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| – | Sarging on a college campus when you're not in college?This comment is so false, especially coming from a moderator. Who needs a reason to be anywhere? It’s not like the guy is walking into lecture halls and bothering professors. Going to a college and hanging around for the sole purpose of meeting young women is a completely valid reason. Why should he have to go through the trouble of going to all of these weird non-related events/groups just to meet women? When he could easily go to a college campus and see them right there. And the whole “shared… | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 11:03 PM |
| 5 | My "text game" is my weakest part of my game. Is "Playing With Fire's" paid resources ($295) with the money?Fuck no. Texting is for logistics and logistics only. No way to make a girl attracted to you over text. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Do women view a Guy who’s in great shape the same way we guys view women with a great body?Yes | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | In a world where most are bound by rules and restrictions, there is nothing more attractive than a person who retains the ability to act freely with unapologetic authenticity.Examples? | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.You’re an individual. You’re not going to like every guy who approaches you. You’re going to absolutely love some, yet hate others. There are men who have/will approach you in these settings who are just your type at the right time that you’ll give up those rules. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 09:09 AM |
| 4 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyWomen who have sex with gay men are MUCH more likely to have HIV. Not a game you want to play with. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 12:16 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]The problem is that I overthink the how because I’m so hyper aware of the situation. Logically there aren’t many reasons for random people to talk to each other. Why would a random person talk to another random person at a store? That’s basically bothering them, no one left their house to be talked to. They went to buy clothes, groceries, etc. and some random person talking to them gets in the way of that. This also carries into “social” environments like bars/clubs. People typically go in group… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:01 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]If she’s at a store in an aisle by herself. In the women’s section of a store. Eating at a food court. In line at a food court. Waking down the street alone. Many examples. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:48 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]My problem with saying hi is that it is considered creepy to say hello to random women you don’t know. Especially in stores and stuff. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:53 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]You would need to approach first to see body language my issue is approaching due to trying not be creepy/find perfect non-creepy scenario to approach. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:52 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]So basically embrace being awkward and creepy? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:51 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]So you’re saying not to care about being calibrated? Just approach whenever when I feel like it even if the situation isn’t right? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]The foundation of seduction is honesty. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:17 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Yes, I’ve been working out for almost 10 years. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:08 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]NO!!!!! DO NOT FALL INTO THIS TRAP!!! MUSCLES DO NOTHING!!! | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:05 AM |
| – | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Are you going to answer the question? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 02:04 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Bump | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Who dates the hottest girls, excluding rappers, celebrities & sports athletes ?Does he cold approach when out regularly? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:33 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah this seems like something I can work on. Positive affirmations. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)24 | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:30 AM |
| – | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)Yeah thanks for advice. Interesting that you said you see the same faces sometimes. I kinda have another limiting belief that I will get a reputation if I start to daygame there regularly. You think that’s irrational? It’s also a commuter school with 40k students so I think that makes things less likely but still. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)If you read my first response to your OG comment, you’d see how I acknowledged that the back pack thing was due to a limiting belief. Even go back and read the post originally, I said the only reason I did it was due to limiting beliefs. Thanks for this conversation tho, you helped me see that there is absolutely no logical basis for me being creep and that I actually have multiple legit reasons to be on campus. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:13 PM |
| – | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)I do have a reason, I am there to walk around and get some exercise in. Another reason is that I like this college because it reminds me of my old college, rather this than a park. Heck, another reason on top of that could be that I’m walking to the gym and cutting though campus. The underlying context is that I like to socialize, thus I am putting myself around people. Just like any other public place. Can you honestly say that these aren’t legit reasons? Simply because I’m not a student, it in… | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:05 PM |
| 0 | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)I like this makes a lot of sense. I’m just gonna say that I graduated last year from a diff college and I live close by so I like to walk around for cardio. Bam 💥 | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:42 PM |
| – | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)Yeah that’s why I made the thread to find a justification that would make it make sense for me to overcome my limiting beliefs. A reason that I’ve been thinking of is just that: I like walking around the campus since it’s so close and it reminds me of my old college experience. And I’m sure the fact that I live within walking distance is justification, it’s not like I’m driving 30 mins in traffic to a random college. I’m sure a lot of the people who go the beach to cold approach (let’s say south… | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:34 PM |
| – | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)It’s only creepy to me because of my limiting beliefs, which is why I questioned them and decided to make this post. I realized that I was presenting myself in a certain way wearing the backpack because of a preconceived notion that I would be discriminated against without one. If asked, I wouldn’t lie overtly. I’d simply tell them that I live 10 mins away and like to walk through campus. And again, I don’t understand your logic. Most people in downtown areas are there to either work or shop, no… | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)I understand, I’m mainly looking to gauge and overcome the limiting belief atm | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:32 PM |
| – | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)I was thinking of just telling them that I live a few mins away and like to walk through campus sometimes. I feel like if I lie overtly, it could risk messing up my interactions. But still tho, it’s kind of awkward to not have a backpack. You think it’s a limiting belief? | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:27 PM |
| – | How can I stop feeling weird about approaching on a random college campus? (Limiting beliefs)Why? College is a social place, I see people socializing there. There are girls there, much more than any other public areas. And I could literally walk there from my house, where on the flip side, I’d have to drive pretty far to get to other places. Why should I have to go to an empty college bar and most likely pay a cover charge just to be around groups of friends who came their to have a good time within their own groups? And how different is going to a public college campus to daygame versu… | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:21 PM |
| – | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?I mean, it’s the subtle in the moment type of disrespect. The type that’s hidden in plain sight and veiled by plausible deniability. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 11:28 AM |
| – | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?How would “giving too much attention” apply to a cold approach scenario | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?What is your advice? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 04:40 AM |
| – | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Any actual advice? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Any tips on how to work on developing a different vibe? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Not short. Definitely a vibe thing. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Nope, no sad stories shared. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:25 AM |
| – | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Elaborate | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Messages wouldn’t help here. I’m not looking for text game. It’s a fundamental/vibe question. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Comment was deleted | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:51 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Sounds like a lot of stuff to keep track of. But yeah my main concern is just approaching too many girls in one campus or doing to regularly to the point where girls start to notice me. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 06:01 PM |
| – | Does cold approach ever stop feeling awkward?How can I like and admire myself more? How would I go about this? I understand what you are trying to convey, it is just that suggestion has always been cryptic to me. And the answers have always been even more opaque such as “only you can answer that”. Ultimately it just seems like a rephrasing of what I already know about my situation. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:28 PM |
| – | Does cold approach ever stop feeling awkward?I am aware that I currently care what other people think. How can I not care what people think? What are actionable things that I can do, other than what I am currently doing, to care less? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:38 PM |
| – | How do you cold approach respectfully?I don’t see how cold approaching as a hobby is predatory in the context of a guy expanding his dating life. I could see it being predatory if the guy literally preyed upon women just to harass them. But in my case that doesn’t apply and the logic doesn’t make sense. As for example, a person interested in fashion, setting out some specific time to go out to a public place and give out compliments to random people’s outfits isn’t predatory. And the second part doesn’t really make much sense either… | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 02:56 PM |
| – | How do you cold approach respectfully?I mean does it really HAVE to be that way tho? Like why is it that a normal guy goes to suddenly being a creepy guy if he is simply socializing with strangers? I would imagine that there would be basic rules and procedures to follow that would make that line very easy not to cross. Do they not exist? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 02:52 PM |
| – | How do you cold approach respectfully?I mean, it’s pretty much a requirement to give respect especially with social media and how men are viewed nowadays. It’s cool to be optimistic, but not overly simplistic. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 02:50 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Why would I go on a date with someone I have never spoken with? The purpose of the call is to screen to see if we can even talk to each other. It is very short less than 10 minutes. And in some idealized world, yes, dates would just be as fun if you there by yourself. But that is entirely unrealistic, you are sharing time with another person. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I call them to not waste time on a bad date. Ideally, we’d vibe and I figure out if I actually like them over the phone. I’ve had bad dates in the past and it’s super easy to be fooled though text alone. So I’d rather screen first to make sure I don’t waste time and energy. The post is moreso asking for advice on how to make these calls go smoother and more interesting. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 03:51 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Ha, I wish, all of my friends are in the city I moved from. Idk, I’ve thought about a motel. But that would kind of be a weird thing to plan, unless I knew 1000% sure we were going to hook up. It would definitely be weird to say “hey so I got us a cheap motel for the night, for after our date” And plus, if they flake then it’s pretty much a waste of a hundred bucks. How do you think I could go about setting this up so it isn’t completely creepy, or better yet going to theirs? | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The cops in my area literally have nothing better to do than ride around looking to cite people. And the repercussions are just astronomically high for no reason. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 06:44 AM |
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