followtheRaven Archive

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3	How does a 26 year old (almost 27) virgin with Avoidant Personality Disorder become Alpha? If that's what makes you happy, go ahead and stay home. Less competition for me. Just know that while you are grinding in a video game, I'm grinding in real life. When you buy your avatar a nice set of clothes, I will be doing the same in real life. And as your character develops and becomes stronger, so will I. By the time fellow players will be in awe of your awesome in-game persona, so will men and women admire me in real life. For each boss you will slay, I will get laid. However, when your …	/r/askTRP	13/08/14 08:57 AM
3	How much does height matter? Not really, obviously there is a choice between the consoles whereas you are given a height and just make the best of it. My point is that people come here looking for information and there is no need to misinform them. Yes, being tall is an advantage, but it's not the be all end all in dating. Don't hit your head against the door frame on the way out!	/r/askTRP	07/08/14 07:23 AM
0	How much does height matter? The wiki talks about preferences and theories, none of which telling me why a man should be taller. Indeed, it states that there is no biological preference either way. I don't disagree that for initial attraction being taller is an advantage. Go to any night club and see how much easier tall guys find a girl to take home. However, it is being presented here as if a guy is required to be taller in order to have any chance at all and judging from personal experience this is simply not true. So pl…	/r/askTRP	07/08/14 06:56 AM
5	trying to get nudes again - give me some advice please, typed out convo here I am honestly impressed! I mean, I thought she would have given up within the first 15 minutes of the convo, so yeah, definitely impressed that she managed to stick around for as long as she did! Also, thanks for the entertainment, but man this was bad. You come across as super needy You come across as desperate You ask her stuff only to ignore the answer You switch topics the whole fucking time You are way too invested in the convo You left the conversation like a butt-hurt child that didn't ge…	/r/askTRP	07/08/14 06:19 AM
0	How much does height matter? Wait.. what? Why should a guy be taller? Please enlighten me	/r/askTRP	07/08/14 05:34 AM
1	How much attention do you get from girls now? A good trick is to just observe a crowd and take not of what the guys who are getting looked at are wearing. Try to find guys who look similar to you in terms of height/ build and hair colour. Alternatively, check out fashion websites like this one, browse the articles and find a couple of looks that you like. When it's time to go shopping, it's great to have someone with you to critique the stuff you are buying and try on different styles. If you turn it into a date, just make sure that you foc…	/r/askTRP	06/08/14 05:22 PM
6	How much attention do you get from girls now? Does this only happen to very attractive guys? Is it because I'm slim and don't lift? Any input will be appreciated. No and No. Obviously being attractive and shaped like a Greek god helps, but dressing well and being confident will still get you attention. As a test, dress really sharp and walk through a crowded place like you own it. Guaranteed you will get looks.	/r/askTRP	06/08/14 02:59 PM
3	Erectile dysfunction and texting anxiety Stay busy. Work on the next girl(s). She'll get back to you if you really are as good as you say you are. Alternatively, you can spam the shit out of her 'til she won't respond any more. It would solve the problem, but doesn't get you laid.	/r/askTRP	06/08/14 06:42 AM
3	Women are all that matter to me. What do I do? Yes it does. Can you give me an example of someone with a solid career and good physique who is still a virgin? And what have you tried before that didn't work? Maybe we can help, but we need more info. If you really want to have sex so badly then pay for it. There's no shame in that. But I'm starting to think that you just kinda want it. You see, I really want it. I typed out my messages on the way to the gym after I finished my work day. Now I'm browsing Reddit trying to help guys like you and…	/r/askTRP	05/08/14 07:42 PM
29	Had to put the family dog down and cried like a little bitch in front of LTR. You're human, congratz. Why do you think this would lower your SMV? Because you cared? Don't over think this. There's nothing wrong with some emotion every once in a while. Especially in front of an LTR. She might actually see you as someone to have kids with now (you're fucked, OP ;))	/r/askTRP	05/08/14 06:24 PM
5	Once you break up with a girl... is there ever going back? You might meet girls so amazing you will totally forget that you ever dated this girl. Do you really think that you will become more attracted to her after spending time with some real stunners? Of course it is possible that you would still get back together with her, but I think you should cross that bridge once you get there.	/r/askTRP	05/08/14 06:18 PM
3	Women are all that matter to me. What do I do? I totally understand that, but in the end you can only really affect one side of the equation so that is where you should focus on.	/r/askTRP	05/08/14 12:39 PM
5	Women are all that matter to me. What do I do? Use it as your main motivator. It is not a quick fix but could be a potential catalyst in providing you with an amazing lifestyle. Women naturally gravitate towards attractive and successful men. So create attraction by working hard on self improvement and a career. When other things start going your way, confidence will grow which will get women to notice you. Life can easily snowball into something awesome from there. Yes, it takes time, but you can do this. If you have something specific that…	/r/askTRP	05/08/14 12:29 PM
6	Extreme frame breaker. How do I solve this? I'm currently on vacation with my ex and her parents which is a weird situation in and out of itself but its so beneficial to me to the point where I don't really care about that part of the situation. Can you please elaborate on how this whole situation is beneficial to you? Unless you are sleeping with her mom and she buys you dinner after, I don't get it. How do I fix this? Move on. She clearly has. It's a bitter pill to swallow.	/r/askTRP	04/08/14 08:07 PM
13	Do women suffer from oneitis If you play your cards right, definitely.	/r/askTRP	31/07/14 03:46 PM
1	In a LTR and just found TRP I've considered myself pretty alpha for the most part. and then I've done a good job as checking her phone and Facebook I put a keylogger on her pc pretty early into the relationship alpha as fuck, OP... Sounds to me like you didn't trust her from the get go. Now that you found out that she slept with 45 guys your mind is telling you to bail, but you're afraid/ not willing to do so, so you came here. Be honest to yourself. Do you ever think you'll fully trust her? Do you want to take care of som…	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 08:52 AM
9	I'm 19 years old, going to be living in an apartment with three 21 year old girls starting next month. Need advice Wow, what's with all the negativity guys? I lived with 3 girls for a while and it was awesome! No, I didn't sleep with any of them, but it did boost my social life. First of all, maintain frame. Don't be an asshole to these girls, but at the same time you shouldn't do anything for them you wouldn't normally do. Don't take the trash just because you are the strong guy for example. You do it when it's your turn to do it. Now, and this is where the fun starts, make sure you get along with them (sma…	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 08:33 AM
3	Need encouragement as I get into the lifting/red pill lifestyle. One of the things that keeps me motivated is interaction with the big guys. I know a lot of guys on Reddit keep saying that the gym isn't the place to socialize, but I see nothing but benefits from asking the big, experienced guys to critique your form or spot for you as you try to lift those heavy ass weights. What is more motivating than working out with guys who are physical proof of what you can become? I also learnt a ton of new exercises and got plenty of helpful advice. On top of that it …	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 08:14 AM
1	Girl likes me but still has feelings for her ex. Now she says she is over him. What do I do? If you really want to be just friends, why do you care who she has feelings for? Unless you are her emotional tampon just talk about other stuff do whatever friends do. I honestly can't see what the problem is.	/r/askTRP	29/07/14 11:07 AM
2	What do you do when a girl buys you a drink? Is it a shit test? The last one could actually be, especially if she's the jealous type and thinks you are eyeing the other girl.	/r/askTRP	22/07/14 08:48 AM
3	Was I lead on? First off, thanks for the entertaining read. The good thing is, you still have a lot of room for improvement. The bad thing? Well, treat the story above as a learning experience. You were not being lead on. She probably at some point was genuinely interested in you, but your lack of confidence/ hail Mary attempt probably threw her off (I'm assuming you read her signals correctly). Go to the TRP sidebar and read up on Kino, it is supposed to be a bit more subtle than grabbing her arm and stroking…	/r/askTRP	22/07/14 08:41 AM
2	How could I handle this former plate with out looking needy? How about calling rather than texting? It's not that complicated. Call, ask why she couldn't make it, accept bullshit excuse, reschedule.	/r/askTRP	20/07/14 08:45 PM
2	Critique my text chain. New to the idea of TRP Well, I didn't fully read it since 10 images is simply too long for me. Leave the chit chat for the date, especially when you meet over Tinder. Build some interest and lock in the date/ get her number. That's it. You already got her to agree on Monday, why still wait ~8 images to actually work out the details? Get it done and on to the next one. You kept her interest, but might as well lost it and lost the date as a result.	/r/trpGAME	18/07/14 07:04 PM
2	Need some Red Pill career advice That might be a cultural difference then. Either way, with all your other awesome assets I don't see how a part time job would make a difference. You could always try to get a job as bartender or in sales at a fashionable store. Sales experience is also great for your studies and for improving social skills.	/r/askTRP	18/07/14 09:46 AM
5	Need some Red Pill career advice There's nothing wrong with a guy who is self-sufficient and who does whatever it takes to get through university. I'd even argue that it ups your SMV. I boxed diapers and pantyliners in a factory and I don't mind telling people about it. I did what I had to do in order to progress, regardless of what others thought if it.	/r/askTRP	18/07/14 09:27 AM
3	Need some Red Pill career advice Is there any chance that you can save up enough now to get you through (a large part of) university? Alternatively, is there a way you can progress in your current industry or study whilst keeping your current job? I realize that the on/off nature of your job makes the latter quite difficult. I'm sure that there are plenty of other part-time alternatives, like working for a moving company, doing inventory for a shop/warehouse or cleaning jobs, but they rarely are the most satisfactory jobs aroun…	/r/askTRP	18/07/14 08:55 AM
1	How come women are obligated to sleep with you? Can a woman really resist the temptation of trying out the best looking brownie at the bakery? Even if she's not that interested in said brownie, she can't wait to brag to her friends about it. tl;dr I am a brownie.	/r/askTRP	18/07/14 07:01 AM
2	Do you think odds for dating are better in some parts of the country? This is hardly scientific, but I recently went on a road trip got and decided to test if my match rate on Tinder would differ significantly depending on location. In each city where stayed overnight I "liked" every girl and then checked the responses. I assumed that I would get more matches in larger cities since there is a much larger amount of Tinder users. However, to my surprise I got a lot more matches in the smaller places AND the girls appeared to be more attractive. I am still getting ma…	/r/askTRP	17/07/14 09:02 PM
1	GF wants to go salsa dancing? If you think she's that kind of girl, why are you together? otherwise sparta offered a pretty solid way on how to handle it, though you'll probably still find it off-putting.	/r/askTRP	17/07/14 08:06 PM
4	GF wants to go salsa dancing? There are plenty of classes where you go alone and get paired up. Odds are there are others who joined the classes for the same reason, but focus on your skills first and reap the rewards later.	/r/askTRP	17/07/14 07:58 PM
2	GF wants to go salsa dancing? Don't mean to offend you, but you seem to contradict yourself in my eyes. If you are not bothered about the cheating, then what is the problem with her dancing? I'd still go for the lessons when she gets back though, just for the fun of it.	/r/askTRP	17/07/14 07:46 PM
4	GF wants to go salsa dancing? Yes she will dance with guys and yes it will be sensual. Salsa is great and she will enjoy it. If the guys are any good they will at least try to tempt her. Not going to lie, I would. Whether she will cheat on you or not depends entirely on her and the bond of your relationship. I personally don't understand people who are in a relationship where they need to have these doubts, but that's your own business of course.	/r/askTRP	17/07/14 07:34 PM
2	How to respond in general? If the criticism is work related you just thank them for their input. This goes for any sort of feedback, regardless of how it is worded. Whether or not you actually do something with what they said is up to you. If they say you did a shit job, you ask them for tips. There might actually be something to learn here. This is your job. This is what pays the bills. Personally I see no reason to get confrontational in this situation. The best way to get respect is to excel at what you do. It is hard …	/r/askTRP	21/06/14 10:10 AM
5	The higher value she is, the more I've been conditioned to feel undeserving of her How do people feel comfortable around ugly girls? They make me feel uncomfortable way more.. The more you deal/ interact with these "higher value" women, the easier it gets. Constant exposure will make situations feel more normal, that's true for most challenging situations in life.	/r/askTRP	20/06/14 07:46 PM
3	Pre-date nerves Before you leave, look at your handsome face in the mirror, check out your obnoxious but awesome grin, look yourself in the eyes and speak the magic words: "I got this"	/r/askTRP	20/06/14 06:59 PM
1	Would this be a REALLY bad idea....? Interesting insight, thanks.	/r/askTRP	13/06/14 08:15 AM
3	What's a good way for me to option close a second date with a girl? Perhaps something along the line of "I am going to event A and event B this weekend, are you coming along for option A or option B?" If she says no to both you can go for "Then option C it is, Monday night at [place]"	/r/trpGAME	13/06/14 08:13 AM
1	Would this be a REALLY bad idea....? Bit off-topic, but what's wrong with Facebook?	/r/askTRP	12/06/14 05:52 PM
2	Don't be a kiss ass. I can't see how the part that you fucked her has any relevance to the rest of the story and the point you are trying to make. Also, what's your question?	/r/askTRP	11/06/14 06:18 PM
9	Plate Problems Hold frame and stop caring. Start using a condom with her, both to let her know that she is no longer your main girl and to prevent your dick from falling off. She won't like this, but will have to give in to stay with you. You probably won't like it either but now you can upgrade another girl and then peace has been restored in your kingdom.	/r/askTRP	10/06/14 04:13 PM
2	(slightly) feminine men? This is like asking what the favourite ice cream flavour is of girls. Each girl will have her own preference. Just because they all like vanilla doesn't mean that being vanilla ice cream will get you scooped. Yeah, I have no clue how I got to ice cream either. Anyway, the most important part is that you look and feel confident. You already make an effort with your clothes beyond what most men do, that is a great start. Now you just own it. If you feel like you should have a more "alpha" posture,…	/r/askTRP	10/06/14 08:36 AM
2	Need motivation and advice. So while guys like me are improving ourselves; working overtime, prepping another clean meal and pushing for that extra rep, you are sitting at home drinking and masturbating while wondering why you can't have casual sex with hot random hookups? You don't really need any advice, you know what you've got to do. The next step is to get up and actually fucking do it. Yes it takes time, but would you rather watch porn, or fuck the porn star?	/r/askTRP	10/06/14 08:15 AM
3	Need advice on my oneitis I think both options have the same cure. See other girls. a) She will get jealous and wants what the other girls have. b) You are having fun with other girls, the ultimate distraction.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 07:05 PM
3	How do you deal with negativities towards you when you support TRP? I don't think you can push RP on people (nor the other stuff). Also, telling him to stop being a whiny neckbeard is not exactly supportive, is it now? Behaviour like yours gives TRP its poor reputation, simply because you acted like a jackass to a brother in need. Which is probably also the reason why you got downvoted, not for mentioning TRP.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 06:31 PM
1	Facebook conversation starters anyone..? I pretty much agree with this comment. If you are looking for an easier method go for apps/ websites designed to do just that (I have only tried Tinder and it worked for me). I would even argue that adding strangers on Facebook is more challenging for cold approaching than actually walking up to a girl.	/r/trpGAME	26/05/14 09:17 PM
3	Facebook conversation starters anyone..? I personally love Facebook and use it in a similar manner to text. Great thing about FB is that you can still get in touch with "the ones that got away". Last weekend for example a FWB showed up and demanded attention before I could close the girl I had been chatting with. Found her on FB the next day and set up the date for later this week. My conversation starters ALWAYS relate to something that happened in person. So in this case it was "Really? You left without saying goodbye to me?" which w…	/r/trpGAME	26/05/14 11:49 AM
3	Just ended my first LTR with my "first love", any advice on how to move on? "In the end you regret the things you didn't do" - Probably someone who passed on an opportunity and died a virgin All joking aside, I would go for it. Word-of-mouth is still the most effective way of promotion out there and girls love talking. Plus it takes the pressure away for when you find someone more attractive.	/r/askTRP	26/05/14 11:25 AM
2	Admittıng Lack of Experience One way to deal - or rather not having to deal - with those feelings is to establish some rules. Basically it comes down to "don't ask, don't tell". So neither person asks or tells about their previous and current partners. If you are someone who gets jealous easily, I would even avoid questions such as "what is the naughtiest thing you have done?" unless you are determined to top it.	/r/trpGAME	26/05/14 10:11 AM
2	Logistics - the bane of my frame Off topic: I think the HB rules don't apply in Scandinavia.. It's almost impossible to go lower than a 7. On topic: Doesn't it feel great when you want something so bad, but the rules tell you not to act on it? Don't worry about her getting screwed by someone else, you are also screwing someone else this weekend and she hates that thought just as much. She'll contact you.	/r/trpGAME	14/05/14 08:26 AM
3	Logistics - "Can we meet closer to my place?" My sticking point Use the public transport to your advantage (Wait, what?). Meet up further away and transition to that great place that you know of, which just happens to be a few stops away and closer to your place.	/r/trpGAME	14/05/14 08:11 AM
3	Religious HB fighting tooth & nail to get me to commit using sex as a bait. Option A When she realizes that you have other options the roles are suddenly reversed. Now she might offer you sex in the hopes that she can convince you to pick her (Although she won't say that of course). This may not always work, like if she is strongly religious for example, but is a better option than B which will just make you seem pushy/ needy.	/r/askTRP	12/05/14 10:39 AM
1	Help me get my shit together, pls. First of all: You need to slow it down. Just from reading this, it seems like you are panicking and are at a total loss how to proceed life. The fact that you wrote this post shows that you KNOW that you should do better, but that you just can't find the motivation to do it. Like you said, it's not good, but it's not that bad either. Believe me, this is common (Heck, I should be working right now!). The solution is simple though; you and only you will be able to actually do something about it. S…	/r/askTRP	07/05/14 06:55 AM
5	So I (25/m) got beta bucked and cheated on twice. She swears that she has stopped, coincidentally right after I started heavily improving myself. Keeping her as FWB? Whether she loves or doesn't love you isn't relevant. FWB don't need love, right? So why care about this? Trying to keep her around as a FWB is all good as long as it doesn't interfere with your progress. Go ahead, move on, keep improving, get more plates and see how she responds. She still wants to fuck? Good! She doesn't? Well, she will just go on vacation again, don't worry about it! You still have your other plates, right?	/r/askTRP	06/05/14 01:20 PM
1	Curious what y'all think about my "text game". Convo inside. Usually when she starts giving shorter answers and you try to get the conversation going again, that's when there is little flow and the replies become forced (probably you had to think more about what you were going to send next also?). You did this once in the middle of the convo when replying to her "Haha!" and especially towards the end it becomes noticeable. Personally, I either wait for her to get back to me with a full sentence worth replying to or tell her that I've got to go, but that w…	/r/trpGAME	06/05/14 05:54 AM
1	Curious what y'all think about my "text game". Convo inside. While you certainly made your intentions clear and she responded well, the conversation also seemed more forced the longer it dragged on. I think there were a few moments where you could have been more direct/ suggest to meet. Although I still don't like the adrenaline rush that comes with it, the results are usually positive. Particular moments: "me: I'll pencil you in for 11. her: You better do a good job or I won't refer my gfs to you." You could have just responded with "Deal" and see how se…	/r/trpGAME	05/05/14 07:19 PM
0	How do you tell if you're good looking or an incel? The no bullshit way? Go outside and try it. If the results are positive, you look good enough. If you feel like it didn't go as well as you'd have hoped then you don't.	/r/trpGAME	02/05/14 12:47 PM
3	New RP'er Seeking Guidance To me it seems like you are just over-thinking this whole situation. 1) If you tell her that you are going to pick her up so she can come over for a few days, I don't think that would come across as weak. If she tells you to come and pick her up, it's another story. 2) She won't decline. That's it. Or is she under the impression that you will be playing scrabble all week? 3) If you are feeling hungry, do you get something to eat or do you wait til dinner time? Or a phrase more popular here: Stri…	/r/trpGAME	02/05/14 12:36 PM
1	Beta shitstorm situation. Need advice. All that time and energy you are putting into this "issue"? Put it into having a good time and meeting new girls. Switch your focus, create other options. I know it won't be the easiest thing to do, but just effing do it. If you really cannot stop the urge, you have to stop putting yourself in that (drunken) position which creates the sexual tension.	/r/askTRP	29/04/14 08:41 PM
2	Beta shitstorm situation. Need advice. The cuddling comment is on a topic where the guy explicitly states that he does not want to escalate that particular relationship any further. Despite some of the experienced guys telling you not to, you seem to be really set on sleeping with her. If that's the case - good luck, but don't forget to update your resume.	/r/askTRP	29/04/14 06:49 PM