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Scienceboujeebadassbitch/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 03:00 AM
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yes. it is
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:57 AM
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I'm sorry my mom sucks so much.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:32 AM
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Don’t think so hard or much about it. Ask her questions. Try to hone your conversation skills. No one wants to listen to someone recite things about themselves (not saying you’re doing this). Focus on what she’s wearing, etc to take your mind off performing.
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:43 PM
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Have her face the opposite direction
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:40 PM
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True
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:38 PM
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Get good at talking? Idk
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:37 PM
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Oh my gawd if you guys spent half the time you spend pontificating on the nature of a woman on developing your personality, goals and sense of humor even, you’d be someone who might catch the interest of an ugly woman. This sub is a poor excuse for judgmental, poorly developed men to complain about why they’re not “getting laid”, “finding their unicorns”, and whatever extraneous drivel that a relationship that lasts is not made of.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 07:27 AM
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Anytime you fuck with someone and fail to show respect, they’ll either next your ass or lose their shit.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:25 AM
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Good luck getting a year lol
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:22 AM
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I’d agree with that. The fact that semi clothed hot females are displayed in media designed to get the attention of both women and men is a good example. Edit: just realized you’re talking about the left as in liberal. I’m a bit slow today. In that case I’d also agree due to social service programs and Women’s rights movements, etc. being predominant in leftist groups.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:42 PM
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Just wanted to clarify that RP is amoral and I’m fully aware of that and the fact that this post isn’t about right or wrong. Just aiming to be as accurate as possible from a social psychology standpoint. Thanks for reading.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:40 PM
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Nice way to word it in business-ese.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:38 PM
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Good points. Nonetheless my post still stands. There are just some things you can’t breed out of women. The two goals of women being two of those. Long before a woman has a cycle her biology is preparing both her brain and body for procreation. It’s up to her what she actually does with that impulse.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:02 PM
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Right. Makes sense. Your comment is exactly the type I’ve seen that prompted me to write what I wrote. It just seems like if the person we are involved with (no matter how) won’t tell us what’s going on, we need some idea as to where to start digging to find our own answers. FWIW, I’ve never thought of leaving someone with their proverbial guts hanging out from a bad run-in with a member of the opposite sex without at least trying to explain what’s going on.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 05:51 AM
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There’s definitely overt aggression toward LVM in that sub and sometimes it leaks out into other areas of the Reddit-sphere. I got banned but leave the sub on my main feed for shits and gigs because they’re spoon feeding aggressive opinions to a bunch of other women who sound scorned somehow and I sense they got burned (or felt like they did), so now “men are going to have to earn the right to engage with them.” All of it is over the top and makes me ill. I’m also sad for the ones who blindly fo…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:09 PM
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Not an expert on the topic, but an expert on being me, I’d say there’s a balance. If you play your cards right and your only goal is to get laid, then maintain a serious frame mostly but show that you have a sense of humor by laughing along with people who enjoy your friend’s antics. Just realize that you’re going to look ten times as serious because people are going to be looking at you and seeing your friend be over the top and you’ll look like a dud if you’re exclusively maintaining a serious…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:02 PM
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Glad you found it helpful.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:07 AM
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Point taken and noted. I would expand to the “why” of the situation but I’m thinking not.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:36 AM
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Don’t go out of your way to pull this off the first time. Otherwise she’ll be forever comparing the first to every other subsequent time.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:34 AM
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Not all women all the time. A specific subset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:23 PM
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AKA they just want to get laid. Edit: you don’t have to pander to anything about that kind of chick but she’s a slit, a slut and you won’t get a valid LTR out of her.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:58 PM
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The part where you said that having two strong ones out of the three (but the third being close) was interesting. You gave a couple of examples for clarity’s sake as well.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:56 PM
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Undershoot. If she’s gonna stick, every time after that will be like Disneyland on Cum.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:54 PM
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You guys are over complicating this by a landslide. Willingness to let go and have an orgasm and the partner’s ability to make her feel safe are what you need. If you’re just looking to plate/f-ck a chick: don’t lead her on and make her feel safe/protected with you (e.g. hold frame and don’t be aggressive—just confident).
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:53 PM
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She wanted to make sure you weren’t a psychopath. It’s likely that she already knew she really liked you from your phone call/pick up strategy and the first date was a trial run, so to speak. You’ll get her on the next date if you make her feel safe so bro up.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:40 PM
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How can a woman cheat when there’s no commitment on the guy’s part? Another double standard. What a waste of time.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:23 AM
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It’s not about morals. It’s about choosing to do the next action that makes sense. I see so many examples (on this sub) of lying for what looks like no good reason. It’s been stated by veteran RP guys on this sub as well to be openly non-committal and some even think LTR’s are no exception. To me, this means: do what you need to do, and I’ll keep pointing out logical fallacies as I recognize them (the tendency to try to reason one’s way out of a situation). Remember, Water rises (or falls) to it…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:55 PM
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Maybe you should’ve tried telling the truth. FWB works even if a LTR doesn’t, but the fact that you lied instead of being above board doesn’t negate your behavior and causes other people (her) unnecessary pain.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:41 AM
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It’s really skanky to try to get “free nudes” from women you don’t know when you can pay for the same thing without likely pandering in the process. Edit: layman’s terms: you’re too cheap to go buy photos which would benefit the person selling them (some people make a living this way). I’m highly suspicious of anyone asking to get something for nothing.
/r/seduction23/03/21 11:33 PM
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Dude.
/r/seduction23/03/21 10:24 AM
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This is pretty off base, as not wanting explicit material being “out there” is likely the prompt for her request.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:19 PM
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Thinking that if you give half of a shit, then yeah
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:54 AM
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You pissed her off way before your conversation ended
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:27 PM
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I know I’m new but just wanted to add that I believe testing also has to do with character traits a woman doesn’t need to know about her potential partner whereas vetting covers the scope of characteristics in a man that meet the requirements to be determined a HVM to that woman and in general.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/21 10:54 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:49 PM
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Awww. You must be the person that posted here saying his sweater was swiped by a hostile ex. I’m sorry for your experience. Even if this isn’t you, please know that your (sweater/object) is in good hands. Or just keep imagining it to be so. You’ll see your sweater on the other side.
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:48 PM
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Make a comment or ask a question as to why she’s at the location you’re meeting her at.
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:46 PM
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So then does that make me (a woman) odd or an outlier because I like when I get cat called? Impressed that a guy took the time to put together a cold open when he doesn’t even know me? A little hot and bothered when I see that eye contact and the ever-so-slightly glazed over look of lust? I don’t buy this premise that women don’t appreciate a good flirtatious interaction, but I do believe that’s a preference of yours. I just don’t want one woman speaking for me. As valid of an opinion that one p…
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:43 PM
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Again?
/r/seduction30/09/20 04:56 AM
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I almost just peed myself
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:02 AM
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This is hilariously disturbing
/r/seduction25/09/20 06:12 AM
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Stick to what you’re good at. Don’t flirt. Find something else to bridge the gap between you and the opposite sex. Maybe you’re more opportunistic and wouldn’t count making a witty remark to a woman at the laundromat flirting? It still is.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:28 AM
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Yes. You just may not have seen her.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:26 AM
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No
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:26 AM
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It could’ve been an accident. It could also mean she’s shy and didn’t have the guts to touch your hand or another part of you more accessible to her.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:25 AM
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Stop thinking of yourself as a physically attractive person and work on defining who you are internally, being certain of it, and being grateful for it. It’s no one else’s business. And it still shows up on you as readable badassery.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:21 AM
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They were trying to intimidate you by making you doubt yourself. They succeeded. However now you know to ignore asshats like that in the future. They were just trying to throw you off your game.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:18 AM
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Then why are you posting this in r/seduction and not r/relationshipadvice ?
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:15 AM
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How did you make bold letters in your post?
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:11 AM
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You must be high. Side note: downvote me IDGAF but I want to know where you got the super epic shit you’re hyped up on. It’s way more than just red pill diatribe.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 05:41 AM
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A man who won’t encourage himself to do well is the epitome of dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:10 PM
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I like you
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:51 AM
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Maybe she’s on Reddit
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:15 PM
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No. Not right. Sometimes it’s the woman. I’m a woman and hands down 10 out of 10 experiences the guy tries to take it to the “relationship level” and I’m not having it so they lose their shit with me. It’s only fair that they disclose their position in the first place. Both parties involved need to know what the risks are. Just because it’s a woman saying she doesn’t want a relationship doesn’t make it any less real and true.
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:43 AM
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You didn’t ask, but I feel it’s necessary to say: FWB, if that’s what it truly is, is formed out of the trust of two mutually non-relationship-compatible people choosing to spend time together and is based on the presumption that no relationship will come of it. By definition, this is what FWB is. Trying to take it to a relationship level is negating it being a FWB arrangement in the first place. What I’m getting at is that it’s important for both people to be honest with themselves and each oth…
/r/seduction22/08/20 10:17 PM
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I can’t guarantee anything would have for those two particular girls. But I can say this: holding a conversation is as important as being good in bed. Being good at both? You’re a superhuman in the dating world.
/r/seduction18/08/20 10:22 PM
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Too quick. They prolly thought you only wanted their snap so you could have access and be an ass any time you wanted to. You just needed to send a few more messages and feel out how receptive they were to you to say something like that.
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:10 PM
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Try a book store. Even the used book stores have separate sections for different topics/interests. It’s almost too easy to strike up a conversation based on the topics that interest you both.
/r/seduction15/08/20 03:27 PM
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My girlfriends tell me, “You totally missed that guy hitting on you back there.” It’s not on my radar for some reason, wish I knew. I’m a total sex fiend and I could likely be getting laid far more often than I have been. Dammit.
/r/seduction14/08/20 07:41 PM
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Never left. I suppose it’s cheating that I don’t notice half the time I’m getting hit on so I don’t have to put out a lot of effort. Wait, were you just talking to the guys?
/r/seduction14/08/20 05:06 PM
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Wow, profound in a way I hadn’t experienced before. Thank you.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:12 AM
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You can use the fact that it’s a regular occurrence for you to your advantage (believe it or not). Before each date, set a timer for fifteen minutes with the intention of feeling your anxiety for the entirety of those fifteen minutes. As soon as you start the timer, try to make yourself experience both the physical and mental aspects of your anxiety and devote the entire fifteen minutes to nothing but that. Once the timer goes off, carry on with your business. The idea is to segregate your anxie…
/r/seduction05/08/20 06:39 PM
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Get okay with every decision you’ve ever made. You’ve already done it, can’t change it. So it makes the most sense to accept it and move forward. You can have pain without suffering. For some reason it strikes me as notable that you say you are “only” 23 and that for some reason you’re using that information to more harshly judge yourself? We all make mistakes. No one gets out of life unscathed. Use it to make different choices in the future. If you still aren’t pleased with the results, it’s no…
/r/seduction04/08/20 10:53 PM
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What is Can’t Hurt Me about exactly?
/r/seduction04/08/20 02:21 PM
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