bostontreaty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	How do you convey your abundance effectively? I usually refrain from posting girls on social media unless it looks platonic, business related or ambiguous enough to imply we are not fucking. Its not a good image to build. I think its important to look beyond pickup. I’ve found that a lot of upper class people avoid sleezebags who flash their money, their women, and whatever they have. I think the image we should all aspire to have is a positive image rather you can show to anyone rather than a player image.	/r/seduction	19/04/19 04:45 AM
2	When is the age gap too big? Its important to keep in mind how you are perceived because that can become a magnet for some negative attention which can spill over to other parts of your life. I think abundance mentality should also be applied here since if a girl is too much risk, there is always another one.	/r/seduction	19/04/19 04:38 AM
–	When is the age gap too big? Highly dependent on your situation. If you LOOK old then it looks bad. But them again if you look young you can be 500 years old and its still okay. Never date underage.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:02 AM
–	Trying to do the “build an active social life” thing but running into one major problem. You are either depressed, unhealthy or arrogant. The arrogance is the sneakiest one. You keep yourself from enjoying anything because you are “too cool” to show enjoyment or too proud to risk bruising your ego. When you enjoy something you emotionally invest into it, thus arrogant people never emotionally invest into things because they care about that sense of superiority.	/r/seduction	13/04/19 11:24 AM
–	How to seduce a shy girl? Shy girls can be an easy lay since most guys just mind fuck themselves thinking exactly what you are thinking. Just escalate. You will need to be pretty good at reading body language since they are often very closed despite being interested. But its kinda like poker. You can try to read the most minute body language, but its all about how much money you put on the table. Gaming both shy girls and very obnoxious girls are almost the same if you think about it this way. They have a lot of noise in…	/r/seduction	12/04/19 05:13 AM
1	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? Thats the most boring shit ever. No risk, no mind games. I fucking hate it when women just blurt that shit out.	/r/seduction	10/04/19 05:12 AM
2	I swiped right on every girl for a month and only got one match! Also a few years back you were younger and probably better looking.	/r/seduction	10/04/19 04:54 AM
1	How many of you have cried due to pickup? Keep in mind these “pick up gurus” are not the best type of people to learn from. If you think back to yourself after a few year or so and you can think of are your failures then that means you have nothing better going for you other than the girls you pick up. Getting women is just a single facet of being a successful guy. There is also career, looks, social circle, health, strength and your charisma. You got women down, now what about everything else? Are you going to be broke with no general …	/r/seduction	10/04/19 04:52 AM
1	Instead of approaching girls tell them to come to you Women have so many things grabbing their attention that are close to them. A guy standing in a corner calling to them will not only be creepy, it wont be heard over an entire group talking and over the music. You can barely hear someone right in front of you in those venues. Ive seen so many drunk guys do this and they end screaming at the top of their lungs looking like an idiot.	/r/seduction	09/04/19 05:47 AM
–	Instead of approaching girls tell them to come to you Okay wtf is this. Waving a girl over so she can come to you? She will think you are talking to somone else and and ignore you. To make it better why not bring a van and have a piece of candy.	/r/seduction	08/04/19 04:13 AM
2	I don’t get what the hell I keep doing wrong. Tinder fail. Too salesly. “I will be the best lay you will ever had just go right ahead and go on a date with me!” This also puts you in an advantage as she knows you are willing to do all of the work. “Show don’t tell.”	/r/seduction	07/04/19 07:11 AM
2	Have you lost friends because you learned game? Same I lost a good amount of elitist friends who hang out with the exact same people year after year. Gained a lot of better heavy hitter friends, however, because game also helped me get better at approaching decision makers and influential people. Losing some bums is nothing.	/r/seduction	03/04/19 02:17 AM
9	"It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends. Totally sounds like the daydream of an old guy with a thick mustache. Also having sex for sex is implied nowadays unless she asks. You don’t need to announce it as she jumps on your dick.	/r/seduction	30/03/19 05:36 AM
1	Would it be better if I was fat instead of skinny as a guy, going for girls? Well if you didn’t have muscle you would probably do worse. Also there is looking strong. Muscle mass and bad posture doesn’t look good. Dad bod with good posture and great body language communicates a lot more. Muscle mass is a tool to attract. It will always be better than no muscle mass in most cases. A great example would be a mallet vs a vase. A vase may be a better tool but if you don’t know how to use it vs someone with a vase who knows how to use it will have find more results. That does…	/r/seduction	27/03/19 05:50 AM
1	21 year old virgin, no idea how to change it. Then you are going for the wrong women. A big part of selecting friends and dating partners is filtering. The most skilled people can zero in on the type of women who tend to like them or type of people who vibe well with them. Like me for example I do better picking up tall skinny white chicks so I got for those usually. or I vibe well with other business people so I tend to have a lot more business friends. Going for a shotgun approach is kinda lazy. Basically feeling bad about yourself becaus…	/r/seduction	27/03/19 05:45 AM
10	From Friends to gettin laid. As long as she keeps coming over to your place, the game is on, but turn down the pushiness. You don’t want to be a casualty of the #meetoo movement.	/r/seduction	26/03/19 12:14 AM
–	I envy beautiful women so much.. It’s not just the looks. It’s the aura they give off. Knew some girls who werent crazy attractive but for knew how to flirt with people enough to get favors and free shit. Hell even I had a day where I just a got a bunch of free shit out of no where and people are nice for no apparent reason because my energy was just on point.	/r/seduction	26/03/19 12:09 AM
1	Going To My First Yoga Class Today Yoga is overrated. You are better spending that hour building muscle and lifting weights. Many studies say it increases pain from existing injuries because of all their silly poses. If you do it for mental health pick the low intensity ones for older people. You don’t get to oogle at women in skimpy yoga pants but you actually get some benefits from it. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/06/28/yogamore-dangerous-previously-thought-scientists-say/amp/	/r/seduction	25/03/19 11:29 PM
–	21 year old virgin, no idea how to change it. You are way too self-conscious. You keep carrying your negative thoughts around it makes your energy awkward and creepy. Confidence comes from success and you have had zero success so you can really be confident. I’ve had certain times when I was just on unlucky streak that it seemed like a black hole. Usually its due to several things: You spend your time thinking negatively - If you keep telling yourself what a loser you are then you will never be confident. Confidence comes from your opinion …	/r/seduction	25/03/19 11:17 PM
1	Pandora's Box/The Tao of Badass, are they legit, or scam programs? It works 100% of the time during the 1% of the time that it does work. Lmao.	/r/seduction	25/03/19 04:51 AM
–	Would it be better if I was fat instead of skinny as a guy, going for girls? It’s highly subjective. From a lot of studies, women tend to be more attracted to men who have a good amount of muscle mass and men who look strong. Imo being skinny is better since you have less work to do in order to build a good physique. Also when it comes to your body make sure to do it for yourself and not to get a girlfriend. From my experience, the stronger and healthier you are, the better you look.	/r/seduction	25/03/19 04:48 AM
4	Going on a college trip(UK college) with 14 girls and 1 other guy. Many girls in one vicinity is great in theory but fails in practice unless you are the alpha of the pack or have great history with the majority of them. Also nothing will happen unless the logistics are good. With what you said. I would focus on improving the relationship with the girls you know. Be the guy they talk to and run to. I went on a business trip where I was with 4 coworkers all women. I maintained great chemistry with the 4 and everyone sees me walking into venues with 4 tall attrac…	/r/seduction	25/03/19 03:55 AM
2	How do I get a girl to friendzone me? Yeah there is something up with how you think. I read a few of your posts. Make sure you keep up with your shrink.	/r/seduction	24/03/19 05:28 AM
–	Art of Seduction should be changed to the Art of Positively Not Giving a F Well yeah because the majority of people who stay here are newbies. I do wish this sub facilitates some more advanced concept outside of those 3.	/r/seduction	23/03/19 01:27 AM
–	How NOT To Neg Or Tease This is actually next level tactic not just with women but everyone. But also negging is not what you or the poster is saying. Well according to how I use it at least. I had to use this on an old relative who is obsessed with Trump. Best way to attack someone position is by asking questions that make them realize they are wrong. Telling someone they are wrong to hopefully change their mind is never correct. Ask them questions so they correct themselves. I have never thought about using this for …	/r/seduction	23/03/19 01:26 AM
3	How to come off not creepy? This. Don’t think try to “do something.” Just do it. Don’t plan it. I know this seems counter-intuitive which why you need to practice a lot so you naturally guide the interaction without having an agenda.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:40 AM
–	Lessons Learned From 17 Approaches Yup I can’t even count how many women I have approached. Probably in the thousands (half of that are for warm up and shits&giggles) Never approach ugly women, they will ruin your day and fucking remember you. They will use it as the one time someone showed interest and they denied them so she can justify that she is alone by choice. Approach 7 and up to warm up. After that just approach 8s and up. You can’t realistically approach only 9s and 10s since you will be waiting a long ass time for one …	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:38 AM
3	How I overcame approach anxiety Approaching gets rid of approach anxiety. Crazy enough, a lot of solutions in life are simple.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:33 AM
–	Out of the blue breakup Good job. Like really 90% of guys can’t do this and it’s the reason why women today are acting like monarchy. Treat her like the cheater she is. Don’t ever tell her you think she cheated, just know for a fact that is 100% what happened. She will feel it down her spine one day, or when that guy dumps her. I know you won’t do this but, do not ever come running to her or initiate contact.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:31 AM
2	Out of the blue breakup Gotta know how to handle pussy.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:27 AM
13	Girls Straight-Up roasting me You don’t ask a girl out who is disrespecting you. Doesn’t make sense to them and doesn’t make sense to your well being.	/r/seduction	17/03/19 08:10 AM
–	I was falsely accused of rape. I’ve been proven innocent but I don’t know how to get back to where I was. Wait were you indicted or had to prove it in court? You should report this to your media outlets and such. This is a bullshit trend.	/r/seduction	17/03/19 08:08 AM
–	I got the dreaded "I'll let you know" AFTER we had sex See it from her perspective. She went through a snowstorm. This girl literally risked her life for an hour to get some good ramming and she’s greeted with a limp dick and awkward conversation. I’d be pretty fucking pissed too. Give her a week or two. Be a decent person and say sorry for what happened and acknowledge her effort. Again women usually don’t do shit like this for men. She is probably having a life changing moment when she realized she can’t control her urge that she will go through a…	/r/seduction	15/03/19 05:34 AM