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Red Pill TheoryClickKlakk/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:34 PM
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Red Pill TheoryClickKlakk/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 03:40 PM
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ClickKlakk/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 06:40 AM
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I post on my personal social media like once or twice a year. Just enough to keep up an up to date presence and show off how much fun I have. No reason to do any more.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/24 10:43 PM
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It’s been said but focus on your life and he will see the example you set and decide on his own. You’re offering unsolicited advice. That isn’t going to work. Just do you and whenever he asks you for advice you can help guide him to be more like you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/24 02:02 AM
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Boundaries aren’t for other people. They’re for you. They are your rules for yourself. You are free to set whatever boundaries are best to keep you healthy and happy. The only way to overtly communicate these is early on. In conversation, talking about other guys and girls. But you really don’t have to say shit. Just speak with your actions. You’re playing from behind at this point so I’m afraid you won’t be able to establish the kind of boundaries you’re looking to establish without some top ti…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/23 07:11 AM
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Good post. I’ve got a couple of points I want to bring up. After they left, I did not think I would hear from Rachel again. Like most men who do not understand frame, I thought Rachel would stop liking me because I was “mean” and did not do what she wanted. But to my surprise, Rachel called me a few weeks later to hang out. Even more surprisingly, she was a completely different person when we hung out: she was respectful, deferential, and strangely, she was now sexually attracted to me. We had s…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/23 01:09 PM
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Forgive yourself. You aren’t perfect. You’re never going to be perfect. I’ve made 100 mistakes that make me feel those feelings you’re talking about, but I accepted the fact that I’m not perfect and gave myself a bit of grace. Now I just laugh at my stupidity and move on knowing I’LL NEVER MAKE THAT MISTAKE AGAIN
/r/TheRedPill08/11/23 12:43 PM
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I asked if she had plans this weekend I’m doing this cool thing this weekend. You should join.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/23 05:00 PM
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Your main problem is your perspective. You BELIEVE that what is right in front of you is a worse option than your past, when in fact you have no idea who you might meet if you give yourself the chance. You, like every other man on the planet should be excited to meet the next woman. You aren’t losing anything moving on ever.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/23 12:54 PM
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Hell yeah, man. Appreciate you. Bro honestly, the reality is you will never truly know someone, you don’t even truly know yourself. Who you are now, compared to last year could be two different people. That’s why I believe it’s pointless to go through such harsh vetting conditions. This is an interesting take. I do feel like people generally do not change much without doing a lot of intentional work. But their perspectives, priorities, interests etc do change. And women are particularly fickle s…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 01:31 AM
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I think having this conversation is a good thing, man. Let’s keep chipping away at it. We’re here to do as the forefathers of TRP did and argue ideas until we get to the bottom of it. That is the spirit of this place. You also assumed I’m overly emotional which is not the case, I’m exceptionally well at controlling my emotions. Being emotional doesn’t mean I’m stupid A lot of this has to do with the way you refine and communicate your thoughts here. When you say “I’m an emotional and intense guy…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 02:45 PM
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Yes please. It was never meant to achieve 100% mass adoption. This is a place to train to climb as high up the social hierarchy as possible. Anybody who wants to play iron sharpens iron with me is cool in my book. As for the rest of them… Fuck em. I’m not here to drag people down to the water, kicking and screaming, only to watch them refuse to drink.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 04:05 AM
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Lol being overly emotional and making mistakes over and over because you haven’t internalized the relevant information is just being lazy and dumb. What you’re saying is akin to “just be yourself” which is often horrible advice. It’s healthy to have emotions. It’s not healthy to let them run wild and determine your decision making. Keep them on a leash, or they’ll keep you on a leash. And my point isn’t really don’t do whatever you want to do By all means, jump off the cliff and see if you can f…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 03:45 AM
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Premise is wrong. When you internalize TRP, you treat all women the same. Stop going for girls you do not like, it will never improve your game. The way you’re applying “like” is something it takes me as a Red Pill internalized man a minimum of 6 months of hanging out and fucking to consider. Now if your premise was girls you like as in girls you’re attracted to, then I would wholeheartedly agree. Mr.Tzary has read and instilled TRP concepts into himself and is ready to put the theories to the t…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 08:01 PM
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She already assumes you’re seductively competent, she wants to make sure you’re socially competent. People really need to get to this level of understanding. Knowing what game you’re playing is the most important skill you should gain here. “Oh come on…. I don’t kiss and tell”
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 10:32 PM
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You do your self no favors making presuppositions in your dealings with women. You are either getting what you want from an interaction or you’re moving on. No need to spend any more time, energy, or mental bandwidth than you do in knowing if you like what’s happening and want to keep doing it, or not.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 09:53 PM
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So what I do is sort by top posts, scroll through the comments and navigate to profiles from EC's who have been inactive for 5-8 years and read their top posts/comments and save the best ones. This is the way. It’s also just common sense. You want to be the best. Find the best. Learn from the best. Anyone who isn’t actively doing this isn’t here to learn anything. They’re here to circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:43 PM
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read the sidebar This. It’s clear when somebody has just a surface level understanding of terms or ideas. Classic trying to use TRP to live a blue pill fantasy. Internalize it, OP.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:38 PM
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Lol I’ve said it multiple times on this post, but my guess is he’s somewhat conventionally attractive. Enough that he’s always gotten by without developing any game whatsoever. Probably spent early years in a LTR and grew to mimick his girl’s behavior as well. That’s how you still have some kind of success but end up clueless in your late 20s early 30s like “let’s hold hands and cuddle, you’re so cute, let’s plan to have sex for the first time on our 5th date.”
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:36 PM
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Relationships happen when you both ORGANICALLY just won’t let go It’s the only way I’m interested. It’s the sweet spot. Anything else is like tying one of your arms behind your back and playing from a disadvantaged position. I wake up. I choose you. Until I don’t.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:41 AM
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Because she wasn’t convinced you would do shit there either. She doesn’t “know she’s having sex.” Your being far too sterile about this. It’s supposed to be a fun game of arousal. Push and pull. You lead. You handle logistics. She just ends up sleeping with you. She doesn’t want to know “we’re going to my house to have sex this time.” That’s so fucking dorky. And if you clearly aren’t that good at this she doesn’t want to find herself at some weirdos house having to reject him and find a way out…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:36 AM
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OP I have been through this with many different women. This is a shit test and should be treated as such. It doesn’t matter what you say, it matters how you say it. Even if there is a hint of insecurity that’s motivating her, covert communication is the key. If you enjoy her, show her with a grin and some playfulness. "why are you with me?" (main one) “I ask myself the same damn question every day“ As long as you’re being flirtatious then it should escalate positively. ”Am I just sex to you?" “Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 04:34 AM
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I found this place almost 6 years ago after I got tired of being jerked around and never having things go the way I wanted. Read everything (side bar, books, every top post plus all comments) over and over. Had my first post RP ONS. Continued contact and developed a casual sexual relationship. Got another and began spinning plates. Eventually settled in with one girl. Tested everything. When I found her behavior undesirable, I left. Started hooking up with lots of women. Moved to a new city. Sta…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 06:29 PM
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Frame is another way of saying “value.” Nope. You’re stretching way too much for no reason. A value is a value. A person’s feelings about a specific thing that is important to them is not a person’s frame. A value is a moral. Lol. No, a moral is a social contract. A message. What? No, articulating, encoding then expressing thoughts is a message. Not even remotely the same thing as a value. There is no inherently bad frame, just like there is no inherently bad value. Incorrect. Some people’s fram…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 02:03 PM
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It’s not hard. If you don’t want to be a cuck, don’t be a cuck.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 01:24 PM
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Exactly. The dude even reached out to let him know it happened. Like a mature adult making an effort to be concerned about OP’s feelings. OP, this guy seems cool. You seem like the lesser man here even giving a shit. And more so writing an entire post asking other men to tell you how to live your life. Recognize. Also, in the words of the immortal Snoop Dogg: “It ain't no fun, if the homies can't have none”
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 01:31 PM
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I was raised (50%) by a passionate biologist of a mother, who hammered the scientific method into my head at a young age. A decade ago I would engage in intellectually stimulating conversation with friends and coworkers from the viewpoint that there were very few things I was willing to say concretely. Most people I spoke with told me they “believed” certain things about the topic of our discussions. Their need to believe in concrete facts was such a glaring weakness. Very few were willing to le…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 01:12 AM
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Be able to fully entertain yourself and be overwhelmingly interested in things to the point that others find you interesting.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 07:40 PM
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Understanding that a woman’s love towards a man (in the context of a sexual relationship) is really just her loving herself IS relevant to TRP. Even if a woman is with the greatest man on the planet, her feelings about him are directly connected to her own ego. Women are hardwired to betaize and break men down. Any woman would love to knock that man down a peg and only root for him if it increases value for her indirectly. It’s just a red pill, man. Women don’t love men the way men love women. I…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:58 PM
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Lol AAAAAANNNNDDDD you’re right those are all that matter.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 08:04 PM
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Thank you. Somebody finally gets it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 08:02 PM
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My girlfriend loves my dick too you rude fuck. That’s not what I’m saying.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:40 PM
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I’m saying Women don’t love you, they love themselves
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:11 PM
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You’re talking about arousal. When a woman is intensely aroused, the will move mountains to fuck you. Arousal, attraction, and love are different things.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 06:20 AM
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There are certainly men who are doing that.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 06:17 AM
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I’m on my fourth. Plenty of experience with other people’s dogs as well and tons of other animals. Personification is rampant.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 03:08 AM
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Cheers. Believing that dogs love unconditionally is the bluest of Disney fantasy blue pills.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:23 AM
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Agreed. Next girl is much more appealing than a woman who hasn’t earned commitment but feels entitled to it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 09:13 PM
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There’s a lot more detail that goes into properly setting expectations, boundaries, and training your puppy to ensure long term happiness. Expound upon it, buddy. What are you doing, or NOT doing to make the bitches stay in pursuit? I’ve found good success with this in the short and medium term. In the longer term it seems like new challenges arise.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 07:52 PM
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The relationship is conditional. The love is not (granted there are exceptions). I still love all the women I’ve ever loved, though I’m not with them for various reasons. I once had a dog that I came into ownership of after a friend asked me to watch it for a few weeks then disappeared. I grew to love that dog. I had it for a good while but it was 110 lbs and I lived in a small apartment with no yard downtown in a city. I was in college and worked nights, and the dog was rambunctious and raised …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 06:23 PM
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I knew a BJ in college. Would be making out with a chick in 5 mins at the bar. All the girls wanted him… until they got him. Then they ended up moving to me (5’7 to his 6’3) because he succckkkked at being a fun, interesting person. No game.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 12:54 AM
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This
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/21 01:34 AM
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Women are walking headaches Lol yes they certainly can be. Every time I'm listening to a woman they seem to be clouded in emotion. I just don’t pay attention. They'd rather choose a "bad boy" rather than a man who'd treat them right. Prioritizing looks over character. Then fucking complain. Who cares? They want it all and they feel entitled. They dress like whores and think they should be treated like queens. Who cares? Treat them like you see fit. Participate in deception with makeup while judg…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 01:36 AM
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It says something about the story we tell ourselves. Her identity is so wrapped up in that Call Her Daddy philosophy that failing to fuck in the bathroom at that club threatened her perverted grandiose view of herself. Lol, so irrational. My favorite bit is the preselection on display in the upstairs bathroom line.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 04:36 PM
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And completely unnecessary
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 06:32 PM
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Buddy, the texting section is fucking hilariously delivered. Spot on. Hope that gets through to some people.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 04:06 PM
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Lol I don’t fuck guys either, I just have lots of really close friends and I love meeting and getting to know new people. I’m good at building connections and I enjoy it. There is a non-permanence to life that once accepted allows you to really cherish every experience. I get my intimacy ALL the time from so many different sources. If anybody is rubbing me the wrong way I just move on to the next one. With sexual relationships, it’s important that I present myself as a free spirit who loves and …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 04:46 AM
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I just get intimate with everybody. I love openly, all people I choose to interact with. I get deep. I care. I connect. Guys, girls, whatever. If the interaction sucks, I don’t seek that person out anymore. But I’m genuinely close with lots of people, including the different women I sleep with. Even if it’s day one, though it does grow over time. I know I will die one day, as will everybody I know. So I’m just trying to know them and enjoy them, whoever they may be.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 01:46 AM
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HVM: Is a master of socialization. Is generally successful, even in the face of failure. Is the origin of his own happiness. Is willing to walk away from any situation that does not benefit him. Is fit and strong, mentally and physically. Is a true leader. Is stylish and confident. Is a great cook and enjoys the finer things. Has many goals, projects, missions, and ambitions. Has and enforces strong boundaries. Is trustworthy. Knows what he wants and has his priorities in order. HVW: Is secure a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 08:59 AM
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Do the research. Do the math. Lots of people pay more when they’re married. For those who benefit, they might pull in $5,000 extra a year being married. Count that against the average $30,000 wedding and you break even at 6 years. I can just work two or three weekends a year and make that extra $5,000 without any hassle or risk. The financial benefit (assuming things break your way) is negligible at best.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/21 08:06 AM
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why do you want her to be around in an LTR if you don't have any plans on her being an LTR? I like fucking her. I like the way she treats me. I enjoy our relationship. I just know I’m not going to ever give her any more than what she’s getting right now because she has disqualified herself for promotion. Mostly not taking care of finances. Baggage. Little things I don’t mind in someone I’m fucking, but would never allow for a roommate, wife, mother of my child, business partner etc. Sounds like …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/21 04:35 AM
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I have accepted responsibility for my own life. I’ve found a way to be happy and get what I want out of life. I know the consequences of my actions. I’m handling it how I want to. I get where you’re coming from but you picked the wrong target to describe weakness. TRP is amoral. If anything, accepting that has given me more responsibility and agency.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 01:28 PM
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Not afraid to lose her. Just not a stupid baby that can’t do what he wants, when he wants, with whoever he wants.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 01:19 PM
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Lol, try saying that without calling me a bitch. I demoted her in my mind a while ago based off of her behavior. I’m not required to let her know she won’t be going any further than where she is, or that I decided to open things up on my end. I’m not using the word “cheating” because it has a negative connotation that makes white knights jump up and salute to service. It’s bullshit gynocentric terminology. CHEATING? At what??? The game??? Who’s game???? The monogamy game??? Monogamy is a woman’s…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 01:16 PM
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My LTR (Open on my end without her knowledge) is pushing hard for moving in together, buying a house together, kids, marriage. She doesn’t do near enough for me to even consider not fucking other women. She’s nowhere close to earning the things she wants. She feels entitled to them. Other people pressure her asking why we haven’t taken those steps. As we all know, the situation doesn’t get better when you co-habitate, sign contracts etc. I won’t do any of that with her. There’s no need to. I fee…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/21 02:51 AM
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The question doesn’t really make sense. It is brave to admit that you wish you were more confident. It is stupid to openly admit to wishing you were more confident. The friend who claimed her weakness was competitiveness wasn’t being more or less confident than the rest of you. She was just being honest as well. Women are often lacking in the competitive drive department. Not following your line of thinking here.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 01:15 AM
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A trait that is beneficial is not the same thing as a trait that makes a pussy tingle.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 06:04 PM
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It’s fucking playful ramping up towards sex, man. She gets it. I get it. We play the game subtly. It’s what it implies. It’s not about doing things for yourself. That’s RMV. We’re out here talking about SMV. I don’t want to show I’m a good provider or that I am self sufficient when I’m trying to fuck. Don’t conflate the two.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 02:55 PM
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Always. It is immutable power. My current girl can’t stand the fact that no matter what girl game she tries (she tries them all as I’m sure you’ve experienced), she can’t gain any power beyond the power to make me happy.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 02:45 PM
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If I’m approaching her, I’ll excuse myself shortly after and move on. First date, I’ll enjoy myself and recalibrate to see if I can up her level of attraction. If not I won’t call her for a second date. In reality the demerit is just a mental note. They disqualify themselves. They need to qualify themselves. So, that move makes one not worthy of commitment. Still may be worth fucking.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 05:36 AM
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How do I handle these types of questions or navigate them in a way that shows who I am without feeling like I’m revealing too much? Answer playfully. In all honesty a question like that better be playful in nature to begin with (I think this one was) or you’ve got an insecurity red flag on your hands. For example, he asked if I’m the type to go out a lot and be a hot girl (which apparently is very common now with women). I told him no that’s not me and I don’t have any guys at all. While that is…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 04:36 AM
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Lol. She gets a piercing look from me and a demerit in my mental demerit book. If it is a regular thing, she doesn’t get to hang out with me anymore.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 04:10 AM
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Ok, maybe you weren’t clear. I mean I of course text enough to build attraction for a girl to want to hang out. For me it’s only 3-4 texts and I’m out. I hit hard and fast. Some of them require a few more to get the interaction to that point, but I rarely exceed 5-6 back and forth with a girl I haven’t ever met. Anyway, if you’re texting more than that, you do you bro. It’s just more fun to do all of that in person in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 10:38 PM
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That’s backwards thinking. If you’re building such a high level of attraction and investment, don’t you think she would have found you and ripped your pants off already? It’s not based in reality. Why text a lot more to try to get some magical level of fantasy that is hanging in the balance of one misinterpreted text (high level of investment from you) and not just ask a girl out then spend your time doing other things and build that attraction in person?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 09:59 PM
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you can get her so interested she starts to fantasize about you This doesn’t require texting. What reward specifically comes from texting that you couldn’t get otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 05:04 PM
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Bro, I’ve been texting bitches since 1999. The second texting came out women were all over it. This is not new. IM was out even before that. Sure the usage is up, but the impact and effect hasn’t changed. The rules haven’t changed. You say it’s high risk/high reward What’s the high reward?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 03:16 PM
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(calling her babe etc, saying good girl etc) What more are you looking for? Give orders: Tell her to bring some wine to your place. Tell her to go to the kitchen and get something. Tell her to order you a drink at the bar. Light sexualization: Anything that makes your sexual intentions clear immediately with a light touch
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 12:57 PM
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Most of this shit is applicable across the board (and learned in the sidebar), not just for texting. To boil down what you said, I’ll just pick the most important words in your title and points... texting game, never, just don’t, shut down, don’t Just text a bitch to make plans then go live your life. it’s more about HOW and WHEN Covert communication. Speak through actions, not words. Don’t initiate contact more than 49% 2/3 rule.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 12:41 PM
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Indeed. No fixing in general as a personal rule. I will try to teach skills, but I won’t try to fix dysfunctional women.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 02:15 AM
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One of my earliest RP relationships was with a girl who claimed to have been “hit” by multiple partners. She left them after being physically abused. She played the victim card well. Luckily for me, I was already deep into my reading and spotted the red flags from a mile away. When I did decide to cut her loose she erupted and tried her hardest to get me to lose my cool. Again, luckily I was prepared and I just took a deep breath as I packed my valuables then left. It was clear why she was findi…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 08:05 PM
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Glad to hear it bro. Take care
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:53 PM
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Stop reading into it.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:09 PM
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Just do what you want and let her make her own decisions. If you feel like getting some ice cream every once in a while to keep her spinning, then do that. If not, then don’t.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:31 PM
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For.... a date. It’s the reason you matched her on a dating app. She knows why you two matched on a dating app. It’s a shit test. Just proceed like usual.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:54 PM
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No it’s because it displays beta characteristics and dries her pussy up.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:52 PM
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Nothing. Do nothing. Fuck her when she hits you up. Why is this hard?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 04:48 AM
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Lol a complete game shut out
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:35 AM
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Trying to regain dominance and make things work You don’t understand that this is not something you can do. So I met a girl online in November, been talking for around 7 months now, we'd flirt and sext in the beginning and planned to meet up, she lives in another town 2 hours away. 7 months no meet. Sexting. Long distance. All weak moves that signal beta qualities to women. We have great sexual chemistry and I would clearly be the one who's dominant in our interactions. You couldn’t possibly kno…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:30 AM
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Buddy. You need to realize how pathetic you are if you ever want to have any success. I feel bad for you. Please take this shit to heart. You are bottom of the barrel. And you lie to yourself. I have options No you don’t. Accept where you are so you can start your journey to where you could be
/r/askTRP10/06/21 11:52 PM
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Bro it’s a shit test. If you don’t keep initiating sex you lose and she loses respect and attraction for you. All you want from me is sex “Well you better hope that never changes” (smack her on the ass/smirk) Don’t fall for the trap. Just escalate as usual. If she wants to leave let her leave.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:53 PM
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Dude. When you see someone do something stupid that you expect because you’ve been down that road, you chuckle and don’t have other emotions. Like the difference between a child’s reaction the 1st time someone goes “I got your nose!” and the 30th. Just learn about shit tests (why, how, where, when, who) and then you’ll chuckle when you recognize them. That’s it.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:20 PM
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Am I an idiot? Yes Is this a shit test or is she friend zoning me for comfort after her break up? Yes. Women have a dual strategy. They let you decide what box you want to be put in. She’s good with either.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:15 PM
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You had your chance and failed. Likely not going to get another. She’ll lose it over the summer. She’ll remember giving you the chance and you not being able to make it happen. Sorry bud. Either hit her up and tell her you have to visit a family member or friend in her town and try to set a date or cut her loose and don’t worry about her coming back.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:20 AM
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Main sub, search beta bait.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:13 AM
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Good job man.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:18 PM
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Bro, do not...DO NOT... try to be clever here. She’s dangling sex. It’s beta bait. Just be a man and set up the next date.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:55 PM
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This
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:44 AM
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you’re talking about getting PLEASURE, not an orgasm. If you’re going to claim that initial arousal (rock hard dicks and dripping wet pussies) is somehow entirely separate from the climax of that arousal (both pleasure inducing) then I don’t think we can have a worthwhile discussion. Obviously some women squirt and some women shake. I’m clearly talking about a woman’s mind while you’re reducing the conversation to “mouth friction.” You don’t know anything 100%. You contradict yourself by stating…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 06:42 PM
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Lol you’re making a lot of assumptions about me and you sound kind of angry. When you have enough experience it’s easy to tell when a girl has an orgasm. When they start shaking and convulsing and need to chill out for a few minutes before trying to walk, then it’s more than likely not the evil work of confirmation bias. I don’t listen to what women say, so no misconceptions there. Indirectly suggesting I’m a “beta male” is a weak way to argue your point. If you don’t think your mind is a powerf…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 04:27 PM
2

If you understand erogenous zones and the fact that a woman’s brain is her most powerful sex organ, then it’s not weird at all. Also I’m speaking from experience, not throwing out hypotheticals. I’ve experimented in depth. Just think about how some big, strong, attractive guys fail to make a woman cum even through penetration. It’s mostly (and can be all) mental. Plenty of people orgasm through meditation with no touching at all.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 03:32 PM
1

A woman’s mouth IS a sexual part of her body. It has nerves. Her throat has nerves. I’ve made a girl cum by playing with her nipples. I’ve made a girl cum by fucking her asshole. I’ve made a girl cum by gently caressing the underside of her tit and the inside of her thigh. It’s all nerves and mental/emotional stimulation (immersion).
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 02:17 PM
1

My girlfriend shows me her tits all the time over video calls when I’m out of town. I always ignore it. She asked if I wanted to see them the other day and I said “nah I’m good, I like seeing them in person.” It drives her hamster wild. That’s the move buddy. Just ignore and set up a date.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:20 AM
2

I’ve been through this. They just feel bad at the mere thought of how much you work out and how much they slack. Ignore it. Laugh at it.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:06 AM
1

You’re treating them like you would a friend. You want an awkward silence to build tension every once in a while. You want to treat them like a girl you don’t know that you want to fuck. You’re being to safe and friendly.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:59 PM
102

My main issue here is that tons of women derive pleasure from giving blowjobs. I’ve had a woman cum while sucking my dick. While I agree that if you need blowjobs to be happy and you’re seeing a woman exclusively that doesn’t suck your dick you should find a different woman, I don’t think your post is correct. People like what they like. Every girl that’s ever sucked my dick was unfit for marriage. There are 100 other ways to serve me that I would prefer over a blowjob. If I want to fuck a girl’…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 03:32 PM
2

Just tell her you’re saving up for something big and don’t want to spend the money right now. Suggest a cheaper option for vacation. It’s not about the destination as much as it’s about the experience. You give her the great experience of traveling and exploring WITH YOU. Just come up with a cheaper and cooler option. Solve problems.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:29 PM
6

I would not recommend it for anyone who isn’t successfully picking women up the old fashioned way first. It’s not a magic bullet that’s going to save you from risking rejection or make it easier to pull women. It’s just a good tool to keep in your bag and use sparingly.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 05:11 PM
6

I made a post about this a few years ago from an alt account: https://archive.is/xLSVz Check it out. It’s got some great comments and discussion from ECs. It’s not always my move, but it is always a good filter for interest and it requires a woman to make the smallest investment possible by reaching out first which is great for the ensuing interaction.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 11:58 AM
1

You can meet for tons of cheap fast dates at night. Shit, you can get coffee (if that’s your thing) at other times than the morning. Anyway, you are blowing it in more ways than one.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:18 AM
2

Yeah, pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:12 AM
2

No. Answer me. Why the fuck are you trying to set up a “Saturday morning coffee date?” Then switching to Friday morning like you’re surprised that somebody works Friday morning. You’re not having to reschedule a total of 3 times just for her You’re being an idiot and she’s giving you opportunities to not suck. Why wouldn’t you be trying to meet her at night? Why are you trying to meet her in the morning?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:09 AM
8

Man, she wants to go on a date. You’re trying to get breakfast coffee. What’s wrong with taking her out Friday night? You are already overthinking and being scared to just go for a real date with the possibility of hooking up. Be bold.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:19 AM
1

Isolate. Her ASD was too strong.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:50 PM
-3

NEED. You are being needy when you clearly shouldn’t. You can just stop responding when your LTR is back. Be a man.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:41 PM
2

That’s just it man. The dream is a fantasy. You’re assuming that somehow attractive people don’t have to deal with real life problems, but in reality they are no more or less secure in their relationships than anyone else. A specific level of security comes from knowing that you can walk away and replace someone. Not from knowing that they will never leave you.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 05:00 PM
2

Do you ever get pissed off at someone else’s behavior regarding you? If so that’s probably a boundary of yours that was just crossed
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:14 PM
2

Look at this for what it is. It’s a blessing in disguise. You can now step back into the dating market with an established plate already at your disposal. Assuming that you don’t fuck up her lingering attraction for you. You should be able to keep her spinning and that should help in the abundance department as you rack up more plates. She sounds like the type to be open to threesomes and other fun experiences I wouldn’t throw that away. Just stop trying to make her something that she’s not. And…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 02:09 PM
1

Simple answer is don’t double text
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:45 PM
4

It’s possible that she is looking for you to be significantly more dominant in the bedroom. It’s also possible that she’s just broken. She may have had an experience in the past where she dominated a guy in and outside of the bedroom and she just isn’t used to being in a normal polarity situation. Give a little more information. Give some examples of these post sex shit tests.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:40 PM
1

Not giving a shit what happens always the right way. If her signals were leaning towards that guy and away from you for attention with me to go talk to another girl at the bar and or politely tell her that you have to go
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:54 PM
7

“It looks even better in person. You should check it out sometime.” You don’t ask if they want to do something. Just tell them. Being obvious like that is called being direct. You’re still being playful and offering plausible deniability (because it’s just about your hair).
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:36 PM
2

On the last date, she tells me she only has sex when SHE is exclusive Multiple takeaways. 1) Her telling you that is a beta bait shit test. If she can get you to drop girls and be exclusive just for a chance to try her pussy then it’s over, game set match. 2) She can be exclusive while you aren’t. 3) If she truly believes in loyalty then she must understand what it takes to earn that, and that it’s not real if it’s just given out as a transaction. 4) You’re in a frame battle that you can either …
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:24 AM
1

Being the best option or moving on to the place where you’re the best option.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/21 03:55 PM
6

You can view it one of two ways. 1) It’s no big deal. Sex is no big deal. Everything is fine. You will have sex. Then you will have more sex. Then you will have lots of sex. Then when you’re old you will have less sex until you go back to having no sex. 2) It’s a huge deal. Sex is awkward. You’re uncomfortable. You think about it a lot. You will never have a fully healthy sex life because sex is such a big deal, it’s impossible to relax and enjoy it. You will grow old and have no sex.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:24 PM
1

A plate is a non-exclusive casual sexual partner. Her seeing other guys is literally the definition.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:08 PM
1

Tears of joy I suppose? Lol. This is the kind of love everybody needs.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:07 PM
1

Fucking search bar dude. This has been asked a billion times. You’re not going to get “the general consensus” by polling a few random dudes on askTRP. Study all the posts and responses and you’ll get a lot closer.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:04 PM
4

Right. There are much smoother ways of handling things. Amused mastery is a lost art. Chuckle at the little girl and don’t respond.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:02 PM
4

It’s a tough world out there. I hope somebody invents something soon that makes finding things a lot easier.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:57 PM
9

Go read the sidebar. It seems like you’re looking for shortcuts. You’ll find you answers there.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:55 PM
1

Apply what you clearly already understand. It’s all the same concepts and outcomes
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 02:07 PM
2

Labeled by whom?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:34 PM
1

I do exactly what you did. Then when she follows up with enthusiasm about doing it again, I say “Sounds good. I’ll be in touch.” It establishes that I will contact her to set up a date. Not setting it up immediately shows that I am not over invested or eager. Then I wait long enough for her to start wondering when or if I’m going to reach out. Long enough that she may reach out to me. 5-6 days usually, then I’ll schedule another date for 2-3 days later.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:55 AM
1

I wish you understood how ignorant this comment is. most fuckboys are beta as fuck Lol just no...nobody that’s pumping and dumping is beta as fuck. It’s the exact opposite. The fact that you think this means you have a long way to go.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:51 AM
1

No doubt. That’s worth way more than a botched one night stand. Or a solid STR. Or a single plate.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:58 AM
2

No doubt man. I know exactly where you’re coming from. If you’re not comfortable escalating in that realm then I would advise against doing it right now. The reality is that women are women no matter where they are or how much money they have. All you need to do is isolate then escalate. Offer plausible deniability to every single one of them. That’s the most important thing that you can focus on. Beyond that they are just normal women. They’re all the same with their clothes off
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:52 AM
3

I’m talking about using it as pre-selection. He’s clearly at a place in his life where he will crash and burn while attempting to fuck his way through this social circle. Then he loses all benefit due to a bad reputation. If he uses the girls as preselection to work on his game and frame, and when he has matured a bit and has more confidence, then he will be more ingrained in the circle and more prepared to handle himself appropriately. You are coming from a place of scarcity. I’m talking about …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:47 AM
1

Man, if you’re having trouble getting over this hump, don’t push it in this social circle yet. Hone your skills elsewhere. Network. Use them for preselection. Slay elsewhere for now.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:29 AM
1

Lol. Don’t trip over your own dick dude. If you’re not ready to be that confident, watch where you step. “Guess you’ll just have to wait and find out”
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:26 AM
3

Your response is clearly weighted negatively. I guess worst would be to humiliate me and make fun of me or get disgusted by me and feel insulted for a short guy like me to talk to her in a romantic interest. Best would be to like me of course. Balance your thoughts. The worst thing that would happen is you would walk away from a girl that isn’t about to fuck you. We all do that all the time. You are afraid of being humiliated. Like, the only person who controls if you are humiliated is you. The …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 12:17 AM
2

Nope. I mean, if you’re operating from a scarcity mindset then yes it is. But if you just treat her like any other plate then it’s fine. There’s just a tendency for guys who are learning to revert back to beta shit when they open up those possibilities so we lead people away from that. It’s always better time spent with new women anyway.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:20 PM
2

Sure buddy. Give me a shout. And yes, you’re not a beta for trying to plate your ex that you broke up with.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:35 PM
1

It’s perfectly fine to do whatever you want to do. The way this works is you do things as an experiment and then judge the outcome as data. Then if you don’t like the outcome you adjust the variables. There are tons of guys who have already done the experiments here, you can choose to listen to them or start from scratch. It’s your call. You should understand why it’s probably not a good idea to try to have a second date so quickly after the first. Again you were probably going to need to crash …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:23 PM
2

I said it three times like 10 comments ago. Nah man you’re trying to read too deeply into it. It all means the same thing. she’s trying to figure out whether you’re going to exhibit alpha or beta behavior towards her. By not reacting you’re exhibiting alpha behavior. By reaching out randomly in a week or two to touch base and inviting her over you’re exhibiting alpha behavior.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:19 PM
2

Dude. Stop. You’re not listening. Yes you’re reading into it way too much. I just said let go and you are too invested in this and you send a paragraph of the same shit. What I expect to come from this interaction is that you drive yourself crazy and then are disappointed because you aren’t acting like a guy who someone would ever want to fuck, let alone casually.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:04 PM
2

Word up man. Keep your expectations low. When she said you guys could still fuck, that was how she felt then. She may feel differently now. Just be smooth and have fun.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:25 PM
3

Wyd? Wyd plus something playful. Did you have a pet name for her, or tease her in some way? For example, I met a girl that was a firefighter and when I texted her to hang out, I said “Wyd hero?” Her response The girl in my example laughed and responded enthusiastically. Said she wasn’t doing anything, or something boring. And asked what I was doing. Oh ive been doing this this “Well that sounds like a blast. I’m going to head over to x place at y time. You should join me.” Or in your case. “I’m …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:31 PM
1

Ok, I’m having trouble getting through to you. Just have a quick back and forth before asking her over.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:53 PM
2

What would you say to try to fuck a woman who isn’t her?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:39 PM
2

Bro, let go. You’re too outcome dependent. Just hit her up The same way you talk to any woman. Hit her up. Be playful. If she says she’s not doing anything invite her over. If she says she is, tell her you’ll be in touch. That’s the third time I’ve told you that. If you do this "whats up ex?" "i thought about your offer, we can see each other next week"? you will crash and burn. She’s just a woman like every other woman you may talk to. Your situation with her isn’t unique.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:03 PM
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Achieving commitment from such a male produces a self-renewing and continuous state of arousal, attraction, admiration, validation and fulfillment. It’s a constant source of serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin. As a woman’s goal in life is a man (the man being a reflection of her own value), she feels she has achieved the pinnacle. Some would argue that a woman’s goal in life is to have children, but a woman could never feel the way about her children that she feels about her ideal man (and feels a…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 01:03 PM
36

I tell people to do this shit all the time. Read the top 200 posts and all the comments and you’ll be in much better shape than you were before you did it. Also, read the fucking sidebar man. You’re killing it on digesting this stuff. Imagine how much better you’ll be when you get done with it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 07:06 AM
2

They would depending on the terms of the relationship. You’re letting her dictate the terms and saying any woman who would let the man dictate the terms of the relationship is not high value. You got it backwards, champ. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:37 AM
1

So what is the worst thing that’s going to happen to you regarding women and you being shorter than some other guys? Like the worst possible scenario. Then also tell me what’s the best possible scenario.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 03:34 AM
2

Fair. Don’t say “wanna come over?” Don’t ask, tell. That’s an always rule. Just hit her up with a light hearted playful text. Ask what she’s doing. Tell her you’re going to pour a drink and she should stop by.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:31 AM
0

I already covered this. You make it seem like you’re hopeless The same way you talk to any woman. Hit her up. Be playful. If she says she’s not doing anything invite her over. If she says she is, tell her you’ll be in touch.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:42 PM
2

What kind of question is this. What kind of response are you expecting to get out of this?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:13 PM
7

Well you should socially calibrate. During a pandemic, bringing up hanging out in large crowds is going to be polarizing. So unless you’re only looking for girls who are down to hang out in large crowds with you I would keep that shit out of the conversation. Me: "[My sunday] is good, I came to the fair to see what it was like." Having a chill day so far. What are you up to today? Getting into any trouble?” Since you went that route, I’ll play along. Her:"The fair right during the pandemic?" You…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:10 PM
14

Other women. Having options. Being able to leave. Making sure she knows (without telling her) that another more feminine woman will steal me away if she doesn’t stay on top of her game.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:50 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:34 PM
4

Why are you engaging her like this? Just laugh it off and keep it playful.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:32 PM
85

Women are like people who win the lottery. Most spend all the money on frivolous things and end up broke. A few invest it wisely and it continues to work for them and bring them happiness into their old age.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 06:49 AM
18

Just for the sake of sharing thoughts, happiness comes from suffering from things you deem worthy of your suffering. I’m literally happy almost all the time and that doesn’t stop a fucking fun sponge from sucking the air out of the room. Time is a limited resource. There is no such thing as an abundance of time. Every person on the planet goes to bed with 24 hours on the clock. You can maximize your time. You can be relatively unattached like me and you still don’t have enough time to do all the…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 06:36 AM
5

35 ain’t it, chief. Just fucking around with ya, but I’m 36 and I’m still not trying to date my girlfriend anymore. If it wasn’t for the fact that I demoted her in my head a long time ago, she wouldn’t be any fun at all. I will never not want other women. I can’t imagine committing to a woman ever (other than giving a woman a child). That’s literally all I have to offer on the commitment from. The rest of it is just a fucking sham.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 06:28 AM
24

You know what’s worse???? BEING in a relationship with a woman who is disrespectful, unattractive, and doesn’t want to fuck you. I would much rather be cheated on and divorced than to endure a dead bedroom, shitty relationship. And there are far more of those than anything else. So many disgusting women who can’t really cheat and leave because no one they want to fuck, wants to fuck them. Those guys are the most miserable.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 06:22 AM
2

Indeed, man. Looking forward to that post.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 03:04 AM
3

Every challenge brings unique lessons, especially so the earlier on in your journey that you are. You might do something that leads to things working out the way you want them to and learn that that is in fact the way. You might fuck up and learn that the decisions you made did not lead to the outcome you desired. Who knows what you’ll learn. I can promise only that you’ll learn something.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:56 AM
1

You took away commitment. She felt you were leaving, so she offered free sex to get you to stay around. You probably need to just block her everywhere and move on, but I want you to dig in on trying to plate her and see what you learn about women and yourself.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 01:03 AM
1

Ok so, what the fuck are you worried about. This is just some random girl you’re trying to fuck. What does it matter who has the “upper hand” in the breakup? What are you holding on to?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:38 AM
65

Knowing you have options keeps your actions steady and smooth, authentically. I run a freelance business on the side. Picked up a last minute job two days ago and had a call yesterday that ended with the client telling me that they had chosen me for a particular quality in my work. The comment was made quickly and after we got off the phone, I realized that I would not be able to guarantee that particular quality because of the last minute nature of the job. At one point in my life, when I was h…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 12:36 AM
1

Did she break up with you?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:45 PM
1

The same way you talk to any woman. Hit her up. Be playful. If she says she’s not doing anything invite her over. If she says she is, tell her you’ll be in touch.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:58 PM
1

Nah man you’re trying to read too deeply into it. It all means the same thing. she’s trying to figure out whether you’re going to exhibit alpha or beta behavior towards her. By not reacting you’re exhibiting alpha behavior. By reaching out randomly in a week or two to touch base and inviting her over you’re exhibiting alpha behavior.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:04 PM
2

It didn’t. Doesn’t mean she wasn’t putting feelers out.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:25 PM
1

I said it was refreshing to read something like this. I take it that’s why you reposted it. Whining isn’t interesting to anyone. Which is why I said “I won’t complain” and then said something positive instead. Write something I literally made a post three posts before yours. I agree with your sentiment, but I’m not sure why you’re targeting me with it. Thanks for the repost of good content though. There is tons of gold in the history of this sub that’s always worth revisiting.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 05:52 PM
1

I already answered it. She unfollowed you to elicit a reaction. Which means she’s trying to figure out whether you’re going to exhibit alpha or beta behavior towards her. Beta and you’re dead to her. Alpha and you can set up the FWB/plate situation. Her friend DMed you to help her figure it out. They obviously talked about it.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:47 PM
1

She was doing it to elicit a response from you. You don’t ever want to be reactionary though. It will only validate her and make her less interested. Better to act like it never happened. Then casually hit her up in a week or two and initiate like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:15 PM
3

Why did you wait for her to lead? Did you stop being the man when y’all broke up?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:58 PM
1

NP. There are free pdf versions online. You can whip through it quickly. Read it more than once
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:46 PM
1

I want to text and treat her well, but when I do shit seems to not work in my favor so I stop. Welcome to the red pill. Need advice on the happy medium or how to play this bullshit. Honestly feel like calling her and telling her , I’m not gonna text you, if you’re not gonna appreciate and respect when I do but I don’t want to break frame. Lol don’t do that. Don’t do anything.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:42 AM
2

Yeah dude mid thirties chicks don’t pick up 21 year olds for any other reason but to fuck. Cut the bullshit if you’re man enough to rock her socks off
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:40 AM
-1

Is this the right way to show abundance mentality? Not really but you’re not a total idiot. Girl I've hooked up with a bunch I think is trying to make me jealous. Which means? She’s into you and wants to see where you stand. Recognize it for what it is. Her : (talks about some guy)"I think he has a crush on me" Me: "Probably". (Then I changed the topic) Me: Lucky you (with a sly grin) Amused mastery my friend. Be amused at her attempt to make you jealous. Always be entertained. You aren’t being …
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:36 AM
1

Lighten up. You’re right, you failed in that you didn’t succeed. But lighten up. This chick is sucking your dick. Have you read six guard method? If not look it up and read it right now. You aren’t turning her on enough. You are not stimulating her mentally. Read that book. Learn about immersion. Accept your own feelings as healthy. Be insatiable. She wants a man to need his dick to be inside of her and be comfortable with that desire. You can do this buddy. Just tell her how you want to do bad …
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:15 AM
1

Dude, just go ahead and do whatever you want to do. You’re clearly not going to listen to reason. Just drive this thing into the ground and get it over with. You act like this plate is your girlfriend. Is she the only girl you’re seeing? She is a casual sexual partner. Why are you giving her an ultimatum? Why are you acting like she owes you something? She is just a random girl that you have random sex with. You are over invested. Needy. And need to take a long hard look in the mirror
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:03 AM
12

Yes sir. Good old fashioned “making your intentions clear through action”.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 05:51 AM
6

Every situation is unique. You have to be able to calibrate and think on your feet. In this case, because she’s going to be gone for such a long time, I would treat her the way I treat girls after our first time having sex. Which is to say, I don’t plan on seeing them for at least another week if not closer to two weeks. So I shoot a text the following day to make sure she has my number and just say “Had fun last night. Let’s do it again soon.” Then they usually respond with a “Ok!” or “Me too! …
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:58 AM
2

Every person who has ever been born was a fucking baby. Babies exhibit the most beta behaviors possible as they literally can’t take care of themselves, cry all day, and couldn’t possibly be dominant over anything or anyone. No one is born “alpha”. The blue pill is social programming or betaization. It’s a pretty obvious answer.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:23 AM
10

It’s a valid point and I don’t think it contradicts my methodology. I run game by means of covert communication with heavy doses of plausible deniability. Polarization in my world is done with that in mind. It is necessary when you get the sense that a woman may be wasting your time. It is timely when a woman is responding well to kino, or escalation of any kind. “Indirect” girls, in my experience understand PowerTalk and are willing play along when you offer up plausible deniability. If they pu…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 03:15 AM
1

I feel with her I’ve had more success communicating sternly How’s that working out for ya bro? Doesn’t sound like it’s going well. You withdraw your attention. Don’t act butthurt. When she asks what’s wrong you tell her it’s nothing. You’re worried that she will think I don’t like her anymore That’s the fucking point. You don’t. You don’t like women that act the way she does. She needs to feel this to understand it. Saying words doesn’t do anything but give her ammo. When she sees that your will…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:58 AM
2

Yep. Make her earn your attention, time, and commitment.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:51 AM
2

You’ve got a lot of glaring issues that are apparently blind spots to you. If your girl is acting like that to you, she isn’t worried about losing you. You’re fucking up if she’s not worried about losing you.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:50 AM
2

You handled number 1 perfectly, but don’t get mad. Be actually amused. Number 2 is just some shit you’re going to have to accept. You’re past the point of correcting that behavior. You’re not going to tell her to delete her social media or unfollow certain attractive guys without losing. The best a man can do is mention way before LTRing that he doesn’t commit to women that follow other guys on social, then see if she cuts it out, THEN LTR. Number 3... next time she does this, get up and go talk…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:12 AM
2

I didn’t want to bring it up and sound insecure Is not the way, bro. Don’t listen to this. All that says is that you were insecure about sounding insecure, but you’re so needy you have to say something anyway. Women communicate covertly through reading actions. Your words are just actions that scream insecurity. If you don’t like a woman’s behavior, you tell her by acting like nothing is wrong and pulling back and pursuing other women. All she will know is that you aren’t as interested as you on…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:08 AM
1

You don’t say shit. Just laugh at her.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:04 AM
4

Nah bro. You’re clearly over invested. I understand if you don’t want to hear it, but your overly emotional reactions mean what they mean.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:04 AM
79

God, it’s refreshing. I won’t complain about the current iteration of this sub, but the 2017-2018 version I cut my teeth on had a wealth of fantastic contributors and posts. New guys, search and filter for the top posts of all time. Read the top 200 AND all the comments. You will level up from that process alone. Regarding this post: Polarize, Isolate, Escalate. The three most important things I’ve learned here. If you’re not intentionally polarizing you are wasting precious time, guaranteed. If…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 01:56 AM
2

Haha I get it man. Unfortunately there is no “women’s logic.” As you well know.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:38 AM
10

First off, we’re talking about a couple of INCHES. If you’re comparing yourself to someone that’s 6’7 then it’s a foot. But god damn, 6’7 makes you a freak. So no one you’re in competition is more than a handful of INCHES taller than you. Most women are going to be shorter than you or exactly the same height with a smaller frame and build. You are attractive to them if you lift, stay in shape, and master your game. Any woman that says she doesn’t like short guys is just shit testing. If she says…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 01:22 AM
1

Lol, you’re probably unable to shake your own lens. If you’re trying to understand a dog, do you think about things logically like a human?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:16 AM
2

This
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:58 PM
1

I think the point is that people rush into this like they’re trying to get to the finish line and win a race. A slow burn is much more likely to yield good results. If you’re having a girl meet your family and friends after a month or two it screams over investment and turns them off. They should be asking to meet your circle multiple times and you should wait until you and your LTR feel as though they’ve earned it.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:05 PM
4

Just as a point of reference Yea , just walk away & ignore her. Make her see you are doing better, keep your frame. It is almost counter intuitive, but not doing anything about her and focusing on other females is what will win her back. If she wanted you back in the first place, the point is you don't need women and that's what they want We definitely all need to make sure we focus on other women as much as possible, or rather make sure we’re not focusing on her or this one girl. The way we spe…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 06:28 PM
1

the person Your words, not mine. I’m saying it’s not hard to get laid if you are holding yourself responsible for all that you can be responsible for.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:07 PM
1

Definitely. I think it helps to have examples of what you’re working towards to help aid the transition/understanding. Guys will not get this at first, but when they do it is a feeling of freedom and excitement.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 06:04 PM
3

For sure. And it definitely becomes even more of a numbers game the more you restrict your own access to the massive numbers of women who are available to you.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 04:59 PM
1

I never said you were responsible for other people’s thoughts and actions. I said you were responsible for your own. The question was “is it that hard to get laid?” not “is it that hard to fuck one particular girl?”
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:57 PM
2

Absolutely. I think getting excited about the prospect of exploring other women is a key to opening the door to that new mindset.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 04:40 PM
2

No doubt man. My point was, if you’re spending time worrying about women you already know, and formulating plans to get them to change their behaviors you are not a fan of, you would be much better off spending that time on other women you haven’t met yet. And the realization that the prospect of other women should be exciting to you. So much so that when a woman gives you a reason to pursue other women (ie. unfavorable behavior), you jump at the opportunity instead of lamenting her behavior and…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 04:37 PM
3

Lol, not surprisingly, yes I’ve had a very high success rate. It’s like bouncing a cat toy in front of a cat. They see your arm. They know it’s not an animal, but their senses go fucking wild and they can’t resist it.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:35 PM
1

He’s saying you should have set the date when she first responded positively. Texting her the next day just seems over eager. Definitely don’t try again. Just tell her “no worries, would have been fun.”
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:33 PM
41

If you understand solipsism in red pill terms, then you realize that everything a woman does is viewed through a lens that makes it about or relate to them. This is why displaying low value beta behavior is repulsive. They wouldn’t be caught dead with a beta because of what that says about them. Hence why when they inevitably settle, they become bitchy old shrews. Everything is a reflection of their own value. It’s why they fuck with orbiters. Because when someone simps for them, it validates th…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:09 PM
16

Nah dude, it’s about accepting those feelings. That is the way you should be feeling. -Abundance -Outcome independence -DGAF -Recognize and handle shit tests -Tease -Isolate -Escalate -Push/Pull -Covert communication (speak through actions) -Boldness -Lead the interaction -Understand ASD/LMR and push through it -Understand plausible deniability and how to offer it
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:03 PM
8

Haha. Favorite askTRP question of all time. It is only as hard as you make it as you are responsible for all of your actions and thoughts.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:45 PM
19

Take him under your wing. The problem with trying to red pill people is that they aren’t open to it and actively pursuing it. He is. Green light
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:50 PM
91

Yes. It validates them by proving they maintaining the attention of a higher value man. And if you do it right it makes their pussies tingle.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:48 PM
3

Dude, if you fucked her good, and didn’t commit AND are fucking other women, this will not kill your chances with her friends, it will only enhance them. You’ve got a lot to learn about how women work. Dig in on the reading.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:45 PM
8

I can say for sure, if a girl flakes, telling her “no worries, I’m actually an idiot and double booked tonight anyway so it works out”. This 100% drives a girl’s hamster wild and has led to them absolutely meeting me to see what makes me such hot shit. Give it a shot. As for flaking yourself, I would experiment with this approach as well. If it works on girls who your chances with are diminishing, then these might fit the mold too. Other than that, I have mixed results with anything less polariz…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:42 PM
9

I loved that song when it came out. Such a good album. We all think about our ex’s from time to time. I like to think to myself, “hell yeah, that was fun!” then let my thoughts drift to other women and what spontaneous, fun memories I will make with the ones I haven’t even met yet. And how hot they will be, particularly the first time we take our clothes off. The novelty of a new body/new person to explore with sexually is a strong pull for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 01:32 PM
5

ALYAS You know it, brother. The golden rule. Since we both love acronyms so much, we should probably make and sell WWASGD bracelets around here. A constant reminder that when trying to ascertain the best move in any given situation is to ask yourself WHAT WOULD A SINGLE GUY DO? Guys, go read this man’s post for a great explanation: There are very simple reasons for recommending this strategy. First, you maintain attractiveness. It's not a consensus view but my experience has been that women's se…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 01:23 PM
15

Maybe your flaws mean you have to work harder. In my experience (5’6) I HAD to overcome my insecurities to get where I wanted to be. In doing that I’ve made myself into a man that stands out around other men for his true confidence. To the point that women tell me directly how much more they enjoy me than other people in our social circle because the other (taller, more naturally attractive) guys are clearly insecure and try to act like they are confident. Everybody has insecurities. If you’re p…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 03:08 AM
12

It’s “don’t always be available.” Don’t make this harder than it is.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:00 AM
0

If you put more hooks in the water you catch more fish. Try everything. Day game. Night game. Apps. Social circle.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:19 PM
2

Be pursuing enough women at the same time that when one pulls back, is busy, or literally anything else happens that you would rather not happen, you just let them go and move your attention elsewhere.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:07 PM
2

Plate flaked on me last Friday after we had agreed earlier in the week to hangout. “No worries, maybe we can do it some other time.” Then soft next. It’s simple, you pull back a bit, “maybe” see her again while communicating “maybe” not at the same time. Then wait for her to reach out and continue forward like nothing happened. It’s a soft, covert touch to correct her behavior. Long story short the way she flaked was so disrespectful that I told myself I would never text her again. To me it soun…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:52 PM
2

YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HER HOMIE Exactly
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:43 PM
5

You don’t communicate overtly with women. Covert through actions is the language. You did good until you felt the need to spell it out.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:33 AM
1

No. And you’re on the confirmation bias train right now. Watch your step.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:31 AM
5

There is an influx of this “treat women better” garbage. Treat em mean, keep em keen. Who are you even directing this post at?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:23 AM
2

It was cringe. You can say whatever you want (to a degree) WHILE YOU’RE HAVING SEX. It’s all the other times that are the problem.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:17 AM
2

The illusion of action is a problem you need to overcome
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:15 AM
12

You are hamstering a lot convincing yourself that it’s ok to have so many beta behaviors with a woman you just met. You are listening to what a woman tells you. You are basically head over heels for a girl you just met and have not vetted which is a mistake. You do have oneitis, even if you know she’s leaving. Facts: this is a random slut. She is traveling and fucking everything that moves. She is toying with you because, why not, it’s empowering. You’re playing right into her trap. You are not …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:14 AM
1

I know this might sound beta and shit, but I'm getting tired of playing these games. Only because it’s not working out the way you want it to. Which is to be expected at a certain point. Gotta get to mastery somehow. This shit gets mentally and emotionally exhausting. That’s because you’re over investing like I said. Don’t emotionally invest until you have been fucking them for a good 6 months. The tough part is keeping them at bay for that long. And of course you start to feel a connection afte…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:16 PM
2

She’s a FWB. Plate spinning is a metaphor for balancing a rotation of women. This helps you achieve abundance as you have multiple sources of sex and don’t need to worry about one girl. You have multiple plates or no plates.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:31 PM
2

“I’m doing this fun thing (actually say what it is) and was going to ask you to join, but I’ll just catch ya next time. Have fun.”
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:22 PM
3

You asked her a question and she answered. What’s the problem? You were trying to make plans that night? Like right then? These are normal situations. Figure it out. It’s going to happen a lot.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:10 PM
2

On the surface, yes. But still.... First mistake: messaged her a few days later to set up a date You should hit her the next day to say you had fun and set the expectation that you’ll hit her up to do it again soon. Then wait at least a week so she’s thinking about you and worried she won’t hear from you. Maybe she reaches out which is an investment from her. Second mistake: she said she was too busy and didn’t offer a different day and you Messaged her a week later anyway. Your move the second …
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:07 PM
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Good post. Our brains are evolved to see all potential pitfalls in our environment. Knowing it’s ok to move towards them is key in these kinds of situations. I used to get my head right before approaching (when any negative thoughts would pop up) with a little rap I made up: “I’m the baddest mother fucker on the fucking planet. I know you know it and I know you can’t fucking stand it”. I mean, it’s terrible. It seemed silly to me but it worked and BECAUSE it was silly, it always flipped on my pl…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 03:09 PM
2

You need to offer value to the group. You’re just trying to extract value. What are you bringing to the table?
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:52 PM
1

For sure. Please do a field report on the main sub after you attempt. This can be a great learning situation for everyone no matter how it plays out.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:49 PM
1

No doubt. Do you buddy. Maybe there’s some guys out there who are flying a little too close to the sun and need a reality check. Wrong of me to assume otherwise just because I haven’t seen it as much.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:34 AM
1

I’m not going to sit here and say I don’t do the same thing. Your post is correct. And I guess if it checks one guy who needs it, it was worth it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:29 AM
1

It might be better worded like: “Confidence comes from within. How to destroy your validation seeking behavior so you can use social media to boost your social status, before your validation seeking behavior destroys you. Deleting your profiles doesn’t solve your problems. Here’s how to solve your problems.” Your post just seems angry. “You aren’t special, don’t talk like you’re special. You’re just an insecure little bitch. I’m special. Here’s why I’m special.” Idk man. Hope that makes sense. A…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:57 AM
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This is like the last step of a twelve step process. 1) Learn the truth about how women work and what they want. 2) Look in the mirror and recognize your weaknesses and deficiencies. 3) Build discipline in areas of your life you want to improve. Lift. Meditate. Read. Eat healthy. Confront your known insecurities and destroy them. 4) As you being to improve and understand male sexual strategy, begin approaching women and attempting to get a date. 5) Attract a woman enough to get her on a date and…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:39 AM
4

Hey man, just tell her (don’t ask her) TELL HER to come over when she gets done with her friend. If she ignores you or doesn’t come over, she’s hooking up with another dude. It’s simple. Polarize, force her to act. Leave if she doesn’t.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 10:07 PM
2

Demote her in your mind. Don’t tell her. Keep fucking
/r/askTRP18/05/21 10:05 PM
9

Why do you guys always jump steps? Meet. Fuck. Fuck again. Continue fucking. If you like her, spend some non-sexual time together. Keep fucking. Have fun and enjoy your life. If something sucks stop doing it.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:10 PM
14

Search “bitch shield” on the main sub and filter for top posts. Read up on a couple of them. It’s a common obstacle they like to throw out to see if you’re man enough to push through and get what you want. It’s a filtering mechanism that weeds out the pussy boys. her: Got a more original idea than that? “I save those for the good girls I already know.” Or “Tons. I’ll tell you all about them over drinks.” Or “Hold on...you telling me there’s more to life than first dates?” Or “Nope, I’ve never be…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:10 PM
2

You can’t really get ghosted by someone you’ve never even met before. Until you meet, they are nothing but ghosts.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 01:35 PM
3

I don’t think you have a problem bro. Other than the fact that there isn’t enough time in the day. You can only date/plate so many girls without hiring a secretary/sexcretary. You should get a plate to handle it for you. Preferably one that is bisexual. Line up the threesomes. Keep the records. Send out birthday cards.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:43 AM
4

It’s mental for sure. Perspective is everything. It’s clearly not as exciting as it once was. Same here. I was way more into it when it was harder.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:51 PM
1

It sounds like you know what you want to do. You’re just trying to figure out how to do it. If you’ve been vetting the friend for a long time, then you have a leg up on the risk/reward conversation. 1) The only way you lose the ability to date other girls is if your branch swing works and you commit to the friend. If it blows up you still get to hook up with all the girls you’re hooking up with currently. 2) Like with any girl, you should fuck her for a good amount of time before committing, so …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:46 PM
1

Yes. She reached out and asked if she did something wrong. I don’t even want to get into how you “accidentally” screenshotted her Snapchat story.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:18 PM
1

Listen to this. She reached out and asked if she did something. Tell her what is expected of a woman that dates you. She can take it or leave it. You’re not mad, but you’re not interested in a relationship with someone who acts that way.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:17 PM
8

She reached out so the soft next is over. Tell her to come over and you can talk about it in person. Let her know that you can’t be with someone who acts like that. It’s fine if that’s who she wants to be, but you are sticking around for it. She will either get more bitchy and you tell her to leave/break up with her, or she will get submissive and act right.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:36 PM
1

You’re right. What a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 08:28 PM
9

“I didn’t know we were having a pajama party, I came here for a date” Start disqualifying them when they disqualify themselves. Be playful and see how they react. You know how to flirt right. Use it as an opportunity to get them wet. Tell them that the only place they’re dressed for is your place. Take them back and smash. If they suck to talk to and can’t take the heat, walk away.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:45 PM
2

Set up a threesome. Sounds like they’re both nothing more than casual sex at that distance.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:04 PM
8

Just tell her when you’re free. She doesn’t need to know anything else
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:33 PM
92

Stop expecting women to be men. They aren’t the same creatures. They have different strengths. You have mutual, equal relationships with your guy friends. It’s your job to lead the interaction to sex. Her job is to be attractive and feminine, then after you are established she gains a larger role as she tries to earn your commitment. When it’s just some girl you recently met, your mission if you choose to accept it, is to be the man.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 05:35 PM
7

Bro, is she offering somewhere closer to her place? That sounds like logistics to me.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:55 PM
1

Made my feelings clear By talking? Nah dude. You don’t negotiate attraction. You should have gamed her, escalated and fucked. No talking about it.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:44 PM
2

I don’t have conversations on tinder. They either want to meet or don’t. Just polarize. I’m not sure why so many of you guys responses to me telling you what I do that works is to tell me that I’m wrong. They are just statements about experiences that I’ve had
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:06 PM
5

It works all the time.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:43 PM
2

“I’m adorable. Kind of like if Jason Statham and a puppy had a love child” It doesn’t matter what you say. The point is to communicate that you are confident and aren’t over invested.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:40 AM
1

No one goes on vacation thinking of the long ride home. Live your life. But the ticket. Take the ride. Go on the fun vacation for the experience of it. You don’t have to be a fucking idiot and get locked up abroad or stuck in a foreign country with no money and no way home.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:27 AM
2

If you are letting them suggest a date before you do enough that it’s become an issue, that’s where you’re going wrong. LEAD. They will follow.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:23 AM
1

Just play dumb. “What??? Really it says I’m 32???” At the point that it matters she’s into you enough that she’s not going to bail.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:20 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:18 AM
2

You should hold down a definite time / place when you’re making plans so you don’t put yourself in this weak position again. OR... Find another girl and make plans with her because this girl usually flakes and keep her as a backup. OR.... Expect this girl to just be a random booty call and stop being outcome dependent. This is the reality. Make loose plans and leave her open all the time if she can’t make definite dates happen. Then fuck her when you’re available and she hits you up.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:16 AM
3

I realized that everybody has problems and most attacks were either perceived by me due to an insecurity or a projection of their own insecurity. I worked on mine and forgive them and feel sorry for theirs. Super chill no matter what now. People can attack any actual insecurities I have and I might not respect them anymore for doing that, but I don’t react.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:11 AM
0

Just talk to them like a regular person if there is an opening or they signal interest. Don’t waste your time stopping a girl. Her lack of giving you an opening is a signal that she’s not interested.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:08 AM
1

Entertain yourself. That’s all it takes.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:03 AM
22

Lol, she saw you looking. Dropped a little beta bait. You bit. She asked me to record her “training her legs” You: “Woah woah woah, slow down girl. At least buy me dinner first.” With a sly look. She offered up a compliance test. Only a person with overwhelming beta qualities would say yes right away. Shit test. Beta bait. Whatever. You had one shot to set yourself apart and be bold. Get the rapport going. You could have eventually done it and teased her the whole time. Gotten a little flirty th…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:01 AM
67

Mannnnn rewrite this as a post on how to gain an advantage in your career by covertly flexing your SMV and I love it. Seriously though, I do all of this stuff except for the fucking. Spot on. Then when I change jobs I’ve got a new plate pipeline already primed and ready to go. They need it and after you’ve left, they have more motivation to make it happen as you may just disappear never to be heard from again.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 04:47 AM
1

I think she broke your trust and you showed her that it’s ok to do that to you. So she’s gonna act shitty and not respect you. Then she’s going to find a branch to swing to and swing, while draining you for whatever value/validation she can. It’s over man. Why do you want to be with someone who has shown you that you can’t trust them? She doesn’t respect you anymore because you showed her you don’t deserve respect. And then apologized. Why are you afraid to lay down the law? It’s what she wants.…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:59 AM
3

This might be fun. I’m going to delete words from your post and leave only the relevant information Hey all, Long story short, gf of 12 months went through my phone She basically broke down and cried that I was dishonest Shes is giving me noticeable more attitude I did apologize She violated your trust by going through your phone. Blamed the problem on you. You went the damage control route and apologized, even though she actively violated your trust. THEN she started acting more bitchy. By snoo…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:32 AM
1

Go
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:06 AM
0

I agree with all of that. My main hang up was the talk of worrying about how your behavior with women affects the experiences of other men down the road. Learning how to get and keep women in a feminine and submissive state is a valuable skill. And perception of the dating market will make or break some people. Overall I think we’re on the same page. Cheers, man.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 06:21 PM
9

My thought is, you make some good points on a micro level, but you keep moralizing by pushing this, save the world, save the dating market by making sure you don’t treat women in a way that will mess them up sentiment. It’s idealistic at best. It borders on unhealthy narcissism at worst. Every woman you ever interact with will have had interactions with hundreds if not thousands of men prior to meeting you. You are not so important that what you do or say specifically will shape her future views…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 03:12 PM
0

Ok, you’re a lost cause. I just explained why women don’t get uncomfortable around me. I am me, and I’ll leave if I feel like anything is moving in a direction that would make a situation any different. I don’t stay engaged if someone isn’t giving me the vibe they should be. If you master that you have nothing to worry about. If you master yourself you have nothing to worry about. These guys you’re talking about keep pushing when they should leave. They’re over invested. They lack real confidenc…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 01:29 PM
2

what stings is the acknowledgment of failure Yeah dude. I did about the same thing in 2020 and it was way harder for me to get over than some girl. I could not accept it for months. Good now but damn, that one stung.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:26 PM
2

I’m 169cm and I do whatever the fuck I want, for the record. Everything I just wrote is from my experience and my reality. The truth is, you’re making excuses. Women tell me that out of an entire group of taller, stronger, more attractive men, I’m the best because I just ooze actual confidence. Because it’s not a front like most men. I’ve dealt with my insecurities and they no longer exist. For a woman that’s like crack because insecurities in men are repulsive. Women are all about feelings and …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 01:02 PM
2

Just ping her once or twice over the summer to say hey. Make sure it’s fun and she’ll be back when you guys are close to each other.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:55 PM
1

If you’re worried about wasting opportunities, just go to a different town and experiment.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:52 PM
14

I always playfully flip it back when the other avenues don’t make sense. It shows that you don’t take things too seriously. “YOU seem confident, let’s get a drink sometime.”
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:51 PM
2

Today only the genetically elite is allowed to act in such a way This is ridiculous. Allowed by whom? You act as if there is a counsel of women that decides how all women will act. It’s like the recent post about stereotypes and incels.... Imagine how a woman will feel when she sees that you are different than all the other short guys... it’s not about acting outwardly it’s about being self-assured, lacking insecurity, and having an unbreakable frame. That makes you better that most women out of…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 12:46 PM
1

If you haven’t responded yet, pick a spot for tonight and text her and let her know you’re going out with some friends for dinner at x time but she can meet you after at the designated place for a drink. That will give her enough time to sober up if she’s serious about meeting up
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:09 PM
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Just hit her up. There’s always going to be other men you have to compete with. Nothing special here.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:20 AM
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So you’re fully aware of what took place I made a joke about a hot girl Good rule of thumb is not to talk about other girls explicitly. This causes insecurity in women a lot of the time. When girls shit test, they usually pick something that you could be insecure about and want to see you not get insecure. You basically shit tested her. And she pressure flipped like a pro. go talk to her instead of me then pussy So now you’ve initiated a shit test upon yourself. And you caved. Instead of agree a…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:16 AM
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Don’t plan daytime relationship shit as a first date. Night time drinks for the first meet.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:51 AM
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Yeah it comes across as too invested and overeager
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:13 AM
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Yeah buddy. I usually hit them up the next day to say I had a good time and we should do it again sometime. They usually agree. Then I leave it alone so they can miss me. If they’re really high interest they will be thinking about me and message about hanging out. If I haven’t heard anything by day 4-5 I’ll reach out and make some plans for a few days later. I don’t like to see a new girl more than once every 8-10 days. It gives some space to build into.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:57 AM
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I had a doctor in high school that prescribed me Ritalin for ADD (which I hated and stopped taking after a year or two). He offered me a free sample of anti-depressants and said I may also be depressed after being dumped by my first ever long term girlfriend. I remember thinking “what the fuck? I’m just sad, I’m not depressed.” and ignoring the offer. So glad I didn’t go down that road either.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 10:18 PM
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I don’t think he’s saying that it’s the way, or the only way, or the best way...just A way that some lost souls may have not yet considered to jumpstart their troubled little hearts.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 08:59 PM
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Fair point... WOMEN ARE WOMEN AND THEY ALL LIKE TO GET FUCKED RIGHT
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 08:56 PM
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Agreed. He can just not say shit and if she hits him up that night he can ignore it and message back the next day.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 07:21 PM
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You’re intentionally missing the point. It’s fine.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 07:20 PM
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Read his post again. He’s been flaked on zero times. The first time she said she had other plans. She didn’t offer another date, so I agree that she’s clearly not high interest. Not really at scorched earth yet. I told him to cancel the potential for plans. That’s the move. If she wants new plans she makes them. If he wants to reach out again in a week or two to learn his lesson the hard way, it’s not going to hurt anything.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 06:48 PM
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Lol you’re fine. I was just saying, have a good one. As in, “take it easy”.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 06:08 PM
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I would wait another week or so after the Snapchat incident. That was beta bait. You shouldn’t have responded at all but your response was probably not damning. It’s pretty much soft next time. Wait for her to reach out. If she wants to see you she will.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:46 PM
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I think it’s a valid point. You want to engage a woman’s full range of emotions unlike other men. Surprise is an emotion. It’s a good way to break in.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:12 PM
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When she backs off, you back off a little bit more. I’m not saying don’t hit her up and fuck her from time to time. I’m saying drop all the investment, fuck other women. Reach out to her infrequently. Put her on the back burner until she puts herself back on the front burner.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:07 PM
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I was talking about the collective “losers” out there. Take it easy, man.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:05 PM
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See if you can find the numbers on SSRI sales since the pandemic started. They’ve doubled. The pandemic has been good for people who want to sell you access to your own serotonin too.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:04 PM
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Pipe dream. Lack of understanding. Inexperience. Using the red pill to achieve blue pill goals. Where to start? Women didn't just start acting like unruly children. Women know how to behave. If they don’t fear losing you, they will behave however they want. This is the workings of something that started before any of us, our parent, and even our great-grandparents were even born. When you fuck a woman over, you have fucked her over, her friends, her female family members, and even her offspring.…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 04:33 PM
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I don’t give a fuck why you like her. Stop justifying beta behavior. Let her go and fuck other girls until you find another girl you like being around.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:43 PM
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That wasn’t directed at you buddy, get over yourself. I was talking about all of the losers, who decided they were losers. I guess you kind of just made my point for me though.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 03:41 PM
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All women are whores. The way they dress and present themselves is an act. The world is a stage. Why would a woman not like getting dicked down because she wears more conservative clothing in public? This is really some 101 shit. GUYS, WOMEN LIKE BEING SLUTY. USE THAT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. ALWAYS ASSUME THEY WANT TO PUSH THE ENVELOPE SEXUALLY AND DO THE DIRTIEST SHIT THEY’VE EVER DONE. They will thank you and you will thank yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 03:34 PM
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Bro, text her and tell her you made other plans for the day but you guys should get together soon and leave it at that. She slept on her chance. She already made her move. Your move is to do other things. See how she responds to you not waiting around on her and prioritizing her company over others. She will likely offer up another time. If she doesn’t you have your answer. You can still hit her up a week or so later and try again if you like.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:54 PM
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Don’t tell her you like her. I barely tell my LTR I like her. She tells me she loves me 10 times a day. I might say it back once.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:50 PM
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When you decide you’re a loser, you’re a loser. Nobody is asking you to change your mind. They’re asking you to shut the fuck up and stop trying to convince other people that they are losers too. Why would you do this? What do you gain? Having more losers reinforces your decision to give up. It makes you feel more justified. Does imagining my short ass fucking 9s because I decided I’m not a loser and did what I could to make myself a winner make you feel bad? Because you’re a loser? You’re a los…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 02:48 PM
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This. She found another guy she likes more than you. Just let her be a plate. You’re too invested for this to end well at this point. Dial it back and fuck other hoes.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 06:16 AM
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Once upon a time, I went on a date awhile ago. As I'm driving she asked what I wanted. I said sex, because I wanted sex. Women want a man who just gets it. She looked at me as if it was insane and absurd, as if I truly offended her to her core. She looked at you like she looks at a boy who absolutely does not just get it. You’re supposed to operate in a way that turns her on and makes her pussy tingle. You made her feel repulsed. She said she didn't want that, ASD. Every woman ever... and so I g…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:51 AM
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Telling us your bf% is failing the shit test bro. You think she’s being serious??? It’s too late now, all you can do is ignore. Texting her to tell her your finger slipped was retarded. You should be able to lead a phone call in a way that doesn’t waste your time. Chat for a second, have some good rapport then set up a date and get off the phone. Ignoring is fine. Ignoring then texting a reason you ignored is just autistic. She smelled weakness and that’s why she shit tested. Your immediate resp…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:07 AM
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I’m not jealous nor insecure As you run to askTRP about the ice cream guy literally asking about then following the tenets of good service. Serve the ladies first. Jesus, what world is that hitting on somebody???
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:12 AM
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I don’t exclude any of those positive things from my life. I live entirely in the gray zone. Virtually nothing is black and white You know what is black and white? The type of behaviors that are acceptable if you want to be a part of my life. You know who enriches me the same way I do them by opening our collective minds and sharing new experiences etc? People who live up to my reasonable standards of behavior.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 08:21 PM
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There is a lot to read here about IOIs (indicators of interest). They are certain “tells” that a woman wants you to approach her. Because women need to lack agency and have plausible deniability that allows them to keep a clean reputation socially and fear rejection, men must take on the responsibility of moving an interaction toward sex and the risk of rejection. Women rarely will approach (if they do, count that as a red flag for numerous possible reasons). The most a woman will usually do is …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:25 PM
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Lol, I guess I should have said “read this post and the comments”. There is gold from a lot of ECs and Vanguards. Great discussion.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:08 PM
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I've been trying to grasp the redpill for about a year now (16M). Keep pushing forward. I've never had my first kiss, and have little to no experience w/ girls since I've read all this redpill content, basically, I haven't put what I've learned to the "test". You know the answer. Go out and start experimenting. However, the most notable part of this last year has been the person I've became. I built the habit of working out, training harder for soccer (been playing at the highest youth level in …
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:51 AM
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Read this post: "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losers https://archive.is/YbrOR
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:15 AM
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Lol don’t ever do that. Amused mastery my friend.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:36 AM
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I mean...being a genuine fun friend to hang out with outside the bed is always helpful for getting them past those issues. Make your outside the bedroom experience as epic as your inside the bedroom experience.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:35 AM
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Not if you aren’t always available. As things move forward, limit the meetups to 1-2 nights a week so she can wonder what you’re doing the other nights. Then if she keeps increasing the amounts of times she wants to hang, tell her you have plans one night and offer up another in exchange. Slowly let her have more of your time. As it keeps increasing, don’t always answer right away. Get back to her the next day from time to time. Pepper this stuff in during the early days. Actually hit up other g…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:30 AM
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She should be initiating more and more as things move forward. She should think you have other women in your life at this point so you initiating quickly kills that for you. I would wait a few more days then hit her up for a meet 2-3 days in the future. Don’t rush. If she really wants it again she’ll make it happen. If she’s still warming up, you’ll know when you haven’t heard from her and you can do a little more of the heavy lifting.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah I had a girl get really upset when I came down her throat. Then we fucked two more times.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:19 AM
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That feeling is your social programming. When I first got here I went through the same thing. Answer me this: WHY do you feel bad? For me, I felt like I owed a girl commitment and it was difficult to wait so long as many of the girls would ask for it much sooner than the 6 month mark. But the truth is, you don’t owe anyone anything at that point. You literally just met. It takes time to get to know someone for real. It takes time to learn their flaws as they present the best version of themselve…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:11 AM
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You can OD on the anger phase if you’re not doing all of the work of getting in shape, approaching, and gaining experience that helps you get past it.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:44 PM
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Lol. It’s always the obvious and hilarious answers that are the most true.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:37 PM
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Keep doing what you’re doing for at least 6 months to see if she is worthy of committing to.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:35 PM
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No because plenty of men are looking for a mommy. When they start seeing a woman they commit for emotional support
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:21 PM
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You are being autistic about this. Emotions are not confined to being soft, crying and thinking puppies are cute. Those are some feminine emotions, sure. connect with a woman’s emotional landscape Emotions range from anger, to fear and excitement and disgust and embarrassment and pride and love and surprise. Frolic in the surf of emotions rather than the arid desert of logic. The summation is to engage in a dance with her emotions rather than attempting to communicate through logic. That’s the p…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:26 PM
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I don’t think we disagree, just think I’m splitting hairs to foster discussion and deeper understanding. Oh my god, it’s so nice to find a rational person in the wild. They are, for the most part aroused by the same things. If you possess those tools and use them on a younger woman with repressed sexual feelings and lack of experience, she may have a more difficult time achieving quick, repeated orgasms than an older woman who is 100% in touch with her sexuality, feels no shame, and has a much e…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:47 PM
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Maybe you missed my point, or maybe we disagree. I’m saying that someone who is more comfortable with the process of letting go sexually can more easily achieve orgasm. I know that women in general don’t know what they want, or what turns them on - publicly in a study. At the same time a fair amount of them do. Plenty of women know what makes them tingle. Plenty of women can tell you that they like more dominant and dangerous men as sexual partners. There is a correlation to be drawn from someon…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:11 PM
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No doubt, man. She likely texted you because of the dualistic female strategy. It’s important in everything to understand what people want from you before deciding how to proceed. She probably sees you as someone she can extract value out of if there wasn’t any sexual tension/chemistry and she still reached out the next day. Polarize. Read the post “Don’t waste your time. When in doubt, force her to act or move on” Being bold and framing the interaction in a purely sexual way will show you wheth…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:58 PM
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Agreed. I would like to add that older ladies have the benefit of TONS of experience. They know their bodies better. They have orgasmed thousands more time and know how to get there. Often they are much more comfortable letting go and enjoying it.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:47 PM
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Valuable to whom?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:42 PM
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Not a lot of info to go off of here but I’ll give you my read. You seem to be too in your own head and probably thinking about things incorrectly as you seem to think you’re trying to plate a girl you haven’t slept with and you mention a goodbye kiss like that’s something you should want as a highlight. You are trying to fuck this girl, not plate her. You are not there yet. Baby steps. You’ve got a lot to learn yet. Keep reading the sidebar. Keep learning. Experiment with escalation and push pul…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:28 PM
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My simple method is being 100% certain of what I like. I know what I’m physically attracted to. My body tells me. When a woman I am attracted to gives the signal to approach, I know it’s time to move. I know the kind of fun I like to have with women. When I approach a woman, it’s easy to tell if she’s wants to have my brand of a good time with me. I lead my own pursuit of happiness, they come along for the ride. If a woman puts up blocks or obstacles to my goal, they are disqualifying themselves…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 02:20 PM
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She suggested coffee. You’re clearly stepping into her frame with this whole line of thinking. Just hit her up and invite her over to your place. She’s just some girl
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:24 PM
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You have come to the right place. What we do here is make men attractive, teach them how women work, and teach them to protect themselves. The main point is that what you do with that information is up to you. Read the sidebar on the main sub. Don’t make up BS about being on mobile. You’re in IT. You can figure it out. Good luck buddy.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:03 PM
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Just leave her alone for the time being and pursue other women. She said she’s not emotionally ready to do that so soon She will be ready when she decides she’s ready. Let her go and let her come to that conclusion on her own.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:28 PM
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How could you miss it? One guy gives her everything AND isn’t lacking in the sack, and she still drives a hour away to cheat with the other guy who gives her nothing and fucks her well because his game is tight. He knows how to let a girl be herself and he knows how to engage her emotions without becoming a slave to his own.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 09:22 PM
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What are you attempting to do, save the world?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 08:35 PM
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Bro, read up on the content here. “We’re not having sex tonight.” “I would never even think of it” Then you hang out and escalate. “Stop it I told you we’re not having sex tonight” “I know I’m just having fun” Back off. Then escalate again. She’s going to get turned on and fuck you 9 times out of 10. If she keeps saying the same thing then tell her you have some studying to do and send her home.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:40 PM
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Think about what you’re really communicating as women communicate covertly through actions. Your words don’t matter, what are you SAYING? Is wishing her good luck for a minor surgery showing your investment in her? Are you invested? Do you want her to think you’re invested? Those are the questions you should be asking yourself. I think a text before is saying a lot that might be misinterpreted and put conditions on her contacting you after which opens up the possibility of her deciding not to se…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:29 PM
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Dude, you’re literally saying the phrase ONE NIGHT STAND and then asking why she left after the ONE NIGHT STAND. If you wanted to see her again you have to take the reigns. You should have already gotten her contact info, or at the very least, been bold enough to risk rejection and ask for it as she was preparing to leave.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:14 PM
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Bill Cosby was an attractive, American icon. He was certainly one of the most desirable men in the world for decades. Once you become known as a serial rapist you’re going to lose a little charm. Don’t be a rapist. Louis CK is weird, fat, beta dude who made a habit of sexual misconduct. Don’t do that shit either. You can be ugly and funny and get pussy as long as you’re in good shape, muscular, not a loser.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 01:06 PM
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Of course your comment here is just a veiled attack. Unfortunately, when I started off by making the minor valid criticism that your post was a little vague and lends itself to misinterpretation. You wrote a paragraph in defense of why you wouldn’t offer a few examples to clarify your important lesson. In your own words: When someone overreacts to minor but reasonable criticism with a full on display of juvenile defensiveness they're likely ill equipped to offer mature relationship advice and it…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 06:08 AM
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She told you what to do. Go find someone else.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:33 AM
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Lol. You’re projecting. Attack ideas, not people.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 03:24 AM
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Nonsense, I'm not inclined to spoon feed - why would you even expect such a thing? Do you think these guys are stupid? Finally, an example! Pressure flip, ladies and gentlemen. I've got no doubt that I've got a great deal more experience with women than you do What a contrived statement. You have no idea how much experience I have. and while your examples aren't worthless they're less direct and yield more ambiguous results ... they take longer. Being bold and challenging is a mode of being. The…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 12:35 AM
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Lol. A good sense of humor will take you to the promised land. Especially if you’re ugly.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 12:21 AM
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Thank you for your interest but I'm not going to provide specifics for good reasons. #1 the variety and dynamic of relationships vary widely with each one having unique qualities. #2 I don't imagine there's a male alive who's old enough to ejaculate that doesn't have a small arsenal of criticisms and confrontational ideas. My point was that “putting a women in a potentially adversarial position” has a very wide range and is vague at best. You should be able to make up a few examples of what you …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 10:36 PM
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Where should I set my standards? Higher today than yesterday. Higher tomorrow than today. If you’re just starting out, think about what you would be willing to do. Then bump that up a notch and you’ve got a good starting point.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:24 PM
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Come with some examples. It’s a little vague and lends itself to misinterpretation. I agree that you should be actively vetting. There are TONS of ways to do this. I’m interested in your take on “scratch the surface” though. Share some experiences, man.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 09:20 PM
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Bro. She’s begging you to take the fucking lead. She wants to follow and you’re telling her to lead. She’s a woman. Be a god damn man. Set a date for drinks out somewhere. Then tell her you’ve got a surprise. Then after a drink or two to loosen her up, take her to a sex shop and have fun shopping around your interests. You buy a few things you want. Encourage anything she seems interested in and she will take your lead and buy herself something. Ease into it with lingerie when you get there. Poi…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:02 PM
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Focus on experimenting with space and silence in conversation. It’s interesting to see how people react and what people say when you give them space. There is always a break of silence in conversation. Usually the most anxious or insecure person will break that silence first. Silence builds tension and makes people slightly uncomfortable. It’s not just you. Experiment with it. Focus on it. Enjoy seeing how it plays out then your mind will be doing something. Which is the same thing that happens …
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:48 PM
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You activated her ASD brother. A few things: 1) She simply doesn’t want to be viewed negatively by her friend who knows you’re fucking other girls. Social status is wayyy more important to women that it is to men. Before her friend brought this up, she had plausible deniability that she was the only one you were fucking when she talked about you to her friends. Usually a woman will be ok being your fuck toy for a while assuming she can keep it under wraps/the sex is worth it. She clearly hadn’t …
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:23 PM
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Where did this conversation go wrong? I’ll try and explain it in a way you can understand. M: Hey, its me x You’re missing a playful question. At the very least, Hey, it’s me x. Wyd? S: Hello Then her boring Hello would be a laugh and a silly response or at least her telling you want boring thing she’s doing so you can play around and make fun of her with your next message. M: how was the pizza, i left to eat tacos xD All of this should have been done playfully in the first message. S: omg thats…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:49 AM
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Sorry your existence is so bad that you get your rocks off doing this little dance online. Take care. Good luck.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:30 AM
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Ok, you’re talking in circles. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:29 AM
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Haha yes I’ve considered my subconscious desires. As for treating everyone the same, you don’t have to, but the fact of the matter is that women are very similar and they respond to the same things. Once you’ve got hundreds and hundreds of experiences under your belt, you’ll understand that the way you behave towards women who are below your SMV actually signifies your higher status in their minds. The same behavioral cues work on women who are above you on the SMV scale because of how women com…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:28 AM
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Dude we’re here to share experiences. You are so incredibly standoffish. Girls that are into you are usually more pleasant. A woman’s behavior changes based on you. If you would rather remain naive to the ways of the world, be my guest. Just here to share experiences and knowledge with open-minded people.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:47 PM
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Lol. Ok, bud. Have a good one.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:59 PM
1

Whether they are attracted to you or not
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:58 PM
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Dude, your perspective is flawed. Good luck with gaining experience and seeing things for what they really are.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:57 PM
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Lol dude, how many skinny chicks have you been with. They are not masculine just because their estrogen levels didn’t spike as much during breast development. Girls with little titties and a tight ass are some of the most feminine women I’ve ever been around.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:55 PM
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You can be in control of your emotions without having to turn them off. Being overly emotional makes it more difficult to have a rational conversation. Just because this paper states that It is concluded that any categorical statement about the overall rationality or irrationality of emotion would be misleading. doesn’t mean you can’t make specific statements about the way emotion effects communication.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:52 PM
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You could have contributed to a valuable discussion but you chose not to.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:44 PM
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I’m in control of my emotions and I don’t need to attack people when I want to attack their ideas.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:43 PM
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Ok, look externally for the reasons you have a specific reaction to specific things. It’s being filtered through your lens. The answer is that people as a whole are more willing to justify behavior of people they are more attracted to. TRP teaches us to break that and treat everyone the same, based off of their behavior. No special passes for special pretty girls.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:41 PM
1

Right. Which is what he was saying
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:38 PM
1

Doesn’t make them any more or less annoying
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:38 PM
1

That has nothing to do with how annoying they are to you. Just that you’re willing to overlook things depending on how big a girls boobs are
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:37 PM
1

I’m talking about the relationship between estrogen levels and how annoying they are.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:36 PM
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What kind of argument is that? I’m down for using data and sources to form my understanding. Share what you got. yo genius Lol. Take it easy, bud. You’re getting a bit emotional for a rational discussion.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:31 PM
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Lol you answered him immediately. So my research shows that you couldn’t have done any research to confirm what he said It wasn’t a hard one to figure out. I didn’t assume anything. On the off chance that you did, you mind sharing your sources and data?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:26 PM
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It’s still about you, and not about women as a whole. Look inward for the answer homie.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:23 PM
1

Boy if you haven’t hit it yet, you’re on the path to failure with this one. Tell her you’re busy and set a date.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:26 AM
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When you die, you will be alone, with only you to judge your actions. On that day your final thoughts about your life will be all that matters. So live it in a way that will make you proud. Be a man who achieves success wherever you please. If it’s with women, then you better not look back and see a chump who wasted his life trying to please women instead of trying to please yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:22 AM
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Let’s extract what you’re saying. More estrogen makes a woman more feminine, which makes her less annoying. Less estrogen makes a girl more masculine which makes her more annoying. There are a few problems with your conclusion. First, you’re assuming we all get annoyed by the same things. Which we don’t. So there is no answer to this question. To accept one without accepting the fact that there isn’t one is 100% confirmation bias. Second, assuming that we are all annoyed by the same things, the …
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:18 AM
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Exactly what I’m saying. Look how hard you defend the answer you want to hear. wtf? thats like telling a bunch of doctors that the best treatment for a certain illness is unreliable even though they all agree it's the best because of their confirmation bias. Is it? Is the guy who said that a doctor or just some rando saying a “science” word? you're basically denying the presence of any sort of learned fact what kind of reply is this? It’s a red pill response. What we do here is think for ourselv…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:03 AM
1

Don’t be dumb. Confirmation bias is a real problem.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:51 AM
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Validate her WHILE you’re fucking her. There is a time and a place for it. Tell her how hot she is while she’s bent over taking it from behind. She should feel validated by you. Just make sure it’s while she’s sucking your dick and she will suck your dick more to get that validation. Don’t let her starve. Just pick your spots.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:09 AM
6

Honestly, dealing with women is more about dealing with yourself than anything else. The most you can learn is how to value yourself and walk away from something that isn’t good for you. Anything you can learn directly from a woman, you can learn directly from ANY woman.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:40 PM
13

Just dump her, man. Just about any new woman is going to be better than this. That list is too much. Building relationships with people is fun and meaningful, but there are so many more people out there to enjoy. Let her go now, or ride the train into the ground and let the relationship hit rock bottom and crash with drama. It’s your choice. Also, if she’s having a dude (any dude really) that was once into her sleep in her bed with her, she has crossed a line that you can’t uncross. To answer yo…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:20 AM
2

You should be planning just as many things as her. She should be wanting to tag along with you instead of doing other things. It’s pretty simple. You want to be prioritized in her world, and that means you’re in her frame. You’re not a prominent force in her frame either. Gotta flip it. Get in your own frame. Have fun. See if she follows. If not someone else will.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:13 AM
2

Tribe building, my man. Call upon your alpha traits of leadership, bravery, fearlessness in the face of failure, benevolence, extroversion etc. Most people are not leaders and will float away without an anchor. You can lament the situation while looking at others as the root of the problem, or you can become powerful by building the world you desire with your own two hands.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:07 AM
3

Do nothing at all. My girlfriend did this two nights ago. She left my place at 9 when I had family in town that I was still hanging out with and asked me to come stay with her. I told her I was going to stay and spend more time with my family. She called me at 11pm asking me to come over (she has work at 7:30am) and telling me she missed me. I jokingly told her I would have to walk as I had been drinking. She offered to come pick me up and I chuckled and told her that she knew I wouldn’t be comi…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:52 AM
1

She said "I think you know exactly what I mean" This was a shit test. Your first response was good. and I said "haha look I don't wanna control you or hurt you or lock you down but I like you more than platonically and that won't change". Would have been better if you kept it short and undefined. “If you say so” Reason why I said this is I think she ghosted bc she was afraid of being vulnerable or losing herself. You’re letting your little hamster get the best of you. Making up justifications fo…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:26 AM
2

what’s up with that goofy ass earring? Came here to say this. Your tone was just off. Both girls put themselves there as a signal that they were interested. You came correctly with the stripper. Obviously the earring is a filtering tool because almost everyone is going to mention it. If you’re going to mention it, it needed to be playfully. However, I would have treated her the same way you treated the stripper.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 02:34 PM
2

She’s trying to incentivize your providership. You did something nice for her. She says she loves you. Rinse repeat if that’s enough to get you on the hook.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:15 PM
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It is as simple as this. People try to make it more complicated. A light touch will do here. OP take note. Fine tuning. Match her interest level. Meet less sex with less emotional investment, less time, less availability. But only enough that she recognizes that she doesn’t like it in a way that your can plausibly deny.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:05 PM
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It’s funny, once you learn this stuff it’s so obvious.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 06:42 PM
1

When presented with the proper set of events (situation) women are capable of murder. My point exactly. Why do you think I shouldn’t speak the truth?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:28 PM
1

Let’s try one more time. I’ll let you start. You are engaging in really crappy methods. You use the word "discussion" yet do not actually want a discussion. What methods are crappy and why? Let's start with this women you originally wrote about. You guaranteed that she would cheat. She would cheat, given the correct set of circumstances. No one is above reproach. Stop doing that. Explain to me your thought process. What’s behind this command. Why are you defending some woman you don’t even know?…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:20 PM
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This is thoughtful Nice, let’s give it a shot. I think telling people that there is a small minority of special women out there who will not cheat, leads to people becoming unicorn hunters and creates a confirmation bias issue that results in oneitis when they are dating someone exclusively. I think it’s much healthier to teach people to recognize the reasons and rationalizations women have for cheating and accepting the fact that any woman, when put in the right situation, will have no problem …
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:16 PM
1

Ok, you don’t really want a constructive discussion or thoughtful conversation with a question like that. Take care, man.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:07 PM
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Nice, let’s give it a shot. I think telling people that there is a small minority of special women out there who will not cheat, leads to people becoming unicorn hunters and creates a confirmation bias issue that results in oneitis when they are dating someone exclusively. I think it’s much healthier to teach people to recognize the reasons and rationalizations women have for cheating and accepting the fact that any woman, when put in the right situation, will have no problem cheating. Any thoug…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:18 PM
1

Lol did you read the rest of the words or are you just fixated on three of them? Just because I said that a woman will cheat, doesn’t mean it’s absolutely going to happen. Thinking that a woman won’t cheat is foolish. Thinking that a woman will cheat is realistic. Honestly what is your hang up in accepting reality? It’s not like this information makes me stay away from women. I don’t have trust issues. I have a 2 year LTR currently and am not the least bit worried about her cheating. Not because…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:01 PM
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Care to elaborate at all on the topic we’re discussing? I’ve been here for years studying this stuff. What am I being ignorant of? Just because your confirmation bias likes what the other guy said doesn’t mean I have been corrected by him, just that what he said makes you feel better. We’re not here to feel good. We’re here to learn the ways of the world. So what is it that I have said that was ignorant on an epic scale? A woman is only totally loyal to you if you are in fact her perceived top o…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:50 AM
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For a guy named “kill your inner loser” he sure advocates for feeding and caring for your inner loser.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 11:46 AM
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We completely agree. This is just a tough one to flesh out over text. I don’t care if they cheat. You qualify or disqualify yourself in my house. I give you enough rope to hang yourself. If a woman perceives you as her best option, then she will not cheat. If it’s debatable, or you are not the best she can do (in a relationship) then she will likely hamster cheating. Usually a slow descent into emotional cheating then physical to try to seal the deal on a branch swing.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:16 PM
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It’s not a fun pill to swallow. But it is for damn sure the truth about how things are.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:12 PM
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Lighten up buddy. It’s not “insecure horsecrap”. You’re sounding a bit emotionally triggered defending women and their good name... The fact of the matter is that you were these past LTRs best option regardless of whether you thought the other guys that were hitting on your girl were more attractive than you. They didn’t make an impact in the conversation that could hold a candle to you and everything you brought to the table. Good job. It doesn’t change the nature of women. I didn’t even use th…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:59 PM
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You’re mad at yourself. For believing obvious fantasies. Forgive yourself.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:01 PM
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she’s going to cheat on you That’s because she will. This girl will. The second she feels like she has a better option, the switch will flip. It’s not doom and gloom, it’s just how things are. You may always be her best option depending on how much higher your SMV is. She might find out that you’re not going to marry her and then cheat to find a new branch to swing to. You might cut her loose to find her hubby and see that she is still willing to fuck you on the side, cheating on her hubby.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:59 PM
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I get what you’re saying, but hundreds of betas don’t really play a role in the way I see hypergamy. In my mind, they were never in the game. Women only truly love one man at a time. Hypergamy activates when a woman has a mate who she believes is the best possible option for her, and then finds a new mate that she believes to be superior to her current mate. Hundreds of betas exist to her because of a dualistic strategy where she waves the possibility of sex over the noses of many men she does n…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 02:31 PM
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Yes sir. It is much more empowering to know you can walk away from any situation and mean it. Even when she walked away first. In practice, you get a few of these under your belt. You walk away from a few girls that aren’t ghosting you when they aren’t acting like someone you want to be around. You walk away from a LTR. Pretty soon you’re a whole new man. And of course you’ve been improving the other aspects of your life this whole time.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 02:20 PM
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I appreciate the effort to get guys to move on after being ghosted. Overall this post seems to be dealing with the symptoms and not the root of the problem. Too many bandaids for me. Care to discuss? Maybe you’re too short for her; she was happy to bang you once but doesn’t want to do it again. This is not a thing. If you engage a woman properly, escalate with socially aware calibration, and fuck her well, you will get a response. This answer is a cop out for not engaging her hypergamy. Maybe yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 04:58 AM
1

It’s the correct dynamic. Plus I legit want to get away from my ladies to spend time working on projects and hanging with the boys.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:35 AM
1

Lol what does lowering your standards have to do with the light switch effect?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:34 AM
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You’re trying to use an explanation of a behavior as a behavior. The light switch is just a way to describe how a woman’s attraction to you seems to shut down entirely out of nowhere. It is confusing and men don’t understand that it happens that way because that’s not how we work because we can be attracted to many different partners at the same time. Only one man can hold a woman’s heart at a time. A soft next is emulating this behavior, but you’re still attracted and dtf. Creating distance whe…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:07 PM
0

I'd like to explain a concept I think a lot of guys on this sub these days really fail to grasp. Perfect. Let’s hear it. Working from an alt because my main account is banned for calling someone a choice word that starts with F. What are you getting at here, that you’re failing to grasp the concept of attacking a persons point and not the person? A post in asktrp prompted me to write about this tonight. To the rescue. What ya got? In the post, OP stated their goal in life is to sleep with 1000 p…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 05:02 AM
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Right, but still yes. Even asking mentally disqualifies her. But yes, make that money girl. Demote to plate in your head and see how long you can keep her spinning.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:42 PM
4

The classic what should I do? Find new women.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:40 PM
1

Lol I would have just gone straight to fucking then the blowjobs flow freely. If it’s that big of a deal just hit that 69 out the gate. We both agree his big problem is leading with eating her out on the second fuck then expecting her to reciprocate. Cut that shit out then there are no problems.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:14 AM
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If a blowjob is that important to him then he needs to learn how to get a woman so turned on that she wants to shove that dick down her throat. I mean, it’s like ASD, just push through it. Tease her with the dick. Fuck her a bit then pull it out and put it in her face. The whole eating pussy then asking for a blowjob then getting upset and leaving thing is gay as fuck and you know it.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 12:31 AM
2

Well I care about getting my dick sucked so what now ???. Lol, sorry buddy that ain’t it. I’m not gonna pretend to “not care” that I don’t want it. You should want it but not care if you get it. Plus there’s other women out there willing to suck it, so why do I have fuck this one broad ?. You don’t have to, it’s just stupid not to. I know you’re not OP, but the moral of the story is don’t do covert contracts and learn some game. Something something abundance mindset. Obviously always. Secondly I…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 12:28 AM
1

Right
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:42 PM
1

Read up on covert contracts in the sidebar. You’re on some beta behavior shit.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:41 PM
3

If that’s the hill you want to die on. It’s not about getting THIS ONE GIRL to reverse course and give you a blowjob. Jesus, y’all sound like you just haven’t had your dicks sucked enough.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:41 PM
2

This doesn’t make any sense lol. Caring about coming off as butt hurt definitely isn’t “alpha” or “outcome independent” lol. Learning sexual dynamics isn’t about being alpha. It’s about increasing your success rate and getting what you want out of life. Outcome independence is about how a woman views you and how her pussy dries up when you are outcome dependent. You have a better chance of getting your dick sucked if you just fuck her and don’t care about getting your dick sucked. OP ate her out…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:37 PM
2

Right. Who cares if there is a potential lack of genuine desire. She’s placing herself in the pump and dump category. Not everyone has to be a plate on the path to LTR
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:29 PM
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It doesn’t matter if a blowjob is that important to him. She’s just climbing past ONS level at this point. If it was an LTR, then we could have a discussion about her desire to meet all of his needs. It’s a piece of pussy. Fuck it. He doesn’t have to promote her, or ever see her again.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:28 PM
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It’s reactionary, so it’s definitely a butt hurt looking move. It’s not outcome independent. Autistic is not the right term, it just gets hurled around a lot. More of a rookie application of TRP. I’ve been there. Over time you realize how this should be done. Not saying it didn’t work in making her chase you but there are better ways to handle it. She says she doesn’t want to You say, “ok, no worries.” Then fuck her. Then tell her you have to leave after. If you absolutely need blowjobs as a dea…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:23 PM
2

Women, for the most part, are lazy, flakey, boring etc... they care WAY more about their social credit score and this will be a major threat to their social standing when the cloak of plausible deniability is pulled back. ASD freak outs abound. Attractive men who get bad marks for fucking tons of women and not committing will only become even higher status. Beta type men who wouldn’t get the job done anyway, will either get “nice guy points” and maintain loser status, or sink a bit lower. Conver…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 02:50 PM
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ASD is something a woman does that is overtly resistant to sex, so as to appear to not be “easy.” It is commonly connected to LMR but can be anything from “we’re not having sex tonight,” to “we need to stop.” Plausible deniability is something a man typically provides as an excuse to move things further towards sex such as, “you have to come back to my place and check out my record collection,.“ In short, plausible deniability is a man’s leading move toward sex without triggering a woman’s ASD i…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 11:24 PM
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Plausible deniability is what you use to avoid ASD.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 11:09 PM
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That ain’t ASD buddy that plausible deniability
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 10:51 PM
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One thing to note is that this is where most blue pilled guys have their peak success and then later wonder what went wrong. Even a blind squirrel gets a nut every once in a while. When chicks are ovulating they are determined and motivated. Overall, good job doing the work in advance. Takeaways: 1) Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. 2) Hot tub crew 4 lyfe. Bonus: So now sex is on the table and based on what I had seen out of her personality over the past 6 hours I decide she is worth explori…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 10:14 AM
2

So you’re saying to stay rooted and continue to grow eh? Make sure she’s watering and feeding you nutrients and if she slacks off then find someone else to meet your needs huh?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 09:47 AM
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Good post. I too used to hit up a few articles to get right before dates back in the day. One of the best lines when she says something slightly opinionated, "oh, you're THAT kind of girl, I see..." I don't know why, but girls really fucking love this. Should use this in first hour of date. It’s implied preselection/subtle proof of experience plus boldness/confidence, dgaf, outcome independence, abundance all tied up with a pretty little bow of a plausible deniability out. It’s fucking playful a…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 09:34 AM
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In my experience, even when I lock eyes with a girl at the bar, flirt for a minute, then just go in for the kiss within the first 5 minutes, AND SHE SHUTS ME DOWN, she still smiles when I smirk and shrug my shoulders back at her "rejection". It's all in good fun. Sometimes I end up closing that night anyway, sometimes I get a number. The ones that turn their heads are clearly aware that it works by the confidence needed to even attempt it. Trust, as long as you have outcome independence, you wil…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 03:08 PM
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Alright boys well its finally happened the comfort test (i think its a comfort test) of "you only want me for sex/you only talk about sex" Classic Alright so we were texting and she was telling me some boring shit about a purse or something and so I said, "you've bored me bye" You dumb fuck. Covert communication NOT overt. Don’t tell her. Just stop responding. Let your actions speak, then when you speak act as if nothing was wrong. Let her learn. You just sound like a little bitch. and then she …
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:57 AM
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So, what I’m saying is that is base level one. It is always there. It is the bus driver. When it has what it wants, it exists alone. On the flip side, when it doesn’t have what it wants, it gets irrational, or crazy, or makes brash decisions, or cheats, or branch swings, and so on and so forth. But at the base level you’re dealing with a little girl who wants to feel a certain way.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:04 PM
1

Right. “I’ll do it tomorrow” mindset
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:19 PM
10

Are they? I mean is that their real self or do they only act like that in order to lock you down if she likes you? No, its almost involuntary. When a woman is with a man she is sold on (especially right after being fucked well), she can drop all of the complicated masks and layers and just be her true self. Which is a little baby girl who loves her daddy. I noticed that women act like that when they are with the man they desire but not all the time . Right, women are also crazy and get in their …
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:18 PM
9

You can just have casual sex with someone while you work out your issues. Sex and feelings are not actually linked.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:56 AM
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It’s who they really are underneath
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:50 AM
2

Hahaha at least it’s funny to see someone be so dumb.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:05 PM
10

Just carry condoms with you ya dumb ass.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:37 PM
0

Sometimes I demote them in my mind. Then just keep fucking them even though I know I’ll never commit.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:09 PM
2

You’re asking what boundaries are good boundaries to have. You’re either ok with a girl texting other guys behind your back or you aren’t. You don’t tell her. You just leave if she’s not up to your standards.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:04 PM
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Yes. Always. You want the girl to think you’ve fucked 100 different women without actually ever saying anything about it. If she asks, “I don’t kiss and tell” with that charming look you think you have with older women.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:28 PM
1

That being said- she reached out again this morning saying that she knows it’s selfish but asked me if we could continue to see each other. What should I do? Say, “fuck yes, we can still see each other.” This girl wants to have a casual sexual relationship with you, which is what you’re supposed to be looking for. If she wants a committed relationship and checks all the boxes, without being a fuck up or having bad behavior, then later you may offer that. If you’re looking for more than “continui…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:38 AM
5

Keep trying to fuck hotter girls. They’re all that same. Nothing changes
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:24 PM
13

You can’t.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:41 PM
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You should have polarized and asked her on a real date to start. Girls always have a boyfriend. Who cares what she says? You showed up late to your attempt. Maybe you’ll have another chance. “No worries, maybe we can do it some other time.” And leave it at that. If she wants it she’ll make it happen.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:39 PM
2

Just because you’ve heard plenty of men say it works. Doesn’t mean It’s actually a pretty valid method to get into the guts Have you read the sidebar. It’s full of everything you need to know. Passing shit tests Kino Push/pull Escalation LMR ASD Calibration
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:33 PM
2

Lol if that was true for you, you wouldn’t be here asking how to even initiate it. Learn how to escalate sexually and you won’t be trying little beta massage moves.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:28 PM
2

Why do you want to give her a massage? Are you studying to become a massage therapist? Did she say she needs one for some reason? It’s fucking weird to want to do that for no reason and will cause all kinds of problems and roadblocks if you’re actually just trying to fuck her.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:04 PM
1

Because of the possible reactions. Shit tests are to categorize you. You’re either the alpha personality that is fucking her on week nights because she’s a rotation girl who hasn’t earned higher status yet through months of good behavior and vetting. Or You are the beta type personality that will immediately acquiesce and give her what she wants to save the pussy. It tests to see your level of investment.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:02 PM
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https://archive.is/crgHZ Read that LTR wants to solo travel. "Is that okay?" I told her i'm not cool with it. I'm fine with it in general, I do it myself, but not in a committed relationship. (didn't say the following out loud) I specifically left some great plates as only plates because they wanted to solo travel all the time. Good so far. Cue her asking why I don't like it over and over (searching for something to argue against). You’ve clearly done your reading unlike a lot of people around h…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 02:12 PM
1

It’s a shit test. What do we do with shit tests? A&A Pressure flip Ignore Would all work fine here as long as your playful tone is intact.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 02:02 PM
2

WHY?
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:58 PM
2

Oh I thought you said you moved her to be on top
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:11 AM
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I love the concept of being a good master and a good slave. One without the other is fruitless. It’s a great perspective, thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 10:29 PM
5

You don’t let her be on top until after your dick has been inside her. Otherwise you’re making her lead. Total dereliction of duty. It’s your job to make the sex happen.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:25 PM
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Let’s dig in: So apparently TRP is working for me. I have been getting consistently laid. Congrats. It’s nice to be in control of your own life. Plating and letting them break even if they are very attractive and not losing my shot over it. Yep. Gym. Diet. Work all on point right now. Hell I am even having my finances in order in my life for once, so this is a quick thank you to all the clowns that put together the side bar and helped me after my LTR ended and I got back in the field after 5 yea…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:20 PM
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“Simping” in reference to men, is what happens when “the blue pill” is most effective in establishing the feminine imperative frame in someone’s life. The programming leaves a man confused or completely in the dark about the nature of female sexuality, has him convinced of a set of rules that should lead him to his desired outcome, yet actually puts him in a position to only be ripe to be taken advantage of and never capable of achieving his desired outcome. But because “the blue pill” IS realit…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:29 PM
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Hopeless. It’s a fucking joke. A level one shit test meant playfully. Sensitive
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:48 AM
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Start talking about the situation she’s lying about. She will be uncomfortable. Change the topic randomly to something else. Any normal person would be like “what the fuck??! That was out of nowhere!” A liar will go along with it because they’re just relieved the subject changed.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:16 PM
1

This is all I’m pushing for. There are tons of guys out there who aren’t there yet. Be more intentional with your words. “With great power comes great responsibility” or whatever. While we’re discussing, As far as "missing out" goes, I said you might. Sexting does not work for everyone and it's not because it only works in outlier situations, it's because it's advanced game and one of the easiest things to fuck up on. I'm just saying that I've fucked it up enough that I tend not to anymore - sim…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:29 PM
2

Oooook. ASD isn’t a thing you need to worry about. You must be very experienced if you’re asking why a woman says she wants you to cum inside her. Sexting is retarded. Your ego is showing with the whole “I’m so experienced I could never fuck up. So I’m going to endorse some shit most people on here REALLY need to avoid.” You said people are missing out by not sexting. What are they missing out on? Enlighten the class.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:07 PM
1

Lol come on man. Rules are rules for a reason. There’s always an outlier in every situation but there isn’t a lot to be gained from pre-fuck sexting. I have experienced it. It’s just an unnecessary waste of my time. Still fuck the girl without it. Opens the door to an unnecessary loss of the sale.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:47 PM
1

I will add that I usually wait until the following afternoon. Enough time to assume I’m not going to reach out. And I send a statement rather than an invitation to talk. “Had fun last night. Let’s do it again soon.” Then there’s a “fuck yes” or a “no” in the form of enthusiastic response or everything else. Calibrate from there. Keep in mind that a lot of girls will test you by not responding in this many pre-fuck and first week scenarios to see if you send paragraph after paragraph or if you’re…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:32 PM
1

Sexts before actually fucking are against the rules
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:11 PM
1

You’re all over it
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:08 PM
1

Just know that it’s ok to fail. Don’t fear failure. There is always time to pick yourself up and get back on the path. I just went through a similar high stress period where I wasn’t able to focus on the things that are important to me. I hate where I’ve found myself after only a few months, but it’s fine. Today is a new day and tomorrow will be better than that. In a few months I’ll pass where I was before. Just focus on what needs to get done. Decompress when possible. And know that whatever h…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:18 PM
1

Let me clarify, I was assuming she was reaching out and asking about making plans. It’s better to give her a little interaction if she’s less direct. Laugh at her joke. Make her laugh. THEN say you would love to get together again soon but you’re really busy the next few days. “Might be free early next week. I’ll be in touch in a couple days to set something up.” If you’ve already fucked her good, this will work perfectly. A few days pass while she thinks about you. Then boom you’re back in touc…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:13 PM
1

I just say I’m busy and I’ll set a date further out. Once I’ve fucked a few times I’m not worried about flakes.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:23 PM
11

Fuck other women. If she’s changing her pussy and it’s not something you want, then she’s doing it for other future men. Just fuck some bitches and be there with the dick when she heals up.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:23 PM
1

How long have you been with her?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 02:30 PM
1

It’s not any different. A soft next is to correct bad behavior, it’s just more effective if she has to contact you first. Solves a lot of problems, because if she doesn’t, she would have been a waste of your time anyway.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:48 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:44 AM
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No man, you’re wrong. Let me put it in slightly different terms Soft next: You don’t communicate until she initiates communication, then act like nothing happened. Hard next: You don’t communicate again ever - even if she reaches out. Block. And if you ever cross paths, you act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:43 AM
2

Step one is accepting that it’s all done in the grey area. You want answers you go get them. Don’t use the words “hit me up” or “let me know” ever again. Say, “cool I’ll be in touch to set something up”. You missed the window to set a date between the time you got her insta and the next time you saw her and then didn’t do it in person. You’ve telegraphed yourself. She’s not interested. Give it one more shot to prove this. The Instagram post is just you being crazy. Nothing to see there.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:01 PM
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Chances are she was ovulating and the hormones drove her strongly to fuck. So I would count on this being at minimum a possibility with this girl once a month. That being said, I like to text the next day and just say I had fun and we should do it again soon. I’m not doing this to start a convo. She will respond enthusiastically if she wants more. If so, I just tell her I’ll be in touch soon to set something up, then let it bake for a few days before reaching out to set something up.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:21 PM
1

Change preselected to abundance and you’re all over it. I’ll take your pre-flake flake move one step further and tell her you’re so sorry but you double booked the evening and you’ll have to reschedule. It’s like a fucking gold mine in my experience using it. When the girl does flake I either polarize and go nuclear, which works well and she will come out for the planned date or I say something disapproving like “lame” before soft/medium nexting.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:27 PM
5

Just fuck her twice then you last longer the second time by default
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:57 PM
23

The post is clearly meant to connect with certain men who are at that phase of unplugging where they need a little nudge to fully accept what they’ve been learning. It’s good for them to see someone else “put it all together”.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 10:01 PM
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These responses are crazy. This is the most on point post I’ve seen in a while. while smirking Be 100 percent unabashed about who you are Women can’t stand it, but they also can’t resist it.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 08:56 PM
1

Hahahaha it is. Jesus, my girl won’t leave me alone.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 08:50 PM
1

Nah they act differently depending on who they’re talking to
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:32 AM
2

Lol you mean basically all women
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:19 AM
2

Gotcha. Definitely just push forward on hanging out when they talk dirty like that. Otherwise you will make yourself an orbiter real fast.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:47 PM
1

Starting talking to this girl - to my surprise we seemed to hit it off. Then on Friday ~5 pm, she vanished. So much wrong here. Don’t be surprised. Don’t fucking have long ass conversations over text. She replied back this afternoon with a polite apology. My assumption is she was out with someone and he didn't text her this morning so now I am her back up. She has a life and doesn’t fucking know you. She’s not going to spend all weekend texting somebody she’s not even seeing. I didn't see she me…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:42 PM
8

Why did you text her if you weren’t free to go fuck her? Why are you texting her multiple days in a row without setting up a date and getting off the fucking phone? What the fuck is a blank selfie? Why the fuck do you think keeping the conversation flowing is a good idea?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:34 PM
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You really should try building up to that while hanging out. Plant seeds. Build sexual intrigue. Tension. Overt communication makes for bad feels. If you’re going to mention it do it playfully in a sexually seductive way. Build it up in her mind. Develop those tools.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/21 03:38 AM
2

Lol no just don’t learn all the shit you want to know.... I mean really, what the fuck?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:26 PM
0

This is bad advice. Don’t fucking say anything to anyone about it. You don’t want it to be a part of your life and you decided not to let it be. That’s all you need to say if anyone ever figures out
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:40 AM
1

Stop viewing it as a risk. Just be playful and do what you want.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:26 AM
1

Like what you like. Get what you like. Enjoy having what you like. Own what you like.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:11 AM
1

Sure
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:44 PM
1

Hahaha there is a certain tone to say this with that would work very well
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:41 PM
2

Just message her something, have fun, tell her you’re going to text her now that the holidays are over. Then tell her the number didn’t work.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:05 PM
1

That’s literally what every girl does. How every girl feels.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:05 PM
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I just laugh at mine when she does shit like that.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:53 PM
8

You sound just like me at your age. From the “built in philosopher” to the being excited and sharing everything, every thought, every feeling. First, you just need to chill out and read. Filter for the top all time posts. Read the top 200 and all the comments. You will get such a wide array of experiences to draw on you’ll begin to recognize the patterns. Read the sidebar over and over and over again. Read Book of Pook. Read TRM. NMMNG. Just dig in and enjoy the wealth of experiences to build yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 11:19 PM
1

Look at it as an opportunity to master some other form of muscle confusion. See if you can master a high level of difficulty in yoga. Push ups, pull ups, stair lunges. Focus on TUT (time under tension).
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:42 PM
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My god, the real reason sounds better. Really just say “we wanted different things. We ended on good terms”
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:51 PM
1

Hotel, motel, holiday inn.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:11 PM
1

Go for it.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 04:22 PM
4

Hahaha no. Pickup lines usually put you in the worst category. For consideration, what pickup line did you use.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:52 PM
3

Pickup line put you in a category. Women throw up hurdles because only the best men know how to jump em.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:43 PM
1

Viagra
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:39 PM
2

Her body count is over 10.... yeah no shit, sounds like you’d be lucky if it’s under 60. Do the math. Just over the last three party years if she fucked on average only one new guy a month that’s already 36. All party friends will convince her to cheat. She still talking to someone who wouldn’t give her commitment (FWB) she’s still fucking him. Abused girls can never be 100% normal and healthy. So either that or she lied about it, and that’s not a 100% normal healthy person either.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:58 PM
0

Vasectomy
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:52 PM
2

You should be. Now is the time to shut the fuck up and become a model yourself
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:14 PM
1

You should act like you didn’t even realize it happened, schedule a new date, and fuck her. Take it from there.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:05 PM
1

You can either use her interest level to make plans then tell her you have to run. Or just tell her directly that you’re busy and you’ll hit her up later.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:43 PM
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If she’s waiting that long to respond your anxiety is founded. Your gut is telling you something. Learn to trust it, but know what it means. That kind of behavior is not acceptable in an LTR. You should demote her in your mind if it continues. If she’s leaving you on read for 48 hours, you need to leave her on read for 72 hours and do some other shit you want to do. When she pulls back, you pull back more.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:52 PM
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No I mean, I’m always trying to get time away from my LTR. If I can get her to leave me alone I don’t give a shit what she’s doing. I’m always trying to see her less and she’s trying to see me more. Just be happy to get away from her and she will assume the correct mode and be chasing you. Don’t text her. Just let her try to gain your attention. It’s the correct dynamic.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:16 PM
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You need to be trying to get away from her.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:01 PM
2

They all want a relationship out of you
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:56 PM
1

Nope just go do that. Let the love story play out. Escalate when the time is right. Don’t wait too long though. Or rather don’t hesitate and let the moment pass you by.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:10 AM
1

You’re thinking of her as a keeper way before you could ever know that. Leads to over investment and attraction killer for her.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:03 AM
1

She wants to get fucked. Her ASD has been satisfied. Set a date and try to bang again. It will happen. Don’t worry about clingers. You can always block and ghost if you need to later.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:58 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:57 AM
1

Well you’re screwed.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:56 AM
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Nah you just need to learn how to soft next right. Nothing speaks louder than silence compounded by outcome independence and abundance. The point is that you are less invested than she is. When she pulls back, you pull back. You can’t really soft next in an LTR. It’s for plates and FWBs.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:54 AM
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We don’t dig through the trash. That’s the rule of thumb you’re asking about. If a plate breaks, it breaks for a reason. Every time I’ve reached back out, it was not the right move. If they come back on their own that’s a different story. There is a post on this called Boomarang game, check it out.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:49 AM
5

It’s a longer one than average. If they’re still spinning after a year you’re doing more than one thing right.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:46 AM
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Man that’s what these TRP tools are for. SOFT NEXT. Just don’t contact her until she reaches out to you then proceed as if nothing happened. Say nothing to her about it.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:43 AM
3

“Come over then” It’s tits or gtfo.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 06:54 PM
1

That’s what women are for. People have a problem acting a certain way with women without developing feelings or being able to manage them. Just grab them most fun girl you’re fucking and do something fun when you want to.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 06:51 PM
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That’s just not the way. You don’t give attention for bad behavior. It’s like you’re half and half. Just be a dick and ignore people. Or be courteous and light hearted.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 06:49 PM
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You have to earn respect. It’s a covert contract if you expect respect but can’t tell me the terms by which you are to be granted respect. There isn’t a lot to expand upon. You know what covert contracts are. People act certain ways when they’re married. The contract dictates. Men who act like married men when they are just dating a woman, repel her because it makes her uncomfortable. I’m not going to lie, I don’t like you either. You come off as creepy, non-social, self-centered, and reading yo…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 06:28 PM
2

Soft next without telling her to contact you. It’s doesn’t have the same effect when you tell her you’ll be waiting on her call. Because she talked about other Tinder guys I would pull back a good bit. You need to be less invested than she is. I would 100% wait until she reaches out to you to do anything. Balance that polarity. Calibrate. Then set another date and get your logistics right to have the opportunity to fuck. Then escalate with more and more kino as long as she is receptive. And most…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 05:39 PM
3

People pay other people to act professional. You’re acting in a way that has a contract attached to it, but the other people don’t know the terms. Of course that makes people uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 05:27 PM
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My friend, this comes down to a few concepts and a few tools. Every psychologically healthy, normally socialized human shit tests other humans. It’s like a game that the healthy person club likes to play because people who aren’t in the club can’t figure it out and it makes it easier to exclude them from the normal healthy person orgy parties. 1) Outcome Independence: if you’re not emotionally attached to the results of an interaction, you can’t very well get angry about anything now can you? 2)…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 05:21 PM
2

So it’s ok to use red pill for blue pill goals? No. Women are naturally red pilled. The blue pill is a fantasy people sell you to control you and extract your resources. To take the red pill is to accept the nature of humans and set goals that are aligned with reality. These goals are actually attainable and therefore lead to a much happier, healthier, wealthier existence. You know what dread I have to continue to apply in my LTR? I’m always trying to get some time away from my girl to do anythi…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 05:26 AM
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Edit For clarity because some of you are super autistic: I am not asking what I should say nor am I looking for Pill Heads to shout at me to “lift and stay on your mission.” It’s simply a discussion, bros 😂 You sound like the autistic one asking this question to be honest. It like literally not even a thing to have a discussion about. Whoever: “How much do you bench?” Me (with a sly grin): “Who me? I’ve never even been to a gym in my life!” Or Me (with a sly grin): “only lazy people lay down whi…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:44 PM
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You’re welcome buddy. Glad it was received the way it should be. You’ll be ok. Stay overly critical of yourself in regards to sexual relationships for a while. It will click a lot better in the future
/r/askTRP09/01/21 07:49 PM
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Bro, she is crazy, and you are an idiot. Go find someone out of the millions of people that live in your country to fuck
/r/askTRP09/01/21 07:14 PM
2

Let’s dive in Girl I have been seeing is being cold, should I just let things fade away? I was way too available in the past and think she was turned off. She rather stay at home than see me. Hello TRP- Recently I have begun seeing a girl - we have gone in 7+ dates over a month That’s a lot of seeing someone the first month to be honest. You’re maxing out over investment already. and each one was very affectionate, fun, and both seemed to like to see each other. We’ve had sex, and she generally …
/r/askTRP09/01/21 07:07 PM
1

Let’s really break it down, what’s most important? I’m going to call this game, Change The Headline Single mum attached Plate. Obsessed with me and has caught alot of feels wants to lock me down. Should I drop her or tell her I'm not interested other than sex it’s starting to get annoying Single mum starting to get annoying What’s going to make her stop being annoying? You’re not going to marry her. I would personally just ease back ever so slightly. She should notice but not be shocked. When sh…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 10:20 PM
1

Put a certain amount in, see how she is responding to it, adjust, see if the response is more what you’re looking for, adjust, tweak, get it right.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:42 PM
1

Yeah buddy, you do you. I was speaking generally.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:41 PM
1

The point has to be that you’re not mad or butt hurt. You can do it any time you want as long as you’re not actually butt hurt. If you are upset, work on outcome independence and abundance. Focus on other women. Never be butt hurt. In this case I would have hit her with a no worries, maybe we can do it some other time.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:53 PM
2

Every girl is different. Learn calibration
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:47 PM
1

I felt that way many times, but I always get a hotter one the second I stop giving a shit
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:05 AM
1

Something fucking sexy. “My friend left it here but you can use it if you want. I washed it”. She’s probably going to decline and just wear her underwear by her own choice. It just offers plausible deniability to get her clothes off and a little bump of preselection, “you do this kind of things with women all the time”
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:24 AM
1

It’s plausible deniability and preselection. Don’t be thick. Of course she’s not going to wear it. But it’s there (which means another girl did the same thing with you) and this allows her to decide to get into her underwear without you suggesting it. I’m telling you from experience. Yes a girl you’re already fucking or a girl that definitely wants to fuck you will not need this, but a lot of the time if you’re pursuing lots of women, this will be helpful.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:21 AM
5

That was a breath of fresh air. Great data, sources, perspectives. I find that people are afraid to imagine striking out and finding their own place in the world outside of their birth culture. That’s exactly what my great grandparents did when they traveled to my birth country, yet for some reason building my life in a different country gives me an odd feeling. I still entertain it more and more. I would not want to leave my parents and brother behind. I love my culture. But the point is to alw…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 11:48 PM
1

Lol buddy, the definition of hyper is not “many”. You’re posturing to seem better and smarter, but the bottom line is this is TRP. Read the fucking sidebar. The rules for this community clearly state: “New here? Read the following threads and the theory reading below. Read before participating.” Read the fucking sidebar. Stop being an idiot by trying to sound smarter than you are. Hypergamy is about a woman’s innate need to be infatuated with the highest quality male available to her. Her sexual…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:55 PM
1

My advice was to read the sidebar before spouting off assumptions as facts. I mean that. You wouldn’t have been confused if you had read the sidebar for the sub you are commenting on. Just because you don’t like hearing it doesn’t mean I’m being intentionally mean. And really the word technically just means many intamate partners. Link that source to me buddy. Why dont you learn something and do research instead of saying assumptions as if they were facts. Lol. Have a nice day.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:07 PM
1

You’re never going to accomplish this until you get your mindset right. For social circle, have everyone back, guys and girls to party and get in the tub. Then girls will be begging you to get in the tub in the future. One on one, you are getting in the hot tub later for a drink, if she wants to join you. That’s it. Otherwise you invite her over for drinks/dinner and don’t mention the tub. Then just get in there. Have extra girl’s bathing suit (pre-selection).
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:52 PM
1

Both
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:48 PM
2

Is this a shit test or more of a SMV not high enough dilemma? Well those are the same thing. Shit test to determine SMV. You choose your box. She will place you in that box depending on how you respond.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:48 PM
3

No you should read and listen and realize that you would be better off doing anything but holding hands. Go the fuck on and hold hands if you want to. This will happen again. I doubt you’re 29/30 on hookup attempts and also here asking this question, or any question at all for that matter.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:35 PM
2

Lol how about read the sidebar before you come in here spouting off assumptions as facts.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 04:34 PM
4

They’re saying you seem like you just found this out today, but it’s the backbone of the sidebar for ever. You do your reading?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 04:32 PM
3

Holding hands as “escalation” is some gay shit, and it is clearly broke judging by this interaction with this girl. The only thing it escalates you towards is a committed relationship.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:25 PM
3

Haha don’t be a pussy. You think a girl can ruin your rep for breaking up with her, you need to work on that frame buddy.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:23 PM
3

Lol she gave him the opening, as if he couldn’t make one himself, and he still didn’t take it.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:37 AM
4

You posted this trash on 27 different subs. Let’s end our conversation here.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 01:00 PM
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(1) Don’t interpret ambiguous statements as negative. Actually DO interpret ambiguous statements as negative. If it’s not a fuck yes it’s a no. (2) Don’t assume that you know what someone wants or doesn't want. Always assume attraction. But you should develop good social skills and be able to read social interaction and subtext then calibrate your actions. (3) Don’t assume that someone is out to ruin you. This one just isn’t helpful unless you have a serious problem with paranoia, and if you do …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 04:56 AM
1

Hahaha right. Once you understand women it’s a chuckle and ignore. And that’s amused mastery folks
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:59 AM
1

He needs it but he has to do it for himself. Best thing you can do is talk about how great it can be to have all the things he’ll have in his life if he gets his shit together.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:55 AM
3

A but don’t lead with the ask out. Be playful back and forth for a few (2-3) messages then pop the question
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:21 PM
2

You’re clearly inexperienced. You’re going to have to get some failures under your belt. Just trust your gut. If things are going well and you feel the interaction ramping up with more touch and she isn’t stopping you, just find somewhere you can slightly isolate and go for a kiss. I’ve had it blow up in my face enough times to know what not to do. You’ll get there.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:51 PM
3

Anytime man. Here’s my thoughts I posted on the 2020 thread on the main sub: The greatest lessons for me were: ⁠Abundance comes from knowing you can find another woman to fuck with ease, not necessarily having one at your disposal. That confidence comes from years of fucking multiple women. Competence. ⁠A strong frame comes from knowing your reality is the truth and being able to interact with confidence from years of testing out all ideas until you have enough data to believe in your knowledge …
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:10 PM
2

What kinds of "dates" would make sense to go on? How would you frame this in a way that doesn't say "I'm looking for a new LTR"? Actions speak. Don’t be looking for a new LTR and you won’t seem like you’re looking for a new LTR. It’s ok if they think it’s a possibility down the road. But they have to earn it over months and months of great behavior. Amused mastery and a frame in which you believe that you can fuck multiple women and just have fun should keep the signals straight. What are some p…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:10 PM
3

Asking questions with the intention of finding the truth no matter how painful is key as well. Lots of people, especially around these parts ask questions they are only willing to accept a certain set of answers to.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 03:10 AM
0

I think you can answer your own question. And learning how to do that will take you far in this world. Why do women lie - about everything ? What do they hate the truth - unless it makes them feel good ? They don’t want to feel bad. Also, women are competing against other women and they all know and play by the same rules.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:35 AM
2

Shit test buddy. Girls gotta earn that. That’s why she bailed. You won’t hear from her unless it’s just to put you in orbit
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:59 PM
2

They don’t want to hear it from you they want to find out on their own
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:55 PM
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The greatest lessons for me were: 1) Abundance comes from knowing you can find another woman to fuck with ease, not necessarily having one at your disposal. That confidence comes from years of fucking multiple women. Competence. 2) A strong frame comes from knowing your reality is the truth and being able to interact with confidence from years of testing out all ideas until you have enough data to believe in your knowledge and prove it through desired outcomes. Competence. 3) Real boundaries are…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 09:38 PM
0

You don’t trust your LTR as much as you need to trust yourself to keep your best interests at heart always
/r/askTRP04/01/21 12:19 AM
1

Women can only be infatuated with one guy at a time. When she finds someone better than her current BF the light switch flips. If she finds someone more chaddy than chad, it will flip
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:26 PM
3

Somewhere between 2-5 vaginas for someone where you are
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:19 PM
5

It’s like going around your asshole to get to your elbow. The reason this is needed is a lack of self esteem. If you had high levels of self esteem you would realize that you ARE a biblical character and wouldn’t need to trick yourself into doing what’s best for the only person that truly matters in this universe, you.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 05:01 PM
0

You’re right and still need to play it cool. There are a lot of variables at play. Where is she on her cycle? How much contact have you had while she’s been gone? The reality is, if she doesn’t crawl over broken glass to fuck you immediately then she’s not THAT into you. But it doesn’t mean she won’t fuck you again. You’re talking about a plate that you’re actively trying to qualify for an LTR. Let her qualify herself. Or disqualify herself. Be cool. Fuck her when she’s down to fuck. Fuck other …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:58 PM
9

It’s a language you should be fluent in.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:24 PM
1

Why would you? It’s not like you’re marrying her. You got drunk and hooked up with her. You keep using the term “dating”, but you had a ons.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:06 AM
6

You handled the back and forth of texting well. I tell her we’ll only be together OUTSIDE her house from now on. Then she hits me with: Im sorry, Im going to give them some time to cool off, I don’t understand why you haven’t blocked me or ghosted me after everything that has happened but I appreciate you always being there for me and we will hang out soon She’s just being a girl, a little mix of subconscious testing, calling your bluff after what you said. Also, a man with real options would bl…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:11 AM
9

You’re calibrated perfectly.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 12:07 AM
1

I’m talking about understanding women in general.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 05:30 PM
5

Lol they will rip you to shreds if you don’t understand them. That’s why they’re considered the most dangerous playthings.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 05:28 PM
9

Hahahahaha. You know what alpha widowed means right? This is a dumb question. Of course an actual alpha widow will be down
/r/askTRP28/12/20 02:46 AM
1

“Come show it to me and I’ll let ya know”
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:56 PM
4

And I’m saying, you haven’t the slightest clue what attributes a woman is turned on by or else you Wouldn’t be asking this question.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:26 PM
16

That’s because these guys are talking about and thinking about getting to fuck ONE TIME ever. They can not understand women, because they don’t have the requisite experience. That’s why plate theory is such an important step. It gives you the experience necessary to digest all of this.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 07:11 PM
13

Answer your own question. I know you can. Why don’t girls care about looks? Lol...they do. I regularly see attractive girls with the most average/ugly guys. It’s weird because they act so picky but then choose guys like this. They just care more about frame control and how different guys make them feel. Some guys make their lady parts light up and want to have sex. Some don’t. Some make them feel uneasy or sick. I usually assume they must have some other redeeming attributes like personality, ch…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:45 PM
1

The commonly held method is trust but verify. It’s both
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:01 PM
1

Bro, it’s a design to rattle your frame. If you really have abundance you will be unshaken (you weren’t, you just hid it). You don’t talk, you act.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:48 PM
2

You’re subconsciously missing a lot. So a plate Hb8.5 I have had for about a year and vetting I decided to promote to LTR. We have a lot in common and she ticks all the boxes, cooks for me, submissive, buys me gifts, fucks me and sucks me on demand but we had a problem around midway as she was constantly pressuring for a relationship so I had to soft next her for a couple of months as it became really annoying. That’s not someone who ticks all the boxes. One of the boxes is not obsessively press…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:45 PM
8

Just flirt with girls. And know you can pull whether you have three waiting or zero waiting. It’s a mindset. Don’t trick yourself. Just adjust and work until you get there.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:06 AM
0

Missing the point. I covered that. It’s about tone conveying things like being over eager, and being aware of how that comes across.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:26 PM
2

Assume attraction. Escalate and see what’s what. If you’re wrong, she was giving you the signals and that’s on her. No need to explain yourself
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:47 AM
1

There is no “normal”. Do what you like. If you want to have a less enjoyable time to make it last two months longer, that certainly sounds like scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:45 AM
2

You say anything that shows that you’re entertained but don’t really care that much about what’s she’s saying
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:33 AM
9

They want a guy it doesn’t work on
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:32 AM
4

You’re a loser. Psychopaths get what they want.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:31 AM
48

There are no single girls
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:16 AM
-3

I’m going to highlight your mistake areas. Comment if you want more insight. LJBF text, but then contacts me to hang out? Hi all! You are coming across as over eager already. Watch your tone. I'm looking for some feedback on a situation that happened a handful of days back. On the weekend, I was at a small store close to my place to pick up some items, which I usually go to when I don't want to go out to the main grocery stores for a few items. When I was there on Sunday, I ran into one of the r…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:14 AM
1

Ha it seems simple right?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:04 AM
6

Blue pill goals I have tons of meaningless sex with my LTR. OP just doesn’t know how to be in control of his own life. And get what he wants.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:26 PM
13

You think spinning plates gets dull fast, try being in an LTR then come back and compare them
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:31 AM
1

Did this for fun. Lying next to a girl who has taken my cum every way you can think of over the past year and a half. Can't get oneitis? I think I miss that period of my life when I was single just as much as I miss sleeping alone in my own bed It's been a very very long time yet she still crosses my path every other day and I would lie If i I said i miss her when she’s gone. Ever since her i've never really felt like I wanted to do more than nut on her forehead Maybe it was her personality? or …
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:28 AM
1

Happened to me a few months ago. I was about to cum so I told her to shut the fuck up and used her puke to finish myself off then we both laughed hysterically.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:17 PM
7

Find better.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:41 AM
1

Lol you fucking idiot. You have a long way to go if you think that is the right way to be. You’re lucky she even responded at all. The fact that you think she’s shit testing you makes you seem even dumber. If you’re not going to do the work, just give up. Don’t say shit.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:37 AM
12

It takes a lot longer when you waste everyone’s time asking stupid questions like this
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:31 PM
33

I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now? Learn from your mistakes no matter how much you want to ignore them. I let down my defences. She said I was her favourite person in the world, that she loves me more then her own family. She cooked for me, did everything to please me. That shit is temporary. Enjoy it. Maintain it. Let it go when it goes. I thought I had it made. I thought after 2 years we had something that couldn’t just disappear in the blink of an eye. You had it made. You believe…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:26 AM
3

That is the essence of TRP. Read. Learn. Experiment. Write. Read. Learn. Experience. Experiment. Repeat
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 04:46 AM
1

The point is having yourself in position to eject whenever you need to due to unacceptable behavior. Staying in that position usually helps control that behavior. Getting married does nothing but put you at a disadvantage
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:25 AM
10

It’s amazing in my thirties how many 9s and 10s from high school and college are now 5s
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:09 AM
1

You don’t accept “we’ll see” and you never tell a girl to “let you know”. Her: “we’ll see” You: “lol no worries, if it’s not a good day, maybe we can do it some other time”
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:20 PM
1

Respond to my comment in a way that lets me know you understand what I said. Who gives a fuck who followed who when where why what
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:15 PM
1

What the fuck are you telling me? Did you read my comment at all?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:12 PM
1

She’s depressed because she’s dating a little bitch
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:42 PM
2

Lol seems to not work for everyone who is new to TRP
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:13 PM
2

Good job man. Next time add a “maybe” in there. “Maybe we can do it some other time” will usually lead to a course reversal for fear of losing her chance altogether.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:04 PM
4

Your problem is not setting plans like a man. Leaving it open to holla tomorrow has you in a confused bind like a little boy. She already knows how a man sets plans with her so you’re already in the beta box. She will likely flake no matter what you do. She’s got you in check. What move you have is to polarize strongly one time then walk away. Hit her up and tell her you’ve got a fun night planned for the two of you and tell her where to meet you at 8. If she flakes or is non committal message m…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:48 PM
1

What don’t you understand?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:00 PM
1

The real answer is always, trust your gut, try things for yourself, see what works, feel uncomfortable about what doesn’t, update your gut understanding, keep pushing forward, when you encounter a similar situation again, your gut will inform your actions better than before. That’s TRP from 50,000 miles overhead
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:12 AM
3

Do your job. Be attractive. Have so much abundance that you would never even think about hooking up with any of them. Be a “good” mother fucking man. Play the game. Be the guy they all trust, respect, and wish they could find to marry.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:07 AM
7

Lol bro this is a good thing. Learn to read subtext. Learn how women work. Having that happen just bumped you up in SMV. If anything you should be thanking her. Your response should be amused mastery. “Haha oh yeah? That sounds like something she would do.”
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:04 AM
1

Don’t invite him anywhere. If he’s not an old friend that is worth holding on to, cut him loose. I’ve had a close friend who did that shit with everybody’s girls. On the one hand, if they’re willing to go along, then use it as a vetting tool and move forward. Either way the dude sounds like he sucks. My friend does, for more than one reason. We’ve been friends from birth so I’m not cutting him off. And he’s learned to stay away from others girls. But he wanted to start a business earlier this ye…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:01 AM
2

Man, this is a fantastic post. I’ve found that with my creative projects, simply starting while uninspired is enough to get the juices flowing and become inspired. But that’s because I’ve been doing this shit for the requisite amount of repetitions. I like the bit on the red X for grind appearances. Tracking has been effective in many arenas for me. Writing down and looking at goals every day has worked well for me in the past as well. The environment bit just made me rethink the amount of time …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 11:22 PM
31

If a man can not control a woman through his actions alone, regardless of how attractive he is, he will find himself at one point or another in crisis. The point of TRP is to teach men how to stay out of crisis mode permanently and control their own destiny with women. OP comparing his career to a woman on OF is missing the mark. If anything, he should write a report on how to effectively fuck a woman through OnlyFans. You would probably have to employ a ton of DT moves but at least that would b…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 11:13 PM
1

If you want to be in one girl’s frame so much that you get into a completely different girl’s frame... then yes. Keep pursuing a girl that doesn’t respond because she likes you so much that she’s not responding. Girls that expect a guy to be commitment minded early on are trouble at least. And they definitely fuck guys for less. If this “test” was real and you just want to fuck them anyway, then whatever. If you’re thinking about actually committing to someone in a scenario like that, best of lu…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:28 PM
6

Just because you think it, or it’s true, doesn’t mean you should say it out loud
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:08 AM
8

Yeah just testing the waters was a bad one. Just pretend like none of this ever happened and proceed like normal.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:56 AM
24

You’re following her online shit like a simp. You’re asking her for pictures. You’re validating her without being in her presence. She thought you were a boss but you’re acting like a bitch. So she shit tested you to see if you were for real or not. Not responding makes your look like a bitch. She shook your frame. AA was the move. “Being a simp is a full time job” “Lol but it’s got great benefits”
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:20 AM
2

It’s just who’s reality is less fazed. A guy appears to have the reality of a high value male. Sexual, dominant, abundant. Girl pokes at guy. He cracks. His fake persona that he put up to try to fuck this girl crumbles when faced with a challenge, or called into question. The risk of losing the opportunity for sex is too much. She realizes he’s not actually a high value male. OR Nothing fazes him. His reality is strong and real. She steps into his frame of reality to enjoy it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:01 AM
2

Bro it’s a pass/fail test. The point is to show you’re not over invested, outcome independent, have abundance, and ABOVE ALL to show you have a stronger frame, a frame that will stay playful, flirtatious and sexual no matter what is thrown at you. Obviously just go with whatever is most naturally going to lead to being playful, flirtatious and sexual. All should be done with amused mastery. It’s a state of being, not a shit test buster.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:27 AM
1

I’ve had this happen so many times. Women are often awkward in pursuit. They know how to test and they don’t usually have any game. She’s feeling some light dread and wants some attention and some D but doesn’t want to seem over invested. Don’t read too much into it. Any of these will work assuming you want to fuck her again.... Her: “I saw you today” You: “Lol you creeper. What you up to?” She laughs, you set a date. You want to fuck right now try.... Her: “I saw you today” You: “Lucky you. Wyd…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:17 AM
1

“How to cope with tacos being delicious but unhealthy” Enjoy them. Recognize them for what they are. Don’t expect them to be something they aren’t. Don’t think you can turn them into a lean, low carb healthy option to build your life or diet around. Just know taco Tuesday isn’t going anywhere partake whenever you like.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:46 PM
3

But I don’t understand As for sex god method, you’re missing the point. You need to fuck her mind. i push em on my bed handcuff them, spank them hard have a 8 inch dick, spit in their mouth and face fuck the. It’s not some “do A get B” shit. Im not a fucking magician, what else am i supposed to do to get her an overehelming desire to relive that experience. You’re clearly not connecting with these women on a level that creates an overwhelming desire to relive that experience. you’re missing the …
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:38 PM
3

Lol. I can guarantee you 100% sex is not the problem You sound like a guy who knows what he’s talking about maybe I’m not giving enough attention You sound like a guy who doesn’t know what he’s talking about after the sex I got ghosted I can guarantee you 100% sex is not the problem Check your ego. When I fuck girls well and then send them a text the next day saying I had fun and we should do it again sometime, they initiate contact or respond when I reach out 5-7 days later and show up for a se…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:30 PM
1

If you don’t understand why this is a bad idea, then go dig through the trash and learn the lesson the hard way.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:22 PM
2

Keep pushing forward. This will all be second nature eventually
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:18 PM
1

She’s testing you as a way of allowing you to categorize yourself. So categorize yourself. What’s your goal? You want to keep her around and let her play the game?
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:01 PM
2

The same way you would cancel if there was someone else you wanted to fuck more. It’s not plating it’s spinning plates. If there’s only one it’s not a plate. Having more than one solves most problems, this one included. You would know this answer already if you were fucking multiple women.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 04:53 PM
2

Lol it happens but no effort lays are nothing to be mad about.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 11:21 PM
3

Develop your own frame and stay there
/r/askTRP10/12/20 09:14 PM
3

Just like with anything a woman says about how she feels, you need to apply the words “right now” to the end of the statement because her feelings are subject to change. Swing away, just don’t give a fuck about the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 06:37 PM
2

I am talking to bit of hot girls right 7-8s maybe a 9. They 100% have orbiters around them. Always. The question is if these women see them (including me) as options (potential partner/hookup) or merely ego boosts. There are definitely guys they would never hook up with that they still entice with the hope of future sex. The key is recognizing genuine interest and beta bait. The answer could be either but most of the time it’s going to be ego boosters. For a lot of them yes, they do not have a c…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 06:28 PM
5

I don’t live with her. I left her place earlier. I’m at my place now. It’s amazing. I enjoy my space. She hates that we don’t live together. This is because she would benefit from living together. I would not. Highly recommend.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:05 PM
1

You don’t find them, they find you.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:00 PM
0

That’s cool bro. I was a little late to the party as most people had already seen your post and my comments was at the bottom. I also clearly stated this wasn’t just here for you. When I said you’re not being honest, I meant you’re not being honest with yourself. You aren’t ready to make that leap which is fine. Go at your own pace. I would love to continue the conversation but all you have left me with is why you feel like it’s ok to disagree with me and if you’re not willing to accept the hard…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 07:04 AM
3

This is good stuff, but can we take a look and objectively define what “true self” means? By all means. I was attempting to do this by stating that there is no true self when operating with multiple personas. You got to kill the one that doesn’t work and accept the one that does to achieve success. I mean, sure, I like giving girls flowers on the rare occasion or deep conversations under the stars just to hear myself talk, but I also like rough housing them, teasing them, slapping them and getti…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:19 PM
1

Correct
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:43 PM
5

Lol NOT a plate. Find new women.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:10 PM
5

Lol you did not Alpha Widow her. You’re looking for someone to support your decision to commit to someone unworthy of commitment. Just do it and find out for yourself why it was a bad decision then you will make better decisions in the future.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:09 PM
1

It’s the way of the world, bud. As cheesy as the metaphor is, you can choose to take the red pill or the blue pill. You are choosing blue. More power to you.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:06 AM
6

Why would you wait? Rip off the bandaid.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:05 AM
1

Anytime, bud.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:04 AM
2

Edit Got ya. Yeah she’s just not interested. Doesn’t mean there is nothing to learn here though. Read this post about polarizing: Don’t waste your time. When in doubt, force her to act or move on https://archive.is/7H3RA
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:03 AM
1

It does make you look butt hurt. “Sorry was busy with a friend. Wyd?” makes you sound like you’re genuinely a high value male that doesn’t wait around and also not a pretender who is trying to get respect. You set boundaries with your actions, not your words. Also she will definitely know what “friend” is code for. It projects outcome independence, abundance, high value etc all in one text. She will say “blahblahblah nothing much I’m boring.” Then say something funny and make new plans.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:53 AM
1

Let me add also to CALIBRATE. This chick is trying to be your hoe. She’s letting you know that she’s not LTR material and she’s not looking to be. Some plates are lazy bitches that drink all night and sleep all day and come over late to fuck. There will always be different dynamics with different women. Make sure you’re not too rigid in your pursuit of respect. You will leave some good pussy on the table for no reason. Compliance is good but she can also come over and suck your dick then you can…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:48 AM
2

LJBF is usually both because a lot of shit tests are subconscious. This scenario is hard to judge. You should have polarized her by responding back. Though not responding at all will never be the worst thing you can do. You don’t have time for that shit so why would you waste time responding. I would guess if she was actively shit testing you she would reach back out sooner than later. I wouldn’t say shit until she initiates. When she does, just proceed with your date arranging. If she hits you …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:42 AM
75

We’ve all been there. Your idea works but hear me out what happens next. Go on. It’s not an idea, it’s intersexual dynamics. I’ll put it in RP terms as you explain. If i treat the one i want, Blue pill beta persona’s idealized unicorn like the ones i dont want, Red pilled alpha persona’s correctly vetted plate then i dont want them anymore because she got trapped with that other persona of mine. I can’t play out my blue pill fantasy. I have a problem with that fact that I can’t achieve blue pill…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:32 AM
193

You’re not in control. You’re acting differently towards the ones you want than you are towards the ones you don’t want. Treat the ones you want like you treat the ones you don’t want. Easier said than done but this is 100% a you issue and can be solved by looking inward.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:48 AM
1

Hahahaha Jesus dude.... Neither one of of is supposed to go fuck other people but it doesn’t mean either of us physically can’t do it. Like... No matter what promises either of us have made, we can still do whatever we want. Those are literally just words. LTR does not need one person above the other He will be if he asks her to be exclusive. You clearly aren’t here to learn. Take care.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:24 PM
1

are you perhaps one of my old friends? Lol shhhhhh... It was a really concise post. I hope OP took a look at it. Funny how things flow through you sometimes.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:47 PM
1

Haha I’m in an exclusive LTR right now. I’m saying my girl can go fuck somebody else right now anyway. And so can I. Nothing changed when we became exclusive except for expectations. I didn’t gain anything. She treated me great before we were exclusive, and she treats me great now. I’ve lost a bit of freedom. Him pushing for commitment won’t get him anything except heartache, stress, loss of freedom when she sees she is above him.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:33 PM
1

Lol. Love 100% exists. He can love her. She can love him. All without being in an exclusive relationship. And if she wants that and he does too, then great. But he’s not lacking that at the current moment.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:55 PM
1

So why are men supposed to ask a woman for marriage? That is literally the way to signal that the woman has won the game. Lol. You bend the knee to your new master. Don’t be a fucking idiot about this stuff on purpose. You fail to understand he seems to want to have an exclusive LTR with her. He’s open to it. That’s it. He knows better than to take a little bitch role and ask for it. Words don’t mean shit anyway. He doesn't have that and she is also free to fuck other guys. She will always be fr…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:54 PM
1

Lol what in the fuck are you even talking about? Exclusivity is a woman’s game. He is already getting everything a man could want from a relationship. If he asks her to be exclusive it will fuck up the polarity. Honestly you just have a lot of reading to catch up on, I mean you no disrespect towards your lack of understanding
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:40 PM
2

That’s how you like to end a discussion? By acting like a little bitch?
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:31 PM
1

Don’t listen to this guy. Keep doing what you’re doing. It’s ideal. If she does ever bring it up then you know what to do
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:55 AM
1

Watch what they do, not what they say
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:08 AM
2

She’s INTERESTED in the validation that orbiters provide. She not ATTRACTED to them yet she will contact them and lure them back in when they fall off the map. She doesn’t know what this guy is yet. I’m not saying she’s likely to become heavily invested in attraction to this guy overnight. I’m just saying I’ve fucked plenty of girls who hit me with the “I’ll let you know :)” simply by separating myself from the pack through my reaction then polarizing when the next opportunity arises.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:22 PM
2

I hear ya, man. As an alpha type personality, I often have my dick out and am highly likely to be swinging it around. I’ve always viewed it as more of a concept to help make sure you don’t trip over your own dick. Like for me, I know when to check my self and be like, “ok, now is the right time to put your dick away.” But you’re right, there are definitely times where your dick should be flopped over your shoulder as you march to the capital. I like the concept from The Art Of War that you shoul…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 11:12 PM
2

Language is important. She’s 100% not attracted. She is 100% somewhat interested. What she’s interested in is up for debate. Conscious or subconscious, women are women. It’s not a test. because She’s not doing it on purpose to see how you react. If you want to argue that, most of their behavior is involuntary yet motivated and the responses to it are able to be processed consciously by the way the make her feel. Then women base their decision making off of how they feel. It’s built in. Women hav…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:53 PM
3

Ok. All you can do right now is soft next and wait for her to reach out to you. I’m sure she will, whether she is attracted or not. The next move is to make her laugh one time when she reaches out then tell her you’re free on x day at x time and she should join you for x activity. She will accept or not. If she doesn’t but she offers a different day/time you’re in. Otherwise cut her loose.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:23 PM
3

Did you ask her out for a specific day/time?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:14 PM
10

My girl was complaining today about wanting to move in together, get a dog, have stability etc. She said without that, “I’m worried you’re going to leave me”. I said, “You should be. You should always be worried about that. That’s how this works. I’m never going to do anything that makes that go away. You are in charge of making sure that doesn’t happen.” Fuck outta my face with that weak shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 10:11 PM
3

Tell me exactly what you said man. I can’t tell you sound advice without the facts.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:06 PM
5

It 100% means that meeting up with you is not a priority to her. She may have other things going on that should take precedent over a date. She may have other guys that she places above you she’s trying to see instead. She may not be into you at all. Likely she’s somewhat interested and wants to see what kind of guy you are (ie. How you react to this). Do you wait for her? Do you over pursue? Do you make other plans? A girl can tell a lot and categorize you from this action or inaction. Women co…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:02 PM
1

You shouldn’t have found her and contacted her. You’re supposed to be a man and march into the unknown to conquer it. Recognize that reaching out ahead of time allowed all of this to transpire. Of course it was on her mind. And every girl wants a good fucking, especially if she can do it without anybody finding out. You were supposed to lead the situation in a way that allows it to “just happen.” There is shit testing and ASD at play. Just be light hearted and playful when you get there with a h…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:41 PM
2

This. You are not her boyfriend. Don’t pretend like you are. Minimal concern that is not prioritized over your own choice of dinner or need to do laundry.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:31 PM
1

“I still do and you better hope it stays that way”
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:28 PM
18

Use it to your advantage or perish
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:04 AM
2

Just push through.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:55 AM
5

Bragging is annoying. No one really wants to know how the sausage is made. If they do they’ll ask.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:25 AM
1

Sorry bro. It gets way better
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:24 AM
36

Sell him on a future without her. Don’t criticize him. Don’t make it about you. Or her. Make it about his amazing future without her
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:23 AM
1

If you need someone to talk to message me.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:21 AM
2

Go to selfauthoring.com and complete the self authoring suite. It will change your life. It uses the well proven studies of re-wiring your brain by writing about yourself. If you have memories that cause you stress or anxiety that are over 18 moths old, you just haven’t fully articulated the experiences in order to properly learn from them. The suite guides you to write about yourself so you can articulate them and extrapolate out the wisdom. Then boom. The pain goes away.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:19 AM
1

Anxiety is just excitement misunderstood. It’s good to be excited. You just have to see it for what it is and harness the excitement.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:17 AM
1

You work out. You dress well. You’re well on the way already.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:16 AM
1

It may not seem like it right now but most of your problems are just circumstantial and circumstances change.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:15 AM
2

Bro. It gets better. I’ve been in your shoes. I’m surprised by how much better it gets. God I never imagined how good life gets when you just put one foot in front of the other and keep your head down and eyes forward.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 08:14 AM
7

Nope. Step one is getting a god damn date. Approach, go online, do whatever you can and keep trying until you get one. Step one ends when you fuck a girl and then you start cycling over and over again in step one. That is step two. You continue step two until you’re fucking multiple women at the same time who are regularly seeking your companionship. Then boom you have plates and that is step 3. You spin the plates and keep a rotation and let them fall and break and replace them in stride all th…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:35 AM
7

You keep listening to what she says and not paying attention to what she does. You already have what you want. Females are the only ones that benefit from exclusivity. You are living the dream and you don’t even know it. She’s doing everything you could ever want right now. Don’t miss the forest for the trees. It will never get better than it is right now. Just enjoy the ride. Pull back a little here or there and watch her start chasing a lot more. Bang other girls from time to time. She will ev…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 07:02 AM
2

Getting plates is not step 1
/r/askTRP05/12/20 06:44 AM
9

You do not need to worry about this right now. That’s level 4 Start at level 1
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:34 AM
26

Go no contact. You’re not going to stop having feelings for her without becoming a complete psychopath. That takes years. That kind of immediate mental break would be disastrous for you if you were successful. Cut your losses bro. The best pussy is new pussy. Wish her well and just drift away.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:17 AM
1

First be aware that what attracts a woman and what turns a woman on are two different things.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:12 AM
16

It’s not one size fits all. Calibration is key. One calls fucking “making out”. One likes to ask if she can come “cuddle”. One needs a little bump to get past her ASD so I’ll invite her over to “make dinner.” One is a raging slut and I’ll tell her to come put my dick in her mouth. One likes to be sexually warmed up so I’ll tell her to come over Friday and “wear something fun.”
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:09 AM
2

Part Two This is from u/itswr1tten post “Narcissists, BPD and you” Key Definitions Depend on "narcissistic supply" Cluster B have a clear goal: fuel their own self obsession. This is termed "narcissistic supply" and applies to those that aren't strictly narcissists. The most important thing to understand is that they care for nothing but this supply. The rest of their words, actions, and beliefs are an act to further the supply. This is not posting your ass on instagram, or putting hoes before b…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 04:51 AM
2

Part One So much to point out and remember here. A lot has been touched on by other commentators. All wisdom I’ve either learned here over the past 5 years or from personal experiences. I’ll play a fun game to try to tie them all together. Disclaimer: This is not just for you OP Young Man Field Report- Good job having a success with a thought to contribute to the collection of experiences here. Happy Relationship Right now. Remember whenever women say anything you must attach the phrase “Right n…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 04:50 AM
2

Anytime. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:09 AM
9

Go full beta. Make her disgusted at the thought of you. Let her break up with you. Or Talk to her parents and support system. Tell them what you’re going to do and what you’re worried about. Pass the torch.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:04 AM
19

Transcend. There is a phase where people get stuck trying to use the red pill toolbox to achieve blue pill goals. Then there is the phase where people achieve red pill goals with the help of their trusty tool box.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 02:01 AM
1

Hahahaha. Well dude. If you can handcuff yourself to someone who says things about you being her boyfriend, then you could most certainly have kissed her. Worst thing she could have done is slapped you. And I promise that would not have happened.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:54 AM
1

Lol ok. I’ve spent my entire life in America. We most certainly do. And I’m not talking about the first date here but whatever. Your age bracket can change things if you like. The spirit with which I recommended picking her up like a man, is the same spirit with which you should have kissed her. Or not. Whatever, you’ve got decades to get this right.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:42 AM
4

I believe your post is an intentional misapplication of the logic. Maybe you truly don’t understand enough to connect the dots. “Think as you like but behave like others” is a Machiavellian tactic. It is based off of the concept of gaining the most power possibly achievable. To begin to understand it you would first have to understand what real power actually consists of. For the sake of discussion, give me your definition of power and we can go from there. And if you need the obvious qualifier:…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 01:37 AM
1

Nah bro. You literally handcuffed this girl. You are supposed to escalate the kino before you get back to the house. Then pick her ass up like a man and carry her to the bed. Then fuck the shit out of her. You built all that tension then let it die like a pussy. She thought that was going to happen. You let her down. next time we’ll handcuff each other Is code for I want you to fuck me. Not buy literal handcuffs and use them like some gay middle School crush.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:22 AM
1

She will know. Don’t explicitly tell her that but preselection, abundance, competition engaged. It does a lot more than that. It puts her in your frame - which is one of a sexual man who is comfortable with casual sexual relationships. It establishes that you dgaf and are not afraid to lose her. (ie. abundance, outcome independence)
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:15 AM
1

I gave 🙏 emoji which is vague. Lol. Hilarious. Glad your able to process what you did wrong. I’m going to give you a golden bullet. Use it sparingly over the rest of your life. Text her and tell say “Sorry I completely screwed up and double booked Saturday night. Maybe we can do it some other time.” Then wait as her hamster goes into overdrive. When she figures out what to say back to you, just be super chill, not over invested in meeting up, and make plans for early next week if that’s what she…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:25 PM
3

I said I’ll see Mistake. Be decisive. At least she’s offering another day. She’s got two strikes. I would have told her you’ve got plans for Saturday but can do (insert another free couple of days). You can’t be too available. She will subconsciously lose interest by her own devices. Did you really just say “I’ll see” and leave it at that or did you say something else? I would reach out and tell her that you won’t be available Saturday but will reach out early next week to set something up. That…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:04 PM
2

Yeah bro, it caught you off guard and shifted you off-center. You need to recognize that words don’t mean shit from her so telling you she hasn’t been with anyone doesn’t mean she hasn’t. She was probably lying to find out where you stand as a man. Fake “mild inflammation”, withhold sex, tell you she usually fucks other guys but has only recently been with you, wait for you to react, see what shakes out. I would have said, “cool, go get tested and let me know what you find out. I haven’t noticed…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:14 PM
8

It’s over. You told her she was your only source of sex. Suicide. Say hey if you cross paths and act as if nothing occurred at all. Flirt with other women at the event. Bring a woman with you.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:56 PM
4

You made her pussy tingle. Maintain that. Light Kino. Isolate her in some way. Kiss her and kino more sexually. Then pull back. The kill shot is not seeming too eager to fuck her while having logistics, plausible deniability, etc set up to do so. Pull her. Make sure it just happens. You lead, she will follow.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:41 PM
1

You are giving in to her ultimate strategy by giving up exclusivity. There are hotter girls and more fun to be had outside a relationship. If she wants to do something to lose what she has with me, fantastic! I’m looking forward to it. This attitude usually makes you worth being faithful to. And if not, fantastic! Haha You can’t control a woman. You can’t stop a woman. But you can be the thing she’s always working hard to get or hold on to.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:17 PM
2

No I was angry at them. I was asking if you have forgiven yourself separately. Sometime that is something people overlook in resolving issues that plague them. Check out selfauthoring.com the past authoring suite harnesses the power of writing about yourself to re-wire your brain. When a memory over 18 months old still causes an emotional response, then you usually haven’t fully articulated the scenario. This shit really helped me understand myself and move past some things, including that situa…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:56 PM
2

No. You are always the same guy. Be that guy. That’s what is so appealing. Don’t change the equation. Down the road it’s ok to care for her but always put yourself first selfishly. Never be mean JUST to be mean, or to elicit a response. Never be nice JUST to be nice or elicit a response.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 02:44 PM
3

Have you forgiven yourself for letting that happen? You surely wouldn’t let it happen again. I got jumped by 10 guys when I had a broken leg one time. I had a lot of anger for a long time. I couldn’t defend myself. How could people do that? So many things plagued me. I’ve finally put it behind me though and am at peace with the situation and myself.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 02:41 PM
10

Realize they were undeveloped humans and let it go. Find a way to help others through your story.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:23 AM
1

I'd say it's contextual, and you can't just say being called an asshole is good, but being called a dick isn't. It depends on the circumstances and the female emotions behind it. Of course. I’m just speaking from experience with lots of different women. And the common cliche that “women love assholes”. And the shared experiences of tons of other men. I guess my point in asking is to say that you don't need to be a jerk (or act like one) in order to be respected and desired by women. Most definit…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 05:12 AM
1

I'd say it's contextual, and you can't just say being called an asshole is good, but being called a dick isn't. It depends on the circumstances and the female emotions behind it. Of course. I’m just speaking from experience with lots of different women. And the common cliche that “women love assholes”. And the shared experiences of tons of other men. I guess my point in asking is to say that you don't need to be a jerk (or act like one) in order to be respected and desired by women. Most definit…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 05:11 AM
2

I'd say it's contextual, and you can't just say being called an asshole is good, but being called a dick isn't. It depends on the circumstances and the female emotions behind it. Of course. I’m just speaking from experience with lots of different women. And the common cliche that “women love assholes”. And the shared experiences of tons of other men. I guess my point in asking is to say that you don't need to be a jerk (or act like one) in order to be respected and desired by women. Most definit…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 05:07 AM
1

It’s more of a “if you know, you know” situation. The connotation of “asshole” in the female lexicon is a positive, slap on the arm as a reason to touch a guy who just made her pussy tingle. Being called an asshole is a code word much in the way that someone is a “friend”. Plausible deniability, PowerTalk, basically the way she says she likes your naughtiness without saying it directly. Protects the ASD. God, it communicates everything you need to know. Ya know? When ya know, ya know. A dick is …
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:01 AM
1

You want it to happen, don’t care to much about it.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:02 AM
1

Men are the container women are fluid and take the shape of the container. You don’t change her shape. You shape the container and train her on what shape the container is. She pours herself in as she believes in you as a leader and a winner.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:00 AM
1

“I’m looking to be an awesome guy and have a great time. I’m open to anything else that comes along with that”
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:52 AM
1

Just pull back and don’t respond to everything she says. By all means tell her you were busy and connect with her when you can.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:50 AM
2

Plate plays hard to get sometimes. She’s trying all the tools in her tool chest. Same thing we do here. After I don't holla at her for couple of weeks and finally do after, she plays hard to get. Calibration my man. The answer usually lies within. You recognize the cause and effect. Now act on it. Text her a little sooner than that and see if that changes things. Maybe once a week. Texted her Me: hey, saturday movie night over at my place;) She: I'll think about it. Drop the wink and don’t alway…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:45 AM
1

Play stupid games, win shitty prizes.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:29 AM
3

Yes. It’s the correct response. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:28 AM
4

Assholes and dicks my friend. Two completely different things.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:26 AM
6

Preciate ya. Nail on the head.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:48 PM
8

Lol exactly. Well said.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:48 PM
11

Nah bro, it’s not overthinking. You’re advocating under-thinking, I’m advocating understanding. I learned this shit through experiences and reading. Don’t even have to think about it now, it’s second nature. Gut instinct. Do you understand Pavlov’s Dog? Do you know how conditioned response works? You get that if acting like a bitch leads to being fucked really well every time, then someone will act like a bitch and cause drama for that reward? You familiar with the concept of the emotional rolle…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:46 PM
3

Lol there is no proof for anything you read here. You have to go out into the real world and experience it for yourself. We come here to compare notes. Go and do, then compare your notes to this guy’s notes. It’s nothing more and nothing less. To OP u/crisisknight thanks for sharing the shit you may or may not know about shit, and adding to the wealth of perspectives and experiences we have here, man.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 08:36 PM
84

This can backfire. Make sure you don’t do it soon after. She will get programmed to do the negative thing with the positive reward. She will get addicted to the roller coaster of lows and highs. You want to end that bad behavior it need consequences beyond having to say some words to be absolved.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:29 PM
2

Whats a good mix in commitment and sex For plates? 0% commitment 100% sex Have some hard time with plates that dont text back or just ignore me after sometime and thats okay, but i wanna know how i can hold them longer if possible. Stop having a hard time with them not texting back or ignoring you. That will break them. Have one plate that starts to gate sex and playing hard to get, what does she want from me? She wants you to leave her alone until she wants to see you for sex again. Do i need t…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:41 PM
1

Get more plates. You’re only going to break this one. You don’t manage plates directly. You manage them indirectly by managing yourself.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:19 PM
1

He’s saying you’re thirsty, are developing oneitis, and are operating out of a scarcity mentality. If you jerk off it will clear your mind then you can read your post for the pathetic thing it is and see where you have gone wrong
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:14 PM
3

This. You’ll figure out really quickly what works and what doesn’t. More importantly how to frame things to get what you want.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:27 AM
9

There are two levels. You’re hitting on one - making sure you have enough time for you. The other is making sure you don’t have too much time for her. This varies throughout the month, year, duration of the relationship. You have to base it off of her level of attraction and always be increasing/decreasing. It’s fluid. Just be aware that she can and will lose attraction from availability. My girl will call me every night around the same time if we’re not spending time together. Sometimes I’ll te…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:24 AM
3

Do look through the phone if you want to. It will be enlightening on many levels. Don’t ever talk to her about it. Just inform your own decision making. No need to drop her. Just know who you’re dealing with. Again I repeat NEVER speak to her about it. Don’t ask questions you already know the answers to. Just get what you want out of the situation and drop her when she stops providing it.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:14 AM
1

“I don’t usually do threesomes on the first date” If she seems receptive you just opened the sexual frame for the evening and you can proceed then try to isolate her further into the evening or make a threesome happen. If she isn’t keen on the sexual vibe it’s a cock block move and you should respond: “No worries. Enjoy time with your friend. Maybe we can do it some other time.” It’s called “the takeaway” and it works like a charm to supercharge the hamster.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:30 PM
1

But really, what can you do to stop sexual harassment besides extreme laws? Have abundance and social awareness. You will never overdo it with a woman if you have abundance. You will be too preoccupied with other women to spend too much time and effort, being creepy and pushing too far. You will never overdo it with a woman if you have social awareness. You will recognize social cues and move on because you have abundance and there is no need to push further with a woman who is not receptive. Th…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 10:22 PM
2

It was the right time for new challenges. Staying put was not going to lead me to the life I wanted. That was almost three years ago. This has been a successful period in many aspects of my life. If not for the pandemic and lockdowns I have a feeling it would be even better.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:29 PM
2

You’ve got a lot of top level guys in here giving advice. Here’s a post to read by u/whatsthisgarg https://archive.is/DG1Ed He has a few on the topic. Search his post history to learn some things. You shouldn’t say a damn thing. But if you feel compelled, one subtle move you can use is: “does that sound like something someone’s girlfriend should be doing?” Don’t ever get more overt than that. She can answer however she likes. She decides what she wants. You act accordingly.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:05 AM
2

Done it. Would recommend. Find a good situation and go for it. It’s exciting to establish a new social circle and gain new experiences. Be wary that there will be people along the way you won’t recognize for who they are right off the bat. Coming from somewhere you’ve been for a while, life is much more rigid and easy to figure out.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:21 AM
2

Decide that you want to do it. Get excited about doing it. Then do it. Most anxiety is just misunderstood excitement. You just need to decide it’s what you want then realize it’s good to be excited about it.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:38 AM
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Ok. That’s the beginning of your problem right there. how was your night Is bad for multiple reasons. One, you’re begging to dive into her frame. A man worth a damn sets the frame and she steps inside. “Had fun last night. We should do it again sometime.” Sets the positive frame. Validates her without being a pussy. Squashes any ASD because you want to see her again and she’s not just a pump and dump (whether she is or not). This text sends a positive vibe and leads her in the direction of sayin…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:15 AM
2

What was your initial text message to her?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:39 AM
2

Okay so first, regarding accepting her friendship. Yeah the call was made before I was RP, but I dont regret it at all. I firmly believe that we couldnt be friends so I set that straight. You’re missing the lesson on purpose here. You do yourself a disservice and put yourself at a disadvantage by saying no being friends with a girl that is in your social circle. Also, calling back and saying no instead of yes is just a little bitch move designed to control the situation. Drop the noble honesty a…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:13 PM
3

I’m going to be critical, but this is what you need to hear. Okay, ex I work with broke up with me year ago. Asked for friendship. I accepted and called back and said nah next day. You are already coming across as a butthurt little bitch. You say “sure” to friendship then don’t bother actually having a friendship with them. You can say no if you’re never going to see them again. Calling back to reverse course is just the worst thing I’ve ever heard regarding the “post breakup friendship question…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:16 AM
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