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| 46 | Interesting side effects of disposable phoneGood idea to keep business life and personal life separated, including cell phone. Google Voice, or similar services, 2 phone numbers on the same physical phone. And, in the case of Google Voice, with one click you can flag callers as SPAM and next time they call they heart The Number you've called has been disconnected". | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Should I walk away from this one?This is from the PUA literature: yes she wants validation and you are giving it to her liberally. Withhold a little. Don't compliment her on something that she has done nothing to deserve a compliment; be more aloof, be busy; she's one of a few girls that you are interested in; this way she will be the one seeking you and she will be increasing the bar of her own validation, even to the point to have sex with you to make sure that you are indeed interested in her. Makes no sense to us guys, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with girls who flakeThis is my experience as a former AFC/BP: girls flake only if we, the guys, have failed. A girl will flake only if she has something more important than showing up to your date, and this something could be: Chad T. shopping Facebook / Social Media hanging out with her girlfriends doing her nails playing with her cat (figuratively and metaphorically speaking) watching re-runs of Games of Thrones When we have succeeded in creating attraction she would dump any plans to make it to our date (she'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Flake and date managementIf she flakes you have failed to either generate enough attraction, or to gauge her level of interest. Or both. On dates off Tinder I always double-book or triple-book, 3o minutes apart, within a 2-block radius. I arrive 5-10-15 minutes late and I make sure she is the one waiting for me. If I gauge that it's not going to happen, I just say so "This is not going to happen" and I am out of there. Rarely she will push for things to "happen". Most promising date is first date of the night. I blow of… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Your thoughts on RPs philosophy for the middle aged man.Middle aged? Is that me at 50-something? I guess so. TRP is TRP, good at any age, use it as you see fit, Your Mileage May Vary. I have been married twice, and twice divorced. That was all before I discovered TRP, today I work out religiously and I am in the best shape of my life, I run my own company; if that matter I spin 2 plates and 1 of them is 18 years younger, and both have amazing bodies that most 20-something only dream of. I am the happiest I have ever been in my life, and TRP is a big … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Buddy moves into house he built, invites me to spend the evening with his family.Wait till she robs him of all the credits for making the house a home by tastefully decorating it aka taking his money to buy shit like oversized furniture, crappy figurines, doilies, windows treatments, and have the poor schmuck paint the walls of each room a different color according to the latest Martha Stewart's directives with matching towels in the bathroom. Before you know she's going to call herself an Interior Decorator. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 12:50 PM |
| 6 | Serious question : end game of a trperI have no clue about like at 60, red pill or blue pill or whatever color pill. I can tell you at age 54, my age, pussy is still delicious pussy, I am spinning 2 plated (main plate and secondary plate), one is 36 (18 years my junior) and the other one is 11 years younger then me; both have hardbodies better than 20-something and sex is pretty amazing, so is life. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 03:54 PM |
| 29 | Feminists calling for a ban on sex bots. Also: the future of dating/sex/relationshipsPretend we are back 60 years or so, when the first vibrating dildos were entering the market, and let's **translate* the article from a male point of view. How RIDICULOUS does this sound? A campaign has been launched calling for a ban on the development of vibrators that can be used for sex. Such a use of the technology is unnecessary and undesirable, said campaign leader Dr Karl Richardson. Dildos already on the market are becoming more sophisticated and some are now hoping to vibrations into t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 01:12 PM |
| 4 | He's not always more alphaYou are correct my friend, never misunderstand your Sexual value from your Provider's value in her eyes. Sure there are some overlaps, but lot of bros in here are still too conditioned by BP upbringing and misunderstand one for the other. SMV vs Provider's Value | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What is the RP endorsed way to have a family?Answering your question is similar to answering the question: "How does one go into combat zone and not get killed?" The answer is: depends. It's a matter of skills and risk/luck. You are embarking into a high danger situation. My analytical brain re-reads your post "how does one go about becoming a father that has an active role in raising their children?" and the answer to that is that you could adopt, or you could use a surrogate mother of some sort. Of course if you are financially viable I … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 05:06 PM |
| 2 | ELI5 The Red Pill from my point of view"You are making statements in absolutes..." "It is not useful or helpful to anyone." (absolute statement) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 11:15 PM |
| 5 | AskWomen reluctantly admits they can't control their tingles when Chad approachesIt one needs proof that AWALT, this is it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 12:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I fuck one of my professors?Do you ever go fishing? You catch a fish by putting out a bait. Put your bait out, metaphorically speaking. Ask her for visiting hours, arrive late at the tail end of the schedule so that there's nobody after you, escalate from there. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 09:31 PM |
| 0 | The rage at TRP on the rest of redditAre you looking for popularity? If so, blue pill is the way to go. Your ideas will be shared by the majority, your actions will be encouraged by everyone, and you'll be wearing the white knight armor everywhere you go. There are drawbacks, but we won't get into that here. If you enjoy the benefits of Red Pill, popularity is not one of them. But if you live your own life and follow Rule #1: You don't talk about The Red Pill and Rule #@: You don't talk about The Red Pill you will be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Women Will Degrade Themselves for an AlphaFor those of us ex-AFC/Nice_Guys TRP never ceases to amaze. It's surprising to hear stories like this, it's even more surprising when with a bit of TRP knowledge, we make stories like this happen; we can hardly believe it's happening to us. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | If you speak to a woman on LinkedIn, don't dare compliment her on her profile picture you fucking misogynistic pervert.TRP hard to swallow, hard to deny. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 11:30 AM |
| 2 | The Washington Post - "We should stop putting women in jail. For anything."Yes mine is satire, but... so is that article. Actually, that article is just plain stupidity. I have no read The Fate of the Empires but a quick scan and I have read the underlying principle. On the same line read about "Complex Systems" TL:DR: We're fucked! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 02:44 AM |
| 1 | If you speak to a woman on LinkedIn, don't dare compliment her on her profile picture you fucking misogynistic pervert.If I say: that's a "stunning picture", I am talking about the picture, the output of the art of taking photograph, not the subject of such photograph. There's a difference between the medium and the subject. I know enough about photography to realize that that photo was either taken by a professional photographer or by someone with enough expertise (lighting, background, pose, cropping) to execute a good professional photo of a person. The person could have been fucking ugly and it would not cha… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 02:35 AM |
| 16 | The Washington Post - "We should stop putting women in jail. For anything."Actually I'll buy that argument. The core is here: "This means that these women are disproportionately affected by a system designed for men.". It becomes a 2 step-process: Step 1: No more Jail for women, all women. Step 2: Now, take a look at normal every day life in society where only men go to jail by the same argument you see that society now becomes the system which "This means that these men are disproportionately affected by a system designed for women.". Therefore we abolish jail for men… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 02:28 AM |
| 1 | She Keep Saying "Meal Ticket"What do you mean by "she has no goals?". YOU ARE HER GOAL, and also the means to all her other goals: fancy parties and all. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Caught gf texting Chad aka ex-BF while I was gone. Looking for experienced TRP adviceIt's hard. It's F**** hard. NOW. A Few Years down the road you'll file under "One of the best things I have ever done". A few more years and "What was her name?" | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Call Me Impatient: If she’s not interested now there’s a chance she never will beYou are right. blue pill is right too “persistence is key” and “she will eventually settle for you!” keyword there is settle. When a woman is looking to jump on the CC and sees a suitable C to jump on, she won't waste any time. When the woman is then post-wall, and she is hunting for a husband, and she sees the blue pill poor bastard suitable candidate she'll jump on the show on how she's the perfect wife-to be, and she won't waste any time. The two activities often overlap, as many [FR] in this… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Caught gf texting Chad aka ex-BF while I was gone. Looking for experienced TRP advice"She first blamed me..." Dude, I read your FR with pain, because I saw myself, the myself of the past in your story. You know that You need to break up with her and move on. Go no contact. Learn the lesson. This is one of the reasons why swallowing TRP is hard, really hard. Regarding the lease: easiest was is to sub 1/2 to a roommate, even at a slight loss to mitigate your loss. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 1 | According to TRP theory, my sister shouldn't be attracted to her boyfriend.If you go over to other non TRP subs, or even look around, you will see stories where guys in their 30's are desperate because their high school sweetheart just divorced them since they wanted to go out there and have all the fun they missed in their 20's. Or a variation of that. They all crave to experience the CC sooner or later. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Women love knowing that they can break up with you and crush youYes. It's also bigger than that. It's about control. blue pill teaching brainwashes everyone into gaining control over other, and conversely relinquish control; the byproduct of that is that then everyone is out of control, including in this case OP's two sisters and mother. TRP is about control over one's own life. Spin plates, get a girlfriend, yet realize that everything is ephemeral, and be ready and willing to walk away at any point in time, and if they are the ones who walk away, their los… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Im a tutor, student wants to fuck. Thoughts?You know better, that's why you posted here, you wanted us to give you a green light in order to justify it to yourself. Don't! This is what you can do: Tell her NO because you can't due to the situation. Unfriend from social media etc. Two ways this might pan out: The risk is what excites her, of course you are the only one bearing the risk, not her. And once the risk factor is gone, she might not be into you anymore. You refusing her might turn her on even more, and once the situation is past,… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Women pledging commitment to you is like getting paid in monopoly money. It doesn't really count.Experience is a wonderful teacher. The best! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 03:40 AM |
| 3 | What is the role of the modern man as we progress in the 21st century? flair:'mgtow'This is something that I think about, and I think about a lot; and that's also part of what brought me to TRP. We need to distinguish if you are looking for The average MAN, or if you are looking for that minority of Very Special MEN. The average MAN is doomed, you can look around and see the majority of guys out there represent the average man: out of shape, married in an unhappy marriage or divorced-raped, in a job that's unfulfilling; trying desperately to keep up with the Johnses. Still. Spe… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Women pledging commitment to you is like getting paid in monopoly money. It doesn't really count.Yes. We have all read the pillar of TRP Women are the gatekeepers to sex, Men are the gatekeepers to relationships and yet it takes a while to really truly fully understand it, and it's a combination of reflexion on past experiences, present experiences, and reading stories from other people in this sub. Then, little by little, we "get" it. And it's fun to watch. My personal favorite is when a plate wants to talk about Being exclusive, and my questions to her are always the same: Why now? Why me… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/15 03:53 PM |
| 5 | The red pill works and I'm disgusted.A lot of us have experienced that moment of it works and I'm disgusted or a variation of it. I want to address something you said, specifically "...The point is that these women won't commit to me..." guess what? Give then enough time and one or more of these plates would want to commit to you and you to her. Remember, one of the pillars of TRP is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, and guys are the gatekeepers of relationships. Yes, even the ones with whom you had a 3some, give them enough t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | I really need your help right now guysDon't go back to school for a second bachelor degree, that's an escape. Do go MONK MODE. Take time for yourself, and like you said make a plan, a plan that reflects who you are, and then just execute. Shit like this happens, this too will pass, your body will heal, your car will be repaired or you'll get a new car or you'll live without a car for a while, same for your girl. MONK MODE is your best option. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 02:31 PM |
| 6 | The Fuck Boy vs The Good On PaperIt seems a page taken from any TRP writings: Strengths: Good on Paper is cute, funny, sweet, and smart. He’ll always respond to your texts, and you know you’ll be on the receiving end of at least three compliments when the two of you are together. If, by some miracle, you end up at his house, he is definitely going to walk you home the next morning. He is the one who if you’re thirty and still unwed, you might hit with a ‘U single?’ text and then head to the altar. Weaknesses: This guy is perfec… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCNot only energy but balance since being involved with the AF/Chad requires a lot of emotional energy on her part, and she get rechaged with the orbiters & BB. "The role of Betas and Orbiters" https://archive.is/LqF80 | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 01:36 AM |
| 2 | An example of how to exploit the female-pandering world view to your advantage in businessI am no martial art expert, but I read somewhere that the core principle of Judo is to use the opponent's strength to one's advantage. I don't see any problem to use TRP knowledge to grow one's business at the expense of women, beta bux, and white knights the world over. Actually, there's an entire Blue Pill Economy | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Boy, aged 14, is a criminal for sending naked pics of himself to a girl. Girl gets awayI am no lawyer but... how's that even legal when police/DA/judges do not apply the law in criminal cases? I though that in case of criminal offenses police/DA/judges do not have discretion but MUST apply the law by prosecuting alleged offenders. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Boy starts movement to get men to carry feminine productsHere the sad part: what will be next? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Wealth and PowerThat's the fundamental principle of Buddhism. Alas, there's true happiness and false happiness; unfortunately too many people miss the point and seek false happiness and seek it in all the wrong places. blue pill is one of those places. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Wealth and PowerThe ultimate goal is indeed to be Happy. Even when you talk about Power or Wealth they are either synonyms to Happiness or ways to achieve happiness in one's individual mind. For each one of us to find: What happiness means to us The means to achieve happiness. We all know that it's not through women/relationship, that's blue pill thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Loser is one of the most devastating insults you can hit a woman with.Didn't mean to, but I see it now. Freudian slip & subtle irony in a 1-word-sentence, interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 11:14 AM |
| 3 | What Makes LTR MaterialYes chance change. Do we as people really change or do we improve, you know like wine. Surely you and I are not the same people as we were ... let's say in high school, but are we totally different individuals or have we progressed on a direction that was set long time ago? I believe that we proceed on a certain course, some people go faster and further than other. Accounting for change? How? I assume we progress in our individual lives, and if we reach a point where we are no longer compatible,… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What does Chad do?TL;DR: I am done chasing women, and I have no problem having women Do yourself a favor and stop thinking of TRP as a cult, where one either follows the popular people 100% including drinking the kool-aid, and start thinking about it as an individual movement, A Revolution of One so to speak. It's a beautiful salad bar, take what you need, take what you want, take what works for you, how it works for you. It's all a set of suggestions not orders to obey. Buddhism works the same way in its purest … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 01:44 AM |
| 2 | What Makes LTR MaterialLet's define Relationship first. Relationship: the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. So even a ONS is a type of relationship, albeit a very short one. When we enter into a relationship, we know if it's going to be a short one, or we just don't know. As far as I am concerned, if it's not a short one, it doesn't come with an expiration date in my view. The problem that I see is that 2 people get together, things go well, very well… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 01:37 AM |
| -8 | Loser is one of the most devastating insults you can hit a woman with.A woman person who calls other people "losers" for no apparent reason are not worth of my attention/time. Period, The worst insult you can give to a woman is to ignore her. Just drop the conversation either in person or via text/email/social media and move on to better things in your life. Try it, it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 01:25 AM |
| -5 | What does Chad do?It's a sexual strategy since it is a counter-strategy in reaction to feminism, a sexual strategy on it's own since it puts one sex category, females, against another, males. But it is not about sex and getting laid as much as possible, that's PUA or other lesser strategies than TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Serial Dater GirlThis conversation inspired me to post this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3j5m7e/what_does_chad_do/ | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Serial Dater GirlIf you like me were raised Blue Pill, try this: think about doing the opposite of what comes natural, or - if it's about women - ask them and then do the opposite. Does Chad T. text back promptly? Is Chad T. always on time? Is Chad T. reliable? Hence my username that I picked before stumbling upon TRP. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Serial Dater GirlI hear you. We hear you. You're in good company in this sub. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Serial Dater GirlThe Red Pill is a hard pill to swallow, and - in my case - it takes a long time for the full effect to permeate every aspect of one's life. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Jokingly bit a girl's ass at a party, she's pressing an assault charge on meSorry dude, this is a bit too late for you, but it's a good reminder for everyone else https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wXkI4t7nuc This has been posted before, it's a MUST watch for everyone Red Pill or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Serial Dater GirlThat's business as usual. As you learn to spin plates, you'll learn that they are spinning you too. She's a parallel dater, not serial. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Guy friends making plans with cheating ex and not telling meYou are using the term Friends for people who are not your friends. Drop them like you dropped your ex. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Not another noobie post about texting theory/ [FR]There's not as much controversy about texting as you believe: the expert veterans agree that texting is for logistics only; new newbies coming to TRP try to argue left and right because they are addicted to texting and yet they are not satisfied in general with their interactions with ~women~ people. Like someone else chimes in here, Do what works for you, but if you came here because what you're doing is not working well for you, I strongly suggest that you give a serious try to no texting exce… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | It disgusts me how lazy housewives are.I live alone in a 3 BR house (this is where I lived when I was married, this is where I still stay, long story), I am busy with work and stuff, and I cook all of my meals. I clean enough day-by-day, I try not to make too much of a mess; I do my own laundry once a week, and I have a service that comes in once every 2 weeks for 3 hours to do a more thorough cleaning for $50. Life is grand! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 03:34 PM |
| 1 | The hamster is strong with this oneIt's all true, it's pure TRP in practice. It's all confirmed by the author toward the end of the article when she states "I should know. It took me far too long to figure this one out.". TL;DR: Author rode the CC and now, as she's looking for a husband's material she warns younger women not to ride the CC; "Do as I say, not as I did". | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 03:31 PM |
| 6 | "Enjoy the fuckboy life"Fuckboy? With whom does the fuckboy fuck? With fuckgirls? We need to take a page off the women's playbook: they do act like fuckgirls but nowhere they would admit it. Go out on a first date with a woman, and chances are that she has a FWB if not 2, a few orbiters, and on the same week has gone out on a couple of dates too. And yet nobody does a body count let alone put on a label like fuckgirl or player.. So, in order to refute the term fuckboy we need to ignore it and not encourage it, if you m… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 11:29 AM |
| 2 | How likely will a woman cheat if she is happy in a relationship?Well, at 18 and just initiated into the world of sex. Well she's curious, curious about the world, curious about guys, curious about sex; and with the personality of a waitress. Add to that lots of opportunities arising on a daily basis. Statistically speaking the Probability of her straying to experiment is very high. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 11:14 AM |
| 7 | How likely will a woman cheat if she is happy in a relationship?You are speaking in broad terms, so I am going to speak in broad terms as well. I am going to define your "happy in a relationship" as a woman in a "happy marriage" as the average person would define it. So the woman rode the CC through college and afterward, getting to sample the varieties of Chads out there: the AF(s) of the world. Then once approaching her very late 20's she wanted to get married, none of the Chads were marriage materials or didn't want to have anything to do with her long te… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Should a man ever trust a woman he's romantically interested in?Trust is a variable, not an on/off switch. Trust her with what? In what context? To Love you and be loyal to you for ever and ever? Statistics say that it's highly improbable. Play your odds wisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 01:10 AM |
| 14 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."See my post SMV vs Provider's Value. She loses interest in you as a Provider; the context was of you presenting yourself as a provider, and you failed since you didn't demonstrate enough value as a provider. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Guy finds out that his girlfriend settled for him because Chad wouldn't commit to her, gets RP advice from his (female) cousin, decides to kick his girlfriend to the curb.You, like me, were brainwashed to be BB for decades. We're now on the right path. You're at level 2 of The four stages of competence: 1. Unconscious incompetence The individual does not understand or know how to do something and does not necessarily recognize the deficit. They may deny the usefulness of the skill. The individual must recognize their own incompetence, and the value of the new skill, before moving on to the next stage. The length of time an individual spends in this stage depends … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Guy finds out that his girlfriend settled for him because Chad wouldn't commit to her, gets RP advice from his (female) cousin, decides to kick his girlfriend to the curb.Interesting point. RUIN? Uhm... not sure if I agree with that. When I was an AFC/BB/Nice Guy I was always trying to improve them, make them understand and other crap like that, it never worked. Now I know better. Everyone, we all are the way we are, some of us improve ourselves, some don't really want to. Once I decide to terminate a relationship, any relationship be it a gf, plate, fwb, fb, whatever it's over. Done. There's no closure, there's no talking. Nothing good ever comes out of it, not … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 06:55 PM |
| 13 | Guy finds out that his girlfriend settled for him because Chad wouldn't commit to her, gets RP advice from his (female) cousin, decides to kick his girlfriend to the curb.Correct. That's why if you want to be like Chad you need to make her your Alpha widow when ending things; best way is to terminate via text or email, brief, efficient, no meeting, no talking. There was a thread about this last week. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 11:26 AM |
| 11 | Breaking Up is Easy to DoNo matter what, she's not going to like you, so my take is to do it via text or email, after all I don't need a good reference. You could star by texting "We need to talk, how about tomorrow 6Pm your place?" for sure she'll ask you why etc... and you just drop the bomb. I know everyone says that it's bad and rude to break up via email or text, but after all it's the most efficient and effective way. Just like ripping off a band aid. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Wonderful anecdotes of high level hypergamy from a professional footballerIs she? It will be interesting to see how this is going to play out, and how the media is going to cover it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 10:37 PM |
| 17 | Wonderful anecdotes of high level hypergamy from a professional footballerThis reminds me of the recent news of Tom Brady and his wife having marital issue because she feels that recently he's been too busy to pay attentions to her. WTF? Of course the guy is busy, he's one of the top athletes in the world and involved in the fucked up situation with the Deflategate . A friend told me that the wife has stopped modeling, wait till they file for divorce and the Alpha-Brady gets divorce raped. Like meteorology TRP might not be perfect, but it's the closest model we get to… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 02:42 PM |
| 2 | If she has/had 'friends with benefits' she's not worth the commitment.I hear you bro. The issue is that when one FWB is nice to her, she misunderstands that for "Oh, look, we're in a relationship because we do things that people in a relationship do"; of course this is all in her own head, and then when sooner or later the difference of opinions comes out, the "You strung me along" card comes out. Now that we know, let's all act accordingly; we don't want to be misunderstood. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 11:33 AM |
| 3 | My exact response: "lol." She didn't text back.Actually "Ok" is not neutral since it conveys "agreement". Try the inquisitive "Oh". I read that somewhere in a psychology article. It works. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 11:19 AM |
| 36 | If she has/had 'friends with benefits' she's not worth the commitment.Well, we are all having fun. Just don't bring it up. Don't bring up exclusivity nor where is this going nothing to that effect. If she ever brings up the exclusivity just ask her: "When did you start being exclusive with me?" and then once she answers that, ask: "Why do you want to be exclusive now? And why with me?" Sit back and enjoy the hamster do what she does best, spinning the story. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 01:11 AM |
| 154 | If she has/had 'friends with benefits' she's not worth the commitment.FWB is very common, it's what we call it spinning plates; remember as you are spinning her, she is spinning you. It actually doesn't take a genius to convince her, all it takes is some TRP theory. This is where it gets interesting. A girl who has 3-4 FWB after a while she would go after the nicer one, you know the one who after fucking her brains out will stay to watch a Netflix, or that every now and then after an afternoon of marathon sex when she says Let's grab a pizza he'll say sure why not… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How to fix societyI disagree. It might happen in a distant future, but not in our lifetime. The status quo is here to stay because it serves the vast majority of people very well, or they believe so. We who have found TRP we are a minority, I am speaking for myself, but I feel that my story is somewhat common with TRP community: I was raised BP and loved it, I loved its promises: be a nice guy and life will work out for you, you will meet the woman of your dreams, you know, the nice girl, and you will live happil… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 04:31 PM |
| 7 | My exact response: "lol." She didn't text back.I do exactly the same thing when I see/hear something that is now funny to me when viewed under the lens of TRP, I reply or comment "LOL" and then nothing, absolute silence. It's amazing at times BluePillers (women & white knits) reveal their own true colors by trying to fill in the silence and/or making sense of my LOL-ing them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Using television to show men what is expected of them in datingThat is Blue Pill brainwashing at work. It works for everyone: women white knights AFC: it shows them a path, a path to wait till post-wall women who are looking for a trained BB business at large make a lot of money from BB It worked for me too, I was a great and willing AFC/BP/BB; till it didn't work anymore. I am glad to be unplugged and a free range man. Finally! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 01:41 AM |
| 5 | “Marry a man who loves you more than you love him.”TL;DR: "We’ve come to an age where as much as we secretly yearn for big pecks, full hairlines and six-pack abs, we’ve also started to yearn for something else; something that will comfort us late at night more than big arms and perfect bone structure: security. a.k.a. AF/BB | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 01:29 AM |
| 2 | "Watching sports is a waste of time" - /u/abdada.Do you LOVE watching sports? Good. Like you said you'll be connecting with like-minded individuals. Personally I don't enjoy watching sports, so I do other kind of social activities, and I connect with other like-minded individuals. The takeaways is to live your life on your own terms, then compare the results with your expectations; if they match or are close enough, continue what you're doing; if they're not, something needs to change. Mind you, occasionally I do go to live major league sports… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Trump offers "real talk" on females, the media loses its collective mindThe lesson learned here is not to behave like Trump, you can if you want to and that's your true you; the lesson here is maintain frame. If you are getting the results that are in line with your expectations, do not apologize, be yourself and maintain frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | "Guys treat her badly"Wow, you dodged a bullet there. You're lucky you only wasted invested a little time to have further confirmation of the principles in TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Swallowing pill is not enough, you have to win your internal battleGood post. As we read these testimonials we all see somethign of ourselves in it. My own mental game is not that I don't care or care less (your #4) like you said, but that we switched the focus of what we care, we care about what's important, we care about what's under our control, and we care about what is healthy to care about. Hitting the gym means caring about our physical and mental well being; not being dependent on a woman for our happiness means caring about our own true happiness; purs… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Women unknowingly confirms core RP themes, article blows up with agreement from women all over Facebook and my feed.I like the paragraph "Perhaps, behind every jerk lies an ex-girlfriend who made him that way. The same may go for women who have nice men eating from the palm of their hands. We have all been a Derek at once point in our lives. And we’ve all been a doormat like Paul." Personally I am not a jerk, but I realize that some women think I am, just because they expect a Mr Nice Guy, a Blue Pill Beta who would fit and serve their purpose, and I am not. Like many guys in here, I used to be one; I used to… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.It gets worse: if they ever get a boyfriend or a husband, they treat him like the puppy. At the same time they admire the large dogs / Alpha Males out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 12:55 PM |
| 5 | How do I save my friend?"In case of emergency, help yourself first before helping other people". Therefore just don't! Don't save your friends. The best you can do is to save yourself, and lead by example. Live your life on your own terms, maybe they will notice something, maybe they will not. If they notice and they ask or they complain, just drop some nuggets of wisdom without ever mention The Red Pill. Let me repeat that, Without Ever Mention The Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 11:28 PM |
| 3 | PUA vs TRPI'll have to read about the true story of Casanova now. Who knows, one day people will read the story of Leo who did the opposite of what he was ever told to do, and lived happily ever after. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 09:37 PM |
| 12 | PUA vs TRPI've read the Book of Pook, good book, and actually I am no longer interested in becoming the next Casanova, I am presently spinning 2 plate (main plate and secondary plate) and here and there I pick up the random fun encounter if I want to. I am very busy with my own life, building my business, working out, practicing my guitar, volunteering, being social. Two plates keep me busy enough and enough sex too. I do find that I need to browse this sub on a daily basis to balance out the Blue Pill me… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 09:21 PM |
| 66 | The "Rape Culture" Narrative now comes to prep schoolsI saw some of it as well, I saw the interview with her lawyer and when she was asked about the texts that her client sent to the accused, the lawyer said "I don't want to get into the facts ... that's for the jury..." and then went onto a long speech full of innuendos and manipulating sentences. Funny, "I don't want to get into the facts..." why bother with FACTS when you can play the media with one-sided manipulating rhetoric? These types of tactics are well documented in book like Cialdini's "… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 09:11 PM |
| 4 | PUA vs TRPAn interesting definition that I have heard about PUA/TRP is this: "PUA teaches to sell yourself better; TRP teaches you to become a better product." I would edit it as follows: "PUA teaches to sell yourself better; TRP inspires you to become a better person." I am an older redditor, my first encounter with PUA stuff was pre-internet era, early 90's with the rudimentary initial books and stuff. I have read most of the PUA stuff up until 4-5 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Prenups can be overturned. Don't get married.People misunderstood what I wrote, since we had no kids there was no issue of child support. The prenup didn't mention anything about child support. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Prenups can be overturned. Don't get married.You know what? That is something that I have been thinking for a while in the back of my mind. People like me were raised Blue Pill, with hopes and dreams... then we find ourselves into a nightmare and not a dream. If we can release ourselves from the brainwashing and use TRP for what it is, a countermeasure to the clusterfuck that it's out there . . . the present situation is pretty sweet: a former average guy can get a lot of pussy if he wants; and personally I have had my fair share of pussy … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Prenups can be overturned. Don't get married.I didn't intend to have kids, so that was not an issue for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:26 AM |
| 46 | Prenups can be overturned. Don't get married.I got divorced twice, both times I had a pre-nup. The first time over 2 decades ago there were no issues. The second time there were veiled treats from her lawyer to have the pre-nup declared null and void, or at least some of the clauses. It was blackmail pure and simple, I talked this over with my lawyer and I gave in on a few items that I didn't have to in order to save time and reduce risk. One of the items in the divorce settlement that my lawyer insisted was that the divorce settlement was… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 06:19 PM |
| 3 | What Tinder Taught Me about WomenAs Tinder matures as an app and the early adopters (Type 1) have exhausted their potential mates, I see more and more of Type 3 women, which can be frustrating. Type 2 soon morphs into Type 3. A while back someone posted "The RP Comprehensive Guide to Dating Sites" https://archive.is/B5JsL and it's quite useful, I have been using it and it works, especially the ”What are you looking for” (no question mark) line. Dating sites in general are a bad context for anything useful, best strategy is to h… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 02:10 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Reader's Digest: Lamenting Tradition Whilst Embracing Modern Slut CultureI agree with this post. What's interesting that the title can also be applied to the average woman out there: she wants the Traditional way of getting married to a provider and be taken care of, and yet she also want to embrace the slut culture pre-marriage when riding the CC, post-marriage once she has satisfied her need for having kids and she divorce-rape her "father of my kids"; and unfortunately at time also during the marriage by banging the occasional Chad that comes along while the BP/BB… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/15 01:54 PM |
| 41 | Positive Changes, to your wardrobe!Develop your own style, make fashion, do not follow fashion. And the last thing you want to do is "B) Talk fashion with your plate" she can talk fashion with her girlfriends and orbiters, not with the Alpha in you. Just my $0.02 contribution. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Gaylubeoil's Introduction to Psychological ManipulationThis post is not about TRP. This post is not about PUA/Women. This post is about your life, it's about the environment where we all live in, we don't have to embrace these techniques we don't even have to like them, but we need to be aware that they are all around us and are being used toward us and against us. You're at work and someone got promoted over you despite a lesser performance? Changes are s/he manipulated your boss and/or the system. Do you own your own business and you keep losing b… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 07:26 PM |
| 15 | The Club Scene is gross, so where is the best place to meet women?My guess is that you are an Introvert, and probably a smart one too. The Club scene is not gross, it's just not for you, I can relate to that. Try to change your mindset, the goal is not to meet women by hunting, the goal is to meet like-minded people, some of which would be suitable women. I see that you mentioned Art galleries and yoga classes; are those activities that interest you? If not you're wasting your time since you'll find people who are into Art and Yoga and if you're not ... chance… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 06:48 PM |
| 1 | SMV vs Provider's ValueWhatever YOU like is a good choice to YOU. And that is all that counts. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | SMV vs Provider's ValueThat's not what I said: dressing with clothing like Brooks Brothers and driving car like Mercedes increases your Provider's Value in the mind of the gold diggers. Is this the signal you want to broadcast? At the end of the day we all need to ask ourselves: why do I wear what I wear? Is this my own style or did I borrow it from someone or somewhere else? And - most importantly - WHY? Same for a car. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 03:39 PM |
| 1 | SMV vs Provider's ValueUnless.... you are the Chad T! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 11:30 AM |
| 5 | SMV vs Provider's ValueNot trolling and I am very familiar with the material in the sidebar and other online and offline TRP literature. We are all products of our past experiences. I used to like nice things a lot more when I was BP than I do now. My point is that a lot of BP guys like I used to be express certain behaviors in their mission to increase their Provider's Value (I know that's not a TRP lingo, I made it up). Once you have a BP mentality that's second nature. At the same time guys should be aware how most… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 01:17 AM |
| 3 | SMV vs Provider's ValueIt's a question of perceptions, women will probably see a guy who dresses nice and has nice toys is a provider. It can become a Virus of the Mind in her mind. My pointy is a autobiographical one, for a long time I worked hard, very hard at increasing my value, and like me my friends worked hard too, we all worked hard at increasing our value as providers because we didn't know any better due to the Blue Pill upbringing, and to the hive mentality. These guys are still my friends, but I see them a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | SMV vs Provider's Value1% is just a number there. As far as I'm concerned it could be 0.01% or 3-5%, surely a small minority/elite. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:29 PM |
| 4 | SMV vs Provider's ValueDon't think of silos, think of the BB/AF as a spectrum. On one extreme side of the AF there are no LTR, and no fancy restaurant meals. At the other end of the spectrum there's the BB who gets no sex. Personally I enjoy fine dining, if a plate wants to go out to dinner she can pick whatever restaurant she wants, the premise is always separate checks. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:14 PM |
| 6 | SMV vs Provider's ValueI agree with you that you exemplify both. What is the opinion that your gf has of you, and that she will have years down the road? Will she sees you as a man first or as a walking ATM first? We're dealing with perceptions here, and only perceptions. Along the same lines of attraction can't be negotiated. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:06 PM |
| 3 | SMV vs Provider's ValueNot many as you probably sense, let's say approx 1%. How many toned TRP guys do you think there are? approx 1%. I have 2 plates, main plate is 36, secondary plate is 44; I recently cut all ties with ex-gf who was my on-call FWB (that's a story for another post). I don't need a plethora of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 10:51 PM |
| 2 | SMV vs Provider's ValuePersonally I would NOT want to be perceived as a provider. To me that's the worst objectification that there is, I am a man, not a walking ATM. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 10:42 PM |
| 0 | SMV vs Provider's ValueLOL! An always perfectly detailed Lexus or Mercedes or BWM smells of BB/Provider to any post wall / post CC woman whose clock is ticking. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 10:40 PM |
| 10 | SMV vs Provider's ValueWhen you're 50-something like me, a very fit and toned 40-something divorcee looks pretty good. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 10:18 PM |
| 5 | example of how bad wifes can treat Beta Bux [CRINGE WARRING]Can we put a link to this on the sidebar under "Theory Reading"? Really. Any BB marrying somehoe [sic] hot "out of his league" must watch this. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Why TRP will never be main stream, stop wasting your time.TRP can never be mainstream. TRP is predicated upon acquiring a high SMV, where the keyword is "high", in order to be mainstream anything has to be average; and average and high are not compatible. A Ferrari will never be mainstream, sure is wished by the vast majority of people, but it's not mainstream by any means. A true RP man is wished by the mast majority of women, but he knows better to be selective and not stick his dick where it's not worth it, that would be BP. BP is mainstream. Is TRP… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Sarah Hepola explains why women get drunk and hook up with random strangersShe sounds superfun! I wish she was one of my plates, she is the perfect plate! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Be Emotionally Self-Sufficienthttp://www.awakin.org/read/view.php?tid=970 | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Women don't need to possess 'qualities' ?That is an issue. TRP teaches guys to: hit the gym and eat right, therefore attain a fit physique; pursue a satisfactory and rewarding career; cultivate your passions. And read interesting books. So, a year or two after your average guy has swallowed TRP he will be toned, with a good job, involved in a few interesting activities, and well read. Do you know how difficult is it to find a female who is: fit and not fat, fit from working out at the gym, not from starving herself; pursuing the career… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Divorced men of TRP: do you tell people that you are divorced?I'm twice married and twice divorced and I have no problem telling that to people. Your issue is not whether to tell people/plates that you are divorced, but that you call your plate with your ex-wive's name. That's something you need to work on. One solution is to call your plate with a nick-name. There was a TRP video a while back where this guy was spinning multiple girls so he called them all Baby Girl and on his phone instead of the girl's name he would put their most visible visual attribu… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | #On Becoming God's Gift To Women - And All Humankind - A Buddhist Path To EnlightenmentOf course the book is more comprehensive, but the movie is faster, easier and more entertaining. The part where George Lucas give credit to Joseph Campbell's is priceless. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | #On Becoming God's Gift To Women - And All Humankind - A Buddhist Path To Enlightenmenthttps://vimeo.com/115006689 | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | #On Becoming God's Gift To Women - And All Humankind - A Buddhist Path To EnlightenmentJoseph Campbell's The Hero's Journey might explain this. The life of the Buddha, Jesus, Star Wars, as well as best selling fiction and the greatest movies follow the Hero's Journey Archetype. We are all heroes, and our life is our own journey. Further reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monomyth | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | PUA Summit for women - Sugar Daddy School: Manhattan summit teaches women how to hook rich menI used to have the same issue, I have now switched career. It's something that's unavoidable, what I used to do is to lie about my job, I would say say something in the same industry just a lot lower; or make up a new crappy job and dress accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Trainwreck, then new feminist fairytale.Sounds like a 21st century interpretation of 1990's Pretty Woman. Good business, bad karma. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | TRP and AgeEarly 50's here, discovered TRP about 2 years ago, and I could not be happier. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | "He understands how lucky he really is"As a member of TRP I support the article as it stands. Seriously. I am more than willing to commit once I find the woman outlined in the article, not just any woman, but the woman who fits my frame of the woman. Most people believe it's a unicorn that doesn't exist, I take the stand that I don't know whether she exists or not, till than I continue the search, aka plating / dating. NOTABLE MENTION: the hint of branch swinging/hypergamy: "Luck doesn’t last forever, and he should feel the need to l… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | The dangers of echo chambersTL;DR: RoK and blogs in general are not places where the host welcomes ideas contrary to their own. If you disagree strart your own blog. I have been in the blog business for over a decade, and I disagree with you. Imagine you're in your parents' living room, talking about the upcoming Thanksgiving dinner, logistics, time, who's bringing the apple pie and who's bringing the pumpkin pie; size of the turkey, beverages . . . the works. All in a sudden the door opens wide and a self-professed vegan-… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Your "Friends".Not looking for validation, got over that shit long time ago. But at the same time I am not going to go out of my way to seek out people who are negative in life especially toward me, got over that shit long time ago too. It is no different than coming here, we all enjoy hanging out with like-minded people with whom we have something in common to talk about, even if we don't agree 100%. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Your "Friends".LOL, I am 50+. But my main plate is young. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Your "Friends".Do NOT take business and entrepreneurship advice from Tony Robbins. You can have virtual mentors, people who are in business as businesspeople or entrepreneurs who also write about business and entrepreneurship, as opposed to people who's only business is to write about business. Off the top of my head these are the people/blog that I suggest you take a look at: Y combinator Y combinator Y combinator Joel on Software 37 Signal (also read their books) Seth Godin (also read his books) http://avc.c… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Your "Friends".If you're here in TRP, you're already outgrown Tony Robbins. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 04:36 PM |
| 42 | Great looking outfits and style immediately increases SMV. I highly recommend "swagger jacking" a celeb or two you truly admire as a quick hack for an instant point or two in SMV.It does, and it does not. When I was skinny-fat, during my Blue Pill days, I wore expensive suits (work in corporate office) and blazers; and indeed I looked good and I was often complimented by women. Was my SMV higher because of that? Probably. Today, after hitting the gym for 3+ years I have a body that I am proud of, I wear t-shits and I get complimented on my biceps and at times my shoulders and chest, there's "that" vertical line across the chest that shows even when wearing a t-shirt and … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Your "Friends".So, those people who have made major changes in their life due to stumbling upon TRP have made changes in their "surface" traits only? Or is it that TRP matched their "deep" traits and their Blue Pill behavior was just "surface" traits that they were able to shake off? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Request for advice - girl wants me to be the boss. I want her to have a life.So, you're 43. I am a bit older. In my experience what you're going through is normal, it has happened to me, and to some degree it still happens. Let me explain; You have certain habits that have brainwashed you for decades, let's call these the Blue Pill habits. Now you have managed to rid of them and become Thundercock, the Thundercock she fell for. According to TRP she is genetically wired to fall for Thundercock, and yet she's also wired to transform Thundercock into BB. Add the two togethe… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 03:59 PM |
| 0 | The fact that r/TheRedPill may possibly be banned is absurdTRP will be banned, it's only a matter of time. Fair? No. This world is not fair. Imagine an organization called Men in Technology with a mission that goes something like this: When one Man helps another, amazing things can happen. Professional careers leap forward. That's what Men in Technology is all about. As the premier professional association for men in the technology industry, we understand the unique challenges you face. No matter where you are in your professional development, or what t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | "Dick is abundant and low value" Female writer ALMOST gets it.I agree with your philosophy, but you are talking about quality. My observation was about quantity; there are more quality male then there are quality females out there. There's no TRP equivalent for the female world that inspires them to: Take care of themselves physically, you too can have the body of your choosing Pursue a career that fulfills their interests Pursue their passions Read, meditate, keep up with culture and forget materialist endeavors. The inspirational message geared toward th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 01:12 PM |
| 0 | What's a male SMV 10?That's my opinion. TRP means to live your life on your own term. What is the career of your dreams regardless of the financial benefits? To some degree we have been all brainwashed into becoming good providers aka BB. A friend of mine is a dentist and drives a Porsche. He's always complaining that he can't hookup or game any women since they all see him as a potential husband from the get go. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Only listen to romantic / dating advice from guys who are fucking hot women, or at least women out of their leagueIf one voluntarily goes to a web site like TRP forum and reads threads, it's not unsolicited. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 10:46 AM |
| 3 | "All women read minds, with very few exceptions."Women's self-appointed ability to read mind has to be evaluted with their self-appointed right to change their mind. If you have ever heard a few women friends talk about some emotional situation, you've noticed that they all chip in contributing any and all possible scenarios, from the simplest and more obvious, to the most elaborate kafkaesque reasoning. Then, later on, once facts evolve, inevitably reality matches one of the thousands of scenarios that they all contributed to, at least partia… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Only listen to romantic / dating advice from guys who are fucking hot women, or at least women out of their leagueThe lesson is even broader than that: stop listen to unsolicited advice, no matter the source, no matter the topic solicit advice from people who have direct, recent, relevant experience in the subject matter. For instance, most Financial Advisors are broke, they are just commissioned salespeople masqueraded as advisors. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What to do when being stopped by policeIf you are in the US, don't talk to the Police: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wXkI4t7nuc A must watch for everyone, RP or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | What's a male SMV 10?We're talking about SMV, whereas the S is the key-word. I was once making 6-figure salary in corporate, and I was a successful PUA, after the initial stage, women saw me inevitably as a BB, I don't think they could help themselves, I had a very high-profile career. Now I have my own small company so to speak, 0 employees, but I do hire people on a contract basis here and there as needed. Needless to say I don't pull in a 6-figure salary anymore, but for one I am happy doing what I love, and seco… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 02:03 PM |
| 20 | "Dick is abundant and low value" Female writer ALMOST gets it.I've read the article: I agree with her "Dick is abundant and low value". And also I'm going on record with "Pussy is abundant and low value". If you're a guy who lifts with a half-decent body, a career in something that you're passionate about, living within your means, cultivating one or two passions/hobbies; and you can engage in a conversation on something that's not beers or games or TV . . . it's a lonely place to find your equivalent in the female world, a woman who is: fit and not fat no… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Unplugging: Leaving Your Previous Life BehindI remember in Business school studying "Consumers" in ECO 101. Now I understand, and Tyler Durden gave the best definition: "People who buy shit they don't need, with money they don't have, to impress people they don't like." Create not Consume is TRP lesson for any career. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Best aphrodisiac: the limelight.I am over her, she was not bad, she's actually a great woman, I just couldn't handle to be married anymore, not to her, not to anyone else. But I hear you, and you're right. Still... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Best aphrodisiac: the limelight.I hear you bro. I am over her, I was the one initiating the divorce. I know she's not over me. I will use extreme caution, but my mind thinks that it would be fun for old times' sake to become FWB. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Best aphrodisiac: the limelight.I felt the same way about stand up comedy. I do play a bit of guitar, but not well enough to perform in local restaurants or cafes; but I do play for group sing-along at parties. I am still surprised that the comment frenzy is still going on on FB this morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Debunking the "women don't only date alphas" straw man, the danger of the Unicorn, and necessities for monk mode/frameWomen date Betas, and Fuck Alphas. This is my resume: AFC -> PUA (still beta-ish) -> Red Pill (now) During my PUA days I was a pretty good PUA, yet still beta-ish, I would get laid, spin a little, but soon after initiating a relationship women saw me as a provider not as a AF; I learned that the hard way. To quote Californication's Hank Moody: when a woman meets a man she puts him in one of three buckets: fuck him marry him kill him Add to that Ignore him and to most people in here it rings so t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 03:06 PM |
| 9 | The Beta Bux Guide On How NOT To Get LaidThe tone of voice, language, and word choice is no different that by Cesar Millan's dog training system. Emily Wright has one system to manage kids, pets and beta bux; and it works! Just say NO! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 03:00 PM |
| 3 | fuck I HATE condoms!Try the "Sagami Original" available at Amazon. A bit more expensive than the usual but... a lot thinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 12:14 PM |
| 1 | The vehicle that you drive (part 1)The car that you drive has to: match your personality be affordable to you. The last thing you want to do is to give the vibes of "provider" or become the means for a "joy ride" in your car, the joy ride should be in your pants. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 08:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I hit stage 4. It's the worst stage so far.I have been there myself, and it's OK. This is a great article on the subject: "Men are the true romantics" http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/the-true-romantics/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Lifting is not enough. Don't BETA PROVIDE for your BOSS.While I have been self-emplyed for quite a while now, I never thought of it that way Employee = beta-provider for the boss. Well said, and I have to add that ever since swallowing TRP my business has improved significantly, especially in the past 2 months, I am very busy and getting extra-ordinary results. End_of_bragging. Keep up TRP and apply to every aspect of your life, the process never ends! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Mainstream Article: 12 Signs He's Cheating... Practically a Dread Game Blueprint.Personally I "liked" the ending best: 11 - Are they suddenly being overly nice? Allowing you to watch whatever you want on TV, buying you gifts, asking if you would like to go out to your favourite restaurant. For some, having an affair can make them act happier in their life... or guilt can make them try to make it up to you subconsciously 12 - Maybe the opposite is true and they are constantly picking fault with you or accusing you of cheating. When attraction fades in a relationship and there… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I now see why you need to liftMy first comment after 1 month of being banned. Wish me luck! Funny thing you mentioned, when I started working out 3.5 years ago using P90X I used to take pics every month as suggested by P90X. Then recently I have stopped. Tis past weekend I took another set of pics and looked for the first pics that I took when I started and photoshopped side by side: Holy Fuck, I knew my body has changed, I just don't remember in what bad shape relatively speaking I was (I was skinny fat). I am so embarrasse… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 02:26 PM |
| 6 | What is TRP's stance or advice on initially asking a girl out, and suggested places to go to get them hooked. I see lots of info for after this stage but nothing for the very beginning.Best way: f-close her the same day. Second best: invite her to a coffee meet, not a date, nothing more expensive than coffee. How? Find a way that works for you, and tweak it to each situation. This is what works for me (in the second instance): meet a girl talk about stuff, interests, kino, flirting in the middle of the great conversation I have to go It would be great to continue this conversation another time and often I wait for her to offer phone #, email, business card... whatever. I prefe… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Questioning the wisdom of remaining red pillHatred towards women? No no no no. Quite the opposite. If anything, after meeting The Red Pill I love women more. Now things make a lot more sense, I don't get stressed as much when reality doesn't match what was supposed to happen. The Red Pill is a bitter pill to swallow, but it's a rational way to look at life in general, and once one is adapted to this new way to look at everything, there's a new acquired taste for living. No hate for reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Burning through 3 women in 2 weeks... ventingI see these as testimonials, good reminder to everyone especially the newbies why we are here. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 08:33 PM |
| 12 | Burning through 3 women in 2 weeks... ventingI am sorry dude, I thing most people in here can relate to some pieces of your story, and I am sorry if I was smiling as I was reading some. You should print this and frame it, because in a few years, you'll be laughing at it too. This is why TRP exists, and this is why TRP gives me, and I hope to you as well, answers to the hundreds of questions that we have when stuff like this happens to us to to some on our friends. Looking at the bright side, you are here. This is a good place to be and to … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Paying Dues and Powering ThroughIt came after a lot of practice and screwing up. PUA: socialize in order to ask for the number, ask for for the number in order to.... TRP: socialize in order to be social, for yourself. Read the sidebar of this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Some game advice3 things you can do about it: Read the sidebar of this sub. Read the sidebar of this sub, again do both 1 and 2 above | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Paying Dues and Powering ThroughWhen you say "The muscle for socializing and asking for the number is getting stronger" sounds very PUA and not very TRP. Take a look at one of my old posts on /r/seduction "Planting 1,000 seeds (a bit long, I know)" https://archive.today/7L6ZL | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Paying Dues and Powering ThroughYou're not paying your dues, you're investing in yourself. When you pay for something, the transaction ends. When you invest, it's something that returns dividends, and the interest is compounded, the more invest, the greater the returns will be. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys not miss the satisfaction, the jitters?Magical, important, exciting... all different words to describe some sensations that we feel. Feeling these sensations is normal for any non-zombie human. Drop the word magic since it's BP and anchors BP narrative. A first kiss is still exciting to me, so is the first time I feel her breasts, so is the first time I feel the wetness of her pussy, so is the first time she takes me into her mouth, so is the first time I penetrate her vagina, so is the first time I penetrate her ass. What changes is… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Lifting is About More Than Pussy, It's a PhilosophyMy interpretation of TRP is that nothing we do is about Pussy directly. Sure it is a sexual strategy, but the direct part is nothing more than a response to the pervasive direct addressing of female-to-male sexual strategy; everything else is about living a healthy and fulfilling life; pussy is a consequential effect. Women are attracted to TRP man. Betas waste a lot of time, energy, and resources trying to attract women. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Growing up Beta: Dealing with Disrespect from High School FriendsNo need to say anything to them, just ignore them. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 01:46 PM |
| 2 | TRP knowledge is like a pair of new glasses.Exactly. And often when they don't say thank you do they even acknowledge that you exist? Do they even look at you? No, you're practically transparent. I know it's a New Age type of thinking, but one has to respect oneself in order to be respected, and I can't put up with that shit. Sure it's not everyone, but it's the 90% rotten apples that spoil the entire batch, and the remainder 10% if they are really so enlightened would not complain if they don't get something that's above and beyond mutua… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 01:25 PM |
| 3 | TRP knowledge is like a pair of new glasses.The same for me, but you can have some fun. Try this at the Mall, or wherever they have large glass doors: Next time you hold the door open for someone and they don't acknowledge or say thank you, try to say You're welcome As you approach a door and a woman or a small group of women is right behind you, slow down on purpose so that they get in front of you. See what happens. As you are about to open the door and a woman is approaching from the other side, stop and wait. See what happens. Often t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 01:19 PM |
| 5 | TRP knowledge is like a pair of new glasses.I used to think that way. This is my NEW thinking: If it's a woman I am with: plate, gf, ONS, FWB, sister, mother, co-worker etc... I open the door if I am with a woman or a man, and we're going into my car, my house, my office etc.... I open the door If I am in a public space and there someone I don't know, male or female, I open my own door, they can open their own. If the rare occasion that they open the door for me, I will surely walk in, and say "Thank you" with a sincere smile on my face, … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Took [TRP] at 28. 3 LTRs for 8 years. Looking to set priorities, a little confused after unplugging.Top 3 priorities: Read the sidebar of this sub and hit the gym and eat properly (read the sidebar on /r/Fitness if you are not sure what to do). Read the sidebar of this sub, again do both 1 and 2 above | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Pre-FR: Back then she didn't want me, now I'm hot she all on me -- black knight her, bang and run, or spin her?You can still spin plates and have oneitis for someone else you're not spinning. Maybe it's not you, but I have been there myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Another One bites the dust. The wall is softer than we think.You're right. He's her little bitch! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Making Up For Missing OutI know, I am an older redditor, I get more action now that I ever did. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:34 PM |
| 5 | How do you find the time to find women?Take a look at one of my old posts on /r/seduction "Planting 1,000 seeds (a bit long, I know)" https://archive.today/7L6ZL | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:10 PM |
| 20 | Another One bites the dust. The wall is softer than we think.She has no choice, she's addicted to compliance tests. He has no choice, he's addicted to pass compliance tests. Reminds me dog's obedience school where it's the dog owners that are being trained; and it also reminds me of Cesar Millan. Confession: I have been that guy during my AFC days. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:07 PM |
| 8 | Making Up For Missing OutI can see that. After my first divorce I discovered PUA, and . .. I more than made out for everything that I missed out, and then some. And I know I am not alone among the PUA/TRP of a certain age. In a way while a woman can ride the CC in her 20's an educated guy, educated in PUA/TRP can ride the PC (Pussy Carousel) for decades starting in his 30's. I am living proof of that, and I am clumsy, and I have screwed up so many times. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 07:15 PM |
| 20 | Another One bites the dust. The wall is softer than we think.He does and he does not. He's following what he's supposed to do because that narrative in his head is also what everyone says and the same message is everywhere else. So, he does know what he's doing, I remember my days like that, his expectation is the promises that he was given: love and be loved live happily ever after happiness the joy of being a good husband and father devotion, respect, faithfulness Once reality sets in, and the few hick ups become day to day reality, and the promises alw… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 06:56 PM |
| 50 | Another One bites the dust. The wall is softer than we think.At first I thought that the key was: I popped the question in September as the sun was going down on the beach. Beta as fuck! But then I saw she made us jump in the waves before she would answer. She's the Alpha. She has him wrapped around her finger. I hope to see him in here in 1-3 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Is being "good at sex" overrated?Answer: NO. Commentary: How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho Source: http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.I understood that you were talking about the "Attraction can't be negotiated" so was I. She's trying to negotiate attraction, and it can't be done. No matter what the argument is, she will never attracted to this guy http://i.imgur.com/RCpBAfy.jpg | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 02:05 PM |
| 0 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.This is not about lies, she is telling truthful facts, and augment them with her opinions. The problem is that she's selling the entire package and complaining that nobody is buying. If her argument was true this guy could make a similar argument how well suited he is for her: smart, safe independent job, frugal, with a high libido, who is been waiting for the right girl, not vane about his looks etc..... http://i.imgur.com/RCpBAfy.jpg Would she buy it? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Living with ltr and bills.It's very simple: this is very economically convenient to her, and it's costing you economically. So, what is the #1 reason why she is with you? Economic convenience. What are you doing in order to have this relationship? Making sure it serves her economically. Therefore this is a relationship based on economic convenience MONEY. Is this what you want? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Pre-FR: Back then she didn't want me, now I'm hot she all on me -- black knight her, bang and run, or spin her?I think you are still suffering of a light case of oneitis for this girl, and this girl is also using you as orbiter. Make up your mind, you either: love her and want to make her your LT girlfriend, or you want to keep her as a plate. I strongly advice against #1, and #2 , plate theory, presupposes that you are spinning multiple plates. Therefore according to my TRP view I strongly suggest you stop hanging out with her, concentrate on yourself (lift, interests, career/study) and go get yourself … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 10:41 AM |
| 16 | Introverted does not necessarily mean low confidence, extroverted does not necessarily mean high confidence.A bit simpler Extroverted = gets energy from being around people, recharges with people. Introverted = spends energy from being around people, recharges by being alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 10:26 AM |
| 1 | I started working on not being a nice guy at the age of 24, and started seeing results. 1.5 years later, I am starting to realize that I am consciously exploiting women for what I want. I am still not happy.I leave my house to go to a 9:30 meeting. Get into the car and I realize that I need gas. Drive to the gas station, I give the attendant my credit card and "Fill up, regular please". A few minutes later I am on my marry way to my meeting. I had to drive an extra 30 seconds from the closest gas station to my house, but I pay 30 cents less per gallons, it's Full serve, they wash my windows, and I get free coffee. Should I tell myself that: "I do not feel guilty about exploiting this gas station fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 10:20 AM |
| 8 | Post-wall woman writes 9 paragraphs on r/okcupid convincing herself that she's more sexually desirable than younger girls. Comedy gold.She needs some RP advice: "Attraction can't be negotiated". | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Is it me, or is there too much system-building in TheRedPill/manosphere?You're on to something. Same thing happens in /r/seduction and /r/Fitness. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Can someone tell me where I went wrong?She was making pasta for herself and the AF who was with her. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/15 03:15 PM |
| 2 | I feel... empty.It's normal. After some experiences that made no sense and left you with a lot of unanswered questions, you have encountered TRP which has provided you with some answers, strange answers, but somehow, in light of your past experiences, made some sense. You took this knowledge and applied it a little bit out there in the real world, and holy fuck!!! It works, and it works well and predictably so; even if it's the polar opposite of what everyone says. And yet you have decades of brainwashing. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Can someone tell me where I went wrong?"Drunkenly trying to make pasta at 2am haha" To me this hints that she's not alone "Her: Psshh. I've had years of practice" Definately not alone | /r/askTRP | 16/03/15 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Any way to protect assets earned AFTER marriage?Check with a lawyer, in some states pre-nups can be written off. Unfair, I know, but... it's reality. There are ways to hide your assets, they are unethical borderline illegal. I am not a lawyer and DISCLAIMER: I am providing this information only as news not as legal advice nor inviting you to break any laws. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.Your friends will want you to do well, but not better then them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 05:59 PM |
| 3 | How to achieve sexual relations with minimal effort?Spin plates http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/ | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Plate tried to stop spinningPlate theory presupposes that you are spinning multiple plates, and have a pipeline of possible plates just to about what you are going through. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/ And keep in mind that as you are spinning plates, they are spinning you as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 07:46 PM |
| 30 | Wow. I know the red pill can be hard to swallow, but I was not expecting THIS level of push back from people.Dude, you need to review the rules: Rule #1: You don't talk about The Red Pill Rule #2: You don't talk about The Red Pill Here's the reason for those 2 rules: "The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy." "You have to understand, most of thes… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | TRP is the most bigoted sub on Reddit?. . . and feminism in its present incarnation, is the most bigot of all, TRP was born in reaction to feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 06:25 PM |
| 0 | TRP is the most bigoted sub on Reddit?I have a vested interest in TRP, and I am also curious about culture and society at large; therefore when TRP is discussed outside the usual circles, it's interesting for me to see the reaction. It's like taking the pulse of society at large towards the issues that are very dear to all of us. I found that link here https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9199655 which also provides some insights. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why you should listen to stand-up comedyI hear you, I was into PUA heavy and long. It served me well to transform me from my AFC days. TRP is a different state of mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Teaching vs Revealing. . . with someone in a non-standard type of relationship in which you are more experienced? Within the context of TRP someone who is less experienced than you is the standard for LTR. If you are just spinning plates, the less she knows about you the better, it's the nature of spinning plates that there's very little going on outside naked activities. If this is a LTR or LTR potential, mystery will keep her attracted to you, "educate" her in what? The person that you are? Partly she should see i… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why you should listen to stand-up comedyI agree with you that too much intellectuality is just that, too much; and come comedy rebalance the entire body-mind system. However your last quote reads from a PUA 101 book Girls dig guys who make them laugh and guys like other dudes who are able to joke around. Win-win in my book. You are not their clown nor comedy entertainer, Betas do that. You provide them with their much needed MAN characteristic. And even if you are a professional performer, stand up comedian or guitar player; you alway… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 07:10 PM |
| 52 | Reminder: DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE RED PILLAt the risk of sounding cliche': "The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy." "You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 10:19 AM |
| 2 | I lost a girl to a good guy. The Red Pill ain't always the truth.Not enough data to make intelligent comments, however one of more to the following might have come into play: Randomness. Yes there's randomness in Life. She viewed him as marriage material while you, as a RedPiller, are not. She branch-switched because she perceived him as higher status than you in some measure: money, quality of sex, family status, commitment, car, future together, friends... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 12:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I learn to enjoy conversation?There are a lot of misconceptions about introverts, and some introverts have misconceptions about themselves. Relevant Article: http://www.carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts Even better [book] Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain Keep in mind that being Introvert and being shy are two separate issues. Having said that, each one of us should make a list of hobbies interests and then cultivate those 2 or 3 that are towards the top of the list AND a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 01:56 AM |
| 2 | How do I learn to enjoy conversation?No need to force a conversation, find people who are more like yourself, your tribe members so to speak. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 03:22 PM |
| 11 | How do I learn to enjoy conversation?Here's my suggestion: take a Myers Briggs personality test. My bet is that you are an Introvert, and Introvert can be social too. You're also probably smart, smart than the average crowd out there, you can do idle chat for a bit, but not much more than that; you enjoy conversations with people who contribute to the conversation so that it becomes a good conversation all around, a bit deeper than the weather, fashion, of the latest drink. If you are looking for these type of conversations in bars… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 02:37 PM |
| 3 | "I dont want her to feel bad"Ok, so I see 3 possible solutions to your problem: Get over it Don't go out with a group of friends that includes a female. Don't go approach when you're out with a group of friends that includes a female. But you already knew that. If you're asking this sub, option #1 is ideal, followed by #2. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 02:52 PM |
| 2 | YouTube Girl Dirty Danced (Flirt) with Some Dude in Front of Boyfriend as a PrankMy simple analysis: This is the ultimate Nuclear shit test to the Nth power, not only executing the whole prank but putting it on YouTube? WTF! The dancing dude is just as Beta as the bf It's not as much of being Beta, it's a question of Jesse being disrespectful. I doubt that this came out of the blue, but I am sure there were other incidents in the past where she exhibited disrespectful shit tests, this is just the tip of the iceberg. She's looking for a Beta that she can walk all over for wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The role of Betas and OrbitersI am with you. However .. I see and hear other guys out there who just prefer the old ways including complaining to anything that will surely improve their lives but requires work. It's their freedom after all. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 04:34 AM |
| 11 | The role of Betas and OrbitersSome people cannot handle being Alpha, we have had a few testimonials on this sub in the past. A few reasons why some people might opt to remain Beta, off the top of my head in random order: Being Alpha is too much work, they don't want to put the time into the gym and want to remain fat slobs it's a lot easier to waste time day in and day out playing video games than developing a career, going to college, getting a Master, reading non-fiction it's easier to keep believing the dream that there's… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 04:06 AM |
| 3 | The role of Betas and OrbitersThat's very funny comment, and good too. "Trailer Park Alpha's"? LOL "Jerry Springer Alpha's" Double LOL, however you do have a point. Personally I am trying to go Alpha/TRP without passing through the Monk Mode or MGTOW, I do enjoy the sex, and I could not give it up, it's been quite a while that I always have at least one plate or gf going. And while it's easy to define Beta, we all have different definitions of what it means to be Alpha, but there are variations on a theme. For a long time I … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 02:56 AM |
| 5 | The role of Betas and OrbitersI see TRP as "Kill The Beta within you". I am on my way to that destination, it's an arduous journey for me, but I am making progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 01:07 AM |
| 4 | The role of Betas and OrbitersI wrote this from my experience as a Beta, so, it was true to me; I was the enabler! I have been spinning plates only for a few months now, and.. I will reverse the question. Correct me if I am wrong, but this is what it usually happens: Boy meets girl Yadda yadda yadda (this can last anywhere between 2 hours and 2 weeks) Boy and girl have sex Boy and girl have more sex and possibly also share some non-sexual activities. This varies a lot of activities if BB, and not that many to none on the spe… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 12:48 AM |
| 1 | The MGTOW-unless approachIt's the clear vision after a tornado of confusion sprinkled with misinformation! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 11:48 PM |
| 3 | The role of Betas and OrbitersI should have added that to my original post too. At times women go from a relationship with an Alpha to one with a Beta; a relationship with a Alpha without orbiters gets too much, and the Beta provides for some comfort after the Wild ride; but then the comfort gets boring and the solution is either getting some wild ride on the side, or branch swinging into another wild ride with a new Alpha, or the old one. Life makes so much more sense once we see it through TRP view. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 11:40 PM |
| 4 | The role of Betas and OrbitersI can share my experience: PUA transformed me from AFC to one of those guys who starts up with Alpha quality but soon reverts to Relationship Material (BB). With time and experience (read: screwing up) I became more and more aware of what was going on, but PUA was limited in providing explanations, strategies and tactics to have a life, not just relationships, were the positives were more in line with my desires,and the negatives were minimized and predictable. TRP provides all of that for me: e… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 10:35 PM |
| 7 | The role of Betas and OrbitersCorrect. It's a symbiotic system. I've been Beta, I swallowed the Pill and I am in the middle of the transmutation to Alpha/TRP; I would NEVER go back to Beta, even if I was having success with women thanks to PUA training. TRP explains reality and gives some strategies and some tactics, but it's still a choice, after all it's not for everyone. Some people chose to remain Beta and it's their choice and their freedom to do so. Being Beta and being willing to go from one LTR to another one every f… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 10:27 PM |
| 3 | The MGTOW-unless approach(HB6-7 & Unicorn) < 1% | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women?Premises: Being fat is not healthy Being fat is the result of caloric surplus (eating more food than the body needs), a behavioral issue. If you agree with those 2 premises, condoning a self-damaging behavior is not a positive for that person. Same as condoning smoking, or alcoholism, or drug abuse. I am not saying that shaming is the solution, but education is, and condoning is motivation in the wrong direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/15 02:03 PM |
| 2 | TRP in 10 years and the hypothetical of it becoming mainstreamKnowledge vs Practice. TRP knowledge is already mainstream, not under TRP brand that is. The movie industry is an indicator of culture, and many movies centered around men with RP characters, "Gladiator" comes to mind, so does the entire James Bond or Mission Impossible franchises. No Heros is a Blue Pill hero. Practicing TRP is a different story, by its own nature it will never become mainstream, let's face it, being BP is easy, being RP is a lot of work, go lift and eat accordingly, develop yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/15 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Average looking woman from Boston uses Tinder to get pathetic men to shovel her car out of snow... twice. Can BP explain to me how men and women are the same again? Also, how can men cash in on the same phenomenon?I don't blame her, actually I praise her. I don't even blame the 2 guys, if that's what they wanted, that's what they wanted. If they shoveled the car in hope of something more, it's their fault and their fault only, and it's also deceiving since they promised something with no expectations, and yet they had expectations. On the other hand, TRP guys who successfully employ TRP strategies and tactics to successfully get what they want from consensual women are not to be blamed either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/15 01:49 PM |
| 3 | A blue pill relationship that works?That sounds very much like my second wife's parents. The relationship works, and works for whom? She "likes" him, just the same way she likes a puppy dog, but she doesn't "lust" for him, does she? I am not saying that she's cheating on him, but my ex M-I-L would lust for Alpha men. And don't confuse respect with like. Incidentally my ex father-in-law was depressed, and as time went by, got more and more depressed. Did the relationship work for him? I don't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/15 01:44 PM |
| 19 | The MGTOW-unless approachOlder redditor here. I wholeheartedly agree with the statement "A promiscuous woman is generally uninspiring company" I have only found 1 exception to this rule. The math of 1 new lay a month is problematic, since it means that after a decade, and a decade will go by so fast, you'll have slept with 120 partners. Let that sink for a second, 120 different sexual partners. I am curious about the 5-10 percent of women are high quality statement, I am not looking for a scientific paper to back that u… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 01:02 AM |
| 7 | TRP isn't about women.I send that. The way I read and interpret TRP is about living one's life: good health, satisfying career, practicing hobbies etc... women, either plated, or FWB or LTR or whatever are incidental; and they are the one doing more of the chase than you are. I know I am in the minority in this sub, still, TRP is about me, and bot about women. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you "spin a plate" that has her own soft harem?When you are spinning plates, the plates will spin you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 08:17 PM |
| 3 | How would redpillers react if there were a sexual/life strategy sub run by women using the same methodology as TRP?I personally would welcome it. Off the top my head, the very first piece of advice given would be: go hit the gym, fix what you eat and get fit. The second piece of advice would be: develop yourself as a human, build a career, develop your hobbies and interests. Now, personally a woman who is fit, not because she's skinny due to starving herself, but because she hits the gym; she's educated, and works on her career with some intriguing interests . . . well that's a turn on for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 08:13 PM |
| 11 | [FR] First relationship since TRP, slight case of oneitis RP theory confirmed.I don't see her overall behavior as a consequence of you being Alpha/Beta, she's riding the CC, you were just a stop along the way; well, not really you, just your C (or "D"). The truth is that "When you are spinning plates, the plates will spin you too"; it's not for the faint at heart. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 0 | AWALT: Princess Diana and Carla BruniThe Blue Pill is strong on this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | TRP is not another PUA. You can't just use it as a technique to land a girlfriend/wife. Truth cannot be compromised. You need to do the work and really change your thinking to reap its rewards.Pain is an emotional conduit, and a strong one. Every change has to have the emotional component addressed in order to stick, pain acts as a catalyst for faster change, at times it's good change, at times not so good change. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 04:38 PM |
| 2 | TRP is not another PUA. You can't just use it as a technique to land a girlfriend/wife. Truth cannot be compromised. You need to do the work and really change your thinking to reap its rewards.While the "Struggle" is real, very real, it's hard to verbalize it. And my guess is that it's very individualized. Personally I am very seasoned being in my early 50s with 2 marriages in my resume; for a very long time I was AFC, then after divorce #1 I discovered PUA, the early stuff which served me pretty well; and during my marriage #2 I continued reading, but not practicing much, PUA; which I then put into practice upon separation with great success; and yet PUA can get you laid, but leaves … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 03:35 PM |
| 3 | TRP is not another PUA. You can't just use it as a technique to land a girlfriend/wife. Truth cannot be compromised. You need to do the work and really change your thinking to reap its rewards.If you want more PUA stuff, /r/seduction is the place to be. We all come here from all walks of life, I came here from being a pretty accomplished PUA, no problem bedding women, but I wanted more. The way I see it PUA is about bedding women, although at its core there some true personal improvement; while TRP is about first and foremost personal improvement first; with relationships of any kind (ONS/plates/FWB and beyond) as a byproduct and not the main focus. My own persona journey has been: AC… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 01:02 PM |
| 13 | TRP is not another PUA. You can't just use it as a technique to land a girlfriend/wife. Truth cannot be compromised. You need to do the work and really change your thinking to reap its rewards.PUA is about selling yourself better. TRP is about becoming a better self. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:39 AM |
| 2 | On SMV and women never changing.There's also a quasi-alibi mode coming into play: "I can't find anyone good enough for me, there are all losers or the good ones are taken" this was is not her fault, but everyone else's. If there was a RP for your mom and she was receptive, the fitst advice would be: go it the gym, followed by other advise along the lines of work hard to improve yourself and your life. It's sad. Notice the gender neutral language here: I do believe that by taking matters into one's hands is a lot better than re… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 04:22 PM |
| 81 | Are you a "romantic"? If so, this way please ...I have a several thousand hoops for you to jump through...Best part "I just had to be ready for a commited relationship before I could consider dating him" Translation: I was riding the CC during those 4 years when he was "chasing" me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 08:57 AM |
| 4 | Cruel AwakeningHer story has to do also with her hitting the Wall, you met her first about a decade ago she must have been in her 20's so now she's in her 30's and a Alpha widow, she was looking at your as husband material, I think you dodged a bullet here, you're better off this way, much better off. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Odd trend I have witnessed about how women react when you hold doors open for them vs their ethnicity. Still AWALT?Like you I was raised to hold the door open for male or female, and like you I have noticed that the vast majority don't even acknowledge my presence, let alone a thank you, so I have now stopped holding the door open except for the 1 person that I am with, and if I am alone, at times I will even wait till they pass me so that they can open their own door. I have not noticed any different behavior among different ethnicities. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 08:35 AM |
| 2 | A day from hell and the anchorFor someone like me who is transitioning into TRP it is. Poo pooing on someone's post or comment without offering a constructive positive alternative is not very RP and it's very much BP, no different than the BP rhetoric happening on major media today. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 08:58 PM |
| 1 | There's a new club in townIt's question of repetition and variation on a theme. I've been lurking in here for a very long time, and it has taken me this long to realize that this simple mundane advice actually works, and I am not 100 true RP yet, I know, and I see results that not so long ago I found them hard to believe. I am tempted to submit a few [FR] but I don't because I am trouble myself believing that shit like that is possible and that it's actually happening to me. I bet that the most advanced TRP guys in here … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 08:54 PM |
| 9 | Estrogenic BP Male is "fired" has character defamed with false accusations, bursts into tears and subsequently runs into the arms of wife sobbing and wondering what he should do.I am not sure I understand what you're trying to say. In my corporate days I have seen enough little betas who once they got a little bit of power they abused and at times it backfired and got themselves fucked. I am from the school where Alpha means not a-hole. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | A day from hell and the anchorYou said what I wanted to say, you were a lot more eloquent. Good man! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | There's a new club in townWhile this sub has >99K members a lot of them still think that TRP is a better PUA and about picking up and banging bitches. Unfortunately for them that's very far from the truth! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Estrogenic BP Male is "fired" has character defamed with false accusations, bursts into tears and subsequently runs into the arms of wife sobbing and wondering what he should do.Having worked in Corporate America for many years, and having to have laid off many people, with cause and without cause... I was thinking in terms of Professionally, both: literally you know, like knowing what to do according to your title/functions metaphorically speaking: WTF was s/he thinking? Your commentary is right on target. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | There's a new club in townThat's an interesting way to look at it. Relevant: Steve Job's Your Time Is Limited https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yB6C0KByqA | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 06:19 PM |
| 10 | 24 [M] dying of cancer writes intense, motivational, 100% RedPill last wordsReminds me of Steve Jobs' Your Time Is Limited http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yB6C0KByqA | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 06:05 PM |
| 31 | Estrogenic BP Male is "fired" has character defamed with false accusations, bursts into tears and subsequently runs into the arms of wife sobbing and wondering what he should do.From a different perspective let's take a note between being Alpha and being an A-hole: the HM manager in this case was an A-hole because: You don't fire people in front of other stuff. NEVER. S/he didn't do proper homework, something like this has to be double-checked, it is that important. Being Alpha is not about being an A-hole. And whether the HM manager was male or female doesn't matter for the purpose of this comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 06:02 PM |
| -1 | "I'm a strong, independent woman"!Great post! I was thinking about this this morning. This is how I summarize the "I'm a strong, independent woman!": I fuck who I want, when I want; do as I please without hurting anyone; then when and if I want to get married, I will find a suitable guy and have my married life as well. I think it's wonderful. Really. I am not being sarcastic, I truly believe that and I support it since I life my life under the premises of Free Will http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_will. TRP motto could be "I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | A day from hell and the anchorI am working on a stronger frame, so yes, it's part of my work. It's relatively speaking easy to understand TRP, and we/I can be RP and stay in Frame, maintaining - like you say - an unshakeable frame requires a lot more work for me, since it's about losing old habits and replacing them with new habits, I am still a work in process. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 02:57 PM |
| 2 | A day from hell and the anchorPersonally there's something about working out in spite of perfectly valid excuses like I have a cold or very busy weekend with too much to do or traveling. The aftermath is a high level of personal satisfaction, and the thought that I was able to push through. Hard to explain but a good feeling altogether. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 01:03 PM |
| 5 | A day from hell and the anchorI use ON 100% Whey Gold Standard, Double Rich Chocolate, where for each scoop it has 24g of protein and only 1g of sugar (3g of carbs in total). Usually I make a shake with 2 scoops or 48g of protein, I would have to consume 8 egg white to have the same amount of protein, and since I already have 4 eggs for breakfast it would clock my total consumption of eggs at 12 or day or 84 per weeks. I'd have to invest in a chicken farm! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 01:00 PM |
| 28 | It's Just (Post wall women ) LunchPost wall to Beta Bucks dating site. Great business model! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 08:27 PM |
| 6 | I understand RP theory and have internalised a lot but, truth be told, I'm struggling to put any of it into practice. I'm turning reclusive and need some help about actually applying this stuff to my life.Starting is not as hard as one would think. Do these: Hit the gym, and hit it hard. /r/Fitness can help (sidebar) Eat accordingly. Again /r/Fitness (sideabar) Develop your interests, if you don't have any, learn to play guitar. /r/Guitar Develop your career, if you don't like what you are doing now, develop your dream career. There you go, you've started. Now, if you have a very good excuse for NOT doing any of the above, TRP is not for you. If you expected a way to get laid, /r/seduction might … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 05:17 PM |
| 60 | On the 80/20 Rule and Alpha SharingHaving worked in Corporate America doing "Business Intelligence" for a long time, before it was called the new trendy Big Data I can tell you something more about the 80/20 rule: the 80/20 applies to everything, including the 80/20 rules itself. Which, applied to this discussion, means that while 20% of guys bangs 80% of the women; 20% of that 20% (or 4% of the Male population) bangs 80% of that 80% (or 64% of the female population); therefore if you were to analyze the data you'll see that 4% o… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Someone I'm speaking to takes a long time to replyDo this with EVERYONE: male, female, work, personal life... | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Someone I'm speaking to takes a long time to replyShe's gaming you. Outgame her, take twice as long as it takes her to reply to you, but at least 1 hour: you're a busy man. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 07:24 PM |
| 15 | Lurker still unconvincedLet me chime in, I am probably older than you, and twice married. You are making it a lot more complicated than it is. TRP never promised you happiness. TRP never forces you into believing anything, and even the ones who claim to be RP don't subscribe 100% to everything that TRP stands for, and then there's not even 1 official source for TRP; otherwise it would be a cult. You came here with a lot of questions and no answer, or at least the answers didn't make sense to you or didn't apply to you,… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | There's no PC way to phrase this and I feel like this is the only subreddit that will understand this- just tell me how to be a jerk.It's not about being a jerk. Sure the Mr Nice Guy tm in you would call the RP you jerk and selfish, but it's not about being a jerk, nor about being selfish; it's about Improving yourself and your life, go lift heavy shit and eat well it's just the beginning; followed by develop a career and nurture your own interests When interacting with other people, including - but not limited to - women that you are interested on, maintain frame (be your own truest self) and within that constrain, give them… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Interesting Background Reading: The Selfish GeneOn a related note, if you're also interested in the Dark Triad tm you might want to watch the movie Enron: The Smartest Guys in the Room, the guys from Enron loved the Selfish Gene. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Uninterested in women.Let me throw an hypothesis out there, somewhat autobiographical, see if it resonates, at least partially, with you or someone else in here: You used to be brainwashed by the Disney fantasy, Blue Pill-ish, you wanted to find the one woman to love who would love you back; but now you know better. You spin plates because you can't get emotionally attached, you know better. BUT there's a part of you who is still aching, aching with no hope, to find that one woman to love and whom would love you back… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Maybe you guys can help me make sense of all this...Bad boys are an emotional roller-coaster for some women, who then need some period of peaceful relationship with some hugging, cuddling, be treated to dinner, and controlling the guy; it works for a while until they get the urge for a alphe/bad boy again at which point if the Beta is lucky she'll dump him; otherwise she'll cheat on him getting her sex from the FWB and her nice romance from the Beta. Not sure where you fit, maybe you were not Beta enough, or you were one of the Alphas. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 01:40 PM |
| 7 | Female columnist in The Guardian yesterday: "It's disheartening that men in their 50s seem so focused on looks [...] They are not looking at me. They are looking at women half their age."Dear Stella Grey: you are a very talented writer and a keen observer of reality, I admired your piece very much and reflects pretty much today's reality. I am in my early 50's and I can vouch for the validity of your observation, your piece should be required reading for everyone, male or female, in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's. Especially for the 20-something and 30-something male, with some additional notes: Dear 20-something male: you are transparent. Just like Stella Grey is transparent n… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 01:28 PM |
| 0 | I am looking for scholarly information related to TRP. Does it exist or is most of the stuff here Anecdotal?What for? There are some RP articles that cite some scientific papers, but between the reading and the fact checking, that is a big waste of your highly precious time! And, even after all this fact checking and weeding out the pseudo-science and highlighting the pure scientific RP what have you got? Try this instead, take some RP knowledge, take it out there into the world and see if it works for you, tweak it if you have to, modify it to your personality till it works. Once it does, you've got … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 01:15 AM |
| 6 | LTR: Dread doesn't work with this one. She's...different.If you feel like she has control over you, you have 2 choices: Stay, and be her bitch Next her and improve/increase your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Economics of SexThis is all stuff that we knew, but it's interestingly presented in a very clear and somewhat entertaining format, and from a non TRP authority. This should be in the sidebar. I have bookmarked the video, I will be sending to selective friends when they complain about stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to internalize RP?If you look at personality as a series of habits, it's hard to change one habits, it's really a lot harder to change an entire set of habits; especially when the entire world is still suggesting that BP habits are the norm. Give it time, keep on reading and practicing, new habits will form. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Demotion - Uncompromisable?A rule is a rule because is a rule. Translation: it's uncompromising. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | The Art of Taking CriticismWhen someone post a submission or a comment on Reddit, it's a given that other people will chime in with advice, therefore it is not unsolicited (pardon for the double negative). Personally I don't believe in unsolicited advice and find it rude, especially if it's a continuum; conversely when and if I solicit advice and feedback from people that I trust on a certain subject matter, I listen carefully without pushing back, and actually I ask questions if I don't understand or to dig deeper into s… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:11 AM |
| 1 | The Art of Taking CriticismDid they really and truly asked for criticism? Or did you offer unsolicited criticism? Or were they just venting and talking but really they didn't mean to be put on the spot? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 8 | Beware the dangers of the MMF threesome.FMF: Red Pill MFM: Blue Pill | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How I got burned by a girl I thought was perfect and recovered when my expectations were completely shattered.As much as the veterans in this sub are yawning saying so what? we knew all this was going to happen I like to read these posts, different versions of the same story; it's what we all need to remind ourselves that this is what's generally happening out there, that our Disney-fantasy brainwashing is not real. I am not to the AWALT point, but while the percentage is not 99.9999% it's surely up there; so while we think women are Unicorn-like creatures, the vast majority are not, that's why Unicorns… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 08:06 PM |
| 23 | AF/BB in the news, do not be OllyOP missed the best part "Sex felt more a chore than a delight with husband Olly, and they were exhausted by raising two, growing sons while doing up a wreck of a house" In the past few days there was a thread in this sub how "the house is more important than the husband" TL;DR: Don't be Olly | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | We Are NOT Born As MenNature vs Nurture: we are born Men by nature, we are often nurtured into manginas Betas. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 08:41 PM |
| 0 | [Family issues] I really need help"In case of emergency, put on your oxygen mask first, before helping others." The best thing that you can do, is to live your own life, to the best that you can. If you want to live a Red Pill life you have the support of this community, you know that. In addition to that, you can be an inspiration by example to your little brother, be available to him when he wants to talk or when he asks for help. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/15 03:12 PM |
| 4 | How do you reconcile the concept of love with TRP?Love: a temporary biochemical reaction in your brain rendering you very happy, stupid and irrational. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 03:57 PM |
| 2 | An Objectivist Guide to DatingGood points, good readings. If you look at traditional Republican philosophy, you know the Republican Party of the mid-to-late 20th century is centered about low Government intervention (laissez faire) and small government. And then we have T.A.R.P. thanks to G.W. & Co. which goes against everything Republican philosophy is supposed to stand for, and that's just the tip of the iceberg. When you look at the factual evidences, Republican and Democratic policies don't differ that much, I believe it… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | An Objectivist Guide to DatingI've read that, and saw the movie too, too much drama for me; however, we all are sensitive to different versions of the same message. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you not put a girl on a pedestal?Compliment her only for something positive that she has done. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 08:58 PM |
| 1 | To what extent should you be your real self vs being polite?You should be genuinely a polite person. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it.Don't. It's 1 day out of 365. Take a day off, you'll be better off. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 08:56 PM |
| 13 | Hey guys, whats the rule of thumb for approaching in the gym?At the gym or any other place where you get to see her on a regular basis you don't approach her, but slowly you get to know her and be acquaintances. Is she attracted to you? If so, invite her for after-the-gym coffee. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How to get alone with a girl?Start talking to her, attract her, once you see that she's interested in you say something like It's too loud/crowded/distracting here, let's go over there (or any other specific place nearby) so that we can talk. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Do women spin plates?YES. As much as the mods don't like short comments, is there anything more to add? I think not. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you ask/command sex from your LTR or Plate?It starts with the way you communicate when you're not together. Ask for naked pics, in the morning send her pic of your c*ck, always always always have sexual innuendo or explicit sex talk in every communication. When setting up to meet, saying stuff like "I'm looking forward to bone you" or stuff like that. When you are in public and you're about to leave, put her hands on your crotch and make her feel your hard on. Explore her fantasies to feel taken, so as soon as you are in a private settin… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/15 02:30 PM |
| 6 | You can be the gatekeeper of both sex and commit... Or she can"When you have value, you flip the script." I like this, I like this a lot. I've been hanging around TRP for a while, and I have read quire a bit, and I have never heard it put it so eloquently and succinctly. It ought to be the tag line for TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Game: I actually surprised myself how well TRP works.I've come a long way from my awkward shy superBeta AFC, I am still working on integrating TRP in my life in a way that it's second nature, and it's a process that requires some time. Recently I have made big progresses (contemplating another FR..) and I can hardly believe how well applying TRP philosophy, strategy and tactics work. It's still the Beta in me that is surprised on how well it all works. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 11:24 PM |
| 7 | You can be the gatekeeper of both sex and commit... Or she canI have read this three times, and wow, it really hit home. Older redditor here with very good PUA game, great knowledge of TRP still implementing it in my life. I have come a long way from an awkward shy quintessential AFC/Mr Nice guy, and now being good at PUA game comes from having screwed up many many many times. To me this post summarizes what the principles of TRP are all about, increasing our own VALUE in Life first, so that we can reverse the male/female dynamics from what the Dusney narr… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 09:37 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Caught Oneitis, and let it get the best of me.It has all to do with the four stages of competence: 1. Unconscious incompetence: The individual does not understand or know how to do something and does not necessarily recognize the deficit. They may deny the usefulness of the skill. The individual must recognize their own incompetence, and the value of the new skill, before moving on to the next stage. The length of time an individual spends in this stage depends on the strength of the stimulus to learn. 2. Conscious incompetence: Though the … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 07:33 PM |
| 6 | An Objectivist Guide to DatingThere's a lot of The Red Pill philosophy in Ayn Rand's writing; however just like any source use discretion, not everything fits, and at the end it's you who is in charge of what's good for you, and what works for you. Your best best is to go to the source and read Ayn Rand's books: Atlas Shrugged (a classic) Fountainhead (a classic) The Virtue of Selfishness (this is as close to TRP as it gets) Introduction to Objectivist Epistemology | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 05:57 PM |
| 24 | [FR] Caught Oneitis, and let it get the best of me.Beware of overnight success stories that you read in this sub, and anywhere else in the manosphere. Change from BP to RP is not smooth, has setbacks, and the transition will take some time, at least you are aware of the mistakes that you make. So, in your personal inventory you have: 1 girl with whom you have regular sex Red Pill knowledge Awareness of your actions when they are BP and when they are RP. My guess is that you are better off than 99% of the people in this sub. Keep up the good work… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Recovering from helicopter parenting: How to be social and enjoy life after being raised by controlling parents.No matter how you got to the bridge, there's only one way to cross the bridge: looking ahead, and cross the bridge. Swallowing the pill is immediate, internalize the philosophy, change one's thinking, and habits/MO is a process that takes a while. Keep at it, and the results will follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Life beyond the anger phase. Here's my perspective on women now. Other post-anger Red Pillers, what are your views?There's a good post 5 states of the Red Pill that used the 5 stages of grief as blueprint. One of the biggest takeways for me was that the stages are not linear, but one jumps from one state to another one and then back and forth before really be done with grief swallowing the Red Pill. I am past my anger phase, at least the worst part, but I know that the full effect of TRP are not yet fully incorporated within my persona. [Excerpts from my personal notes] THE 5 STAGES OF THE RED PILL Denial: "… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend clearly is open for sex and wants it, but pretends to not, what do?Two hypotheses here which you'll need to verify: She's crazy, in which case beware of sticking your dick there She has the fantasy of being taken in which case you might want to discuss with her if she has that type of fantasy. See this for an example http://youtu.be/dFRR0a0ONLI?t=1m38s. Beware that you don't want to cross the line of consensual sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 02:23 PM |
| -1 | Should I stop trying to have a monogamous relationship?The Red Pill doesn't see women as sluts actually that word should be obliterated from every man's dictionary. Promiscuous or high body count are more appropriate ways to describe certain women. What you are looking is a unicorn, not it's up to you, you can continue to look for your unicorn, or to be the BB in a series of Long Term relationships, where you know that the outcome is. The choice is yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill equivalent for business and office politics?On and off there are some good posts about office life, however if you take the good conversations in this sub, and you eliminate all the ones that pertain to pick up women (I know about 97% of the content), what you have left is a plethora of TRP suggestion for your Life. Work life is a subset of your life. Run with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Tom Leykis Auctions 3 Hours of His ShowRule #1: you don't talk about The Red Pill Rule #2: you don't talk about The Red Pill | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Is there a red pill equivalent for business and office politics?TRP is a philosophy for your Life, not a version of PUA. Having said that remember rule #1 and rule #2: Rule #1: you don't talk about The Red Pill Rule #2: you don't talk about The Red Pill And remember that there's a time to talk, and a time to STFU. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 09:55 PM |
| -1 | Put women's "I don't like big muscles" in contextIt gets better worse, women like muscle in a guy up until the point where they are in a LTG/marriage at which point she prefers if he's not as fit, sinny or skinny-fat or a bit of fat so that his SMV is lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How to Keep Women Around: Live For YouThat's what BB are for. The same woman will also want adventure, excitement and she'll find it in a AF. So, now as a man, you have a choice: be the BB, the provider of money, food, shelter, and maybe cuddling; or being the AF providing the raw sex, the fuck of a lifetime, a place where she feels like a woman. The choice is yours, and yours only. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Here's a challenge, how about some RP advice for LTR/Married men.Read the book (or the blog) The Rational Male. Discussion is good, but only if it's among knowledgeable, educated and prepared individuals; get your education and at the same time practice practice practice what you learn; then you'll see that the discussion is already in progress in this sub, you just need to filter through all the other discussions going on. EDIT: this is a great discussion "How to Keep Women Around: Live For You" https://archive.today/zEogD | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Game: I actually surprised myself how well TRP works.I know, everyone can get laid multiple times a day, you just have to show up and put one of those numbering machines for women to have their chance at you: Now serving number 267. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 11:37 AM |
| 5 | Tinder Game: I actually surprised myself how well TRP works.We had drinks, first round on me, second round on her, then we went to her place for a third round but... we didn't drink. F-close. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 02:45 AM |
| 17 | Tinder Game: I actually surprised myself how well TRP works.I stumbled upon a similar situation years ago, before I encountered TRP, and TRP confirmed: when a woman is looking for a relationship (read: BB), she has at least one FWB on the side (read: AF) so that she's not pressured to rush into a relationship because of sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 02:44 AM |
| 19 | Tinder Game: I actually surprised myself how well TRP works.An honest FR shows what is possible, trust me I didn't think it would work until it did. Is my post for attention? Maybe, we all have our own ego; and quite possibly your comment is too. Freud would troll this sub to no end. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 06:01 PM |
| 0 | "Go lift" is bad advice.You might have missed the point of my post. TRP process starts with Lifting, but lifting is not all there is to do. Newbies might misunderstand the message. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | "Go lift" is bad advice.I think it's more than just a first step, it's a change of mindset: working hard working for yourself keep improving And much more, but it's just the start not a trick or a silver bullet. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Nietzschean Red Pill WisdomI've been an entrepreneur during my Blue Pill years, and I am an entrepreneur now, there are parallels between TRP and entrepreneurship, they both feed each other; and both are not for everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Plating a coworker in a different departmentDon't shit where you eat applies to all employees within the same company, independently of where they are geographically located. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | On Transitioning From Anger to AcceptanceThis is where I am right now, and I have been here for a very long time: I recall when I first started spinning plates how much loathing and contempt I had for those women. I'd smile to their faces and think about how utterly stupid they were. I spent my entire adult life improving to the point where I could get laid regularly, and they have the audacity to think I'd commit to them? Worse, women who were objectively several points of SMV lower than me thought they had a chance? The nerve! I neve… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 06:55 PM |
| 62 | Finally accepting... AWALT.She loved you, she really loved you; she loved you for who you were: A Beta guy for her to use. Sorry to be blunt, we've all been there. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 02:46 PM |
| 0 | The Rational FemaleI didn't say it was correct, nor that it was right. I state that it is a rational decision, well thought out a priori. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Dating someone far out of your social classShe's an adult and you are her new toy, enjoy it to its fullest, its the only way to make it last longer. Once it's over, it's over; you can then move on to greener pastures. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Equality vs RespectYou got it, she's an able body and there's not history. She was just looking for expecting a one-way help, just because. Oh well. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 03:36 AM |
| 7 | Equality vs RespectGood for you! I hope you are not expecting the world to act exactly the same way you do. Look at my username, I have been a Nice Guy for too long, now I am looking for different results hence I am doing things differently. I didn't feel like it I had other things to do I didn't like the way she was asking I don't need or want anything she might have to offer I am not the only human on the face of the Earth, and I am not the most wonderful either; she's got other options. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Equality vs RespectI agree wholeheartedly with what you say, especially the part where you say not everything in life must be fair. She asked, I sensed that she expected it, and I had things to do, and I didn't feel like doing it. So, since I had no obligations whatsoever and there's was nothing for me to gain, nor to reciprocate I passed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Equality vs RespectLeo did the opposite of what he used to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Equality vs RespectThere's the bro-code of reciprocity. And then some women, but not all, have a different code. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Equality vs RespectBusiness referral is a good thing for those handy men. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Equality vs RespectI am not sure if I agree. Would you have done it if it was a guy would would ask you in the most polite way? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:31 PM |
| 29 | Equality vs RespectShe has noting to offer that I want or need, so PASS. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:29 PM |
| 15 | Equality vs RespectI shared this in this anonymous sub, outside of this, I follow rule #1 You never talk about the Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:28 PM |
| 9 | Equality vs RespectI think that pussy pass and a sense of entitlement is a highly addictive wordview. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:27 PM |
| 8 | Equality vs RespectI don't think of her as an enemy, actually I don't think of her at all. And I don't care what she thinks of me, however the last thing I want from her or from everyone else is to think of me as the guy who'd do anything just for the asking, that's what AFC are for, till they see the light and swallow TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:25 PM |
| 16 | Equality vs RespectExactly! WIIFM. I have worked for a long time in companies, in direct contact with the sales force, and that's always the mentality of the typical sales person, every time they are confronted with a situation, they ask themselves: WIIFM. And that's what I was thinking, and how I am thinking this day, but I also take 2 things that I take into consideration: Control/Choice: was it my idea that I am pursuing? This is the ideal situation, because I need and I want to live my own life on my own terms… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Equality vs RespectYou have a point. For a lot of people like me we were indoctrinated (brainwashed) to be Mr. Nice Guy (AFC). Upon discovering PUA and later TRP, during the anger phase, we think that the world is either Nice Guys or Jerks. Overcome the anger phase and there's AFC or Confident guys. And this is where my observation falls, being confident is realize that my Value is my and my only to possibly exchange for something, anywhere between friendship to pay-for-work, but never give it away gratuitously es… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Does the game itself objectively get easier or harder for guys as they get older?Male in my early 50's here. Personal experience is that it gets easier, of course I started as an AFC therefore it's not a surprise that it can only go up; however after years of perfecting PUA and now implementing TRP, game gets easier and more fun too. This is the best time of my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 01:09 PM |
| 1 | How TRP can mainstream and de-anonymize?It can't. Not now, not yet, maybe never. What you can do is to enjoy your knowledge, and lead by example without proselytizing or trying to convert anyone; if you MUST say something you can express your opinions an philosophy without ever mentioned The Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 10:28 PM |
| 3 | How easy would it be for a high SMV guy in his 30s to sleep with a lot of different women if he wanted to?High SMV is relative, I am in my early 50's I have a decent game and I do pretty well for myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 12:51 AM |
| 6 | An expensive wedding is the biggest shit test.Having been married twice I confirm this, and actually it's wider in scope since: it starts with the engagement ring that has to be more expensive than the most expensive engagement ring wore by anyone on her family and her circle of friends. it's not only the bride, but also the mother of the bride's shit test to her husband and future son in law, and to the rest of the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 07:12 PM |
| 3 | A different (non-monetary) reason on why marriage is a bad, bad idea.Older Redditor here. I used to think that way too, now, with a lot of experience after 2 marriages etc.., I know that: one must select the right girl, one must be Red Pill all the way, including incorporating stuff like The Sex God Method Not as easy as it sounds, since we are all surrounded by BP narrative, but it can be achieved that a relationship also includes some amazing sex in terms of both quality and quantity. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What books or learning materials helped you learn to be witty?I find "How to Win Friends and Influence People" pretty much Blue Pill, it sounds good but it really doesn't work much. Reading and - more importantly - practicing the basic principles of TRP are the best sources: lift (at the gym), lift heavy shit! The practice and the results will change your life. read and practice your interests/hobbies develop your own career in line with your dreams Everything in Required Theory Reading in the sidebar And go out there and talk with anyone and everyone you … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is aggressiveness / competitiveness / dominance learnable?As we go through life, we learn behaviors, we change behaviors, and adapt to life's situations. The keyword there being we. So, in theory it's possible for anyone to change, hell we change throughout our lives, constantly, but one must: Want to change Have and use the proper tools to change. TRP is a good source of tools for change, everything else it's up to the person. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Numerous posts about turning your LTR into a PlateLet's not forget something. The Red Pill is a sexual strategy for men in response to Feminism as sexual strategy for women. To some degree the 2 strategies are similar and opposite only in direction. The ultimate Dread game is cheating, especially within a LTR where there was an explicit agreement of exclusivity, cheating becomes the ultimate game changer, if the party cheated upon remains in spit of the cheating, the cheater has successfully gained full control via Dread Game and also establish… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 03:09 PM |
| 0 | How to Fuck - RP StyleHow To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How to battle against the female dinner phenomenonDifferent escalation: you meet a girl instead of a first date you have a coffee meet, and you can splurge the few bucks of a caffeinated beverage (she pays for her food if she wants some). ideally from there you move to your place, but just in case you need another meet (or date), you can propose Let's do drinks, first round is on me. When the bartender asks you if you want to run a tab... say now and close it. If she asks you to have another drink you give her the option of her paying for it or… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Does rule (18) "Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself – Isolation is Dangerous" from The 48 laws of power contradict with the concept of monk mode?Monk Mode is a temp state. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Rationality vs. Irrationality (emotion)Most time you need to be Rational and Logic, including when deciding to let Rationality and Logic out the window and let emotion~ passion dictate your experience of certain events, like sex; Still, use protection no matter what (Rational and Logic) and don't stick your dick into crazy (Rational and Logic). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Help me draw a parallel. My girlfriend says she's only attracted to tall guys."Attraction can't be negotiated" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Movies you know that portray TRP philosophy characters the most accuratelyCalifornication's Hank Moody. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Whats your favorite sex guide?The Sex God Method (A classic) How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Don't Be This Guy - 23yo Preacher's Son Marries 30yo MILF PornslutThe first paragraph is priceless "Crystal DiGregorio and Dave Bassette fell in love at church."* | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 09:28 PM |
| 7 | What are some ideas for hobbies within the RP mindset?I am a big fan of playing guitar. Personally it has been my childhood dream but never pursued for too many reasons. I picked it up recently and it was the best decision of my life: it's fun to learn and practice, quasi-immediate satisfaction, yes frustrations too, still, stick to it; it provides a good system for learning everything in life: have fun, stick to it through the frustrating parts; chicks dig it get an acoustic one, and you can transport it anywhere you go: beach, home, park, backyar… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:41 AM |
| 4 | My GF turned me into a beta and just dumped me. Please help.Welcome to The Red Pill. If you decide to swallow it, think of what just happened to you as the Price of Admission to the Club. Since you asked what to do, a few suggestions: Forget all about her! For all intent and purposes she just passed away. Hit the gym, and hit it hard. If you're already doing it, do not stop. Read all the material in the sidebar, and the material linked from the sidebar; read it all twice, three times if you have to Start practicing everything it's suggested, which is all… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 12:44 PM |
| 8 | The Four Stages of CompetenceTo put it simply: Clueless: You don't know what you don't know Awareness: You know what you don't know Student: You know what you know. Master: You don't know what you know | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 09:43 PM |
| 29 | People do not want you to become Alpha"Your Friends will want you to do good, but not better then them". | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 09:36 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Are you a player?I agree with you that arguing with logic doesn't work, but I got caught off guard so I ran with what came to mind. What's interesting is that in the past few days I was thinking about TRP in general, and the reason why there's so much hate against it from the non-RP community; it's because it is a logic counter-strategy to BP strategy, and we all know that when a logic arguments hits the spot, it hurts, provoking an emotional illogic reaction like anger. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you go about getting LTR to do things for you in the bedroomThe Sex God Method by Daniel Rose How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho (http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho) | /r/askTRP | 17/10/14 05:49 PM |
| 10 | female friend standing you up (canceling a few hours before)Warning bell #1 "female Friend" Warning bell #2 "not her first time" Solutions: drop all "female friends", unless they are plates you're spinning; get male friends to do guy's stuff, drop anyone who doesn't respect you. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/14 05:47 PM |
| 12 | Girls with a history.Some thoughts in random order: Think of TRP as suggestions, at the end of the day you and only you have to make your own decisions Generally speaking TRP would think that she's a perfect candidate to be one of your plates There are no judgments in TRP, not for her, nor for you | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 05:15 PM |
| 6 | One of my friends dumped one of those stupid "equal pay" petitions on my facebookYou can flag that on Facebook as SPAM, which technically it is since it is "unsolicited", you never asked for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 05:12 PM |
| 8 | My awakening to TRP"I’m going to conquer back my ex." This is not what TRP promotes. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Need a red pill perspective - what's the proper course of action?You're a guest in this forum, and this forum believes that: TRP knew that she was going to sleep with some other people, there are so many reasons for that LD relationships are not good spinning only one plate is no good. Then again, you already knew the answers. This sub can't contradict itself and tell you: go ahead, do it. At the same time you're a man, you have the info in this sub, and info from other resources Red Pill or outside the RP sphere. Make your own decisions. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 02:00 AM |
| 4 | r/parenting going ballistic!I liked how the top commenter started "I don't think it's a good idea to encourage the kid to think of her as a skank. Or that she is a shitty human being". Let me see... we should all congratulate her for what she did? Good girl? You Go Girl? If that's the case, you go boy, go and fuck as many skanks make love to as many good girls as you can, especially the ones who have boyfriends. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Need reputable fitness sources on reddit./r/Fitness as usual start by reading the sidebar TWICE as well as all the material linked to it. Best fitness guide. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/14 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Man Goes Redpill, wife asks if shes being petty about about it. (xpost from r/relationships)I read it, and I loved it. I also liked the "self-control" thing, and such language should be adopted but the people in this sub who want to help others in need, if you must do so, but use the wording "self-control" instead of TRP, it satisfies TRP's #1 requirement, and softens the conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Faking Blue Pill to Escape Bad OutcomesRule 1: Don't stick your dick into crazy! If you follow Rule 1, you can always dump her like a boss, and possibly keep her on call for those dry spells here and there, or when you feel like taking a freak ride and re-live those freaky things that only she can do the way she does. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about activities and hobbiesI cannot stress this more: learn to play a musical instrument. Any instrument would do. I am partial to guitar because it was my childhood dream all along, and because women dig it. It's also very portable (acoustic guitar), and it's a lot of fun to gather a group of friends late at night, at the beach or back yard or the couch, a few drinks, and everyone sings a few popular songs. Very good to increase social capital and SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Any other guys in here who missed out on sex/relationships in their adolescence and early 20s but had success when they got older?Early 50's here. Didn't get any during my adolescence, and was an AFC/Beta that got married at age 25 only to find myself in a sexless marriage. Being the Beta that I was it took me a long time to dump her sorry ass, so I found myself divorced at age 32 with 3 body count under my belt, and highly inexperienced in everything from dating to sex, even worst I though I knew it all since I listen to women and watched romantic movies. Fuck me right? Fast forward to today in my early 50's, in spite of … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm interested in TRP take on this article.I didn't catch that. Still a true Red Pill Alpha Man in his 50's would be able to pull something like that; it's called spinning plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get rejected and how do you deal with it?You can say that I NEVER get rejected or that I get rejected often, personally I am not sure which one is correct, I'll let you decide. I talk with everyone, everywhere, in every situation: male, female, old people, kids, ugly, f-ugly and good looking. At the bus stop, at the supermarket, at parties, you name it; wherever there are people around, I will talk with them. The talk with stranger starts superficial, usually about the context of the time and place where we are, the goal is to break th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 12:03 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is wrong with being a beta provider?Nothing wrong if that's what you like. This is what I do not like about being a beta provider: you receive puppy love and not lust from females overtly or covertly they will lust over Alpha Fucks sooner or later they will miss having a taste of the Alpha Fucks, so they will either cheat with the Alpha, or leave the Beat for the Alpha; not sure which one is worse. Beta providers can have a life filled with long term relationships that most likely will end in a sour note thanks to hypergamy and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 11:52 PM |
| 10 | The importance of hobbies and interests is mentioned often, but not often discussed. What have you picked up since being here? What effect has it had on your life?When I discovered TRP I already knew about pursuing my own interests. So, a few years ago I had started to: play guitar: not only it's very fulfilling but chicks dig it. Just do NOT make the cardinal mistake, play when YOU want, not for anyone. Volunteering in a couple of organization that I believe in their mission. Also very good social karma My own fitness and nutrition I read (books) and don't watch TV, I do watch movies and documentaries on my own schedule. I peak 2 foreign languages, 1 ver… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 11:48 PM |
| 13 | A /r/forum I just foundThis sums it up http://i.imgur.com/hNtH7B9.jpg | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 11:38 PM |
| 0 | I'm interested in TRP take on this article.The TRP take on this is very simple. If you go back in time and the woman is in her 20's she'd be the one spinning multiple male-plates (pre-wall)l; but now that she's in her 50's he's the one spinning multiple female-plates. It's all in line with TRP SMV curves which are different for males and females according to age. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Marriage Rates Hit All-Time LowFeminists must be happy: who needs men! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Older, well-read TRP members, can you recommend some philosophy and classical literature?The Fountainhead Atlas Shrugged | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 12:20 PM |
| 3 | This is the alternative to RedPill: After wedding ceremony, wife says she can't have sex anymore.There's something unsettling about the trust issues and the phone that the OP just glances through but doesn't go into details; I smell a AF/BB rat there. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Excuse me. Why does everyone assume you guys are abusive assholes?Are you looking for intellectual discourse on Reddit? Most people just want validation of their own thoughts, or they are trolls. Very few subs, TRP being one, provide a forum for open-minded people. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 12:41 PM |
| 1 | American women have become fat sluts, and it's the blue pillers that are to blameYou're on to something, but it's not a complete picture that you paint. America has always led trends since the dawn of the Industrial Revolution, and even more so with the pervasiveness of Mass Media in the second ha;f of the Twentieth Century. If you analyze any socio-cultural data, you will see the Pareto Principle in action, with statistical populations being divided into 80/20 buckets. Women in their 20's: 20% of women are HB7+, 80% are fuckable (that includes the 20% HB7+), the remainder 2… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 12:53 AM |
| -1 | Is Slut Shaming Bad For Men?I'd like to see the word S*** erased from TRP vocabulary. Personally I am a male-slut but I don't call any women with that term. And I like women who have sex with ease, I do. At the same time I prefer women with low body count as potential candidates for committed exclusive long term relationships. My preferences. It's that simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Any other guys in here who missed out on sex/relationships in their adolescence and early 20s but had success when they got older?Older Redditor here at age 53. To make a long story short I found myself in my early 30's divorcing my wife of 7 years, with a body count under my belt of 3 including wife. To make matters worst I was Blue Pill, AFC, Mr Nice Guy. I fucked up, fucked up even more, somehow discovered the early secuction/PUA material, kept improving, became an accomplished PUA, got married again, got divorced again. Recently I have also discovered The Red Pill, but even before that I am enjoying my life, in true TR… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/14 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Two women create dating app where men can't see women's pics. Hamstering and creep shaming abound.This is perfect for Beta Bux. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/14 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Best professions/jobs to develop myself as a RP man?I used to think owning your own business but after watching the movie Vicky Cristina Barcelona be a painter or an Artist of some kind. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Beware the newest male liberation shame tactic: The Peter Plan ComplexWell said. Actually that shame tactics also applied to divorced guys, I've been married twice and of course divorced twice; I still live alone in my 3 BR single family house in the suburb with the yards and all, in a town where everyone is married with kids; and I have no intention to get married again. I too have been shamed with the Peter Pan life and I could not care less. Been there, done that, not it's all about me me me me me. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Vicky Cristina Barcelona is a fantastic movieI am watching the movie right now, and it's surely a Red Pill Movie. Good suggestion! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that women are whores and I still can't get any?TRP community is here to help. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/14 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Why is it that women are whores and I still can't get any?It's the 80/20 rule: 20% of the guys will fuck 80% of the women. The remainder 20% of the women are nothing you want to touch with a 10 ft pole. And the remainder 80% of the guys, well they are left being BB, friendzone, involuntary celibacy and the likes. It's not fair, but it is reality. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/14 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What the hell is up with this?What do you mean? You're posting to a group that has recognized hypergamy as a fact of life, harsh but still a fact of life. So this is a validation of TRP. Move on, nothing to see. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | My first attempt at Dark Triad Dread Game. I can't believe it worked.I know, "I can't believe it worked" is probably the second most popular comment, the #1 being "Shit, I can't believe how well it worked". And still most of the people in here wished we lived in a world where shit tests didn't happen, and Dread Game was not necessary. And then there's Reality that bites you in the ass! Reality is a wonderful teacher. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 01:20 AM |
| 19 | Shit test: wife fills the cupboards with crap foodI cook all my meals, lunch and dinner every day, going out to dinner about once a week only. Shopping for food to cook is a lot of work, then cooking it it's also a lot of work. Buying junk food it's cheap and it's easy, my assumption is that she does partly due to laziness so that she doesn't have to prepare, cook, and then clean the cooking mess. The cost is that you guys are overweight. Dispose of the food is a good start, now you need to figure out what foods you want to eat. The sidebar of … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to help my BP brother???He's your brother, show him this sub, tell him to read and see if he finds something that resonates with him. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:38 PM |
| 3 | How honest are people with their SOs about their seuxal past?There's the famous Rule of 3: whatever number she says, multiply such a number by 3; whatever number he says, divide such a number by 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Your Posture helps (or degrades) your confidence, and hence, masculinity.Body language affects how others see us, but it may also change how we see ourselves. Social psychologist Amy Cuddy shows how “power posing” — standing in a posture of confidence, even when we don’t feel confident — can affect testosterone and cortisol levels in the brain, and might even have an impact on our chances for success. http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 12:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell your ex to fuck off?Have your tried saying: FUCK OFF! and then block her from phone, email, and social media? It works, trust me. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I Need Feminism Because...You got a point there, it kind of sucks, but you've got a very valid point. One has to swallow the hard truth that unicorns are indeed unicorns and therefore the optimal strategy is indeed TRP whereas you elevate yourself to that top 20% of the male population that gets to spin plates picking and choosing among the 80% of the female population; not a bad deal in terms of numbers. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 06:30 PM |
| -2 | Your meeting a girl for a drink, how do I smoothly, and blunty inform her I'm not paying for her?It's more that I would splurge on a buddy; and on a first meet we're just barely potential friends who are seizing each other out to see if we click enough to do more together. So I can invest $3.00, but if it's more than that she's on her own. One needs to set the tone from the get go. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Your meeting a girl for a drink, how do I smoothly, and blunty inform her I'm not paying for her?There's an alternative, better, solution: don't go for drinks. Go for coffee, and don't even call it a date, call it a meet. That's what I do and yes I will splurge for her coffee, unless it's over $3.00, in which case she'll get her own. Once you've decided you want to see each other again, you can go for drinks and the first one is on me. even better "Drinks at my place, no charge. Just bring something to much on" | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wanted to go through my phone, I didn't let her and that's led to tension. What steps to take now?What's next? Hold your frame. It's a game, if you give in, you'll be her bitch. You hold your frame, and she'll be your... | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The Husband Zone matrix...A women's response to the awesome Wife Hack, Hot/Crazy Matrix video.Fun Zone: BB who will wine and dine her. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 03:21 PM |
| 23 | Woman wants to get married, but for no real reasonThe keyword there is "next phase of my life". It's like a guy wanting a muscle car, or a big ass SUV; you know what happens, once you get it after a while we go Meh... and wondering what's next on our list. The difference is that a marriage fucks up more lives and finances than a car. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 02:45 PM |
| 3 | "Women are the real cheaters now. I think we’ve always cheated as much as men"Actually if we apply the 80/20 rule, where 20% of men fucks 80% of women, and we extrapolate that into the world of cheating as well, there are more women cheating than there are men. It's just a theory that has no scientific evidence, but most of us former AFC have enough empirical evidence that sounds just about right. If you're an accomplished PUA you know that you get a lot more pussy, defined as number of women, than the average guy out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 12:32 PM |
| 12 | The Husband Zone matrix...A women's response to the awesome Wife Hack, Hot/Crazy Matrix video.She's correct! This is especially true when she talks about: One Night Stands: have fun with them but don't take them home Fun Zone: this is what we call Beta Bux, and she states correctly that they might change into what she calls cheaters/arrogant asses (male playing the hypergamy card and riding the pussy carousel) Husband Zone: the classic BB/AFC who will never grow out of it | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Is "Blue Collar" (Manual labor) jobs the ideal jobs to become more masculine??You'll have to find your own path. I did some manual jobs when I was starting out, then went into cubicle nation, but I always had plans to start my own company which, after a few false starts, I finally did a few years ago. Sore it is in all practicality office work, but it's in a very creative field and industry, no cubicle for me (open office space), and I get to meet a lot of people from all walks of life and get to travel out of the office 30-40% of the time. Most important of all it's very… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 12:02 PM |
| 1 | True Wife ConfessionsThat's nothing, here's something to chew on: http://imanotherwoman.wordpress.com/about/ | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 11:50 AM |
| -1 | If you're a Red Pill Man you're a Ninja; so follow Rule #1 and stop talking about The Red Pillhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pIoMXYBztdg The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Suggested university or college courses to help improve gameAnything psychology. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 06:28 PM |
| -1 | How would you describe a male with a reasonably high SMV?AT LEAST, OR BETTER Outside: Clean and groomed enough, not too much groomed Fit / tight body, working on getting ripped, nice biceps, flat stomach, abs starting to make their appearance Always dressed for the occasion, with his own style, without looking like a hipster or a metrosexual Inside: At least college educated, master degree preferred. Bonus: PhD or working on it Own his own little company, or working on starting his own little company within a few years Volunteers at one of his Trade a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Should I feel bad for leading my plates on?Who's playing games with whom? Is she assuming something without having said anything? Or is she saying something and you're leading her on with words or actions? And, are you talking about exclusivity? This is something that needs to be brought up in a conversation by the party who is interested in discussing it; so if you have not, and she hasn't either it's a laissez faire thing. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/14 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Wife Going Back to WorkIf you married a bright and smart woman, would you want her to be underemployed in a crappy little job beneath her? I like career women, that's all I date; bright, smart career women with advanced degree. My present gf has a PhD and doing very cool research work. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Dunno how to respond to this stupid shit test.Ask yourself if you want to invest these 4 dates to have a plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's view about bodybuilding women?I've dated a natural bodybuilder, and she was a lot of fun and very pleasant to be naked with. I do like fit women. I would not date muscular women that take T in order to build up, I don't find that attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Dunno how to respond to this stupid shit test.She's probably looking to you as a BB/provider. Ask her bluntly: "Do you believe in being 100% honest during our dates?" to which of course she's going to say YES. Then ask her, "When was the last time you had sex?". I bet she has an AF/FWB that she rides on a regular basis, probably more. Next her, refine your game. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Make sure you tell your current GF it's "official"This is business as usual. If a woman has those principles, most TRP guys would suggest you treat her as a plate, and not as LTR material. Just like attraction cannot be negotiated, being LTR material cannot be negotiated either. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Getting over Girlfriends?You're doing fine, actually you're doing great! You're 17 and lost your virginity, you just ended a 1.5 year relationship, and discovered TRP. Move on! If you want a legitimate closure imagine that at that party she got a few miles worth of cock (hypergamy). You have a bright life in front of you, and you have a head start when compared with 99% of the people in this sub, including yours truly. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Seeking out sex ruins, if not completely destroys my ability to maintain frame.This is strange. Here you are, the The Red Pill sub, a sub that advocates to take care of yourself, your body (go lift & eat well), develop your career, enjoy your hobbies and passion; and - as a byproduct - women will be attracted to you; and once you secure one plate, make sure you get at least two more so that you can spin plates; and don't stop there but always upgrade your plates. And instead you're hunting for a quick & cheap fix on CL and when things don't work out pondering about the opp… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Did any of you start out as genuinely nice guys and then become more cutthroat and aggressive? Did any of you start out as religious but lost faith?Check. Check. I was a Nice Guy, became an even more Nice Guy (aka AFC), to the point that I got mad, really really mad, and I tried to be a jerk and it worked, fuck if it worked. I admit, for a while I was awful. Then I found PUA and toned it down a notch or two and worked even better. By my early standards I am not what I used to think was a jerk, whatever. There'a a former Nice Guy behind 90% of the jerks out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Redpill my apartmentYOU, in it, living your own life. My place is clean but not too clean (dust) and pretty messy. There's always music in the background throughout the house. Only one large screen TV in front of a huge comfortable couch (if that couch could talk...). It's a party house, party for 2 or for 50. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Social Experiments: "Asking 100 Girls for Sex" vs. "Asking Guys for Sex"The asking 100 Girls to have Sex is an interesting experiment, however it was flawed, and here's why: one should never do this approach to a group of 2 or more women, because the first woman that you ask is going to say no, since she doesn't want to be seen as a slut by the other(s); and then once you ask the other women, they won't say yes because not only they dont' want to be seen as sluts, but also they don't want to say yes to someone else's reject. Science: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 12:45 PM |
| 1 | TRP/seduction - The difference?Seduction: becoming a better salesman TRP: becoming a better product MAN | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Looking to buy some cologne any suggestions?A cologne won't get you laid, however there are some fruity stuff out there. Get something manly and don't waste money. Tabac Cologne is badass, wear with an attitude and don't give a fuck! | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 11:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I turn this around? (Game help needed)Learn the lesson, next her, take the experience to do better next time. Good read for you: http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes/ | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 10:56 AM |
| 3 | 2nd date request rejection, RedPill advice please.So she says no to a second date and you expect this community to coach you into getting into her pants because you still think that you can F-close her. Here's a very good article, read it: http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes/ | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 01:43 AM |
| 133 | The Big Bang Theory just pisses me off nowMost TV show are BP. Everybody Loves Raymond is the worst of them all. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Need some advanced preg avoidance tricksSo you're starting a LTR with someone with whom you have a fundamental difference in life philosophy (she wants kids in 3 years and you in about 10) and whom you don't really trust unconditionally "avoid a pregnancy here, either accidental or on purpose by her". This is not Red Pill material. Be honest with her, tell her that you like her enough but the difference in timing of having kids is a major impediment to anything serious. Downgrade her to a plate or next her, for everyone's sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 08:23 PM |
| 7 | How does romance fiction warp what women expect from men?It gets worse! There's a huge market for "erotica" (soft porn for women) and they can't get enough of that stuff. And if you're looking at Craigslist and want to really see sense of entitlement, look under the Strictly Platonic section, you'll see all sorts of entitlements. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 01:13 PM |
| 1 | 5 yr anniversary coming up LTRAsk yourself this question: "How can she treat you to reward you for being in a 5 yr LTR with her? I suggest you approach her and say, let's celebrate our 5 years with a weekend getaway to [insert name of city/hotel] and have a fuckfest! Let's organize it together and split the cost. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever relax?You assume that Maintaining Frame and probably other TRP strategies are fake and something that you ought to perform. Maintaining Frame is something that one must internalize so that it becomes a habit, done naturally without thinking, therefore maintaing frame will be relaxing and natural. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Why Women Are Rejecting “Perfect” MenWhat a great endorsement of TRP concept by Science. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/14 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Tell me about the women who DON'T respond to red-pill tactics.Women respond, or don't respond, to Red Pill Men. It's not just the tactics per se, but the Man. The Red Pill is not a cheap trick for show & tell in front of a woman, it's a transformation to make the Man that lives his life on his own terms. The fact that doing so attracts women, it's a secondary benefit of a great life. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 03:24 AM |
| 2 | best thing I have ever heard, dark triad alpha gets radio called for cheating on one of five girls, maintains frame, threatens host, action starts around 4:21Priceless: "I don't need to send flowers, my game is good enough" "You don't have to give them anything" "I have girls..." "I call them all Baby Girl so I don't get confused" "I'm not a player, but I crash a lot" "That's what you say now" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do redditors hate and misinterpret TRP all the time?Because if you have not swallowed The Red Pill you're still part of the system. Morpheus says it better when talking to Neo: "The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugg… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Plate lied but she isn't my full plate yet..Are you guys working together? If no, there's something else going on, how does the boss know about you? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with this tactic?Google this "If Men Have All The Power How Come Women Make the Rules?" It's a free pdf that will open your eyes. Give it to your dad too! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Do women know how much they desire to be dominated or are they victims of feminism too?It's not that simple. Saying that women don't know what they want is not correct. Saying that we don't understand women is a more accurate statement: they are a different species and they talk a different language. Consistency is not something they do, they are free to change their mind as they see it convenient They want an BB to take care of their long term needs (aka: Meal Ticket) At the same time they enjoy the attentions of an AF for their immediate needs Should they find themselves married… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 12:13 PM |
| 17 | "Study: Women prefer men with big bellies" Hamstering at it's finest?It's a question of control. They want a BB who would take care of them, therefore he better have love handles so his options are limited due to his low SMV. At the same time they'll get their share of AF fix on demand, and that better have abs and muscles. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 11:54 AM |
| 1 | FR: "Why did you dump me?" "Because you wouldn't fuck"Are you still Just Friends? I hope so, good benefits! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 10:11 PM |
| 1 | SMV and DOs and DONTsI'm in my early 50's and very active in Social Media. Doesn't mean that I check my phoebe every 5 minutes, but it does provide me with Social Value. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Making girls pay for the drinksJust ask her "Why?" and demand a rational answer. You can corner her into the quasi-prostitution argument. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 06:16 PM |
| 2 | For the older gentlemen, specifically those who had adopted this for some time now, what is TRP like for you now?Sex in your 40's might be the best sex of your life, if you've got game you can pick up the 20something to the MILFs and everything in between. I'm in my early 50 and I fell as if I'm at the prime of my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 05:01 PM |
| 0 | So now it's a mark of pride being a massive slut.I find the comments more amusing than OP's post. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 04:51 PM |
| 3 | So what kind of physique is actually the most attractive to women?Check the 15% guy in here http://cdn.builtlean.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/body-fat-percentage-men.jpg would you call that "not fit"? 16-18% is only 4-6 lbs more . | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Dropping the ultimatum orbit bomb.Get busy. For real. Get busy spinning a few plates, so that when the question comes "why haven't I heard from you?" The truest answer is "I've been busy." And word of your HBs goes around "So you've been sponging time with Jennifer I hear but you can't find time with me?" "Yes, Jessica sucks a mean cock, as if her life depended on it, our coffee and all was fun, but I've moved on and now need more than just coffee. You know what I mean, right?" | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:20 PM |
| 2 | So what kind of physique is actually the most attractive to women?There was a very good tread on r/fitenss or r/ask women last year, and the summation is that women prefer a fit guy with a BF of 16-18% while guys try to get themselves ripped! with abs, and BF of 12% or lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Being Brutally Rational With WomenA Social Experiment? Sounds interesting. I wonder if you could share your finding with the rest of the world, either by way if a blog updated on a regular Babis, or by taking notes and compiling them on a monthly/annual basis and then publish them as e-book. If you're going to pioneer such an innovative experiment, the findings ought to be shared with at least this community, and the world at large could benefit as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Bill Burr nails it on female solipsism, hamstering and selfishness.The best part comes at about 7:00 "Do you realize how many Richard Prior are fucking working at Home Depot or Jimi Hendrix because they hooked up with the wrong fucking twat who talked them out of their god damned dream?" | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 11:56 AM |
| 9 | Always make other plansThe proper question is not to ask this sub "how people would handle this situation?" but instead to ask yourself "In the future, how can I avoid putting myself in a situation like this?". Since you ask, a few suggestions: first date are always low investment coffee dates, and actually don't even call it a date, call it a meet. make sure the place where you meet is more inconvenient to her than it is to you A few hours before the date, text her something naughty (by now either you've slept with h… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Men Do Not "Feel Entitled To Sex"I see your point, but you're consulting the wrong source. TRP and to some extend PUA tells you what is that you as a guy have to do in order for the average woman out there to be wanting to have sex with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 01:10 PM |
| 3 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRSo I have 2 questions regarding "I use 'LTR' lightly as we only dated for 3 months, but we were exclusive for the last 2": Were you both sleeping around with other people? Or just one of you? Whose idea was to be exclusive? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 11:41 AM |
| 32 | All Girls Like Muscular GuysGirls like AF to be muscular, and BB to be non-muscular because that's their meal ticket and the less muscular the BB the less options he has. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Recovering Beta. Student of RP now.We all wish you the best on the divorce and everything after that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 05:06 PM |
| 16 | Staggering bullshit and irresponsibility from a female bossI volunteer at 2 organizations, and I've been volunteering at various non-profits for a very long time. Often volunteers in leadership positions are there as a power trip, to overcompensate for taking shit somewhere else in their life: family, work or both. She might me a lawyer from a great school, but I bet she works in a firm where she is not one of the senior partner, so you have no idea how much crap she has to deal with from those senior partners and from her clients too. I strongly sugges… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Recovering Beta. Student of RP now.Well written summary bro, I feel for you. Your sentence "I bet against her past and her biology and lost." was quite interesting, I am sure a lot of guys in here can relate. A couple of points: Get a mediator to mediate the divorce, and get it SOON, take care of business ASAP As times goes on she'll be talking with other females, family, friends, co-workers and they will poison her mind, and she might be changing her mind about amicable and not screwing you over. At the same time if you don't ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I just feel fucking angry and resentful 24/7 and I am wondering when/if it gets better.The sooner you get rid of the anger, the better off you'll be. You might need some introspection to figure out the source of your anger, so that you can deal with it appropriately. I was angry too for a while after discovering PUA and more recently TRP, and I realized that the anger came from feeling betrayed, betrayed because I was led to believe that a certain set of behaviors (read: Be Mr Nice Guy) would lead me to a satisfactory life and satisfactory relationships, you know, the Disney persp… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:18 PM |
| 0 | How do you will friends trying to beta shame you?They are not your friends. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/14 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I am sick of my exThere are two hypothetical futures in front of you, and you get to pick which one you're gong to live: A) Your phone rings, it's her. "I love you" she says, "Let's get back together". You say yes, and you get married to this woman, knowing exactly who she is because the way she has acted. B) You just learned a valuable lesson that will stay with you for a lifetime, it will shape for the better every single relationship you're going to have. Take your pick A or B? Let's face it, you just dodged a… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 03:03 AM |
| 3 | All-time Track star Suzy Hamilton cuckolds husband as high-class hooker for years. Excuse? "Depression and a challenging time in my life..."She's also a "a motivational speaker" according to her web site http://suzyfavorhamilton.com/. Oh well. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Question: how do you convince yourself you want something? (may sound not serious, but it is)Self-sustaining: you try doing something and it gives you so much satisfaction that every morning you wake up earlier than your alarm and you jump out of bed because you can't wait to start doing it. No reminders and no "motivation" necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 10:40 AM |
| 9 | Fucked up at a Frat PartyYou talked to her, maybe too much, but the main problem is that you talked to her about college life and sports and stuff. You engaged her on a logical level, and in all practicality you could be talking with one of your buddies from the frat house. You should have engaged on a non-logical emotional level, flirting and escalating the flirting. She thought she was having a friendly conversation and then all in a sudden the friend tries to make out with her, out of the blue because she is not a mi… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Nexting a Plate?It's a glitch in the Matrix. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 01:13 AM |
| 1 | A good explanation of femininity from Ayn RandI saw Part I and I liked it, Part II was ok. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 11:45 PM |
| 6 | How to go about hitting on a girl ?Wrong sub then, go to /r/seduction . | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Nexting a Plate?Stop calling her. Don't answer when she calls. Don't answer her texts emails. Best way to implement that is by blocking her #, email, and unfriend from social media. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/14 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with crazy parents?I'd say run, but this sub doesn't allow short comments. Therefore I am going to say run! Fucking run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run! run… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 08:44 PM |
| 6 | A good explanation of femininity from Ayn RandAyn Rand is a great source for TRP. The 3rst part of the Atlas Shrugged movie will open next weekend Sep 12 http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2800038/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 07:41 PM |
| 6 | The more I improve myself and do what I love, the less patience I have for AWALT behavior and yet I seem to attract women more now.You're correct. TRP seem counterintuitive to BP thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Guys with expensive/nice cars - do you think you get more women with your conspicuous display of wealth? Is this Peacocking?At the same time it's a sign of Beta Bucks. I always had crappy or utilitarian cars, the beauty of such a choice is that you know they are not there for the car. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 01:06 AM |
| -1 | [Rant] How to deal with a self-entitled feminist without starting a shitstorm?Call 911 report Stolen property, is she makes any contact or if she did it becomes Assault and battery. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | TRP Hobbies and such.Early 50's here, and actually the bar scene was never my forte. FYI: you're not old, neither am I. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Lifting - can it be done without the "diet"?There are 3 components to getting and be fit: lifting nutrition rest/sleep You need all 3, none of the 3 is more important of the other, the trifecta is the most important. You are a Red Pill Man, now that you have the facts, the choice is yours, and yours only. You get the kudos for success, and the blame if things don't work out, you are the boss of your own life. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend doesn't respect me? Or just doesn't find me sexually attractive?Dude, you were a virgin and got your v-card punched = SUCCESS. Now, don't over-analyze it, get some more action if you can, and in the meanwhile go out there and spin some more plates now that you know how the mechanics of it work. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Woman see men as free ATM machines."Beta Bucks" pretty much covers it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Encouraging Your Captain To LeadDon't tell me how I am wrong, tell me how you are right: tell me how it works? Asking/Waiting for permission to be a leader? That's how OP sounded like. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 09:50 PM |
| -2 | Encouraging Your Captain To LeadIf they don't submit, move on and find new subs. Your leadership requires no permission. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 09:02 PM |
| 1 | I have a question.So, where in the Universe do you live? Does your location have a name? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I have a question.You're beating around the bush, no pun intended. You know what I'm talking about, and what you're talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How to go about checking girlfriends phone?Fucking "NEST" her dude. She cheated on you, and looking through "stuff" will only hurt your. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 07:24 PM |
| 1 | First date ideas for someone under 21First "Date" no matter the age: coffee, independent coffee shop or Starbucks. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Tinder reply to - "im not a slut""Neither am I" | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I have a question.So, your question is "do you really believe that Men and Women are that different?". Here's my question to you: "do you really believe that Men and Women act the same?" If so, how many times has a woman in a bar offered to buy you a drink? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Yet another set example of a fellow who's throwing gasoline on the dumpster fire of his marriageThat was me during my marriage #1. I was just a clueless fuck as this poor schmuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is a happy LTR even possible?Yes. However you have to add to your query: Happy for who? For how long? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 04:54 PM |
| 1 | TRP Hobbies and such.I agree, however make sure you have "balance:. Out of curiosity, how old are you? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Can someone define some acronyms for me? New here and would appreciate it. See description with context.It's al here: http://lmgtfy.com/ | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 04:52 PM |
| 3 | How do you 'Next' without being an asshole?Continue spinning her, in your mind downgrade her from main plate to secondary or even tertiary plate; in the meanwhile get your kinks out, explore sexual fetishes, ask for a FFM 3some with her friend Jenny, car head, sex in semi-public places. Get some experience, keep on pushing the envelope. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 04:52 PM |
| 2 | TRP Hobbies and such.I used to be into electronics a lot when I was a kid, and I still do some; same for woodworking although I am not at your level, I'm sure. My only problem is that those hobbies are not social enough, therefore employ a big chuck of your time away from social activities. And the little social aspect that they have is in guy-only circles. You have those skills, which will stay with you for the lifetime, but I was somewhat in your shoes, and I opted to pursue more social passions, namely play my gu… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR - wondering if time to cut my lossesDude, you just got a big lesson in life. One where you have direct experience. Don't waste such a valuable lesson, next her, look yourself in the mirror, and decide how you want to live your life, continue this way, or make some radical changes. Since you're in this sub, I can only guess what your wishes are, act accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Encouraging Your Captain To Lead"permission to lead"??? That's an oxymoron. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Question: how do you convince yourself you want something? (may sound not serious, but it is)What one wants can't be reasoned, it's a right-brain activity, impulse-like. The best way is to observe what you like to do, "do" as in active endeavors, not like playing video games or watch TV. Then just try, see which activity becomes self sustaining, that the more you do the more you can't get enough of it. Also, check this https://archive.today/8HlQo | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Should I let friends know I wasn't invited to weddingYes, honesty is one of the pillars of TRP. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 01:05 AM |
| 3 | How best to respond when SO cancels on a date?She's not that "Significant" if she cancels dates, therefor she ought not the be the "one" either, but "one of the plates". | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Question: how do you convince yourself you want something? (may sound not serious, but it is)If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way; otherwise, you'll find a excuse. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Moral of The Red Pill: be selfishRead Ayn Rand's The Virtue of Selfishness https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Virtue_of_Selfishness | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Guys, who thought of marriage, should read this. Hedge-fund manager wife wants to void prenup, as she was 'rushed' to sign.The hamster is strong on this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are women obsessed with taking nudes of themselves?Terry, Terry Richardson, is that you? You're a true Red Pill, please do an AMA you son of a zoom lens! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/14 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Is there a type of substance (drug), hormone, meditation, etc... That allows one to totally quell/kill their desire for women?Physical: there are many articles on how to increase your Testosterone level, just do the opposite. Psychological: that's hard. You could go on OKcupid and post a 100% accurate and honest profile, then communicate with women being 100% honest, I am sure you will get so turned off. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there a type of substance (drug), hormone, meditation, etc... That allows one to totally quell/kill their desire for women?Are you talking about physical desire (sex) or psychological (craving female companionship)? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 02:36 AM |
| 132 | Why are women obsessed with taking nudes of themselves?Given the right environment most women enjoy feeling sexy, wanted, desired and - dare to say - slutty. Provide a woman with a non-judgmental relationship where she feels safe and free to express her sexuality and . . . nude selfies is only the beginning, and the sky is not even the limit. And yes I talk from experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 02:14 AM |
| 8 | BP guy puts his career and education on hold for his woman. Makes the mistake of sharing how it makes him feel with her.Yes, he should not have put his live on hold to accommodate her life; they should have broken up, be thankful for their time together, and then both go follow their own calling in life, since what they wanted was geographically and logistically incompatible. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Women more promiscious at sex than men, more unfaithfulThis is why TRP is a valid source of information, much more valid than parents, educators, peers, movies, and mainstream media. It's a hard pill to swallow, we all know that, but it's a view into the real reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen with high paying jobs (such as doctors, lawyers, computer programmers, etc.), do you downplay your career in an initial meeting with a chick so that you can filter out the gold-diggers?Depending on the people, and depending on the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Gentlemen with high paying jobs (such as doctors, lawyers, computer programmers, etc.), do you downplay your career in an initial meeting with a chick so that you can filter out the gold-diggers?I used to have a position where it was very easy to realize that I was making a 6-figure salary, so I often lied about what I was doing, or I downplayed my job. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How to shut down Crazy?Go to the Police Station, file a Restraining Order against her. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Need help with nexted girlYou said that you next her, so stand by your own words and actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 06:32 PM |
| 16 | BP guy puts his career and education on hold for his woman. Makes the mistake of sharing how it makes him feel with her.Priceless: I need to focus on myself. I'm not going to let someone guilt me into anything. At the end of the day, she's right and he's wrong. TRP would had advised him against the moves that he did, his only fault is to have listened to everyone: family, friends, movies, etc... to make sacrifices for her because he loved her, we at TRP know better; therefore as harsh as it might sound, she's right, he's wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever discussed the idea of establishing offline, real-world TRP mentoring/fellowship networks?Use TRP as a tool to improve yourself and reach your potential. Then, offline, you will have social circles: at work in your industry friends acquaintances hobbies That's where you lead by example. If need to you can engage in conversations with other people where if appropriate you can share your ideas and ideals, just don't ever mention the words Red Pill. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Slut-shaming and TRP?The word slut should be eradicated from the English dictionary, at least from a Red Pill Man's dictionary. Not all women are the same, some women have a high body count, some women have a low body count. TRP offers a clear view of what reality is all about, especially the concept of Hypergamy. Now, a woman would engage in frequent sexual acts with different male partners for fun, what RP calls Cock Carousel. That is her prerogative, and a welcome one. Now, if a guy decides to partake in the Cock… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 01:50 PM |
| 0 | What are some romantic gestures that do not fall into BB category?All romantic gestures by definitions are BB behavior. If she invites you over to dinner at her place, bringing a bottle of wine is the right thing to do. Dinner is then followed by a fuckfest where she gives you the porn star experience inviting her friend Jenny and leaving you breathless; the day after it's appropriate to send her a thank you email: "That was great! Thank you Jennifer, looking forward to more of those great times together." Some people consider those gestures romantic I conside… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Female OKCupid user decides she is tired of dating Alpha males and tries dating 'nice' guys. She can't understand why she feels no tingles.It's a candid view in to a woman's mind, unfiltered, just as-is. And it's in like with what TRP describes, of course not all women are like that, but it's what works and what doesn't in the majority of relationships. Don't believe one word you red here, go out there and try it for yourself! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 01:11 PM |
| 1 | What's Your Personal Definition of "Becoming/Being a a Man"? How Did You "Become" One?Actually there are a few, very few women who don't do shit tests. My two plates don't do shit tests. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 01:05 PM |
| 9 | Nexted a plate, now she wants me back...and is using beta bux to make me angry.Want to know what I had for dinner tonight? You don't want to know because you don't give a shit about what I had for dinner tonight. You are reasonably sure that I ate something, but still no fucks were given on your part about my dinner. Good. Same attitude for ... who are we talking about? I have no idea because I don't give a fuck, neither should you. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I've hit a crossroads in my sexualityDepends on what you want. Let me tell you my story: I was an AFC/Mr Nice Guy/Blue Pill and I managed to score a HB9, she was hot, beautiful, sweet, and in love with me. Yes really. After a couple of years dating we got married, and that's when it all went to shit. Fast forward 7 years and I found myself in a sexless marriage and she had become a complete bitch! I tried long and hard to save the marriage, I was really in love, but in love with the woman I had married not the woman she had become.… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you text when she just wants to be friends?She: Let's just be friends You: no. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody have any TRP advice for beginning a career in the corporate world.Make sure you get a job in one of the right names in Management Consulting. Once there, seek a mentor, someone who will take you under his wing and help you navigate your career. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 02:13 AM |
| 2 | She buys lingerieIf it's Victoria Sectet's style lingerie, it's for her, she feels special and stuff. If it's Frederick's of Hollywood's style lingerie, stuff that you see in porn movies that's her way of saying to you: I am your porn star, do me as you wish | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Plate to LTR conversion, would like some input.LTR doesn't mean forever, so go for it as long as it's good. Don't get married and - most importantly - don't procreate. Once you're 50 like me, you will not want to touch a 60yo woman, no matter how much she takes care of herself. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Are All Men Pedophiles? - article about evolutionary reasons why men prefer younger girlsIt's all a question of if it's convenient or not. If you take 2 of the popular movies out there right now, the ones where the average woman has a crush for the male main character and fancies his romance with the leading female character you'll see something very interesting: Movie: The November Man Pierce Brosnan age 61 fucks Olga Kurylenko age 35 Movie: Magic in the Moonlight Colin Firth age 54 fucks Emma Stone age 26 And nobody blinks an eye, he's so handsome, and it's all so romantic. And I … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | What's Your Personal Definition of "Becoming/Being a a Man"? How Did You "Become" One?In my very early 50, this is something I think about a lot. I am here because I was an AFC/Mr Nice Guy/Blue Pill, and while I am over with that shit, and I have swallowed the Red Pill, still it's not easy to be and to feel like a real man in this time and age. This is a brilliant question, and I take this opportunity to write this comment for my own benefits first, to verbalize what's in my head; and to contribute to this community second. Everyone should do the same, here in public. I am a man … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 01:20 AM |
| 3 | It's not just betas who suffer in this hamster-powered feminized world we live in.True Alpha increase their value exponentially as time goes on; relatively speaking they never grow old, they are always younger than their peers. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Guy suspects that his new girlfriend is settling for him after fucking dozens of alphas. R/dating_advice tells him to stick his head in the sand and date her anyway.At times people are desperate ... the world doesn't make sense, all the messages from family, friends, TV, movies, articles etc... say one thing and then... reality is quite different. I've been there. So have most of the people in here. TRP is a hard pill to swallow, it's not sugar-coated at all, it's raw! It's reality as-is; and let's face it, it's not an easy thing to accept. The first time I was exposed to TRP I didn't want to believe, it was so mush easier to run with the crowd and be the p… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Don't know how to take a specific complimentI do think that TRP substitutes kill him with ignore him, closer to reality. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/14 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to have a women talk more than you on a date? Or 50-50?Quantity: get her to talk more than you. Quality: steer the conversation towards interesting topics. If she talks about her former boyfriends, her present dates, or girly stuff you have a problem. Her interests, your future sexual escapades, future sexual plans together are good topics. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/14 01:47 PM |
| 20 | Why do girls take nude photos of themselves and send them to guys?From my experience: most women crave being bad girls, however they are very guarded about it. If you offer them the right environment, being both safe and playful, they will unleash the sexual playfulness within them, the wildest sex ever imagined, dirty talk, sex in public, experimentation, pics, movies and much more. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Don't know how to take a specific complimentCalifornication's Hank Moody says that as soon as a woman sees a guy, she puts him into one of 3 buckets: fuck him marry him kill him I used to be like you, "Husband material" and I've worked hard, really hard to get out of it. Now the choice is yours, TRP is not mandatory, and very optional, a true expression of your Free Will. Should you opt to swallow TRP, continue reading The Rd Pill, and practice practice practice what you read. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/14 01:40 PM |
| 43 | Guy suspects that his new girlfriend is settling for him after fucking dozens of alphas. R/dating_advice tells him to stick his head in the sand and date her anyway.That's where The Red Pill comes into place, it offers a clear view of reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 02:12 AM |
| 85 | Guy suspects that his new girlfriend is settling for him after fucking dozens of alphas. R/dating_advice tells him to stick his head in the sand and date her anyway.This is a post from the top commenter, the one who told OP "You sound super judgmental..." http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/943849 From her post: Typically, I’m a huge advocate of frank, honest discussion. About a guy she's dating I told him on date three that I don’t sleep with anyone I’m not exclusive with BUT Meanwhile, all I've done for a year straight is casually date She is "casually dating" other guys, but not this guy. And she's huge advocate of frank, honest discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Got LMR just going for a kiss...She was not ready, you misjudged that she was. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/14 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Help me become a teacherr/Teachers is a better sub for you | /r/askTRP | 31/08/14 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Are all single older woman fucked up?That was a while ago, when I was 30 and Mr Nice guy, about 20 years ago. A lot has happened to me, I mastered the PUA art, dated a lot, got married (again), got divorced (again), then at the age of 50 I was doing fine with my PUA techniques and the I don't give a fuck attitude. And recently I have discovered The Red Pill and I can say that life has never been better. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 01:55 AM |
| 1 | BF doesn't want to get married ever and it is all my fault, is this salvageable?So, you have a boyfriend. You enjoy the relationship, and you enjoy him in your life. You enjoy what you have "as-is", so does he. Why do you need to change (marriage) if that's going to jeopardize what you have? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/14 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth trying to save? Or should I give up and start again?Maybe. Give more context like your age, her age, kid's age, financial situation and what's wrong. I've been married and divorced twice, I think it's worth rescuing the relationship until you see that it's no longer worth it. There are some good Red Pill resources for married men, from holding frame to Dread Game. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/14 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Keep your mouth shut - a word of warningFirst rule of The Red Pill: You don't talk about The Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/14 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How did you RP hs/college dropouts build SMV?If you're a college dropout you're in good company: Bill Gates and Steve Jobs for instance. A college Degree is often a one-way ticket to a dead end job, what are your passions and interests? You can get a line job in that field and slowly but surely build a business in that industry, nobody cares if an entrepreneur has a degree or not, and you don't have the handicap of unbearable student loans. Go for it! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 11:52 PM |
| 5 | what is with all the hate on TRP?TRP is a set of revolutionary ideas, therefore, just like any set of revolutionaries, we are a minority; a minority that goes against the grain of the status quo. Everyone who is outside this minority is invested in the status quo even if they are unhappy and it's the very same status quo that keep them unhappy. Morpheus: The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Are all single older woman fucked up?Actually back then I was still a Mr Nice Guy and while they were publicly looking for a husband, they were still riding the Cock Carousel in private with their own AF/FWB. I learned my lesson quickly and then I became the FWB on the side that they were getting their kinks satisfied while they were out there looking for a husband. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Are all single older woman fucked up?I started dating women who were either 10 years younger (early 20's), or 10 years older (early 40's). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Are all single older woman fucked up?That's simple: I was looking to ride the Pussy Carousel, they were looking for Husband's material. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 12:27 PM |
| 1 | What is your most important RP knowledge in one sentence?You have value, don't sell it short. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Are all single older woman fucked up?I got divorced when I was 32, after a 7 year marriage. So once I was out there in the dating scene, trying to day age-appropriate women 29-35 it was a nightmare! I experienced The Wall first hand and it was not pretty at all. So, are they all fucked up? Not all, but the vast majority of single women in their early 30's have quite a different worldview than single guys in their early 30's, and that's a fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Improving physical fitness, where to begin?/r/Fitness is a better resource for this, go there and read all the resources in the sidebar. That's a great start. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Should TRP be used on my x-partner as we share custody of my daughter?TRP is something you are, not something you do. Therefore the entire world will be affected by your new TRP behaviors, including your x-partner. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Healthy at every size. Newest Hamster site for women and men (fatties) to get together and be happy with how fat they are.Here's another "good" one: danceswithfat.wordpress.com DANCES WITH FAT Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness are not Size Dependent | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill means to cultivate your passions. Most guys wants to play guitar, this is a great resource to play guitar in as little as 10 hours. Bonus: women dig guitar players.When you say "Wanna play guitar? Do it because you WANT to on your own. Don't do it because women dig it. " you validate my point, TRP is not about pussy, it's about being a real man. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 10:11 AM |
| 11 | Is it ever too late for The Red Pill?On your deathbed in a convalescent hospital you could still game the nurse into a hand job. A blow job if you're really AF. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 03:36 AM |
| -2 | How should I treat a girl that wants to hook up with me?Let's say that you let her take a gulp out of you and feed her some proteins. What if she's crazy and think that you're now boyfriend and girlfriend, sand becomes the overly attached stalker, and publicly so? You will be the scumbag who took advantage of her, your SMV would go below zero with little chance of recovery unless you move across the country. oK I am exaggerating there a bit, but not much. So, the pros/cons analysis is: PRO: 1 sloppy bj. CONS: possibility of becoming scumbag JamesBond… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 12:37 AM |
| 4 | My Mother found out I've been looking at Red Pill philosophy.You're 25, it's none of her fucking business. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | A "hard" truth. Don't underestimate the Big Dick Factor.I second that. Also if you don't have an 8" don't underestimate the "Fuck her like she's never been fucked before" factor. See http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho for more info. It works! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill means to cultivate your passions. Most guys wants to play guitar, this is a great resource to play guitar in as little as 10 hours. Bonus: women dig guitar players.To me Red Pill is about living one's life, attracting women is a byproduct of TRP life, not the main goal,. If that's the one and only goal PUA might be a better approach. Following one's passion is the point, playing the guitar is one of my passion, and I find it very fulfilling and it does have the added bonus of adding points to anyone's game. Even Beta + guitar = Increased Probability of some type of deal. And playing guitar doesn't need to be expensive, you can pick up a decent acoustic on … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 10:02 PM |
| 3 | What did the Marquis de Sade mean when he said..He meant Dread Game. Watch the movie Quills inspired by his life http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0180073/ . Good movie, the dude had game! | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 09:07 PM |
| -1 | Red Pill means to cultivate your passions. Most guys wants to play guitar, this is a great resource to play guitar in as little as 10 hours. Bonus: women dig guitar players.Nobody can be sure of anything. Let's agree on something: playing the guitar has never hurt in opening or closing a deal. And it's fun too! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill means to cultivate your passions. Most guys wants to play guitar, this is a great resource to play guitar in as little as 10 hours. Bonus: women dig guitar players.I don't play for anyONE in particular, never! I do play at parties, or jamming with some friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill means to cultivate your passions. Most guys wants to play guitar, this is a great resource to play guitar in as little as 10 hours. Bonus: women dig guitar players.I am a very bad guitar player, and it surely helps my game, and I can say that in at least 3 occasions it was the determining factor in closing the deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 08:45 PM |
| 31 | What do RP men do on their free time?You need to define what free time really is. If by free time you mean time when you have nothing to do, well, isn't that a sad way to live your life when there are so many fun things out there that you could do, from having some fun with your plates, to jamming with your friends, working out, or even socialize. Then there's work too. Since you asked my time is filled: a demanding job with 50-60 hours a week, but at times as low as 20-30 hours a week spinning 2 plates volunteer for 2 organization… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The redpill Tinder profilerIt's Tinder, it's efficient. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill means to cultivate your passions. Most guys wants to play guitar, this is a great resource to play guitar in as little as 10 hours. Bonus: women dig guitar players.That's what The Red Pill is all about: your life on your own terms. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The redpill Tinder profilerYou don't want to cast a wide net, you want to be a sniper: you want those women who "get" your message, who are fit, and DTF. Advertise your intention with that 1 pic, and with appropriate message exchange, once you connect say "hi" as the first message, as second message say something like "your place or mine?". | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The redpill Tinder profilerYou should be hitting the gym by now, and be very fit if not ripped. So the perfect Tinder profile is 1 photo and 1 photo only of you bear chest at the beach, swimming pool, or doing something manly like chopping wood or lifting something heavy. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 07:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR breakup questionControl issues. Since she has her stuff there and her mail is still delivered there it gives her the excuse (in her mind it's the right) to stop by and check on you. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What's TRP take on paying for dinner?BB by definition always pick up the tab for dinner and other forms of entertainment because that's the meaning of the second B: bucks. I say that splitting dinner bill is the way to go. The occasional coffee here and there I'll pay for it. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 07:25 PM |
| 5 | "If you cheated, would you tell me?""You ask some dumb question sometimes.." is a great answer! | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Just dropped a plate and I feel like shit.Disrespected? RUN! At the same time keep on reading and practicing Red Pill stuff, you should have sensed that she was not a nice person, and/or you let the relationship foster out of control. Good for you on pressing the eject button, now go out there and spin some plates. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 03:29 PM |
| 2 | She offered to pay for dinner, should I let her?By all means YES! | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Message from plate: "Just letting you know my body is off limits "Brilliant idea! | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 02:33 PM |
| 12 | Message from plate: "Just letting you know my body is off limits "She doesn't want to be seen as a slut by her friends and family. Go as a friend, bring her some sexy panties as a present wrapped in something very innocent, tell her to open your present in private. Leave the party early because you have to go out with the boys. Text her at midnight or so asking her "How did you like my present?" | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 01:35 PM |
| 21 | How Oneitis will destroy a part of youShit! This is profound. Maybe he keeps those as a good reminder of some sort. Do you think you can ask him and ... report back? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 11:14 AM |
| 20 | TIL a Rhode Island woman attempted to sue her husband for slander after he called her a whore in a crowded restaurant. After being presented evidence, the judge officially ruled that the husband's statement was accurate. She then appealed to the Supreme Court, only to have that judge agree as well.She's now CERTIFIED in the court of Law. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Gods be praised. A WOMAN explains the current trend on why men are opting out of marriage.Here you go: https://archive.today/kkiGA "I am Helen Smith, forensic psychologist and author of the book "Men On Strike: Why Men are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood, and the American Dream--and Why It Matters." AMA!' Probably her best comment: "It is your one and only life and you have to think of your happiness, not just hers." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do women always try to, and find attractive, men they wanna "fix"?In a sound relationship the woman won't get sick / tired of the Alpha, quite the contrary. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 10:44 AM |
| 51 | Gods be praised. A WOMAN explains the current trend on why men are opting out of marriage.Great video, I wish she would do an AMA, it would be interesting. I bet she's a lurker in here. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/14 02:05 AM |
| 1 | last minute resistance?Best way to deal with Last Minute Resistance is to avoid it. How? Always escalate. Think of fist approach as point '0' on a scale, and penetration as point "100". You get from 0 to 100 one escalation at a time, approach, talk, flirt, light kino, heavier flirting, deeper kino, dirty talk.. each time you escalate she has to me ready and prime for escalation; if you don't generate enough attraction/interest she won't be ready to escalate, so don't escalate and focus on generating attraction/interes… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Speed Dating, any tips?Speed dating is a game made by women, for women. As a Red Pill man you should prevent your buddy to submit himself to that torture, and you should not waste our time either. The mindset of the women there will be to interview potential husbands aka BB(s), and since it's so public, they won't be keen on being seen as liking AF(s). You'll be wasting your time, and money, and if you ever meet any of those women in a more suitable setting like a bar or a club, your image will be tainted. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 12:18 AM |
| 9 | Why do women always try to, and find attractive, men they wanna "fix"?They don't even know themselves. And guys let it happen and they (we??) don't even know why we let it happen. It's a typical story, it has happened to me too. Buy muster enough mojo to be Alpha, he get girl who falls in love with the Alpha Bad Boy; after the initial wild sex and crazy period, usually 2-6 months, he relaxes, he's got the girl of his dreams (yes I put the blame on us first) and she relaxes as well, now she has a project to work on, to transform him into something that she can prou… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Not sure what to do/ if she's going to flake.By the third date you should already know her schedule and stuff, never propose a date/time without knowing whether there's a conflict with her work stuff. Now if the timeframe doesn't conflicts with her work, she's holding off on you just in case something better comes along. My guess is that those 2 dates didn't go as well as you think they went. Your attitude and frame of mind is that you don't ask her on a date, you tell her when your date is. Respond with "No it's not OK, my understanding w… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 07:27 PM |
| 11 | I want to be a Beta Male.By all means The Red Pill is not mandatory, enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Upgrading GirlfriendIt might happen, but it's not a rule. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Wife took guys phone number, then called me to tell me....She thinks of you as his girlfriend-wth-a-penis, like being friendzoned. Not good, regain your masculinity and set boundaries of acceptable behavior. Dread game works. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Is foreplay overrated?Foreplay as told by Cosmopolitan and other mainstream literature is garbage. This is what I like to do these days, especially with a new plate: I tell her what I am going to do to her, for instance: Once we get on the elevator I am going to finger you, no matter who's there, so position yourself in front of me, and as soon as we get into your apartment I am going to rip your clothes off and fuck you doggie style against the door, you'll be fully naked and I will be fully clothed, I will just unz… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 12:12 PM |
| 6 | I'm becoming the hamster and don't want toA few issues: Use Tinder for hookups, not date material Language "she said can we go out again". WTF is that? She's holding the cards and approve or not whether you're going out again? It doesn't matter whether she said that or not, I am not a linguist, but this shows your frame of mind. Out to dinner on a second date? By the overall tone I assume you paid for the dinner. In my book that's a no-no, is she going out with you for you or for a free meal? You will never know until you remove the fre… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 11:46 AM |
| 13 | LTRs have ended in my boredom in bed post-TRP?Coolidge effect: In biology and psychology, the Coolidge effect is a phenomenon seen in mammalian species whereby males (and to a lesser extent females) exhibit renewed sexual interest if introduced to new receptive sexual partners, even after refusing sex from prior but still available sexual partners. Origin of the term Behavioral endocrinologist Frank A. Beach first mentioned the term "Coolidge effect" in publication in 1955, crediting one of his students with suggesting the term at a psychol… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 11:34 AM |
| 3 | How I say "Fuck you, whore".What a story! I am curious why you want to play bb moron lifemate and string her along? Maybe the sex is that good, or maybe is your own way to seek revenge/closure; but there's a psychological cost associated with that, is that really worth it? I suggest a more RP/Dread approach: dump her cold blood, quickly and swiftly, with no or minimum explanation (it's self evident to us guys, it will not to the hamster), with no or minimum talk/discussion. This will put her in a dread state, you'll surely… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Twenty Unhappy YearsIf you really want to investigate and understand, look into co-dependent relationships or Stockholm syndrome. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Bikini photo as a profile picture... how to deal with this.You're insecure. You want to date a woman that when I see the two of you together I think You lucky dog!. She's beautiful? So no problem about showing it off a little, that's what FaceBook is all about. Behavior is a different story. Set boundaries with her about what's appropriate behavior and what's not. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 12:57 AM |
| 0 | I read in a post that your SMV value increases if you are a cop and a few other things , why?Tomorrow the sun will rise in NYVC at 6:18 AM and set at 7:36 PM/ Knowing why won't change the facts. Some, but not all, women dig uniforms, it's just the way it is. Got a uniform? Good, milk it, if you're in those type of women. You don't have a uniform? There's still plenty of other chcks who digs: guitar players, any band players, entrepreneurs, abs, ripped bodies.... and so on. Why? Who cares! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 12:50 AM |
| 1 | I need some advice. I am not a casanova like you guys so don't give me a hard time.You outlined your own solution: the more she ignores you, the more you want her. So, start ignoring her, and maybe, just maybe, she'll want you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 12:47 AM |
| 25 | Ho gets dumped by boyfriend of ~1 year for having too many previous sex partners; hamster seeks comfort from hamstersLife is a choice, it's not about judgment. These are the key point to me: "it was just harmless fun" Harmless to whom? I respect her right to ride the Cock Carousel, I also respect, and she should join me, in respecting her boyfriend's right to want nothing to do with that. "I went to his house to confront him". WTF? Say that again? confront him? Who do you think you are? Judge and Jury? The sense of entitlement is too damn high in this girl. She made choices, he makes his own choices; to each a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 12:32 AM |
| 2 | LOL: Beta nerds who invented anti-roofie nail polish criticized by feminists for contributing to rape culture.Fuck me right? Is this the onion or something? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 11:52 PM |
| 22 | RP on craigslist R&RRule #1: you don't talk about the Red Pill | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Should you allow male friends of your wife/partner to visit her for the weekend at your house while you are away?The standard Red Pill answer is: It's a question of boundaries, they need to be discussed clearly and unequivocally at the beginning of the relationship, what's acceptable and what's not. Personally none of my plates hangs out alone with any guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/14 06:12 PM |
| -4 | Gf uploaded slooty photos on fbDepends, different plates have different requirements. This might not longer be the main plate, but it could be a fun plate to spin late nights on a moment's notice. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Rewarding New PlateSex. She has the pleasure to be one of your plates, that's the intrinsic reward of having a high SMV (V = Value). If you really want to give her the gift that keeps on giving, read this: "How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho" https://archive.today/QOZrj | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Should we feel sorry for women?The have the same set of information as we do; and they make their own choices in life consciously and willingly. A cliché example: deciding to ride the Cock Carousel deciding to marry the beta buck, a nice guy, but she marries him for the wrong reasons deciding to ruin the marriage But wait! There's more. I see a lot of guys who are out there improving themselves physically, personally and culturally. They hit the gym regularly, they eat healthy and get good looking bodies; they develop a caree… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 01:47 AM |
| 11 | Gf uploaded slooty photos on fbYou must establish clear boundaries of what's appropriate and what's not. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 09:58 PM |
| 3 | The Death of RomanceBut they are not willing to reciprocate the exclusivity. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 09:09 PM |
| 7 | The Death of RomanceWomen think of Romance they mean what you can buy for them: dinner, flowers, trips, entertainment... It's sad. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 08:32 PM |
| 7 | How to make sure you're the alpha and not the beta she's using for validation and/or dinner?Stop paying for food. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 07:50 PM |
| 3 | About Orbiters and BBI read about it in this sub, the way I look at it TRP philosophy is about living your own life on your own term, good body thanks to hitting the gym and eating healthy, pursuing your career, pursuing your interests; it all translated in confidence and high SMV which leads to attracting females. According to TRP theory, female would rather share a high SMV than have none; and it's up to us to establish clear boundaries. That is my one and only boundary, exclusivity with me. It's working for me, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 07:36 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean when LTR says she needs more 'emotional support'?Part it's a shit test, part she needs more comfort like you said. That's why it's important to select plates that have a healthy social circle of girlfriends as well as family circle, so whenever she needs that special comfort she's got female figures in her family and friends that can provide that; otherwise she'll find it in orbiters or she'll try to squeeze it out of you. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 05:19 PM |
| 2 | About Orbiters and BBI don't like to put my D where someone else's D has been recently. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Been lurking, and I just watched myself ruin a relationship here's howVery common pattern, most guys in here have been guilty about it, including myself. Use Dread, but in moderation. She's now comfortable in the relationship, and in a way so are you; disrupt the equilibrium by introducing an element of uncertainty, you're not sure anymore, you need time, need time alone and such; tune it up or down in order to get the results that you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 03:07 PM |
| 1 | About Orbiters and BBI am spinning 2 plates at the moment, and they are both exclusive to me; they know about each other. And yes I do trust them. One is a main plate, the other one is the secondary plate. On and off I have some FB that I can call, or they call me, for some fun times, and I know they are free spirited. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 02:18 PM |
| 3 | How to handle paying for things while hanging out with a girl?Don't say stuff like "I turned her down by telling her I didn't like any of the food there". Tell her explicitly that you don't like those expensive restaurants because they are a waste of money; "but we can go to (moderate price restaurant), but we'll have to each pay our own way". | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 11:39 AM |
| 16 | How do I get out of this hole I dug myself into?Congratulations on your achievements: losing 40 kg and getting yourself a girlfriend. By reading your post I can tell you that a lot of us in here have been in a situation similar to yours at some point in time, I know I was with one girlfriend after I got divorced, I even moved in with her! Dude, she is manipulating you! She made you promise not to dump her without warnings, and that in case of problems you'll go to therapy and stuff? She thinks she's got you hooked for life. I don't know how o… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 11:36 AM |
| 1 | dealing with girls as an inexperienced guyTo summarize: you're 23, inexperienced, formerly depressed, and you have 2 prospects that you're woking on. What to do? Proceed with both of them, best case scenario they become 2 plates that you can spin. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 02:39 AM |
| 2 | QuestionHigh school? Small Town? Trashy girl? Go for it, get the experience, think of it as "Intro to sex 101: the basics". | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else finding it a bit hard to apply the red pill correctly? Or feel you are off track and losing your motivation?TRP is a set of behaviors that often goes against the present sets of behaviors, it takes time to change habits. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | When should you compliment women?Think Pavlov's dog / Classical conditioning, every time she does something that you approve, reinforce her conditioning with a compliment. Advanced game: make the compliment quality and quantity completely random, which means at times a simple Good Job or Thank you or That's what a good girl does at times just nothing. Never pay a compliment for something she has not earned by some action. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 12:15 AM |
| 0 | showing interest without the bluepill methods?A compliment is not a way to express interest. Try this "Just to be clear, I find you attractive enough to want to have sex with you, now the only variable is to see how interesting you are to gauge how good the sex would be and how long I would keep you", or something to that effects. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 12:12 AM |
| -1 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.You can use a pizza paddle to squat a fly too. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Tactical Photos.Read the resources on the sidebar, start with this one https://archive.today/mw0Gw | /r/askTRP | 24/08/14 11:54 PM |
| -1 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.TRP is geared toward men, but it's not about getting laid; hence it's not it's main/principal goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 11:52 PM |
| -13 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.You have the wrong sub. The Red Pill is about living your life to its fullest, the women thing is a byproduct of that, not main focus. Someone whose goal it is to have sex with as many women as possible is not a Red Pill candidate, /r/seduction is a sub mainly dedicated to such activity, and even there there's a small but important movement where pursuing women is not the main goal in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I admit it, I need help."I don't want to give up just yet" thus is wrong, very wrong. "...put a stop to her new behaviors" you can't do that! She has decided to go out there and ride the CC, and she's got a mentor and an ally, and plenty of AF guys willing to give her a good time, and BB orbiters willing to give her plenty of attentions. There's nothing you can do to prevent that. You can maintain frame, ignore her, and go out there spinning plates; best thing that can happens is that she'll be one of your plates, and … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/14 01:42 PM |
| 0 | "I don't really answer my phone...I really prefer texting"I prefer texting/emails over phone calls too. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/14 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Shit Tests increasing in newer LTR. Am I beta backsliding?This is something that a lot of us have gone through and still go through in our relationships. It is a phenomenon that is also documented outside TRP world: "she falls in love with him, but then she wants to change him". I know this happens unbeknown to her, and we (yes I have been there myself) somehow go along. It's not an overt process, but just like the death by a thousand paper cuts, an incremental process, a little at a time, very very slow, but one that inevitable leads to the guy becomi… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/14 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Tactical Photos....pictures of themselves with kids , fishing for likes? These guys are increasing their BB value. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/14 12:02 PM |
| 9 | How to deal with a guy that keeps flirting with my girlHe's not the problem, she is. You're not the solution, she is. She is the one than needs to take care of the situation. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/14 12:01 PM |
| 60 | How to react at night club when woman asks you to buy her a drink"Will you make me breakfast?" | /r/askTRP | 23/08/14 12:21 PM |
| 7 | Given the opportunity, she's going to cheatHank Moody says that as soon as a woman sees you, she puts you into one of 3 buckets: Marry him Kill him Fuck him How do you deal with the fact that these women see you as the provider and want to marry you, probably putting out the facade of the good girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/14 12:15 PM |
| 12 | Girlfriend makes me hang out with her family/friends constantlySTEP 1: Decide what you want STEP 2: Tell her STEP 3: Hold frame, stand by your decisions. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/14 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend wants to go to a Sex Toy Party. Not sure how I feel about this or how I should respond.I am assuming it's going to be all women there, if so tell her to go, encourage her. If there are going to be guys too, go with her. Then, take her to a sex shop, shop online for toys, then escalate to wild sex too. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/14 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Extreme hamsteringThat was hard to read, file under "WTF". This is the link https://archive.today/INc1q | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What it really means for men in LTR to swallow the red pillThinking and internalize something is good. Practicing it's even better. Practice practice practice every day, every hour, until it becomes second your nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 02:27 PM |
| 2 | hey guys theres a red pill post on askwomen. what should we do?Why do you waste your time looking through askwomen? I am sure you can find better use of your time! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Can a wife request marriage advice from gracious red pillers?Is he a Red Pill type of guy? I hope so. As far as you, from what I read you're doing fine, since you sound like you do a lot together just give him a bit more space here and there. Also, search for articles on How to give your boyfriend the porn star experience, and then surprise him, make sure that you preface your performance with something like "So I read this article today and I want to try something on you". A 3some FFM is alway a wonderful surprise. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I want to reject the red pill.Couples who today have been married for 50+ year are about 70+ year old; meaning they were born right around 1940's (before WWII), different times, different culture, different upbringing, not the same ballgame as today's culture. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 12:49 PM |
| 3 | I want to take the red pill.Where do you start? As cliche as it sounds, start with the man in the mirror. Hit the gym, start lifting, eat well (/r/Fitness helps a lot), develop your career, pursue your interests/hobbies. And yes, read everything on the sidebar and linked from the sidebar, read it twice and then a third time. That's a good beginning. And in case you have not noticed I have not mentioned women at all, TRP is not about women, it's about you living your own life on your own terms, attracting women is a byprodu… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 09:20 PM |
| 21 | Hypergamy is real - A story from this weekend: Alpha Fux / Beta BuxThe key here is to remember that Now All Women Are The Same. When you are in a relationship with a woman, establish boundaries of what's acceptable and what is not, don't try to force your boundaries into her, and vice-versa, be open and honest; is her personality doesn't match yours, decide accordingly whether she's going to be a main plate, a secondary plate, a peripheral plate or no plate at all. You can't change anyone, we are all free to live our own life on our own terms, and enjoy or suff… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 09:16 PM |
| 4 | How to get past the jealousy?Hypocrisy? Well, if that's what YOU want, you should get it, you are merely asking, and then make your decision accordingly. It's about "value", you've got it, use it accordingly. I am in my early 50's and in line with RP strategy my "value" is at its peak, while the women that I date in their early 40's and late 30's have lower value than me, so I leverage it. I could not do that when I was in my 20's, now it's my turn. It's that simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 09:09 PM |
| 30 | I want to reject the red pill.My point is that he can Beta his way through a relationship, yet it will degenerate with time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill your way out of the Doghouse?The Doghouse is for her, not for you. She's playing you the BluePill game. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 03:28 PM |
| 4 | How to get past the jealousy?Set boundaries, while I am spinning 2 plates and they know I am spinning plates, they are exclusive with me. I do have a few minor plates that I spin here and there for fun and I know that they are not exclusive with me, and that's OK with me, yet I don't ask details. Jealousy is a form of insecurity, if you're going to spin plates for the sake of spinning plates, there's a chance that they might spinning plates as well, either turn up your Alpha Game a notch or two, or if you don't have the sto… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 03:23 PM |
| 10 | Men who are great RedPill examples so I can study them?Mad Men's Don Draper and Californication's Hank Moody, | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 03:18 PM |
| 64 | I want to reject the red pill.You can have it. You can find her. You WILL find her. And it will be wonderful, and it will last quite a while, anywhere from 6-7 months to 6-7 years; then inevitably, she will either leave you or you'll grow apart, or she'll do something to make you leave; and that's if you're lucky, worst case scenario . . . you know. So, if you are willing to have a series of long term relationships in your life that will start absolutely great, then settle for middle of the road, only to end sourly in a way … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 03:15 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with your Ex-GFs?You're asking the question in this sub, but you already know the answer: go radio silent, continue to work on yourself, continue the healing process of being hurt by her cheating on you. Point #3 is crucial here, continuing to be exposed to her will delay healing and worsen the pain in the long run. Go out there and start spinning some plates. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/14 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Dread Game vs ToxicityInteresting point. I guess the answer is going back to the basis of what dating is all about, discovering someone who is compatible and like-minded. In an ideal world we would find people who are just as amazing as we are, committed to a happy life. And this is where it gets sad, from my experience I see a lot of guys who are committed to better themselves, better their lives, better their career, building an interesting life; while I don't see that many good looking women who have the same leve… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Unbelievable. Banned from r/offmychest for stating a respectful, moderate opinion justifying RedPillI saw the exchange, and yes TRP thinks you're wrong since "The first rule of TRP is you don't talk about TRP to those still plugged into the system." | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 06:01 AM |
| 16 | So I made a short list of some of the times I probably could have gotten laid and didn't realize it because I thought "Woman aren't like that." Learn from my mistakes and feel free to share your own!It was a tiny apartment in NYC, she was naked a few feet from me, and I was pretending to be sophisticated enough to be interested in her books. Fuck I was an AFC+beta! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 09:22 PM |
| 24 | So I made a short list of some of the times I probably could have gotten laid and didn't realize it because I thought "Woman aren't like that." Learn from my mistakes and feel free to share your own!Good list, I was laughing because.... I've been there. I will add my own: Date with MILF, after dinner we go back to her place, I look through her bookshelf and compliment her on her choice of books, I even pull out a couple and start reading them. She says she needs a shower to freshen up, I say "Sure, I have reading material". She shower we hang out for something like 1 hour, I don't make any move whatsoever (shy/AFC) and then we go out again. Dumbass me! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Role ModelsMad Men's Don Draper Californication's Hank Moody They are both fictional characters but what better role models to tickle women's fantasy? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage always a bad idea?Having been married twice I can say that marriage is good as long as things are good. Once things are starting to deteriorate, it really sucks. My situation is somewhat not typical since: no kids first divorce we didn't have any money, no assets, and no debt second divorce we had a prenupt in place which protected her family assets more than anything else. Of course I am in my early 50's and I am not foreseen getting married again. If I were in my 20's and 30's I still would not have kids, a per… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you notice any of your plates gaining weight while you're spinning them?When they feel comfortable in a relationship that they no longer have to try hard(er) to look at their best. It's sad. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay in the eyes of TRP for the "alpha" guy to have sex with lot of women while women who do the same are automaticly classified as cumbuckets/sluts?The point is not name calling actually let's keep the name calling aside. The purpose of TRP is to offer an accurate perspective on reality and to level the playing field for guys, so that if they decide to ride the pussy carousel (aka spinning plates) they have the chance to do. And just like many women are looking for a BB/provider in the long run, a guy can opt to find a unicorn or a low-count woman for a long term relationship. The term slut referring to either male or female should be eradi… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Contradiction in TRPYou're correct, there's no ideal wife, so don't get married. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Where are women?So what? How many women do you need? 3? 4 or 5? 6? Look around, I am sure you see 6 good looking plates that you can spin. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 11:50 AM |
| 1 | I've been texting with this girl as a semi-betaTRP teaches you that guys fall within one of two categories: Alphas who fuck (AF) Betas who buck (BB) So this girl told you she's interested in a relationship with you (read BB) and at the same time she's willing to get some NSA sex with handsome hockey player (read AF). That is called reality, the reality that TRP outlines so eloquently and succinctly. Now you know how things work, it's up to you to make your choices and how to live your life. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What are your hobbies?Physical fitness: home gym and nutrition. And it shows. Running, I belong to a runners' club and do 5K on a regular basis Moutain bike I play guitar. I am not a good player, but it gives me satisfaction and people love it. A few more minor interests. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 02:43 AM |
| 1 | alphas/TRP in tv shows...modern family?Mad Men: Don Draper and Roger Sterling are great examples of Red Pill. Most everyone else is Beta. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to thank a plate for being obedient?Yes, use Classical Conditioning (think Pavlov's dog) to reinforce positive behavior. When she does something that you deem good, don't say "thank you" but instead compliment her explicitly on the behavior "That's what a good girl does" and so so. Advance Game: don't do it every time, randomly do not compliment her nor thank her. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical: You are single and in your late 20s early 30s. Your making half a mil/year. You own your own condo, drive a luxury car, material possessions are no longer a 'want'. Family is pressuring you to get married but you are inexperienced and want to experiment. What would you do?I stopped listening to my family when I moved out at age 18. And I was dirt poor. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | does it get easier in your 30s?I am 50, and I can tell you that each decade got better and better, I started as an AFC, progressed to accomplished PUA, and now that I found TRP I am having the time of my life. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 02:27 AM |
| 3 | When was the peak of your sex life?Outside, of course! ;-) | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Number of PlatesOne main plate, one secondary plate. Then there are a handful of girls that I can always call. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 01:21 AM |
| 6 | When was the peak of your sex life?I am 52: this year is my best year. The second best was last year. The third best, was the year before that. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 12:49 AM |
| 3 | GF has a lot of orbitersSet boundaries: if that bothers you tell her so. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 07:37 PM |
| 18 | How should you interact with a feminist at work?Just don't. She represents the majority and status quo, as a RP you represent a minority. Don't take the bait, avoid to get into conversations about gender roles, and if you're called upon just state "I don't believe it's an appropriate topic of conversation for the workplace", maintain frame and move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 07:34 PM |
| 1 | FlowersThe Red Pill divides guys into 2 categories: AF and BB. You decide where you want to be, AF or BB, with your behavior. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:29 PM |
| 1 | TRP, how do you get over the best sex of your life?Most women will be obedient with an AF. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Wife came in and just said "I'm going out."She's playing the Dread Game on you. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Question about TinderThis is working for me: Your main pic should be of you at the beach, or working out, showing off your toned body. If you don't have a toned body, go hit the gym. There's a reason TRP advocates hitting the gym as the first step after swallowing the Red Pill Once you have a match, get sexually right away: "Why haven't we had sex yet?" or "How about drinks tonight, my place or yours?" or similar messages. Do not break frame If getting resistance just say "It's Tinder, this is why we are here." | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over ex-wife - don't know what else I can do!Go out there spinning plates, the more plates you spin, the less you'll think about other stuff. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Marriage shit test-- what do?"It's a movie, it's not reality. It's shit like this that ruins relationships by setting unreasonable expectations that have no value. It's life's porn, high show value, but not much use" | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Need help applying what I've learned, I don't know how to go forward.It's simple: Red Pill is about you, and about you living your own life on your own terms. Step 1: join a gym and start lifting. Eat a high protein healthy diet, check /r/Fitness sidebar for guidelines if needed Step 2: focus on developing your career Step 3: focus on cultivating your interests/hobbies That's a good start. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | TRP, how do you get over the best sex of your life?Actually the best sex of your life depends on you, not on her. Read The Sex God Method (book) and How to turn your girlfriend in to a nympho (article); and you'll realize that you are the one giving them the best sex of their lives, a very pleasant endeavor, and with more experience, the sex gets better for you and for your plates as well. So, the best sex of your life is actually your next plate, and then the plate after that, and so on and on. Go get her tiger! | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:54 PM |
| 0 | response to plate flaking/being busyYou have failed to generate enough attraction at least with this plate. Generate enough attraction and they'll drop other commitments to be with you. Don't reschedule. Next her. Work on increase your Value and your Game. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Intense Anger at Ex-Gf Hamster?Keep telling yourself that she's dead to you. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:37 PM |
| 2 | My storyShe's trying to manipulate you through guilt. Move out at once. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend texting work colleague. What do?Set boundaries: what is acceptable to you and what is not. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:22 PM |
| 2 | We were brainwashed from childhood.If you look too good you might be getting attention as provider (BB). Yes to being fit-to-ripped, but try not to be too perfect: ripped jeans & unkept beard are just the beginning; you know, the bad boy AF type of guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Life changing books?No More Mr Nice Guy Sex God Method | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Besides Physical fitness what does a typical TRP Man look like?He looks like someone who knows what he wants and what he likes, and works hard to go get those things. Everything else follows. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm currently spining 3 plates and yet still have an "oneiti"It happens, part is due to the fact that we all want what we can't have. Avid her, spin more plates. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Scientific study that best proves Red Pill theory?What you're looking for is a guarantee, but guess what? Welcome to life, there are no guarantees. Take a look at your life, your life is the product of your actions, how's that working out for you? Do you want more? Continue doing what you are doing. Do you want something different? Try something different. Is The Red Pill the right tool for you? Only you have the answer to that question. Read the resources on the sidebar, does it make sense? Does it resonate with you? If it doesn't do not waste… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Hey Guys i need some tips for my self improvementDevelop your interests/hobbies. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:56 AM |
| 1 | What's your opening line? I seem to have no luck with girls online. In person it's no problem. But on Tinder or something, how do you really get a girl's attention?No canned lines, it all depends on the context: place, time, what's happening, etc... Anchor the opening line to something particular to the time and place, and it sounds like a normal conversation and not a pick up line. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls act interested, then reject you, but still act interested?Think of it this way: you like sex, you pay attentions to her in order to get sex. They like attentions, they will use sex in order to get attentions. Use this to your advantage, withhold attentions, she'll push the boundaries all the way to have sex with you in order to get attentions. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I make an old friend see my differently than what she remembers me by?Ignore her, do your own thing. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop yourself from becoming beta?You become Alpha. The transformation from Beta to Alpha takes time, keep on going, notice when you fall back on old Beta habits, and practice new Alpha habits. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Need Your adviseAny time someone's questions starts with "there is a girl.." TRP standard answer is the same: "Next her and go out there and start spinning some plates." | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 01:47 AM |
| 45 | Why aren't there any "success stories" on /r/thebluepill?There are plenty of success stories on /r/TheBluePill, just none of the guys are the winners. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "Sorry I'm not good enough for you" shit test text after telling wife I'd like to start getting blow jobs.Dread works well, very very well. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Should I break up with my gf of 4 years?We have all been there. It's hard to see clear when one is so close to the relationship and so involved emotionally. While a bit brutal at times, this sub provides you with a clear view of what is reality. There's a good Red Pill article "Men are the True Romantics", you can google it and read it. Good stuff! | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 08:11 PM |
| -1 | How to respond to "Sorry I'm not good enough for you" shit test text after telling wife I'd like to start getting blow jobs."I know, you're my charity case" | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Possible divorceDon't tell her that you've cheated Get a lawyer Get it over with. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Should I break up with my gf of 4 years?You have value She's no unique, there are thousands of girls better than her Next her and go out there and get spinning a few plates. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 06:49 PM |
| 19 | Divorcee's of TRP, any advice for those about to file?She has all the good intentions now, soon her family & female friends will poison her mind and she'll get greedy and try to divorce-rape you. Prepare for the worst and wish for the best. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/14 04:43 PM |
| -1 | Boyhood (2014): TRP Movie RecomendationInteresting tip, I am going to see it this afternoon with my main plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Question for the "Elders"I've been married twice and if you have second thoughts about her beauty with time you'll see hotter women and wondering if you've settle for less than you deserve. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I have awakened, but I need your help...TV shows: none Movies: The Fight Club. Read all the resources on the sidebar, and the list of recommended books (The Rational Male, No More Mr. Nice Guy). Continue reading this sub, and remember that TRP is about you and living your own life on your own terms, it's not about picking up women (that's PUA). | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP handle pressure for a man to get married before 30?It's very simple: Live your own life on your own terms. If you don't want to get married, don't!. No matter how much pressure you get from whomever. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I really would like to know if anyone on here is actually optimistic for our future as America?There's the future of America, and there's my own personal future. I have no control whatsoever about the future of America, I do have 99% control over my own future (the remainder 1% is randomness), and I am confident that no matter what my future is bright and aligned with my wants and needs, discovering TRP helped in my mission. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Most people (including family) don't want you to swallow TRPBlue Pill is the de-facto Status Quo, whether we like it or not. Everyone involved in the Status Quo has a vested interest in maintaining the Status Quo, and they will defend it to their death. Red Pill is a revolutionary minority, but seek personal satisfaction being your very best for your own good. As a revolutionary minority: do not seek popularity do not seek to recruit anyone do not seek to rescue anyone Live your life, be yourself, enjoy Red Pill living as it is, a minority/elite, and its… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Another post how men are perceived as constantly sexually harassing women.Since you asked "How would you respond to this.", it's pretty simple: unfriend her from your FB. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 12:46 PM |
| 4 | Refusing the "Gift"In TRP parlance, a shit-test is emotionally manipulative behavior, and we are shit-tested constantly - not only by the romantically interesting women in our lives, but by almost everyone we meet. Most people don’t realize what they are doing; they are simply using learned behavior that has often yielded results. So why is this learned behavior so effective? This is something that I've been thinking for quite a while. I see people ShitTest-ing everywhere in Business, employees to bosses, customer… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 02:16 PM |
| -1 | Increased sexual interest from Women after bulking-up/muscles?Yes. My name is Leo and I approve this message. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag when my SO wants to accept an offer from another man who i've never met to go to the gym with him?Have you established boundaries? Is this sort of behavior withing the established boundaries? My guess is no and no. Remedy ASAP. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/14 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How could I handle this former plate with out looking needy?If there's one cardinal difference between BP and RP is that Rp looks are reality, draws conclusions, and acts accordingly. BP ignores reality, believes in fairy tales and hear say, and hope that everything will work itself out and everyone will live happily ever after. She just showed you her true colors, she not only used you, but also fooled you, leveraging friendship. She has wronged you, cut your losses short and erase her from the people you know, you're better off without her than with he… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/14 02:00 AM |
| 9 | Girl wants a cuddly fuckbuddy - I want her to fall in loveThis is the wrong sub to ask questions like "Guys, please give me some advice on how to make her fall for me!", for those questions you go to /r/relationships or similar. TRP tells you to treat her like a plate and to get busy spinning at least 2 more plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Former nice guy took the red pill after breaking up with a cheaterExperience is a tough teacher, but the best teacher nonetheless. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Former nice guy took the red pill after breaking up with a cheaterWelcome to the club, you're in good company. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Confessions of a Nice Guy turned Player turned Nice Guy back to Player againI can relate to that. TRP is good, but it's an effort, doesn't come natural no matter how much sense it makes. Life goes on, one pill at a time. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Looking for the best ways to frame the following discussion with wife.No kids, no regrets. Have kids only if you really want kids, not because everyone else is having kids or tells you to. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Looking for the best ways to frame the following discussion with wife.My 2 marriages didn't work for me. The fact that I was BP didn't help for sure. Marriage is a personal choice, each one of us has to make our own mind about it, I have no regrets about getting married, and I have no regrets about getting divorced either. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Looking for the best ways to frame the following discussion with wife.After wife #1 I dated, and dated A LOT. Then got married again, then got divorced again. Regrets? None whatsoever. Well, maybe I should have divorced wife #1 earlier, but I was young and stupid. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you take sex out of TRP?If you do the Red Pill right, your efforts will be concentrated on yourself: getting fit and healthy developing your dream career enjoying your hobbies and passions. Plates will gravitate naturally towards you, your only efforts would be selection and management, RP style. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Friend's Girlfriend - Still facebook single after months?She either has her eyes on someone else, or there's someone else already, possibly a married man. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Had an argument with the wife. Was I being shit-tested? How could I have handled this.You're the Chef. Chefs have only one answer to people intruding into their kitchen while they are cooking: FUCK OFF! No matter what you are doing, cooking or other work, if you are the one doing it, unless it's your boss and you're getting psid, everyone else should go FUCK OFF. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to hang out, but doesn't want to meet halfway.It's a test. It's a test to determine the tone of the relationship going forward. Give in and you know what's coming ahead. Who do you want to be in control of the relationship? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Looking for the best ways to frame the following discussion with wife.In my early 30 I was in a similar situation, she was working, but all dead-end jobs that she picked because they were either easy or fun. I was working multiple jobs and going to school. And it was also sexless. After years of trying to work things out, I opted for a divorce, it was tough, it was relatively expensive, but well worth it. 20 years later my financial situation is much better and the cost of that divorce is one of the best bargains in my life. Ask yourself: Is this going to get any … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Question about TRP theoryThere are 2 key points: The disparity in numbers, whereas a minority of guys gets to have sex with the majority of girls during the cock carousel. Personally I believe in the 80/20 rule The same Alpha Fucks that rode the cock carousel, once it's time to get into a LTR or married, they pick a pretty woman with low cock count. Tu put into math terms: Pre-wall: 20% of guys (AF) will sleep multiple times with 80% of the girls (cock carousel) Post-wall: that 20% of guys (AF) will now get into LTR wit… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 04:25 PM |
| 0 | SO childishly tells me something is wrong but won't tell me what.Since you asked not to tell you to next her, I am not going to say. I am going to tell you that your SO likes to play mind games, that's how she gets her kicks. It's the way she is and there's not much you can do to change her. You could try Dread Game so that her mind is occupied and preoccupied to play stupid games. As part of the Dread Game, whenever she say something like "you won't believe what happened to me.." Interrupt her with "I don't give a flying fuck". | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 04:16 PM |
| 5 | TRP, you've all helped me understand the nature of women, but now that I understand, I'm not really interested anymore...I share some of your feeling. The Rep Pill does offer a solution, and it is The Red Pill itself. TRP main goal, after showing you reality "as is", is for you to live your life at its best on your own terms. Be healthy/fit, and develop your own career aligned to your dreams. Do that, and you fulfill TRP's philosophy. As far as women, that is a byproduct of doing the above, by way of spinning plates. Do so and you'll have the best possible situation for yourself given the circumstances. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else unable to read other parts of Reddit and other forums anymoreThe Blue Pill is a programmed reality. It has same basic rules, rules like hypergamy, cognitive dissonance, and rationalization hamster. What you must learn is that these rules are no different that the rules of a computer system. Some of them can be bent. Others can be broken. All to your advantage. Understand? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Understanding What Sluts Are And Why To Avoid ThemGood post. I would add that at times sluts need some niceness, and they find it in dating Beta Bucks, either in parallel to Alpha Fucks on in series. You can see the pattern from your circle of friends, the one who dates the Alpha jerk then alternates dating the Mr Nice Guy for a while, only to dump him and date another Alpha Jerk, and the cycle continues. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 10:54 AM |
| 16 | "I want to wait"From personal experience: she probably has a FWB on the side, who relieves the pressure of sex, so that she can date and say "I want to wait" (for sex). For the record: I was the FWB. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Thought I'd have some fun and try an experiment with some womenIf you're having fun with POF, you should try Tinder. Have fun! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What strategy can you use to get an ex-girlfriend back?TRP is not the appropriate sub for such a question, TRP would advise to: NEXT her if she ever some back on her own, evaluate whether to enlist her as one of your multiple (3+) plates. If you don't like those options there are other subs that are more than eager to give you advice, will that work? YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/14 12:29 AM |
| 8 | Who are classic real life Dark Triad role models?Actually Machiavelli per se was not Dark nor Evil, only misunderstood by today's highly edited perception. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=664thVARTQo | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I use TRP to fix my parents' marriage?Try this: send the book "The Rational Male" to your dad, anonymously. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | When are you just flat out Insulting women.It starts with her shit test; you just A&A. If she can't handle it, she should not dish it out! | /r/askTRP | 01/08/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.You my friend are a true modern philosopher! Nice username too! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Your input would be appreciatedIs what you're doing working? If YES: don't change. ELSE: change. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/14 02:53 AM |
| 7 | "I'm sad you stopped wanting to see me"It happened to me, this is what I did "I've changed, things are different. Sex is all I can offer you, if you're up to it". In my case it worked for a while, not that well, and now, it's not working anymore, she's playing games with me, and I play games back at her. Try, but be honest with her. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.Good question: Career: I have my own very small company, creative company, creative business, in a creative field (product company, not services). I left a lucrative 6-figure safe job to pursue this, that was at the end of marriage #2. My free-lifestyle of living is a big attraction to women, they can see me living my own life, doing what I have passion, for, not a drone-like job, I don't have a M-F 9-5 schedule, but I do put 60+ hours a week into my business. Income: my income is laughable comp… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why is machiavellanism attractive?It's not so much that it's attractive it's a question that it works. In a way it's in the same category as oneitis, most of us have been there, there's a girl who could not care less about us, and we can't get her off our mind; she's out there dating/sleeping with jerks, crying on our shoulder that she can't find a nice guy like you, but not you, uses us, and still . . . Dark Triad works, it just does. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 02:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.I got divorced to the love of my life when I was 32. At 35 I married a drop dead gorgeous unicorn 25 yo babe. 15 years later we got divorced (my bad, I was too BP. I take the majority, but not all of the responsibility). Today at age 53 I have: main plate age 42 with a body of a 20-something secondary plate, age 39, incredible sexy and smart this 22 yo a few orbiters that I can call here and there, honestly I have lost count of how many.. more than 3, less then 10. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 01:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.taking your balls back is a life long process True. I can vouch for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 01:36 AM |
| 1 | "Still kinda involved with ex bf, but we are on and off"She's got a AF she's looking for AB(s). Did you pay for her drink(s)? | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 08:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.Yup! It's real. Hit the gym, apply what you read, take chances. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 08:04 PM |
| -4 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.Yes and I twitted https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | push and pull with a long term plate?Crumbs is ok, but they should be more explicits: test het at 11 PM: wanna hang out? Monday at 5 PM: drinks at my place? And similar, offer opportunities and make sure you get your dick wet. If you don't get your duck wet, she's not a plate, next her. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Woman caught in a lie, and now she's getting defensive and angry.Call her bullshit! | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How can you stand out in a city with far more men than women?It's not the quantity of guys out there, it's the quality about what you have to offer; you can think of it as your relative ranking. Let me explain by testing for extremes. 2 guys out there where you are, one ranks #1, the other ranks last one of the last. No matter the ration of girls to guys, the guy ranked #1 will always get some pussy. And the guy ranked last won't get any because nobody wants to be associated with the bottom of the barrel, no matter how desperate they are. So, now unless a… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 07:16 PM |
| 24 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.If it wasn't me it would have been someone else. I am not out there on a crusade to change the world, I can't. I tried that ad nauseum during my AFC/BP days. What I can do is to see Reality for what it is, and then behave accordingly maximizing my own satisfaction. That's what The Red Pill does, it makes you see Reality for what it is. If you want to see what's convenient in spite of what's true, plenty of Blue Pills available. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TO-LFVHpA4s | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women suffer from oneitisI was thinking about that, in a way a man's oneitis is the equivalent of a a when a man pulls the Dread Game on a woman. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 06:08 PM |
| -1 | my wife has noticed the change and sakes what's wrong. Also, starts mentioning a Beta guy at work a lot.Step 1: Pull the Dread Game full blast, be relentless. Step 2: Report here. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 06:06 PM |
| 4 | LTR -wife keeps mentioning a new guy at work. How do I respond?Set clear boundaries of what's acceptable and what's not acceptable to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 12:50 PM |
| -1 | Guy new to TRP wants to no strings hookup with ex for a whileOut of the Blue I am sure. Within the right context, it's very feasible. P.S.: Nice breasts! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 11:31 AM |
| 2 | redpill way of accepting and moving on from relationship failure?There's a RP article out there that says that Men are the true Romantics. I do believe so. TRP is a strategy for Men, and at it's basic core it dictates that we all concentrate first on developing our own life: be fit, be healthy, develop a good career, pursue our own interests. Relationship with women are a byproduct of living your own life, and TRP pragmatically points out that *"Living Happily Ever After" is a fairy tale that doesn't happen (Evidence-based statement). So, with that in mind, e… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Guy new to TRP wants to no strings hookup with ex for a whileI've been there, it might work in the very short term, but then she has a mindset about you the way you were, very hard to change that mindset in such a short period of time. Why are you going to the movies? For starter it's a BP activity, second at the movies you don't have the opportunity to talk. Unless you're planning and truly believe you can be successful at getting frisky with her at the movies, a RP move; I'd say opt for something else, like drinks and a movie at your place, where the mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 11:19 AM |
| 24 | Plenty of Fish Out There - Not the website, the analogyIt gets better with the 80/20 rule. Most guys out there have no game whatsoever, so if you're pat of the 20% who's got some game and who's somewhat fit (go hit the gym), you've got 80% of the pussy population to choose from. Now, if you got no game and you're out of shape.. GOOD NEWS! both can be remedied, keep on reading and practicing TRP and go hit the gym! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm 31, how do I get college girls?And.. good for business too. It doesn't need to be a conference, just a 1-hour talk about how the college helped you with your business and how it influenced to remain in the community... no need to fabricate anything, just the genuine truth. Everyone needs some inspirational story, from REAL people. Everything else.... it's the cherry on the pie. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/14 03:28 PM |
| 2 | I'm 31, how do I get college girls?Give talks about your business, your industry, developing a career. Do this as part of the local Chamber of Commerce, Industry Association, and ask the college to host it, they'll do it for free and promote it to the students. If you are not comfortable with public speaking: Toastmasters! | /r/askTRP | 30/07/14 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Friend is going to burn his marriage to the ground being so beta. How do I save him?There's nothing you can do, except lead by example, but probably it won't help much. Rule #1 of the Red Pill: You don't talk about the Red Pill. The Red Pill has no evangelist nor rescuers, stop talking about TRP and start being a Red Pill Man. It's a quest. One has to arrive here by way of a journey through the jungle of misinformation and bullshit. Only those determined to seek answers to their dilemmas will eventually land here, after many false turns. If they are like me they will be repelle… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/14 11:49 AM |
| 2 | The most cruel paradox of manhood.Q2.: "How do I salvage a situation like this? What do I do now?" A.: You don't. Not this instance, let it go, see Q1 below. Q1.: "how do avoid this? I'm unbelievably anxious ..." A.: You know the problem, anxiety, which is stress due to insecurities. You cure that by developing confidence, and that's a long and arduous process. TRP helps a little, but you have to find your own way and your own path, keep on reading, keep on working on yourself. A good start is to start lifting, hit the gym, and … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/14 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Need encouragement as I get into the lifting/red pill lifestyle./r/Fitness is a better sub for scope/techniques motivation: this is the crucial point, hang out on /r/Fitness and related subs (there are a few about before/after, results, progress pics etc...) and get inspired by people's stories. I can tell you what worked for me: Looking at myself in the mirror after my morning shower, and then in my bedroom as I get dressed. When I started I was skinny-fat and I surely didn't like what I saw, and I kept telling myself that working out and proper nutrition w… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/14 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Can spinning plates or even LTR provide a lasting kind of satisfaction?I hear you, the problem with making a list is #1 Time, #2 Privacy. I looked at /r/sex and /r/bdsm for ideas as well on wikipedia under "fetishes". Our play times consist of: toys, thanks to Amazon.com, Home Depot, and the grocery store Intermediate level BDSM, while there's a lot of crap on /r/bdsm there are a few resources very useful, Role Play Sex in public places, the ideas is NOT to get caught combination of 2 or more of the above. I can tell you that the greatest difference was my personal… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 10:54 AM |
| 3 | How many partners has your girlfriend had? The theory presented by the author of increased cynicism with increased number of sexual partners is fascinating, albeit untested in a scientific setting. Based on personal experience it seems to hold water.The most interesting part is hidden in the 20+ Partners: Confident / Self-Assured the last bullet point "Sex and love are totally separate and one doesn't need the other" In this time and age is not rare to find a woman in this category, and for the clueless BP it can be confusing, but truly she makes no connection between sex and love, sex becomes more like a physiological need to be satisfied, no emotional attachment needed. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Any autobiographies or biographies of men that are good red pill examples?Virtually everyone who has a biography written about them is a Red Pill. Steve Job is a good one, now also in movie version. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 03:06 AM |
| 1 | OUR Double StandardFind your own way, but the classic dinner date where the guy pays for everything is a bad start. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Astonishing example of hypergamy in my familyThis would make a very good book, with movie rights. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Re: facial hair and stubbleDo your own experiment. All my life I wanted to grow a beard, and at times I did, looking at the mirror I never looked good, and people went out of their way to tell me so. HOWEVER, I scored more quantity and quality women when I had a beard, than when I didn't. Data never lies. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Can spinning plates or even LTR provide a lasting kind of satisfaction?I can relate to that, I've hooked up with 3 20-something recently and it was a nice high (I'm 50+). One thing I am trying to do with both of my plates, is to come up with new games every week, from new toys, to role play, to sex in public places without getting caught; often we brainstorm whole having sex, and the planning often goes into fantasyland, and since it's just fantasy, we can go really really wild, since we understand the difference between fantasizing and making it real. Nonetheless … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 06:35 PM |
| 4 | why do women want "nice guys" after douches have dumped them?This is really good writing! Non-fiction writing! I liked it all the way to "you will still likely be trying to shame men for being the very things you encouraged in your 20's," then I LOVED it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Can spinning plates or even LTR provide a lasting kind of satisfaction?Good post. This is something that I'm struggling with right now. I'm spinning plates, 1 main, 1 secondary, and a few random things going on. I should be happy, shouldn't it? But I have some of the same feelings that you have, I could be fucking one of my plates, having her tied up and spanking her as she squirts and has her 10th orgasm of the session (nope, I am not making this stuff up), sure it's exciting the first time, and the second, but then at the Nth time, it's business as usual. I feel … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Help me figure out what happened? Girl came over and bailedI've done the same mistake before, a couple of time. Look at it from HER point of view: it was all an escalation, it too her some courage and a leap of faith to travel all the way to you, get into your apartment, and then into your room. The indications were clear enough! Once she entered your room, she had done enough, it was your turn to take over and do what she had come there to do. As soon as the door closed, or even a second pr two before, you should have grabbed her, push her back against… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a shit test is repeated?"It's against my religion" (A&A) | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this failed attemptYou're asking the wrong question, in essence this is your question: "I fucked up, how do I change history/what happened and fix it going forward, changing the impression she now has of me?". To which there's only one answer: it's not possible. The Red Pill is a Philosophy, a set of guiding principles to navigate the intricacies of life, including - but not limited to - interaction with other people including females that you are interested in. This is not PUA. What's done is done, you can't undo… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Is going down on a girl a lot beta?Obviously [NSFW] During my pre-Red Pill days I was proud of my oral skills, I was able to get a woman off just by going down on her. But of course, rarely I would meet someone who would do the same to me. Even before coming across TRP I realized that it was not good, or at least didn't work for me in the long run. Women want to be dominated even during sex, so I switched from "making love with the occasional rough fucking episode" to "fucking her, and fucking her hard, with the occasional lovema… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl likes me but still has feelings for her ex. Now she says she is over him. What do I do?I don't really want to date this girl, but I want to be there as a friend for her. That's Blue Pill behavior, it doesn't belong here. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Just got banned from r/blackfellas for suggesting they (black men) might fit in well in r/theredpill. Do most black men reject the red pill? Why?Rule #1 of the Red Pill: You don't talk about the Red Pill. The Red Pill has no evangelist, stop talking about TRP and start being a Red Pill Man. It's a quest. One has to arrive here by way of a journey through the jungle of misinformation and bullshit. Only those determined to seek answers to their dilemmas will eventually land here, after many false turns. If they are like me they will be repelled by what they see because the truth, the raw truth hurts, but then after more side journeys they … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 11:19 AM |
| 0 | An incredibly fucked up situation. You can't make this shit up.She's dead to me ought to be your mantra. As far as your friend, he's either not your friend, or he's very BP. Probably both. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone know a woman who is NOT insane?It's complicated. I respect her too much to treat her like a plate, and she would not go for it either; and I don't want to go back to married life. I need to do my own thing, spinning plates, traveling as I wish, playing my guitar. You can say that I am on the PC (Pussy Carousel), just like a woman in her 20's, I need to get this out of me. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Why does the idea of men getting laid with hot women overseas make a lot of people so angry?Who cares? Go get some! | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with distractions - techniquesLet me offer a different point of view. Imagine you're - like you say - wasting your time, and then the phone ring, it's that girl you met last night and says that she's one her way over, she's horny, and wants to give you the time of your life. Which technique would be most appropriate for you to let go of the distraction of twitter, blogs, reddit? We all know the answer, no technique is required. The reason why you waste time is because you have nothing better to do, as cliche as it sound, it'… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome this dichotomy?You're overthinking it. Be the best you can be. That's the start, that's the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 02:53 PM |
| 6 | 'Older women still want sex...but men don't want to sleep with them': Actress Jacqueline Bisset, 69, talks about female desireIt's not just the 40-something women, it's how gym business model works today. In a way we have to be thankful, since they subsidize the membership of those people who actually show up at the gym. It's sad. Ask any good woman and they'll tell you that their 40's is their prime time, both mind and body are ready for some freaky stuff; but if their body is not up to par, they miss out on so much. I have 2 plates, 39 and 43, they both workout, especially the 43 yo has the body of a 20-something, it… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 12:53 PM |
| 9 | How do I make myself most attractive to women?Hit the gym, lift and lift heavy develop your own professional life, your dream career develop your own style, not fashion style, but style of life, be your own man Don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks be confident, which is a byproduct of doing all of the above | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 12:18 PM |
| 3 | So I'm here from r/relationships...with a tough one.This is probably the wrong place for you. The Red Pill is about you, you being the best person you can ever be in line with your philosophy of masculinity and living the life of your dreams. Female companionship is a byproduct of living your own life. You came here with a relationship issue that - according to TRP theory - should not have happened to begin with, you're looking for a cure, TRP is a preventive method. TRP answer is to next her, and start working on yourself, but those are 2 import… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 12:15 PM |
| 22 | 'Older women still want sex...but men don't want to sleep with them': Actress Jacqueline Bisset, 69, talks about female desireJacqueline is correct. When I was young I would go for older women. Now that I am my 50's I find women in their 50's gross; especially ever since I started working out and I have a good body. I guess if I found someone my age and as toned as I am I might change my mind, but... I have not seen any. It's even hard to find toned women in their early 40's. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone know a woman who is NOT insane?It's complicated, I was BP and . . . whatever. We had good 15 years together, and to this day she loves me. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Whiteknight shamingWhite Knights are the majority, and they have the support of all the other majorities. TRP is a minority. Majorities #1 priority is to maintain the status-quo, anyone who is against the status quo will be fought to compliance or punished. Rebels are not mainstream. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/14 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Couple of questionsKudos for you on going from 6-figure to start-up mode; I've been there myself. For the right woman your value went up, for all the others, ignore them. About your girl's ex, you need to establish the boundaries that you are comfortable with. Between having an ex as FB friend and having intercourse with him there's a big gap, where do you draw the line? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/14 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Ex as plate?As long as you know that: It's going to be temporary It's going to end badly, and she might even hate you afterward If you accept both of the above, go for it. A better option would be to next her, work on yourself, spin a few plates on your own. Do so and maybe in the future you'll have the tools and she'll look at you with the state of mind that she's just a plate and nothing else. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/14 08:23 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone know a woman who is NOT insane?one and only one: my second wife. We were together for 15 years and I can vouch that she was great, not crazy, not insane, sweet and much more. Why we're no longer together? Long story but to make it short: my fault, I wanted out to play the field. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/14 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Need some help with a situationAt best it's a shit test, at worst she is TRP in the relationship. You need to set boundaries of what's acceptable and what's not. Keep in mind that The Red Pill is preventative medicine not curative, once the malady is done, in this case her state of mind (going out clubbing without you, dancing with guys, do whatever she did, get phone number, show it to you, brag about it with you......) there's not much TRP can do to remedy what happened. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 10:57 PM |
| 13 | Men disliking you after you take TRP and have success with girls?"Friends wants you to do well, but not better then them" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you're older and your SMV is garbageI grew up poor, I was blue collar worker till age 28, that's when I decided to go to school part time to get my college degree in business while working full time. Well, on top of my full time job (in an office) I had to get a part-time job (at the mall). Saying that it was fucking hard is an understatement, at least the first 5 years or so: I had no life, lived in a crappy apartment, ate cheap food, but ... within 11 years I was making 6-figures, and after 14 years I had 2 bachelor degrees and … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell the difference between aggressiveness/persistence and neediness?Persistence: Tells her: I am going..... tomorrow, join me. It's an offer. Neediness: Asks her: would you like to go on a date with me? Beware of becoming creepy/stalker. First you need to generate enough attraction that she's open to entertain your offer; if you haven't generated enough attraction and you're asking multiple times and get turned down, it's creepy. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 08:43 AM |
| 12 | Holy shit, it worked.I'd love to hear her side of the story, you know the Hamster story. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Anger Phase.You're right! You're so right when you say "They are constantly validated through social media from betas and orbiters who hope that "liking" her photo will get them laid." So what? Anyone who would like such a state is looking at it from the BP point of view. YOU ARE A MAN!!!!! You can kick ass and take numbers, hit the gym and get ripped so that when you're at the beach you turn heads. You can develop a career or - better - a business that people will look up at you. Younger people will want t… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 03:37 AM |
| 0 | The Tinder Experiment V.2.0Actually 5 days a week is not good, 3 days a week for no longer than 1 hour is what's needed. Maybe add cardio (HIIT) during the off days is you need to lose a lot of weight (fat), otherwise 3 hours a week it's all it takes. /r/Fitness will take care of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 03:31 AM |
| 50 | I was browsing Reddit today and I found something in /r/Sports that blew my mind.In plain English: You don't know what you don't know. (Cluelessness) You know what you don't know. (Awareness) You know what you know. (Student) You don't know what you know. (Mastery) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Using the Red Pill for a job interviewTRP is about You and your Life, in every aspect of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | The Tinder Experiment V.2.0I started with P90X but then thanks to /r/fitness I switch it around a lot. /r/fitness will take care of you, read the sidebar there, especially the nutrition portion, hit the gym and don't you ever quit. Ever. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 07:10 PM |
| 2 | The Tinder Experiment V.2.0I've got 3 plates spinning, one main one, a secondary one, and a new one just for fun actually acquired through Tinder. I am just testing TRP and having fun with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Why pleasing her in bed is importantA MUST-READ: How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho - Return Of Kings http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 04:47 AM |
| 11 | Woman here: How do men really want women to love them?100% loyalty, no excuses A nice girl in public A whore in private, lots of quality sex EDIT: we will reciprocate in all 3 points, and then some. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 01:04 AM |
| 33 | Focus on you first. And second. And third. And...blah blah...Worry about women seventh.This is the true essence of The Red Pill, and it ought to be highlighted somewhere on the sidebar for newbies and curious people to look at. TRP is not about gaming women, it's about re-discovering what it means to be Male and be confident about it, living one's life to its fullest. Do that and women will follow, not as an afterthought, but as a consequence of being an awesome person. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Girl hanging with other guysYou need to set boundaries of what's acceptable and what's not! That's TRP way. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/14 12:03 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] GF Admitted to a Sexual Relationship With Her Next Door Neighbor Who is A Mutual FriendSooner or later plates always expire. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] GF Admitted to a Sexual Relationship With Her Next Door Neighbor Who is A Mutual FriendIt's pretty simple: you're upset at the situation, and suspicious too that there might be more. And if you ask either you are going to find out more, or you're still going to be left with the suspicions. Now you have 3 options: 1) Next her and forget 2) Remain and shut up 3) Downgrade her to a plate | /r/askTRP | 24/07/14 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Should we be actively trying to advertise for TRP?Rule #1 of the Red Pill: You don't talk about the Red Pill. It's a quest. One has to arrive here by way of a journey through the jungle of misinformation and bullshit. Only those determined to seek answers to their dilemmas will eventually land here, after many false turns. If they are like me they will be repelled by what they see because the truth, the raw truth hurts, but then after more side journeys they will return. WHEN THE STUDENT IS READY, THE RED PILL WILL APPEAR. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men, if being muscular was considered to be very unattractive, would you still lift?YES | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Has "being nice" every worked for you? Do you think it ever would?It worked for me later in life when women were looking for husband material. Little that I know at the same time most of them had a FWB so that they would get their sex needs taken care NSA, and they would hold on sex with husband material dates to see if he was really into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical question for both RP and BP men hereBP: I'll be right over RP: doesn't pick up, lets it go to voice mail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone but particularly red pill: do you really find it that hard to get laid without using some kind of "game"?Some guys are naturally born with game, we have all seen them in action. Some guys, well we were born with game on the negative scale of the spectrum, so to us reading PUA stuff gives us the tools to show ourselves in a better way that girls find attractive. At its basic true core PUA and TRP is about self-improvement, living a life closest to one's values and dreams, taking care of a person's physical aspect and health. Sure there are some noise-makers and trolls distorting the message, but wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Early warning signs if your girl is unhappy in a relationshipsex decreases in quantity sex decreases in quality she withholds sex for some reason shit testing increases | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Except for having confidence, decent looks, being funny and not being poor, what else should a guy have/know to improve his chances with beautiful girls/women ?Fit! Hit /r/Fitness | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 08:08 PM |
| 2 | OUR Double StandardThere's no first date, there's the (first) coffee meet. And yes I can afford to splurge for her coffee. After that it's usually dinner at my place, and she'll bring the wine; or at times we might go for drinks, in which case The first round is on me, and I don't start a tab. | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Here's a new one.... how do I friend zone girls?Same as you'd act with any girl you're interested in, but no Kino, and stop escalation once they are infatuated with you. | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How often do you get rejected?As an accomplished PUA I never got rejected, never. I had a system where I would always escalate depending on the Indication Of Interest (IOI), continuing generating attraction and escalating. The system also worked in eliminating women who didn't express enough interest, so there was no rejection. That was then and this is now. Now I still escalate but at a much more fast phase and highly sexual, therefore one can say that my rejection rate os about 90%, but you can see it as a 10% success rate… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What are your guys' opinion about writing poetry for women?If you're good at writing, you're good at writing, you'r not just good at writing poetry. So when you write to them, from sms to FB messages to emails, write erotica to them, tell them what you are going to do to them, be explicit and use filthy language. Be short, do not overdue, and tell them part of the story ending with something like you'll live the rest tomorrow eve in my dungeon; part of good writing is suspense, and capturing the imagination of your audience; without giving away the whol… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A friend just got served with divorce papers. Any specific advice?Did he swallow the Red Pill on his own? If so, you can be Red Pill Buddies. If he didn't, you can't make it swallow it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 05:28 PM |
| 1 | If you could add one article to the sidebar, what would it be?How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 01:41 PM |
| 9 | Request for RP advice on upcoming 2-plate situationThe most Red Pill thing you can do is to show up with a 3rd plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/14 01:59 AM |
| 1 | My Brothers WifeThe moment that she slapped you she crossed a boundary, I am no lawyer but I believe it's called Assault & Battery, AB for short. You don't seem to be equipped yet to deal with her, so I suggest that instead of feeding the monster, you refrain from contact with her and possibly the entire family; think of it as training of some sort, until you're ready to face then and stand your grounds. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 04:10 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people think RP is anti-woman... let's put that one to rest.RP being anti-woman is the typical narrative of Feminism that strives to have an antagonistic and adversarial relationship between the two sexes. The Red Pill is about becoming a Confident Modern Male which is what most women (but not all) seem to want in their sexual partners, and then highlight that most women (but not all) want a different type of man for their long term life plans; therefore we have a choice, be the coveted sexual partner (code word: Alpha Fux), or be the coveted long term l… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have regrets from nexting a plate/girlfriend or divorcing?I was 17, my gf at the time broke up with me and broke my hearth. A few months laster she sought me out and wanted to get back together, wanting to play hard to get I refused; then I never saw her again. I had regrets for years, she was the love of my life, or so I thought. Did I mention I was 17? After that, NEVER again, never regretted anything, not even my 2 divorces. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. I'm a skinny fuck. "Decent" looking. Am I out of the game until I beef up?I was an AFC and I was skinny fat, and told myself I was HWP/Average body. Then I came across PUA and became a pretty good PUA while I was still skinny-fat, and told myself I was HWP/Average body. A couple of years ago I started working out, it took about 1 year to see results (very fit body, flat hard stomach, nice biceps), then after 2 years the abs are starting to show, v-shaped torso, very nice biceps, visible inguinal crease, and it helps, and helps a lot; a great body is not game per se, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/14 10:09 PM |
| 12 | Girls sucks 24 dicks in 2 minutes for a free drink. It's everyone's fault except her own.Holiday cocktail recipe: 24 parts cock, 1 part tail | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Next step after taking the Red Pill?Read the Glossary of Terms and Acronyms in the sidebar. Actually you should read all the material referenced in the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Next step after taking the Red Pill?Hit the gym (/r/fitness will help) Start spinning plates Live your own life on your own terms | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 10:15 AM |
| 22 | "Inside the Angry Online Men's Rights Group Called 'Red Pill'"Here's the key from her article, writing about herself "I wrote about how I’d ended up with a nice guy after years of casual dating and flings." And then she continues "I have written than young women sometimes avoid nice and available men because they aren’t ready for, or are scared of, commitment." With that quote Tracy just endorsed this group, confirming the notion that young guys should not pursue young girls with commitment in mind, but mirror Tracy's young age frame of mind of years of ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Best way to ignore Attention-Seekers?Talk to her as if she's your buddy, possibly your beat buddy: Why don't you buy me a beer? Have you been watching the World Cup? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/14 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Redesigning my social media image to appear as higher value male.You're making the classic PUA mistake "...so that in a few months when people view my Facebook they think Alpha and not beta?". PUA is about selling yourself, even if you have to pretend. The Red Pill is about becoming a better self, so concentrate on BE Alpha, everything else will follow. Having said that, these are ways you can improve your social media image, do as many of those as possible Start a blog: being Red Pill means living your life at its fullest. Discover and practice your interest… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/14 11:02 AM |
| 19 | How do you think relationship marketplace will look like in 10 years?Whatever is happening in college today will be happening after college, and very few people will get married. A fuckfest all around of very casual sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Got slapped by a fat girl last night and got told to leave. What do?Call 911: Assault and battery | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Where to find a LTR?The better question is "Where to find a woman who is like-minded?" The answer starts with you: what are your interests? No matter what your interests are, you can find some social activity related to those interests, starting with meetups etc. Go there not so much with the intend to find a LTR, but with the intent to foster your interests and be social. People know people, before you know you'll have a circle of acquaintances and possibly a few friends. If you don't have any interests, it's time… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Book suggestions on redirecting focus from getting validation to emotional/psychological growth?Validation and the need for it is something that I've been thinking for a while, after starting reading about TRP. Validation and the need for it in people, plates, and myself. I think it's something we all need (people go crazy for Reddit's karma for instance), and there's some good to it, but left unchecked, it can wreck havoc, we've all seen the quintessential spoiled brat out there. Pay special attention to the movie Peaceful Warrior, also available in book form, it's a lot of Buddhism witho… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 01:45 PM |
| 7 | Book suggestions on redirecting focus from getting validation to emotional/psychological growth?Interesting reflections. You're on to something. Some suggestions for you: Ralph Waldo Emerson's Self Reliance Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance Read about Buddhism, especially writings of the Dalai Lama, Pema Chindron, Suzuki Roshi Movie: Peaceful Warrior | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 12:53 PM |
| -3 | You'll Never Change Their Minds.If they haven't been unplugged, they are your enemies; they are totally vested in the status quo, even if they are unhappy. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 12:49 PM |
| 0 | RedPill saved my Marriage. Success Story.This is quite an interesting post. To me this sub is very interesting and highly valuable. I've read most of the readings, and I am also reading The Rational Male; but I get a lot of use out of people's posting, real life experiences above and beyond the theory from the readings. This: Her: Lets go out this weekend. Me: Nope, I have to study, but I can make plans for the weekend afterwards. Her: We should head over to the theme park. Me: I don't like that Idea, we are going to have some family f… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 05:54 PM |
| 3 | TRPers who have worked hard in the gym and have a nice physique, do you get complimented from the women you get with?Most definitely! Approaching, opening, kino and escalating is a lot faster and easier. And when we're naked they LOVE to touch the muscle. And there are a lot of guys on /r/Fitness who are a lot more advanced than me. I have a v-shaped torso, nice biceps, and the abs are starting to show up just a bit at 13.5% BF. Do it, do it for yourself. Women's attention is an added benefit. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 02:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Date since swallowing The Red PillI live in a large metropolitan area so, lots of people. But I can see how it might happen in a small community especially at the beginning when one is not that polished. Mind you, while PUA is not like TRP, there are 2 main school of thoughts in PUA: The most popular is an array of cheap tricks and tips in order to game women in a bar/club. The daygame is more of the same but during daytime approaching women on the street An underline minority advocates becoming a Modern Confident Male, so inste… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 08:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Date since swallowing The Red PillI am a very analytical person, like many others in here, I am also very stubborn. So in the early days of PUA I would memorize lines and go out there and try them, at times they didn't work, at times they worked. And at the beginning when the opening lines worked, I failed in the conversation. Once I got good enough at conversation, I failed at kino... the list goes on. So, did I make a fool of myself? I don't know. I can tell you that it paid off at the end. I made more of a fool of myself when… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 07:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Date since swallowing The Red PillBefore The Red Pill I was a pretty accomplished PUA. But early on my PUA development, I was always less and less about tricks & tips about picking up women in bars/clubs and more about self-development. Prior to PUA I was the outmost example of AFC. PUA is about becoming a better at selling yourself; TRP is about becoming a better person all around. Keep reading and hanging out /r/TheRedPill and selectively /r/seduction , go out there and practice practice practice, it's only by screwing up that… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm ready to travel down the rabbit hole"If you keep doing what you've been doing, you'll keep getting what you've been getting." In your case not only you are aware that you don't like the results that you've been getting, but you also have the blueprints of what to to in order to get the results that you want. At second thought, you know what? Fuck you! Just continue to be a Blue Pill, you bux we fuck! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 11:19 AM |
| 1 | After years of self improvement I still don't feel a whole lot more confident in myself. Why?You're 25, you were the way you were after many years of brainwashing by society at large. It's going to take a bit of time to undo what was done. A few suggestions: keep on working out, you say you are still not in shape, hang out on /r/Fitness , results will come Someone in here posted that the difference between PUA and TRP is that PUA makes you a better salesperson, TRP makes you a better product. As an AFC that went PUA and now TRP I can attest to that. Hang out /r/seduction especially read… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 11:05 AM |
| 9 | On being "marriage material."Yup! Been there done that. In high school all the mothers wanted their daughters to date me, but their daughters wanted nothing to do with me except for Let's Just Be Friends and I love you like a brother and I like you, but not like that. Of course as the worst version of AFC I was proud of it. And then it continued into adulthood, I liked to be referred to as Marriage Material thinking that I could have my pick of the litter, but reality was quite different. PUA/Seduction saved my life, TRP is… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Recently post-wall woman [31f] is literally making a pro/con list on paper comparing her new Beta Boy to her previous (likely Alpha) boyfriend, and is practically sexting her ex right in front of her new Beta. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.I would understand it you are a woman, but... I think you're a guy. So, you balance by.... having some Red Pill relationships and some Blue Pill relationship in parallel? I am confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 02:29 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to this shit test?The best cure is prevention. You are busy doing things and extend to her an invite (a privilege) to join you. wazzym: I am watching the game at my place tonight, wanna join? She (3 hours later): sure wazzym: come along. on your way could you grab a case of beers? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 09:12 PM |
| 21 | The American Dream Is Every Man’s NightmareI am going to send this to all my married friends. Over the years, I’ve noticed that this dream is not important to American men. Most guys are content to get the most bang for their buck, whether that means living in an apartment complex, renting a room from a friend, or buying a cheap piece of land in the country. In over forty years, I never met a man that actually dreamed of owning a home in the suburbs. Actually I live in suburbia, it's a long story how I got and remain here, and I can atte… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Recently post-wall woman [31f] is literally making a pro/con list on paper comparing her new Beta Boy to her previous (likely Alpha) boyfriend, and is practically sexting her ex right in front of her new Beta. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.Well, it's more than just balance; balance of misguided beliefs still results in misguided outcomes. I think given the present state of things, TRP philosophy, when embraced by both the man and the woman, is the only viable option that I see for a relationship to foster the growth of both as individuals and as a couple; cutting off the BS, and leaving what's important and real. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Recently post-wall woman [31f] is literally making a pro/con list on paper comparing her new Beta Boy to her previous (likely Alpha) boyfriend, and is practically sexting her ex right in front of her new Beta. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.She wants BOTH. She wants the provider AND she wants the Bad Boy. Here's where it gets fucked up. There are many guys out there that are able and willing to play both roles, wake up in the morning and go to work, make good money, go home and take care of yard work, kids, you name it; AND at night, part of the weekend, and some vacation time here and there, get down and dirty and fuck like rabbits, spanking, toys and what not. BUT the woman cannot see those personalities in the same guy, she can … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 05:54 PM |
| 4 | So i finished reading the required theory, what now?Step 1: Lose your anger. Step 2: Lose your anger. Really. Step 3: Lose your anger. Nothing happens till you do so. Step 4: Start living your new life, go out there and get your feet wet with the new mentality, new thinking, new philosophy. You'll screw up, for sure. You'll be doing things you've never done before. On and off you'll revert back to BP. It takes a bit of time. Step 5: continue reading, continue forming new habits, continue improving yourself. Warning: do not engage in TRP discourse… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 11:40 AM |
| 1 | What would happen if safe/clean prostitution were legalized?It's legal in Las Vegas | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 10:00 PM |
| 0 | The Alpha Litmus TestNo one in the jungle has to tell the Lion they are a Lion or that they are the king. credits /u/NillaThunda | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Am I doing tinder wrong? Shit test!Me: I wanna meet you No shit Sherlock! How about you capture her fantasy (I'm giving away one of my lines here). Step 1: DO NOT ask her what's up, or how she is doing etc..., no intro. Step 2: start with I am planning my next breath-taking, lifetime memorable experience and I am seeking an accomplice. When was the last time you had a breath-taking, lifetime memorable experience? Step 3: play along, be mysterious, be playful. When she asks, and she will ask, When was the last time you had one of … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 09:54 PM |
| 36 | Recently post-wall woman [31f] is literally making a pro/con list on paper comparing her new Beta Boy to her previous (likely Alpha) boyfriend, and is practically sexting her ex right in front of her new Beta. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.On the Alpha cons list: once he spanked me so hard that my ass was all black and blue, and that was the day before my boyfriend took em to Bermuda, I had to pretend that I had fallen down the stairs. It hurt all week, but somehow it made me think of him even more. Once we came back from Bermuda the first thing I did was to have my bf drop me off at my place, where I had the a-hole waiting for me. He was drunk and had eaten all my food, but he fucked me good. He was so drunk that he cummed inside… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 09:03 PM |
| 6 | The Tinder ExperimentDude! I've been studying and practicing PUA stuff for over a decade now. And this is Tinder, the principles are: Be direct Escalate Start low but start sexually, if they don't play, next them. At times they come back Always appeal to their right brain, their imagination, their fantasy, impractical. Stay away from anything practical. I can't give away my lines Do that and make them feel safe, then elicit the bad girl who wants to come out and play. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:56 PM |
| 60 | Recently post-wall woman [31f] is literally making a pro/con list on paper comparing her new Beta Boy to her previous (likely Alpha) boyfriend, and is practically sexting her ex right in front of her new Beta. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.Unbeknown to everyone, the ex's cons on paper are actually pros in her mind; and the BetaBux's pros are actually cons. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:45 PM |
| 3 | The Tinder ExperimentHere you go http://i.imgur.com/Pi9Cp0i.png | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:29 PM |
| 1 | The Tinder ExperimentI don't have a 6 pack yet, but the abs are starting to show, but I have a v-spated torso and nice biceps and pecs. I started working out 2 years ago when I was skinny fat and I noticed a difference after only 9 months. In the past few months the difference is very noticeable, and FUCK YA! it makes a fucking HUGE difference, I had no idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Open Question: What's an older Red Piller to do?I have no problems getting my dick wet, even with younger women. Do Red Pill Women really exist? Or are they Former Carousel who have hit the Wall and now they are snoflaking themselves into something that resembles Red Pill? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 04:11 PM |
| 9 | The Alpha Litmus TestAm I Alpha? If you need to ask, you're not. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 5 | What would you do? [LTR] [Wall Of Text]Since you asked what to do, the short answer is Next her. But you knew that. You are the BP in her life, and she has some RP/Alpha that are available to satisfy her need for Alpha. I know what you're thinking, that there's a chance, you care about her, she cares about you bla bla bla bla . . . you could use this relationship gone bad as a training ground for yourself, spin her as a minor plate, think of her as FWB/hook up on demand; practice your Red Pill philosophy, be aware of her behaviors bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/14 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Logic vs. EmotionsI agree with you. Here's the kicker, your post is emotionally charged so is this comment of mine. Just different emotions. We (humans) are all emotionally-driven animals. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 03:49 AM |
| 48 | [question] Why do you think this subreddit is so hated on Reddit?The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Beta males are the real challenge.Women actually don't know what they want. They say they want a nice, sensitive guy, reliable bla bla bla bla, you know the narrative or romantic movies. But in reality they go for the bad boy / alpha male because that's what they need even if they don't even know it. TRP philosophy recognizes that, and its principles are predicated upon males who embrace TRP philosophy to offer women what they need, not what they say they want, and at the end of the way, it's a win-win situation. And actually, i… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Improvement for my approach.Here's the secret to a great conversation: make them talk about themselves! The easiest way to do that is to ask open ended questions. When you hear someone say I had a great conversation with Hyde992 it means that she talked a lot. Good readings about how to do so are books and articles on: Selling 101 How to build rapport Early PUA books Then go out there and practice, practice, practice; practice talking with anyone and everyone, not just women that you are interested in. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | (Mental) Chart for exchanging affection for sexual acts? LTRSTOP! I am going through something similar right now. Start with the point of view that: the relationship is broken, and broken right now while today you are still together, and you are trying to fix it, eventually there's a real chance that you might break up, and break up for good. See #1 above. Since you're here in TRP, you've embraced TRP philosophy, the solution is for you to swallow the Red Pill and act like it. Take control of your persona and your life, and change the interactions you ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Beta males are the real challenge.A comment about wording. Let me illustrate with an example. Since you are her in TRP, chances are that you are fit, or at least you're working out regularly and eating right to get fit. Now think about one of your friends who is fat in line to get his morning donuts. He wants the donuts, he needs to go to the gym. Beta males give women what they want. Alpha males give women what they need. Women don't know what they need, they think they want a nice guy, you know the stereotype as described by t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is going to a club bad with a GF/LTR?Interestingly enough I never go to bars/clubs when single/alone, but I do take my gf or dates to bars, you know for a drink or two. I like it, and yes at times there's the idiot who hits on her even in my presence, I haver no problem with that, I am interested in how she reacts, if she flirts back, I am done with her. If she contains him it's yet another good point about her. It's also a way to dispel the allure of the bar scene, most of the women that I date don't frequent bars/clubs. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Small testimonial TRP/Dread works, and I am just a beginnerI did read "A woman would rather share a high quality man than be saddled to a faithful loser." and it made a lot of sense to me. Interesting about the etymology of "spinning plates". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Small testimonial TRP/Dread works, and I am just a beginnerThese days I get TRP because I went from AFC to PUA; although the leap from PUA to TRP is a bigger and more powerful one. I don't agree with 100% of what TRP advocates, and that's fine, it's not a cult, but a lot of it makes sense when I look back at my experiences and the experiences of my friends, even when it goes against common wisdom. I am currently reading the book Rational Male, very eye opening. I am going to treat TRP principles and lessons the same way I treated PUA when I first encoun… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Small testimonial TRP/Dread works, and I am just a beginnerCorrect, ex kept sending more and more text/email longer and longer. At the end she offered to be my booty call. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 06:47 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with women using their sexuality to get favorsI am no Red Pill expert yet, but I went from AFC to a pretty good PUA. I have a few concerns with your plan: 1) In my experience once a woman has an idea of who/what you are, it's hard, really hard to change her mind. Some of TRP wirings say that what might work is to next her and swallow The Red Pill, she night see you under a different light by watching your actions from distance without you having any contacts with her 2) It's a question of being efficient: you have some Red Pill knowledge th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Had this circulating social media this morning... Some of the suggestions are just ridiculous.It makes a lot of sense. It makes a lot of sense from a feminism perspective, this is good propaganda, same style used by cults and alternative politicians; there's no fairness built in, just pushing a one-way agenda. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 01:58 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with women using their sexuality to get favorsOnce the conversation drifts into practical matters the magic is gone. Flirt, talk about sex, talk about fun stuff to do, talk about your interests and hers. But as soon as the conversations turns into: my computer is broken and needs to be fixed anything to do with money like I can't believe how much rents are my car engine is making a funny noise Listen, don't say anything about it, change the conversation to something else, sex is a good topic. The best countermeasure is to avoid the situatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 01:55 PM |
| 1 | So...where do I actually MEET quality girls? Where did you meet your Plates?Attractive, well groomed, and not riding the carousel is just the basis, there's more to that. I am suggesting that it's up to you what Quality means. If you are into spirituality and Art doesn't do anything for you, a church community is the place to be for you. If you are an Atheist and into Art, Museums, gallery talks, Open Studios will be where you'll find like-minded women. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Thread in /r/AskWomen right now is literally called "Is cheating a decision?" You can't make this shit up.Alcohol: the alibi of last resort. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 01:42 AM |
| 13 | So...where do I actually MEET quality girls? Where did you meet your Plates?Quality is subjective, what's Quality to you might not be of interest to me. Are you into Art? Have you tried museums, open studios and galleries? Are you into Idie Music? Check out local indie venues. Into running/fitness? There's a running club near you. Writing? Check your local library for writing groups. Try meetup (dot) com, search for what interests you. Once you're there, talk with everyone and everyone, male or female, young or old, ugly and more ugly; you are genuinely interested in wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 12:51 AM |
| 1 | What would you consider to be the threshold for sexual success?Whenever you think, and truly believe: "If they were to make a movie of my life nobody would believe the shit that I have pulled off." That's when you know. Funny thing is, as time goes by, you are able to pull off shit that previously didn't think even existed. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the similarities and differences between gaming women and male friends?Within the context of PUA, they are quite different, two different planets on different universes within different multiverses. Within the context of TRP, not much difference, since TRP is about control over yourself, and then treat everyone else equally. Actually a good mental game for new TRP is to treat women as they treat their male friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 10:23 PM |
| 28 | Why do people bash red pill all the time?The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 09:39 PM |
| 3 | My last desperate hope before acceptance?I've been reading about this these days, it's the difference between PUA and TRP. PUA taught us skills to land women, but didn't prepare us for LTR because after all, we were the same people as pre-PUA, with a new set of short term skills; TRP is more a transformational in thinking, philosophy and persona. Interestingly enough I had some to the conclusion that traditional PUA, a set of tricks and tips was limited, and I was leaning towards becoming what I call Confident Modern Male and I suspect… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Woman laments story of a date with an average man - still puts out at the end of the night.This defines her as a person: "After finishing your fourth course and five cocktails, you ask rhetorically if he would like you to pay for yours. He actually says yes. He is beginning to look more and more like boyfriend material." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 05:20 PM |
| 7 | My last desperate hope before acceptance?This is a very good question which has a lot of complex answer but not 1 single catch-all answer. Older redditor here, married twice, went from AFC to successful PUA and now, here I am. I have found more than 1 wonderful woman in my life, and that is a very honest answer. But it's also the short answer. The longer answer is where it gets complex, and it is a combination of: After we got together, I slowly went from Alpha-ish to Mr Nice Guy After she had secured the Bad Boy she wanted to transfor… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Should there be any effort to inform others about RP mentality?The short answer is NO. Just go about your life doing your own thing. If someone after seeing you living happily your own life on your own term asks you How do you do it? or something to that effect, you might decide to share some of your wisdom, without labeling as TRP; you might share more with a close friend, and a lot less with a coworker. At times when people ask questions like that, they just want to complain or be heard; at times it's just rhetorics and - just like the Matrix - they are p… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 02:19 PM |
| 1 | A few men get everything Most men get nothingI am sure the 80/20 rule applies here as well, 20% of the guys gets on with 80% of the women. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 03:59 AM |
| 2 | "Why Would That Matter? I'm The Girl"That is the sweet-sour aspect of bettering oneself: once you're fit/ripped, with an interesting career, interesting hobbies, volunteer gigs, healthy social life, and able of holding a conversation on a multitude of subjects a lot of women seem insipid and single-dimentional. Here's the sad part: in this very confused world, some aspect of PUA/Seduction and definitely TRP motivate guys to better themselves physically, intellectually and socially. There is no such a drive for females. And that is … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I'd like to thank my ex-wife. Her actions, which directly lead to our divorce, helped me shed my last BP ways by crushing them.Life is a cruel teacher, but the best teacher indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Plate Spinning Halts Self Development?Ideally I like to have 3-tier system: Girlfriend Main Plate with whom I spend most weekends, when I don't have other weekends commitments. I might also do 1 additional activity with her during the week, but not every week. This is the most pleasant Tier. FWB Second Tier Plate(s) lots of sex and not much social interaction. Often former Main Plates. This is the most time efficient Tier. Emerging Plate(s) girls that I have recently met and that have not proven themselves suitable for any of the ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Other than impressing women, what else motivates you to lift?Health Liking what I see in the mirror after my morning shower Having women's hands wanting to touch my body A sense of discipline that trickles down to other parts of my life as well The challenge, achieving something that seems so elusive, in a field that's overcrowded with so much misinformation and misunderstanding it feels like rocket science. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Holding frame when you're the new guyIf someone interrupts when you talk, interrupt them back and say: "THAT'S RUDE! [a tad louder voice, firm] Please extend to me the same courtesy that I extended to you by not interrupting. [Pause for emphasis, then as if s/he had agreed] Thanks" and then continue what you were saying as if nothing happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 10:33 PM |
| 11 | Stop Reading Twitter. Seriously, Fucking Stop ItGreat Advice! Add to the list: Facebook Reddit's Front Page and other time-wasting subs | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 10:26 PM |
| 1 | A Bunch Of New York Women Paid To Go To Silicon Valley To Find Millionaires (Beta Bucks) And Ended Up In Tears.was thrown by Lauren Kay, the founder of dating startup Lauren Kay is a Red Pill Woman, why fight them when you can milk them? Very Machiavellian. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | My game is solid but my sexual technique is lousy. How do I become a sex god?Read DeAngelo's Sex God Method, it's like The Red Pill, at first it looks weird and not so common sense, but then if you apply a little at a time, it works, and it works very well. Read it, try it a bit a few things here and there, and tweak it to your personality. To make a girl squirt, you can google it and then try with her, once you know what to do it and how to do it, 50% of the women are squirters, but not 2 squirters are the same, some take a slight more time and/or a slight different tec… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Twitter feminists trend #EndFathersDay (not a joke)Shall we also #EndMothersDay? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Crazed woman attacks man over pictures he wasn't takingThe sad part is that in some states that video would not be legal because taken without her consent under archaic wiretapping laws, he'd be prosecuted for that and the video could not be used to charge her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/14 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Misinformed Beliefs held by idiots about The Dark TriadTIL: morality is a luxury for those who can afford it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/14 12:46 AM |
| 2 | The Pill is not free.You don't get to be "popular" either, at least not with the same group of people that you knew during the Blue Pill days, it'snot about being an elitist, it's about consciously knowing you're in a minority now. But the rewards are priceless. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Breaking up with GF, struggling to think of the wordsDoes she love you or does she love the idea to be married, and you're her best situational candidate? The famous Mr Right Now?. Break it off, if you really love her, for everyone's sake: yours, hers, her new boyfriend to be husband, her family and your family, break up with her. Explain to her that it is for the best overall good. At best some women want a wedding not necessarily a marriage; at worst they want a kid (or more) and you're just a nice ride to there she wants to go; but that's not y… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Who's Next?Correction: the part where you say to buy shit they don't need should read to buy shit they don't need with money they don't have, everything else checks. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/14 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Why women go crazy for a Dark Triad man.Good point, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Where does Romance fit in with the Red-PillYou're probably overcompensating, it's natural. However, women say that they want to be: nurtured: when they are in the company of a man, they feel nurtured caressed while you're intimate you touch, right? Women crave touch told they are beautiful don't give gratuitous compliments, that's a no-no loved be a RP man, and she will feel loved. When movies, articles, hear-say talk about romantic men they describe a beta man. Erotica literature is multi-billion dollar industry, women read that stuff l… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What would you consider to be the threshold for sexual success?As a TRP man, whatever you define success, there it is. At one point I thought that bedding as many women as the years in my age would be a good target; then there was the challenge how many women I could sleep with in 24 hours; then there was how many new women I could sleep with in a 1-week period. Those are nice targets to have, but at the end of the day, they are very restrictive; TRP helps you answer the ultimate question: "What makes me happy?" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Suiting up to fly - getting your plane on lockHank Moody (fictional, TV, Californication) is a good example of someone who swallowed The Red Pill long time ago. He said that when a woman sees a man, she puts him into one of three categories: 1) Marry Him 2) Fuck Him 3) Kill Him (meaning ignoring him) Make sure women don't put you into category #1 Marriage Material | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Why women go crazy for a Dark Triad man.Just arrived here a few days ago, I like what I see, but I have a question regarding this one: does The Red Pill endorse or condemn the Dark Triad man? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 07:46 PM |
| 16 | Loveless in Berlin - The hamster is strong!Best parts: Of course, single in Berlin doesn’t mean celibate. Take it from sex columnist Dr. Dot: “Getting your leg over in Berlin is easier than shooting fish in a barrel. Especially if you’re a female, even remotely attractive. Waiting at the bus stop, ordering a coffee, in the elevator, grocery shopping – it is literally raining dick. You can find a man anytime, anywhere. Keeping one is the problem.” “Sex or casual affairs are no problem, but when it comes to relationships, forget about it!” | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Could you share with the group the one moment...First marriage, I found myself working 2 jobs and doing most of the house chores. She was working part time. Being a sexless marriage didn't help. I dumped her, filed for divorce, and never looked back A while after the divorce I was having a though time dating, so after being burned one time too many, I tried being a jerk and... it worked! Not really a TRP moment, but a taste so to speak. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Not finishing during sex, good or bad strategy?How about doing the opposite, just cum in 5 minutes then say I'm tired, this one was for me, you need to take one for the team here and there. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 07:23 PM |
| 1 | A reminder how I never want to be a Beta MaleThis might be one of the most thought provoking post. Now I am going to organize a bro-only night. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 06:51 PM |
| 2 | If shes a bitch, she ain't worth it, so don't stress.Well said. Same for the ones who play the shit tests game, it's a complete turn-off; you can have them all. | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 06:13 PM |
| 2 | So I went to the store to buy flowers for 2 girls...Creepy? Not at all. I date a fair amount of women in their late 20's early 30, one recently was 25. Do you know that most women in their 20's have their own secret bucket list that includes: doing the married dude doing the older dude . . . . . I know I'm just a kink that they want to cross off the list, I have no problem. Girls like to be bad if they are sure they are safe from gossips. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Creating attraction while in a carJust make conversation, and conversation about her, her job/schedule/life etc... (your mission here is to figure out when you can see her again) once you're closer to your place, thank her and tell her: let me make it up to you, how about coffee tomorrow (by now you should know her schedule), if no propose another day. Unless you have unequivocal signs that she wants to come to your place and then some, do not invite her over, you're a busy guy, you schedule things. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How do I start a brief dialogue with cashier or just any random stranger?The cashier is not easy, chances are that if you want to start a dialogue and you post in here, she's attractive, which means that many people before you have tried, so she knows all the possible lines and openings. And if that's a place where you go often, and where people know you, she probably doesn't want to socialize with the customers in order to avoid awkward situations, and you might want to do the same. Still if you want to go for it, use creativity + honesty + direct approach. Step 1: … | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Seduction for IntrovertsYou highlighted the real problem, get to know who you are, and enjoy it; stop trying to be something you're not. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why you need to go for the kiss. Even if it isn't totally on.If you're not sure if she's ready, either she's not ready, or you didn't do a good job, just going for it will put you in the creeps category. If you think she's ready for the kiss, wait, continue flirting and kino (bring the kino down one notch, but continue), you want her to be extra-super-ready for you to seal the deal, you want her entire body to crave your touch and your body, so that that kiss is something that she wants it as if her life depended on it, she'll be anticipating it in her mi… | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What percent of confidence do you think is innate?Nature vs Nurture. My guess is close to 0% Nature, and close to 100% Nurture. The good news is that you are still Nurturing yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:16 AM |
| 1 | r/seduction What job do you think attracts the most ladies.Having your own company, no matter how small. Any creative job. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you immediately respond when complimented on your clothes by an attractive women you have never met?I assume that it's not about the clothes, she's approaching me, that's an opening to me and I say thank you and open the conversation back about something loosely to the clothes, and quickly moving to the topic of her and her interests. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm unhealthily obsessed with pickup and taking action.Analysis Paralysis how about quitting reading cold turkey and start going out there and only do actions? | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Seduction for IntrovertsActually I know the difference. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Seduction for IntrovertsDepends on who you ask. The majority of people in the PUA/Seduction community believe that everything you do should be about picking up chicks. Other people like yours truly believe that seduction is about creating attraction and you create attraction by living your own life on your own term doing what you want and you like. So that once you meet a girl you're interested in and you find interesting, you are an interesting person to get to know and spend time with. Ever dreamed about playing the … | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Seduction for IntrovertsStart low, a decent used guitar on Craigslist is 50-100, then guitar lessons are free all over the web/YouTube. That's a good start. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What are some great hobbies/activities that can help me develop my social skills ?The hobbies and activities that you're passionate about are the ones you'll be good at. Some activities are more social than others. These are some examples: Learn to play guitar. Most guys want to play guitar, so go for it, playing the acoustic guitar is more social than electric, since you can play anywhere anytime volunteering for a non-profit that has a mission that you care about cooking: so that you can have a let's cook together date with all the innuendo that goes with it. Do NOT cook FO… | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Seduction for IntrovertsI agree with your statement that Most people on here are looking for sex, I also think that it's the wrong approach, especially for introverts. I also agree with you that Clubs/Bars are the easiest places to get sex, then again, meeting someone in a bookstore might not lead to an easy same day f-close, it might require a couple of days; yet what good is for someone who's not cut for the Clubs/Bars scene if they can't get any? I am just providing an alternative point of view that works for me, fo… | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 03:54 PM |
| 5 | [Question] The morals of dating multiple girls.Nobody can make that decision but you, you say it feels wrong so, don't do anything where you feel wrong. Having said that, think about what is the fair thing to do, fair to everyone. There's a point in time in every relationship where one of the two people involved brings up the issue of exclusivity, that is a crucial point, the fair thing is that until both parties in a relationship have agreed on being exclusive, they are not exclusive. So, since you posted in here, evidently looking for feed… | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to respond to a rejected kiss?Prevention is the best medicine. If you're going for the kiss and she rejects you, you were gambling, that is not fair to her, not to you either. The key is escalation, escalation, escalation, on one end of the timeline you have the moment when you see her for the very first time, on the other end of the timeline you have the moment when you're both in bed basking in the post-sex bliss. In between there's a long series of escalating steps, from approach to chat, to flirting, to kino, to innuendo… | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Rejected by a married chickDid you really get rejected? If your goal is to bed each and every single woman you decide to approach, yes you did. If your goal is to just be yourself, have fun in life, and be social whenever possible by engaging people from all walks of life, male/female, young/old, attractive/fugly; knowing that with some female you'll have something in common that will escalate to something "more", you didn't get rejected, you lived your life and had fun. Either way, your choice. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Fun and interesting stuff at home? Need ideas for things to do and have around - don't necessarily need to lead directly to seduction, but give the impression that my apartment is a fun place.Stop thinking in terms of "...but give the impression that my apartment is a fun place...." BE a fun person, it's a lot more fun than give the impression of being a fun person. You're a guy: have you thought about playing guitar? A Marshall full stack is pretty cool! Exercise? I have a weight bench in my bedroom ... it doubles as a bondage bench. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Are there any cures for jealousy?Jealousy is a form of insecurity. Gain confidence and the jealousy will go away. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:19 PM |
| 1 | If you could give one bit of advice since learning about pickup what would it be?'A girl wants sex just as badly as a guy, probably more. The only difference is that it takes the girl 15 minutes longer to get to that point; hold on for 20 minutes and she'll chase you for 5." Source: The Tao of Steve | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Learning seduction from George ClooneyHe has a career, not a M-F 9-5 job. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Learning seduction from George ClooneyYou had me at "don't act try-hard", I am going to borrow that and use it. I am glad I am not George Clooney, nor I want to be, like you mentioned there are a lot of girls who would bang him just to say they did, or - worst - trap him. Big bag fool of nope. What I meant to say is that: being fit, thanks to /r/Fitness follow my dream career, regardless of financial outcome trying to be the most decent human being possible, including volunteering practicing my interests (personally: guitar playing,… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Is PUA just for sex with sluts? Or can it be used to develop a loving connection?It has been said before in here and other PUA/seduction resources: let go of the concept of sluts. To use your words ...guys main objective is to just have sex with any girl... you just defined a male slut as well. It took me a while to understand, it might take a while to you as well, but try to forget that word, its meaning, and similar words. I am an old Redditor and a long time follower of the PUA/seduction community. While the majority of the content in /r/seduction is geared toward meeting… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Learning seduction from George ClooneyOr at least "game" yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Confidence breeds confidenceI just sent you a PM. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Seddit, what's your summarize of seduction in three points?Be your confident self Be your confident self Be your confident self | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Quiet, awkward, not many friends. How can I change? Is there still hope?So you're an Introvert! Welcome to the club. Can you change that? NO. But you can help yourself by reading "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain. If you're shy, that's a different issue from being Introvert, and that can be overcome, I did it, so can you. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 06:15 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys get quality photographs of yourself?with clothes on: At parties I take a good amount of photos and post to FB (with permission from people), and I also ask them to take pics of me with my phone. The more pictures you take the more you're bound to take some good pics. with clothes off: ever since my body transformation every morning I send a naked selfie to my gf. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Any sedditors over 40?I'm 52 and I am having the time of my life! I am very fit thanks to r/fitness, I have the best body of my life, with nice biceps, V-shaped torso, and the abs slowing making their way slowly. I also eat very healthy partly thanks to /r/fitness too. and I have energy to spare. Like you many of my friends are married, and I do hang out with them a lot, I also live in a house in suburbia where everyone is married and with kids. I hang out with my married friends a lot, BBQ parties and all; and there… | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Should you avoid the word "date" when being direct?After meeting someone new I like to meet for coffee, a date is too high of a jump with someone I just met. I usually meet women in social settings, we talk for a bit, anywhere between 15 min to 30 min; then on purpose I have to go and set up to meet again to continue the conversation, therefore we meet for coffee. Last week I meet a new woman and we talked about some weird movies that we both like, so this week we're meeting for coffee and then we're going to see a movie together. By the way, th… | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 05:54 AM |
| 5 | The #1 Rule of Male/Female interaction - "To women, you're either the shit, or you don't exist"I like Hank Moody's classification (from "Californication"): when a woman meets a guy, she puts him in one of three buckets: Marry him Fuck him Kill him 1 and 2 are both for high status but quite different interaction; and 3 I guess is the same as ignore him. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 05:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First meet, always escalate, with innuendoJust do it(*) (*) Some restrictions may apply | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 12:01 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First meet, always escalate, with innuendoSorry for the wall of text, if you read it through I f-closed it, lunch was keyword for F-close | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 11:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First meet, always escalate, with innuendoIt does feel good doesn't it? U DAWG!! | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Confidence breeds confidenceI agree, I looked in retrospect and wrote the post. | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Question for the *Accomplished* PUA/Seductors on this board: when did you know that you had succeeded at the Art of Seduction? Possibly [NSFW]So where are you on your quest so far? | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Question for the *Accomplished* PUA/Seductors on this board: when did you know that you had succeeded at the Art of Seduction? Possibly [NSFW]3 new lays or just any 3 lays? | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Question for the *Accomplished* PUA/Seductors on this board: when did you know that you had succeeded at the Art of Seduction? Possibly [NSFW]Well put. Is that what happened to you? People started calling you "extremely charming and confident" and the super hot girls you're seeing are saying "What the fuck is it about you that I'm so insanely drawn to?" | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Confidence breeds confidenceOf course no, we all have needs, but at least work on yourself AND on your game (although I don't like to call it game); one will influence the other. Personally and professionally every day I work toward be better 10 years down the road, because if you don't do anything, 10 years from now I will be in the same place as today, and I believe in Kaizen as a lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Confidence breeds confidenceI think that giving value is a function of: know thyself, realize who you really are, what your values, philosophies, and interests are; Finding like-minded people who share the most of your same values, most of the same philosophies and some interests. I am not saying it's easy, I am saying it's worth it (cliché, I know); but once you do that, spending time with these people becomes an exercise of exchanging value, and just like the high tide raises all boats, everyone will be better off from k… | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Success at first try with daygame, but cannot get going on a night out. Weird or the norm?From my personal experience (anecdotal/empirical, not at all scientific), the vast majority of people don't really care for bars/clubs as a place to meet people. Therefore the vast majority of us prefers non bars/clubs. Personally I like to pursue my personal interests, and be as social as possible within those circles, so that I meet like-minded people. Meetup.com is a great resource. I've met many lovers at social parties, wine tasting parties, my industry events (I work in a very creative fie… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 10:11 PM |
| 3 | What was the first book on seduction that you read and would you recommend it as a first for others?I don't remember the first book, however I am sure I won't recommend it. This is what I do recommend: If you're a Nice Guy, read *"No More Mr. Nice Guy"" If you're an introvert, read Quiet: The Power of Introverts..... Generally speaking: Models, and anything by postmasculine/Mark Manson. No I am not affiliated with him, I just like what he writes about, more about becoming a confident modern male than actually picking up women | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 10:06 PM |
| 4 | How do you react when girls that rejected you start patronizing you (and you work with them)Don't shit where you eat. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Approaching without being needy!?Talk to anyone and everyone anywhere. The moment that you only talk to age-appropriate-pretty-girls only you're needy. A conversation should be a conversation for the purpose of a conversation, that's the purest form of outcome independent state of mind. If there's mutual attraction, things will escalate easily from there. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Best place for day gameThe simple and quick answer is: wherever you are that's the best place. If you want more interesting people than the bus stop, go to more interesting places. If you want more interesting people who are more in line with your personality, go to interesting places that fit your personality. I like meetups, there you can search by your interests and your location, and come up with gatherings of like-minded people. Recently I found out that running groups are very social and fun people, pick up runn… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Major Bullet Points From 2.5 Years of Seddit.This should be in the F.A.Q.! There should be one more bullet point: Not a chance that this is perfect but it is perfect for the OP. Each seddit user should go ahead and edit it so it becomes perfect for them. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Are there any ways to tell how sexually adventurous or kinky a girl is before you really get to know her?There's broscience, very aboundant in this forum there are some urban legends, there are also some scientific studies, I kid you not, that state that women with tattoes and piercing are more promiscuous, which usually is a sign of more wild and fun times in bed But you can't tell, my experience is that while there's some common sense logic, it all depends from woman to woman, but if you're asking for opinions, I've got a couple: The prettier a girl believes she is, and the key word here is belie… | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeGood! Never stop working on yourself, I am. Life keeps getting better and better, and I am talking about the ladies, but yes the ladies are good too! | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeWhen posting on /r/seduction one needs to speak the natives' language. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeRandom is a system as well, and choosing not to do anything about something is an expression of Free Will, an easy choice, yet still a choice. Relevant http://i.imgur.com/s9Olx9e.jpg | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 10:46 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI was once in that state. PUA & /r/seduction are a hodgepodge of advice, and some of it (unfortunately the minority) has more to do with becoming a confident modern male and less to do with cheap tricks to bed a woman. If you follow that advice and go out there and screw up over and over and analyze what works and what doesn't you will improve, and there's no limit at how far you can go. Older redditor here, I've been at this for over a decade now. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 10:44 AM |
| 3 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI am not being sarcastic. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeGood one. This one is good too https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Vq5-dRYp-c | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 10:39 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeThis works for me, and works very well; and that's when I feel like replying. If what you do works for you, by all means, continue doing it, and you might want to post something about your system and share the wealth of your experience with the community. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 03:14 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeWe're friends first. With time I have noticed the added benefit of the social capital, it's a byproduct of our friendship, there not much I can do about it, but I can't ignore it, and it's there, I don't do anything, like the sun and the moon, they're just there. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:07 AM |
| 0 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI agree with you wholeheartedly. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeHotness is relative and subjective. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:04 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI know, like a firework, fun but once it's done you're left wondering: what's next? | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeYup! | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:01 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeIf anyone posts anything on Reddit, being given a hard time is part of the deal, that's Reddit for you. But I believe in the power of the /r/seduction community, it's a wonderful forum where people share experiences so that other people can pick up a few things, wisdom of the Crowd so to speak. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:01 AM |
| 0 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeOvercomplicating things? Quite the opposite, by remaining friends things are simpler, a lot simpler. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:59 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeActually I am presently dating someone who is - in my mind - better than my platonic friend; and I am not consumed with scoring chicks, but of course dating is important in my life. And as far as settling down I've been married and divorced twice, been there, done that, now it's play time, the play time that I didn't get when I was in my 20's, I am more than making up now. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeThanks, I've been around the block a few times, back in the days I was a shy, awkward AFC, the worst AFC! | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:56 AM |
| -2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeBest comment | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:55 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeYes, the value of the social capital is unbelievable. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:54 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeYou're smart, I believe it was her ego. Put yourself in her shoes EVERYONE is hitting on her, constantly! She has a biased view of guys of the world, taking a page off /r/seduction she assumes attraction. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeNope! | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:52 AM |
| 0 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI like your username, are you a boy or a girl? | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:51 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeIt's not them, it's me. I really don't want to become an expert in reading between the lines, reading between words, and similar; I prefer to me a matter-of-fact type of guy. You're right, I just don't want to go that direction, it's not me. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:50 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeBusiness contact, her company hired my company for a consulting gig, I was on assignment and reported to her boss. That's how we knew of each other, and we kept running into each other at a few industry functions and events. Slowly we became friends. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same time"...perception is reality..." you're a smart man. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:44 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeMany times women say one things and mean something else, often I don't catch it. It's when my analytical brain is in full control I guess. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:53 PM |
| 3 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeThank you, I'll take anything that ends with an est; makes me feel special. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:52 PM |
| 11 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeHow so? Because I want to remain friend with a friend? She's a friend, sure she's objectively attractive, sure once in a while I have dirty dreams and thoughts about her, but while I am a guy, I don't sleep with just anyone, they have to have something special that drives to fantasize what we would do together once our clothes are off; and she doesn't do that for me; never did. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:49 PM |
| 3 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI hear you and a lot of people have suggested that too. Call me old fashioned, but she is a valuable asset to my life, we have wonderful conversations, I can tell her anything, she can tell me anything. Above and beyond that: While she's very hot, I am not sure how advanced she's with her sex skills, sure she's got some, but I need a lot. I am a freak in bed, I am not sure if I want her to see that side of me, I'm OK with having the You want to put what ... where ...? conversation with a new gir… | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeShe's really beautiful, smart, and independent; and she's having a hard time finding compatible guys. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:19 PM |
| 10 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeShe's attractive, that's for sure. I am into her as a friend, and I've got accustomed to have her as a friend. With time I've got to notice, reap, and enjoy the fruits of the social capital that she represents, but that is not the main reason. Keep in mind that I've been married and divorced twice before, I am only interested in dating, nothing else. My friend and I have been friends for 7 years now, going to 8, I am not going to date anyone for that length of time. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:03 PM |
| 4 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeThank you. That was my point all along. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:00 PM |
| 5 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI agree. From a guy's perspective there could be yet another possible explanation: you were not up to his standard in bed. I am sure you've had the same experience with a guy that was just perfect except that in bed.... there was something amiss. It happens. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:59 PM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeDepending on the game, if it takes not much effort on my side, and if she's a HB8+ I can out-game most of them; so I play because of the challenge. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:57 PM |
| 0 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeIndirectly YES, and more directly to be pay attention to what /u/derphurr calls "indirect speech" and possibly "plausible deniability". When it comes to interactions and relationships between a man and a woman, the man has to do a lot more work. Still I love being a guy! | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI meant to be a range like from HB10 to HB0. HB0 = unfortunate in the looks department | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:54 PM |
| 4 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI think you're on to something, you are a very smart man. When it comes to "indirect speech" and spotting "plausible deniability" I'm not that good. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:53 PM |
| 7 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeMeh, not interested in trading long term gains for short term little things. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 06:52 PM |
| 35 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI can get laid any time I want, but I really like her as a friend, and having a HB#10 as a platonic friend when everyone things we're FWB or something is a huge social capital that pays a lot more benefits than bedding one woman. She's very smart too (PhD and then some) and she's one of the few people that I can have an intriguing conversation on a variety of topics; it's a lot harder to find a friend than a lay. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisIt's a question of preferences. Before I started working out I didn't see much difference, now... I do and I like a nice toned body with just enough definition. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisWhatever bakes your noodle man! http://i.imgur.com/5kB8tK8.jpg | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisJust like there's more to a woman than just cleavage... whatever gets anyone to the gym or to r/fitness, even a tittle that's a sit too sensationalist; hang on a serious gym or on /r/fitness long enough and most people will realize that advice like yours is the way to go! If health and healthy living has to be a by-product of vanity, so be it; there are worst things in the world. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Married and working on myself. Thoughts?First and foremost, since you mentioned Nice Guy you must read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy". Then, to address your question: you can classify the content in /r/seduction as belonging to one of two schools of thought: The narrowly focused How to get a girl tactics, which is the vast majority The How to be an awesome confident person , which is not very prominent, but it's there. I do believe and practice the How to be an awesome confident person school of thought, which helps guys achieve a we… | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basischeck /r/Fitness and also google GOMAD (Gallon Of Milk A Day) | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basishttp://i.imgur.com/5Zt8ZH9.jpg | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisDon't you LOVE it?(*) (*) As long as she's pretty | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 09:36 PM |
| 7 | Biceps: The male equivalent to cleavage! - Don't forget to work out on a regular basisDo you feel "Objectified?". ;-) | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | My take on Seduction - It is about becoming a better person in general, and having more fun with people!Become a better person, everything else will follow: happiness, career, friends, and yes women too. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time" - Make HER wait.You got it. What I did was out of character for me and out of my comfort zone, but I realized that my old self would have been on time, and then after 10 minutes I would walk away, I've done it before. However that way I would be disappointed and so would she. So I tried this experiment where I would for sure be late, on purpose, while doing something useful to me (I know I went to an extreme here), I wanted to see what would happen, I had nothing to lose, and I had everything to gain, the exper… | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 04:18 PM |
| 2 | "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time" - Make HER wait.I am the same way as you are, this time I wanted to try something different. If you're always on time (like me), you probably have noticed that people who are on time, they are always on time; and people who are late, are always late. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 11:01 AM |
| 1 | "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time" - Make HER wait.It's all a question of practice practice practice, including practicing DGAF. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 04:19 AM |
| 1 | "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time" - Make HER wait.That's interesting, I might try it. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 04:17 AM |
| 1 | "I hope that you're not anal retentive about being on time" - Make HER wait.I've done that before, this time I tried something different. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 04:16 AM |
| 2 | What is the likelihood of actually being successful with women at the bars?It all depends on you. I am going out on a limb here, but my guess is that you're a bit like me: I can't get laid am not at successful with women in a bar, I learned long time ago that it's just not the right environment for me. So I am successful with women in other environments. Funny thing is that with time (older redditor here) I also realized that the women that usually go to bars to get laid are not my type either, and I am not theirs. So I suggest to look deeper within yourself, realize w… | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Often after a one night stand, I feel like I did a bad thing? I don't understandUnfortunately most relationships don't end well, regardless on how they start. | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Often after a one night stand, I feel like I did a bad thing? I don't understandLMAO, good one. | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Often after a one night stand, I feel like I did a bad thing? I don't understandWhy not? I think a FWB type of relationship would be a win-win situation. Again, if it was good once, why not twice? 3 times? I am not advocating shooting for marriage or anything. | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Often after a one night stand, I feel like I did a bad thing? I don't understandMy philosophy has always been that if she was good enough for one night, why not go back for more? I am not saying marry her, but with time sex between two consenting adults gets better and better, they get more comfortable with each other, to try new things and push the envelope further and further; hence no more one night stands, but.. relationships, albeit short ones. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I change the mind set of "she's out of my league"?The question is: how do you do with the ones who are in your league? | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 05:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm curious what's the most common mistakes areoneitis buying her a drink complimenting her on her looks on anything similar (only compliment her for something she has done, not for something she is or something she has) texting (too much) waiting for her to end the conversation or the interaction | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Breakup Pickup?1 Make her stop talking/complaining about BF 2 Proceed as just any other girl. | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, how do you respond to a bitchy insult?Everything I have is BIG! | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 04:18 AM |
| 4 | Buying small gifts for your date, to show that you remembered something from he last one: Good or bad?Bad. You are rewarding her while she has done nothing to be rewarded for. | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Basic question; She rejects your advances. You still see her in social circles. How do you act?Business as usual. Nothing important ever happened, if she or anyone else brings it up, you don't remember. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Where's the line between being persistent/showing interest and being desperate/creepy?I found a good solution in the escalation principle: Always be engaging and escalate. If you draw a line, ascending line of course, from when you first you see a girl you like to the time you are both naked, you'll realize that some time has to pass, and certain escalating two-way activities have to happen. It can start as simple as making eye contact. Does she make eye contact as well? Smile. Does she smile back. Approach. Is she welcoming you? Talk. Is she talking back? Is there rapport? If sh… | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Mark Manson's "Models" most important points condensed into an 11 page PDF.Very good summary, Mark should use this to promote his book. I particularly like how you wrote: Women are generally only attracted to men who are less invested in them, than they are in themselves. By investment I mean the degree in which you sacrifice/alter your own thoughts/feelings/motivations for someone else. By less I mean that as a man, you should only be willing to sacrifice your thoughts/feelings/motivations for a woman less than she is willing to do the same for you. which in all pract… | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 12:27 PM |
| 2 | I can approach, but I feel like I have nothing to say.At times, yes it does. How to Win Friends and Influence People was first published in 1936, and its purpose was for business. Back then culture was different, very different than it is today (too long a topic to get into now). No More Mr. Nice Guy was first published in 2003, almost 70 years later. My advice: read both, the overall principles are valid, yet take both with a grain of salt, for instance while I think No More Mr. Nice Guy is a MUST read, personally I think that the last 1/3 of the … | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Warm-Up ExercisesCongratulations! You have just experienced something big. Now, instead of wasting time with a particular tactic (pre-PUA warmup), within a single particular activity (PUA); you can expand your life skills! This simple statement summarizes the science behind it http://i.imgur.com/EjojXPN.jpg The point is, instead of waiting to be in the mood to do something, do it and you'll realize you'll be in the mood. Just do it! | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:28 AM |
| 6 | I can approach, but I feel like I have nothing to say.After you master the basics as outlined by How to Win Friends and Influence People? Where do I start? Any and all of the PUA books, booklets, presentations, courses, symposiums, boot camps... none of them is perfect/complete, each one of them has something useful *Read psychology books at large, starting from any college Psych 101 books (Book) Tribes by Seth Godin, it's about leadership (hint: it's a lot of work, and you need to put yourself out there first) [book] If you are an introvert (this … | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 02:53 AM |
| 2 | I can approach, but I feel like I have nothing to say.Some introverts are attracted to extroverts (read Carl Jung for more on that) but when you find an introvert with whom you are on the same wavelength.... it's magic. Hint: those introvert girls either don't go to bar/clubs, of if they go, they look like fish out of water, just like you: go rescue them! | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 02:45 AM |
| 7 | I can approach, but I feel like I have nothing to say.I am an introvert myself. May I give you a few of suggestions? Read this http://www.carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts (book) Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. Don't try to become an extrovert, or try to out-do extroverts. There are many, and I mean many introvert girls out there, and we (introverts), have a lot in common with them. | /r/seduction | 20/07/13 06:38 PM |
| 6 | I can approach, but I feel like I have nothing to say.It's a classic, it'a very good start, learn about the techniques of conversations. From there there are other "advanced" books, but this is the foundation. | /r/seduction | 20/07/13 06:16 PM |
| 54 | I can approach, but I feel like I have nothing to say.How to Win Friends and Influence People is a good start. | /r/seduction | 20/07/13 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Texting Troubles, Any Advice is Greatly AppreciatedTry something different, try honesty, try texting her: I can hold conversations in person so much better, but texting is just awkward and and dry; how about coffee tomorrow? | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How can I apply Seddit values while being in a relationship?To some of us, Seduction is about creating attraction by being the best you can possibly be: living your own life on your own terms, doing what you are passionate in life, being both aware and assertive in life. Do that, and people will gravitate to you, including your SO. | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 03:52 AM |
| 1 | AA, confidence, inner game, body language: you can change all of that just by doing some simple, easy, short exercises.Must be because it was featured in a recent Mashable article: http://mashable.com/2013/07/08/ted-talks-change-your-life/ . I guess many of us think the same way. Thank you for your gentle note. | /r/seduction | 09/07/13 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I assume attraction if I'm really ugly?Not everyone in Seddit agree with the Assume Attraction philosophy, I am one of them. I still have confidence and outcome independent, and I believe that seduction is all about creating attraction, so when I am with someone that I am interested in, it's all about always escalating kino+flirting; at each escalation level I check that she's playing back with me, hence attracted, and continue to escalate. Escalate all the way to when we are both naked at my place, or hers. | /r/seduction | 09/07/13 11:40 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys text back a one night standI am borrowing this one. | /r/seduction | 09/07/13 11:34 AM |
| 1 | A question about age difference and how not to make it influence your gameAre you looking to marry her? If so.... once you're getting the marriage license say oooooops. If you're not planning on marrying her, but it would be a temporary thing, anywhere between one night and... less than a marriage proposal, a white lie will be serving the both of you a favor. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Do most women just not show interest that much?More interest = more urgency, and more excitement. It's the same difference between you preparing to go out with your buddies to watch a movie or preparing to go out to your new girlfriend's place who promised you that you'll have a 3some with her roommate Jennifer. | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Do most women just not show interest that much?Yes, they probably thought of you as the long term relationship guy. Read the book No More Mr Nice Guy. | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Do most women just not show interest that much?I did. Let me re-write my answer: No. Women do show interest, but only when really interested, otherwise they just coast, mildly interested, but not much. When a woman is truly interested she'll go all the way, that's how ONS happen. Let's not forget the Hank Moody's theory about women. When a woman sees a guy she puts him into one of 3 mutually exclusive categories: Fuck him Marry him Kill him (or ignore him) My guess is that these girls put you in the Marry him category. Let me guess, you cons… | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 06:15 PM |
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