Do women suffer from oneitis

followtheRaven · 2014-07-31T15:46:28+00:00

If you play your cards right, definitely.

TheInkerman · 2014-07-31T15:49:33+00:00

Yes, I'd say to an even more extreme extent than men do, but in order to maintain that level of infatuation the guy has to have very strong frame and good game.

noblepaladin · 2014-07-31T18:55:46+00:00

Yes, the difference is that she has the option to screw many other guys while she pursues her oneitis, whereas guys typically remain sexless when they suffer from oneitis.

g4rb4g3account · 2014-07-31T16:01:32+00:00

oh yeah, definitely. i have a female co-worker i'm friendly with and she's an attractive girl (perfect ass, thank god for pencil skirts), i don't know how she behaves in relationships of course but she performs well at work and i know her to be very intelligent. i JUST listened to her drone on for 10 minutes to another co-worker about this guy she is crazy about but he treats her like a plate, only wants bootycalls. she listed off no less than 10 undesirable traits he has, including a criminal record and the inability to carry on a half decent conversation, but she has been wrapped up with him for months. i want to send her an anonymous link to TRPwomen or something to give her head a shake. if anything, i think women get more oneitis than men do.

bicepsblastingstud · 2014-07-31T15:55:56+00:00

Yes, called "alpha widows."

AskmeIfIamFapping · 2014-07-31T16:51:08+00:00

Yes. But remember,

Women are emotional creatures. Her oneitis might last 2 months or 2 hours.
If you are spinning plates, a woman's oneitis might come back and bite you in the ass. Been there done that.
There is no such thing as unconditional love. She has oneitis for you because of some specific trait that you exhibit. You lose that trait and there goes her oneitis.
AWALT.AWALT.AWALT. Don't lower your guard. You think she has oneitis over you? Well, don't let that influence your game plan and start believing that you have found a unicorn.

box_cutter_ · 2014-07-31T22:51:08+00:00

Yes. Anyone is capable of idealizing a person.

leodoestheopposite · 2014-07-31T18:08:27+00:00

I was thinking about that, in a way a man's oneitis is the equivalent of a a when a man pulls the Dread Game on a woman.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-07-31T20:40:01+00:00

The term is "Alpha Widow"

theycallme1 · 2014-08-01T03:05:23+00:00

Absolutely. It does not happen because of an emotional connection though. If you give a chick the most intense set of orgasms she's ever had, the chemicals it releases in her emulate euphoric love. They get hooked.

LineOfCoke · 2014-07-31T18:27:40+00:00

god yes they suffer oneitis. ever seen a dumb bitch witha black eye and a bloody mouth wailing and blubering about how woderful the dude who beat her ass is?

kick6 · 2014-07-31T16:14:45+00:00

Women do, but it's much more short-lived, and it can be turned off instantaneously.

mordanus · 2014-07-31T21:25:52+00:00

There is actually a reason for that. Men find tons of women attractive. We are willing to bone the majority of women we come in contact with. We also fall in love easier as a result of that. We have more options to choose from in our love pool.

Women on the other hand don't like the majority of men. To them 80 percent of the men on earth is below average. The 80% through 90% are average and the top ten percent of men are above average. That is how women view us.

So if you took a group of 100 men, women would look at 10 of you and think "Those guys are slightly above average" and might have feelings for those ten guys. The rest of us that fall into the average or below women will use to fill up their validations or will use us for our resources.

Anyways that is the exact reason that you hardly ever see women get oneitis. We talk about it a bit as alpha widowing so you can look that up a bit if you want

BaeCaughtMeJackinOff · 2014-07-31T16:49:33+00:00

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Title	Do women suffer from oneitis
Author	Reddthrown
Upvotes	10
Comments	20
Date	July 31, 2014 3:26 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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