I’ve been in a relationship for almost four years. Up until a few months ago, I came to the conclusion that I was not a monogamous type. I’m not the type of man that wants to live with someone 24/7 with little to no privacy besides work at the age of 23.

The deal? My gf has a lot of mental baggage. She has threatened and done harm to herself many times, if we argue/if I try getting time to myself/etc. I care for her as a person, I do. However staying in something I don’t want to be in has turned me into a bitter and angry person, someone I don’t like to see myself becoming.

If she truly did something to herself or worse, I don’t think I could live with the guilt, even though I know her actions are her own and I’m not supposed to be responsible for somebody else’s happiness, I still wouldn’t able to live with the fact if she did something to herself after I broke it off.

What would you do?