brettholz15 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Am I still grieving?		brettholz15	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 12:34 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	How soon did your wife get into a relationship with someone else Immediately…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/25 08:22 PM
3	Today, it’s done. Forward. I made out financially like a bandit in my divorce. Didn’t help the sorrow at all. But I’m thankful to God that the money fell where it did, and deservingly so.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/25 11:16 PM
2	How to let go I prayed for you OP. I’m 31 as well. Went through a divorce 4 years ago. No kids on my end, but the road will not be easy.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/25 08:34 PM
6	TO ALL MEN EXPERIENCING DIVORCE - USE IT OR NOT I just crossed 1,500 days and I finally feel like myself again. The wounds never go away, but you learn to deal with them more objectively.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/25 09:36 AM
5	Any man got 90 plus percent of the assets during a divorce? I hope I do get remarried. I’m a man of faith and I want kids. Marriage is a beautiful thing. But yes, I can see that the odds aren’t great, and odds are stacked against men.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/25 07:04 PM
8	Any man got 90 plus percent of the assets during a divorce? I got divorced young. We didn’t have a ton together, but she just wanted the POS car we had together, some cash and her small retirement account (20k at the time). I walked with all my retirement savings, which was MUCH more. I probably walked with 75% of the assets, but I made 80-90% of our income during our 2.5 yrs of marriage. I got VERY financially lucky. Paid the price mentally and emotionally lucky. I’ll never get remarried without a prenup now that I have significant assets. EVER.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/25 06:58 PM
1	Zoom Sessions? I’d be in	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/25 04:42 PM
3	Anyone here who has been divorced for 3+ years, haven’t been in a serious or even casual relationship since, and still feel miserable? I’m 4 years post divorced and dating has been a struggle.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/25 11:00 PM
3	3 days in. Struggling to Move Forward I went through the same situation. Wife left me for a woman. What you are going through is absolutely normal. I went through the same things. Happy to DM and talk through it. Stay strong brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 09:07 PM
1	Am I still grieving? Facts	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 08:48 PM
1	Am I still grieving? This seems to be trendy: https://nypost.com/2023/11/25/lifestyle/the-real-reason-why-more-and-more-women-are-dumping-men-and-dating-the-same-sex/	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 05:25 PM
1	Am I still grieving? You and I are aligned brother. We will find the right one one day.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 01:13 PM
2	Am I still grieving? I really appreciate this. And my anger comes from multiple angles. I really can’t wrap my head around someone switching their sexuality, especially coming from a Christian conservative household. I’ve come to terms with it (as much as possible). Secondly, and probably what’s more hurtful, is the vows. I took those seriously. I guess not everyone does. Lastly, and what’s probably the most hurtful is the come to reality of modern dating. Women initiate 80% of divorces. How can I trust that the nex…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 12:23 PM
4	Am I still grieving? This is hard truth, but I appreciate it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 01:40 AM
11	Am I still grieving? He requested to follow me on IG and I declined it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 01:38 AM