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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Number ShamingYes queen!!! Ugh so proud of you! When we give the LVM these answers/numbers we're showing a vulnerability and essentially equipping them to use it as a mind game later on. It's so messed up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 19 | Number ShamingPast relationships I feel like is different, for me at least. I like getting to know people and I don't mind being asked about relationships, because there's an actual reason behind it & a new relationship can build on the responses. THAT BEING SAID: You don't owe anyone any answers that you aren't comfortable sharing. I don't go into details unless I'm seriously considering a man as a potential prospect & he has proven himself to be a HVM. I hope that helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | BoundariesI understand, I've been in similar situations/relationships and I have been known to shut down in response to anger. I am so sorry for what you've been through. BUT- it gets better. It takes hard work, mindfulness, counseling (in my case), and a good support system. You will be better for it, but it does take time, and until then, I know it can really just suck. However, the fact that you're a part of this group and are already aware of your responses to things are the first step. These trash me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 03:11 PM |
| 3 | I went on my first date in months.I haven't really met a whole lot of guys recently. I can't even deal with OLD any more, I've used it for years. I don't go out much at all, which is why I'm willing to try dating a coworker. Otherwise, I only meet people through church. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 9 | I went on my first date in months.I told him "no hard feelings, just being honest" which he thanked me for, and he did mention a second date (multiple times) in order to make up for it. I told him maybe someday if he saves up enough so he can take me out to dinner lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:06 PM |
| 12 | I went on my first date in months.I'm 28, he is 22. Honestly, he's been the closest thing to a HVM I've interacted with recently (aside from paying for the date 🙄) even though I've tried dating guys up to twice his age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:53 PM |
| 65 | I went on my first date in months.I understand why you're saying this, and in a typical dating situation I definitely wouldn't. However, this guy is a coworker and friend I will have to continue interacting with. I can't ghost and block him when I will literally be talking with him face-to-face every day. Sometimes the people in this sub can be callous, and while trash LVM definitely deserve it, I dont mind helping out one guy who I know can do better, and maybe could benefit the next girl. Disagree still if you'd like, but I'm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:50 PM |
| 8 | What are the last words your ex said to you?My ex (& my 6 month old son's father) promised I wouldn't have to do it (parenthood) all alone, that he loved me and he was going to change. Havent heard from him in a year. He's never even made any attempt to meet his son, and his family has no clue we exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 13 | It's your last evening to block and delete low-value people in your life before a 100% fuckboy-free 2020I just did this, opened Reddit & this was the first post. Hell yeah ladies. We deserve better! And we will get better now that we aren't wasting our time and energy with the guys that treat us like we're a dime a dozen. 2020 is our year/decade. I believe it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 03:27 AM |
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