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I'd rather be your first choice. Sorry to break it to you, but you are more valuable younger. If you don't want me at your prime, I don't want you at your decline
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:13 PM
1

So say something dude. Don't wait for her to be the man, you be the man xD. Think of a good time and place and invite her
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:57 PM
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Even so. I don't believe they're that easy
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:56 PM
1

A girl smiling or staring literally translates to Hii, come chat with me.
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:55 PM
1

I assume you didn't ask properly. Wanna go on a date? That's not how you ask. You ask by saying you are free at time X location Y and you want her to come with you. If you just said do you wanna go on a date? Then yes, respond. I know what to say :) X pm at location Y. Now if you said everything about the time and location this probably means she isn't interested
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:52 PM
21

Either dude lives in the horniest place of the world where people only wanna fuck or this is some wild fiction
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:49 PM
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If you also slept with other girls during that time you are a hypocrite. Also ranting/shitting on her won't make her say OMG I WANT HIMM. So no, you definitely didn't do the right thing.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:29 PM
2

I don't cold approach. However from what I have read it is those who make eye contact, a million bonus points if she smiles, which translated means hey you're cute come let's have a chat
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:23 PM
2

Bro that's the greatest comment I've read in a long ass time, sincerely thank you
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:10 PM
5

Many mistakes. I don't know if you even realise but your attention should be in her during the date. Also, a date with her gay BFF. Please dude. She herself said she "wants something serious". So a good response would be I only date 1-1. And if she's not okay she isn't interested. So you spent 3 days worth of time and probably money on the dates for 1 make out session.
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:40 AM
1

Yes! It is certainly possible to be bad
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:30 AM
5

Enough for my own liking, but one more couldn't hurt
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:59 PM
3

Find someone else. Plenty of fish in the sea. You don't need to get back with an ex who is gonna have a hoe phase. A girl is either a hoe or not. If she has a hoe phase it wasn't meant to be anyway She is talking to the opposite sex and so should you
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:22 PM
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Don't overthink. She gave you her # and asked to call her. So call her. Set up a definite date with time and place, preferably a place you like. Bonus points if you can figure out an activity together like a sport
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:29 AM
1

Okay. So if that's all good, why don't you kiss on the lips? Or is it that you don't want to come on too "strong" while literally being on a date.
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:31 AM
1

For sure. But I am personally really against colouring your body permanently for the sake of the art work. Unless there's a massive personal meaning to it I personally wouldn't do it, especially if it is for women.
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:42 AM
1

If the job doesn't mean much to you go for it. But if you are living paycheck to paycheck and won't be able to find a new job immediately, I wouldn't try
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:03 AM
2

Steal a bike
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:53 PM
0

Maybe just ask. So when we gonna f *winky face. If she is withholding sex she either doesn't like you, is manipulating you or has a ton of baggage. There could be a good reason(which I don't believe, but very well could be) so ask without making her feel pressured. In the meantime, if you are not exclusive you should definitely keep talking to other girls, because a lot of the time, if she isn't getting her sex from you, she is from someone else.
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:55 PM
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That can be a tricky question. There should be more meaning to it. For example, are the women willing to go out with the guy simply for his money, or are they just more likely to get with him. If it is the latter, it has to be like 90-95%, because who doesn't like a person more romantically if they are Rich, rather than if they are broke. On the other hand if it is the first and we regard women getting with a man purely because of money, the number will be less, and most will probably consist of…
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:35 AM
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/r/seduction26/12/21 09:37 AM
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Pretty much. It either happened and he is probably not being supportive or it did not happen and he's wasting his time on a girl who lies
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:36 AM
1

Bro if you close your eyes and something stops existing you probably shouldn't think about it. Like the Internet
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:23 AM
2

Go full no contact. Just say I am only interested in you romantically. Hit me up if you feel like it
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:04 PM
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Don't let it get to you. Many women aren't worth it to me. But that doesn't make them lesser people. They will be worth it to someone else. Same with you. Like I said, don't be a needy bitch, go no contact, work on yourself and she'll either be back or you'll find someone better
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:03 PM
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It's because you're not making moves
/r/seduction18/12/21 09:16 AM
2

Go no contact and she will be back soon Just say sorry I am only interested in romantic relationship with you. If you don't want to let me know if you change your mind
/r/seduction17/12/21 12:51 PM
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In general that's the rule, until she is your official gf call and text for dates only, or maybe occasionally sending a meme or whatever. My advice would be to take your sweet time and just continue to escalate and make moves, and her reaction will tell you what you need to know
/r/seduction16/12/21 05:17 PM
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I can relate. But I know it's not the best course of action. You need to put yourself out there. A woman will probably barely go out and still find a guy, but if a guy stays home all the time he is very very likely to go unnoticed.
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:16 PM
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If she is a girlfriend, yeah it makes her crave sex more. But I wouldn't use it for stupid games, leave that to women. When I was either injured or beat up from training I wasn't feeling like having sex. And that's when my gf at the time wanted it 10 times more . With that being said, if they want sex it is better to build anticipation via slow undressing, kissing and foreplay than just reject
/r/seduction12/12/21 07:42 PM
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You know what's my favourite letter in the alphabet? It's U
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:49 PM
1

Hey, if you can't commit to the 2 hour drive don't expect her to do the same. If that's a deal breaker for you either play your cards well enough so that she is the one to come to you, or just search for girls who live closer
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:08 PM
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If she says she would love to, ask her when she is free this/next week. If she says no just say okay let me know when you change ur mind.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:29 AM
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Corey Wayne's how to be a 3% man
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:08 PM
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You don't ask how much she likes you. That's what insecure people do.
/r/seduction07/12/21 04:00 PM
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You definitely could have played it better. First mistake is not going for the kiss. Second in the chat. Bro she says she is busy, ask her when she's free. If she says she isn't free tell her to let you know when she is.
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:26 PM
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Basically it doesn't really matter. Either one side doesn't wanna hear the question and you wouldn't be together anyways or the other side is just as interested and would love to hear it. So as long as there is mutual interest maybe it is the same
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:24 AM
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Bro if it is a year and it is not progressing chances are you are a bootycall.
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:17 AM
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Because by asking yourself you can seem needy, especially if the timing is weird. And it is more accepted from girls than from guys. I had a girl tell me do you want us to be a bf gf after a first date. I liked her a lot and was like HELL YEAH. But if a guy says that after a first date it better be the best date in the world or chances are he will not look better. In short thinking about it that way is a feminine mindset, because girls are more prone to pursue relationships than guys.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:48 PM
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I am 5'9 18 and balding. It really doesn't matter much.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:51 PM
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Generally it isn't a question you wanna ask. If you are arranging dates that lead to fun and sex and the girls are really into you, a few weeks into it they will ask the question
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:30 PM
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Bro you wanted to be casual and so did he. Maybe he changed his mind, give it a shot.
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:28 PM
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Pretty sure you are cool, but you know, with all the men being degraded for shooting their shot you can't blame them for not doing it. As a woman I am pretty sure you weren't let down hard during an approach, and even if you were it didn't happen a lot Sure, the top 1 percent don't give a single F and carry on, but to the normal person, it feels bad
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:10 PM
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Welcome to what 99 percent of men feel like while dating.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:05 PM
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Hey that's cool. Let me know if you change your mind. And no contact from there
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:07 AM
3

How did you go about increasing your body count?
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:01 PM
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Unless there's proof you can pretty much sue the college. So no, you're not kicked out. College is your best chance at life so use it well and go as if you are going home. If you know in your heart you are innocent then you have every right to go and they have 0 right to force you not to. Just enter class and if it comes to physical altercation call the police on the college. Only you know the truth, so do what you think. Good luck
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:01 PM
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The married women one is kinda gross, but all else is fine in my opinion. As long as the women aren't passed out drunk I don't get why not. Besides, they're in his house, so chances are they know what's going down. Of course you should mention it to him in a bro way, like haha can't pull any chicks without booze can we :)
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:17 PM
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Watch the fuck outta them, especially the old ones, then watch them again. Also, another just as good as Zeus is Corey Wayne. He has a book called How to be a 3% man. All the secrets are there. I wish you the best And, be more positive big guy. Like I said, I have been currently single for over a year,and I have approached a lot too. But it is like that sometimes. Just remember that just like you, there is an awesome and hot girl out there waiting for a guy like you. Good luck!
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:11 PM
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I have been single for over a year. But you might wanna hear me out. I went from literally suicidal to losing my virginity at age 15, in the period of a couple of months. Yes I know, it sucks that women are portrayed as not shallow, while they are just as, if not more shallow than men, and want financial stability on top of that, I feel you. But it is just the way it is, there is nothing you can do about it, they're gonna want it no matter what. So, back to my story. I girl I really really REALL…
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:01 PM
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It's true. I had a sport related injury and couldn't perform, and my GF was as horny as she was. It really messes with a girl's system when you're the one declining the offer, and the result is usually being wanted even more
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:20 PM
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You already know the answer brother. What's next after cuddling? Probably starts with K. :)
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:37 AM
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Not at all. Your goal in a relationship is to give, and that's what you do, and apparently you do it well. Care to share some tips?
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:11 PM
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Let's go champ!
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:35 AM
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You're only 16, it really doesn't matter. Watch YouTube channel Based Zeus. He has great tips, especially for young guys
/r/seduction27/05/21 12:54 PM
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Seems like you have been listening to Corey Wayne
/r/seduction27/05/21 12:52 PM
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You ain't gonna do it. That's like I will start training tomorrow bs. Start today!
/r/seduction26/05/21 11:40 AM
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Probably isn't tbh. You're honestly kind of contradicting your statement. I mean, at first you'll take the needy guy(no you won't , unless there's no one else) and then you say you fall for confidence. Come on
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:17 AM
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South America is the place for you. Particularly Uruguay and Argentina. Cheap, awesome weather and from what I have heard nice girls
/r/seduction01/03/21 08:58 AM
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I agree with you. Though I am not very into the bar scene (I still like it though) I do feel like most women there aren't worth it other than for one nighters if you're into that. They sure are pretty, but that's about the only thing they can offer, most of them anyway. Of course there are some exceptions but it isn't worth trying to catch them.
/r/seduction01/03/21 08:25 AM
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Bro I'm a straight guy and you sound like the perfect bf. Very nice to think this far ahead for the other person!
/r/seduction01/03/21 08:18 AM
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I'm pretty sure it depends on the girl. Low quality girls will do low quality deeds, and same goes for guys TBH. If your girl is willing to cheat, even with a Chad or Brad, you're probably better off without her anyway. And same for us guys too. If a guy cheats chances are a girl can do better than him.
/r/seduction01/03/21 08:15 AM
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Not an expert, but I am sure pretty much everyone prefers you to introduce yourself. PU lines are just for the ones who don't have confidence to talk and just remember one line.
/r/seduction18/01/21 09:53 PM
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Probably Montreal
/r/seduction28/12/20 10:50 AM
3

Yeah just ask your friend. Either you save him from a terrible marriage or everyone is happy
/r/seduction26/12/20 09:02 AM
1

Did you close the dates with kiss/sex? If you didn't this could be the reason. Perhaps you were too timid to do it and so they felt more of a friend vibe.
/r/seduction21/12/20 03:55 PM
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Hey, everyone has their own time. It sounds counter-intuituve, but the way to lose your V-card is to not worry about it. Just hangout, maybe download a dating app if that's a thing in your region. But all in all just chill. Yes, pandemic makes it a lil harderbut it won't be that way forever. Soo yeah, it is all good. Just focuse on your purporse, no matter if it is financial success, getting in shape, becoming a better runner etc. When you're the most focused on what you want, girls notice. And …
/r/seduction21/12/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah I have heard of a tendency like that. But I am pretty sure I am not unattractive( I hope lol) and everyone wears masks anyway so you can't see the face too much. And my body isn't bad too so I guess even if it is true it won't be a big deal. But as previously mentioned by the others, your attitude matters a lot too. If you're a chill down to earth guy a lot of girls will give you the time of day regardless of how you look.
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:45 PM
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I am in! I need something like that
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:11 PM
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Nah, I am 100% willing to leave a girl there. But not if she says she isn't into sex. Like, chill bud. She agreed to meet you under your conditions and you're already there. You might as well have a chat rather than be an asshole. And trust me I ain't no captain save a hoe. I am just a decent human being
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:53 AM
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Not at all. I am neither a nice guy nor a simp. And if the goal is casual sex, fine, good for you, that's cool. However you need to be respectful atleast. There is morality almost everywhere, for most people anyway. You're coming of as a simp/nice guy yourself, no offense.
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:19 AM
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Yeah. And it isn't that much about anything happening, more about getting over the approach anxiety. Because if I get the first one outta the way the next will become much easier. But hey if anything happens all the better I guess.
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:15 AM
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Thank you for the info! However, perhaps I didn't make myself clear, the girl is working while I am just doing my own thing.
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:03 AM
1

All in all not bad, but I would say the come back to my place part gets a little pushy. Also I wouldn't leave the girl there, I was the one who asked to hang and to leave like that, not cool brother.
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:02 AM
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Cheers bud!
/r/seduction20/12/20 10:58 AM
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Yeah, I guess it comes down to the person. Oh well, wish me luck
/r/seduction20/12/20 10:41 AM
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They're probably dressed aren't they? Soo, slowly/gently UN-dress them.
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:40 PM
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You still kind of have to make the moves. They won't just initiate sex most of the time. You will do it and they can reciprocate. Simple. Just keep going forward, and if they don't stop you or don't say no they're into it as much as you are
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:38 PM
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Maybe start kissing her neck, put hands under her shirt/on her butt and just progress from there.
/r/seduction13/12/20 12:29 PM
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DUDE GO FOR IT. Seriously, your dream girl makes a move on you and you're too scared to offer to hang out? Come oooon. Go for it, please mate.
/r/seduction13/12/20 11:29 AM
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Chill out a little bro. That's what Chad does. He ain't all that attractive either, you know when showing a chick to friends and you thing damn she's hot but your friends disagree? It is the same with girls, they like different stuff. Just chill, he's a guy like you.
/r/seduction13/12/20 11:23 AM
2

Gently Stroke their hair/face. Maybe pull them in a little towards you so they snuggle on your chest. At this point you can just go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction13/12/20 11:18 AM
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I would say coach kyle. He seems like he knows what he's talking about
/r/seduction11/12/20 12:05 AM
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Yeeah, but she probably texts cuz she likes having someone to text to, but probably has no interest. Only way to find out for sure is ask her out and make a move
/r/seduction10/12/20 11:52 PM
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Go back to buy some vape liquid or whatever, you don't even need to buy anything, it can be as simple as just going back and saying hey I thought about you today and realised I'd be a fool if I don't get your number. And that's that.
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:16 AM
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Once a week is perfectly fine bro. And yeah it is better if you guys don't text 100 hours a week, it gets annoying for both real fast. But yeah, it is fine. Good luck.
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:12 AM
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Ehhh unfortunately, she probably uses you for attention.
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:08 AM
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I messaged you
/r/seduction06/12/20 06:59 PM
3

Is it okay to live with parents at your early 20s?
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:32 AM
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I couldn't have thought of a better response dude, good one!
/r/seduction07/11/20 09:32 PM
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Yup, they just feel secure around you, which means you should consider asking out
/r/seduction16/10/20 08:00 AM
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Er if the conversations are smooth and she seems into it(like, if she reciprocates) go for it
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:58 AM
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Judo+BJJ is a killer! A tough takedown followed by a dominant position and a choke, all in a few seconds. This is ludecrous.
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:57 AM
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What's your goal with game? Long term relationship or frequent casual sex?
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:54 AM
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Hey you'll get it next time(don't go for another date attempt with her though). You're the man!
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:24 AM
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How did it go champ?
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:16 AM
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Ey chill dude. You've got value. And you need to believe it. Only then will others, including girls, believe it as well.
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:33 PM
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Not 100% sure if I am such a guy because I have been single for a while now(not that I tried to change that). But anyways, you know how you feel nervous when you talk to the hottest girl, or that girl you have a crush on? Those guys talk to them like they're talking to a regular friend. 0 nerves. And all the ladiesmen I have seen are either average or below, so it isn't all looks either. Try to have a charming aura, and at the same time making sure you don't take anyone or anything too seriously…
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:31 PM
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No, it isn't. If your social circle is wide enough and you have tons of friends both men and women, this can be enough. And if you don't know many women, or maybe you do but they're all in relationships or you're friendzoned, sure, cold approaches would do the trick.
/r/seduction27/09/20 07:26 PM
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Btw, do you think it might be a good idea to do the same, because I am considerably younger(17,M, grade 12). Alchohol and stuff is legal but I am not 100% sure if getting into the club/bar culture this early is good. What do you think?
/r/seduction27/09/20 10:19 AM
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Absolute legend!
/r/seduction27/09/20 10:17 AM
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I guess eye contact and smile.
/r/seduction27/09/20 09:23 AM
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Good one. Kinda messed up set 2 but it is all good. Good luck
/r/seduction27/09/20 09:21 AM
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I mean, she invited you, not you inviting her. There was no point. You're a good guy for doing it though, just don't next time.
/r/seduction27/09/20 09:19 AM
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Just remember she is human too. She eats and poops and throws up when she is ill just like all of us. Her shell might be beautiful but she is just a person like you are.
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:35 AM
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The solution with be to imply interest without outright saying you want a date. Just be joking around and slip in a comment about you being interested, but maybe she's not worth the trouble l, we'll see. Remember, if you are comfortable and not desperate, you aren't losing value when showing interest
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:33 AM
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It isn't that much about the girls. They try to judge who has higher value, but as we know they often get it wrong so they often date broken or abusive men. High value means you have high value for society. You have a stable life, good amount of friends, both female and male, and most importantly, you are confident and you believe you have high value yourself. Basically a high value man acts friendly, but not too friendly with people he knows and meets and is polite without being a pushover, and…
/r/seduction22/09/20 09:30 AM
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Hey it is all good. You haven't said you aren't dating other people,and chances are they are too. Also half your dates will probably be rescheduled or some shit so it isn't so much to worry about. Well done!
/r/seduction22/09/20 06:26 AM
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Done. I realised I am way overthinking. I should just go for it
/r/seduction22/09/20 06:22 AM
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Not the best but also not bad at all. Just showing you have low expectations and you are still attracted to her, it is not bad at all. I wish you good luck
/r/seduction22/09/20 06:19 AM
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Yeah no one does. Atleast anyone sensible. There's a hot girl and you are not that attractive for her and she is respectfulx and so are you. It is all cool.
/r/seduction22/09/20 06:17 AM
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I think it goes without question we need an update once she hits you up. For a first approach this is ridicilously smooth, plus her damn dad is there. Well done!
/r/seduction22/09/20 03:59 AM
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Got it. And I actually am learning. I just don't get to talking or dating or whatever. Because I don't really meet that many girls in general, and if there's one I actually like, it is inappropriate to pursue. That's why I go more to gym and clubs. So, I am learning and looking for girls to invite on dates. What would you suggest?
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:36 AM
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I meant that I am trying to land some kind of a relationship, casual for example. And I don't know if I am doing it right. What would you suggest?
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:15 AM
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Good one mate! Keep it up!
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:47 AM
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Yeah, it'd be appropriate to ask her out. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:14 AM
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So, mention a day you are free and if she says no, or that she is busy, and doesn't offer another day, leave it.
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:09 AM
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Basically she is into you and into someone else as well. Just ask her out to a date, and I do mean date. Because by the post it looks like you just asked her to be your gf, which would be a bad move. Anyways, she is kinda saving you for later, so try not to play that game. Just ask her out ey you free at sunday at cofeeshop X. And if she says so that's all. Good luck! Very brave of you to make the first approach! Keep it up mate
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:51 AM
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You not having a girl is the proof. And besides skinny is also kinda undesirable body. But as I see it you kinda have your own issues with communication, so fix them first and then go at it with the ladies and you'll see more success. You said social anxiety isn't your fault. Maybe it isn't. But it is your responsibility. Good luck! Edit to answer the question: at what I see, chances are you won't anytime soon, unless you change your mindset. Just be chill, if you build your value, in terms of l…
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:43 AM
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Because it is hella loud. And unless you speak in the person's ear, maybe I exaggerated a little with the screaming part. Also, how would you go about isolating the girl? Naturally they will be in groups of a few girls, so how would you draw her away from her group?
/r/seduction14/09/20 01:44 PM
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Be normal. Like, don't attempt anything unusual. Introduce yourself, handshake, smile and hold eye contact
/r/seduction14/09/20 01:36 PM
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Activities. Hiking for example. Also a home date is an idea
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:41 AM
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Dude you're a moron, she is waiting for a hug and a kiss, it would have been a great moment. Just try your luck next time, it will still work.
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:08 AM
1

Maybe start with theraphy. Abusive child childhood is no joke. And keep losing weight, to a healthy extent of course. You will be just fine
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:05 AM
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Well, the age is important. If they are 30+ they are just pumped and dumped a lot and wanna settle. If they are young, well idk maybe you're just that cool. But you have no problems getting new girls after dumping the old ones and you probably reject them politely, so it is all good.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:57 AM
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And by making a move I mean teasing and light touching to see how she reacts.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:52 AM
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Really depends. If it goes well, sure why not. If you are measuring each other, you can try to hold it to the 2nd or 3rd date. But hey if you wanna kiss on the first date make a move and see what happens.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:51 AM
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