How can I stop over complicating messaging in online dating?

Snight · 2022-07-06T06:28:11+00:00

Initial hellos -> establish common interest -> some kind of banter / intrigue -> ask for number / date if you already have number -> few more messages -> ask for date.

Think I’ve gotten 90% of the dates I’ve sought by doing this.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-06T12:16:02+00:00

One of the rules of seduction is to stop looking for a woman’s approval. If you want to say the right thing you are literally breaking that rule which will have a high rate of bad results.

If the girl thinks you are lame and loses interest so be it, that’s a choice you have to be willing to make.

You need to accept losing girls.

If you choose that you don’t ever want to lose ironically you will always lose.

Vinegar_Tits_9 · 2022-07-06T04:42:18+00:00

Just be yourself. We aren’t that hard to demystify. Be a little bit funny, a little bit flirty. And hopefully you will genuinely get to know whoever matched with you. You don’t need to overthink things. Worst comes to worst, find something you like in her bio, and bring it up in conversation. Stand out of the crowd, because women on dating sites get a lot of ‘hey beautiful’ as an opening line, and let me tell you something…it gets old, FAST. Don’t be afraid to be different

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-06T10:52:03+00:00

The only way is to get over your fear and do it. NO magic bullets are sold here.

angrypuppy35 · 2022-07-06T11:16:56+00:00

Accept that you are a work in progress and stop expecting yourself to be perfect from the start. you’ll start off rocky, but just keep going, tinker with messages, adapt to feedback but just keep going

Cool-Assignment-1096 · 2022-07-06T18:01:32+00:00

Just message her about something she has on her profile. I’m more likely to respond to a guy who comments on one of my prompts rather than just a “hey how was your weekend?”. Doesn’t have to be anything too complicated, just something to start a convo

Title	How can I stop over complicating messaging in online dating?
Author	breh2022
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	July 6, 2022 4:13 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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