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Discussionbosswiththecross/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:47 PM
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Yes and thats because female sexuality s kind of fucked up What attracts them is often counterintuitive, as a student of the game you will learn this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 03:33 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 11:16 PM
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Your statement about 3/10 women not wanting to date a 3/10 men sounds like what leads to femcels. I feel bad for the people who have to settle though das tuf. Luckily we can all improve ourselves through growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:13 PM
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As someone who dates through online dating, fuck a 2 year age requirement that only further limits my options from already limited options. Just because I turned 30 I can't date anyone under now 28? Respectfully fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:08 PM
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Given the variables and differences in sex drive between men and women, not really. There's less assumption in the post you're responding to then in the op and responses you've posited in the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:06 PM
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Why would you assume the control group are holding jobs and/or not withdrawing from anything? Plenty of people holding jobs who are unsatisfied with their life's and as a result probably finding ways to withdraw Shiiiet not getting any sex sounds like a good reason to withdraw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:02 PM
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Bro who hurt you? Jk this is so true tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:37 PM
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Boom, hit the nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:36 PM
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TBH I feel bad for the guys who are consistently banging ugly women, I wouldn't be able to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:32 AM
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According to https://www.mcleanhospital.org/essential/4-myths-about-borderline-personality-disorder#:~:text=Myth%3A%20Bad%20Parenting%20Causes%20BPD,aggravated%20their%20child's%20underlying%20vulnerability thats a myth. Personally I know a BPD and her parents are very nice, so this theory never fit my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:32 AM
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I've stolen girls from chads breh, don't believe the hype 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:56 AM
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Breh who cares? Lol. It's their marriage, its kinda weird but then again not all that surprising given marriages are hard and they've been together a long time plus are hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:58 AM
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Imagine wifing someone who would go on a date just to get free food 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 11:05 PM
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I'm good luv enjoy ... ​ ​ On a more serious note, for me its a question of how much do I care about the n count and I'm honestly not sure right now. I could theoretically marry a virgin but she'll probably be way younger (I'm 30 now) as I'd be aiming for girls who are maybe 20 and in a third world country where girls aren't as slutty. There would probably be a gap in emotional maturity, overall maturity and general life experience, so I'm not sure mentally we'd connect on a deep level. So is it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:33 AM
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This is not a hot take or news flash, its the obvious truth (even if some women deny it? Though I've never met any who have) (Whoever responded to my post originally pls post reply below here if you see this my original post was deleted before I could read it)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:00 AM
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I like your attitude and hope my kids have that too, good luck. Its not easy to find a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:00 PM
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it would probably suck to chat and get dressed up to meet a man only to realize he just wanted a hookup or even one of those "let's see where this goes" types. You're talking about yourself in this context right? Because a lot of girls are down to just hook up girls are just as horny as guys. If you're talking about yourself in this context my advice would be to make it 200% clear in your profile that you're the take it slow type and really really not down for just hook up I feel that American m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:35 PM
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I wouldn't want to go on tinder either but only if I'm in America Dating in America seems to extra-suck for men compared to other parts of the world To your specific point though you could always just stand firm your principles about the no hook-up I don't know why girls put no hook-up but are actually down but my guess would be because they were burned before
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:22 PM
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Ironically a lot of the "not here for hook-up" girls on tinder are actually low-key really down for hook-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:19 PM
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Whether a woman hooks up with a man comes down to how effectively the man seduced her period. With enough sexual tension anything is possible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:15 PM
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Maybe the men are awkward, immature, poor, or boring, but these men are certainly not amazing prizes. If these men were all that, I think most women wouldn't risk rushing the intimacy. Spoken like someone whose never been in that position. I'm a "alpha f-boy", I have a 100% success rate in first date hook ups and I can tell you that women are not thinking rationally they're thinking with their animal brain in that moment, we all are. The attraction also often goes hand in hand with "prize" value…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:29 AM
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Women, especially mom's, are horrible guides for teaching men how to get women. Dads on the hand might have something to teach assuming the dad has game. The thing about game you gotta learn it yourself and it's an instinct, at least it was for me. It comes natural to me but was unlocked by practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:30 PM
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Disagree with your premise in the last sentence, too generalized and doesn't make sense because what if you're already fucking the woman? It's a pride thing for me. I'd feel bad for the future husband's of women whose pussys I've destroyed if I ever met them in person. Like dude... Your wife was my slut lol. Some guys might not care but personally I'd rather not end up with a slut even if a former slut lol, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:05 AM
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I don't know about what TRP teaches specifically but I do know that humans males are instinctually driven to mate with as many women as possible so as a dating strategy this makes sense and it's not limited to "high betas" whatever that term means Then there's other variables from personal experience like the fact is if you give good D and are good in bed there's a much higher chance a girl wont care or fixate on commitment in the short run. In the long run she might start thinking about the fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:49 AM
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Are u the same guy that was pretending to be a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:55 AM
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"The world is more shallow then you think"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:55 AM
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No one sucks dude you just haven't found the best person for u yet I'm sure out there there is a dungeons and dragons girl made for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:52 AM
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Damn bro that's super harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 11:20 PM
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What happened to you exactly? If you don't mind sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:50 PM
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Your post might be the only time I remember seeing a girl call herself a thot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:24 PM
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Are you really a 43 yo post wall thot? Lol you talk like a guy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:12 PM
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It's interesting to me that perhaps in reality guys are more clingy then girls are, at least the ones that don't have a bunch of options
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:09 PM
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Good thing that you showed it's possible lol I have to say I assumed you were a younger guy since it seemed to me the people who learn about rp things tend to be younger. Moms from your generation seemed to indoctrinate a lot of the nice guys principles to their kids at a young age so I assumed redpill dynamics weren't as prevalent when you were growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:46 PM
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Good job that you actually counted lol. I'm 30 and I'm not sure I'd be able to remember all if I tried now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:26 PM
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Thanks man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:12 PM
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Yeah the whole thing about Asians struggling is also bullshit lol people are more racist in America but it's nothing that can't be overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:09 PM
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You're not disappointing me personally lol I don't know you, do whatever you want ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:57 AM
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I don't think that's low, the lower the better imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:49 AM
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I've lost count. I'm a late bloomer and turned down a lot of sex in my life and I'm very selective in general. My number is definitely over 40, to what extent I'm not sure, would have to comb through my memory. I've had 20+ different women in a month in the past and if I wanted I could sleep with a different woman every night and I have, but sex isn't everything. 30m
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:48 AM
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Good quality post. Women are the gate keepers and the dynamics in the dating market is really just basic supply and demand (and you are the product.) As fucked up as it is, it makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:13 AM
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Bro ur not a girl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:05 AM
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A lot of the male commenters are incels, they share the same narrative/belief and use of the word "Chad", the biggest problem I see with them is they generalize too much I understand where they're coming from, dating as an average guy with no game fucking SUCKS in America to a disgraceful degree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:04 AM
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There is some truth in what you're saying, I've been that "Chad" you refer to in your scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:01 AM
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Yeah because news flash you gotta actually attract a women for her to hang out with you instead on a Tuesday night, just existing and having no game isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:59 AM
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Male thirst is normal and unfortunately so is hypergamy The issue you have here in the dating market is one of supply and demand. Limited supply of attractive people and the demand for them is high. Back in the old days I speculate that without technology, the "marketplace" for dating was less efficient, so average guys could get with attractive women with higher frequency. Because the market was less efficient (no tinder) there was less room for hypergamy to thrive. Nowadays expectations have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:55 AM
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bro stop pretending to be a girl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:36 PM
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It's really a shame how shallow the world is, I didn't care about looks until I was 24. I cringe thinking about how much I missed out on when I was younger because of this. And it kinda sucks how the way the world is because I honestly the world to not be that shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:33 PM
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I'm pretty sure a woman wouldn't have the username "gaylord_fag" sounds more like an incel dude pretending to be a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:31 PM
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So yes, attractive men have always had it easier, but never as easy as right now - at the detriment of unattractive hard working responsible men. I feel this when I go on Tinder and lock down 6 of the hottest girls on my list (as an example), I feel like I'm taking up a good chunk of the good looking women who are already in short supply and its tough luck for the rest of the dudes Separately, this whole thing about using the name "Chad" to generalize is so fucking dumb. It's such an incel term …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:29 PM
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Personally I didn't care much about my appearance growing up because my parents taught me not to be shallow and I didn't want to be shallow. Then later I realized my dating life sucked as a result of that belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:17 PM
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I know where you're coming from and even if you've lost hope now I hope you find it in the future. Sounds like you have a good personality and I think good things will come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 09:18 PM
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This is hilarious I had to upvote you for this one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:03 AM
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Exactly. The incels are the "losers" (as in they are losing) of this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 01:33 AM
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Read this twice and your comment still doesn't make any sense to me. Think you're misreading my definition of being the best you can be lol. My definition is self improvement. Can apply to dating, career, etc. In this case I'm talking about dating. I don't even understand what your definition of it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 01:32 AM
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Creepers are going to creep, I can imagine how annoying it must be dealing with ugly old men hitting on you but just ignore it. I feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 12:47 AM
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How do you join an anime club/where do you find one? Lol, just curious cause I've never heard of this before
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:37 PM
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All I'm saying is I was able to turn my situation around and if you're able to take something from what I shared and learned, great. If not that's ok too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 11:32 PM
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Haha nice username. Assuming you're being sarcastic with the last line and that's cool. It's easy to read things online, the hard part is implementation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 10:46 PM
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Googled "Leonardo Di Caprio now", ok I see what you mean by that example lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 10:08 PM
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Tbh I'd say that guy is not top 20% he looks to be more about average, so its no surprise (to me) his experience aligns more closely with that of an average guy We all start at different points right, like some people are born with great looks, some people are "chads" from birth, etc. Personally I have some good things going for me but was still not able to get a date. Then there are others who have it worse than me. The point I'm trying to make is regardless of where the spectrum you are, you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:52 PM
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I'm not really into Redpill, never really browsed their forums but if this is what they're saying I guess it's not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:51 PM
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I agree but it also depends on which part of the spectrum you're sitting on. Your statement is true if you're not part of the top 20% or 10%. If you are you'll have an abundance of options though it's great, imagine being able to raise a harem everywhere you go, and if you want to just pick one then pick from multiple options, hell interview them and filter through like a job interview 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:48 PM
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It was a lot of work initially to build up myself but not anymore, now its autopilot Don't think I'm a traditional "Chad" but pretty sure my romantic options are now on par or better than "Chads"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:44 PM
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A big problem in society is that males only feel they have value if they are sexually selected. Everything men do (ambition, drive, passion, hard work, goals... these are all girl-words for BE SEXUALLY SELECTABLE. Unfortunately thats the nature of reality right, a remnant of sexual evolutionary psychology and how it plays out in the modern world. Men want to spread their seed, women want to find the most desirable men to have babies with as well as find providers (not always mutually exclusive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:31 PM
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Nah man there are tall and handsome guys who fail from awful game I've see it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:48 PM
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It's obviously way more then that because it was never all about appearance to begin with. However haircut workout style etc those things play into your appearance which overall would improve your tinder match rate. These are overall tips. To do it right -- right pictures right appearance etc. takes effort. No one said it was easy. Reality is in OLD it is really true that 20% or less bang most of the pussy so you do what you can to get there and it's not likely you'll get it on the first try. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:47 PM
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If you're under 5'6 it's no doubt tougher. I really feel for short guys. Obligatory: You can still gain value to make up for that by being excellent and admired in a skill (not easy) and/or have a charisma and sense of humor (also not easy if it doesn't come natural) Most practical advice I can give you though? Ignore the girls with height requirements and date shorter girls who I would guess have less of this requirement. And why not, shorter girls are cute too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:44 PM
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Mods let it through so 🤷‍♂️ Plus I don't expect everyone to agree or understand I'm actually more interested in the discussion of the topic itsf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:41 PM
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I do understand the frustration, it's rough out there. I've seen below average looking guys succeed though with charisma and humor. Like with anything you need to find the strategy that works for you. Worst thing you could do for yourself is to give up entirely imo. I know giving up is how a lot of incels feel. That's in part why I wrote the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:16 PM
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A lot of misconceptions in your post. For one of course you can lose weight in the gym too not just kitchen, gym boosts metabolism burns fat. Re charisma and humor it would probably make more sense if you read the rest of my comments in the thread. TLDR Game matters a lot. The fact that game matters a lot means looks are not everything. There's other factors too like money which prove looks aren't everything but that's not relevant for this particular discussion. For OLD appearances matter for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:08 PM
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Better pictures, appearance, and game. Game cannot be understated in it's importance. That's something you'll have to develop on your own through practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:31 PM
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Because I was in an "incel" position in the sense that I couldn't get women. I then improved my appearances (fashion haircut fitness) as well as my overall approach and game and results changed for me Ie I was a bit chubby, reduced weight and my jawline came out Game also plays a big part in it. Game is honed through knowledge and practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:29 PM
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Thanks bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:21 PM
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Exactly, thats very true actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:09 PM
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Yeah I can anticipate these topics popping up but those things aren't really the point of the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:08 PM
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I think people are making a lot of assumptions here, my life goal isn't just to get women, of course I have larger goals I happen to be chasing my dreams, I simply wrote this post in the context of people frustrated with getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:00 PM
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Short answer reply because I'm short on time: Looks have skewed importance on OLD versus real life. You can improve your looks for OLD with better style haircut and photos. Fitness matters even for the point of losing body fat which improves appearance. You can even have average or worse looks but if you have charisma or sense of humor or game then those things will carry you, particularly for when meeting girls in person versus OLD. Plenty of real life examples of this I've seen it happen a ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:50 PM
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Right, but like how did you become one?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 10:10 AM
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Sounds good in theory but you gotta have money to provide for a harem and most men are bums
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:20 AM
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What? How you even do that outside of killing male babies? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:15 AM
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Damn I can't imagine being married in a relationship whee you want out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 06:22 AM
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True but the other aspect of it is you have to be alpha enough to maintain attraction and financial stability Our animal survival instincts drive us at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 06:18 AM
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What do you mean by pay full price though, you just referring to sex? Because companionship be more then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 06:16 AM
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I know female nature and I've accepted it, I mean what else can you do? Just be single or perpetually spinning played? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 06:13 AM
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Nope, this one chick flew in from somewhere way up in Canada ... Newfoundland or Nova Scotia or something Haha, thats funny. First time I've heard of this happening. One of my friends watches "before 90 day fiance" this kind of reminds me of that. Btw took a quick look at your history and discovered RP Woman. What an interesting sub, glad some of the redpill concepts are actually accepted and now digested from a woman's perspective. I'm not full redpill but I do get some basic tenets of human se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:17 AM
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Lol. Flying from other countries before they even met him via OLD? Find that hard to believe but it would make more sense if they met him already previously and a connection was built I have had girls who I met on OLD fly to me (not paying their airfare) after we interacted and had chemistry in person But yeah overall the environment for dating is pretty tough for men in the US. I really feel for the incels in the US like I get their frustration, it must really suck. Anger leads to hate. Hate le…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:58 AM
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A slut is a promiscuous woman. Those other reasons you listed are dumb and don't make sense and you should just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:50 AM
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To be honest as statistically unlikely as it is, it very well could've happened. Case in point in 2015 I maybe opened YouTube to watch a video just a handful of times and one was this random cover song that had a few hundred thousand views. 3 weeks later I'm at a Korean restaurant with my mom and this old Korean dude is chatting with us saying he wants to introduce me to his daughter. He pulls up the pic... It's the fucking singer in the YouTube cover. You might not believe my story but shit lik…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/20 11:13 PM
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I'm usually against hitting women but one time a girl I was seeing just became extremely abusive and was full on attacking and just would not stop, so in order to defend myself I gave her a Muay thai kick to the hips which shut her down real quick and humbled her. Only used maybe 30% power but her let was all bruised up. Felt bad for the bruise but at the same time she did deserve to be checked.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/20 10:54 PM
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It's a shallow world, all I'm saying is I empathize with those who have to settle with someone who is unattractive. But if they find the person attractive then who cares good for them. Plus like I said, I've fallen for those who I didn't find attractive but had great personality. So from personal experience I know it's a thing. Just rare. In one of your recent posts you said ugly guys have forced themselves to be with you so obviously it's a factor for you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 09:29 PM
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Dignity is definitively respectable. I see you're raised by narcissists (judging by your subreddit subscription) but they definitively lucked out that you have a healthy mindset in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 09:05 PM
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Kind of deviating from the OP a bit but what I really feel bad for is people needing to settle with "unattractive" people on a looks basis. Of course looks aren't everything, I've been really into girls who aren't great looking but great personality, but if we're judging purely on looks I can't imagine settling with someone who is 5/10 or like a partner who is fat. Just being real and hope no one feels bad reading this. I just empathize for everyone ends up with someone unattractive. Who grows u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:32 PM
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Women have their own difficulties, I mean sure they have advantage in a lot of areas especially when it comes to dating, but I will say this... life as a beautiful woman is probably a lot easier then life as an average looking or unattractive woman, and only a minority of women are attractive (imo). And even then beautiful women have their own issues. Would I personally wish to be born a woman? I think nah. (Part of that too is I don't want to be dealing with guys. Guys are pretty shit lol and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:14 PM
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Its honestly still kind of surprising to me how much attention women get on OLD. I already know how much attention they get because I ran an experiment like yours. But the fact that I'm still able to pull multiple women from Tinder with a relatively high match to success rate sometimes makes me think I'm the only guy they're talking to when in fact they're prob talking to multiple guys. It kinda amazes I'm even able to pull, with a high success rate, given the overwhelming supply of guys they've…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:10 AM
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I feel bad for all the guys having a tough time, I've been there. Women have their own challenges, maybe not in this particular arena but other areas, but I know that doesn't help your frustration currently. I honestly feel bad for all guys having this problem and its A LOT. I remember thinking why the fuck is it so god damn hard just to get a woman to agree to get coffee with me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:06 AM
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I will add that it is possible to have abundance on Tinder. I've been on both sides of the equation. I've gotten "harems" set up within just a few days of using tinder, and few years prior to that I was the average frustrated guy wondering why the fuck no one would even agree to get a cup of coffee with me lol. You just have to know the game, play it and win. I don't harbor any anger towards women for being the way they are, it just is what it is. Another thing is the US: Men are virtually worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:04 AM
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Yeah, I have a friend who is a very successful woman entrepreneur and the only thing thats really shitty about her life is her relationship. I want to help her but I don't even know any guys who I would feel comfortable introducing her to. This is the other side of the equation it seems to be a problem for both sexes. I honestly wonder how peoples relationships are going to play out as they got older. The reality is so far from the naive blueprint I had in my head as a kid of relationships lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:00 AM
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Just because humans are capable of evil does not mean humans are not capable of good Judging by your post history not sure if you're troling but going to assume you're not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:28 AM
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Yeah to be fair its probably not easy to find a good man as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:27 AM
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As an attractive guy or at least high SMV on the app its this but flipped, weeding through a ton of women matches but also kinda addicted to novelty of seeing whats out there Source: Experienced it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:24 AM
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I found out the same. So it goes back to the two rules Rule 1: be attractive Rule 2: dont be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:22 AM
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Tinder in America particularly sucks. I've been around the world and have used the app in different countries and America is definitely the worst lol. That said, when done right (And the right variables are there... mostly appearance and game) it can be a gold mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:20 AM
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This. Same here. Judging by the thread its interesting how common this experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:13 AM
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I created a fake girl OKCupid account many years as a social experiment - got a ton of messages (obviously) but also engaged in some weird conversations with some guys and I kept it going (kept saying super weird shit) to see how far they would take it and they just kept along. The thirst lol. It did make me think no wonder guys are so devalued, I would be too after seeing just all the flood of messages come in, the thirst, the options. A few years after that (still a long time ago) I created a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:07 AM
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Yeah but that does not mean the rest of 3.5 billion of men are evil too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:59 AM
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That's scary to read as a 30 year old because it encompasses all the fears I have about dating as I get older
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:37 AM
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Like others have sex, repulsive in the context of a wife/ltr because then the context changes, most of us hold the concept of our life partner or wife on a higher level/standard vs a random girl we don't care about and will not see again. Not sure what's difficult to grasp about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:00 AM
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Also a pride thing if you have pride. Sex is an incredible intimate thing and I don't want 100 (or whatever number it is) guys to know how my wifes pussy feels and have had those intimate sexual moments with her. Not all guys are the same though. Some don't care for whatever reason. Some are cucks and LIKE that stuff. For me, I feel bad for the future husband's of the girls I've slept with and I hope I never meet them because it's like dude, I know what your wife's pussy feels like. It's just aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:52 AM
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Nah that's false and too generalized "no quality man" as if you're consciously aware of every man in the entire world
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 12:41 AM
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Massive respect for you honestly, coming from a guy, because you're right smv decreases the more partners you have. Tough in these days especially because finding a good guy (or girl) is not easy. I would suggest identifying your values and things important for compatability and having discussion about it early on and continuing to assess the guy based on that. Seriously though massive respect for your mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 12:39 AM
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Depends on how much dignity you have. If you're the type of dude who doesn't mind his girl sending nudes to other guys, do you I guess, personally I'd also call that actually being cucked (versus you calling the simps the cucks)
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 06:58 AM
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Onlyfans is simping at its finest, putting pussy on the pedestal, driving up the perceived market value of thots because simps are there to support the market. In turn they've created an environment where any random thot would choose to monetize her noods for 10-30/dollars a month (when you can find amateur nudes anywhere on Reddit for instance) Honestly feel bad for the lonely simps as well
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 06:56 AM
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That's an interesting point of view, and I give props to your level of self-awareness. I feel deeply in touch with the existential pain of loneliness Are you saying that you feel the existential pain of loneliness often and are now comfortable with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 07:36 AM
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How do you get at peace with the idea of never finding someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 06:22 AM
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