"You cannot change her" versus "Train your bitch!" - What is this contradiction?

St31nway · 2020-12-01T20:24:26+00:00

If she’s already hoed around and ridden the cock carousel, you can’t change her.

But, if she has never been in a relationship before, you can train her because she has no previous experience.

day2right · 2020-12-01T20:37:44+00:00

Training a girl requires a couple of prerequisites: - no red flags - Low partner count (inexperience)(see point one) - is she an LTR?

If all of the above is true then for sure. My current LTR, was where we started a more egalitarian setup as frankly I had just met her and couldn’t tell her straight up my “outdated” views as she was inexperienced and nearly every girl has been exposed to some feminist cancer ideologies so it would have came off too strong but I quickly pushed to make it one where I’m in charge and she folllows. She happily agreed along, as she simply desired me more than losing out on the equality part. Right now our relationship is one where I dominate and she seeks out my approval, advice and is submissive in all matters. Working perfectly.

I had to train and guide her on this dynamic and set the tone in our early months of dating. She even comments how wrong it might seem in 2020 but immediately follows with “we are different and I love it”.

Set expectations, if she truly sees you as her best option then she will conform to your wants. AWALT still applies so you have to keep lifting and keeping things fun and alive as the man.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-12-01T21:10:48+00:00

by withdrawing your Time and Attention (punishment) from bad behavior and rewarding good behavior with what the feminine craves: the Attention of an attractive man, you Train her to behave in ways you find pleasing.

Note, in the short term, you're not changing her core. You're simply changing her behavior to match your desires, through the simple reward and punishment routines, Training.

What you cannot change is the evolutionary wiring and predisposed behaviors the hind brain (hypergamy, AF/BB, tall+jawline+muscley=sexy) so don't fight those - on the contrary: leverage those behaviors and predispositions in your Training methods

in spanish, there are 2 types of states-of-being: 'soy' and 'estoy'. they differ:

I am hungry- a temporary condition (estoy)

I am left handed - not temporary (soy)

think of it like that, you're working on her ephemeral state or behavior through Training her, not trying to rewire her permanent being.

can the latter actually happen? who cares. AWALT, if she acts up, find another.

2020-12-01T22:34:53+00:00

You can changer her behavior. You can’t change her nature.

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-12-01T20:25:10+00:00

Well, all good bank robbers who have never been caught have 3 common points:

They're good at what they do.
They choose a good bank to rob. (a relatively safer one)
They know when to get out.

Go figure.

One other point is, best qualities in a woman are submissiveness, innocence, and integrity. A woman who has all of them are so rare, but they make it so much worth your time.

They're submissive, so they'll follow you and won't get mixed up with the misandry bullshit.

Innocent, so, they will not try to play games with you and will come as a blank slate. Combined with submissiveness, as a strong man, you are free to write in rules in her book as you wish.

Integrity, so her slate will not come with already written shit rules, will value her body, won't be as crazy, won't get in relationships just because she can. Will not date dark triad men, which requires a lot of power to do for a woman, so dark triad men won't make them alpha widows.

That is where you come in, as a good, and a strong, masculine man. You make her soul completely yours, and she's in submissiveness to you forever.

Now, that is a girl I would marry. This kind of women are so rare, that I met only about 5 of them in my whole life. (my body count is pretty high)

nexther · 2020-12-01T22:37:50+00:00

There’s only one girl i’ve successfully “trained.” She’s 18 and now basically entirely obedient... in fact she went from depressed before she met me to super happy now.

2020-12-01T22:54:31+00:00

its a good question

Cant change is referring to instincts. Training means modifiy behavior by working with those engrained instincts.

Think of an untrained dog in room with a juicy steak on the table. He wont hesitate and will go for it. Same with most bitches today out on girls night when she sees Chad. She will jump on his cock without blinking

Now imagine a dog who gets beaten on the nose with a rolled up newspaper EVERY time he approaches the table. Mostly expect good behavior but its still a dog.

Same with women. If they think you will find out and definiltely walk, and you are her best option, she probably wont cheat.

key word probably

ClickKlakk · 2020-12-04T01:00:47+00:00

Men are the container women are fluid and take the shape of the container. You don’t change her shape. You shape the container and train her on what shape the container is. She pours herself in as she believes in you as a leader and a winner.

Title	"You cannot change her" versus "Train your bitch!" - What is this contradiction?
Author	BestVersionOfMyself_
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Date	December 1, 2020 8:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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