08 AM
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If she's this interested just ask her out. I only call girls when I feel like they need a bit more comfort before agreeing to meet up because I'm literally just a random stranger they know nothing about.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 11:27 PM
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What time did you call? Should have made sure you were texting back and forth prior so that she's free and probably at home. Second girl didn't pick up the first time, texted "for sure not, I hate calling" Told her "I have no intent of chatting for an hour, so pick up" - called her again, she picked up.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:47 PM
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In the past months I had two girls who weren't too sure about meeting me. I haven't talked much to them before getting their number and they each had a reason for why they weren't so sure about a date. So they didn't really know me and Lived a 45 min hour drive away Just broke up with her bf 2 weeks prior When I asked them to go out with me and they answered with something hesitant I just texted "pick up" and called them. Girl number 1 couldn't stop talking about how I must do this every weekend…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:17 PM
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I only have approach anxiety when friends of mine could see me getting rejected. I have absolutely no problem getting rejected by girls but as soon as everyone would know about it it starts screwing with my head. Is there anything specifically for that?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:35 PM
4

The difference is genuinity. If you want to be nice towards people and make their day a little better then do that. If you hope that the compliment you made to that one girl is leading up to getting your dick wet then that's bad. Don't mistake being nice for weakness. You can be nice and still enforce your boundaries when needed.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:11 PM
7

Actually took me 4 girls to realize that no matter how perfect or different they appear in the end they operate all the same. If you're weak/needy they'll drop you without thinking about you ever again. They go out and are slutty. Talking about how important exclusivity is to them, but having fun with "friends" and dancing VERY intimately close, almost making out. Hamstering it away because it's only cheating when making out/fucking. Currently I could never imagine commiting to a single woman. A…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:39 PM
3

Talk to him in a serious, not insulting manner about what's wrong with that behaviour. Is it his first girlfriend? He will probably realize his mistake and change after that relationship ends. If he keeps up that behaviour the friendship will just fizzle out and you need to find better friends.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:55 AM
1

I don't want to be her next bf. I just want to be the guy she can hit up for uncomplicated sex as soon as she's down. Where that goes is a question for months down the line.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:55 AM
1

That's exactly my take. Still I want to optimize my chances of banging her. That's why I'm asking to wait a few days to hit her up, hit her up immediately or let her contact me whenever?
/r/askTRP12/12/19 09:55 AM
2

Usually I'd agree and for the most part I see it as done, but she's actually single for just about a month so she might be genuine with not being ready.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 09:30 AM
1

I feel like stopping to contact someone just because they didn't want to fuck/kiss yet seems butthurt. Might just be beta wiring that girls have to be more than just sex to me
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:55 AM
4

Wish her the best with her bf and move on. Either she's serious and the plate dropped or she is bluffing and will come back.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:42 AM
1

This girl kept repeating how I must do this every weekend with a new girl. My game was on point, I fucked up the lmr tho
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:35 PM
3

If you don't escalate they will see it as a rejection or that you're weak. You're probably giving off a weak vibe. A friend of mine cuddled in bed with a girl without fucking her because his parents were home. Before you know it she went cold on him and the next time he saw her it was with another guy in a club. Strike the iron while it's hot.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:29 PM
2

we get close over time and I can see in their eyes they want me . After this everything goes downhil Do you fuck them before it goes downhill? If no, why not?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:13 PM
2

I wasn't butthurt, but she still thought so, that's my point. But pulling back, going through my phone and not really giving her any attention just after she resisted getting fucked seems like a general butthurt reaction in general. "You don't fuck me, so I don't care about you any more!"
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:58 PM
4

I tried that once, but after getting rejected to go further than sucking her tits me pulling out my phone and being indifferent to her presence just seemed like I was butthurt. How do you not give off a butthurt vibe with that?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:03 PM
2

Exactly. Yes, good looks help greatly, but you fucking incels just try to find a reason to cry and be alone forever. Tune your car as much as possible and learn how to drive perfectly instead of crying and never driving because it's not a Bugatti.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:04 PM
1

Not socially autistic - just needy and desperate for girls. I still lost these girls when I was funny, witty and confident. Also even though my face was never ugly I was really unattractive in general. My hair sucked and I was grossly skinny. I know what it's like to not even be looked at by girls. Further you just skipped my most important point: Guys that are way less attractive than I am - you might even call them ugly - are dicking down the girls right now that rejected me because they playe…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:19 PM
4

If that's seriously you in that gif you really need to get help on seeing yourself as ugly. That guy has no ugly face at all.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:34 PM
3

Maybe you'll actually listen to me and think about it again, so here's my small story: I'm 6'3" and have a quite attractive face, not model-tier but it's alright. I was extemely underweight for most of my life. Before the age of 17 my weight was 130 lbs while being almost as tall as I was now from age 15 onwards. I didn't get a single girl. With 17 I started working out and gaining a little bit of weight up to 155-165 lbs. I was still skinny, but not grossly skinny any more. That's when girls fi…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:28 PM
1

I know what OP means. I personally see it as an insult when somebody tries to sell me the biggest bullshit so I call them out on it. Doesn't really help with girls you're trying to fuck.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 12:44 PM
1

When in doubt I never go with what the woman said.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 12:35 PM
4

This isn't flirting, fun or giving them the tingles in any way. That's DEERing 101.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:59 AM
38

I don't know you guys or your relationship but is it possible that he really just wanted to hang out as friends? He wanted you there but you had to work so why should everyone else stay home? If he really hit on your girl that would be enough for me to end the friendship.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:24 PM
1

What would change in the evening except the sunlight? It's not like you'd invite her to a sleepover and all of a sudden you're naked and fucking. Usually it kinda builds up to the first kiss which you then easily take towards your bed for comfort and further escalation, but I know that feeling when it's not really building to a kiss and you're kinda lost. I have found myself in the past just trying to stand in front of them and either tell them to look at me (I'm tall so it's a very submissive p…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:07 PM
2

It's pointless to ask. Build some flirty, teasing, light-hearted rapport and try to set a date. If she dodges she's not into you or just wants the attention. If she agrees assume attraction and try to escalate like normal. Do you need her to say "I wanna be fucked" before you man up and escalate?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:58 AM
1

... Ooor I'm just looking for healthy, calorie dense food that is easy to eat even when cold so that I can do what I want? I'm just here for ideas to reach what I want wtf
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:49 AM
2

A girl I know is 29. She slept with easily over 30 guys, I think she lost count herself. She's very truthful when talking to her friends, but her boyfriend who she's madly in love with and would never cheat on (currently) thinks her n-count is below 10. I also know a girl who slept with maybe 5 guys. Goes clubbing regularly, flirts with every guy, gets drinks for free, sleeps in the same bed as their male friends etc. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to behave that way even though she is not cheati…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:18 PM
2

The problem is that I'm often busy over the course of the whole day where I squeeze in 1500 calories. Then I'm free at home for like 4 hours before sleeping, but it's hard for me to eat more than 2000 healthy calories in 4 hours. That why I want to spread it out more over the day.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:32 PM
1

Already drinking two shakes worth 700 calories each a day. I really need actual food.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:01 PM
5

Dating apps are funny. I'm quite attractive, but I never thought that social proof photos would be so important. I had tinder in the beginning of 2019. My matches weren't great and I had sex with an average girl. Not worth the effort so I uninstalled. This October I installed it again and used the same pictures except one more blurry Polaroid photo from a birthday party. I had my arms around a guy on the left and a girl with a nice body on the right. Both their faces censored, so the girl could …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:35 PM
30

It's pointless to talk about that. I have seen the biggest cock carousel riders being the most loyal girlfriends for the right guy and the sweetest girls cheating on their boyfriend. Also you will never know if she's speaking the truth.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:12 AM
1

"Ooo a blind date, exciting!" Just don't take it seriously. Usually I just answer "sounds like a great guy, hope you got his number", but in this case that already happened.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:05 AM
15

The most important rule is to only tease non-issues. If she could be sensitive about the topic you're trying to tease she will get offended instead of playful.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 10:55 AM
1

It's great
/r/askTRP30/11/19 10:51 AM
5

currently I'm not seeing a single girl since I fucked up the problem is keeping them around. Definitely me trying to humble brag.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:41 PM
1

So in the beginning its a shit test and later on it could be a comfort test?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:12 PM
5

To loosely quote the answer an EC recently gave me: You want to achieve things, but don't put the work in. That's called daydreaming. Wake up.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:13 AM
1

I'm not asking how to win her back or something. I want to know if I can prevent this from happening with the next girl to not waste time.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:53 PM
1

Yes, especially since she shut me down for the second date. What can I improve for the next girl though?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:05 AM
1

Honestly she was boring and I just texted her because I started bulking again and got very horny because of hormones.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:00 AM
1

This all happened 2 months. Between getting her number and the first date were 2 weeks, 1 week later she said she isn't interested in another date. My question is why.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:57 AM
2

You misunderstood. Your goal when contacting her should obviously be to fuck her, but it shouldn't be your highest priority in life because that would be needy.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:10 AM
22

You can achieve an abundance mentality by not putting her and your goal to fuck her first. Be busy with other stuff, but show her you're interested. Just don't be needy even if you are.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:12 AM
4

Go see a doctor. Strangers on the internet won't help with that.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:49 PM
6

If you cant pull your foreskin back you need to see a doctor and will probably get circumcised. Why did you never notice this when masturbating?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:09 PM
5

If you don't give off any relationship vibes they will ditch after some time for someone who is willing to commit. I had a plate I literally never really talked with. I texted her that I wanted to get my dick sucked, she drove half an hour to my place, I fucked her and she left. One day she told me she wouldn't come over anymore because she found someone she could potentially have a relationship with. When I told her "I know you want to come over" she just said "I do now, but I have to make deci…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:43 PM
3

Sexual market value. Term used to describe your attractiveness based on looks, behavior, status, money, etc
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:43 AM
7

Hypergamy is real. Seeing other girls want you will make girls more interested in you. But it isn't black and white. I found that most quality girls want a guy that potentially could drop them and get a new girl in a heartbeat, but doesn't make them look like a slut. Said hot chick is now one of my best friends and she would drop any guy that she is only a side chick to in a second.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:43 PM
17

You can't generalize every fucking situation. Short story from my first week of college (introduction week so basically only drinking and partying): Flirted with this hot chick the whole day, but at the club in the evening she kinda dodged me. I didn't give a fuck and made out with 3 different girls. 3 days later we were at a club again, this time I'm making out with hot chick #1. She later admitted to seeing me make out with one of the girls on the first day and it bothering her. I guarantee yo…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:27 PM
2

Not completely true. Your monkey brain does care between watching someone fuck and fucking yourself. By watching too much porn you won't even get hard with a real girl. You basically develop a cuck fetish by watching too many girls get fucked by other guys. Also did you ever notice that you ejaculate way more with a real woman than watching porn? For me that's the case. ​ Video games aren't all that black and white either. I personally enjoy playing strategic video games on a quite high level (t…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:09 PM
11

Obviously she's not that interested in you. You can basically next her, but if you really want to make sure I'm right you could ask her out. She will either not reply at all or give you some excuse on why she cant.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:57 PM
31

High smv guys are ignoring them and were probably not nice to them. It's kinda like racism where they assume people are all the same. They are disrespectful to you because they have been treated badly by "your kind".
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:42 PM
3

Have a fun light hearted conversation. Why would she randomly start talking about serious personal problems at work? Never happened to me before.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:20 PM
1

I'm struggling with that myself, but even to your closest friends you need to shut the fuck up. People don't wanna be saved and you won't be the one saving them. Lead by example and people will ask for your help if they need it.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:50 AM
1

I guess a combination of both. I really enjoyed playing video games in the past and I was never bored in my spare time, but as I got older it's just not that great for me anymore. I feel like currently I should be out living life way more. All I do is follow the social path to career and occasionally meet my friends.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:55 PM
1

And I'm asking how to pass that. I tried everything but nothing worked.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:28 AM
2

She kept saying how I must be such a player and it's probably the first time a girl doesn't fuck immediately, so why do you think there won't be a second date? Me escalating too much didn't seem to make her think I'm needy.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 10:42 PM
1

Imagine thinking it's reasonable to ask someone to sit next to you and comfort you while not doing what they're getting paid for. This "women are getting paid less" thing had to start somewhere. A few weeks back I heard a woman cry down the hall because of work related reasons.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:34 PM
1

Girls we're not only biologically designed to seek approval from society, but also to not fuck up and get pregnant by some random guy... With all this in mind, would girls be down to fuck directly after meeting a guy if he's attractive enough ...yet this happens already. just like us guys Look at the gay scene. People are fucking left and right with anyone who looks good. That's what happens in a sexual market full of males.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:05 AM
3

Marriage is seen as such an achievement in society. Marry the 3rd or 4th girl who gives them pussy and nothing more. People around me are naively getting married and having kids in their mid/late twenties. I do wish them the best and hope it works out for them, but honestly I'm just expecting that ship to crash and burn horribly. No point in telling them though.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 11:19 PM
11

"One day you'll find the right person for you" and "There is someone for everyone" This is the shit people get told. I'm coming from a very rural area and average guys are getting married left and right to fatties or below-average looking girls. Happy to get someone at all. I think most men are just happy to find anyone to be with. They don't want to put in the work and get the one they want. They take what they can get. Point it out and you're an superficial asshole because clearly no attractiv…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:38 PM
22

Without steroids
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:49 PM
1

If they'd go through with it and actually meet up with me, sure. But this way? What can I do if they just flake besides nexting?
/r/askTRP21/09/19 11:25 AM
1

So how to protect myself from this? It's quite annoying tbh because I'm planning for a meet up, they agree and then they cancel on me.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:35 AM
1

If she's not down to meet up it would be an easy way to reject me nicely. Girls even do this when they're single to reduce the chance of the guy flipping out.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:33 AM
12

Then keep making out, play with her nipples, go down with your hand again but stop above her pussy, go back to her tits. Make her want to get fucked.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:14 PM
18

Depends on context. Is it in a group setting and she just met you and wants to see your Instagram? Tell her you were stressed out by your 745832 followers. Are you having a rather deep talk between only the two of you? Tell her why you dislike it but not in a matter like "only stupid people with nothing better to do use it".
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:12 PM
1

So with a surplus of 300 kcal a day, how much weight gain should I expect in a month? How much of that would approximately be muscle?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 09:29 PM
1

How much weight gain would that cause in a month? How much of that would be muscle?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 09:28 PM
5

My problem is not eating enough calories, it's that I don't know how much I should eat to make sure I'm not missing out on gains, but still not gaining too much fat.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:12 PM
1

rate of muscle growth is not proportional to calorie surplus Can you elaborate on that?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:12 PM
3

Not defending mgtow, but isn't theredpill quarantined?
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:35 PM
2

I was out with a female friend and her friends/sisters. Her older sister was basically eye fucking me and constantly complimenting me. I was talking a bit to her and she basically told me her life story in detail, but didn't mention her boyfriend with a single word. She even mentioned breaking up with her ex, but not that she has a new one. At one point she said "last week I was having dinner with the family of a friend". This was probably her boyfriend lol Didn't escalate though because relativ…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:24 AM
1

One of them was an old acquaintance I met Fridays of a local weekend event. She still had my number and hit me up the next day asking if I'll be there again, wanting to meet up. Problem is she was there with her best friend and no one else so I couldn't isolate, but I kept it playful, flirty and teasing. Afterwards she still replied immediately and was open to meet up as only the two of us until the flaking started.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:30 AM
42

Have some self respect. "I really like fucking her so I plate her because that's what I want! That's alpha!". She disrespected you and is human garbage. She's not worth your time, attention or cock. Fuck other girls, there are more than enough.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:49 AM
1

What do you mean by false time constraints?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:43 PM
1

Why would a woman immediately start throwing a dude like this attention after a breakup with a guy who all things considered is much more higher SMV/alpha? That's where you're mistaken. Girls want attention, guys want pussy. So after getting dumped she goes out to get attention to feel good again. Why orbiters? They're easy to access and she doesn't even have to pay with her pussy to get it.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:16 PM
11

4 dates a year and too much of a Chad? Seems to me like you're just lost in the "i'M alPhA" phase where you think you get it, but you don't. A few weeks ago someone here told his gf something like "I'm not going to tell you the name of the app I photoshop your pics with, stop being annoying about it", because he read you should keep your girl dependant and be mysterious. Don't be that guy.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:57 PM
4

The problem is that OP seems to give off the vibe of "I'm single because no one wants me". Thus his smv drops. When you say you're single people should assume you're fucking around.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:10 PM
38

After having quite some success with several women I developed some kind of "let's skip this bullshit, I know you want me" mentality when meeting new women and acted way too fast/forced. Girls don't work like that.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 02:17 PM
5

Being single only lowers your smv when people assume it's not your choice and that no one wants you. Why do you give off that vibe? Preselection is a thing and people seem to think every girl decided you're not good enough.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 09:14 AM
2

Preselection
/r/askTRP23/06/19 09:12 AM
2

Depends on your definition of beta bait. If you tell her "I loved my ex so much! I bought her flowers every week!" she'll think of you as a needy fool, but saying things like "I can imagine being in a LTR if I find the right girl" could make her want to qualify and try extra hard to be your "right girl".
/r/askTRP21/06/19 02:49 AM
6

Sometimes they do, but it's pitiful to watch. Be the man she wants not the one that is always around hoping for a weak moment.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 01:40 PM
2

I have always been the skinny video game playing nerd (even though I had a kinda attractive face). Never brought a gf to family gatherings because I never had one. Years later I still didn't bring a girl ever, but now that I got bigger and behave more confident my family just assumes I have several girls around even though I'm rather picky and sometimes go weeks/months without having a girl at all.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:34 AM
1

Girls give a shit. I'm not saying to forcefully never reply immediately, but if you always reply very fast it will reduce their attraction for you.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:37 PM
5

Girls usually have some "he treats me bad, but I like fucking him" kind of guy to hit up when they're single. Set up a date and fuck her, ignore everything else.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:05 AM
1

I don't think the food itself is actually dry, but when I don't like eating stuff it feels like my mouth just doesn't produce enough saliva to properly chew and swallow.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:12 PM
2

I feel like if I don't actively game women (no matter how hot) I'm just another part of the group to them (sexually invisible) most of the time. I'm 6'3, 200 lbs and have a kinda attractive face, but the amount of times a girl actively came onto me are very very rare.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:39 PM
2

That helps with going on with your life and not clinging to one girl that doesn't want you, but said girl (that sees your SMV as way lower than hers) won't chase you all of a sudden just because you moved on with your life.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:36 PM
1

Tbh currently I'm not even texting with a single girl. Last plate that was kinda okayish broke and I'm not the guy to meet new people every week. In the end I should not care if I get to fuck or not for some time?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:23 PM
1

In the end you and me do want to fuck that one hot girl. How to enter that outcome independent state of mind if you don't have an arsenal of already hot women you can fuck instead?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:08 PM
1

Drinking a few beers occasionally won't effect your gains very much, but don't go to the gym when buzzed. Go in the morning or go another day.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:27 PM
1

For some of them I was too clingy, I realized that and stopped that. For the rest? I don't know.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:31 AM
1

I do have low self worth because every girl I date dumps me after a few months/weeks because they realize they're not that into me. The worst part? I don't know what the problem is. I think I'm exhausting to be around in the long run and I can't really change who I am.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:25 AM
1

I have a loving mother, so that isn't really the problem. I think my problem is that not a single girl ever told me that she loves me. Never had a single serious serious relationship my whole life. Met every girl a few months max before they realized they aren't that into me.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:23 AM
1

Tbf it increased heavily while bulking up so I hoped someone had a similar experience
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:04 AM
1

That's what I've been thinking as well. Some smaller guys I know seem to get more attention for their muscles as they're more visible. The weights these guys are lifting are ridiculously low.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:19 PM
1

It's not about feeling insecure or stuff like that. I just won't identifying pics in this subreddit (meaning moles and other birthmarks).
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:16 PM
1

Won't post pics. Hard to describe though. You see that I work out because I'm muscular "for my size", but I feel like my body type/size is somewhat small in general.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:55 PM
1

As you're super small for your height That's what I'm thinking. You can tell by my shoulders and arms that I do work out, but I still feel like I'm kinda small in general while still having a bit of a belly and lost my defined jaw line. Can't really decide which route to take. How long did you bulk everytime to get from 10% to 15%?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:51 PM
1

Obviously I'm hitting up the gym regularly. I gained about 45 lbs in about a year. Naturally I gained a mixture of fat and muscles. ​ I'm just wondering if I should start a diet to cut down the fat a bit even though my muscles are not as big as I'd want them to be before really shredding down.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:49 PM
5

Women never date down. Attractive men can still have shit game and settle for the girls they're actually able to attract/keep.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:33 PM
1

I feel like I'm way to stupid to differentiate between shit tests, real complains and the complaints they don't really want you to fix. I know how to correctly apply this set of rules once the situation is clear, but I'm having troubles to distinguish every situation for what it is.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:27 PM
1

I feel like that might even worsen it. Kinda like imposter syndrome. I don't feel like I'm mentally there where I physically appear to be and everyone around me will notice immediately. Like I'm nervous to meet the expectations I think people have of me.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:35 PM
7

Comes with experience. I used to have a boner all the time when making out in clubs, but that just stopped after several times.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 04:02 PM
1

I don't understand the question
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:56 PM
8

Yeah, they say they want you to touch them as hard as you can, but let's be honest they couldn't take that. Show her that you control her, that you're stronger and dominant, that's what they want.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:49 PM
1

Not answering is not the problem. Answering after 24h and pretending that it's perfectly fine is what bothers me. How to handle that?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:01 PM
1

I surely won't "next" someone that is part of my friends that I see every week. I see this as a conversation where the other person just turns around and leaves. You obviously don't stand there and wait for them to come back, but what to do when that person tags along to what you're doing then and acts like nothing happened?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:53 AM
1

Okay, then let's pretend I'm not that invested anymore. She answers after 24h silence. What is my move? Just casually answer the next time I'm checking my phone?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:23 AM
1

Is it useless shit when friends of yours just get you out of the shelf when bored and toss you in the corner once they have other stuff to do? People act like they don't have one fucking minute to answer and everyone plays along. I don't get it.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:02 AM
1

That's exactly what I don't get. I was out yesterday too, but I still would have found time to answer a friend. I don't put conversations with friends on hold for 24h and then act like nothing happened, but apparently everyone is okay with that. It's actually not about sex, but communication in general.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:00 AM
3

You're definitely in the phase in which you read Trp, but you don't really understand how things work. You shouldn't be her personal jester and keep yourself busy, but forcefully only texting her in the evening is bullshit which she smells (obviously because you use ig in your "busy time"). Keeping her dependant and being mysterious because of a Photoshop app? No one cares about small shit like that. Don't make such a big deal of the name of an app. Do you really think you will keep her because …
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:53 AM
3

Checking your smv. Only dated known sluts and/or fatties? Prepare for massive shit tests. Dated someone she doesn't like? Prepare for shit tests. Dated a lot of hot and popular chicks? Prepare for shit tests, but also a lot of comfort tests. As soon as you say something negative about her in some way I guarantee a "then go back to Stacy if she's so much better...". Overall just chill and play it cool. In the end it doesn't matter who you fucked, but how you react.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:33 AM
1

I was talking about the situation where she asks for permission. People say to not care and that it's a shit test to see if you're jealous, but when you reply with an uninterested "go ahead" you can't really be angry for her actually going when you literally communicated that it's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:25 PM
1

But what to do in a LTR situation like this? People say to not care, but I think meeting up one on one with an ex is very disrespecting.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:55 PM
2

Why are girls preferring "fat fucks" over you immediately?
/r/askTRP25/05/19 02:34 AM
1

No one seems to start sweating as fast as I do, even other (more) muscular guys. Does bad cardio influence this even when just sitting in a rather warm environment?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:49 PM
1

Naturally
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:12 PM
1

High quality food in surplus
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:36 PM
1

I have this problem for almost a year now. Do you have any product recommendations?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:29 PM
1

I think the biggest problem area is typically my arm pits. Do you completely shave them clean? I usually buzz them to a very short stubble length. Wouldn't blocking my body from sweating in certain areas not just cause me to sweat heavier in other areas? After all my body is trying to cool down, so I'd rather stop feeling so heated all the time.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:49 PM
1

Only several common deodorants
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:40 PM
1

Now that's another problem. When I still fapped often and watched porn I couldn't get hard at all. So to get hard I need to stop fapping which results in me cumming immediately.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 06:34 PM
12

Same reason some women seriously argue that they like dad bods over fit men. They're afraid they're not good enough and don't want a man who just tosses them in the corner once he's bored.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:58 PM
1

If this is your only concern then buy and use your own condoms every time. Problem solved. If you're actually getting paranoid about everything in an unhealthy manner you need to relax and maybe seek professional help.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 03:00 PM
4

I wouldn't have let her sleep in my bed when she's not dtf. Send her home or at least attempt to, but don't do it in a butthurt way. She might try to fuck you then. If not you haven't lost more than you would anyway.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:50 AM
8

Soft next. If she reaches out you try to fuck. If she's not down hard next.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:39 AM
1

The trick is to do it naturally. Are you busy through out the day? Then take your time to reply, she's not your highest priority. Are you sitting on the couch in the evening? Then reply faster. Don't be too available, but also don't be a robot set to reply every 3 hours. But tbh, every girl that was into me usually replied within 30-60 minutes.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:15 AM
45

I have had great success with having a fun light hearted conversation via text. Don't text too much, just every few hours and make her smile when checking her phone. One girl told me her friends/parents asked her who she was texting because she was smiling so damn much. Makes her have the emotional roller coaster - "why isn't he texting me for hours? Is he even interested?" to "oh my god, he is so funny/cute" etc. It is possible to make an impact on her via text. Just don't be too available.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:13 PM
2

I also think some texting can be really helpful. My go to move is to answer after several hours (3-6). If she's really into you she will proably immediately jump to her phone and try to answer while you're still online. I sometimes reward this with an immediate answer myself to have a short conversation (a few minutes max) and then go back to letting her wait for hours. When I'm really bored in the evening I sometimes answer every 5 minutes for like an hour. Then go back to silence again. Drives…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:32 PM
1

Thanks for the elaborated answer. Regarding that girl I already have the "whatever, next" attitude. Just wanted to know how to maybe play my cards correctly if I get in a similar situation once again. Probably should have just been more disinterested. then you do something else... invite her to do the same.... What do you mean by inviting her to do the same?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:29 PM
1

I did. It was 4 months later (when she was single) that we first made out. That's when she hit me with the "we shouldn't do this! It's all getting so complicated" and denying anything further.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:17 PM
3

Then you don't have a problem, do you?
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:03 PM
3

Always a very good sign of interest is when she texts you stuff like "what are you doing?" just to make you talk to her. I found that all girls sooner or later send that exact text.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 03:02 PM
1

What is regular basis for you? Once a week? Daily?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:47 AM
1

Do you also struggle to get hard when masturbating to porn or is it just with women?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:46 AM
1

Read the sidebar. The whole thing. You will misunderstand some things thinking you figured it out until you make the experience yourself and realize how far off from reality your understandings were. In terms of actively doing things I'd say lifting. Read up on doing the right exercises, how to do them properly and very importantly fix your diet. You're wasting your time at the gym when your diet is shit.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:44 AM
2

Nofap doesn't really bring you anything. If you're having troubles getting hard with girls then yeah, not touching your dick for a few weeks and making it sensitive again is a great idea. Sitting on the couch playing video games and pretending to be happy every evening by stroking your dick also isn't good. But there's absolutely nothing wrong in living a normal life and rubbing one out every few days when you get horny. Everything in moderation.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:25 AM
1

You really have to see it a few times yourself to fully understand why you shouldn't be (emotionally) dependant on a woman. Just from one day to another they can and will completely go from "you've become so important to me" to not caring about you at all. They don't even need you to do something wrong/bad.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:20 PM
2

Obviously I don't burst out laughing. That's why I said "smile or chuckle". I still get the "this isn't funny" or "you can't take anything seriously" shit tests from time to time.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:11 PM
2

Whenever I smile or chuckle at women's antics they seem to be kinda butthurt and ask completely surprised why I think that's funny. How to correctly react to that?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:41 AM
1

That "I was reading between the lines" text was horrible. Don't explain yourself. Tell her to meet you at time Y to do activity X. If she's into you she will make the drive. Don't rely on her randomly being near you on her own.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:25 AM
1

She just blocks off everything that goes further than making out. Even just grabbing her tit over her clothes is too much. She just wants to have fun drunkenly, but stops where the real fun begins. You can probably say goodbye to the friendship though, sooner or later. I think this is why her LMR is inevitable. She's afraid to fuck up her social life for a bit of drunk horny sex.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:01 PM
12

Never had that problem. Maybe try to actively watch what you say and stop asking girls to do something. Just tell them. The girl im fucking just recently told me it makes her horny when I just say "get up" because of the way I say it.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 10:05 AM
2

I think his question is pretty weird. Sounds like "We wrote music, now's the part where we fuck". OP should just escalate as fast as she's down to.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:24 PM
16

Just recently I've been told "it's annoying when you talk badly about something I like". Don't tell them. Don't try to save them. People that wanna get saved will come, others will just reject you. Let them have fun spending their day taking pictures for a few likes on instagram.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:03 PM
4

To be fair if she really doesn't wanna fuck you her words still wouldn't matter as you should realize what's going on when she's trying to scratch your eyes out, run away or kick you in the balls.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:19 AM
3

Just don't do it autistically. You can always make her beg for your dick.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:22 AM
47

Girl just told me last weekend that I'm way too sure that I'd fuck her. After talking for an hour I just grabbed her, threw her on my bed and she wasn't resisting in the slightest. It just doesn't matter what girls say.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:25 PM
67

Great answer. Try to escalate though, you'll probably end up fucking. If she actually resists too much, don't be butthurt about it. You will most likely fuck her one date later.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:11 PM
2

Not judging, just curious, but how can you fuck girls you don't like to spend time with? I'm rather with one girl I like than 4 I don't like. I feel like abundance isn't the fact how many girls you currently have, but rather how easy and fast you'd get a replacement.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:43 AM
5

Buzz cut without a beard looks weird in general. Being skinny doesn't help either. Truth is, we can't decide what's more important to you - the comfort or looking as good as possible. Also we can't judge your appereance without a picture, but I wouldn't recommend posting one.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:40 AM
1

I get that. It's still a shitty starter.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:13 PM
3

And every European who knows how to handle girls. Even Arabic woman are like that. They're just too afraid to show it because they don't want to die.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:42 PM
24

You send out a snap telling people you have a sore throat. Who the fuck should care about that?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:39 PM
1

Do you have a useful source on how to medidate properly? I'd guess there's more to it than sitting and relaxing?
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:34 PM
1

Got a 30 minute hand job on cialis. Couldn't cum for the love of God. Thought about some vanilla porn I watched a week before and came within 2 minutes. That's where I knew I had to stop even though I never excessively watched porn.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:48 AM
1

I think you're on point, but at this point people would just think I'm ridiculing them instead of making a light hearted comment like your Kylie Jenner example.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:00 PM
1

Literally have been told that people know I'm right, but don't wanna give me the satisfaction by admitting it.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:58 PM
1

I only do this to people I care about. If my fat piece of shit friend would say "man I'm not getting any girls, they're all stupid hoes!", I feel like I have to say something like "maybe the problem is that you're fat and unattractive". It's not that I want to be mean, but it's the only way to actually help them. I know what you mean, but just shutting up and letting them "suffer" can't be the best solution.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:54 PM
1

Cardio might be a problem since I'm bulking? What effects does it have on my problems?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:08 PM
1

I did quit porn, but I don't know if completely stopping to masturbate will help. After 5-7 days I just get so horny that I can't focus properly on important things. It's not like I'm jerking it excessively.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:51 PM
2

Even if you want to believe that bullshit story of nothing physically happening these texts about it are just as bad. She didn't even get a bad conscience and confess - you found out yourself. She probably would have stopped when that dick got boring too and would have gotten another side dick. She isn't loyal and disrespected you. That relationship is not salvageable even if nothing physical happened. Throw her out of your life and move on. She doesn't deserve any closure.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:54 PM
2

This is the answer right here.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:49 AM
2

What alpha behavior do you perceive as mean?
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:38 AM
3

Keep it short and try to meet up. She's either pinging for attention or for cock. If you feel it's just attention end the conversation otherwise you got what you want. Had a similar situation and I played it wrong because I didn't assume attraction. If she's reaching out to you it's probably for cock.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:34 AM
23

I really don't know if America is just a shitshow of a country where you have to fear being kicked out of university for literally talking to women or if some incels in here just try to rationalize why they don't talk to the evil women. Probably the latter.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:28 AM
1

I know people that stay in your described situation. Average looking guys marrying whales. I don't know how you can actually choose to stay living in such a situation. Just move to the nearest town. Usually it's not that far and you can stay in close contact with friends and family.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:22 PM
8

Her brain explodes with endorphines on good sex. I agree it's not normal behaviour, but it really could "just" be that she's crying happy tears when fucking you.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:53 AM
11

Correct, but then you'll find out when you escalate anyway. Asking for her boyfriend brings you nothing.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:46 AM
2

That's the breaking point for me. If I wouldn't wanna be seen with her, I don't meet/fuck her. I used to fuck lower to gain experience, but like you also realized it's not worth it imo.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:46 AM
6

I see where you're coming from, but lets be honest. Seeing a guy approach with a boner in public will never be seen as good by a woman. It screams inexperience and needyness.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:40 AM
9

You greatly overestimate the confidence of women. Their lack of confidence makes them believe it's anxiety. Also anxiety -> Illness and not their fault. Lack of confidence -> Don't be such a bitch. It should be pretty clear what a woman's hamster will choose to say.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:15 PM
5

That's her nature. She gave you her most valuable asset (pussy) and wants yours in return (commitment). She's attracted to the guy that is able to fuck around, but she feels like she doesn't wanna be just another slut for him. If you don't wanna be exclusive, you can dismiss it jokingly for some time. She won't stop nagging though and will eventually say she can't be in this situation any longer. That's where you say stuff like "That sucks, but if you think leaving is better for you that's fine"…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:54 PM
6

Just keep it light hearted and fun. Escalate and tease her. Obviously don't talk about any future relationship things (like meeting her family) seriously. It's okay to joke around though. Had a girl do something I really liked when I met her in the club. I was surprised, grabbed her and carried her away saying "That's it! I'm going to marry you!". Next day she texted me asking how many girls I also married that evening. Wanting a serious relationship right away is needy and that's what girls are…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:40 PM
3

Exactly. Forget her and keep going. Maybe she'll come back for more cock, but don't wait for it.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:38 AM
1

Really? Since I went from skinny to normal weight with muscles I got tons of IOIs. I didn't think my body was anything more than average, but girls in clubs offered to swap shirts just for fun and complimented my body. Pretty obvious they just wanted to see me shirtless.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:02 PM
1

What do you mean by overheating the area? How would I do that and what effects does it have?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:24 PM
1

Happened with different girls. All got hot bodies, face is subjective, but I really liked all of them. Went to see a doc and medication helped (cialis). Last time I couldn't get hard enough for penetration I came twice when she gave me handjobs, but since I was busy playing on her I can't really tell if I was completely hard then. I'm 23, my blood pressure is good and my hormones are about to be tested soon.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:47 AM
1

I do lift. I gained a lot of mass last year because I was skinny as fuck. Because of that my cardio isn't the best currently, but I'm stonger than I've ever been.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:42 AM
1

My problem is that I couldn't get hard enough for fucking multiple times now. Thought random boners throughout the day could be an indicator for one's T levels. Not sure if I'm just too deep in my head or if my hormones are just too low. I already completely quit porn.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:31 AM
1

My problem is that I couldn't get hard enough for fucking multiple times now. Thought random boners throughout the day could be an indicator for one's T levels. Not sure if I'm just too deep in my head or if my hormones are just too low. I already completely quit porn.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:30 AM
25

Told a tinder date after 2 hours "we can go chill at my place", she replied "sounds good". So apparently to chill is enough plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:37 AM
1

Absolute chad friend of mine suggested to "make it official" with the girl he was seeing like you described because he doesn't like things to be half-assed. She agreed. The next day after he went home she said she reacted incorrectly and that she feels he only was a rebound. His reaction? Not giving much of a fuck and going on fucking different girls. Just straight up telling how it is can also work, but to be honest: You like the situation like it is, so why risk it just for the sake of putting…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:19 PM
54

I can tell she's still the best he could get. Absolutely no abundance. He got lucky he "got her" when she was young and unexperienced. If he doesn't improve he will have a sad sex life ahead of him.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:38 PM
3

How could she have been your gf if you didn't commit? Now you make it sound like you're angry that a plate broke. Also beta behaviour.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:02 AM
1

Exactly. Try to meet her. If she's making it hard (soft) next her till she reaches out again. Not replying to girls nonsense texts/snaps and not watching their stories actually helps you. It's entirely possible that she won't watch your stories in return, but why the fuck would you ever care about that?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:58 PM
2

Sometimes it's just better. Lack of oppurtunity brings strong opinions. I thought for sure I would never collapse and text with my ex again after she rejected me...until she reached out to me after 3 months of no contact. I still did the right thing and rejected her, but damn those were some mentally taxing weeks afterwards.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:24 PM
31

Always add "at the moment" when a woman talks about her emotions. This makes you understand their feelings better.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:02 PM
1

Funny story: I'm friends with a girl I used to make out with, but she rejected me for anything futher. She is in a relationship right now. I'm dating multiple girls and I'm honest when anyone of my friends asks me about it. I'm not bragging, just answering her questions. She also heard it. A few days later she admitted to dreaming about us all going out and me being a player. A bit later she also admitted that (in her dream) she disliked seeing me with other girls. Since then she's giving me way…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:31 PM
9

That's not someone who "just gets it". A jacked millionair has pretty high value, but he can be a beta cuck and not "just get it".
/r/askTRP10/03/19 06:31 PM
35

How to be that guy? You obviously can't just tell them how you understand women because most of the time they don't even understand themselves and even if they do they won't admit it.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:31 PM
21

That girl that gave me her number and said she could keep it all a secret and her bf will never know probably seems happy too when they're out together
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:11 PM
1

I have a very teasing humor in general as soon as I get to know someone, but I sometimes find it hard to tease someone that I don't really know. Like some topics just don't away much teasing potential for me. Eye problem is no problem for me at all, but I think I might be lacking basic kino escalation like guiding her with my hand on her back or reaching for her hand when standing up/leaving etc.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:12 AM
1

Exactly, but I don't know how to change that on the first date. I'd want to have the "I fuck your brains out and then we'll see", but it always ends up being received as "I want to get to know you! I'm looking for something long-term!" ​ Also met up with a girl on tinder and suggested chilling at my place later on that date. She agreed and we fucked, but up to that point it felt like "she probably thinks I'm looking for something long-term" again.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:57 AM
1

Only had one T test made, currently working on getting a more detailed test. It said I got 290 (don't know which unit, but the "normal" range of it is 300 to 900).
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:56 PM
1

I did have my T levels tested and they are quite low, but I do get hard when masturbating with or without porn. So I don't know if that's really affecting me more than my psyche.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:51 PM
1

Yes, I do. She said she can't promise to not fuck other guys either, but it's usually not her style. We just agreed to tell each other about it because the other one could find it gross to fuck immediately after. Not every woman on earth is lying every waking second.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:49 AM
3

It's about balance. There are guys that spend every waking minute with their gf and almost act as if you've never been friends. If they treat you like a back up plan for when they're single again you have all rights to be pissed.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:11 PM
1

But if my goal would be to plate her just for fucking I'd have to answer her something at some point.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:17 PM
1

How would you tell the difference between her wanting you to orbit and her being attracted to you again?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:02 PM
1

I mean yes, you're right. I'd never be interested in more than sex with her again. Was just looking for a small simple answer that isn't literally "if you wanna fuck you know where I live"
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:00 PM
1

Tbh I still would have fucked her. What would have been the best answer to show my intentions without triggering her ASD or taking away the plausible deniability?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:46 PM
1

Thought so too. Asked her what I wanted to know, told her I'm not interested and left it at that
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:16 PM
1

If they're into you they love the attention. It's their drug. They like to get as much as they can until they overdose on it (i.e. Losing interest in you). Keep texting minimal and meet up whenever you like. Years ago dating also worked without texting.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:04 PM
5

A (girl) friend of mine admitted to coming late to university on purpose if she likes the tutor so that he would definitely notice her when entering the room. Girls flirting really is "Here is your chance to notice me".
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:31 AM
1

I'm speaking about girls from 18-23. They're usually living with their parents. No one has a car nearby since it would be a pain in the ass to get it back the next day after taking a cap home that night. Rural areas don't have hotels near most venues. If you don't find a girl that's ready to fuck in the woods at night with a total stranger you're just fucked. Rural areas are a logistical nightmare.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:45 PM
1

It just doesn't work when the logistics are shit (speaking rural areas).
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:38 PM
1

It's a rather complicated situation, but it would have been like 15 mins with a cap to my place that night - she still refused. The problem is that I'm talking about rural parties and clubs. Usually every other venue is a (rather expensive) cap ride away and probably already closed by that time. Public transportation is non existant. Most girls are either sharing a cap with their girls or are getting picked up by their parents. So they're never really "free" to just go with you. It's not hard to…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:36 PM
1

I have made out with 21 different girls in clubs. Not a single one was down to fuck on the same evening. One girl especially was dripping wet when making out with me but refused to go any further. 3 days later she happily took the train to my place (1 hour drive) and we fucked. It's not like I can't get pussy - I just can't fuck girls on the evening of meeting them for some reason.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:03 PM
8

I'm constantly being shit tested by LTRs of my closest friends. It doesn't mean anything though because they know the boundaries. We guys are too close to ever steal someone's girl and even if someone ever did it would mean social suicide for the girl too and they know that.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:34 AM
11

The fact that you care indicates yes.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:21 PM
16

People don't come here to spin plates and be the fuck them all alpha male anymore. They come here to get their first girlfriend and lose their virginity.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:20 PM
2

What did you text her on snapchat that got this mess rolling?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:07 PM
1

People keep chanting this mantra. But how bad does it affect your t levels if you fap 2-3 times a week? Did anyone ever get tested?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:12 PM
3

If they just refuse to enter your frame you have no other option than nexting them.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:21 PM
2

Sadly true. Whole post seems like a humble brag. "So guys, look what I achieved - does it get annoying for you too when they're so into you?"
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:23 AM
1

Or do what I did because I was a pussy and go drinking with mates and talk to women there, learn its not so bad, then gradually do it in person. I saw this 2 cute blonde girls at a college party a few weeks ago and I was unable to go talk to them without a proper reason, thinking I might make a fool of myself. Started guessing with a friend of mine what their major was, which was enough for me mentally to break my anxiety of approaching them. I had a question I wanted to ask them. When I approac…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:50 PM
1

Your point is valid that a redpilled man shouldn't consume (especially this kind of) porn. Your reasons are wrong though. Why would you care how much these thots earn from all their loser followers?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:45 PM
1

I mean I don't wanna be a body builder and go on stage. I just want to have a normal level of testosterone for natural gains and like you said my mental well-being.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:23 AM
1

low in processed or refined foods I'm taking 2 shakes of weight gainer (100g + 500 ml milk) every day. Do you think this can cause such a low testosterone level?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:17 AM
1

I bulked this year, but my bodyfat is still not all too high. I'm drinking alcohol, but maybe like once a month and I'm sleeping at least 8 hours a day. Doctor said it's at 290 (300-900 would be normal) even though I'm already working out.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:08 AM
1

Sounds pretty naive imo. Might work if you're telling it jokingly, but context is important. It sounds like you're some teenager boy going to school - do you work at all?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:29 AM
1

Enjoyed some time with your family? Went to a party for new years eve? What was the book you read about? It's only boring if you tell it that way.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:22 AM
26

"If she follows" is the important part. Of course you're easily going to fuck a girl that's into you. But how to game women that are not head over heels into you in an instant?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 05:04 PM
1

Thought so, too. How would you go on about this? I don't know what to text without making it cheesy and cringey after her "being in the way of my happiness" text.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:05 PM
1

I know. If it would really bother her, she wouldn't reply. But what to answer?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:00 PM
1

So what's the difference between abundance vs scarcity really then? When she makes it difficult you just drop her and go on to the next?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:24 AM
1

I see where you're coming from and for you it's all about dominance of the relationship. but what if she's just trying not to be seen as a slut and it's not about dominance for her? Wouldn't your answer be horrible in that case?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:07 PM
1

It's insane that they even try to save face in a private situation. What for? To show her friends later and say "See! It just hapenned! I said I won't have sex!" ?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:05 PM
1

But what to do with a chick that cancels your plans if you actually want to meet her? There has to be a different answer then "next and game other women". There has to be some space to tell her you want to meet her without sounding like you're needy.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:35 AM
19

Don't act on it. If she's going too far tell your friend.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:51 PM
1

I get that and I do that for the most part. But I also just like to socialize. It doesn't matter if it's going for a swim, bowling, going out to eat, watching a movie. Just hanging out with people I like and I can't do that when all of my friends are busy doing other stuff. That's why I don't quite know what to do. And yes, while I can do all of that above mentioned stuff with my guy friends, I'd also like to do that with a girl I like + ending the night with sex from time to time.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:35 PM
1

I feel like that I'm just not meeting as many girls as I'd like to. There are several "big" events in my city to which I look forward to every year and usually I get to know a lot of girls there, but there is just so much wasted time in between. Also I don't want to go clubbing every weekend because I don't enjoy it that much and drinking alcohol is bad for my workout.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:55 PM
1

I feel like that I'm just not meeting as many girls as I'd like to. There are several "big" events in my city to which I look forward to every year and usually I get to know a lot of girls there, but there is just so much wasted time in between. Also I don't want to go clubbing every weekend because I don't enjoy it that much and drinking alcohol is bad for my workout.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:55 PM
1

I don't get this mindset. There obviously had to be other things that went wrong or he misjudged the situation completely. Do you think she would have rejected someone like Zac Efron just because he asked her to dance instead of leading her to it? She would still happily agree.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 02:20 PM
1

Your situation perfectly described the relationship of a girl I've been seeing. Her first boyfriend suddenly went cold and alpha when he started his exchange semester, but all it does for her is that she is starting to find a reason to leave him/fuck other dudes since "he doesn't care about me anymore".
/r/askTRP21/12/18 01:40 AM
1

You're not by any chance currently having a LDR with said gir, are you?l?
/r/askTRP21/12/18 01:23 AM
2

Add a time and location to it.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 12:11 AM
1

That's what I'm not understanding. She was showing very much interest even after I asked her for her number. She just hesitated when I asked for her number and now doesn't reply. It doesn't make sense to me at all.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:42 PM
1

We didn't only drink shots. We had a fun conversation before and she clearly showed interest.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:41 PM
1

What do you mean by that? What should I have done?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:35 PM
1

But why does ignoring trp then work better for me? I feel like only texting for logistic doesn't make me desirable but rather boring and cold.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:24 PM
1

That's where I'm just baffled. I'm tall, I work out, I have an attractive face, I'm confident and I tease which resulted in way hotter girls being into me and easily setting up a date with them when I light heartedly text with them for fun. As soon as I use redpill knowledge to only text for logistics and to not double ask for a date if they don't reschedule it just ends in no contact even though the girls were way less hot than the above mentioned.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:34 PM
1

They're often busy on such a short notice and I actually believe that. I often wouldn't be able to make time on a one or two days notice, too.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:23 PM
1

I know. But I have no gym partner and I'm afraid to fuck my back by doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:44 PM
1

Bench press: 187 lbs 5x5 Squats: 200 lbs 3x8 I don't do deadlifts.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:24 PM
1

I'm 10 months in now (even though I slacked some weeks due to alcohol and bad nutrition) and I'd say I'm not far from that body form if I started cutting my bf low now. So yea, it's definitely attainable in 1-2 years of training.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:20 PM
1

Game is key. I'm by no means your typical Chad, but people have told me I'm good looking and that I must have multiple girlfriends even though I wasn't even close to losing my virginity at that time. I was often insecure about talking to girls I actually thought are hot because of my teen years and would tell myself "She won't be interested anyway" until I just started talking to girls when it felt natural. Let the girls decide if they're into you or not.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:14 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:58 PM
1

That's a pretty retarded question, quite validation seeking. Were you hoping for her to say "I've got none, but luckily I found you?". I'd try to save it with something like "Great, so you've got experience" and then try to set up a date.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:14 PM
5

Then you'll have your answer
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:34 PM
1

Do you have some kind of medical condition or why do you need to sleep that much? Not going out Fridays because it fucks your sleep schedule that heavily? Sounds like a weirdo move to me
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:28 PM
1

The sexual history part is too true. Had oneitis on a girl and asked her. She told me 12. We're from a pretty small town and I could already count up to 10 different people based on stories of her and her social media. I was so worried about catching her in lies because I didn't want to be the naive idiot that it controlled my interactions with her and made me feel miserable. Just fuck her and don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:32 AM
8

Not really. You're not making yourself the butt of every joke and you don't put yourself in a bad light to be the entertaining clown. I once had a girl shit test me about my shaved chest and a rather tightly fitted t-shirt telling me that I must be gay. I completely agreed and asked her if she thought I'd have any chances with that cute guy over there. The important part is that the message she got was "I don't care what you say. I obviously fuck girls and I know you wanna be one of them." inste…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:11 AM
1

Confirmed BPD or self diagnosed? Get the fuck out of there and don't try to understand her behaviour. She is actually crazy and has absolute no logic to her actions.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:04 PM
3

She’s not texting me like she used to and it doesn’t seem like she has a desire to hold a conversation with me. Important note: she has told me she’s not seeing any other guys currently nor will she (probably) during college Actions, not words. She's not interested anylonger and you shouldn't be either. She probably is seeing other guys or is at least open for it. Had a girl with the exact same behaviour tell me "she's taking a break from guys". She dated 9 guys in that time and later told me ab…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:02 PM
1

What the fuck
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:57 PM
1

For me it's more about personality. I'm only interested in fucking a hot girl with no personality when it's not a big time investment. Usually I only like to spent time with people that I vibe with. I mean I'd fuck a hottie if she'd come over for sex and leave immediately afterwards, but I'm not hot enough for that to happen. Guess I'm just too entitled for my SMV/looks so that I don't meet girls that fit my criteria that often.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:16 PM
1

That's my problem. If girls aren't special to me in some way I'm not even interested in meeting them, but if I do find them special then I can't hold abundance. It doesn't affect my game anymore as I learned to play it cool, but it still gets me emotionally invested more than I'd like.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:03 PM
1

She wants to reassure herself that she made the right choice and that you're still a beta despite your improvements. If you meet her, but won't be beta you will get her hamster spinning.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:48 PM
1

First tell her you expect the 20k by date X. If she doesn't follow sue her. You want that 20k so you go your way to get it. That's holding frame. Not doing what you want because others could think badly about you is breaking frame.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:38 AM
1

This seems like a good way to start a conversation when she's standing next to you at the counter, but going over to her circle of friends and say that? I don't know why, but it feels weird for me to do that.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:38 PM
1

How does one improve that? I can't force myself to just have different opinions resulting in having a different mental state
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:09 AM
3

It entirely depends on the way you flirted previously. She might have expected a flirty response of you to which she replies a day then. Could also be that her ex was already back in the picture and she actually didn't want to meet you then, but since she is honest enough to tell your friend I doubt she was lying about wanting to meet you.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:41 AM
1

Be a 9 and watch them after you reject them. They can't handle that.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:40 PM
1

Enjoy her affection. Keep in mind that she's not yours, it's just your turn. Don't get too emotionally invested in her.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:27 PM
5

Try to escalate. If she's not down to fuck that evening don't act butthurt and just leave it be. After all having her father home is a valid reason to skip on a bang once.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:23 PM
1

I did that often with girls I felt were open to make out, but my post was actually aimed at girls that seem to be rather reserved and don't wanna be slutty (immediately / in public), but still seem to be interested in me.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:17 AM
1

What worries me so much is that girls are not uninterested in me from the get go, but seem to lose interest after a bit of contact. On ther other hand different girls tell me how cool it was meeting me even though I do nothing diffent.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:34 AM
2

Honestly, it's both shitty. Being weird is a no go for women, but showing such a big weakness early on is also unattractive. I think you're better off owning your shit than being a weirdo, but overall it will still negatively affect your date.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:57 PM
1

Sounds like you should see a professional about that and not ask an internet page.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:52 PM
1

You're getting downvoted, but this is true. It doesn't matter how many partners she tells you about. Is her number quite high? Well she might be lying and be an even bigger slut or she might be genuine with you which should be a good trait even though you would still view her as a slut. Is her number low? She's could be lying to make you like her. Or she really didn't have a lot of partners and might be going crazy later on because she is afraid of getting old and feeling like she missed out in …
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:01 AM
1

We actually met yesterday as I wasn't quite sure if she'd be up to cheating on her boyfriend, but it ended up being completely platonic. It was a fun evening and while I'm not desperately trying to fuck her, I'd be lying to myself if I'd say I wouldn't like to. She also suggested going to a christmas fair together in a few weeks. When it comes to answering her texts/snaps it varies a lot depending on my mood and spare time. If I'm bored we text back and forth immediately for like an hour, but I …
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:51 PM
1

Don't be her beta orbiter, obviously. But there's no problem with having female friends that increase your social status. The key is simply to not be a beta orbiter around girls that are friends. The only problem I have with that is the fact that she keeps on texting and snapping me. I wouldn't ignore texts from friends of mine, but constantly texting her back seems like a orbiter thing to do.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:35 PM
7

Dont let her control your actions by refusing sex. If she is pressuring you into commitment by denying sex just deny her any attention in return.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:41 AM
19

Posts like this make me realize how much of trp I knew naturally. I still do typically beta things like believing in relationships, but making out in a club a few minutes after entering the room was something I already did with 17.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 09:40 AM
1

I did that, but she always tells me she already has other plans if it's on a short notice or that she can't really plan right now when I try to plan ahead. ​ Usually I'd next her, but she really has some stressful weeks right now and she is going out of her way to keep a conversation with me and keeps contacting me over and over. So I'm not really sure how to make this into a lay eventually.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:05 AM
1

What to do with girls that seems to be very into me by responding within 10 mins even when I take 6 hours to reply, but as soon as I try to set up a meet up she always says that it's hard for her to plan anything right now. To be fair she's only 18, her mom is really sick, she just started university and is also starting to work on the side this week. ​ I've been used for validation/attention before and I'm pretty paranoid about that now. I feel like I should believe that she has some hard/busy …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:36 AM
7

If you're thinking of lines as "pick up lines" you won't have much success, they don't really work. Having fun and teasing her often works well. Once met a girl I knew from school in a club (hb8/9). Back in school I was way too skinny, my haircut was shitty and I was quiet/shy. The club was basically an after party from the event we both came from and because it was late her hair was messy, her dress was not on point etc. We talked for a bit near the dance floor and she kept trying to fix her ha…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 01:28 PM
1

Asking her directly if she wants to hook up will never work except you're really fucking hot and she rather slutty. It's all about the vibes you're getting from her. I once had a girl eyeing me from the dance floor as I was ordering a drink directly after entering the club. I looked back at her, smiled, she gave me the look. I went over, looked her in the eye for a few more seconds and made out with her. Another time I saw a nice girl on the dance floor that didn't acknowledge me yet so I went o…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 01:09 PM
2

Whats the fuck is this kind of stupid question
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:21 AM
47

Fat chicks and chubby girls are not 5s. I'm tired of people calling out too high rates to please their ego. You're matching probably 3s at best the way you describe them. But apart of that dating apps are horrible when you're not on the very top. You score way hotter girls in real life.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:28 AM
1

Cute can mean anything. Had a girl tell me she thinks I'm cute and we ended up making out. Same girl talked about a guy in university that is pretty awkward and socially acts like a child, has a body like a child and is unattractive in genral. She also thinks he is "cute". It just has a different meaning. The tone is important.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:04 PM
1

Like I assumed she reached out again. Just now she asked me if I'm pokering because I told her my friends of group is thinking about getting a round together tonight. I feel dumb ignoring her because of two reasons: a) What if she's reaching out to me to see if I'm free right now and wants to hook up spontaneously (unlikely)? b) Isn't it kinda butthurt to ignore her right after she told me she is busy this weekend?
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:30 PM
1

I have to agree it feels good being the one to be contacted again and again, but it's pointless if you don't meet them.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:07 PM
1

It's not about that girl in particular. Just happened a few times lately and I've been wondering if I just fuck up scheduling dates all the time and should be more patient or if they're just using me for attention.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:09 PM
1

But how to respond then when she's reaching out again? Right now our last convo was: Me: Alright, no problem. Sounds like you're really busy at the moment. Just text me when you're free. Her: Yea, everything's pretty stressful at the moment. But I will. Me: Ok (and that "alright" hand gesture emoji) ​ She will probably text me the following days and I can't just ignore it because how would I be able to tell if she's trying to meet up?
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:03 PM
1

She wants to meet up at the same parties and keeps asking if I'm going though. Had a similar situation with a girl a year ago because she was legitimately busy and as soon as we met at that party we knew we both would be going to we made out the whole night and ended up fucking.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:52 PM
1

People are so extreme in this sub. Try to meet her up again, don't drink that much and try to fuck her. You'll find out if she still wants you or not yourself.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:45 PM
1

You're watching other people fuck and satisfy yourself to the idea of it. Why don't you go out and fuck a girl yourself?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:05 PM
11

Yeah, for me its not necessarily oneitis, but I definitely struggle with "just wait, you'll get that pussy in a few days anyway", too.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:04 PM
1

Met her at a party for like an hour and had a fun conversation via text over a couple of days. Keeping the contact to maybe a text every few days right now.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 01:27 PM
1

What's your opinion on this situation: Made out with a girl from my group of university friends months ago. She friendzoned me, but is in general kinda teasing, flirty and funny towards me. Overall she is a genuinely good friend up to this weekend. We wanted to go to the cinema with another male friend, but he couldn't make it. She decided it would not be appropriate to go the cinema alone as her boyfriend could dislike that and ditched me. I feel like if she really wanted to have me as a friend…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 01:11 PM
1

One girl I'm currently texting is keeping me around and being really interested even though she is in a relationship of 1,5 years. I told her that I'm not interested in doing things behind other peoples back and that we'll maybe meet again when she's single. We keep texting from time to time and my friends tell me I'm wasting my time. In my opinion I'm just keeping slight contact in case she wants my dick. It's not like I'm exclusively chasing her or wasting hours upon hours texting her. ​ Nothi…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:58 AM
1

If you want to bulk cardio makes no sense in terms of weight management. You need to eat more calories than your body needs and you just increase that number by the amount of calories your body burns while doing cardio. ​ I don't know how tall you are, but with that numbers it could very well be that you're really skinny. I was skinny myself and put on 11 kg in 2 months. Even though I gained fat I still look better now since I have bigger arms and wider shoulders. Since I reached the point of ge…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:28 PM
1

So how is that working out for you? What do you say to them, what are your results?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:32 PM
2

I don't know what this should mean in my situation. It's not like I'm missing out on anything while treating her like all my other friends.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 06:59 PM
2

I think she's not good at holding a long relationship and it usually ends in fights, so she won't wanna fuck up university for herself by fucking me and maybe losing all her friends. Literally the night we made out she said "it's gonna get so complicated, we shouldn't do this". Hit me up two weeks later anyway for a date and we made out again, but one week later she canceled further plans because she wanted to be alone for some time after her break up. Two months later she started dating her now…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 05:37 PM
3

Might be. Don't understand why she wouldn't wanna act on her desires though.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 04:06 PM
1

I don't even know what makes it work, but we're constantly teasing us and having fun and I think that's what she's taking out of this friendship - the emotional rollercoaster, probably tingles and the constant option in case she's desperate for dick. I'm into her and would fuck her in an instant. She's a beautiful woman, but I don't care if it happens or not as i'm seeing other woman and she knows that.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:41 PM
18

That's not always true. I'm friends with a girl I once made out with. She drives me home after university if my train is late, when we're having breakfast in the city she sometimes pays for us both without me asking and she's a genuinely good friend. She even planned buying me a gift for my birthday even though our group isn't usually doing this and I didn't buy her a present when it was her birthday. ​ You just need to be fine with not fucking her. If your only intention in communicating with h…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 03:45 PM
1

Don't study in a foreign country because of the girls. You seem to be pretty insecure about your age, work on that. I never had a problem with my age since I did a traineeship before so I had something to be "proud" of. I'm not really gaming girls in my university itself, but there are a lot of parties targeted at students here so there's plenty of opportunity to go out and meet people.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:05 PM
1

I wouldn't say sorry, but I would also say something in that direction like babysitting/changing diaper/not being able to be responsible for yourself etc.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:01 PM
1

Yes, I started at 23 in Germany, but my interests are pretty much the same since I was 19 so I had no trouble fitting in and finding people I really connected with. There are jokes about my age, but they are light-hearted banter, so why take yourself so seriously? Chicks also dig guys that are older so it was rather an advantage for me when gaming women. Also I'm way more confident and disciplined than I was with 19 due to my working past, so overall my age only benefits me.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:54 PM
1

If she's uncomfortable about her age you don't tease her age, you agree and amplify your (young) age to show her concerns are absurd.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 01:42 PM
1

I'm basically a 24 year old college kid, but I think I can contribute. I was an outcast in school, but since I started college 1 year ago I'm popular as fuck. I basically formed the gang of the most attractive and/or funniest people of my semester around me and I'm on good terms with everyone of the higher semesters. Girls from higher semesters stop me on parties and ask how many numbers I collected that evening already because they were betting on it.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:26 AM
7

Went on vacation and had almost no success in a party city known for easy hook ups. Got back home and got 2 cute girls and one girl I rejected lined up to meet me after a few days of partying. Life comes in waves I guess.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:36 PM
2

Agree with something like "yeah, we don't want to get ahead of ourselves" and continue escalating. Push and pull also works. Stop escalating and do something different, but don't act butthurt. She will want you to keep going.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:53 AM
1

Don't be needy. If they give you shit or legitimately are not interested in you, you should not give a fuck. You can't argue attraction and you shouldn't care about one girl being not interested. Also stand your ground /keep frame. If they have real arguments and you see that your opinion on some topic was wrong you can admit being wrong, but don't cave in just to make them not angry at you. I literally had a girl text me "i hate you" one night because she saw me walking with another girl only t…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:10 AM
1

Yes you overreacted. Who the fuck cares about what some (fat) chick has to say on tinder? Insulting her will give her more satisfaction than ignoring her.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:45 AM
7

AWALT, but don't expect sex everytime you make out with someone. Sometimes their ASD needs a few dates. Discipline over all. Never chase. Everything that isn't a yes is a no.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 10:26 AM
5

But what's the correct response then?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:18 PM
1

Wow, you're asking her out, what an asshole move /s Just do, what should happen? You might be the needy desperate guy if you keep on asking all of them out when no one's interested.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:35 PM
1

I think I suffer from porn induced ED, too. What made you think it was because of porn? Did the ED stop once you stopped watching porn?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 01:53 AM
1

I feel like game isnt the problem. They often seem to just not be into me. Don't get me wrong, I know it's a numbers game, but I don't wanna be the needy idiot that goes around talking to every single hot girl getting a rejection.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 09:14 PM
1

It's frustrating when you feel that the girls you actually want are not interested in you even though your SMV has increased so much and its getting harder and harder to actualyl raise it more. I'm not bad looking, but compared to my steroid using model face friend it's incredible hard to get any girl at all of that caliber. I'm not even talking about 9-10s, just scoring a solid 7 is hard for me while girls from 4-6 have all called me insanely beautiful and that I could be a model. Sometimes I d…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 07:47 PM
9

Girls like to be fucked by men. Girls like to be fucked by multiple men. Imo it doesn't matter how much she fucked in the past. If I want to have a LTR all I care about is how loyal she behaves towards me. If you're enjoying time with her and she's loyal towards you I don't see any problems.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:12 PM
6

But how to do that in a short conversation when cold approaching them? I'm not bad looking, but I wouldn't say that girls would instantly be interested in meeting me after I had a 3 minute conversation with them.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 04:05 PM
1

I feel like texting only for logistics isnt bringing the best results as most of the girls don't know me and are not interested in meeting a complete stranger. For all they know I could be a raping murderer.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:57 PM
1

There is no trick or cheat. Lifting takes discipline and so does your diet. Make yourself a plan of what to eat each day and follow it. Worked wonders for me. Gained 31 lbs in 6 months.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:49 AM
0

Have a kinda similar problem. In my uni group of friends are only 2 girls. I made out with one of them, but fucked up and didnt f close. We're pretty close friends by now, but there's nothing sexual between us. Second girl gives some IOIs like complementing on my ass (after I joked with friends about getting a nice ass from squatting) and bringing me to the train station (a 2 minute walk I knew) from the bar we hung out before while the others stayed at the bar. It she wasn't a friend of mine I …
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:00 AM
9

"Great, when are you free?" If she tells you a time arrange a date. If she gives you a vague answer like "Can't tell, I'm really busy right now" you soft next her. Maybe she'll come around again, maybe not, but who cares? You should be gaming other options in the meantime.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:39 PM
19

Soft next is cutting all unnecessary communication. When you're finally in contact again (due to class or because you decide to answer a text after 2-3 days) you act like nothing happened. You were busy, that's all.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:35 PM
2

Most, but not all of them. Had a girl that was so much into me she gave me 3 chances to fuck her even though I could never get it up. Fingered her well though. In the end she left because I lost frame heavily, but not because of sex.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 10:40 AM
1

Lived the same situation you described. I was a virgin until I was 22 because I was always too afraid to meet up with the girls I made out with due to my inexperience. Finally met a girl I really liked and just went with the flow. Couldn't get it up either - multiple times. Still not entirely sure what my problem is/was, but I strongly think it was because of too much porn. I cut porn almost completely (watched porn 3 times in the last 2 months). ​ The point is: Don't worry. Fuck as much as you …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:57 AM
4

I feel exactly like you. From age 17 to 22 I made out with 9 girls. In the last year I made out with 14 more and I feel exactly as you did. When it was a rare occasion it felt great every time. I felt self confident, I was happy and it made my week. If I make out with a girl now its just kinda expected. I actually tend to getting to know them first now and only escalate when I also like their personality and have some kind of connection.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:49 AM
2

You're the price. If you lost interest because the girl you approached is a cunt or just not fun for you feel free to leave.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:48 AM
1

Because it's a shit test. If they get you to leave you completely got into their frame. If they really don't want you near they will leave or in this case, turn away.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:14 AM
1

You're probably right
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:21 PM
1

Better yourself, have a girl fall in love with you. Enjoy her affection, but be aware that it's not unconditional. The best relationship is when a girl loves a man and the man liking the girl.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:21 PM
3

It's for her hamster. You knew about it and made it happen - it's not her fault. Also shit testing if you're backing out.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:07 PM
1

So give her the feeling of respecting her relationship, meet in person and let it "just happen" for her hamster?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:03 PM
1

Ok so you answer with "I don't care", but what to say if she would keep shit testing with something like "but I do"?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:52 PM
1

Go for her and fuck her. On the same note, what is the correct answer to the "I have a boyfriend" shit test?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:49 PM
1

Don't be available the whole evening. Make out with her, get their number and keep on partying with your friends. Get back to her later when you see her again or text her to come over/meet again. Invite her to your dorm for some stupid reason. Girls need plausible deniability. Get her over to chill and drink some tea then escalate and fuck her. If she knows she will come over for fucking she has to take the blame in case it ever comes up and she doesn't want to do that. It should have "just happ…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:32 PM
1

Exactly. Only tease about non-issues.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:08 PM
1

That whole answer is pretty weird then. It seems like you're judging her and with the brackets it kinda feels like the asterisks you see neckbeards using sometimes like smile nervously.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:55 PM
1

I think the (looks like I'm right) was only for this sub. Still answering just "hahahaha" is pretty weird to me.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:35 PM
5

Don't just sit there with them. Go get drinks with them, go on the dance floor. Get closer to one of them, make out if you're getting the vibes. Obviously don't be their cash cow and buy them cocktails for $6 each, but at these college parties you'll often get cheap shots or bear. Otherwise get their numbers and hang out with them 1 on 1 some other time.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 11:05 AM
1

Maybe I'm actually overthinking this. I feel like it's too obvious that I would never talk to them if I weren't attracted to them, but I think playing innocent is the right move. Which university do you study at?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:26 AM
1

Also, isn't alcohol itself avoiding muscle growth independent from protein and carb intake? How much do you mean by "in moderation"?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:00 AM
1

Problem is I'm not really going out during the day. I'm in the gym or university and that's it. Also here in Germany no one really talks to each other like I've heard they do in America so just approaching a stranger for no reason will more likely be seen as creepy. I feel like just walking next to a stranger on the campus and asking to which course they're heading would be seen as creepy.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:58 AM
3

Telling her straight up might trigger her ASD. Just escalate and make it that "it just happened". Your currency is attention. Keep it low if she isn't paying with sex. If it seems like she won't ever pay with sex, don't give her any attention at all.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:08 AM
1

So you're giving her all the attention and validation without even making out. That's not an experiment, you're her beta orbiter right now. Try to fuck her, do your thing, but don't be too invested in her in case it doesn't work out.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 06:18 PM
1

Was her place near your or her home? Had a girl from uni I made out with tell me she wouldnt wanna make it complicated and 2 weeks later she wanted to hang out with me alone. I wasn't confident and fucked it up because I thought she would friendzone me. Truth is that I probably could have banged if I just assumed attraction and acted accordingly.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:27 PM
13

I prefer wanking over a fattie tbh. Not worth going out and spending my time with her.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 10:42 PM
1

A few days ago a girl I've been kinda an orbiter of got a moment of self awareness and confessed to me that she's a really bad person because she is purely egoistical and texts the same shit to several guys she has been with (like me) to keep the attention. Told me she isn't attracted to me anymore (we have been getting serious in the past until I lost major frame), but I'm different than the other guys she rejected because she actually cares about me. Seems like I was too beta to fuck her anylo…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:28 PM
1

She didn't immediately look back, but I caught her looking at me like 3 times in less than 5 minutes. So I thought I'd try.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:17 PM
3

They dont know you, they're not interested in your looks enough to meet up with a total stranger. Yes, don't text her every waking minute, but have a short, fun, light hearted conversation and they'll show up.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:54 PM
1

But what is pushing about that? Isn't that only pulling.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:33 PM
1

But how exactly do that? Answer her texts immediately for a short time and then go silent again for several hours? Take her out on a date, make out with her and then dont initiate contact for some days?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:08 PM
1

I see what you're saying and I'm not planning to hit on every girl I'd fuck - I don't wanna have staff kicking me out because one weird chick felt harassed or some bullshit. But if I'm getting some IOIs and I think they're fine, I'll try my luck. It's not that often anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 09:51 AM
1

I first thought about performing anxiety too the first 3 times it happened with my oneitis over 3 months, but when it happened with another girl 3 months later I went to see a doctor. The pills helped me get an erection, but since I still couldn't cum without thinking of porn I just hope that I found the solution. But in case I'm wrong, what should I do to overcome performing anxiety?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:51 AM
1

I went to the doctor, got some pills to help get an erection and got a hand job from a girl that was on her period. I couldn't cum at all until I closed my eyes and thought of a porn I watched (just some basic porn, nothing of a strange fetish) - thats when it clicked for me. I stopped watching porn and I want to test out if it helped - I think that's also another reason why I'm too pushy. Do you think just chilling, getting to know each other after making out and fucking on the next date is the…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:26 PM
2

She knows that she can fuck you anytime you're alone. You don't need to tell her that. Smirk and give her some bullshit reason why you're going to your place. It probably doesn't even need to be true. Escalate there and you'll fuck her.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:09 PM
1

I always was too afraid to talk to girls at the gym. I thought they wouldn't wanna be hit on there since there are so many thirsty, creepy man watching them work out. My gym even has a special "Ladies room" so they could be alone. Caught a girl looking at me a few times and when I looked back, she quickly looked at the ground. I heard that was a good sign since it means they feel submissive to you so I walked over and told her I thought she was cute and if she'd like to get to know each other ov…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 10:39 PM
1

I do approach a lot of girls. Make out with quite a few of them. But I'm too pushy/fast since I can't stand having any interaction with them besides fucking because they're not like my oneitis. And if I wanna slow down I worry about coming off as too beta (i.e. getting to know them/text them). I feel like I'm so afraid of the friendzone that I push way too fast for sex even though said girls made out with me and everything should be fine if I just chill.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:09 PM
1

But how to find the line between making a woman feel desired and coming off as too needy/desperate to fuck them?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:24 PM
1

One example where I think I was "too sexual" would be the following. ​ I met a girl at a party and she lived with her parents on walking distance (about 20 minutes). She wanted to walk home, but not alone so I went with her. We made out and I slipped my finger into her pants, fingering her a bit. She was wet and moaning, but told me I couldn't come in since her parents were home, but offered me to visit her in her own appartment (in another city, about 1 hour drive). When I texted her and wanted…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:58 PM
3

Meet up casually, get to know them a little more, have fun.Don't go out only with the mission to fuck - that's needy. If you're worried about your social circle only fuck the one you like the most or is the hottest, whatever you prefer. If you don't escalate they have no reason to be mad at you.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 12:50 PM
1

It's kinda hard to have plausible deniability in these small villages where everyone knows everybody. Also her boyfriend was at the same party and would have questioned it immediately if she left without him.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:25 PM
1

I then went cold on her and went back inside to my friends. She texted me sarcastically "hate u, it's not like I got wet or something". Don't know how to turn that into a fuck. She was obviously horny and wanted to fuck, but didn't because she wouldn't cheat.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:08 PM
1

I met her at a party after she flaked on multiple dates and went outside with her, so no one could see us. When I made a move she just turned away, that's when she told me about her boyfriend and that she really can't do it even though she would like to. Don't really know how to give her plausible deniability in that situation.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 04:36 PM
1

Could have different reasons, I had a girl that told me multiple times that she wanted to fuck me, but every time I tried to set up a date, she would flake. Turns out she is in a relationship and doesn't wanna be a slut. Even though telling me how wet she got after flirting with her is already cheating in my book anyway. Just next her, you'll find others.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 01:18 PM
1

What if she's trying to get to know you a little better via texting before meeting up with you? Just next her and don't give a fuck? What if she isn't free until next week? No contact for like 10 days? I feel like she might forget that one guy she gave her number to at the store in that time.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:50 AM
1

Your situation is exactly like the situation a girl from my university is in - up to the point where I wonder if you're from Germany by any chance. When I met her last year she didn't mention her boyfriend towards me, but towards other guys hitting on her. I overheard it and asked her "oh, you have a boyfriend?", she replied "its an on/off thing that is rather off right now" and we made out that night. We made out more when she was officially single, but I fucked up and didn't fuck her. A few we…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:28 PM
0

Go out and talk to the girls that are hot already. If you're good enough you will have your hot girl immediately instead of training her. If you're not then probably fat girl won't stay with you once she gets hot either.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:46 PM
1

I have had phases where I was severly depressed because I felt insanely lonely. It didn't work out with the girl I wanted to be in a LTR with and I had oneitis for her, tbh I still have it some times, but since I have stuff to do and I'm busy thinking about other things I feel just great. ​ It doesn't really bother me anymore. I have other worries. I need a job for money, I need to study for my exams, I need to focus on working out and other hobbies - I don't have room in my head to worry about …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:21 PM
0

I went to playing minigolf with a girl I made out with a few days prior at a party. We just had fun - I teased her a bit about the game, being amusingly competitive and afterwards I asked her if she wanted to walk through the city or chill at my place. She just said "I don't wanna walk, I'm tired" so I took her home and escalated there. No need to touch her in public.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:27 PM
1

I'm 6'3'' and my lowest point was when I was 16. I weighted 121 lbs because I didnt do any sport, I never ate much and I suddenly got fucking tall. That was so grossly skinny that I decided to start working out and to eat more. I didn't really care about protein or enough calories so I pretty much wasted a lot of time, but I got to 160 lbs. Still skinny, but not grossly skinny any more. ​ I started giving a serious fuck about working out this february with watching my daily protein and calorie i…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:16 PM
7

Depends on your behavior overall. If you act like everything's fine and answer as usual, but take longer for it you won't be seen as being passive aggresive.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 10:31 AM
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Exactly. But don't threat her with "I will fuck someone else" or something similar. Let your actions speak for you. Do other things, take your time replying to her texts. Don't ask to meet her, wait until she does. Show her that you're not interested - let her hamster spin. Are you meeting other girls right now? What are you doing? She won't know. It could be very possible that your LTR will fall apart from this, but being needy and demanding sex will never work out for your relationship. ​
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:57 AM
1

I feel exactly like you described but only with girls I would rate 6-7 out of 10. They sometimes act like I'm a freaking model and can't believe how good I'm looking, but girls I would rate 8-10 are not interested in me at all. I used to be quite skinny too so I'm already seeing good results, but I'm far from where I want to be.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 06:10 PM
2

I've had the problem of not getting hard when I'm with a girl, but being perfectly fine when masturbating with porn at home. I went to the doctor and got some pills to help me with the erection, but the next time I was with a girl I did get hard, but I couldn't cum until I thought about a porn I watched. I then almost did cum immediately. ​ I do think that porn addiction is real, even tough I "only" watched one porn video, it was still daily. Sadly I haven't been with a girl since I stopped watc…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:55 AM
2

I don't know, looking around and thinking you're more attractive than most of the others? But I guess the muscular body goes a long way already. I'm pretty annoyed by the fact that I only started really lifting half a year ago.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:51 AM
5

Would you say that you have a top 5% face and a muscular body? ​ I'm not bad with girls myself, but being on a vacation with a natural chad friend of mine was an eye opener. He has a straight up model jaw line and is so muscular I'm not even sure if he got to that point naturally and the girls went nuts around him. It was crazy how much they were throwing themselves onto him. I've had girls be obviously into me, too, but that was just another level.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:47 AM
1

So you eat your pussy and ask yourself if you're beta? I guess the question itself makes you one. Does she leave after coming leaving you unsatisfied only using you for your tongue?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:21 AM
12

I'm a little bit curious how you are looking tbh because I have never been motioned over directly by a stranger, I always have to make the first step. Also I think that walking towards the exit when making out with them would just result in them letting me go, but I could be wrong. I've never been able to break ASD on the evening of meeting them. It always took at least another meeting up after making out at a party to fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:17 AM
3

I felt like I didn't really vibe with her when we had our date. She came back to my place anyway and told me a few days later (after not really participating in a text conversation herself) that she can tell this won't get serious for her and that she's only looking for that. I don't think I was too cold and I still wonder why she went with me to fuck and then say she only wants something serious because she must have felt that way before going to my place too.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 01:53 PM
3

I have had situations where I banged a girl, drove her to the train station, texted her the next day if she got home well and tried to keep up a conversation, but she didn't really respond well and told me she doesn't think this is gonna work and that she is only looking for something serious. The sex was not bad, quite the opposite actually as she was quivering while cuddling onto me afterwards. So I'm quite lost what went wrong there. Was that needy texting?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 11:21 AM
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I think I need some advice on text game. I've had girls that gave me their numbers at a party and then texted me for 2-3 weeks before we saw us again and banged (took that long due to bad logistics). In our spare time we send a text about every 30 minutes and it didn't fuck things up, I also see my friends texting their LTRs constantly and they're also having no problems. Still all I read here is that texting should be only used for logistics, but I feel like girls try to use texting to get to k…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:33 PM
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