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It's just another shit test. You either pass or fail, but the answer is public and permanent.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:49 PM
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If I’m committing to still being with her after the first few years then yes, I’d be liable for child support anyway if we split up so avoiding marriage is less of a concern. No no no no no. There's plenty more at stake. Like equitable split of your assets and alimony. State law and circumstance will play a role here. Unless she out earns your future earning potential by a lot, do your homework here.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 08:13 AM
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I think this post just convinced me to unsub this place
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:33 AM
1

I hope you seek the therapy you need to deal with what would be so traumatic to anyone, being molested so young by a family member. I'm curious to know, though, do you ever just throw out the Red pill rule book and just go all in with a partner you feel worthy ? Sure, it's the oldest story ever told, and without fail time after time men have been thoroughly betrayed and devastated by acts of infidelity & indiscretion. Hence the basis of the origins of trp philosophy. How people use the understan…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:09 AM
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It feels that way because it is that way. Welcome to life soldier. No one should have ever told you it was going to be easy.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:18 AM
1

It's like they don't even try to pretend they've read the sidebar even in summary... Thanks OP for the mega cringey story!
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:03 AM
4

Obvious answer - firearm. You can't grapple your way out of being shot at from 20 feet away. Knives don't work particularly well in this scenario either. Other helpful solutions: Get a big ass dog. One with strength and intelligence, or at least has one hell of a bark. Install automated lights around your entire perimeter. Install additional physical locking mechanisms to your doorways. Burglars hate effort and risk of exposure.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:29 AM
1

Ahhh to be 25 and have nothing but all the right answers...
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:38 PM
-1

Men face the world and its challenges head on. It's through struggle and strife that which we grow.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:14 PM
1

Save up just enough to move out and be on your own. There's no greater stunt to your personal growth than living with mommy and under daddy's rules/healthcare. Next step, get out of all debt. Be serious. Be intentional. Be focused and disciplined with that goal in mind. Then you can really ramp up savings and investment and have set a lifestyle cadence that won't burn through your natural salary increases over time.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:59 AM
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Food and a house (living with my mother and brother who I am sick of but whatever). If you have a decent income, why the hell are you still in the nest?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:03 PM
5

It's literally unreadable. Every post is absolutely cringe. Then they can't even have enough courage to keep it posted. They delete the whole thread in their rightful shame.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:43 PM
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How to get around having a baby face? Own it? Is there anyway I can work around this phaggotry? Don't be phaggy about it?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:37 PM
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I hate myself, and my life feels like shit. Ahh to be young again. Youth is truly wasted on the young.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:02 PM
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No not personally. Assuming your macros are equivalent in either case, and caloric intake is equal, of course. It is far more enjoyable. Perhaps some differences in satiety, but not by much.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 01:20 PM
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Yes I've been there. Here's what I did. (It's a real shocker) I started eating meat! Which begat eating even more meat... Now it's basically the only thing I prefer to eat.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:49 AM
1

Here's the only way it works imo. Step 1: she tells you it happened. Having to uncover it yourself and give her no other option but admission is about as bad a place to start. Step 2: assume whatever it is you were told is only 1/10th of what actually happened. If you can imagine, accept the most obscene hentai space cyborg octopus level stuff you could ever imagine, and then be able to forgive and accept that girls will do girl things, then you still might have a shot. Step 3: She has to embody…
/r/askMRP17/02/20 09:45 PM
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You have two butts?
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:29 AM
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The point is, I feel played. I feel fucking played by a girl. Like a little bitch. Funny, you sure are whining just like one too. I feel too humiliated and fucking played so it's obviously a soft next. Or am I an idiot for not hard nexting right now? Believe me, I feel totally jaded now. More whining. Oh, I get it, your ego got smashed on the rocks so you thought you might cry on the internet about it. Actually I think I'll do the same as that girl and walk out on this thread a bit early...
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:26 AM
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Raise a family. Work on side projects for additional income Read for both knowledge and mental stimulation Home improvement projects & general keeping shit together maintenance Lots of cooking, pasta & bread making Passion projects to expand & sharpen professional skill sets Meetups Not an exclusive list.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:02 AM
1

"Funny, I was about to ask you the same thing!"
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:52 PM
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I don't have a sure fire answer for you, but I have some suggestions. I don't always work 80 hour work weeks, but I do in spurts of time as side projects present themselves. I also juggle this with a family of young kids. You lift. That's essential. It peps you up and keeps you in sync and good rhythm from day to day. Time of day adjustments might help here. I've recently switched my lift schedule to the absolute earliest opening hours for my gym. I'm up before 5 and I'm lifting for about an hou…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:16 PM
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I was going to go with "dad left at their most formative years" angle.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 09:32 PM
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So what are you going to do.about it. Whine cry and sink into nihilism like the rest of your 'wokeboy' 'redpill' bros? Do something good. Do something fun. You didn't get a choice to be admitted on this ride, but you can choose to do with it what you will since you are on it anyway.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:38 PM
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Kids whose job is solely dedicated towards achieving high mark grades is neither fun nor a good measure for future success. Spoiling your kid by spending on them indiscriminately does not guarantee them a successful future either. If anything it can become a crutch. As an adult, you set your own priorities, make your own goals, formulate your own lifestyles, and success or failure is entirely a matter of your own effort and discipline. There's no greater privilege than this, living in a free soc…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 09:43 PM
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Entered to say this. Bourbon hipster's guide to not looking butthurt. Step 1. Don't be butt hurt. ... (That's pretty much it)
/r/askMRP22/11/19 10:21 AM
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This most definitely sounds like an issue of anxiety and control.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 10:53 AM
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But there is nothing I enjoy doing. I wish there was, and I could go all out. This is the most intellectually lazy concept I can think of with the youth of today. You have literally finger access to all of the known cumulative knowledge of human history available to you at any moment, and you can't figure out a single topic of interest to pursue in life? You still sound like your only direction in life is getting your dick wet as often as possible, but are somewhat discouraged by the nature of w…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:28 AM
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This. You aren't ready for approaching anyone really. That all requires some level of confidence. You need to stabilize. Hell, start with some houseplants or something. You need to be in a place where your depression is in check and you are actively working to hold your own with bills, living situation, paying down your debt, lifting, reading, etc.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:44 PM
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Controversial opinion incoming: Put down the books and go out and start doing. Seriously making friends shouldnt require a script or strategy. Just start talking to people and be genuine. You'll never expand your circle sitting at home reading books.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:37 PM
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You sound like you think you can logic everything the way you want it to be. It's the great flaw of men when communicating with women. You also sound like you have a serious problem drawing clear boundaries for your own good. Your wife and sister came in with their stomping boots and trampled over whatever facade you had set in place. So you think this counseling thing is really going to work out for you is it? Or maybe your compliance to even consider attending says all that your wife needs to …
/r/askMRP17/09/19 02:36 AM
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Wasting time with no focus or measurable goals
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:33 AM
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I've done it. It requires a slow, methodical approach over time. Call it the slow boiling the frog tactic.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 08:38 PM
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You will miss out on much vomiting and headache
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:48 PM
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U mad bro?
/r/askMRP10/08/19 11:04 PM
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Because your 'free' is of great cost to your mental and emotional maturity as well as your parents finances, time and resources. From a financial perspective you're absolutely right. Sponging off of other people is a great way to save yourself cost going forward. Can you live with your life's mission as a man having this philosophy as your primary modus operandi? Do you have no care of the fact that you can't cook or clean for yourself? Do you really have 20 years of living with Mommy so that yo…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:11 AM
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Grow old, start waking up at 5 am despite all efforts to "sleep in". Source: Old man here writing this at 5 am.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:24 AM
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Never, not once. You only encourage and perpetuate the deplorable lack of standards that most women embody. Also it becomes quite awkward when you realize that she wants you and then you have to back track and decline because you realize how much you'd rather not follow through.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:54 AM
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As you age you mature and hopefully come to the conclusion that all you can do is assert your influence on variables you can actually control. It matters not if the game of Life is tilted against you. What are your options. Sit there and bitch and moan about it? At the end of the day, how does that help you or your standing? Is the inequity of it all really all that terrible when considering other possible circumstances you could have landed in? Some brutal existence where your mortality is test…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 02:53 PM
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When I was a gamer in my youth, console games wound up teaching some unexpected life lessons and skills. Many games required a thorough amount of reading as voice acting was not viable given storage limits on cartridges. Many games rewarded inventory management and budgeting. I learned more about fundamental economics through games vs school. Games then were predominantly single player experiences. There were no social hooks or in game purchases to increase immersion and addiction. Like a good b…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 02:23 PM
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Holy hell this sub has turned into a shit show with exactly these types of posts.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:30 AM
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Why don't you try doing something fulfilling to you that aligns with who you are as a human. Presumably there's a bit more to you than some Chad pussy Slayer conquerer of women. Then perhaps you won't find your line of daily activity so depressing.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:21 AM
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I feel like I'm on the brink of encompassing the attributes of the ultimate version of myself, but I'm just missing one or two final ingredients. Your entire ultimate version of you is completely defined by the sex or lack thereof in your life. Enjoy your youth, but don't neglect your future you by defining your best you via other women.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:35 AM
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I leave my house (that I own outright) at 545 these days, so I can work on a side project before I start my 8 hour work day session and then lift several days a week after that, and spend a few hours eating, cleaning up and spending time with kids. My girl carries the load while I'm off doing all those things. That's the role she prefers. This is the role I prefer. It needs to be understood that is the split of responsibility. Can't feel guilty. Take time to spend with the kids selectively when …
/r/askMRP19/06/19 06:40 PM
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Every day is a struggle...
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:33 PM
1

Thank fuck I thought I was going to read a bunch of autistic responses to this but am finding early responses to be pretty sane.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:58 AM
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Depends. Do you have plans to marry her? If not, who the fuck cares? Anything otherwise is really just an assault to your own ego. An emotion that primarily affects only you.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:10 AM
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Because y'all keep on taking out whatever loans you can or can't afford to do so to go anyway. Sorry but it's true and it isn't rocket science. Colleges will continue to charge whatever they can as long as students are lining up to throw money at them with exorbitant loans while mortgaging their future earnings. Is it no wonder why most millennials feel they can't afford a house mortgage? Their earnings are already mortgaged.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:20 AM
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Everyone goes through this. Think of things this way. You have an AVG life expectancy of another 60 odd years or so. Do you think 60 years is too little time to make some thing of yourself? Use it as fuel to Stoke real change in yourself, son. You've failed to meet any of your expectations of yourself at this age. Congratulations. Now you can focus on doing what you have to do to achieve what you desire. Start small. Be consistent. You grow through adversity, so challenge yourself.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:59 PM
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I was thinking of selling the cars first actually. Depends on the note value. Moving into a lower col area probably means mortgage is reasonable. Also upending a family is much tougher than selling some cars. Budgeting might also be in order. Setting up new account take that are just his, direct depositing there. Finance the family with cash flow while paying down debt with what is left over. OP you cant force your wife to work. Or to be kind. Your demands are laughable. If divorce is really on …
/r/askMRP11/05/19 09:18 PM
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Yes. Though I'm seeking out methods to build additional passive income sources into this rather than simply trading time for money. You can only value your time for another employer so highly of the market for a specific role.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 09:41 AM
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You are way too young to be crying about your life being over. Comfort precedes complacency which makes you non-competitive. This dulls our survival edge, makes us less attractive and less successful. Competition keeps us strong. Now that you have a goal again maybe you'll rediscover your drive. From there it's a matter of consistency over time.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 08:59 PM
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Make industry your hobby. Your free time wouldn't feel so wasted, nor would you feel envious of your debt-laden peers, if you were in a flow State building or making or fixing things that yields something of value. You can also take off a single night a week and go drink with mates. Balance can be important
/r/askTRP17/04/19 11:05 AM
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If you aren't legally married there is no divorce. Just custody proceedings. And child support arrangements. Hopefully that isn't brutal.
/r/askMRP31/03/19 01:26 AM
1

Would be glad to explain. I'll start off by saying I recognize it's not the stance you'd normally hear. While vaccines are rather effacatious in mounting immune responses to the targeted pathogen in question, the consequences of creating such strong immune responses in infants who are designed to be anti-inflammatory at that stage of development is poorly understood. The effects of additives presented in many vaccines over time are poorly understood, though researchers are now learning that macr…
/r/askMRP08/03/19 11:01 PM
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Let's be honest about a few things. Adopting a kid is nothing like rescuing a puppy. His biological imperative to replicate may be the only driving factor behind him wanting kids. That's not a bad thing. It's just real talk. Kids are a life-long investment. You don't want to fall out of your commitment because you rescued some squirt that you find out over time that you have absolutely no feelings for. Getting rid of your adopted child isn't like rehoming a rescue dog. About you being pregnant: …
/r/askMRP08/03/19 10:00 PM
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Best time is after you've got your own life's shit together for a little while and you have set solid foundation with your ltr with your frame. When you aren't grinding out a job just to hit payday again (finally) so you're able to go blow a wad of it on something stupid, or on your massive pile of accrued debt. When you have a vision for your career and your home life that you'd be happy if your dad had the same plan for you. If your life's focus is all about yourself still, you're likely going…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 09:52 AM
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- you don't need a legal marriage to have children. Paper contracts do not change the nature of people. - why not marriage? See above plus you are sorely underestimating your financial risk. The longer the marriage continues the higher the risk. Pre-nups are NOT BULLETPROOF. - to the "fuck having kids" crowd: I've never heard of a more self-indulgent, low-effort, near-sighted perspective across all of Reddit than this. Consider someday when you are slightly older than 20 that your opinions and g…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:33 PM
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Lol Joe the investing genius who was able to throw 50$ of birthday money when he was a 10 yr old because he read it on some "edgy" forum. I have other questions here, like, why is Joe's parents letting him perform internet transactions as a pre-tween?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:52 PM
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Not a soul here will be able to help you. Waah waah why me... What exactly are you a victim of other than your own lack of ction? Want some advice? Put together an actual plan. That way, when you gather all that energy and motivation for action, you'll have a trget to direct it towards.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:55 PM
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Next order up for your collection of books to blatantly advertise you are currently reading: Mein kampf, The Prince, Qu'ran
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:09 PM
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I ate 3/4 of it. Such self control! Why don't you stop sabotaging yourself for starters. Now that I’ve gotten close to my wife’s weight I'm afraid to even ask the obvious question here.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 03:23 AM
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You sound angry. Do you need a hug?
/r/askMRP25/08/18 03:06 AM
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Here's a novel question. What do you want to do? If you can answer this question, you probably don't need a forum of dudes to suggest to you your next course of action. That is what being an adult is all about, right?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:26 AM
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Your wife's greatly misunderstanding the function of melatonin as a sleep aid. Melatonin helps regulate sleeping patterns. It's not something that is going to knock you unconscious. So my advice would be don't let her fly alone with your infant. Go with or go in her stead.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:23 AM
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I was going to write my own reply but it sounded pretty much exactly like this.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:53 AM
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Morbidly fat people are sub-human and raising morbidly fat kids is one of the highest forms of child abuse.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:18 AM
2

Why is MRP is labeled RP on hard mode? Because your TRP "next" button is booby trapped to trigger an instant halving of your net worth, potentially another small fortune on litigation, potential serious impact to your future earnings via alimony and/or child support, and large possibility of seeing your children's childhoods utterly fucked, likely loss of your house, etc. Assuming you still want to have a real relationship with your ltr, she already knows all your tricks, you've likely revealed …
/r/askMRP06/07/18 10:44 AM
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There is no helping him. Just let him go...
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:30 AM
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If true you must share this story for the rest of us!
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:24 AM
2

It would be perpetually empty by definition
/r/askMRP03/07/18 11:04 AM
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It comes down to the dynamics of survival situations. Maybe you can draw your piece in time while firing off some accurate shots and send the rest fleeing. It's also possible to be caught so off guard that you don't even have time to draw before the first slash is struck. Or you panic and unload wildly and no one drops. Point being it's not an automatic victory for the same reasons that two betas can gang up on one alpha and take him down.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 11:47 AM
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After reading OPs last statement, the lesson learned bit, the only lesson learned for me was "don't live in the fucking Bronx". Ofc that only helps for those who can actually make such a thing a choice. White people don't see this type of shit too often unless you go on worldstar or black people's twitter space. It's just how it is. This is what always gets me. No one is ever brave enough to talk about it. Certainly not in today's culture. And those who are real enough to talk about it take it a…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 11:08 AM
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You'd better have some heavy firepower to take down 12 men rushing you with machetes. If they were intent to get to you collectively, dropping all 12 would be some feat. This doesn't sound as given as you say it is. But I agree it would be best to at least be properly armed to give yourself at least the courtesy of taking some of your assailants down with you
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 10:58 AM
1

...are women even then incapable of giving a shit? Yes they are. But you're not allowed to be shocked and dumbfounded when they aren't. Also, this whole thread is generally unintelligible to read and altogether sad.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 04:02 AM
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Everything else is a burden. "should be bourbon" - FTFY
/r/askMRP22/06/18 02:57 AM
1

Whenever dealing with internet strangers beginning a program I just account for their original estimate +5-15% depending on additional info. People don't have the tools to estimate this accurately, and who wants to admit they are an extra 5-15% pure fatter than they thought they were?
/r/askMRP21/06/18 11:35 AM
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Judging by your reaction to her texts and follow up drama which you've outlined not only in your posts but in replies to other comments here, she is clearly getting under your skin and you have mentally lost all composure despite you not losing it on her yet. If you can't find peace in your mind that you literally do not fucking care about the shit she says because she's not you nor does she rule you nor does your happiness depend on hers, you are bound to lose it on her eventually. You are losi…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 11:25 AM
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I read your entire post. What I'm most worried about here is how you avoid squats because your knees hurt? If your knees hurt while squatting you are quite likely to be doing them very wrong. It doesn't take much to do them wrong g. It takes a lot of character to do them right. So stop DEERing your routine,, find a trainer or a bro who has amazing form who can tutor you. Same deal applies to deadlifts. No excuses.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 10:56 AM
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beard stroking (mine not hers), What did I do wrong Maybe she really wanted you to stroke her beard back!
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:05 AM
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How to dictate this marriage I skipped right to the end to read this. You aren't ready for this.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 01:57 AM
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Ill give you an angle. Having a kid is also part of the novelty of life. It's not the bachelor life, but sure as day doesn't mean some sort of jail sentence. Yes it's hard work and inconvenient at times. It's not for everyone in the same sense college isn't for everyone. Just like an ltr, while there is liability, there is promise of value add. Like an investment. It's not guaranteed to work out how you've envisioned it, but when you get a glimpse of its possibly, it resonates deeply with your s…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 01:49 AM
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So yeah, you guys think I should perhaps confront my mom and let her know that I remember everything that happened and why the family was broken? This went from story time to Q&A rather abruptly... Answer here is, what do you expect out of it other than just unloading a bunch of spewy shit to make yourself feel better? Just don't expect an adult conversation nor an apology. You can't change the past or your mom. But you sure as shit can change you. Also, any of you went through something similar…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:05 AM
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Was waiting for the injury report when reading the 1000 club in 19 months bravado. OP didn't disappoint. I feel for him though that must suck. What's mostly baffling op is you're still 260# at 5'10. There's no amount of muscle that's going to make those measurements not fat. You can drop weight and still gain strength with that much bf too. So getting as strong as possible doesn't have to be sacrificed to resetting to a more normal bf%. Get well soon, and when.you do, definitely kill that ego wh…
/r/askMRP12/05/18 03:24 AM
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Your consistent (and only) downvotes say otherwise.
/r/askMRP18/04/18 01:46 AM
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almost a 34" waist, Lol wtf does almost mean? But I understand you're tender bc someone is questioning your mouthtaping technique.
/r/askMRP18/04/18 12:07 AM
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I've never realized there are people out there who don't notice what seems like very obvious biology like ' supposed to breathe through your nose at night', I thought we all figured that out at age 5. Notwithstanding, I'm glad mouthtaping is some sort of solution for you, but perhaps a compounding factor is your weight. At 6'1 220 you are at least 45# overweight, unless you play professional football. This might also have a large impact on your sleep breathing. Not dying at night via apnea is a …
/r/askMRP17/04/18 08:57 PM
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Married "red pill": How do I get my wife to fuck and respect me again? Divorce is NOT an option I'm totally focusing on me damnit! No but seriously why isn't my wife noticing all the extra stuff I'm doing!?
/r/askMRP04/04/18 12:56 AM
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"Why am I getting mad at a woman I didn't know for having sex with men I don't know? That's like me getting mad at women whom I've never met having sex with guys I'll never know." My guess is that it is so hard for you to accept because your current mindset is one of ownership of your wife like a prized piece of property. Letting go of the idea that you own her might help you care less about her previous 18 + miles of dick. Can we get a metric conversion for our lads across the pond?
/r/askMRP22/03/18 03:52 AM
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Again relationship commitment by contract is the most shallow form and is ultimately a tool to be leveraged by the one who would find it most advantageous.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 09:03 PM
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Marriage is not a prerequisite of having a mommy and daddy who appear happy and stable.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 08:58 PM
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come live with me and my parents Cringe Well if this isn't additional motivation to get your own place I'm not sure what is. I can't help but wonder what the hell your parents were thinking this entire time. Son invites gf to live in our home. Son fucks 30 y/o gf all day and night in our home. Sons gf starting fights with us despite putting her up in our own home. Also how did you lose 5 months of gym progress so quickly? Did you just stop going???
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:05 AM
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Have him watch "90 day fiancé".
/r/askMRP14/11/17 11:42 PM
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Your current mindset is one of a man who is seeking to save his relationship out of fear. Fear of the ramifications to things you value and have become comfortable with. And in this current mindset everything you think you are doing for you, it seems you might possibly be doing these things either in some form of a covert contract that your wife's behaviour may change to those more favourably desired by you, or again out of fear of the discomfort your separation would lead you towards. The only …
/r/askMRP10/11/17 10:27 PM
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She's DTF and you pick that moment to bring up finances and fitness. After you prioritized video games before sex. And insulted her ego. You sound more angry than anything. It seems you think you played this one right but I don't see it that way.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 03:51 PM
1

Why are you married? Why the fuck are you asking a group of internet strangers this question? If you want to be single go be single. If you are willing to pay the legal price of your decision, then go be free and quit wasting your time waiting for a self help forum to justify your life's decisions for you.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 03:45 PM
1

Once a paternal father challenges that role with genetic proof, he would essentially be laying claim to sole responsibility of that child. While the acting father may do what he can to defend his parental right, that would be a hard case to fight. But usually I'm that instance if paternity was challenged the acting parent wouldn't likely be liable for, let's say, continued financial support. The challenging paternal father assumes that burden as a major responsibility under his paternal claim.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 03:25 PM
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This is wrong in a number of states. The presumption of acting as a fatherly figure can put a man under equal burden to continue supporting that child as if they were the paternal father.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 11:29 PM
2

Motivation. It's whimsical by nature. It comes and goes. It's fleeting at best. We tend not to begin tasks without ample motivation. However, attempting to drive a successful business start up or a new killer fitness goal on motivation and little else will see your ventured prospects fizzle quickly. This is burn-out. Motivational forces replenish with time and can quickly shift focus. Motivation without discipline will ultimately lead to failure.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:13 AM
2

Marriage neither secures your future reproduction nor is a requirement. Have a bastard. Make your chosen mate stick around for some years beforehand to ensure they have a nurturing spirit and a high level of trust with you. Not being married will spare you alimony, but children are a financial responsibility you cannot legally unburden yourself from. Meaning you are on the hook for child support even outside of wedlock if you gave minority custody. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 01:38 AM
1

You don't need to be married to share houses income or for reproduction.
/r/askMRP15/04/17 01:43 PM
1

Practice being hungry. With some experience you'll learn what real actual hunger feels like. Hint: it's not the "i haven't eaten in 4 hours" nonsense most western cultures associate with "starvation".
/r/askMRP26/03/17 10:39 AM
3

You are 230# eating 2000 calories a day and struggling to lose weight? I call bullshit. You don't need T shots. You need a food scale and a calculator and some self accountability.
/r/askMRP26/03/17 10:15 AM
2

Parties that enter into contracts with the state to manage the affairs and govern the direction of that relationships do so as a forfeiture of competency. It is bad enough men unwittingly succumb to such arrangements. But you are far more aware than the bp man prior to entering that contract. So what does that say about you?
/r/askMRP03/12/16 02:25 AM
5

cmon. His son is in a hormone-juiced, culturally confused, fiercely defiant point in his life as all young men of that age typically are. If you respond to that type of defiance with chest-pounding, it does very little to gain the respect and influence of mind over the challenger. While the child may be completely out of line, confused, poisoned, etc., I contend that this is a very counter-productive strategy in retort.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 04:04 PM
6

Sounds like your kid affirmed you being a dick because you put him in line. That strategy always works when trying to strengthen relationships with your kids, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 01:38 PM
15

after turning down what could have been the best sex of your life in years, you are suddenly juiced about the fact that your wife bargained chores, good behavior and subservience for the promise of some mystical future blowjob which im quite sure will never happen as promised. I should have stopped reading after the initial FR. How sad.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 02:00 AM
1

well, fuck the ending of the story, it feels good to feel alive doesn't it?! Don't feel guilty, feel empowered. Don't feel confused, feel vindicated. Good for you.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 12:16 PM
2

Fatal flaw here is definitely bringing your phone into the gym. For the record I never trust anyone's squat claims on the basis of me seeing mostly horrible form by average sized people in the squat rack trying to press heavy loads. Was the state of the house when you left at least stable? Im not so sure I agree the final answer to this situation was setting expectations the night before. Even if you had done so, I feel you may have gotten the text barrage anyway. You may have had the same shit …
/r/askMRP24/10/16 07:53 PM
5

Not so fast. Just because your not married doesn't mean you can't get absolutely owned in court with child support payments and zero custody. Don't cut and run without having all your legal shit pulled together
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 09:40 AM
5

He's happy he read the book
/r/askMRP16/10/16 07:28 PM
3

Lol WTF are the comments in this thread all about? On this subreddit of all places? What are your other options? Gary "what is Aleppo - the epicenter of European migration crisis" Johnson? Jill Stein? Certainly you folks didn't think that scandalous, treacherous, possibly murderous Hillary Clinton is your answer. You know, the woman who has committed malfeasance with impunity - colluding with the current administration and internal departments to whitewash any culpability of wrongdoing - colludi…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 07:47 PM
-3

this 'crap' is reality. sorry if it hurts.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 07:38 PM
1

Love your brutal honesty.
/r/askMRP08/10/16 03:54 AM
1

"marshmallow test" is highly underrated
/r/askMRP08/10/16 03:53 AM
1

I just read "only 5 hours a night" and found a hard time taking the rest seriously. I get less sleep than that when I'm thinking of all the shit I want to accomplish in the next week.
/r/askMRP08/10/16 03:51 AM
3

Nothing sexier to a woman than being the only one scrubbing the toilet her husband shits in everyday, yea? Scrub your own fucking toilet because it's your shit. Like how is this not obvious?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 03:04 AM
3

Lol fuck you you're not staying out of fear/oneitis/whatever. That's the weakest most tragic ending ever. No one with self respect turns around and calls that shit even-steven.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 03:01 AM
1

Eating 175g protein in a day isn't exactly hard. Strung cheese, yogurt and peanuts are not doing your diet any great Davies. Stick with meats.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/16 01:58 AM
1

Your lifts better be somewhere between intermediate and advanced to back up those estimates
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/16 01:56 AM
7

That about sums this thread up for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/16 01:54 AM
9

You know there are humane third and fourth options including rescues and no-kill shelters yeah? Not really rocket science. Though that all sounds moot now.
/r/askMRP24/09/16 01:49 AM
1

You didn't learn anything from this place. I had to cringe-quit reading after something about writing two letters of emotional dump and becoming insanely drunk. Outside of your career it sounds like you have some serious work to do
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 01:35 AM
1

You're no pussy at least. I approve.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 10:55 PM
1

I guess we'll chalk this whole thread up to "men will behave differently based on their goals". Otherwise I can hardly say I agree on half of your fitness and nutrition advice. You have outlined very specifically what has worked for you. Except for perhaps a few vital details in the 'supplements' department.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 03:45 PM
3

We are talking about a cup of coffee here, a diuretic. Not exactly like drinking a gallon of salt water. If your abs disappear over a cup of coffee you are still fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 11:27 AM
2

Haha no.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 11:22 AM
0

Pulling out - the poor man's birth control.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 03:36 AM
0

For a dude as fucking strong as you, what the fuck does a cup of coffee "washing your abs away" even mean? No, you don't have to do a lick of cardio to have a lean physique, you just can't eat like a fat fuck. And in a world where your every craving is a fridge trip, online order or phone call away, that qualifies as most people's eating habits. So by 'supplements' you mean TRT and possibly steroids. I thought you were going to educate us on minerals. But I guess that explains the 675 deadlift a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 03:15 AM
1

I'm trying to read, comprehend and empathise but I'm already lost and your singular paragraph break has me lelz.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 02:40 AM
12

you mean tyler durden?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/16 11:46 PM
2

such a vicious cycle :)
/r/askMRP20/09/16 11:39 PM
5

Boiling your personal situation down to some weirdly generalised sexist declaration is fallacy. The whole point is for you to do what is best for you. Not because you are male, but because no one else gives a fuck enough to put you first before themselves. She must feel pretty comfortable calling your dread bluffs without even sporting a diamond as a nagging constant reminder of your devotion.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 09:05 AM
1

Pull the fucking bandaid off. Be grateful yours hasn't interwoven with your flesh. You'll find the pain of loneliness can heal about as fast as a literal paper cut.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 08:22 AM
1

It's like some strange primordial concoction of both admission and utter denial. "I'm not alpha but things are great! Except for x, y and z. And w. Hmm maybe things aren't so great. How do I make her live me better? God damn I'm so angry. That bitch. Things are awful! Btw she's preggo." And scene.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 08:06 AM
6

Lol not responding to CC alpha sprinkle what do I do? Pursue new options in earnest instead of feigning open interest as a weapon against her insubordination?
/r/askMRP20/09/16 07:47 AM
2

I personally agree it makes that decision tree easy. But I'm not so sure the feminist imperative can be 'turned'.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 01:08 AM
2

Are you marred to a raging fembot who is more in love with her ideology over anything else in her life? That may complicate things for him just a tad.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 10:21 PM
0

Fucking self-diagnosed feminist. Fuck me that sounds completely dreadful. Run for your life or go Charles Manson style brainwash.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 10:20 PM
1

fair enough. sounds like you and I agree more than with OP
/r/askMRP05/09/16 08:07 PM
2

facebook user-ship would basically fall off a cliff if users didnt feel naturally compelled to 'pass' tests that are randomly thrown onto them. cmon man this is basic human nature exploitation ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/16 06:47 PM
1

If you are that fucking pussy about her body going to shit, DONT KNOCK UP A WOMAN. I disagree. this is about choosing your mate carefully. There are plenty of females who gain pregnancy weight and never recover from it. Don't pick this type of woman, basically. They are unfortunately plentiful. There's nothing wrong with having expectations of your woman not turning into a blubbering fat-devouring garbage disposal. Food is important to provide adequate nutrition to a growing human. This is most …
/r/askMRP05/09/16 06:37 PM
1

Cool lets talk real-life male shit. First thing's first. Marriage is not a biological requirement for reproduction. I personally feel your fears are common and natural. Heres some info to ease your mind. Women's bodies can be rather amazing things. They grow and stretch to accommodate a new human life. Breasts and bellies swell. If your lady is disciplined and has some semblance of nutritional and fitness perspective, many exercises and sensible dieting can be done up until very late in the preg…
/r/askMRP05/09/16 06:33 PM
1

Your real question should be far more introspective rather than surveying the field. Others problems wont change your problems. If you do an honest survey and find there really is no like nor love lost if you were to leave, then staying with your wife is an awful waste of both of your lives going forward.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:13 PM
2

focus on this type of thing. one that has nothing to do with your spouse or in some effort to seek validation/approval/favor with her. This is having fun, and this is the type of thing you should be FILLING your day with and ignoring any shit you get for doing it from your partner.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 01:55 PM
2

Your story, while identifiably familiar to most men in some form of LTE, was cringeworthy all the way up until and immediately after your tale of melting aluminum at 1000+ degrees. In that 2 sentence span, I found you relatable and interesting.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 10:12 AM
2

facepalm
/r/askMRP12/08/16 04:30 PM
1

You had me up until you started the bit about laying out your demands and expectations. Also fear of divorce can make things great again... For a little while. Good news is it seems you've learned you're willing to use the ejection latch and sleep at night regardless.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 09:41 AM
5

Lifting more than just matters. It is the essence of testing your physical capabilities. Ideally your training regimen should put you in an optimal position for survival for just about any physical task or requirement that life may throw at you (within human limits). Its more than just not looking like a slob. Its how you cultivate your confidence to encounter your life on a daily basis. I wouldn't feel too sure about myself walking around not knowing if I could out-sprint this dude to an exit, …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/16 07:17 PM
1

You are in mourning for your loss. It's a natural stage of the process. This too shall pass.
/r/askMRP24/07/16 09:31 AM
1

Bourbon expects things to reflect his morality. My expectations for this sub come from nothing other than the mantra it promotes. Anything else you are appending onto that is of your own perspective and unjustly misrepresents my point. no one suggested a hard next here, not that I've seen. perhaps you did miss it. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4tjjjm/ive_disowned_my_daughter/d5i0xcf https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4tjjjm/ive_disowned_my_daughter/d5i3hm2 https:…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 03:30 PM
1

OP above is exactly what's been used to keep men in line. My purpose in engaging in this manner of discourse isn't to exemplify red-pill philosophical dissonance, but rather a call to practice owning ones shit. I don't intend to perpetuate conflict with you sir, we are after-all brethren resisting the same tidal forces. I have no interest in telling you what you should do, nor have I. I would expect more from a community that embodies stoicism, personal responsibility, and self actualization to …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 02:24 PM
1

OP seemed pretty scant on details but as far as I can determine, his daughters greatest offense was a pair of car accidents and going on a verbal tirade against him. There might be other stuff, but I'd wager that he's largely avoidant of owning any of it and acts the victim. And in that context, the predominant advice of nexting her upon these vaguely-defined offenses against OP seems kinda sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 01:03 PM
1

but can tell you that both my daughters were in their mid 20's before they fully understood the level of manipulation their mother constantly uses on everyone around her. Thank god someone talking from actual experience here. And BTW this isnt a unique concept that applies only to daughters. News flash, teenager emotions are unstable and volatile and often override logical thought. So /u/trudatness throw gasoline on it with overt contracts of financial-emotional transaction and it blows up in hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:51 PM
1

Lol I know you are 'stony' or 'stone pimply' also a moderator here and all, but sorry i dont fall 'in-line' with suck-it-up buttercup statements like this. Real men dont 'next' their children going through rough times. Thats not exactly 'oak' is it? Thats just sour grapes. Childish. And frankly pathetic to read.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:33 PM
1

I was way more disappointed in all the "next your daughter" replies. I thought I could identify with you lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:57 PM
3

I laughed. I laughed some more! I definitely shed no tears nor empathy. Did you ever wind up getting Cara's number? That would have been at least some sort of small victory.
/r/askMRP20/07/16 12:36 PM
1

Brother, I think you are escalating far too quickly with words like "disown". Shes an 18 year old girl. If shit wasnt confusing enough for her being a girl, theres the whole highschool/college|real-world transition thing happening soon, a decade's worth of ex-mind-poison shes still intoxicated with, etc. I believe you are correctly assessing the situation in that none of these are her thoughts, and they are all impressions and influences of your bitter ex. Additionally, I dont really have any qu…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 05:14 PM
1

wow this just seems unnecessarily callous. Its his daughter, not some random bar-slut. yikes...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 05:05 PM
1

I'm usually fucking people in my dreams not marrying them.
/r/askMRP19/07/16 12:46 AM
-2

What 'man' isn't accustomed to, let alone highly appreciates the taste of a good whiskey
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:12 AM
2

can we make an app for this? ^_^
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 09:05 PM
2

obviously, but you seem to be under some impression that you doing all these things in 'rp fashion' = 'get laid' which is not even a covert contract you are placing on your partner, but with the rp concept itself. "Im doing these things that are supposed to 'work'. Its not 'working'! DAMN YOU WIFE WHY ISNT THIS WORKING!?!?" thats just my perspective.
/r/askMRP11/07/16 06:50 PM
3

"airing of grievances" on my part, explaining to her how I was trying to be cool but I just couldn't fake it anymore. So you went on a tirade and then you openly admit to just putting on an act? and that was supposed to get you what, laid?
/r/askMRP11/07/16 04:40 PM
1

And why for the surprise? Asking permission, defending and countering all in such quick succession.
/r/askMRP10/07/16 02:58 PM
1

30lbs is a big fucking asterisk.
/r/askMRP10/07/16 11:02 AM
1

bars with a sharp toothy grip will tear skin at higher weight.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:49 PM
2

This shit right here is what cheapens natural effort and remarkably natural feats of strength. but hey lever up buttercups
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:40 PM
4

you are rationalizing your decision to throw a plate at your woman's face by qualifying the material the plate was made of. No one's voicing concern over your woman's physical well-being as a result of the plate impact, but rather that you lost your shit enough to throw a plate at her face. Just thought I'd point that out for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 04:37 PM
1

Im not suggesting good progress cannot be made. I merely question the transformation to underwear model status in such a short period of time. Noob gains are awesome, but hitting big numbers on your lifts while dropping serious body fat (edit: down to sub 10%BF range) isnt some casual achievement, nor is raw determination necessarily always enough. p.s. hi.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 04:04 PM
3

I judge people in the office who keep a consistent slobbish desk arrangement. Most people are gross
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 01:54 AM
1

Wtf that's a lot of anger you've got going on in your writing. Instead of taking things a week at a time, maybe focus just on this one day. What do you need to do TODAY to maximize your productivity and self improvement? Do that 7 times in a row. Not as trivial as it sounds at first.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 01:15 AM
5

im glad things are going so well for you and all.. but you seriously converted from slob mode to underwear model status in a simple short year plain and simple? One thing I dont get about this sub is FRs about how after a few months of lifting, OPs turn into literal olympian gods. Makes other aspects of stories seem less credible.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 11:49 AM
2

I mean, seriously? In his relationships-post, he's the patron saint of doormats but in here, he says he "follows the red pill religiously"? You must be really gullible to buy that. sequitur non consuetudinem _^
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:14 PM
1

Can we start OYS right now? It might spare you some trial and error. will go full-on 20g of carbs max per day Sounds good up until you hate it. Which while continuing a lifting routine likely wont take long. Cycle your fat/carb intake on days you rest vs train (respectively). Always stay heavy on protein consumption. Im a proponent of at least 50% of your daily caloric intake should be meat-based calories on a diet. Intermittent fasting seems like a good addition to help me just reduce the overa…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 11:58 AM
3

Well duh. Dont do it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 07:43 PM
8

Deadlifts are posture correctors. Once you're lifting well into intermediate levels, your back naturally starts to contract while walking, straightening your posture. Also I think most men lean over or hunch slightly as a subconscious mechanism to hide their gut a bit.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 03:58 PM
7

Walk into any commercial gym and ask for a personal trainer. In front of you will be a man in the prime of his life. Interestingly i find this almost never to be the case. Usually find older, washed up former wanna-be's. Which explains the bosu-ball training regimen. will be incapable of squatting 225 pounds to full depth for ten repetitions. to be fair this is no small feat to accomplish :/ ...and got my deadlift to 600 pounds. You deadlift 600#s? I have a new-found respect for you. So do yours…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 02:43 PM
1

Umm you were prescribed vitamin d? Seems a little redundant when you can buy high quality supplements otc. 8 is low. Supplement levels build and store over time. Don't forget magnesium for restlessness.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 02:24 AM
1

Thats totally your call obviously. Also I have no intention of somehow trying to convince or propagandize. Im just stating a philosophical counter-point to the material presented regarding one specific topic.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 08:02 PM
0

Lost youth and good looks can never be recovered. Time cannot be recovered and certain changes are permanent. Doesnt mean post-wall woman cant put in some solid effort and attain a body that can embarrass most girls far younger. Does it happen often? No - hardly ever because it requires self-improvement effort. But the idea is that almost any woman COULD put in that effort and i feel they could still compete fairly well.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 07:43 PM
0

I cant agree that this wall hitting period is so concrete and narrow a timespace when it comes to aesthetic value. Hitting a wall implies you are done. But the reality is that, while none of us can reverse the effects of time on our facial features without serious surgical intervention, people can come back from saggy asses and depleted musculature. And my point is that this isnt just true for 'naturally beuatiful people', its true for ALL (physically capable) people. So if Mary Jo Plainsville d…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 07:40 PM
-3

You seem intent to continually miss the very explicit point being made. Women don't just wake up one day in some horrid condition they were not afflicted with the day before. And once past it it's nothing that serious training and diet can't fix. Walls become walls when there's no effort made in self maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 06:13 PM
0

I appreciate that you disagree, and I get that there is a fundamental difference in the elements of attraction from one sex to the other (i.e. aesthetics vs masculinity). I do however feel you are positing subjective opinion as fact regarding how the sexes age differently, using what I can conly image as tabloid cover photos of 'fallen' female celebs as a source of evidence, compared to a GQ cover shot of an equally aged male. You cite what is essentially manipulation as the main form of evidenc…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 05:32 PM
6

I've always thought this "women hit the wall" in looks department is really a tall order of horseshit. People hit a wall. Hitting a wall is where the grace of your youthful appearance without putting in legit effort finally no longer passes. Fat stores sag and curdle in appearance. Muscle tone diminishes. If women were apt to train like men (who train properly), they'd be smoking fucking hot well into their 40s and 50s. There will be some facial aging as there would be with men. But the idea tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 04:28 PM
3

A simple realization. You cant exercise your way out of eating like shit. People are fat because they eat too much. Just when you think you are starving yourself but your weight hasn't budged in weeks, you are still trying too much. You can eat at a deficit and still make gym progress at 15% body fat and higher. Just focus on your protein intake for maintenance of muscle. Lift, live life, eat only when you need it, prioritize protein sources. It can really be that simple. Progress is self reinfo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 01:49 PM
1

"Why you shouldn't lift" - Said no strong man ever
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:20 PM
5

I would caution against showing a woman your masseuse skillsets - Pretty soon all you'll hear after 1 good massage is "Will you rub my back?" which as we all know is the romantic equivalent of being freind-zoned.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:39 PM
1

I don't have a degree. I got laid off from a self-taught skill position in game development. I had basically the best situation possible. Worked remote permanently, great salary and benefits, awesome job activity. All evaporated when I was made redundant along with an entire studio. I had just bought my first house and a year old brand new car. Since my locale had zero demand for my skills, it took me 7months of clawing and scraping together skills and experience in an entirely different skill t…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:21 PM
11

It's silly to shit on someone and then proclaim them to be hamstring when they come back at you with a logical retort. Also ignoring sound advice out of spite while antagonising further conflict appears tactless to others.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:57 PM
4

There's little point in counter-arguing the nihilists of trp. You can find meaning in your life while you are living it. That's how you become fulfilled. Who gives a fuck if no one builds monuments after your death. You won't be conscious of it either way, right? So perhaps the point is the end game is a highly personal pursuit.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:49 PM
3

Stalling on 250# deadlift is really slow growth/progress. Sounds like he could benefit from a bit more intensity like yourself. Too many excuses. 3days on 1day off is a lot of volume but if you can keep making progress then keep going.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:39 PM
67

There was a time where false accusations carried grave consequence. Now it's basically like "whoops, you caught me. Tehehe ".
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:31 AM
7

No one ever said or thought that or I wouldn't read material from this sub. But don't let me interrupt you from your self-serving tirade
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:46 PM
3

Luckily there's very little luck involved. And thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:37 PM
2

cheers to our sons being better men than us. I'd sit at your drinking table anytime.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 01:54 PM
5

The point is your duty as a parent is to take responsibility for your childs well being including their education. Trannykin shouldn't be left with the primary role of forming your childs perception of the world.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 01:49 PM
5

I copied the exact same quote as a point to reflect upon. Seems you've beat me to it. I'm rather critical of certain opinions of this sub as much as I am a believer of some core truths of trp, but this one definitely was one of the finer points I've read posted in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 07:14 PM
3

If that contractual obligation to support a child universally came with the right to see them/spend time with them, then you'd have something closer to nature. But you dont, as you know. and I wasnt implying parity between the two circumstances of your responsibilities under american jurisprudence versus god's law, just that one does (or should) exist. Your fears about giving your nuts over to a woman on a silver platter after children doesnt quite hold water. While you are both caring for young…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 12:19 PM
13

Exactly right. And what is a man to do, abstain from procreation? Fatherhood is a de-facto contractual obligation of support to a child, as it should be in nature, but the feminist legal bias muddles this entire process.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:33 AM
6

Being of 'single' status will not spare you from goal #1 sadly. Custody and support can be ruled in favor of a mother outside of wedlock. Just try not to think about that one I guess.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:29 AM
2

Most people are deficient, but serum levels remain very tightly regulated so that wouldn't tell you much
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 12:01 AM
7

adding a bioavailable vitamin D3 supplement to your diet is always a good fail-safe for those of us who are either stuck inside more than we'd like to be for whatever obligations we have, or stuck in regions where sunlight is only seasonably available. Additionally, We filter out many minerals in our drinking water supply that have equally important functions in the body including lowering population incidence rates of cancer. Most supplements will not supply you with dose-sensitive minerals or …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 02:49 PM
1

i get what youre saying, but, what do you expect them to do - hand you their business plans and industry secrets?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:57 PM
130

Honestly it sounds just like practically all of Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:23 AM
-7

What the fuck did I just read and why have I made it this far through? Christ
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 02:59 AM
3

Wtf... Just have a cup or two, enjoy it with your morning and deal with the rest of your day. Don't even start talking about cutting coffe if you're still drinking diet sodas and redbulls. Cut the obvious shit out. Coffee is not your enemy.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 12:12 AM
1

If you want to be truly redpill, ignore the boyish preprogrammed responses you'll get from a bunch of forum goers looking for advice on the next lay. Raising a family with a woman without the contractual bounds of marriage is possible and can be as stable as any other married relationship. Marriage is not a requirement for a strong ltr. Know if your goal is to have kids, in the US it matters not that you are technically single. You have a legal fiduciary responsibility that is court enforceable …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:48 PM
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This sounds made up as hell but i feel like we were probably past friends back in the days of fph
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 11:39 AM
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counter sue for damages after you are cleared of your current investigation. at least sit down with a lawyer to see if you have a case for it. People with money use the legal system extensively to fuck other people over just because, well, they can afford to, and it can wind up ruining their opponents financially. Regardless a civil suit would likely make someone think twice before trying to ruin your life regardless if you have a case or not.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 01:44 PM
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upvote for the screen captures. If theres one thing thats even less attractive than pathetic manipulative texts trying to claw back into a place they no longer belong, is the heavy use of broke-ass grammar in the process.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 03:09 PM
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Not only do genetics matter, genetics are truly the only thing of importance in the continuance of any species. Individual lives are meaningless in the evolutionary scale of genome advancement. Anyone who says otherwise is either completely clueless or completely lying.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 05:42 PM
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You chipotle lovers realize one of those burritos are easily over 1000 calories yeah? Not exactly a whole lot better than mcd's.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:45 AM
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Redditors are largely fucking naive idiots. Oh well its his life
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:47 AM
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"I have bipolar and this illness does sometimes rob me of my logic" I dont care what pill you take, this is an absolute "no" hands down every time. Never EVER tangle with bipolar crazy unless you place zero value on your sanity, among other critically important things.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:32 PM
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theres always at least 50% truth behind every woman's jest. If you are cool where you are at with her, let her joke about it. dont give her feedback either way of your intention. It might drive her a little crazy but at least will keep you in control of the situation.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:25 PM
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In my book she's mildly unattractive even when fully dolled up. Ok we are in consensus then. Ill leave my original post as cautionary tale for others who might be confusing this for hotness.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:16 AM
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Dude... This isnt Amy Schumer. This is Amy Schumer made up, slathered in cosmetics, perfectly and professionally styled and then photoshopped to her closest rendition to perfection. She wouldnt look half that good on her best day and its a shame you guys still think this is how this 'hot'ness thing works.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:44 AM
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Maybe, but it makes for some entertainment during pre market hours
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 11:36 AM
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Like a snake in the garden of eden. How shitty
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 11:02 AM
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This made me lel. Clearly one of you is an actual father. Very sorry to hear about your unicorn. I had one once too :(
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 11:00 AM
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sounds like a shitty example of a father to have imprinted on you. yet thanks to the internet here you are criticizing and dissecting all of his mistakes for the broader public to read and learn from. A lot of dudes have shitty fathers. Its a tragedy, if only because they had no one to teach them how to do things correctly and with some pride. One piece of advice id offer is that i would hope you dont confuse 'marriage' as interchangeable for 'commitment'. If you meet a good woman who respects y…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 08:08 PM
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Weird story aside, esl shouldnt forgive the use of "coz" and "bcoz". Completely obnoxious to read coming from a grown adult male.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 08:53 PM
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ive always maintained that planet fitness runs one of the smartest business plans in all of westernized economy. Sell a cheap service to people who will NEVER use it but will still subscribe out of personal guilt and shame. Its fucking brilliant. Why didnt one of us think of it sooner? I still think its an absolute waste of retail space for the greater good of society, but an amazing profit scheme.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:37 PM
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im most definitely watching this whole series after reading this. cant wait for the lulz!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:37 PM
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your mom sounds like a true, hardened, well-vetted narcissist devoid of any empathy even for her own son. sorry, thats really unfortunate and sadly not much you can do to rectify it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:25 PM
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i find your perspective and experience rather refreshing considering your professional history. I dont believe in the current institutionalized version of marriage and all of the benefits provided for carrying that recognized status, but the fact remains there are benefits to it, just as there are obvious risks and pitfalls. For dudes out there who say hell no to marriage but yes please to children, just know that if that doesnt turn out well down the line, you are left with almost no rights if …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:17 PM
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sorry but ive witnessed no man ever accelerate from complete novice to 200/300/400 in 6 months and doubt it to be a realistic achievement for most men in that timeframe. Im also assuming a sustainable lift schedule avg 4x/week.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:55 PM
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ive got this weird feeling you dont hold much respect for most men that you meet on the streets. I personally think that a 300 lb squat and 400 lb dl raw are quite impressive, but not impressive enough to be running around cheerleading about it to the internet. keep in mind OP is 5'6, not 6'1...
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:48 PM
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its kinda pathetic to learn that stat considering a guy with some pretty solid numbers well over his own body weight (perhaps well over twice his body weight) at ~6' and still have a bit of body fat on him can weigh just a few lbs less than that 'average'. how sad
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:14 PM
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is it weird that i thought about the dos equis guy after reading the "older, more mature" line as well?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:41 PM
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having trouble with the idea of 'sleeping'? heres some easy fucking tips. turn off background light sources 90 mins before sleep time - you can keep a small primary source on, like tv or phone, but background needs to be black stop THINKING - dont engage your brain with conscious thought tasks an hour before 'bedtime'. trying to solve puzzles and processing information is antithesis to sleep wave patterns. save it for tomorrow. If you dont know what this means, you might greatly benefit from pra…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:20 PM
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lift. and dont lift like a pussy, lift like a man. squat. pull. push. master your body weight, and if that gets boring (which it damn well should) master your body weight x multipliers.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:59 PM
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seriously i dont care who you are. i read your story and i sympathize. but you could be stuck in the worst abusive relationship possible. the moment you start gaining confidence in your self via physical capable achievements AKA lifting your fucking hear out, the moment you start to see whatever relationship you are in differently. Being a fit fucking specimen of a dude does wonderous things to the male soul. I encourage every male to get out of 'fat slob' mode immediately. Your life quality can…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:57 PM
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just watched a female comedian funny as shit - her bit is on netflix if youre interested. her name is iliza shlesinger I used to like amy schumer but now i cant look at her face without thinking "ouch wtf happened"
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 09:47 PM
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I dont care whether you do or dont bog yourself down, Im saying that advice definitely does not fly in longer spans of time. Hoping to point out the difference to anyone who cares.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:24 PM
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I never took her on a date. I never bought her dinner or coffee or drinks. I never canceled plans with friends to see her. I can honestly say that I never spent any one-on-one time outside the bedroom with her, for that matter. I never texted her first. let me be the first to acknowledge that this is an extremely bad tactic for handling women on LTRs. the opposite seems true. the more you neglect certain shit the more bored they get and seek entertainment elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 10:01 PM
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of course. would you expect as a parent not to be responsible for your children? I thought that was pretty much common knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 10:56 PM
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Its completely possible, pursuing your children with your chosen woman outside of marriage, and IMO it works like this. The marriage discussion USUALLY tends to come before the children discussion. IMO if this is what you seek from the get-go, this should be a pretty early on discussion that you need to start molding once you know you have the right woman. Marriage talks will come and go, and honestly if you want to allow the girl to fulfill 'bridal validation' mode, you can even go through a fu…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:41 PM
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Marriage and children can be quite mutually exclusive topics. If you really so desire to be 'married' (via legal definition) - write your own fucking contracts. That way you dont have to bitch and moan like every other male unwittingly duped into handing over your rights to the state to handle your hypothetical future divorce. Careful with contract riders or 'prenups', while they can be extremely beneficial, they can sometimes be stricken down by an unenforceable condition that might nullify the…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:31 PM
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sadly even her size measurements are a sad pathetic downward revision hiding her true, much larger size. And no I have no idea how men anywhere are supposed to 'accept this'. I just chalk it up as fucking pathetic people trying to be special snowflakes in any way possible. I wouldnt invite a woman like this into my immediate sphere of atmosphere. No way im sharing air with this.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:14 PM
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My question is, if you are a self respecting ANYONE, why arent you training? Youre a fucking mortal with one body in a tiny spec of time in the grand scheme of cosmic scales. Why just be content with blah? Train you wimps, train. Nothing feels as awesome as knowing you can drag your own body out of almost any situation one-handed. (or one legged ).
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:14 PM
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good for him, i just wanted to mention, if you ever peruse /r\polygamy - most of the posts there tend to sound a lot like this same desperate story. Its a really depressing place to wander into by accident.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:12 PM
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I'm just a nameless bastard in the middle of nowhere. I've decided to just accept it and stop burdening myself with all of this. well it sounds like you have a good mind set at least being proud of some of your traits, but you arent your parents or your handed situation. One of the glories of being a man in a relatively free world is making the best out of yourself motivated by your own self worth ( as opposed to say trying to make someone else happy ). Your mom sounds like a truly awful creatur…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 02:00 PM
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im glad to have read your story. Im sorry that your father never lived up to be the man you wanted or, at times, needed. It sounds like you are doing rather well for yourself and have accomplished a great deal on your own merits.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 01:51 PM
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removing incentives and easy access to encourage women to be snarling pitbulls should be the goal. De-facto No-fault divorces allow whoever, whenever, to call off a relationship and create a 50/50 asset split of all post-marital asset gains. No incentive to keep a bored stagnant house-wife of 20 years with no income prospects or potential bound to their sworn mate when the law protects her 'right' to stake claim to half of everything.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 01:19 PM
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im going to go with the "Shes been so malcontent, bored, lonely, whatever, for so many years shes been planning this day meticulously for as long" - not that that makes the situation any less FUBAR. A married woman feels entitled to a mans time (that whole most precious resource thing) - when she doesnt get that its all over at any phase of a LTR. Still, Marriage law typically determines halfing assets so its not like she could have realistically left him penniless unless he kept something of eq…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 12:34 PM
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heres the deal. you cant fix what you were dealt with in the genetics department, which control things like symmetry, penis size, body 'type', height, etc. So what can you do to counterbalance deficit in these areas that may not be gifted to you (or enhance them where they are gifted to you)? Be the strongest, leanest YOU that you can be. Train. Train your physical state. Be strong. Be lean. You will be unapologetic about yourself and you WILL feel awesome. It takes less work than you think, but…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:18 PM
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Well until she asked my son to ask me to write her into his trust fund. run. run run run. that isnt love. love doesn ask for trust(funds)
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:13 PM
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OMG basically just go do some fucking stuff. reddits and internet is leisure. so many other things in life to do! my biggest regret is not knowing this in my early years. also dont be a schlup and youll enjoy doing stuff far more. tough doing shit when you are carrying 25-50 extra lbs.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:15 PM
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I'm not enough of a victim. good. this is the current downfall du-jour of society. Men dont need pity. a self-respecting man will find strength in their own sovereignty and their ability to help themselves. Im playing no voilins for craig. Fuck that guy. In the wild craig would be dead.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:09 PM
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You guys are also sharing stories on how you were "red pill". Well congrats pal.. Again, why? Is it because you want others to know that you're a "alpha" now, because from what I know that sounds pretty "beta" to me I lurk here but thats one thing I find hysterically ironic as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:45 AM
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i kindof thought thats where this thread was going...
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:25 AM
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unplug for a week straight. your brain will figure out something else for stimulation. its important your devices are fully accessible the whole time so you don't fall back into obsession after your week of internet celibacy. also I'd wager its a major source of your depression. might clip two birds with one rock
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:07 PM
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I don't get it. i find these viewpoints about men unable to maintain themselves because 'LTR' to be absurd. no one fucking tells a man to lose his shit and stop doing the shit he used to to manage his life, fitness etc. letting yourself go is a signal of a lack of self respect and any excuses that man would want to pile on to pass blame are diversions of responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 04:37 AM
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this is the dumbest thing ive ever heard. this isnt even a 'redpill' issue. this is a complete lack of self respect and a larger problem with westernized society as a whole. If youve 'settled' for something youve lost. This isnt about being alpha or beta or whatever the fuck. it is a signal that you are a low-achieving, lazy, self-deprecating fuck. No venturous individual of any sex 'settles' for love 'because'. No self respecting person lets themselves get fat. fuck anyone who thinks they can '…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:47 PM
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and why wouldnt you want that anyways? because when was the last time you heard an old fat guy wake up and say "this is awesome!"?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:18 PM
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well aside from 'fuck all the girls' - no one can find your passion for you. thats something only you can really know and find out. id say that figuring that out and then getting yourself on that path is priority #1. I cant imagine id have much in me to go seeking attention from others when my own shit was in complete disarray. focus in on what you are good at, things that are profitable as a trade but dont bring too much stress. I am learning that passions are best left as hobbies as not to cor…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:14 PM
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im confused. sure getting sick sucks and anytime you are out of a routine longer than 5 days it takes a little man-the-fuck-up to get back into it, but is settling into the couch forever after a single illness really a thing? Dudes get sick and get knocked off kilter and actually never recover?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:00 AM
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im new here and I realize this is an old thread to dig up but i found irony of this being the only real independent-minded response to this whole thread.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:38 PM
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