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| 1 | A real shitty situation - on being magnanimous in victoryYes... there is truth in that her misery has provided a sense of validation and triumphism, whilst I've been boned by the process and revelled in overcoming the injustice that's been laid upon me, it's time to truly let go. | /r/askMRP | 04/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 2 | A real shitty situation - on being magnanimous in victoryYeah | /r/askMRP | 03/03/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | A real shitty situation - on being magnanimous in victoryCool it, kids | /r/askMRP | 02/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 4 | A real shitty situation - on being magnanimous in victoryI sat on the fence since posting this thread, and kept zero communication still. There seems to be two camps in the responses. There certainly seems to be a lot of anger and I often wonder sometimes whether some of the members of this board are stuck in there In any case, this morning she called 10 times or so, I did not respond. Then I received a long diatribe from the bitch, once again insulting me and my ‘sluts’, a long nonsensical rant, and threatening once again to use the the courts (who j… | /r/askMRP | 01/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 6 | A real shitty situation - on being magnanimous in victoryAll good points. The reality is, short of being a drugged whore the courts won’t change custody. And between that and a normal life is a whole spectrum of badness. If the behaviour and the mental state I have seen in court is any indication it explains a lot how the kids behave when I get them - moody, down, it takes us a good few hours to cheer them up. I have been in that situation - being at the mercy of a moody emotional volatile mother and I don’t want that for my kids. That’s not too much … | /r/askMRP | 29/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Best example of holding frame I've ever seen...Yup. Kids have amazing frame. Then they get betasized to hell through years of having females manipulating them all the way through puberty. | /r/askMRP | 29/02/20 03:47 PM |
| 150 | Super secret tip to discovering he has feelings for youMen also do this intentionally to make you think they have feelings for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Corporate Politics - With Women🤮jesus i don't even want the mental image | /r/askMRP | 17/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | A woman freaked out after reading this subWhy the fuck should I care what a random damsel thinks? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/19 05:19 PM |
| 40 | Female Psychologist wants husband to become BetaOk dude, I've read both your threads and then some. You're so wrapped up in your beliefs and misconceptions you're not seeing woods from the trees. Here is an experience that's very close to yours. Your wife has "vaginismus" yes? she comes from a traditional background yes? she has been supposedly raised on trad values where girls are shamed and trained from a young age to guard their virginity and what not right? she probably also had to show blood on the first night to prove her virginity may … | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 10:57 AM |
| 16 | Has anyone here transitioned from normies/“nerdy” chicks to higher SMV ones?Past the Instagram and the social media, all girls are really really boring and would be nothing without a guy showing them the ropes. I’m always astonished at how plain boring these thots you speak of are. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | 32 F getting older and need tips on how to realistically date - any advice welcomedI edited... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | RPW Way to communicate my feelings about a humiliating situation with husbandBasically, you acted passive aggressive, gave him the silent treatment, denied sex, over a hug he gave a girl. Congrats on getting on the fast track to destroying your marriage. Realise that if he came exactly with this story to any RP veterans they'd ask him to soft next you, and possibly leave you if you don't ignore all of this and move on swiftly, but i suspect the act of soft nexting will have dreaded you enough to stay in line quick. Some actionable advice: apologise and move on. Next time… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/19 10:08 AM |
| -1 | 32 F getting older and need tips on how to realistically date - any advice welcomedIn Red Pill speak you're past the wall, having had your "slut phase", and you're now faced with an age epiphany, and you are trying to lock down a beta. The problem with this, is that fundamentally, any man who's willing to settle for this, is not going to be a man you're going to look up to. He won't fill your eyes. Yes, he may be a good beta and a good provider, but you'll eventually look beyond him for tingles. That is essentially the dilemma of western girls who go through this life path. Th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | My Boyfriend lied about his past...I have lied about my past with a girl 2 years ago. I lied to her about where I had my degree (just a different place, not necessarily better). I've lied to her about the names of my sisters. It was during the first 2 dates. She was way swept off her feet. She didn't even know my name, age, etc and personal info is not something I let out easily. I thought she was going to be yet another non serious lay. She eventually proved to be more than that. Eventually i think she figured out that I didn't … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/18 08:24 AM |
| 2 | 35M, how to get 20 to 25 year olds?Yes, I also find that I lose interest quick, and they lose interest quick as well because i can't escalate properly. dunno wtf is wrong with me. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Critique this approach - what could I have done betterFor clarification, honestly who was buying the girls drinks? If it was you buying hb8's drinks she could have been throwing you the IOI's just to get her shit paid for. I think we had 3 or 4 rounds, I didn't pay any of it. 2 by guys, 2 by girls I think??? something like that. didn't pay for the taxi ride back to the hotel either, the girl with the heels did. other stuff Okay, I might be inclined to do that if we get into a social setting again, may be I'll just go after other girls. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 04:31 PM |
| 9 | post divorce children contact shenanigansIt's a good standard shout, but in dealing with the enemy, and the enemy is poking you, you have to know the enemy well. It meant that I screenshotted useful evidence gems that show her admitting to unreasonable statements such as children should never see a man's new family and children should never have half siblings and she won't consider that contact necessary. IDGAF but I have to be armed to the teeth when involving the courts. The burden of proof of her unreasonable behaviour is high. Move… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How to Handle a Veiled Threat of Domestic Abuse?If it's just bluster and an empty threat, leave it at that. Don't bring it up again, and don't try to leverage the into 'points' because it wronged you somehow. No it's not. A woman can wreak absolute havoc on any man in today's climate with just a few words and a tears. The mere mention of such a threat means that she's capable of doing it and you should run, RUN. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/18 05:11 PM |
| 12 | How to Handle a Veiled Threat of Domestic Abuse?My ex wife threatened to do this before actually doing it. The police came and basically told us there is nothing to do here and to stop being children wasting their time. The only thing that saved me was the fact that I could prove, with voice recordings, what she was doing. fast forward 1 year, I divorced her, I'm spinning plates, and having my balls literally drained every day by girls who won't get enough of me. I can't believe how much time I spent trying to fix that relationship. I can't b… | /r/askMRP | 25/01/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | european countries where is legal to have sex without condomD: | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Well here we go / victim puke I guessYou'll be fine. My divorce was a lot worse and some of it is still ongoing but... I fucked a girl 1 week after, I spin plates, girls throw themselves at me. My RP practice with the harpy bitch that was my ex wife prepared me very well for other girls. Couldn't believe how shit is easy once you have frame and DGAF. Unbelievable. It's been great. | /r/askMRP | 26/07/17 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Clingy dreaded girllike rabbits for 3 weeks. She did everything i wanted. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The "moving too fast" speechYour line was perfect. See edit and my new thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6o36i4/clingy_dreaded_girl/ | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The "moving too fast" speechYes you're right, I went from an ultimate beta marriage, where the ex-wife objected to every fucking thing i do down to the placement of photographs, to a girl who took all of a raised eyebrow from me for her to profusely apologise and it's getting to my head. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | The "moving too fast" speechThis is great. I was about to text and I found she double down "i just realised I'm just I'm just too scared I don't want to get broken again". Hamster running at full tilt. She is also scared to lose me. A major theme during our banter is her accusing me of having lots of girls like her, which I of course agree and amplify to great tingling effects. Several times she expressed fear of me just disappearing, I never confirmed or denied those, just smile. Still going with the same reply? Dude this… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 0 | The "moving too fast" speechShe is trying to tell you that you are just a plate but that's not what you want to hear. I have no problem with that. I don't want her exclusive, just my turn, etc... Why is she fawning over me via multiple texts (I want to see you again, why can't i stop thinking about you) etc... then literally a few hours later telling me this stuff? I haven't replied to any of it yet today. I have it almost 100% reliable she's not spinning plates. She's in the process of divorce. Give me some knowledge... | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 08:15 PM |
| 7 | How submissive do you prefer your partner to be?People prefer different things. Unlike /r/MrReardon I like traditional femininity. Any "you go girl" display or over-activeness is a complete turn off. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The "moving too fast" speechDude, you have a severe case of oneitis. You've gone on 5 dates in 10 days? Do you not have anything better to do? ok, so date is probably a misnomer, "date" here means meeting at her place, having a byte proceeded by sex. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 07:56 PM |
| 2 | She wants to "spill her secrets"she cooked me a meal, then proceeded to talk and said she's just out of a relationship and it's "not officially over" (guess I'm her chad? dont know and dont care). I looked DGAF at her for 10 seconds, then said "ok", then 5 seconds tension buildup, then i told her "im actually very angry", she looked petrified for 5 seconds, then I lifted her to the bedroom and had intense stuff with her. Hooked up a few times since. She can't get enough of me. but new twist, see my new thread. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 07:35 PM |
| 3 | She wants to "spill her secrets"Fuck yes, this is effectively nothing but a frame grab. I'll ignore until we meet and act as if nothing was said. If she wants to start talking, I'll humour her for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually enjoy dating?out of interest, when was the first kiss? the first time You slept together? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/17 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Moderating self deceptive bullshit by disputing : "Your kids will be fine or even better in a divorce"I should also ask. What sort of studies have there been of children in broken marriages that "stayed for the kids". The fucked up children and men you see often on here and in real life. To compare like for like you have to compare those with the ones that divorced, not the ones that divorced with the entire population of non-divorced households. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/17 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Moderating self deceptive bullshit by disputing : "Your kids will be fine or even better in a divorce"I'm in the process of divorce and this weighed heavily on my mind. My parents never divorced, even though they should have. They are still married, but by any measure, they have a broken marriage and they laboured through it FOR THE KIDS. You know what, I trace a lot of my poor relationship problems and my BP tendencies to that upgringing. I directly trace the same problems in my brother and sister. I never understood how to properly set boundaries, how to enforce them and how to deal with a bad… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Where I am: Request for critical adviceDude, like you, I was so afraid of quitting. The analysis paralysis around kids, income, assets, scracity mentality, being afraid of what she'll do next, all crippled me. I fucking guarantee you will wondering what the fuck took so long once you start the divorce proceed. Just do it... Everything you're doing revolves around her. Once you remove her as an orbiting HQ, there are endless possibilities. Literally endless. You no longer have to think about her. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Petty Behaviour 2.0I need a bunch of these stories cause this is what is killing me and what's been holding me back. | /r/askMRP | 28/03/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Petty Behaviour 2.0It's not a fight I'm likely to win (full custody), so I'm not going to fight it. Acting possessive of them is likely to make it worse. | /r/askMRP | 28/03/17 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Petty Behaviour 2.0going to address this since it came up a few times - sending the kids and the wife establishes where the matrimonial home is. Sending her on her own gives her the option to force entry once again through the court. Separating her from the kids right now is a fight I'm not going to win and is likely making me worse so no. I have access to the new place and intend to visit regularly - sorting out the whole place establishes that I'm looking after the family and I'm not bolting. The existing place … | /r/askMRP | 28/03/17 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourI fucking like this. I'll do it. The only thing I need is to rent a place, and as it happens, yesterday i spent 2 hours thinking of the logistics to do that. One question - bring the papers up every time there is an issue, or do it all at once? as in: Photos. Where are they? no answer. Sign here please. Photos show up. Two days later. finances - sort them. No? sign here please. Finances sorted. etc... Or..... Bring everything up on the table? | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourOh? in a percentage, for bills, communal expenses, emergencies, and other essentialls, basically everything that isn't your disposable/discretionary spending. how much do you pay? 100%. Add any long term, future investing for retirement into that. Number still matches? 100%. So, yes, that means I'm paying for her, if you want to say that means she's "controlling" 50% of it, I get your point. A captain has gotta do what a captain has gotta do to keep the ship going. It's not an acceptable situati… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourNo. She has control of her own salary. She has 0 control over my income. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourIt's a valid point. I should say that the police card has never been played since the first instance where she did it - where as a result I left the house for a week, came back and told her any mention of police again will be taken very seroiously. On threatening divorce, see my comment below. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/611rdj/petty_behaviour/dfb2haw/ | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Petty BehaviourOk, I can certainly walk out. I talked to a laywer already and know all the ramifications. My impression from the reading material is that the divorce card should be played very sparingly. Ideally only once. Otherwise it loses its meaning. Is this the issue that I should play it on? I can't come to terms with the fact that I would be playing the divorce card over the pictures - part of me says the kids will be fed this crap (your dad divorced your mom because of a picture). The other part simply… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Petty Behaviourhuh can't argue with that | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Petty Behaviouryeah, I was blue pill as fuck. I ate up the whole equality bp agenda like a chump. Eventually, my balls could take no more squashing. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourI've been working on a theory that everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) in a woman's world is about competition with other women. I don't understand the connection but I should say there is truth to this. She has 2 friends from college, she still obsesses over how she's doing against them. They are all married and in our social circle, I'm way past both their husbands in SMV (all of them are beta blue pill slobs, I AMOG them even before I swallowed), but they are such BP their women walk all over … | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Petty Behaviourok - so I fog and stand my ground and reassert. She then leaves. Either leaves the room, or eventually leaves the house. wtf then? It happened over other stuff. Heck, over something as stupid (can't remember) she threatened to call the police right there and then and assert "abuse". Yes, she would consider this type of asserting "abuse" - she has the feminist nonsense up to her eyeballs. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Petty BehaviourShe earns less than me. I'll have to fork out. Divorce is certainly an option and I'm fine with it - my mental deadline is 5 months from now. But I wanna make sure I did give this a proper try because these problems and crossed boundaries are my own making when I was BP. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourI have to leave because I know where "standing ground" right there will go. From history, she'll go on arguing over her solipsist point over "what's wrong with our family", and will take a firm stand and will not back down. She'll just fob me off. "Stay and assert your frame" - in this instance it means me staying in her arguing frame, where she just spouts nonsense non stop. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Petty BehaviourYeah you have a lot of work to do for sure. She acts like the leader because there is none, and she's a poor leader. I agree with the rest of your post, but i wouldn't agree with this. I think I'm in control of everything in my life. Kids happy and taken care of, on my schedule, house in order, bills paid, entire holidays planned and done by me... I ask for her permission in none of this, and for the most part it's ok because she's frankly too bad to lead - I smell needs a mile away and resolve … | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Petty BehaviourMoving accessories yes. I simply move them back, then she'll get angry 2 months down the line and changes them again. Really stupid. Bank account - she is out of control. She gets her salary and spends it entirely on frivolours stuff that none of us need, while I shoulder everything else. See above about her SJW tendencies crap - the latter stems from this. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Petty BehaviourI can implement this, the problem I see is that we're at other disagreements that will either have to be resolved my way or the highway over a few things and this seems like the wrong thing to latch onto. I fear it gives the impression that the other things don't matter as much. Things like the fact that she is out of control with finances (she has her entire salary and spends it as she wishes on really stupid stuff - no contribution to the household). The fact that she doesn't use my last name.… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Petty BehaviourI'm improving - lift, 6 pack, control of my life, good job and the rest of it. I have no problem attracting the attention of women. I'd say my SMV is 8. Hers is 6 or 7. You're onto something with the foot is cut comment - she is a feminist (i know, too fucking late, don't ever marry one) and actively resists my direction over big family decisions. Paradoxically, sex is ok - she craves it more than I actually and puts out a lot. She does a lot of this "hurra girl, you do what you like because you… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 01:25 PM |
| 2 | FR: Tinder InsanityWhy swipe only on 9s? what's that does? I'm too lazy to look. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 02:39 PM |
| – | Leading non sexual stuffUnderstood. So I believe the real problem here is that she has in the past fundamentally objected to paying her share of the household budget. She keeps lapsing in and out on this. It is my fault because I accepted to be beta bux provider role early on in the relationship and now fully expect her to share. So If i went and created a scheduled transfer she will probably cancel it because she has not yet bought into the fact that needs to pay her share. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 03:57 PM |
| – | Leading non sexual stuffI understand the sentiment. I don't own the login details to her bank account - asking now will almost certainly elicit a no reaction. I could work on the trust in my leadership, i don't want to be financially ruined in the process. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 03:42 PM |
| – | Leading non sexual stuffIt is not my bills, it is the household bills. Gas/Lec, mortgage, car insurances (one of which is hers), etc... I'm taking care of all the logistics. All she has to do is transfer X into the shared account. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 03:27 PM |
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