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This reminds me of when a family friend asked me if I could fill his plate for him. We were both sitting across from each other, he could have done it himself. I still don't understand why he was so happy and appreciative that I helped him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 03:55 PM
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I don't approve of regular cigarette smoking either. I just think it's an irresponsible use of money.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 02:30 AM
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Count to ten before you say anything.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 05:28 PM
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Jeans, a t-shirt, and sneakers are as much effort to wear as dressier pants, a floral blouse and boots. That's the effortlessly fashionable look.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 08:32 PM
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Agreed, but what exactly is the difference?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 06:09 PM
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I think he takes it well because he teases me back.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 03:20 PM
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I care about his feelings. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 02:48 PM
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Thank you. Points noted!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 10:25 PM
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How do you charm old men?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 07:24 PM
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Don't stifle his natural boyishness, encourage it. With children sometimes it's best to leave them be.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 01:02 AM
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Try to imagine your home as an oasis of tranquility and make it that way.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 10:43 PM
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We don't discuss the girls who like the shy nerdy type. Is it a fluke?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 03:14 AM
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He'd probably rather put up with an uninteresting hot young female than a well rounded, thoughtful woman in her 30s-40s who has let her body go. It's like the reverse of beta bux. Women would probably rather put up with an interesting asshole than a well rounded, thoughtful, yet boring man.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 03:10 AM
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Could anyone who has read "Why men love bitches" comment on whether or not it has some RPW values?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 11:08 PM
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I guarantee you this author turned down some guy in her youth for shallow reasons. People are shallow, let alone people on an online dating site. What depth was she expecting?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:41 PM
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The first relationship you have is always the most exciting and nerve wrecking. You can't believe somebody you like, likes you back. How did this happen? You don't know what to say or do around him/her. Compare that to when women are at the age when they are done with the cc and looking for commitment. By then a relationship becomes a cold and calculating plan to get beta bucks. There's no romance. Men want romance and spontaneity too.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 08:34 PM
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Women need to marry men who make them feel young and happy. Then they will avoid the cynicism of old age because they will have someone to laugh and share the weight of the world with.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 08:28 PM
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Men are also attracted to the carefree, joyful attitude that comes with youth, not the bitterness that sets in for post-wall women. The author should have gone for one of the guys who liked her when she was younger. They are probably silver foxes now.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 04:04 PM
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The fact that you receive male attention is implicit dread but the fact that you ignore it gives you girlfriend brownie points because he's reassured you only want to be with him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 09:09 PM
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How could I forget this? Every guy I know loves the fake pouting. The advice given to men is to treat the girl like a bratty younger sister they really are fond of but the inverse is true. Women should treat men like their mean older brother they really do admire.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 05:13 AM
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I love it when guys playfully accept apologies. It shows that they don't take themselves too seriously. Eta: it also shows that they don't take us too seriously. Amused mastery will get you every single time.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 11:32 PM
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I think it's so interesting that at the beginning of a relationship you think it's cute that your SO is a grumpycat with a sweet tooth but as the years wear on, the little things start to annoy you. Good for you for keeping the spirit of the early relationship and being resourceful! Too many couples turn the mole-hills into mountains.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/15 12:39 AM
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I guess I should say I've improved not for this guy, but for the "right guy," whom I may not have even met yet.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:25 PM
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Commitment. I don't need him to get laid.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:23 PM
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I'm single and young. There's somebody in my life I'm interested in, so I'm dressing in prettier, more feminine clothing. He might not even have noticed, which is fine by me.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:52 AM
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Thank you! I'll read his body language when I see him next and post a mini update.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 09:14 PM
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Are you asking me personally? My post is referring to a man I met while volunteering. Neither of us is being paid so getting a raise is out of the question. And I'm not unattractive; I get a lot of attention from desirable men. I don't want him to think I'm trying too hard. I've just started wearing contacts and prettier blouses. ETA: I can't objectively gauge his interest in me because I'm interested in him.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:12 PM
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More professional but more attractive and stylish.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 06:42 PM
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It's like men who say they don't like makeup. Men don't like cake faces; they like tasteful make up.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:15 PM
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Be natural. Be yourself, but the most polite version of yourself. Remember that your SO likes you because he sees in you something that resonates with the values he grew up with. Chances are his parents see it too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/15 06:15 PM
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Tell him he looks sexy when he vacuums, lol. I guarantee you he will be happy for the rest of the weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 05:54 PM
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How much more pleasant would marriages be if instead fighting over something like whose turn it is to vacuum couples just worked together. You vacuum, he moves the furniture for you. You get to see how sexy he looks when he moves heavy things, he gets to feel sexy, and you have a clean house. Everybody is happy! It's a maturity issue when couples can't problem solve and make life together fun.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 04:44 PM
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Intellectuals tend to be lone wolf individuals They don't stand out as much as the class clowns and the jocks. The fact that they lack an overt sexual vibe means they get looked over. Eta: Like it has been said before, attractive girls don't need to develop their intellect so they don't.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:20 AM
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Youre saying that women looking for LTRs have to find a way to be sexy not slutty. I have really hard time finding the sweet spot between sexy but not too sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/15 02:07 AM
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Heres how I think of it: Xbox playing Kate Upton would hold value as a plate but well-read, good cook Kate Upton would be LTR material.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 10:39 AM
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Being intelligent doesn't necessitate having a degree. Take an interest in his field of study and he'll love it, trust me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 10:32 AM
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This was McMaster wasn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 03:22 AM
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I read both of your posts and I wanted to add that if a woman supports her man he can and will become a better prince charming. If you marry a 55% alpha and you act feminine in a way that shows him it's okay for him to be and you like it when he is a man he will step up to the plate. Likewise, a man can turn his woman into a unicorn. If my man tells me he wants me to make him a steak like Gordon Ramsey makes them I will find a youtube video and learn how. I wouldn't like it if he told me to go t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 01:19 AM
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It's pretty obvious that he likes paying and wants to do it for you. Observe how he behves with his family to find out how he likes to receive love in his love language.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 10:26 PM
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Drop a "handkerchief". I mean, ask him for help with something. A few days later remind him, "Thanks for helping me out the other day. You seem very experienced at X. How long have you been a Y?" If his response is cold, don't try to initiate any further. Wait for him to make the next move.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 10:02 PM
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I'm not the one you're asking but if he mentions something he's always wanted to do (watch a certain movie, go white water rafting) you could say something like "I've always wanted to do that too!" and if you're a bit bolder add, "we should go together"
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 09:53 PM
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"I see you're married. Is your wife a student too?" That's a very casual way of putting it. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 03:45 AM
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OMG he is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 04:22 AM
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I'll come pick you up at the disco, no drinking, no smoking. Exactly what my mom said to me. It's better for everyone's sanity this way.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 03:06 PM
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Once you graduate you will meet so many new people who share your views -- trust me. Tons of women are realizing the damage feminism is doing to male-female relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 04:59 PM
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linger by the cranberries is lovely
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 02:38 AM
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Yes. Anyone is capable of idealizing a person.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 10:51 PM
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He really loved her :) What a great example to have in your family!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 02:33 PM
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May I direct you to the Official RPW recipe thread? lol http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1ktfde/redpillwoman_official_recipe_thread/
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 04:42 AM
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awww! <3
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 09:21 PM
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I love muscles (not the steroid-level buff though). It makes a woman feel like her man could protect her if need be. Tattoos, and piercings for that matter, I dislike.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 12:54 AM
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I got that vibe in her early days. Her style has become too edgy for me to enjoy. I do envy her poise. (Gotta work on that myself.)
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 02:22 AM
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You're welcome; I hope you do!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 02:19 AM
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I like her too! A lot of people see children as a burden (sometimes subliminally, without meaning too) but she views each of her kids as a blessing. I think that's the reason why she is always to come from a place of love when she disciplines her kids.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 02:09 AM
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Old school; I like it! Speaking of books, my favourite author of all time is Jane Austen. Her characters are flawed and human and sometimes struggles with femininity themselves but they eventually figure out how to fix their mistakes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 06:23 AM
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To know that your best friend is your role model made my day. That is so awesome! :) There's that saying, that you're the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 08:34 PM
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Side note: I've found that the best way to cope with envy is to acknowledge it, not to fight it, and learn from what the other person is doing.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 03:04 PM
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I believe parents should be honest about the sexual market without making sex a taboo. It's so important for fathers and other male family members to be candid about how teenage boys think. My father always was and it deterred me from dating in high school. His advice was to wait until college and date with purpose, and that is the advice I will impart to my children. Feminism in all of its "Rah rah rah gurrl power" forgets that teenage girls do not generally have the maturity to navigate their …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 03:01 PM
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Maybe she's been really insecure about her own SMV since her previous boyfriend dumped her and is only with this guy because she doesn't feel like she has what it takes to keep an alpha down. If she were my friend I would ask her if she was serious about this guy and if not, why she was wasting her time.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 01:25 AM
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Are men put off by the strong independent kind, preferring a women they can protect?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 08:45 PM
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What annoys me about feminists is that a) they don't use logic b) they substitute logic with yelling and shame tactics and c) they expect me to apologize for my opinions. is that it's all focused on being able to have sex with as many guys as possible sex* without consequence FTFY
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 03:36 AM
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Tit pill: the end of breast implants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 11:02 PM
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it essentially states that women with body modifications are "ugly feminists." I think that's just a common cause relationship. Conservative women tend not to be feminists. Conservatives also tend not to approve of body mods. Liberal women tend to approve of feminism and body mods. Woman here. Personally, I do not like piercings or tattoos (on myself or on others). However, I have one piercing in each earlobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 10:58 PM
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Not usually. But today a friend and I were girl-squealing over something and her boyfriend mimicked us, lol. It's definitely just playful teasing most of the time, like user/FleetiingWish said.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 09:44 PM
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Most women I talk to are like-minded (aside from the vocally feminist ones) Honestly I just share my opinions without using rp lingo and most women agree with me. For instance, the other day this girl I was talking to said "I don't need a man. I'm an independent woman" In my pre-RP days I would have said "Heck yeah! Gurrrl poweerrr" but instead I said, "We all say that but we know we don't really mean it." And she said, "You're right. I just say it to make myself feel better about being single."…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 08:13 PM
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Coconut oil is also really great as a hot oil treatment/hair mask (or any type of oil, really) http://thebeautybrains.com/2007/05/14/two-natural-oils-that-make-your-hair-shiny-and-strong/
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 01:42 AM
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I'm so, so, so sorry for your loss. <3 Big bear hug
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 08:23 PM
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I didn't think much of this event because I don't care much about my birthday and I never celebrate it. Explain it to her kind of like you explained it here.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 12:44 AM
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I want a man who pushes me to improve myself in all areas of my life in a supportive and caring way. I would wager to say that most women do. This can't be the only reason she broke up with him; there has to be a bigger issue.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 12:23 AM
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We need higher standards for ourselves and the people around us. That's what I love about the red pill, it forces me to become a better person and socialize more.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:16 AM
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I really do wonder if this is the same for men, that a man becomes masculine when his SO acts feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 05:11 PM
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Taking your husband's last name is basically telling the world that you're proud to be a new part of his family, and that you're his. I think hyphenation is a nice compromise. I like my father's name.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 08:32 PM
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She has to see that you're still hard-working and ambitious when it comes to your career.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:45 AM
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I think I could forgive an SO, but cheating itself wouldn't ruin the relationship, the loss of trust would.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:20 AM
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Yes the world is full of Shit and horror but it's not JUST like that. My new life's motto. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:14 AM
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We all feel a bit alienated, love. (Especially at 17) I can't stand being around my feminist friends anymore and I hate myself for it. You'll go off to college and find like-minded friends, if you ditch the pessimistic attitude. Work the system. While tons of girls are giving it away for free, maintain your value. Even if you do end up falling for a "beta" guy, be the woman who makes him feel like a man and he will act like one.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:13 AM
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Exactly. I agree that the media should lay off pregnant and post-partum women, but fat acceptance for lazy people? Even post-partum women can get back in shape!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 11:47 AM
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Exactly. What really helped him, I think, was that my mother didn't treat him too differently because of it. She was gentler, more supportive and less demanding, but it was clear he was still the respected head of the household and a man in her eyes. I read on here that some women just get disgusting with their husbands when they show weakness but my mom was very understanding. Heck, the man started his own business when he was a teenager and became a millionaire by his mid-twenties. Even in his…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 11:40 AM
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Ah, I see. I was thinking of getting into skirts as well and realize I have no idea how to wear them in outfits!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 11:35 AM
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That is really inspirational. Thank you for the thorough reply!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 11:34 AM
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Instead of t-shirts, you could wear pretty, feminine blouses and instead of jeans you could wear khakis or dressier trousers. It's the same formula, just dressed up.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 11:20 PM
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I've never seen my father be anything but the Alpha male of the group. (Come to think of it he's kind of meek around his older brother.) He's not cocky, he does it with humour and he has has that natural "alpha vibe". I find it very inspiring how it comes so naturally to him. My mom is somewhat purple pill and I never understood their relationship until I read red pill theories. My dad went through a really rough period of depression a year or two ago, though. Now he's back to his tough self.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 08:39 PM
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Off topic (hope this is okay) but how did you beat your ADHD?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:01 AM
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A woman who puts effort into her appearance to please her man/men (e.g. doing yoga and pilates) is generally inclined to please her man (and by extension his friends) in other ways (footing her share of the bill, being generally kind and pleasant.) Notice how Doradus, who doesn't care about what men think of her appearance, doesn't care what men think of her rotten personality either. Unicorn quality=taking good care of oneself yet not being obnoxiously high maintenance (5,000 suitcases when tra…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:20 PM
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Ahh, 1 Sigma as in above average. Now I get it! Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:01 PM
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The chances are very slim, I can almost guarantee you that her parents want her to marry someone from within their circles and have probably drilled that into her brain from an early age. Edit to add: If you are also very well connected it might work. Your connections weigh more than the money you make, as they demonstrate your potential to make more money.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:47 PM
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What is a sigma woman like? Introverted yet sweet?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:37 PM
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Hi :) Long time lurker here, this thread has encouraged me to finally make an account. It's nice to see a little place on the internet where women help each other become better women. I want to improve myself for my future husband and children, as well as become a better daughter, sister, and friend.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 10:53 PM
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