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If she has anxiety or other mental health issues than that is something that you need to take control of and get her help. You wouldn't let her not address a medical issue right? This is no different. Does she recognize it as a problem? Has she tried anything?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 08:02 PM
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No I laughed because I love a good troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 06:36 PM
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Thanks for the laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 06:10 PM
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It's unfortunate that you and a lot of other people making assumptions were proven to be dead wrong. http://gawker.com/thats-not-osu-sidepiece-girls-sidepiece-its-her-mainpi-1677103163
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 06:15 PM
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It sounds like she really really had to use the bathroom by OPs description. That is a weird /awkward time to go for a kiss.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 11:50 AM
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She was already with them. Basically you expect your plate to drop what she is doing and her agreement to drive her friend home to fuck you and her not doing so is a shit test? Ok
/r/askTRP03/01/15 12:39 AM
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How does that seem like a shit test to you? Do you understand what a shit test is? She was already out with friends across town so she asked if you wanted to meet her there then she said she wished she would have known sooner so she could have watched a movie instead. What do you want her to do? She responded immediately and didn't just blow you off saying she was busy. Plates are allowed to have a life outside of you.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:51 PM
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Agreed. All the references to "crazy" wives and the name calling lately makes me believe that these guys picked really shitty women to wife/LTR up. That says a lot about them and how much weight their advice should be given.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 09:24 PM
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These tests doesn't guarantee you your child won't have these genetic conditions.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:03 PM
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OP don't know where you are from but at least in the US amniocentesis is not required, it is always offered though. Many people don't do it because the risk of miscarriage is 1:200.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:59 PM
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Agreed that you upset her by changing a pattern without telling her what's happening. It sounds like she was upset because she was worried that you overslept and then you responded with "I didn't feel like it." I don't think it's "beta" to call your wife first thing in the morning when one of you is away. Sounds pretty normal to me. It sounds like she is willing to handle this however you want but don't change things just because it unnecessarily makes you feel "beta." This is your wife, not a p…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:53 PM
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She responded in another post that this woman is older than her
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 11:41 AM
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Why are you so obsessed with this subject? You post over and over again about it then delete your posts. We get it- you don't like fat american women.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 08:00 PM
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No, it truly isn't. Women don't go through the cervical and hormonal changes when on hormonal birth control.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:18 PM
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If she has a hormonal IUD she doesn't ovulate or have a true cycle. That is true of any hormonal birth control which acts in part to prevent release of an egg. The bleeding these women have is from having a week off from the hormones and is not a "real" period (in that there was no ovulation, it is just shedding of uterine lining) unless they have messed up their pills or they are one of the unlucky few. IMO it is completely pointless to track a woman on hormonal birth control since the whole po…
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:34 PM
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We have tried to make smart life decisions including choosing our spouses. In real life, neither of us know (amongst our coworkers) a dual income family in which one spouse stopped working or significantly reduced their work hours after children. I think that is largely a fallacy anymore.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:25 PM
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I am part of a DINK but we are working on having children which we both want. We bring in about 250k and we purchased a house in a low cost of living state for 330k. We plan on putting about 150k into it over the next few years. Both of us will continue working after children and financially we won't have a big hit due to child care costs. But then again we are both older and established in our careers. We both transferred to where we live for our respective jobs and neither of us have any desir…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:06 PM
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Only a complete moron would buy a 500k house with a combined income of 120k. That was the first of many poor choices on his part.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:56 PM
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I'm older too and I don't believe in hooking up/FWB or sex outside of monogamy. I don't think it's that rare. Having said that, I have no idea how many partners my husband has had and he has no idea how many partners I have had. He isn't a hook up kind of guy either although I am sure he did maybe in his younger days. Both of us prior to meeting each other had long-term 10+ year relationships in which neither of us strayed outside of the relationship. Prior to that I had a mix of long and short …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 04:21 PM
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Please. I make just as much money as my husband and we both have big retirement/pension plans. I would not have been willing to even entertain children outside of marriage because I believe children function best in a marriage environment and I am not going to risk having children with someone that won't commit fully to me as my spouse rather than my "baby daddy." Marriage is the ultimate commitment and lack of that was a complete deal breaker. I offered to get a prenup to protect me and to prot…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 06:25 PM
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Period log. It doesn't let you change the names (seriously?) but it tells you when the estimated fertile times will be and when she is due for the next cycle. Why not just ask her to track it for/with you? There's a good chance she already does. Or you could just use a calendar and count. Day 1 is the first day of her cycle, count 14 days and in theory pound away time is the 5-7 days surrounding that. Edit- 2 days plus or minus is pretty regular. Most women would love to be that regular.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 08:35 PM
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Calculation policies (for passenger weight) is determined by the airline. Like I said, I don't think you understand how airlines work.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:35 AM
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I am going to guess OP has no knowledge of the airline industry or the NTSB investigation process because this post is completely ridiculous. I can't believe this is being upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:23 AM
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It blows my mind that some men don't understand how insecure pregnancy related body change makes many women feel. I feel like a fat cow and gross when my weight fluctuates by more than 2 pounds. Post partum you have flabby skin, a belly pooch, extra weight and breasts that are heavy and engourged. Is that really hamstering?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/14 05:04 PM
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She is only protected for 12 weeks of leave if she is an FMLA eligible employee (based on employer size and having a year of service) unless the employer offers extended leave to employees as a benefit. Then she would be protected in line with those benefits. The PDA doesn't mean a pregnant woman can't be fired if there is no work and they are doing layoffs or if they do a poor job at her job, it just means they can't discriminate because of her pregnancy or because she took leave associated wit…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:06 PM
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What I am telling you as an attorney that does labor and employment law for a living is that I don't agree with your concerns. In addition prior to a sexual harassment lawsuit he EEOC or a local agency investigates and gives a right to sue letter. Here are the EEOC results for their investigations for sexual harassment claims. It isn't as easy to recover for a claim as you seem to think. Interesting note- 17% of harassment claims were made by men. http://www.eeoc.gov/eeoc/statistics/enforcement/…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:00 PM
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You have no understanding of how sexual harassment or pregnancy discrimination law works. Read the rest of the EEOC guidance on how these laws work, it's on the website. Many employers are more strict on sexual harassment than the EEOC because no one wants an investigation at their business. As a CEO you should know better and starting his proposition with a statement acknowledging that he is going to say something inappropriate demonstrates he did know better. Actionable hostile work environmen…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 04:31 PM
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Have you asked her why she is staying up? It is anxiety? Insomnia? Is she sleeping during the day? It could be something other than bad behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/14 08:55 PM
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What are these chronic health issues?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/14 08:24 PM
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Not true. Do you really think the courts haven't seen that game before? Not to mention the liabilities of putting something completely in a family member's name. That is just a bad idea. http://www.divorcesource.com/research/edj/thirdparties/97oct109.shtml
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:27 PM
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So the first time you spank a new girl on the first swat, you hit her as hard as you can??? If that is your thing and you are into it and want a partner into it as well that is not the way to go about it. Start with a few gentler taps to determine interest with a new partner. Go from there. As someone really into this (and involved in the BDSM community) if someone comes at you with the first swing at a level 10 playtime is over. That isn't the way it is done even when couples play on a regular …
/r/askTRP08/11/14 06:15 AM
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You have to expect that treatment when working with the public. I don't think this is gender specific, assholes are assholes. I have had men scream at me, throw things at me and snatch things out of my hand when I worked in retail. Women weren't any better. My male co-workers had similar experiences. Ditto with working in the helping profession and now as a lawyer. Jerks are jerks, bullies are bullies.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 07:10 PM
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So this outweighs any potential savings from day care expenses? How does that weigh into your equation?
/r/askTRP05/11/14 07:02 PM
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It's a shit test for your woman to get pissed that she doesn't have an orgasm and you did? And when she said something he apparently didn't give a fuck? Huh. Sounds like a good way for your chick to get it somewhere else. Even in dom/sub relationships the dom typically ensures the sub gets theirs too.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:27 PM
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IUDs have plenty of potential downfalls like any other form of birth control. In fact, IUDs have some pretty serious complications if things go wrong. Not to mention pelvic pain, cramping and cysts which has been my experience with the hormonal IUD. I don't think it's beta for a husband to want to share the birth control responsibility with his wife since chances are she has been the one using birth control for years. I mean, would it be beta for a man to use birth control (when it becomes avail…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:13 PM
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What is your job title/description? What is her job title/description?
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:59 PM
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Which is why I told her to give thought to what she really wants out of a legal career. No one is going to pay her 120k to not be available 24/7/365 to her job. (Not to mention 120k is far from the average pay for any law school that I know of!) Having said that there are other legal positions that are not as demanding of her time. There are federal and state attorney jobs (not working in criminal law) and some jobs in insurance where the hours are generally banker's hours. The pay is going to b…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 09:02 PM
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Not sure it does or it doesn't. I don't know that I subscribe to everything in RPW. Our situation works for us which to me is what matters. He's happy and he is definitely the head of our household. He is the decision maker but we wouldn't have gotten married if he wasn't ok with me working.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 08:52 PM
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I'm a lawyer. People (including my husband) consider me to be very feminine. There have been men in my past that were very put off by my income (or perceived income) more so than my job. Did my "stock" drop by going to law school? Maybe, but to be honest I didn't have any interest in being with a man that can't handle a smart girl with ambition. My husband doesn't care. My income makes our life much easier and allows for more adventure. He likes that I am smart and pretty. We make about the same…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 08:45 PM
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Agreed. If you are in an LTR (and if you are she should be a high quality girl) I don't know why you go nuclear dread game over something so insignificant without a good reason to do so.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:05 PM
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Option c- Do a different activity all together that you both will enjoy. Why don't you come up with a different plan?
/r/askTRP31/10/14 02:29 PM
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OP said he is getting sex every other day. He didn't say how often he is denied.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 04:01 PM
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That's unfortunate that the culture of where you live isn't more supportive. Just remember she is swimming in pregnancy hormones still. Hormone levels change drastically when a woman is pregnant. Experiencing depression post-birth (or post-miscarriage or abortion) is unpredictable. It isn't something she needed to have been sick with before. She may never experience it again. She may just need some medication to help her for the next few months and someone to talk to. Without that you could be l…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 09:44 PM
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http://www.healthline.com/health/depression/miscarriage-depression What she is going through isn't unheard of. You need to get her help. If you won't do that than leave her. Telling her to snap out of her bitchy attitude isn't going to help her.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:16 PM
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If she denied it would you believe her and move on? If not, why bother asking?
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:14 PM
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I'm confused. You say you are going to want her to quit her job, you want her to leave work now after putting in her time no matter what and you want her to do all the feminine work in the house yet you want her to pay her own way (what she costs you?) You have to decide what you want out of a partner. Honestly you sound insecure and needy right now. Throwing a temper tantrum because she works late is a little much. The friend stuff you haven't quantified. It sounds like she has a good paying jo…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 02:47 PM
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She has cystic fibrosis. He needs to be more careful if he chooses to date someone with CF. Maybe she kept bringing it up because he didn't acknowledge that he/they need to be more careful.
/r/askTRP12/10/14 07:06 PM
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My issues with my husband have largely been resolved thank you for your concern. :) My husband is a very stoic man who doesn't like to talk about things but we have been able to get through that and he now has a better understanding about what I need and I have a better understanding about what he needs. It just took time to work through it. I have had more relationships than just these two. These are too extreme examples. It doesn't invalidate the point that my ex-boyfriend could not have a ser…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 04:12 PM
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Sorry, I saw how I wrote it it could be taken different than intended. What I meant is that I was glad that where you live this wouldn't be an issue due to coverage being extended to non-married parties. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 08:00 PM
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Good to hear that this won't ever be an issue for you. It has been a crazy stressful year for us.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 05:34 PM
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There are absolutely benefits that you are not legally entitled to unless you are married. For example FMLA. God forbid either of you become sick or in need of surgery and the other needs to take weeks off to care for the patient. Unless you are married there is no right to FMLA. We have only been married for a short time and we have had to use FMLA twice (once for me- brain surgery and once for him). I have an additional brain surgery coming up and we will need to use it again since his job off…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 03:19 AM
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That is not true in all states (if you are in the US). In addition, I would suggest anyone concerned about alimony and prenups actually do some research on the statutes and case law of their state and talk to a lawyer rather than buying into the "divorce rape"/"prenups always get tossed hysteria" on Reddit. http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/prenuptial-agreements-what-law-allows-30283.html
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 01:30 AM
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She needs to take a pregnancy test. Right now. There are a million reasons why her period can be late. Are you only using condoms for birth control? If so, why?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:59 PM
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It is certainly each couple's choice but there are certain benefits that married couples get that unmarried couples are not entitled to. For instance- FMLA. That has come into play in my short (so far) marriage twice. If we weren't married I'm not sure what we would have done since we wouldn't have been able to take the time off from work for each other and both of us have needed the other to take a month or more off for caregiving. Neither of our jobs had provisions to allow us to take off unpa…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:08 PM
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Traditional women are not going to have children out of wedlock. So you want a traditional RPW? Most of them are going to want marriage and the benefits that come with it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:52 PM
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The divorce rate goes down with advanced education and age (dropping even lower from mid-20's). You can find a person with a career or a job she is passionate about in her mid-20's and contrary to popular opinion many women aren't out riding the CC. Your woman can make less than you and it will still protect you from huge alimony payments if it were to fail. As for the mysterious quit/firing use dread game to put that to an end. There is a lot of chatter about alimony being a given, it isn't, es…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:40 PM
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There is a big difference between not being financially ready, because I agree there is no such thing, versus "how are we going to afford $800+ a month in daycare because we can't afford to have one of us to quit our jobs?" Good jobs aren't exactly plentiful or secure right now (although it is better than it was).
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 09:19 PM
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Marry a woman with brains and a good job. (Then it isn't just "your shit" or "your money" being spent) Don't let her stop working when children are born. Alimony problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:15 PM
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Well, just to give an example: I wasn't financially secure in my twenties because I was working two jobs to pay my way through an associates and a bachelors degree while dealing with serious illnesses which required two leaves of absences from school. I worked after my bachelors degree for a few years in my degree field, had a couple more surgeries, and went to law school. Post law school I moved for work and had to restart my life in a new state where I knew no one. It took a few years to settl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 07:55 PM
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Unfortunately it is also selfish to have kids before you can afford it. Not everyone has family support. My parents were married when me and my brother were born (we were planned) and then my father bailed on us for one of our babysitters (for when my parents went out. My mom was a SAHM with no education or skills). We grew up poor and on government assistance. My mom worked dead end jobs so she could be around when we were home from school. As a result I have been hypersensitive to the fact tha…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 07:45 PM
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This article suggests that 1 out of 4 women between 50-64 take antidepressants: http://psychcentral.com/news/2013/06/20/70-percent-of-americans-take-prescription-drugs/56275.html This makes sense given that antidepressants have been increasingly prescribed to treat menopause and hormone issues instead of hormone replacement drugs which carry greater potential risks. http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/antidepressants-for-hot-flashes
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:10 PM
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So you've been with this girl for 3 whole months and you want to bug her car?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:40 PM
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No lawyer with half a brain cell would ever say that an arbitration win is a given. Arbitration is always risky for both parties. There was a written opinion, right? What was the rationale for the decision?
/r/MensRights15/09/14 06:14 PM
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It sounds like she is the one that needs help. I don't see this as a shit test sorry. If you are causing bleeding and tearing you are doing it wrong and/or she is having a medical issue such as internal hemorrhoids. If the problem continues she needs to get it checked out by a doctor. It may be that anal will not work for her because it will keep causing pain and bleeding due to a medical issue. Then you have a choice to make. Your size isn't the issue. Let her heal completely, try more lube and…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:43 PM
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I was cornered and groped by a group of guys in a hallway when I was in high school (they were not students AFAIK). This was pre-hallway cameras and locked down schools. One of the first questions the vice principal and school officer asked me the next day when questioning me for their report was "what were you wearing?" It happens and I was shocked by the question. Thankfully my (very strict and prudish) mother was friends with the principal so he knew me personally and he spoke up and said "I …
/r/MensRights19/07/14 10:20 PM
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Except it didn't happen. He ended up being sentenced in juvenile court and the case was appealed to the Superior Court where the grounds for the finding was overturned. http://innocenceinstitute.org/blog/appeals-court-overturns-jordan-brown-ruling/
/r/MensRights15/07/14 03:32 AM
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People have in fact died from taking these pills. No drug is "completely safe."
/r/MensRights14/07/14 03:25 AM
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All drugs have risks. The difference is whether you as the patient decide to take medication vs. someone else making the decision for you without your consent. http://www.fwhc.org/abortion/medical-ab.htm http://www.m.webmd.com/women/news/20050720/deaths-prompt-abortion-pill-warning
/r/MensRights14/07/14 03:23 AM
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It's a hair clip and earrings. Most women with longer hair leave a trail of hair holders everywhere they go. I probably have at least 10 different ones around my bedroom as well as in every room in my house, my car, my purse/briefcase and my office. I have absolutely lost hair holders at former boyfriend's house and never give it a second thought because they are a dime a dozen and I didn't care if I never saw it again (and I had extras on me). Throw it away if it is such a huge deal to you. She…
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:31 AM
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So you feel that adults have to physically touch children in order to foster a close relationship? I was very very close to my teachers growing up and my students were very close to me yet there was never any kind of physical touch that I can recall. Likewise, there is no reason whatsoever for a colleague to put his or her hands on you- touching your face or a coworker's waist as this guy did.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 05:15 AM
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She would be told to stop. I have worked in something like 15 school districts in Michigan before leaving that profession in 2006 and it was always policy that you as a staff person don't touch students whether it be in jest or a hug or breaking up a fight.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:51 AM
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You haven't given us much. Is everyone still living in the same place? Who works? How long have you been married? Where do you live?
/r/MensRights04/07/14 06:27 PM
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Not plain and simple. You can't be given the death penalty in a state that doesn't have the death penalty.
/r/MensRights28/06/14 12:09 AM
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No death penalty in Maine and 50 years is a life sentence to someone that is 51 and in poor health already.
/r/MensRights28/06/14 12:07 AM
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I'm just wondering what the plan was for childbirth? A normal childbirth can cost $8,000 or more and a c-section $13,000 to $25,000 without insurance. That doesn't include prenatal care or well baby visits post birth. You could try to see if you can qualify at either one of your jobs for insurance or check to see if there is open enrollment in your state or an exception that would allow you to enroll in a ACA plan. She can't be denied coverage for her pregnancy under the ACA but they also don't …
/r/MensRights25/06/14 02:03 AM
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I think you need to get advice ASAP from a lawyer and get the details ironed out with your ex in a legally acceptable manner sooner rather than later. EDIT- it is possible if you two agree to share the costs of a lawyer and to do this relatively cheaply. The court can also assist with mediation and no lawyers. I would call the county's clerk in the family court to ask questions and get assistance. Feel free to continue doing what you have been doing but it is not in your best interest to be givi…
/r/MensRights22/06/14 06:05 PM
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Get a lawyer before doing anything. Don't try to figure out what is "fair" on your own. You need to get the custody arrangements and support in writing sooner rather than later. That is the best way to protect you and your child. There are support calculators available (each state if in the US calculates differently) to try to guesstimate what you/she would pay based on the custody arrangement that you guys figure out.
/r/MensRights22/06/14 05:41 PM
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The point is why isn't he? Is this is custody battle between the two men and the surrogate? Is she denying him this right? If so, why? Surrogates are a risky situation regardless if it is a donor egg, sperm or both. It is messy if the surrogate changes her mind. Of course we aren't told what the living/custody situation is for the children in the article but one man for each child can petition to establish paternity and be put on the birth certificate (like any other man can if unmarried to the …
/r/MensRights19/06/14 09:54 PM
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Why is the biological father of each child not on the birth certificate? Paternity could be easily established. Is this an instance of a dispute between the surrogate and the fathers? There is probably far more to this story than what is being told here.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 05:44 PM
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In online dating sites that is a little unusual... Maybe not so much for hookup sites. When I used those sites (as a woman) I wasn't willing to meet someone immediately wishing to go through online or phone communications first. The jerks or creeps were unable to contain themselves within the time frame it took to have several conversations/online communications and the one time I did meet up with someone quickly (because he pushed it so hard) he whipped his dick out in public. It was horrible. …
/r/MensRights18/06/14 07:24 PM
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Seriously?
/r/MensRights21/05/14 01:22 PM
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Please tell me you have a lawyer. Laws are written vaguely to give a wide amount of discretion in this area of the law. Here is the CA law which discusses factors to be considered in awarding support: http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=04001-05000&file=4320-4325 As you can see there is no "law" stating what you are trying to argue. A California lawyer working day in and out in family law would have the background or research capabilities to tell you if there is any p…
/r/MensRights21/05/14 01:38 AM
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He was the co-author. I heard both of them speak several years ago at a conference and I have read their book. They operate now as a team presenting what happened.
/r/MensRights19/05/14 08:19 PM
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