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But that means giving up on raising a family, and a lot of us want to do that
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 08:52 AM
1

Yep. I am quite well off but one of my deal breaker is reciprocity. It may not take the form of paying for dates, but that’s one very clear way (and to be clear reciprocity means giving something back that’s relatively equivalent given our respective means - if you get coffee when I get dinner and you’re a student, I am honoured, if you’re a banker, I am insulted). Another deal breaker is inflexibility - that makes divorce a virtual certainty.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 06:38 PM
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I’m 43 and life could not be better. It gets better each year if you work hard and smart
/r/TheRedPill09/08/23 04:53 PM
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Most importantly they carry on dating the 21 year old gorgeous girls, all the while having a mariage for social status - and they can have both
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 02:24 PM
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It’s not a flaw! Please don’t lose the asset of being attached to someone, it’s a terrible idea to date around. However, move on swiftly if they don’t meet the bar.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 08:36 AM
2

Sounds like you are not into either of them. I feel like you should end it with both and start anew, they’re keeping you from the chance to meet someone you will both like and be attracted to.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 02:38 PM
5

Rather, isn't the issue leading to so many divorces: - Early on in life, insane social pressure to sleep around with as many people as possible until you approach 30, instead of actually looking for and learning how to build a trusted relationship; - Insane expectations from a life partner and unwillingness to accept nothing less than perfection; - Unwillingness to actually work on relationships (and by that I mean find a compromise that works, with efforts made by us too, rather than "yeah why …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 11:14 AM
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Have you considered an open discussion about what you both could live with in terms of actual behaviour and whether something that works for both can be achieved? Reading your post, it doesn’t seem like you are communicating healthily and your expectations seem geared towards revenge and total victory over a third party (the mother) rather than achieving a situation where you are both happy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 10:52 AM
4

Well…. Here are the actual facts: 75% if you have your vasectomy reversed within 3 years up to 55% after 3 to 8 years between 40% and 45% after 9 to 14 years 30% after 15 to 19 years less than 10% after 20 years https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/vasectomy-reversal-nhs/
/r/askTRP28/01/22 06:02 PM
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Women prefer a younger man, but it's secondary to many other things. Just look at who successful single older men are dating. And successful can mean rich, but not always (and even so they very rarely actually pay) - successful non-rich men are doing equally well. There are so many examples, this is a good example of your hamster spinning very very hard.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 11:37 PM
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Being 50 when he's 63 is a bonus. Look at women and men that age... Women age fast. Whereas an attractive 50 year-old man will be attracting a lot of attention from women of all ages.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 06:42 PM
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Bwahahaha - a 30-year old successful man will pick a younger woman any day. Age is very unkind to women, particularly single women who date and party around. It's not fair, but it is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 06:39 PM
8

You know she was 35 when they met, right? She was born in 1978.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 04:41 PM
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By the way, is there a reason why they seem to hit on patients? I've just been to the hospital (cycling accident) and it seems being a patient makes you more attractive to hospital staff. Do they have a fetish or something?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:46 AM
139

My favourite "he dates younger women because women his age don't want him". loooool sure, you keep telling yourself that.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:33 AM
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They are. But, to be fair, so are men. Frankly most people just don't seek to better themselves and stay the same until the day they die. They just become better are presenting a socially acceptable face.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:32 AM
1

The lower the n count the better. The younger the bettter. The hotter the better. The more agreeable the better. Etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 06:52 PM
3

You’re wrong. And no one demands that - but that is what they are attracted to. It’s the equivalent of saying women want hot, young, mature, smooth, worldly, billionaires, who are also presidents of the USA and have several Olympic gold medals and a few oscars under their belt. Most women would want that, but whether it’s realistic is a different question.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 06:45 PM
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That’s not my job, although you’re not far off. The point is they’re places from which people start out. Yes, they open doors and give the best possible shot at a top career. But just a shot. 90% of those who try for the elite career fail and end up in a good but not elite job, Harvard or no Harvard. If you’re on LinkedIn have a look at the jobs Harvard graduates actually hold after 20 years. Anyway my point remains: they’re projects. More likely to succeed, but still projects.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 06:41 PM
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lol - yeah, Harvard MBAs are babies. Average age 27, even with the mature students. And about half get fired from their job after two years because they don’t cut it. It’s just a school, somewhere you start out, not the end.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 06:29 PM
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Not really - they have laid the groundwork but are still at the start of their careers, with a lot of hard work ahead to keep progressing. Anyway, my point was “project” is all relative.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 04:43 PM
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No one has said you had to be TRP’s perfect woman. That is an entirely different point. The point is that if you want to know what men want, reading TRP is an excellent source. There is simply no better one. Then it’s your choice what to do with the information. That said, you not liking the information does not make it any less true.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 04:18 AM
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You are totally wrong. Men are not allowed to say so, but they are repulsed by the thought of their partner having sex with anyone but them, including before they met. You’re demonstrating the importance of OP’s point.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 03:52 AM
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I’m upvoting you because this is exactly how most women think - they’re not allowed to say so, but it’s the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 03:48 AM
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Depends how you define “project”. It’s too vague. Do you mean the Olympic athlete who just got an Harvard MBA and is starting his first job at an investment bank, or do you mean the the drug addict who is about to start a 5 year prison sentence? They’re both “projects”, with hard slogs ahead, but their likelihood of success is markedly different.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 03:46 AM
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Technically true, but more than 95% of men will share the same truth on things like physical attraction. You’ll find the view of that 95% on TRP. It might not be expressed well and be expressed by damaged frustrated men, but it is still accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 03:40 AM
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You’re right that the majority of posters on TRP are frustrated losers and best avoided. However, OP does not deny this. OP’s point, which is correct, is that the sub is not censored and tells you exactly what all men think privately but are not allowed to say in public. Yes, you may not like the truth. But it is the truth. And no as hominem argument will change that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 02:57 PM
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I struggle with this too. What works with me is adjusting my expectations. I expect people to bullshit, and am impressed when they do not. I can’t control other people, but I can control my reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 08:35 AM
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This is not an airport, no need to announce your departure.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 08:24 AM
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Watch this: https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6178r9 Looks are not key.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:44 AM
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The older I get the more I realise that, for long term relationships, personality is important. Looks matter, but you will get bored of your partner a looks eventually. But a good personality helps keep you happy. I say that as a 40 year old that won’t date anyone over 23 though... so maybe take my view with a pinch of salt.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:26 AM
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I’ll voice one more thing that’s is implicit in the post. Understanding men does not mean being a doormat. I understand women’s desire to ride the cock carousel and marry a beta later - that does not mean I will be there to pick up a post-wall woman. TRP will help you understand how men — all men — truly think. Then it is up to you what to do with the knowledge.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 07:23 AM
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Join a rowing club. Full body workout and no long term damage to your body.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:23 AM
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Yeah, when a girls asks me to kill animals, that’s when I pack and leave. She must have been really hot.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/20 04:39 AM
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Thanks guys. The day/night ended well because out of the blue another girl I’d gone on one date with and forgotten about texted me “wanna hang out I’m bored” and came to spend the night at my place.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:23 AM
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Yeah, no. You see, when you become more senior it gets harder and harder to move up, and even to keep your job. That's conveniently when successful women latch up to a provider, high expectations and all. And no, divorce rape is not better because the guideline is maintaining her living standards and you can be sure they'll be sky high. There are benefits. I personally need a smart and clever partner. They also help you network by making you look good and knowing how to talk to senior people. Bu…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:21 AM
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Yeah, no, if you're really senior women do make passes at you and it's hard to turn them down.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 02:49 PM
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Now's mine time to share the best clip ever (needs sound): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YoWom0CCRKM A doctor can be alpha too. Also, girls don't need to know your job anyway.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:29 PM
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I'll chime in as 40 yo Big Law partner. Just go for online dating - this is where busy women go, and that includes successful women. Also, leverage your social circle - your successful friends have successful friends themselves. That said, to be honest, I'm starting to think successful women are not all that. Turns out they tend to be argumentative (indeed they're confident and know what they want), but, more annoyingly, they have very high expectations. They are used to being treated well and c…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:24 PM
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Is it an overbite? Consider jaw surgery. Have a look here: https://www.qvh.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/A-guide-for-pts-considering-orthognathic-surgery-Rvw-February-2020.pdf It's a brutal operation, but it's worth it. I did it as a teenager and am happy to chat with you about it. People treat you different, not just women, when you have a large overbite.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:59 AM
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Do you have a link? I am interested. My experience with that age group is that they pretty much did all the work for me - they had decided they wanted to get laid, and I was there for the ride.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 01:36 AM
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Good point. Need to check, but I think that’s not an issue for my location.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:52 AM
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I lived in Argentina quite a long time ago but back then, I had a great time. The girls work out a lot and have great bodies. It’s also their job to make their man happy. They love foreigners, especially if you’re white. If not, not so much. On the down side, they don’t have particularly nice faces and cheating by both sexes is normal there. Culturally, it’s also very different to what you’d be used to in the USA and you’re unlikely to enjoy working there.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:51 AM
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Nah, that’s when you have money, connections, and the knowledge to make anything happen
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:03 PM
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Thanks, very good points. She just knows how to be feminine and turn on a man at the same time, all the while giving 100% attention. Possibly the second woman I met who knew how to do it.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:57 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Funnily enough, despite having dated several very rich women, it never made them more appealing when you’re dating them. They’re still a person you’re spending a lot of time with, and no amount of money can make up for that if you’re no longer happy in the relationship.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:54 PM
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I am 40. Never enjoyed getting drunk, but a lot of my friends did. By the time they hit 30 they looked old. At 40 their faces are red and puffy, their skin is bad. Partying (ie drinking) will catch up with you, I’m afraid. It’s possible to party without drinking though.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:51 PM
1

I’d rather keep it confidential but it’s a Western, yet conservative, country. AmLaw 50 firm.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:35 PM
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She never got over being rejected and hated me for it. There’s a reason women tend to never reject men outright: they would react badly if it happened to them. And it did not get better. It got worse because she then proceeded to be very successful in our small field.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:11 PM
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I've revived this alt account just to post this. Tread very carefully. When I started out, one of my colleagues pulled all her moves on me. I was not interested and pretended not to notice and not to be available. Maybe not the best approach, but that's what I did. After a few months she started dating someone else from the office. She then proceeded to tell everyone how evil I am. She turned that guy, who was almost a friend, against me. When I went to get coffee she'd come to my office and tel…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:25 PM
2

Find a sport you enjoy - gymnastics, ballet, athletics... Perfect way to get a social life and increase both your health and looks.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 10:49 AM
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Yes - keep it civil. A couple of months ago my ex mailed me the originals of my university degrees. We broke up over 4 years ago. She had taken and kept them all this time without telling me. You never know what they are up to.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 10:17 AM
3

Jedi wave - "these are not the friends you are looking for, come with me".
/r/askTRP03/06/17 10:14 AM
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One more lesson: post-breakup unprotected sex is something they all seem to want (and know how to get). Do not fall for it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:42 PM
1

That man is not eccentric. He's either (i) crazy (the bad kind), or (ii) a married man having an affair in his secret bachelor bad. Run for the hills.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 11:16 AM
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Why do you think the balance to the negative traits of women is those of men? Surely it would be the positive traits of women. To answer your question: the sub is about self-improvement. So it requires looking at things that may need improving and that you have control on. Yes, as a result, it is does look like self-flagellation at times. But you cannot improve others for them, and there are other subs for self-congratulation.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 10:02 AM
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That's too complicated. Here's how I would look at a profile, a few years ago: Necessary: Casual pictures showing she is pretty. That's the only one that matters, really; Good: Enough pictures that I can actually know what she looks like (that means include a full body shot); A profile that is pleasant to read, even better if funny; A profile that shows that she can bring something to the table (she cooks, she's interesting, she's highly educated...). Bad: Empty profile ("just ask" types); Any m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 12:46 PM
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I was like that as a teenager. The main problem is I was putting girls on a pedestal. In reality, they are as bad as men, if not worse. I solved it by forcing myself to take one step at a time. First, talk to girls. Second, hang out with girls. Third, go on dates. Fourth, kiss. Five, take it as far as you want.
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:02 AM
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Yes. And they don't even mind sleeping around (at least outside the villages). Probably the least conservative Asian culture on that subject, in my experience.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 01:39 PM
2

What are you on about? The dating game is awesome - you can have as many girls as you like, and it's ok until "you become exclusive". Sure, girls do no work, but it's always been the case. Now you're not even expected to commit or stay for long. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 09:25 AM
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not getting promoted or paid enough? Guess who dominates all HR? In fairness, HR has little say in either. But in reality women get favorable treatment for both pay and promotions all the time - they just tend to pick less rewarding professions (like HR).
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 09:19 AM
2

Her bedroom, when the parents are out. Or the parents bedroom. Just do it when she's the only one at home.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 09:11 AM
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Sleeping with a hooker and sleeping with someone that actually wants to sleep with you are two very different things. That said, if you are white, Vietnam is a great place to find the latter.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 09:07 AM
1

Rewards for giving good advice. I think they don't exist anymore.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 07:33 PM
1

Good points - obviously mariage is out of the question here.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 07:28 PM
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Most people will tell you to dump her - and that's the most likely outcome. However, if you have some attraction for her, you can try to salvage this by enforcing boundaries and beeing open about what you want. It will be a lot of work, more than finding another girl. For example: "Of course when I brought this all up, she got extremely upset and afraid I'm going to call off the wedding if she doesn't fix it and that I'm giving her an ultimatum." So what if she gets upset? Of course she will - y…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:53 PM
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Not sure - I always thought my oneitis was relatively plain, but she wormed her way in. Oddly enough, what helped was her changing her name when she got married.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 05:21 PM
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You're right, but the problem is that that beta fantasies is immensely pleasurable. It's like an addiction. I know it's not real, but it feels so good it's hard not to believe.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 05:19 PM
1

I've learned through experience that it's better to make your move as early as possible. If you wait until you are "comfortable", it is too late.
/r/seduction28/08/16 08:43 PM
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This is likely her way to say she's not interested. Just find a day that works ONCE - and if she comes up with an excuse and does not spontaneously propose a new date, drop her.
/r/seduction28/08/16 08:38 PM
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I hate to be the one raining on your parade, but that's just wishful thinking and is tainted by the position from which the UK is starting. The UK is likely the worst place on earth to get a divorce: Pre-nups are not binding and until recently were illegal; All past and present assets are merged in marriage, including retirement funds (so she gets half your stuff/debts and you get half her stuff/debts - guess who usually has stuff and who usually has debt); After divorce, the judge must allocate…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:47 PM
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I'm 36. It was all easy until I turned 13, then it went to hell until 23, and has improved every single year since then.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:39 PM
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Yep. My instant impression of the guy in a suit in OP's post was: "intern".
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:54 PM
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Levis' - you can get a pack of quality t-shirts at a good price.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:51 PM
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He could have picked a nice pair at least, not the dangly horror in his pic.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:49 PM
0

This thread illustrates why Americans can be spotted a mile away when travelling. Anyway - dress to look good in your environment. What works in Biarritz may not work in Dallas, and vice versa. For general advice, instead of the links above, I would recommend www.styleforum.net
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:46 PM
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He's spending one day a week with her. Given how busy he is, that's a lot. Sorry, but she comes across as ungrateful. If she wants to see him more often, she needs to make an effort too. Perhaps meet him for lunch at work?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/16 11:51 AM
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Or he can help Dan through a tough time and get a top quality, extremely loyal, employee in return. Short term thinking is not always a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:17 PM
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This is the oldest story in the book. At some point, he will go to her to have something permanent. As soon as he has made the move (but not before), she will dump him.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 01:50 PM
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That's cute. You finish at 8.30pm. Either you don't work very hard, or you're a rentier.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 10:59 AM
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"Only one way to find out"
/r/askTRP16/04/16 02:32 PM
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I don't like spending money on dates. So I generally go on cheap dates. If we eventually do something with a real cost (say, above $30) and she makes no effort to contribute, she's out.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 02:49 PM
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Wow - you know you've reached a new level of ugly when even the "cheerleader effect" does not make you find the women attractive.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 07:29 PM
1

Clearly we were hanging out with different crowds.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:48 PM
1

Neither really, more like she is just along for the ride. She's into it but not aware that she might do something. If dominance is your thing it might work, but you'll have to be specific about every detail.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 11:31 PM
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They're not great. They will do everything you want them to do, but they're very passive. I met one good one - that's it. Talked to a guy who had been living there 15 years, he said I was lucky to find one.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:54 PM
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It is manageable, just accept you have a high change of getting mugged. Street smarts will reduce risk, but won't eliminate it. I wouldn't worry about kidnappings (other than by farcs seeking publicity) - it's much easier to kidnap locals than bother with a foreigner (not only will you attract more attention from the police, getting money from abroad is hard, especially from people who probably don't speak Spanish).
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:26 PM
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The main danger is people who will want to mug or otherwise rob you. It's a danger you have to live with, as you stand out and look rich, but can mitigate by (i) getting travel insurance; (ii) using the usual street smarts and never considering anywhere as "safe" (never walk in Cali at night); (iii) carrying little money on you (but enough that you'll have something to give, think $30-50); (iv) never taking a mobile phone or camera out in public; (v) getting around only in taxis you have called …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:07 PM
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It may also depend where you meet girls. Going out dancing was the best place to meet or take someone before it led to something. Edit: but I'd advise keeping an open mind. E.g. I ended up with my salsa teacher, my bus tour guide, the friend of a girl I met on the bus, my neighbour at the "festival del pacifico", etc...
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 02:20 PM
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Thanks - but isn't the "off topic" subreddit exactly to post stuff not directly related? If I got it wrong happy to remove my post.
/r/TRPOffTopic04/03/16 10:02 AM
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Confirm. Being black in Colombia is not a good thing. Less likely to get mugged though (as they'll think you're poor).
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 10:01 AM
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What are your priorities? If it's women, prioritise Cali above all else. They're not very good looking elsewhere (although slightly better in Medellin, and Cartagena old town is 99% foreigners). If it's culture, you may be spending too much time in some these cities. Have look at what you want to do, and try to do the trek to Ciudad Perdida.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:59 AM
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Thailand is very different - normal Thai girls will be very wary of sleeping with a foreigners because (i) it's frowned upon in middle class society, and (ii) they are aware of their reputation and want to prove to you they're not like that. Only go to Thailand if you want to settle down there long term (and even then it will be hard to find a normal girl), or if you are willing to pay to play. Colombia is the perfect place if you want to sleep with lots of normal local women.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:52 AM
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I spent a month and a half travelling around Colombia, and confirm everything you say, except: The vast majority of women sleep with you right after they meet you. The other girls the next night. I had just one make me wait till the third date; Cali definitely has the hottest girls (sadly its the most dangerous place). The rest of the country is sub-average in my view, unless you like short dark girls with thick thighs and average faces. As you note, easiest place in the world to get laid though…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:49 AM
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You're welcome. You will look confident if you speak slowly and clearly. No one will realise you are not if you do that. Given what you say about confidence and anxiety, one thing that might be useful would be to record a video of yourself giving answers. You will feel nervous, but when you watch yourself, you will see that you look a lot less nervous than you felt. Think about the times you watched someone give a speech - they rarely look nervous, but I guarantee you that all of them were extre…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:44 PM
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I've just conducted a very similar group interview minutes ago. Here's my advice on each item: (i) Present to everyone about yourself: Practice, practice, practice in front of a mirror (to check body language). By the time you get there you should know by heart what you will say. First, start by making a list of the key things that must come accross to the interviewers. To establish the list, put yourself in the shoes of the interviewers and make a list of 1-5 bullet points of the things they wi…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:10 PM
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Hahaha, yes, of course. Minus handjobs, blowjobs, one night stands, and people you regretted sleeping with.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 09:54 AM
2

It means you have to keep your chest up while you go at it so you don't smother her. I'm not NBA tall, but pretty tall, and it's actually not that great with short girls. Taller girls are far more comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:00 PM
1

What on earth are girls thinking. "I have cancer" - is that supposed to turn me on? OP, I admire you for having the libido to go for her after she dropped that bomb.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 04:55 PM
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Try highly educated guys. They should be smart enough to know their limits.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 12:10 PM
1

Not sure why you're arguing with everybody - this sub is full of angry men who realise they have been misled all their lives and need to vent. No need to expose yourself to that. Go to r/redpillwomen.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 11:56 AM
2

Hahaha - get in shape and it won't seem taxing. The question is how long it takes you to do it. I'd expect 40 minutes if you are in average shape. Is 40 minutes of exercise that daunting?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:46 PM
1

I don't get the guys who worry that they might not get a girl because of their penis. Don't they find out about whatever issue you might have until you're both naked and committed to sex?
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:01 PM
2

Thanks. Just donated.
/r/MensRights11/02/16 04:15 PM
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Whisper. It's stupidly effective.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 01:25 PM
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This sounded too good to be true, so I tried it. Within 20 minutes a guy asked me how much money I need... I'd go further, but this is too depressing, and just plain wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 05:46 PM
2

It is indeed astronomic by Brazilian standards. To put things in perspective, USD1,000/month will get you a huge flat in the best parts of Rio. A huge pizza on the main (expensive) beach in Rio will cost about USD 10.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 04:11 PM
1

Well - depends how comfortable you are with these odds: http://www.contraceptivetechnology.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/CTFailureTable.pdf
/r/askTRP01/02/16 04:01 PM
17

There already is a "bachelor tax" in most the world. It's not called that, but it's the consequence of married couples getting a tax discount.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:30 PM
6

Angry much?
/r/TRPOffTopic24/01/16 02:53 PM
1

No - she dumped the man who "stopped trying" (and it seems only wanted her for sex), to focus on the current one (whom she had already been dating-but-not-having-sex-with for a month at the time, in parallel to the first guy).
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 10:50 PM
1

Understood. Thanks. I don't think "agreeing to being exclusive" was what TempestTcup meant by "relationship" in her question above, but there you go...
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 10:15 PM
1

I still don't understand. How were you not in a relationship with the current guy two months ago?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 09:03 PM
1

I don't understand. You said two months ago that you were seeing a guy once a week for sex (https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenOver30/comments/3qlxl2/men_when_you_start_dating_a_women_after_say_2/cwgefcn?context=3). Today, you say that you have been dating another guy for three months. How can you say you were not having sex with other men while in a relationship with this one?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 08:54 PM
1

I'm really interested in the advice in this thread. From your post history, it sounds like a toughy: you're 33, have hit the wall, and are having difficulty going from dating three guys at once to "only" one (and been on dates with "over" 60 men in 2015). You've been dating your current guy for three months, but two months ago you were sleeping with another guy and asking reddit how to get him to commit. IMHO - read the sidebar, learn to build slowly but surely, and don't rush into relationships…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 08:42 PM
1

Locals would mind their own business. But boyfriends would likely do something. Admittedly, it's speculation either way. The Police is here to collect bribe and blackmail you out of some money. They most definitely would have done nothing.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:42 PM
1

No idea about that. Solidarity is definitely not big on the agenda over there. That said, I don't know the detail of what happened in Cologne, but I doubt it was a case of men not defending their girlfriends.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:07 PM
1

Hahaha. There are problems in Western Europe, but the solution certainly isn't in Russia. It's a dump even by third-world standards. Slavs and Russians are the world's biggest braggarts, and the worse off their country (e.g. Russia), the more they brag to compensate. This article is a good illustration. Anyway - it is no accident that most Russian women would rather date anyone but a Russian guy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 12:19 PM
3

It's common the first time you have sex or the first time you have sex with a new person. Don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:48 PM
1

Almost everyone on TRP has been where you are, and to be honest, it's tough for men until they get a job and become financially independent. From there on, you'll be able to craft your life, and things get better and better.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:40 PM
6

He could also become a great lawyer. Muscles are really not mandatory for that job.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:17 PM
1

Just go after girls you can meet in person and keep working on yourself. There is no easy way out.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:55 AM
1

Dude - you've actually never met the girl in person? Seriously? What sort of girl do you think goes online to find a husband? And you think you're not the naive blue pill guy here? Also, I've dated girls from all over the world and none are better or worse than American girls. The reality is that girls are mostly the same everywhere. While going to poor countries will increase your SMV, that is all the difference it will make. If you can't find a good girl in the US, you are unlikely to find one…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 11:50 PM
3

Shit. Same story with my ex. Thanks for that one.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 10:46 AM
4

That girl is as damaged as Angelina Jolie. She somehow managed to escape the mega alarm bells Jolie carries around, but she had a rough upbringing and a bumpy ride along the way. You don't end up marrying, having two kids with, and divorcing Sheen by accident.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 07:55 PM
3

That made me sad.
/r/TRPOffTopic26/11/15 12:12 PM
7

More red flags than at Stalin's funeral, yet oneitis still kicks in. You know what you have to do. To the rest of us, this shows how strong oneitis can get.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 01:49 PM
6

My own sample size with Hispanics indicates the opposite.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:47 AM
2

Proceed as usual. You're just going to have to spend more time dealing with her shit, as she will be around more often. Dread will be harder, as you will be around more often. Basically, it makes it harder, but the rules stay the same.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 11:22 AM
1

It sounds like you are very young, and therefore being tested by older colleagues, and taking it to heart a bit too much. Do read the Carnegie book, but I think all you need is to age a bit and get some experience/confidence.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:41 AM
18

There is no rule. Women just have access to sex if they want it - that does not mean they all go on binges. It's a bit like food - there are fat girls, skinny girls, girls that only eat organic sustainable stuff, and girls that binge on fast food.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:39 AM
3

Paleo is based on a large body of scientific study. No it's not. And it's too new to have any real study behind it. It does have some seriously good advice, such as cutting out processed food, refined sugar, and salt (i.e. the main problems with our modern diet), but also some terrible advice, such as removing grains, legumes, and dairy.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 08:14 PM
3

Paleo makes no sense at all. Eating healthy does - and it may overlap with paleo - but don't less yourself be ruled by a fad.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:06 PM
3

I found a unicorn. Interesting Virgin, religious, family-oriented, not very social. Or so she says. 1 other BF before and the relationship lasted about 1 year She almost certainly slept with him. You don't wait a year, particularly in South America. Also "boyfriend / novio" has a different meaning in South America. It means you agree to be in a long term, exclusive, relationship with a view towards marriage. She has had relationships with other boys, probably slept with them too, but they were n…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:42 PM
-1

Just say hi, raise your hand/wave, and walk past him or stand sufficiently far that he can't grab your hand.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:54 PM
1

Just say hello and don't shake his hand.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:48 PM
6

I agree with what the commentators have said, but a lot of this seems to be your own doing: "I tell him to shut up and go away". That is just never acceptable in any corporate environment. If you tell us more about the situation we can suggest better ways to react next time. If you break something that belongs to someone else, even if you don't think it's valuable, you apologize immediately. It does not matter if it's worthless. You damaged it. Refusing to speak English while working. Why should…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:23 PM
1

Crying is normal - don't pretend you don't have emotions. However, never do it in front of a woman. She will lose all respect for you.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:13 PM
7

Post-wall women are the easiest to get along with. Flirt a little with them, and they will love you forever.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:34 PM
7

Depends. Although in my experience a young girl going for an older guy is not on her first rodeo.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:00 AM
1

No - it can work out sometimes. Here it was just silly.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:51 AM
2

As a lawyer, I second this. The public defenders / court appointed attorneys only do this because they can't get work from people who would actually choose them. And as noted, they are overworked and underpaid.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:48 AM
28

As a wise man once said, if you party in Mr. Shit's house, don't be surprised if he shows up.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:56 PM
6

That's banter, and the tone communicates that you are not serious. Neg/bluntness/sarcasm are something different.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:30 PM
9

This. Also, OP, no offence but men don't naturally "neg" and communicate bluntly or through sarcasm. That's typical shit testing from a spoiled girl and that's what girls do (particularly when they're the "golden pussy").
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:35 PM
36

This - but take the threesome first, then run as far away as your legs will take you.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:02 PM
2

Let's take Gandhi. He did not changed anyone's mind. He harnessed the anti-British sentiment and desire for self rule among the Indian population, and led the Indian people to independence. He did not create that sentiment or change anyone's mind - but he knew how to use these for the most effective outcome.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 01:45 PM
0

Leaders don't change people's mindsets - they harness them to make things happen.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:00 PM
9

You need more than 6.5 hours sleep a day. Especially if you're exercising and working hard.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:51 PM
1

No. He convinced himself not to go back for Christmas because he did not have the money (when in fact he had it). Previously, over thanksgiving, he spent less time with his dad because his gf "mandated" him not to.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:14 PM
2

Of all the stupid depressing stories I read daily on reddit, this one got to me the most. Poor dad.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:09 PM
1

Or the alpha would say "sure, go" and do something he enjoys instead.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:23 PM
2

HAHAHAHHAHAA - my thoughts as I read that, exactly.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 08:21 PM
37

500 dollars is not worth potentially going to prison.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:42 PM
1

Can you afford a personal trainer? Get one, lift, and start eating a lot.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:35 AM
6

Men don't care about your "high social circle". Also, choosing a photo with people prettier than you is a big cliche. The rule is: it's always the least attractive girl.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 12:43 PM
3

Yeah, Twitter is where the bad girls hang out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 12:41 PM
8

"being you" - what does that even mean? She should be herself at her best: good honest photos, and happy profile.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 07:56 AM
9

I would advise against any sort of "laying down the rules". Back when I was online dating, that was a massive turn off. Likewise with any "only message me if" or other "must haves" and "dislikes". Keep it positive only. Have 4-5 good (but honest) pictures of you, and a joyful profile (short or long, no matter as long as its happy). Nothing negative - present yourself as a happy person. If you want men to go crazy for you, add a photo of you baking. If you are looking for something serious, the w…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 07:54 AM
1

He's my favourite too. I love his corny line about flowers in bloom.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:46 PM
1

Newsflash - he still likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 01:49 PM
8

Wheymen
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:43 PM
2

I'll repeat this here: The key point is why does she go from end of the spectrum to the other. She explains it candidly: she misses a compliment on her body, and she loses social standing in her group of friends because she can't give advice as a previously married woman. Nothing to do with grieving or otherwise - it's all social standing.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 09:46 AM
4

I shake and tremble in my boots.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:35 PM
8

Yes - but the key point is why does she go from end of the spectrum to the other. She explains it: she misses a compliment on her body, and she loses social standing in her group of friends because she can't give advice as a previously married woman. Nothing to do with grieving or otherwise - it's all social standing.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:28 PM
3

Sure - have a read of the rest of the thread.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:18 PM
-6

Don't worry about it - the majority of people here are in the process of swallowing the pill. They can't quite comprehend how a woman who suffered a lot could possibly illustrate RP principles. Who cares that she gets the urge to reveal her past only once it can get her attention (and that before that she had gone to great length to hide it).
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 07:13 PM
4

My favourite is the second one. Love how the "tubby man with a fedora, old leather safari jacket and old school cravat" only has to give the woman a call in the middle of the night, and she comes running.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 05:58 PM
-2

It is hard to kill the inner white knight.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 04:45 PM
-3

Why? All of these are examples of typical female behaviour. For all we know, the other women may also have tragic life stories. At the end of the day, these are just illustrations of TRP principles.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 04:11 PM
-2

No one is saying it's bad behaviour. It's just typical female behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:54 PM
-9

They want to see the world as they wish it were, rather than for what it is, even if it's staring them in the face...
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:50 PM
11

That's what escorts are for... I never understood the point of strippers. If you're paying for sex, might as well go the whole way.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:38 PM
3

They're both seriously heavy. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:26 PM
2

Sounds like you turned into a beta and she lost attraction. Two options: (i) divorce or (ii) keep it up. Only you know what's right.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:08 PM
1

Maybe - but these are the only examples she gives: when she is not getting the attention she would otherwise get. If you wanted to connect more with friends, are these the examples you'd come up with?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:59 PM
13

Reading the top "controversial" posts is also always a lot of fun. A guilty pleasure of mine.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:49 PM
-19

I don't have to "believe" it - she wrote it down.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:47 PM
0

That's not what she says though: "One weekend we went to the beach together. Kelly saw me in my bikini and exclaimed "ugh you bitch, you're so thin, that is the body of a woman who has never had a baby!" and laughed. She was complimenting me, I wanted to scream that my body grew the most perfect human that ever existed and that my breasts fed her for 13 months. I suddenly cursed my body for not having stretch marks when before it'd seemed to be a blessing. Now Brenda has been dating someone seri…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:39 PM
-18

Read her post - she moved state precisely to avoid people knowing. It's when she does not get the attention she thinks she deserves that she wants to bring her backstory up.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:35 PM
-18

Yeah, that really shows how important attention is to women.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:16 PM
2

Get a real job and career. No, using your parents money to buy flats and rent them out does not count. You need to earn that self-respect, and it takes work. Real work.
/r/becomeaman20/10/15 01:45 PM
1

she didn't know I was there waiting Let's put it this way: if you had been in her shoes, would you have known she was there waiting?
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:15 PM
2

Wow you are gullible.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 09:41 AM
1

Yeah - once. If she brings J's up regularly, time to move on to someone else.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 09:38 AM
2

That dude is gayer than a 3 dollar bill.
/r/TRPOffTopic17/10/15 05:46 PM
3

Apart from the obvious ones (she finds excuses to touch you, buys you a drink, compliments you...), the only way to be sure is to approach and escalate. You'd be surprised by the number of women who are too shy to issue IOIs, or who flirt for validation only.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 11:49 AM
12

Those pics make it hard to tell - she's cranked the "hide the wrinkles" filter to 11.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 08:50 AM
1

The problem with the pull out method is that precum contains enough sperm to impregnate a girl. So there is a non negligible likelihood of pregnancy.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:55 AM
1

I see this differently. If my girl did this it's because she wants to be reassured that I want to make it "facebook official". She's hoping you'll react by complaining about it, thus reassuring her that you care. I'd either ignore her or say "ok".
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:51 AM
34

"she's a 40 yo who hit the wall, she just wants attention from guys, this doesn't prove anything!!" Mostly true though. She has posted to every possible subreddit (including TRP) looking for male attention. If she demonstrates TRP, it may not be in the way you think. She's hit the wall hard, lost her ability to attract the top males she wants, and is pining for attention (in the typical "I'm such a victim" way, incidentally). Just another alpha widow about to settle down.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:38 AM
11

It sounds like you spend a lot of time indulging in fantasies. The best thing for you, honestly, is to cut contact 100% (including unfriending him on facebook, deleting his number, etc.) and getting on with your life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 07:23 PM
5

It's possible but very, very unlikely. It sounds like you started in the wrong box to begin with - a sort of reverse "friend zone". Call it the "hookup zone" if you will.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 06:50 PM
27

You're making excuses. Your message was clear and it sounds like his answer was too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 06:44 PM
14

I'm not even sure what I want at this point. Ok. But it does not really matter - he's not interested in a relationship. If he were, he would have told you when you told him you loved him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 06:36 PM
35

You can cut all contact with him and move on. If this could have turned into a relationship, it would have.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 06:26 PM
7

He sounds like the typical successful 25 year old. He'll grow more humble and emphatic as he gets more real life experience. Nothing to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 09:45 AM
2

Tell her family about the problem and to look after her. Then disappear. You're not responsible for her problems.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 09:42 AM
14

Dude, glad you're happy, but please go vent to a therapist or something. These are only women, don't let them define you.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:42 PM
2

Once you gain some size and confidence, you won't care about that sort of crap. And when that happens, shit from assholes will diminish drastically.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:10 PM
3

So you're obese but that's not the problem? Seriously?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 12:17 PM
6

Girls never are though. Do that if you consider swapping one for the other.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 10:37 AM
3

OK - time to focus on school. But don't neglect sports, particularly at 18, which is the best time to build your body up (you're full of testosterone and growth hormone). By the way, knowing the problem is the first step to solving it. So nice work and good luck.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:14 PM
1

Presumably you'll be going to college/university soon? If so, focus on your grades, sports, and making friends. Don't spend too much time on women for now. Your goal should be to secure the best possible job, develop a good body, and make good reliable friends.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:05 PM
1

How old are you? It sounds like you are young and you are on the right path. Things will work out.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:58 PM
2

She'll get closure when you get 100% out of her life. Any contact with her will make things worse.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:56 PM
10

London is a weird place. It seems most guys workout and put an effort, while the girls just get fat and wear short skirts in high heels. The gap is getting wider too...
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 01:32 PM
4

Don't forget those pointy elbows.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 05:35 PM
0

I don't think she's 33.
/r/TRPOffTopic10/10/15 01:58 PM
1

I'm guessing you're young and your friends are too young to have the power to send you referrals. It will change in your mid-thirties.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 10:24 AM
2

OP is right that it is crucial to have mentors (particularly if they are also sponsors). You simply won't progress in a large organisation without one or more. However, OP is dead wrong that these should replace friends. Your friends - your peers - are necessary both in private and professional life. In private life, they will be there to hear you vent and support you when things turn sour. In your professional life, your friends will progress in their careers alongside you, and, eventually, you…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 12:21 PM
2

Her facebook profile pics are all of either (i) her and hubby (including wedding pic) or (ii) her kids. The more someone has to state they are something, the less they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:59 AM
0

Yeah, movies are nice, but real life is different. Good luck to you nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 06:47 PM
1

You'd rather die in horrible circumstances than go bankrupt because a girl took advantage of you?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 06:07 PM
2

That does not work as well if you're already seeing two other girls, though...
/r/askTRP06/10/15 09:28 AM
6

80% of dates on dating websites will be bad. That's just the way it is - it's much harder to filter based on an online profile.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:35 PM
19

I don't know, I've never been able to lie just for sex, and I respect myself more for it. It's costs me a few girls, but at the end of the day, its a personal decision.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:33 PM
4

"Hi, nice to meet you Saturday, let's get coffee this weekend"
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:59 PM
6

Not at all - there is nothing blue pill about that book. It's all very common sense and extremely true. To summarise: People care about themselves almost exclusively, so Let them talk, and talk only about them or things that are relevant to them.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:56 PM
6

No they don't. In fact the exercise might make them tighter. They do become slightly looser after having a baby, but do you really think your penis is bigger than a newborn kid? Source if you need it: https://www.quora.com/Does-regular-sex-make-a-vagina-loose Hundreds more on google...
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 11:48 AM
6

Errr, that has nothing to do with virginity - girls do not get looser with experience. The only possible indicator would be blood, and her experiencing some pain. But not all virgins bleed, and pain can be faked.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 09:36 AM
1

I don't.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 09:20 AM
5

Where?
/r/askTRP01/10/15 07:37 PM
3

That's not the case in Europe, as fas as I know.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 07:15 PM
1

What a ridiculous list. SNOPES summarises it quite well: http://www.snopes.com/politics/clintons/bodycount.asp
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 07:13 PM
9

A first mate is not a doormat. You can always leave if you're not happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 10:17 AM
2

They do - they just make a fuss about it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 10:13 AM
4

Kennedy managed quite well.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:59 PM
2

? So, what are these unexplained deaths? Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:46 PM
8

There's a name for those girls.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:32 PM
5

Last Minute Resistance (LMR). It's common. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:52 PM
1

So you can only date girls in your class? Of course not. This does not matter at all.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 06:50 PM
12

Yeah... I dated a few Easter European girls. Funny how hard they find it to adjust to paying, but have no issue adapting to not beeing your housekeeper. Anyway, they make great plates, but I have yet to meet one that was not looking for BB.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 06:40 PM
4

This is a joke, right?
/r/TRPOffTopic29/09/15 12:39 PM
7

"she asked me to wash the lettuce for the salad" "Here's the sink, let me know if you need anything else"
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:54 PM
0

Vapidity? What do you mean by that?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:01 PM
1

The short answer is no. I used to do that whenever I liked a girl and before I found TRP. It made them run away. In TRP-speak, I was putting them on a pedestal - which is the opposite of what they find attractive. A girl needs to feel like you are above her, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:54 AM
3

What's your question? Have fun and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:20 AM
1

How should one respond to that? If that happened to me, my mouth would drop and I'd be speechless.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 10:29 AM
4

there's more red flags here than Lenins funeral Genius
/r/askTRP25/09/15 10:27 AM
1

I don't think I've ever seen a 10. Maybe my expectations are too high.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 11:51 AM
2

Is she a mate - probably not? Just change the sex, don't turn her into a mate. Would you give a ride to your neighbour in exchange for lunch if he asked?
/r/askTRP24/09/15 11:09 AM
5

The test in those situations is always: "if she were a dude, would you do it?".
/r/askTRP23/09/15 02:06 PM
1

I have never, ever, asked. Yet they all somehow tell me pretty early one.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:45 AM
3

It's cocky if you mean it yet don't take yourself too seriously. It's insecure in any other circumstances.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:38 AM
3

The more I read about him, the more he sounds like a deeply insecure man. The above rambo quotes are just another example. Here's an extract from his wikipedia page: "In September, Bradley, who was Patton's junior in both rank and experience, was selected to command the First United States Army forming in England to prepare for Operation Overlord. This decision had been made before the slapping incidents were made public, but Patton blamed them for his being denied the command. Eisenhower felt t…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:54 AM
2

Protein shakes... That's the only realistic option, I'm afraid.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:44 AM
5

Go to /r/asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 04:46 PM
57

It's a scam.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 01:13 PM
1

Next time get her to come out with you and your mates. That way you're guaranteed a good time whether it works out or not.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 01:12 PM
1

That's not really a debated fact... Google will provide you with an infinity of sources saying the same thing if you like.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:42 AM
0

Yeah, where she's from Tinder is used to arrange weddings. Gullible much?
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:25 AM
1

Serious body builders will tell you 2 lbs a month is the maximum muscle mass you can hope for in your first year, and it slows down after that (e.g. http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/ask-the-ripped-dude-how-much-muscle-can-i-put-on-naturally.html).
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:23 AM
5

Being a foreigner is an instant SMV boost. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:20 AM
5

When he wants you, you don't want him. When he doesn't want you, you want him. Make up your mind. It sounds like you don't really care about him that much, you just want his attention.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 09:18 AM
1

"0.5 to 0.9 KG per week to start" is extremely high. You might kill his motivation with those expectations. I'm happy when I get 0.250 a week.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:04 AM
2

I was like that. I sorted it out by counting calories and eating A LOT (turns out I was eating below maintance), and by finding a sport that I love, and doing it several times a week. I I then added going to the gym (to get better at sport), and I know exercise 5-7 times a week. Then stick to it.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:03 AM
1

You worry too much. Who cares about the other guys. Just go for it and you'll find out if she's into you.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 01:48 PM
1

Yeah, some look good for quite a while. I'd say 35 is the cut-off point into "ugly" for most (not all) women.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 10:39 AM
2

Some girls are really good at sex - tell her to up her game and/or experiment.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 11:18 AM
3

Yep. Even based on photos, I get disappointed more often than not.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 02:35 PM
2

Yeah, "radically" is excessive. The slight difference was that my profile was vague, I would write full sentences, meet fast, and filter asap (70% are pretty horrid).
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:04 PM
1

I'm sure it can - I had a different approach.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:10 PM
1

My approach was radically different and worked quite well: Good photos; Generic profile (I like good food and travel); Exchange 3-4 messages max before organising a meeting; Have a brief coffee/drink where nothing usually happens; Kiss on second date; Third date at my place with sex. It worked at about 90%, although I had to filter out about 80% of the girls for being too ugly or annoying.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:42 AM
4

Make him look good as much as you can. When you work, think of what he needs, and deliver. Be a trusted pair of hands: always deliver what you promise.
/r/becomeaman13/09/15 06:14 PM
2

Yeah, that's like the opposite of how things are done in Eastern Europe. Please can we stop that "foreign women are better" meme, it's not real.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:44 PM
6

I'll say it. It's OP's "look at me" fantasy post. Entirely too affected, and reads like a grossly exaggerated series of lies. That bit in particular has "I make stuff up" written all over it: I'm a natural psychologist. I can read people's emotional states, hormonal levels, reasons behind their intentions, the intentions behind the intentions- EVERYTHING about them. Even the things they themselves don't know (Like what the actual reason is behind a set of behaviors, rather than just the feels th…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:58 AM
4

It's friendly banter. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:23 PM
6

There is only one answer - dump her.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:59 AM
6

He was sarcastic. I don't get the appeal at all.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 10:26 PM
1

Were you precise in what you wanted or generic in you online profile? Being generic has always worked for me (eg: "looking for someone who likes food and travel" - so edgy), but perhaps being specific might work even better.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:35 PM
35

New tag for you "King of the Humblebrag"
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:08 PM
30

Full record of her messages here: https://media.bizarrepedia.com/images/2015/08/Michelle-Carter-and-Conrad-Roy-of-Mattapoisett.pdf She is demented.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:53 PM
9

Dude was 18.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:35 PM
1

If she is actually Chinese, you are facing a massive cultural barrier: she needs to look and believe that she is extremely conservative. Hence the slow progress and chaperone. I'd go for something easier if I were you.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:54 AM
1

Good for you but cover your tracks. Sleeping with co-workers can get you into a lot of trouble.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:56 PM
1

Excellent - consider doing a TRP post on this, lots of people would find your advice extremely useful.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:44 PM
1

Cool. Where would you go to get that salary? VMware specialist in California?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:37 PM
1

network security engineer Thanks. That pays 150k and gives you time to take random holidays to Japan?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:33 PM
2

Unrelated, but what's your job? Lot's of young ones would like to be in your shoes.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:29 PM
2

Here's an article on the topic: http://www.delanceyplace.com/view-archives.php?p=1975
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 04:02 PM
1

Yeah, I was an idiot and we lived in different countries. Last time we spoke was that time in 2008. Things have vastly improved since then. Most vivid moments would be with many other girls. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:59 AM
11

Very similar story at my end, ten years ago in August 2005. I went to visit my LTR/oneitis after not seeing her for three months. We had skyped multiple times a week, exchanged love letters, and endless professions of true love. The night before we are due to meet, she texts me that she loves me. Next morning, she's an hour late to pick me up at the airport. Tells me that she was waiting at the wrong terminal due to a glitch, but there was something very odd in the air, and she is cold. Kissing …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 10:24 PM
5

Also - no condoms.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 07:03 PM
2

OP said there were several girlfriends, so it may not be the case. If it is then it's clearly a deal breaker.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 03:26 PM
1

It depends. If by "slept besides" she means the two of them in a bed, or the two of them alone in the same room, or in a similarly intimate setting, you should run as fast as your legs will take you. If it means that 15 people slept on the floor together, then I would ignore it unless trickle truth starts coming in.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 12:56 PM
2

Two things: First, from her perspective, its obvious that you looked at her phone and caused quite a big fuss over a minor lie. So that's why she's angry at you. Second, she's in touch with at least two exes, and you met her while she lived with her last ex. And on top of that she's repeatedly lying to you. WTF. NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN. WHY DID YOU GET INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 11:03 AM
2

Brilliant.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:08 AM
12

Representing mainly husbands would be super depressing.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:57 PM
1

Dude, this is amazing. Thanks a lot!
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:54 PM
2

Paragraphs?
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:47 PM
4

Yet here you are.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:06 PM
1

To state your intentions. Also, if you're approaching her, in any event, you're pretty much already saying she's cute. Saying "I think you're cute" is a quick and easy way to make clear what you want - because that's the first thing she'll wonder when you come talking to her.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 11:17 AM
14

Absolutely if you're young. However, if you have a good job in your mid-thirties and dating a 19 year old, you should pay for the dates you organise. That's my view anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:26 AM
1

If that's your hope, find a UK bank or a management consultancy that will pay for your MBA. Get an MBA in the US. Stay in the US.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 10:54 AM
1

Sure, if you send ID too... But seems complicated. There must be a source somewhere?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 09:19 AM
2

Any advice to share, or link to advice? I am single, 35 and have assets that I may want to shield from divorce rape one day...
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:48 PM
2

That will cost a lot of money and only work if he gets into a top 5 law school and is a top student. I know a few people who succeeded in getting a permanent job after an LLM - top of their class, and LLM at Columbia, Chicago, or Harvard. The majority of their peers from the LLM tried to do the same and failed. They all eventually went back to Europe (the ones who got US jobs, not just their peers who had to go straight back). If he truly wants to emigrate, I would recommend a good JD. Only then…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:32 PM
5

Don't go there. She is guaranteed to have issues. He almost certainly has some too.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:11 PM
1

I have the opposite experience. The ones that stay single are the attractive ones with great jobs. Most do get married though. At 35, I have few single friends. I met them the same way I used to.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 10:01 AM
1

Do you have a source for this? I have no experience at all regarding quants, so happy to be proven wrong. All I could find was this: - http://news.efinancialcareers.com/uk-en/81533/this-is-what-you-can-earn-as-a-quant-in-london-new-york-paris-singapore-or-hong-kong/ and - http://www.glassdoor.com/Salaries/london-quantitative-analyst-salary-SRCH_IL.0,6_IM1035_KO7,27.htm Which states £60-70k as the max range in London.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 09:40 AM
2

There are no jobs that pay 150k straight out of college. OP's boyfriend either did not go to uni or started an incredibly successful business (or works for his dad).
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 06:42 PM
31

That sub is like redpill fanfic. At least half the stories read like they were written by one of us.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:49 PM
5

That sub is populated by "nice guys". Of course they'll relate and defend Greg.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:45 AM
-4

Wow. You seem like a nice person, but you need to start taking responsibility for your actions and their consequences. Reading this summary you sound like a house plant that took no active part in what happened. Take charge of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 11:16 AM
2

Yes, but he indicated that he can't tag along this time.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 08:40 PM
9

There's only one possible answer: "of course you can go, baby". Anything else makes you look insecure. It does not mean she is not looking to cheat (in fact it's likely). But the only thing you can do to prevent that is improve your SMV and dread game her.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 05:25 PM
2

Thank you Captain Obvious. This is RP Women, not TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 05:05 PM
3

You're confusing things again. There's a really good chance he will be getting some elsewhere. But that's a given even at the first date if he's truly high value. This does not mean she should not make him wait until he's committed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/15 10:54 AM
6

Nowhere does it say or is it believed that making a man wait is beta. On the contrary, it shows potential. Having slept with 50+ guys is a different issue that I don't think can be fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 09:46 PM
8

You're confusing refusing to do something for someone and waiting until you ascertained the man's intentions before you do it. She should certainly not refuse to do what she used to do before. However she should start waiting a couple of weeks before doing it. Of course a guy will have a problem with the 50+ count. But that is not something that can be fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 09:43 PM
14

People can improve. For now, focus on yourself. If you start dating someone, do not sleep with them until you both agree that you are in a LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 09:52 AM
1

HR and job couselors have no idea what they are talking about. If you are not getting interviews it is because your CV is bottom of the pile. If you are not transforming interviews into jobs it is because your interviewing skills are bottom of the pile. That guy gave you great advice. Find out what went wrong and fix it. No more excuses.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 10:21 AM
2

Hahahaha.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 10:11 AM
0

Yeah, someone came up with them out of their ass.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 09:25 AM
1

I'm going to disagree here. Not all women offer no value. I did not cut out of my life the one whose friendships gave me benefits. For example, one of them is a super driven career lady. Every time I meet her, it gives my motivation a big boost.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:07 PM
1

Yes, they're generally clearly themed. But your best bet is to do a bit of internet research before hand.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 09:46 AM
1

Why did you not pursue the cute chick? I suspect she was just looking for an orbiter. Also, don't behave like a douchebag. Putting your arm around a girl you've never met is extremely aggressive, and unlikely to work even if you are actually Brad Pitt in fight club or Joseph Gordon Levitt. Picking up fights with randoms is stupid. Your post reeks of low SMV - go workout and try again in a year or two.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:47 PM
2

Depends - where are you from? Do you speak French? If you are American and speak only English, I would go to American/Canadian/Irish bars and try to meet girls there. That said, your best bet is probably other travelers - meet girls in hostels and go out with them.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:42 PM
2

First, welcome. Second, you owe this girl nothing. She has proven that she is not capable of providing a healthy relationship. The only reasonable course of action is to leave her and find a good girl. There are hundreds of millions.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 01:00 PM
3

Yep. Not sure why all the comments saying "stay lean" - of course women don't like fatties. They like men like in that photo.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:14 PM
25

You laugh, but there's an 80 year old at my rowing club. He carries his own single boat to the river, and he is in amazing shape for his age.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:14 PM
1

We can only strive for his SMV...
/r/TRPOffTopic16/07/15 05:46 PM
2

Will you release it on Amazon UK? I can't access it on the US website...
/r/becomeaman14/07/15 10:10 AM
6

Ah yes, the older women of 26. Kids these days... PS: just fine an excuse to touch her, like guiding her by the shoulder somewhere, or grabbing her hand, and see how she responds.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:07 AM
1

Make sure you get a cleaner. I lived with two girls for a while, and it was fine. I had zero interaction with them. The only issue was that they were filthy. So we got a cleaner to come in 3 hours a week, and it was all perfect from then on.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:05 AM
2

You have no kids - the solution is to divorce him. It's obvious, unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 11:25 AM
5

I think he means he liked 10 girls on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:27 PM
23

"I also have at least 10 other girls I'm spinning" hahahahahahaha
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:59 AM
6

In summary: (i) she did not want to go on a date with you - you went instead of someone else; (ii) she was bored during the date and checked her phone; (iii) she drank her drink quickly to make the date end faster; (iv) she made up a dumb excuse to end the date even faster. Conclusion: Next.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:10 PM
2

Money makes things easy. My own view is that as soon as you have about $5,000 of spending money every month, you can do whatever you like as long as you don't want the most expensive option all the time. That's a lot, but a lot less than $30million.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:14 AM
1

Why don't you start with someone in your league and work your way up?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:13 AM
1

Well, at least she's looking to settle down. Mine is still looking for a convent to join (which is frankly not what anyone wished for her).
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:08 AM
48

That thread is hilarious - it's about "when did you realise you were attractive", but the only upvoted comments are from delusional unattractive people who "were ugly until their 20s but became attractive" or "are attractive but don't feel that way" - i.e. your average joe (with pictures to prove it in some cases). I've seen what the life of an extremely attractive person is, and when they realise it - as soon as they hit puberty. My sister was extremely attractive. When she turned 13, she got i…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:33 PM
2

Ignore an move on to the next one!
/r/askTRP02/07/15 11:15 PM
1

And? Let us know.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 06:13 PM
3

I keep those on. The message is not marked as "read" until you open up the messaging app and look at the message itself - so it won't be "read" if you just read it on your lock screen. So there is a lot more control than first appears.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 06:12 PM
2

On the contrary, it's her last chance.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:22 PM
1

Possible, but would be quite hard to maintain an erection. It's roughly like driving on a good highway while having sex...
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:01 AM
2

Keeping a damaged suicidal crazy on the side for pussy? Not for me thanks, there are enough girls in the world that I don't need that.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:07 AM
250

I swear, each time I read r/relationships, it's like reading a field report on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 05:34 PM
11

That last one would do... http://www.craiglotter.co.za/2014/06/07/final-fantasy-vii-cosplay-tifa-lockhart-bunny-ayumi/
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:37 PM
2

If it's only 3 months and you do not have a relationship, just soft next. Stop contacting her, and only respond to direct contact.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 11:47 AM
3

Make a budget. Decide how much you want to save each time you get paid based on that budget (e.g. 50% of net pay). As soon as get paid, put whatever you want to save on a savings account. Don't touch that money.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:52 AM
2

I'm 35 - you can meet girls in your social circle (work, hobbies, etc.) and online. Or simply clubbing, and it seems waitresses like me a lot (despite the advice here, I find if they blush and avoid eye contact while talking to you, it's a good sign).
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:01 AM
1

That would be best - but posture can be fixed in hours, gaining from skinny takes years.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 10:51 AM
6

Skinny people with good posture get respect. Work on posture first. Then work on bulking up.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 12:58 PM
4

Start being healthy. Sleep and exercise a lot. Wear trendy clothes. Shave your head if you are balding. If you are that bad already, it will take a year of healthy living for your body to recover. You're young - so hang in there.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:52 AM
2

Great post, bookmarking.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 07:28 PM
3

I'm sorry, but he is obviously not over his ex, and will therefore never be able to love you. He might get over her, but because you met while he was still attached to his ex, he will never attach himself to you. Time cut all contact and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 09:59 AM
1

Eastern Europe Where in Eastern Europe is that not customary? My experience is that is unheard of not to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 02:06 PM
2

That's giving way too much importance to money. Success in a family should be rewarded with celebration, which may or may not include a present, but definitely not a metrified cash bonus.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 11:23 AM
3

"I'm very conservative and not a slut like {X}"
/r/askTRP18/05/15 10:43 AM
2

"How many one night stands have YOU had"
/r/askTRP18/05/15 10:42 AM
2

"It all seems like a blur, I was not myself"
/r/askTRP18/05/15 10:42 AM
6

The message you send the world by taking a guy's last name is "I'm off limits". If you keep yours, you signal availability. I would not marry someone that would not take my last name.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 10:31 AM
4

Go to /r/TheRedPill . Read the "new here?" section of the side bar.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 02:42 PM
2

That's not OP's scenario, he's talking about being in a group in which there is a girl, who gets given a business card. If someone makes a move on your girl in your presence, then you're doing something wrong in the first place.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 11:07 AM
1

This. And eat. A lot.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 10:21 AM
6

That's not insecure at all. Nope. Clearly a strong confident man picks up fights with people at every corner.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:57 AM
16

What's the issue? That once happened to me once with a group of friends. We all had a good laugh, took the card, and we (the guys) ended up drunk calling the guy all night. It was awesome.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:56 AM
1

Odessa girls values are: get a man with money.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:09 PM
7

Absolutely. I live in London, and am shocked with the disparity between men and women.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:02 PM
2

Find a sport you like. Ideally something that will build muscle mass.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:32 PM
2

30 dates and only 3 kisses. Wow. That should not happen, even to a nice-guy version of Yoda. I recommend that you work on being more physical, escalating, and generally just trying your luck. Here's to the next 30 dates. Edit: and if you think looks matter that much, have a look at this . Be that guy - relax, be physical, and have fun dating.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:25 PM
13

Because a woman will want safety and your time. At 28, she'll also want kids, whom you'll want to give safety and time to. This means less time to do other things, such as work (and excel at your job), go to the gym, or otherwise develop yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:21 PM
12

The problem is that your SMV will keep increasing while hers will lower. In 10 years you will be able to date women younger and more attractive than she is right now. She'll be 38 and ugly. What do you think will happen? Also, she may just be looking for someone to "fill a role" as you put it.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:00 PM
5

It depends but based solely on the age gap it sounds like a really bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 08:35 PM
1

Can we stop talking about this crap? No one has fallen for it, and it's been all over TRP too many times.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 10:32 AM
1

Tent in the woods then?
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:02 PM
1

Good point. Maybe push back the car seat as much as possible, and open both doors so that her legs can stick out both sides of the car while he goes at it.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:01 PM
2

OP should just ask her to assume the doggy position on the back seat, open a window, and do her from outside the car.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 09:57 PM
1

They told you a week, right? I'd wait a month and then contact them for an update. People are busy and forget/delay things (source: I've been trying to hire someone to help me for the past few months).
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:01 PM
19

Next time you meet, tell her you want to break up. Be clear, so that she understands that it's not temporary. There's no good way to say that, so just do it as soon as you can. As to the money - are you seriously contemplating keeping her money? That's theft.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:56 PM
3

Spanish. Very few speak English.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:53 AM
19

I spent two years in Buenos Aires. Perfect for plate spinning. Locals loudly proclaim how conservative they are, yet they all sleep around. To illustrate, abortion is illegal, but health authorities estimate that 40% of all pregnancies end in abortion. The abortion rate is 6 abortion per 100 women each year. There is no commitment until you are "de novio", which is basically engaged (although novio misleadingly translates to boyfriend). In fact, I once suggested that it was odd that a girl could…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:10 PM
11

I would add - it is one of the world's worst place to meet women. Local women are genuinely conservative and will not want to be involved with you. Expats will be available, but few of them will be attractive.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 10:46 AM
8

Yes, and morbidly obese women are beautiful. Also, poor is the new rich, dumb is the new smart, and ugly is the new handsome.
/r/TRPOffTopic04/05/15 05:14 PM
1

Accutane in my teens was the best decision for me. In the long run, wash your face before going to sleep, and make sure you get your sleep every night.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 04:05 PM
1

This is perfect. It leaves the door open, but gives you closure because, either way, you know where you stand.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 02:26 PM
1

Yes - dressing like a hoe will turn heads, but men will not commit to you.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 11:21 AM
1

Of course you can. As a tall guy, all things being equal, I prefer tall girls. Just watch your figure and posture (tall people generally have poor posture, and extra weight does not work on a tall girl). Make sure you work out your back (pilates, deadlifts, and squats). Wear heels and dresses, and behave in a feminine manner.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 11:18 AM
1

I did the opposite - was always much younger than my peers. I noticed older people were given more responsibilities and got promoted faster because they were perceived to be more trustworthy. Being older will not be an issue, on the contrary.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 12:31 PM
1

??? Go find someone.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:51 PM
5

Would you do it if she were a guy? That's your answer.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 06:23 PM
1

I have the exact opposite experience with Eastern European girls (no idea about Asians, I'm not attracted to them).
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:15 AM
1

Yeah, when they give you the "not interested" vibe, it's usually mutual. I then just ignore them. A while back I used to politely end it, but that always backfired with a messed up response (usually trying to make it look that they're the one ending it). Now I just go no contact, and I'm happier.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 03:10 PM
1

If that's the worse he did, you were very lucky and had a better father than the vast majority of kids. One day, when you have kids, you will realise that it's not easy to be perfect.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:38 PM
13

Exercise. 12-14 hours of work makes it harder, but it does leave you enough time to exercise. Try to divide the bigger tasks into smaller tasks, and acknowledge your success every time you complete a portion of the task. This will make you feel like you are more in control. Quit drinking. This is really bad for you. While you do that, look for another job. No job is worth hurting yourself for. Edit: One more: Use "action lists". Just writing things to solve/do helps you separate yourself from th…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 04:25 PM
0

Women don't lose their virginity all willy nilly like that Some do. I can't explain why. They'd just rather do it with a random guy.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 03:13 PM
2

Dude, none of that is proof of anything. A slut in her 50s might be a tight starfish. The closest to a proof would be blood + her getting super attached. But even them - you just never know.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:04 PM
1

Yeah. Virgins get attached. I never quite understood why some are prepared to lose it with a random guy they met in a club, but even if they say they want to stop seeing you, my experience is that they get attached.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:02 PM
1

This. Travel and work out because you enjoy it, not to impress random girls.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 04:32 PM
2

As you wish, and I'm sure it will work better within a conservative environment. Just remember I am not giving you this advice because it's a competition - only because it will help if the man you are interested knows you a little before you drop the news (which will be a surprise), and he will be more likely to judge you positively for it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 02:39 AM
3

You should look for those men where they are likely to be. Mostly churches, and other conservative groups. There may also be religious dating websites you could consider. Also, don't mention it on the first date. I might be willing to date someone like that, but would see it as attention seeking if it is mentioned immediately.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 11:01 PM
2

"Men who want to improve themselves"? In what way? Just go where the men you want are. More muscles -> join a sports club or a gym. Education -> join a language/music/history school or hang out in museums.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:03 PM
2

OP, you rightly advise living and working somewhere else. That is very different from "travelling". A travel holiday is cool, but being a tourist is nothing like working and living somewhere. Only by working somewhere do you get to actually the experience the culture.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:18 PM
6

I treat them as friends. There's usually a reason I got with them - I like them and can have fun with them. Also, I admit, I get an ego boost from seeing how they would obviously love to get back together.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:54 PM
3

Do what makes you happy. Do you want to sleep with her or would you rather do something else?
/r/askTRP03/03/15 12:44 PM
1

She can expect what she likes. However, if she wants men, of any demographic, to be attracted to her, she needs to become attractive.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 04:52 PM
2

Most teenagers have this view. You'll find that once you assume everyone has something interesting about them, and set out to discover that, the people you meet will reveal aspects of their lives you had not expected. It also makes it a lot easier to make friends.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:42 PM
2

It's a package. If your looks are all you have in your package, when those fade, your package is a lot less attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 04:32 PM
2

So the short answer is no.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 12:22 PM
0

Yes, but that is the exception, not the rule.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:13 AM
2

Arranged does not mean forced - it means you are introduced to someone "suitable" and get to say yes or no. Have a look at this article from a second generation perspective: http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/culture/features/11621/
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 11:29 PM
2

They're normal girls. The only difference is they'll have higher lifestyle expectations. So if you do beta things like send flowers or buy dinner, they'll expect nice flowers or nice food. But you're not a beta, so it should not affect things.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:57 PM
2

Arranged marriage doesn't mean forced marriage. It's pretty clear she must have been eyeing the in-law guy for a while, and she jumped at the first opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:48 PM
7

That's a sign that she's on tinder for validation only. I'd respond with "let's meet and find out" or "ok". But she seems like a waste of time unfortunately...
/r/askTRP18/02/15 01:42 PM
4

Build foundations. Ace college. Build a network. Get work experience. Gym.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 12:18 PM
1

Ask him whether he is willing to commit to you exclusively. If not, get out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/15 07:14 PM
10

She might already be banging Robby (or at a minimum thinking about it) - OP's gut is probably right, whatever it tells him. By the way, the reason why Robby has no game is because he does not need it. Girls spread their legs for tall, strong, good looking dudes. Lastly, your texts were whiny. It would have been better to handle it in person as "BetaMaleFeminist" suggests.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:05 PM
7

First date: "I think that by far the strangest thing to me was having a stranger approach the table to congratulate Shane on the success of his book and his column in the Morning Call [a Pennsylvania newspaper]."
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:31 PM
3

OK. My budget is anywhere between $0-10 for a first date...
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 06:38 PM
1

Sushi + drink for a first date? How do you handle the tab?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 12:38 PM
1

Agreed. You also need to budget time to find the next one, as plates don't stay around forever.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:41 PM
9

Read the side bar. And you're not an older guy. I expected you to be 40 or 50 - not a kid at 20. Hint: try and try again.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:33 PM
8

Just went through his post history. It's like watching a car crash in slow motion.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 12:10 PM
1

Just dump her. It does not matter how - just do it, and soon.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:32 AM
1

No. However, when your spouse cheats, you get a bad gut feeling and an urge to snoop - usually for good reason. The only time I snooped on a gf's phone was when I was in OP's situation...
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:31 AM
2

Dude. How can you not see this? You're the beta bux and she's looking to fuck as many alphas as possible before settling down with you.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 12:25 PM
-1

"high-end escort" = more than $10 a pop. The STD risk is pretty high - particularly if you share saliva.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 03:12 PM
1

In some countries (e.g. Argentina), everyone goes to clubs. However, not every girl goes there to meet random dudes.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:07 PM
1

Put some paragraphs in there.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 07:08 PM
3

This is an example of a girl seeking attention - nothing else. She recognised the guy, took a screenshot of the match, and put it on reddit... No indication that there is any attraction - but lots of internet points and attention from males.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:24 PM
0

God that hat makes him look dumb.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/15 06:17 PM
4

You're on the wrong subreddit if that is what you believe.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 09:13 PM
17

That's why I love young chicks. They think anal, deep throating, cum shots, swallowing are normal and expected. Thank you porn!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 06:03 PM
1

Bookmark.
/r/seduction10/01/15 06:06 PM
1

Don't worry about it. I don't need karma or anything. Good luck - just message me in a month or so to tell me how you are doing.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:09 PM
1

Some other typos: "I'm a foodie. If it's in the fridge and not too expired, I'll eat it." "Trance runs deep through my veins. I think it's an condition called Trancitus." "T.V's like an asian dick; It's too useless to consider spending time with." "Because I have Trancitus I need Trance music. It's vital to keeping me alive." "If aliens came to take over, would I submit to them or fight for my human comrades." "You like turtles." Have a good read and make sure there aren't any more.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:05 PM
2

I'm not very good at picking pictures, I think you'll have to make your own decision or get advice from someone better placed. Your profile is good. On okcupid, one typo "Strangers because I can't talk to strangers if there aren't any"
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:00 PM
1

I'd remove it. You want to know the girl is up for dating when you meet her, not a time sink.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:55 PM
2

Also remove "strictly monogamous" from relationship type. Just leave it blank. You'll want to date several girls at a time if you are doing online dating, as you'll have to filter quite a few out.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:53 PM
2

One last thing. Remove "looking for new friends" from your okcupid profile. You're not there for that, are you? And if a girl a agrees to meet with you, you'll know what she's up for.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:52 PM
1

The cover is good. Better pictures of yourself after that would help though.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:49 PM
1

Looks good.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:46 PM
2

Not a big fan of your new picture. Why don't you just crop the one with the microphone and use it as a profile picture? Keep the full one as part of your pictures of course, it's great to have a hot girl looking at you like that in a picture.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:42 PM
2

This is way better. Just fix the picture and you're all set. You want the picture to show what your face looks like without having to click on it.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:34 PM
2

I did not read through the whole thing, but just keep it mysterious, concise, and as funny as possible. One or two sentences per item. Just think of what the answer to the question actually is, and write it in a short and entertaining way. If you can't make it genuinely funny, just keep it short. Edit: for example "Food: Anything that I can find in the fridge and isn't expired." -> "I'm a foodie. If it's in the fridge and not too expired, I'll eat it."
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:10 PM
2

Your profile picture should show your face very visibly. It's impossible to tell what you look like from your profile picture. Your descriptions are wordy and boring. Be more concise (at least 10 times shorter) and funny. This is how you convey that you are busy and interesting (and a bit mysterious). Also, take out the stuff that makes you look like a loser like taking longer than a girl to get ready and opening up your profile with what you have for breakfast...
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:01 PM
3

Most jurisdictions are fine with a 99 year old fucking a 17 year old. No need to be paranoid. Also, at 18, he should not be looking for a LTR.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:22 PM
5

Who cares? Are you going to marry her? Just use a condom.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 07:56 PM
4

No. Tall people just tend to slouch because the world is built for hobbits... PS: stop over thinking and just ask her out - that'll tell you if she's interested. PPS: where is this abundance of tall girls?
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:18 PM
1

Roacutane did wonders for me. http://www.livestrong.com/article/171942-roacutane-for-acne/
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:17 PM
7

Why are you going on tinder, pof, and okcupid if you are in a committed LTR? Also, if it's on the home screen and you left your tablet open, it's not really snooping...
/r/askTRP05/01/15 01:08 PM
2

Why are you seeking validation/permission here? Figure out your own morals.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:49 AM
3

Drink. It worked for me.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 05:55 PM
1

If I were you, I would look at the country(ies) where you are most likely to find a good job. That should restrict the options a bit.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 11:32 AM
1

It can totally be done - you just kiss outside the bar.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 11:30 AM
1

What are you looking for exactly? What job are you looking for? What matters most for you?
/r/askTRP02/12/14 09:15 PM
21

hijjab in Western environment = attention seeking
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 04:25 PM
1

True. Very good point.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 11:55 AM
3

Convenience. When they feel like it, a hot girl shows up, has sex with them on their terms, and leaves.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 11:49 AM
3

The top rated post does give him the right answer: you can't make her change. Either accept it or move on. I would have moved on long ago.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 11:47 AM
2

90% chance she'll flake again. If so, start chasing real girls.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 03:10 PM
0

What kind of school has an armed police officer permanently on the premises?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/14 12:21 PM
1

I don't think Quidditch will make you huge. Find a sport you like that builds muscle.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 02:57 PM
1

For motivation, find a sport that you really enjoy and will help you bulk and go to the gym. For me, it's rowing. If you don't like that, consider rugby or something similar where the athletes are huge.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 12:22 PM
12

Come on, it's just women. Plenty of havens - just not around women you want to sleep with. Get an interest other than girls.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:50 PM
2

Maybe. My own experience in the workplace is that being openly ambitious (when talking to the people above you) is rewarded. Ambitious people are considered for positions because they advertise their desire for the position. They also get feedback on how to get there, and are generally taken more seriously. Conversely, they are held to higher standards.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:11 PM
1

Hahaha - I was hoping you'd been sending him pics of random girls' toenails, and were wondering why that did not motivate him to get out there more.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:29 PM
2

"has seen pics of toenails half our age" - What does that mean?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:07 PM
0

Sounds like she's already charmed you.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:44 PM
0

So you wan't a relationship with someone you know you can't have a relationship with... How do you think this will end?
/r/askTRP17/11/14 08:08 PM
6

Of course she didn't care. That's why it hit her "with full force" and she's writing an article to explain why it's better to be unattractive.
/r/TRPOffTopic17/11/14 01:08 PM
3

She's not LTR material because she's damaged and untrustworthy. She's not plate material because she's too far and not willing to come to you. Stay away.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 11:33 AM
13

I'm 34. Yes, it's a lot easier to get girls (of any age) than in your teens and 20s. I also get "head hunted" regularly to join for free "matchmaking services" that charge post-wall women thousands to meet "the guy they deserve". Frankly, the one (and pretty big) downside is that, while young girls are hot and willing, it is much more interesting to talk to women in their 30s. Conversely, I have no interest in these older women for obvious reasons. So it's a bit of a catch 22.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:00 AM
3

I spent 5 years with a girl from Crimea. Exact same experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:25 PM
5

Really? How can a westerner not get laid in Ukraine? The girls are throwing themselves at you in the hope of securing a meal ticket.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:23 PM
2

Amazing article. This is exactly why you should go to Russia for fun and not fall in love.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 07:10 PM
1

It depends where you live. Have a look here. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent
/r/askTRP16/11/14 06:20 PM
3

Gold diggers AND passport prostitutes - like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/trpGAME15/11/14 07:14 AM
1

Just ignore her until she contacts you again, and then invite her to watch a DVD at your place. She sounds like a pain though.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 08:46 PM
1

Don't read this post/thread and go watch this film. One of the best movies ever made.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:45 PM
1

WTF was that text. What went through your mind? Seriously.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 08:40 PM
7

You're joking, right? I'm 34 and can bang those. Just practice your game.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:13 PM
0

OK - that makes sense. But seriously, coming back late regularly is extremely unusual for a secretary. You should consider that.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:03 PM
2

You know your situation better than us, but it sounds very unusual. I've certainly never heard of the PA's husband being invited to a dinner with clients (or are you talking about the Christmas party?). Also, perhaps your wife should look for a more rewarding job, if she has all these skills.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:39 PM
2

They're normal, fairly low-skilled, people that want a simple job with reliable hours. Nothing untrustworthy about them - just a low level of ambition.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:35 PM
-2

Yeah, I do. For a secretary, "working your ass off" means leaving at 6.30pm - if they get paid overtime - regardless of who they work for.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:32 PM
15

Dude - she's an executive assistant. In non-PC words, a secretary. If she's not home early, there's something unexplained going on.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:48 PM
6

Exactly. Executive assistants do not get invited to business dinners. They're support staff, not decision maker.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:45 PM
1

Women crave attention. Women engaging in "bisexual" activities get attention. They also get more validation from men. Of course women are more tempted. Contrast that to what would happen if two guys decided to "explore their sexuality" openly within their friend circle. Bottom line, I doubt one gender is more bisexual than the other, but women are rewarded for it while men are punished.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 12:47 PM
5

You need to get more things going on in your life.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 10:08 PM
1

"always been RP with her, always held frame and never failed a shit test" Screams "I'm doing things wrong" - no one can be all those things always.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 10:07 PM
2

Playing that sort of mind game is for kids. Just ask her out when you feel like it. Date other girls on the side though - it avoids putting her on a pedestal, and makes you less available, which she will like.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 06:18 PM
29

So now you know she'll lie to your face...
/r/trpGAME12/11/14 12:39 PM
1

I've heard the girls in Serbia and Poland are beautiful. I've been to Prague several times, they're below average.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 12:35 PM
3

Would you have treated a guy friend the same way?
/r/askTRP11/11/14 10:00 PM
1

Yeah - why on earth would she contact him again... What a mystery. I wish I were Sherlock Holmes, maybe he could solve this.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 09:18 PM
1

I've tried it once and hated it. Not my cup of tea. But whatever floats your boat.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 06:27 PM
9

Eastern European women are gold diggers. You'll have lots of fun there if you look like you have money (ie are from the West), but don't marry one. Edit: by "Eastern European" I mean Russian and Ukrainian. They'll admit it themselves - claiming to be "more honest" than other women.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 03:19 PM
10

Actually, it's radio silence and only meeting up if she offers (and it suits you).
/r/askTRP10/11/14 11:56 AM
3

What matters is what she does, not how long it takes. Ask her out and see.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 11:57 AM
1

By definition, yes, with patience. It could also just be her seeking attention. I'd would not over think this and just try until I get fed up.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 08:13 PM
1

It's up to you how much bullshit you're willing to deal with. I get fed up with LMR after a while.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 04:17 PM
12

True, but it's still terrible.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 02:58 PM
9

I'm 34...
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:54 PM
1

Either continue what you were doing (typical LMR handling) or send her home.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:31 PM
1

Sounds like she was exhibiting typical LMR traits. Where you went wrong is losing your frame, here: "Me: Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? Her: I just need the keys. Me: You know what I am asking about. I am sick of playing this game. Her: Well I already lost twice..." It's not great to have locked her in, but I don't think it was fatal. The bigger issue is you losing your frame. "Unresolved stuff" is a lame excuse she can pull up when it suits her. Also, if you feel like seeing her ag…
/r/askTRP30/10/14 12:40 PM
4

Her thinking about her friend. It's most likely nothing, so drop it.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 11:01 AM
3

That's a small warning flag. Ignore it unless something else comes up.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:38 AM
1

Nothing sharp near my junk, thanks. By the way - shaving has no effect on sweat.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 05:42 PM
19

I give my seat to people who genuinely need it more than I do. That doesn't apply to young girls who are too lazy to stand up, but definitely includes old people, and might include someone who needs access to a plug. Up to you, but I see no reason to be a dick.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 02:47 PM
2

http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html
/r/askTRP23/10/14 02:09 PM
1

Yep he went from beta to asking her out. Failure is the logical outcome.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 03:09 PM
1

This sucks. To readers, let it be a warning that "holding frame" is more often then not a terrible idea in the workplace. Red pill mating dynamics do not further your career.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 03:06 PM
1

Tattoos will go out of fashion. Scars won't. Remember those guys that keep haircuts that used to be trendy and are now ridiculously out of fashion? You'll be that guy - except you can't remove a tattoo. But most of all, having a scar is great. It's a great conversation starter with anyone (whereas people judge you for having a tattoo). Women of all types love scars. It shows you're a risk taker.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 08:52 AM
6

Periods do not prevent intercourse either.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 08:57 AM
2

I did not. Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 04:40 PM
3

I'd rather avoid having to trawl through the high school / college content if I can avoid it.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 02:46 PM
3

Good points. Perhaps we should just start using a [30+] tag.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 02:12 PM
3

Replace with "harder to get fit" if you're going to nitpick. A circle jerk would not be useful. Sharing lessons on how to pick up the waitress and build the 401k would be useful.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:17 PM
2

Your advice would be particularly welcome.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:10 PM
6

That works too. The worse is when "I'm in high school" only comes out in the comments.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:07 PM
2

How would the proposal prevent you from that?
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:06 PM
3

We're less fit, have more money, less time, more experience, and more of an age gap with the girls we pursue. Girls simply treat you differently at 30. Careerwise, we're usually senior and approaching the top of a pyramid we need to climb.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:05 PM
11

It is likely she wants to set up an arrangement whereby you treat each other alternatively. You pay the next one, she'll pay for the one after that. Personally, I really like that sort of thing.
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 12:18 PM
7

Do some research on Last Minute Resistance / LMR.
/r/trpGAME14/10/14 04:17 PM
2

Time to clarify your boundaries. If she's not happy with them, move on.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:15 PM
1

Lawyer here. Do what your lawyer tells you to do. General advice: read every statement you have given to the court previously and make sure you know them throughout, listen carefully to any question asked, make sure you understand the question fully and don't hesitate to ask for clarification. Answer accurately and concisely. Answer the question asked, not the one you think is being asked. Breath. Above all, keep cool and stay calm. When answering questions, always look at the judge - it is all …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 03:28 PM
4

Most of the time, I think people are too quick to say next. Yet, if the above happened to me, I would dump the girl on the spot because she wants to fuck that musician and is openly and publicly making plans to do so. I would not put up with that. I imagine you are too engrossed in the sunk costs fallacy to look at the large signs saying "I want to fuck him in public", but they are all here: "On the ride home, my GF said how she has the biggest crush on him." She told you she wants to fuck him. …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:30 PM
3

"She requested that I buy her some earrings" Talk about beta bux... "For my birthday she gave me a mediocre blowjob." That's not a LTR, that's a plate you should next. Edit: and gifts are very personal. If you want to get a true LTR (not that girl) something, spend some time thinking about what would be perfect for her (within your budget) and get it.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:11 PM
40

Yes he did. The girl was watching a DVD with a dude she had recently given as bj to, whilst having a bf. Anyway you look at it, it's poor behaviour. It may not put YOU off, but it put off OP.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:53 PM
10

Exactly. There is no obligation to have (or try to have) sex with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:51 PM
6

I stop texting/contacting them and decline invites. They drop off naturally.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 01:27 PM
8

Nonsense. I've dated all over (except Asia), and women are all women. In fact, the worse are Eastern Europeans (mad gold diggers) and Latin Americans (lying and cheating is a way of life).
/r/askTRP12/10/14 10:59 AM
34

That's not what the answers say. They say demand sex, making the consequence clear, and if not given, leave.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:04 PM
39

I don't see the problem with the answers given. They both say the same thing: start having sex with me, or I'm out. That is, unfortunately, the only answer.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:31 PM
6

Look around you for someone to look up to - adverts and films are not real.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:27 PM
6

You should have asked her out rather than facetiming. Anyway, too late now. Invite her and see if she accepts. If not, next.
/r/trpGAME10/10/14 01:02 PM
2

Not really - she gives a few prices that indicate she was spending 5k a month max on expenses, and she also suggests patrons paid for a lot of these expenses themselves. Assuming she's not lying.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 10:18 AM
1

Only if she spent 90% of the 480k she claims to have been earning annually (and tax free). I doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 10:11 AM
6

It took her 5 years to save 200k. Of course she didn't charge 5k/night or 800/hour (nor did she earn 40k/month, as she claims elsewhere in the article). Why do you believe her - she's a whore looking for attention.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:50 AM
2

Far too much hassle - that sort of things should happen naturally and you seem to be working very very hard for 0 result. Don't respond to her text. If she shows up, good, if not, ask someone else out. Finally, remember: always be escalating. You should have kissed her at a minimum at that party.
/r/trpGAME09/10/14 10:08 PM
1

Force yourself to be concise, use clear words, and use short sentences. It's an effort, but it's worth it. Don't be Blaise Pascal, who famously started a letter with "I would have written a shorter letter, but I did not have the time."
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:27 PM
1

It's obvious. You'll come back to that thread in a couple of months and cringe/laugh at your past self.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:05 PM
3

TRP says do as you like. I personally wouldn't buy a plate/fwb anything because it increases the likelihood of them wanting something more serious.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:58 PM
1

Yeah - I was assuming he wanted to use full sentences. Anyway, I don't think he gets that using complex English makes him look the opposite of smart.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:33 PM
1

I would write you off based on that text. You come across as inconsiderate, a poor communicator, and someone with poor English skills. Just learn to be clear and concise: "I'm ill, and so must cancel our plans. Good luck with your busy week."
/r/askTRP09/10/14 11:47 AM
5

Just stop doing it. Being verbose is the opposite of "well articulated sentences, good explanations, etc.". Learn effective communication - it's a life skill.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 11:40 AM
4

Thanks - so why should I go to Vegas? Sounds like spending A LOT of money for the same things I can do in London.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 03:36 PM
2

Too short. Either do less countries or spend more time travelling. Edit: one month per large country is a minimum. And I would do France and Italy before any other European country. Get a Eurorail pass, start with Southern Italy, and move up to France. That will last you two months easily. In Asia, start with Thailand and move around. Go to Burma if you have a chance, it's incredible. Two months is not enough to do either France or Italy or Thailand properly, let alone your laundry list of count…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 10:13 PM
2

Yep. Best you can do is ignore her and she might contact you (although unlikely).
/r/askTRP03/10/14 12:15 PM
1

Only if it gives you money and/or power.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 10:08 AM
1

I think the second one is a parody. It has to be.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:33 AM
6

The only way she'll come back is if she sees you date other women. Stop giving her attention.
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 03:27 PM
3

You move on and go date 10 other women.
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 02:55 PM
1

He's hoping for a response/explanation by sending that message. He should just block her. End of story.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:46 PM
9

You tell her, plain and simple. Make it absolutely clear and don't leave her any hope.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 09:20 AM
7

All of the above, except don't tell them you have another offer when you ask for a raise. If you choose to stay, you will have lost their trust. Unfortunately, the reality is that leaving is often the only realistic option.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:48 AM
5

You're doing fine, until you ask her out too quickly. Build some rapport, then ask out.
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 08:43 AM
2

Also, have one drink before hand. You'll be nervous, and one drink will help. Not more, because then it becomes counterproductive ;)
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:41 AM
1

You might be right - putting myself in his shoes I would not behave like this.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:31 PM
1

The buddy bought his girl her drink... I'm sure there was some awkwardness, but that's a dick move.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:00 PM
1

? She's clearly a slut and, at best, someone you have sex with (with a condom). Of course she's hamstering her whorish actions. More importantly, why are you wasting time talking to her instead of telling her where to meet you for sex next? She's barely fit for that.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:19 AM
-1

Why did the girl not offer to pay, and why did your buddy make you look bad. Seems like people you should think twice before hanging out with then again. At least have a word with your "buddy". As to how to handle the bill - the key is confidence. Choose something that works for you, and stick to it (AlphaFAQ's system is good).
/r/askTRP30/09/14 08:38 AM
2

Clearly written by a woman: it's the guy's fault if she cheats on him, and you can sense the satisfaction on having a man fight (and murder) another man for the wife.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:52 PM
1

Good luck! Practice makes perfect. We've all been there.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 11:17 PM
2

Yep. Agreed. Just would not ask a random girl to meet up at the library.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 11:10 PM
1

It does not matter if it's reddit, use capitals and full stops - it shows respect for the reader and makes it easier to understand what you want to say.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 11:09 PM
1

She's not a plate, she's a target. You need to seduce her first - and yes, this means demonstrating value and taking her on a roller coaster of feelings. I recommend reading the sidebars.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 10:55 PM
1

You also need to be more concise and learn punctuation.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 10:40 PM
2

That doesn't mean she wants to "hang out" at the library. Will you invite her to do your homework next? My point is you need to demonstrate she'll have fun. Meeting up at the library is not fun. Next time, if that's your plan again, say - "Let's meet up outside the library at TIME and I'll take you somewhere fun".
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 10:39 PM
1

These guys agree: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMmam5i03Vs
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 10:23 PM
3

I'll add - offer something exciting. Who the f*cks looks forward to meeting someone at the library. Did you seriously picture her looking at her phone thinking "WhoohoO!! Meet up at the library! Exciting!! Can't wait!"?
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 09:44 PM
3

Nothing. I think few girls are up for that. Maybe try a lesbian bar and see if you can make an approach.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 08:59 PM
13

Set up a profile with pictures of the two of you, and state what you want in the profile box.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 07:49 PM
2

Right - so basically spin plates full time. Not an option for me, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 07:35 PM
6

She got your text. FB is just an extension of messaging. Treat it the same. Ignore her until she responds.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 06:43 PM
1

Teach me your ways because that sounds ideal.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 05:06 PM
1

I read the body language completely differently. That's okay.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:42 PM
1

Neither of them comes across well. Obama seems to wonder what he's doing there, and Putin is over-agitated and overeager to please/one-up.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:29 PM
2

They're all variable. The billionaire also always has a hotty with him.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 01:14 PM
6

I don't know, I have a nagging feeling he's just forced to go deeper and deeper into the rabbit hole to give the appearance of power and has lost all control. He's vastly over playing his cards, damaging the Russian economy, and harming the people he needs for support. I would not be surprised if he disappeared or were suddenly replaced in 2015.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:56 PM
3

You can't actually be friends with women, so might as well fuck them.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:54 PM
2

Well, you know what they say about people with long noses...
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:48 PM
1

Ignore her, find someone else, if she's interested, she'll find a way back into your life.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:13 PM
2

I would have made a big deal of this because she's crossing a really important line to me. I would have said "No!" (and I would not have had to fake the look of shock on my face). If she insists, repeated "No - you're not going through my private stuff". If she starts shit, I would walk away (home) and let her re-initiate contact if she wants to. Perhaps I would have been over reacting, but that is something important to me. I need my space.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:07 PM
10

Can we stop calling "plates" any random girl? A plate is a girl you sleep with, not a target.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 09:40 AM
3

Nothing in the list is impossible to overcome.
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 09:37 AM
6

Gold diggers. ONS only.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 01:45 AM
1

Why would you want that? Just go one gonewild if that's what you're after.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:37 AM
2

Nice - but money matters a lot, even for AF.
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 11:55 PM
1

You'll be surprised to learn the vast majority of the planet lets a 21 year old have a drink.
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 09:36 PM
1

Don't listen to him. You're 21. She's barely 3 years younger than you. Godspeed, and have fun.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 08:29 PM
0

You took too long. You should have kissed her and brought her back to your place during that party. If you miss an opportunity, it's gone forever.
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 08:15 PM
5

It's not very complicated. Get her to meet with you and then sleep with her. If she refuses, move on.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:35 PM
1

A plate is someone you sleep with. Right now sounds like you are being an orbiter to a typical chick. If she refused to meet once, consider dropping her. If she does it twice, ignore her.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:22 PM
4

Put yourself first and spend only the time you want to spend on women. Also, learn to recognise the signs that she just wants attention. If she refused to meet once, that's a clear sign she's not interested.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:07 PM
1

Did anyone else read "dumped" and thought this was going to be a funny read?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:36 AM
6

Girls - summed up in three minutes.
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 09:09 AM
4

Personally, that would be enough to lose all interest. They're not friends. There is no way two human beings that used to have sex can meet up and not think about having sex again. Do with her as you like, but definitely start spinning plates.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:35 PM
-9

Dude. Respect your mother.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:16 PM
1

Work hard at school, go to the gym, basically: build the foundations for top level smv.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 02:12 PM
1

Ah - then yes.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:31 PM
1

Exactly - girls are flaky naturally, and even more so on the internet. Ignore and move on.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:15 PM
1

I never ask for numbers. First agree to meet, set up the logistics, and number exchange follows naturally.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:13 PM
1

It doesn't really matter, as long as there is an interaction and you can build rapport. For example: You: Hello! Great weather outside for a drink. Her: Hello! I know! This weather is fabulous! You: So, what are you doing to make the most of it? Her: BlahBlah. You? You: [Joke about whatever she said] Her: Haha you're so funny. [Joke] You: So, up for a cup of coffee? If you think there is no connection yet, add more exchanges of jokes.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 08:53 PM
2

Yeah, you need at least two neutral exchanges before asking someone out... And I thought I was quick asking on the third exchange...
/r/askTRP22/09/14 06:04 PM
7

That section is brilliant. This one must be a joke: https://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/stp/4679576256.html "Also, please note we ask that you bring a fresh prepared meal for us to enjoy, as well as some sort of gift as a tribute for us giving you a shot to be a part of greatness."
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:39 PM
3

Fighting is almost always losing frame, one step worse than losing your temper. The exception is self-defence, but, ideally, you'd want to avoid being in that situation.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 10:04 AM
1

Women make terrible friends. You can make good male friends by joining a sports club or some sort of course. Just go where good men are and be friendly.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 02:20 PM
22

TRP is not about forcing women to be with you. You were truthful, as you should have been. If she's not happy with your views, she's free to go and that is completely fine.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 02:18 PM
7

I don't believe it. But if that's the case, treat her as a guy friend. Your question was fine and she was a dick. No need to apologise. My advice is go make some real (male) friends and bang some girls.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 01:58 PM
3

There's so much wrong in your post I don't know where to start. Read the side bars.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 01:52 PM
1

Who cares about getting a number. What matters is setting up a date - which should happen after a few messages (from 3 to 6). If they flake, find another girl.
/r/trpGAME21/09/14 11:33 AM
1

That's her weak way of letting you down "gently". If she was interested, she'd feel like going on a date. Or at a minimum offer to meet with you.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:41 PM
9

If a girl flakes, it's up to her to offer to reschedule. If she does not, it's her pathetic way of "letting you down gently".
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:27 PM
1

More details needed...
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:04 PM
2

Get her somewhere where you can talk and escalate - a bar is good. Other options are walks, coffee shops, etc.
/r/trpGAME20/09/14 05:03 PM
1

You don't need friends to have plans - go do something you might do on your own, like going to art gallery or something.
/r/trpGAME20/09/14 03:44 PM
4

You over think things and do not act like a man. You should have done what you want to do, including escalating and going out. Also, going out for dinner with a girl you never met in person before is a waste of your time and money. In the future, do what you want to do. If you want to go out, make plans and ask her to join you. If she's a pain, ditch her.
/r/trpGAME20/09/14 03:32 PM
1

How much does she spend? Two years ago, I ended a 5-year relationship where we were bringing in similar amounts. She earned slightly more than me, but spent three times as much and had no savings. That was one of the reasons the relationship ended.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 03:24 PM
5

She won't break up with you during the year abroad. She'll break up with you when it's time to get reunited. Shortly thereafter, you'll find out she had been cheating on you for a while. It's pretty much unavoidable, unfortunately, because you can't compete with the excitement of novelty when you're not even there. If you want to limit risks, use "dread game" - just let her know that you are getting a lot of attention from hot Italian women. Do not share your feelings and vulnerabilities. Also, …
/r/trpGAME19/09/14 11:07 AM
3

It's a great word.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 07:07 PM
1

I would not get anything expensive like sushi on a first date. Go somewhere free and interesting, and then get coffee or tea. 6,000 followers is a massive red flag. She'll either (i) flake, or (ii) expect a free dinner.
/r/trpGAME18/09/14 07:01 PM
2

Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:52 PM
1

It is an LTR. Lots of good points in your post, thank you.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:51 PM
2

I agree. She's pretty great. Might be worth it...
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:21 PM
1

I don't know - presumably because they're curious.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:02 PM
3

Thanks. I will look up what she says.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:00 PM
1

Nope - the girl who introduced me to my ex.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:58 PM
1

Thanks. She's still really into me, so I don't think that's the case here. I will keep my eyes open though.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:51 PM
2

Been dating since last December. Relationship is outwardly good (she does tons for me, wants sex as many times a day as possible, is basically here to support me), but she repeatedly stated that she thinks I'm not showing enough commitment and not doing enough for her. Last Monday she said she thought what would happen was that she would stay with me until she could not take it any longer (all the while asking when we would move in together)... Basically, she says she wants me to "show her" that…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:46 PM
2

I agree. Doesn't really tell me how to handle it though.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:40 PM
1

Am 34, she's 25. If she had exes on her list it would only bother me if there is actual interaction.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:37 PM
5

No way it will happen - but the article is so full of hamster logic it's sickening.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:35 PM
31

I recommend showering after anal.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:43 PM
2

This is super useful. Thank you.
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 01:17 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 10:34 PM
2

I have a similar problem right now. She wants more sex than I can handle, cooks, does my laundry, etc, but I get a regular drama. Any good articles you recommend?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 09:37 PM
4

It's like pencils. It means Hard and Black.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:28 PM
1

Thank you. This is very valuable advice.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:44 PM
1

Is there a maximum recommended amount for a deposit? For example, if I have 200k and want to buy a 500k flat, should I just use 100k as a deposit and put the rest in stocks? Thanks for your time and advice.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:05 PM
5

Then just serial date plates...
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:02 PM
4

There'll be tons of fun banging the sluts while you look for your unicorn.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 05:47 PM
1

The rule is to treat them no better and no worse than you would treat a buddy. If a man held the door for you, would you say thanks?
/r/askTRP02/09/14 09:53 AM
1

This is not about oneitis or being blue pill, this is about not being a complete dumbass. Your girlfriend does not want you to come to a heavy drinking party, in honour of her ex's last night before going to the army. And she will sleep there. Dude she wants to cheat on you. It's so obvious even r/relationship would confirm it to you. Dump her now. She is bad for you, even as a plate.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 09:53 AM
1

Dump her. Hard.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:31 AM
1

Depends what I feel like. If chatty, the ex, because I can have an actual conversation with her. If sexy, the ONS because I can aim for a threesome.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 12:31 PM
15

I would not apply all of TRP to work. If an employee behaves like an asshole and "maintains frame" when I give him feedback, I guarantee you he won't last long in the business. Sure, you'll be the unemployed thug that attracts women, but you'll be unemployed. Being clear, assertive, and confident will get you far. Maintaining frame and behaving as if you can do no wrong will get you sacked.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:43 AM
1

You'll get used to it. :)
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:30 PM
2

Enjoy not being in a LTR. If the shit-tests get annoying, just dump the girl. Most likely, she'll come crawling back.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:07 PM
2

Up to you. You can keep touching and escalating - it's almost certain she'll eventually let you have sex with her. If you can't deal with that shit (it gets old), then say okay and send her home asap.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 08:24 PM
11

And a picture of her. And her number.
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:03 PM
-1

That would be showing disappointment, which is allowed. You could also say "Okay. Have fun." , if you want to water it down.
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:02 PM
-4

"k".
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 07:46 PM
1

Good points, thanks. My shoes are EUR700, but they get noticed only by professional shoe guys (all male).
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 07:25 PM
2

No. It's too late and would look petty. If she brings it up again, tell her it's inappropriate behaviour and hold frame.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 03:46 PM
3

Dude. Take the hint and move on.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:59 PM
1

Is there a transcript? This video cannot be played in the UK.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:54 AM
3

Genius. Thank you.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:48 AM
2

You enjoy attention far too much. Please go seek it elsewhere.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:46 AM
11

So much truth...
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:02 PM
1

I generally chat on tinder and set up a date pretty quickly - usually after a dozen messages. Numbers are then exceed as a matter of course. Not sure what the point of asking for a number first is...
/r/trpGAME26/08/14 03:02 PM
2

You probably turn straight beta after having got the girl. You can't do that - continue to do whatever you were doing that worked.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:45 AM
2

I go for dolphin trainer. Works every time.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:01 PM
1

Yes. And it's huge and heavy. Some people just watch too much TV.
/r/trpGAME24/08/14 02:41 PM
1

Nice choice. The only time a girl noticed mine was when she thought it was a prison bracelet. She started flipping out :(
/r/trpGAME24/08/14 02:28 PM
1

Do it When you feel like it.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 10:40 PM
2

Do it when you feel like it. It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 10:39 PM
7

Ask her out. She'll come up with the explanation herself.
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 06:26 PM
2

Fair point!
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 04:40 PM
3

Thanks. Seems like a waste of money though!
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 04:17 PM
2

Why don't you tell her you "need to talk" and ask to meet near public transport?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 03:40 PM
1

Thanks! Good list. I do all that already, except (i) own a flat and (ii) have a nice car. I live in London and I think it's a waste of money here. I do notice girls like the idea though - so it's common sense vs attracting girls...
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 02:50 PM
1

Thanks - I think I will swap my Fitbit Force for a vintage Rolex. Was a present from an ex - I think this story will actually make me look more valuable?
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 02:48 PM
6

If the "relationship" is long distance, you can break it off long distance. In her position, people wan't to know asap.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:48 PM
2

Why would you want that? She can be replaced. It's easier and less time consuming to get two more new plates. Once she senses your success, she might come back with some break-up sex. If that happens, do what you feel like, but don't waste any energy trying to keep her around.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:44 PM
-1

Ignore it and keep escalating.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 06:10 AM
1

I dated Latin American and Eastern European women. I would sleep with one without hesitation, but I would not get into a relationship with one of them. The cultures are just too far apart.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 10:20 AM
1

Virgin is a big plus big because she will attach to you more strongly than otherwise. I dated non Western women (South American and Eastern Europe) and would not have a LTR with one. I find the cultures too fundamentally different.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:44 AM
1

Anyway - my experience is that girls get hit on by people making 6 figures all the time and it will not make you stand out (even from those earning 70k). Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 09:13 AM
0

So you agree that 6 figures does not set you aside from the guy making 70k?
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:59 AM
1

Thank you. I might try burpees and running on the spot Too.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:36 AM
0

You're still assuming 6 figure makes a difference. My experience is women view you the same as the guy making 70k - which is most guys in the club.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:30 AM
1

How do squats work to be effective without weights? Do you have some guidance at hand? Thanks!
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:28 AM
2

Any suggestions for a body weight exercise routine?
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:11 AM
1

3% is one in 33. That's a lot of people if you're a young woman. You are correct that I live somewhere expensive - London, not Manhattan though.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:10 AM
2

Why don't you experiment? Do two sessions at the gym a week, each an hour long, for three months, and report back.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:08 AM
1

Dude. I've been making 6 figures since 2006. It's not that much - I guarantee you there are tons of people like that competing for the attention of ugly waitresses. It will not make you stand out.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:55 AM
2

You can score with game and money. You will score even more, and it will be easier, if you have the physique too.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:50 AM
1

Money is enough if you have hundreds of millions. Till you're there, work out. Oh, and 6 figures is nothing special - on it's own, it will only get you a second hand, late 30s waitress. If you get 7 figures, you can start scoring a cute (not hot) teacher. Hot girls require 8-9 figure, at which point they're basically prostitutes anyway.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:44 AM
2

Hehe, thank you!! Although rowing is a full body workout, you are 100% right that it won't grow my muscles on its own.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:41 AM
1

I work hard and need my sleep and taking a gym kit when I travel takes up too much space. Also, I row twice a week anyway. Oh, and my gym buddy can't join me for another week or so because of some threatening injury.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:05 AM
1

Try it.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:03 AM
10

She wants you as an orbiter. Run away.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 11:07 PM
2

What matters is what she does not what she says. She invited you to her place. Fool around and see what happens.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:48 PM
0

I say "hi". It works 95% of the time. Sometime I say nothing and still get "hi" from the girl too... I think you should work on your profile. Edit: actually, checking responses, I say "Hello!" (80% of time) or nothing.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:25 PM
-7

What the hell is this crap.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 06:14 AM
1

Bad photo. I'm 1m94 and have had it happen.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 09:42 PM
1

You really think girls swipe right only for men they are actually interested in? Is that what you do? The reality is they work fast, swipe right if there is a possibility, and make a decision later (assuming they're actually looking for more than the ego boost matching provides). I used to say "hi" and it worked nearly always.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 04:15 PM
4

The opening line does not matter. Something is wrong with your profile. I'm guessing you come across as either short, poor, or ugly.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 03:31 PM
1

I've heard this crap so many times... I never understood how people can still pout that crap about the Soviet education system when it had always come bottom of the bottom tier in all international educational comparison/survey.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:41 AM
14

Do what you are comfortable with. If you think splitting is fair, split. If you want to pay, pay. If she's not happy, move on to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 09:37 AM
6

She will.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 09:33 AM
2

Not a single woman held an important political role in the entire history of the USSR. Also - people did not choose their jobs, they were told to be engineers, or whatever, based on quotas set by the State. You're just regurgitating decrepit propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 11:39 PM
1

Ok - I agree with you. We're just calling the same thing two different names.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 10:24 PM
1

What? Girls feel guilty about having sex with guys all the time. They want to believe they are innocent virgins. That's one reason there are so many false rape accusations and denials. Whether they actually are what they would like to be is an entirely different thing.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 10:11 PM
4

Girls like to think they're angels. You proved she's someone who has sex on the first date. She feels guilty, and seeing you would remind her of her guilt. Hence she avoids you.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:55 PM
6

Oh. I dated a girl like that once. I felt guilty leaving her, because she made clear how much she depended on me, but leaving her and her issues behind was the right decision. Date someone who improves your life. Edit: she's your wife. Ouch. She has issues and needs to work on them. Sorry, I am not a therapist, but she should definitely see one.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 12:32 PM
5

Are you improving yourself? If she sees results on you, she will want to do the same. If she does not, plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:26 AM
8

Don't go to a restaurant on a first date. Go have a coffee or walk in a park, but don't invest that much attention and time when nothing has happened yet, and you're likely not sure about them yet either.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:14 AM
5

It will be even more when she's one of many options. Good luck!
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 11:11 PM
1

"What? Good comebacks?"
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 11:08 PM
10

You're far too involved. Start sleeping with someone else.
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 11:04 PM
3

"No worries. Do you bite?" and keep asking.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:22 PM
1

"It could have been me". But it's not. You owe her nothing at this stage. Take the decision that is best for you, not for her.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:17 PM
1

Wait so: 1. Has kid, 2. Has divorce; 3. Rubbish in bed; 4. Radically different cultural background. I would run from this faster than the wind.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:15 PM
1

Good tips, thank you. How would you say it aloud?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:43 PM
11

"No, I want sex all the time." This is a blatant shit test.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 08:55 AM
7

They all fall in love eventually. This is because women fall in love with the men that give them orgasms, regardless of whether they are assholes or not. The only thing you can do is delay it slightly by being clear about what you want. I find spinning many plates helps because you sleep with each less often.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:17 PM
2

She does not know what she wants. She's 16 and a woman. How did your date go?
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:09 PM
0

I really don't get that meaning at all in that context. Maybe it's a cultural thing.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 01:13 PM
1

?. What about that is asking for permission?
/r/askTRP11/08/14 07:35 AM
1

Dude. Congrats on making it. Holding onto a grudge hurts you more than it hurts the person. Enjoy how awesome you have become, through sheer hard work, and be happy today and in the future.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 01:56 PM
-4

Tell her you want to be free to see other people. She'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 01:46 PM
5

Give him a break, she's obviously a hoe.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 01:11 PM
1

Not great but better than a few years in jail.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:33 AM
2

Treat girls as secondary to your success. They actually are, by the way.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:29 AM
1

So go to clubs then... Edit: oh, and hot young Russian girls have ONS. Trust me. I admit, it did cost me a kebab outside the club.
/r/trpGAME10/08/14 05:52 AM
1

Soooo just invite her somewhere else, but if you're not going to sleep with her, I don't see the point.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 10:57 PM
1

Hahaha - do as feel like.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 10:39 PM
2

Sound advice. I would add that he should be considerate and take her somewhere she can afford - might be a coffee shop or somewhere free, if I read between the lines correctly.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 10:38 PM
38

"I don't want to feel sweaty before I get to the gym". Priceless.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:13 PM
1

Invite her over. Depending on how far you got, could be dinner or a DVD or your stamp collection.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 09:50 PM
1

This is exactly why she is, wisely, looking for a provider.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 09:48 PM
1

Nice :) Thinking about your situation, it seems like you are being tested as "husband material" -> betabux/provider. I would steer clear of this type of courtship if that is not what you are looking for, because it can only lead to one thing.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 09:30 PM
1

Experiment. With tons of them. Report back please.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 09:01 PM
1

Not sure that works. I had a boss like OP's on a secondment, and "held frame" because, really, I was there for 4 months and thought it would be the best approach. During my review she was all sugar and spice, telling me she appreciated that I stayed calm when she was losing her temper. Behind my back, she contacted my actual bosses and made stuff up to kill my reputation.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 08:43 PM
4

It reads like a bad joke. Nothing terrible. It's the overall conversation that matters. Just pretend it was the perfect response and move on.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 08:32 PM
18

You're supposed to be funny. Try: "of course, I'd even let you cook and iron for me".
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 07:59 PM
1

Then why not? As long as you have fun, go for it.
/r/trpGAME09/08/14 04:48 PM
1

Maybe. It also matches my own experience. Muscles are good up to a point.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:47 PM
1

No he would not. He'd get laid less often than an athletic guy for sure though. Have a look at attraction surveys. Bodybuilders finish third.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:22 PM
1

So she prefers a date with strangers to a date with you? Why?
/r/trpGAME08/08/14 07:50 PM
1

She's more interested in your friend than you. Move on to the next one.
/r/trpGAME07/08/14 10:29 PM
0

This right there. People are confused and believe she fucked the guy before they broke up. It's not the case. OP, pay your debt and stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 08:22 PM
3

My mindset towards her should be "I don't give a fuck" and some sympathy and concern for the guy.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 08:18 PM
1

You're just nervous due to previous bad experiences. Just relax. Getting tipsy might actually help. If it's an option, no condom also helps.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:03 PM
9

You are right. Most girls are pretty sad specimens. That's why you sleep with them - not marry them. Rather than look for the perfect woman, spin plates. Perhaps you will find one worth keeping. If not, you'll at least be having a great time.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 07:59 PM
7

This is where you say - let's keep in touch, what's your number.
/r/trpGAME01/08/14 12:44 PM
3

This stuff comes with practice, and we're all learning. In that situation, I would have said "Don't go out then".
/r/askTRP01/08/14 12:33 PM
1

For the first time? I'm still filtering at that stage, so it is usually only a brief coffee on a terrace, walk in a park (usually with a drink in hand), or walk by the river. Maybe show her something on the way she has not seen yet in the city (the more "secret" the better). If I like her, then there's a second, longer, date during which we both know something will happen.
/r/trpGAME01/08/14 11:14 AM
0

"I'm heading to a funky new nightclub tonight and I'm not feeling very up for it" She was begging you for an invite to do something else. Ignore the first part and tell her "I'm doing X, join me".
/r/askTRP01/08/14 10:10 AM
3

She was essentially asking you to ask her out. You should have said - "I'm doing X tonight, come along instead".
/r/askTRP01/08/14 10:08 AM
1

Thanks. You're right. ♂
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:17 PM
1

Are you exclusive? Yes -> Dump LTR. No -> Make a move on hot friend.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:49 PM
1

If she's attracted she'll respond. Just say hello.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:39 PM
3

An "invite to smoke a joint when she returns to town in September" is not getting asked out. Continue doing what you have been doing, but expect nothing because there is nothing. Go date other women in the mean time.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:31 PM
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