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cray-cray-cray/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 03:58 AM
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"A Father's Job... Isn't to teach his daughter how to be a lady but to teach her how a lady should be treated." That is true, to some extent. Daughters need good female role models just like sons need good male role models. As a father, you teach a daughter "how a lady should be treated" by the way you treat her. It's about actions, not words. If the most important male figure in her life treats her like shit, then she will expect that from other males as she matures. She will associate those be…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 12:05 AM
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Music festivals.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:52 PM
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It could be both.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:40 PM
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So, this barely touches the edge of TRP for me, but wow, that was fucking gold. I think I read every word of that, and should probably read it again.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 10:00 AM
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The CEO in the room is higher-stability but lower-dominance Be careful with that. I am not always dominant, but I do have deep stability. As a result, the AMOG-VC has trouble making eye-contact with me, and even when he asks me a question he has to look away to hear the answer. The reason is because I don't reflect or reinforce his neurotic energy. No offense to you, but more likely, he is setting you up to fail. He didn't get where he is by being oblivious.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 01:25 AM
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I'm late to respond here... but if you really want to deconstruct those hypothetical interactions... then take a look at this... http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/11/11/the-gervais-principle-ii-posturetalk-powertalk-babytalk-and-gametalk/ Very interesting.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 12:40 AM
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I listen to what I feel is their desired outcome. Well... I guess you must be amazing if you can also do that without listening to anyone. That might work for you, but that is horrible advice for a beginning entrepreneur, which would be most people reading your posts. Really man, just horrible advice.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:45 PM
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Name one situation where listening to a woman actually added value to your life. Women are customers. Do you only accept money from men?
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:30 PM
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Big Brothers / Big Sisters sounds like a potential option. Last time I checked, you need to have a spotless record for something like that. At one time, I thought my checkered past would be an asset to any kids I could mentor. I could talk to them about mistakes I'd made (age appropriate), and come from a legit "I'll help you do it better than I did" viewpoint. But nah, not really. Donating to charity? Safe and noble, but be smart about it. Most "charities" are really businesses. Try to make sur…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:27 PM
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This isn't r/stupidity either. Plug your ears if you like, but you will miss a lot of opportunities.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:10 PM
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Listening to what a woman says is never valuable in any situation. Not true. In fact, listening to people is essential to achieving any goal you can think of. (yes, even listening to women...)
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:06 PM
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My advice is generally for men who want to be builders, not destroyers. Definitely two different schools of TRP. Weird. Neither of those have to do with TRP, really.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:04 PM
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Carefully paying attention to feedback won't make you "beta." I promise.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:00 PM
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Basically you're a moron. I don't mean this offensively or negatively. You usually give a lot of bad advice here, but I'm totally upvoting you for that one.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:59 PM
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Leaders don't ask underlings their opinions on how to run the company. Only the smart leaders do that. But that doesn't even apply to this scenario.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:56 PM
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she's talking to some guy pretending to like him so she and her friends can laugh at him. I stopped reading right there. She's either telling you lies about the nature of her relationship with this guy, or she's a pretty cruel and shitty person. If it is either one of things (which it is for sure), then why would you want to be in a long term relationship with this person? And no... don't tell me about how good she sucks dick. There are plenty of girls out there that suck a mean dick. If you sta…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:52 PM
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He often told her that he is disgusted by her past. No matter what else is going on, that's seriously no way for a guy to live. I think he has a legitimate right to his feelings, but there is absolutely no way a guy will ever make himself happier with that approach. It's all wrong in a lot of ways, and will just lead to one shitty resentful relationship.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 10:05 PM
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This is true in general, but things like "fear nothing & leave your state of constant hesitation and self-doubt behind" and a lot of other things in the thread are not so hot. That's how to kill yourself. Even the 48 laws of power gets this wrong... "If you are unsure of a course of action, do not attempt it." That's insane. A man needs to know how to assess risk. If a man needs to completely eliminate risk, he'll never be a man, or never know reality. Life is risk. You can mitigate risk if you …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:34 AM
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/r/wastingmytimeonbasicbitches
/r/askTRP13/09/15 01:21 AM
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we have the same values Really? I mean... really?? Anyway, she has started to bring up past partners and although this does not bother me, she gets upset when I do the same. It DOES bother you, or I wouldn't find myself typing shit for you to read. She is doing "trickle truth" for you, except you didn't even ask.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:44 AM
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She didn't clean that much, didn't have sex, You should have ditched her after a few months of that. That's how and where you fucked up. Everything else, you got because you didn't get rid of her sooner.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:55 PM
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I suspect it has something to do with my disinterest in having a family, like breeding is the only way for a certain type of woman to feel socially relevant, and when someone bucks the trend, they don't know how to compete with it. You really answered your own question there. The older women are talking to you "like an idiot" because they want to cast you away. Do you think older women like competing with you for their husbands? They are probably posting someplace, asking people why they can't g…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:40 PM
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Here is what possibly happened... She really thought she was pregnant, and didn't like your reaction to it. For a girl, that's plenty enough to kill attraction in an LTR, and even make her hate you with a passion. Or she faked it, and didn't like your reaction to it. Most girls would have already taken a home pregnancy test before 2 missed periods. Since you believe it was a bullet dodged, it's best to just let her go either way.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:31 PM
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Sure, but given that hardly anyone wants to fuck them, you won't hear them backward rationalizing sex and relationships very often.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:45 PM
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I also think that looking for a stepmom for my son has hindered my growth in many ways. Yeah, so stop doing that. Find a girl for you, and she'll happily accept your son when the time comes.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:34 PM
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I have them with a full serving of "fuck you," usually served cold.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:30 PM
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What a shitshow. Move out and mind your own business.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:00 PM
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She should have stuck with me through the bad times yeah, and I'm pissed that she didn't Seriously, the first thing you need to do is just get over that. In a perfect world, your chick would be "ride or die." That's usually not reality, and definitely not your reality right now. What do I do? Understand THIS. She doesn't love you. She loves how you make her feel. Do you want to keep her, regardless of her flaws, whatever they are? Then make her FEEL. Do you know how your anxiety and depression m…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 07:41 PM
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Yes, I like that for sure too, along with less risk of STDs. There is also less risk of getting cased, robbed, etc. Inviting new people into your life always carries various risks. (and potential rewards, but those rewards are usually nowhere near equal to what I get from new random pussy.)
/r/askTRP30/08/15 07:24 PM
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A little, yes. I can't leave the house without seeing some chick I'd like to fuck. But OTOH, I really like what I have, and I like having it all of the time. I'm wondering if that sort of thinking will preclude me from ever being in a successful relationship. Maybe or maybe not. That depends on you, mostly. Personally, I have some required criteria before I'd become exclusive with a girl. I need to have fucked at least 6 different girls in the preceding 6 months. (so I am coming from an area of …
/r/askTRP30/08/15 06:26 PM
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Ok, so be the Chad then. It's not much different than now. There's no reason why shitty guys are entitled to one girl each.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 11:47 PM
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Your sarcasm is the very reason why I wanted to provide evidence. The RedPill has given me much and I want to give back but this does not work if you don't believe me. Providing evidence doesn't really help you or anyone else. What are you "giving back?" A success story? I can see why people were doubtful regarding your other post. That doesn't sound like virgin girl behavior. I'm glad to hear shit is working out for you. But if you have something of value to offer everyone here, go ahead and do…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:59 PM
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starting a business soon I can hear panties dropping EVERYWHERE! Otherwise I don't know how to provide evidence. But if you know a way of how to easily do this, let me know. lol.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:45 PM
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As this area is hers, where she and her friends are. She thinks I would be 'intruding' on that. For whatever reason, she's done with you. In a good LTR, you are an intricate part of a girl's life, and she will like it that way. I found this a very odd attitude for someone that I've been dating for the last couple of years.... Because it is. She's looking for a new branch. Actually, it is somewhat nice of her to request that you not invest more into the relationship at this point.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:42 PM
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I haven't seen any big red flags except that some of the shit seems to good to be true. What about the fact that she can overpower you? Or that description of shitty sex? Or her abusive ex? Or her "boring profile?" Or her insecurity? Or that she is the most frail person you've ever seen? No wonder you have this nagging fear. It's your fight or flight system telling you to fucking run.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 12:02 PM
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There's quite a bit of overlap.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 11:48 AM
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That's the way to do it, it probably didn't occur to OP at the time. Of course not. I know I have the benefit of hindsight. He had time to prepare, and I hope anyone reading will consider other options when in that position. In general, a company (and especially government) will never admit to doing something "wrong" or "unfair." That approach will go nowhere until everyone has told every lie they can tell.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:04 AM
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Women don't need to sign up for a website to cheat. Do you know who does? Married thirsty betas. If you have a girl worth anything at all, she can go out tonight and get fucked by a reasonably attractive guy. At his place, he'll buy a hotel, etc, etc. The logistics will get taken care of. She doesn't even need money... just a ride to the club, or wherever. I'm surprised 14% of the accts are women, actually.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 09:55 PM
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My understanding is that usually plates exclusively see you (correct me if I'm wrong) It depends on how tight your game is. In fact, it's a fairly good measuring stick that your game is tight, or you could be plating better chicks. Think about it like this... if girl really thinks you're a catch, she'll be doing whatever she can to gain your commitment, which will also have them claiming exclusivity with you fairly quickly in an attempt to get you to reciprocate. Some of those plates will drop e…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 09:41 PM
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I calmly explained that I was being treated unfairly. Now you're forcing the boss to find someone responsible for fucking you... and maybe even someone she likes. Better move would have been to say it was all some big misunderstanding. Seriously, why would other coworkers think they heard you change your primary phone number? Yeah, I know why they actually said it, but the story was dumb enough to attack without requiring that blame be placed... while no one is on your side... and you don't even…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:33 PM
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Oh, man, just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Smile and nod a lot. A lot of people might say "no way - that's not true to who I am..." lol, whatever. and maybe even thrive, in that environment? Make them feel like you care about listening to them. DO NOT try to treat them like they are your ltr, dominate them, agree and amplify, or whatever, etc. Make them feel like you are interested in their opinions, and NEVER EVER tell anyone that you don't, or didn't. Believe me... those types will tell you all about TRP…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 09:27 PM
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This is an endorsed contributor shaming you for picking your own spots. If you like asian girls, have the means, and feel like moving to asia, what the fuck should anyone else care? This sub is full of people talking about moving because they don't like "laws." There is absolutely nothing wrong with moving someplace because you like your future chances there, whether it's with girls, money, laws, business environment, or whatever you like. As for your question... brunette white girls are concent…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:28 AM
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Maybe she's broke down by the side of the road and can check her shit on a phone. Chill out, and go do something else. I might as well tell her she's a pussy ass liar, Right? If you really need to turn a maybe into a no, then go for it.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:17 AM
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Perhaps this is a MarriedRedPill thing only... Hopefully some of them will reply here... because wtf is this reply? Kinda, but that must be one of their failings. If "buying new underwear" puts your LTR into dread mode, then you were apparently lacking underwear-game pretty hard to start with. That's not directed at you personally. But really... if your wife thinks you can't get tail wearing your daily underwear, then what the fuck are these people wearing? No wonder someone like that has wife i…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:12 AM
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Green Flag: Doesn't care much about makeup. (or shoes, etc...) Does a 9 really need to regularly fake attractiveness, or wear uncomfortable things? If she does, she may be a 9 physically and a 5 mentally. If she's a 7, that same thing is a RED Flag. A 7, who thinks she doesn't need to step up her game, is an anchor.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:10 AM
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Look out, man. There's a 75% chance she'll accidentally suck a dick in the parking lot.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:46 AM
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Do I have to be in the cage? Well, yeah, unless you want it to think you're a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 01:01 PM
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It's literally white knight beta cyber terrorism. lol. Almost surely true. However, you can value honesty without being a "white knight." If you value honesty and have a chance to bring consequences to dishonest people, probably anonymously, then that doesn't make you a white knight. White knights want recognition for their chivalry. It's part of the definition, really.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:30 AM
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How long is a piece of string?
/r/askTRP21/07/15 12:21 AM
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No. Actually, it is the opposite.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 12:20 AM
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Are your parents testing you to see if they should keep fucking you or not? Or maybe testing you to see if they want to fuck you to start with? Every minor snag in your life isn't a "shit test." If you approach everything that way, you're in for some seriously comedic shit. And then she hamsters and pretends to be super upset and sulky. And one more crazy thought... everything isn't a "hamster," either.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 01:13 AM
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She's playing you like a fiddle. Sorry. :(
/r/askTRP19/07/15 12:34 AM
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Ok, but here is something you may want to be careful of. Working out.... for instance... If you have to set up a work out video for her to work out... unless she just likes you to be involved, that might sound like criticism to her, which can be toxic over a longer timeframe. Let me take you through a thought experiment real quick. You stated elsewhere that you/she thinks she's currently low quality. As she gets higher quality, she'll get more and more attention from other people with them sayin…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 11:58 PM
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don't let what's out of your control bother you too much You've given him an ultimatum to fight on the weaker side, with very little context. So, something completely beyond his control is supposed to make him physically fight people based on "bullying?" How smart is your kid? How does he know who is bullying who and who is fighting back? By weight? it is his responsibility to do the right thing and ensure others do to. That's just dangerous. Why does it fall upon your kid's shoulders to ensure …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 11:12 PM
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If I don't set up the workout video, she won't work out. If I don't portion healthy food for meals, she won't eat healthy. That can't be sustainable.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 10:37 PM
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Your strategy in Scenario 1 was "bug me until I tell you something." Even if she kept bugging you, what do you win? After she got ridiculous, it sounds like you handled it fine.(could have been way worse.) But the whole strategy was going nowhere. Teasing is good at times, but only when it increases sexual tension. Ask yourself this. Does "I know something I'll never tell you" build sexual tension? Does it increase your attractiveness in any way? Even worse, such a strategy made someone else the…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 10:01 PM
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If she stopped to fuck, that is one thing. If not, you should have immediately told her that's the worst blowjob you've had since middle school. Either way, she has no right to talk like she's a blow job queen anyway. Now you can tell her you've experienced it, and it was 1/10 of what she thinks it is. That's for mouthy girls. If she really thinks she's good at it and she's just not, then you have to be a lot more gentle and careful.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:53 PM
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She told me in front of a coworker to suck a dick and I held frame until after work and told her she doesn't talk to me like that. You gotta hold frame all the time, man... not just until after work. she calls me over to say "hey you look miserable is your pussy ok?" To which I responded "yea is yours after last night?" To make her understand how it feels in a sense. She loses her shit comes up to me asking why they hell I would talk like that in front of somebody and gets all pissy. Epic shit t…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:00 PM
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1 simple step, hoes don't want you to know... Next time she starts talking about being good at it, tell her to prove it.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 08:51 PM
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She's on like 7 medications for anxiety and stuff. NOT A 10. She asked me when I last had sex and doesn't like that it was recent and would want me to be tested before sleeping with her, even though she fucked her ex last week. She's fucking with you.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 08:49 PM
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I've dug myself into the friendzone Yeah, that. Scenario 1 doesn't really mean anything. And your approach was weak sauce. "I'm not going to tell you something" in order to get attention might get you some attention, but it won't lead you into anyone's pants. Scenario 2 sounds meaningless. Scenario 3 - she wanted you to save her form your friend, and she felt safe that you wouldn't hit on her. She was completely right. Scenario 4 - meaningless. or if this just some sort of elaborate mindfuck. Se…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 08:47 PM
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Other alphas? That's part of your problem right there. To me, those are "weird people that keep touching me too much." Treat them as such.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:49 AM
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There is DEFINITELY a better subreddit to post this.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:42 AM
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This is all a horrible idea. We got to talking, and quickly bonded over the fact that said dude is a crazy, jealous, and psychotic dude. That's your future here. You will be the new crazy, jealous, and psychotic dude she tells someone about.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:41 AM
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I didn't know what to do at the time and thought it was the easiest thing to do while trying to maintain frame. My only advice is to never do that again. It sounds like "If you don't know what's wrong, I'm not going to tell you." That is pure women nonsense, and a woman will not respond favorably to that from a man... ever.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:04 AM
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She likes trying to make me jealous and it's something she's always done. That is no way to live. I told her she was doing something I didn't like without specifying what it was. This went on for 10 more mins until she left angrily. That was dumb... and also useless. We have been no contact for 7 days which has never happened in the LTR before this. At this point, I'd consider myself single. She probably does.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 01:51 PM
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If you want to keep this girl... Going forward, treat the dad as if you never read that. Don't forget it or disregard it. We have a family reunion of theirs that I am invited to. Not sure if I should go and pretend to not know anything. Yes, go. Charm people. You don't want the dad representing you, do you? How should I proceed and manage this issue going forward. Remember it is an issue. Do NOT tell gf about it. Those words were meant for her, not you. If you start whining to your girlfriend ab…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 08:13 PM
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if you look at someone, they look at you and in the next second look away, she probably isn't interested. Recently someone told me that this isn't always the case What is the alternative? A no-holds-barred staring contest to the death?
/r/askTRP11/07/15 08:03 PM
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+1 for her for being honest. -1 for her for being really bad at girl game. how do I respond when the girl straight up understands that sex is just a series of exchanges? Is she autistic or just inexperienced? Most girls know not to say shit like that. Seriously, who doesn't want to be rich and have a great lifestyle? If she had good girl game, she'd be talking about how much she loves sucking your cock... while she's sucking your cock.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 08:01 PM
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How do you drop your plates? Are there any strategies that you use? Do you sugarcoat it? I'm gonna sound like a GIANT asshole here. I usually just "fade." I mean... less and less contact, less and less texts, etc. When they get super needy, you just have to go with "we weren't working out." This is ultimate built in dread game for new girls. They ask "why won't you talk to her?" and "what did she do?" and other shit. They know your exes are obsessed with you. They know you fucked these girls for…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 10:12 PM
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My ex-girlfriend is saying I shouldn't say anything because she doesn't want drama. But I think I should say something. She told you to get you jealous, which was easy. She COMPLETELY SOUGHT DRAMA. Apart from that, is this person really your friend? If so, of course you would say something. Your reluctance to bring up the issue gives me the impression this person wasn't your friend to start with, and you should go ahead and re-evaluate these relationships with everyone.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 09:57 PM
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Got her to set up a movie this thursday in less than three replies over fb DM. She lives an hour away. There's no way she's not after the D. That's 3 days away. Don't dance in the endzone yet.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 09:54 PM
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I sure hope so. ...the problem with a man marrying two women (we don't see many real-world examples of polyandry, a woman with multiple husbands) They are out of their fucking minds. I see it all of the time. I'm somebody who likes long term plates. 3 are perfect. 3 quality girls... more time banging, less time gaming. What TRP rarely talks about is how wasteful plate spinning can be. You're constantly casting off good girls who just need a little something. TRP often talks about "commitment" as…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:40 PM
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is it based on the hope that they might be able to fuck her? A lot of it is that, or worse. A lot of guys actually have fantasies about tutoring a girl, them getting to know each other, falling deeply in true love, getting married, and having kids. But it has to start with proximity. They aren't strong enough to just go for it sexually, so they need a ruse to get closer. If they had any idea how badly they friendzone themselves, no one would do it.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 01:28 PM
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you will not survive in Nigerian if you are not strong(mentally) The way we see the world, is that everyone is out there to try to take advantage of you, so you have to try to be one step ahead. That explains a lot of my email.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:07 PM
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Here is what OP said... After I started out on my own, working as an independent consultant, I have quadrupled my salary on average, good months its 6-8 times my old salary And here is what you say... Totally false to claim that it is 'not realistic' for most people. So if you feel it is realistic for most people, then what? Most people are just too stupid to know that they can quit their job and start making 4 times their own salary? Or most people simply don't want to quit their job and start …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 03:02 PM
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he's one of the few people at work that I actually like. He's one of the few people you used to like. You're in the process of discovering he's an ass. Am I being unreasonable that I expect my friend to pay for the damage to my car? If he were your friend, you wouldn't be here asking this question.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:48 PM
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Look for a cream that has both alpha arbutin and kojic acid. They are both skin lighteners by themselves, but they do an amazing job when combined.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:36 PM
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I've seen a lot of people on here talk about trying to help their friends turn RP or be upset that their male friends aren't receptive to RP theory. But isn't ultimately a good thing? Wouldn't it better for those friends to stay BP so that the enlightened TRP'ers can have more success with woman. The instinct for that has a pretty solid basis. If you're gonna survive, you need more than YOU and some secret you stumbled upon. You need a solid crew. You can join one (not easy) or build one ( not e…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:46 AM
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If you think that sort of success is common, easy to maintain, or easily repeated, then why isn't everyone rich already?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:29 AM
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“Women need to admire their partner,” says psychologist Harriette Podhoretz. “They need to find something that doesn’t interfere with their passionate glue, that keeps the marriage charged up and alive.” Ah, yes... "Passionate Glue" is what I'll call that from now on. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:09 PM
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I spoke with my brother last night who finished his freshman year at a major University. It sounds like the boys are drilled early and the first days of Orientation are spent with the GLBTQQA running through skits about rape and how 1-4 women are still getting drunk, fucking chad, and not taking responsibility for their actions or rape as they call it. As true and as funny as that might be... Get some video.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:50 AM
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It's great that you are doing well, but this is not realistic for most people. In fact, it's not realistic for you, either. So if you keep it going, nice! If you crash, try again.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:46 AM
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I wasn't saying you have malicious intent, but fuck if those aren't a bunch of weird words.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:51 AM
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I believe that women should have their choice in dating partners, no question about that. THANK GOD! Because if you believed something else, maybe it would magically come true, and we'd all lose our shit and have no idea what to do. What I have found is that non-whites, particularly the more foreign looking kind (Asians, Arabs, Indians, Latinos, etc.) tend to struggle a lot more in the "liberal" big city areas. Also, what the fuck is that? Non whites? The more foreign looking kinds? lol. You mus…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:26 AM
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Never fails... y'all are always so racist, that a nigger can't say nigger without a bunch white knights deciding they're offended by the word. Get used to it, pussies. The world will keep quoting movies and keep saying words that offend you.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:55 PM
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The passive aggressive asshole is the only nigger that would answer that question.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 10:14 PM
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she will make it a competition amongst her men and see which is more suitable for her future. In addition to that, Dad is a fly swatter. Bring your shitty do-nothing boyfriend around and think it is a permanent thing? I didn't raise a girl so some idiot could come glom onto the family and suck more resources out of it. Not happening. Bring something to the table, kid.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 09:52 PM
1

So... you're saying you're a wolf?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:04 AM
1

It piss me off that a women can have sex faster and without working for it in comparison of what a man would have to do. Are you mad that water is wet? Really, what's the point in being mad about shit like that?
/r/askTRP08/06/15 01:53 AM
1

Then out of the blue she texts me "are you just looking to hook up or something?" That's not ASD, without more information.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 10:32 PM
1

What you observe... RP comments getting upvoted in general, is the other side of the same coin. It is very similar to "I'm fat and sexy" in some ways. When resources are abundant, people have time for academic pursuits. It's the same reason why Rome is revered in western culture. People had time to sit around thinking about philosophy on this and that because they weren't worried about finding their next meal. I'm not hating on that... I've spent ridiculous amounts of time on such pursuits, but …
/r/askTRP06/06/15 10:20 PM
2

How would the dynamics of current society change if such a thing happens? It's the state of nature, in a lot of ways. The fact that feminists have so much time to whine about shit says society is in a state of abundant resources. Do you want to see what a redpill aware society looks like? Look for societies in breakdown mode... lack of resources, wars, etc. Is there a chance of a majority of population turning redpill? Yeah, definitely. It happens when shit gets real. You'll see absolutely no "I…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 08:17 PM
2

Yeah... it is counter-intuitive, but you're usually better off paying slightly more attention to the uglier friend. It makes the friend want to stay, and it makes the target think she's involved in a competition. Both are to your benefit.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 07:00 PM
2

I cannot accept my deformities No one else asked... so... um, what are your deformities? I still get jealous. I still care of what other people think about me. And more. That? If so, don't paint yourself as some person who has giant hurdles to overcome. Shut the fuck up and go live your life as if you don't have any giant deformities to live with.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 11:29 PM
-2

"buzz off, bitch."
/r/askTRP05/06/15 11:08 PM
12

Maybe this isn't clear to you... and maybe it doesn't matter to you... If you abort, you and this girl are done. I don't care what she says. Another very scary part of it is. I have been able to keep this girl in a constant flip between in my love and out of my love begging to get in. I have been able to distance myself emotional so I can do the cruel things that keep her attracted. Then move on. It can be 100% her decision, and she will never forgive you for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:00 PM
1

Any experience from TRP on how this will affect the LTR dynamic? Nothing on that level personally, but I presume she knows you can afford it already, so that is already built into her image of you. It is quite possible it will cause some friction with your LTR. Is it similar to increasing my SMV with a sudden boost in looks/cash/interesting new hobby? No, because like I said, it is already built-in. Or do I need to plan on extra comfort tests to assure her I'm not out there to find new plates (h…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:19 PM
2

The poster above you is probably only accepting the fact that these are not "our" schools anymore. "Our" implies that there is some reasonable amount of control regarding direction, and that person believes it is not there... and the further away decisions get (federal versus local), the more accurate their statement becomes.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 06:51 PM
1

Instead of trying to cast him out because you find him distasteful... is it possible to turn him into a cheerleader? Or is he so annoying, that him liking you will cause others to not like you? I'm thinking like this... if he is already extremely annoying, and if you cast him out from the only friend group in town, he might spend a lot of time and energy being a thorn in your side after that. This really bothers me since I learned about SMV That's what makes me ask the questions. I'm the stronge…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:46 PM
2

I finally fucked her last Friday. LMR ("Lame Mother Resistance") was off the fucking charts. I've fucked about 20 moms by now, and she was definitely the toughest.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:08 PM
6

So I have this guy in my social group, and I want to get rid of him. It's not "your" social group, really. If it were, you'd not be asking. So, first things first, recognize your own position. Second, This really bothers me since I learned about SMV, because I want to have friends who can add to my value, and I to theirs, but I can't do that accurately with this guy hanging around constantly misrepresenting his SMV. I want to have friends who can add to my value, and I to theirs, but I can't do …
/r/askTRP02/06/15 05:56 PM
1

Is there any other factors I'm missing? It really has almost everything to do with your relationship with those friends, and the one who fucked her. I've heard "I don't care who she fucks" from a friend before. It was a giant lie, that I wouldn't believe now, from anyone. My question is, is that enough of a reason to stop being friends with someone? It depends. Was it really a betrayal? Is your ex still in the friend group? Was your friend wrong for this? Can you get over it? Are you really good…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 08:52 PM
2

Who is he? Ya know how some people are victims of genetics? He's a beneficiary of genetics. He grew up his whole life with girls serving themselves up on a silver platter. He lives abundance mentality, passes shit tests, etc, though no fault of his own. Ne needs no game and no frame, because they are innate. You'll never be like him, if you have to ask about it. You can be different, and even better. But you will have to work at it, while he never did. How many Chads are there in the society app…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 08:39 PM
1

You're about to get an amazing collection of the most butthurt answers. But there are really just so many factors you made no mention of.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 08:26 PM
1

But, a frequent push-back she has been saying lately is how selfish I am. She claims it is all about me and it is not fair to her. If she is worked up, I am now an asshole. lol. Just in the present? All of my good LTRs could rewrite at least 2-3 years of history, where I was the biggest asshole they ever met. It could happen instantaneously, and there was suddenly an entire history of me being horrible. And it was all 100% true in her head until she liked me again, and thus, her entire history w…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 04:05 AM
3

This was interesting to watch in a lot of ways, some of which have already been noted. In addition to other more obvious things, I noticed the big shot divorce lawyer met his chick at an exclusive restaurant requiring a 25k table fee or something. On the divorce lawyer... he's smart enough to not marry his trophy chick... and he's some sort of real baller with the lambo he's showing off... the guy wears his rolex outside his jacket... has some sort of jacket extensions for that... Maybe people d…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:59 AM
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I can’t quite figure out what is going on. So I start in on a conversation with a bigger group of the girls and ‘my girl’. This dialog lasts maybe two minutes before all but ‘my girl’ excuse themselves from the conversation. I’ve been pigeon holed. All 12 girls have agreed that she is mine, and none of them are to have anything to do with me. I didn’t have the full realization of that until it was too late. A couple Chads show up later, cue female cattiness over fresh meat at the party, and I ha…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:15 AM
3

I see a lot of posts on other subreddits where guys with very little sexual experience post about how they don't care about their girlfriend having had sex with 5x the amount of people they have. It doesn't seem right. Those guys are thirsty, for the most part. They'll take any pussy they can find, so they're not going to say things that they think a girl will find offensive. In fact, they have probably internalized such attitudes to the extent that they completely believe them, even if they did…
/r/askTRP26/05/15 11:50 PM
1

I normally wouldn't chime in on something like this, but only because no one else has told you. She has no care about your sweater, either way. She wants you to engage her in dialogue. She replies almost immediately saying she isn't sure she still has it. she wants to talk... Her: I'm great, thanks for asking. she wants to talk... Her: I kinda have better things to she wants to talk... Her: Sorry for the bad attitude, I've had a bad day. she wants to talk... I don't know why you broke up with he…
/r/askTRP25/05/15 11:26 PM
1

Race does not affect anyone. Never. Never ever. It simply 100% doesn't matter, which is why people are always asking.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 11:09 PM
3

Is this normal, or am I a sociopath? It's normal, mostly. If you were a sociopath, you never would have cared or asked. Well, also, if you were a girl, you never would have cared or asked. That's how they operate on default... they are always comparing you to other men, or thinking in terms of how things would be different, and you have to deal with that on a regular basis if you LTR a girl with LTRing.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 11:01 PM
5

She immediately gets defensive and says that I slapped her before and that its okay, but I have never slapped her in my life. Presumably... she said that in front of other people? Fuck that. Not only did she slap you for no reason, but then her immediate reaction was to start character assassination. And if she didn't say it in front of other people, then it was gaslighting. It sounds like you're going to give her a pass on it, but this looks like a red flag of epic proportions.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 01:18 PM
4

Naturally, we end up pausing it about twenty times throughout, to discuss what's been said. She gets annoyed with us, and tells us to stop talking so we can watch her bullshit doco. She doesn't want us talking about astronomy at OUR astronomical society? Naturally? lol. That's not natural. The morale of the story is, like so many other similar stories on this sub, is that woman simply do not belong in male spaces. This will sound like I'm picking on you, but shut the fuck up. This isn't some "gi…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 08:41 PM
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The hell does that mean when a woman says it to you It's maybe a shit test, and maybe not. It could mean she's telling you the truth. 2 inches taller might make up for whatever else she isn't getting from you. 3 inches on my dick could make a reasonable difference. 5 inches on my height could make a reasonable difference. Would she tell Brad Pitt he is 2 inches too short? It's maybe a shit test, and maybe not. You might as well treat it like a shit test, short term. And no doubt, short guys can …
/r/askTRP15/05/15 08:25 PM
1

False dichotomy... be reactive and respond in kind. Let's throw that out, because then it becomes a contest of being shitty, and everyone loses. accept their lateness with no emotion Sure, you can still deal particular people and particular issues, but you can also adjust your expectations in general, or have different expectations for other people. I'm nice to people because I like myself that way. I respect other peoples' time because I like myself that way. There are a lot of things I do, lik…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 08:08 PM
0

No reason to think or question anything... There must be some authority who can handle your thoughts for you, or deal with anything you don't understand or find offensive.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:47 PM
1

So its either accept their lateness with no emotion, or be reactive and respond in kind. You don't need to do either of those, really. The first is unfair to you, and the second is a train wreck. You place a high value on respecting other peoples' time. I do too. A lot of people don't care, don't know, etc, etc. Here's the thing... How do you maximize utility from those interactions? It is very seldom that being upset will do that, so you're left with other approaches.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 09:32 PM
2

So I get back from night class and the gym last night and ended up talking to the gf before bed. She tells me that a guy she used to talk to before she met me recently texted her. She had deleted his number before (reasons unknown) and had told me she never hooked up with him or gone on any dates but instead just talked to him for validation and attention through texting. Trickle truth incoming, if you pursue it. she has been very open with her past (voluntarily) with me and I have not caught he…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 08:56 PM
2

I text enthusiastically, promptly, and with genuine interest. Below is the hardest advice I routinely have to give to genuinely nice people. 95% of people will NEVER be as considerate to you, as you are toward them. That is just a FACT you have to deal with, if you're the sort of person who likes being nice and considerate toward people. How is it a bad thing to consider others' time to be important and return a call? Because when your "expectations" don't mesh with reality, you're left disappoi…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 08:44 PM
0

It's a response to "What's the difference between a black man and a nigger?" Answering the question at all lowers your perceived value to some extent. It will be very rare where answering the "what do you do" question is a good idea at all. It is extremely unlikely to help you network, so the particulars of how you earn money, or how much you earn, don't need immediate disclosure, and it is probably to your disadvantage in nearly all cases anyway. "Wow so you must be pretty smart then..." You'll…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 12:27 AM
1

And most of the pseudo machismo comes from guys in my social circles, which just gets shut down by ignoring it and holding frame. I want to mostly ignore that, since it isn't really a problem. Good to know you have it handled. Had a girl who rides with us straight tell us the guy she was seeing didn't hang around us because he was intimidated. We only met him twice before. Unsurprisingly she dropped him shortly after telling us. She may have had other reasons for that conversation. I don't doubt…
/r/askTRP12/05/15 11:53 PM
2

Cops are competent Maybe so, but not simply because they are cops. Most cops only train enough to qualify, which isn't much. The average woman has no idea either way. My point wasn't to kick cops around, but to explain the issue for girls is not really about guns. It's about security. A random guy with a gun makes them less secure. A trusted person with a gun makes them more secure. They don't do a lot of mental processing to determine such... it's mostly in their feels - how they feel about a p…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:48 AM
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Most girls do not like guns Actually, what they don't like is fear and uncertainty. You'll find very few girls who have a true philosophical dislike of firearms. How is it easy to tell? Most girls who "don't like guns" are perfectly fine with cops having guns. How could that be? It's because they (very wrongly) believe cops are competent and benevolent by virtue of being cops. It's their "feels" that matter. Very few girls flat out believe no one should possess a gun. If you're the sort of perso…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:48 PM
1

I assume texting things like this are bad, correct? Really depends on the girl and relationship. In a good LTR, you can get a lot of mileage out of simple things like that every now and then. Use it sparingly, and it will remain meaningful and useful.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 09:24 AM
1

Anal sex, yo. Sneak up and surprise her.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 04:40 PM
1

It's two hours of nonsensical divagations on how to get over your ex. Can't watch it all, but I suspect it's an empty viral marketing attempt, and not much else.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 08:39 PM
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And super important... I'm good enough. I'm smart enough. And doggone it, people like me.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 08:36 PM
3

Do you think should we hide our problems from outside world? Do you think we should broadcast our problems to the entire world? Maybe we can find something between that makes sense. If you do either of those extremes, you're probably headed for a bad time.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:24 PM
3

Girls who sell pussy have limited options. For the most part, girls who sell pussy would rather sell one pussy to one awesome guy, for the highest amount possible. How does that relate to guys who sell drugs? Maybe it does. You tell me.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:12 PM
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You know how sometimes you are just compatible with someone? She was a great fit for me. You're delusional. She broke up with you. How the fuck is that a perfect fit? Do you like how you feel right now? Do you like how she makes you feel? The fucked up part is this girl treated me pretty poorly and probably cheated on me (confirmed branch swung). Why am I listening to you when you won't even listen to yourself?
/r/askTRP03/05/15 08:38 PM
2

I've posted my sob story here a few times under various throwaways. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ow0lr63y4Mw
/r/askTRP03/05/15 08:33 PM
2

So, what do I do with my eyes instead of acknowledging every single woman that I come across in the street? I tend to only look at the pretty ones. No reason to waste time looking at fatties.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 11:02 AM
1

I'm in a really fucked up state of mind. She makes me feel inadequate with her sexual past but if she is staying with me should that be a boost instead? I keep feeling like an outsider when I hang out with her old college buddies. give it to me straight trp. Honestly, you will probably never get over those things. You are an outsider, and probably always will be. These guys probably talk about banging your chick, but will never have those discussions with you, and they will always view you as an…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 10:57 AM
1

You should remember that 40% of adults in America are obese and they are still reproducing somehow. Now that you've said that, I'm trying to forget it.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 08:24 PM
2

I think you could probably run all the game you want on a girl, and she's just tell her therapist she's happy and such things would never come up. Even if she told her therapist something was bothering her, I can't imagine the therapist responding with something like "Oh, it sounds like he's negging you." Ever send her canned emails or texts? Maybe she discovered it herself, or maybe she has a friend or white knight giving her these ideas. If a girl accused me of negging, I'd probably say someth…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:08 PM
2

I open the door, jump out and try to stop the car from swerving off road as one car avoids us. ?? So you tried to push the car? Why not use the brakes? I'm not sure I understand, but advice is the same either way. My query really is, people facing fight or flight situations, how did you retain your composure while things happened, because things could have gone much worse today. Its a new weakness in my mind I found out today, and I want to rectify it. More situational awareness, and more though…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 04:52 PM
1

Are you sure the therapist is the one giving her the jargon? How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/askTRP29/04/15 04:40 PM
2

Yeah... I agree. That's quite an over-reaction if she just texted him a few times, and is probably more indicative of the truth than her words are.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 04:34 PM
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She deleted all the messages but she "felt really guilty" and told me the following week. She deleted his number/social media and was a complete wreck telling me the story. She claims that she doesn't have feelings for him and "doesn't know why she texted him." She's worried someone will tell you what actually happened. She tried to do damage control by telling you first. Otherwise, she could have deleted the texts, not told you, and moved on with life. This is likely more than she admitted to. …
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:59 AM
2

If the guys white it's fine. If he's black it's not? That's discriminatory based on skin color alone. I'll just drop this here... http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5807a6.htm?s_cid=mm5807a6_e If I weren't black, that might concern me a little more. It might even encourage me to date white girls. Would that make me racist? Your 48 laws thing, I agree with. But to think that race populations are all exactly the same is nearly the same as the feminist nonsense that men and women are the sa…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 10:00 PM
0

makeup pictures I'm talking about regular girls. Shaping is one thing, but lunch ladies draw them on. Normal girls where I've lived, not so much. Yes, I've fucked a few girls that wore clown make up, but I knew exactly what I was doing and they clearly weren't that pretty. It was hardly a shock to think they'd look unattractive without makeup, since they looked unattractive WITH makeup. If you can't understand why a woman with a ridiculous amount of makeup looks worse without it, then it sounds …
/r/askTRP26/04/15 07:07 PM
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you're totally right about the eyebrows. They make the most difference since I've noticed a lot of them draw it in. lol. Any girl that needs to draw on eyebrows must look like a potato. What are they, clowns? If they have to draw eyebrows on themselves, of course they look bad without makeup.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 06:29 PM
1

Confused here, what the hell is wrong here, she seemed interested, and dont show up with no notice..? Most likely, she got a better offer by Saturday night and decided to go with that.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 10:21 AM
1

I tell her to relax and to stop trying to be a bitch. trolololol That is exactly what a bitch doesn't want to hear. Thought all conflict was avoided. lol. You're lucky it wasn't the bitch and the white knight coming after you together. But really, your reaction to the girl is what caused it all. Once it looks like a physical fight, you better bail either way unless something is preventing it.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 09:59 PM
2

Don't forget the two fatties pressed against each other, and another hiding her belly by pressing it into the girl's side. With a hashtag of #ImNoAngel no less. How disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:34 PM
2

any girl worth it will wonder 'if he's so great, why isn't she seeing him?' "Because we're such great friends!" Every girl past teenagehood knows that's code for this guy isn't actually fuckable, enjoy getting passed off to her fat friends. Mostly a really good post, but most girls like to keep their orbiters. They usually won't give scraps to fat friends. They'll do just enough to keep their guy "friend" in orbit with a glimmer of hope. You're right about the "not fuckable" vibe other girls wil…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 08:10 PM
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Sure, but also think of it as conditioning, and lead regularly and often. I find a spot to flop down in the sand, drop my stuff off, and turn to see that she's 10 steps behind me. She flops down a good 3 feet away. We set up, mostly in silence. "Hey, Get over here" with a smile. I tell her I need to get something off my chest. I tell her that I need her respect, flat out, plain and simple. Never that. She accused me of not treating the two of us as equal. I asked her what she meant, if she meant…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 03:28 PM
1

I've read a bit of RP theory, and the main one I have trouble with is: you have to have goals. The only goal I care about is women. Actually, that's plenty good enough. The real goal should be happiness, and if that makes you happy, then good enough. I'm 41 at this point, and would just like to find one or two steady women and be relatively normal and I feel I have little time window left to do this in. You're wrong about the time window. Realistically, you're probably not going to spin a bunch …
/r/askTRP19/04/15 03:07 PM
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it seems like American culture puts the whole frat bro get laid hardcore and live it up at 18-22 idea on a pedestal. By "american culture," putting "frat bro get laid" stuff on a pedestal, do you mean you? For instance, you could say the same thing about high school football and the Chad Thundercock of high school, but if people are still thinking about high school football past 30 or so, they're living way in the past and it is obvious to everyone. And what is worse? The guy who played high sch…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:47 PM
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I don't have any advice for this particular situation, but just in general. This is the sort of thing that you mostly have to do and not talk about. It is similar to an encounter with LMR. It would never work if you said something like "Look, I know you're concerned about looking like a slut and ... "
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:58 AM
1

she is 'happy' to mail the book back if I pay shipping cost. She made you a great offer, and you turned it down. You're lucky if it's still on the table. The police care about you and your book less than she does. It doesn't matter that you are morally/ethically correct. (imo) It's not the money it's the principle. Edit: by paying the fee I've effectively said. "My kindness is so worthless I literally have to pay someone to have it. I'll pass on being that person. It's not the principle, it's th…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:29 AM
2

I want to believe that most people will take it as a big compliment if a person remembers their name. I think you are right. But also, you need to give them your name and where you know them from pretty early in the interaction. Otherwise, you can leave them feeling awkward, and they'll be focused on trying to remember your name, which will be an obstacle to the rest of your interaction with them.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:23 AM
1

Chad Thunderclap Needs serious antibiotics. :)
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:14 AM
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So I flat out repeated what she said. If she's not comfortable having me as leader, she can get on her own raft. Stop with all the talking. Either lead, or don't. What I learned is this -- she is truly not interested in negotiating the terms of the relationship. I don't mean to sound harsh here, but you're taking this "captain-first mate" crap too seriously. I understand it's a useful analogy, but nobody really talks like that besides a few people in RPW. If you have to run around telling everyo…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:12 AM
0

kinesiology. It's called "applied kinesiology." and is likely nonsense. Kinesiology is the study of human movement. Applied kinesiology is.... something else.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:03 AM
0

Doesn't matter how important your job is to society if you're living the life you want. I mean, a guy isn't any less redpill the moment he retires, even though he's no longer necessarily contributing anything to civilization. When you can no longer "do" to the level you once could, I hope you have knowledge to offer. What you say is true, but doesn't contradict whistler's point that it's not about the task, but how you go about doing it. If your skill is ballet, and no one does it, then what do …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 09:12 PM
1

Who made a scene? I see... A pretty girl came up to me and asked if she could have it. and I laughed in her face and told her no. If nothing else, the commenter was being opened by this chick. He could have talked to her. He said she was pretty. She approached him. When a girl opens you, you take it. If anyone was making a scene based on that comment, wouldn't it have been "laughed in her face and told her no?"
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 11:07 PM
1

In what way, and when would that be a good idea? When you enter into contests with people like that, do you bring a referee? Are the rules agreed upon? How does this work?
/r/askTRP05/04/15 10:59 PM
2

Being a farmer is no more or less 'Red Pill' than being a lawyer, engineer, neurosurgeon, ballet instructor, hairdresser, or knitting enthusiast. OP might already agree with you, but I don't. Point blank, some occupations are more important than others, and some skills will help you live through lean times. Food security is a matter of life and death. As far as "knitting enthusiast" goes, you might make the case that clothes are extremely important to survival. Ballet instructor? Women probably …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 10:43 PM
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I won a prize in a raffle at the pub last night. A pretty girl came up to me and asked if she could have it. She just expected me to give it to her. Why? Because she's cute? Seriously, though. When the world works that way, you can't blame them. I get discounts all of the time by asking really simple transparent shit like "Can I get a discount?" It doesn't make me shitty to ask for a discount. It makes me savvy. Why do I ask for a discount? Because the answer is usually yes, and it takes me 5 se…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:51 AM
1

I'm talking about male-male barbarian-dominance style shit tests that might lead to fights. Agree/amplify works well. Also, those aren't "shit tests" from dudes. Learn to fight. Also, learn to flee. Also, learn to find ways in-between... like "not right now, man" as a segue to fight or flee. What you are trying to describe is not some "test" from a dude that you need to "pass." Usually, people on reddit are shocked when they find out that girls don't behave like guys. In this case, you sound lik…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 09:49 PM
1

What the fuck did he do? He returned calls. That's it. He didn't "act shitty", and if he did, it would certainly be within reason, given her relationship-destroying behavior. Did you read part 1? http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/30cqy2/ltr_going_to_pcb_for_spring_break/ Likely not. I can't keep a girl from cheating, but I can surely increase the chances if I want, and that's what this guy did. If you have an LTR you care about, you don't try to push her into it. wtf? If a girl tries to pu…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 09:25 PM
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A few hours go bye, and I get a missed call from LTR. I decide to call her back, and the line is busy (maybe she's calling again?). Well, for whatever reason I call her back a second time. She says "Oh I didn't mean to call you" I just say okay and hang up. I get some more "miss you, love you" texts and I'm so sick of her shit that I ignore her. I'm fucking furious and depressed at the same time. I'm 20 years old and this is my first serious girlfriend. At this point, I have no other choice but …
/r/askTRP28/03/15 11:16 PM
2

I'm pretty sure my best friend's wife is constantly shit testing me when I go and visit them. That's not a "shit test." Do you think your friend's wife is thinking about fucking you and wants to try to shake your frame a little to see how you play it? I'm guessing you don't think that. So if you ask for advice about shit tests when you are dealing with a different encounter, you can expect to fall flat. SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. Let that sink in. When a girl shit tests a guy, she is deciding whether…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:51 AM
25

Holy shit. A whole room full of people doing "jazz hands" That would fuck me up. Not fair to blind people, either. Those shitlords.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:34 AM
11

Wow, that is one extremely fat indian girl.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 03:53 AM
2

She says, "Well, I guess we're at a stale mate, then." That's fucked up. So I roll over, go back to watching TV. She starts trying to snuggle up to me, so I tell her no. You shoulda fucked her. You had a chance to reward good behavior, and you didn't. I feel like to this point I've handled this properly - No. She tried to fuck you, and you refused. I assume the right course of action is to just stay the course? What the fuck? So you think if she keeps trying to fuck you, you should keep rejectin…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:46 PM
5

Plates are people. Yes, you can be in public with them.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:37 PM
1

I think her account is plausible because it's a strange lie to tell. Good liars know how to tell strange lies, without a doubt. They have a lot of experience with lies, so they know what works, and they know that trick. Like I said, the fact that she was trying to fuck him isn't really much better than if she had actually fucked him, as either shows she would have. I think you're bullshitting yourself. She would have said he tried and she turned him down because she didn't want to, as this would…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:32 PM
1

Is humor necessary? NO! Just kidding. It's necessary unless you have a 9 inch cock, or 5 million dollars to overcome your lack of humor. :) It's easy, though. Being that you're a very serious guy, deadpan should come easy to you. You need to learn how to pull it off and such, because it isn't without pitfalls for the inexperienced. Seek to become well-rounded, instead of how to compensate for a HUGE GIANT lack of something. If you do that, then your good traits can shine without a "but..."
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:20 PM
2

After reading the post and your edit for the first time... Possible attempted branch swing. Girls instinctively know that preselection is real for them, so they think it is for guys too. She may think telling you about interested guys will demonstrate preselected value. Possible orbiter solicitation She keeps mentioning her boyfriend, to make sure you know that she only wants a platonic relationship with you. With this limited information, and not seeing how she interacts with you, I'd say the f…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:17 PM
2

I go back to talking about the 10, and ask if she stayed over. She says she didn't, I ask if she cabbed, she says she did, I ask if she called the cab (yes), and then I ask to see her phone record, and she freezes. Admits to staying over, trying to fuck the guy, but he wasn't interested. He does seem like a standup guy, he's probably 5 years older than me, and I'm 5 years older than her, so he may have felt weird about the age gap, or maybe he only fucks hotter girls, or who knows what. I'm not …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:14 PM
1

This was amazingly powerful... I could feel the tension building in her, and I'd release it by looking the other way for a while, then look in her direction and build it again. Sry man, you really creeped her out. This has nothing to do with "frame" and nothing you did in that encounter will be helpful for you. Just some real talk for you.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:02 AM
3

Abundance. That's how.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 12:56 AM
2

Shaming? Give examples. Have you ever considered that they are opening you? Girls aren't good at that shit. If they are talking to you at all, unsolicited, they are opening you.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 12:53 AM
2

On one side, you left out prostitutes. On the other side... Given the fact that females will still have the same demand for a relationship as before Do they really want "relationships" or "resources?" I like to think they want relationships personally, but most real world analysis would suggest they want resources. Divorce = -relationship, + resource for no work. I like the direction you are headed in, but you misidentify why females want relationships. For your analysis to develop, you need to …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:48 AM
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That manager doesn't have the problems the OP talked about. Nothing like it. This inexperienced manager you speak of does not understand how to effectively give praise for best result. The person the OP talked about will apologize for every action he ever does, because he fears repercussions for the smallest of mistakes or missteps. I know you're trying to provide some insight, but those two things are not alike at all.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:30 AM
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So today he apologized for the millionth time about something he didn't have to, and I ask him why he does that, and he told me "well you would understand if you when you went to the school I did that they make you feel bad for anything you ask". When people are really broken... well, they don't always know why they are so broken, and even if they do have the self awareness to know, they won't always tell you. That is true for both guys and girls. I do understand that "sorry for every little mov…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:32 PM
1

Disagree. Some are. Some ugly girls are unbearable too, for the same or different reasons.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:03 AM
1

I didn't call you a pussy for being lazy. I gave you an example of shit advice, complete with an annoying expletive. I suppose if what you do works for you, have at it. But when someone approaches me in the way you approached asktrp... ... something like "I could get this information other ways, but that takes a miniscule amount of work and you look like you have nothing better to do, so tell me..." Sometimes, I tell people anyway, but if I care about them at all, I'll tell them how to find bett…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:02 AM
1

Guys don't "shit test" guys, for the most part. Was he attracted to you? Did he want to prod you, to make sure he could keep feeling safe with you? How long have you guys been having sex? Ummm, not a "shit test." Everything isn't a "shit test." Guys aren't girls.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:40 AM
5

She did say that nobody would be with my fat ass if she left Call her bluff. Or if not a bluff, whatever. To all the people in the world that are the breadwinner at home and still doing chores, eff you for being a white knight. Wait wut? Handle your business.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:30 AM
1

sorry to post here since r/fitness is probably better but I can't be fucked learning their posting rules Here's the answer from a TRP perspective. You're too lazy to go get good advice from competent people... because you'd have to follow some small rules for really good advice... But instead, you should post something off topic here, because you'll get shitty advice, but it saved you the time it would take to get good advice. Meanwhile, everyone at AskTRP can't wait to give hand-outs to people …
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:18 AM
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I hope those aren't real quotes. She sounds unbearable. And those are supposed to be real quotes from one day?? Holy shit. What the fuck are you celebrating?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 12:51 AM
1

Most lesbians are lesbians out of choice, not because it is really truly their sexual orientation. They choose to go lez because they hate men for one reason or another. most lesbians are just degenerates succumbing to mental illness, then hamstering it as attraction. Well... really, if their personal experience is that men suck, then I don't blame them and wouldn't consider it "hamstering." "Hamstering" is changing facts to fit a desired conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:59 AM
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I like the general topic you're trying to introduce. Most of these things, though... they just seem like common sense for today's entrepreneur. I think this one is pretty important: Leadership and confidence: people rally behind an alpha male to get to work, and recruitment is a huge part of starting a business. While many new entrepreneurs can't make cash offers even close to compete with existing companies, they can offer strong leadership, proper alignment of work passions, and a clear purpos…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:54 AM
1

I'm not slamming you. most women are used to men looking the other way Most everyone. Flustered and smiling in a good way, or trying to hide a smirk type deal. I've always had a gift (curse) for being able to feel empathetic to people from a distance, or if I hardly know them, I'm good at reading people. I know this because TRP has confirmed things I've wondered from the past but the blue tint had led me to believe that just wasn't possible. TRP kind of taught me a lot of what I already instinct…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 05:04 AM
2

I was having great immediate results maintaining eye contact until the end user breaks it first, That is usually the worst advice I see here. It's pretty creepy, in reality. "Make eye contact with people" is usually fairly solid advice, since so few people do it. Walk though most malls, and a ton of people are looking straight at the ground. Walk through most ghettos, and everyone is trying to eye fuck you. Eye-fuck-you-in-the-ass... because everything is about who can stare at who the hardest, …
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:58 AM
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Is he your SO, or is he your son? She said "boyfriend." "SO" takes the gender out of these situations. If she said "son," she' still be giving a better description than "SO." Seriously, you probably shouldn't be giving people advice, if you care about people.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:11 AM
2

I could tell him to get the fuck over it because they didn't have anything of real substance despite his beta thoughts. Ideas? Opinions? Find another slut to fuck. It seems like you want people to validate your decision here. Point is, this girl wants to fuck. Well, from here on out, let's a just do whatever some slut tells us. You clearly know there are large pitfalls with this, or you wouldn't be asking. Here's my REAL problem with YOU and YOUR POST. In decision making, information is extremel…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:00 AM
1

ALWAYS ESCALATE. Girls like guys with initiative. Expect to fail. Keep trying. The more you can tolerate shit not going right... the more chances you have that things will go right, due to luck or experience. Who cares why? Keep throwing your hat in the ring. And the more you deal with adverse situations, the sooner you learn how to turn them into opportunities. That is how people "make their own luck." Be really cautious about taking on the problems of other people. In most cases... those peopl…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 01:41 AM
3

I always kept an open plate policy. I made them understand that they couldn't fuck around with my computers, but they could see anything they want, as long as they could deal with reality. As part of that deal... I got to be honest all of the time, and they got... well, not a lot I guess, but they got honesty. If they wanted to look, that was fine. I had the same deal with all plates. What was not acceptable was fucking with my computers, because they are important to me. I wouldn't let a burgla…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 01:25 AM
1

This is a worst case scenario, and there's probably nothing you can do about it. If you can easily dismiss him as captain save-a-ho, then how should we address you? Are you captain-save-a-captain-save-a-ho? His issues are probably complex. You can't just show him some diagram and change his life because you've found yourself in a more advanced math class. At some point too... you just have to accept the fact that you can't discuss advanced math with everyone, and a lot of people simply don't giv…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 01:07 AM
2

It sounds like her car is fucked up.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 09:42 PM
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I bet she works very hard to be a good wife, for one. Don't underestimate that in a world that has traded cooking and cleaning for occasional blow jobs. Maybe he just truly enjoys her company. Very true. This sub has a tendency to boil everything down to age. I'll take a 40 year old girl who keeps herself up and knows how to treat a man, over a 30 year old who only does one of those. And there are a ton of 30 year olds who don't do either. On top of that, maybe he's fucking other girls, and she'…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 09:31 PM
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Spot on. Women with a scarcity mentality, don't live in reality. They are fucked up. As far as red pill shit goes, the concept of "abundance mentality" is partly to keep yourself from chasing. Don't waste your time on flakey validation-seeking chicks. At the same time, when you give off abundance vibes to chicks, they start chasing. Essentially, "abundance mentality" coming from a guy is "fake" pre-selection to them. "Why is he not jumping though hoops for the mere chance at pussy?" He has other…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 12:12 AM
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You are so out of your fucking mind, here. Really... "government" is whooped? Ya know, those people who will bust into your house with guns in the middle of the night if they heard some marywana was happening?? You might have had some epiphany, but you have a long way to go. Government types use that shit AGAINST YOU. They aren't ridiculous idiots who found themselves in a strange situation. They're sociopaths who use societal structures to get ahead, at your expense. Holy fuck. I hope you keep …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:15 PM
1

3) Women still don't want me. Get rejected at bars, on tinder all the time. Suck it up, pussy. That happens to everyone, for all kinds of reasons. Wait, but not even women my age want me. Am I fucked? I'm not even ugly either. I have 1000+ matches on tinder in a month (with auto-swipe) but most women flake from there. trololololol!!! You must be joking. Do you know the audience here? Most guys would kill to have a head start like that. You need to figure out what is creating problems for you. Le…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:37 PM
1

There are no good videos of this out here, but this one is most adequate. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvYD-kuoLI4
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:59 PM
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So are the girls on online dating sites generally of lower quality? Less attractive, less confident, less successful, etc? Why else would they be on there? Actually, that is more likely to be true of men. Sure, women like their validation, but it's not like they get tired of it. Not to mention, validation by tinder and social media are amplified. Take girl A, let's say she's an 8, in your opinion. She goes out to a bar and guys hit on her. Yay!! A few creep her out, and a few of her friends get …
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:53 PM
1

They're opening you. Maybe not in the most flattering way, but you should have good responses lined up for that. Think about this... do girls usually just walk up to random guys and ask them this? Do girls usually just walk up to gay guys and ask them this? Um, no. They don't. They're at least somewhat interested in you, or they wouldn't approach you at all. I'm not big on canned routines, but if this were a recurring thing with me, I'd have some good material ready. You should too.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:12 AM
1

I see that married men are reported as happier, healthier, less stressed, and live longer lives. What about divorced men? How happy are they? Just because some poor guy is happier when he's married doesn't mean it's the happiest he could be. Most guys out there will be happier married than when single or divorced, because they can't pull tail while single. But take a survey of single guys who fuck 6-12 women each year, and compare married guys to that.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 12:03 AM
1

Ditch it.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 10:58 PM
1

I'd say not that much. More than you know, or different than you know. She may be wanting more emotion, and I'm missing a chance to give her some. Instead I'm even more logical and that doesn't help since that's not what she needs. Wrong. She doesn't need more emotion. She needs less in this case. When you entertain her issues with the examples you posted, you're fueling her insecurities instead of quelling them.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 10:46 PM
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You know the answer, and even wrote it.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:17 PM
1

What's going on here, anyone got any ideas? My only idea is that in these cases she's trying to be caring about me. It sounds like she equates confrontation with caring. And when I say "caring," I mean she equated confrontation with you caring about her, or caring about your image in front of her. That's how she views the world. How old are you two? Are there things in her past that are full of conflict? Girls, by nature, avoid conflict. The smart ones let guys do that for them. You, by nature, …
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:08 PM
0

So... you're telling me that you work with 14 guys just like you, and one fat girl? And that out of these 14 people who are just like you, you're the only one who is bothered by the situation? And you think I'm stupid for pointing out that maybe these 14 people aren't just like you? So if these 14 people are just like you, and they all like the fat girl... what is your ACTUAL problem? I started out trying to help with you with language. Now it sounds like you need to pick your own reality. Yes, …
/r/askTRP18/02/15 12:30 AM
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If you want an answer to your bro definitions, it's the former. You're meticulous. That's great if my question was regarding prose. You made a moot comment. Stop dude I disagree that you have 14 likeminded and trustable people. 7 will be happy to throw you under the bus. Who hired the fat girl that is a problem? Why isn't she gone yet? I'm not just being meticulous. These aren't "14 bros" if your other statements are correct. You're putting males on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:37 PM
1

Men don't have some magical role in the workplace. You earn it. You earn it physically, you earn it socially, or you don't have it, nor do you deserve it. Just so I'm clear here... look at male dominated professions where lots of males are gathered together... roughnecks, welders, electricians, etc... Everybody's not some sort of boss because they have a penis. If you're telling me that you're in a profession that is dominated by women and you can't manage it, then your social game is shit, and …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:31 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain here. Females don't ask me to move things, because picking up heavy shit is my job, and I already told them what to do while I'm busy moving heavy shit. I'm not jacked, either. "Hey bitches, I'm gonna move some heavy shit. "You take that. You carry the light shit. "You open the door, and You make sure the floor is clear." If women are telling you what to do while they stand around... and I don't care about job descriptions... you're fucking up. This sounds like the…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:17 PM
2

Does this mean you should avoid approaching them? Not really, but kinda. Seems as though if they want the attention and you are a high SMV make the attention will be reciprocated. True, but the bar is a lot higher. And the prize is a lot smaller. OP asked if they are "more receptive." OP didn't ask if they were an impossible mountain for anyone to climb. Yes, they want attention. Let's say you have limited time in your life. You can only approach so many girls... You need to do some cost/benefit…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:31 PM
0

I disagree that you have "14 bros" and one girl. Maybe american english is not your first language. Usually, when american english speakers talk about "bros," they are describing like-minded and trustable people. Sometimes, american english speaking people talk about "bros" in a derogatory sense, where they are describing tank top wearing backward hat wearing idiots. If you just mean "14 males," that will almost never mean "14 bros" in either case.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 10:15 PM
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14 bros. Disagree.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:44 PM
3

Opposite. They're looking to shoot you down. They want attention, and probably want to be looked at. A lot of girls that dress like that during the day want to snub people.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:22 PM
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they immediately point out where I'm from. Own it, and explain how awesome it is. Have some material ready for it, on what american people need to point out your country of origin. Making girls "guess" shit is really weak game, and girls know it. "What do you think my accent is?" = weak "Here's my friend trpbox, he's from germany." "You do know why girls like german guys, right?" = better... It's better because you don't make them guess. You tell them why, and continue to interest them. Your fri…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:18 PM
2

If her family is actually shit testing you, then they don't trust her judgement. They probably know her better than anyone, so that's quite the red flag for a potential LTR. Really, instead of figuring out ways jump over their hurdles, you should keep your ears wide open for anything you might learn. You likely want to be close to them, either way. As far as I care, you should be interviewing them, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:06 PM
1

This video will teach you all you need to know about dealing with the media. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHdwqnbiwXE
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:10 PM
1

To get tested, sure. But the test for HIV is different to getting tested for chlamydia, it's strange that she jumped straight to a HIV test as it's not as common as chlamydia. True, but HIV can put fear in people. With one of these girls I mentioned, it was revealed later that she tested with each new partner, and required a test from each new partner. She actually had no concern about her own results. And she wouldn't have feared Chlamydia so much, but she was terrified of HIV.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 05:02 PM
1

I'm picking myself back up again at the moment. She, at one time, placed a bet on your future recovery and rise. I think /u/dregofsociety nailed it above, but it could be two-fold. Depending on how long it has been since your last business failed, she may also be doubting your ability to come out on top. She may have believed in you at one point, and now she is questioning herself and her choices. If you've been making easily identifiable progress, you can eliminate that. But easily identifiable…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:11 PM
4

Did I come off pushy? You came off insecure, which is worse. You clearly fished for information, and also assumed she had plans with a rival. She likely knew this, and gave you a pass this time. Set up a date for the following weekend, and don't get all needy about it.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:52 PM
1

Legit concern, for sure.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:47 PM
3

most of the time, they were sending out let's-get-it-on vibes to women who just thought they were being nice in a friendly way. Not true. 1) women don't actually know they're flirting. Women aren't flirting, in a lot of cases. Granted, a lot know they are dangling meat in front of lions. Everyone has been trying to fuck them for their entire lives, without them clearly making themselves available. A lot of girls think random guys are nice to them because they are "friends." On one hand, that mak…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 10:30 PM
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Logistics aside... I'm really talking more about "buying temperature" and following through. Once a girl has decided to leave with you... it's time to go. You can take her to a cardboard box and she'll rationalize her previous decision.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 10:16 PM
3

They will have agreed to go with me then at the end of the night they will say things like "I really should go home now it is late", " I would love to come with you I just don't think that's a very good idea", You're closing the sale too fast. They've already decided to purchase, and then they get buyer's remorse before you put a contract in front of them. They have too much tome to think between agreement (I want to go back) and contract signing. (I'm going back right now.) It's best if those 2…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 10:03 PM
1

Some girls care about their health. Some girls don't like condoms. Some both. If I asked a (potential, even) girl to test and she refused, I'd immediately ditch her, and not fuck her with a condom, either. I've had 2 pretty squeaky clean girls test first, then ask me to. They wanted to show they would do the same... but they were much more unsure about my result, I guarantee it. Someone wanting a "clean" bill of health is not a red flag.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 09:52 PM
0

I guess what you're sayin is I need to make it clear if things don't won't out I will be able to quickly return to spinning plates. No, not really. I said exactly what I said. Your original query was "Redpill way to enter an LTR?" I just told you. I haven't been in a relationship for a couple years Irrelevant. You asked an advanced question. I gave you an advanced answer. You're not in a position to use that advice, but I hope that will change someday. Good luck.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 11:15 PM
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What's the red pill way to go about entering a relationship in your own frame? How to enter an LTR??? You are dating at least 3+ girls. She knows it. Hopefully, she knows you've been doing that for years. She eventually earns your time and commitment over the others. She understands that you can meet new girls if you like, at whatever time. With an LTR, girls usually keep a nuclear option in their back pocket. They can break up with you, and they know they'll have an orbiter happy to fuck them i…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 10:28 PM
3

i wanted to spin some plates, found that my LTR girl was better overall then any I could find, so I got back with her. This isn't what you are asking, but I have a quick insight for you. She was the best you could do short-term, for various reasons. You were actually right in the long term, but most kinds of pain are short term stimulus, with short term solutions. Is face to face really that important when breaking up? Early replies here say to do it now. I disagree. You've already decided you w…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 10:13 PM
1

Wrong answers here early, but I'll give you the right one. Long story short, she told him that shes going to another city for a week and then would come back. But within a week, his no. is blocked and even the WhatsApp contact. The girl is neither replying his text nor answering unknown no. who recently had a break up She got back with her boyfriend. Maybe she was making a branch swing attempt. My "most likely scenario" is that she decided she doesn't want to jeopardize her current relationship.…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 08:50 PM
2

What do you not share with women? 1.) My weaknesses or vulnerabilities. I used to think they liked that shit. Nope. It always caused me problems that I can only see in retrospect. 2.) Logic Holy shit, that was always a mistake. I thought I could convince them that I should wait until the last minute to make a decision, as making one early was dumb when I could gather more information first. I ALWAYS should have just said "I have it handled." I always did have it handled, but I needlessly planted…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 08:57 PM
0

Internet white knight. lol. PM her. I mostly don't care, but this shit makes me laugh. I suppose you learned nothing here.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:46 PM
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The Red Pill is about using conservative, masculine values in a liberal, effeminate world in order for men to stay manly and not be completely emasculated. lol. k. I thought I was someplace else. Do you have some tits to show? Grade A troll, or I have the feels for you.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:58 PM
1

smv = 0 = goforit Cowards die 1000 deaths.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:48 PM
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Don't post here.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:42 PM
1

Either way, when your sample size is 114, I'm not sure why it is worth writing about.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:29 PM
12

Fuck those bitches and their expectations of cleanliness. If she doesn't like it, she can clean it. Otherwise, shut the fuck up. ITR - very much the difference between a plate/girlfriend/wife
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:09 PM
1

Define it however you like. It's the variable x. Makes no difference for my comment if you do the math. 10s have less guys hitting on them because oh-no-out-of-my-league-scary. Sluts are sluts. If you can fuck a 10 or a 6, everything else being equal, the 6s will have more STDs. Overall, they're up for letting lower quality penises in them, as that is their range.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:58 PM
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Its a shit test and she's trying to see how much you can let her get away with. Some of them buy into the princess bullshit just like BP guys do. So it might not always be a "shit test," but it's still a red flag due to the high stakes. (marriage)
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:02 PM
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So if you think it's a smart strategy to aim for 6-7s your entire life to avoid STDs, no it's not. 6-7s probably have more STDs then 9-10s, I'd think. At least with 9-10s, 6-7 guys don't have a chance.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:00 PM
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Bad analogy because you are equating "constitution" with truth. Bad history because it is littered with value judgements, and some of the economic value judgements wouldn't make it past a high school economics course. The Articles also failed to give Congress authority over interstate and foreign commerce. As a result, the American economy stagnated. That, for instance. Or this... The 13 states were recalcitrant. Instead of opening up their borders to trade, they focused inward on helping out th…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 01:00 AM
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On why it's a bad analogy? Or on why the history is jacked? Or on the economic/political value judgements made within? Who is teaching this history? The "founding father" worship is usually nonsense, whether it comes from libertarians or statists. When it comes from politicians, it's worse than nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:41 AM
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It's not jealousy I feel, its more of a lack of respect. I understand. Either way, there is one solution. Use it in the same way, until she decides it's a bad idea for both of you. As others said, "sitting her down" was a mistake. You still have the same options now. If you can't manufacture your own orbiting girls, buy them. On fiverr... odesk, elance, etc. It's way cheaper than you could imagine, but DO make it believable. I haven't purchased such before because I have that organically, but I …
/r/askTRP20/01/15 12:20 AM
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As the Constitution provides a system of checks and balances so that no aspect of government can hold too much power, You must be living in some different reality than I am. The drafting of the Constitution, its attendant secrecy, and consequent rejection of the Articles of Confederation are analogous to The Red Pill and its denunciation of Modern Feminism No, no, and no. Bad analogy, bad history. The Articles denied legislative power to impose direct taxes (arising out of the colonies’ dislike …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:09 AM
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whether any pleasure is derived from it intrinsically? intrinsically? You are asking quite the philosophical question. Is comedy intrinsic? Being Stoic yields really funny results. You'll laugh about it for a number of reasons if you've ever done it wrong before.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:00 AM
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I'm not talking about marketers appealing to fat women. I suspect you missed my point. Edit... it's fair for me to explain why you missed it. If we were talking about marketing to fat girls, they would have seeded the audience with fat girls. That's not the goal of that show. They don't give a fuck about fat girls in the slightest bit. Everyone there doesn't give a shit what fat girls think. My point... they hardly even have fat girls in their world.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:33 AM
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If she doesn't wants to fuck you: “next her”, because she is wasting your time, money and energy. This is somewhat of a common misconception. As with so many things... it will be examined in relation to your SMV. “She isn't that into you, NEXT” is what RP people will say. Relating to SMV, think of it like this. If you're an average guy... average SMV, average game... average looks, etc, and a girl sleeps with you the first night you meet her, then it's safe to assume she's a slut. Why? Because a…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 12:02 AM
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Do you think there's something wrong if your girlfriend doesn't find you physically attractive? YES.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 11:50 PM
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I logged in, just to upvote this, especially after seeing how you got slaughtered for what should be basic TRP knowledge. "Weight" on men is nothing like "weight" on women. +/- in this sub often does not reflect TRP truths. Your comment was SOLID, and correct.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 11:25 PM
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I'm basically just as unable to influence others as they are to influence me. In that case... You can open yourself up to more influence, and that will be something that will be helpful to you in life. As an INTJ, social skills will not come natural to you, but if you accept that social interaction is a learned skill, then you have a lot of room for improvement on that front.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 09:07 PM
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Even physical pain turns women off. I had a disc issue last year and was in excruciating pain for two months. My wife was annoyed with me. lol. Yep. Some more than others, but fuck if they aren't all completely exaggerated on that shit. A good quality girl will help her alpha heal, but you better be damn optimistic with that broken fucking femur.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:52 AM
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Will there ever be a girl that I can truly share my uncertainties or lack of confidence with? Without consequence? YES!!!! Who?? A girl you don't want to keep fucking. That's who. Or a prostitute. Depending on your income, that could be a wide net.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:42 AM
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You're still expected to work harder than most other industries. It's probably not worse than landscaping or roofing or welding. It's that you have to work hard, AND, be social in that environment. Same with the others, but different environment.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:26 AM
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Your mother has a "genetic investment" in you. It's not enough that she had to pop you out, and nurture you for a ridiculous amount of years. From an evolutionary aspect, she doesn't want that investment to go to waste. Keep in mind... this is entirely separate from reasons why mothers will give you horrible dating advice. That's solipsism at work, in a lot of cases. This is why your mother cares about you having babies... She didn't spend all of that effort squeezing you out for no reason. She …
/r/askTRP19/11/14 02:55 AM
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Abundance mentality. Do you have other offers? (They do not need to be "better" offers for you in particular... but you at least need "other" offers.) Essentially, you need to be able to run some effective dread game. If no one else wants you, then bringing that subject up will only make you seem disloyal. It will harm you at your current employment, and not make you closer to new employment. Look at it like this... 1.) "I don't feel you're paying me enough, so I'm thinking I should seek other o…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 02:20 AM
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Based on your self-description, you sound like an INTJ or INTP, with weak social skills. I'm basically just as unable to influence others as they are to influence me. Unable because you lack skill in doing so, or unable because you lack substance?
/r/askTRP19/11/14 02:04 AM
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The GF told me before I found the red pill that she loves him for being so kind, and she loves the whole experience with him, his family, yadda yadda She sees a future there. Nothing wrong with that. She's wired for it. He's not a "provider" right now. He has the possibility of being a provider in the future. That guy might be a good "provider" someday. He might be a jackpot lottery winner... looks, charisma, provider, etc. When you are young, quality girls will believe in your dreams. Nothing w…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 02:23 AM
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This is absolutely a shit test. It's not a "shit test." Everyone thinks everything is a "shit test," and everything a girl says is a "hamster." I could be wrong... define "shit test" for me, Franztopio, and explain how it applies here.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 02:01 AM
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I don't feel bad for a lot of guys in horrible beta situations, but I actually feel really bad for that guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:59 AM
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Would two inches make a difference in height? Yes. Why? Eye contact. When you look a girl in the eyes, she absolutely knows whether she is looking up at you, or looking down at you. Guys don't notice that shit so much. But I absolutely believe girls do. One reason is that it becomes very obvious when you're within a few inches of a girl, looking in her eyes, and straight guys never do that with each other, so it's easy for a guy to underestimate how girls feel about that. So the 2 inches thing..…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 10:08 AM
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This is a pretty good post. I usually roll my eyes when a girl starts talking about the "love languages" thing, but it can matter. And you are on point regarding regarding TRP focusing on "Physical Touch." My only caveat is that guys still need to pay attention to what girls respond to, and not only listen to what they say they want. I could feel my LTR getting a little upset the other day. I was telling her how I had a lot of fun doing something while she was out of town. She wanted to do it wi…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:46 AM
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Hyperhydrosis, possibly?
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:26 AM
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Have any of you ever been in a fight and what are your views on it? I've been in 30-40 fights, mostly between 3-6 grades. I was taught not to let people bully me. I was martial arts trained from a young age, so I was very naturally better at fighting than most guys. Unfortunately, I wound up in a very toxic environment where there was a hierarchy and I was basically forced into a lot of prize fights where I actually had nothing to gain, but didn't want my ass kicked, either. It was either fight,…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:20 AM
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Yeah, I know. Source: You'd see my watch.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 06:53 AM
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Really, this is one of those things where mutherfuckers need to start talking numbers. (and you did, so thx) You mostly have a kid making 40k per year asking about whether he can deal with a girl making 60k per year. Or 70k versus 100k? When you're talking about your earnings versus her 400k per year... you gotta admit we're not talking about anything here that the average TRP reader is doing. C'mon, man. I'm sure you have a lot of help to offer, but you live on an entirely different level.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:33 PM
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You're welcome. I hope you give it a listen. That was my original intent. It didnlt occur to me that I could be running counter to that.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 10:14 PM
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Yes, some. The sub is generally hostile to it. Stick around and keep looking. People will offer up athol kay, etc... Please... DO NOT get all happy with concepts of "dread game" and "captain/first mate." Shit works under the right circumstances, but people with no experience trot them out like they are fucking experts on your exact situation when they're really 19 years old and never been in any sort of relationship. So... uh, don't make any sudden moves based on advice here. Make sloooow moves …
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:22 PM
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I can use the same energy for positive experience and bonding but I don't Disagree. You're saying you're ultra-self-aware... have the ability to use your powers for good (and claim you want to), but you don't. One of those 3 points doesn't belong in that story. Which one?
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:12 PM
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Chill out. Don't do anything, or say anything, until you have more information. Seriously... she could be real or fake... She dropped the "if I'm pregnant I'm keeping it" bomb on me and I almost had a heart attack. Yeah.... so cool out. Some situations don't require a response until you have enough information. Think about it... sure... but get yourself out of panic mode or you can't expect to think clearly. Steps, man.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:53 PM
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I like girls with money. I've been rich, and I've been poor. I like girls with money. Those aren't lyrics... just a lot of experience. You need to keep your game tight and not be "dependent" on her. Never be afraid to walk. Never act like you think her money is important... but eat some lobster and have fun. Make her believe that money is never more than a "perk" with her - whether true or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:48 PM
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This wasn't a shit test from the girl. It sounds like dumb shit from lonely dudes that made you lose your focus. Now... some ATOMIC shit test would have been that she knew the other dudes. I was waiting for that in the story, but it never happened. Turns out he wasn't foreign, but now I'm stuck talking to two guys with the girl. OK, what are my option? Dread and leave? Sit at the table while she talked? These seemed awful, so: You can't "dread" from that position. "Leave" sounds like a healthy o…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:41 PM
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Amazing... You didn't listen to the song, did you? And then you call me out for it? The biggest line in the song is "Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me." Rage Against the Machine is a little too socialist in politics for my tastes, but that's a great song. I suggest you listen to it. Try it. You might like it, tough guy.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 07:27 PM
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None of your post applies to me. I agree with it. That's not what she said. Most of what she said is "I'm a girl... too bad you thought I was a dude... blah blah." Then after that, more presumptions about me in particular, and asking white knights to come to her aid because she's worried I might represent all of Red Pill when the rest of you men might not agree that I offended some chick's senses. Lol. what-the-fuck-ever.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:14 PM
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Oh, please. I don't care if you're a woman in the slightest bit. I handle my shit just fine. You say "raise your standards" while knowing nothing. My standards are way fucking high. If you can't handle adult langage or you think that makes me butt-hurt, maybe you need to go play in the girl sandbox.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:12 PM
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I like what I like. Fuck you. I appreciate feminine energy, and I like being loved. I like a girl cooking and cleaning for me. I appreciate a good girl. It's not easy to find one or keep one. It takes a little work. You think that me not taking care of my shit will help you find a good girl? Because it somehow makes it easier for you? I have a comment for you. FUCK YOU. I have a decent girl on purpose. You think I have low standards and that it somehow hurts your chances with women? Go fuck your…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:57 AM
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Are women capable of true affection with partners? Yes. You can get what you want. But it sucks that you won't get it easily, by being yourself, or any other such bullshit. But yeah... you can get that. It won't be easy or free... but I guess nothing ever is.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:34 AM
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Personal issue: Told a few lies, nothing too terrible- but about to face the music. Own up. Don't be stupid about it. You can admit mistakes. Don't act that because you made some mistakes, that you need to do anything other than admit those mistakes. You didn't fuck her friend. Don't act like you did. If you need to own up to some shit, own up to that, and nothing else.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:23 AM
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Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Hf-B9Tqkss I personally dislike all of these people and their music for the most part in this tube below... but this is the most RP song in recent memory that got any airplay... it is so on-point... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXRN_LkCa_o
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:09 AM
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Yeah... I understand... Normal guys don't like it when people act like little bitches. Believe me, I hate that shit. But you can't change those people, nor should it be your mission. The best you can do is use them to your advantage. I know that can sound a little shitty, but it's the least shitty of all alternatives I can think of.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 05:00 AM
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What is he doing that bothers you? "Shut them down" might not be the best thing, when you could make him your greatest cheerleader. Here's my take on it... That guy might be a dipshit... but that doesn't mean he needs to be your adversary. He could be a dipshit and also your best friend.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:08 AM
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I am still very in control and dominant in most social situations, but she later resents me for it and tells me I'm being a dick. When I assert dominance over other people, she thinks it makes me look weak. The people I assert this dominance over are almost never resentful of it, and I do it subconsciously. That is very important. If she resents you, then you are doing it wrong. If she thinks that your interactions with other people make you look weak (and I have no idea how that came about...) …
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:00 AM
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In a hunter-gatherer environment wouldn't the most successful hunters--thus men with the most resources--be young men? Wouldn't the old guys be the worst hunters and actually be a drain on the tribe calorie-wise? Gonna say this as easy as possible. Older guys, who learn to be old, have street cred and social game. Humans are group hunters, and tribe dependent. Girls know that intuitively. You think you're a 16 year old badass?? lol. Apply your entire post to gang life and then see if you can fig…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:17 AM
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Regardless, I want out. I feel like I can't get the "escape velocity" to actually do it. You will. Maybe some anonymous people on the internet will talk you into it, or maybe you'll do it when you figure out that you need to. Maybe you'll leave your computer open and she'll see a post explaining such. Maybe you're just wasting everyone's time and hoping they'll ask you to grow balls. Only time will tell, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:23 PM
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You will see those terms misused more often than you will see them used properly.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 08:37 PM
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My girlfriend only likes me when I'm an alpha lol, dude... welcome to reality. All girls are like that, and the sooner you understand it, the better off you'll be. If you feel like it's not worth your effort to "be alpha" to keep fucking this girl, then do something else. Maybe some other girl will be worth the effort, or maybe you'll find some homely chick who requires less of you. I'm not gonna judge you on any of that shit. The truth is that LTRs take maintenance... I'm not talking about beta…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 08:29 PM
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You're under 23, right? Maybe even a high school INTJ or INTP. You sound like someone who has had limited contact with the outside world. Maybe from a small town? If you're really as wonderful as you think you are, change nothing. The world will catch up with you at some point when they figure out how awesome you are. Otherwise, you're eventually going to find that the world is fucking full of smart and talented people. If you want to be at the top of the heap, you're going to have to interact w…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 07:45 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for responding.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:32 PM
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but wanted to put the question out there if this is a shit test No, it is not a shit test. It may or may not be a "fair exchange" in her eyes. I suspect you think otherwise, or you wouldn't be asking here. You didn't give enough information for people here to figure things out.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 07:30 PM
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How often do you make an ass of yourself and let the lowest version of yourself surface to sabatoge your life? HAHAHAHAHA... Probably about 2 times per year. lowest version of yourself No idea what that means... but I'll say this... It's not like you fucked up and accidentally shot a baby in the face. You didn't just tell us that you became addicted to heroin and became a gay male prostitute for the last year. Did you have sex with a dog? I don't mean an ugly chick... I mean like, did you have s…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 07:23 PM
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Actually, there is quite a bit of power in "free shit." But the power lies in accepting it, not in giving it. Maybe someone will come in with a good DT analysis of that, but I can't right now. Giving things away will likely not help you, and doing a lot of it surely won't help you. Even if something is free to you, you should be trading it for something of value that you can cash in immediately.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:15 PM
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1) there is a nurse practitioner providing care when a physician should be. Fuck this shit. Why does that bother you so much? Are you in a legally protected profession? 3) People in the comments are saying that if a Health Care Provider cant refrain from expressing his/her views to their patients then they should not see patients. What the fuck?! This victim culture is just fucked up. Does that apply to anyone, or only "doctors?"
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:05 PM
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The giveaway is that they provided no examples. They're just lazy. They could provide bullshit examples just like they provided a bullshit statement. By their reasoning, no one could be a doctor or a lawyer because "Many researchers have found that the basic terminology and semantics used in technical parlance are often" latin "in nature." Anyone speak latin?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:58 PM
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Thanks, this is really good advice, save for the macho bullshit. You're really cool, besides being a douche. :) Nothing I said was "macho." Being "macho" with you would never be meaningful. Start learning how to accept good advice. If you can't accept it from a random person on the internet, you're gonna have a bad time in the real world. And don't ask for advice if you don't want it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:15 AM
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How do you ignore her behavior without her thinking you're just a doormat? Think of it like this... and this will be contrary to most advice that you will get anywhere... but try it and see if it works... When a girl is trying to rattle you, don't let her do it. Let her go off the fucking deep end... as dumb as she can be, and just sit there like it doesn't matter. Then move on with your plan, whether it is leaving a party, taking your LTR in the bedroom and fucking her, or whatever. Just flat o…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:41 AM
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The conversation was dry and wasn't going anywhere by the end of it, either by her own choice or by natural flow of the conversation That's because the guy was weak. I don't exactly know how to feel because I literally control this girl down to her vagina. You are fucking delusional. As you presented it, people aren't fucking your girl because they're incompetent. Like I said I have her on a leash. LOL. Stop it. Why do you think you have her on a leash? After everything you said? You pretty much…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:24 AM
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I'm having trouble understanding what people mean with "holding frame". When stated as "holding frame" around here, it is usually in response to shit tests. In those cases, it usually means to not get whiny, apologetic, backpedaling, etc. If you're an analytical person... as many who find their way to TRP are... you'll find it counter-intuitive that simply "holding frame" will work for you. "I mean really... I just keep saying something is true, and mutherfuckers believe it?? Gotta be fucking ki…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:12 AM
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I've been reading TRP for quite some time now and our relationship has improved drastically in this time, along with her general bitchiness. But, alas, she is still human and still finds herself talking to me like dirt. I don't ever take it, but I still feel I may handle it the wrong way. Too often I engage her and her behavior, which I feel still validates it in some way, thus why it keeps happening. How do I make it very clear that her behavior is not on without being too explicit, or getting …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:52 AM
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Why are you considering dropping your friend?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:26 AM
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lol. Your post will get deleted if it picks up steam, and you might get banned too.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:23 AM
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I have suspicions that they did something early on in our relationship (probably 10+ years ago) but never had any proof. Whatever you decide to do, you gotta let that shit go. Imagine a girl bringing up something from 10 years ago, and then feel your head explode every time she brings it up. If you can't get over something from 10 years ago, you can't ever be happy in that relationship. I'm confident in saying it's not ONE THING from 10 years ago. It's a ton of shit from then on. Even if not... …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:20 AM
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If a girl is making an issue of "tone," she's already accepted that the original issue is unimportant or she lacks ground to stand on. If you call your woman (serious SO) a bitch mid-fight... Yeah... I'm not talking anything like that. I'm not even talking about frame loss for that matter... even a slightly sarcastic A&A will be converted to "It was your tone" at times, when a girl already knows she went off the deep end to start with. Complaints about "tone" are grasping at straws. There really…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:47 PM
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I still deploy strong confidence while I complain. No... You don't.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:20 PM
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1) The Tone Police LMAO. You aren't kidding. My "tone" actually became a huge problem last night for 10-15 minutes. Never lose frame. Calm collectedness is your only option for success. Absolutely true. It will dissipate. She's making a big deal out of my "tone" while I point out in a normal voice that she's way over-excited. She eventually sees the absurdity and has to dial it back, herself. While you apologize (or possibly hug her and promise you never meant to hurt her feelings, if an SO), yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 04:24 PM
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A certain number of people will pay voluntarily if they perceive something to be of benefit to their community. They will also pay for feeling good. Otherwise, it would be very difficult to explain charity, which we all know exists. If people really believe having an educated populous keeps them from getting robbed, they'll pay for that voluntarily. Mixing this point together with the previous will get people paying voluntarily. Nash equilibriums typically apply to opponents... independent actor…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:00 PM
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First, don't expect your sister to tell you the truth. Do you think she wants you fucking all of her friends? Really? We generally can't trust women to tell us the truth, but you think your sister is going to pave the road to pussy for you? lol, not happening. This isn't "according to your sister's friends." This is "according to your sister." Disregard her comments completely on this front. When her friends start calling you an asshole themselves, you might be getting somewhere, as it demonstra…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:49 PM
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I've certainly done enough MDMA for two lifes and there were times that I couldn't articulate one word that made sense and my face behaved like a disco, but I certainly never blacked out on it. Yeah... even if he's the sort of asshat to give someone drugs without their consent, the story doesn't add up.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:47 PM
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lol. Yet again... throwing out a high school level buzzword. What is your background in economics? "Tragedy of the commons" did not apply in this scenario. Game theory is applicable all over the place. Tell me how economists should apply game theory here. This will be interesting.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:47 AM
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We're both in NJROTC and she's a respected member of the unit. To each their own.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:38 AM
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These problems are deeper than the specific interaction, is my best guess. You probably have an overall situation to deal with, and need to treat it that way.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:36 AM
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Let me be the first to say "Duh." You're blowing out girls for no reason. You could be seeing both of those girls and both of them be happy. Myself, I'd rather keep both. Do you get something out of the competition? You can't dread game a girl who is not invested/committed to you, if that was the goal.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:19 AM
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emailed him a link to what he called "The 10 Commandments of The Red Pill" - pretty sure that doesn't even exist. How do I proceed confronting her about this? If at all? LMAO. A turtle asked me a question once. I have no idea what those people are talking about. Fuck dude, respond to stupid shit like you think it's stupid. Anything else makes stupid people think it's a legitimate view. So you don't "confront" anyone and you act like their attempts to put you in an ideological box is the dumbest …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:07 AM
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Went back this morning to get my dog from her place and had to deal with it. If your dog was at her place, she wasn't a plate. You owe it to yourself to deal with reality, whatever it is.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:01 AM
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I was supposed to hang out with my girl the other day but she flaked with a shitty excuse. I suspect the background matters. What is it?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:58 AM
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lol. I'm sad to say I'm familiar with this game. And I'm sad to say, I only go on FB about once per month, and only when I feel like it. So if a girl did something to make herself feel uncomfortable, and wants me to log into facebook to fix it for her, then LOLOLOLOL. I'm busy doing other shit. After several weeks of that, I'll log in and help. Then laugh at her about it a little bit. Shit like this is very non-serious in a lot of ways if you have your shit together in general.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:54 AM
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Google the "tragedy of the commons". I'm a degreed economist. I don't need to google such simple concepts. And you do know that the "tragedy of the commons" concept is not even applicable here, right? Your view of humanity is dismal. I suspect you learned these things in "school." Who would think that a school system reliant on taxes would teach things that perpetuate its own existence? Your police example shows your lack of historical knowledge, as least as it pertains to america and police. He…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:43 PM
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I think the sexually experienced (or LTR experienced) will tell you it varies widely. It's like asking "How do you make a girl cum?" Yeah... there are shortcuts and rules of thumb, but it could be different for any particular girl. I started to elaborate, but it was sounding too much like bragsplaining.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:34 PM
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If that were true, people would pay it voluntarily. Don't pop out 20 kids and tell me I need to pay for their education to keep them from running amok. It's nonsense. If your little shits want to square up on me, we can handle it then. Forcing everyone into government education does not necessarily make for a better society.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:13 PM
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orbiters Invite them into your world. Be friends with them. Use them, like your girlfriend does. Seriously... ask those dipshits to do stuff for you. Make them orbit both of you. The orbiter will eventually figure it out, and you did that kid a favor.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 08:02 PM
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She "found" it last night and flipped out. Ignore. She can't be bothered to fuck you, but she's worried you're reading materials that she didn't approve of? Holy shit. Think about that for a little bit.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 07:54 PM
2

I don't know about you. but I live in the real world. I like girls that spend money on me. You have to do some amazing mental gymnastics to not like that. I know you have some flair... but let's make this really simple... girl girl+money Which one would you pick?? It's a really simple choice, dude. fuck. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation. What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:29 PM
1

Completely agree.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:59 PM
2

Would you disagree with any of the following? What's better than a 9? A 9 with money. What's better than a 9? A 9 that likes to cook. What's better than a 9? A 9 that likes to clean. See my point yet? I guess I could make it all about money if you want to back me into that corner, but finding some shitty rich girl wouldn't be all that great. All things equal, why wouldn't you want a girl with money? Or a girl that cooks? Or a girl that cleans? You can break it down to only money if you like... a…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:27 PM
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How effective is it if the chick your practicing dread game is hotter than the girl your flirting with? Slightly more effective. lol. "Dread game" is a concept this sub sucks at. It's like LTR game. People just upvote shit because they've heard it before, and a bunch of bad advice looks like a consensus, because it's upvoted by people who have no idea what the fuck they're talking about. You'll get very sparse advice for LTR game here, and just accept that. Anyway, here's my advice from years of…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 04:20 PM
3

she is upset that i got upset Always laugh at that. You'll be wrong now and then, but it's a go-to move just like A&A. Also, always laugh at "I'm upset that you're not upset." Really, shut the fuck up. lol. It's just plain nonsense. my question is do you guys think I acted ok? or better to have just smiled go along with the joke and then mention something to her at the end of the night when we are alone.. she continues to maintain that she never intended to bring me down and that she loves me an…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:59 PM
1

what do you anticipate the future 2 generation of feminists will be like? I will sum this up with a few letters of the english alphabet. DGAF. It will mean nothing to me, besides making me stand out a little more among all the pussy ass guys who worry about it. The judicial system will continue to fuck people, whether I care or not. I do actually care, but my care will never matter. The judicial system used to just fuck black kids or people who smoke weed. Now it fucks average white guys who cam…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:27 PM
1

Why are girls that are raised with no father figure generally crazy? Why are girls generally crazy? Having a male around isn't nearly enough. If true, we'd have no orbiters. Quick stab in the dark, is that since they never had a male in their life, they latch onto any that show a sign of interest/Go for any attention that guys give, eg. promoting sluttory? kinda, yeah. I can't point you to a study right now, but girls go through puberty at a much earlier age if they live with a non-related male.…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:14 PM
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"It's cute that he's so thirsty." - depending on your age (if the girl knows what that means), and you may have to elaborate a bit... "Let's all hang out. I think I like that guy. He seems nice." If you act like he's a threat to you, he will be, through no fault of his own. Right now, he's spinning into orbit. If your girl thinks you view him as a threat, he starts becoming one because you pre-selected him for her. Pretty much, this sounds like a monster you can create, or a fly you can swat.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:05 PM
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so i see a lot of advice apply to older guys here, as a high school senior what concepts apply to me? what redpill concepts bulletpoint format can i apply to myself to better myself with women? 99% of the advice here applies to you. Don't think it doesn't Apply it to yourself I wish I were you There'd be almost no limit to the amount of pussy I'd be banging with this forum and 20 years of youth. There's no limit now, either, really.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:39 PM
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I thought we already confirmed that men aren't attracted to money or status in women? What's better than a 9? A 9 with money that likes to cook and clean. If you disagree, try it out and get back to me. And Katy Perry is NOT a 9... I'm just sayin' money don't hurt.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:33 PM
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Dude you're 55, no one here is going to be slinging dick into their 50's you are better off saving that money instead of raising SMV. Fuck off. If he can afford to fix his teeth, he should do it if he feels like it. A lot of people here will be banging sluts into their 50s. My guess is that you are 20ish and have no concept, or maybe even a bit of jealousy for whatever reason.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:27 AM
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Heres the rest of the post, it was too long. Holy fuck! Are you shitting in my hat??
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:21 AM
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I want you in my life to say this to me all the time. Be discreet, bro. He might be into that, but don't make him feel all slutty by yelling it in front of everyone.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 03:55 AM
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You probably friendzoned yourself by not pushing. But really, it doesn't sound horrible. Give it a push and see what happens, but be willing to crash and burn. Otherwise, you're an orbiter, and will always be an orbiter. The longer you hang around in that area, the harder it is to escape.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 03:52 AM
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Look away after. Breaking eye contact first means submission. This is a popular opinion that is very wrong. Are you honestly telling me that if we happen to look at each other, I've unknowingly entered into a staring contest with you? And furthermore, if I have other more important shit to look at, I've submitted to you? So, let me get this straight. I'm at the grocery store when I lock eyes with a 10 year old. Holy fuck!! It's on! Seriously, I need to get to aisle 5 to pick up some soup, but I'…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 09:26 PM
1

Never be afraid to take several seconds to think. The reason A&A is so popular is because it takes very little thought and will usually do the job. If you need to think about it a lot, you're doing it wrong. But if you need a little time to digest what you are responding to, go ahead and do it. Saying nothing is better than saying something stupid 100% of the time. When you say nothing, in most interactions, the tension usually remains with the last person to talk. So even if you're confused, th…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 09:09 PM
1

You are right... in most cases, I wouldn't let on that I heard it unless you think that's your only chance to approach. I was thinking of a situation where you're among acquaintances. In that case, they might even be slamming you a little, but it's still attention seeking behavior.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 09:04 PM
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I believe it. Now tell me how that good judge makes up for the bad ones. Or tell me why we should accept crappy judges because some of them are good.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:40 PM
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I have a challenge... After you get the responses here... (and it could certainly happen...), I'd like to see someone post the same question in a mainstream sub under a fresh alias. Ya know, for entertainment.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:24 PM
2

"You know what a shit test means!"
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:21 PM
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Judges are WORLD CLASS FUCKING HAMSTERS. They don't just backward rationalize their own stupid decisions... they backward rationalize decisions from anyone they perceive to be in their own general class of people. I'm not a lawyer or a judge... but I've had the unfortunate circumstance to navigate the nonsense world they live in, and win big a time or two, and lose big a time or two. If 'backward rationalization' = 'hamster,' judges are living 300 pound prehistoric hamsters that no one can touch…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:57 PM
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Wondering if anyone else has encountered this and how you dealt with it. Yes. This is a "green light" no matter what they are saying. There are very few exceptions... I won't get into those here, because I'm busy and you wouldn't ask this question here if they were dogging you that hard. If it were straight up mean like girls can be toward the poor guys they hate on, and you overheard some mean ass shit, you'd not need to question it here. You're fine. Take it as an invitation to join the conver…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:37 PM
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It would have been a great opportunity for him to recognize how easy it is for someone to accuse a person of domestic violence, how important due process is and how as a judge, he'll be more sensitive to the issue. He's a judge. Do you know how narcissistic those people are? Believe me... he really thinks this was all about him. He'll go back to fucking people over just like he did before. No way will his opinion change about anything, because he'd have to admit that he was wrong in the past. Th…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 08:53 PM
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... and have been pretty except for the first one who looked like a foot. lmao. That's the funniest thing I've read all day, and I've read a lot of shit today. Everything else was kinda funny in a sad way, but thank you for that excellent description of the girl who looks like a foot. Fuck if I didn't just giggle again. (not at all kidding)
/r/askTRP16/08/14 08:07 PM
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You left out all of the important information. Part of me thought the opportunity for a long term thing with her was awesome, but there were red flags. Exactly why do you call this an "opportunity? She said she wanted a relationship with you and you declined? She basically said she was disappointed but got where I was coming from. How did this conversation go? She's more of an activity over dinner and a movie sort of girl so I took her climbing and later for beers, escalated and got shut down. I…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 07:58 PM
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Im curious to how you are even making the connection between holding a strong frame and doing more chores. Exactly. How did that happen, OP? Nothing about having a strong frame causes you to do a larger share of chores.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 07:35 PM
1

No shit. I could give a fuck if I were infertile. If I became impotent, I'd have to honestly question my reason for living. Two COMPLETELY different things.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:22 PM
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I value her. She does a lot for me, with very minimal nonsense. She's some sort of expert chef... Silly me... I used to think I could only get good food at restaurants, and only if I paid for it. And she cleans. Truth be told... she just follows recipes she finds on the internet. Any girl could do that, but she wants to do it. If I'm not going to see her for a few days, she makes sure I'm fed. The first thing out of her mouth to other guys is almost always something about "my boyfriend." She get…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 04:32 PM
1

lol. Explain how.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 10:28 PM
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That's not a shit test. Edit... She's asking "Did you manipulate me?" The answer is "It just happened." From there, add anything you like that will help with your goals. Like... "It just happened. I'm glad we can be spontaneous with each other." A shit test is when a girl attempts to rattle you. That's not what this was. You need to understand what shit tests are before you can identify them or respond to them appropriately.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 05:17 PM
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/#IfIWereABoy, I'd figure out how to become a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:55 PM
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That TDLR is useless. Read this whole post. It's gold.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:50 PM
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I lack the patience to deal with a chick who doesn't understand that being a parent is more than simply feeding and clothing a child. I think the real issue is this - that they don't have their own responsibilities like that, and so they rightfully don't want to have someone else's, either. Herein lies the problem. Women without kids don't typically seem to be attracted to men with kids in a scope beyond casual hook-ups. That will change before long. As you know, it's a lot different having a 5 …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:22 PM
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No state wants financial dependents. That's quite an odd position to take. Have you noticed reality lately?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:46 PM
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My interpretation was that she was trying to play it off like she practically didn't have a kid by avoiding me during the hours where she had to take care of him and then coming around at night once he passed out. Unless I'm misunderstanding, this basically contradicts everything everyone is saying here. It doesn't contradict some posts above, that you may not have seen. Here's why you have a problem... what would be the point of her pretending to not have a child? Do you think she could keep th…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:56 PM
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I get the idea of finding a logical guy whom I'd trust with judgement, but would that fix the act of submission? No idea. I was suggesting that "submission" might not be the hurdle you think it is. A lot of these concepts are short-cuts to what women find attractive. Some women find submissive women attractive, and some women find butch women attractive, so it's not quite a philosophy that believes in no counter-examples. It's not a philosophy at all, really.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:12 AM
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However, the other day she had enough and said she wasn't comfortable hooking up in the car anymore. Personally I think this is just a shit test... Sounds like something that has the potential to be a legitimate concern. A "shit test" is more of something that has no substantial impact on anything, but is mostly an attempt to rattle you. In this case... well, fucking in cars isn't all that comfortable. You said it yourself, speaking for yourself. if she's legitimately uncomfortable what are my o…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:03 AM
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You sound like you might be the fairly rare analytical female. Maybe an INTJ or INTP type, as far as meyers Briggs typology. There are others. You may be fully capable of being submissive, but not to any old dipshit who reads TRP. You might need a guy who's logical, where you can come to trust his judgement as similar to your own. That's just a guess. I guess that, because you're feeling incapable of "submissive" which is very much an emotional issue, and you're also willing to reasonably evalua…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:39 AM
1

I don't ask, because the answer will be a lie. I "get" numbers later through talking about it and taking a guess. I don't usually give numbers, either. I just say something to the effect of "well, we both know I'm experienced" after I've done her. Before I've done her, I'm a little more aloof.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:31 AM
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I suspect he almost came in his pants when he saw his wife's look of horror and disappointment. Nah... that's how a good writer feels when he makes a good analogy. THAT IS THE FEELING YOUR WIFE OR LTR GETS EVERY SINGLE TIME SHE DENIES YOU SEX- BUT ONLY IF you react and lose frame. Those girls are high priced whores. They often want money in exchange for pussy, because they aren't that attracted to the man. They don't give a shit about frame, because their guy doesn't have it anyway. His frame is…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 04:22 AM
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Cops do that with a lot of "dominant eye contact" and such. lol. It's like their first "go to" tool. The last popular bouncer post mentioned how criminals would be worried they'd disappoint the bouncer after becoming close through eye contact, and not want to disappoint the bouncer. This OP seems to think eye contact is a staring contest that the first one to look away loses. 3) Dominant eye contact. I don't look away until the person I am talking to looks away. That seems to be what cops think.…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 04:06 AM
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I have a girl that does not live with me, yet does all of my dishes, cooks gourmet meals though the week for me to eat, fucks me daily, and wakes me up in the middle of the night a few times per week with blowjobs to completion.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:27 PM
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Girls, by nature, will test the waters. A girl could be on tinder for years and just be a validation slut and not a cum slut. Relax, dude. Maybe she has issues or not, but there's not a terrorist under everyone's bed.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 09:14 PM
1

Usually, I keep fucking them. They might find a boyfriend or something, but they shoot me a random text 3-4 months later.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 08:24 PM
3

Pretty weak troll attempt. I hope you get better at trolling, or give it up entirely.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 08:21 PM
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I wouldn't want to hang out with a bunch of squealing girls in LV... ugh, no thanks. I'll take your place if you are faced with such a problem. Lemme know.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:50 PM
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Ok, you need to be very subtle. And you really need to provide more details for anyone to walk you through this. Does the other girl want to get naked with you? Or does she want to get naked with your girlfriend? If she wants to get naked with you, you need to convince your girlfriend that you want her to share the experience... that you want her to be a part of it. Very slight dread game involved there, and will take aftercare if you like the LTR. If she wants to get naked with your girlfriend,…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:47 PM
1

I would like to be cordial with her, but the current level of interest is far too much and I don't feel comfortable maintaining it. I didn't say be cordial with her. lol. That's not what I said at all. I saw someone else suggested beta behavior... yeah... that will work, but then you'll have this low SMV girl telling everyone in your social circle how beta you are. Next thing you know, she'll be your only option. If you care about the social circle, then you want her to keep liking you without b…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:32 PM
2

What can I do? Use her for pre-selection? Have her arrange threesomes? If she's even a little influential in the social circle, you want her to continue liking you. You need to be asking how you can keep her liking you and use that to your advantage without continuing to fuck her, or being cockblocked by her, etc.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:59 PM
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I'm not trying to bust your bubble or anything... just saying it may be too soon to claim a victory. Maintaining frame will go a fuck of a long way, and that never seems to change. Keep that up, even when it's difficult.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:47 PM
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Because this sub is mostly full of younger people who have no experience with LTRs. Thus, even when people ask for and receive good advice, it gets downvoted by people who have no interest and even less understanding. Upvotes represent a lot of things, and quality of advice will only be heavily upvoted when it's completely obvious to everyone. Otherwise, upvotes will reflect consensus... and you need to pay attention to the audience to decide how much weight consensus has. Now, I can guarantee m…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:38 PM
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Actually, alpha widow refers to a girl who either couldn't get, or couldn't maintain commitment from an alpha. New guys have a very hard standard to live up to. They'll always love that guy who fucked them in the IHOP bathroom. Flowers and a nice restaurant will never compare to that guy who bent them over a toilet.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:26 PM
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It turned out instead of punishing me she had cleaned everything in the house, folded laundry, bought me clothes, and everything resolved itself. Over what time horizon did everything "resolve itself?" If you're talking about the same night, she may have done that to have an even bigger moral high ground. I'm sorry to say this, but there's a good chance this gets worse for you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:18 PM
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Veteran TRP'ers I know I've missed a bunch of useful tips I have a few, as I see the advice get misapplied sometimes... You can't dread game a girl who doesn't have investment. The "dread" is her fear of losing you. Dread game isn't a lifestyle unless you're into torture. You can reduce a girl to pulp with it, and that's usually not the goal.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:13 PM
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And it puts his wife's face into your wife's head. Then you can mention over dinner the duo plank challenge and know full well that Johnny's wife is going to rip his ass wide open when they go home. lol, brilliant. The only caveat here is that I'd be careful not to make Johnny more important than he really is. If this offer exposes him as non-existent, then good. If he's real, then insisting on a couples' dinner could start looking like he's being pre-selected by OP. Personally, I'd want to talk…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:02 PM
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I suppose the somewhat scary people are the ones that do it without a thought, like the 50 year old guy taking you fishing on his yacht. If it's a planned tactic at a bar somewhere, it's one that can be easily blown out by a person with experience. I could imagine this as a tactic I'd teach to other people, and then watch it blow up on them in front of everyone. Even better to teach it to two people, and watch a dueling shoulder touching disaster all night. That would make for a little DT entert…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:57 PM
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Ignore things like that. By all means... pay attention if you like, but don't let her know that you do. It will only encourage more passive-aggressive nonsense like that. Let's break this down... Let's say it's not about you... if you address it as if it were, it makes you look insecure. Not only that, but now you've also given her a very effective new tool to use against you. Let's say it is about you... if you address it, it makes it look like you'll be monitoring her public thoughts for passi…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 04:43 PM
4

Be mysterious. In fact, do that after you have a job too. They don't really need to know either way.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:09 PM
5

Today I texted asking if we're still on for six and she said "as of now, yes". You never should have asked. That's where you fucked up to start with. You should have assumed she was coming. If you needed to say anything at all, you should have only reinforced that she was coming. If you made the date in person (I can't tell from the post) and needed to say anything at all, a simple "I said 6, right?" would have worked. if she really thinks I was somehow being mean by telling her that I have a li…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:03 PM
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Or even better, set up a situation where she overhears it or believes she discovered the information on her own somehow.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:37 PM
3

Another example of a DT lifehack is placing your hand on another man's shoulder when meeting him to signify dominance. That shows me someone who is either easily manipulated, or someone who is batting out of their league in terms of social awareness.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:35 PM
1

I've definitely been stepping outside of the alpha frame with this one. This was intentional as I've been vetting her for LTR material What makes you think that is useful? The reason an LTR takes a little beta balancing is to keep things running smoothly. In my experience, it's to provide some relationship security so you aren't dealing with a girl who's on edge all of the time. A girl needs to earn an LTR... meaning she needs to stand out among other options and consistently do whatever it is y…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:19 PM
1

I have no idea wtf a size 10 translates to in normal english LARGE... probably 155-160 for an average height girl.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 10:33 PM
1

Do I need TRP? Yes. But don't expect much help around here besides "read Athol Kay" and "read MMSL." Both are good advice.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 10:23 PM
2

They're all a plate to start with. It's possible for them to earn an ltr, but among other requirements, it takes a lot of fucking, cooking, and cleaning.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:50 PM
8

I was using all the advice you guys gave me on men. All kinds of men. I now have them all wrapped around my finger and things are going great. Not sure what your intentions are, but guy game and girl game are completely different. If you're being honest, I feel so sorry for all those little pussies wrapped around your finger. They're way lower quality than what you would have found with even the most basic girl game.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:52 PM
1

Cut it off. Your friend is probably pre-selecting you here. He likely talks you up for various reasons. Being that he likely talks you up a lot, you're gonna have to really live up to it. Expect to lose the friend when you lose the girl, if not before. If he doesn't like you dating his sister, he'll quietly work against you whether intentional or not. You'll lose this friend anyway to some extent, since you won't be able to talk about his sister like you would another chick. If you really can't …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:06 PM
2

Join a parent activity group, if possible. They're full of thirsty single moms who will fawn over a stay at home dad. Meetup.com is good for that. Be careful tho... too much dread game will cause problems you don't need, but a little bit will probably do some good.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 10:48 PM
1

Agreed. Too many people give the same advice they do for handling plates as they would for being in a committed relationship. And I'm convinced most of those people have no personal experience... they're just regurgitating shit they've seen other people say.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 10:44 PM
3

How do I handle this without coming off needy? Let it go, and don't help her or hang out with her again. I know you, or know people like you. Understand that you will be more helpful and courteous to people than you will ever get in return. If that stops you from helping people, then fair enough. I do it anyway, but I do it without expectations.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 10:33 PM
5

What gets asked? You can skewer yourself giving a lot of straight responses. You can also be fine giving a lot of straight responses. (I'm old, and have a history, so I can't pretend I don't.) You're best off giving up very little, but sometimes something. It's a lot like flirting. How old are you? It matters. When you're 23, your past is almost not there. When you're 40, you have a colorful and mysterious past... or should pretend to. lol
/r/askTRP20/07/14 10:25 PM
1

I agree with your first point. If he obeys Now he has no choice but to shave to be contrary? What if the girl said "I like how you fuck me so good?" He can keep doing it, or he is compliant? Like I said, everything isn't a shit test. This would be a problem if the girl were asking/telling him to shave. That's not what happened here.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:14 PM
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how to free yourself from empathy Don't try. Would you prefer to have vision without color? Maybe you could buy some special glasses or something. The dark triad talk, and how women are attracted to it, is helpful to understand women. It's not a roadmap for a life you want to lead.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:08 PM
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Look, man... just being contrary to a female isn't progress. Have you considered that she might actually be attracted to a masculine display, like a beard? I mean, do whatever you want and own it. I'm up for that. But don't do it because you're showing her you'll do opposite of whatever she says. A girl can be truthful when telling you you're doing something right. You need to hold frame when dealing with shit tests and nonsense. Not everything fits into those categories.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:05 PM
1

My point is that you say "we" as if you are responsible for the inflation/theft. Are you doing it? Are you benefitting from it? If not, then stop the "we" bullshit. You're getting tricked into taking responsibility for something you aren't doing.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:09 AM
1

It is theft, but it sounds like you missed the bigger point I was making.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:00 AM
2

I agree with your sentiment, but that's actually a lie. National debt gets monetized through inflation. Notice that politicians always say "we" are putting our children in debt. They're asking you to internalize guilt for their own deficit spending, usually flowing to their buddies. It's a peeve of mine. The doublespeak is fucking everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:08 AM
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So, you purposely put yourself in situations where "you have no choice?" Why do that? Psycho Girl: Her: Whazzabi? You: (no response) Reasonable Girl: Her: Whazzabi? You: Who's this? This isn't a tough concept to grasp. You don't need to tell everyone everything you know. And you won't make better responses by forcing yourself to have less information.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 10:47 PM
1

I never thought it was fun, myself. I just lived there and had to deal with it.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 10:41 PM
2

The more skill, the less that chest pounding matters. But you will have different kinds of power plays at all levels. The phd mathematicians just do it differently than the people carrying hod.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 10:39 PM
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You're the biggest role model for the man she will choose. That does not apply so much to everything you do, but it definitely applies to how you treat her, and your relationship with her. I have a little girl. During her years, I've spun plates, and been in two LTRs besides her mother. My time with her is hers. If plates/LTRs do not understand that, then they fade. Little girl didn't ask to be here, so I'm obligated to do the best I can for her. You're the biggest role model for the man she wil…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:33 PM
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Are you in the US? If so, the hazing at trade jobs can be brutal. It's a bunch of constant shit testing. Those guys don't want to work with pussies, and don't want to get paid the same amount as people who don't work as hard as they do. I'm not saying you're a pussy or that you don't work hard... but that is the reality in US trade jobs, construction, welding, electric, hvac, etc. In addition to working hard, you have to hold your own socially as well. You will also always have giant dickheads i…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 09:54 PM
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Sure. You can also ask the same thing, even if you know who it is. I call it flirting/teasing. In fact, I'd tease some girls like that, and there are others I wouldn't engage no matter what. I'd rather know which is which.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 09:38 PM
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Another benefit is that when your phone rings, it looks better for everyone if it says "Jennifer" instead of 555-555-5555. Even if you have no intention of ever answering a call from that crazy psycho, it can earn preselection points just by having a name. For that matter, if you have bill collectors calling you, might as well name them Jennifer 1, Hot Shelly, Crystal from the bar, etc. "omg, why are these girls so obsessed with him?!?"
/r/askTRP15/07/14 08:53 PM
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As a man, you had me at "You can pretty much count on the court system to fuck you over"
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:37 PM
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That might be the legal argument, but that's surely not the reality.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:36 PM
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I didn't say the man has no power, nor did I mention Rollo. As a man, you better exercise your power constantly and consistently. A girl will nullify any previous negotiation at her convenience, so there's no point in making an explicit agreement. It is meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:11 PM
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CPR for healthcare workers. I'd never "volunteer" at a fire department, as I can't handle all of the bro-ness with cops. But I do like having the knowledge to save someone's life if needed. I actually carry around a keychain mouth barrier to eliminate any associated moral dilemmas.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:13 PM
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She was looking for it. She found it. Based on what I read earlier, she probably found someone local.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:49 PM
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I pretty much never delete them. I'd imagine my phone will store 100,000 numbers. Whether I let on or not, I'd always rather know who is calling. Why have less information? I do see people giving advice to delete numbers as a way of saying "move on." But really, that can be done just fine without deleting a number.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:39 PM
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What do we get in return for our commitment? Misery, usually. And you're not going to negotiate things like sexual frequency. She's either fucking you silly to start with, or you shouldn't even be thinking about a girl for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:23 PM
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But I have to say, you're right about true "alphas". The true "alphas" sit in their ivory towers and influence society through DT's, beta males, and fake-alphas. Absolutely. The real DTs are found at the extreme tops for various reasons, or the real bottoms because that's where they grew up and they're making the best out of where they will live. People can be alpha, or DT, or both at the same time. But DT does not equal alpha.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 12:52 AM
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Not everyone has the skillset to "do whatever the fuck they want". Don't sell yourself short. I believe everyone does have that skillset. But you have to accept that you wouldn't be able to do that were it not for the many other men who buckle down and work the careers that build society and keep it running. No, I don't have to "accept that." Could I stand on the shoulders of giants? Maybe. What exactly do you think I should do for our dead ancestors?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 12:38 AM
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Didn't you just delete a conversation I started regarding LTRs the other day?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 11:35 PM
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I feel like I WANT/NEED cuddling, affection, snuggling, all that more than just sex with plates. What are your views on this? I like cuddling, affection, and snuggling. I require it, actually. Get your girls to do what you like, and don't be apologetic about it. Live in your own world.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 11:20 PM
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You're exactly the sort of person that needs that post, but didn't read it.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 10:33 PM
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Because it's easy advice and applies to almost everyone. I feel like girls don't really care if your build as much as we would like to believe. lol. That is true, but lift anyway. You can be beanpole skinny and still have game, but your game will be better if you look better. There's no reason to deny basic reality.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 10:29 PM
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There really are no "physical" traits, and that is one of the most misleading things of all. Self identifying DTs will use things like tats, but so will fakes. At some point, the fake DTs will have to put up or shut up, which is why this isn't a game non-DTs should play. "How can I act like I care about nothing and have nothing to lose?" (not your quote, but a theme I see.) Unless you really have nothing to lose, or have a morbid curiosity with great social skills, then there's very little payof…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 09:28 PM
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What was the correct thing to do? I'll explain. I sit down, she offers me a cigarette and proceeds to tell me how wasted she is while reaching out to grab my hand. I take it, am stroking her hand a bit and tell her to come over towards me and get a bit more familiar. Don't "tell" a girl things in that situation. You pull her toward you. This can be summed up for newbies really simple... Action, not talking. Talking will only fuck you up unless you're advanced level enough to know the difference.
/r/trpGAME12/07/14 08:38 PM
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Well, you are what you are. I'm not suggesting DTs become something that they aren't. I'm just saying it isn't some sort of glamorous life for those that want to fake it.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:06 PM
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I don't have a "career." I do whatever the fuck I want. Be an entrepreneur and then you don't need a "career" or a "job." At the same time, always be willing to dig ditches.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:46 PM
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Anyways I was stern at first, then that failed You weren't stern enough. Or it wasn't going to work out anyway. then I begged her, that didnt work Expected. Expect it again. She already didn't respect you, and that made it worse. Then I got super angry and that just made things worse. Even thinking about it infuriates me. Expected. Expect it again. That's an epic frame loss. She never gave a shit, as far as I could tell. Some girls will straight up antagonize you. I couldn't leave - I was financ…
/r/askTRP12/07/14 05:52 PM
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I want advice about how to handle her family.. Ditch them.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 05:35 PM
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I like strong females. But a strong female needs an even stronger male. Strong females are less likely to shit test you to death, but they're likely to walk away faster if you aren't the real deal.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 05:09 PM
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This is not a shit test. She offered to meet you Sunday.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 04:06 PM
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On purpose, for sure.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 01:18 PM
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So is talking. Yapping too much can certainly keep you from getting laid, or make it take longer. You can screw up, or alternatively be good at, any form of communication.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:28 PM
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"Don't hurt yourself thinking about it...u don't even need to bring a movie" was an obvious invitation, in the first screenshot. "I'll ask you the same and what are you expecting" from the OP derailed the first invitation. "No but I feel like I should be. ru?" was the second invitation in the first hour. "You like older women" was yet another invitation, more obvious and more sexual, labeled as "hamstering" by OP. And it just flies further and further out of control from there.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:12 PM
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I said as much below, but there are clearly a bunch of texting experts here.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:55 PM
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If you text a girl 60 times in 8 hours, you're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:53 PM
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Holy Shit! You could have closed that in 5-10 texts. All day texting and 60-70 texts later, you finally go over? That was way too much writing.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:14 PM
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The costs associated with orbiting have become much less. It used to be that a guy could only orbit one or two girls at a time. (likely with other orbiters.) Now guys can digitally orbit (and white knight) tons of girls thorough their phones.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 10:23 AM
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You're her orbiter, and that's where she plans to keep you.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 02:17 PM
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Most of those are shit anyone should do. Some are just dumb.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 01:59 PM
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Agree. I often see people in here who want to "become dark triad." They're simply asking what a shark is and where they can swim with them. It's really the last thing they want to do. If they successfully fake it with a certain amount of people, they'll find themselves hanging around real DT types who will know the difference and eat them for breakfast. One thing that gets lost in these discussions is that real DT types are extremely good at knowing when they're in similar company. And they'll h…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 12:43 PM
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He is loyal to his friends however, that should be noted. Maybe. lol. Seriously, you just never know. Interesting story.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 12:39 PM
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I understand what you mean. Your entire post contained a lot of truth. I was more meaning to address the concept that men's LTR game is something to be based on looking at RPW. There'd be no way to derive dread game or going outside the marriage or a number of other relevant things from looking at their sub. I'm sure many useful things can be found there, but many can't.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:55 PM
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I understand what you are saying. Although, I'd say the demographics interested in each are very different. (and this shows) And sending you posts to sticky won't allow reddit to work as reddit, and it sounds like a lot of work for you. If it's something people aren't interested in, I understand. I'm just bringing the subject up. If people in the main sub are required to see posts stickied that they aren't interested in, I can imagine that won't work out well, either.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:42 PM
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Based on demand, it's way more needed than /r/RedPillParenting or /r/altTRP . In the main sub, a lot of good LTR posts get lost in the noise, or get downvoted by people who choose not to be in LTRs. (and I don't blame them... it's just not relevant to everyone's interests.)
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:26 PM
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Oh, I hear ya. I suspect a lot of people don't know the difference, don't have the slightest clue why anyone advocates responsibility, and they won't know what hits them when there's a large societal system failure. And really, that could come about rather quickly.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:17 PM
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The reason you don't see a lot of LTR game mentioned is because a lot of the guys here are anti-LTR and anti-marriage. Sure, and I probably would be too at a different age. The tone of your post is "I'm already a committed a guy, I want to know how to maintain a relationship without giving up my dignity" I'm committed atm, yes. I've been through several LTRs, a marriage, divorce, etc. I've also spent extensive time spinning plates, although we used to call it juggling. What you're looking for is…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:10 PM
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In a normal society, you'd give a fuck because her child would wind up as your problem or your parents' problem. In a welfare state, everyone pays for it. (although, no one pays enough to care about any particular individual) I suspect most of the "mind your own business" stuff is coming from slutty young girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:41 PM
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Some good links there, but I'm thinking something more specifically for men.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:04 PM
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Depends on where you are and surrounding culture, I guess. Shorts are everyday wear for both grown men and grown women in many places.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:59 PM
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Here's what you do... Spin plates until a girl really stands out. That is the way to go for several reasons. Preselection. You'll find hotter girls that way overall. She'll stand out compared to all of your other options. You'll have a realistic measuring stick. You'll be entering the relationship right. You'll go in with abundance mentality (so you will be willing to bail if needed). She'll know you have other options, so she'll be on good behavior, herself. From there, you need to maintain tha…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:34 PM
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I would never, ever take a girl who wears shorts seriously for example. Huh? What's wrong with shorts? If you live in a warm climate, not wearing shorts is psychotic.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:27 PM
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That's not a shit test. Not at all.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 03:17 PM
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In this sub, I sometimes see dumb shit upvoted due to flair... Upvotes don't always equal strength/truth of post.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 11:53 AM
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Even if we're talking 30 minutes straight, we would stop abruptly and spend 5 minutes or so in silence. I guess it’s somewhat normal because we talked so much at the beginning of our relationship. Nah, that's weird. I think you're saying you sit in silence on the phone or skype for 5 minutes? If you don't have anything to say, go do something else. the fact that we don’t have those mind-blowing long conversations daily drive her crazy (though I don’t mind so much). She's losing attraction for yo…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 12:56 AM
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Yeah, I almost mentioned a few, and astronomy would have been one of them. Dinosaurs, marine mammals, etc, etc. There are a ton of interesting fields and topics that a kid could find in a "science" book.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:34 PM
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I bet 4th grade girls are probably also somewhat shamed into saying they like math and science, whether they do or not. I doubt 66% of anyone really likes math at that age, let alone math and science. And liking "science" in the 4th grade can mean almost anything. Do they like rigorous application of the sceintific method? I doubt it. (boys, either...) If anything, they probably like some science topic.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 04:37 PM
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Sry... I realized I replied to the wrong post, so moved it above. I actually figured you'd agree. (and I agree with your entire premise as well.)
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:02 PM
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How did he fuck him over? It sounds like he tried to give him dinner. When the brother (op) didn't eat, the guy picked up his own fork. I'd agree it probably shouldn't have been "secretly."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:00 PM
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She's starting to use you for validation. That's what she's up to. 1.) She starts feeling unattractive and contacts you. 2.) You validate her. 3.) She feels better, then bails until the cycle is repeated later. This isn't a big deal for now because it takes almost no investment on your part. One of these times, she might come fuck you. Or your game might improve to where you get her to go through with it. I wouldn't spend a lot of time thinking about it, though. (as that takes more and more of y…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 02:47 PM
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she texted me from a clothes store and was talking to me about getting lingerie Out of all things she could be buying, that's surely not the worst. Her: I could have never told you about it. WTF else does she do with lingerie?
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:20 PM
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Maybe... I know I've seen a lot worse than the EMSK poster as far as that goes. I've definitely seen posters that I think fit your description.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 10:26 PM
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Stockholm Syndrome Here is the link so a bot doesn't delete this post.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 10:08 PM
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Depends on what that really means to her... People often self-identify as a lot of things they are not, for a lot of different reasons. How often do we see people self-identify as TRP, when they clearly are not? A lot.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 02:44 PM
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Hang out with these friends more often. Let them buy drinks for girls. Meet new girls without buying them anything. This sounds like a win-win to me.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 02:40 PM
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My Take: The average girls think you just want to hit it real fast because they perceive you as higher SMV. They otherwise think that you must be batting below your looks because something is wrong with you that they can't see in a picture. The hotter girls think you're in their league. This is good news for you.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 05:32 PM
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You look #LikeABoy You're pretty #LikeABoy You give blowjobs #LikeABoy Makes sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:04 PM
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Don't know if you're experienced with turning down women for sex (esp. in the context of LTRs) Oh yeah... I've seen plenty of girls explode over this, especially if you don't feel like fucking them because you're tired of their shit. If you're not immediately into olive-branch pussy, you can expect a brand new meltdown.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:44 PM
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The most bullshit one was a professor of masculine studies that was talking about how masculinity was being redefined.... by women, no less. You might rightly call it "bullshit," but it's true. Women are defining "masculinity" by raising boys on their own, and women are defining "masculinity" by telling men what to do, how to feel, etc. It's not changing who they like to fuck and how they like to be fucked... but they're changing the overall landscape of men... into something they don't really l…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:51 PM
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Glad you understand it. He's describing an exchange of labor, for things other than money.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 01:50 PM
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Do you want a job? Or do you want to make money? Or do you want a girl? I don't know if this is relevant or not, but the girl I was obsessed over broke up with me because I was a jobless bum (Which is a good reason, I've come to understand). But that guilt and pain ate away at me for a long time. It's very relevant. What do YOU want? The american homeless are some of the most free people on earth. You can get some miserable job. You are right that an average company will throw you under the bus.…
/r/askTRP21/06/14 06:19 PM
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Then come the threats. Well her uncle so and so is a cop in the next city over and he's going to come over here and cause us problems - I dgaf about any of this until I hear that she's going to try and get me in trouble over my guns lol. Her cop uncle's guns are "good" and she'll use them by proxy to take away your "bad" guns. Just be glad that bitch left.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 04:50 PM
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At what point do TRP actions cross the line between displaying the behaviors that women are attracted to, and just being an inconsiderate dick? I'm smoking a cigar right now... in my house, with the sliders open to the pool. I don't feel like an inconsiderate dick. I have a girl coming over in a little bit who will expect this behavior from me. She's not a smoker. I plan to enjoy her company, but the minute she starts telling me what to do, she can leave. If she had some sort of real medical iss…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 04:42 PM
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What you are describing is not volunteering.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 04:31 PM
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My optimism makes me want to not believe you, but thanks for sharing an honest opinion from your own experience. I tried to sign up for that once, but was disqualified. Dumb enough, it was for reasons that would probably make me more understanding of those kids in need.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 04:27 PM
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I don't understand what you're telling me here. That because a particular 20 year old can't fuck a 20 year old, mushrooms are like goats?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:29 PM
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The crazy bitch is the ultimate trap for the beta male. There's also this weird thing about "crazy" and good sex. I think it must come from the beta guys who "got lucky" and fucked a slut. Yes... she's sexually experienced, and crazy. The beta "got lucky" because some sexually experienced slut fucked him, and now he thinks crazy = good sex and all the betas shout it from their rooftops. In reality, plenty of girls are good at sex, or you can teach them to be. No "crazy" is required at all. Those…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:20 PM
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Are you in the 40 range or the 20 range? I'm in the 40 range. I guess you'd be correct when you originally said "probably." But it surely doesn't have to be true, and the rare exceptions will be more plentiful in this sub. I had this link open because it was linked elsewhere... http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/03/01/x-mistakes-men-men-pursuing-younger-women/0/ Please take a look. A sugar-daddy arrangement is not at all required for 40 year olds to bang 20 year olds on a regular basis. I'm not…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:06 PM
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IF you are 40 fucking a 20 year old, it probably is because you have money and you guys got some sugar daddy arrangement going on. Not true AT ALL. I know this sub is full of younger guys, but this is not talk from experience... and if it is, then it's not the advice you are looking for. There is nothing alpha about tormenting a lonely woman. I do agree with that. I'll comfort and fuck them. I don't celebrate their bad life decisions.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 09:50 PM
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Weed is like speed for some people. Not me, as it completely keeps ME from getting BUSINESS shit done. But I've known plenty of people through the years who smoke constantly and are also ultra-productive. I'm even talking about top salespeople in certain fields... like "deal with the public" megamind salespeople that know their shit. I have no reason to think those people would be better without it, either. The shit affects different people differently. OP looking like he smokes a lot of weed co…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 09:30 PM
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The description sounds like he is describing himself as a pet dog that has no options. Could be true. Also, people who devote their entire lives to religious studies can't agree on rather fundamental issues. Even history from 50-150 years ago is ridiculously distorted by people in the present day, for their own purposes. You're in for a rough road to convince anyone of anything unless you're happy with a very small sphere of influence. (which is fine, and many people are.)
/r/askTRP20/06/14 09:16 PM
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Now, I'm pretty new to TRP and I did this before I ever heard of it. But now I'm assuming she should like the fact that I took charge of my life and didn't ask for her help. What the hell did I do wrong, and how do I deal with this? Have you been explaining yourself a lot? If you've been entertaining this nonsense for 6 months, then that is part of the problem. Sometimes, you just have to say "I made a decision, took action, and it's over." I have enough balls to add "If you don't like my place,…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:52 PM
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It sounds like you, and 23 other people at this count, must miss the constant newbie posts here. I also didn't quote you as "the difference between standing firm and staring down a group of skinheads." That's not what you said. You said: It's a fantastic criminal deterrent because people feel like you've noticed them and made contact, and now they don't want to disappoint someone they know I just don't find that to be true, in theory, or experience. If criminals are deterred because they share a…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:29 PM
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Pretty strong post, but I'll take issue with this regarding eye contact... It's a fantastic criminal deterrent because people feel like you've noticed them and made contact, and now they don't want to disappoint someone they know Nope. They've made no connection with you and don't give a fuck about your disappointment. If anything, they know you can identify them if asked, in your capacity as a bouncer. On a regular street encounter... eye contact also deters attacks, but that's because they kno…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 12:46 AM
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I don't get any comments (Then me) I mean that they aren't commenting on your hair because they're (guys)afraid of offending you. That's why girls comment and guys don't It's like you aren't reading what I wrote. I don't have more to add. Are you looking for a particular response?
/r/askTRP18/06/14 10:26 PM
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I don't see why it can't be real. I'm a man, like being a man, and plan to stay a man. I also like a woman that likes a MAN. If she wants some punk, she can find it elsewhere. As for anyone else, transgendered, gay, lesbian, etc... I hope they find what they need. RedPill seems more about guys wanting to be men, but having no reliable guidance or understanding of women.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:22 PM
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I mean that they aren't commenting on your hair because they're afraid of offending you. That's why girls comment and guys don't, according to you. Almost without question, guys like longer hair on a girl unless there are horrible hair/face shape issues. Texture... guys may have slight preferences, but so many other things will trump hair texture.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 10:10 PM
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She's not into you. Sorry.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 09:57 PM
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the only people who have told me to cut it or that they like it are other women, never men. Maybe men are scared of you... or accept you as-is. I'm in an LTR with a girl who wears no make-up, doesn't wear heels, and doesn't even wear deodorant. (she doesn't smell... or that would be an issue...lol... but for me, it's a novelty thing to mention to people, so I kinda like it.) Are the guys you like trying to fuck you? That's how to measure your question.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 09:54 PM
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I suspect the guy you want, won't be accidentally emasculated. Look at what you're bringing to the table. This sub is a little harsh on women, but usually because they bring nothing to the table besides looks and feelings of entitlement. You can always rent the house later, and move elsewhere. But... just don't find a scrub that wants you for a free house. Find a high quality guy, and you'll be fine. Approach it like a smart guy might approach gold-digging girls... If you don't want to use the h…
/r/askTRP18/06/14 09:45 PM
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Once you've provided the facts, and you're convinced you communicated your concerns effectively, I think you've done your part. (for that particular instance...)
/r/askTRP18/06/14 07:12 PM
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A leader evaluates everyone's strengths and then directs the action, participating in their best capacity. I believe many of the components of TRP ideas, but I can't wrap my head around this one. Look at the NBA, for example. An NBA coach, if he were one of the best players, would be playing. And an NBA coach who put himself into a game when better players were available would look like the biggest idiot alive. When you introduce gender into this, it is different because we are wired differently…
/r/askTRP18/06/14 06:59 PM
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If you derive pleasure from being benevolent toward people, then do it. You can certainly be charitable from a position of strength. As far as how other people interpret it, benevolence is a problem if it is viewed as supplication. Supplication often comes from a position of weakness.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 06:52 PM
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She says that she understands my point of view and that she now gets that clubs are a "single thing" and she won't be doing that. You're right that "prohibiting" things isn't the best move. There's a middle ground here where you can go together. If you aren't careful, this concept of "prohibiting" things will start coming in your direction, and she'll beat you over the head with it in ways you can't yet imagine.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 06:45 PM
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Nope. And "owning" it outright is way better than just having a mortgage on one. In the current environment, many people who "own" their homes actually don't own anything but negative equity. What makes you think it would be a dealbreaker? Do you have expectations to live there forever and worry that a guy will need to conform? Something else? Find someone to help you buy right if you don't already have that skill. Paying cash for a home puts you at a significant advantage in selection and negot…
/r/askTRP18/06/14 06:40 PM
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Now, I'm okay with splitting the tip with anyone because that's just how I do things, but I want to know all your opinions in a theoretical sense. What would the "ideal alpha" do in this situation? And I hate to waste more time on this, but you're out of your fucking mind. If you don't want advice, don't ask for it. Who in the fuck coddles you in real life where any of that makes sense to you??
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:39 AM
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Actually, I did give you some advice. You just completely missed it, and downvoted me for making shit simple for you. You're gonna take the long way, I guess. Next time, please ask everyone here what color socks you should wear. And grow some skin.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:29 AM
1

I know it is hard to understand, but I do understand everything going on right now and that she isn't planning an exit plan. We have too much mutually invested and at stake for us to screw each other, it won't happen. ok... If you want her back, and you want to be happy in your relationship, then her return needs to come with conditions. It needs to come with conditions that make YOU happy. You can offer things that make her happy too... There is NO shame in that, but if you do not find ways to …
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:23 AM
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STFU. You have no problem here. Treat a coworker like a coworker, and apologize to everyone who bothered to read this. Apologize twice to anyone who spent time offering advice.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:11 AM
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Her and her mom? Are you fucking her mom? If not, she's not involved, or shouldn't be. We had said '2 weeks' but we will see how it goes in general. You're delusional. She's weighing her options, legal or otherwise, and your responses now will matter later. If you want to keep her, then start taking steps toward that. If you don't, then start taking steps toward that. You should weigh your options as well. We are giving each other respective 'space' to give us a taste of what being single parent…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:08 AM
2

When I go out I have been called, "Gay", "How did you do that mate", "are you her gay best friend?", "You look like a Hobbit", "punching above your weight", "she's out of your league" Why do these guys say it? What is the best way to respond in this situation? For the immediate issue, you just need to step up your "wit." Find short-cuts that make people sorry they asked. "Gay?" "Where's YOUR girl?" "Gay?" "You sound jealous. Let's compare chicks and see who's gay." You can also go more nuclear w…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:46 AM
1

If she's a "committed lady," she's also on a team. Do you expect your teammates to withhold information from you? If so, you're the weak link.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:27 AM
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Sounds like he has one good friend to me. Yeah, I suppose it could backfire on you. It could also backfire later on you, your boyfriend, or both of you. I'm just saying I'd rather know than not know. As you've set up the situation, now everyone will know but your boyfriend. His "friend" will now know that you're cool to keep things under wraps... Maybe that has consequences later, and maybe it doesn't.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 10:35 PM
14

Sure, tell him. 1) I don't want to cause drama You didn't "cause" anything. 2) be considered a drama queen "considered" by whom? 3) he didn't exactly say it directly or send anything dirty Well... then what was it? Was it an issue, or did you misinterpret it? 4) he backed down as soon as I told him "I love my bf and don't want to disrespect him" Good. But #4 doesn't change what happened. If your boyfriend has a disloyal friend, should you tell him? Again, I say yes. Your boyfriend can do what he…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 10:10 PM
3

There was for me, and I got burned HARD. It could have been worse... like staying married to that girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 09:59 PM
1

There's a reason. It's just not a reason he would like.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:40 PM
2

'but this one obviously can't handle himself' I didn't think much of it at the time but after a couple of days i started thinking about it and just wished i had called her out on the unprovoked attack on my self-confidence. If she said that where you could obviously hear it, then she was actually "opening" you. She only wanted to open a guy who could handle that. Instead of decimating her, you probably could've fucked her. At least you didn't lose frame in the situation... (which is what you are…
/r/askTRP15/06/14 11:27 PM
2

Go for as much happiness as possible. For some people, that is money. For some people, that is leisure time. Most people have a backward bending labor supply curve. (look it up)
/r/askTRP15/06/14 10:59 PM
1

I'm a bit indecisive sometime because I like to weigh my options. That's not a weakness. People who make decisions and then stick to them in the face of contrary evidence have problems. People who commit to decisions when they don't need to make a decision have problems. Out of the things you posted, I'd say this is one of your strengths. Being "indecisive" is very different from continuing to gather information until you HAVE to make a decision.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 10:57 PM
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Well, she is a "former" 8. The 3 goes up (possibly), the 8 goes down with age. I completely agree with your original post on the matter.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:26 PM
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Here's another evolutionary possibility... I don't know about y'all, but I naturally hang lower when I'm fucking regularly. (which is once per day or so... maybe more...) I'm normally more of a grower, so this could be an indicator of preselection for that reason. When I'm feeling/behaving alpha, I naturally hang longer.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:51 PM
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It could mean you're doing things right. If a girl likes you, she'll be more likely to laugh at your jokes, or laugh with you when you laugh at something else. It could also mean you're doing things wrong. Are these girls fucking you? That's how to tell the difference.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 06:44 PM
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she just might have a giant pussy These big vagina ladies are getting away with murder. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGjElvt4nP8
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:11 PM
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If you care about theory, this is weaksauce. [me]
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:04 AM
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Is that even real? Seriously, even my weakest intuitive bells are ringing.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:00 AM
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"yeah it better be for education purposes only, my boyfriend will kill me. he's like, crazy and controlling" She's asking if you're up for a dick measuring contest. Or She's setting a boundary.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:19 PM
1

I've known some really stable girls with divorced parents, and even with no relationships with their father. I've known some batshit crazy girls with (seemingly) great parents who are still together. I will generally agree with people who say a girl's relationship with her father is important, and also generally agree with people who say a girl's parents being married is a good sign. HOWEVER... it really just depends. I've known married parents where the mother had cheated multiple times. The gi…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:56 PM
2

Not just the signs... A lot of guys will enter a relationship in alpha territory, with abundance mentality. Then they morph into betas. I see this over and over and over again. Eventually, the girl loses attraction and cheats. It is the guy's job to maintain attraction.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 10:23 PM
1

I don't want the opinion of a bunch of "game theorists" I want the opinions of self made men What makes you think someone can't be both?
/r/askTRP03/06/14 11:52 AM
1

She was a waitress in his family's restaurant. How does he have money to drive a semi full of stray dogs around the country all the time? He may have done ok for himself, but this isn't about "mission." It's about wealth. He's not making money driving rescue dogs around. He's wealthy enough, that he has time to do that. Not mission, but wealth.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:29 PM
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I'd be fine with that, but I like when girls wear slutty bikinis at music festivals. If your girl looks good, she'll attract male attention either way. You need to be able to handle that (proactively instead of reactively), and putting her in a burka won't help.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 08:54 PM
1

Wow. You spent all of this time, giving this person all kinds of good advice, and yet, they still know everything. smh
/r/askTRP29/05/14 05:29 PM
1

Yeah, I know. I'm just saying she might be reacting to something besides mdma. If you like to enjoy substances with your girl, then that distinction matters. I think you said you encouraged it. If you would rather no one be doing any substances, then the distinction is unimportant. I'm not excusing her behavior, but different people are clearly different on alcohol or mj, so I'm not so quick to lump them all into "drugs."
/r/askTRP29/05/14 12:16 AM
1

She got upset at this and started questioning our relationship status, etc. (we're committed but not officially together). What does that mean? How are you "committed?" How/why are you "committed" and "not officially together?" So I left her and her car there and had someone pick me up, which only made her angrier because she wasn't in the condition to drive, and found out someone else drove her home later. That was potentially a really bad mistake on your part. I know there are a lot of variabl…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 12:09 AM
1

Molly winds up being all sorts of things. It's often not as advertised. Best to use a test kit for anything, anywhere.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 11:55 PM
1

DEFINITELY A UNICORN, AND IF YOU FIND ONE, BE SURE TO DUMP THEM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. I legitimately know she's as unicorn as it can gets and has only been in 1 LTR before we met. Wait, wut? Your question doesn't make much sense. 1 LTR before you doesn't make something a unicorn.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 11:40 PM
2

they will be very honest about their desires when they encounter a high value man that they truly desire. Agree. But, they'll also say many of the things in the OP to a new beta. Simply hearing those things does not imply honesty. (for the newbs here) Always Be Escalating, Always Be Closing, but also... Always Be Calibrating. Also... a mid 30s chick who has never swallowed?? It's possible, but doubtful. Does that make everything a lie? Nah, but I'm sure suspicious of that one.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:57 PM
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I think my main problem is I tend to date guys who I am friends with first so it's hard to go back to traditional roles when you started off "equal". These guys most likely weren't your friends. They waited around, hoping you'd give them a chance someday. When you did give them a chance, you find out that they're the type of guy who will wait around until you give them a chance. That should be exactly what you expect. Go figure.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 05:20 PM
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Make of it what you will, its just an example of how women who are attractive have become accustomed to a certain behavior from a majority of men. By showing them an attitude and behavior they are not expecting it catches them off guard and makes them think. Actually, to them, it's a glaring signal that you have abundance mentality. It's a mental short-cut. It doesn't "make them think." It relieves them of that tedious nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:54 PM
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Once a post gets over 300 comments, very few people are going to read much of it. People spend hours reading posts with 3000+ comments. What site are you on??
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:48 PM
2

So... someone is supposed to want an LTR with a nurse that fucks doctors at work? lol. No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:28 PM
1

Elementary School Teacher - Pure gold. Put this girl on your short list for long term commitment. lol. Disagree. I fell into that trap. Met lots of teacher friends who had their own traps. Nurse - One caveat — the nurse is secretly a status whore. Agree. Stripper - Have you ever seen an unhappy man dating a stripper? The novelty, bragging rights, and earthshattering sex are worth the drama. LOL. This is one of the shittiest articles I've ever read. It misses the mark on so many points. It's most…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:26 PM
1

Nah... it just brought it to a more realistic level.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:50 PM
1

You're in a constant state of shit-test failure. I know you mean well, but your supplication is encouraging her continued bad behavior. So in return I tell her not to talk to me like that, or tell her why she shouldn't be pissed off over it because I had good intentions, and its not a big deal. In return because I showed frustration towards her, she wants to get away from me and calls me a dick. So I try to talk about it, which escalates things further.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:09 PM
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If I could upvote this 3 times, I would.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 02:12 PM
1

The school is becoming ever-increasingly a feminine environment to be in. That's not really good for girls, either. teaching him life lessons outside of the school environment is needed. The more of that, the better, for any child.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 12:30 AM
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Depends on your frame and company. Really, it does.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 08:45 PM
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I think the principle stated is a good one, and maybe it's something you could execute better in the future. From the sound of it, it may be better to talk to your friend about leading you in a little better.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 08:41 PM
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It probably works disproportionately better if you're an ugly dude. Here's why: Frame, passing shit tests, dominance, powertalk, leading, etc, etc... all of those things have little to do with physical beauty. Granted, it's a little harder if you're ugly in the sense that you'll be slightly behind someone who has all of the same qualities, that is a tad better looking. Lifting? Well, mostly, nobody is going to the gym to improve their face. Imagine being a truly ugly girl... that's where a perso…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:30 PM
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I didn't end up in one, but deliberately chose to be in one. I went through 8-9 plates to get there. What's different from previous LTRs is that I previously lacked frame control and used to do very little in the way of direct dominance. Now I do, and it maintains her attraction. In previous LTRs, I'd fail shit tests left and right. Not anymore. I also chose different qualities this time. This girl can really cook, for instance. I used to eat at restaurants 7-8 times per week. (and restaurant le…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:22 PM
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Fair question. I said that because professional life and personal life are often two different realms. If a jobless guy can manage his relationships effectively, then so can a self employed person. The jobless guy is an utter failure in the professional realm. If that guy can manage his women, then so can anyone. If a guy wants to commit to self employment to the point where it really is impossible to have personal relationships, then that is a personal choice. It's definitely not a foregone con…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 01:13 AM
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If a man is using his nice sports car to pick up chicks, all of a sudden he is a shallow perv ... with a super tiny dick. This is usually said by girls who aren't candidates, or guys that drive crappy cars.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 11:51 PM
1

For one thing, she's already a wife. That's dangerous water to start with. Even if she's not a gold digger, it will only cause anxiety for her, which means you'll have to deal with needless nonsense. It will pretty much get the same result that emotional whining will get you. And even if it's a one-off business fuck up or a cyclical issue or even an investment issue of some sort, she'll question your role instead of giving a sympathetic response. You may be right, but my experience is that it's …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:55 PM
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lol. I just offered some advice from experience. Ignore it, if it doesn't help you. If you can't differentiate between good and bad advice at some point, then that failure is on you alone.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 10:10 PM
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That's true, if your filter is for old people. Do you really think a person +40 who is successful has nothing to offer due to age? lol. The people who know how to run businesses have experience. TRP knowledge is often universal. If you think that old guys are too dumb to help you because they are older than you, then you're headed for some ugly shit in life.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:52 PM
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Running a small business is very emotionally taxing. There's risk, unexpected events, overtime? Ltrs are not an option and the few girls I see can tell I'm checked out. Respect bro, but you're clearly not doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:24 PM
2

This fits into the category of "What do people want?" If you can fill that need, you have a potential business. If you can figure out what people need on the internet, and what they immediately do to satisfy that need right now, you just won.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:21 PM
2

Contrary to most who have already responded, I'll happily take a plate out and buy her a meal. What is a plate to you? Is it a girl without value? I'm not sure where this sub is going sometimes. In my experience, plates were reasonably valuable. If I dropped one, she'd get replaced, and that was fun too, but I never had a goal of hanging out with crappy women and treating them as such. Maybe I was doing "Selective Plating." I only have 7 days a week, fuckers... I can really only handle 3-6 plate…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:36 PM
2

From article... After the photos were removed, the women were asked to write down which scenarios they recalled. In two out of the three experiments, researchers found that women in relationships were more likely to remember negative behavior exhibited by hotties when compared to their single counterparts. In the third study, women recalled the less-than-ideal traits of attractive men more than they recalled those of people they would not date, which in this case were other women (who were used …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:32 PM
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I have a ton of entrepreneurial advice. I'll try to give a little that relates to this sub, since most of it really doesn't. (much like optimal deadlift form is better off discussed elsewhere). I'll just give a few random things from my experience. Find mentors - It's networking. The difference between a 40 year old success and a 20 year old newbie is mind boggling, regardless of field. Even at 40, some 50-60 year old mentors are helpful. Expect Failure - Your ability to learn from failure is EV…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:19 PM
-1

And further... it is extra sneaky for this reason... She uses a throwaway so she doesn't have to out the guy for doing it, or publicly claim she didn't like it. But I suspect she also uses a throwaway so she can decide whether or not to show her boyfriend. If she gets the green light from reddit, she shows her boyfriend. Otherwise, maybe he won't see it and she'll keep working on him.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 03:07 PM
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From redditlog... My boyfriend was not ten feet in front of me talking to two of the guys, and I was sort of drunk shuffling (not quite stumbling) behind with the guy who sets up most, if not all of the Reddit meetups. We had spoken to him at other meetups and he seemed like a friendly sociable person. We were speaking pleasantly (slurring) until lo and behold I feel his hand on my ass. I know I registered it was there but I was so stunned, and so taken aback that I couldn't for the life of me s…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:39 PM
1

I can't help but cringe at my previous behaviour. Oh, yeah, yes. How did you swallow TRP and learn from cringe experiences? It's all obvious in hindsight. I thought I had reasonably good game because I usually had an attractive girlfriend. The problem was that I believed in the fairy tale... not the "someone for everyone" bullshit, but I'd go beta in relationships and eventually wreck them. I'm slightly over 40, and I've seen most of the things here play out in real life, either with myself or f…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:14 PM
1

So my question is, where the hell do I go from here? We communicate really well and this encounter didn't seem like a big deal to me I translated her request as "You aren't giving me what I need, so what do you think about me finding it elsewhere?" This sounds more problematic than you think it is.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 09:38 PM
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I get the feeling that provider hunters would be grossed out by a slut loving provider. The provider archetype is a whole different animal, he's a white knight, a genteel gentleman, such a man should be disgusted to associate with a slut. So if he isn't that may well be a disqualification I think you're onto something, but I'll take it in a slightly different direction. The nice-guy/beta provider not only provides emotional support and money, but he also provides an alibi... a confirmation to he…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:02 PM
7

For an INTJ, flirting is a learned skill. So is smalltalk. So is pretty much most surface level communication. It's one of those things like skiing. As you get better at it, you start enjoying it more. From your viewpoint, you essentially learn to make something out of nothing.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 12:41 PM
1

Here's a bone: http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/11/11/the-gervais-principle-ii-posturetalk-powertalk-babytalk-and-gametalk/ It is indirect communication, and using information asymmetry to your advantage, as I understand it. This is one of those things where people see and do it way more than they talk about it or understand it. This sub has a weird fascination with dark triad types... but that is a language they usually speak fluently if they are really good at manipulating their surroundings.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 12:19 AM
1

How do you go about confronting some one, like if they're trying to talk shit, steal your girl, or take something from you? Answers to 1, 2, and 3... You do it in a stealth manner, by understanding "powertalk." Not my label. Most conflict, is actually under the radar of most people.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 11:47 PM
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TC; DR Too crazy; didn't read.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 11:41 PM
1

I saw a post recently that warned me of never talking about deep existential stuff either. I wouldn't say never. It's just not first meeting, first date, or a new girl coffee shop subject. In the long run, if you like talking about deeper things, you'll find a few girls who can do it.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 11:36 AM
1

and was taking tramal for pain ... it was snafu! I couldn't keep an erection or if I were able to Tramal / Tramadol is notorious for affecting that negatively. Not that it can't be powered through...
/r/askTRP09/05/14 02:57 PM
1

she's also a bit attracted to one of her orbiter who's a tall, good looking player. Thank you for calling the Orbiter Misidentification Hotline. This is likely NOT an orbiter.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 10:58 AM
2

I mean, I get it, he can't get it up, that sucks, but does she hate him too? Yes, she probably does hate him. Women often develop a disdain for their beta providers. Imagine failing one lifelong shit test, and failing it constantly. When a woman continually treats someone like a doormat, the woman will eventually lose respect for that person. At some point, I think they grow to resent them for not being the man they actually want them to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 10:48 AM
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I'm not really a huge Tyler Durden fan, either. Here's the thing. It sounds like you guys are comparing Tom Cruise to yourself or to me. I'm comparing him to guys in similar careers. Let's compare Tom Cruise to George Clooney if you want a reasonable comparison. Look at their lives that they actually live. And I'm talking about Tom Cruise, not Maverick from Top Gun. Tom Cruise didn't write Top Gun. He memorized a bunch of words, and did things people told him to do. If you want to study behavior…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 09:32 PM
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Funny how he needs the church of scientiology to pick his chicks for him. Even if you want to call him an alpha, he must still be batting out of his league. He's not really his movie characters, ya know. I'll just leave this here for fun... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWpLPwp3cb4
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 08:00 PM
1

Sexual Market Value
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:38 PM
-11

Tom Cruise may be high SMV because he's a rich actor, but I wouldn't call him an alpha male.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:29 PM
5

You're giving women way too much credit. Most have no idea what they actually want. Even when they do, they'd rather spare someone's feelings than give them actual advice. Hence, "just be yourself and the right girl will come along."
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:15 PM
1

You added quite a few more pics since I replied. But anyway, why bother debating chics? If you want to engage people in active thought, the internet is full of that shit. This girl engaged you because you were a potential cock for her. That's what I was trying to say. It's fine if you don't like her eyebrows, but why waste your time talking to her at all?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:02 PM
0

Ride or die.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 08:58 PM
1

Fair enough. Myself, I'll hit those little pixie chicks. :)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:52 PM
1

Instead of engaging her in her nonsense, you could have fucked her instead. Like it or not, you botched this one pretty bad.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:49 PM
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and no man worth his salt would marry an old slut. Men aren't worth their salt anymore.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:01 PM
2

Agree. I find any touching like that toward me as unusually heavy-handed and an unneeded power play. It wouldn't provoke a physical response me, but probably something along the lines of "Wow man, your hand is really greasy."
/r/askTRP07/05/14 02:34 PM
2

Touching some random dude's neck is pretty risky. If someone did that to me, they'd wind up looking quite socially awkward by the time that exchange was over. It might be something that works in your own toolbox, but I wouldn't suggest it for anyone who doesn't have a very advanced understanding of their environment.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 12:10 PM
5

If she is truly clueless, which almost no women are, you might want to mention to her what kino is and how men approach in clubs. etc. Explaining will be the wrong move with 95% of girls, whether they're aware or not.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 12:07 PM
1

I'm 155 lbs @ 6% body fat but I train exclusively for fucking endurance What kind of exercises do you do for fucking endurance? Weights and reps as well, please.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 02:48 PM
1

Not sure how to phrase this, but how can I ensure she sees my "dominance" over them? You didn't explain how that is happening. Do you have dominance over them?
/r/askTRP05/05/14 12:22 AM
4

So... your biggest neg toward her, is that you're the only person willing or able to put up with her? I'm pretty sure that's a neg on you, not her.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:51 PM
2

What the hell is going on? Preselection. She, on some level, thinks talking about her exes will convince you that she's high value since these other people wanted her. Or, she's high value since she dumped those other guys. She misunderstands, because preselection doesn't work in both directions and you most likely don't feel like hearing it.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 03:31 PM
1

A wife who respects your leadership role wouldn't embarrass you by calling the restaurant ahead of time, telling them that you're going to be a dick and try to order her food for her, and tell them what to really prepare for her. But then a husband who's worth a shit wouldn't be making such a pussy-ass big deal about ordering his wife's food for her as a demonstration of his authority. That entire scenario is completely ludicrous.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:16 PM
4

I started to lose frame. That is enough to kill a relationship, unfortunately. However when she saw MY attitude change towards life (resenting work, frustrated about money, letting my workout routine slide, being less confident and alpha and my biggest regret - complaining about shit and feeling depressed) she in turn became resentful of me and started to challenge me constantly. It was a drastic shift. You made a great post here, so thanks. I lost a few good girls that way and I didn't know why…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:25 PM
1

Yeah, you should go through college without fucking college girls.... Don't be overly dramamtic. lol. No shit. This sub sometimes devolves into "I'm afraid to try to kiss a girl because of the crazy consequences that will land me in prison." Just, really, wtf? Girls like being kissed by the right guy. ... So be the "right guy" for it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:00 PM
4

That is a great book. I understand how pople don't like to read a long post on the internet, but if anyone is inclined to read that entire book and care about it, they won't be disappointed
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:54 PM
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Also, she was a terrible wing woman and often sabotaged me when I did flirt with other women. Girls like to keep their orbiters in orbit. It's a special sort of cruelty. When a girl is getting all sorts of free benefits from an orbiter, why would they want to hand that over to another woman?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:53 AM
3

A lot of guys dont quite realize that TRP has handed them the keys to the kingdom and that theres no reason to stay in the anger phase very long at all. Nailed it there. It's like finding out someone did my homework for me. I'm over 40. If I had a better grasp of these concepts 10 years ago, I could have saved myself a ton of trouble. And anyway, what's the alternative? Who wants to be dumber than they were a year ago?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:38 AM
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"Happiness is overrated". lol. Economists usually use happiness as the measure for everything. They'll use money as a proxy, but they actually assume any rational actor is trying to maximize happiness. I'm fine with that assumption. People who really don't want to be happy are pretty fucked up. We've all known a few... reminds me of people who manufacture outrage so they have something to be against. Even those people are happy to have something to complain about.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:20 AM
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How can I improve my ability to properly interpret hints like this? Assume attraction. Stop being scared of a rape accusation. You already dried your hands on her shirt. That's already more offensive than going in for a kiss.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 10:07 AM
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Better to just text your name to her on the spot.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 10:03 AM
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sansurnt Wait, if women are meant to be hypergamous according to red pill theory, why do you shame them for doing so? Varrian The shaming you're referring to occurs only from those still new to TRP. It also comes from women. They prefer guys don't discover those tendencies. Guy game stops working if you explain it to a girl. Same with girl game. Same with guy-guy game, to some extent.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:33 PM
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Dat Formatting! tw; dr.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:06 PM
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Agree. Bugs that eat shit are also disgusting to me. I'm not a big fan of the fact that mosquitoes suck blood, either. Should anyone build a subreddit dedicated to mosquito hate? Probably already there, lol. But does anyone want to make the case that such a thing is a good use of emotional energy? I doubt it. Make a list of 1,000 things you don't like and then rage against them on the internet. Will it make you feel better? I'd rather put on a little bug spray for 1% of the effort. Leave the rea…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:56 PM
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The photos are chosen horribly. Especially note that in "pride", the guy's muscles are prominently displayed. Yeah, I noticed the same thing. Although, the first thing I noticed was that in the "Pride" girl photo, the girl's tits were more prominently displayed. And without the actual study, the synopsis doesn't say much. And with only that one set of pics... weak ass study. Maybe that particular guy looks best in one particular pose. I know the girl looks best to me when I can see her tits bett…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:18 PM
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I understood your point, but you need a two-pronged attack. It's also more attainable if you're better in bed. In fact, that is what will give you the best chance for that, besides only fucking virgins. I'd further say that being the "best out of five" is more likely to keep a girl enamored with you. Being "reasonably ok out of one" will have her always wondering, until she decides to find out.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:21 PM
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How am I supposed to not be angry with women in general when the entire audience validated this woman's manipulative behavior? Only because of the serious tag... would you be angry at a scorpion for stinging a frog? The applause and smiling in that clip... just eye opening.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:17 PM
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Game over. You lost. She called your bullshit bluff--which is what it was. You are now here looking for a way to unfuck this. You cannot. Never issue an "ultimatum" (empty threat, really) that you are not going to follow up on 100%. This is true in business, love, and life generally. This x 10. If you don't follow through, you lose. What do you lose? Well, for starters, you lose being taken seriously in the future. Will this one event kill your relationship? Not immediately, but possibly over ti…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:59 PM
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Both.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:54 PM
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50 is quite the number. But really, if 50, you'd only need to be top 10% to be memorable. I think /u/Wolfwoodd is talking about a much lower number. And you expect yourself to be the best, by being the best. A woman's lack of sexual experience isn't a reason for a guy to be weak in bed.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:47 PM
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Exactly. Now whether she'll follow through on that, I don't know. But she's thought it out in a very rational manner compared to most women. She's essentially saying "I want someone who does things, not someone who has things." It's not apparent until the end of her post, but she's saying she wants a real alpha, not a fake one.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:31 PM
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It's not as if I was on tinder talking to some guy constantly while attempting to entertain another friend. That tells you how she sees you. And this thread is full of bad advice. You can't dread game a girl from orbit. Right now, she views you as completely socially inept, not fun to hang around, and someone who fucks her things up. That's not easy to fix.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:25 PM
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I don't mean it is completely wrong... just that it's so basic and obvious, it's not very useful. It would be more valuable if any of those things were counter-intuitive or went against common knowledge, but it's not that, either.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:48 PM
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From link: Smart woman only marry men who can make money, not the one who has money. I know life is like a roller coaster. There are up and down times. I have experience both and I know it is not easy. I am expecting to share both times with my future husband. People turned their back against us when my family lost everything. I wouldn’t do that to anyone. If I marry a man who was born into money, there is the chance he has no clue how to make money. It is not likely I would marry someone like t…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:43 PM
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Great Red Pill Advice! Not really. It's not even good poker advice.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:18 AM
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And typically, after the fact.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 11:43 PM
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My intentions were to do something nice for her on her birthday. This seems contrary to what I've been told to believe on this subreddit. What am I missing here? Most of that advice is for plates, and you're in an LTR. There's nothing wrong with doing nice things for her, but it should be a two way street.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 11:42 PM
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lmao. Look at the live fight in that thread... PoptartGrenade My girlfriend is going for sushi with some twat she met on reddit today, I kind of feel like it's going in your direction Cabbagepatchgirl You're being ridiculous. I'm not allowed to have friends that are guys? And yeah, I'm venting to a random person from reddit. But isn't that what you're doing now? Babe. You're being ridiculous and showing that you don't trust me at all.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:13 AM
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And she also said I'm the only one were she swallowed. LOL
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:06 PM
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We'll see.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:47 AM
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Shit Tests have nothing to do with fucking Wrong. You clearly are not speaking from experience.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:44 AM
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degree is poli sci if that makes a difference. It does. You'll attract the worst kinds of women.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:21 AM
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I just fucking couldn't really keep them in check so much that I couldn't even stand being at work without just feeling fucking depressed. I actually ended up leaving early, because I literally felt like I was going to just going to lose balance. Why? Unless you know why, you'll have a hard time changing course. When I was a regular coffee drinker, not drinking coffee for 2+ days would make me weirdly emotional. It turns out it was just drug withdrawal... No big deal, but not understanding why I…
/r/askTRP21/04/14 08:01 AM
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What's the best way to remove the influence? New set. These girls see you as a potential orbiter for themselves. Even if you fuck the original, she'll likely not help you fuck the others. This isn't an isolated instance, it has happened before, and I feel like its going to continue to burn me. Yeah... that set is toxic, and you'll only crack it after proving yourself elsewhere.
/r/askTRP21/04/14 07:54 AM
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My question is, is there a red pill way of raising a daughter to respect authority, obey your rules even as a teenager, stay chaste, etc? Mine is a work in progress (7), but I teach her to question authority. Much molestation happens under the concept of "authority." Much stupidity happens under the concept of "authority." By the time she is a teenager, she'll not give a fuck about my "rules." My strategy is to teach her to value herself, and teach her to think for herself so my "rules" aren't n…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 02:50 AM
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but I can't be both because they contradict each other I'm suggesting that you have a way out of this philosophical debate with yourself, because alpha/beta are not mutually exclusive. They're dual continuums. They don't always need to be contradictory. You can have traits of each. Viewing those as opposites is too simplistic. This is why you see people talking about things like a 3/2 ratio in LTRs. A goal of "be alpha" or "be beta" is not required. What about a goal of making yourself happy? Wh…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 01:52 AM
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Yeah, I saw it, which is why I mentioned people here not being hot on american women. Based on everything you said, her being filipina isn't really trumping anything. I'll fall back and let you hear from people you decide are more experienced.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 01:38 AM
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Do you want results, or ideology? And what good is ideology if it makes you unhappy due to poor results? I understand those feels. Look at it like this... you can keep your beta tendencies and even act on them, but attracting women is a learned skill for most guys. Keeping them attracted in an LTR is even harder. At some point, their imagination won't fill the gaps anymore. To get what you want, you need to mold yourself into what they want. (which is reasonably predictable.)
/r/askTRP17/04/14 01:25 AM
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You already know the answer to this. But if you really want anonymous validation from the internet, the scenario you've outlined probably won't maximize your happiness in the long term.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 01:15 AM
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Yep... creepy dorks... "too nice."
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 09:48 PM
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Yeah, but I probably botched the lingo. I took a look before posting, but my search was weak. Above, /u/KyfhoMyoba says the recognized term would be "identity."
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:43 AM
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Thx.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:01 AM
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You can't fake frame in an LTR. True, but what you can do is take it to another level. Instead of frame, it becomes state. Not only do you maintain outward appearance, but you maintain a matching interior as well. So yeah... instead of faking it, you become it. I think that's the real goal, LTR or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 11:14 PM
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I don't know what to do. I'm sick of "living in his shadow" or whatever. It's not that he's actually banging anybody, but the fact that he is naturally attracting all these people is pissing me off. Come on, man.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:49 AM
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Teachers? Disagree. Most teachers become teachers for emotional reasons, and they are the worst fucking girls to deal with, imo. I have a reasonably large sample size on that, to my dismay.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:21 AM
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I still think my initial behavior was pathetic(seeking her approval) and I need to cut that shit out. Yeah... read what you posted. In fact, print it out and tape it to your bathroom mirror. Don't create problems when they don't exist.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:12 AM
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Your "friends" are also fucking up your frame pretty hard, on top of the damage you already did, yourself. but angry at the person who sent it for thinking she's the type of person who would cheat. Where does that lead? I'll tell you. It leads to her managing your friends, since you aren't doing it yourself. Whether you know it or not, in a best case scenario, you're starting to paint yourself into a corner.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:02 AM
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I have some ENTJ friends, and yeah, they get labeled like that. They don't give two shits about it. I also agree with what drqxx said. It's a mix. Some don't want you, and some are testing you.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 12:50 AM
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Any frame management advice relating to dark triad material? Yeah. You don't want it. You also don't want to fake it. That's how people wind up in bad situations that they aren't equipped to deal with.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 12:47 AM
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Well... this is after OP thanked you, so maybe you hit the mark, but there's no doubt some girls are shitty. The mistake is usually made by not heading elsewhere.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 12:45 AM
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Ain't nobody got time for that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFEoMO0pc7k
/r/askTRP10/04/14 01:17 PM
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I logged in just to upvote you. I know girls who NEVER wear underwear, including with skirts, etc. I know others who sometimes do, sometimes don't.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:00 PM
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and are easily distracted by the new shiny object. I have a different definition of "higher quality." It sounds like you mean "better looking."
/r/askTRP03/04/14 12:49 PM
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How would you respond? Yep.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 03:20 AM
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How can I tweak my game to get girls to see me as relationship material w/o having to go full beta? I digested your entire post. If you're good at fucking girls, but have trouble getting them interested in an LTR, your deficiency is likely that you don't know how to cultivate "investment" on their part. That is also the same thing that will keep a plate spinning longer. It is also one of those concepts that works both ways. Girls get BPs to invest a lot, while they invest little. I went from a s…
/r/askTRP01/04/14 03:17 AM
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You sound like an INTJ, maybe besides the journaling... maybe an INTP. (these are myers-briggs types.) I've met several INTJs or INTPs I'd say are alpha males, for the most part. Both of those can learn skills if they care to, including leadership, entertaining, etc.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 02:49 AM
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Look everyone in the eyes when you walk by them and acknowledge their existence. Seriously, if people start doing this (who didn't previously), they'll be shocked by several things. Walk through a mall, for instance. Keep your head up and look at people. 90% of people are looking at the ground, or afraid to meet your eyes with theirs. Very few people are situationally aware at all. Of those that are, I suspect about half are sociopaths. Let's say you find yourself in the ghetto pumping gas. The …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:34 AM
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Sometimes she will just put her hand on top of mine while we're sitting on the couch or in bed and the times that I reciprocate and hold her hand back it feels like I failed a shit test. Typically, I want my hand on top of hers. But I'll let her play with my arm or whatever. What are your thoughts? I wouldn't want her pulling my hair. We both seem to like it when I have a fist-full of hers. I'm very affectionate... sometimes softly, and sometimes harder. I switch it up, so I'm a little unpredict…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:13 AM
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This is the answer, kinda. It depends on the relationship, how you lashed out, and what you feel the need to apologize for. Nobody holds frame all the time. (But practice sure helps.) If you really went off the rails and an apology is warranted, go ahead. I think most people in this sub say "never apologize" because 90% of apologies are not needed at all, or can be made real easily. So that's a good rule when people can't tell the difference. I don't like hamsters, regardless of gender, nor do I…
/r/askTRP22/03/14 10:18 PM
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Good point.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 10:11 PM
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I logged in, just to upvote this. Who cares? If they don't want to hear it again, they'll tell you. Usually, I just go with "Did I tell you about..." or "I might have told you, but..." A lot of times, you have stories that you tell a group, and plates will hear them multiple times. Not a big deal. In fact, they feel good that they heard it before others.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 10:09 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Hope you keep trying.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:41 AM
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I'm don't have enough info, and I'm not smart enough to deconstruct that much further. I'm glad that things have improved. But in weird power-play shit, she has the upper hand, so provoking her is likely not helpful. Well, it's helpful if you're IN and she's OUT, but not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:31 AM
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How would you evaluate washing machine sales?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:29 AM
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It's a chicken/egg issue. My point is that people in charge of ad budgets don't spend millions of dollars to encourage behavior, unless it specifically includes buying behavior. In this case, it was about making women feel good about buying their product.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:24 AM
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Well, I meant to present that from her perspective... I don't doubt that you were sincere in asking, but your intent was not important to understanding the lashing she gave you for it.
/r/askTRP14/03/14 12:15 AM
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But marketing only works if it reflects on what is desirable in a society. Most of the time, you aren't selling to a society. You're selling to individuals. I agree with your point if you are talking about branding, but "get a bigger dick" must be one of the biggest sellers of all time, and you're not going to find "society" lauding that as "good" and "wholesome."
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:09 AM
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I casually ask one of them how I've been doing. You were asking for validation, and she wasn't about to give it to you. I think some of the other posters have it right when they essentially say that people may be resentful if you come into their workplace and start doing their jobs better than them. It should go without saying that the things she told me are all from the hivemind of the work enviroment there, and this is how they all feel about me. Get the leaders on your side... not the "boss."…
/r/askTRP13/03/14 11:59 PM
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True. At this juncture, he could maybe express that sex isn't a huge thing, but constant blowjobs are an absolute must. I'd be inclined to toy with the "I don't like sex either" track, and stick to "I only like blowjobs because most girls are pretty horrible at intercourse." That could backfire, but it could also turn nothing into something.
/r/askTRP09/03/14 11:05 PM
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Can I please receive suggestions for a powerful career with a low gpa? Assuming you don't need grad-school, your gpa is not a huge deal. What do you want to do with your life? Work in that direction. What do you like to do? If it is business, stick with it. As a business major anyway, you should be aware that you can enter into any business you want. The world is out there for you.
/r/askTRP09/03/14 11:01 PM
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FRAME/options > Money > Lifting/Muscles/Looks
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:56 PM
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I have a tidbit... Things to never do: 1. Accusations. Instead, replace that with very subtle insinuations. Even better if you can do it with further insinuations of negative social implications. Sociopaths often don't understand or care about feelings, but that doesn't mean they're not extremely aware of their image. You may need some serious frame for that shit. It is best done when they are fucking with someone else, and you can give them the "I know exactly what you're doing" look. I almost …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:49 PM
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That's marketing... Your point may be correct, but a KFC commercial isn't indicative of society. It's indicative of effective marketing... not so much what society is encouraging. Look at it this way... you're in charge of marketing at KFC... are you going to spend millions of dollars sending out a strong RP message, or are you going to market to hamsters and betas? They're selling chicken and convenience. That sort of marketing may reflect a sad state of affairs, but it's not encouraging it... …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:32 PM
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I would have laughed at that too. But the ultimate freedom in all of those situations is simply not caring.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:02 AM
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That was interesting.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:52 AM
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The deeper, more likely, (and darker) TRP theory says that things were worse than their perceived version. I'm talking many thousands of years.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:46 AM
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Not sure why this is being downvoted. I guarantee this happens all the fucking time. It's in almost every "I'm a new redpiller" story.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:41 AM
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What's a $100 at a strip club in the grand scheme of things? About $30 anyplace else, maybe with higher quality and more interesting girls, who have a much lower chance of becoming a giant fucking problem. I guess if someone wants strippers to be interested in them, then ok. I honestly think there are orchards of much better fruit, hanging lower, and definitely cheaper in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:29 AM
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I do dislike that, because I dislike institutional authority. I can't deny women find it attractive. I prefer women who like a little anti-institutional bravery. To each their own, but you won't find me in a uniform. Mostly, I'm not going to submit to a bunch of other men because they have different shiny things on their uniform, even if it gives me a few scraps of pussy. That's what actually happens there... a bunch of small men begging to be in the club. I don't find those people to be "protec…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:13 AM
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Depends on the relationship. For plates, let them go, and they'll come back. For LTRs... you need the ability to dread game them a little bit. It is a "shit test" to some extent, because they're asking what your other options are... they're testing your fitness regarding abundance mentality. If you like them, don't get butthurt about it. Fake break-up shit will last a few hours.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:59 AM
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Some guys uses that old line about just being yourself I get aggravated about that around here. Nothing wrong with that advice for a natural.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:54 PM
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SHOW your interest in her. Talk is for chumps, and girls know it.
/r/askTRP25/02/14 02:58 PM
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INTJs may not seem alpha as a group, but TRP talks a lot about learned skills, and INTJs can definitely do that. Combine that with the snarky confidence a lot of INTJs have, you can eventually live what you learn. Same with social skills... sure some people are naturals, but it's a learned skill for an INTJ.
/r/askTRP22/02/14 05:38 PM
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So...TRP guys. Whats your advice to a girl about how to judge/treat guys? I know you can't wait to fuck me.
/r/askTRP19/02/14 06:17 AM
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For the most part, I straight up tell her what to do. She's too young to learn from my mistakes, and she's an 8 year old girl. She's not going to learn from my stories or mistakes. I toy around with "What do you think?" stuff here and there so she will learn her own reasoning skills. That's my goal for me, as I don't take pleasure in telling her what to do, and don't want to keep repeating shit. I want to make her independent of me, making good decisions for herself. Her capacity to listen to me…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 05:39 AM
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If you're pounding it right, she'll be calling you. Otherwise, something else is at work. Aftercare is important. You don't want her to regret the initial hookup if you'd like to hit it regularly. There's nothing wrong with contacting her first. In fact, a next day acknowledgement is almost needed, or you'll risk that she'll decide it was a mistake and have a hard time coming back from that.
/r/askTRP19/02/14 03:01 AM
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Also, I should add that "doing whatever she likes" is not the goal at all. That's my goal for me. My goal for her is teaching her to do what is good for her. (Which eventually includes happy, but I'm thinking long term happy and not short term happy.)
/r/askTRP19/02/14 02:51 AM
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I have a 7 year old little girl (nearly 8), so I'm interested too. I can contribute this... Background: I've been apart from her mother since she was about a year old. We went through a long custody battle, including a trial, that made several lawyers rich, and me poor. The way she relates to her mother, the topics, the specifics, the behaviors, are 100% different than with me. For instance, she uses her mother as an emotional tampon. "What if Jenny doesn't like me?" She knows my answer for shit…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 02:46 AM
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If she's not asking for stuff, you aren't holding it hostage. If you can't handle having those things around, throw them in the garbage. I honestly think it makes more sense to throw them in your closet or something. I have a box of girl stuff. I wouldn't put panties in there for sanitary reasons, but it's pretty much a "lost and found." If a girl says she left something at my house, she can look in the box. That tells her a fuck-ton of things I never have to actually say.
/r/askTRP18/02/14 03:15 PM
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I think the secret is all in being WILLING to fight. Jackasses, bullies, criminals, etc all want to pick a fight with someone who cannot fight back. Show a bully that you are willing to fight and he will pick a different kid to fuck with. That might be the single most important thing my father ever taught me. This comes through in body language, but basically in comes through naturally if you are actually 100% ready and willing to be in a fight. I hard to learn that on my own. After many years, …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:11 PM
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Honestly, I'd call her a 5-6 anyway. I'm not saying she deserves no credit for her accomplishments. Really though, she looks like a dude, and I wake up at 3am with better looking girls giving me blowjobs. If I were in a position to give away 900 million, and she wanted to take credit for it, I'd be pounding much better pussy 2-3 times a day. I've had a thing for asain girls for 20 years too, but she's just not very pretty.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 02:02 AM
3

Who knew female lumberjacks were so common?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:46 PM
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Sure, she'd "survive without Zuckerberg," but she wouldn't be sharing credit for giving away 900 million dollars. I'd say she's clearly upgraded.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 01:11 PM
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The first thing you do is learn how to block or duck a punch. If a girl can connect a fist to your face, you need to upgrade your skills.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:46 PM
1

So... Let me make sure I understand. 9 months, 15 phone numbers, and you haven't fucked a single one of them? And you are coming here to give viewpoint advice? Your conclusion is in the ballpark, but you're clearly not doing shit right in general. You have a problem in your process and should be asking for help on that instead of telling people how to think.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:58 AM
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1975 Oldsmobile Omega. ... Primer stripes down both sides because the molding fell off. I'm serious.
/r/askTRP10/02/14 06:55 AM
1

What the fuck is wrong with you? Why do you need a "representative?"
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:46 AM
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Learn from them. You're saying your friends know how to fuck girls, and you don't? Do what they do. Why read message boards when you have real life examples in front of you?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 11:59 PM
1

Sure. I'm not trying to say your question is not important. I'm just saying that the "ought" naturally follows from an observation.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 11:54 PM
1

It is both. A stove is hot. Don't put your hand on a stove. That sounds reasonable to me. Why would you teach someone that a stove is hot, without giving them further guidance on the matter? I suspect you've been reading Kant recently.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 10:32 PM
1

A woman's genetic investment reaches beyond her own children. Respond to that however you like, but it is true for them.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 10:11 PM
1

but because men are leaders and the dominate ones First, no. Most people with penises are followers. Girls like leaders. If a penis made someone a leader, there'd be no need to talk about it at all. does that mean that TRP allows men to be dishonest or secretive of their lives TRP doesn't "allow" men to do anything. It's based on observation, not permission.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 08:42 PM
1

I can see how dudes hit 30 and start whoring. I am not saying that's what i want to do but i see why it's done That's so delusional. He paid someone to go out with him on his birthday, and acts like fucking a lot of girls is an option he won't entertain.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 07:49 PM
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Someone, somewhere, is tired of her shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 07:40 PM
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There's a reason women will hate this sub forever, hate seduction, pick-up artists, and game in general. Like a lot of things, it depends on your frame.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:28 AM
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My input is that you answered your own question. I'm not sure I want her. she's almost 30 and I'm not sure I want to be a dad in the next 5 years. Conversation is not great, but there's just something not there I'm having serious 2nd thoughts. A life of self-improvement doesn't seem possible if I'm tied to someone full time. Another issue... (insecurity) IDK. I just feel very blah People in this sub aren't real hot on american women, but after reading everything you said, who's going to push you…
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Why did you say no to her staying over? Also, "I feel like you don't respect me or even care about me as a friend." could be due to a lot of reasons. In fact, shit like that can come up because of some offhand comment you made 2 weeks ago that you have no memory of. My only response... and not immediately, would be "What do you mean?" And after that, I'd probably go silent until I thought she actually said it. Then I'd go from there.
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I keep reading/hearing it's not like porn. It's a lot like porn, really.
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Why the fuck do guys blame themselves when their bitches cheat? Because they should? Unfortunately, he will probably never understand why he's to blame, which means he will get to do it again later in life.
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