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Yeah, just think.
/r/seduction08/11/11 06:23 PM
6

sorry, saw a typo: "minds well enjoy it" -> "might as well enjoy it"
/r/seduction08/11/11 05:26 PM
1

Mother-a-fuckin' gospel
/r/seduction08/11/11 03:13 PM
4

How often does firetwirling get you pussy?
/r/seduction19/10/11 05:45 PM
1

The most unattractive thing about you is how you've presented yourself. If I were a hot girl, I'd be fucking turned off.
/r/seduction16/10/11 10:25 AM
1

Sounds good man. How long have you been aware of the community? Keep it up!
/r/seduction16/10/11 10:22 AM
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*amateur I see. Amateur it is then.
/r/seduction16/10/11 07:18 AM
1

that a in aPUA stands for aspiring.
/r/seduction16/10/11 07:12 AM
13

Wrong. You got yourself laid. By ACTING out the advice. Most guys just let the info sit in the back on their mind. It's good you are not like most guys. Well-done!
/r/seduction14/10/11 12:57 PM
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When do you plan to kiss her?
/r/seduction23/09/11 01:18 AM
4

When do you plan to kiss her?
/r/seduction23/09/11 01:09 AM
2

it's to acquire social freedom as well
/r/seduction12/09/11 03:15 PM
1

Can you provide more details on what happened? Sounds like you had a good time.
/r/seduction06/09/11 03:27 PM
1

Bravo. Very organic game :) More! Planning to LTR?
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:09 AM
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how old are you? don't be discouraged!!!
/r/seduction06/09/11 03:40 AM
1

Sex.
/r/seduction05/09/11 11:41 AM
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Be always present AKA 'in the moment' instead!
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:16 PM
2

In your understanding, how would you summarize the message of what you watched?
/r/seduction03/09/11 04:51 PM
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How are you now?
/r/seduction02/09/11 11:53 AM
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remember to invite her home
/r/seduction02/09/11 12:58 AM
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"Once you have sex with a girl, some of the mystery and excitement is lost and often it can take the wind out of the sails of a relationship in its early stages." Lol, not a big deal at all!
/r/seduction02/09/11 12:48 AM
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Interesting, what's your preferred way of inviting your girls back home?
/r/seduction01/09/11 10:18 AM
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wow, you're pretty good. who are your influences and what's your natural style of game?
/r/seduction01/09/11 10:17 AM
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"She said "you're just like every other guy, you just want sex." I pulled away when she said that, and went all vulnerable on her. I kept looking away from her and somehow out of nowhere she starts kissing me and we make out." Well played. Well played.
/r/seduction30/08/11 11:11 AM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/seduction28/08/11 12:58 PM
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Haha, that's cool
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:56 AM
1

"Don't look without yourself, look within yourself." What does this mean to you?
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:05 AM
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Can't win them all.
/r/seduction27/08/11 06:37 AM
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Ask TofuTofu
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:27 PM
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check out the articles on this site bro www.girlschase.com
/r/seduction26/08/11 12:56 PM
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Yep, as you're getting another person to reveal more about themselves (which is an investment), teasing keeps it light, casual and not-boring :)
/r/seduction26/08/11 12:55 PM
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by doing things that cause them to become emotionally invested, of course! teasing works, why? because their reaction is usually emotionally charged. sexual humor works as well. because they're laughing and turned on at the same time, which is another form of investment. and the more they become invested, the more they like you and the less they tend to break off away from you.
/r/seduction26/08/11 12:02 PM
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Being bothered is the opposite of non-reactivity, which makes a man unattractive. The more she feels that you're bothered when she's around, the less attractive you become to her. And eventually, the situation will fix itself, I think. Any thoughts?
/r/seduction26/08/11 08:53 AM
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Just wondering: Is this bothering you?
/r/seduction25/08/11 12:40 PM
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It's conceited to assume someone has oneitis for you, I think. Just act normally.
/r/seduction25/08/11 11:00 AM
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Great job man
/r/seduction25/08/11 10:24 AM
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nice
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:18 PM
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touche ;)
/r/seduction24/08/11 12:15 PM
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replace Jessica with another name on the next day
/r/seduction24/08/11 10:32 AM
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Do you blog? :P
/r/seduction22/08/11 01:27 PM
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Field Report coming soon? :)
/r/seduction22/08/11 11:44 AM
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That's really cool. Good job on developing your conversational skills!
/r/seduction22/08/11 11:41 AM
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Can you elaborate on your technique? :)
/r/seduction22/08/11 09:24 AM
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Disagreeing doesn't mean it's wrong. Agreeing doesn't mean it's right. Take what works for you and what makes sense for you. Think for yourself. Nice article.
/r/seduction22/08/11 01:07 AM
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Did you use to be an AFC?
/r/seduction18/08/11 05:23 AM
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Thank you for sharing that about you :) I think you're more confident than you make yourself sound, though. Haha
/r/seduction17/08/11 10:54 AM
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what's your style?
/r/seduction17/08/11 01:59 AM
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It doesn't matter what happened. Next.
/r/seduction16/08/11 11:12 AM
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if you're usually having fun, even just by yourself, it naturally happens. i can elaborate if you have anything specific in mind to ask.
/r/seduction13/08/11 10:18 AM
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that was awkwardly awesome. :P
/r/seduction13/08/11 09:49 AM
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Teach us your ways. :) I'm really interested what your style is in seduction.
/r/seduction11/08/11 09:50 AM
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Speed with which one recognizes and acts upon social cues.
/r/seduction09/08/11 03:44 PM
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Schedule a date with her. Just do it. She will say yes. thank me later
/r/seduction09/08/11 11:25 AM
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Those are silly quotes.
/r/seduction08/08/11 05:47 PM
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Find a happy medium in everything, including this.
/r/seduction08/08/11 03:13 PM
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You saw, you capitalized, you conquered. Good job!
/r/seduction07/08/11 02:39 AM
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This takes too much effort
/r/seduction06/08/11 08:48 AM
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I felt it. ;)
/r/seduction05/08/11 09:03 AM
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"Wanna come over and fuck?"
/r/seduction02/08/11 09:52 AM
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I ignore insults. As long as someone's exerting more effort to get a reaction out from you, they're in a lower position. Stay calm.
/r/seduction01/08/11 04:02 PM
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compliment her form, ask her name, introduce yourself. before she leaves, be a bit cheeky, then get her number.
/r/seduction31/07/11 03:56 PM
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If the tendency for you is to get drunk and vomit occasionally, then I suggest bringing a strong, minty, mouthwash.
/r/seduction31/07/11 03:53 PM
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Don't be too friendly. Ask them out. Kiss them.
/r/seduction31/07/11 06:18 AM
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Probably token resistance, no? But it's no biggie, she was definitely attracted. :)
/r/seduction31/07/11 06:17 AM
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Probably token resistance, no? But it's no biggie, she was definitely attracted. :)
/r/seduction31/07/11 06:17 AM
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"Now you're all expecting me to say that I pulled her to my place and shagged her for as long as two minutes... But oh, I failed to get her back to my place, she resisted... Poor Redposterboard. That just happens too much of the time." Just curious, how persistent were you in inviting her home?
/r/seduction31/07/11 01:04 AM
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"The only reason I went up to her was because I knew I would most likely never see her again." That's true. And it is also true for the girls who meet YOU. :) By approaching an attractive girl, you not only give yourself a chance, you are also giving her a chance. And she appreciates this, especially if you're not weird. But I don't find it to be a matter of chance. Project authenticity and dominance yet remain intriguing. Find ways to make her invest in YOU. She WILL be attracted. Any more ques…
/r/seduction31/07/11 01:00 AM
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What are the other 27 rookie mistakes? Haha.
/r/seduction31/07/11 12:50 AM
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at the end of the day, it's only a matter of whether you kissed her or not. go for the kiss.
/r/seduction30/07/11 05:55 PM
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my pleasure
/r/seduction30/07/11 05:54 PM
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smilies = release tension :) lack of smilies + funny/cocky msg = builds tension
/r/seduction30/07/11 04:55 PM
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Sexual.
/r/seduction30/07/11 12:52 PM
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that was beautiful :) in my opinion, at least. felt so bad that it felt so good in the end
/r/seduction29/07/11 04:28 PM
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Fucking gold.
/r/seduction29/07/11 11:42 AM
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Love this dude. Many of you can relate with this blog :)
/r/seduction28/07/11 04:53 PM
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give her what she needs and she won't seek it from other men
/r/seduction27/07/11 06:46 AM
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I second the playing-an-instrument metaphor. Interactions are, so to speak, like a melody.
/r/seduction27/07/11 03:35 AM
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You sound like a decent guy but your phrasing and overall tone is off-putting somehow.
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:43 PM
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Yep. The girls actually gave him good feedback on what behavior to avoid.
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:40 PM
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happy for you, bro. Cheers!
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:32 PM
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nice observations
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:25 PM
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set aside an hour a day solely for meeting women. then write field reports afterwards. measure your progress from your field reports.
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:23 PM
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you should :)
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:06 PM
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10/10
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:05 PM
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initial vibing is all about being present in the moment she is in, it's about getting inside her head and being observant, situation-wise (got this from David Wygant)
/r/seduction26/07/11 02:22 PM
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Would you mind elaborating on the paragraph before "Thanks Seddit, love you!" :P We love details.
/r/seduction26/07/11 02:21 PM
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the answer is never.
/r/seduction26/07/11 02:18 PM
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It's your prerogative
/r/seduction26/07/11 12:37 PM
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exclamation marks = raise energy and tension when used sparingly
/r/seduction26/07/11 09:12 AM
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being thought of as a potential boyfriend is worse than the friend zone.
/r/seduction26/07/11 08:20 AM
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introduce yourself, where you're from, ask them their name, their course, what made them pick that course, relate a little bit, but lead the conversation and let them talk or narrate stories (keep it personal and emotional). the more invested they are, the faster you'll be friends. keep it short and sweet.you're still 'gaming', albeit lightly and just enough to form rapport in order to get to know someone else. if it feels natural, you're doing it right. if it feels awkward, keep practicing and …
/r/seduction26/07/11 08:18 AM
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threesome. own the frame. good work! :)
/r/seduction26/07/11 08:14 AM
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solid inner game is a prerequisite. approach and initial vibing, getting compliance and investment, teasing, flirting, physical escalation, isolation and logistics, solidifying the frame that she's seducing you, boyfriend material disqualification, spiking tension before the first k-close, k-close, always leaving her wanting more before escalating further and further...in that order. this would be my take. my understanding of these terms may have different nuances compared to other sedditors. YM…
/r/seduction26/07/11 07:38 AM
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command them in a lighthearted/funny way. "Hey, let's go out on [date] if you're not busy. I assure you it's better than any plans you'll have on that day."
/r/seduction26/07/11 07:22 AM
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show don't tell bro
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:44 AM
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Talk about amazing philosophy.
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:43 AM
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lmao
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:40 AM
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pretend it never happened.
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:02 AM
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You weren't rejected, but your approach was. Good work on approaching though. I can relate because it sounded like me when I was still fighting AA with. an incredibly weak game.
/r/seduction23/07/11 01:23 PM
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want to fuck a lot? have a place near campus. live there.
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:30 AM
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Solid reply. I get what you mean. Authentic people win hard.
/r/seduction21/07/11 11:30 AM
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are you serious, codewarriornc? :)
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:05 AM
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"Its looking like closing is my problem and having the confidence to close." Exactly. I also encounter this. I've once read that as long as she's with you in a room, sleeping with you is on her mind. If she rejects your escalation, she'll just leave. Otherwise, she'll say she's not ready (in which case you should still persist 5 to 10 times). If it's really not working, you must acknowledge that you won't have sex that time. But next time, you probably will if you attempted to escalate as much a…
/r/seduction20/07/11 01:03 AM
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Finished reading! Perhaps work on skills related to F-closing faster. (taking the girl home + pumping her BT + escalation) Is there anything more you would like to share about this FR?
/r/seduction19/07/11 04:15 PM
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Haven't read it yet. But you probably missed an escalation window. (more time that passes = BT gets colder and colder). "Best way to avoid flakes? Fuck them on the first date." (I forget who said that)
/r/seduction19/07/11 04:03 PM
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bigger risks, means bigger rewards. what do you think?
/r/seduction19/07/11 04:01 PM
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Hi Conan!
/r/seduction19/07/11 07:05 AM
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if you're in a room and managed to k-close, keep escalating and keep it fun and frame it in a way that you're "giving each other value". Should LMR occur, persist a bit and if it's clear to you that she doesn't want to have sex, acknowledge the situation (communicate it to her) and call it a day! :)
/r/seduction19/07/11 03:22 AM
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if you're in a room and managed to k-close, keep escalating and keep it fun and frame it in a way that you're "giving each other value". Should LMR occur, persist a bit and if it's clear to you that she doesn't want to have sex, acknowledge the situation (communicate it to her) and call it a day! :)
/r/seduction19/07/11 03:22 AM
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Hey lolalias thanks for sharing! I patiently read everything and I appreciate the more detailed parts. Basically, what I think is that you did a good job on calibration, escalation and creating attraction. You might be surprised to hear this, but it wasn't you who did anything wrong. I imagine that during the moment when your girl turned "cold", she was probably experiencing some incongruence in her mind. And you definitely found it unexpected because that is exactly its nature. It's something o…
/r/seduction19/07/11 03:18 AM
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Hope this helps! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anchoring_(NLP)
/r/seduction19/07/11 01:41 AM
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After she says no, I'd probably go into screening and qualification of what kind of guy she likes, then ask her to tell a related story about it then anchor her happy feelings to me (NLP)
/r/seduction18/07/11 11:01 AM
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There's a mindset called "Attraction is a given." Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:16 AM
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gooooooooood job! "Do you have a boyfriend yet?" "No," she says. "Do you want one?" I say with a smile. "Maybe," she says with a blush. I change topics after that, but I think it was good to get that frame out in the open early on. I'm not so sure about this part though. You need to frame it as if she's the one chasing you (to quickly raise buying temp).
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:08 AM
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Amazing.
/r/seduction17/07/11 04:40 AM
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Maintain buying temperature! Don't allow her to get gold. *cold
/r/seduction16/07/11 01:31 PM
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GREAT idea. Will do this. And report back.
/r/seduction16/07/11 01:31 PM
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Hey my friend! http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ero8h/new_to_seddit_a_concise_guide_for_recovering_afcs/
/r/seduction15/07/11 12:07 PM
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Humor demonstrates tons of confidence.
/r/seduction15/07/11 11:17 AM
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i'd love to chat with you about how to use it. do you have a spare IM account you can use to talk with another sedditor? I'm genuinely interested about "Speed seducing" and how it works. :) I'm doing fine with inner game, so this might be great!
/r/seduction15/07/11 01:36 AM
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Would you mind distilling your opinion on what concepts Speed Seduction pioneers in the dating field? Thank you for answering! Ross Jeffries seems to be an angry PUA, but I'm still checking him out. :)
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:16 PM
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Any tips for targeting a particular girl? http://dolljustine.blogspot.com I'm a foreigner but I see her around edit: with BF
/r/seduction14/07/11 03:01 PM
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How new are you to pickup?
/r/seduction12/07/11 01:12 PM
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I was rooting for you to win... :(
/r/seduction12/07/11 12:52 PM
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Check this out :) Don't project yourself as BF material http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-girls-last-post-youll-ever-need
/r/seduction12/07/11 11:47 AM
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Chase definitely upped my game with that article. :) Good FR!
/r/seduction12/07/11 06:32 AM
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Playfulness!
/r/seduction11/07/11 11:58 AM
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Seems that yo have reached PUA Nirvana
/r/seduction11/07/11 01:23 AM
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Thank you. Do you find yourself sexy? :P
/r/seduction11/07/11 01:17 AM
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Does "beasting" work on Japanese girls at clubs?
/r/seduction09/07/11 07:14 AM
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You are fucking amazing. I love Japanese girls. Can I talk to you sometime via PM? I haven't slept with a single Japanese girl. Wish I were in Japan. But if i were in Japan, is there any geographically relevant advice you would give me?
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:26 PM
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Are you fucking serious?
/r/seduction07/07/11 10:49 AM
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tips for newbies? :P
/r/seduction07/07/11 10:48 AM
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Beasting? I love your style. Can you give more examples on how to "beast" it? I want to incorporate that into my game more.
/r/seduction07/07/11 10:11 AM
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So she's now with you in your living room, you're playing video games, and you just beat her at Mario Kart, how do you guys escalate to sex? :)
/r/seduction06/07/11 02:48 AM
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Haha. If it doesn't, it's still ok. I have a lot of gratitude to the Abundance Mindset.
/r/seduction06/07/11 01:13 AM
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Just walking down the street. Pure cold approach. Made an observation that people seemed intimidated by how she looked and how guys literally crane their necks. I stood out, basically, by talking to her and pointing those things out. :)
/r/seduction05/07/11 12:02 PM
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We're just starting to go out. She's Taiwanese and the kind of model you see on Taiwanese ads. I thought she was definitely harder to "attract" (get her attention) but I followed seddit's advice to treat her like an average girl and take the lead. Told her "Must be tiring to be the one who gets all the attention, but you actually seem like an interesting person." (with a genuine tone) Number closed, added on facebook, and commenced playful teasing. She loves it so far. My style is very David Wyg…
/r/seduction05/07/11 04:56 AM
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You are gods among men.
/r/seduction05/07/11 03:47 AM
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Please elaborate, master Tofu.
/r/seduction04/07/11 11:08 AM
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What do you recommend for us to master non-verbal game? Thank you again Mark!
/r/seduction02/07/11 11:09 PM
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excellent. may you elaborate on balls?
/r/seduction02/07/11 05:39 AM
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haha
/r/seduction01/07/11 11:39 AM
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LOL
/r/seduction01/07/11 11:32 AM
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what kind of game is necessary to pull a SNL in these kind of areas? thank you, master
/r/seduction01/07/11 10:28 AM
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"Generally speaking, high end night clubs are considered the hardest types of venue out there. Throw onto that a bunch of models in VIP areas and girls who don't speak English and you have my last 3 weekends! It's been brutal, but I'm a sicko, so I love it." please tell me more
/r/seduction01/07/11 02:08 AM
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hahaha
/r/seduction30/06/11 11:43 AM
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natural game....that's so amazing to read. more!
/r/seduction27/06/11 12:49 AM
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bro fist
/r/seduction26/06/11 03:57 AM
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fucking A
/r/seduction22/06/11 03:48 AM
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hahaha
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:34 AM
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lol
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:33 AM
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amazing
/r/seduction21/06/11 12:58 AM
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