Went on a tinder date, she was well interested. Single mum and flaky/trouble type in general. Anyhow date 1 was a cafe. Date 2 we cooked together at my house followed by heavy making out.

Along the way i never paid much attention to "the game". After date 2 i asked if shes free sunday or monday, she said tuesday and i confirmed. Tuesday she said sorry cant make it can we do thursday.( I realise i was an idiot to be easily obliging!!) Thursday she cancelled and asked to move it to Saturday. I said ill see.

I know i fucked up. If she gets in touch saturday im planning to cancel followed by a long no contact and let her work (in an attempt to get back the power). Obviously if she doesnt chase that's it.

Keen to here constructive critisism and for your pro tips and advice. I realise I desperately need it!

Edit: ill be out of town for 2 weeks and told her already, which was a mistake as I could have used that as no contact (with her thinking im in town). Also, we dont text much as I just text to arrange dates. Which she has been re-scheduling, then cancelling.