AWALT

TL;dr at bottom…

Women speak on average 20,000 words a day whereas men speak about 8,000 on average. Just FYI.

See, this is the problem. All RP enthusiasts seem to think that the world (of women, at least) survives off having a guy in the hand and two in the bush, so to speak. That a woman will monkey branch is for many varied reasons but the following information would be helpful to heed in any case:

Consider that if you believe AWALT without exception, you have a “local locus of control” versus a global one, and that you also apply it globally. This means (for those who don’t want to look it up) that what your experience(s) is/are apply to the universe. This isn’t necessarily the case and is often wrong and leads us all to make stupid choices and get those stupid outcomes as well.

The fact that beta bucks exist and that women who are unicorns (supposedly) do as well, it stands to reason they’re in the camp of BP enthusiasts because they don’t want what RP offers them. Not necessarily because they don’t know about RP or are “too beta” to take hold of the RP program. For different reasons altogether. Keep reading.

On the outset, RP offers men who don’t have a frame to operate from, and who’ve had likely had more than one bad experience with a woman a chance at stability and structure. This is a positive attribute of following RP philosophy.

Unfortunately, this only takes them just so far. In order to go successfully the rest of the way into a FB/FWB/LTR situation, they have to attend the asktrp subreddit (my device didn’t autocorrect “asktrp” so I must’ve written something about this) in order to learn how to function since the nuances of RP as practically applied are infinite. You simply cannot predict every situation or every outcome.

Being that sluts will be sluts, it also stands to reason that either all members with poor experiences with women have encountered “crazy” and chose to put their dick in it (it’s pretty obvious when “a bitch is crazy”), OR the guy got unloaded on verbally because he applied RP philosophy to a woman that didn’t need, nor want it.

While I agree that women like a man who has a strong frame, much like many of the users that come into the asktrp sub say, it comes from a core of improving who you are as a person and not necessarily trying to bed chicks. Well, you say “Well then, how am I getting laid, Boujee?”

I’ll tell you. You’re either encountering a girl or woman who is damaged, in which case they are people pleasers, or you’ve encountered a slut/crazy. No woman in her right mind would divulge information to a man that would sway his opinion of her unless it promoted her agenda to get laid or get married. Those are her two main options. After all, RP enthusiasts don’t wear name tags identifying them as such so they have to apply that rule of thumb to all men.

Of course, you have to take into account that one outlier of a bitch who is just sick of your shit and bails while trying to make you feel like shit, or the ones who truly have absolutely no issues/had a normal upbringing (normal is just a setting on a dryer, by the way). They will go along with your plan until they break like a plate or get LTR’d, find out they’re in a one-sided OLTR and realize they can either do better than a cheater and leave, or have low enough self-esteem that they will stay with the guy.

That’s the bottleneck all RP enthusiasts encounter when they end up in dating purgatory where they can’t figure out why they know all the sidebar has to offer but don’t have a clue how to apply it. Whether you like it or not doesn’t matter: the fact that it’s true and based on multiple research studies and anecdotal reports as well as being common sense in a nice little package is what matters. Good luck guys.

TL;dr: don’t give everything away (RP congruent) but ffs don’t be an asshat to a woman “just because you can.” (Sounds BP but is common sense, if you want to keep a good woman around for the long run; if you just want to get laid, don’t read this post).