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Outer Game boycott-mondays/r/seduction24/08/21 08:17 AM
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Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/asksedditboycott-mondays/r/seduction28/04/21 04:15 PM
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Fundamentalsboycott-mondays/r/seduction19/08/21 04:46 PM
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Outer Game boycott-mondays/r/seduction17/01/21 03:27 PM
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boycott-mondays/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:37 PM
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Wouldn't it be wise to assume they are together the majority of the time. No, there are girls with guy friends that are gay There are girls with guys that are in "the friendzone" Women don't usually like to travel alone, they prefer to go with someone.
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:03 PM
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Same here, do you ever go alone or you always go with friends? Never alone And what exactly did you do to get girls inviting you over, are you really good looking or what It's very rare but usually I wait when the club ends. If we see each other, my friends will meet with there friends. We will talk, and usually one of us say "hey, we are having an after party". At the end of the club you will see a bunch of people linger around. The girls that are lingering around, are looking for sex or an Ube…
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:53 PM
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So if the girl don't grab your hand you just leave and assume she's not into you? Yes, I keep dancing or I go back over to my friends. Do you really get girls inviting you over, that sounds very rare, Yes how long have you been going to club ever weekend for My friends and I have been going since September.. we usually go to different ones and never the same one within the same week
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:47 PM
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If a girl is constantly looking around and her focus is not 70 percent on the guy and on her phone... I'm assuming she is not with him. Usually I just go into a conversation with them both, usually something they can relate too. "This traffic is awful around here, how long it take you guys to get here?" "The service here is great here, you guys go here a lot?" If she is leading the conversation and asking you questions back, and she never says "my boyfriend -..." Then you are golden
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:20 PM
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I'm not sure I understand the question. If a girl doesn't want to dance with you, then she doesn't want to dance with you. There are some girls who are only there just so they can turn down men. It's a sense of power to them. There's a lot of them there, so be prepared to be rejected. I've been rejected a lot, but every night I go out clubbing, I usually dance with at least one girl and we make out. (And I usually go out every Friday and Saturday) I've had girls invited me over after. But the ma…
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:42 PM
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what if she don't want to dance with you Then you know your answer... Move on to the next girl
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:35 PM
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It's not a long eye contact, it's more of a "hey I'm here, I'm going to dance beside you" Its literally like a 1 second eye contact. Just so they know what you look like and can tell that you are fun
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:25 PM
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Ya I don't know if smiling too much makes u unconfident or goofy looking That's a bad mentality. Not smiling makes you unapproachable. The second photo of you looking serious, may look cool, but it makes you look unapproachable you need to be more approachable No one thinks that "this guy is smiling to much, he must be goofy". Your friends may say that, only because they are trying to tease you as a joke, but women, when they see you looking serious. They tend to feel scared and will most likely…
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:49 PM
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I'm not sure why you posted your selfie poses on here? (Unless you're fishing for compliments) But as a guy, you have to do the initiative. Dating apps are conclusive to your area demographics people are more inclined to date within their race So if you are using dating apps and your race is not the majority, you may have a harder time (I'm also a black male living in a state where it's 90 percent white) When you go to bars/clubs. You as the guy, have to take the initiative. You have to go up to…
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:33 PM
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I usually dance along side of them, make eye contact with them. Then if she is dancing with me, then I put out my hand in front of them, they grab it, then I spin her around to wear her back is towards me and then she will grind on me. Usually to test interest, I will back away, just a little bit, if she is moving back into me, she wants it. Sometimes I will spin her off of me, we will dance for a bit then I will wave my finger, in a "come back here" motion (this doesn't have any effect, I just …
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:52 PM
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Clubs are more, "in the moment" situation They are infamous for "one night stands" If you achieve a one night stand, if the sex was good, you go and get breakfast with her the next day and get to know each other then. I know it's backwards, but at a club, girls are usually drunk and are looking for a good time. They will more then likely remember the guy they had sex with rather then the guy who texts her "hey Kate, remember me?"
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:23 PM
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You need to break it up and pause every 10 seconds. For example, You: "Blah blah blah" Her: Yes. You: "Blah blah blah" etc I will definitely try this!
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:07 PM
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Delete her number... I do this all the time, if she wants to reach out to you, then she has your number. If a girl left me on read once, I instantly delete their number. Doesn't matter how long I know them. That's her saying "I don't have to respond to you, you should chase me." People are on their phones more than ever, if she left you on read, she is not worth the effort. IMO
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:05 PM
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If a girl is grinding on you, more then likely she will want to kiss you. Not every girl, that grinds on you, will kiss you but if you are building sexual tension and she has been drinking then yeah Usually I asked them, if they have a boyfriend. If they say no, then I go in for the kiss. I have never been rejected. Also I never ask to dance with a girl, I usually just put out my hand, if they grab it, then we are golden
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:00 PM
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I'm not here for argument. I just said I don't recommend it. If you have your own opinion, go and post it
/r/seduction23/11/21 08:50 PM
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also assures her you like her without being over the top. I'm not trying to disrespect you, But I highly don't recommend that
/r/seduction23/11/21 07:07 PM
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It will come off as strong.. unless you slept with her or at least kissed her. I wouldn't recommend it. It comes off as super creepy
/r/seduction23/11/21 07:04 PM
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I don't recommend this at all.
/r/seduction23/11/21 06:58 PM
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Virgin jail* Honestly you need to be confident enough to make that move. If a girl doesn't want to kiss you. She will do things like, back away, keeping her distance, not make any eye contact, she will tell you that she does not want to kiss you. She is an adult, she has the ability to make decisions. She is on a date with you. That's already good signs that she likes you If you met her on a dating app, more then likely she moved on to the next guy. Next first date you go too.. automatically go …
/r/seduction23/11/21 04:07 PM
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Yes reply to it. Try to add a flirting vibe. If it's a sexy selfie, then say "if I didn't know any better, I say you're trying to flirt with me" If it's just a regular selfie (especially if it's on social media) comment on something within the area or what she is wearing. Don't tell her she is hot until she sends you something sexy. Don't ignore her, never ignore.
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:31 PM
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Yep 100 percent this. Next time don't hug. You're on a date. You hug your friends, you kiss the girl you are on a date with. Move on, don't text her, move on She even said "I enjoyed 'hanging' out with you". Which mean she felt a friendship vibe. Ouch!
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:22 PM
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I ain't wanna be her buddy she flirts with whilst she keeps her options open. Rather have her show some interest or else it's just done for me The ball is in her court. Set up the second date. If she starts asking questions about you over text, save it until the date. The intent is to sleep with her. Once you slept with her, (considering you did a good job) then she will more then likely stay around, but you got to set up a second date and keep texting to a minimal. Believer or not, saying "I am…
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:15 PM
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Met a lovely girl on Tinder. You met her on tinder, tinder is known as the hookup app. Your intent was to sleep with her Maybe I missed the part where you kissed her on the first date. But you need to kiss her on the first date. If the date went well, and she is not in a rush to leave that night then you should of kissed her that night. You guys were already talking about sexual things, (hopefully that night, in person and not thru texting) You got to understand, she is on tinder. She has about …
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:55 PM
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So i decided to search her on Instagram and get to know more about her. Next time, you meet a girl. Ask her on the spot for her contact information. I'm not saying that it's wrong to search for their names and add them, but it's less attractive when you don't do it in person So i texted her yesterday night about 22:00 but had to wait till morning 9:00 to reply back with two short messages. She apparently also liked both of my messages with this 😂 emoji . You have number, why add her on Instagram…
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:29 PM
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Ask her what she is doing Saturday night, say you going to this (random place, in your area), that's is really cool and you want her to come. But other than that, that's it. Text her the same amount you would text your guy friends. Do you text your guy friends everyday?
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:17 PM
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Just wait, don't message her Also, you should of asked her to go out the very next day after the party (you should have tried to close the deal that night) But you should of strike while the irons hot and told her that night, or the very next day. Just play it cool, and wait until she responds. If she message you, don't answer quickly, wait about 10 minutes. If she doesn't, move on. If I have Snapchat. Usually I will continue posting like nothing happened. I will post memes or something cool tha…
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:13 PM
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You're more attractive, when you are taking by someone else. Don't text her again, until she reaches out If you see her again in person, go up to her and say hi
/r/seduction23/11/21 05:14 AM
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Lol you're in the wrong forum then, this is r/seduction If you just want to say "nice necklace" and "goodbye". Then I would try the social anxiety forums.... Because that's weird
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:47 PM
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Please please please.. go and do your thing and let me know how it works out. I already knows what's going to happen lol
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:09 PM
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You got it pretty close... It's about escalation. But one thing you got to stop doing is making out for a long period of time. It should be about 2 second then you pull away. When you pull away, you have her wanting more. Now it's harder to find a girl who is willing to go all the way with another female, compared to a guy, because most girls are interested in the opposite gender. Yes they will make out with you. If a girl is drunk enough, she will make out with anybody. Male or Female, but does…
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:06 PM
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Text with a purpose
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:47 PM
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Never hit on someone that is working. They are being paid to be nice to you.. that's it.
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:44 PM
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You don't Women attraction are like rollercoaster, it peaks, and if you don't do anything at the peak, it just keeps going downhill from there. You have to wait until it peaks before you can try again. Trust me, I still do this from time to time. Sometimes I would wait and not do any action. Then try to add them on social media later on or talk to them later on(big mistake, she thought I was the biggest creep, I will never do that again) The most success I had was waiting until I randomly saw he…
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:25 PM
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Please... PLEASE KEEP ME UPDATED
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:02 PM
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Haha... Trust me, I'm right. But if you don't believe me, go ahead do your thing. I'm honestly trying to help you.
/r/seduction22/11/21 07:46 PM
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Just wait to see her next time and talk to her. 100 percent agree with this. You missed your opportunity big time, now there's nothing you can do, right now. If you guys cross path, in the future, try it again. The things that 90 percent of guys mess up on, is that they miss an opportunity and then they will start chasing like crazy. This will push the girl away. Don't do this
/r/seduction22/11/21 06:40 PM
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Positive reinforcement. Be happy to see her. Give her a high five when she tells you something positive that she did If I met the girl once already, the second time I meet her, I will go in for the hug. Be playful with her, tease her a little bit (if you constantly keep giving her positive reinforcement, she will become uncomfortable, so you got to tease her a bit) Talk to her the same way, you would talk to your guy friends. (When my friends mess up, on something, usually I tease them the whole…
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:10 PM
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Never ask permission to kiss a girl, it's the biggest turn off. It shows, you don't know what you want, so your asking her, what you should do.
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:22 PM
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If it's at the end of the date or we are switching to a new location, and the girl is not in a rush to leave, and I know the date went well or is going well. I usually grab them by the hand, pull them in closely and go for the kiss. (Edit: women are more than likely to sleep with you, if you kiss them. Your chances jump up like at least 80 percent)
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:19 PM
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At a club?... They usually serve alcohol there. Drink until you start underthinking things
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:32 AM
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How much should one avoid conversation about religion when on a date. 100 percent of the time. Religion and politics should always be avoided. They are conflicting, but you want to find similarities with a girl. That is how attraction is build
/r/seduction19/11/21 09:29 PM
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"and you like hitting on older man, I'll telling your parents"
/r/seduction19/11/21 09:25 PM
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No don't do this!!!... You missed your opportunity.. move on
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:59 PM
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I thought about asking her to go to the gym, as she goes frequently. Should I do that? NO
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:09 PM
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I met this girl two weeks ago; she was nice to me, but she was the same way with everyone, so it felt normal. Later that day, our club went to a party and I was with a mutual friend of ours, when she came and kept talking to me. You should have gotten her contact information, also if you're at a party, and she is coming over to talk to you, she is more than likely interested, and you should have turned the conversation to something a little bit flirtatious. If you are just asking interview quest…
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:02 PM
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My Hinge date told me on Saturday that we weren't going to have sex. So I just said "OK" and we watched a Pixar film. After we had sex Lol the paradox
/r/seduction19/11/21 03:49 PM
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Definitely not. Women pick up on that easily. Woman over analyze, if they catch you doing that, then it's game over DON'T DO MIRRORING!
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:21 PM
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Mirroring... I'm unsure what that is.. I'm not a pickup artist lol
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:05 PM
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If I'm constantly leaning back in my seat and NOT leaning forward when I'm talking, will come off as someone who doesn't care. If I'm constantly showing disinterest, it shows I don't care. If I show way to much interest, it shows I'm a psychopath and way to eager So you got to find that sweet spot.
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:24 AM
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Forget the glasses, haircut what no beard... Get a fade
/r/seduction19/11/21 12:33 AM
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By leaning back in your seat, you become a narcissist?…. That’s enough Reddit for me today lol
/r/seduction18/11/21 11:16 PM
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One of the best simple trick that I do when on a date, is to lean back in your seat. That's it, just lean back in your seat. Then when you are explaining something, lean forward in your seat, put your hands on the table. Then when she starts explaining something Lean back in your seat again. You may not notice it, but she will definitely notice it and it will help you relax
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:08 PM
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and said she is totally down to hang out tomorrow. I told her it's totally okay to not do so. One of the biggest mistakes guys do. They reject themselves way before the girl rejects them. She was down and you should of left it at that. Don't tell her, it is okay to cancel on you .. otherwise she will more than likely will. She doesn't know you well, so she is already on the fence, you telling her it's okay to cancel, puts her more on the side of the fence that is not in your favor
/r/seduction18/11/21 02:25 PM
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Your post are amazing... Please continue giving more advice, this is spectacular and more experience
/r/seduction18/11/21 02:19 PM
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Online dating app has their pros and cons. It opens you up to a lot of women, but at the same time, women have the most power on that app. There are women are there that really want to meetup, and pursue something, like a relationship or a hook-up. Then there are women who will just have the app, because they like messing with thirsty men. There are women who get so many matches (actually 90 percent of women are getting way to many matches) that they won't even see you in a sea of men who just w…
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:51 AM
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I would be a little cautious of bringing her to your friend standup act. If he is making her laugh the whole night, then you go to introduce her to your friend after the show. Sounds like a recipe for disaster
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:10 PM
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That's your 1 on 1 with the girl. You are both facing each other and all her attention is on you. That's a big opportunity
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:04 AM
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But I’ve had girls who had initial high interest in me, so I went along with it trying to build some rapport via messaging, setting dates. Whenever I wasn’t feeling enough reciprocating (leaving me on seen, not trying to meet up), I was like “Oh so she isn’t that into me after all” and soft nexted them thinking that they’ll come back if they’re really interested. There are a lot of women who just want validation through attention, especially through social media. If they are leaving you on seen …
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:44 PM
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You keep it to sex only... If she asks you to do something that's out of the bedroom, say you are busy. Keep interaction with the child to a bare minimum unless you are planning on taking the role as the kids new father. She should understand that you are not the kids father, so it would be harder for you to be accepted in that role, unless you are actually trying
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:34 PM
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Yeah, I don't see why not.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:31 PM
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I've used tinder, and had great success. My original post was saying that I'm not interested in the hookup fling. I am not accounting your personal success with dating. I'm saying with today technology, it's not that hard to get multiple partners to lay, compared to the times without the technology.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:01 PM
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Hooking up is not easier with social media and online dating, compared to the times before these technology advances?... Really?... Tinder hasn't changed the game?
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:26 PM
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They encouraged me to reply quick as she was sending messages often This is hilarious.... Don't do this
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:31 PM
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The first date, you should be escalating to sleeping with her, if not that, then you should be kissing her at the end of the date. Go on the date, and have a normal conversation. Don't oversell yourself with texting. So many guys do this. They tell them everything about themselves before they meet up. Women like a little bit of mystery to the guy. Keep the conversation, to meeting up in person. At the end of every first date, if she is not angry or she is walking away from you. Kiss her...KISS H…
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:26 PM
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I agree... Don't tell her she beautiful over text... That's the number way to get ghosted
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:41 PM
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Same. I've had girls stare me down and make constant eye contact, and when I hesitate and come later. They give me a lot of attitude, like I should of stayed where I was. One time I made eye contact with a girl at a bar, and I was drunk, so I went over right away. She was so excited that I came over, and she was telling me most guys just stand there
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:11 PM
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You did the same thing a shy guy would do. I don't think that shows a display of confidence. Unless your a 9/10 on the attraction scale. Bad move lol
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:06 PM
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Usually I would tell them to meet up at my place and we will go from there. This will get her comfortable with your place. If you have wine or alcohol, then make sure they are very very visible for her to see. (Don't ask "hey you want to meetup at my place first?" Just say "meet me at my place and then we will go to said location" whatever that is)
/r/seduction15/11/21 04:52 PM
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You got to switch the conversation from, being friendly To flirting. Compliment her, then tease her a bit. Have fun with the conversation.
/r/seduction15/11/21 04:33 PM
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The car
/r/seduction15/11/21 03:38 PM
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In today time, with social media and dating apps. It's not that hard to get to 50+ lay. My friends are up at 50+. They all have open relationships and don't believe in marriage. I grew up in a religious lifestyle and recently living on my own. I am so used to "sex before marriage is bad" So I have met a lot of women who believe in sex before committing to a relationship is the norm. One woman argue with me, that you have to be sexually compatible before picking someone, based on their personalit…
/r/seduction15/11/21 03:21 PM
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I don't know if I have been doing it wrong, but when I'm at a dance Spanish club, i Usually I talk to them while I'm dancing with them. I would flirt the women and make them laugh. Dancing is hard, I know this, the girl knows this. I try to lighten the mood and get her to laugh. I never hit on them, otherwise it would make them feel uncomfortable. Usually girls would give me there numbers or invite me over after. (Granted I met some women who hate talking while dancing, but that's like less then…
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:03 AM
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Playing hard to get and twisting words Every sentence be like, "... Are you saying that because you trying to sleep with me. To bad you can't". Edit) there's literally another comment giving advice to roofie someone, but mines is still getting down voted lol.... This is genuine advice
/r/seduction14/11/21 11:13 PM
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Yes absolutely.. But compliment the dress.. don't just say, "you look good" The compliment comes off heavy Say "that dress/outfit looks good on you" She will more then likely tell you where she got it If she does, say "wow you got good taste, because it's working for you" This may lead into a conversation which you can elaborate more on
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:27 PM
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Honestly I'm curious here... Usually you must sleep with someone at least once, then that will decide if she wants to be FWB. But ask and let me know what happens, I'm curious here
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:39 PM
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Practice makes perfect You got to take it slow as it's not going to happen over night... Might take years. But you got to do more social things. Bars, library, social events, parties, festivals.... Whenever there's people. Go to it. You got to talk to people. Start conversation with random strangers. Usually when I'm at a bar, I buy the nearest guy to me a beer. It's only $4 and you have a new friend that owes you a beer. I buy guys a beer, because they know I'm not trying to sleep with them and…
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:28 PM
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Omg... I can't wait to tell my parents
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:01 PM
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I had a difficult religious past that I have a hard time thinking that people from outside my religion are not entirely evil
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:00 PM
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Meant*
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:36 PM
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Guy* lol
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:02 PM
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But mostly it won't. Someyimes you get lucky and the first or within the first few tries of something, it works This is a lie. The past few weeks, I've kissed 8 women. I've been rejected only 3 times. (only because I went in way too quickly and just starting out) Unless I'm the luckiest man alive. This has been working for me
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:59 AM
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a million use case that no one should ever consider, and what you call an “advice” is absolutely trash. No, every since I started doing this, a few weeks ago. I kissed 8 women. And have had zero complaints. They all stayed with me after the kiss. A lot of them followed me around, a lot of them bought me drinks right after. Unless I'm the luckiest man, on God green earth, and should enter the lottery, this has been working for me
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:48 AM
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Lol, you're in the wrong forum, this isn't dating advice. This is r/seduction I was relating my experience and what has been working for me. And just trying to help my fellow Redditors, because Reddit has helped me, so much
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:44 AM
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I've noticed, that I got a lot of women, complaining, but I was always told the advice of never listen to women on how to pick up woman. Woman will tell you what they want to hear, but don't expect it in the real world.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:42 AM
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Some girls may be okay with it, but others may not but feel too uncomfortable/scared to say something so to you it seems like it was alright but internally she's upset. Women are adults, who have the capability to make a decision. Trust me, if a girl doesn't want a guy to kiss them, they will definitely let them know. I don't hold them down and keep them hostage. Also, my eyes are closed, when I go for the kiss.. Who has their eyes open when kissing? I go in, and if she doesn't move back at all,…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:34 AM
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Facts bro. I use to be the one to "ask for the kiss" and "asked for the dance" This got me absolutely no where. Now every since, I've been leaning in. It's been a high success rate for me, it's been awesome!
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:27 AM
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That's what he did, because he didn't kiss at first contact, but the second, and after a while. He probably noticed the correct signals. This entirely. After I dance with her the first time. She put her hand on my chest and said "thank you" and left, and went to the other side of the dance floor. I said "okay". I did not move. I just kept making eye contact with her, every now and then. And she kept getting closer, making eye contact, getting closer, making eye contact and then getting closer. S…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:24 AM
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This isn't a tutorial, this actually happened to me last night. She is just the first one that leaned back after the kissed. So she made me the most nervous. If she didn't want to kiss me, why would she come up to me at a club, by herself at the bar? Why did she allow me to dance with her again? After kissing her, why did she kept stalking me? She was trying to take me home, but I told her, I had to drop my friend off, so I couldn't
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:18 AM
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I'm not a giga Chad, I'm a 29 year old virgin, but a few weeks ago. I switched it up, and so far, I kissed 8 women, 6 of them, wanted to take me back home (which I refused, because I'm still new to this)
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:13 AM
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As creepy as this sounds, dude it works. I used to ask girls if I can dance with them or if I can kiss them. 9/10 they say no I switched it up, recently, to not asking, and girls love it for some reason. I have a 7/10 success rate. I've done this with a few girls
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:58 AM
1

Also I wouldn't ever ask girls if they have boyfriends as you'll kill your chances with a ton of girls who wouldn't slept with you.. but now that she told you, she feels guilty, and it's game over. This was the main reason why I left her at the bar, I told her I was going to find my friend, and she got really upset that I was leaving and started following me around and tried to kiss me back. I asked her if she had a boyfriend because she pulled away from the kiss and gave me a "why did you do th…
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:44 AM
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I'm not successful at this, but my best friend has been slaying like crazy. I watch him, he would wait on the outer edge of the club, looking around then he would make eye contact with a girl, but she has to give a little bit eye contact back. Then he would walk directly towards the girl. Introduce himself then dance with her, talk for a bit then he will pull away, like he will go to the bar or go into a different area of the dancefloor. He will check to make sure she is still giving eye contact…
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:00 PM
1

I promise, this is real
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:59 PM
3

Holy shit, this is gold
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:31 PM
2

I know bald men, who sleep with multiple girls. One of my bald friends is a bartender, and he goes to bars and confidently flirts with girls. And he is very very successful It's not about how you look, you just got to get good at being social. And the best way to be social is to practice
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:15 PM
5

How to be more funny, and witty I'm awful and very awkward with conversation. I'll talk to any woman, I have no issue in approaching women. I just get awkward with conversation, and I come off rude to quickly
/r/seduction22/09/21 03:34 PM
1

I second this
/r/seduction22/09/21 03:14 PM
1

Stop contacting your current female friends. I would even suggest deleting their numbers Focus all your attention on your guy friend or go to a social event and meet new female friends (bars, book store, sporting event, bowling, club, etc...) But no matter what, do not speak to your current female friends.. let them reach out to you
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:52 PM
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If you met her at work and she was being nice. Then she is just providing good customer service and more than likely not interested. So be careful. But I usually get into conversation with them, something relatable (you're in her store, "these chairs are awesome prices, but I saw some on Amazon, I'm kinda on the fence) If she elaborates anything within her personal life, that's a little good sign... Keep going after that. After a long conversation, and she hasn't cut you off. Take a chance and a…
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:42 PM
2

She went on lunch date a couple a months ago with a guy she was seeing and lied to me about until she came clean. She swear to god that was their first meeting since last year and nothing happen and that she hasn’t had sex since me. Why do you care?...... Are you guys dating?
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:59 PM
1

She'll have hotter friends be patient
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:34 PM
1

Experience for next time... But I would keep it platonic with her. Be her friend, sleep with her hot friends
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:40 PM
1

They shouldn't feel like they can't say no. I find it more intriguing when I have a choice in terms of how they propose it It's not like trapping her, if a woman doesn't want to go out with you. No matter what the guy says, she will say no, or make up an excuse "sorry, I have to study" But when a guy stops asking and starts making statements, it comes off as way more confident. How attractive would you be to a guy if he started asking you for permission for things "Do you want to go out?" "Do yo…
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:34 PM
1

100 percent agree with this. If you go about of "Do you want to go out with me?" It makes the girl want to second guess herself and she will more then likely say no But if you go about as "Hey come with me to grab lunch" You are now taking the lead and showing confident, she is more inclined to say yes
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:26 PM
1

Just say hey, talk a bit then pause and say "hey, I'm about to grab food at (random location) your should come"
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:21 PM
2

I always do something that we are relating to. We are talking about a concert "My friend and I are going to this concert, this week, give your number, and I'll see you the invite" We are talking about whales "Hey I use to like this whale but can't remember the name of it, give me your number, and I'll tell you when I get home" Women aren't stupid, you ask for their number, they know you are interested. You want to go subtle. Come off to strong and it comes off as desperate
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:53 PM
6

When she ask to go out, ask her "You got money?" Simple
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:10 PM
1

No you got to understand. Woman love to chase as much as men. They will say, they expect the men to chase, but that is a lie. They want to chase as well. If a man chases, then he come off as desperate and that is very unattractive, trust me
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:18 AM
1

If a girl is not showing interest and showing no eye contact... Why do you think, that it's okay to find a girl eye contact, when she doesn't want it
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:01 AM
0

Women like men, not psychopaths
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:11 AM
0

if a girl wouldn't be interested in you, she wouldn't approach Correct.... That's why you don't make moves unless she she shows interest first. Like I said earlier
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:36 PM
1

Yeah when a woman shows interested. If she is not showing interest and you are giving eye contact, and start making moves early, she is going to label you as a creep, and pretty much every girl is going to think you are a creep. You got to take it slow. When you are at bars, parties, clubs you have to take to take it slow... ALWAYS
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:19 PM
0

Yes guys are suppose to show intent, but only if it's allowed by the girl. OP is at a frat party, girls are looking for sex. You got to let the girl come to you, women like to chase. You don't show any eye contact until she shows interest first Guys whose feelings are unclear are way more attractive
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:47 PM
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Be friends with everyone and don't give any girl attention. Be friendly When meeting girls, go for the hug. When meeting guys do the half hug/hand shake. (Make sure you do this for the guy important , so women don't think you have bad intent) When you're talking to people, go off into an area (like the kitchen or living room) to check your phone or grab a drink, by yourself. (Make sure you make a quick announcement, like "hey, brb. I'm going to go grab a drink) do this two or three times Wait a …
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:11 PM
1

THIS COMMENT RIGHT HERE... Do... Not... Apologies... Play it cool
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:51 PM
1

Lol it means nothing... If I can show a woman my pay stubs in order for her to sleep with me... I wouldn't have a reddit account
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:43 PM
1

I'm a chef... I'm learning how to make food lol... Yes, I have no college debt, and plan on keeping it that way
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:41 PM
0

Lol believe whatever you want to believe dude
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:38 PM
1

I thought so too... I wanted to go over the girl, but he constantly tells me no, just wait, sometimes the girl comes over, sometimes she doesn't
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:39 PM
0

Dude idk .. I still can't figure this out...
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:37 PM
1

Can I ask why are you working part time at a restaurant? I'm in college
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:35 PM
2

It sucks because I'm 29 years old and a virgin and this guy is slaying I work part time at the restaurant he works at, but I have a second job where I make 70k a year and I have my own apartment I am no where near this guy level.
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:10 PM
5

He tells me, to never chase. Like at all. I see a cute girl, I make eye contact and after that I am suppose to wait until she comes over here but in the mean time, I flirt with other girls. I actually saw him do this technique. I drove him to the club and he went home with the girl
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:52 PM
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No I go to the bars with him... They come and they always drive him home.. Why are people so skeptical of this... This is real
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:45 PM
1

I actually work at the restaurant too... But he doesn't sleep with the waitress... At least I don't think he has.... They all flirt with him
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:45 PM
4

I think you are over thinking it
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:43 PM
8

He won't tell me, he'll say, bars or parties. But there are women everywhere
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:06 PM
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Yep... This guy body count is unbelievable.. trust me, he talks to a girl, literally every week
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:31 PM
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No worries man, we are all learning..... No more "kissing on the cheek"... This girl wants to go on a date with you... Every moment you hesitate, it comes off as lack of confidence and is extremely unattractive. Good luck And when you go for the kiss, don't ask for permission. Never ask for permission. Say "I would like to kiss you" or "come here" and lean forward
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:29 PM
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If you didn't escalate on the first date... Then that wasn't a date, you were going as friends. You got to look for the signs. Did she make eye contact alot? Did she touch you at all? When you got closer, did she back away? Hopefully she is going on the second date, but if you met her on a dating app, then she could be on another date, with a guy who is more confident and is able to escalate and not worry about Rushing things. Trust me, I do this all the time, and I've failed several dates, it's…
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:19 PM
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Is it even possible to date or have friends or have any since of pride when living in poverty? Yeah it's possible. We are all learning here, on how to be successful in the dating game. It has nothing to do with money. One of my friends works as a cook, making $14 an hour, lives with his mom, no licenses, in his 30s and he sleeps with multiple girls, weekly (till this day, I'm still amazed). And he is very average looking. He is just extremely extremely laid back and girls come to him. He never h…
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:13 PM
13

Honestly, if the date went well, should of kissed her on the first date Escalation is key
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:03 PM
2

What?
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:37 PM
1

practice makes perfect sense
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:38 PM
2

15 (I’m 30 now) and told this girl to sit on my lap and she said no and everyone around including my cousins poked fun But you know those people, you grew up with them and you know their last names What's stopping you from going out in public from an unknown area with unknown people and talking to a girl? When you start talking to a girl, People will just assume you are friends, because you are communicating. Unless she starts screaming (which is .01% chance that she will, in a public place), th…
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:55 PM
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She lives in a different state, she is moving here actually today, so I'm going to make that move
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:37 AM
3

They are starting to shut down again
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:43 AM
3

Should the conversation be more sexual?
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:35 AM
2

I'm trying so hard to lose this virginity. Texting is so delicate, omg
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:32 AM
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Thank you u/Shakespeare-bot
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:25 AM
6

Just start random conversation with them, I do this all the time, trust me, no one judges you.. To be honest, no one cares. How often do you care, when the person in front you is having a conversation? You usually just tone them out and ignore them. Believe or not, that's how everyone is, they focus on themselves and go about their lives. Why are you nervous of being judged by people you may see only once in your lifetime? You're thinking way to much into this
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:24 AM
1

Stare at their nose… they won’t notice at all. Your nose is leveled with your eyes
/r/askTRP21/08/21 05:38 PM
2

He deleted the comment, but good thing I read Shakespeare in highschool Good bot
/r/seduction19/08/21 06:07 PM
10

Women love that shit
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:06 PM
0

Nope, if she was out of your league, you wouldn't be able to date her, but she found you attractive, which means TA DA. you're now in her league. Congratulations man, you're attractive. The self doubt you are doing right now, is very unattractive. Get back out there man. I've dated so many girls that were out of my league, that I just accepted that maybe they are all in my league
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:59 PM
1

I always wonder why women go to bars, to not talk to people.. isn't it cheaper to drink at home?
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:49 PM
1

Are you a bald Indian man, stealing girls from their BF?... I'm watching this video and I'm still amazed.. do what he does, I guess
/r/seduction22/05/21 11:20 AM
1

So you've cancelled a date on someone, last minute without explanation, who spent time getting ready? Then you ghost him for almost a month, not wondering about what the guy maybe thinking on why you cancelled... I get what you're saying... I'm not saying that all women do this... I'm saying that what this individual person did, was something awful.
/r/seduction20/05/21 11:32 PM
1

Don't fall down that rabbit hole... Trust me, DO NOT CONTACT HER... Restrain yourself if you have too
/r/seduction20/05/21 12:37 PM
1

Oops my bad, yeah man... I would let her go. You asked her out, but it's harder for women to be direct and saying no... Don't message her until she reaches out to you
/r/seduction20/05/21 11:27 AM
1

I would just wait until the date... Text her again on that day, I wouldn't jump into any conclusion until then.. but stop texting her until she responds back to you
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:48 AM
3

100 percent... This is going way over OPs head.... She wants the sex man
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:35 AM
8

How?... What valid reason is there to cancel a date without any explanation or plans to reschedule?.... And then texting someone 3 week later, with no contact. If she really liked him, do you think she would have waited almost a month to text him back?
/r/seduction20/05/21 01:03 AM
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I don't know, she blew you off last time, and it was last minute... Like she didn't care for your time, then 3 weeks later she messages you... Seems like her original date cancelled on her and she is now desperate and she is coming back to you.. Me personally, if a girl leaves me hanging on a date without any proper explanation... I'm dropping her hard.. she doesn't respect you, and that doesn't change overnight.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:51 PM
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100 percent agree.. I wish people were just clear with their feelings and stop playing the "hard to get". But I think you should have directly walked up to her when she was alone for a few seconds and said "last time we were talking about being in the same bed, let's try that out"...
/r/seduction15/05/21 12:46 PM
2

Why do men send dick pics... 99% of the time, it results in failure. Never never never ever send dick pics.. I can't believe that's not a default common sense
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:39 AM
2

There i met her aftre like 2hrs and was all happy, but she was just like ignoring me and talking to other guys. Later we partied at the hostel and had a littlle house party. There she still ignored me and kept flirting with others. When she ignored you, you have to pretend like you don't care, I've had girls who would flirt with me, then leave me... When I pretend like I didn't care and talked to other people and ignored them back, they started coming back over to me, and I was able to seal the …
/r/seduction15/05/21 11:31 AM
5

Keep it simple "hi what is your name?"
/r/seduction14/05/21 08:29 AM
2

This is hilarious 🤣
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:49 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:44 PM
1

But what do I say?
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:51 AM
1

it's not that simple
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:24 AM
1

Red Sox tickets
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:22 AM
1

IMHO, you did everything correctly
/r/seduction13/05/21 06:39 AM
1

That's enough Reddit for me today.... Wow
/r/seduction13/05/21 06:16 AM
1

Set up a date.... What are you doing?... Text her this "Hey, come with me to this amazing place that has the best wings in the world called (insert random restaurant), Saturday at 7:00"
/r/seduction12/05/21 10:44 PM
1

😂😂😂 I've slept with a few women.. but whenever works for you, man.
/r/seduction11/05/21 06:49 PM
1

No, have you ever liked a girl that wasn't nice to you?... Are you only attracted to not nice women? Being nice is an attractive feature, you probably have confused being "nice" to being a "simp" which would get you into the friend zone. Be nice to her, but also be 100 percent yourself, and be comfortable around her. If she likes something and you don't, don't be afraid to tell her how it is. If you want to pursue a relationship with a girl, make the proper moves, that insinuates that you like h…
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:14 PM
1

don’t be nice to her. No, do be nice to her.... Why would you tell him to not be nice to her.. that's the worst advice ever
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:40 PM
2

Someone karma fishing
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:00 PM
0

Usually I just laugh at everything and I'll play along. Jimmy Fallon is a pro at it
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:35 PM
1

I usually send a text I've been 33% successful though
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:30 PM
1

😂
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:23 PM
1

She said it to my friend
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:22 PM
1

I'm 29 and this was last night.. so the moment is over, I'm just trying to figure out for the future, when talking to Women
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:25 AM
1

Yes I was interested, but no, I don't know how to flirt
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:20 AM
1

No she grab her stuff and left... How do I act flirty, I'm still trying to figure that out?
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:17 AM
5

I do agree that a guy should take dating advice from another guy who has experiences But I wouldn't say women are confused AF.. I have gotten a lot of successful tips on dating from women.
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:21 PM
2

Okay no worries... I'm just telling you what has worked for me But really good advice
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:19 PM
1

It's good to know that I'm doing it right, thank you
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:17 PM
3

cold approach, during the day is a little more challenging, only reason is because people are usually out on a mission (buying groceries, going to appointments, etc..) usually I would talk about something that she is familiar with like "hey, can't you believe it's like 70 degrees outside?" Or "hey I can't believe how long this line is, isn't this crazy?".... Then I will ask them for their name and where they are from... But the bar, during the night, is better imo, because women go there to soci…
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:11 PM
1

Okay... I know understand that part, now where are you going to meet these women.. the best success I have had is at a bar
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:59 PM
1

Try your best to get them off the app... Conversate a little, plan a date and get their number The best results that I have gotten is, I don't use pickup lines, I comment something that on their profile/picture, something to make them laugh.. then I suggest that I know this amazing restaurant, and asked them if they would be available on Saturday at 7:00. Depends upon their answer, I'll ask them for their number. All in the same day, 70 percent of the time I tried it.... It has worked
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:56 PM
5

There where a lot of terms that I didn't understand. "Pickup community" "PUA" "RSD" Five years in, and why is everyone still so fucking mean to me? Why do I still have to fight so hard for every little crumb of pussy I get? Aren't I supposed to be ALPHA? I'm not sure what you're expectations are?... What's your end goal... What are you trying to accomplish?
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:51 PM
2

All the question were opened ended, but she would give me simple answers still... Like we were talking about tattoos, and I asked her if she could get any tattoo, what would it be.. her response "I don't like tattoos" That was it, nothing else... I realized I was running into a circle.
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:52 PM
2

Yeah you're right
/r/seduction04/05/21 06:57 PM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction04/05/21 06:57 PM
2

I tried asking her out but she gave me the "I am waiting on getting the vaccine first" that she never scheduled She said she only wants to text until she gets her vaccine
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:31 PM
7

I've deleted her number and moved on... This has been going on for a week... I get like 1 word answers sometimes.. I've definitely lost interest, but I'm asking for future girls. Should I text like that?
/r/seduction04/05/21 04:10 PM
6

Go to a store, see pretty girl, and start a conversation with her. It took me a while to figure this out because I often thought people don't like to be bother. Example. I was waiting in line to go inside the store because there was a limit of people who can go in. There was this cute woman in front of me with green eyes. All i said was "hey, you're not 6 feet a part". She laughed and she opened up and I barely said one word after that. I thought she was in a relationship but apparently she hasn…
/r/seduction30/04/21 06:56 AM
2

But I'm scared
/r/seduction29/04/21 11:13 PM
2

Whatever helps me get the sex
/r/seduction28/04/21 06:35 PM
2

Right... But I'm trying to get this corny stuff to work.. hopefully it is
/r/seduction28/04/21 05:32 PM
2

Point taken... She did laugh at the joke
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:54 PM
0

Like good text funny or pathetic funny?
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:38 PM
6

Yeah... But I'm trying to win here lol
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:35 PM
2

Don't tell me to hush, I am a level 42 wizard!
/r/seduction20/04/21 11:06 PM
2

A female is in this forum AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
/r/seduction20/04/21 10:44 PM
2

IT'S THAT EASY!?!
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:52 PM
1

Any stories you like to share?
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:29 PM
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Usually I focus all my attention on her, and let her do most of the talking, if something similar happened in her story that relates to me, then I will mention something short then bring back the topic to her. I can tell a woman interest by if she starts asking me question back, like she wants to get to know me, then I'll mention something short and bring back the attention to her.
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:26 PM
1

I think telling someone to "just be yourself" is the worst advice to give someone I say "be a better version of yourself". You are going to meet different people to impress people, and give them a reason to like you. If you are usually the type of person who naturally is quiet and are mean to people, then "be yourself" is not good advice. But when talking to people (even strangers), talk to them how you would talk to them as you been friends for a long time. Occasionally make inside jokes with t…
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:47 PM
1

Lol this still shows her face
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 02:17 PM
1

Haha no worries, good luck
/r/seduction03/11/20 12:31 PM
1

Well if you come to America, I'll date you, you sound like a catch 😉
/r/seduction03/11/20 12:21 PM
1

I would respond with converstating ending answers "How was your event at work" "Good" I would also take hours to reply back, that way you don't come off rude, but it shows your mind is occupied with something else way more important than her But if you're doing no contact for 30 days, then stick to it..... NO CONTACT!... Don't respond to anything
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:29 AM
6

about ${thing you mentinoed} last week" Computer major? I've noticed when a woman I'm interested in talks about her other guy friends Mostly trying to see your reactions.... When she does this, pretend like you didn't even notice it
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:26 AM
1

Here even though bars and clubs are open Really I'm jealous, what state
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:23 AM
14

Darn, missed out on that amazing opportunity
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 01:31 AM
19

Yay! You're obese Everybody gets a trophy!!! 🏆🏆🏆🏆
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 01:29 AM
1

Yeah I was hoping she would come back... I should tell you the time frame, she did it back in the beginning of September, for a whole month, I didn't say anything... Then 2 weeks ago, I blocked her... I wanted to prove that I wasn't afraid to leave... In hopes that she would at least reach out to me, to explain the situation.... I wanted to see her attraction level. But yeah man, you're right, I needed to hear that
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:37 PM
1

Damnit... But I feel like it was over way before she did the Instagram thing (considering she left me on read, back in May)... (Sigh) I can never get this women thing figured out
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:51 PM
1

Lmao!!... I love reddit
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:29 PM
1

Lol ouch.... But I feel she could of done more easier ways to reach out to me... And I've known her for 2 years... And in the beginning I was trying to date her and she was not budging. She kept giving me bad excuses... Then in May, I was texting her constantly and then she left me on "read"... So I stopped texting her... But I can see that I may have overacted
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:14 PM
2

I thought about escalation... But I didn't want to be apart of her games... I think she is cute, but If she is going to play games like that, then I had to drop her. I hope she doesn't keep grudges, she knows a lot of my friends and that would be detrimental if she starts telling people to stay away from me
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:04 PM
1

Yeah you are right... This shutdown got me a little scared about never being able to talk to a girl... I panicked.... But I'm starting to step away from the social media scene... And I'm no longer texting girls for "conversation"
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:55 PM
3

This is so disgusting, my god... This can't be real
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 03:36 PM
2

Three kids at the age of 21.... Great decision maker
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 03:32 PM
1

I don't think men should be only ones chasing, I think it should be 50-50... But what do I know, I'm just a dumb man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:47 PM
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